<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:feedburner="http://rssnamespace.org/feedburner/ext/1.0" version="2.0"><channel><title>1440 DAM Pagestudio</title><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/lead-well.aspx</link><description>1440 DAM Pagestudio</description><sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod><sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" href="https://www.1440.org/blogpostxml.ashx" /><feedburner:info uri="1440dampagestudio" /><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/" /> <feedburner:browserFriendly>1440 DAM Pagestudio</feedburner:browserFriendly><item><title>Learning to Love Midlife: 12 Reasons Why Life Gets Better With Age</title><description><![CDATA[<p>As we get older, classical music sneaks up on us. So, do naps, fine wine, and the appeal of organic vegetables and sunscreen. With age comes an appreciation for things we neglected when we were younger.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>In my late thirties, I dreaded the idea of midlife. &ldquo;American Beauty&rdquo; was a horror movie. I didn&rsquo;t want to be Kevin Spacey when I grew up. It felt like such an emotionally-dehydrated life stage, and if you survived it, all you had to look forward to was disease, decrepitude, and death.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>And, then, I experienced it, and, yes, I had my U-curve of Happiness dip right around 47-49, but on the other side, I had my best decade ever, my fifties.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Based upon all I&rsquo;ve learned personally, as well as the thousands of life stories I&rsquo;ve witnessed at MEA, the world&rsquo;s first midlife wisdom school, I wrote a book that came out in 2024, &ldquo;Learning to Love Midlife: 12 Reasons Why Life Gets Better With Age.&rdquo; I&rsquo;m looking forward to leading a weekend retreat at 1440 on this topic so I wanted to outline these 12 reasons.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>First of all, American society (and Hallmark Cards) reminds you all the time what gets worse with age. We have an anti-aging industrial complex making money on our fears. And, yet, Yale&rsquo;s Becca Levy&rsquo;s research shows that when we shift our mindset on aging in midlife from a negative to a positive, we gain 7.5 years of additional life which is more added longevity than if we stopped smoking or started exercising at 50. So, what gets better with age? &zwj;</p>

<h3><strong>THE PHYSICAL LIFE</strong></h3>

<p><strong>&zwj;One:&nbsp;&ldquo;I Have More Life Left Than I Thought&rdquo;</strong><br />
What percentage of your adult life is still ahead of you? Most of us vastly underestimate how much life we still have ahead of us due to our lack of &ldquo;longevity literacy.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>&zwj;Two:&nbsp;&ldquo;I&rsquo;m Relieved My Body No Longer Defines Me&rdquo;</strong><br />
Just as I got comfortable in my own skin, it started to sag. In midlife, we recognize that caring for our beauty or brawn should be less about short-term vanity and more about long-term maintenance.</p>

<h3><strong>THE EMOTIONAL LIFE</strong></h3>

<p><strong>&zwj;Three:&nbsp;&ldquo;I&rsquo;m Making Friends With My Emotions&rdquo;</strong><br />
As we grow older, real beauty moves from the face to the heart. EQ (Emotional Intelligence) grows with age as we become less emotionally reactive.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>&zwj;Four:&nbsp;&ldquo;I Invest in My Social Wellness&rdquo;</strong><br />
Illness starts with the letter I, while Wellness starts with the letters We. The most consistent variable with living a longer, healthier, happier life is how invested were we in our friendships in midlife and beyond.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>&zwj;Five:&nbsp;&ldquo;I Have No More &lsquo;F****&rsquo; Left to Give&rdquo;</strong><br />
&ldquo;Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.&rdquo; &nbsp;&mdash; Chinese Taoist philosopher Lao Tze, born 6th century BC. Knowing what you care about allows you to liberate from everything else.&nbsp;</p>

<h3><strong>THE MENTAL LIFE</strong></h3>

<p><strong>&zwj;Six:&nbsp;&ldquo;I&rsquo;m Marveling at My Wisdom&rdquo;</strong><br />
Knowledge is in your iPhone. Wisdom is in your gut. Our painful life lessons are the raw material for our future wisdom, but most of us haven&rsquo;t been taught how to cultivate this raw material.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>&zwj;Seven:&nbsp;&ldquo;I Understand How My Story Serves Me&rdquo;&nbsp;</strong><br />
No one knows your life story better than you. Understanding who you are and what you have to offer the world is the most valuable skill we develop in midlife and beyond.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>&zwj;Eight:&nbsp;&ldquo;I&rsquo;ve Learned How to Edit My Life&rdquo;</strong><br />
The trip only becomes a journey after you&rsquo;ve lost your baggage. The first half of our life is about accumulating, while the second half is about editing. At MEA, we help people do a ritual called &ldquo;The Great Midlife Edit.&rdquo;</p>

<h3><strong>THE VOCATIONAL LIFE</strong></h3>

<p><strong>&zwj;Nine:&nbsp;&ldquo;I&rsquo;m Joyously Stepping off the Treadmill&rdquo;</strong><br />
Midlife is when we outgrow our pursuit of happiness and start our practice of joy. Liberating yourself from the &ldquo;successism&rdquo; defined by your parents or society allows you to have more agency.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>&zwj;Ten:&nbsp;&ldquo;I&rsquo;m Starting to Experience Time Affluence&rdquo;</strong><br />
I have time to become a beginner again. Curiosity and an openness to new experiences are correlated with the good life after age 50, but it helps to have space in your life.</p>

<h3><strong>THE SPIRITUAL LIFE</strong></h3>

<p><strong>&zwj;Eleven:&nbsp;&ldquo;I&rsquo;ve Discovered My Soul&rdquo;</strong><br />
Life is a horizontal journey, then a vertical one. Our primary operating system for the first half of our life is the ego and, then, with no warning, it becomes the soul as we get more curious about the meaning of life.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>&zwj;Twelve:&nbsp;&ldquo;I Feel Like I&rsquo;m Growing Whole&rdquo;</strong><br />
&ldquo;I&rsquo;m here to be me, which is taking a great deal longer than I had hoped.&rdquo; &mdash; Anne Lamott. The older people we most admire are alchemists of their polarities - extrovert and introvert, masculine and feminine - and are present for everything that&rsquo;s inside of them.</p>

<hr />
<h3><strong>MEET CHIP CONLEY</strong></h3>
<strong>Modern Elder Academy (MEA) founder and New York Times Bestselling Author</strong><br />
<br />
<img alt="image" height="267" src="https://assets.milestoneinternet.com/1440-multiversity/site-images/blog-images/chip-conley-event-page-headshot-jpg.jpg" style="margin:10px; float:left" width="190" />Chip Conley is on a midlife mission. After disrupting the hospitality industry twice, first as the founder of Joie de Vivre Hospitality, the second-largest operator of boutique hotels in the U.S., and then as Airbnb&#39;s Head of Global Hospitality and Strategy, leading a worldwide revolution in travel, Conley co-founded MEA (Modern Elder Academy) in January 2018 in Baja California, Mexico.<br />
<br />
Inspired by his experience of intergenerational mentoring as a &lsquo;modern elder&#39; at Airbnb, where his guidance was instrumental to the company&#39;s extraordinary transformation from fast-growing start-up to the world&#39;s most valuable hospitality brand, MEA is the world&#39;s first &lsquo;midlife wisdom school&#39; and has a 2,600-acre regenerative horse ranch in Santa Fe, New Mexico which opened in May 2024. Dedicated to reframing the concept of aging, MEA supports students to navigate midlife with a renewed sense of purpose and possibility. A New York Times bestselling author, Conley&#39;s 7th book &quot;Learning to Love Midlife: 12 Reasons Why Life Gets Better with Age&quot; is about rebranding midlife to help people understand the upside of this often-misunderstood life stage and he was asked to give a 2023 TED talk on the &quot;midlife chrysalis.
<p>&nbsp;</p>

<hr />
<h3><strong>DISCOVER THE JOY OF MIDLIFE</strong></h3>

<p>To learn more about <em data-end="46" data-start="20">Learning to Love Midlife</em> and discover how life gets better with age, join me for a weekend retreat at 1440. Together, we&rsquo;ll explore the 12 reasons midlife is a time of growth, wisdom, and deeper joy.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><u><a href="https://www.1440.org/events/scotts-valley/learning-to-love-midlife-a-weekend-workshop-with-midlife-expert-chip-conley">Learn More</a></u></strong></p>

<hr />]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/12-reasons-why-life-gets-better-with-age</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/12-reasons-why-life-gets-better-with-age#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 13 Feb 2025 02:24:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Improving Myself without Losing Myself</title><description><![CDATA[<p>I&rsquo;ll never forget that moment. What was said, what I heard, the way the textured walls just to the left of my manager&rsquo;s right ear blurred as I struggled to keep the tears back. But most of all, I&rsquo;ll never forget the way it felt, and how that feeling would haunt me for the next several years of my fledgling career. It was 6 p.m. on a Friday when we wrapped up our &ldquo;chat&rdquo; and my manager left the conference room. I was grateful that no one was at the door, gently tapping to usher me out. It gave me a few unscheduled minutes to process. I found a strategic spot where I could hide from the gaze of any lingering colleagues that might see me through the frosted glass walls. Then I sat down on the floor and sobbed.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>I don&rsquo;t think anyone has ever accused me of being &ldquo;subtle.&rdquo; I have a lot of opinions, I&rsquo;m not afraid to share them, and I&rsquo;m exceptionally focused and driven when it comes to getting a job done. I&rsquo;m highly motivated by difficult situations and seemingly insurmountable tasks. I&rsquo;m also wildly optimistic, collaborative, creative, and kind. I believe there is nothing a group of people can&rsquo;t accomplish when they work together without judgment, and I believe that all people are capable of greatness if they&rsquo;re given the chance.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>So when I found myself in that Google conference room back in 2008, listening to &ldquo;feedback&rdquo; that in retrospect was probably more about my manager than about me, I was gutted. I had spent the last 8 months working 60-70 hours per week on a big project, and had volunteered to leave my family for nine weeks to manage the onsite launch. With no extra pay or promise of promotion, I had given it everything I had because I wanted to help. And this was the result: sitting on the floor, crying my eyes out, and starting to wonder if I really was as &ldquo;intimidating&rdquo; and &ldquo;abrasive&rdquo; as my manager claimed. It sowed a seed of doubt that would cause me to constantly second-guess my own judgment for years to come.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Women, particularly in male-dominated industries like tech, are often told they&rsquo;re aggressive, emotional, intimidating, or harsh when they demonstrate typically masculine behaviors. Women are aggressive while men are confident. An emotional woman is just a passionate man. These are biases that have fueled the current performance review conundrum where the number of negative terms typically used to describe women at work far outnumbers those used to describe men.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>For women, it can be hard to parse the legitimate feedback that can help us become a more curious, compassionate professional from the (quite frankly) sexist garbage that&rsquo;s designed to push conformity to outdated gender stereotypes. The key to authentic professional development (for everyone, but it&rsquo;s even more critical for women) is to learn to distinguish the feedback that will help you grow from feedback that&rsquo;s intended to diminish who you are, and to learn from all of it. A lot of it comes down to new ways of thinking about the nature of feedback itself. Here are a few shifts in mindset that may help:&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Not all feedback is a &ldquo;gift&rdquo;</strong><br />
Some feedback is just bad. It&rsquo;s generalized, lacks examples, and is tinged with bias. It may even be more about the insecurities of the giver rather than the growth opportunities of the receiver. Yet, we&rsquo;re all supposed to treat each piece of feedback like a &ldquo;gift,&rdquo; which is often misinterpreted to mean that it should be regarded as inarguable truth. Remember that feedback isn&rsquo;t always accurate, and it&rsquo;s not always about you. Sometimes it&rsquo;s just a regifting of something someone else is trying to get rid of.&nbsp;<br />
&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>You don&rsquo;t have to accept feedback to learn from it&nbsp;</strong><br />
Even the worst, most ungrounded feedback can present an opportunity for learning, whether about yourself or others. When you&rsquo;re given feedback that feels unfair or inaccurate, take some time to process it. Acknowledge your emotions, then set them aside and look at the feedback with objective curiosity. Ask yourself: What can I learn in this moment that might have been hidden from me before? It may be consistent with the feedback, or it might be something completely different. Take an expansive approach, and be radically honest with yourself about what you discover.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>You&rsquo;re better at assessing yourself than you think&nbsp;</strong><br />
Self assessments are often positioned as only slightly better than useless in the tech industry. We&rsquo;ve been told that other people are far more capable of accurately evaluating us than we are, and that if we think we&rsquo;re self aware then we probably aren&rsquo;t. And, it&rsquo;s not true. There&rsquo;s a growing collection of research out there that suggests the ratings of others, which largely define our fate at work, are systematically flawed. And, we are far better judges of our own experience than we&rsquo;ve been made to believe, as long as we&rsquo;re operating in psychologically safe environments. The next time you receive a piece of feedback that surprises you, ask yourself: &ldquo;Am I really surprised, or am I scared?&rdquo; You may land on an unexpected answer.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>After 14 years at Google, I received a lot of feedback: some was transformationally eye-opening, and some was deeply damaging. When I look back, the thing that amazes me most is that I spent so much of that time not being able to tell the difference. I treated it all the same - indisputable truths that needed to be accepted and implemented - and it wasn&rsquo;t. No one person holds the whole truth; it&rsquo;s a combination of perspectives. Feedback is important. I&rsquo;ve learned a ridiculous amount about myself from embracing the perspectives of others. I&rsquo;ve become far more curious and less convicted about my own &ldquo;rightness&rdquo; as a result, but I also allowed ungrounded feedback to damage my sense of self-worth, and that&rsquo;s not an effective path for growth. What it all comes down to is a delicate balance between confidence and curiosity, and a willingness to learn from every experience and interaction. But that&rsquo;s just my perspective. What&rsquo;s yours?&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>Sarah Deveraux is a Leadership Coach &amp; Advisor with <strong><a href="https://thirdcoastcoaching.com/">Third Coast Coaching</a></strong> and a member of the White Pine Leadership Collective, which will lead the <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/events/scotts-valley/flourish-a-transformation-workshop-for-women-in-leadership">FLOURISH: A Transformation Workshop for Women in Leadership</a></strong> on <strong>Sept. 29-Oct. 1 at 1440 Multiversity</strong>. Sarah&nbsp;has coached and facilitated for more than a decade on a variety of leadership topics including resilience, wellbeing, innovation, self-awareness, trust, complexity theory and systems thinking. She is passionate about developing senior women leaders in traditionally male-dominated industries, like tech, finance and manufacturing. For more information, visit&nbsp;whitepineleadership.com.&nbsp;</em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/improving-myself-without-losing-myself</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/improving-myself-without-losing-myself#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 13 Jul 2023 18:36:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>Improving Myself without Losing Myself</title><description><![CDATA[<p>I&rsquo;ll never forget that moment. What was said, what I heard, the way the textured walls just to the left of my manager&rsquo;s right ear blurred as I struggled to keep the tears back. But most of all, I&rsquo;ll never forget the way it felt, and how that feeling would haunt me for the next several years of my fledgling career. It was 6 p.m. on a Friday when we wrapped up our &ldquo;chat&rdquo; and my manager left the conference room. I was grateful that no one was at the door, gently tapping to usher me out. It gave me a few unscheduled minutes to process. I found a strategic spot where I could hide from the gaze of any lingering colleagues that might see me through the frosted glass walls. Then I sat down on the floor and sobbed.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>I don&rsquo;t think anyone has ever accused me of being &ldquo;subtle.&rdquo; I have a lot of opinions, I&rsquo;m not afraid to share them, and I&rsquo;m exceptionally focused and driven when it comes to getting a job done. I&rsquo;m highly motivated by difficult situations and seemingly insurmountable tasks. I&rsquo;m also wildly optimistic, collaborative, creative, and kind. I believe there is nothing a group of people can&rsquo;t accomplish when they work together without judgment, and I believe that all people are capable of greatness if they&rsquo;re given the chance.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>So when I found myself in that Google conference room back in 2008, listening to &ldquo;feedback&rdquo; that in retrospect was probably more about my manager than about me, I was gutted. I had spent the last 8 months working 60-70 hours per week on a big project, and had volunteered to leave my family for nine weeks to manage the onsite launch. With no extra pay or promise of promotion, I had given it everything I had because I wanted to help. And this was the result: sitting on the floor, crying my eyes out, and starting to wonder if I really was as &ldquo;intimidating&rdquo; and &ldquo;abrasive&rdquo; as my manager claimed. It sowed a seed of doubt that would cause me to constantly second-guess my own judgment for years to come.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Women, particularly in male-dominated industries like tech, are often told they&rsquo;re aggressive, emotional, intimidating, or harsh when they demonstrate typically masculine behaviors. Women are aggressive while men are confident. An emotional woman is just a passionate man. These are biases that have fueled the current performance review conundrum where the number of negative terms typically used to describe women at work far outnumbers those used to describe men.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>For women, it can be hard to parse the legitimate feedback that can help us become a more curious, compassionate professional from the (quite frankly) sexist garbage that&rsquo;s designed to push conformity to outdated gender stereotypes. The key to authentic professional development (for everyone, but it&rsquo;s even more critical for women) is to learn to distinguish the feedback that will help you grow from feedback that&rsquo;s intended to diminish who you are, and to learn from all of it. A lot of it comes down to new ways of thinking about the nature of feedback itself. Here are a few shifts in mindset that may help:&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Not all feedback is a &ldquo;gift&rdquo;</strong><br />
Some feedback is just bad. It&rsquo;s generalized, lacks examples, and is tinged with bias. It may even be more about the insecurities of the giver rather than the growth opportunities of the receiver. Yet, we&rsquo;re all supposed to treat each piece of feedback like a &ldquo;gift,&rdquo; which is often misinterpreted to mean that it should be regarded as inarguable truth. Remember that feedback isn&rsquo;t always accurate, and it&rsquo;s not always about you. Sometimes it&rsquo;s just a regifting of something someone else is trying to get rid of.&nbsp;<br />
&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>You don&rsquo;t have to accept feedback to learn from it&nbsp;</strong><br />
Even the worst, most ungrounded feedback can present an opportunity for learning, whether about yourself or others. When you&rsquo;re given feedback that feels unfair or inaccurate, take some time to process it. Acknowledge your emotions, then set them aside and look at the feedback with objective curiosity. Ask yourself: What can I learn in this moment that might have been hidden from me before? It may be consistent with the feedback, or it might be something completely different. Take an expansive approach, and be radically honest with yourself about what you discover.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>You&rsquo;re better at assessing yourself than you think&nbsp;</strong><br />
Self assessments are often positioned as only slightly better than useless in the tech industry. We&rsquo;ve been told that other people are far more capable of accurately evaluating us than we are, and that if we think we&rsquo;re self aware then we probably aren&rsquo;t. And, it&rsquo;s not true. There&rsquo;s a growing collection of research out there that suggests the ratings of others, which largely define our fate at work, are systematically flawed. And, we are far better judges of our own experience than we&rsquo;ve been made to believe, as long as we&rsquo;re operating in psychologically safe environments. The next time you receive a piece of feedback that surprises you, ask yourself: &ldquo;Am I really surprised, or am I scared?&rdquo; You may land on an unexpected answer.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>After 14 years at Google, I received a lot of feedback: some was transformationally eye-opening, and some was deeply damaging. When I look back, the thing that amazes me most is that I spent so much of that time not being able to tell the difference. I treated it all the same - indisputable truths that needed to be accepted and implemented - and it wasn&rsquo;t. No one person holds the whole truth; it&rsquo;s a combination of perspectives. Feedback is important. I&rsquo;ve learned a ridiculous amount about myself from embracing the perspectives of others. I&rsquo;ve become far more curious and less convicted about my own &ldquo;rightness&rdquo; as a result, but I also allowed ungrounded feedback to damage my sense of self-worth, and that&rsquo;s not an effective path for growth. What it all comes down to is a delicate balance between confidence and curiosity, and a willingness to learn from every experience and interaction. But that&rsquo;s just my perspective. What&rsquo;s yours?&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>Sarah Deveraux is a Leadership Coach &amp; Advisor with <strong><a href="https://thirdcoastcoaching.com/">Third Coast Coaching</a></strong> and a member of the White Pine Leadership Collective, which will lead the <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/events/scotts-valley/flourish-a-transformation-workshop-for-women-in-leadership">FLOURISH: A Transformation Workshop for Women in Leadership</a></strong> on <strong>Sept. 29-Oct. 1 at 1440 Multiversity</strong>. Sarah&nbsp;has coached and facilitated for more than a decade on a variety of leadership topics including resilience, wellbeing, innovation, self-awareness, trust, complexity theory and systems thinking. She is passionate about developing senior women leaders in traditionally male-dominated industries, like tech, finance and manufacturing. For more information, visit&nbsp;whitepineleadership.com.&nbsp;</em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/improving-myself-without-losing-myself</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/improving-myself-without-losing-myself#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 13 Jul 2023 18:36:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>What’s a Mother Tree?</title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>&ldquo;A tree can be only as strong as the forest that surrounds it.&rdquo;</strong><br />
―Peter Wohlleben,<em>The Hidden Life of Trees: What They Feel, How They Communicate</em></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>The Mother Tree</strong></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>If you&rsquo;ve ever been to the 1440 campus, then you truly understand the amazing communal love for the majestic redwoods that cover our campus.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>In addition to their physical presence that awes all of us, the presence of the redwoods is integrated into the very structures that sit beneath their beautiful boughs. Our largest auditorium is named Redwood, and the deck outside was actually built around the trees that were there first. And all the windows and doors that line Redwood allow for sublime glimpses of the forest all around.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Step off that deck and head down the stairs further into the woods (oh, it smells so good!) and you&rsquo;re going to find something else quite special: <em>the Mother Tree of 1440.</em></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>This one specific redwood is the beginning of the grove it&rsquo;s surrounded by. Experts say the Mother Tree is around 1200 years old. She shades the amphitheater that we call Cathedral &ndash; it&rsquo;s a quiet place perfect for solitude, journaling, meditation, or a pleasant conversation with new friends.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>She&rsquo;s Actually Working</strong></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>The Mother Tree is thought of as the hub of the community that it grows in. She provides water and nutrients through fungal networks in the soil &hellip; and she&rsquo;s actually &ldquo;talking&rdquo; with the other trees.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Scientists discovered that these underground fungal networks, known as mycorrhizal networks, aren&rsquo;t only used to dispense food but also allow the trees to communicate with one another. These networks can be used to warn other trees about threats that might be incoming such as drought, insects, or disease.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>In <em>The Hidden Life of Trees: What They Feel, How They Communicate,</em> author Peter Wohlleben writes:</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<blockquote>
<p>We have learned that mother trees recognize and talk with their kin, shaping future generations. In addition, injured trees pass their legacies on to their neighbors, affecting gene regulation, defense chemistry, and resilience in the forest community.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Like humans, trees need more than food and water to thrive. Their communities and networks are vastly important to the survival of their collective &ndash; and this is where a mother tree plays such a key role.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>We like to think that these lessons of passing resilience to our neighbors and our kin are not only present in the narratives and science around the 1440 trees but in the very work done at 1440. Whether you&rsquo;re in a webinar, a program, or enjoying a little reflective time, you&rsquo;re part of a community of like-hearted people looking to help and sustain each other, passing passion and resilience through the network (in-person or virtual), and cultivating each of the 1,440 minutes in a day &ndash; just like the Mother Tree and her grove of redwoods.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>In the vicinity of the 1440 Mother Tree, you&rsquo;ll find a sign with this inscription:</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>The Mother Tree: For more than 1,000 years, the Mother Tree &ndash; elder of this cathedral &ndash; has filtered nutrients and wisdom to the younger trees. Through underground root systems, she hosts conversations that increase the resilience of her entire community and remind us of our interconnectedness and shared resources. </em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/whats-a-mother-tree</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/whats-a-mother-tree#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 13 May 2022 12:48:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>Why Mindfulness?</title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Mindful | Mind Full | Mindful</strong></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>If ever there was a time that our minds are full across the globe, this is it, right?</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>But &ldquo;mind full&rdquo; is not really what we mean by being mindful.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>What exactly do we mean?</strong> Let&rsquo;s go back to the definition of mindfulness.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>Mindfulness (n):</em></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<ul>
	<li><em>the quality or state of being conscious or aware of something.</em></li>
</ul>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>It sounds so easy. Just be aware! Be conscious.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>But as we&rsquo;ve found out repeatedly in this spring of COVID, being aware can be difficult and it can be kind of painful. Being alive can be kind of painful.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>But there&rsquo;s hope! Because the very act of being mindful &ndash; of using mindfulness &ndash; can help you to cope with pretty much everything that happens in your daily life, even now as we collectively deal with so much uncertainty.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Even better,mindfulness isn&rsquo;t the kind of thing you only can do at certain times or in certain places.In fact, you can bring mindfulness and awareness into every moment of your life. Instead of dwelling on the past or looking to the future just sitting in awareness of the present moment can help you to find strength and purpose in that moment</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>With that in mind, think about everything that has changed in your life and how mindfulness might help you to cope with those changes.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<ul>
	<li>Think about how you&rsquo;re feeling</li>
	<li>Don&rsquo;t try to change anything</li>
	<li>Sink into awareness of how your body feels and where your thoughts are</li>
</ul>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>But that&rsquo;s not all mindfulness is! There&rsquo;s so much more when you dive into it. And here&rsquo;s the cool thing: you can practice mindfulness while waiting for a pot of coffee to brew, out in the garden,&nbsp;sitting on the couch, or even in a Zoom meeting!</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Now, more than ever, mindfulness is a such a great tool for coping and thriving.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>If you&rsquo;re interested in learning more about mindfulness, please check out this on-demand recorded webinar:</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<ul>
	<li><a href="https://1440.tv/program/living-in-the-unknown/"><em>Living in the UnKnown</em></a> with Gangaji</li>
</ul>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-mindfulness</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-mindfulness#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 13 May 2022 10:07:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Employee Programs Help a Young Professional Clarify Her Path</title><description><![CDATA[<p><em>By Renee Brincks</em></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Marie Ucci is among the first friendly faces to greet guests visiting 1440 Multiversity. As a Guest Experience Agent, she books rooms, sends pre-arrival information, explains campus programs, and helps first-time visitors navigate the redwood-lined trails linking classrooms, accommodations and dining venues.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Ucci&#39;s responsibilities go far beyond distributing room keys and answering questions, however.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;We don&#39;t know what these guests are going through when they walk in the door. We don&#39;t know what happened to them five minutes or five years before they got here,&rdquo; she says. &quot;I really try to anticipate people&#39;s needs and create the best experience possible. If they give us information ahead of time, we&#39;ll do our best to accommodate preferences or tailor something special for their arrival. We want guests to have everything they need to feel welcomed and comfortable.&quot;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>An aunt of Ucci&rsquo;s first introduced her to 1440, and a close friend later started a job on the 75-acre campus in the Santa Cruz Mountains. As Ucci learned about the facility&rsquo;s environment, educational programs and employee benefits, she found herself increasingly interested in career opportunities with the organization.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I had never worked in hospitality, but I felt really aligned with what 1440 offers. Their programs and cultural principles drew me in, and I wanted to be a part of that,&rdquo; she says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><iframe frameborder="0" height="400" name="Hearts of 1440: Marie Ucci" scrolling="no" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/fxWLShqKFAo" title="YouTube Video" width="100%"></iframe></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Ucci joined the 1440 team in late 2017, taking a part-time role at the campus marketplace, Common Goods. She also continued with a full-time night-shift role as a pricing coordinator for a regional grocery retailer. After two years, the demanding schedule caught up with her. Then, as Ucci was addressing the symptoms of burnout, her father passed away.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I had to take a step back and look at how much I was working, what I was doing, and where my life was going,&rdquo; she says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Ucci briefly transitioned to an on-call role with 1440 and focused on the retail job she&rsquo;d held for 10 years, but that path no longer felt like a good fit.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I couldn&rsquo;t do it anymore. I wasn&rsquo;t sleeping enough, and I wasn&rsquo;t processing my emotions or dealing with the grief of losing my dad. I wasn&rsquo;t feeling good in my body, and I felt like my health was declining,&rdquo; she says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>When a front desk position opened at 1440, Ucci rejoined the organization. She&rsquo;s since started working on her bachelor&rsquo;s degree, as well. After studying communications at Cabrillo College, Ucci will transfer to the San Jose State University psychology program in the fall. She&rsquo;ll continue working at 1440 as she pursues an advanced degree and a career in therapy.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;1440 has been very accommodating of my schedule, which is amazing and makes school a lot less stressful,&rdquo; says Ucci, who appreciates both that flexibility and the inspiration she draws from her guest-facing role. &ldquo;It&rsquo;s such a fulfilling job. Talking to guests about their experiences here and seeing them shine really gives me energy.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Individuals often arrive on the 1440 campus uncertain of what to expect, she explains. They might feel overwhelmed by work or life circumstances, or maybe they&rsquo;ve experienced personal trauma. Some are simply tired after dealing with ongoing pandemic challenges.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I&rsquo;ll chat with them throughout their stay, and I can just see them radiate with new energy. By the time we say farewell, there&rsquo;s so much more vitality. You can tell that they&rsquo;ve had a chance to rest or rejuvenate or heal, and they&rsquo;ve had an experience here that they probably would not have had anywhere else. It&rsquo;s beautiful to witness that transformation,&rdquo; Ucci says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>She&rsquo;s also gone through her own transformation as part of the campus family. Employees are encouraged to participate in 1440 Signature Classes, which explore mindfulness, creativity, nutrition, wellness and other topics. Ucci especially enjoyed attending an on-campus holistic health workshop led by Dr. Andrew Weil, a luminary faculty member and pioneer in the field of integrative medicine. In an experience she calls &ldquo;a dream come true,&rdquo; she was a guest at his cooking demonstration, learned about anti-inflammatory foods, and practiced the stress-reducing 4-7-8 breathing technique that she now uses when life gets busy.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Opportunities like these have helped Ucci reinforce her emotional and physical health, while also processing the loss of her father.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&quot;Since my dad died, I&#39;ve really been tapping into my grief and learning about it. I&#39;ve also been able to speak about it in conversations with some of my co-workers. The environment here allows and encourages us to discuss those hard topics,&rdquo; Ucci says. &ldquo;The 1440 team is a family. We care about each other. There are a lot of opportunities for individual growth, so if you&rsquo;re curious about hospitality and about yourself, it&#39;s a great place to work.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>The conversations, workshops and wellness practices that Ucci has adopted during her time at 1440 have also helped her clarify personal goals and build confidence.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I have a better sense of who I am and what I can accomplish. Maybe I had some doubts before, but the process of working here and learning about myself has really proven that I can go after my dreams and ask for what I want,&rdquo; she says. &ldquo;Every day, I can show up as I am and feel confident in myself.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/careers">Interested in becoming one of the Hearts of 1440 and joining the team? Learn more on our Careers site.&nbsp;</a></strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-employee-programs-help-a-young-professional-clarify-her-path</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-employee-programs-help-a-young-professional-clarify-her-path#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 15 Apr 2022 01:18:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Employee Programs Help a Young Professional Clarify Her Path</title><description><![CDATA[<p><em>By Renee Brincks</em></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Marie Ucci is among the first friendly faces to greet guests visiting 1440 Multiversity. As a Guest Experience Agent, she books rooms, sends pre-arrival information, explains campus programs, and helps first-time visitors navigate the redwood-lined trails linking classrooms, accommodations and dining venues.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Ucci&#39;s responsibilities go far beyond distributing room keys and answering questions, however.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;We don&#39;t know what these guests are going through when they walk in the door. We don&#39;t know what happened to them five minutes or five years before they got here,&rdquo; she says. &quot;I really try to anticipate people&#39;s needs and create the best experience possible. If they give us information ahead of time, we&#39;ll do our best to accommodate preferences or tailor something special for their arrival. We want guests to have everything they need to feel welcomed and comfortable.&quot;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>An aunt of Ucci&rsquo;s first introduced her to 1440, and a close friend later started a job on the 75-acre campus in the Santa Cruz Mountains. As Ucci learned about the facility&rsquo;s environment, educational programs and employee benefits, she found herself increasingly interested in career opportunities with the organization.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I had never worked in hospitality, but I felt really aligned with what 1440 offers. Their programs and cultural principles drew me in, and I wanted to be a part of that,&rdquo; she says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><iframe frameborder="0" height="400" name="Hearts of 1440: Marie Ucci" scrolling="no" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/fxWLShqKFAo" title="YouTube Video" width="100%"></iframe></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Ucci joined the 1440 team in late 2017, taking a part-time role at the campus marketplace, Common Goods. She also continued with a full-time night-shift role as a pricing coordinator for a regional grocery retailer. After two years, the demanding schedule caught up with her. Then, as Ucci was addressing the symptoms of burnout, her father passed away.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I had to take a step back and look at how much I was working, what I was doing, and where my life was going,&rdquo; she says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Ucci briefly transitioned to an on-call role with 1440 and focused on the retail job she&rsquo;d held for 10 years, but that path no longer felt like a good fit.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I couldn&rsquo;t do it anymore. I wasn&rsquo;t sleeping enough, and I wasn&rsquo;t processing my emotions or dealing with the grief of losing my dad. I wasn&rsquo;t feeling good in my body, and I felt like my health was declining,&rdquo; she says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>When a front desk position opened at 1440, Ucci rejoined the organization. She&rsquo;s since started working on her bachelor&rsquo;s degree, as well. After studying communications at Cabrillo College, Ucci will transfer to the San Jose State University psychology program in the fall. She&rsquo;ll continue working at 1440 as she pursues an advanced degree and a career in therapy.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;1440 has been very accommodating of my schedule, which is amazing and makes school a lot less stressful,&rdquo; says Ucci, who appreciates both that flexibility and the inspiration she draws from her guest-facing role. &ldquo;It&rsquo;s such a fulfilling job. Talking to guests about their experiences here and seeing them shine really gives me energy.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Individuals often arrive on the 1440 campus uncertain of what to expect, she explains. They might feel overwhelmed by work or life circumstances, or maybe they&rsquo;ve experienced personal trauma. Some are simply tired after dealing with ongoing pandemic challenges.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I&rsquo;ll chat with them throughout their stay, and I can just see them radiate with new energy. By the time we say farewell, there&rsquo;s so much more vitality. You can tell that they&rsquo;ve had a chance to rest or rejuvenate or heal, and they&rsquo;ve had an experience here that they probably would not have had anywhere else. It&rsquo;s beautiful to witness that transformation,&rdquo; Ucci says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>She&rsquo;s also gone through her own transformation as part of the campus family. Employees are encouraged to participate in 1440 Signature Classes, which explore mindfulness, creativity, nutrition, wellness and other topics. Ucci especially enjoyed attending an on-campus holistic health workshop led by Dr. Andrew Weil, a luminary faculty member and pioneer in the field of integrative medicine. In an experience she calls &ldquo;a dream come true,&rdquo; she was a guest at his cooking demonstration, learned about anti-inflammatory foods, and practiced the stress-reducing 4-7-8 breathing technique that she now uses when life gets busy.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Opportunities like these have helped Ucci reinforce her emotional and physical health, while also processing the loss of her father.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&quot;Since my dad died, I&#39;ve really been tapping into my grief and learning about it. I&#39;ve also been able to speak about it in conversations with some of my co-workers. The environment here allows and encourages us to discuss those hard topics,&rdquo; Ucci says. &ldquo;The 1440 team is a family. We care about each other. There are a lot of opportunities for individual growth, so if you&rsquo;re curious about hospitality and about yourself, it&#39;s a great place to work.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>The conversations, workshops and wellness practices that Ucci has adopted during her time at 1440 have also helped her clarify personal goals and build confidence.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I have a better sense of who I am and what I can accomplish. Maybe I had some doubts before, but the process of working here and learning about myself has really proven that I can go after my dreams and ask for what I want,&rdquo; she says. &ldquo;Every day, I can show up as I am and feel confident in myself.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/careers">Interested in becoming one of the Hearts of 1440 and joining the team? Learn more on our Careers site.&nbsp;</a></strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-employee-programs-help-a-young-professional-clarify-her-path</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-employee-programs-help-a-young-professional-clarify-her-path#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 15 Apr 2022 01:18:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Rooted Like Redwoods: A Landscape Professional Finds His Place at 1440</title><description><![CDATA[<p><em>By Renee Brincks</em></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Tucked away in a quiet corner of the 1440 Multiversity campus, the Cathedral amphitheater welcomes guests in a peaceful creek-side setting shrouded by redwoods. One tree stands out in this towering, old-growth forest. The Mother Tree has been thriving here for nearly 1,200 years, serving as a beacon of resilience and strength in an unpredictable world.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Redwood trees grow close together in clusters. Over time, the roots of each tree intertwine with the roots of neighboring redwoods. Together, the trees in these groves stabilize and support each other, sharing nutrients and standing strong against gusty winds or high waters.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>For 1440 Landscaping&nbsp;Technician Sergio Canchola, the interconnectedness of the Mother Tree and the surrounding redwoods reflects the relationships of his 1440 campus family.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&quot;The roots of the redwoods support each other. One tree helps another, and that&#39;s what I see happening with the people here,&quot; Canchola says. &quot;We have good managers. They are like a good base. They teach us good habits, which make our roots stronger, and that helps each of us be stronger together. We have a very good team here. It makes me very happy.&quot;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Canchola joined the 1440 team about five years ago, after owning an independent landscaping business for 25 years. He worked with residential and commercial clients in the Santa Cruz area, nurturing an interest in plants that took root during his childhood in Mexico. His father was a farmer, and Canchola enjoyed helping the family care for corn, tomatoes, lettuce, lemons, avocados and other crops.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;People know I have a green thumb. I love to grow things,&rdquo; he says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Canchola&rsquo;s own business grew steadily over the years, despite personal challenges. He is a three-time cancer survivor who received his first cancer diagnosis 20 years ago. A decade after that, he faced surgery for colon cancer. Five years ago, Canchola went through another round of cancer treatments. Bouncing back from the most recent diagnosis was difficult, personally and professionally.<br />
&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I lost many clients at that time, and I was feeling very depressed,&rdquo; he says.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Eager to return to the kind of work he loved, Canchola started looking for landscaping jobs. He applied for an opening at 1440, and immediately saw opportunities to improve soil conditions, refine irrigation systems and enhance the natural beauty of the 75-acre campus in the Santa Cruz Mountains.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I was motivated to get back to my work and activities,&rdquo; he says. &ldquo;I love tending the plants here. It brings me a lot of satisfaction to make the 1440 campus more beautiful.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><iframe frameborder="0" height="400" name="Hearts of 1440: Sergio Canchola" scrolling="no" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/sTnzv-WutUs" title="YouTube Video Player" width="100%"></iframe></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Canchola enjoys the variety of his workdays, which typically start around 6 a.m. He spends 20 to 30 minutes surveying the grounds, looking for any maintenance issues that need immediate attention. As part of a general safety sweep, he might replace outdoor light bulbs or clear leaves from sidewalks and building entrances. From there, he gets busy replacing plants, putting down mulch, trimming trees, or taking steps to control natural erosion along Carbonera Creek, which flows through campus.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Canchola also monitors nearly five miles of trails that lace along the hills and forests of the 1440 grounds. In addition to maintaining wooden steps and railings along those walking paths, he removes debris and cares for native plants set along the trails. Watching the long-term growth of the shrubs and flowers he has planted is one of the highlights of his work.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;We always have lots of things to do. But, little by little, we continue to fix things and make this campus even more beautiful. We are making the landscape look like a park,&rdquo; Canchola says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>He sees great beauty in the California bay laurels, madrones (also known as strawberry trees), and other trees that surround him as he works. But, over the past five years, Canchola has developed a special affinity for redwoods.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;Before, I was working near the ocean, which has different fauna and plants and is a more open landscape. Now, the redwoods are my favorite. They&rsquo;re so beautiful, and they stay green, always. I like their resilience,&rdquo; he says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Like the redwoods that inspire him, Canchola supports the people who surround him, too. As a child, he picked up the basics of sign language to communicate with friends who were deaf. Later in life, he expanded his understanding by studying American Sign Language (ASL).&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I started 10 years ago, focusing on the grammar and the correct ways to sign and teach. I learned from friends, books, movies and classes. I also learned from a friend who has a license as an interpreter,&rdquo; Canchola says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Together with his wife and two children, who are also proficient in ASL, Canchola enjoys volunteering in the local deaf community. The family has impacted the lives of individuals as far north as San Francisco and Oakland, and as far south as Soledad and Greenfield, in southern Monterey County.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;Some friends of mine moved from Mexico to California, and they have a deaf child. I taught the child and the family to read American Sign Language. I also volunteer to teach other parents who have deaf kids, and I&rsquo;m teaching free classes to people here and in other cities. It&rsquo;s a group of friends that gets bigger and bigger,&rdquo; Canchola says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Working at 1440 has expanded Canchola&rsquo;s friendship circle, as well. He&rsquo;s gotten to know his coworkers on a personal level, thanks to bonds built during the monthly Family Meal. Team members from across campus dine together, share stories, and answer a question of the day that sparks conversations about a variety of topics. Canchola also appreciates the weekly meetings that bring teams together to review projects, exchange ideas and resolve challenges. And, he values the ongoing kindness and support of his managers and 1440&rsquo;s co-creators, Joanie and Scott Kriens.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;Scott and Joanie, when they see me, they call me by my name. It feels very good. I&rsquo;m part of the team. They look at us like friends,&rdquo; he says. &ldquo;This place is very peaceful, and it motivates me. It feels like there is safety. People are mindful. They are very humble. They always think about service.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Canchola believes that team camaraderie and connections with the natural world make his work at 1440 more engaging than past roles, where the paycheck was the main reward.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;The rewards for me are the 1440 team and working in a pretty place,&rdquo; he says. &ldquo;Sometimes, people will see my 1440 shirt when I&rsquo;m at the store, and they&rsquo;ll ask if I work there. I tell them that I work in landscaping there, and they&rsquo;ll say, &lsquo;Wow&hellip;That is such a beautiful place.&rsquo; It&rsquo;s not just me that makes it beautiful. It&rsquo;s everybody. But I am a part of that team, and it makes me very proud.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/careers">Searching for a meaningful career? Explore our available career opportunities.&nbsp;</a></strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/rooted-like-redwoods-a-landscape-professional-finds-his-place-at-1440</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/rooted-like-redwoods-a-landscape-professional-finds-his-place-at-1440#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 17 Mar 2022 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Culinary Manager Finds the Perfect Ingredients for an Impactful Career</title><description><![CDATA[<p><em>By Renee Brincks</em></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>In early 2020, weeks after the COVID-19 pandemic paused public and private events at 1440 Multiversity, the campus culinary team turned its focus to the community. Santa Cruz County needed help feeding individuals in area shelters, so 1440 Assistant Director of Food &amp; Beverage Deric Nadeau started making plans.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Virus transmission details were sparse at that time, and safety was Nadeau&rsquo;s top priority. He broke the kitchen facilities into different sections, assigned small staff teams to each section, and outlined schedules that kept crews from overlapping. Then, teams got to work crafting nourishing food from locally farmed ingredients and elements grown at 1440, in Joanie&rsquo;s Garden.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;We made about 60,000 meals for homeless individuals over the course of three months. We had about 40 people working at Kitchen Table, our culinary facility, and not a single case of Covid. Creating that system and seeing our team succeed was heartwarming. It&rsquo;s one of my proudest accomplishments at 1440,&rdquo; Nadeau says. &nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>A unique background in business and baking positioned Nadeau to make an impact with the Kitchen Table crew. It is surprising, though, that he never intended to work in the food and beverage industry. Growing up, Nadeau watched a few family members navigate the ups and downs of restaurant employment. He wanted to follow a different path.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Still, when a casino opened near his Michigan university, the finance major saw a way to earn some tuition money. Nadeau planned to wash dishes until he turned 21, when he could work as a dealer. But at the casino, a pastry chef noticed his work ethic and encouraged Nadeau to join the bakery team.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&quot;Within three months of working in the bakery, I knew that food was something I wanted to do. I truly enjoyed it, and I was picking things up faster than others. People who had been in the industry for decades were coming to me for guidance and direction. That&#39;s when I realized that I had a future here,&quot; he says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Interested in expanding his culinary experience while taking some time to explore, Nadeau went to Australia on a working holiday visa. He spent six months as a pastry chef in a high-end Melbourne restaurant, helped open a patisserie in Darwin, and traveled around Australia, New Zealand and Europe before landing back in Michigan.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Nadeau continued working in local restaurants as he finished his finance degree. Then, after shivering his way through another snowy winter, he decided to move west. He spent some time exploring the California coast, and ultimately fell for the ocean scenery and easy mountain access of Santa Cruz. Though a job took him to the Grand Canyon, Nadeau kept an eye on Craigslist. Four months into his Arizona adventure, he spotted an ad for openings at 1440.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&quot;I sent in an application. The day I heard back about an interview, I put in my notice at the Grand Canyon and came out here on a whim. I was hired a week later,&quot; Nadeau says. &quot;This place just had an energy that drew me to it. I left my interview feeling like this is where I need to be, and that&#39;s not a feeling I&#39;ve ever had anywhere else.&quot;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>He joined the team led by then-Executive Chef and current Director of Culinary &amp; Innovation Kenny Woods in May 2017 &ndash; the last cook hired to the talented group &ndash; about three weeks before 1440 opened to the public. Though he&rsquo;d always worked as a pastry chef, Nadeau now wanted to gain expertise in plant-based cooking and savory dishes. A few days before the first guests arrived, however, he overheard Woods and the executive sous chef discussing their search for a baker.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I swore to myself that I wasn&#39;t going to do it, but after a couple of days of listening to them, I finally set down my knife and said, &lsquo;You guys know that I&#39;m a pastry chef, right?&rsquo;&rdquo; Nadeau says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>He worked as a hybrid pastry chef-cook for his first few months at 1440, and then moved into a chef de cuisine role. After taking the initiative to write prep lists, manage ordering and make back-of-house decisions, Nadeau earned a promotion to executive sous chef. When a front-of-house manager left, he stepped into a senior operations manager position, which he held until March 2022 when he was elevated to Assistant Director of Food &amp; Beverage.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>The opportunity neatly blends Nadeau&rsquo;s experience in the culinary arts and business.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I oversee finances, teams, proposals and administration, along with day-to-day operations. I&#39;ve built a lot of systems and spreadsheets that we use to manage food cost and labor budgets. I think quite often about how I&rsquo;ve come full-circle back to that finance degree,&rdquo; he says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>In addition to streamlining budgets and creating efficiencies, Nadeau has helped build 1440&rsquo;s supportive kitchen and campus culture. He&rsquo;s proud of his team&rsquo;s ability to take deep breaths and solve challenges together, and he appreciates how colleagues at all levels of the organization respect and appreciate one another. Managers from other departments help clear tables or polish silverware when culinary staffers are busy, for example. Joanie and Scott Kriens, 1440&rsquo;s co-creators, know employees by name.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;This is a beautiful place to work. People are genuine. They&#39;re authentic. They care about what they&#39;re doing, and they care about how you feel as much as they care about our work,&rdquo; Nadeau says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Joining the 1440 family has changed how Nadeau connects with the people around him. He describes himself as an introvert, and he believes his coworkers&rsquo; compassion and empathy have taught him to engage with others more fully.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;My own compassion and empathy were really born here and have grown tremendously. We have conversations that matter. We ask how others are feeling, how their life is going, how their partner or their children are doing. We actively listen. Before, I kind of did those things in passing. But now, I stop and say, &lsquo;Really, how are you?&rsquo; Genuinely connecting with people has been my biggest takeaway, as far as personal growth,&rdquo; Nadeau says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Paying that close attention to others&rsquo; feelings, concerns and needs helps team members maintain and strengthen 1440&rsquo;s campus culture. Everyone&rsquo;s viewpoints matter and everyone has a voice. That intentional approach also brings a different cadence to productivity.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;We get a lot of things done here. We&#39;re productive, and we have fun. But it&#39;s not like a typical hospitality or food and beverage job, where everybody pushes themselves really hard. This isn&rsquo;t the traditional kitchen, where the executive chef ideas are all that matters,&rdquo; Nadeau says. &ldquo;We take the time listen to and consider everyone&rsquo;s opinions.&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>That open-mindedness and authenticity extend to the guest experience, as well. Nadeau knows staff members to be thoughtful, compassionate individuals interested in bettering the world around them.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;We work hard to give back to the surrounding community,&rdquo; he says. &ldquo;We&rsquo;ve started a ripple effect. My goal is to continue making a positive impact. Let&rsquo;s see how big we can get that ripple to be.&rdquo;<br />
&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/careers">Inspired to join our 1440 Culinary Team? Visit our careers site to explore open positions.&nbsp;</a></strong></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

