Ambiguous Loss and the Myth of Closure
Ambiguous loss is loss that remains unclear and unverified—it has no closure. For example, a loved one might physically move because of a divorce, adoption, a family quarrel, or war or political upheaval, as is the case with migrants and refugees. Or someone goes missing psychologically because of Alzheimer’s disease or other dementias, serious mental illness, addiction, or a brain injury.
When loved ones cannot be physically reunited or psychologically healed, or when a loss is of such magnitude that it lacks meaning, the lens of ambiguous loss offers a way to cope and carry on despite unanswered questions. Often misdiagnosed as depression, the chronic sadness is actually a normal reaction to an abnormal type of loss. The culprit is the ambiguity.
With ambiguous loss, traditional grief and trauma therapies are inappropriate. Because ambiguous loss cannot be fixed or cured, the goal is not closure but the resilience to live with ambiguity. Not easy in a culture that values certainty.
Through illustrative stories and small group discussion with Pauline Boss, PhD, who coined the term “ambiguous loss,” we learn how to live well despite the ambiguity through her six researched-based guidelines:
Revising attachment to the lost person
Discovering new hope
This workshop is appropriate for those experiencing any kind of ambiguous loss, as well as for mental health professionals who want to incorporate these insights into their work with clients or patients.
Find out how to recognize the two types of ambiguous loss, their effects, and how and why treatment and interventions differ from grief therapies.
Learn about recent grief research that emphasizes “living with grief” rather than “getting over it.”
Learn about and discuss the myth of closure, why we yearn for it, why it is unattainable, and why the alternative goal is to search for new meaning.
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Continuing education is available for marriage and family therapists, psychologists, and licensed clinical social workers.
Ambiguous Loss: Learning to Live With Unresolved Grief, by Pauline Boss
Special Interest to
Mental health professionals, clergy, and educators who will expand their skills in being able to offer compassionate and effective tools to support clients’ suffering from unresolved and complicated grief
Accommodations, meals, and campus activities rates, per person, for all program nights:
Standard single: from $390
Standard double: from $360
Traditional: from $420
Suite: from $700
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