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<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-culinary-manager-finds-the-perfect-ingredients-for-an-impactful-career</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-culinary-manager-finds-the-perfect-ingredients-for-an-impactful-career#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 17 Mar 2022 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Pastry Chef Crafts a Sweet Success Story</title><description><![CDATA[<p><em>By Renee Brincks</em></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>At Kitchen Table, the culinary gathering spot that&rsquo;s central to the 1440 Multiversity campus, Pastry Chef Nicole Sanchez spins seasonal ingredients into exquisite treats. In the summer, she bakes with peaches, apricots and other stone fruits grown in the on-site Joanie&#39;s Garden. Local squash and apples star in autumn dishes. Sanchez also works year-round with Campus Gardener Mike MacDonald, sourcing special requests like chamomile, lemon verbena and various citrus fruits.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>When she considers her favorite creations for 1440 guests, however, Sanchez sticks with the classics.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;Cookies and ice cream are probably my favorites,&rdquo; she says. &ldquo;Growing up, I always loved having them as a treat, so it&#39;s really fun to make those now. There are endless possibilities, with different flavors and different combinations.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Sanchez didn&rsquo;t set out to be a chef. In fact, she entered Cabrillo College in Aptos, Calif., on a marine biology track. Because the program carried an intense course load, Sanchez decided to take some fun classes before diving into requirements.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I took a bookmaking class. I took a philosophy class. I took history of jazz, and I took an intro to culinary arts class. I just thought it would be a good life skill, but I ended up loving that one,&rdquo; she says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>The creativity and expressiveness of culinary work surprised Sanchez, who didn&rsquo;t grow up cooking with family members. The more she learned, the more the field felt like a good long-term fit. Ultimately, she traded her marine biology plans for cooking coursework.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Sanchez started her career with a focus on savory foods. However, when a pastry job opened at Oswald, a Santa Cruz restaurant she admired, she applied. Sanchez thought she&rsquo;d bake until there was a chef&rsquo;s role at the downtown spot, which serves California fare. But that changed as she learned pastry station basics.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I ended up loving to bake. I had done some baking in school, but it felt different in a restaurant. I loved creating sweet things and ice cream and cookies, and learning to create recipes was really fun. That was my first pastry job and I&#39;ve been baking ever since,&rdquo; she says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Sanchez later helped open a bakery in Felton, crafted from-scratch scoops at the Penny Ice Creamery, and worked at Companion Bakeshop before landing at Manresa Bread. The high-profile bakery started in the kitchen of Chef David Kinch&rsquo;s three-Michelin-star Manresa restaurant, and it&#39;s known for hand-shaped loaves of bread made with local ingredients and flour milled on site.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>As she made her mark on well-known regional menus, Sanchez also connected with 1440 Executive Chef and Culinary Director Kenny Woods on social media. Woods contacted her when he needed a pastry chef, and they met to discuss the opportunity.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Though she expected to refer someone else for the role, that conversation changed Sanchez&rsquo;s mind. She was happy at Manresa Bread. Still, the opportunity to learn new baking methods and get creative in the kitchen appealed to her.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

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<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;At 1440, we have Joanie&rsquo;s Garden and we have all this equipment. You can explore so many different techniques. You can bake anything you want to try, because we&rsquo;re not limited to a set menu that customers have come to expect,&rdquo; she says. &ldquo;I felt like this place could be a culmination of all the things that I had already learned. Plated desserts are where I started, and then I got into bakeries and production and ice cream. Here, it felt like I could do all of those, while also having room to learn new things.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Sanchez joined the 1440 team in October 2019. Today, as pastry chef, she makes desserts for lunches, dinners and private events. She refined a recipe for the house-made sourdough bread served on campus. She&rsquo;s also started baking local ingredients into each loaf.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;We got a grain mill a few months ago, so now we buy wheat berries from local farms and incorporate some of that flour into the bread. The salt comes from Big Sur. We&rsquo;re trying to make things as local and organic as possible,&rdquo; Sanchez says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Lately, Sanchez has started experimenting with fermentation, as well. She makes her own koji, a strain of Aspergillus oryzae mold used in miso and sake. She also ferments soybeans to create tempeh, a protein that&rsquo;s featured in 1440&rsquo;s plant-based dishes.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Though mastering fermentation requires a different skill set than crafting the perfect pastry, Sanchez welcomes the challenge. In a previous bakery role, she would marvel at a colleague who spent the workday canning, pickling and making preserves. Those interests resurfaced during the pandemic, when, like many people, Sanchez spent some time contemplating her future career goals.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;Early on, I moved from savory cooking to pastry. Now, I&rsquo;m working in pastry but with this fermentation focus. It&rsquo;s an unexpected combination, but Kenny and the leadership team here help create opportunities. If you show that you&rsquo;re interested in something, they want to foster those talents and help you learn and grow and develop,&rdquo; Sanchez says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Understanding both the pastry and savory sides of cooking have helped her bridge gaps and bring new ideas to 1440&rsquo;s Kitchen Table. In her shift toward fermentation and preservation, for example, Sanchez is moving the culinary program closer to its zero-waste goals. Ingredients that don&rsquo;t get used at peak freshness might be turned into jams or vinegars, rather than being discarded. She&rsquo;s also started crafting house-made kombucha, and she&rsquo;s working to introduce seasonal drink specials in the campus cafe.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;This is an ever-changing place. If you have something new to bring to the table, there&#39;s always room for it,&rdquo; Sanchez says. &ldquo;The team here is open and receptive to ideas that will make things better, and that&#39;s really different from places where the rules are the rules.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>While working at 1440 allows Sanchez to pursue her passions and personally impact the organization, it has also changed how she views the relationship between working and living.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&quot;Restaurant kitchens can be really taxing, and this is such a different kind of place. There are so many opportunities to step away and have more balance here,&rdquo; she says.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>When she talks with individuals interested in joining the 1440 team, she emphasizes both that balance and a true sense of camaraderie across the campus.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;You have to see it to understand it. I just feel like we all get along, and everyone genuinely cares about each other,&rdquo; Sanchez says. &ldquo;I also haven&#39;t experienced anywhere else this level of balance between working hard and being able to take a walk or take a breath when you need to. This is a really great place to be.&quot;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/careers">Choose a Career With 1440 Multiversity: Explore Our Career Opportunities&nbsp;</a></strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-pastry-chef-crafts-a-sweet-success-story</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-pastry-chef-crafts-a-sweet-success-story#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 1 Mar 2022 01:40:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>Redefining Your Standards of What You Want</title><description><![CDATA[<p><em>Sarah Devereaux spent 14 years moving through training, program development and executive roles at Google. Today, she leads marketing and customer success for&nbsp;<a href="https://www.murmur.com/"><strong>Murmur</strong></a>, a platform that helps teams co-create policies, processes and work agreements that clarify their ways of working. She also offers leadership coaching and advisory services as the founder of&nbsp;Third Coast Coaching. Originally from the great state of Michigan, Sarah now lives in Colorado with her family. She is passionate about protecting the environment, lifting diverse perspectives&nbsp;and battling burnout.</em></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>I&rsquo;m getting a new tattoo today, and I&rsquo;m a little nervous about it. Not because I think it will hurt (I know it will), or because I&rsquo;m not in love with the design (it&rsquo;s gorgeous). No, I&rsquo;m nervous about what my mother will think. I can almost see her disapproving eyes now, softly whispering, &ldquo;how could you?&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Worrying about what others might think of our decisions &ndash; from the shoes we buy to the people we marry &ndash; is a far greater force in our lives than many of us care to admit. We operate under the assumption that all of our choices are entirely our own. The truth is that humans are wired for mimetic desire. Throughout our lives, we are continually searching for models &ndash; people who seem like they have it together &ndash; to shape and validate our choices.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>As babies, models are incredibly helpful for reaching developmental milestones like walking and talking. But as adults, models often do more harm than good, leading us to define our success and even our self-worth by the standards of others. For most of us, there&rsquo;s no way to eliminate mimetic desire entirely from our lives. However, it is possible to increase your awareness of it &ndash; to better understand when a desire, an expectation or a measure of success is truly your own &ndash; so you can make more fulfilling choices.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Here are two not-so-simple steps that can help you on your way:&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Step 1: Figure out what you actually want&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p>This first step is the hardest. When your life has been molded by the desires, judgements and expectations of others, it&rsquo;s super difficult to separate what you actually want from what you&rsquo;ve trained yourself to think you want. Identifying areas of your life that may be over-influenced by others is a great place to start, but it&rsquo;s no small task. It requires an honest evaluation of your decision-making and a willingness to admit when you aren&rsquo;t acting as the captain of your own ship.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Did you really want more responsibility at work, or were chasing that promotion to &ldquo;keep up&rdquo; with your peers? Are you desperately in love with where you live, or did you move there for the ZIP code? Was Stanford (or Harvard, or USC, or you get the picture) really your dream school, or did you apply because it would look good on your resume?&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Take a look at your choices in the following categories: Career, relationships, personal appearance, leisure time, purchasing and self-improvement. Then ask yourself: &ldquo;Am I truly making these decisions for me, or am I trying to live up to the expectations of others?&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Not every decision will be entirely your own, and that&rsquo;s a good thing! We humans are social creatures and we often make decisions that benefit the other humans in our lives. The goal of this exercise is not to make sure that every decision you make is only benefiting you. The goal is to raise your self-awareness and be honest about &ldquo;the why&rdquo; behind your decisions so you can adjust where needed and be more satisfied with the outcomes. Be patient; this will take some time.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Step 2: Rewrite your accomplishment narrative&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p>Many of us define accomplishment according to the milestones we reach in life. Milestones that are usually set by someone else, or society at large, and often center around material accumulation and social status.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>There&rsquo;s a formula we&rsquo;re all supposed to follow. And if we deviate from the plan &ndash;&nbsp;if we dare to want something different or somehow seem like we&rsquo;re sliding backwards &ndash;&nbsp;we feel like outsiders, or even failures. There&rsquo;s this constant pressure to want more than what we have, and to go after it with every ounce of energy we can muster. Nothing is ever good enough, and the constant onslaught of shiny advertisements and sparkling social media feeds create nearly inescapable temptation to keep achieving at all costs. It&rsquo;s no wonder that burnout is through the roof and we&rsquo;re more depressed (yet wealthier) than ever before. &nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Take some time and actually write down your accomplishment narrative. What do you believe about accomplishment and the role it plays in your life? Consider stepping back from social media for a while (4-6 weeks usually yields the best results) and pay attention to how it makes you feel. Look for cues in your daily life that may be influencing how you define success. Once you feel like you&rsquo;ve gathered enough information, write out your narrative again and see what changes.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Every great learning moment starts with a great question:&nbsp;</strong></p>

<ul class="ckbullet">
	<li>What standards are you holding yourself to that were set by someone else?&nbsp;</li>
	<li>What are the things in life that truly bring you joy? How much time do you spend on them?&nbsp;</li>
	<li>How busy do you feel on a regular basis? Is your current level of busyness serving you?&nbsp;</li>
	<li>How do you define accomplishment? Where do you think that definition comes from? &nbsp;What roles do joy, simplicity, and stillness play?&nbsp;</li>
	<li>How mindful are you when it comes to social media consumption? What feelings do you notice when scrolling through Twitter or browsing TikTok? How do you feel when you do (or don&rsquo;t) have something to post?&nbsp;</li>
</ul>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/redefining-your-standards-of-what-you-want</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/redefining-your-standards-of-what-you-want#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 30 Dec 2021 21:55:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>Living a Hybrid Life</title><description><![CDATA[<p><em>Sarah Devereaux spent 14 years moving through training, program development and executive roles at Google. Today, she leads marketing and customer success for&nbsp;<a href="https://www.murmur.com/"><strong>Murmur</strong></a>, a platform that helps teams co-create policies, processes and work agreements that clarify their ways of working. She also offers leadership coaching and advisory services as the founder of&nbsp;Third Coast Coaching. Originally from the great state of Michigan, Sarah now lives in Colorado with her family. She is passionate about protecting the environment, lifting diverse perspectives, and battling burnout.</em></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>At the beginning of the summer, it seemed like the coronavirus pandemic was winding down in the U.S. Positivity rates were dropping across much of the country, people were starting to gather again, and many vaccinated Americans were shedding their masks in public. We started to dream of normalcy. We started to make plans.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Companies released their &ldquo;return to office&rdquo; guidelines and hybrid work manifestos. There was a deluge of studies, how-to guides, and opinion pieces on how to make hybrid work successful. That &ldquo;new normal&rdquo; that everyone had been talking about was right around the corner, and we were going to be ready for it. And then, just as quickly as our hope appeared, it vanished. Delta had arrived.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>The concept of hybrid work always seemed a little off to me. It somehow felt like we were trying to take aspirin after major surgery. It just wasn&rsquo;t the right solution. The world of work is being overturned, and the challenges we face can&rsquo;t be solved by yet another set of rules, even if they are more flexible. We need approaches that maximize trust, support, and flexibility if we are to combat rising burnout and be ready for whatever our increasingly uncertain world throws at us next. New rules and restrictions on when, where, and how we work will only leave us vulnerable to more costly disruptions.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Perhaps, as is so often the case, we&rsquo;re asking the wrong question. Maybe it&rsquo;s not how we build hybrid workplaces or define hybrid work. Maybe we need to be asking: How can we build hybrid lives? Here are a few ideas of where to start.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Reject the work-life balance lie</strong></p>

<p>Let&rsquo;s get this one out of the way: Work-life balance doesn&rsquo;t exist (it probably never did) and we need to stop chasing it. The truth is that each of us is one being living one life. It&rsquo;s incredibly difficult to separate our &ldquo;personal lives&rdquo; from our &ldquo;work lives&rdquo; because it&rsquo;s all just one tangle of experiences and emotions. Driving an arbitrary wedge between the two just reduces self-awareness, vulnerability, and care while increasing stress. We need to allow ourselves to be whole human beings leading whole lives, and urge our companies to develop policies and norms that reflect that reality. There are a lot of options here, but flexible hours, WFA (work from anywhere) policies, and unlimited vacation are a few good places to start. Flexibility is a very personal thing. There is no one-size-fits-all approach when it comes to the rhythm of your life, which is why policies that give workers more freedom over how they spend their time tend to yield the biggest rewards for everyone.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Focus on results, not time</strong></p>

<p>In the U.S., despite all of the buzz around flexibility, many of us are still shackled to the idea of working more than 40 hours per week, Monday through Friday. Yet everything else in our lives (including our energy) doesn&rsquo;t operate on such a predictable timetable. Having full flexibility around when, where, and how we work gives us the freedom to focus on results vs. time, and allows us to be more productive in fewer hours. It&rsquo;s important to be open to breaking with convention and working (or not working!) outside of what&rsquo;s considered &ldquo;normal.&rdquo; Understanding your productivity signals will help. Personally, I tend to yawn and fidget when it&rsquo;s time to step away from a piece of work. If I push through, I might finish, but it&rsquo;ll typically take me two or three times longer and leave me pretty cranky and depleted. Sometimes not working when I feel like I should is actually what&rsquo;s best for the work, and my relationship to it. Learn to read your own signals, and then ask for what you need to be at your best.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Set permeable boundaries</strong></p>

<p>Boundary setting is a favorite tactic of wellbeing gurus and work-life balance advocates. It can be effective, when used in moderation and held lightly. It&rsquo;s when boundaries become rigid rules that they decrease in value. It&rsquo;s important to have a general idea of where your boundaries are, but you also need to trust your judgement and realize when it&rsquo;s appropriate to flex. One way to do this is to identify your &ldquo;non-negotiables.&rdquo; These could be daily must-haves, like taking a walk with your dog every morning, or goals that you&rsquo;re trying to hit in a less specific timeframe. For me, I try to have at least five mornings of yoga and three school drop-offs per week. Sometimes I have to pivot, and I end up picking up instead of dropping off and my yoga gets squeezed in after the kids are in bed (and let&#39;s be real, sometimes none of it happens at all!),&nbsp;but my mindset around it allows every adjusted target to feel like a choice instead of a failure.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>It&rsquo;s also important to communicate when you&rsquo;re planning on flexing in a way that may affect others. If I&rsquo;m just not feeling it on a Thursday morning and I decide to take the rest of the day off and make up the work over the weekend, I make sure my team is aware, but also my family. There is no greater guilt for me than a little voice asking why I&rsquo;m working on a Saturday. No matter what you do, emotions will likely run high while you&rsquo;re finding your sweet spot around the way you work. But I find setting expectations and discussing the trade-offs helps a ton.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Every great learning moment starts with a great question.</strong></p>

<ol class="ckbullet">
	<li>How has the work-life balance lie shown up in your life? What&rsquo;s been the impact?</li>
	<li>What&rsquo;s your approach to productivity? Is it working for you?</li>
	<li>What does well-being look like for you in a world of vanishing boundaries?</li>
	<li>What do you need to ask for in order to build a successful hybrid life? Who do you need to ask?</li>
	<li>If you&rsquo;re a manager, how can you better support your team in these areas?</li>
</ol>

<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/living-a-hybrid-life</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/living-a-hybrid-life#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 25 Sep 2021 04:32:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>The Buzz in the Garden</title><description><![CDATA[<p><em>Our vision at 1440 is creating hope for living well, and as we Wonder Well and investigate current ecological crises our inquiry naturally leads to the buzz around honeybees. We continue to educate ourselves and initiate important conversations such as this one with local beekeeper, Molly Eaton; we have three hives on campus; and we maintain our gardens in ways that support honeybees. Molly&rsquo;s expertise shines light on how honeybees help facilitate the regenerative process for all life on earth, what we can do to support them, and ways to enjoy the delicious honey they produce.</em></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em><strong>1440: We are so excited you have installed beehives at 1440 last year. What can you tell us about your involvement in the project?</strong></em><br />
<strong>Molly Eaton: </strong>My company, Northern Roots Bee Co., installs and maintains beehives for our corporate and residential clients. Our mission is to restore healthy honeybee populations in the Bay Area, engage companies and communities in a unique sustainability initiative, and educate people about the importance of pollinators.&nbsp;Our goal is to pollinate 200,000 acres of land in the greater Bay Area with thriving honeybee colonies. We installed three beehives at 1440 in 2020, and the bees have already pollinated over 36,000 acres of land in the Scotts Valley community.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em><strong>1440: We have been hearing for years how important it is that we turn our attention to bees. What is the environmental impact that every little step, like installing hives here, can have?&nbsp;</strong></em><br />
<strong>Molly: </strong>The importance of honeybees cannot be overstated. They are the world&rsquo;s number-one pollinator and are responsible for pollinating over 80 percent of the Earth&rsquo;s plants. Their pollination services increase biodiversity which make ecosystems more resilient and productive. Honeybees also increase the quality and quantity of our fruits, vegetables, and nuts. Every garden plays a crucial role in the health of bees. A garden filled with pollinator-friendly plants provides them with good-quality pollen and nectar that sustains the 50,000 bees that make up the hive.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em><strong>1440: How would you explain the importance of honeybees to someone who is not an expert?</strong></em><br />
<strong>Molly:</strong> Honeybees are an indicator species, which means their health is reflective of the health of our planet. Knowing that they&#39;re in trouble is indicative of where we are as a world. Honeybees have lived on Earth for the last 100 million years and have been crucial in the evolution of the plants and animals that exist today. Our entire agricultural system is dependent on honeybees for pollination. Without honeybees our food system would crumble.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em><strong>1440: What has been one of the biggest threats to bees?</strong></em><br />
<strong>Molly: </strong>There are many threats impacting our honeybee population, but one of the most concerning is our reliance on pesticides, specifically neonicotinoids. Neonicotinoids are a systemic pesticide which means that they are absorbed into the plant and are present in the nectar and pollen that the bees consume as food. Imagine that a honeybee visits a flower to collect nectar or pollen that is contaminated with pesticides. Oftentimes, the bee will die immediately after ingestion. But sometimes the pesticides will affect the bee&rsquo;s ability to navigate home, so the bee becomes lost on the long journey back to the hive and dies.If the forager bee is able to make it back into the hive, the bee will feed the contaminated food to the babies. Those babies grow up on poisonous food and then, from a young age, their immune system, the microbiome of their gut, their mobility, and the development of their brain are all affected. And so, they&#39;re less able to fight off the various diseases and parasites that they&#39;re already dealing with.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em><strong>1440: It&rsquo;s helpful to know that pesticides being sprayed are not only unhealthy for us as humans, but also are affecting the pollinators.</strong></em><br />
<strong>Molly: </strong>Pesticides are extremely damaging to our honeybee population, soil, water supply, food, and us. Many people don&rsquo;t realize the severity of our honeybee crisis. Last spring we lost over 40 percent of our honeybee population in America. This is largely due to our agricultural system&rsquo;s reliance on pesticides, large scale monoculture crops, migratory beekeeping practices, a lack of nutritious forage, as well as disease and parasites.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em><strong>1440: Explain how eliminating bees, even if unintentional, is posing a huge threat to the food we buy and eat.</strong></em><br />
<strong>Molly: </strong>In America, one out of every three bites of food that we eat is thanks to a honeybee. Food like melons, berries, coffee, avocados, nuts, cucumbers&mdash;even alfalfa which is essential for our meat and dairy&mdash;are all pollinated by honeybees. If we continue to lose our honeybee population at the current rate, certain foods will become impossible or very difficult to find in supermarkets. The price of our food will drastically increase which will impact people&rsquo;s wellness and financial security.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em><strong>1440: How did you start learning about bees and becoming so passionate about them?</strong></em><br />
<strong>Molly: </strong>I tasted the most incredible honey from Maine Beekeepers. I had never tasted anything like it. It led me to wonder how bees made something so pure and delicious. I started learning all about bees: how they pollinate our crops in search of nectar and pollen; how they turn nectar into honey; how the majority of the bees in a hive are females who are responsible for all of the hive duties. I became absolutely fascinated with them! Once I moved to Santa Cruz I invested in beehives and started Northern Roots Bee Co.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>1440: What can we do in our everyday lives to act with more conscientiousness about the life of bees?</strong><br />
<strong>Molly: </strong>If you have the time, space, and resources, create a garden. Or try something as simple as putting a pot of rosemary out on your front step that you let go to flower. When you buy seeds, starters, and soil, be sure they weren&#39;t already treated with pesticides. If you provide bees with a pesticide-free, healthy source of nectar and pollen, you&#39;re doing wonders for them.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Also, become a beekeeper! There are so many great books, beekeeping mentors, and local clubs that can help you get started. I guarantee you&rsquo;ll be just as fascinated with them as I am.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Finally, support bees and beekeepers by buying local, raw honey at the farmer&rsquo;s market. Most of the honey available at the large grocery stores has been overheated and over-filtered which removes all of the beneficial enzymes, vitamins, and pollen from the honey. Sometimes the honey can even be contaminated with artificial sweeteners like rice syrup or high fructose corn syrup.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em><strong>1440: Doesn&rsquo;t it help our immunity when we choose local honey? What are some of the most fun ways to eat honey?</strong></em><br />
<strong>Molly: </strong>Yes, local honey definitely improves our immunity thanks to the small grains of pollen in raw, unfiltered honey. I feel like I put honey on everything! I love the combination of rosemary crackers, goat cheese, and orange blossom honey drizzled on top. I put honey in smoothies, in tea, and on oatmeal. My mom used to cook carrots in a little bit of butter, honey, and salt; it&#39;s so good. For dessert, I love almond butter and dark chocolate chips with honey on top.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em><strong>1440: You&rsquo;ve given us so much inspiration for doing our part in the face of what seems like a large challenge for the bees.&nbsp;</strong></em><br />
<strong>Molly: </strong>Yes, the plight of honeybees can be overwhelming to think about. I truly believe that small actions made by individuals, organizations, and communities&mdash;such as hosting a beehive or planting a pollinator-friendly garden&mdash;can lead to a collective momentum toward creating a bee-friendly world.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>To learn more about how to use honey and other garden ingredients in your home kitchen,</strong> <u><a href="https://www.1440.org/teaching-kitchen-weekends"><strong>register for a 1440 Teaching Kitchen Weekend</strong></a></u>.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-buzz-in-the-garden</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-buzz-in-the-garden#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 2 Sep 2021 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>Just C.H.I.L.L.: Introspection to Live a Refreshed Life</title><description><![CDATA[<p><em>Diane Flynn is Co-Founder and CEO of ReBoot Accel, designing work cultures that support and promote women and underrepresented groups. She consults with Fortune 500 companies on diverse and inclusive cultures, and co-authored The Upside, presenting the business case for diverse workplaces and best practices for tapping the potential of women. Diane facilitates workshops on professional presence and impact, and coaches leaders on maximizing results and finding personal fulfillment, and is the lead faculty for <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/work-well-weekend">Reboot &amp; Refresh: A 1440 Work Well Weekend on August 27-29</a></strong> at the 1440 Multiversity campus.</em></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>I have been fortunate over the last 15 months to have the chance to slow down, reflect and just &quot;be.&rdquo; I am so grateful to those who have been working the front lines, keeping me and my loved ones safe and nourished, and I am also thinking carefully about the new normal I plan to cultivate. I don&#39;t relish the idea of ramping up to my pre-pandemic over-scheduled life and I&rsquo;m committed to not fall back into the patterns that don&rsquo;t serve my updated life.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>While these days of living within the boundaries of an invisible fence have been challenging in many ways, a life in quarantine brought many gifts. The sum of it? I&#39;d like more still and more C.H.I.L.L. &nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Here are the things I intend to retain in the days ahead &ndash; long after the masks, sweats and slippers become a distant memory, and I hope they inspire you to take the same look at your life to establish inspiration for moving forward in a new refreshed way.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<ol class="ckbullet">
	<li><strong>Creativity.</strong> Life at home, primarily spent in my newly groomed backyard, has revealed itself as a space where curiosity and creativity can take flight. I&#39;ve enjoyed margin &ndash; extra space &ndash; in my days to slow down and think creatively about life, opportunities and new approaches to old ways. I&#39;ve savored blogs, journaled, and spawned some new book ideas, all of which have been energizing. Creativity, I&#39;ve discovered, is the antidote to boredom and confinement. I&#39;ve even grown some roses &ndash; a perfect Zoom background!</li>
	<li><strong>Healthy Diet. </strong>Little did I know how much I&#39;d enjoy cooking. Making and baking bread, experimenting with samples from my pandemic-inspired herb garden and enjoying a healthier lifestyle of preparing home-cooked meals have all nourished me in new ways. Before COVID I was a regular on the eat-out circuit, so this new routine of prepping meals and eating outdoors is good for my soul as well as my waistline.</li>
	<li><strong>Introspection. </strong>Without the busyness of commutes, traffic and shopping, I have learned to ponder and process &ndash; something that author and Georgetown University professor Cal Newport writes about in his book, Deep Work. I have found this work to be not only immensely gratifying, but supportive to the evolution of my business. While historically seeing myself as a strong extrovert, I have come to know my cloistered introvert. Giving myself time to meditate, pray and reflect is something I definitely intend to keep in my life going forward.&nbsp;</li>
	<li><strong>Long Walks. </strong>Less gas guzzling and more foot bustling have resulted in time for podcasts, TED Talks and good old thinking. The extra mileage around the neighborhood has led to new connections and reflections, both of which have served me and my neighborhood well. &nbsp;Walks &ndash; whether alone or with a friend &ndash; are keepers.&nbsp;</li>
	<li><strong>Lazy Evenings. </strong>Without the need to glam up and show up at numerous events, I&#39;ve enjoyed long evenings in comfy clothes, playing Scrabble with my husband, watching provocative docudramas, hosting intimate backyard socials and enjoying other simple pleasures. Memories of camping with my kids and relaxing outdoors in the warm Minnesota evenings of my childhood have been rekindled and reenacted &ndash; something I realized I deeply missed (minus the mosquitos).&nbsp;</li>
</ol>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Going forward I won&rsquo;t squander the gifts discovered through the pandemic. Instead, I will consciously exercise my power to choose &ndash; leaving in my rear-view mirror the tiring commutes, waiting in traffic, large impersonal gatherings and busyness that often made up my life pre-pandemic. Here&#39;s to a C.H.I.L.L. balance of 2021, filled with creativity, introspection, healthy eating, walking and quiet evenings at home. Wishing you all an abundant post-pandemic harvest.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>If you are also seeking time to reboot and recharge, consider joining me at 1440 Multiversity for a long, slow and reflective weekend with a small group of like-hearted women and men on August 27-29, 2021. <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/work-well-weekend">Learn more and register here</a>.&nbsp;</strong><br />
&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/just-chill-introspection-to-live-a-refreshed-life</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/just-chill-introspection-to-live-a-refreshed-life#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 17 Aug 2021 18:13:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>Eat Well, Live Well: Notes from the 1440 Kitchen</title><description><![CDATA[<p>The culinary experience at 1440 Multiversity is one that extends far beyond a meal. In fact, it is a central tenet of the 1440 journey that provides education, sustenance, connection and inspiration for living well both on campus and at home. All meals at 1440 are mindfully prepared, sustainable and locally sourced from farms and growers within 300 miles of campus. Menus are seasonal, creative, and engaging, allowing guests to connect with the culinary team &ndash; and one another &ndash; over the simple pleasure of a meal that makes them feel good.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>From Joanie&rsquo;s Garden where many edible florals and ingredients grow, to the Teaching Kitchen that provides a foundation of learning about &ldquo;food as medicine,&rdquo; to Kitchen Table that serves every meal on campus from the heart, the 1440 Culinary Team nurtures each guest of 1440 throughout their stay. Each week the 1440 Culinary Team &ndash; chefs, gardeners, and partners &ndash; provides a peek inside the latest happenings of all things food at 1440, with some fun thoughts and takeaways to help you live well and eat well wherever you may be.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/live-well-wonder-well-notes-from-joanies-garden"><strong>Read Notes from Joanie&rsquo;s Garden here.&nbsp;</strong></a></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>---</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>August 12, 2021: Chef Notes &ndash;&nbsp;All About Chilies</strong></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Cooking with dried chilies is a unique way to unlock different flavors that fresh chilies don&rsquo;t have. Many fresh chilies have their own type of characteristics such as heat and sweetness, and of course go great for any type of salsa, from the most common pico de gallo to a nice fire-roasted variety. But when it comes to dry chilies, flavors become more complex with different notes of sweet, spicy, fruity, smoky and savory. Having those types of flavors can really become part of great powder, sauce and even a delicious mole.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Getting a good-looking dry chili starts off with any type of chili/pepper such as jalape&ntilde;o, serrano or poblano. The fun thing about chilies is that when they dry their name changes from what it was when it was fresh. &nbsp;<br />
&nbsp;</p>

<ul class="ckbullet">
	<li>Jalape&ntilde;o = Chipotle &nbsp;</li>
	<li>Poblano Chili = Ancho&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Anaheim Chili = Chile Colorado&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Chilaca = Pasilla&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Mirasol = Guajillo&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>There was time here at 1440 Multiversity when we had an abundance of fresh chilies. We had several pounds of poblano chilies while our Campus Gardener Mike MacDonald was growing a large amount of both jalape&ntilde;o and serrano chilies. With those I was able to dry all the poblanos and turn them into ancho chilies&nbsp;which we eventually used in some of our dishes at Kitchen Table. When the jalape&ntilde;os finally dried, I took time to make an&nbsp;adobo. By placing the chipotles in the adobo, the chilies were able to rehydrate in the sauce and have an extra boost of flavor. We haven&#39;t used much of the dry serrano chilies because of their high heat level but when there&rsquo;s a chance to boost the heat of any sauce, we do.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Keep an eye out the next time you are enjoying a meal at Kitchen Table for the addition of these flavors; we hope you enjoy experiencing them as much as we enjoy preparing them!</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>--Chef Beto Rivas</em><br />
&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><br />
<img alt="" height="550" src="https://www.1440.org/resourcefiles/blogsmallimages/nicole-sanchez-bread-baking.jpg" width="770" /></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>July 28, 2021: Pastry Chef&#39;s Notes&nbsp;&ndash; Tips for Great Bread Starter</strong></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>I first started baking bread about 10 years ago while working as a Pastry Chef for the first time. The restaurant I worked at bought great local bread but I thought it would be so much more exciting to have bread made fresh in house. In the beginning I made some pretty spectacular failures of baguettes and rye loaves that were as heavy and dense as a concrete slab. That same year the Tartine Bread Book came out which highlighted the process by which Chad Robertson of Tartine Bakery in San Francisco makes its famous bread. I went from dense bread to making a sloppy sticky mess that couldn&rsquo;t possibly form anything resembling a loaf. I decided to work in a local bakery part-time to learn in person. I learned so much about local flour, sourdough starter maintenance and baking in a wood-fired oven.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>After working at that bakery for some time I opened a bakery with some friends in the Santa Cruz Mountains, then went on to work at Manresa Bread where we really put a lot of focus into the quality of local grain, milling flour in-house and incorporating it all into both breads and pastries which I had not seen before. We utilized different varieties of ancient grain I was not familiar with and saw how it affected the flavor and texture of the bread.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>I brought those learnings to 1440, and making bread for our campus is such a wonderful catalyst to showcase the amazing local ingredients we are fortunate enough to have so close. We can make a loaf with Ancient Wheat Berries like Einkorn that we mill in-house (with our brand new Komo Mill!), incorporate salt harvested from Big Sur, and use some amazing produce that Gardener Mike grows in Joanie&rsquo;s Garden, all fermented with a sourdough starter that is fed twice a day. Most recently I made a loaf with roasted garlic, rosemary and sauteed garlic scapes from Joanie&rsquo;s Garden. I have my eye on the Poblano Peppers that Gardener Mike has been growing for a fun loaf of bread, and I&rsquo;m looking forward to serving this and our other creations soon on your upcoming visit to the 1440 campus!</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Are you interested in trying your own bread baking? Here are my tips for a great sourdough starter:</p>

<ol class="ckbullet">
	<li>It is important to feed your starter on a consistent schedule to get the happiest sourdough starter. The starter will regulate itself and be ready to &ldquo;eat&rdquo; at the time you train it to expect to be fed. I typically keep my established starter in the refrigerator. When I want to make bread I pull the starter out the morning before, feed it once in the morning and once in the evening, and by the next morning it&rsquo;s typically ready to mix! When I&rsquo;ve used what I needed I feed it again and put it directly into the refrigerator and just feed every week or so to keep it active if I&rsquo;m not baking within that time.&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Starting a sourdough starter from scratch is fun and a labor of love&hellip;but if you have a friend with a sourdough starter that is willing to give you a bit of theirs it&rsquo;s so much easier to start. There are also places online&nbsp;where you can purchase&nbsp;sourdough starters (both fresh and dehydrated) to get a jump start on the process.&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Feed your starter a mix of flour. I typically like to use a 50/50 blend of All Purpose Flour and Whole Wheat Flour. Using only All Purpose Flour will work, but I find a starter is so much more active when you also incorporate a blend of Whole Wheat Flour.</li>
	<li>Start simple. It is much easier to start out with a bread that doesn&rsquo;t have a high water content and then increase your water as your hands get more practiced. Start with a recipe labeled for beginners making sourdough;&nbsp;there are also many videos online detailing the entire process.</li>
	<li>Have patience. From start to finish it typically take about three days for me to get a finished loaf of bread and a lot of work in between. Also, patience with yourself and learning the process. &nbsp;For many, sticking your hands into a sticky ball of flour and water is a new experience. It will take some time to get used to and find ways to keep yourself and your kitchen clean.&nbsp;</li>
</ol>

<p>Happy baking! I hope my story, and these tips, provide you inspiration to try making your own bread at home.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>--Pastry Chef Nicole Sanchez</em></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>July 13, 2021: Executive Chef&rsquo;s Notes &ndash; How Preserving Ingredients During the Pandemic Turned into an Adventure in Miso</strong></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p style="text-align:center"><img alt="" height="550" src="https://www.1440.org/resourcefiles/blogsmallimages/notes-from-the-kitchen-miso.jpg" width="770" /></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>In March 2020, the 1440 campus temporarily closed for public operations due to the pandemic, shifting its focus to philanthropic and community building initiatives. As a result, we had food inventory that would have gone to waste &ndash; but instead of going into the compost, our staff looked to fermentation to salvage any food that was left over. One of those fermentation techniques I found fascinating was creating miso. I had made traditional miso in the past, but never with untraditional Japanese ingredients. I walked into our largest refrigeration unit and noticed pounds pistachios, one of my favorite&#39;s ingredients. Then looked to our dry storage and noticed a large amount of white beans. The rest is history!&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Miso is a key ingredient in Japanese cooking and forms the base of many soups, marinades, and sauces. The paste is typically a mixture of beans, (traditionally soybeans), sea salt, and koji inoculated rice or grain, and depending on the variety of ingredients, miso can be smooth or chunky and is fermented anywhere from 3 months to years.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>I decided to create a pistachio and white bean miso using traditional Japanese technique, with the ingredients inspired by our 1440 menu. The process takes patience &ndash; lots of patience &ndash; in some ways reminiscent of a meditation. Each ingredient needs to be taken care of in a special way: The pistachios were cooked three times to remove any impurities, then hand-crushed to keep their texture. The beans cooked slowly with kombu and water, the water changed three times during the process to make sure no flavors would concentrate from the starches, and the koji rice needed to be dried out and kept in a very sanitary environment to not bloom before being added to the other ingredients. When you combine the miso ingredients the smell is sweet, funky and savory all at the same time. Once incorporated you then pack the miso into tight balls, removing all the air that you can, then stack that mixture in a ferment crock, weighed down before a long snap in a cool dark place.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>I chose to ferment my miso for a full year, tracking every three months to see, smell and taste the changes. I was never disappointed through the process as I learned more and more about this ancient technique. I feel gratitude for those who paved the road before me, and all the miso that I had worked with but never knew or appreciated&nbsp;until I started my own. The last three months of the aging were the hardest &ndash; like a child the night before Christmas, I could not wait to try the pistachio miso. When the miso hit the one-year mark, I decided to taste it in the most simple way by making a bowl of miso soup. The aroma from the soup was bright, sweet, deep in pistachio flavor and umami forward. This one jar of miso has now inspired the 1440 kitchen to create 12 different misos and counting.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>This inspiring technique is one that I will continue to learn from and inspire every kitchen I work in to create new flavors by simply not wasting the beautiful food we procure. A zero-waste kitchen is a focused and hard goal, but we are on our way with inspiring techniques like miso.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>--Executive Chef Kenny Woods </em>&nbsp;</p>
]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/eat-well-live-well-notes-from-the-1440-kitchen</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/eat-well-live-well-notes-from-the-1440-kitchen#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2021 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>Eat Well, Live Well: Notes from the 1440 Kitchen</title><description><![CDATA[<p>The culinary experience at 1440 Multiversity is one that extends far beyond a meal. In fact, it is a central tenet of the 1440 journey that provides education, sustenance, connection and inspiration for living well both on campus and at home. All meals at 1440 are mindfully prepared, sustainable and locally sourced from farms and growers within 300 miles of campus. Menus are seasonal, creative, and engaging, allowing guests to connect with the culinary team &ndash; and one another &ndash; over the simple pleasure of a meal that makes them feel good.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>From Joanie&rsquo;s Garden where many edible florals and ingredients grow, to the Teaching Kitchen that provides a foundation of learning about &ldquo;food as medicine,&rdquo; to Kitchen Table that serves every meal on campus from the heart, the 1440 Culinary Team nurtures each guest of 1440 throughout their stay. Each week the 1440 Culinary Team &ndash; chefs, gardeners, and partners &ndash; provides a peek inside the latest happenings of all things food at 1440, with some fun thoughts and takeaways to help you live well and eat well wherever you may be.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/live-well-wonder-well-notes-from-joanies-garden"><strong>Read Notes from Joanie&rsquo;s Garden here.&nbsp;</strong></a></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>---</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>August 12, 2021: Chef Notes &ndash;&nbsp;All About Chilies</strong></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Cooking with dried chilies is a unique way to unlock different flavors that fresh chilies don&rsquo;t have. Many fresh chilies have their own type of characteristics such as heat and sweetness, and of course go great for any type of salsa, from the most common pico de gallo to a nice fire-roasted variety. But when it comes to dry chilies, flavors become more complex with different notes of sweet, spicy, fruity, smoky and savory. Having those types of flavors can really become part of great powder, sauce and even a delicious mole.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Getting a good-looking dry chili starts off with any type of chili/pepper such as jalape&ntilde;o, serrano or poblano. The fun thing about chilies is that when they dry their name changes from what it was when it was fresh. &nbsp;<br />
&nbsp;</p>

<ul class="ckbullet">
	<li>Jalape&ntilde;o = Chipotle &nbsp;</li>
	<li>Poblano Chili = Ancho&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Anaheim Chili = Chile Colorado&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Chilaca = Pasilla&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Mirasol = Guajillo&nbsp;</li>
</ul>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>There was time here at 1440 Multiversity when we had an abundance of fresh chilies. We had several pounds of poblano chilies while our Campus Gardener Mike MacDonald was growing a large amount of both jalape&ntilde;o and serrano chilies. With those I was able to dry all the poblanos and turn them into ancho chilies&nbsp;which we eventually used in some of our dishes at Kitchen Table. When the jalape&ntilde;os finally dried, I took time to make an&nbsp;adobo. By placing the chipotles in the adobo, the chilies were able to rehydrate in the sauce and have an extra boost of flavor. We haven&#39;t used much of the dry serrano chilies because of their high heat level but when there&rsquo;s a chance to boost the heat of any sauce, we do.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Keep an eye out the next time you are enjoying a meal at Kitchen Table for the addition of these flavors; we hope you enjoy experiencing them as much as we enjoy preparing them!</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>--Chef Beto Rivas</em><br />
&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><br />
<img alt="" height="550" src="https://assets.milestoneinternet.com/1440-multiversity/site-images/blog-images/nicole-sanchez-bread-baking.jpg" width="770" /></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>July 28, 2021: Pastry Chef&#39;s Notes&nbsp;&ndash; Tips for Great Bread Starter</strong></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>I first started baking bread about 10 years ago while working as a Pastry Chef for the first time. The restaurant I worked at bought great local bread but I thought it would be so much more exciting to have bread made fresh in house. In the beginning I made some pretty spectacular failures of baguettes and rye loaves that were as heavy and dense as a concrete slab. That same year the Tartine Bread Book came out which highlighted the process by which Chad Robertson of Tartine Bakery in San Francisco makes its famous bread. I went from dense bread to making a sloppy sticky mess that couldn&rsquo;t possibly form anything resembling a loaf. I decided to work in a local bakery part-time to learn in person. I learned so much about local flour, sourdough starter maintenance and baking in a wood-fired oven.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>After working at that bakery for some time I opened a bakery with some friends in the Santa Cruz Mountains, then went on to work at Manresa Bread where we really put a lot of focus into the quality of local grain, milling flour in-house and incorporating it all into both breads and pastries which I had not seen before. We utilized different varieties of ancient grain I was not familiar with and saw how it affected the flavor and texture of the bread.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>I brought those learnings to 1440, and making bread for our campus is such a wonderful catalyst to showcase the amazing local ingredients we are fortunate enough to have so close. We can make a loaf with Ancient Wheat Berries like Einkorn that we mill in-house (with our brand new Komo Mill!), incorporate salt harvested from Big Sur, and use some amazing produce that Gardener Mike grows in Joanie&rsquo;s Garden, all fermented with a sourdough starter that is fed twice a day. Most recently I made a loaf with roasted garlic, rosemary and sauteed garlic scapes from Joanie&rsquo;s Garden. I have my eye on the Poblano Peppers that Gardener Mike has been growing for a fun loaf of bread, and I&rsquo;m looking forward to serving this and our other creations soon on your upcoming visit to the 1440 campus!</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Are you interested in trying your own bread baking? Here are my tips for a great sourdough starter:</p>

<ol class="ckbullet">
	<li>It is important to feed your starter on a consistent schedule to get the happiest sourdough starter. The starter will regulate itself and be ready to &ldquo;eat&rdquo; at the time you train it to expect to be fed. I typically keep my established starter in the refrigerator. When I want to make bread I pull the starter out the morning before, feed it once in the morning and once in the evening, and by the next morning it&rsquo;s typically ready to mix! When I&rsquo;ve used what I needed I feed it again and put it directly into the refrigerator and just feed every week or so to keep it active if I&rsquo;m not baking within that time.&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Starting a sourdough starter from scratch is fun and a labor of love&hellip;but if you have a friend with a sourdough starter that is willing to give you a bit of theirs it&rsquo;s so much easier to start. There are also places online&nbsp;where you can purchase&nbsp;sourdough starters (both fresh and dehydrated) to get a jump start on the process.&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Feed your starter a mix of flour. I typically like to use a 50/50 blend of All Purpose Flour and Whole Wheat Flour. Using only All Purpose Flour will work, but I find a starter is so much more active when you also incorporate a blend of Whole Wheat Flour.</li>
	<li>Start simple. It is much easier to start out with a bread that doesn&rsquo;t have a high water content and then increase your water as your hands get more practiced. Start with a recipe labeled for beginners making sourdough;&nbsp;there are also many videos online detailing the entire process.</li>
	<li>Have patience. From start to finish it typically take about three days for me to get a finished loaf of bread and a lot of work in between. Also, patience with yourself and learning the process. &nbsp;For many, sticking your hands into a sticky ball of flour and water is a new experience. It will take some time to get used to and find ways to keep yourself and your kitchen clean.&nbsp;</li>
</ol>

<p>Happy baking! I hope my story, and these tips, provide you inspiration to try making your own bread at home.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>--Pastry Chef Nicole Sanchez</em></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>July 13, 2021: Executive Chef&rsquo;s Notes &ndash; How Preserving Ingredients During the Pandemic Turned into an Adventure in Miso</strong></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p style="text-align:center"><img alt="" height="550" src="https://assets.milestoneinternet.com/1440-multiversity/site-images/blog-images/notes-from-the-kitchen-miso.jpg" width="770" /></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>In March 2020, the 1440 campus temporarily closed for public operations due to the pandemic, shifting its focus to philanthropic and community building initiatives. As a result, we had food inventory that would have gone to waste &ndash; but instead of going into the compost, our staff looked to fermentation to salvage any food that was left over. One of those fermentation techniques I found fascinating was creating miso. I had made traditional miso in the past, but never with untraditional Japanese ingredients. I walked into our largest refrigeration unit and noticed pounds pistachios, one of my favorite&#39;s ingredients. Then looked to our dry storage and noticed a large amount of white beans. The rest is history!&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Miso is a key ingredient in Japanese cooking and forms the base of many soups, marinades, and sauces. The paste is typically a mixture of beans, (traditionally soybeans), sea salt, and koji inoculated rice or grain, and depending on the variety of ingredients, miso can be smooth or chunky and is fermented anywhere from 3 months to years.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>I decided to create a pistachio and white bean miso using traditional Japanese technique, with the ingredients inspired by our 1440 menu. The process takes patience &ndash; lots of patience &ndash; in some ways reminiscent of a meditation. Each ingredient needs to be taken care of in a special way: The pistachios were cooked three times to remove any impurities, then hand-crushed to keep their texture. The beans cooked slowly with kombu and water, the water changed three times during the process to make sure no flavors would concentrate from the starches, and the koji rice needed to be dried out and kept in a very sanitary environment to not bloom before being added to the other ingredients. When you combine the miso ingredients the smell is sweet, funky and savory all at the same time. Once incorporated you then pack the miso into tight balls, removing all the air that you can, then stack that mixture in a ferment crock, weighed down before a long snap in a cool dark place.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>I chose to ferment my miso for a full year, tracking every three months to see, smell and taste the changes. I was never disappointed through the process as I learned more and more about this ancient technique. I feel gratitude for those who paved the road before me, and all the miso that I had worked with but never knew or appreciated&nbsp;until I started my own. The last three months of the aging were the hardest &ndash; like a child the night before Christmas, I could not wait to try the pistachio miso. When the miso hit the one-year mark, I decided to taste it in the most simple way by making a bowl of miso soup. The aroma from the soup was bright, sweet, deep in pistachio flavor and umami forward. This one jar of miso has now inspired the 1440 kitchen to create 12 different misos and counting.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>This inspiring technique is one that I will continue to learn from and inspire every kitchen I work in to create new flavors by simply not wasting the beautiful food we procure. A zero-waste kitchen is a focused and hard goal, but we are on our way with inspiring techniques like miso.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>--Executive Chef Kenny Woods </em>&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/eat-well-live-well-notes-from-the-1440-kitchen</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/eat-well-live-well-notes-from-the-1440-kitchen#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2021 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Community-Building While Cooking: A Visit to Food What?!</title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.foodwhat.org/"><strong>Food What?!</strong></a> is an organization that aspires to inspire, and its goal is to nurture its youth participants&rsquo; relationships with land, food and each other. The way the Santa Cruz nonprofit does this is what makes the group special, along with being&nbsp;a wonderful&nbsp;mission-aligned fit in the 1440 Multiversity <a href="https://www.1440.org/our-purpose/live-well"><strong>Live Well</strong></a>&nbsp;and <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/our-purpose/love-well">Love Well</a></strong>&nbsp;learning pillars.&nbsp;</p>

<p>1440 Multiversity Executive Chef Kenny Woods was introduced to FoodWhat in 2018 through produce deliveries that 1440 receives from Santa Cruz Farmers Market, and he connected with FoodWhat founder and director Doron Comerchero. Shortly after, Chef Kenny began volunteering his time at the FoodWhat site on the University of California, Santa Cruz campus &ndash; located just 10 miles from 1440 Multiversity &ndash; which is complete with an outdoor cooking space, edible gardens, meal tables, greenhouses and even a chicken coop. From there he was hooked.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;It opened a new passion for me,&rdquo; Chef Kenny says. &nbsp;&ldquo;I look back at my timeline and what food means to me, and then I get to share that passion.&rdquo;</p>

<p style="text-align:center"><img alt="foodwhat-chef-food-photo" height="500" src="https://assets.milestoneinternet.com/1440-multiversity/site-images/blog-images/foodwhat-chef-food-photo.jpg" width="700" /></p>

<p>At the end of July, Chef Kenny and members of the 1440 team visited the FoodWhat campus in what has become an annual tradition. Teens were able to cook a meal together with Chef Kenny as he shared his knowledge on food and recipes; what he&rsquo;s learned through personal experience; and what he&rsquo;s gained from cooking with others. One participant said he was hesitant to join the program at first but has now been a part of FoodWhat for two years.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;The first time I didn&rsquo;t sign up for it, but then I thought, &lsquo;Oh well it sounds cool, maybe I&rsquo;ll give it a try,&rsquo; and I really liked it,&rdquo; the teen said. &ldquo;So I kept doing it.&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>

<p>Some participants had hesitations jumping into the day&rsquo;s cooking projects, but by the end they were all engaged in activity. Six teens prepared a meal alongside Chef Kenny, which included fresh vegetables, fruits and herbs from the FoodWhat campus garden. Others cleaned dishes and chatted amongst each other, or tended to the garden, but one thing they all did in unison was connect and enjoy each other&rsquo;s company.&nbsp;</p>

<p style="text-align:center"><img alt="foodwhat-peaches" height="500" src="https://assets.milestoneinternet.com/1440-multiversity/site-images/blog-images/foodwhat-peaches.jpg" width="700" /></p>

<p>Participants learn in a hands-on way at FoodWhat, have the opportunity to see how the ingredients come together to make a dish and how each dish collectively creates the family meal. Once the meal is ready, each of the youth who helped with the meal stands before their peers and introduces what they made and how they made it, as they did on this visit. &nbsp;</p>

<p>Chef Kenny is known for combining ingredients that may seem uncommon but are critical for the &quot;food as medicine&quot; nutrition philosophy of 1440, and the teens were able to taste the difference in an eye-opening way. Most of them were surprised at how unique and delicious everything was, as they were skeptical of the new techniques at first. By the end of the 1440 meal, after most went back for seconds or even thirds, there was no food left over.</p>

<p>Following the 1440 visit to FoodWhat, Chef Kenny heard from one participant who told him he cooked a meal for his family using what he learned from the day, showing just how powerful the knowledge and inspiration of food can be in bringing people together. Another participant shared, &ldquo;I just feel like everyone is so family oriented; it&rsquo;s a close-knit community. It&rsquo;s made me think more about agriculture and nature, and just made me be more open-minded about cooking.&rdquo; Others relayed to Chef Kenny how they are now inspired to pursue a culinary career someday, or cook more often for their friends and loved ones.</p>

<p>FoodWhat strives to bring the local community closer in a fun and engaging way, and it&rsquo;s clear that this program feeds its youth in more ways than one. That&rsquo;s the beauty in trying something new &ndash; you just might enjoy it.&nbsp;</p>

<p>To learn more about Food What, please visit <a href="https://www.foodwhat.org/our-story"><strong>FoodWhat.org</strong></a>.</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/community-building-while-cooking-a-visit-to-food-what</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/community-building-while-cooking-a-visit-to-food-what#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 6 Aug 2021 20:25:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Breathe, Center, and Listen: Flexing with Life Changes</title><description><![CDATA[<p><em>Sarah Devereaux spent 14 years moving through training, program development and executive roles at Google. Today, she leads marketing and customer success for <a href="https://www.murmur.com/">Murmur</a>, a platform that helps teams co-create policies, processes and work agreements that clarify their ways of working. She also offers leadership coaching and advisory services as the founder of <a href="https://thirdcoastcoaching.com/">Third Coast Coaching</a>. Originally from the great state of Michigan, Sarah now lives in Colorado with her family. She is passionate about protecting the environment, lifting diverse perspectives, and battling burnout.</em></p>

<p>When I was laid off from Google in October 2020, I panicked. Even though our finances were fine, and I&rsquo;d been talking about leaving for years, I initially freaked out. It was a big change, and it felt out of my control &ndash; like it was being done to me instead of something I was choosing for myself. I felt off-balance, insecure, and rejected, even though deep down it was what I really wanted.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Humans are, to some extent, creatures of habit. Way back, when hunter gatherers roamed the hills of Silicon Valley instead of tech executives, our habits were key to our survival. We recognized patterns in our environment that kept us sheltered and fed. We built stability and security through our communities. Maintaining the status quo was literally a matter of life and death.&nbsp;</p>

<p>So, it&rsquo;s not surprising that when we&rsquo;re faced with a major life change, like leaving a job, that we perceive it as a threat. And when we&rsquo;re under threat, we generally don&rsquo;t make the best decisions. The good news is that even though humans tend to resist change, we&rsquo;re actually pretty good at it. Once we get ourselves to accept the situation, we typically rise to the challenge in spectacular fashion.&nbsp;</p>

<p>When it comes to career transitions, emotions and insecurities often run high. It&rsquo;s important to breathe, center, and listen before jumping into action. The steps below can help.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Be patient, don&rsquo;t panic.&nbsp;</strong><br />
When change is upon us, our instinct is to act. Whether you&rsquo;ve realized it&rsquo;s time to leave a job or someone else has realized it for you, it&rsquo;s normal to feel the need to do something to regain control. Don&rsquo;t do that. It&rsquo;s a horrible idea. Be patient and resist the urge to jump into something else right away. Give the situation time to develop &ndash; to breathe. Let yourself transition out of the &ldquo;threat zone&rdquo; before you decide what&rsquo;s next. Even if it feels like a slam dunk, the first option is rarely the best.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Acknowledge your feelings.</strong><br />
Transitions are emotional, regardless of the cause. Even positive changes can bring up feelings of insecurity, uncertainty, and nervous excitement. It&rsquo;s important to acknowledge your feelings for what they are, not bury them. If you&rsquo;re angry after being laid off, be angry. If you&rsquo;re nervous about stepping into a bigger role, be nervous. Give yourself a moment to feel what you&rsquo;re feeling. But, it&rsquo;s equally important to know when to set your emotions aside so you don&rsquo;t become subjected to them, and can look at the situation with a clear head and an open heart.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Redefine what success means to you.&nbsp;</strong><br />
We often measure our success against outside expectations. Between parents, friends, colleagues, and social media, it can feel like our decisions and accomplishments are under constant scrutiny (we&rsquo;re all supposed to be VPs with two startups under our belts and a Tesla in the garage by the time we&rsquo;re 29, right?). There&rsquo;s this idealized image out there of what &ldquo;success&rdquo; looks like that almost dares us to want something different. And if we take the dare &ndash; &nbsp;if we&rsquo;re happy with less &ndash; then there must be something wrong with us (there&rsquo;s not, for what it&rsquo;s worth). Career transitions are a great time to shed the external standards and redefine what success looks like for you. Throw out the rule book and get to work writing your own.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Assess the (actual) trade-offs.&nbsp;</strong><br />
Just about everyone has commitments and restrictions to consider when making a career change (if you don&rsquo;t, congratulations! Please tell us how you did it.). It might be making the mortgage payment or keeping up with school tuition for the kids. Or maybe it&rsquo;s staying close to aging parents or finding a job that won&rsquo;t require a spouse or partner to change jobs, too. Whatever is on your list, it&rsquo;s important to know what your non-negotiables are so you know what you&rsquo;re working with when it comes to trade-offs (and there will always be trade-offs).&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Adopt a learning mindset.&nbsp;</strong><br />
Far too many of us look at a career transition as a destination instead of a journey. We often think our next move needs to be the &ldquo;right&rdquo; move (whatever that means). But really, our next move just needs to teach us something that will help us make the move after that, and then the move after that. A career, just like life, should be a series of learning moments that build to a level of professional wisdom that&rsquo;s often missing from our accomplishment-obsessed culture. If you make a move and discover in six months that it&rsquo;s not for you, resist the temptation to label it a failure. A short stint doesn&rsquo;t mean you failed. It means you learned. Embrace that, and then go learn something else.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Reflection Questions&nbsp;</strong><br />
Every great learning moment starts with a great question.&nbsp;</p>

<ol class="ckbullet">
	<li>What are my top priorities, both personal and professional?</li>
	<li>What trade-offs am I willing to make to achieve my goals?&nbsp;</li>
	<li>What&#39;s stopping me from making progress?&nbsp;</li>
	<li>What decisions am I making solely based on the expectations of others?&nbsp;</li>
	<li>What do I want to learn from my next career move?&nbsp;</li>
</ol>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/breathe-center-and-listen-flexing-with-life-changes</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/breathe-center-and-listen-flexing-with-life-changes#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2021 02:46:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>Live Well, Wonder Well: Notes from Joanie&apos;s Garden</title><description><![CDATA[<p>The culinary experience at 1440 Multiversity is one that extends far beyond a meal. In fact, it is a central tenet of the 1440 journey that provides education, sustenance, connection and inspiration for living well both on campus and at home. All meals at 1440 are mindfully prepared, sustainable and locally sourced from farms and growers within 300 miles of campus. Menus are seasonal, creative and engaging, allowing guests to connect with the culinary team &ndash; and one another &ndash; over the simple pleasure of a meal that makes them feel good.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Joanie&rsquo;s Garden allows guests to stroll through a wonderland of growth, ranging from beds of produce that vary each season to arches of tomatoes and snap peas. Edible florals and herbs are sprinkled throughout, often appearing as garnishes in meals served at Kitchen Table. There is a &ldquo;Joanie&rsquo;s Garden crew,&rdquo; as Campus Gardener Mike MacDonald calls them, comprised of critters that help foster an optimal environment, including the resident honeybees that call the garden home.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Follow along and Wonder Well as Gardener Mike shares his culinary updates, from what&rsquo;s growing and thriving to what is being harvested, soon to find a home in the 1440 Kitchen.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/eat-well-live-well-notes-from-the-1440-kitchen"><strong>Read Notes from the 1440 Kitchen here.&nbsp;</strong></a></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>---</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>July 8, 2021: Garden Notes &ndash; Thriving Produce in the California Heat Wave</strong></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Poblano peppers and Persian cucumbers are taking off, big time. They&rsquo;ve been loving the warmer weather and have started getting big and lush and producing fruit. Pea trellises are transitioning to tomato trellises, and I&rsquo;m adding compost to the beds as I plant the next succession of crops.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>On the harvest list for the week are dragon&rsquo;s tongue beans, new potatoes, purple carrots, Meyer lemons, baby mustards and mizuna, red and green scallions, basil, cilantro flowers, and plenty of cut flowers for sprucing up tables and such. We have been loving putting out small vases of flowers from the garden in our public spaces for guests to enjoy; it&rsquo;s just one of the things we like to do to make the campus feel like home for those who visit.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>The garden has been producing so heavily that I&rsquo;ve been pruning herbs, bunching them and hanging them to dry for use in herbal teas and in the kitchen. The drying rack was looking a bit monotone, so I started drying flowers, too. We&rsquo;ll pepper them in on bookshelves and tables around campus in the winter when fresh flowers are hard to come by.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>--Campus Gardener Mike MacDonald&nbsp;</em></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<div style="text-align:center">
<figure class="image" style="display:inline-block"><img alt="" height="284" src="https://www.1440.org/resourcefiles/blogsmallimages/joanies-garden-tomatoes.jpg" width="398" />
<figcaption><em>An array of tomatoes have replaces sugar snap peas<br />
on the trellises in Joanie&#39;s Garden.</em></figcaption>
</figure>
</div>

<p><strong>June 24, 2021: Garden Notes &ndash; Out With Peas, In With Tomatoes</strong></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Last week&rsquo;s heat wave was an unmistakable intro to summer. This week I&rsquo;m pulling out dead and dying sugar snap peas from the trellises and replacing them with Sungold, San Marzano and Green Zebra tomatoes. As summer progresses, the tomato plants will cover the trellises, forming tunnels you can walk through while you harvest. In a future Culinary Notes post from my colleagues in the kitchen, you will read about how we preserved last year&rsquo;s tomato harvest during the pandemic &ndash; they have been a tremendous treat to start to taste now that they are ready to sample!</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Also this week, I&rsquo;m finishing up the garlic harvest, bringing cured and dry bulbs to the kitchen for use. I&rsquo;ve started pulling the first of the new potatoes, and I&rsquo;ll be slowly harvesting more of those over the next couple of weeks. Those beds will be replanted with guajillo and gochujang chili peppers, as well as some fall flowers for cutting.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Our carrot flower beds are in full production, pumping out plenty of filler for arrangements around campus. Otherwise, I&rsquo;m harvesting edible flowers and baby greens for this weekend&rsquo;s garnishes and am looking forward to what next week has in store.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>--Campus Gardener Mike MacDonald&nbsp;</em></p>
]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/live-well-wonder-well-notes-from-joanies-garden</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/live-well-wonder-well-notes-from-joanies-garden#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2021 21:37:41 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>Live Well, Wonder Well: Notes from Joanie&apos;s Garden</title><description><![CDATA[<p>The culinary experience at 1440 Multiversity is one that extends far beyond a meal. In fact, it is a central tenet of the 1440 journey that provides education, sustenance, connection and inspiration for living well both on campus and at home. All meals at 1440 are mindfully prepared, sustainable and locally sourced from farms and growers within 300 miles of campus. Menus are seasonal, creative and engaging, allowing guests to connect with the culinary team &ndash; and one another &ndash; over the simple pleasure of a meal that makes them feel good.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Joanie&rsquo;s Garden allows guests to stroll through a wonderland of growth, ranging from beds of produce that vary each season to arches of tomatoes and snap peas. Edible florals and herbs are sprinkled throughout, often appearing as garnishes in meals served at Kitchen Table. There is a &ldquo;Joanie&rsquo;s Garden crew,&rdquo; as Campus Gardener Mike MacDonald calls them, comprised of critters that help foster an optimal environment, including the resident honeybees that call the garden home.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Follow along and Wonder Well as Gardener Mike shares his culinary updates, from what&rsquo;s growing and thriving to what is being harvested, soon to find a home in the 1440 Kitchen.&nbsp;</p>

<p><a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/eat-well-live-well-notes-from-the-1440-kitchen"><strong>Read Notes from the 1440 Kitchen here.&nbsp;</strong></a></p>

<p><strong>July 8, 2021: Garden Notes &ndash; Thriving Produce in the California Heat Wave</strong></p>

<p>Poblano peppers and Persian cucumbers are taking off, big time. They&rsquo;ve been loving the warmer weather and have started getting big and lush and producing fruit. Pea trellises are transitioning to tomato trellises, and I&rsquo;m adding compost to the beds as I plant the next succession of crops.&nbsp;</p>

<p>On the harvest list for the week are dragon&rsquo;s tongue beans, new potatoes, purple carrots, Meyer lemons, baby mustards and mizuna, red and green scallions, basil, cilantro flowers, and plenty of cut flowers for sprucing up tables and such. We have been loving putting out small vases of flowers from the garden in our public spaces for guests to enjoy; it&rsquo;s just one of the things we like to do to make the campus feel like home for those who visit.&nbsp;</p>

<p>The garden has been producing so heavily that I&rsquo;ve been pruning herbs, bunching them and hanging them to dry for use in herbal teas and in the kitchen. The drying rack was looking a bit monotone, so I started drying flowers, too. We&rsquo;ll pepper them in on bookshelves and tables around campus in the winter when fresh flowers are hard to come by.</p>

<p><em>--Campus Gardener Mike MacDonald&nbsp;</em></p>

<div style="text-align:center">
<figure alt="Joanies Garden Tomatoes" class="image" style="display:inline-block"><img alt="" height="284" src="https://assets.milestoneinternet.com/1440-multiversity/site-images/blog-images/joanies-garden-tomatoes.jpg" width="398" />
<figcaption><em>An array of tomatoes have replaces sugar snap peas<br />
on the trellises in Joanie&#39;s Garden.</em></figcaption>
</figure>
</div>

<p><strong>June 24, 2021: Garden Notes &ndash; Out With Peas, In With Tomatoes</strong></p>

<p>Last week&rsquo;s heat wave was an unmistakable intro to summer. This week I&rsquo;m pulling out dead and dying sugar snap peas from the trellises and replacing them with Sungold, San Marzano and Green Zebra tomatoes. As summer progresses, the tomato plants will cover the trellises, forming tunnels you can walk through while you harvest. In a future Culinary Notes post from my colleagues in the kitchen, you will read about how we preserved last year&rsquo;s tomato harvest during the pandemic &ndash; they have been a tremendous treat to start to taste now that they are ready to sample!</p>

<p>Also this week, I&rsquo;m finishing up the garlic harvest, bringing cured and dry bulbs to the kitchen for use. I&rsquo;ve started pulling the first of the new potatoes, and I&rsquo;ll be slowly harvesting more of those over the next couple of weeks. Those beds will be replanted with guajillo and gochujang chili peppers, as well as some fall flowers for cutting.</p>

<p>Our carrot flower beds are in full production, pumping out plenty of filler for arrangements around campus. Otherwise, I&rsquo;m harvesting edible flowers and baby greens for this weekend&rsquo;s garnishes and am looking forward to what next week has in store.&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>--Campus Gardener Mike MacDonald&nbsp;</em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/live-well-wonder-well-notes-from-joanies-garden</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/live-well-wonder-well-notes-from-joanies-garden#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2021 21:37:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Our Guests Share It Best: 14 Sentiments About the 1440 Experience</title><description><![CDATA[<p>Since reopening the nonprofit 1440 Multiversity campus to the public in April, we have been fortunate to welcome hundreds of like-hearted guests to our sanctuary in the redwoods for journeys of growth, learning, healing, and the return to joy and fulfillment. Some people found 1440 through a <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/groups">mission-aligned corporate group event</a></strong>. Others were sponsored to participate in <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/philanthropic-programs/healing-our-healthcare-heroes">Healing Our Healthcare Heroes</a></strong> or booked a <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/">Rest &amp; Renewal package stay</a></strong> for a weekend of nourishing cuisine, engaging Signature Classes and time to decompress and reconnect with themselves and others.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>What many guests didn&rsquo;t expect, however, is the lasting impact that 1440 would have on them while they were here. Below are 14 sentiments from our guests that encapsulate the 1440 experience, that we hope will inspire you in your own journey of reconnecting in person.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<ol class="ckbullet">
	<li>&ldquo;<strong>My retreat experience at 1440 was life changing.</strong> Every member of the staff that I encountered was committed to creating a memorable and nourishing experience. The programming was incredible and very thoughtfully laid out. And, of course, the food, amenities, and campus were perfect. I would highly recommend 1440 to anyone ready for relaxation and rejuvenation!&rdquo;<br />
	&nbsp;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;I went to 1440 this past weekend on a solo retreat and WOW, what a gift. The grounds are beautiful, the food was INCREDIBLE, the music playing was just what I wanted to hear and the staff...the most caring, kind and helpful people I have ever interacted with. <strong>I am so glad I took the time to immerse myself within such a beautiful environment.</strong> Two nights, close to home, all to myself.&rdquo;&nbsp;<br />
	&nbsp;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;So many little things added to our experience and healing: All the bees on flowers...the gorgeous and unexpected lighting while outside in the evening...the honest passion that everyone we met shared with us when we engaged them! <strong>Chefs, Groundskeepers, Front Desk Staff, Managers...everyone was so sincere and gentle</strong>.&rdquo;&nbsp;<br />
	&nbsp;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;I had the honor and privilege to attend [the 1440] program for healing healthcare workers sponsored by our county foundation. Everything was beyond excellent &ndash; the program, the activities, the facility, the FOOD, the pace, the environment, their flexibility and openness to our needs.<strong> I had just come back from a 10-day vacation, but I felt more rejuvenated and refreshed after just one weekend</strong>.&rdquo;<br />
	&nbsp;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;The staff was outstanding; each and every one at the front desk, in the kitchen, hiking, yoga and tai chi instructors. The grounds and facilities were also truly excellent. Such a dedicated team from top to bottom. <strong>We were sad to leave! We&#39;ll be back</strong>.&rdquo;<br />
	&nbsp;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;The culture is so amazing that I want to be adopted by the 1440 family. I am in awe of the professionalism that was delivered. <strong>My group felt that we are such VIPs during our entire stay.</strong> It made a big difference when the staff was addressing us by our first names.&rdquo;<br />
	&nbsp;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;Joanie and Scott Kriens have created a remarkable retreat center, and have pivoted their mission to a place that actually changes lives. As a physician, I participated in a weekend program called &#39;Healing Our Healthcare Heroes&#39;&nbsp;along with other physicians, nurses, physical therapists, hospital managers and social workers. It was an incredible experience, with four&nbsp;amazing workshops led by true &#39;change makers&#39;&nbsp;and addressing issues that healthcare workers are dealing with after a year of COVID care &ndash; trauma, moral injury, and grief, as well as hope, growth, joy. <strong>The caliber of speakers was reminiscent of TED Talks</strong>.&rdquo;<br />
	&nbsp;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;<strong>The room was beautiful, smelled like redwoods, and was overall very relaxing</strong>. The aesthetic of the room was beautiful, uncluttered, and contributed to the overall calm.&rdquo;&nbsp;<br />
	&nbsp;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;<strong>I liked the ability to interact with the speakers on campus before and after their presentations. </strong>It was lovely that they were also at Kitchen Table, the Infinity Pool, and around campus so we could chat with them more informally and get to know them, as well.&rdquo;&nbsp;<br />
	&nbsp;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;I&#39;d love to attend again! <strong>I think you may have &#39;stolen&#39; Disneyland&#39;s &#39;The Happiest Place on Earth!</strong>&#39;&rdquo;&nbsp;<br />
	&nbsp;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;Chef Kenny is amazing. His entire team created the most unbelievably delicious food. The attention to detail was first rate. And they were all extremely friendly and accommodating. <strong>I wish I could eat there every day</strong>.&rdquo;&nbsp;<br />
	&nbsp;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;1440 has made a tremendous impact in my life. <strong>1440 has allowed me to connect with my inner-self and be OK with giving myself permission to let go and connecting with my feelings</strong>.&rdquo;<br />
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	<li>&ldquo;<strong>I would like to live at 1440. </strong>It&rsquo;s magical!&rdquo;<br />
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<p>It&rsquo;s no secret that nature anchors the 1440 Multiversity experience. The campus is rich with century-old redwoods, ferns, wildflowers and pretty, productive gardens. In fact, 1440 co-creator Joanie Kriens found inspiration for the 1440 name&nbsp; &mdash;chosen for the number of minutes available in each day &mdash; while harvesting vegetables in her own home garden.</p>

<p>1440 Campus Gardener Mike MacDonald tends to herbs, vegetables, fruit trees and edible flowers across the Santa Cruz Mountains grounds. He&rsquo;s helped the culinary team source local produce since 1440 opened, and his background in sustainable food systems and agriculture influences every aspect of his work. In addition to steering the garden&rsquo;s focus from ornamental to edible plants, MacDonald&rsquo;s goal is to produce campus-grown ingredients for every guest meal. He&rsquo;s also outlining new garden tours, along with classes on composting, biodiversity, flower arranging and related topics.</p>

<p>MacDonald especially enjoys showcasing the creatures that help campus gardens thrive.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I&#39;m always happy to walk guests through the garden, answer questions, and chat about bugs,&rdquo; he says.&nbsp;</p>

<p>MacDonald recently sat down to do just that, sharing fun facts about five important critters on the 1440 campus and recommending easy ways to strengthen habitats in our own backyards and garden beds.</p>

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<p><strong>1. Bees</strong><br />
More than 50 bee species live in central California, including native bees that nurture local ecosystems and European honeybees that pollinate our favorite foods and flowers. A diverse bee population benefits garden plants, just as diverse gardens benefit the bees themselves.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;If possible, avoid long periods with no open flowers in your garden because insects may die off or move,&rdquo; MacDonald says. &ldquo;Try to maintain a natural balance and a seasonal flow of different nectar and pollen.&rdquo;</p>

<p>Three honeybee colonies populate the 1440 campus, including one in Joanie&rsquo;s Garden. You&rsquo;ll likely spot these bees as you explore the grounds; their honey is used in special desserts and amenities, as well.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Agapostemon sightings are another treat. Commonly known as the green sweat bee, this native pollinator is a solitary bee that&rsquo;s a brilliant blend of metallic turquoise and green. Occasionally, MacDonald also spots Halictus bees.</p>

<p>&ldquo;They&rsquo;re so small that people might not realize they are bees,&rdquo; he says. &ldquo;They&rsquo;re great for pollinating small flowers, like sweet alyssum, coriander, parsley and carrot.&rdquo;</p>

<p>As you view bees, remember that they only sting when threatened. If bees get tangled in hair or clothing, for example, or they&rsquo;re protecting their hive from creatures trying to collect honey, they may buzz more aggressively. Though the natural response might be to swat, MacDonald suggests simply walking away.</p>

<p>&ldquo;When bees sting, they sacrifice their life. That really only happens as a last resort. If you&#39;re not posing a threat, they&#39;re not committed to giving up their life just to put you in 15 minutes of pain,&rdquo; he says.&nbsp;</p>

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Unlike bees, wasps continue to live after they sting. They also eat meat, which is why they often buzz around summer barbecues. &nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;Bees eat pollen and nectar, so they&#39;re not usually interested in your food. People have reason to be more wary of yellow jackets, but they&rsquo;re also important pest predators. Even though I keep my distance, I do like to see them in my garden,&rdquo; MacDonald says.</p>

<p>Yellow jackets feast on cabbage looper larvae, for example, which keeps the caterpillars from harming kale, collard greens, cabbage and other plants in the brassica family. Parasitoid wasps protect gardens by laying their own eggs inside the abdomen of certain aphids, caterpillars and other insects. As the eggs hatch and new wasps mature, they destroy the host insect.</p>

<p>While tiny parasitoid wasps are tough to spot, they typically hang around the same small flowers that attract Halictus bees&mdash;including coriander, sweet alyssum and yarrow.</p>

<p>&ldquo;There are tens of thousands of parasitoid wasp species that specialize in different host insects. Most of these wasps are less than two millimeters long. Unless you view them under a microscope or magnifying glass, you&#39;ll probably think they are gnats,&rdquo; says MacDonald.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>3. Spiders</strong><br />
Spiders, like wasps, help control common pests and support dynamic garden ecosystems. MacDonald welcomes species such as wolf spiders, which feed on grubs and caterpillars.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;I think of spiders and wasps and bees and birds as part of my garden crew,&rdquo; MacDonald says. &ldquo;The more time they spend in my garden, the less work I have to do and the healthier that garden will be.&rdquo;</p>

<p>He aims to strengthen spider populations by maintaining plant and habitat diversity. Nurturing various flowers near shrubs and trees of different heights attracts a wider variety of birds and insects. At 1440, you might spot spiders scaling the sides of raised garden beds or spinning webs on fences and trellises. MacDonald also points guests toward the fire pit, where there are fig and kumquat trees, bushes, several types of sage, and clusters of flowers.</p>

<p>&ldquo;There&#39;s a lot of diversity in that little pocket, plus it&rsquo;s a bit more accessible to anything that&rsquo;s just creeping around. Spiders there don&#39;t have to cross over gravel trails to get to the beds,&rdquo; he says.</p>

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Ladybugs also like diverse habitats. These petite predators love to eat, too, whether it&rsquo;s mildew, mites or common garden pests such as scale and aphids.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;Ladybug larvae are really, really voracious aphid eaters. Aphid infestations are common on brassicas and other plants, so if ladybugs come in and breed, you&rsquo;ll be rescued. Once you see ladybug larvae, your infestation is about to be handled,&rdquo; MacDonald says.</p>

<p>Ladybug larvae might not be considered as cute as their adult counterparts, but they&rsquo;re year-round pest fighters in central California. At least 15 ladybug species live here, including the familiar seven-spotted ladybug. Others are yellow with black spots, cream with tan and black spots, and, in the case of the western blood-red lady beetle, bright red with no spots.</p>

<p>If you peek closely at squash or cucumber plants, which are prone to powdery mildew, you might see tiny black specks. Those, too, are ladybugs.</p>

<p>&ldquo;You can see them moving, but you might mistake them for dirt if you don&rsquo;t stop to look closely. It&#39;s a very round black dot, about the size of a pinhead, with a domed back. That&rsquo;s the giveaway. Ladybugs tend to be very round with a domed back,&rdquo; says MacDonald.</p>

<p><strong>5. Birds</strong><br />
The redwoods, gardens and fruit trees of the 1440 campus house an impressive array of birds. Northern mockingbirds and Bewick&rsquo;s wrens hunt for flies and caterpillars. Red-shouldered hawks soar through the sky, scaring rodents away with their simple presence. At night, the distinctive calls of great horned owls pierce the quiet. By day, black phoebes perch on fenceposts and dive to catch moths.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;Here in Joanie&rsquo;s Garden, we have some trellises made of cattle panels bent over individual beds. I often see birds hanging out on those, flirting and watching for insects. There&#39;s a whole community scene,&rdquo; says MacDonald.</p>

<p>To attract beneficial birds to your yard or garden, he suggests planting trees, anchoring posts, installing trellises or hanging birdhouses. Birdbaths will also draw some species, and birds like to snack on sunflower seeds straight off the flower.</p>

<p>&ldquo;Gardens provide habitat, food and nesting materials for birds. Birds, in turn, will control pest populations in your garden. Also, they&rsquo;re just pleasant to watch. It&rsquo;s nice to offer them something that keeps them in your local area,&rdquo; MacDonald says.</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-creatures-for-gorgeous-gardens-and-healthier-habitats</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-creatures-for-gorgeous-gardens-and-healthier-habitats#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jun 2021 14:33:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>5 Tips for Smoother Transitions</title><description><![CDATA[<p><em>By Renee Brincks</em></p>

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<p>Sarah Devereaux spent 14 years moving through training, program development and executive roles at Google. Today, she leads marketing and customer success for Murmur, a platform that helps teams co-create policies, processes and work agreements that clarify their ways of working. She also offers leadership coaching and advisory services as the founder of Third Coast Coaching.<br />
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Devereaux&rsquo;s ontological coaching practice explores how an individual&rsquo;s language, emotions and even physical movements shape their perspectives. This holistic approach helps clients reframe challenges and create lasting change.<br />
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Change has become a constant, after more than a year of pandemic-related closures, career shifts and other unexpected events. Whether you&rsquo;re navigating a layoff or returning to the office after working remotely, Devereaux says these five steps can help you embrace transition and grow.<br />
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<strong>1. Practice self-compassion.</strong><br />
&ldquo;First, acknowledge that your situation might be really awful. Allow yourself the time to hold those feelings, objectively. Then, set them aside. Don&rsquo;t bury your feelings &mdash; just set them aside and look at the situation. Remind yourself that it&rsquo;s going to be ok. This isn&rsquo;t who you are. You&rsquo;re not a failure. You&rsquo;re not alone. The sun will rise, and you will move forward.&rdquo;<br />
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<strong>2. Pause and consider.</strong><br />
&ldquo;When something unexpected happens, many people panic instead of pausing. They try to fill that gap right away, as if speed is what matters. Actually, what matters is patience. Pause and consider what you really want to do next, so that you&#39;re not just jumping into a situation that is similar to the one you came from. It can be easy to take a role that feels comfortable, but that might not be what you want or what&#39;s actually good for you.&rdquo;<br />
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<strong>3. Prioritize ruthlessly.</strong><br />
&ldquo;It&#39;s important to understand your non-negotiables. Make a list of priorities and stack rank them. Really think through what tradeoffs you&rsquo;re willing to make, when push comes to shove. With any change, any transition, there will always be a set of hard decisions. What are you willing to let go of in order to meet your priorities and stay true to your values?&rdquo;<br />
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<strong>4. Plan flexibly.</strong><br />
&ldquo;When people create a career plan, they often want checklists and spreadsheets and strategies. But I always coach folks to think about their North Star. What&#39;s that general thing that you care about and are moving toward?<br />
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&ldquo;Try not to get too bogged down in the individual steps. Avoid thinking, &lsquo;Okay, within the next year, I&#39;m going to do these three things. Within the next five years, I will do these other three things. Then, in 10 years, I will have reached this specific goal.&rsquo; If you can, stay more nebulous. Avoid getting too attached to any particular step. Keep an open mindset, because there may be possibilities that you just never saw coming.&rdquo;<br />
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<strong>5. Be patient.</strong><br />
&ldquo;When people experience career changes, they often want to do everything at once. They feel like it&#39;s got to be all or nothing. To create lasting, sustainable change &mdash; to truly transform your life and your career &mdash; it takes time. Be patient with the process and be patient with yourself. If you can&#39;t answer all the career questions that are in front of you right away, or even within the first three or six months, it&#39;s okay.<br />
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&quot;Take a hard look at your life and what&#39;s important. If you can afford it, take some time. And if you can&#39;t, take a bridge job that will pay the bills but will also allow you to reflect and learn. Learning will lead to something bigger.<br />
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&ldquo;It can be helpful when people ask themselves, &lsquo;Did I really not see this coming? Did I want to keep working here? Is this role really what I wanted?&rsquo; Be honest with yourself. Try to set that ego, the hurt, the anger, the frustration, aside. Getting fired from a job begins a grieving process. But also, explore the moment for what it really is. For some people, it&#39;s absolutely awful. I don&#39;t want to downplay that. But it might also be the best thing that ever happens to you.&rdquo;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-tips-for-smoother-transitions</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-tips-for-smoother-transitions#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jun 2021 05:52:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>Illuminating a Path for Incarcerated Individuals</title><description><![CDATA[<p><em><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">By Renee Brincks</span></span></span></em></p>

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<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">Early in her career, Susan Olesek was invited to teach in a small prison near Houston. The sociologist and self-described lover of people introduced her class to the Enneagram, a tool that maps an individual&rsquo;s inner terrain. By studying Enneagram types &ndash; numbers ranging from one through nine that associate with particular personality qualities &ndash; Susan&rsquo;s students not only uncovered the unconscious patterns shaping their behaviors and choices, but also remembered what is right about themselves.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">Incarcerated individuals eagerly embraced their newfound self-awareness.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">&ldquo;I was struck by the light inside of those students. Some were behind bars due to tragic and violent circumstances. They&rsquo;d say, &lsquo;I did those things, but that&rsquo;s not really who I am.&rsquo; They were so hungry to understand themselves and their actions,&rdquo; Susan says. &ldquo;I saw personal transformations happening right in front of me, and it completely changed the trajectory of my life.&rdquo;</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">Susan carried that experience to a jail in California&rsquo;s Santa Clara County, where she developed a pilot program that sparked the <strong><a href="https://enneagramprisonproject.org/">Enneagram Prison Project (EPP)</a></strong>. Launched in 2012, the nonprofit is on a mission to help people understand why they do what they do by using the Enneagram. The tool inspires transformation on both sides of the bars through self-awareness, self-regulation and self-compassion.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">&ldquo;We help people understand why we do what we do,&rdquo; Susan says. &ldquo;We all have gifts. We&rsquo;re all perfect, loving and waiting to be loved. The premise is that there is nothing wrong with you, and the Enneagram is a tool that helps you discover all that is right.&rdquo;</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">Approximately 2.3 million people were in U.S. prisons, jails, detention centers and related facilities as of March 2020, says the <strong><a href="https://www.themarshallproject.org/">Marshall Project</a></strong>. The Bureau of Justice Statistics reports that the country&rsquo;s incarceration rates increased by 220 percent between 1980 and 2014. Though states spend more than $50 billion a year on corrections, U.S. recidivism rates&mdash;the rate at which released individuals return to criminal behavior&mdash;remain high. A Pew report on American prisons found that more than four in 10 offenders return to state prison within three years of their release.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">In contrast, EPP calculated for their graduates a recidivism rate of 5.35 percent in Santa Clara County jails and 10 percent in San Mateo County jails. None of the students who took the EPP program more than once recidivated. By bringing classes into places like San Quentin State Prison, San Diego&rsquo;s Richard J. Donovan Correctional Facility, and prisons and jails in Minnesota, Australia, Belgium, France and beyond, EPP reminds students that they have options.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">&ldquo;Some of our students grew up on the streets. They were raised in chaos; they lost parents to drugs or violence; they experienced horrible, traumatic, unthinkable things. Yet, they share a real human resilience,&rdquo; Susan says. &ldquo;We help people remember their best selves, and we share with them the resources they need to make fewer compulsive choices.&quot;</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">Some students enter EPP programs by referral, while others step forward to participate. The organization trains its teachers, known as EPP Guides, to share lessons across eight- to 20-week courses. Students explore their Enneagram type &ndash; for example, Type 1 is referred to as the &ldquo;Reformer&rdquo; and Type 9 as the &ldquo;Peacemaker,&rdquo; with many in between &ndash; and what it says about their instincts and motivations. Then, EPP Guides help them navigate their interior landscapes and better understand the cognitive, emotional and behavioral strategies that drive their decisions.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">&ldquo;Personality is a survival strategy that starts from childhood. We fiercely identify with our personality. It leads us to operate in a strategic way, but that happens unconsciously, unknowingly, unwittingly,&rdquo; Susan says. &ldquo;It&rsquo;s hard to change the things we can&rsquo;t see. The Enneagram is a profound tool that gets under the surface to illuminate what we are doing and why.&quot;</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">EPP Community Weaver Halida Hatic appreciates the depth of the Enneagram, and how it compassionately leads individuals home by introducing people to themselves. </span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">&ldquo;EPP&rsquo;s compassionate approach starts by looking at what&rsquo;s right about us. When we can appreciate all of who we are, we can start to do the work to understand why we do the things that we do. It is from this place of compassion and understanding that we begin to discover that we have our own agency, and that we hold the key to our personal freedom.&rdquo; Halida says. </span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">As participants heal and grow on the inside, they encourage and inspire healing and transformation in the people around them.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">Participation benefits EPP Guides as much as students, Susan adds. The opportunity to process underlying pain, recognize patterns, cultivate self-compassion and embrace the inherent good in others changes lives.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">&ldquo;We have the most remarkable family of EPP Guides, and they don&rsquo;t just wear teacher hats. They&rsquo;ve made their own journeys. They&rsquo;re able to share their own experiences, and they express as much gratitude as our students,&rdquo; she says.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">EPP, which aligns closely with the 1440 Love Well learning pillar, was one of several organizations to take part in 1440 Service Week in 2019 at the 1440 Multiversity campus. Created to thank those doing important community-building and philanthropic work, the multi-day event opens the 1440 campus to mission-aligned nonprofit organizations and invites participants to engage in workshops about social change, mindfulness, leadership, innovation and other topics to help them network and further develop their impactful work. Past Service Week speakers include author and marketing expert Guy Kawasaki and Lynne Twist, co-founder of The Pachamama Alliance and founder of The Soul of Money Institute.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">The Enneagram Prison Project and 1440 are rooted in a shared commitment to the greater good, believes Halida.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">&ldquo;As a like-hearted organization, EPP is partnering with 1440 to support people from all backgrounds&mdash;including those touched by incarceration&mdash;in remembering what is good, loving, precious, beautiful, clear, awake, joyful, alive and whole in each of us,&rdquo; she says. &ldquo;Together, we are creating space for the work of transformation, and cultivating a compassionate community that recognizes and celebrates our shared humanity. This advances EPP&rsquo;s vision of freeing people, all over the world, from the prisons of our own making.&rdquo;</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">EPP continues engaging new audiences closer to home, as well. A recent pilot program introduced the Enneagram to high school students in Los Gatos, Calif. Program panelists included some of EPP&rsquo;s public ambassadors.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">As EPP Ambassadors, these formerly incarcerated EPP graduates share their experiences and encourage others to begin personal journeys of self-understanding.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">&ldquo;The leadership of people who have been on the inside is so compelling. EPP Ambassadors inspire students, and they share a message of, &lsquo;If I can do it, you can do it.&rsquo; As for our in-custody students, they are just brilliant and insightful agents of change,&rdquo; Susan says. &ldquo;By the time they get to our classrooms, most of them realize that what they&rsquo;ve been doing hasn&rsquo;t been working. They are determined to live and find love again. When they get out and guide others in our community to do what they have done, they are the proof that change is more than possible.&rdquo;</span></span></span></p>

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<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif"><i>To learn more about the Enneagram Prison Project, please visit <strong><a href="http://enneagramprisonproject.org">enneagramprisonproject.org</a></strong>.</i></span></span></span></p>

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<p><u><strong><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">Changing lives in a lasting way</span></span></span></strong></u></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">Renee Lopez first took Enneagram Prison Project (EPP) classes while serving jail time in California. Stuck in a cycle of addiction and incarceration, he paused upon discovering his Enneagram type. At their best, Type 3s come to teach others about what&rsquo;s precious and the value inherent in our being. Type 3s are often described as driven and determined to succeed. In challenging moments, they might feel unworthy and driven to compete from a sense of neediness and emptiness. </span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">&ldquo;The descriptions fit me to a T,&rdquo; says Renee. &ldquo;I was performing, in a way. I was not connected with myself. The scary part was that I didn&rsquo;t actually know who I was.&rdquo;</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">Through EPP, Renee learned to identify deep-rooted response patterns. He defined his core values, and he practiced reacting more mindfully and intentionally. Today, Renee shares his experiences as an EPP Ambassador, and he taps into EPP lessons while caring for his mother, who lives with Alzheimer&#39;s disease.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">Self-discovery work is difficult, but Renee likens it to an exercise that builds strength over time.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">&ldquo;It&#39;s a very tense environment in custody, but on the outside, it&rsquo;s a whole different game. I&#39;m talking about the simple things, like learning to manage bank accounts or navigating a job search with a criminal history,&rdquo; he says. &ldquo;That&rsquo;s doing the work. It&rsquo;s about not giving up. It&rsquo;s about recognizing when I&#39;m getting into a panic state. It&rsquo;s about using my tools to remember that this is just one moment, not my whole life.&rdquo;</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">EPP Ambassador and Board Member Alex Senegal introduces similar lessons to individuals he meets in his EPP capacity, and to those he works with as a substance abuse counselor, minister, and program director for a faith-based re-entry program serving formerly incarcerated individuals.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">Incarceration chips away at one&rsquo;s identity and sense of purpose, Alex explains. As someone who was in and out of jail for more than two decades, he recognizes the importance of personal support on both sides of the bars.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">&ldquo;You can go to church and hear the word of God. But once you leave the building and go back into your environment, it&#39;s up to you to put things into practice,&rdquo; he says. &ldquo;We need support to do that, especially when the tools are new.&rdquo;</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">Alex found that support in EPP and its founder, Susan Olesek. While exploring his Type 9 characteristics, he learned how hiding his frustrations left him prone to anger. He developed the skills to manage unconscious habits and make different choices.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">&ldquo;I was only connected with the destructive me,&rdquo; Alex says. &ldquo;Susan&rsquo;s teaching touched on why I did what I did, and why I never connected with my own goodness. She helped me understand why it was so hard for me to stand up and be who I really am.&rdquo;</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">While it has helped him personally, Alex knows that EPP lessons can also spark wider change.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">&ldquo;Our goal is to take the Enneagram Prison Project all over the world. To get people, and our society, to start seeing what is good about each one of us would help shift the whole culture,&rdquo; he says.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">That shift so impacted Sue Lambert that she took EPP&rsquo;s eight-week course five times.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">&ldquo;When I was incarcerated, I was bound and determined to figure out what was wrong with me. Was I defective in some way? I knew right from wrong and tried to be good, but life was always rocky and now look where I was. No one had ever told me anything was &lsquo;right&rsquo; about me,&rdquo; she says.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">As an Enneagram Type 1, Sue connects with goodness and wants to improve the world. But first, she had to address past trauma, practice forgiveness and reconnect with herself.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">&ldquo;I lived with addiction and frustration, and my inner pain always shadowed my heart. I never felt good enough or worth much other than the abuse I accepted from other broken people,&rdquo; she says. &ldquo;I had to learn that love and acceptance start with me.&rdquo;</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">Today, Sue is an EPP Guide, faculty member and facilitator for the EPP Reconnecting and Ambassador programs, as well as a certified life coach. She calls her first trip inside to teach incarcerated individuals &ldquo;a surreal experience.&rdquo;</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">&ldquo;But in the classroom, students listened to me with great attention and heart. They knew I had been in their seats before, suffering like they were, struggling and feeling alone,&rdquo; she says.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">Outside of her EPP work, Sue is a proud &ldquo;nanny granny&rdquo; to her<b> </b>grandchildren.</span></span></span></p>

<p><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:normal"><span style="font-family:Arial,sans-serif">&ldquo;I now have close relationships with my family, and many relationships and connections with my EPP family, too. I&rsquo;m able to love them, and many others, with a depth connected to my heart and soul,&rdquo; Sue says. &ldquo;This program has not just changed my life. It has actually<i> saved </i>my life.&rdquo; </span></span></span></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/illuminating-a-path-for-incarcerated-individuals</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/illuminating-a-path-for-incarcerated-individuals#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 19 May 2021 00:20:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Challenges and Opportunities in Uncertain Times: A 1440 Q&amp;A with Michelle Maldonado</title><description><![CDATA[<p><em>As a faculty member and Senior True North Fellow for the <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/leadership-center">1440 Multiversity Leadership Center</a></strong>&rsquo;s flagship <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/leadership-center/true-north-leadership">True North Leadership</a></strong> program (to be held October 17-22, 2021 at the 1440 campus), <strong>Michelle Maldonado</strong> guides participants through inner work that helps them lead with authenticity and emotional intelligence. The founder and CEO of <strong><a href="https://www.lucenscia.com/">Lucenscia</a></strong>, a firm dedicated to human flourishing and mindful business transformation, recently shared her insights and inspiration with 1440.</em></p>

<p><br />
<strong><em>1440: </em>It&rsquo;s said that everyone is a leader, yet stepping up and into leadership can be scary. How can managers encourage individual contributors to show more leadership?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>The pandemic has created multiple disruptors. As a leader, you&#39;re trying to figure out what to do when your world is upside down, while also understanding how you can help others lead themselves and their teams.</p>

<p>It&rsquo;s really important for all of us to get comfortable with the unknown, and to feel vulnerability or afraid. You can model that it&rsquo;s okay to not know all the answers right now. Think about how we traditionally run and operate businesses. We plan and create strategic models and long-term timelines. But now, a lot of those strategic plans have to be short-term because everything is so dynamic. Reassuring people that there is a safety net in the midst of the uncertainty is important.</p>

<p>Often, when the economy or market circumstances shift, there is an opportunity for internal reinvestment. So, another thing we can do is to encourage people to invest in their own development.&nbsp;</p>

<p style="text-align:center"><img alt="" height="295" src="https://assets.milestoneinternet.com/1440-multiversity/site-images/blog-images/michelle-maldonado-1.jpg" width="336" /></p>

<p><strong><em>1440:</em> What, exactly, is a mindful leader and how do you become one? Why is it important?</strong></p>

<p>The definition I use for mindfulness is borrowed from the <strong><a href="https://www.themindfulnessinitiative.org/mindful-nation-report">Mindful Nation UK report</a></strong> (a 2015 policy document published on behalf of the UK Mindfulness All-Party Parliamentary Group). That definition involves paying attention to the present moment, including the mind, body and surrounding environment, with an attitude of curiosity and kindness.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Mindfulness as a leader weaves in more context. Yes, you&#39;re paying attention to what&#39;s happening right now. But a leader also has to be aware of what impact current actions have on the future. How do you stay fully in the present moment, knowing that you&#39;re planning and preparing for what&#39;s next?&nbsp;</p>

<p>It&#39;s not just about the organization. If you think about awareness in three concentric circles, the innermost being self, the next being others, and the third being ecosystems and surrounding environments, you see that the self travels through to all of the other circles. Mindful leaders are fully present and aware of our thoughts and what&#39;s showing up in our bodies, so that we can be more intentional and skillful in how we interact.&nbsp;</p>

<p>As leaders, if we don&#39;t bring more substantive awareness to the internal world, we are not leading with the level of clarity that creates cohesion, coherence and psychological safety in our organizations. All of that, together, helps to create the conditions for belonging and unity at work.</p>

<p><strong><em>1440: </em>The pandemic has affected people differently. How can leaders stay open to the varying needs of their organizations, communities and families, while also getting the support they need?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>There is a saying that we&#39;re all weathering the storm in the same ocean. A lot of people end that by saying that we&#39;re all in the same boat, so we sink or swim together. But in reality, not all boats are equipped equally or equitably.&nbsp;</p>

<p>When we think about how to ensure that the needs of work teams, families or other communities are met, we must consider that each person brings a different set of circumstances. The pandemic is also exacerbating a lot of what has always happened in U.S. society. We&#39;re facing social and racial issues, health issues, and education issues. None of it is new, but it is all at the surface at the same time. Sometimes, this makes it feel impossible to clearly and concretely plan for the future.</p>

<p>So, what do we do? Varying organizational needs sometimes can feel like they&#39;re in conflict with the needs of leaders, employees, even families and communities. If nothing else, the pandemic has really opened the door for us to think about ecosystems. When we make decisions, we have to think about the ripples across those ecosystems. We need to be creative and curious about the support and resources we provide not only for performance-related matters, but also for mental health and well-being along with new ways to create work-life harmony.</p>

<p>If we really think about what &quot;normal&rdquo; was before, we know that it wasn&rsquo;t healthy for many people and it certainly wasn&#39;t equitable. There&#39;s no going back. We now have an incredible opportunity to think about ecosystems differently and redefine what support and resources look like.</p>

<p><strong><em>1440: </em>We are all gifted with 1,440 minutes each day. How are you spending your daily 1,440 minutes differently, as a result of the pandemic?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>I&rsquo;ve gotten really intentional about replenishing, nurturing, and resetting my energies. It&rsquo;s good to start there because whatever we have in our own well is what we&#39;re pulling from to give to others.</p>

<p>I&rsquo;m spending a lot more time outside. We have a wonderful national park with a waterfall nearby, and so I frequently hike along that waterfall. If you have some breaks throughout the day, instead of staying at the computer or jumping on a social call, take time to put your face in the sunshine.&nbsp;</p>

<p>I&rsquo;m also more focused on nutrition and mindful eating. Pre-pandemic, I was just eating before my next call or my next meeting or my next trip to the airport. Now, I&#39;m very intentional about sitting down, eating slowly, tasting the food, noticing the texture and the aromas. I am not on my phone. I am not in front of my computer. I&#39;m not standing up.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>1440:</em> How does stress impact our ability to lead well?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>Dr. Kelly McGonigal has this wonderful <strong><a href="https://www.ted.com/talks/kelly_mcgonigal_how_to_make_stress_your_friend">Ted Talk on stress</a></strong>. Here&#39;s what she says the science suggests: The way we think about stress can change the body&#39;s response to it.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Dr. McGonigal&rsquo;s research recommends that we reframe our perception of stress and anxiety. Try acknowledging it. Think, &ldquo;This is not a bad thing. This is simply my body&#39;s way of summoning energy for what I&#39;m about to do next.&quot; This difference in how you receive and perceive that stress triggers a positive domino effect in the body&rsquo;s physical response.&nbsp;</p>

<p>I&#39;m not suggesting that we don&#39;t acknowledge what&#39;s happening in our country and the world, or that what shows up in our micro-ecosystems and organizations isn&#39;t real. What I am suggesting is that in acknowledging what is present, we also can infuse the present moment with opportunity.</p>

<p>We bring the stress that we&rsquo;re carrying into work, even when we&rsquo;re not aware. It can exhaust us. It can cloud our judgement, and it clouds our ability to see challenges as opportunities for our organizations and teams. And all of that can impact not only morale, but also culture, climate and performance.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>1440: </em>Looking back at the leadership challenges of 2020, what would you encourage leaders to let go of? Or do more of?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>The pandemic has allowed social conditions to come to the surface all at once. What we&#39;ve seen in the U.S., since the murders of George Floyd, Ahmaud Arbrey and Breonna Taylor, is that what&rsquo;s in society is in work, as well. What happens in the personal happens in the professional.&nbsp;</p>

<p>As leaders, one of the best things we can do is to stop otherizing or &ldquo;breaking,&rdquo; which is a term used by john a. powell<strong> </strong>of the <strong>Othering &amp; Belonging Institute at UC Berkeley</strong>. Breaking is how we put people in categories. There&#39;s us and there&#39;s them. We do this outside and inside of work, and if we step back and look, we know that this debilitates society and debilitates organizations.&nbsp;</p>

<p>When people feel like they belong, when there is psychological safety, there&#39;s so much that can happen&mdash;innovation and connection and higher-level performance and resilience and engagement. This is the first step to creating cultures of belonging and unity. If we fuse this with compassion, which is a must-have inside and outside of the workplace, it is very powerful.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Extending compassion to ourselves and to others allows us to do what powell calls &ldquo;bridging.&rdquo; Bridging is creating that belonging and unity to help people to feel safe, to take risks, to raise new ideas. When people feel comfortable inside of their environments, you start to see a real shift.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>1440:</em> As we move beyond diversity to racial equity in the workplace, how do you guide leaders working to build racially equitable cultures?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>First, an anecdote to explain my perceptions around this. I&#39;m a former corporate/technology lawyer. In my first semester of law school, we took a two-credit course in ethics. Then, we barely talked about ethics again. That&#39;s how I feel we often treat things like diversity, equity, inclusion and belonging. We treat them as stand-alone, siloed topics.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Diversity alone doesn&#39;t solve the problem. That&#39;s why we&#39;re now talking about what is beyond equality. We&rsquo;re looking more at equity. But this goes beyond even that. This is about belonging and unity.&nbsp;</p>

<p>When you think about diversity and inclusion, these are tactics to produce an end result. The end result we want is an organization, a community, a nation of people who feel like they belong. And, we want unity. We can&rsquo;t just focus on belonging and community. We have communities everywhere, but there&#39;s not always unity among them.&nbsp;</p>

<p>I also think we need an integrated approach to leadership training&mdash;not simply labeling separate diversity and inclusion training. Even in titling these efforts, we marginalize them by making them separate and apart from what leaders do. Teach leaders what we expect from them. Show them how to lead for everyone. This integrated, interdependent, interconnected weaving into the fabric of operations and leadership is important if we are going to make sustainable systemic change.</p>

<p style="text-align:center"><img alt="" height="295" src="https://assets.milestoneinternet.com/1440-multiversity/site-images/blog-images/michelle-maldonado-2.jpg" width="336" /></p>

<p><strong><em>1440: </em>Leaders need to keep growing, too. How can they better themselves and prepare for the future?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>Personal-professional development is important, but today&rsquo;s leaders also need to expand beyond being tactical and process-oriented.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Before the pandemic, there were already predictions that by 2025 a certain percentage of jobs would be lost to technology. Initial indications show that the net loss is lower than the net gain, but there will still need to be reskilling and role repurposing. Much of that will require fine-tuned people skills, emotional intelligence and compassion.&nbsp;</p>

<p>So yes, think about how your role will transform over the next few years. But also, expand your practical skills in parallel with your people skills. Everyone has worked with that one person who left scorched earth behind them. Maybe they were a big revenue producer or got the big deals done, but nobody wanted to work with them. That kind of behavior is not sustainable, and it&#39;s not good for organizations or the ecosystem. Leaders can proactively train themselves to be more emotionally intelligent.</p>

<p><strong><em>1440: </em>What can remote leadership look like?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>This is a tough one, because part of leading is making that human connection. It&rsquo;s that in-person act of stopping by somebody&#39;s office, checking in on them, taking a walk, having a cup of coffee in the break room. You can still call someone or have a video chat, but because everybody is on virtual platforms, there is some fatigue.&nbsp;</p>

<p>It&rsquo;s also hard because everybody has very full plates. We need to be creative in our quest to make people feel supported and connected, without creating more exhaustion. One of the things we can ask people is, &ldquo;How are you doing, really?&rdquo; Another important one, is &ldquo;What can I do, as a leader of this team, to help support you?&rdquo; A lot of people are afraid to ask those questions, because they&#39;re afraid of criticism or they&#39;re afraid of being vulnerable. But I think that the best way, in these times, is to simply ask the question.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>1440: </em>What are you looking forward to next at 1440 Multiversity?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>If health and travel conditions permit, I hope that we can resume the <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/leadership-center/true-north-leadership">True North Leadership</a></strong> program in the fall. It&rsquo;s one of my favorite collaborations, because it is so life-changing and transformative for leaders across industries. I have a <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/leadership-center/disrupting-workplace-bias">Disrupting Workplace Bias workshop</a></strong> at the 1440 Leadership Center that I look forward to hosting, as well.&nbsp;</p>

<p>I think those two opportunities, together, are great reflections of how 1440 is trying to help cultivate leadership wealth for everyone, across industries.<br />
&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/leadership-center/true-north-leadership">Apply now for True North Leadership, to be held October 17-22, 2021 at the 1440 Multiversity campus in Scotts Valley, California.</a></strong></p>

<p><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/groups">Host your group event at 1440 and add a Leadership Center session to your program. Learn more and submit an RFP.&nbsp;</a></strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/challenges-and-opportunities-in-uncertain-times-a-1440-qa-with-michelle-maldonado</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/challenges-and-opportunities-in-uncertain-times-a-1440-qa-with-michelle-maldonado#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2021 20:59:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>Challenges and Opportunities in Uncertain Times: A 1440 Q&amp;A with Michelle Maldonado</title><description><![CDATA[<p><em>As a faculty member and Senior True North Fellow for the <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/leadership-center">1440 Multiversity Leadership Center</a></strong>&rsquo;s flagship <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/leadership-center/true-north-leadership">True North Leadership</a></strong> program (to be held October 17-22, 2021 at the 1440 campus), <strong>Michelle Maldonado</strong> guides participants through inner work that helps them lead with authenticity and emotional intelligence. The founder and CEO of <strong><a href="https://www.lucenscia.com/">Lucenscia</a></strong>, a firm dedicated to human flourishing and mindful business transformation, recently shared her insights and inspiration with 1440.</em></p>

<p><br />
<strong><em>1440: </em>It&rsquo;s said that everyone is a leader, yet stepping up and into leadership can be scary. How can managers encourage individual contributors to show more leadership?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>The pandemic has created multiple disruptors. As a leader, you&#39;re trying to figure out what to do when your world is upside down, while also understanding how you can help others lead themselves and their teams.</p>

<p>It&rsquo;s really important for all of us to get comfortable with the unknown, and to feel vulnerability or afraid. You can model that it&rsquo;s okay to not know all the answers right now. Think about how we traditionally run and operate businesses. We plan and create strategic models and long-term timelines. But now, a lot of those strategic plans have to be short-term because everything is so dynamic. Reassuring people that there is a safety net in the midst of the uncertainty is important.</p>

<p>Often, when the economy or market circumstances shift, there is an opportunity for internal reinvestment. So, another thing we can do is to encourage people to invest in their own development.&nbsp;</p>

<p style="text-align:center"><img alt="" height="295" src="https://assets.milestoneinternet.com/1440-multiversity/site-images/blog-images/michelle-maldonado-1.jpg" width="336" /></p>

<p><strong><em>1440:</em> What, exactly, is a mindful leader and how do you become one? Why is it important?</strong></p>

<p>The definition I use for mindfulness is borrowed from the <strong><a href="https://www.themindfulnessinitiative.org/mindful-nation-report">Mindful Nation UK report</a></strong> (a 2015 policy document published on behalf of the UK Mindfulness All-Party Parliamentary Group). That definition involves paying attention to the present moment, including the mind, body and surrounding environment, with an attitude of curiosity and kindness.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Mindfulness as a leader weaves in more context. Yes, you&#39;re paying attention to what&#39;s happening right now. But a leader also has to be aware of what impact current actions have on the future. How do you stay fully in the present moment, knowing that you&#39;re planning and preparing for what&#39;s next?&nbsp;</p>

<p>It&#39;s not just about the organization. If you think about awareness in three concentric circles, the innermost being self, the next being others, and the third being ecosystems and surrounding environments, you see that the self travels through to all of the other circles. Mindful leaders are fully present and aware of our thoughts and what&#39;s showing up in our bodies, so that we can be more intentional and skillful in how we interact.&nbsp;</p>

<p>As leaders, if we don&#39;t bring more substantive awareness to the internal world, we are not leading with the level of clarity that creates cohesion, coherence and psychological safety in our organizations. All of that, together, helps to create the conditions for belonging and unity at work.</p>

<p><strong><em>1440: </em>The pandemic has affected people differently. How can leaders stay open to the varying needs of their organizations, communities and families, while also getting the support they need?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>There is a saying that we&#39;re all weathering the storm in the same ocean. A lot of people end that by saying that we&#39;re all in the same boat, so we sink or swim together. But in reality, not all boats are equipped equally or equitably.&nbsp;</p>

<p>When we think about how to ensure that the needs of work teams, families or other communities are met, we must consider that each person brings a different set of circumstances. The pandemic is also exacerbating a lot of what has always happened in U.S. society. We&#39;re facing social and racial issues, health issues, and education issues. None of it is new, but it is all at the surface at the same time. Sometimes, this makes it feel impossible to clearly and concretely plan for the future.</p>

<p>So, what do we do? Varying organizational needs sometimes can feel like they&#39;re in conflict with the needs of leaders, employees, even families and communities. If nothing else, the pandemic has really opened the door for us to think about ecosystems. When we make decisions, we have to think about the ripples across those ecosystems. We need to be creative and curious about the support and resources we provide not only for performance-related matters, but also for mental health and well-being along with new ways to create work-life harmony.</p>

<p>If we really think about what &quot;normal&rdquo; was before, we know that it wasn&rsquo;t healthy for many people and it certainly wasn&#39;t equitable. There&#39;s no going back. We now have an incredible opportunity to think about ecosystems differently and redefine what support and resources look like.</p>

<p><strong><em>1440: </em>We are all gifted with 1,440 minutes each day. How are you spending your daily 1,440 minutes differently, as a result of the pandemic?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>I&rsquo;ve gotten really intentional about replenishing, nurturing, and resetting my energies. It&rsquo;s good to start there because whatever we have in our own well is what we&#39;re pulling from to give to others.</p>

<p>I&rsquo;m spending a lot more time outside. We have a wonderful national park with a waterfall nearby, and so I frequently hike along that waterfall. If you have some breaks throughout the day, instead of staying at the computer or jumping on a social call, take time to put your face in the sunshine.&nbsp;</p>

<p>I&rsquo;m also more focused on nutrition and mindful eating. Pre-pandemic, I was just eating before my next call or my next meeting or my next trip to the airport. Now, I&#39;m very intentional about sitting down, eating slowly, tasting the food, noticing the texture and the aromas. I am not on my phone. I am not in front of my computer. I&#39;m not standing up.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>1440:</em> How does stress impact our ability to lead well?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>Dr. Kelly McGonigal has this wonderful <strong><a href="https://www.ted.com/talks/kelly_mcgonigal_how_to_make_stress_your_friend">Ted Talk on stress</a></strong>. Here&#39;s what she says the science suggests: The way we think about stress can change the body&#39;s response to it.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Dr. McGonigal&rsquo;s research recommends that we reframe our perception of stress and anxiety. Try acknowledging it. Think, &ldquo;This is not a bad thing. This is simply my body&#39;s way of summoning energy for what I&#39;m about to do next.&quot; This difference in how you receive and perceive that stress triggers a positive domino effect in the body&rsquo;s physical response.&nbsp;</p>

<p>I&#39;m not suggesting that we don&#39;t acknowledge what&#39;s happening in our country and the world, or that what shows up in our micro-ecosystems and organizations isn&#39;t real. What I am suggesting is that in acknowledging what is present, we also can infuse the present moment with opportunity.</p>

<p>We bring the stress that we&rsquo;re carrying into work, even when we&rsquo;re not aware. It can exhaust us. It can cloud our judgement, and it clouds our ability to see challenges as opportunities for our organizations and teams. And all of that can impact not only morale, but also culture, climate and performance.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>1440: </em>Looking back at the leadership challenges of 2020, what would you encourage leaders to let go of? Or do more of?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>The pandemic has allowed social conditions to come to the surface all at once. What we&#39;ve seen in the U.S., since the murders of George Floyd, Ahmaud Arbrey and Breonna Taylor, is that what&rsquo;s in society is in work, as well. What happens in the personal happens in the professional.&nbsp;</p>

<p>As leaders, one of the best things we can do is to stop otherizing or &ldquo;breaking,&rdquo; which is a term used by john a. powell<strong> </strong>of the <strong>Othering &amp; Belonging Institute at UC Berkeley</strong>. Breaking is how we put people in categories. There&#39;s us and there&#39;s them. We do this outside and inside of work, and if we step back and look, we know that this debilitates society and debilitates organizations.&nbsp;</p>

<p>When people feel like they belong, when there is psychological safety, there&#39;s so much that can happen&mdash;innovation and connection and higher-level performance and resilience and engagement. This is the first step to creating cultures of belonging and unity. If we fuse this with compassion, which is a must-have inside and outside of the workplace, it is very powerful.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Extending compassion to ourselves and to others allows us to do what powell calls &ldquo;bridging.&rdquo; Bridging is creating that belonging and unity to help people to feel safe, to take risks, to raise new ideas. When people feel comfortable inside of their environments, you start to see a real shift.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>1440:</em> As we move beyond diversity to racial equity in the workplace, how do you guide leaders working to build racially equitable cultures?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>First, an anecdote to explain my perceptions around this. I&#39;m a former corporate/technology lawyer. In my first semester of law school, we took a two-credit course in ethics. Then, we barely talked about ethics again. That&#39;s how I feel we often treat things like diversity, equity, inclusion and belonging. We treat them as stand-alone, siloed topics.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Diversity alone doesn&#39;t solve the problem. That&#39;s why we&#39;re now talking about what is beyond equality. We&rsquo;re looking more at equity. But this goes beyond even that. This is about belonging and unity.&nbsp;</p>

<p>When you think about diversity and inclusion, these are tactics to produce an end result. The end result we want is an organization, a community, a nation of people who feel like they belong. And, we want unity. We can&rsquo;t just focus on belonging and community. We have communities everywhere, but there&#39;s not always unity among them.&nbsp;</p>

<p>I also think we need an integrated approach to leadership training&mdash;not simply labeling separate diversity and inclusion training. Even in titling these efforts, we marginalize them by making them separate and apart from what leaders do. Teach leaders what we expect from them. Show them how to lead for everyone. This integrated, interdependent, interconnected weaving into the fabric of operations and leadership is important if we are going to make sustainable systemic change.</p>

<p style="text-align:center"><img alt="" height="295" src="https://assets.milestoneinternet.com/1440-multiversity/site-images/blog-images/michelle-maldonado-2.jpg" width="336" /></p>

<p><strong><em>1440: </em>Leaders need to keep growing, too. How can they better themselves and prepare for the future?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>Personal-professional development is important, but today&rsquo;s leaders also need to expand beyond being tactical and process-oriented.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Before the pandemic, there were already predictions that by 2025 a certain percentage of jobs would be lost to technology. Initial indications show that the net loss is lower than the net gain, but there will still need to be reskilling and role repurposing. Much of that will require fine-tuned people skills, emotional intelligence and compassion.&nbsp;</p>

<p>So yes, think about how your role will transform over the next few years. But also, expand your practical skills in parallel with your people skills. Everyone has worked with that one person who left scorched earth behind them. Maybe they were a big revenue producer or got the big deals done, but nobody wanted to work with them. That kind of behavior is not sustainable, and it&#39;s not good for organizations or the ecosystem. Leaders can proactively train themselves to be more emotionally intelligent.</p>

<p><strong><em>1440: </em>What can remote leadership look like?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>This is a tough one, because part of leading is making that human connection. It&rsquo;s that in-person act of stopping by somebody&#39;s office, checking in on them, taking a walk, having a cup of coffee in the break room. You can still call someone or have a video chat, but because everybody is on virtual platforms, there is some fatigue.&nbsp;</p>

<p>It&rsquo;s also hard because everybody has very full plates. We need to be creative in our quest to make people feel supported and connected, without creating more exhaustion. One of the things we can ask people is, &ldquo;How are you doing, really?&rdquo; Another important one, is &ldquo;What can I do, as a leader of this team, to help support you?&rdquo; A lot of people are afraid to ask those questions, because they&#39;re afraid of criticism or they&#39;re afraid of being vulnerable. But I think that the best way, in these times, is to simply ask the question.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>1440: </em>What are you looking forward to next at 1440 Multiversity?</strong></p>

<p><em><strong>Michelle Maldonado:</strong> </em>If health and travel conditions permit, I hope that we can resume the <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/leadership-center/true-north-leadership">True North Leadership</a></strong> program in the fall. It&rsquo;s one of my favorite collaborations, because it is so life-changing and transformative for leaders across industries. I have a <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/leadership-center/disrupting-workplace-bias">Disrupting Workplace Bias workshop</a></strong> at the 1440 Leadership Center that I look forward to hosting, as well.&nbsp;</p>

<p>I think those two opportunities, together, are great reflections of how 1440 is trying to help cultivate leadership wealth for everyone, across industries.<br />
&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/leadership-center/true-north-leadership">Apply now for True North Leadership, to be held October 17-22, 2021 at the 1440 Multiversity campus in Scotts Valley, California.</a></strong></p>

<p><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/groups">Host your group event at 1440 and add a Leadership Center session to your program. Learn more and submit an RFP.&nbsp;</a></strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/challenges-and-opportunities-in-uncertain-times-a-1440-qa-with-michelle-maldonado</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/challenges-and-opportunities-in-uncertain-times-a-1440-qa-with-michelle-maldonado#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2021 20:59:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Life Inside Out Podcast: Amanda Gorman</title><description><![CDATA[<p><em>&ldquo;One of the threads I think is most resonant in my life is the thread of seeing writing as an instrument for change. So not just writing to write something, but writing to make something right.&rdquo; </em>&ndash;Poet and activist <strong>Amanda Gorman</strong>, 1440 Life Inside Out podcast</p>

<p>In January 2020, just before the pandemic shifted our lives in ways that no one could predict, award-winning television journalist and human rights activist <strong>Peggy Callahan</strong> interviewed Los Angeles native <strong>Amanda Gorman</strong> for the first episode of <em>1440 Life Inside Out</em> &ndash; a special podcast series that explores the moments we all face in life when we&rsquo;re not sure whether we are breaking through or breaking down.</p>

<p>Much of the world knows Amanda &ndash; a celebrated writer, poet and activist &ndash; from her moving delivery of <em>The Hill We Climb</em> during the 2021 presidential inauguration, when she became the youngest inaugural poet in U.S. history. She celebrates another milestone less than three weeks later: The first poet to ever perform at a Super Bowl.&nbsp;</p>

<p>At the time of her interview with 1440 though, Amanda &ndash; who named the first National Youth Poet Laureate in 2017 &ndash; was on winter break during her final year at Harvard University, preparing for her upcoming graduation, working to meet her upcoming book deadlines, and leading the nonprofit <strong><a href="https://www.instagram.com/1pen1page/?hl=en">One Pen One Page</a></strong> organization she founded in 2016 to elevate the voices and stories of young people.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/IgwgwY_PtSk" width="560"></iframe></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>On <em>1440 Life Inside Out: Episode 1</em>, Amanda shares her inspirations, the impact and opportunity of her childhood speech impediment, life&rsquo;s difficult lessons, and more, as she embodies the 1440 vision of creating hope for living well for the greater good of humanity.&nbsp;</p>

<p>She also visited the 1,200-year-old Mother Tree at the 1440 Multiversity campus in Scotts Valley, California, where she recited an excerpt from her poem titled <em>What If?</em> that she wrote for the DIALOGUE 2019 conference at Harvard Business School.</p>

<p><em>The poem I&#39;m about to read is called What If? and I wrote it when I was going to be participating in a conference that Harvard was hosting called DIALOGUE. And I was very interested in what it means to have conversations with other people, to gather with other people and to really spread ideas in a holistic manner. And I thought it might be timely in thinking about 1440 because I feel like it is such a gathering place where ideas and people can all come together.</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>What if?</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>What if our world&#39;s leaders, innovators and thinkers</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>didn&#39;t speak about change in monologues?</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>What if we spoke and hoped through dialogue?</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>While dialogue is not the chorus speaking perfectly as one</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>dialogue is that daring cacophony.</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>The diverse call to action. It is complex and sometimes chaotic conversation</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>this courageous confrontation it is the collective compassion for the common good.</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>It is meeting with meaning, participation with purpose, speech in service of others here by dialogue.</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>We do not mean it in the abstract. We mean it&#39;s in the act.</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>It is a verb in every sense of the word.</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>It is participating, communicating, activating because we know something has to be done.</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>And fast. And though it might take years change is worth a lifetime. Push. By pull back. By fourth. We might not get the correct answers but we get closer to asking the right questions.</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>What if our world&#39;s leaders, businesses, innovators, thinkers gathered together.</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>What if we could look in each other&#39;s eyes not for press or publicity but for progress.</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>Then we the assembled would act with these words at our prow.</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>If past is written in prologue our progress will be spoken in dialogue as verb, vocation. a vow.</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>To not only ask what if? but also.</em></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><em>What now?</em></p>

<p>Stay tuned for upcoming episodes of <em>1440 Life Inside Out </em>hosted by Peggy Callahan, featuring:</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<ul>
	<li>Trailblazing explorer, mountaineer and social entrepreneur <strong>Sylvia Vasquez-Lovado</strong>, the first Peruvian woman to summit Mount Everest and the first openly gay woman to complete the Seven Summits.<br />
	&nbsp;</li>
	<li>LavaMae<sup>x</sup> founder and former CEO <strong>Doniece Sandoval</strong>, who spearheaded the San Francisco-based nonprofit that converts public transportation buses into bathrooms on wheels for the homeless.&nbsp;<br />
	&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Reboot co-founder, coach and facilitator <strong>Jerry Colonna</strong>, a venture capitalist credited with the early development of Silicon Valley.<br />
	&nbsp;</li>
	<li>Idea Architects Chief Operating Officer and Editorial Director <strong>Lara Love</strong>, co-writer of the 2018 Oprah Book Club selection <em>The Sun Does Shine: How I Found Life and Freedom on Death Row</em> by <strong>Anthony Ray Hinton</strong>.</li>
</ul>

<p><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/online-learning">Participate in 1440 Multiversity Online Learning here.</a></strong></p>

<p><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/philanthropic-programs">Browse our advocacy programs and support our work of creating hope for living well.&nbsp;</a></strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-life-inside-out-podcast-amanda-gorman</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-life-inside-out-podcast-amanda-gorman#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2021 20:29:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>The Demand for Outdoor Meeting Spaces and 5 Planner Favorites</title><description><![CDATA[<p>The introduction of COVID-19 vaccines has elevated public confidence and increased the demand for outdoor spaces among corporate meeting and private event planners. As interest in group offsites and intimate private events awakens, destinations with a variety of outdoor venues are growing in popularity and not just desired for their safety benefits. It turns out there is something about fresh mountain air and the smell of the majestic redwoods that energize screen-fatigued attendees, making meetings more productive, beneficial and enjoyable. &ldquo;Forest Bathing,&rdquo; or the Japanese medicine of Shinrin-yoku Forest Therapy, is known to be an exercise in mindfulness and contributes to one&rsquo;s positive health and wellbeing.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Thanks to its easy drive market proximity to Silicon Valley and the Bay Area, in addition to access to three major airports &mdash; San Jose, San Francisco and Oakland &mdash; the private 75-acre 1440 Multiversity campus located in California&rsquo;s Santa Cruz Mountains is on the radar of meeting planners across the country. As an added benefit, 1440 is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit learning destination and each group booking gives back to <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/philanthropic-programs">philanthropic advocacy programs in the community</a></strong>, further attracting responsible corporations that want to give back and provide &ldquo;meetings with a purpose.&rdquo; Each booking at 1440 feeds a family of four in Santa Cruz County and advances other philanthropic programs such as Healing our Healthcare Heroes which offers scholarships to frontline medical workers. &nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Meeting and events at 1440 Multiversity are very different from traditional hotel gatherings. Stay packages are all-inclusive and incorporate the connection of human and environmental health and wellness. Whether a single- or multi-day gathering, accommodations include three <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/about/nutrition-philosophy">daily nourishing meals</a></strong> served in Kitchen Table; morning and afternoon wellness breaks; and a wide-ranging selection of indoor and outdoor <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/">signature classes and activities</a></strong> such as guided nature walks, yoga, meditation, improv, lectures, fitness classes and the Healing Arts center. The possibilities for a unique learning event and lasting memories are endless, and the outdoor meeting spaces and environments are vital elements to the overall experience in acting as &ldquo;human charging stations.&rdquo; 1440 has a large degree of flexibility to accommodate small executive offsites to large <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/leadership-center">leadership training programs</a></strong>. Private cooking classes and family-style dinners are possible in the freestanding <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/about/nutrition-philosophy">Teaching Kitchen</a></strong> or may be served under the stars in the adjacent <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/about/nutrition-philosophy">Joanie&rsquo;s Garden</a></strong>.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Campus locations like the 250-seat <strong>Redwood Amphitheater</strong>; <strong>Redwood Boardroom and Labyrinth</strong>; <strong>Kitchen Table Terrace</strong> and <strong>Outlook Patio</strong> were popular spaces for attendees pre-pandemic, and 1440 has developed even more outdoor venues in varying capacities to accommodate health and safety measures and social distancing considerations (<a href="https://www.1440.org/resourcefiles/pdf/1440-campus-health-and-safety-guide-101620.pdf"><strong>learn more about our Campus Health &amp; Safety Plan</strong></a>), increasing the number of total outdoor natural venues to more than 20 in addition to its 12 indoor meeting spaces.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Here are the five most requested outdoor meeting locations on campus &mdash; both new options and meeting planner favorites &mdash; that your group or event attendees will talk about long after their visit.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Joanie&rsquo;s Garden Table</strong></p>

<figure class="image"><img alt="" height="274" src="https://www.1440.org/resourcefiles/press-page-image/joanies-garden-table.jpg" width="312" />
<figcaption>Joanie&#39;s Garden Table</figcaption>
</figure>

<p><em>Standard Capacity: 24 | Social Distance Capacity: 6 (12 as couples/duos in the same traveling party)</em></p>

<p>As the centerpiece of the 1440 &ldquo;food is medicine&rdquo; <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/about/nutrition-philosophy">nutrition philosophy</a></strong>, <strong>Joanie&rsquo;s Garden</strong> brings together fresh seasonal harvests alongside culinary learning opportunities that inspire the meals that are served across campus. Adjacent to the <strong>1440 Teaching Kitchen</strong>, Joanie&rsquo;s Garden has welcomed groups for nutrition classes followed by a garden lunch among the tomato vines, wine education dinners under the stars, and even custom Hive Dive classes for groups to learn more about the honeybee population at 1440. A gathering in Joanie&rsquo;s Garden is nothing short of memorable.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>The Cathedral</strong></p>

<figure class="image"><img alt="" height="274" src="https://www.1440.org/resourcefiles/press-page-image/cathedral.jpg" width="312" />
<figcaption>The Cathedral</figcaption>
</figure>

<p><em>Standard Capacity: 250 | Social Distance Capacity: 60 (120 as couples/duos in the same traveling party)</em></p>

<p>Through the wood and across the bridge over Carbonera Creek is the most sacred outdoor meeting venue on campus: <strong>The Cathedral</strong>, which inspires energy, emotion and introspection in the redwoods. Set beneath the historic <strong>Mother Tree</strong> &mdash; a 250-foot-tall 1,200-year-old California Redwood that anchors 1440 Multiversity in concept and spirit &mdash; this large amphitheater-style space with its redwood benches, slate-tile stage and trickling creek will elevate meetings of any size. &nbsp; Combined with a guided mindfulness exercise led by 1440 staff or a meaningful conversation activity to open guests up to new ideas and concepts, the Cathedral will have a lasting impact on attendees, offering a residual calm to those who have the opportunity to experience it.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Redwood Terrace, Lawn &amp; Fire Pit</strong></p>

<figure class="image"><img alt="" height="274" src="https://www.1440.org/resourcefiles/press-page-image/redwood-terrace.jpg" width="312" />
<figcaption>Redwood Terrace, Lawn &amp; Fire Pit</figcaption>
</figure>

<p><em>Standard Capacity: 40 | Social Distance Capacity: 10 (20 as couples/duos in the same traveling party)</em></p>

<p>Tucked behind the Redwood meeting complex, the <strong>Redwood Terrace, Lawn &amp; Fire Pit</strong> is a private setting that comes with some of the most unique offerings on campus. A slate-tile patio serves as a space for high-top tables; a family-style dining table; or an art or materials station for an interactive outdoor gathering. Stately hand-carved stone benches and a chaise lounge, along with Adirondack chairs, are dressed with cozy blankets and pillows and flank a one-of-a-kind stone fire pit. The adjacent labyrinth beckons contemplation as attendees mindfully travel along its path high above the<strong> Cathedral</strong>, which is visible down below. Combine these spaces with the indoor <strong>Redwood Boardroom</strong> for a motivating and productive executive offsite or teambuilding event you are sure to remember. &nbsp; &nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>The Canopy</strong></p>

<figure class="image"><img alt="" height="274" src="https://www.1440.org/resourcefiles/press-page-image/canopy.jpg" width="312" />
<figcaption>The Canopy</figcaption>
</figure>

<p><em>Standard Capacity: 150 | Social Distance Capacity: 40 (80 as couples/duos in the same traveling party)</em><br />
The newest outdoor venue at 1440 Multiversity, the <strong>Canopy</strong> is set in a wooded clearing surrounded by redwood trees that seemingly touch the sky. This space calls guests to wander the nearby campus trails (it is best to literally hike in and out of this space) or simply sit in contemplation in conversation circles made with log seats repurposed from fallen redwoods to learn and absorb the work that brings them to campus. Spacious and inspirational, the Canopy invites event planners and guests to make it their own.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Outlook Patio and Crest Deck</strong></p>

<figure class="image"><img alt="Outlook Patio" height="274" src="https://www.1440.org/resourcefiles/press-page-image/outlook-patio.jpg" width="312" />
<figcaption>Outlook Patio</figcaption>
</figure>

<p><em>Outlook Patio: Standard Capacity: 100 | Social Distance Capacity: 25 (80 as couples/duos in the same traveling party)</em></p>

<p><em>Crest Deck: Standard Capacity: 35 | Social Distance Capacity: 10; 20 as couples/duos in the same traveling party</em></p>

<p>The half-moon-shaped <strong>Outlook Patio</strong> is adjacent to the <strong>Outlook Building</strong> above <strong>Common Grounds</strong> with a panoramic view of the campus below. This space is ideal for afternoon meetings al fresco, teambuilding events or sunset receptions and after-dark afterglows. &nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Perched above the Outlook Patio is <strong>Crest Deck</strong>, one of the most popular outdoor meeting venues on campus. This 1,100-square-foot two-tiered deck, surrounded by oak and redwood trees, is ideal for a morning yoga practice, a mid-day conversation circle or a late-afternoon classroom-style meeting and mixer. Set off the <strong>Crest Loop trail</strong>, attendees can continue their journey up the hill and explore the upper campus trails, or travel back down the stairs to quickly access <strong>Common Grounds Patio</strong> for a coffee or glass of wine by the fire pits.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Offsite meetings at 1440 Multiversity are an ideal opportunity to combine team productivity with an incredible learning opportunity that will continue to energize and motivate long after departing campus.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/groups"><strong>Click here to submit an RFP.</strong></a></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><a href="https://www.1440.org/ResourceFiles/pdf/1440-multiversity-group-brochure-2021.pdf"><strong>View the 1440 Group Brochure here.&nbsp;</strong></a>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/">Learn more about Signature Classes here.&nbsp;</a></strong><br />
&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-demand-for-outdoor-meeting-spaces-and-5-planner-favorites</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-demand-for-outdoor-meeting-spaces-and-5-planner-favorites#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2021 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>The Demand for Outdoor Meeting Spaces and 5 Planner Favorites</title><description><![CDATA[<p>The introduction of COVID-19 vaccines has elevated public confidence and increased the demand for outdoor spaces among corporate meeting and private event planners. As interest in group offsites and intimate private events awakens, destinations with a variety of outdoor venues are growing in popularity and not just desired for their safety benefits. It turns out there is something about fresh mountain air and the smell of the majestic redwoods that energize screen-fatigued attendees, making meetings more productive, beneficial and enjoyable. &ldquo;Forest Bathing,&rdquo; or the Japanese medicine of Shinrin-yoku Forest Therapy, is known to be an exercise in mindfulness and contributes to one&rsquo;s positive health and wellbeing.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Thanks to its easy drive market proximity to Silicon Valley and the Bay Area, in addition to access to three major airports &mdash; San Jose, San Francisco and Oakland &mdash; the private 75-acre 1440 Multiversity campus located in California&rsquo;s Santa Cruz Mountains is on the radar of meeting planners across the country. As an added benefit, 1440 is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit learning destination and each group booking gives back to <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/philanthropic-programs">philanthropic advocacy programs in the community</a></strong>, further attracting responsible corporations that want to give back and provide &ldquo;meetings with a purpose.&rdquo; Each booking at 1440 feeds a family of four in Santa Cruz County and advances other philanthropic programs such as Healing our Healthcare Heroes which offers scholarships to frontline medical workers. &nbsp;</p>

<p>Meeting and events at 1440 Multiversity are very different from traditional hotel gatherings. Stay packages are all-inclusive and incorporate the connection of human and environmental health and wellness. Whether a single- or multi-day gathering, accommodations include three <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/about/nutrition-philosophy">daily nourishing meals</a></strong> served in Kitchen Table; morning and afternoon wellness breaks; and a wide-ranging selection of indoor and outdoor <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/">signature classes and activities</a></strong> such as guided nature walks, yoga, meditation, improv, lectures, fitness classes and the Healing Arts center. The possibilities for a unique learning event and lasting memories are endless, and the outdoor meeting spaces and environments are vital elements to the overall experience in acting as &ldquo;human charging stations.&rdquo; 1440 has a large degree of flexibility to accommodate small executive offsites to large <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/leadership-center">leadership training programs</a></strong>. Private cooking classes and family-style dinners are possible in the freestanding <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/about/nutrition-philosophy">Teaching Kitchen</a></strong> or may be served under the stars in the adjacent <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/about/nutrition-philosophy">Joanie&rsquo;s Garden</a></strong>.</p>

<p>Campus locations like the 250-seat <strong>Redwood Amphitheater</strong>; <strong>Redwood Boardroom and Labyrinth</strong>; <strong>Kitchen Table Terrace</strong> and <strong>Outlook Patio</strong> were popular spaces for attendees pre-pandemic, and 1440 has developed even more outdoor venues in varying capacities to accommodate health and safety measures and social distancing considerations (<a href="https://www.1440.org/resourcefiles/pdf/1440-campus-health-and-safety-guide-101620.pdf"><strong>learn more about our Campus Health &amp; Safety Plan</strong></a>), increasing the number of total outdoor natural venues to more than 20 in addition to its 12 indoor meeting spaces.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Here are the five most requested outdoor meeting locations on campus &mdash; both new options and meeting planner favorites &mdash; that your group or event attendees will talk about long after their visit.</p>

<p><strong>Joanie&rsquo;s Garden Table</strong></p>

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<p><em>Standard Capacity: 24 | Social Distance Capacity: 6 (12 as couples/duos in the same traveling party)</em></p>

<p>As the centerpiece of the 1440 &ldquo;food is medicine&rdquo; <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/about/nutrition-philosophy">nutrition philosophy</a></strong>, <strong>Joanie&rsquo;s Garden</strong> brings together fresh seasonal harvests alongside culinary learning opportunities that inspire the meals that are served across campus. Adjacent to the <strong>1440 Teaching Kitchen</strong>, Joanie&rsquo;s Garden has welcomed groups for nutrition classes followed by a garden lunch among the tomato vines, wine education dinners under the stars, and even custom Hive Dive classes for groups to learn more about the honeybee population at 1440. A gathering in Joanie&rsquo;s Garden is nothing short of memorable.</p>

<p><strong>The Cathedral</strong></p>

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<p><em>Standard Capacity: 250 | Social Distance Capacity: 60 (120 as couples/duos in the same traveling party)</em></p>

<p>Through the wood and across the bridge over Carbonera Creek is the most sacred outdoor meeting venue on campus: <strong>The Cathedral</strong>, which inspires energy, emotion and introspection in the redwoods. Set beneath the historic <strong>Mother Tree</strong> &mdash; a 250-foot-tall 1,200-year-old California Redwood that anchors 1440 Multiversity in concept and spirit &mdash; this large amphitheater-style space with its redwood benches, slate-tile stage and trickling creek will elevate meetings of any size. &nbsp; Combined with a guided mindfulness exercise led by 1440 staff or a meaningful conversation activity to open guests up to new ideas and concepts, the Cathedral will have a lasting impact on attendees, offering a residual calm to those who have the opportunity to experience it.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Redwood Terrace, Lawn &amp; Fire Pit</strong></p>

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<p><em>Standard Capacity: 40 | Social Distance Capacity: 10 (20 as couples/duos in the same traveling party)</em></p>

<p>Tucked behind the Redwood meeting complex, the <strong>Redwood Terrace, Lawn &amp; Fire Pit</strong> is a private setting that comes with some of the most unique offerings on campus. A slate-tile patio serves as a space for high-top tables; a family-style dining table; or an art or materials station for an interactive outdoor gathering. Stately hand-carved stone benches and a chaise lounge, along with Adirondack chairs, are dressed with cozy blankets and pillows and flank a one-of-a-kind stone fire pit. The adjacent labyrinth beckons contemplation as attendees mindfully travel along its path high above the<strong> Cathedral</strong>, which is visible down below. Combine these spaces with the indoor <strong>Redwood Boardroom</strong> for a motivating and productive executive offsite or teambuilding event you are sure to remember. &nbsp; &nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>The Canopy</strong></p>

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<p><em>Standard Capacity: 150 | Social Distance Capacity: 40 (80 as couples/duos in the same traveling party)</em><br />
The newest outdoor venue at 1440 Multiversity, the <strong>Canopy</strong> is set in a wooded clearing surrounded by redwood trees that seemingly touch the sky. This space calls guests to wander the nearby campus trails (it is best to literally hike in and out of this space) or simply sit in contemplation in conversation circles made with log seats repurposed from fallen redwoods to learn and absorb the work that brings them to campus. Spacious and inspirational, the Canopy invites event planners and guests to make it their own.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Outlook Patio and Crest Deck</strong></p>

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<p><em>Outlook Patio: Standard Capacity: 100 | Social Distance Capacity: 25 (80 as couples/duos in the same traveling party)</em></p>

<p><em>Crest Deck: Standard Capacity: 35 | Social Distance Capacity: 10; 20 as couples/duos in the same traveling party</em></p>

<p>The half-moon-shaped <strong>Outlook Patio</strong> is adjacent to the <strong>Outlook Building</strong> above <strong>Common Grounds</strong> with a panoramic view of the campus below. This space is ideal for afternoon meetings al fresco, teambuilding events or sunset receptions and after-dark afterglows. &nbsp;</p>

<p>Perched above the Outlook Patio is <strong>Crest Deck</strong>, one of the most popular outdoor meeting venues on campus. This 1,100-square-foot two-tiered deck, surrounded by oak and redwood trees, is ideal for a morning yoga practice, a mid-day conversation circle or a late-afternoon classroom-style meeting and mixer. Set off the <strong>Crest Loop trail</strong>, attendees can continue their journey up the hill and explore the upper campus trails, or travel back down the stairs to quickly access <strong>Common Grounds Patio</strong> for a coffee or glass of wine by the fire pits.</p>

<p>Offsite meetings at 1440 Multiversity are an ideal opportunity to combine team productivity with an incredible learning opportunity that will continue to energize and motivate long after departing campus.&nbsp;</p>

<p><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/groups"><strong>Click here to submit an RFP.</strong></a></p>

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&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-demand-for-outdoor-meeting-spaces-and-5-planner-favorites</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-demand-for-outdoor-meeting-spaces-and-5-planner-favorites#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2021 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>A Re-Energizing Walk in the 1440 Redwoods</title><description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><em>Whether explored solo or on guided tour, the private 1440 campus trails allow guests to feel in community with nature</em></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>A simple moment in the redwoods can be transformative, and 1440 Signature Experience faculty member and respected nature guide <strong>Gary Marcoccia</strong> thrives on teaching people how they can nourish their mind, body, and spirit through time spent in the wilds. A keen naturalist, ultra-runner, adventurer, kite surfer, and mountaineer who has traveled the world in discovery of nature&rsquo;s wonder, Gary guides guests on walks through the majestic redwood comprising the 75-acre 1440 campus while sharing information and anecdotes about the flora and fauna.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>What many may not realize is that a mindful, leisurely stroll along campus trails is a significant part of the integrated learning experience for guests, helping supplement their program, healing, and self-discovery work. The trail system is available to all registered guests of 1440 to explore at their leisure or as a <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/">1440 Signature Class</a></strong>, and <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/">Rest &amp; Renewal packages such as the new Explore the Redwoods experience </a></strong>provide an even more in-depth experience into the power of Mother Earth.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&quot;Some might come to a learning destination like 1440 in search of belonging, wholeness, or connection. Part of what I see happening here is a subtle reminder that we are all part of the shared community of living beings and as such, are intimately engaged with the flow, breath, and being of Nature,&quot;&nbsp;Gary says. &quot;My invitation to those who attend my 1440 nature walks is to see, hear, taste, and touch grace, and the sacred that is present in Nature. To let go of the noise, distraction, compulsion to perform, and fear of rejection. To make space to live a portion of the 1440 minutes in your day curious, available, and surprised by joy.&quot;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>With the growing awareness of forest bathing and importance of disconnecting from technology to charge the mind, body, and spirit energy, guided nature walks as part of the <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/about">1440 curriculum</a></strong> are a beneficial treat for those who partake. On any given day, hour-long walks traverse parts of more than 4 miles of walking trails, weaving their way through old growth redwoods, alongside the babbling Carbonera Creek, to the base of the 1,200-year-old Mother Tree, and to panoramas and seating areas perfect for meditation and inspiration.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&ldquo;The dynamic relationship between humankind and Nature is an unbreakable bond that sustains, nurtures and heals us,&rdquo; Gary says. &ldquo;When you listen to a running creek, walk among the towering redwoods, turn your face toward the sun, or take in the scents of the plant kingdom, you are connecting with the life-giving energy of Nature. The beauty of this powerful energy is that it subtly invites us to slow down, quiet the mind, and adopt gratitude to be our script.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>In his own words, Gary shares his five can&rsquo;t-miss spots on the 1440 Multiversity campus trails, perfect for a deep breath, a scenic photo, or a quiet moment of reflection.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>The Mother Tree</strong><br />
<em>Lower Campus Trail at the Cathedral</em><br />
&ldquo;Most scientists agree that when you&rsquo;re standing in the shadow of old growth Coast Redwood trees, you are among only 5 percent of the original old-growth forest remaining worldwide. When I gaze at the Mother Tree, I find myself wondering what this 1,000-year-old-plus tree has stood witness to in her lifetime, and in doing so call to heart this quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson: &lsquo;The wonder is that we can see these trees and not wonder more.&rsquo;&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Corkscrew Tree</strong><br />
<em>Lower Campus Trail, behind Oak and Madrone buildings</em><br />
&ldquo;This unique Coast Redwood tree, with its twisted spiral bark instead of vertical, can be easily found by walking up the paved hill that leads to Oak and Madrone and then entering the Lower Campus Trail at the end of the parking lot. You will quickly see the tree on your right. I&rsquo;ve sent pictures of this tree to Coast Redwood researchers and they classified the corkscrew pattern as being uncommon, but not rare. There are numerous hypotheses out there, but I&#39;ve yet to come across the definitive answer to the long-standing question on the cause of spiraling. One hypothesis suggests that prevailing winds and asymmetrical crown positions cause so much torque on the tree that it develops a spiral pattern in order to endure the mechanical torque loads imposed on it. Another hypothesis suggests that the tree is one of those rare beings that is hyper-tuned to the rotation of the earth. In the end, this phenomenon appears to be one of those mysteries of nature that we may never have an answer to.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>The Acacia Tree Bench</strong><br />
<em>Upper Summit Trail</em><br />
&ldquo;On a clear day, this vantage point allows guests to see the Pacific Ocean along with a silhouette of the Gabilan Mountain Range in the background. Depending on the time of year, this can also be a great spot to catch the sunset, or the full moon illuminating the treetops in the valley. My favorite early morning walk is to take Summit Trail with a stop at this acacia tree bench and then on to the Ridge Trail loop. When I&rsquo;m at this location I often call to heart this quote by Thich Nhat Hanh: &lsquo;When we live in awareness, it is easy to see miracles everywhere.&rsquo;&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Carbonera Creek</strong><br />
<em>Furthest upstream point via Carbonera Trail</em><br />
&ldquo;This dead-end at the creek provides a beautifully wild secluded backdrop where one can simply sit and enjoy the soundscape. &lsquo;Stillness. One of the doors into the temple,&rsquo; is a quote by Mary Oliver that I often call to heart at this location.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>The Circular Seating Area at the Lost Playground</strong><br />
<em>Crest Trail</em><br />
&ldquo;Coincidentally, this seating arrangement was a request that I made to the 1440 team. Talking circles, peacemaking circles, or healing circles, as they&rsquo;re often called, are deeply rooted in the traditional practices of indigenous people much like those who once inhabited the land that is now 1440. The symbolism of the circle, with no beginning and with nobody in a position of prominence, serves to encourage people to speak freely, thereby making sitting on the log rounds surrounded by the forest all the more special.&rdquo;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/">Learn more about 1440 Rest &amp; Renewal packages here.</a></strong></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/groups">Explore outdoor meeting venues for your next private group offsite.&nbsp;</a></strong><br />
&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/a-re-energizing-walk-in-the-1440-redwoods</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/a-re-energizing-walk-in-the-1440-redwoods#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2021 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>A Re-Energizing Walk in the 1440 Redwoods</title><description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><em>Whether explored solo or on guided tour, the private 1440 campus trails allow guests to feel in community with nature</em></p>

<p>A simple moment in the redwoods can be transformative, and 1440 Signature Experience faculty member and respected nature guide <strong>Gary Marcoccia</strong> thrives on teaching people how they can nourish their mind, body, and spirit through time spent in the wilds. A keen naturalist, ultra-runner, adventurer, kite surfer, and mountaineer who has traveled the world in discovery of nature&rsquo;s wonder, Gary guides guests on walks through the majestic redwood comprising the 75-acre 1440 campus while sharing information and anecdotes about the flora and fauna.</p>

<p>What many may not realize is that a mindful, leisurely stroll along campus trails is a significant part of the integrated learning experience for guests, helping supplement their program, healing, and self-discovery work. The trail system is available to all registered guests of 1440 to explore at their leisure or as a <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/">1440 Signature Class</a></strong>, and <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/">Rest &amp; Renewal packages such as the new Explore the Redwoods experience </a></strong>provide an even more in-depth experience into the power of Mother Earth.</p>

<p>&quot;Some might come to a learning destination like 1440 in search of belonging, wholeness, or connection. Part of what I see happening here is a subtle reminder that we are all part of the shared community of living beings and as such, are intimately engaged with the flow, breath, and being of Nature,&quot;&nbsp;Gary says. &quot;My invitation to those who attend my 1440 nature walks is to see, hear, taste, and touch grace, and the sacred that is present in Nature. To let go of the noise, distraction, compulsion to perform, and fear of rejection. To make space to live a portion of the 1440 minutes in your day curious, available, and surprised by joy.&quot;</p>

<p>With the growing awareness of forest bathing and importance of disconnecting from technology to charge the mind, body, and spirit energy, guided nature walks as part of the <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/about">1440 curriculum</a></strong> are a beneficial treat for those who partake. On any given day, hour-long walks traverse parts of more than 4 miles of walking trails, weaving their way through old growth redwoods, alongside the babbling Carbonera Creek, to the base of the 1,200-year-old Mother Tree, and to panoramas and seating areas perfect for meditation and inspiration.</p>

<p>&ldquo;The dynamic relationship between humankind and Nature is an unbreakable bond that sustains, nurtures and heals us,&rdquo; Gary says. &ldquo;When you listen to a running creek, walk among the towering redwoods, turn your face toward the sun, or take in the scents of the plant kingdom, you are connecting with the life-giving energy of Nature. The beauty of this powerful energy is that it subtly invites us to slow down, quiet the mind, and adopt gratitude to be our script.&rdquo;</p>

<p>In his own words, Gary shares his five can&rsquo;t-miss spots on the 1440 Multiversity campus trails, perfect for a deep breath, a scenic photo, or a quiet moment of reflection.</p>

<p><strong>The Mother Tree</strong><br />
<em>Lower Campus Trail at the Cathedral</em><br />
&ldquo;Most scientists agree that when you&rsquo;re standing in the shadow of old growth Coast Redwood trees, you are among only 5 percent of the original old-growth forest remaining worldwide. When I gaze at the Mother Tree, I find myself wondering what this 1,000-year-old-plus tree has stood witness to in her lifetime, and in doing so call to heart this quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson: &lsquo;The wonder is that we can see these trees and not wonder more.&rsquo;&rdquo;</p>

<p><strong>Corkscrew Tree</strong><br />
<em>Lower Campus Trail, behind Oak and Madrone buildings</em><br />
&ldquo;This unique Coast Redwood tree, with its twisted spiral bark instead of vertical, can be easily found by walking up the paved hill that leads to Oak and Madrone and then entering the Lower Campus Trail at the end of the parking lot. You will quickly see the tree on your right. I&rsquo;ve sent pictures of this tree to Coast Redwood researchers and they classified the corkscrew pattern as being uncommon, but not rare. There are numerous hypotheses out there, but I&#39;ve yet to come across the definitive answer to the long-standing question on the cause of spiraling. One hypothesis suggests that prevailing winds and asymmetrical crown positions cause so much torque on the tree that it develops a spiral pattern in order to endure the mechanical torque loads imposed on it. Another hypothesis suggests that the tree is one of those rare beings that is hyper-tuned to the rotation of the earth. In the end, this phenomenon appears to be one of those mysteries of nature that we may never have an answer to.&rdquo;</p>

<p><strong>The Acacia Tree Bench</strong><br />
<em>Upper Summit Trail</em><br />
&ldquo;On a clear day, this vantage point allows guests to see the Pacific Ocean along with a silhouette of the Gabilan Mountain Range in the background. Depending on the time of year, this can also be a great spot to catch the sunset, or the full moon illuminating the treetops in the valley. My favorite early morning walk is to take Summit Trail with a stop at this acacia tree bench and then on to the Ridge Trail loop. When I&rsquo;m at this location I often call to heart this quote by Thich Nhat Hanh: &lsquo;When we live in awareness, it is easy to see miracles everywhere.&rsquo;&rdquo;</p>

<p><strong>Carbonera Creek</strong><br />
<em>Furthest upstream point via Carbonera Trail</em><br />
&ldquo;This dead-end at the creek provides a beautifully wild secluded backdrop where one can simply sit and enjoy the soundscape. &lsquo;Stillness. One of the doors into the temple,&rsquo; is a quote by Mary Oliver that I often call to heart at this location.&rdquo;</p>

<p><strong>The Circular Seating Area at the Lost Playground</strong><br />
<em>Crest Trail</em><br />
&ldquo;Coincidentally, this seating arrangement was a request that I made to the 1440 team. Talking circles, peacemaking circles, or healing circles, as they&rsquo;re often called, are deeply rooted in the traditional practices of indigenous people much like those who once inhabited the land that is now 1440. The symbolism of the circle, with no beginning and with nobody in a position of prominence, serves to encourage people to speak freely, thereby making sitting on the log rounds surrounded by the forest all the more special.&rdquo;</p>

<p><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/">Learn more about 1440 Rest &amp; Renewal packages here.</a></strong></p>

<p><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/groups">Explore outdoor meeting venues for your next private group offsite.&nbsp;</a></strong><br />
&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/a-re-energizing-walk-in-the-1440-redwoods</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/a-re-energizing-walk-in-the-1440-redwoods#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2021 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Multiversity: Creating Hope for Living Well</title><description><![CDATA[<p align="center" class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:16px; text-align:center"><em><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:13.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif"><span style="color:black">We look forward to welcoming you back in 2021 as&nbsp;</span><font color="#202000">we e</font><span style="color:black">xpand&nbsp;our philanthropy and community-building efforts</span></span></span></span></span></em></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:16px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">With a heartfelt mission of <em>creating hope for living well</em>, 1440 Multiversity will increase its support of organizations and individuals seeking to inspire and enrich the world as it moves toward a strategic public campus reopening in 2021, prioritizing philanthropic initiatives, charitable giving and community building.</span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:16px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif"><span style="color:black">As a result of the COVID-19 pandemic, many retreat centers, hotels, resorts and other business closed their doors</span></span></span><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif"> due to government regulations and limitations on social gathering. 1<span style="color:black">440 Multiversity h</span>as used this time to build and strengthen strategic partnerships, develop stronger communities, and create new programs in support of those in need impacted by current prevalent health, social and environmental challenges. Among several exciting changes, 1440 will expand its grant and scholarship program offerings to organizations and individuals &ndash; unbound by differences &ndash; to come together in community to explore, learn, reflect, connect and reenergize themselves through conversations around advocacy, community building, healthy living, belonging and unity, creating hope for living well by positively impacting the way people live, lead, love, work and wonder.</span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:16px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">One of the first new grant programs <span style="color:black">to l</span>aunch is <i>Healing Our Healthcare Heroes</i>, an all-inclusive campus and online initiative for frontline medical workers suffering from the moral injury of COVID-19. The initiative is designed to help these providers cope with the rigors of their work by learning to heal and care for themselves. &nbsp;</span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:16px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">&ldquo;The decision to proactively suspend public on-campus programming until 2021 in order to focus on community building and philanthropic efforts felt like the right decision to make,&rdquo; said <strong>Joanie and Scott Kriens</strong>, co-creators of 1440 Multiversity. &ldquo;While we are saddened to pause the work we so deeply care about and believe in, we remain optimistic that our future charitable program offerings at 1440 &ndash; led by our Healing Our Healthcare Heroes initiative and with the support of our strategic partners &ndash; will provide opportunity for everyone to live more productive and healthy lives while serving the global community in more impactful and relevant ways.&rdquo;</span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:16px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><strong><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">Community Building and Support During COVID-19</span></span></strong><br />
<span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">Building, supporting and maintaining community have been at the forefront of 1440 Multiversity efforts during the COVID-19 crisis and the 75-acre campus was quickly designated as an &ldquo;essential business&rdquo; by the County of Santa Cruz, Office of Emergency Services. In an eight-week span through April and May, the 1440 Multiversity team of over 30 culinary professionals designed new menus and prepared 40,000 nutritious meals that were distributed to more than two dozen county shelters and service sites to nourish community members in need. 1440 Multiversity also gifted the use of 15,000 square feet of its Redwood conference complex so the County could establish an Alternative Care Site to help expand local healthcare capacity in the community. </span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:16px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">As Santa Cruz County was ravaged by the CZU Lightning Complex Fire this fall, a strategic community partnership with fellow 501(c)(3) nonprofit Operation BBQ Relief allowed 1440 to support the region even further, preparing and serving another 21,000 meals to fire evacuees and first responders during a five-week span in August and September. Through its Healing Our Community program, 1440 subsequently provided housing and meals for more than 30 families evacuated and left homeless by the wildfires.</span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:16px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">Throughout the pandemic, 1440 Multiversity has remained committed to immersive wellness, and simultaneously launched its 1440 Multiversity Online Learning platform to continue its deep community engagement and keep its mission work alive virtually through webinars and classes while offering health and wellbeing resources in partnership with its renowned faculty. Accessible through the newly launched 1440.org, visitors to the site will continue to enjoy new complimentary content, including a special section dedicated to the 1440 Teaching Kitchen supplemented by a chef-led instructional video series centered around healthy and nutritional cooking basics. The new <i>Eat Well Live Well </i>series will debut in December.</span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:16px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><strong><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">Healing Our Healthcare Heroes and Creating Hope for Living Well</span></span></strong><br />
<span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">1440 Multiversity is raising funds to support its charitable community programs, starting with Healing Our Healthcare Heroes &ndash; a three-day, two-night all-inclusive workshop at the 1440 Multiversity campus (supplemented by a 12-month online continuing edu&shy;&shy;cation program) that provides frontline healthcare workers the opportunity and time to heal, connect and care for themselves as they cope with the fear and anxiety caused by the COVID-19 crisis. Born out of a debt of gratitude for the tireless efforts of these providers, the invitation program is free for frontline medical workers and will be funded by the generous support of corporate sponsors, foundations and donors in order to prioritize the mental health and physical, emotional and spiritual rejuvenation of healthcare staff. &nbsp;</span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:16px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">1440 Multiversity will look to further expand its support resources as it embarks on new impactful initiatives and fosters community building for the greater good of the global population, and the organization&rsquo;s mission of creating hope for living well is embodied in the brand pillars and offerings.</span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:16px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">&ldquo;We co-created 1440 Multiversity as a safe place to allow creativity to flourish and energy to renew,&rdquo; <strong>Joanie and Scott Kriens </strong>said. &ldquo;A major focus of the organization in 2021 and beyond will center around deepening community and program support in healthcare, social impact, inner wellbeing, authentic leadership, and enriching the world, among many other categories that we are intent on helping.&rdquo;</span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:16px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">With these deepened focuses at the forefront of its work, 1440 Multiversity will continue to welcome mission-aligned corporate and nonprofit groups to campus to work on essential social issues that positively impact and enrich the lives of their employees and communities. As the campus safely and systematically reopens in 2021, guests may once again be invited to book a Rest &amp; Renewal stay, impactful learning program, private group off-site or join a scheduled community event featuring popular 1440 Signature Classes. Significant campus upgrades have been implemented to optimize guest and employee health, including the conversion of shared facilities into private accommodations accompanied by a comprehensive COVID-19 safety prevention plan. </span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:16px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">Those interested in supporting or becoming a charitable partner for <i>Healing Our Healthcare Heroes</i> or other charitable programs at 1440 Multiversity &ndash; whether an individual, foundation or corporate donor &ndash; are encouraged to learn more by visiting www.1440.org/donate or emailing </span></span><a href="mailto:CreateHope@1440.org" style="color:#0563c1; text-decoration:underline"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">CreateHope@1440.org</span></span></a><span class="MsoHyperlink" style="color:#0563c1"><span style="text-decoration:underline"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">. </span></span></span></span></span></span></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-multiversity-creating-hope-for-living-well</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-multiversity-creating-hope-for-living-well#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2020 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>First Steps to Becoming the Leader You Were Meant to Be</title><description><![CDATA[<p>Some of the most complex emotional situations to navigate come from the way we learn or don&rsquo;t learn to relate to one another. Relationships with individuals and groups are the fundamental building blocks of successful teams and societies, and they require a healthy prefrontal cortex (PFC).</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>The PFC is the newest part of the brain in terms of evolution, and also the most complex. The PFC governs all the aspects of our lives that make us feel distinctly human; using empathy, leading by example, probem-solving, inspiring others, motivating ourselves, and more. Without a healthy PFC we tend to biologically default to our fight-or-flight response. It&rsquo;s simply in the way we are wired. Relating to one another with understanding and compassion triggers different parts of our brains.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>In today&rsquo;s busy world, we are living in a time of transition and a sometimes-challenging call to higher levels of relating to one another with compassion and empathy. Great and cutting-edge leadership today demands an understanding of the brain. Learning tasks to train our brain to be wired toward compassion and empathy is simple yet it&rsquo;s not easy as it takes practice and repetition to build new neural pathways.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Here are <strong>5 tips</strong> you can begin today to keep your PFC healthy and wired toward optimal leadership.</p>

<p><br />
1. Eat healthy fats<br />
2. Meditate for five minutes<br />
3. Do a mind-engaging task, puzzle, or new and fun activity<br />
4. Brush your teeth with your non-dominant hand<br />
5. Choose a new route to work</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Becoming the leader you were meant to be takes time, focus and practice. Priming our neural pathways toward empathy and compassion is the first step. To learn more about wiring your brain for optimized leadership and to get a free ebook on how to jumpstart your practice visit www.neurosculptinginstitute.com</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Join&nbsp;Lisa Wimberger&nbsp;January 10 &ndash; 12, 2020 at 1440 for&nbsp;<em><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Neurosculpting&reg; to Manage Stress, Anxiety, and Depression</a>.&nbsp;</em></strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/first-steps-to-becoming-the-leader-you-were-meant-to-be</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/first-steps-to-becoming-the-leader-you-were-meant-to-be#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 3 Oct 2020 19:58:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>First Steps to Becoming the Leader You Were Meant to Be</title><description><![CDATA[<p>Some of the most complex emotional situations to navigate come from the way we learn or don&rsquo;t learn to relate to one another. Relationships with individuals and groups are the fundamental building blocks of successful teams and societies, and they require a healthy prefrontal cortex (PFC).</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>The PFC is the newest part of the brain in terms of evolution, and also the most complex. The PFC governs all the aspects of our lives that make us feel distinctly human; using empathy, leading by example, probem-solving, inspiring others, motivating ourselves, and more. Without a healthy PFC we tend to biologically default to our fight-or-flight response. It&rsquo;s simply in the way we are wired. Relating to one another with understanding and compassion triggers different parts of our brains.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>In today&rsquo;s busy world, we are living in a time of transition and a sometimes-challenging call to higher levels of relating to one another with compassion and empathy. Great and cutting-edge leadership today demands an understanding of the brain. Learning tasks to train our brain to be wired toward compassion and empathy is simple yet it&rsquo;s not easy as it takes practice and repetition to build new neural pathways.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Here are <strong>5 tips</strong> you can begin today to keep your PFC healthy and wired toward optimal leadership.</p>

<p><br />
1. Eat healthy fats<br />
2. Meditate for five minutes<br />
3. Do a mind-engaging task, puzzle, or new and fun activity<br />
4. Brush your teeth with your non-dominant hand<br />
5. Choose a new route to work</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Becoming the leader you were meant to be takes time, focus and practice. Priming our neural pathways toward empathy and compassion is the first step. To learn more about wiring your brain for optimized leadership and to get a free ebook on how to jumpstart your practice visit www.neurosculptinginstitute.com</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Join&nbsp;Lisa Wimberger&nbsp;January 10 &ndash; 12, 2020 at 1440 for&nbsp;<em><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Neurosculpting&reg; to Manage Stress, Anxiety, and Depression</a>.&nbsp;</em></strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/first-steps-to-becoming-the-leader-you-were-meant-to-be</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/first-steps-to-becoming-the-leader-you-were-meant-to-be#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 3 Oct 2020 19:58:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>How to Stop Feeling Time-Starved</title><description><![CDATA[<h2>Stillness &mdash; or the ability to just sit there and do nothing &mdash; is a skill, and as a culture we&rsquo;re not practicing this skill much these days.&nbsp;</h2>

<p>Although I presumably spent most of my childhood daydreaming, I seldom do it anymore. Occasionally, I&rsquo;ll catch myself spacing out in the shower, just standing there, and I&rsquo;ll try to hustle myself back on track, lest I waste any more time or water.</p>

<p>Rarely do we just let ourselves stare into space these days. Like many people, I feel uncomfortable when I&rsquo;m not doing something, uncomfortable &ldquo;wasting time.&rdquo;</p>

<p>We humans have become multi-tasking productivity machines. We can work from anywhere, to great effect. We can do more, and do it far more quickly, than we ever dreamed possible. Our fabulous new technologies buy us tons more time to crank out our work, get through our emails, and keep up with&nbsp;Modern Family. Time my great-grandmother spent making food from scratch, or hand-washing the laundry, we can now spend, say, driving our kids to their away games.</p>

<p>So now that we have so much more time to work and do things previous generations never dreamed possible (or even deemed desirable),&nbsp;why do we always feel starved for time?</p>

<p>The obvious answer is that we have so much&nbsp;more&nbsp;work, and expectations about what we will accomplish on a good day have expanded, but the number of hours in that day have stayed the same.</p>

<p>That&rsquo;s true, but I also think there is something else at work here:&nbsp;We have gotten really, really bad at just doing nothing.</p>

<p>Look around: We can&rsquo;t even stand to wait in an elevator for 10 seconds without checking our smartphones. I&rsquo;m endlessly fascinated by a new series of studies where the research subjects were put alone in a room, with nothing to do. The researchers describe their work:</p>

<p>In 11 studies, we found that participants typically did not enjoy spending 6 to 15 minutes in a room by themselves with nothing to do but think, that they enjoyed doing mundane external activities much more, and that many preferred to administer electric shocks to themselves instead of being left alone with their thoughts. Most people seem to prefer to be doing something rather than nothing, even if that something is negative.</p>

<p>You read that right: Many people (67 percent of men and 25 percent of women, to be exact) actually gave themselves painful electric shocks instead of just sitting there doing nothing&ndash;after&nbsp;they had indicated to the researchers that they would pay money NOT to be shocked again. One guy shocked himself 190 times in 15 minutes.</p>

<p>This brings me back to my main point: Stillness &mdash; or the ability to just sit there and do nothing &mdash; is a skill, and as a culture we&rsquo;re not practicing this skill much these days. When we can&rsquo;t tolerate stillness, we feel uncomfortable when we have downtime, and so we cancel it out by seeking external stimulation, which is usually readily available in our purse or pocket. Instead of just staring out the window on the bus, for example, we read through our Facebook feed. We check our email waiting in line at the grocery store. Instead of enjoying our dinner, we mindlessly shovel food in our mouths while staring at a screen.</p>

<p>Here&rsquo;s the core problem with all of this: We human beings&nbsp;need&nbsp;stillness in order to recharge our batteries. The constant stream of external stimulation that we get from our televisions and computers and smart phones, while often gratifying in the moment, ultimately causes what neuroscientists call &ldquo;cognitive overload.&rdquo; This state of feeling overwhelmed impairs our ability to think creatively, to plan, organize, innovate, solve problems, make decisions, resist temptations, learn new things easily, speak fluently, remember important social information (like the name of our boss&rsquo;s daughter, or our daughter&rsquo;s boss), and control our emotions. In other words, it impairs basically everything we need to do in a given day.[i]</p>

<p>But wait, there&rsquo;s more: We only experience big joy and real gratitude and the dozens of other positive emotions that make our lives worth living by actually being in touch with our emotions &mdash; by giving ourselves space to actually feel what it is we are, well, feeling. In an effort to avoid the uncomfortable feelings that stillness can produce (such as the panicky feeling that we aren&rsquo;t getting anything done), we also numb ourselves to the good feelings in our lives. And&nbsp;<a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/does_mind_wandering_make_you_unhappy" target="_blank">research by Matt Killingsworth</a>&nbsp;suggests that actually being present to what we&rsquo;re feeling and experiencing in the moment &mdash; good or bad &mdash; is better for our happiness in the end.</p>

<p>Here&rsquo;s the main take-away: If we want to be high-functioning&nbsp;and&nbsp;happy, we need to re-learn how to be still. When we feel like there isn&rsquo;t enough time in the day for us to get everything done, when we wish for more time&hellip; we don&rsquo;t actually need more time. We need more stillness. Stillness to recharge. Stillness so that we can feel whatever it is that we feel. Stillness so that we can actually enjoy this life that we are living.</p>

<p>So if you are feeling overwhelmed and time-starved: Stop. Remember that what you need more than time (to work, to check tasks off your list) is downtime, sans stimulation.</p>

<p>As a society, we don&rsquo;t just need to learn to tolerate stillness, we actually need to cultivate it. Fortunately, it&rsquo;s not complicated. Try driving in silence, with your radio and phone off. (Encourage your children to look out the window while you drive them, instead of down at their devices.) Eat meals out of the sight and sound of your phones and televisions. Take a walk outside every day, preferably in nature, without a phone or music player. If it&rsquo;s hard, just try a few minutes at a time, adding a few minutes each day. Just practice; it&rsquo;ll get easier, and the benefits will become more&nbsp;apparent.</p>

<p>Finally, forgive yourself the next time you find yourself staring blankly into space. You aren&rsquo;t wasting time. You&rsquo;re catching up on your stillness.</p>

<p>Are you longing for more time to focus on what matters most? (Or how about just more time in general?) Or more meaningful work or more fulfilling relationships? I would love to help you find these things! Please join me&nbsp;for a rejuvenating weekend retreat from&nbsp;November 1 to 3, 2019&nbsp;at&nbsp;<a href="https://1440.org/">1440 Multiversity</a>,&nbsp;a beautiful 75-acre campus nestled in the California redwoods near Santa Cruz.&nbsp;<a href="https://1440.org/programs/self-discovery/the-sweet-spot/">Register or learn more here</a>.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>Christine Carter, Ph.D., is a sociologist and author of&nbsp;<a href="https://www.amazon.com/New-Adolescence-Raising-Successful-Distraction/dp/1948836548/ref=sr_1_2?crid=30TJ3SFE9DFTQ&amp;keywords=the+new+adolescence&amp;qid=1562865236&amp;s=gateway&amp;sprefix=the+new+adolescenc%2Caps%2C506&amp;sr=8-2">The New Adolescence</a>,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Sweet-Spot-Accomplish-More-Doing/dp/0553392069/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=the+sweet+spot&amp;qid=1562865979&amp;s=books&amp;sr=1-1">The Sweet Spot&nbsp;</a>and&nbsp;<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Happiness-Simple-Happier-Parents/dp/0345515625/ref=asc_df_0345515625/?tag=hyprod-20&amp;linkCode=df0&amp;hvadid=312136554937&amp;hvpos=1o1&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvrand=17737157847604356604&amp;hvpone=&amp;hvptwo=&amp;hvqmt=&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;hvlocint=&amp;hvlocphy=9032089&amp;hvtargid=pla-521925967560&amp;psc=1">Raising Happiness</a>. A sought-after keynote&nbsp;<a href="https://www.christinecarter.com/speaking/">speaker</a>&nbsp;and senior fellow at UC Berkeley&rsquo;s Greater Good Science Center, she draws on scientific research to help people lead their most courageous, joyful, meaningful, and productive lives.</em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-stop-feeling-time-starved</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-stop-feeling-time-starved#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 1 Oct 2020 20:15:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>How to Stop Feeling Time-Starved</title><description><![CDATA[<h2>Stillness &mdash; or the ability to just sit there and do nothing &mdash; is a skill, and as a culture we&rsquo;re not practicing this skill much these days.&nbsp;</h2>

<p>Although I presumably spent most of my childhood daydreaming, I seldom do it anymore. Occasionally, I&rsquo;ll catch myself spacing out in the shower, just standing there, and I&rsquo;ll try to hustle myself back on track, lest I waste any more time or water.</p>

<p>Rarely do we just let ourselves stare into space these days. Like many people, I feel uncomfortable when I&rsquo;m not doing something, uncomfortable &ldquo;wasting time.&rdquo;</p>

<p>We humans have become multi-tasking productivity machines. We can work from anywhere, to great effect. We can do more, and do it far more quickly, than we ever dreamed possible. Our fabulous new technologies buy us tons more time to crank out our work, get through our emails, and keep up with&nbsp;Modern Family. Time my great-grandmother spent making food from scratch, or hand-washing the laundry, we can now spend, say, driving our kids to their away games.</p>

<p>So now that we have so much more time to work and do things previous generations never dreamed possible (or even deemed desirable),&nbsp;why do we always feel starved for time?</p>

<p>The obvious answer is that we have so much&nbsp;more&nbsp;work, and expectations about what we will accomplish on a good day have expanded, but the number of hours in that day have stayed the same.</p>

<p>That&rsquo;s true, but I also think there is something else at work here:&nbsp;We have gotten really, really bad at just doing nothing.</p>

<p>Look around: We can&rsquo;t even stand to wait in an elevator for 10 seconds without checking our smartphones. I&rsquo;m endlessly fascinated by a new series of studies where the research subjects were put alone in a room, with nothing to do. The researchers describe their work:</p>

<p>In 11 studies, we found that participants typically did not enjoy spending 6 to 15 minutes in a room by themselves with nothing to do but think, that they enjoyed doing mundane external activities much more, and that many preferred to administer electric shocks to themselves instead of being left alone with their thoughts. Most people seem to prefer to be doing something rather than nothing, even if that something is negative.</p>

<p>You read that right: Many people (67 percent of men and 25 percent of women, to be exact) actually gave themselves painful electric shocks instead of just sitting there doing nothing&ndash;after&nbsp;they had indicated to the researchers that they would pay money NOT to be shocked again. One guy shocked himself 190 times in 15 minutes.</p>

<p>This brings me back to my main point: Stillness &mdash; or the ability to just sit there and do nothing &mdash; is a skill, and as a culture we&rsquo;re not practicing this skill much these days. When we can&rsquo;t tolerate stillness, we feel uncomfortable when we have downtime, and so we cancel it out by seeking external stimulation, which is usually readily available in our purse or pocket. Instead of just staring out the window on the bus, for example, we read through our Facebook feed. We check our email waiting in line at the grocery store. Instead of enjoying our dinner, we mindlessly shovel food in our mouths while staring at a screen.</p>

<p>Here&rsquo;s the core problem with all of this: We human beings&nbsp;need&nbsp;stillness in order to recharge our batteries. The constant stream of external stimulation that we get from our televisions and computers and smart phones, while often gratifying in the moment, ultimately causes what neuroscientists call &ldquo;cognitive overload.&rdquo; This state of feeling overwhelmed impairs our ability to think creatively, to plan, organize, innovate, solve problems, make decisions, resist temptations, learn new things easily, speak fluently, remember important social information (like the name of our boss&rsquo;s daughter, or our daughter&rsquo;s boss), and control our emotions. In other words, it impairs basically everything we need to do in a given day.[i]</p>

<p>But wait, there&rsquo;s more: We only experience big joy and real gratitude and the dozens of other positive emotions that make our lives worth living by actually being in touch with our emotions &mdash; by giving ourselves space to actually feel what it is we are, well, feeling. In an effort to avoid the uncomfortable feelings that stillness can produce (such as the panicky feeling that we aren&rsquo;t getting anything done), we also numb ourselves to the good feelings in our lives. And&nbsp;<a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/does_mind_wandering_make_you_unhappy" target="_blank">research by Matt Killingsworth</a>&nbsp;suggests that actually being present to what we&rsquo;re feeling and experiencing in the moment &mdash; good or bad &mdash; is better for our happiness in the end.</p>

<p>Here&rsquo;s the main take-away: If we want to be high-functioning&nbsp;and&nbsp;happy, we need to re-learn how to be still. When we feel like there isn&rsquo;t enough time in the day for us to get everything done, when we wish for more time&hellip; we don&rsquo;t actually need more time. We need more stillness. Stillness to recharge. Stillness so that we can feel whatever it is that we feel. Stillness so that we can actually enjoy this life that we are living.</p>

<p>So if you are feeling overwhelmed and time-starved: Stop. Remember that what you need more than time (to work, to check tasks off your list) is downtime, sans stimulation.</p>

<p>As a society, we don&rsquo;t just need to learn to tolerate stillness, we actually need to cultivate it. Fortunately, it&rsquo;s not complicated. Try driving in silence, with your radio and phone off. (Encourage your children to look out the window while you drive them, instead of down at their devices.) Eat meals out of the sight and sound of your phones and televisions. Take a walk outside every day, preferably in nature, without a phone or music player. If it&rsquo;s hard, just try a few minutes at a time, adding a few minutes each day. Just practice; it&rsquo;ll get easier, and the benefits will become more&nbsp;apparent.</p>

<p>Finally, forgive yourself the next time you find yourself staring blankly into space. You aren&rsquo;t wasting time. You&rsquo;re catching up on your stillness.</p>

<p>Are you longing for more time to focus on what matters most? (Or how about just more time in general?) Or more meaningful work or more fulfilling relationships? I would love to help you find these things! Please join me&nbsp;for a rejuvenating weekend retreat from&nbsp;November 1 to 3, 2019&nbsp;at&nbsp;<a href="https://1440.org/">1440 Multiversity</a>,&nbsp;a beautiful 75-acre campus nestled in the California redwoods near Santa Cruz.&nbsp;<a href="https://1440.org/programs/self-discovery/the-sweet-spot/">Register or learn more here</a>.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>Christine Carter, Ph.D., is a sociologist and author of&nbsp;<a href="https://www.amazon.com/New-Adolescence-Raising-Successful-Distraction/dp/1948836548/ref=sr_1_2?crid=30TJ3SFE9DFTQ&amp;keywords=the+new+adolescence&amp;qid=1562865236&amp;s=gateway&amp;sprefix=the+new+adolescenc%2Caps%2C506&amp;sr=8-2">The New Adolescence</a>,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Sweet-Spot-Accomplish-More-Doing/dp/0553392069/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=the+sweet+spot&amp;qid=1562865979&amp;s=books&amp;sr=1-1">The Sweet Spot&nbsp;</a>and&nbsp;<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Happiness-Simple-Happier-Parents/dp/0345515625/ref=asc_df_0345515625/?tag=hyprod-20&amp;linkCode=df0&amp;hvadid=312136554937&amp;hvpos=1o1&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvrand=17737157847604356604&amp;hvpone=&amp;hvptwo=&amp;hvqmt=&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;hvlocint=&amp;hvlocphy=9032089&amp;hvtargid=pla-521925967560&amp;psc=1">Raising Happiness</a>. A sought-after keynote&nbsp;<a href="https://www.christinecarter.com/speaking/">speaker</a>&nbsp;and senior fellow at UC Berkeley&rsquo;s Greater Good Science Center, she draws on scientific research to help people lead their most courageous, joyful, meaningful, and productive lives.</em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-stop-feeling-time-starved</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-stop-feeling-time-starved#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 1 Oct 2020 20:15:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Multiversity and Operation BBQ Relief: Creating hope for the community</title><description><![CDATA[<p class="has-text-align-center"><em>Daily food preparation will support the growing needs of the<br />
greater Santa Cruz County community</em></p>

<p><strong>SCOTTS VALLEY, CALIF. (September 2, 2020)</strong> &ndash; In response to the rapidly growing needs resulting from the CZU Lightning Complex Fire and COVID-19 pandemic, 1440 Multiversity and Operation BBQ Relief have begun a two-week strategic partnership effective September 1, 2020, that provides support to the Santa Cruz County community and evacuees ravaged by these current crises.</p>

<p>As part of the collaboration, Operation BBQ Relief &ndash; a nonprofit disaster relief organization that deploys into stricken communities across the nation to feed displaced residents and first responders &ndash; will provide resources for 1440 Multiversity staff to prepare three nutritious meals per day for several churches and emergency response organizations across Santa Cruz County, totaling more than 5,000 meals each week to those in need.</p>

<p>&ldquo;1440 Multiversity has dedicated its work to creating hope for living well, and together with our friends at Operation BBQ Relief, we are proud to establish a partnership to help sustain and nourish members of our community who might otherwise go hungry,&rdquo; said <strong>Joanie and Scott Kriens, co-creators of 1440 Multiversity</strong>. &ldquo;We are grateful that our campus has this opportunity to express an authentic love for others through the generous resources provided by Operation BBQ Relief to meet the needs of Santa Cruz County.&rdquo;</p>

<p>Using its &ldquo;food is medicine&rdquo; approach, both hot and cold meals are prepared by members of the 1440 Multiversity culinary team at Kitchen Table, the heart of the nonprofit philanthropic campus. Following each daily meal preparation, the meals are hand-packaged to-go and picked up by the receiving organization three times per day to optimize food quality. The partnership with Operation BBQ Relief, along with supporting efforts by the City of Scotts Valley, will enable these organizations in need to secure the most nutritious meals they can to serve vulnerable members of the community, including fire evacuees and first responders.</p>

<p>&ldquo;Operation BBQ Relief is proud to team with 1440 Multiversity to share the one hot meal that matters to families affected by the wildfires,&rdquo; said <strong>Jarrid Collins, Chief Program Officer of Operation BBQ Relief</strong>. &ldquo;A hot meal provides sustenance, hope and compassion. We are honored to work with an organization that helps provide nutritious meals to the community while also providing hope during these devastating times.&rdquo;</p>

<p>In response to the COVID-19 pandemic, 1440 Multiversity proactively suspended all public and private events on campus out of concern for public health and safety, temporarily moving its educational and well-being offerings to the 1440 Multiversity Online Learning platform. Opened in 2017, 1440 Multiversity is a modern learning destination that supports conversations that matter and inner fitness work to expand personal and professional development with an emphasis on health, wellness, belonging and unity to create hope for living well.</p>

<p>&ldquo;1440 Multiversity is proud to answer the call to be of service during these most difficult times for those in need,&rdquo; said <strong>Frank Ashmore, Managing Director of 1440 Multiversity</strong>. &ldquo;Together with Operation BBQ Relief and in partnership and with the support of our committed city officials in Scotts Valley, we are humbled to do our part in community building, just as so many other people and organizations have done both locally and around the country.&rdquo;</p>

<p>Located in Scotts Valley, California, the residential campus provides a venue for guests from around the world to enjoy a Rest &amp; Renewal stay with signature classes, and attend impactful single, weekend or multi-day programs per year. 1440 Multiversity also welcomes mission-aligned corporate and non-profit groups with strong workplace cultures, who care about essential social issues and give back to their employees and communities.To learn more about 1440 Multiversity, Online Learning, and its 501(c)(3) nonprofit mission, please visit 1440.org or participate in our online learning at 1440.tv</p>
<strong><a data-id="17768" data-type="page" href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/philanthropic-programs#support3">If you would like to donate to this other other community initiatives, click here.</a></strong>

<p><strong>About 1440 Multiversity</strong></p>

<p>1440 Multiversity, located in the Santa Cruz Mountains, is a modern learning destination that welcomes private groups, leadership training, corporate retreats and a variety of individual programs led by thought leaders who blend science with direct-experience learning to enable more effective navigation of personal and professional relationships. 1440 Multiversity has hosted more than 1,200 programs and 100,000 participants since opening in May 2017. More information about the campus experience and full range of programs is available at 1440.org, and 1440 Multiversity Online Learning is located at 1440.tv. 1440 Multiversity is a registered 501(c)(3) non-profit.</p>

<p><strong>About Operation BBQ Relief</strong></p>

<p>Operation BBQ Relief is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization that supports communities following natural disasters with hot barbeque meals to those in need and on the front lines. After the devastating tornado in Joplin, MO. in May 2011, competitive pitmasters from eight different states answered the call to feed displaced families and first responders and served over 120,000 meals over 13 days. This experience was the catalyst that started what Operation BBQ Relief is today. With the help of more than 14,000 volunteers, Operation BBQ Relief has provided over 8 million meals throughout the United States. In response to the COVID-19 pandemic, the organization has provided over four million meals to first responders, medical workers, veterans, families and organizations affected by the pandemic. In 2017, Stan Hays, CEO and Co-Founder, was recognized as one of the &ldquo;CNN Heroes&rdquo; for his work with Operation BBQ Relief. For more information, visit obr.org or follow on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram at @opbbqrelief.</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-multiversity-and-operation-bbq-relief-creating-hope-for-the-community</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-multiversity-and-operation-bbq-relief-creating-hope-for-the-community#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 2 Sep 2020 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Multiversity culinary team joins forces with World Central Kitchen to support downtown Santa Cruz evacuees</title><description><![CDATA[<p>1440 Multiversity is very proud to join forces with World Central Kitchen to prepare dinner for evacuees impacted by the CZU Lightning Complex fire that has ravaged our beautiful region. Led by Executive Chef Kenny Woods, 1440 Multiversity organized and deployed a culinary team to downtown Santa Cruz on Thurs., Aug. 27, where they mindfully prepared over 250 meals for first responders, displaced families, and other vulnerable individuals.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>The dinner menu featured delicious seasonal items: Braised lamb (roasted mushroom as the plant-based option); late-summer tomato sugo and lemon gremolata; and summer squash succotash. Get a taste of Kitchen Table at home with our<a href="https://www.1440.org/teaching-kitchen/late-summer-sugo"> late-summer sugo recipe here.</a></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Our heartfelt thanks to all of the first responders on the front lines of this crisis; we are grateful that the 1440 Multiversity campus is safe, and we look forward to serving Santa Cruz County residents in even more ways over the coming weeks in an effort to create and maintain hope and healing for our greater community.</p>

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<strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/philanthropic-programs#support3">If you would like to donate to this other other community initiatives, click here.</a></strong>

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</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-multiversity-culinary-team-joins-forces-with-world-central-kitchen-to-support-downtown-santa-cruz-evacuees</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-multiversity-culinary-team-joins-forces-with-world-central-kitchen-to-support-downtown-santa-cruz-evacuees#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2020 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Campus Update: Answering the Call</title><description><![CDATA[<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:8px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><i><span style="font-size:12.0pt"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif"><span style="color:#202000">Food preparation is part of a two-phase partnership with the County of Santa Cruz&nbsp;to support the growing needs of the community.</span></span></span></i></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:8px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:115%"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="line-height:115%"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">1440 Multiversity &ndash; one of the nation&rsquo;s premier nonprofit learning destinations &ndash; will begin a two-phase collaborative partnership with the County of Santa Cruz effective April 6, 2020. The partnership will support the County in meeting the growing needs of the community and those impacted by the COVID-19 pandemic by optimizing the 1440 Multiversity workforce and resources of the 75-acre private campus located in the Santa Cruz Mountains.</span></span></span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:8px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:115%"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="line-height:115%"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">As part of the partnership, 1440 Multiversity will prepare three nutritious meals per day for shelters across Santa Cruz County, totaling thousands of meals each week to those in need. Additionally, the campus has agreed to dedicate private space to establish an alternative care site (ACS), which helps expand local health care capacity in coordination with the county&rsquo;s network of local providers as they prepare for a surge of patients impacted by the COVID-19 pandemic.&nbsp; </span></span></span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:8px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:115%"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="line-height:115%"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">&ldquo;<em>1440 Multiversity has always been dedicated to the well-being of others, so it was extremely important for us to figure out a way to support the global efforts taking place in response to this pandemic</em>,&rdquo; said Joanie and Scott Kriens, co-creators of 1440 Multiversity. &ldquo;<em>We are grateful that our campus has this opportunity to express an authentic love for others and has the resources available to meet the needs of Santa Cruz County. Hopefully, our heartfelt contributions will energize and inspire others to do the same, to keep everyone as safe and healthy as possible.</em>&rdquo;</span></span></span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:8px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:115%"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="line-height:115%"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">Using its &ldquo;food is medicine&rdquo; approach, both hot and cold meals will be prepared by more than 40 members of the 1440 Multiversity culinary team at Kitchen Table, the heart of the nonprofit campus. Following each daily meal preparation, the meals will be packed to-go by hand and picked up for delivery by a County-issued courier service to the shelters three times a day to optimize the quality of each meal. The partnership with the County of Santa Cruz will enable shelters to secure the most nutritious meals they can to serve vulnerable members of the community and others in need.&nbsp; </span></span></span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:8px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:115%"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="line-height:115%"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">The ACS being established at 1440 Multiversity is designed to free up local hospital capacity by treating patients who need hospitalization but do not have complex medical needs. 1440 Multiversity is one of two identified sites in the county established to support the Santa Cruz County Public Health Division as part of its surge care planning; the alternative care sites will afford designated patients a safe place to receive care and recuperate while under the care of medical professionals and in keeping with best medical practices. Alternative care sites are private, not open to the public and are not walk-up medical facilities; they are designated for current hospital patients with a range of non-complex medical needs and not used to treat critically ill COVID-19 patients.</span></span></span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:8px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:115%"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="line-height:115%"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">&ldquo;<em>1440 Multiversity is proud to answer the call and to be of service to our community and be able to join so many people and organizations around the country who have stepped up to help</em>,&rdquo; said Frank Ashmore, Managing Director of 1440 Multiversity.</span></span></span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:8px"><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:115%"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="line-height:115%"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">In response to the COVID-19 pandemic, 1440 Multiversity proactively suspended all public and private events on campus temporarily out of concern for public health and safety, moving its educational and well-being offerings to the 1440 Multiversity Online Learning platform. Opened in 2017, 1440 Multiversity is a modern learning destination that supports conversations that matter and inner fitness work to expand personal and professional development with an emphasis on health, wellness, belonging and unity. </span></span></span></span></span></span></p>

<p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom:8px"><em><span style="font-size:11pt"><span style="line-height:115%"><span style="font-family:Calibri,sans-serif"><span style="font-size:10.0pt"><span style="line-height:115%"><span style="font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;,sans-serif">Participate in our online learning at <a href="https://www.1440.tv/">1440.tv</a>.</span></span></span></span></span></span></em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/campus-update-answering-the-call</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/campus-update-answering-the-call#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 6 Apr 2020 23:58:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Reclaim Yourself After Loss</title><description><![CDATA[<p>&quot;I sat with the dying and then I gave birth to a daughter and she died. My 35-year-old husband died and I realized that everything I was ever taught about grief had nothing to do with reality and I was blown away ... I didn&#39;t understand how the world could not help ... Everything changes inside and everything is the same on the outside and we break. When that happens, we truly break in half and every single person on this earth has gone through or will go through this experience.&quot;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Watch below as Christina discuss how life continues after loss.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/jd2DFqekgZ4" width="560"></iframe></p>

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<p>Join Christina at her program&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Temple Journey&nbsp;</a>March 20 - 22, 2020.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-reclaim-yourself-after-loss</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-reclaim-yourself-after-loss#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 25 Feb 2020 19:24:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Living, Working, Loving and Staying Healthy After Loss</title><description><![CDATA[<p>Join grief educator and author, Christina Rasmussen, in a discussion with Susan Hannifin-MacNab. Susan is an author, social worker, and educator whose journey with grief began five years ago when her husband was killed suddenly. Their conversation is perfect for those dealing with loss, whether still fresh or somewhere down the road of healing.&nbsp;</p>

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<p><iframe allowfullscreen="" height="90" mozallowfullscreen="" msallowfullscreen="" oallowfullscreen="" scrolling="no" src="//html5-player.libsyn.com/embed/episode/id/13068203/height/90/theme/custom/thumbnail/yes/direction/backward/render-playlist/no/custom-color/30375a/" style="border: none" webkitallowfullscreen="" width="100%"></iframe></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/living-working-loving-and-staying-healthy-after-loss</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/living-working-loving-and-staying-healthy-after-loss#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 25 Feb 2020 19:16:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Five Things You Need to Know About Your Life After Loss</title><description><![CDATA[<p>By Christina Rasmussen</p>

<p>I was finishing an interview with the incredible Jamie Butler at the Lighter Side show which by the way you need to check out.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>An incredible human being and I highly recommend her work.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Our interview together will be posted next week.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>As we finished our chat Jamie asked me&nbsp;<i>where do you get all this passion from</i>&nbsp;and I said to her that when I discover something that everyone needs to know about, I get carried away.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>I can&rsquo;t stop. All I can think about is telling them what I discovered and how it can change their life. All I can think about is that I can&rsquo;t have people being sad, and unhappy when there is a way out of sadness.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>I want to run to you and tell you.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>I want to scream it from the rooftops.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>I want to look you in the eyes and say it doesn&rsquo;t need to be so hard, here is why and how and what and where.</em></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2>First thing to know</h2>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>You are born with the ability to change your life no matter how much loss, sadness and difficulty you are experiencing. You are born ready. You are made to overcome it all.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>You don&rsquo;t even have to learn to do it, you know it. This is your journey and you wrote the map to where you are going. Don&rsquo;t let anyone tell you that you can&rsquo;t, that there is no way out. There is. And you are standing right in front of it.</p>

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<h2>Second thing to know</h2>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Your life is created by you and the people you choose to have around you. This is very crucial to know. You are the creator of yourself, your destiny and your experience but also who you bring into the world influences that creation. You create your life by choosing the kind of story you want to tell every day. You create by the way you respond to something difficult. By the way you see the world and by the people you choose to be in your life. The way they see you and the way they think of you impacts your life. This is why you must remember to only let people in who see you with love and respect. This is critical. You must choose wisely when it comes to co-observers and co-creators. I have so much to tell you about this and I will but for now, that is all you need.<b>&nbsp;Allow only good people in. Period.</b></p>

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<h2>Third thing to know</h2>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Death is not death. When someone doesn&rsquo;t seem like they are here it doesn&rsquo;t mean they don&rsquo;t exist. It means they exist in another way. In another place that is non-local, non-geographical, non-physical looking. You have access to that place. Every day. Every moment. You don&rsquo;t have to wait for them to come contact you.&nbsp;You can be the one connecting with them. They want to connect with you. This has been one of the biggest discoveries I made while writing my new book. They want you to say hi and talk to them. I know this can come across as peculiar and I am fully aware of that.<b>&nbsp;But death is just a word we use to describe the end of someone&rsquo;s physical life. Not the end of them.</b></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2>Fourth thing to know</h2>

<p>You, the table in front of you, the computer, the phone, the trees, the solid-looking things in your life are not solid. They just appear solid and firm. The truth is that the nothingness of the space between your table and chairs, is the same as the table and chairs. Nothing and not nothing is one and the same. The empty space next to you, is made the way you are made. The reason why this is important to know is that if you knew that then when you see empty space you will know it is not empty at all, it has so many things in it, including your person. They are still here but you can&rsquo;t see them with your eyes open. Your eyes can&rsquo;t see all the light that exists. Your ears can&rsquo;t hear all the sounds that exist. The people we think we lost are right here inside all the space around us.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2>Fifth thing to know</h2>

<p>And last but not least there is a deeper reality, a deeper existence that you can&rsquo;t see from here and it is where miracles come from. Where healing takes place. Where everything gets created and that deeper, more hidden reality is more real than this one. You can bring everything you want from there to here, it is your creation. When we start to know this, then we can be more in control of our life and what happens to it. Not knowing this, is like trying to drive the car at night without the lights on. Please don&rsquo;t forget it. You are the driver of this experience and you now know what you need to do to turn the lights back on.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Join Christina at her program <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Temple Journey&nbsp;</a>March 20 &ndash; 22, 2020.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Learn more about life and loss from Christina on her podcast <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/living-working-loving-and-staying-healthy-after-loss">Dear Life</a>&nbsp;and in this <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-reclaim-yourself-after-loss">video</a> where she addresses life after loss.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/five-things-you-need-to-know-about-your-life-after-loss</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/five-things-you-need-to-know-about-your-life-after-loss#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 25 Feb 2020 18:51:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How Tough Times Make us More Resilient</title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>&quot;Resilience is more than bouncing back, it&#39;s transformation.&quot;&nbsp;</strong><br />
&nbsp;</p>

<p>Joan Borysenko&nbsp;is a licensed clinical psychologist, best-selling author, and speaker. In the&nbsp;video below, from Psychotherapy Networker, she discusses the resilience that comes from transformation.&nbsp;</p>

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<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/BM2aZcQsmr0" width="560"></iframe></p>

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<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Join Joan at 1440 for her program</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-tough-times-make-us-more-resilient</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-tough-times-make-us-more-resilient#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 24 Feb 2020 18:51:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>How Tough Times Make us More Resilient</title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>&quot;Resilience is more than bouncing back, it&#39;s transformation.&quot;&nbsp;</strong><br />
&nbsp;</p>

<p>Joan Borysenko&nbsp;is a licensed clinical psychologist, best-selling author, and speaker. In the&nbsp;video below, from Psychotherapy Networker, she discusses the resilience that comes from transformation.&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/BM2aZcQsmr0" width="560"></iframe></p>

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<p>Join Joan at 1440 for her program <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Spiritual Art of Memoir</a>,&nbsp;July 17 &ndash; 19, 2020.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-tough-times-make-us-more-resilient</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-tough-times-make-us-more-resilient#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 24 Feb 2020 18:51:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Naomi Shihab Nye Reads Her Poem &apos;Kindness&apos;</title><description><![CDATA[<p>Naomi Shihab Nye is an award-winning poet (<em>Gate A-4</em>), author, and songwriter.&nbsp;We were lucky enough to spend time with her and other incredible thinkers at 1440 during the&nbsp;2018 On Being Gathering. She graciously read her&nbsp;poem <i data-stringify-type="italic">Kindness</i>&nbsp;in the woods of our beautiful campus. Watch below.</p>

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<p><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/8UF3NolGSHg" width="560"></iframe></p>

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<h1 data-v-101110cb="" itemprop="name">Kindness<br />
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<p>Naomi Shihab Nye&nbsp;<br />
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<p>Before you know what kindness really is<br />
you must lose things,<br />
feel the future dissolve in a moment<br />
like salt in a weakened broth.<br />
What you held in your hand,<br />
what you counted and carefully saved,<br />
all this must go so you know<br />
how desolate the landscape can be<br />
between the regions of kindness.<br />
How you ride and ride<br />
thinking the bus will never stop,<br />
the passengers eating maize and chicken<br />
will stare out the window forever.<br />
&nbsp;</p>

<p>Before you learn the tender gravity of kindness<br />
you must travel where the Indian in a white poncho<br />
lies dead by the side of the road.<br />
You must see how this could be you,<br />
how he too was someone<br />
who journeyed through the night with plans<br />
and the simple breath that kept him alive.<br />
&nbsp;</p>

<p>Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside,<br />
you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing.<br />
You must wake up with sorrow.<br />
You must speak to it till your voice<br />
catches the thread of all sorrows<br />
and you see the size of the cloth.<br />
Then it is only kindness that makes sense anymore,<br />
only kindness that ties your shoes<br />
and sends you out into the day to gaze at bread,<br />
only kindness that raises its head<br />
from the crowd of the world to say<br />
It is I you have been looking for,<br />
and then goes with you everywhere<br />
like a shadow or a friend.</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/naomi-shihab-nye-reads-her-poem-kindness</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/naomi-shihab-nye-reads-her-poem-kindness#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 7 Feb 2020 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>3 Must-Have Skills for Any Critical Conversation</title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Gayle Ober</strong><br />
&nbsp;</p>

<p>Critical conversations are a fact of life.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>You&rsquo;re going to have these high-heat meetings with your team at work, your family, and your community. As authentic leaders, how we handle these situations takes courage, intention, and practice and says a lot about who we are as leaders.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>I&rsquo;ve learned a few things over the years about critical conversations:</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1. In any high heat meeting, stay true to your values.</h2>

<p>No matter how heated the conversation gets, stay centered in your values. One of my values is relationships. As an extrovert, I thrive on the energy that my interactions with others bring into my life. Putting relationships at the center of the conversation in a mindful way helps me to stay on track with my goal: to make sure the relationship remains intact, even if healing time will be needed.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2>2. Don&rsquo;t respond immediately to a negative comment.</h2>

<p>It&rsquo;s easy to get caught up in the heat of the moment. Resist this temptation. Instead, use a deep breath or a 3-second pause to help you gather your thoughts and keep from intensifying the conversation into a shouting match or stony silence. This practice is simple, but it is not always easy to do when we are hooked.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2>3. Remember to be compassionate and empathetic.</h2>

<p>We don&rsquo;t always know what prompted a sharp, hurtful comment or an attitude of defensiveness or anger. Putting ourselves in the other person&rsquo;s &ldquo;shoes&rdquo;, even for a moment, can help deflect any increasing heat in the conversation or meeting. Compassion takes tapping into your heart and can change the conversational path and (sometimes) the outcome.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>As I continue to develop as an authentic leader, I&rsquo;ve learned that I need to enter any challenging conversation or meeting with intention and when possible, preparation. As my friends and co-workers will attest, I don&rsquo;t always get it right, but I have greater awareness that how I was raised and how I live affects how I show up. &nbsp;And that awareness alone can really change things. Develop these practices and see if you agree.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Interested in learning and improving your skills in critical conversations? Join Larry Dressler, Scott Kriens and me at 1440 Multiversity, May 27-29, 2020 for <em><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Critical Conversations for the Authentic Leader</a>, </em>May 27-29, 2020. Space is limited so register soon.</strong></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/3-must-have-skills-for-any-critical-conversation</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/3-must-have-skills-for-any-critical-conversation#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 31 Jan 2020 16:24:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>3 Must-Have Skills for Any Critical Conversation</title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Gayle Ober</strong><br />
&nbsp;</p>

<p>Critical conversations are a fact of life.</p>

<p>You&rsquo;re going to have these high-heat meetings with your team at work, your family, and your community. As authentic leaders, how we handle these situations takes courage, intention, and practice and says a lot about who we are as leaders.</p>

<p>I&rsquo;ve learned a few things over the years about critical conversations:</p>

<h2>1. In any high heat meeting, stay true to your values.</h2>

<p>No matter how heated the conversation gets, stay centered in your values. One of my values is relationships. As an extrovert, I thrive on the energy that my interactions with others bring into my life. Putting relationships at the center of the conversation in a mindful way helps me to stay on track with my goal: to make sure the relationship remains intact, even if healing time will be needed.</p>

<h2>2. Don&rsquo;t respond immediately to a negative comment.</h2>

<p>It&rsquo;s easy to get caught up in the heat of the moment. Resist this temptation. Instead, use a deep breath or a 3-second pause to help you gather your thoughts and keep from intensifying the conversation into a shouting match or stony silence. This practice is simple, but it is not always easy to do when we are hooked.</p>

<h2>3. Remember to be compassionate and empathetic.</h2>

<p>We don&rsquo;t always know what prompted a sharp, hurtful comment or an attitude of defensiveness or anger. Putting ourselves in the other person&rsquo;s &ldquo;shoes&rdquo;, even for a moment, can help deflect any increasing heat in the conversation or meeting. Compassion takes tapping into your heart and can change the conversational path and (sometimes) the outcome.</p>

<p>As I continue to develop as an authentic leader, I&rsquo;ve learned that I need to enter any challenging conversation or meeting with intention and when possible, preparation. As my friends and co-workers will attest, I don&rsquo;t always get it right, but I have greater awareness that how I was raised and how I live affects how I show up. &nbsp;And that awareness alone can really change things. Develop these practices and see if you agree.</p>

<p><strong>Interested in learning and improving your skills in critical conversations? Join Larry Dressler, Scott Kriens and me at 1440 Multiversity, May 27-29, 2020 for <em><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Critical Conversations for the Authentic Leader</a>, </em>May 27-29, 2020. Space is limited so register soon.</strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/3-must-have-skills-for-any-critical-conversation</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/3-must-have-skills-for-any-critical-conversation#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 31 Jan 2020 16:24:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>Meditation as a Creative Act: Jeff Warren on the Simplicity of Creating a Practice</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{159}" paraid="1592421324">&nbsp;</p>

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<h2>1440: How do you define meditation? &nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{176}" paraid="830918878">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{178}" paraid="470266640"><strong>Jeff</strong>: At the most fundamental level, meditation is becoming awake. It&rsquo;s about taking the time to get to know ourselves. This can happen on the meditation cushion or in other ways that together constitute what I call practice. &nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{182}" paraid="1852644145">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{184}" paraid="1790513497">Practice is about becoming awake to the fact that you have particular habits and patterns. As you start to see them and have more self-understanding, self-insight, and self-knowledge, you can begin to develop more space and freedom around the parts of you that are hard or that you want to change. You can begin to make small calibrations in those patterns to take you toward a healthier and more fulfilling way of existing that you instinctively know is possible. Ultimately, practice is about taking responsibility for your own stewardship of yourself. &nbsp;</p>

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<h2>1440: What kind of things are included under the larger umbrella of &ldquo;practice&rdquo;?&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{194}" paraid="1736249293">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{196}" paraid="1137970267"><strong>Jeff</strong>: The skills you develop in meditation I think of as upstream from all the other skills. In seated meditation you develop concentration (the ability to direct your attention), equanimity (the capacity to be with whatever is happening), and insight (the ability to get clear). Sitting meditation is explicitly about building these simple skills, so there&rsquo;s incredible value in it. &nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{200}" paraid="954913684">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{202}" paraid="600025705">Beyond that, there are many other practices that help you develop these fundamentals, each one typically emphasizing one of these skills over the other. There are shamanic practices, body practices, martial arts practices, sports practices, creative practices, arts practices, psycho-therapeutic practices, somatic practices&mdash;the list goes on. The forms change, but the core skills are always there somewhere. Any of these practices can be part of how we try to balance and heal ourselves.&nbsp;</p>

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<h2>1440: People often say things like, &ldquo;Running is my meditation.&rdquo; Can running, or other practices, be a substitute for meditation?&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{216}" paraid="1584935237">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{218}" paraid="1141316500"><strong>Jeff</strong>: I&rsquo;ve been thinking a lot about this because running is an important part of my practice and I need physical activity in addition to sitting meditation to help me self-regulate. I think practice happens on three different timescales. It happens in the moment. It happens on the level of months and years. And it happens on the scale of our entire life. Most practices affect all three levels, but they&rsquo;ll tend to have one level where they shine. &nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{222}" paraid="1606011837">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{224}" paraid="1976171707">With something like running or other physical activities, it&rsquo;s a practice that can shift your state quickly, so I think of it as an in-the-moment practice. Of course it benefits my physical health over the years and my lifetime, but I mostly do it to feel better right then, to stop myself from spinning out.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{228}" paraid="1626440045">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{230}" paraid="738137914">With sitting meditation I do it not so much to shift my vibe in the moment but because I want to build the habit, and I know it&rsquo;s going to benefit me for years to come. It doesn&rsquo;t matter if I&rsquo;m in a good or bad mood, if it&rsquo;s raining or sunny, if I had a great or terrible day&mdash;I sit down and face whatever is there, as it is. This builds the skill of equanimity over time and contributes to what I think the third timescale is all about, and that&rsquo;s the deeper spiritual and mystical experience of knowing that you&rsquo;re complete. Of seeing things on a larger scale and resting in an expansive, open awareness.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{234}" paraid="1948967868">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{236}" paraid="745509137">In theory I think all practices can be done with the three levels in mind, but with something like running I can manage to run in the moment and even to run in a way that meets what&rsquo;s happening with equanimity, paying exquisite attention to each pixel of my experience. But because I&rsquo;m usually running quickly, I don&rsquo;t have the bandwidth to open on that larger mystical scale. Maybe some people do, but I think it generally happens with slower movement or stillness. &nbsp;</p>

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<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{242}" paraid="705334053">&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: It sounds like there&rsquo;s a lot of room for us to be creative in designing our own practice. &nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{248}" paraid="654222753"><strong>Jeff</strong>: The single most creative thing we have to do in our life is our life. How do we distribute the care and love we have to give to ourselves and others? How do we configure a life of intentional practice without it becoming oppressive, like an endless &ldquo;to do&rdquo; list? We can remix our reality like a DJ. &nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{252}" paraid="304406283">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{986cc81e-1552-48c6-9980-9e285c05ce00}{254}" paraid="730684518">What do you already do that quickens your pulse and makes you feel alive and connected? Whatever that is, that&rsquo;s your practice already. It&rsquo;s there staring you in the face. You don&rsquo;t have to just sit with your eyes closed alone in your house. Take what you learn on the cushion into whatever it is that gives you joy and enlivens you&mdash;connecting to people, creating art, doing a physical practice, or whatever it is. &nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c97577d3-cf6e-4f36-ac13-13443c6893d2}{3}" paraid="1763606466">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c97577d3-cf6e-4f36-ac13-13443c6893d2}{5}" paraid="1377309436">Do the experiment for yourself. You&rsquo;re the only one who can tell you whether you&rsquo;re fooling yourself or if it&rsquo;s really working. &nbsp;</p>

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<p paraeid="{c97577d3-cf6e-4f36-ac13-13443c6893d2}{11}" paraid="737191198">&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: Where would someone start if they wanted to begin meditating? &nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{c97577d3-cf6e-4f36-ac13-13443c6893d2}{15}" paraid="1241197086">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c97577d3-cf6e-4f36-ac13-13443c6893d2}{17}" paraid="1133226857"><strong>Jeff</strong>: Start incredibly simply. Don&rsquo;t make a big deal about it. Just sit anywhere and see if you can be okay with whatever is going on. You don&rsquo;t have to know right out of the gate if you&rsquo;re doing a concentration practice or an open awareness practice or whatever&mdash;you can keep it simpler than that. Just sit and be with what&rsquo;s going on. &nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c97577d3-cf6e-4f36-ac13-13443c6893d2}{21}" paraid="1614522757">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c97577d3-cf6e-4f36-ac13-13443c6893d2}{23}" paraid="1810050305">This will develop equanimity, but you don&rsquo;t even need to know that. And if it&rsquo;s hard to just sit and be okay with what happens, you can lightly focus on the breath or on sounds. Eventually you can move into concentration practices and insight practices where you notice habits and patterns, but you don&rsquo;t need to start there. Start on the wide end of the funnel. I&rsquo;d also recommend finding a community to sit with or an accountability buddy to help you stay on track. Apps are great too. &nbsp;</p>

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<p paraeid="{c97577d3-cf6e-4f36-ac13-13443c6893d2}{29}" paraid="1607775615">&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: What if someone just doesn&rsquo;t like sitting still and meditation feels torturous?&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{c97577d3-cf6e-4f36-ac13-13443c6893d2}{37}" paraid="129340831"><strong>Jeff</strong>: I have ADD and co-wrote a book called&nbsp;Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics, so I know how hard this can be! But I think all of us need to learn to be able to sit still with ourselves. We have to confront our restlessness. If you really can&rsquo;t do it at first, start with a slow movement practice like qigong or tai chi. Then when you develop enough presence and skill from that, let it settle down into a stillness practice. That doesn&rsquo;t necessarily mean sitting in silent meditation. You might sit on the porch or on a bench or on a rock in the woods and just be with yourself and be okay for 10 minutes. And then maybe you can move into a more specific practice&mdash;there are so many options available.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c97577d3-cf6e-4f36-ac13-13443c6893d2}{45}" paraid="1547279692">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c97577d3-cf6e-4f36-ac13-13443c6893d2}{47}" paraid="693391543">It can help to think of meditation as both an exploration and a training. As we practice, we&rsquo;re learning who we are and in the act of looking at that, we change ourselves. It&rsquo;s a paradox. Some people will take to it as a training because they like discipline. Others will think it feels too much like forcing themselves to eat their vegetables and will emphasize the exploratory side. Either way, the point is for you to learn about you. Learning how your thought processes work, what the body is doing, what it means to get out of your head and into your body&mdash;these things will change your life. And that will not only help you, but it will simultaneously radiate out into your family, your community, your work&mdash;everywhere.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c97577d3-cf6e-4f36-ac13-13443c6893d2}{51}" paraid="581519804">&nbsp;<br />
Join Jeff Warren at his program <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics</a>, April 24 &ndash; 26, 2020.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c97577d3-cf6e-4f36-ac13-13443c6893d2}{51}" paraid="581519804">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c97577d3-cf6e-4f36-ac13-13443c6893d2}{53}" paraid="1391978600"><em>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown, a freelance writer&nbsp;and&nbsp;editor.&nbsp;</em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/meditation-as-a-creative-act-jeff-warren-on-the-simplicity-of-creating-a-practice</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/meditation-as-a-creative-act-jeff-warren-on-the-simplicity-of-creating-a-practice#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jan 2020 19:22:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Fragrant Festive Cocktails</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{fefc346f-44a0-4121-8947-6fc531cec23b}{156}" paraid="1341273368">1440 Mixologist Joey&nbsp;Driussi&nbsp;creates unique cocktails.&nbsp;Perfect for those looking for a lighter cocktail, sake&nbsp;combined with farm-fresh seasonal ingredients&nbsp;elevates the art of cocktailing to an entirely&nbsp;different level. The bright layers of flavor in the Fig &amp;&nbsp;Ginger Shrub Margarita will impress even the most&nbsp;experienced mixology aficionados. Savor the notes&nbsp;of the Black Currant Old-Fashioned to feel as though&nbsp;you&rsquo;re next to a campfire at&nbsp;sunset, and&nbsp;serve the&nbsp;Asian Pear &amp; Apple Sangria to lighten everyone&rsquo;s&nbsp;spirits during&nbsp;the dark winter months.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{fefc346f-44a0-4121-8947-6fc531cec23b}{233}" paraid="704697755"><strong>Fragrant Festive Cocktails&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{fefc346f-44a0-4121-8947-6fc531cec23b}{241}" paraid="134760109">Recipes by Mixologist Joey&nbsp;Driussi&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{fefc346f-44a0-4121-8947-6fc531cec23b}{249}" paraid="1589927360">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{fefc346f-44a0-4121-8947-6fc531cec23b}{253}" paraid="1497013858"><strong>Fig &amp; Ginger Shrub Margarita&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{4}" paraid="953876902">Pair this cocktail with savory barbecued surf and turf.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{14}" paraid="1155208268">Yield: 2 Cocktails&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{20}" paraid="598113544">1 cup granulated sugar&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{26}" paraid="1159156244">1 &frac14; cup apple cider vinegar&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{32}" paraid="716484511">4 cups diced fresh figs (about 15 figs)&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{38}" paraid="1891770081">&frac34; cup peeled ginger&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{44}" paraid="1646763984">10 ounces sake&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{50}" paraid="623564030">2 ounces lime juice&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{56}" paraid="2000278364">splash of orange juice&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{62}" paraid="7237217">honey and salt for rimming&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{72}" paraid="663568321"><strong>Fig &amp; Ginger Shrub&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{78}" paraid="1356990831">Combine the sugar, apple cider vinegar, diced figs, and&nbsp;peeled ginger. Mix well and store covered overnight;&nbsp;stir occasionally. Double strain through a mesh sieve to&nbsp;discard&nbsp;the large pulpy material. Depending on the size of&nbsp;the sieve, you may have leftover fig seeds in your creation.&nbsp;This is okay as the seeds don&rsquo;t add an off-putting texture&nbsp;or&nbsp;taste.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{116}" paraid="459788278">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{120}" paraid="177255879">The Cocktail&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{126}" paraid="1513632428">Add fig &amp; ginger shrub, sake, and lime and orange juice.&nbsp;Shake or stir. Rim your glasses&nbsp;with honey and dip into salt&nbsp;for an added sweet-salty combo. Pour over ice and enjoy.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{144}" paraid="405917599">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{148}" paraid="956098521"><strong>Black Currant Old-Fashioned&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{154}" paraid="1498886366">Pair with a savory dish or favorite dessert.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{164}" paraid="16427000">Yield: 1 Cocktail&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{170}" paraid="722106141">1 cup black currants (or 2 ounces of black currant juice)&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{176}" paraid="1267226840">2 dashes Angostura bitters&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{182}" paraid="1220885628">2 dashes Australian bitters&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{188}" paraid="1370370897">&frac14; cup sliced ginger&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{194}" paraid="586388787">5 ounces sake&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{200}" paraid="922283020">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{204}" paraid="1974442277">The Cocktail&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{210}" paraid="131835790">Combine all ingredients and allow to sit overnight,&nbsp;occasionally agitating the mixture. When ready to serve,&nbsp;strain all ingredients and pour over ice.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{224}" paraid="1680281935">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{228}" paraid="280474260"><strong>Asian Pear &amp; Apple Sangria&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{234}" paraid="1917489122">Sip on one of these while serving hors d&rsquo;oeuvres.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{244}" paraid="830395182">Yield: 4 &ndash; 8 Cocktails&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{799c5fea-73b9-4fe2-bfde-e9bc906eff0c}{250}" paraid="1769491398">1 bottle of your favorite dry white wine&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e964b9aa-d297-47b0-b0f2-8089792b884b}{1}" paraid="1191170146">3 tablespoons brown sugar&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e964b9aa-d297-47b0-b0f2-8089792b884b}{7}" paraid="1592399665">2 Asian pears thinly cut longways&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e964b9aa-d297-47b0-b0f2-8089792b884b}{13}" paraid="1435015578">1 medium Granny Smith apple sliced&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e964b9aa-d297-47b0-b0f2-8089792b884b}{19}" paraid="1954122464">1 small orange&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e964b9aa-d297-47b0-b0f2-8089792b884b}{25}" paraid="1976671417">4&nbsp;&ndash;&nbsp;8 rosemary sprigs&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e964b9aa-d297-47b0-b0f2-8089792b884b}{35}" paraid="91639305">1 bottle dry hard cider&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e964b9aa-d297-47b0-b0f2-8089792b884b}{45}" paraid="647784254">The Cocktail&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e964b9aa-d297-47b0-b0f2-8089792b884b}{51}" paraid="1533797930">Pour white wine into a large pitcher or decanter. Slowly stir&nbsp;in the brown sugar, until dissolved. Add Asian pear slices,&nbsp;apple, and orange. Stir gently and refrigerate for several&nbsp;hours before serving. To serve, place a sprig of rosemary&nbsp;into each wine glass, then add sangria. Top with hard cider&nbsp;for added booze and bubbles.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/fragrant-festive-cocktails</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/fragrant-festive-cocktails#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 23 Jan 2020 14:13:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>10 Useful Quotes About Leadership</title><description><![CDATA[<p>Leadership is about building trusted relationships. It might seem easy but it requires authenticity, presence, and the ability to really listen and connect to ourselves and with one another. That&#39;s why we&#39;ve put together the top ten most useful quotes&nbsp;from&nbsp;leadership experts teaching at 1440 this year.</p>

<p>1. &ldquo;In order for people in organizations to thrive, managers have an obligation to do their self-work and assist others to do the same which very often takes the form of coaching and mentoring their people.&rdquo; - <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Michelle Maldonado</a></p>

<p paraeid="{0ddc3243-8468-4cb8-970e-84a651756325}{211}" paraid="1340741052">2. &ldquo;Nothing interesting or innovative has ever really happened in groups without the heat of passion, disagreement, fear or confusion.&rdquo; &ndash; <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Larry Dressler</a></p>

<p>3. &ldquo;Only when leaders accept who they are and release the need to be on someone else&rsquo;s fast track can they be comfortable in their own skin.&rdquo;- <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Bill George</a>&nbsp;</p>

<p>4. &ldquo;The first step of appreciation is awareness: simply paying attention.&rdquo; - <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Jim&nbsp;Dethmer</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Diana Chapman</a>, and Kaley Warner Klemp&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{0ddc3243-8468-4cb8-970e-84a651756325}{252}" paraid="815271475">5. &ldquo;That need to show up in a relationship in a courageous, authentic, vulnerable, real way is the same requirement whether you&rsquo;re talking to an employee, or to a spouse, or to your friend, or to your child, or to yourself.&rdquo; &ndash; <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Scott Kriens</a>&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{1f614c90-20e4-4a87-8218-b0ba4dd10b80}{8}" paraid="1799694883">6.&nbsp; &ldquo;It&rsquo;s not one plus one equals two, it&rsquo;s a multiplier effect I get better my partner gets better, those around us and our strategy all gets better.&rdquo;&nbsp; &ndash; <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dan Mulhern</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{1f614c90-20e4-4a87-8218-b0ba4dd10b80}{19}" paraid="1449908634">7.&nbsp;&quot;Leader&#39;s life stories are more powerful than any set of characteristics or leadership skills they possess.&rdquo; -&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Bill George</a>&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{1f614c90-20e4-4a87-8218-b0ba4dd10b80}{30}" paraid="776072618">8.&nbsp;&quot;In a room filled with closed hearts, one compassionate heart is enough.&rdquo; &ndash; <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Larry Dressler</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p>9.&nbsp;&ldquo;Authentic leaders are fully present in the midst of conflict, confusion, and strong emotion and support those who are struggling.&quot;&nbsp; &ndash; <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Gayle Ober</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{1f614c90-20e4-4a87-8218-b0ba4dd10b80}{48}" paraid="512937850">10. &quot;To build a high performing team you have to engage the whole person in the mission&rdquo; &ndash; <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Scott Kriens</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p><em>Find more excellent leadership quotes <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/10-terrific-quotes-about-leadership">here</a>.</em></p>

<p>Larry Dressler and Gayle Ober teach <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Critical Conversations for the Authentic Leader</a>, May 27-29, 2020</p>

<p>Bill George, Scott Kriens, Michelle Maldonado, and Dana Born teach&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">True North Leadership</a> October 11 &ndash;16, 2020.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-useful-quotes-about-leadership</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-useful-quotes-about-leadership#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 Jan 2020 15:41:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>5 Brilliant Books About Living Life</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{48e37fe0-d260-47af-a7da-b0cde00fee72}{187}" paraid="1456812382">This month we&rsquo;re featuring 5 brilliant books that will push you to reflect, lead, and get more done.&nbsp;</p>

<h2><em>The Four Agreements&nbsp;</em>by don Miguel Ruiz&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{48e37fe0-d260-47af-a7da-b0cde00fee72}{214}" paraid="1211161450">This modern-day classic is based&nbsp;on ancient Toltec wisdom.&nbsp;A longtime <em>New York Times</em> bestseller,&nbsp;<em>The&nbsp;Four Agreements</em>&nbsp;is&nbsp;full&nbsp;of&nbsp;reminders&nbsp;on how to lead&nbsp;a&nbsp;fulfilling&nbsp;life.&nbsp;Who can argue with solid advice like this?&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>Be Impeccable With Your Word&nbsp;</em></strong></p>

<p paraeid="{48e37fe0-d260-47af-a7da-b0cde00fee72}{254}" paraid="691234557">&ldquo;Every human is a magician, and we can either put a spell on someone with our word or we can release someone from a spell.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>Don&rsquo;t Take Anything Personally&nbsp;</em></strong></p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{16}" paraid="1598330097">&ldquo;Nothing other people do is because of you. It is because of themselves.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>Don&rsquo;t Make Assumptions&nbsp;</em></strong></p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{29}" paraid="652217890">&ldquo;We make an assumption, we misunderstand, we take it personally, and we end up creating a whole big drama for nothing.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>Always Do Your Best&nbsp;</em></strong></p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{42}" paraid="1351252300">&ldquo;Everything is alive and changing all the time, so your best will sometimes be high quality, and other times it will not be as good.&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{55}" paraid="363374663"><em>Join&nbsp;the sons of don Miguel Ruiz for <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Agreement of Love</a>, March 27 &ndash; 29, 2020 to learn how to integrate these agreements into your everyday life.&nbsp;</em></p>

<h2><em>How to Get&nbsp;Sh*t Done&nbsp;</em>by Erin Falconer&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{74}" paraid="1404096970">Do you ever feel like you&#39;re&nbsp;crossing things off your to-do list but you&rsquo;re still not getting much done? Author and productivity expert&nbsp;Erin Falconer contends that being busy is not the same as being productive. In her informative and accessible book, Falconer provides just enough real-life context combined with tools and exercises to help increase productivity and creativity.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{80}" paraid="1608685748">&ldquo;The reality is that the very structure of our days &ndash; in which we rush from task to task.&nbsp;Cramming&nbsp;in as much as we can &ndash; not only reduces our ability to be creative, it also takes away our ability to know our own minds.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{90}" paraid="303262680"><em>Learn to get more done with Erin Falconer at&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">How to Get Sh*t Done</a>, February 21&ndash;23, 2020.&nbsp;</em></p>

<h2><em>The Highly Sensitive Person&nbsp;</em>by Elaine N. Aron, PhD&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{105}" paraid="1619384712">Are you a highly sensitive person?&nbsp;It&rsquo;s estimated that 15 &ndash; 20% of people are.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{111}" paraid="1694235819">In Elaine N. Aron&rsquo;s best-selling book, highly sensitive people can learn more about what exactly that means, how it can affect work and relationships, and how to live well&nbsp;in the midst of&nbsp;overwhelm. She also discusses how men are sometimes left out of this conversation, but they too can be highly sensitive. Aron combines tests, tools, and tips to help. As a research psychologist and psychotherapist, Aron understands the difficulties on both a personal and professional level.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{125}" paraid="1523186424">&ldquo;It is fascinating how extensively gender is confused with sensitivity. Men&nbsp;should&nbsp;not be sensitive, women should be. And it all begins at home.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{133}" paraid="1601524427">&ldquo;As sensitive boys become men, they must fall out of step with other men in the timing and nature of their lives. Being sensitive is not &ldquo;normal&rdquo; for men. Meanwhile, for women sensitivity is expected.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{133}" paraid="1601524427"><em>Elaine N. Aron, PhD, John D. Hughes, and Tracy Cooper, PhD, will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">A Weekend for Highly Sensitive Men</a> March 13&ndash; 15, 2020.&nbsp;</em></p>

<h2>Gmorning,&nbsp;Gnight! Little pep talks for me and you&nbsp;by Lin-Manuel Miranda and illustrated by Jonny Sun&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{137}" paraid="1030462432">&quot;Read good books, have good sentences in your ears&rdquo; wrote poet Jane Kenyon.&nbsp;But how&nbsp;to do that in a world full of content? Grab this&nbsp;collaboration between Lin-Manuel Miranda and Jonny Sun,&nbsp;full of&nbsp;morning and evening pep talks&nbsp;and&nbsp;delightful illustrations. This book will keep good sentences in your ears all day and all night long.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{190}" paraid="422932608">&ldquo;GMORNING.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{194}" paraid="263400838">Grateful for the very NOTION of you, even more grateful for the reality.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{198}" paraid="1219559377">Look&nbsp;at&nbsp;you, a dream realized.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{208}" paraid="951832704">We&rsquo;re off! Let&rsquo;s go!&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{214}" paraid="15648820">GNIGHT.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{218}" paraid="428846985">Grateful or the REALITY of you, even more grateful&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{222}" paraid="1075221205">For the notion of tomorrow.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{226}" paraid="951648929">Rest up. We need you at your best.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{230}" paraid="549397989"><em>Jonny Sun will be at <a href="https://1440.us/the-box-sessions/">The BOX Sessions</a></em><i>&trade;</i><em>, February 28 &ndash; March 1, 2020, along with other creative thinkers like Samin Nosrat, Lynda Barry, and others!</em></p>

<h2><em>The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership</em> by Jim&nbsp;Dethmer, Diana Chapman, and Kaley Warner Klemp</h2>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{230}" paraid="549397989">Leading with integrity, compassion, and strength can be incredibly difficult.&nbsp;There are ways to make it easier. Using the 15 principles established in this book by&nbsp;leadership experts Jim&nbsp;Dethmer, Diana Chapman, and Kaley Warner Klemp, you can feel, practice integrity, and lead.&nbsp;This is a good one for&nbsp;leaders in&nbsp;all&nbsp;professions.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{4416e84b-24cd-4c86-8f22-68c903ebe0ef}{10}" paraid="823095902">&ldquo;So&nbsp;the first step in taking responsibility is to shift from believing that the world should be a particular way to believing that the world just shows up&nbsp;...&nbsp;All drama in leadership and in life is caused by the need to be right. Letting go of that need is a radical shift all great leaders make.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{4416e84b-24cd-4c86-8f22-68c903ebe0ef}{10}" paraid="823095902"><em>Diana Chapman and Jim Dethmer will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership</a>, February 21 &ndash; 23, 2020.&nbsp;</em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-brilliant-books-about-living-life</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-brilliant-books-about-living-life#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 Jan 2020 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>5 Brilliant Books About Living Life</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{48e37fe0-d260-47af-a7da-b0cde00fee72}{187}" paraid="1456812382">This month we&rsquo;re featuring 5 brilliant books that will push you to reflect, lead, and get more done.&nbsp;</p>

<h2><em>The Four Agreements&nbsp;</em>by don Miguel Ruiz&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{48e37fe0-d260-47af-a7da-b0cde00fee72}{214}" paraid="1211161450">This modern-day classic is based&nbsp;on ancient Toltec wisdom.&nbsp;A longtime <em>New York Times</em> bestseller,&nbsp;<em>The&nbsp;Four Agreements</em>&nbsp;is&nbsp;full&nbsp;of&nbsp;reminders&nbsp;on how to lead&nbsp;a&nbsp;fulfilling&nbsp;life.&nbsp;Who can argue with solid advice like this?&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>Be Impeccable With Your Word&nbsp;</em></strong></p>

<p paraeid="{48e37fe0-d260-47af-a7da-b0cde00fee72}{254}" paraid="691234557">&ldquo;Every human is a magician, and we can either put a spell on someone with our word or we can release someone from a spell.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>Don&rsquo;t Take Anything Personally&nbsp;</em></strong></p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{16}" paraid="1598330097">&ldquo;Nothing other people do is because of you. It is because of themselves.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>Don&rsquo;t Make Assumptions&nbsp;</em></strong></p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{29}" paraid="652217890">&ldquo;We make an assumption, we misunderstand, we take it personally, and we end up creating a whole big drama for nothing.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>Always Do Your Best&nbsp;</em></strong></p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{42}" paraid="1351252300">&ldquo;Everything is alive and changing all the time, so your best will sometimes be high quality, and other times it will not be as good.&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{55}" paraid="363374663"><em>Join&nbsp;the sons of don Miguel Ruiz for <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Agreement of Love</a>, March 27 &ndash; 29, 2020 to learn how to integrate these agreements into your everyday life.&nbsp;</em></p>

<h2><em>How to Get&nbsp;Sh*t Done&nbsp;</em>by Erin Falconer&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{74}" paraid="1404096970">Do you ever feel like you&#39;re&nbsp;crossing things off your to-do list but you&rsquo;re still not getting much done? Author and productivity expert&nbsp;Erin Falconer contends that being busy is not the same as being productive. In her informative and accessible book, Falconer provides just enough real-life context combined with tools and exercises to help increase productivity and creativity.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{80}" paraid="1608685748">&ldquo;The reality is that the very structure of our days &ndash; in which we rush from task to task.&nbsp;Cramming&nbsp;in as much as we can &ndash; not only reduces our ability to be creative, it also takes away our ability to know our own minds.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{90}" paraid="303262680"><em>Learn to get more done with Erin Falconer at&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">How to Get Sh*t Done</a>, February 21&ndash;23, 2020.&nbsp;</em></p>

<h2><em>The Highly Sensitive Person&nbsp;</em>by Elaine N. Aron, PhD&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{105}" paraid="1619384712">Are you a highly sensitive person?&nbsp;It&rsquo;s estimated that 15 &ndash; 20% of people are.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{111}" paraid="1694235819">In Elaine N. Aron&rsquo;s best-selling book, highly sensitive people can learn more about what exactly that means, how it can affect work and relationships, and how to live well&nbsp;in the midst of&nbsp;overwhelm. She also discusses how men are sometimes left out of this conversation, but they too can be highly sensitive. Aron combines tests, tools, and tips to help. As a research psychologist and psychotherapist, Aron understands the difficulties on both a personal and professional level.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{125}" paraid="1523186424">&ldquo;It is fascinating how extensively gender is confused with sensitivity. Men&nbsp;should&nbsp;not be sensitive, women should be. And it all begins at home.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{133}" paraid="1601524427">&ldquo;As sensitive boys become men, they must fall out of step with other men in the timing and nature of their lives. Being sensitive is not &ldquo;normal&rdquo; for men. Meanwhile, for women sensitivity is expected.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{133}" paraid="1601524427"><em>Elaine N. Aron, PhD, John D. Hughes, and Tracy Cooper, PhD, will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">A Weekend for Highly Sensitive Men</a> March 13&ndash; 15, 2020.&nbsp;</em></p>

<h2>Gmorning,&nbsp;Gnight! Little pep talks for me and you&nbsp;by Lin-Manuel Miranda and illustrated by Jonny Sun&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{137}" paraid="1030462432">&quot;Read good books, have good sentences in your ears&rdquo; wrote poet Jane Kenyon.&nbsp;But how&nbsp;to do that in a world full of content? Grab this&nbsp;collaboration between Lin-Manuel Miranda and Jonny Sun,&nbsp;full of&nbsp;morning and evening pep talks&nbsp;and&nbsp;delightful illustrations. This book will keep good sentences in your ears all day and all night long.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{190}" paraid="422932608">&ldquo;GMORNING.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{194}" paraid="263400838">Grateful for the very NOTION of you, even more grateful for the reality.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{198}" paraid="1219559377">Look&nbsp;at&nbsp;you, a dream realized.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{208}" paraid="951832704">We&rsquo;re off! Let&rsquo;s go!&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{214}" paraid="15648820">GNIGHT.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{218}" paraid="428846985">Grateful or the REALITY of you, even more grateful&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{222}" paraid="1075221205">For the notion of tomorrow.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{226}" paraid="951648929">Rest up. We need you at your best.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{230}" paraid="549397989"><em>Jonny Sun will be at <a href="https://1440.us/the-box-sessions/">The BOX Sessions</a></em><i>&trade;</i><em>, February 28 &ndash; March 1, 2020, along with other creative thinkers like Samin Nosrat, Lynda Barry, and others!</em></p>

<h2><em>The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership</em> by Jim&nbsp;Dethmer, Diana Chapman, and Kaley Warner Klemp</h2>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{230}" paraid="549397989">Leading with integrity, compassion, and strength can be incredibly difficult.&nbsp;There are ways to make it easier. Using the 15 principles established in this book by&nbsp;leadership experts Jim&nbsp;Dethmer, Diana Chapman, and Kaley Warner Klemp, you can feel, practice integrity, and lead.&nbsp;This is a good one for&nbsp;leaders in&nbsp;all&nbsp;professions.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{4416e84b-24cd-4c86-8f22-68c903ebe0ef}{10}" paraid="823095902">&ldquo;So&nbsp;the first step in taking responsibility is to shift from believing that the world should be a particular way to believing that the world just shows up&nbsp;...&nbsp;All drama in leadership and in life is caused by the need to be right. Letting go of that need is a radical shift all great leaders make.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{4416e84b-24cd-4c86-8f22-68c903ebe0ef}{10}" paraid="823095902"><em>Diana Chapman and Jim Dethmer will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership</a>, February 21 &ndash; 23, 2020.&nbsp;</em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-brilliant-books-about-living-life</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-brilliant-books-about-living-life#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 Jan 2020 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>5 Brilliant Books About Living Life</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{48e37fe0-d260-47af-a7da-b0cde00fee72}{187}" paraid="1456812382">This month we&rsquo;re featuring 5 brilliant books that will push you to reflect, lead, and get more done.&nbsp;</p>

<h2><em>The Four Agreements&nbsp;</em>by don Miguel Ruiz&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{48e37fe0-d260-47af-a7da-b0cde00fee72}{214}" paraid="1211161450">This modern-day classic is based&nbsp;on ancient Toltec wisdom.&nbsp;A longtime <em>New York Times</em> bestseller,&nbsp;<em>The&nbsp;Four Agreements</em>&nbsp;is&nbsp;full&nbsp;of&nbsp;reminders&nbsp;on how to lead&nbsp;a&nbsp;fulfilling&nbsp;life.&nbsp;Who can argue with solid advice like this?&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>Be Impeccable With Your Word&nbsp;</em></strong></p>

<p paraeid="{48e37fe0-d260-47af-a7da-b0cde00fee72}{254}" paraid="691234557">&ldquo;Every human is a magician, and we can either put a spell on someone with our word or we can release someone from a spell.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>Don&rsquo;t Take Anything Personally&nbsp;</em></strong></p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{16}" paraid="1598330097">&ldquo;Nothing other people do is because of you. It is because of themselves.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>Don&rsquo;t Make Assumptions&nbsp;</em></strong></p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{29}" paraid="652217890">&ldquo;We make an assumption, we misunderstand, we take it personally, and we end up creating a whole big drama for nothing.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>Always Do Your Best&nbsp;</em></strong></p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{42}" paraid="1351252300">&ldquo;Everything is alive and changing all the time, so your best will sometimes be high quality, and other times it will not be as good.&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{55}" paraid="363374663"><em>Join&nbsp;the sons of don Miguel Ruiz for <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Agreement of Love</a>, March 27 &ndash; 29, 2020 to learn how to integrate these agreements into your everyday life.&nbsp;</em></p>

<h2><em>How to Get&nbsp;Sh*t Done&nbsp;</em>by Erin Falconer&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{74}" paraid="1404096970">Do you ever feel like you&#39;re&nbsp;crossing things off your to-do list but you&rsquo;re still not getting much done? Author and productivity expert&nbsp;Erin Falconer contends that being busy is not the same as being productive. In her informative and accessible book, Falconer provides just enough real-life context combined with tools and exercises to help increase productivity and creativity.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{80}" paraid="1608685748">&ldquo;The reality is that the very structure of our days &ndash; in which we rush from task to task.&nbsp;Cramming&nbsp;in as much as we can &ndash; not only reduces our ability to be creative, it also takes away our ability to know our own minds.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{90}" paraid="303262680"><em>Learn to get more done with Erin Falconer at&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">How to Get Sh*t Done</a>, February 21&ndash;23, 2020.&nbsp;</em></p>

<h2><em>The Highly Sensitive Person&nbsp;</em>by Elaine N. Aron, PhD&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{105}" paraid="1619384712">Are you a highly sensitive person?&nbsp;It&rsquo;s estimated that 15 &ndash; 20% of people are.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{111}" paraid="1694235819">In Elaine N. Aron&rsquo;s best-selling book, highly sensitive people can learn more about what exactly that means, how it can affect work and relationships, and how to live well&nbsp;in the midst of&nbsp;overwhelm. She also discusses how men are sometimes left out of this conversation, but they too can be highly sensitive. Aron combines tests, tools, and tips to help. As a research psychologist and psychotherapist, Aron understands the difficulties on both a personal and professional level.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{125}" paraid="1523186424">&ldquo;It is fascinating how extensively gender is confused with sensitivity. Men&nbsp;should&nbsp;not be sensitive, women should be. And it all begins at home.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{133}" paraid="1601524427">&ldquo;As sensitive boys become men, they must fall out of step with other men in the timing and nature of their lives. Being sensitive is not &ldquo;normal&rdquo; for men. Meanwhile, for women sensitivity is expected.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{133}" paraid="1601524427"><em>Elaine N. Aron, PhD, John D. Hughes, and Tracy Cooper, PhD, will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">A Weekend for Highly Sensitive Men</a> March 13&ndash; 15, 2020.&nbsp;</em></p>

<h2>Gmorning,&nbsp;Gnight! Little pep talks for me and you&nbsp;by Lin-Manuel Miranda and illustrated by Jonny Sun&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{137}" paraid="1030462432">&quot;Read good books, have good sentences in your ears&rdquo; wrote poet Jane Kenyon.&nbsp;But how&nbsp;to do that in a world full of content? Grab this&nbsp;collaboration between Lin-Manuel Miranda and Jonny Sun,&nbsp;full of&nbsp;morning and evening pep talks&nbsp;and&nbsp;delightful illustrations. This book will keep good sentences in your ears all day and all night long.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{190}" paraid="422932608">&ldquo;GMORNING.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{194}" paraid="263400838">Grateful for the very NOTION of you, even more grateful for the reality.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{198}" paraid="1219559377">Look&nbsp;at&nbsp;you, a dream realized.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{208}" paraid="951832704">We&rsquo;re off! Let&rsquo;s go!&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{214}" paraid="15648820">GNIGHT.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{218}" paraid="428846985">Grateful or the REALITY of you, even more grateful&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{222}" paraid="1075221205">For the notion of tomorrow.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{226}" paraid="951648929">Rest up. We need you at your best.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{230}" paraid="549397989"><em>Jonny Sun will be at <a href="https://1440.us/the-box-sessions/">The BOX Sessions</a></em><i>&trade;</i><em>, February 28 &ndash; March 1, 2020, along with other creative thinkers like Samin Nosrat, Lynda Barry, and others!</em></p>

<h2><em>The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership</em> by Jim&nbsp;Dethmer, Diana Chapman, and Kaley Warner Klemp</h2>

<p paraeid="{369a70bf-eb37-4d80-a1ff-26a711063b07}{230}" paraid="549397989">Leading with integrity, compassion, and strength can be incredibly difficult.&nbsp;There are ways to make it easier. Using the 15 principles established in this book by&nbsp;leadership experts Jim&nbsp;Dethmer, Diana Chapman, and Kaley Warner Klemp, you can feel, practice integrity, and lead.&nbsp;This is a good one for&nbsp;leaders in&nbsp;all&nbsp;professions.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{4416e84b-24cd-4c86-8f22-68c903ebe0ef}{10}" paraid="823095902">&ldquo;So&nbsp;the first step in taking responsibility is to shift from believing that the world should be a particular way to believing that the world just shows up&nbsp;...&nbsp;All drama in leadership and in life is caused by the need to be right. Letting go of that need is a radical shift all great leaders make.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{4416e84b-24cd-4c86-8f22-68c903ebe0ef}{10}" paraid="823095902"><em>Diana Chapman and Jim Dethmer will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership</a>, February 21 &ndash; 23, 2020.&nbsp;</em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-brilliant-books-about-living-life</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-brilliant-books-about-living-life#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 Jan 2020 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>The History and Aspirations for Teaching Kitchens: An Interview with Harvard University’s Dr. David Eisenberg</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{1}" paraid="335713412">In anticipation of&nbsp;the&nbsp;<a href="https://www.tkresearchconference.org">2020 Research Conference on Teaching Kitchens</a> and Related Self-Care Practices, which will be held at 1440 Multiversity April 22&nbsp;&ndash;&nbsp;23,&nbsp;we&nbsp;spoke with the leader of the&nbsp;conference&nbsp;and&nbsp;director of culinary nutrition within the Department of Nutrition at Harvard,&nbsp;David Eisenberg, MD.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{72}" paraid="1643028944">Dr. Eisenberg is also the director of the Teaching Kitchen Collaborative (TKC), a group of 39 organizations with teaching kitchens, intended to establish and evaluate best practices relating to the design, implementation, and evaluation of teaching kitchens to be used as &ldquo;learning laboratories&rdquo; and translational research hubs.&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440:&nbsp;How&nbsp;have you&nbsp;come&nbsp;to be so&nbsp;passionate and involved&nbsp;in&nbsp;supporting&nbsp;teaching&nbsp;kitchens?&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{118}" paraid="389757579"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg:</strong> On&nbsp;paper, I&#39;m a Harvard-trained doctor,&nbsp;board-certified internal medicine. I practiced primary care for about 20 years, and I&#39;ve been a clinical teacher and researcher on the faculty at Harvard since 1984. That&#39;s my conventional resume.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{132}" paraid="802946736">Also, I am the son and grandson of Jewish bakers from Brooklyn.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{138}" paraid="1414156332">As a child, I spent almost every weekend learning to cook and bake at my father&#39;s side.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{144}" paraid="778993617">The&nbsp;power of making delicious food for others is something that I learned so early on that it has been a part of everything I&#39;ve done.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{152}" paraid="1944604748">Sadly, when I was 10, my father&nbsp;died suddenly of a heart attack. He died six weeks after his mother and my mother&#39;s mother,&nbsp;all of&nbsp;unrelated diseases. And about a year later, my other living grandfather died.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{162}" paraid="1112232220">My mother was left with&nbsp;four&nbsp;children, ranging in age from&nbsp;one&nbsp;to 13. I was the second,&nbsp;age&nbsp;10. And it was horrible.&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: That&nbsp;is tragic.&nbsp;Based on&nbsp;how well you&nbsp;have done,&nbsp;I gather your mother&nbsp;managed&nbsp;okay?&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{208}" paraid="452714999"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg</strong>: I&#39;m&nbsp;happy to say that last weekend we celebrated her 90th&nbsp;birthday. And from being the girl who pumped gas in Brooklyn and met my father delivering challahs,&nbsp;to&nbsp;being&nbsp;a widow at age 37, she became a federal judge and only retired&nbsp;five&nbsp;years ago.&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: That&#39;s&nbsp;outstanding.&nbsp;And what about&nbsp;the effects&nbsp;on you,&nbsp;of&nbsp;your father&rsquo;s death?&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{11}" paraid="1334049693"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg</strong>: As&nbsp;a result of that tragic time, I wanted to study medicine because I couldn&#39;t understand what had happened.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{23}" paraid="1249569711">I was accepted to Harvard College&nbsp;during my senior year in high school,&nbsp;in the early &#39;70s. At that time,&nbsp;the first reports of Chinese medicine, particularly acupuncture, came to the West.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{37}" paraid="1582662161">I&nbsp;saw the iconic front-page&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;article by their op-ed editor in chief, James Reston, who was tracking Henry Kissinger in Beijing.&nbsp;In trying to figure out what Kissinger was doing in Beijing,&nbsp;Reston developed acute appendicitis. He&nbsp;was operated on by Chinese surgeons at the medical school which was built by John D. Rockefeller, where the doctors had all learned medicine in English from&nbsp;Ivy&nbsp;League physicians in the &#39;40s.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{69}" paraid="1788573559">After his operation, Reston had abdominal pain,&nbsp;and&nbsp;they brought in an acupuncturist to treat&nbsp;the&nbsp;pain.&nbsp;He&nbsp;wrote about a thin needle being placed in his knee and his pain evaporating instantly.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{87}" paraid="1256594048">As a high school senior who wanted to be premed, I thought that was about the coolest thing I had ever read.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{93}" paraid="1257357949">So, when I entered Harvard College in 1972, I asked to do an independent study on acupuncture.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: Back&nbsp;in 1972, you asked to do a study on acupuncture?&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{109}" paraid="787734348"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg:&nbsp;</strong>Yeah. And they said, &quot;Knock yourself out.&quot;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{119}" paraid="1443614199">But there was nothing in English in the more than 100 libraries at Harvard College that had anything to do with acupuncture and surgery.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{125}" paraid="504501514">Nobody in the&nbsp;West knew what it was.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{133}" paraid="729745368">I found one book that had been translated in the early &#39;40s called&nbsp;<em>The Yellow Emperor&#39;s&nbsp;Classic&nbsp;of Internal Medicine</em>.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: There&nbsp;must have been some interest somehow in the &lsquo;40s,&nbsp;then,&nbsp;in&nbsp;what&nbsp;are&nbsp;often now referred to as complementary approaches.&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{175}" paraid="1128234747"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg:</strong> Yes, there was. In&nbsp;the&nbsp;first few chapters of that book&mdash;and I think this is relevant to 1440&#39;s destiny&mdash;there are two main points that&nbsp;really stopped me in my tracks. The first was that prevention is always superior to intervention.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{203}" paraid="320052604">And the second epiphany, to me at least, was that how we eat and move and think&mdash;which they described as controlling our spirits, or our emotions&mdash;impacts our health and gives us our recuperative capacity.&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: I&nbsp;agree,&nbsp;but&nbsp;is&nbsp;it&nbsp;challenging to prove the efficacy of preventative medicine, since the disease never manifests?&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{237}" paraid="764567300"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg:</strong> That&rsquo;s&nbsp;the point of&nbsp;the research&nbsp;conference&nbsp;April 22&nbsp;&ndash;&nbsp;23 at 1440.&nbsp;We will show&nbsp;what we&#39;re preventing.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{12}" paraid="618874503">Back in 1971, the concept of prevention was nowhere to be found in the premedical curriculum&nbsp;or in medical school.&nbsp;When I went to Harvard Medical School, nobody was studying the impact of what we ate, how we moved, or how our mind-body connection impacted our physiology or our health.&nbsp;So, I decided to learn Chinese and go to China.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{34}" paraid="1443273451">I&nbsp;became&nbsp;the&nbsp;first&nbsp;person&nbsp;to document&nbsp;in<em>&nbsp;The New England Journal&nbsp;of Medicine</em>&nbsp;the frequency with which Americans were using all these therapies.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{66}" paraid="1842892022">That catapulted my career and helped me do some of the early research on acupuncture, herbal medicine, massage,&nbsp;and&nbsp;mind-body work.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{80}" paraid="53790685">I was the recipient of the first large&nbsp;National Institutes of Health&nbsp;grant to build a center of excellence at Harvard looking at complementary, alternative, and integrative medicine.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{90}" paraid="90417076">Most of my career was spent there doing research, training people who now head up complementary, integrative medicine,&nbsp;and&nbsp;mind-body programs around the country and around the world.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{106}" paraid="991519503">Now, remember,&nbsp;I&#39;m a baker&#39;s son. So,&nbsp;in 1998, I approached the top cooking school in the United States, the Culinary Institute of America, and I said to them, &quot;It&#39;s been my observation that nobody in medicine, meaning doctors, knows anything about nutrition. And even fewer people know anything about cooking or shopping for food and making delicious, healthy food.&quot;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{122}" paraid="1559797211">And, I said, &quot;I would like to teach my colleagues about nutrition, shopping, and cooking&nbsp;as well as lifestyle.&quot;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{132}" paraid="1907911971">And they said, &quot;That&#39;s great because we want to teach our chefs about nutrition. They don&#39;t understand the science.&quot;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{138}" paraid="1740180798">We shook hands,&nbsp;myself&nbsp;and the head&nbsp;of the nutrition department, Professor Walter Willett, and we launched a conference called Healthy Kitchens, Healthy Lives, which has been given 15 times since 2006,&nbsp;always&nbsp;sold out.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{156}" paraid="2135413913">That&rsquo;s where I met Kenny Woods, executive chef at 1440, and he introduced me to Joanie and Scott Kriens, the cocreators of 1440 Multiversity.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{164}" paraid="1851467989">Healthy Kitchens, Healthy Lives is presented to 400&nbsp;people a year at the conference center of the&nbsp;Culinary&nbsp;Institute in Napa,&nbsp;California,&nbsp;where&nbsp;participants&nbsp;learn the science&nbsp;behind&nbsp;what they should be eating more of or less of and why.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{192}" paraid="1819756070">We teach&nbsp;how to translate the science&nbsp;into healthy, delicious, and sustainable recipes, the kind of food&nbsp;Chef&nbsp;Kenny makes at 1440.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{210}" paraid="2117070270">Then we talk about mindfulness and its role in eating, cooking, enjoying food, and living. We talk about exercise and about strategies to change behavior when you&#39;re stuck.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{216}" paraid="639976986">Over the course of&nbsp;three&nbsp;days, the registrants taste 325 different dishes.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{226}" paraid="508050788"><a href="https://www.healthykitchens.org/">www.HealthyKitchens.org&nbsp;</a></p>

<h2>1440: And&nbsp;each time this conference serves&nbsp;400&nbsp;people?&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{246}" paraid="1509579873"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg</strong>: That&#39;s&nbsp;all we can fit. I&#39;m sure if we had&nbsp;room for&nbsp;4,000&nbsp;people, we would have 4,000.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{9}" paraid="632566428">And ever&nbsp;since I began this conference, I started with an imaginary future saying,&nbsp;&quot;Someday we should build kitchens as teaching kitchens in hospitals to teach people&nbsp;a&nbsp;different relationship to food and optimal lifestyle.&quot;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{27}" paraid="999630201">Then, in&nbsp;2012, I started an experiment. We condensed this into a curriculum,&nbsp;and we went to the main campus of the Culinary Institute of America (CIA) in Hyde Park, New York, and we offered the curriculum as an experiment to employees of the CIA who were not the chefs.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: How&nbsp;did it turn out?&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{49}" paraid="1045440745"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg:</strong> By&nbsp;the end of 16 weeks, they could cook anything. They went from afraid to hold a knife to a choreographed ballet in the kitchen.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{59}" paraid="116313310">We proved that people would do this, that they loved it, and the ones who were fat lost weight; the ones that were hypertensive, their blood pressure came down; the ones that had high cholesterol, their cholesterol came down. They started eating healthier food, moving more, and being more mindful.&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: The&nbsp;results are incredible.&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{79}" paraid="1862139645"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg:</strong> Yes, and while that experiment was going on, at the annual conference of Healthy Kitchens, Healthy Lives I asked, &quot;By the way, for those of you who have come back, do any of you have a teaching kitchen in your hospital?&quot;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{93}" paraid="872406972">One hundred&nbsp;hands went up.&nbsp;It&nbsp;wasn&#39;t 100 different hospitals, but it was 30 or 40. And I realized, &quot;The movement has begun. And it&#39;s never&nbsp;going to&nbsp;stop.&quot;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{109}" paraid="686693722">So, I became the director of the Teaching Kitchen Collaborative, where I could cherry-pick the organizations with teaching kitchens&nbsp;where they were&nbsp;teaching&nbsp;people to eat, cook, move,&nbsp;and&nbsp;think better&nbsp;about their choices.&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: And&nbsp;how&nbsp;did&nbsp;this lead to the Teaching Kitchen Research Conference&nbsp;at 1440?&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{149}" paraid="336084991"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg: </strong>The&nbsp;goal of the Teaching Kitchen Collaborative has been to share our best practices.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{159}" paraid="1574648988">Over the last two years we have met, we have created best practices, and we are ready to do our first multi-site demonstration project to show that this would work in three different cities, three different kitchens, with three different teaching ensembles.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{165}" paraid="725737346">We hope to prove that it&#39;s replicable, scalable,&nbsp;and&nbsp;impactful.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{175}" paraid="998209813">We want to show it can change people&#39;s behaviors&nbsp;and&nbsp;change their biomarkers&mdash;their weight, their blood pressure, their blood sugar; change their clinical outcomes&mdash;are they no longer diabetic or poorly controlled diabetic? Are they no longer hypertensive?&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{193}" paraid="1750296284">And from the data we could predict enormous cost savings, regardless of who their third-party payer is.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{199}" paraid="1660121109">That&#39;s the&nbsp;ultimate goal. Because if we could show that it saves money, then they will be covered by third-party insurers. Once we do that, it&#39;s a hop, skip, and a jump to make the argument that ultimately the target is children to prevent these problems in the first place.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{205}" paraid="1248117433">And,&nbsp;we&#39;ll start building teaching kitchens in schools and colleges and universities.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{213}" paraid="383507369">The&nbsp;Teaching Kitchen&nbsp;Research&nbsp;Conference&nbsp;is&nbsp;where we&nbsp;can showcase not only what we&#39;re thinking of doing but&nbsp;also&nbsp;the&nbsp;actual results from 20, 30,&nbsp;and&nbsp;40 teaching kitchens across the United States and around the world.&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: This&nbsp;conference is also sponsored in part by the National Institutes&nbsp;of&nbsp;Health, how is that significant?&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{0d7fa9b5-1dc2-48da-9346-8d0bd177613f}{12}" paraid="1540268887"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg:</strong> A&nbsp;year ago I applied to the National Institutes of Health for a grant to support our scientific research meeting.&nbsp;They&nbsp;awarded us a grant which pays for a portion of the costs. So,&nbsp;this conference will be co-sponsored, if you will, by the National Institutes of Health, which validates&nbsp;the importance of figuring out: what&#39;s the science of teaching kitchens,&nbsp;and what kind of novel contributions can they make to the medical, public health, and scientific communities.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{0d7fa9b5-1dc2-48da-9346-8d0bd177613f}{42}" paraid="622499523">And now,&nbsp;1440&nbsp;is the&nbsp;hosting site for world-class scientists, public health experts, physicians, and thought leaders in the health and sustainability world&nbsp;to come together&nbsp;and share their research.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{0d7fa9b5-1dc2-48da-9346-8d0bd177613f}{62}" paraid="97796059">I personally can&#39;t think of a more appropriate site for such a conference.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{0d7fa9b5-1dc2-48da-9346-8d0bd177613f}{76}" paraid="1620941405"><em>The 2020 Research Conference on Teaching Kitchens and Related Self-Care Practices at 1440 will be hosted&nbsp;April 22&nbsp;&ndash;&nbsp;23&nbsp;by the Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health in close association with the Teaching Kitchen Collaborative (TKC) and partially funded by a grant from the National Institutes of Health.&nbsp;&nbsp;</em></p>

<p paraeid="{0d7fa9b5-1dc2-48da-9346-8d0bd177613f}{94}" paraid="187010890"><em>Confirmed keynote speakers from Harvard, Dartmouth, the National Institutes of Health, and Google will describe the relevance of teaching kitchens to the future of medical, scientific, and technological research and innovation.&nbsp;</em></p>

<p paraeid="{0d7fa9b5-1dc2-48da-9346-8d0bd177613f}{104}" paraid="692111302">For more information and to participate visit <a href="https://www.tkresearchconference.org/">tkresearchconference.org&nbsp;</a></p>

<p paraeid="{0d7fa9b5-1dc2-48da-9346-8d0bd177613f}{114}" paraid="1584214579">This interview was conducted by Heidi Spear, writer and editor for 1440 Multiversity.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/thehistory-andaspirationsfor-teachingkitchens-an-interview-withharvard-universitysdrdavid-eisenberg</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/thehistory-andaspirationsfor-teachingkitchens-an-interview-withharvard-universitysdrdavid-eisenberg#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 31 Dec 2019 14:31:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>The History and Aspirations for Teaching Kitchens: An Interview with Harvard University’s Dr. David Eisenberg</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{1}" paraid="335713412">In anticipation of&nbsp;the&nbsp;<a href="https://www.tkresearchconference.org">2020 Research Conference on Teaching Kitchens</a> and Related Self-Care Practices, which will be held at 1440 Multiversity April 22&nbsp;&ndash;&nbsp;23,&nbsp;we&nbsp;spoke with the leader of the&nbsp;conference&nbsp;and&nbsp;director of culinary nutrition within the Department of Nutrition at Harvard,&nbsp;David Eisenberg, MD.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{68}" paraid="1757780210">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{72}" paraid="1643028944">Dr. Eisenberg is also the director of the Teaching Kitchen Collaborative (TKC), a group of 39 organizations with teaching kitchens, intended to establish and evaluate best practices relating to the design, implementation, and evaluation of teaching kitchens to be used as &ldquo;learning laboratories&rdquo; and translational research hubs.&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440:&nbsp;How&nbsp;have you&nbsp;come&nbsp;to be so&nbsp;passionate and involved&nbsp;in&nbsp;supporting&nbsp;teaching&nbsp;kitchens?&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{118}" paraid="389757579"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg:</strong> On&nbsp;paper, I&#39;m a Harvard-trained doctor,&nbsp;board-certified internal medicine. I practiced primary care for about 20 years, and I&#39;ve been a clinical teacher and researcher on the faculty at Harvard since 1984. That&#39;s my conventional resume.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{132}" paraid="802946736">Also, I am the son and grandson of Jewish bakers from Brooklyn.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{138}" paraid="1414156332">As a child, I spent almost every weekend learning to cook and bake at my father&#39;s side.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{144}" paraid="778993617">The&nbsp;power of making delicious food for others is something that I learned so early on that it has been a part of everything I&#39;ve done.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{152}" paraid="1944604748">Sadly, when I was 10, my father&nbsp;died suddenly of a heart attack. He died six weeks after his mother and my mother&#39;s mother,&nbsp;all of&nbsp;unrelated diseases. And about a year later, my other living grandfather died.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{162}" paraid="1112232220">My mother was left with&nbsp;four&nbsp;children, ranging in age from&nbsp;one&nbsp;to 13. I was the second,&nbsp;age&nbsp;10. And it was horrible.&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: That&nbsp;is tragic.&nbsp;Based on&nbsp;how well you&nbsp;have done,&nbsp;I gather your mother&nbsp;managed&nbsp;okay?&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{a939f3ad-705e-4b46-992f-49ba0ebfe110}{208}" paraid="452714999"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg</strong>: I&#39;m&nbsp;happy to say that last weekend we celebrated her 90th&nbsp;birthday. And from being the girl who pumped gas in Brooklyn and met my father delivering challahs,&nbsp;to&nbsp;being&nbsp;a widow at age 37, she became a federal judge and only retired&nbsp;five&nbsp;years ago.&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: That&#39;s&nbsp;outstanding.&nbsp;And what about&nbsp;the effects&nbsp;on you,&nbsp;of&nbsp;your father&rsquo;s death?&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{11}" paraid="1334049693"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg</strong>: As&nbsp;a result of that tragic time, I wanted to study medicine because I couldn&#39;t understand what had happened.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{23}" paraid="1249569711">I was accepted to Harvard College&nbsp;during my senior year in high school,&nbsp;in the early &#39;70s. At that time,&nbsp;the first reports of Chinese medicine, particularly acupuncture, came to the West.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{37}" paraid="1582662161">I&nbsp;saw the iconic front-page&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;article by their op-ed editor in chief, James Reston, who was tracking Henry Kissinger in Beijing.&nbsp;In trying to figure out what Kissinger was doing in Beijing,&nbsp;Reston developed acute appendicitis. He&nbsp;was operated on by Chinese surgeons at the medical school which was built by John D. Rockefeller, where the doctors had all learned medicine in English from&nbsp;Ivy&nbsp;League physicians in the &#39;40s.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{69}" paraid="1788573559">After his operation, Reston had abdominal pain,&nbsp;and&nbsp;they brought in an acupuncturist to treat&nbsp;the&nbsp;pain.&nbsp;He&nbsp;wrote about a thin needle being placed in his knee and his pain evaporating instantly.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{87}" paraid="1256594048">As a high school senior who wanted to be premed, I thought that was about the coolest thing I had ever read.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{93}" paraid="1257357949">So, when I entered Harvard College in 1972, I asked to do an independent study on acupuncture.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: Back&nbsp;in 1972, you asked to do a study on acupuncture?&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{109}" paraid="787734348"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg:&nbsp;</strong>Yeah. And they said, &quot;Knock yourself out.&quot;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{119}" paraid="1443614199">But there was nothing in English in the more than 100 libraries at Harvard College that had anything to do with acupuncture and surgery.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{125}" paraid="504501514">Nobody in the&nbsp;West knew what it was.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{133}" paraid="729745368">I found one book that had been translated in the early &#39;40s called&nbsp;<em>The Yellow Emperor&#39;s&nbsp;Classic&nbsp;of Internal Medicine</em>.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: There&nbsp;must have been some interest somehow in the &lsquo;40s,&nbsp;then,&nbsp;in&nbsp;what&nbsp;are&nbsp;often now referred to as complementary approaches.&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{175}" paraid="1128234747"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg:</strong> Yes, there was. In&nbsp;the&nbsp;first few chapters of that book&mdash;and I think this is relevant to 1440&#39;s destiny&mdash;there are two main points that&nbsp;really stopped me in my tracks. The first was that prevention is always superior to intervention.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{203}" paraid="320052604">And the second epiphany, to me at least, was that how we eat and move and think&mdash;which they described as controlling our spirits, or our emotions&mdash;impacts our health and gives us our recuperative capacity.&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: I&nbsp;agree,&nbsp;but&nbsp;is&nbsp;it&nbsp;challenging to prove the efficacy of preventative medicine, since the disease never manifests?&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{99977eec-dba4-4db9-9e0c-907f1a02d025}{237}" paraid="764567300"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg:</strong> That&rsquo;s&nbsp;the point of&nbsp;the research&nbsp;conference&nbsp;April 22&nbsp;&ndash;&nbsp;23 at 1440.&nbsp;We will show&nbsp;what we&#39;re preventing.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{12}" paraid="618874503">Back in 1971, the concept of prevention was nowhere to be found in the premedical curriculum&nbsp;or in medical school.&nbsp;When I went to Harvard Medical School, nobody was studying the impact of what we ate, how we moved, or how our mind-body connection impacted our physiology or our health.&nbsp;So, I decided to learn Chinese and go to China.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{34}" paraid="1443273451">I&nbsp;became&nbsp;the&nbsp;first&nbsp;person&nbsp;to document&nbsp;in<em>&nbsp;The New England Journal&nbsp;of Medicine</em>&nbsp;the frequency with which Americans were using all these therapies.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{66}" paraid="1842892022">That catapulted my career and helped me do some of the early research on acupuncture, herbal medicine, massage,&nbsp;and&nbsp;mind-body work.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{80}" paraid="53790685">I was the recipient of the first large&nbsp;National Institutes of Health&nbsp;grant to build a center of excellence at Harvard looking at complementary, alternative, and integrative medicine.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{90}" paraid="90417076">Most of my career was spent there doing research, training people who now head up complementary, integrative medicine,&nbsp;and&nbsp;mind-body programs around the country and around the world.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{106}" paraid="991519503">Now, remember,&nbsp;I&#39;m a baker&#39;s son. So,&nbsp;in 1998, I approached the top cooking school in the United States, the Culinary Institute of America, and I said to them, &quot;It&#39;s been my observation that nobody in medicine, meaning doctors, knows anything about nutrition. And even fewer people know anything about cooking or shopping for food and making delicious, healthy food.&quot;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{122}" paraid="1559797211">And, I said, &quot;I would like to teach my colleagues about nutrition, shopping, and cooking&nbsp;as well as lifestyle.&quot;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{132}" paraid="1907911971">And they said, &quot;That&#39;s great because we want to teach our chefs about nutrition. They don&#39;t understand the science.&quot;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{138}" paraid="1740180798">We shook hands,&nbsp;myself&nbsp;and the head&nbsp;of the nutrition department, Professor Walter Willett, and we launched a conference called Healthy Kitchens, Healthy Lives, which has been given 15 times since 2006,&nbsp;always&nbsp;sold out.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{156}" paraid="2135413913">That&rsquo;s where I met Kenny Woods, executive chef at 1440, and he introduced me to Joanie and Scott Kriens, the cocreators of 1440 Multiversity.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{164}" paraid="1851467989">Healthy Kitchens, Healthy Lives is presented to 400&nbsp;people a year at the conference center of the&nbsp;Culinary&nbsp;Institute in Napa,&nbsp;California,&nbsp;where&nbsp;participants&nbsp;learn the science&nbsp;behind&nbsp;what they should be eating more of or less of and why.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{192}" paraid="1819756070">We teach&nbsp;how to translate the science&nbsp;into healthy, delicious, and sustainable recipes, the kind of food&nbsp;Chef&nbsp;Kenny makes at 1440.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{210}" paraid="2117070270">Then we talk about mindfulness and its role in eating, cooking, enjoying food, and living. We talk about exercise and about strategies to change behavior when you&#39;re stuck.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{216}" paraid="639976986">Over the course of&nbsp;three&nbsp;days, the registrants taste 325 different dishes.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{226}" paraid="508050788"><a href="https://www.healthykitchens.org/">www.HealthyKitchens.org&nbsp;</a></p>

<h2>1440: And&nbsp;each time this conference serves&nbsp;400&nbsp;people?&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{d565fd03-9db3-4048-b080-388574dc4642}{246}" paraid="1509579873"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg</strong>: That&#39;s&nbsp;all we can fit. I&#39;m sure if we had&nbsp;room for&nbsp;4,000&nbsp;people, we would have 4,000.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{7}" paraid="1958140189">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{9}" paraid="632566428">And ever&nbsp;since I began this conference, I started with an imaginary future saying,&nbsp;&quot;Someday we should build kitchens as teaching kitchens in hospitals to teach people&nbsp;a&nbsp;different relationship to food and optimal lifestyle.&quot;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{23}" paraid="1190453801">&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{27}" paraid="999630201">Then, in&nbsp;2012, I started an experiment. We condensed this into a curriculum,&nbsp;and we went to the main campus of the Culinary Institute of America (CIA) in Hyde Park, New York, and we offered the curriculum as an experiment to employees of the CIA who were not the chefs.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: How&nbsp;did it turn out?&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{49}" paraid="1045440745"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg:</strong> By&nbsp;the end of 16 weeks, they could cook anything. They went from afraid to hold a knife to a choreographed ballet in the kitchen.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{59}" paraid="116313310">We proved that people would do this, that they loved it, and the ones who were fat lost weight; the ones that were hypertensive, their blood pressure came down; the ones that had high cholesterol, their cholesterol came down. They started eating healthier food, moving more, and being more mindful.&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: The&nbsp;results are incredible.&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{79}" paraid="1862139645"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg:</strong> Yes, and while that experiment was going on, at the annual conference of Healthy Kitchens, Healthy Lives I asked, &quot;By the way, for those of you who have come back, do any of you have a teaching kitchen in your hospital?&quot;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{93}" paraid="872406972">One hundred&nbsp;hands went up.&nbsp;It&nbsp;wasn&#39;t 100 different hospitals, but it was 30 or 40. And I realized, &quot;The movement has begun. And it&#39;s never&nbsp;going to&nbsp;stop.&quot;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{109}" paraid="686693722">So, I became the director of the Teaching Kitchen Collaborative, where I could cherry-pick the organizations with teaching kitchens&nbsp;where they were&nbsp;teaching&nbsp;people to eat, cook, move,&nbsp;and&nbsp;think better&nbsp;about their choices.&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: And&nbsp;how&nbsp;did&nbsp;this lead to the Teaching Kitchen Research Conference&nbsp;at 1440?&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{149}" paraid="336084991"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg: </strong>The&nbsp;goal of the Teaching Kitchen Collaborative has been to share our best practices.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{159}" paraid="1574648988">Over the last two years we have met, we have created best practices, and we are ready to do our first multi-site demonstration project to show that this would work in three different cities, three different kitchens, with three different teaching ensembles.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{165}" paraid="725737346">We hope to prove that it&#39;s replicable, scalable,&nbsp;and&nbsp;impactful.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{175}" paraid="998209813">We want to show it can change people&#39;s behaviors&nbsp;and&nbsp;change their biomarkers&mdash;their weight, their blood pressure, their blood sugar; change their clinical outcomes&mdash;are they no longer diabetic or poorly controlled diabetic? Are they no longer hypertensive?&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{193}" paraid="1750296284">And from the data we could predict enormous cost savings, regardless of who their third-party payer is.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{199}" paraid="1660121109">That&#39;s the&nbsp;ultimate goal. Because if we could show that it saves money, then they will be covered by third-party insurers. Once we do that, it&#39;s a hop, skip, and a jump to make the argument that ultimately the target is children to prevent these problems in the first place.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{205}" paraid="1248117433">And,&nbsp;we&#39;ll start building teaching kitchens in schools and colleges and universities.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{609e0338-3ff7-49b3-a16e-3e048b66150c}{213}" paraid="383507369">The&nbsp;Teaching Kitchen&nbsp;Research&nbsp;Conference&nbsp;is&nbsp;where we&nbsp;can showcase not only what we&#39;re thinking of doing but&nbsp;also&nbsp;the&nbsp;actual results from 20, 30,&nbsp;and&nbsp;40 teaching kitchens across the United States and around the world.&nbsp;</p>

<h2>1440: This&nbsp;conference is also sponsored in part by the National Institutes&nbsp;of&nbsp;Health, how is that significant?&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{0d7fa9b5-1dc2-48da-9346-8d0bd177613f}{12}" paraid="1540268887"><strong>David&nbsp;Eisenberg:</strong> A&nbsp;year ago I applied to the National Institutes of Health for a grant to support our scientific research meeting.&nbsp;They&nbsp;awarded us a grant which pays for a portion of the costs. So,&nbsp;this conference will be co-sponsored, if you will, by the National Institutes of Health, which validates&nbsp;the importance of figuring out: what&#39;s the science of teaching kitchens,&nbsp;and what kind of novel contributions can they make to the medical, public health, and scientific communities.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{0d7fa9b5-1dc2-48da-9346-8d0bd177613f}{42}" paraid="622499523">And now,&nbsp;1440&nbsp;is the&nbsp;hosting site for world-class scientists, public health experts, physicians, and thought leaders in the health and sustainability world&nbsp;to come together&nbsp;and share their research.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{0d7fa9b5-1dc2-48da-9346-8d0bd177613f}{62}" paraid="97796059">I personally can&#39;t think of a more appropriate site for such a conference.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{0d7fa9b5-1dc2-48da-9346-8d0bd177613f}{76}" paraid="1620941405"><em>The 2020 Research Conference on Teaching Kitchens and Related Self-Care Practices at 1440 will be hosted&nbsp;April 22&nbsp;&ndash;&nbsp;23&nbsp;by the Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health in close association with the Teaching Kitchen Collaborative (TKC) and partially funded by a grant from the National Institutes of Health.&nbsp;&nbsp;</em><br />
&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{0d7fa9b5-1dc2-48da-9346-8d0bd177613f}{94}" paraid="187010890"><em>Confirmed keynote speakers from Harvard, Dartmouth, the National Institutes of Health, and Google will describe the relevance of teaching kitchens to the future of medical, scientific, and technological research and innovation.&nbsp;</em></p>

<p paraeid="{0d7fa9b5-1dc2-48da-9346-8d0bd177613f}{104}" paraid="692111302">For more information and to participate visit <a href="https://www.tkresearchconference.org/">tkresearchconference.org&nbsp;</a></p>

<p paraeid="{0d7fa9b5-1dc2-48da-9346-8d0bd177613f}{114}" paraid="1584214579">This interview was conducted by Heidi Spear, writer and editor for 1440 Multiversity.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/thehistory-andaspirationsfor-teachingkitchens-an-interview-withharvard-universitysdrdavid-eisenberg</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/thehistory-andaspirationsfor-teachingkitchens-an-interview-withharvard-universitysdrdavid-eisenberg#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 31 Dec 2019 14:31:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Be Brave. Be Kind.</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{6d51a34b-b7ea-4cfa-bf9c-666931f85e28}{151}" paraid="738692707"><em>Be brave. Be kind.&nbsp;</em></p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{0dd6338d-0018-4347-b8b1-85485f02d6e0}{58}" paraid="602717926" xml:lang="EN-US"><strong>Brave&nbsp;(adj): show courage.&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{c85cb669-2e81-41cb-b4c7-68ed8cb4d75e}{199}" paraid="1685965319" xml:lang="EN-US"><strong>Kind&nbsp;(adj): generous, helpful, and caring about other people.&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{391d0647-4683-49bd-bb8f-a9c2de1b95eb}{246}" paraid="278083985" xml:lang="EN-US">When you read the dictionary definitions of these two words, it doesn&rsquo;t seem that hard to be brave or kind, right?&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{aca9bf92-eefd-4225-b529-6f95aac04c74}{142}" paraid="653009585" xml:lang="EN-US">Yet being kind seems kind of bold in our increasingly fractured and divided world. Why? Maybe because being kind means you are creating a moment of vulnerability in a society where people seem to be putting on more armor daily. You are choosing to act in a humane and civil manner in a world that feels like it&#39;s getting a bit less civilized. You are choosing to care.</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{aca9bf92-eefd-4225-b529-6f95aac04c74}{142}" paraid="653009585" xml:lang="EN-US">But that&rsquo;s okay. Heck, it&#39;s better than okay! Choosing to care is the way we help each other and this world.&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{9495145b-c3c3-45a6-92e9-e38241253809}{168}" paraid="1460842034" xml:lang="EN-US">So get out there and be brave and kind. Be kind and brave. But don&rsquo;t be kind of brave. (That never seems to work out as well. If you&#39;re going to be brave, go for it!)&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{69bd0eda-9b85-4643-9184-6f151c146bd6}{157}" paraid="1129481339" xml:lang="EN-US">And don&#39;t get caught in the idea that every act must be big or grandiose. Being brave and kind doesn&rsquo;t have to be that hard or that overwhelming. Start small. There is no competition that you can win for being kind. After all, kindness isn&rsquo;t about winning. It&rsquo;s about caring, remember?</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{9a99b9ab-fd84-47d6-8dea-088c7e20e484}{69}" paraid="791389405" xml:lang="EN-US">As <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Judith Orloff</a>&nbsp;reminds us: <em>&ldquo;Don&rsquo;t think you have to be Mother Teresa. In your life, start with random acts of kindness, a springboard to other outlets. Do at least one good deed a day &hellip;&nbsp;feel the energy rush from that. Then consider expanding your repertoire.&rdquo;&nbsp;</em></p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{a1030984-f28c-4636-a5a6-3b67bdd1e47c}{104}" paraid="1310491566" xml:lang="EN-US">We know how good it can feel to be kind &hellip; but we don&rsquo;t always do it. Why? Because maybe we&rsquo;re stressed or scared or bored or just waiting for someone else to do the heavy lifting. We&rsquo;re tired.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{23feab96-dc71-421f-8dcb-86b50c4301ed}{243}" paraid="172947049" xml:lang="EN-US">Yet if we don&rsquo;t take the time to change the world, who will?&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{23feab96-dc71-421f-8dcb-86b50c4301ed}{243}" paraid="172947049" xml:lang="EN-US">Be brave. Be kind. And when you&rsquo;re extending kindness, remember to be compassionate with yourself, also. (You can&rsquo;t give what you don&rsquo;t have.) <em>&ldquo;Meet yourself with kindness and self-love,&rdquo;</em>&nbsp;teaches&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Panache Desai</a>. Like we are reminded in this <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/ancient-practices-for-healing-modern-traumas-an-interview-with-martha-beck">interview with Martha Beck</a>, healing oneself can be achieved with deliberate and repeated patience and kindness.&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{869bd391-ee33-46c3-9b5f-1a8c4e80b178}{217}" paraid="1493786345" xml:lang="EN-US">Lastly, don&#39;t pollute your own mind! Like <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/how-kindness-can-improve-your-life-wisdom-from-sylvia-boorstein">Sylvia Boorstein</a> says, &quot;<em>The Buddha taught kindness towards everyone, including oneself. If I get mad at my neighbor next door, or if I nullify the country next door, I pollute my own mind.</em>&quot;&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{1978829e-ec2c-4198-9262-ee52e4b09f39}{82}" paraid="661999944" xml:lang="EN-US">Simple moves can have major effects. Because, as&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Shinzen&nbsp;Young</a>&nbsp;reminds us: <em>&ldquo;You&nbsp;can dramatically extend life&mdash;not by multiplying the number of your years, but by expanding the fullness of your moments.&rdquo;&nbsp;</em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/be-brave-be-kind</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/be-brave-be-kind#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 23 Dec 2019 21:46:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Be Brave. Be Kind.</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{6d51a34b-b7ea-4cfa-bf9c-666931f85e28}{151}" paraid="738692707"><em>Be brave. Be kind.&nbsp;</em></p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{0dd6338d-0018-4347-b8b1-85485f02d6e0}{58}" paraid="602717926" xml:lang="EN-US"><strong>Brave&nbsp;(adj): show courage.&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{c85cb669-2e81-41cb-b4c7-68ed8cb4d75e}{199}" paraid="1685965319" xml:lang="EN-US"><strong>Kind&nbsp;(adj): generous, helpful, and caring about other people.&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{391d0647-4683-49bd-bb8f-a9c2de1b95eb}{246}" paraid="278083985" xml:lang="EN-US">When you read the dictionary definitions of these two words, it doesn&rsquo;t seem that hard to be brave or kind, right?&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{aca9bf92-eefd-4225-b529-6f95aac04c74}{142}" paraid="653009585" xml:lang="EN-US">Yet being kind seems kind of bold in our increasingly fractured and divided world. Why? Maybe because being kind means you are creating a moment of vulnerability in a society where people seem to be putting on more armor daily. You are choosing to act in a humane and civil manner in a world that feels like it&#39;s getting a bit less civilized. You are choosing to care.</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{aca9bf92-eefd-4225-b529-6f95aac04c74}{142}" paraid="653009585" xml:lang="EN-US">But that&rsquo;s okay. Heck, it&#39;s better than okay! Choosing to care is the way we help each other and this world.&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{9495145b-c3c3-45a6-92e9-e38241253809}{168}" paraid="1460842034" xml:lang="EN-US">So get out there and be brave and kind. Be kind and brave. But don&rsquo;t be kind of brave. (That never seems to work out as well. If you&#39;re going to be brave, go for it!)&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{69bd0eda-9b85-4643-9184-6f151c146bd6}{157}" paraid="1129481339" xml:lang="EN-US">And don&#39;t get caught in the idea that every act must be big or grandiose. Being brave and kind doesn&rsquo;t have to be that hard or that overwhelming. Start small. There is no competition that you can win for being kind. After all, kindness isn&rsquo;t about winning. It&rsquo;s about caring, remember?</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{9a99b9ab-fd84-47d6-8dea-088c7e20e484}{69}" paraid="791389405" xml:lang="EN-US">As <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Judith Orloff</a>&nbsp;reminds us: <em>&ldquo;Don&rsquo;t think you have to be Mother Teresa. In your life, start with random acts of kindness, a springboard to other outlets. Do at least one good deed a day &hellip;&nbsp;feel the energy rush from that. Then consider expanding your repertoire.&rdquo;&nbsp;</em></p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{a1030984-f28c-4636-a5a6-3b67bdd1e47c}{104}" paraid="1310491566" xml:lang="EN-US">We know how good it can feel to be kind &hellip; but we don&rsquo;t always do it. Why? Because maybe we&rsquo;re stressed or scared or bored or just waiting for someone else to do the heavy lifting. We&rsquo;re tired.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{23feab96-dc71-421f-8dcb-86b50c4301ed}{243}" paraid="172947049" xml:lang="EN-US">Yet if we don&rsquo;t take the time to change the world, who will?&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{23feab96-dc71-421f-8dcb-86b50c4301ed}{243}" paraid="172947049" xml:lang="EN-US">Be brave. Be kind. And when you&rsquo;re extending kindness, remember to be compassionate with yourself, also. (You can&rsquo;t give what you don&rsquo;t have.) <em>&ldquo;Meet yourself with kindness and self-love,&rdquo;</em>&nbsp;teaches&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Panache Desai</a>. Like we are reminded in this <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/ancient-practices-for-healing-modern-traumas-an-interview-with-martha-beck">interview with Martha Beck</a>, healing oneself can be achieved with deliberate and repeated patience and kindness.&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{869bd391-ee33-46c3-9b5f-1a8c4e80b178}{217}" paraid="1493786345" xml:lang="EN-US">Lastly, don&#39;t pollute your own mind! Like <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/how-kindness-can-improve-your-life-wisdom-from-sylvia-boorstein">Sylvia Boorstein</a> says, &quot;<em>The Buddha taught kindness towards everyone, including oneself. If I get mad at my neighbor next door, or if I nullify the country next door, I pollute my own mind.</em>&quot;&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{1978829e-ec2c-4198-9262-ee52e4b09f39}{82}" paraid="661999944" xml:lang="EN-US">Simple moves can have major effects. Because, as&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Shinzen&nbsp;Young</a>&nbsp;reminds us: <em>&ldquo;You&nbsp;can dramatically extend life&mdash;not by multiplying the number of your years, but by expanding the fullness of your moments.&rdquo;&nbsp;</em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/be-brave-be-kind</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/be-brave-be-kind#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 23 Dec 2019 21:46:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>The Hottest Programs at 1440 in 2020</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{70461f0b-e6ff-43d9-bb18-f39894b664ab}{214}" paraid="1190118460">Here&rsquo;s your guide to what we think will be the hottest programs at 1440 in 2020!&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://1440.us/the-practice-at-1440/ ">The Practice at&nbsp;1440&nbsp;Multiversity: A Design-Your-Own Yoga Retreat&nbsp;</a></h2>

<p paraeid="{70461f0b-e6ff-43d9-bb18-f39894b664ab}{231}" paraid="372784822">&ldquo;<em>Whatever our limits are in range of motion, no matter how small or how big, within that range of motion, there&#39;s an infinite amount of space to explore.</em>&rdquo;&nbsp;&ndash; Rodney Yee&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{70461f0b-e6ff-43d9-bb18-f39894b664ab}{242}" paraid="522709200">The wonderful thing about <em>The Practice at 1440</em> is that&nbsp;you&nbsp;get to decide exactly what you&rsquo;re focusing on for the weekend. Ever wanted to design your own yoga retreat? Now you can.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{5}" paraid="51189528">This collaboration between 1440 and <em>Yoga Journal </em>is bringing together some of the best and biggest names in yoga (like <strong>Seane Corn</strong>) so you can choose from different instructors and classes to create&nbsp;your&nbsp;perfect yoga retreat!&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{19}" paraid="1513949288"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{27}" paraid="2000755271">Join&nbsp;<strong>Chelsea Jackson Roberts</strong>, PhD, Saturday morning class,&nbsp;I Have a Dream: A Practice to Honor the Voice and Work of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.&nbsp;Using&nbsp;the words of Dr. King&rsquo;s famous speech, she will lead a practice and meditation grounded in the practice of ahimsa (nonviolence). Dr. Roberts is also the co-founder of an Atlanta-based nonprofit&nbsp;<em>Red Clay Yoga</em>.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Power of Prayer: Insight, Transformation, and Truth</a>&nbsp;with Caroline&nbsp;Myss</h2>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{50}" paraid="719075180">&ldquo;Somewhere within all of us is a thread, however worn that might be, that attaches us to the invisible, imaginary, indescribable, seductive, chaotic, calming, terrifying, enchanting, miraculous and mysterious domain of the sacred. Tug at the thread and something indeed tugs back.&rdquo;&nbsp;&ndash; <strong>Caroline&nbsp;Myss</strong>&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{94}" paraid="569492852"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{100}" paraid="449764258"><strong>Caroline&nbsp;Myss</strong>&nbsp;is a&nbsp;five-time&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;best-selling author and a renowned medical intuitive. Her amazing insight into the power of prayer is legendary and this class roster is filling fast. Get your spot before it sells out!&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Path of the Courageous Heart&nbsp;</a>with Omid Safi, PhD, and Sharon Salzberg&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{121}" paraid="508052996">&ldquo;Go, be your best self.&nbsp;Be your most&nbsp;beautiful self.&nbsp;Be your luminous self. Be your most generous self. Be your most radically loving self. And when you fall short of that&mdash;as we all do, as we all have&mdash;bounce back and return. And&nbsp;return again. There is a grace in this returning to your luminous self.&rdquo;&nbsp;<br />
&ndash; <strong>Omid Safi</strong>, PhD&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{144}" paraid="920050717"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{150}" paraid="791776169"><strong>Sharon Salzberg</strong> is a meditation superstar credited with helping bring meditation to the West and she will be teaching alongside&nbsp;highly-regarded&nbsp;writer <strong>Omid Safi</strong>: this is a dream team! (If you haven&rsquo;t checked out&nbsp;Omid&#39;s writing for&nbsp;<em>On&nbsp;Being,&nbsp;</em>we highly recommend it. You&rsquo;ll find delightful nuggets of wisdom, insight, and resilience.)&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{186}" paraid="39862776">Metta, or&nbsp;Lovingkindness, meditation is a specific meditation practice that can help you reconnect with yourself and engage in the world with a sense of love and self.&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Navigating the Storm: Finding Peace and Purpose in Uncertain&nbsp;Times</a>&nbsp;with Martha Beck, PhD&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{246}" paraid="1428892907">A session with a life coach can be incredibly helpful. A weekend with America&rsquo;s most renowned life coach is a game-changer.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{3}" paraid="630803007"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{7}" paraid="319071361">We love <strong>Martha Beck</strong> for so many reasons that it&rsquo;s hard to choose just one. But since we absolutely must choose one (this blogpost can&rsquo;t go on forever&mdash;though we wish it could!) we&rsquo;d say that Martha has this incredible ability to take difficult topics and make them so simple and digestible anyone can use it. For instance, she says,&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{ee140399-99f4-493e-a18f-cdb696a35d97}{86}" paraid="528964503">&ldquo;<em>I want to tell you a secret about that really big decision you&rsquo;re trying to make. You know the one. Ready? Here it is: You have already made that decision</em>.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{ee140399-99f4-493e-a18f-cdb696a35d97}{88}" paraid="143120658">Thought-provoking, right? Martha&rsquo;s advice helps you dive deep and begin to question what wisdom you might be keeping from yourself.&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://1440.us/the-box-sessions/">The BOX Sessions&trade;: A Creative Gathering in Collaboration with &amp; Hosted by Laura Holson&nbsp;</a></h2>

<p><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{52}" paraid="340550952">Award-winning&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;journalist Laura Holson is bringing some of the most innovative and creative thinkers of our time to&nbsp;our campus here in the redwoods.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{64}" paraid="946427535">Original thinkers like:&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<ul role="list">
	<li paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{64}" paraid="946427535">Cooking sensation&nbsp;Samin&nbsp;Nosrat&nbsp;</li>
	<li paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{64}" paraid="946427535"><em>The Moth</em>&nbsp;radio show and podcast&nbsp;</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="6" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{115}" paraid="942061694">Cartoonist, author,&nbsp;and MacArthur Fellowship &quot;genius&nbsp;grant&quot; recipient Lynda Barry&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="6" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{106}" paraid="824814481"><em>Crazy Rich Asians</em>&nbsp;director Jon&nbsp;M.&nbsp;Chu</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="6" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{106}" paraid="824814481">Novelist Jonathan Franzen&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="6" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{106}" paraid="824814481">Emmy-award&nbsp;nominee&nbsp;Alec Berg&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="6" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{115}" paraid="942061694">And others!&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
</ul>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{131}" paraid="1057482702">In&nbsp;breakout sessions and workshops, you&rsquo;ll learn&nbsp;directly&nbsp;from these creative geniuses.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://1440.us/dream-camp/">DreamCamp&nbsp;</a>with Sheri Salata and Nancy&nbsp;Hala&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{152}" paraid="278742800">The Sheri + Nancy Show comes to 1440!&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{163}" paraid="645836932"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{169}" paraid="1174890333">Have you read Sheri Salata&rsquo;s incredible book&nbsp;<em>The Beautiful No</em>?&nbsp;Sheri Salata is the former Executive Producer for&nbsp;<em>The&nbsp;Oprah Winfrey Show</em>,&nbsp;and her book&nbsp;<em>The Beautiful No</em>&nbsp;chronicles her real-life transformation once she left her dream job. We&rsquo;re so excited that she&rsquo;s bringing her experience and story to 1440 so you can learn about how she created the life of her dreams,&nbsp;and&nbsp;how&nbsp;you can too.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{189}" paraid="1312169001">Sheri and Nancy rocked the 1440 campus in 2018 with &ldquo;<strong>This Is 50</strong>&rdquo; and we can&rsquo;t wait to welcome them back! Don&rsquo;t wait on this one either: we expect a full campus.&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Playful Magic</a>&nbsp;with <strong>Elizabeth Gilbert </strong>and <strong>Sarah Jones&nbsp;</strong></h2>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{204}" paraid="1724074199"><strong>Elizabeth Gilbert</strong> returns to 1440 and this time she brings a new partner in creativity, <strong>Sarah Jones.</strong>&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{210}" paraid="842838451"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{216}" paraid="2048715641">This program is bringing together two incredibly talented people&nbsp;to&nbsp;the 1440&nbsp;stage:&nbsp;<br />
&nbsp;</p>

<ul role="list">
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="1" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="7" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{230}" paraid="1839538102"><strong>Elizabeth Gilbert</strong> is the best-selling author of&nbsp;<em>Eat, Pray, Love</em>&nbsp;and numerous other award-winning books, including&nbsp;<em>City of Girls</em>. Her TED talks have been viewed by over&nbsp;18 million&nbsp;people and she is one of our favorite teachers here at 1440. She&nbsp;sold out the campus twice with Brave Magic with <strong>Cheryl Strayed</strong> and we expect <strong>Playful Magic</strong> to be&nbsp;absolutely fantastic.&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="7" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{248}" paraid="593037299">Tony award-winning performer, writer Sarah Jones has been lauded by critics, including&nbsp;the<em>&nbsp;New York Times</em>.&nbsp;Her off-Broadway play&nbsp;<em>Bridge &amp; Tunnel</em>&nbsp;was produced by Meryl Streep.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
</ul>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{b42aa0c1-c934-43d1-a434-b4de0ca9479c}{25}" paraid="2063502262" xml:lang="EN-US">&ldquo;<em>Sarah&rsquo;s particular genius is the intimacy she creates.</em>&rdquo;&nbsp;&ndash;&nbsp;Artistic Director Tony Taccone&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-hottest-programs-at-1440-in-2020</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-hottest-programs-at-1440-in-2020#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 20 Dec 2019 17:38:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>The Hottest Programs at 1440 in 2020</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{70461f0b-e6ff-43d9-bb18-f39894b664ab}{214}" paraid="1190118460">Here&rsquo;s your guide to what we think will be the hottest programs at 1440 in 2020!&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://1440.us/the-practice-at-1440/ ">The Practice at&nbsp;1440&nbsp;Multiversity: A Design-Your-Own Yoga Retreat&nbsp;</a></h2>

<p paraeid="{70461f0b-e6ff-43d9-bb18-f39894b664ab}{231}" paraid="372784822">&ldquo;<em>Whatever our limits are in range of motion, no matter how small or how big, within that range of motion, there&#39;s an infinite amount of space to explore.</em>&rdquo;&nbsp;&ndash; Rodney Yee&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{70461f0b-e6ff-43d9-bb18-f39894b664ab}{242}" paraid="522709200">The wonderful thing about <em>The Practice at 1440</em> is that&nbsp;you&nbsp;get to decide exactly what you&rsquo;re focusing on for the weekend. Ever wanted to design your own yoga retreat? Now you can.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{5}" paraid="51189528">This collaboration between 1440 and <em>Yoga Journal </em>is bringing together some of the best and biggest names in yoga (like <strong>Seane Corn</strong>) so you can choose from different instructors and classes to create&nbsp;your&nbsp;perfect yoga retreat!&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{19}" paraid="1513949288"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{27}" paraid="2000755271">Join&nbsp;<strong>Chelsea Jackson Roberts</strong>, PhD, Saturday morning class,&nbsp;I Have a Dream: A Practice to Honor the Voice and Work of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.&nbsp;Using&nbsp;the words of Dr. King&rsquo;s famous speech, she will lead a practice and meditation grounded in the practice of ahimsa (nonviolence). Dr. Roberts is also the co-founder of an Atlanta-based nonprofit&nbsp;<em>Red Clay Yoga</em>.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Power of Prayer: Insight, Transformation, and Truth</a>&nbsp;with Caroline&nbsp;Myss</h2>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{50}" paraid="719075180">&ldquo;Somewhere within all of us is a thread, however worn that might be, that attaches us to the invisible, imaginary, indescribable, seductive, chaotic, calming, terrifying, enchanting, miraculous and mysterious domain of the sacred. Tug at the thread and something indeed tugs back.&rdquo;&nbsp;&ndash; <strong>Caroline&nbsp;Myss</strong>&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{94}" paraid="569492852"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{100}" paraid="449764258"><strong>Caroline&nbsp;Myss</strong>&nbsp;is a&nbsp;five-time&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;best-selling author and a renowned medical intuitive. Her amazing insight into the power of prayer is legendary and this class roster is filling fast. Get your spot before it sells out!&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Path of the Courageous Heart&nbsp;</a>with Omid Safi, PhD, and Sharon Salzberg&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{121}" paraid="508052996">&ldquo;Go, be your best self.&nbsp;Be your most&nbsp;beautiful self.&nbsp;Be your luminous self. Be your most generous self. Be your most radically loving self. And when you fall short of that&mdash;as we all do, as we all have&mdash;bounce back and return. And&nbsp;return again. There is a grace in this returning to your luminous self.&rdquo;&nbsp;<br />
&ndash; <strong>Omid Safi</strong>, PhD&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{144}" paraid="920050717"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{150}" paraid="791776169"><strong>Sharon Salzberg</strong> is a meditation superstar credited with helping bring meditation to the West and she will be teaching alongside&nbsp;highly-regarded&nbsp;writer <strong>Omid Safi</strong>: this is a dream team! (If you haven&rsquo;t checked out&nbsp;Omid&#39;s writing for&nbsp;<em>On&nbsp;Being,&nbsp;</em>we highly recommend it. You&rsquo;ll find delightful nuggets of wisdom, insight, and resilience.)&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{186}" paraid="39862776">Metta, or&nbsp;Lovingkindness, meditation is a specific meditation practice that can help you reconnect with yourself and engage in the world with a sense of love and self.&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Navigating the Storm: Finding Peace and Purpose in Uncertain&nbsp;Times</a>&nbsp;with Martha Beck, PhD&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{246}" paraid="1428892907">A session with a life coach can be incredibly helpful. A weekend with America&rsquo;s most renowned life coach is a game-changer.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{3}" paraid="630803007"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{7}" paraid="319071361">We love <strong>Martha Beck</strong> for so many reasons that it&rsquo;s hard to choose just one. But since we absolutely must choose one (this blogpost can&rsquo;t go on forever&mdash;though we wish it could!) we&rsquo;d say that Martha has this incredible ability to take difficult topics and make them so simple and digestible anyone can use it. For instance, she says,&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{ee140399-99f4-493e-a18f-cdb696a35d97}{86}" paraid="528964503">&ldquo;<em>I want to tell you a secret about that really big decision you&rsquo;re trying to make. You know the one. Ready? Here it is: You have already made that decision</em>.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{ee140399-99f4-493e-a18f-cdb696a35d97}{88}" paraid="143120658">Thought-provoking, right? Martha&rsquo;s advice helps you dive deep and begin to question what wisdom you might be keeping from yourself.&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://1440.us/the-box-sessions/">The BOX Sessions&trade;: A Creative Gathering in Collaboration with &amp; Hosted by Laura Holson&nbsp;</a></h2>

<p><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{52}" paraid="340550952">Award-winning&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;journalist Laura Holson is bringing some of the most innovative and creative thinkers of our time to&nbsp;our campus here in the redwoods.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{64}" paraid="946427535">Original thinkers like:&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<ul role="list">
	<li paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{64}" paraid="946427535">Cooking sensation&nbsp;Samin&nbsp;Nosrat&nbsp;</li>
	<li paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{64}" paraid="946427535"><em>The Moth</em>&nbsp;radio show and podcast&nbsp;</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="6" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{115}" paraid="942061694">Cartoonist, author,&nbsp;and MacArthur Fellowship &quot;genius&nbsp;grant&quot; recipient Lynda Barry&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="6" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{106}" paraid="824814481"><em>Crazy Rich Asians</em>&nbsp;director Jon&nbsp;M.&nbsp;Chu</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="6" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{106}" paraid="824814481">Novelist Jonathan Franzen&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="6" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{106}" paraid="824814481">Emmy-award&nbsp;nominee&nbsp;Alec Berg&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="6" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{115}" paraid="942061694">And others!&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
</ul>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{131}" paraid="1057482702">In&nbsp;breakout sessions and workshops, you&rsquo;ll learn&nbsp;directly&nbsp;from these creative geniuses.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://1440.us/dream-camp/">DreamCamp&nbsp;</a>with Sheri Salata and Nancy&nbsp;Hala&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{152}" paraid="278742800">The Sheri + Nancy Show comes to 1440!&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{163}" paraid="645836932"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{169}" paraid="1174890333">Have you read Sheri Salata&rsquo;s incredible book&nbsp;<em>The Beautiful No</em>?&nbsp;Sheri Salata is the former Executive Producer for&nbsp;<em>The&nbsp;Oprah Winfrey Show</em>,&nbsp;and her book&nbsp;<em>The Beautiful No</em>&nbsp;chronicles her real-life transformation once she left her dream job. We&rsquo;re so excited that she&rsquo;s bringing her experience and story to 1440 so you can learn about how she created the life of her dreams,&nbsp;and&nbsp;how&nbsp;you can too.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{189}" paraid="1312169001">Sheri and Nancy rocked the 1440 campus in 2018 with &ldquo;<strong>This Is 50</strong>&rdquo; and we can&rsquo;t wait to welcome them back! Don&rsquo;t wait on this one either: we expect a full campus.&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Playful Magic</a>&nbsp;with <strong>Elizabeth Gilbert </strong>and <strong>Sarah Jones&nbsp;</strong></h2>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{204}" paraid="1724074199"><strong>Elizabeth Gilbert</strong> returns to 1440 and this time she brings a new partner in creativity, <strong>Sarah Jones.</strong>&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{210}" paraid="842838451"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{216}" paraid="2048715641">This program is bringing together two incredibly talented people&nbsp;to&nbsp;the 1440&nbsp;stage:&nbsp;</p>

<ul role="list">
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="1" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="7" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{230}" paraid="1839538102"><strong>Elizabeth Gilbert</strong> is the best-selling author of&nbsp;<em>Eat, Pray, Love</em>&nbsp;and numerous other award-winning books, including&nbsp;<em>City of Girls</em>. Her TED talks have been viewed by over&nbsp;18 million&nbsp;people and she is one of our favorite teachers here at 1440. She&nbsp;sold out the campus twice with Brave Magic with <strong>Cheryl Strayed</strong> and we expect <strong>Playful Magic</strong> to be&nbsp;absolutely fantastic.&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="7" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{248}" paraid="593037299">Tony award-winning performer, writer Sarah Jones has been lauded by critics, including&nbsp;the<em>&nbsp;New York Times</em>.&nbsp;Her off-Broadway play&nbsp;<em>Bridge &amp; Tunnel</em>&nbsp;was produced by Meryl Streep.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
</ul>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{b42aa0c1-c934-43d1-a434-b4de0ca9479c}{25}" paraid="2063502262" xml:lang="EN-US">&ldquo;<em>Sarah&rsquo;s particular genius is the intimacy she creates.</em>&rdquo;&nbsp;&ndash;&nbsp;Artistic Director Tony Taccone&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-hottest-programs-at-1440-in-2020</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-hottest-programs-at-1440-in-2020#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 20 Dec 2019 17:38:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>The Hottest Programs at 1440 in 2020</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{70461f0b-e6ff-43d9-bb18-f39894b664ab}{214}" paraid="1190118460">Here&rsquo;s your guide to what we think will be the hottest programs at 1440 in 2020!&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://1440.us/the-practice-at-1440/ ">The Practice at&nbsp;1440&nbsp;Multiversity: A Design-Your-Own Yoga Retreat&nbsp;</a></h2>

<p paraeid="{70461f0b-e6ff-43d9-bb18-f39894b664ab}{231}" paraid="372784822">&ldquo;<em>Whatever our limits are in range of motion, no matter how small or how big, within that range of motion, there&#39;s an infinite amount of space to explore.</em>&rdquo;&nbsp;&ndash; Rodney Yee&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{70461f0b-e6ff-43d9-bb18-f39894b664ab}{242}" paraid="522709200">The wonderful thing about <em>The Practice at 1440</em> is that&nbsp;you&nbsp;get to decide exactly what you&rsquo;re focusing on for the weekend. Ever wanted to design your own yoga retreat? Now you can.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{5}" paraid="51189528">This collaboration between 1440 and <em>Yoga Journal </em>is bringing together some of the best and biggest names in yoga (like <strong>Seane Corn</strong>) so you can choose from different instructors and classes to create&nbsp;your&nbsp;perfect yoga retreat!&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{19}" paraid="1513949288"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{27}" paraid="2000755271">Join&nbsp;<strong>Chelsea Jackson Roberts</strong>, PhD, Saturday morning class,&nbsp;I Have a Dream: A Practice to Honor the Voice and Work of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.&nbsp;Using&nbsp;the words of Dr. King&rsquo;s famous speech, she will lead a practice and meditation grounded in the practice of ahimsa (nonviolence). Dr. Roberts is also the co-founder of an Atlanta-based nonprofit&nbsp;<em>Red Clay Yoga</em>.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Power of Prayer: Insight, Transformation, and Truth</a>&nbsp;with Caroline&nbsp;Myss</h2>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{50}" paraid="719075180">&ldquo;Somewhere within all of us is a thread, however worn that might be, that attaches us to the invisible, imaginary, indescribable, seductive, chaotic, calming, terrifying, enchanting, miraculous and mysterious domain of the sacred. Tug at the thread and something indeed tugs back.&rdquo;&nbsp;&ndash; <strong>Caroline&nbsp;Myss</strong>&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{94}" paraid="569492852"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{100}" paraid="449764258"><strong>Caroline&nbsp;Myss</strong>&nbsp;is a&nbsp;five-time&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;best-selling author and a renowned medical intuitive. Her amazing insight into the power of prayer is legendary and this class roster is filling fast. Get your spot before it sells out!&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Path of the Courageous Heart&nbsp;</a>with Omid Safi, PhD, and Sharon Salzberg&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{121}" paraid="508052996">&ldquo;Go, be your best self.&nbsp;Be your most&nbsp;beautiful self.&nbsp;Be your luminous self. Be your most generous self. Be your most radically loving self. And when you fall short of that&mdash;as we all do, as we all have&mdash;bounce back and return. And&nbsp;return again. There is a grace in this returning to your luminous self.&rdquo;&nbsp;<br />
&ndash; <strong>Omid Safi</strong>, PhD&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{144}" paraid="920050717"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{150}" paraid="791776169"><strong>Sharon Salzberg</strong> is a meditation superstar credited with helping bring meditation to the West and she will be teaching alongside&nbsp;highly-regarded&nbsp;writer <strong>Omid Safi</strong>: this is a dream team! (If you haven&rsquo;t checked out&nbsp;Omid&#39;s writing for&nbsp;<em>On&nbsp;Being,&nbsp;</em>we highly recommend it. You&rsquo;ll find delightful nuggets of wisdom, insight, and resilience.)&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{186}" paraid="39862776">Metta, or&nbsp;Lovingkindness, meditation is a specific meditation practice that can help you reconnect with yourself and engage in the world with a sense of love and self.&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Navigating the Storm: Finding Peace and Purpose in Uncertain&nbsp;Times</a>&nbsp;with Martha Beck, PhD&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{e03512cb-9bfb-4166-bcf1-5a19fbc9f1d2}{246}" paraid="1428892907">A session with a life coach can be incredibly helpful. A weekend with America&rsquo;s most renowned life coach is a game-changer.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{3}" paraid="630803007"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{7}" paraid="319071361">We love <strong>Martha Beck</strong> for so many reasons that it&rsquo;s hard to choose just one. But since we absolutely must choose one (this blogpost can&rsquo;t go on forever&mdash;though we wish it could!) we&rsquo;d say that Martha has this incredible ability to take difficult topics and make them so simple and digestible anyone can use it. For instance, she says,&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{ee140399-99f4-493e-a18f-cdb696a35d97}{86}" paraid="528964503">&ldquo;<em>I want to tell you a secret about that really big decision you&rsquo;re trying to make. You know the one. Ready? Here it is: You have already made that decision</em>.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{ee140399-99f4-493e-a18f-cdb696a35d97}{88}" paraid="143120658">Thought-provoking, right? Martha&rsquo;s advice helps you dive deep and begin to question what wisdom you might be keeping from yourself.&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://1440.us/the-box-sessions/">The BOX Sessions&trade;: A Creative Gathering in Collaboration with &amp; Hosted by Laura Holson&nbsp;</a></h2>

<p><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{52}" paraid="340550952">Award-winning&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;journalist Laura Holson is bringing some of the most innovative and creative thinkers of our time to&nbsp;our campus here in the redwoods.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{64}" paraid="946427535">Original thinkers like:&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<ul role="list">
	<li paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{64}" paraid="946427535">Cooking sensation&nbsp;Samin&nbsp;Nosrat&nbsp;</li>
	<li paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{64}" paraid="946427535"><em>The Moth</em>&nbsp;radio show and podcast&nbsp;</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="6" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{115}" paraid="942061694">Cartoonist, author,&nbsp;and MacArthur Fellowship &quot;genius&nbsp;grant&quot; recipient Lynda Barry&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="6" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{106}" paraid="824814481"><em>Crazy Rich Asians</em>&nbsp;director Jon&nbsp;M.&nbsp;Chu</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="6" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{106}" paraid="824814481">Novelist Jonathan Franzen&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="6" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{106}" paraid="824814481">Emmy-award&nbsp;nominee&nbsp;Alec Berg&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="6" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{115}" paraid="942061694">And others!&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
</ul>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{131}" paraid="1057482702">In&nbsp;breakout sessions and workshops, you&rsquo;ll learn&nbsp;directly&nbsp;from these creative geniuses.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://1440.us/dream-camp/">DreamCamp&nbsp;</a>with Sheri Salata and Nancy&nbsp;Hala&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{152}" paraid="278742800">The Sheri + Nancy Show comes to 1440!&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{163}" paraid="645836932"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{169}" paraid="1174890333">Have you read Sheri Salata&rsquo;s incredible book&nbsp;<em>The Beautiful No</em>?&nbsp;Sheri Salata is the former Executive Producer for&nbsp;<em>The&nbsp;Oprah Winfrey Show</em>,&nbsp;and her book&nbsp;<em>The Beautiful No</em>&nbsp;chronicles her real-life transformation once she left her dream job. We&rsquo;re so excited that she&rsquo;s bringing her experience and story to 1440 so you can learn about how she created the life of her dreams,&nbsp;and&nbsp;how&nbsp;you can too.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{189}" paraid="1312169001">Sheri and Nancy rocked the 1440 campus in 2018 with &ldquo;<strong>This Is 50</strong>&rdquo; and we can&rsquo;t wait to welcome them back! Don&rsquo;t wait on this one either: we expect a full campus.&nbsp;</p>

<h2><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Playful Magic</a>&nbsp;with <strong>Elizabeth Gilbert </strong>and <strong>Sarah Jones&nbsp;</strong></h2>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{204}" paraid="1724074199"><strong>Elizabeth Gilbert</strong> returns to 1440 and this time she brings a new partner in creativity, <strong>Sarah Jones.</strong>&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{210}" paraid="842838451"><strong>Why we&rsquo;re excited:&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{216}" paraid="2048715641">This program is bringing together two incredibly talented people&nbsp;to&nbsp;the 1440&nbsp;stage:&nbsp;</p>

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	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="1" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="7" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{230}" paraid="1839538102"><strong>Elizabeth Gilbert</strong> is the best-selling author of&nbsp;<em>Eat, Pray, Love</em>&nbsp;and numerous other award-winning books, including&nbsp;<em>City of Girls</em>. Her TED talks have been viewed by over&nbsp;18 million&nbsp;people and she is one of our favorite teachers here at 1440. She&nbsp;sold out the campus twice with Brave Magic with <strong>Cheryl Strayed</strong> and we expect <strong>Playful Magic</strong> to be&nbsp;absolutely fantastic.&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="7" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{10076307-65ab-40be-b85b-19024c6d5d3d}{248}" paraid="593037299">Tony award-winning performer, writer Sarah Jones has been lauded by critics, including&nbsp;the<em>&nbsp;New York Times</em>.&nbsp;Her off-Broadway play&nbsp;<em>Bridge &amp; Tunnel</em>&nbsp;was produced by Meryl Streep.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
</ul>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{b42aa0c1-c934-43d1-a434-b4de0ca9479c}{25}" paraid="2063502262" xml:lang="EN-US">&ldquo;<em>Sarah&rsquo;s particular genius is the intimacy she creates.</em>&rdquo;&nbsp;&ndash;&nbsp;Artistic Director Tony Taccone&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-hottest-programs-at-1440-in-2020</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-hottest-programs-at-1440-in-2020#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 20 Dec 2019 17:38:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Top 5 Most-Read Articles of 2019</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{0571be1c-827f-440b-8174-4b37dfec2598}{73}" paraid="947850759">It&#39;s time to curl up and dive into our Top 5 Most-Read Articles of 2019.</p>

<p paraeid="{0571be1c-827f-440b-8174-4b37dfec2598}{73}" paraid="947850759">Happy reading!</p>

<h2>1. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/whats-the-difference-between-happiness-and-fulfillment ">What&#39;s the Difference Between Happiness and Fulfillment?&nbsp;</a></h2>

<p paraeid="{0571be1c-827f-440b-8174-4b37dfec2598}{93}" paraid="305013978">This book excerpt from <em>&quot;Find Your Why: A Practical Guide for Discovering Purpose for You and Your Team&quot;</em> by Simon Sinek and Peter Docker was a bit hit with leaders and pretty much everyone.</p>

<p paraeid="{0571be1c-827f-440b-8174-4b37dfec2598}{93}" paraid="305013978"><strong>Point to ponder:</strong> &quot;All kinds of things make us happy at work: hitting a goal, getting a promotion, landing a new client, completing a project&mdash;the list goes on. But happiness is temporary; the feeling doesn&#39;t last.&quot;</p>

<h2>2. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-thrive-if-youre-a-highly-sensitive-person-hsp-an-interview-with-elaine-n-aron-phd ">How to Thrive if You&#39;re a Highly Sensitive Person</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{0571be1c-827f-440b-8174-4b37dfec2598}{140}" paraid="1352012659">This interview with psychologist and author Elaine N. Aron, PhD. dishes out great advice for anyone trying to exist in our constantly-on society.</p>

<p paraeid="{0571be1c-827f-440b-8174-4b37dfec2598}{140}" paraid="1352012659"><strong>Point to ponder: </strong>&quot;Generally, it&#39;s much harder for men to be sensitive than it is for women, because it&#39;s assumed that women are going to be more sensitive. With men, it depends more upon what they look like and how they set out to portray themselves.&quot;&nbsp;</p>

<h2>3. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/get-rid-of-what-you-dont-need-lessons-from-the-more-of-less ">Get Rid of What You Don&#39;t Need&nbsp;</a></h2>

<p paraeid="{0571be1c-827f-440b-8174-4b37dfec2598}{210}" paraid="1421154731">This excerpt from <em>&quot;The More of Less: Finding the Life You Want Under Everything You Own&quot; </em>by Becoming Minimalist founder Joshua Becker holds many gems. Read it. You&#39;ll understand.</p>

<p paraeid="{0571be1c-827f-440b-8174-4b37dfec2598}{210}" paraid="1421154731"><strong>Point to ponder:</strong> &quot;Getting rid of what you don&#39;t need is the first step toward crafting the life you want.&quot;&nbsp;</p>

<h2>4. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/nutrition-is-far-more-important-than-many-people-realize-lessons-from-the-china-study ">Nutrition Is Far More Important Than Many People Realize&nbsp;</a></h2>

<p paraeid="{919b61e1-70d5-424c-b7e0-a264d34895d8}{8}" paraid="580750539">This interview with Thomas M. Campbell (co-author of the best-selling nutritional guidebook <em>The China Study</em>) wades into the high-carb/low-carb debate and the dangers of sugar.</p>

<p paraeid="{919b61e1-70d5-424c-b7e0-a264d34895d8}{8}" paraid="580750539"><strong>Point to ponder: </strong>&quot;I think the variety of low-carb approaches, as a group, are among the most dangerous nutritional trends.&quot;</p>

<h2>5. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/5-brilliant-books ">5 Brilliant Books About the Human Spirit&nbsp;</a></h2>

<p paraeid="{919b61e1-70d5-424c-b7e0-a264d34895d8}{30}" paraid="1991114211">This collection of snippets from authors like Elizabeth Gilbert, Caroline Myss, and Sheri Salata will pick you up and make you think.</p>

<p paraeid="{919b61e1-70d5-424c-b7e0-a264d34895d8}{30}" paraid="1991114211"><strong>Point to ponder: </strong>&quot;Maybe it&#39;s time to rethink everything about what is possible. Maybe it&#39;s time to dust off your dreams and give yourself permission to ask the &#39;what about&#39; question: What about the life I always wanted?&quot;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/top-5-articles-of-2019</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/top-5-articles-of-2019#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 11 Dec 2019 16:43:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Seane Corn on Healing Through Yoga</title><description><![CDATA[<p>Seane Corn discusses how yoga can help provide the emotional space to heal trauma. As well as how what we practice on the mat can breathe life into our intentions off the mat and in the world.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Join Seane&nbsp;and other expert yoga instructors at The Practice at 1440: A Design-Your-Own Yoga Retreat Jan 17 &ndash; 20, 2020.&nbsp;</p>

<p><iframe allowfullscreen="true" allowtransparency="true" frameborder="0" height="315" scrolling="no" src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/video.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2F1440multiversity%2Fvideos%2F455890328658900%2F&amp;show_text=0&amp;width=560" style="border:none;overflow:hidden" width="560"></iframe></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/seane-corn-on-healing-through-yoga</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/seane-corn-on-healing-through-yoga#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 11 Dec 2019 15:29:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>What is Service Week at 1440?</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{178}" paraid="1005719006"><strong>We love service week because&hellip;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<ul role="list">
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="1" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="2" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{192}" paraid="1833435790">So many cool non-profits take over the 1440 campus&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="2" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{199}" paraid="1347576119">So many awesome speakers grace the 1440 stage&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="2" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{206}" paraid="1118615091">And we get to give back to the communities that sustain our communities!&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
</ul>

<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{215}" paraid="1295851551">Once upon a time (May of 2017), 1440 Multiversity opened its doors to the public. Since then, we&rsquo;ve hosted thousands of esteemed&nbsp;faculty&nbsp;and&nbsp;100,000 fantastic visitors, but we&rsquo;ve only done Service Week once before, so we&rsquo;re super-excited to host #1440serviceweek Dec 9&nbsp;&ndash;&nbsp;13.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{233}" paraid="1498778765"><strong>What is Service Week?&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{239}" paraid="1104054131">For&nbsp;four days,&nbsp;we pause our regular programming and&nbsp;host (for free!)&nbsp;a diverse set of knowledgeable speakers&nbsp;giving&nbsp;inspiring lectures and workshops focused on leadership, social change, mindfulness, and so much more.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{255}" paraid="1131178944">And the best part? They&rsquo;re speaking and working with an audience made up of key personnel from nonprofit organizations across the Bay Area and the U.S, including:&nbsp;</p>

<ul role="list">
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="1" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{6}" paraid="1276837923"><strong><a href="https://digitalnest.org/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">Digital&nbsp;NEST, Inc.&nbsp;</span></a></strong></p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{13}" paraid="57552404"><strong><a href="https://www.enneagramprisonproject.org/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">E</span></a></strong><a href="https://www.enneagramprisonproject.org/"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><strong>nneagram Prison Project</strong></span></a></p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{20}" paraid="1377665749"><a href="https://everforwardclub.org/"><font color="#0000ff"><b>Ever Forward Club</b></font></a></p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="4" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{27}" paraid="131177834"><strong><a href="https://commonrootsfarm.org/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">Common Roots Farm</span></a></strong></p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="5" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{36}" paraid="1033850289">And numerous other impactful organizations.&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
</ul>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{43}" paraid="874956149"><strong>Why do we do it?&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{47}" paraid="508774899">Here at 1440, we believe in&nbsp;providing&nbsp;resources to those who might not&nbsp;otherwise&nbsp;have access. We recognize the importance of building community, avoiding burnout, and sparking innovation. Ultimately, service week is a thank you to those who do so much&nbsp;for so many.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{63}" paraid="614760478">We see&nbsp;you,&nbsp;we hear you, and we honor you.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{67}" paraid="541103318"><strong>Among the amazing speakers we have coming to #1440serviceweek:&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{77}" paraid="1749549094"><strong>Jerry Colonna</strong>,&nbsp;Founder and CEO of Reboot.io, professional coach, and&nbsp;facilitator:&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{97}" paraid="1131257500">&ldquo;Strong back and open heart &hellip; It&rsquo;s giving a shit about people, purpose, meaning. It&rsquo;s working toward something greater than merely boosting your ego, greater than just soothing your worries and chasing your demons away. It&rsquo;s leading from within, drawing on the core of your being, on all that has shaped you.&rdquo; &ndash;&nbsp;<em>Reboot</em>&nbsp;by Jerry Colonna&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{126}" paraid="2119646385">Learn more about Jerry Colonna by <strong><a href="https://onbeing.org/programs/jerry-colonna-can-you-really-bring-your-whole-self-to-work/ "><span style="color:#0000FF;">listening to this podcast</span></a></strong> from <em>On Being</em>:&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{153}" paraid="1577121276"><strong>Guy Kawasaki</strong>, marketing genius, author, entrepreneur:&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{157}" paraid="134370703">&ldquo;For entrepreneurs, the operative phrase is, &ldquo;I pitch, therefore I am.&rdquo; Pitching isn&rsquo;t only for raising money&mdash;it&rsquo;s for reaching agreement, and agreement can yield many good outcomes including sales, partnerships, and new hires.&rdquo; &ndash; Guy Kawaski, <em><a href="https://guykawasaki.com/the-art-of-the-pitch/">The Art of the Pitch</a></em></p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{165}" paraid="176702305">Learn more about Guy Kawasaki on his new podcast<strong><em> <a href="https://guykawasaki.com/remarkable-people/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">Guy Kawasaki&#39;s</span></a></em><a href="https://guykawasaki.com/remarkable-people/"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><em> Remarkable People</em></span></a></strong>&nbsp;or on his <strong><a href="https://guykawasaki.com/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">website</span></a>.</strong>&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{178}" paraid="1830739132"><strong>Lynne Twist</strong>, co-founder of The Pachamama Alliance, and founder of The Soul of Money Institute:</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{189}" paraid="1690120476">&ldquo;We listened to stories of heartbreaking violence and blocking of basic human needs. We found strength sharing our commitment to social justice, stopping impunity, and bringing humanitarian aid and support to some of the most desperate situations on earth.&rdquo; &ndash; Lynne Twist, <a href="https://soulofmoney.org/nobel-womens-initiative-germany/">N<em>obel Women&#39;s Initiative in Germany</em></a></p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{195}" paraid="1245952451">Learn about her incredible work <strong><a href="https://soulofmoney.org/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">here</span></a>.</strong>&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{205}" paraid="1626708182">Want to learn about all of our incredible 1440 Service Week speakers? Find the full list&nbsp;<strong><a href="https://1440.us/service-week/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">here</span></a>.&nbsp;</strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-is-service-week-at-1440</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-is-service-week-at-1440#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 9 Dec 2019 13:37:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>What is Service Week at 1440?</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{178}" paraid="1005719006"><strong>We love service week because&hellip;&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<ul role="list">
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="1" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="2" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{192}" paraid="1833435790">So many cool non-profits take over the 1440 campus&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="2" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{199}" paraid="1347576119">So many awesome speakers grace the 1440 stage&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="2" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{206}" paraid="1118615091">And we get to give back to the communities that sustain our communities!&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
</ul>

<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{215}" paraid="1295851551">Once upon a time (May of 2017), 1440 Multiversity opened its doors to the public. Since then, we&rsquo;ve hosted thousands of esteemed&nbsp;faculty&nbsp;and&nbsp;100,000 fantastic visitors, but we&rsquo;ve only done Service Week once before, so we&rsquo;re super-excited to host #1440serviceweek Dec 9&nbsp;&ndash;&nbsp;13.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{233}" paraid="1498778765"><strong>What is Service Week?&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{239}" paraid="1104054131">For&nbsp;four days,&nbsp;we pause our regular programming and&nbsp;host (for free!)&nbsp;a diverse set of knowledgeable speakers&nbsp;giving&nbsp;inspiring lectures and workshops focused on leadership, social change, mindfulness, and so much more.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{255}" paraid="1131178944">And the best part? They&rsquo;re speaking and working with an audience made up of key personnel from nonprofit organizations across the Bay Area and the U.S, including:&nbsp;</p>

<ul role="list">
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="1" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{6}" paraid="1276837923"><strong><a href="https://digitalnest.org/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">Digital&nbsp;NEST, Inc.&nbsp;</span></a></strong></p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{13}" paraid="57552404"><strong><a href="https://www.enneagramprisonproject.org/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">E</span></a></strong><a href="https://www.enneagramprisonproject.org/"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><strong>nneagram Prison Project</strong></span></a></p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{20}" paraid="1377665749"><a href="https://everforwardclub.org/"><font color="#0000ff"><b>Ever Forward Club</b></font></a></p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="4" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{27}" paraid="131177834"><strong><a href="https://commonrootsfarm.org/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">Common Roots Farm</span></a></strong></p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="5" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{36}" paraid="1033850289">And numerous other impactful organizations.&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
</ul>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{43}" paraid="874956149"><strong>Why do we do it?&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{47}" paraid="508774899">Here at 1440, we believe in&nbsp;providing&nbsp;resources to those who might not&nbsp;otherwise&nbsp;have access. We recognize the importance of building community, avoiding burnout, and sparking innovation. Ultimately, service week is a thank you to those who do so much&nbsp;for so many.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{63}" paraid="614760478">We see&nbsp;you,&nbsp;we hear you, and we honor you.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{67}" paraid="541103318"><strong>Among the amazing speakers we have coming to #1440serviceweek:&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{77}" paraid="1749549094"><strong>Jerry Colonna</strong>,&nbsp;Founder and CEO of Reboot.io, professional coach, and&nbsp;facilitator:&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{97}" paraid="1131257500">&ldquo;Strong back and open heart &hellip; It&rsquo;s giving a shit about people, purpose, meaning. It&rsquo;s working toward something greater than merely boosting your ego, greater than just soothing your worries and chasing your demons away. It&rsquo;s leading from within, drawing on the core of your being, on all that has shaped you.&rdquo; &ndash;&nbsp;<em>Reboot</em>&nbsp;by Jerry Colonna&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{126}" paraid="2119646385">Learn more about Jerry Colonna by <strong><a href="https://onbeing.org/programs/jerry-colonna-can-you-really-bring-your-whole-self-to-work/ "><span style="color:#0000FF;">listening to this podcast</span></a></strong> from <em>On Being</em>:&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{153}" paraid="1577121276"><strong>Guy Kawasaki</strong>, marketing genius, author, entrepreneur:&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{157}" paraid="134370703">&ldquo;For entrepreneurs, the operative phrase is, &ldquo;I pitch, therefore I am.&rdquo; Pitching isn&rsquo;t only for raising money&mdash;it&rsquo;s for reaching agreement, and agreement can yield many good outcomes including sales, partnerships, and new hires.&rdquo; &ndash; Guy Kawaski, <em><a href="https://guykawasaki.com/the-art-of-the-pitch/">The Art of the Pitch</a></em></p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{165}" paraid="176702305">Learn more about Guy Kawasaki on his new podcast<strong><em> <a href="https://guykawasaki.com/remarkable-people/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">Guy Kawasaki&#39;s</span></a></em><a href="https://guykawasaki.com/remarkable-people/"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><em> Remarkable People</em></span></a></strong>&nbsp;or on his <strong><a href="https://guykawasaki.com/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">website</span></a>.</strong>&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{178}" paraid="1830739132"><strong>Lynne Twist</strong>, co-founder of The Pachamama Alliance, and founder of The Soul of Money Institute:</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{189}" paraid="1690120476">&ldquo;We listened to stories of heartbreaking violence and blocking of basic human needs. We found strength sharing our commitment to social justice, stopping impunity, and bringing humanitarian aid and support to some of the most desperate situations on earth.&rdquo; &ndash; Lynne Twist, <a href="https://soulofmoney.org/nobel-womens-initiative-germany/">N<em>obel Women&#39;s Initiative in Germany</em></a></p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{195}" paraid="1245952451">Learn about her incredible work <strong><a href="https://soulofmoney.org/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">here</span></a>.</strong>&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{205}" paraid="1626708182">Want to learn about all of our incredible 1440 Service Week speakers? Find the full list&nbsp;<strong><a href="https://1440.us/service-week/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">here</span></a>.&nbsp;</strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-is-service-week-at-1440</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-is-service-week-at-1440#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 9 Dec 2019 13:37:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>What is Service Week at 1440?</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{178}" paraid="1005719006"><strong>We love service week because&hellip;&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<ul role="list">
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="1" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="2" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{192}" paraid="1833435790">So many cool non-profits take over the 1440 campus&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="2" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{199}" paraid="1347576119">So many awesome speakers grace the 1440 stage&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="2" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{206}" paraid="1118615091">And we get to give back to the communities that sustain our communities!&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
</ul>

<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{215}" paraid="1295851551">Once upon a time (May of 2017), 1440 Multiversity opened its doors to the public. Since then, we&rsquo;ve hosted thousands of esteemed&nbsp;faculty&nbsp;and&nbsp;100,000 fantastic visitors, but we&rsquo;ve only done Service Week once before, so we&rsquo;re super-excited to host #1440serviceweek Dec 9&nbsp;&ndash;&nbsp;13.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{233}" paraid="1498778765"><strong>What is Service Week?&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{239}" paraid="1104054131">For&nbsp;four days,&nbsp;we pause our regular programming and&nbsp;host (for free!)&nbsp;a diverse set of knowledgeable speakers&nbsp;giving&nbsp;inspiring lectures and workshops focused on leadership, social change, mindfulness, and so much more.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{0d6875a5-9355-479b-a8e4-e5c618eb121e}{255}" paraid="1131178944">And the best part? They&rsquo;re speaking and working with an audience made up of key personnel from nonprofit organizations across the Bay Area and the U.S, including:&nbsp;</p>

<ul role="list">
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="1" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{6}" paraid="1276837923"><strong><a href="https://digitalnest.org/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">Digital&nbsp;NEST, Inc.&nbsp;</span></a></strong></p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{13}" paraid="57552404"><strong><a href="https://www.enneagramprisonproject.org/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">E</span></a></strong><a href="https://www.enneagramprisonproject.org/"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><strong>nneagram Prison Project</strong></span></a></p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{20}" paraid="1377665749"><a href="https://everforwardclub.org/"><font color="#0000ff"><b>Ever Forward Club</b></font></a></p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="4" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{27}" paraid="131177834"><strong><a href="https://commonrootsfarm.org/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">Common Roots Farm</span></a></strong></p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="5" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{36}" paraid="1033850289">And numerous other impactful organizations.&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
</ul>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{43}" paraid="874956149"><strong>Why do we do it?&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{47}" paraid="508774899">Here at 1440, we believe in&nbsp;providing&nbsp;resources to those who might not&nbsp;otherwise&nbsp;have access. We recognize the importance of building community, avoiding burnout, and sparking innovation. Ultimately, service week is a thank you to those who do so much&nbsp;for so many.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{63}" paraid="614760478">We see&nbsp;you,&nbsp;we hear you, and we honor you.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{67}" paraid="541103318"><strong>Among the amazing speakers we have coming to #1440serviceweek:&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{77}" paraid="1749549094"><strong>Jerry Colonna</strong>,&nbsp;Founder and CEO of Reboot.io, professional coach, and&nbsp;facilitator:&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{97}" paraid="1131257500">&ldquo;Strong back and open heart &hellip; It&rsquo;s giving a shit about people, purpose, meaning. It&rsquo;s working toward something greater than merely boosting your ego, greater than just soothing your worries and chasing your demons away. It&rsquo;s leading from within, drawing on the core of your being, on all that has shaped you.&rdquo; &ndash;&nbsp;<em>Reboot</em>&nbsp;by Jerry Colonna&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{126}" paraid="2119646385">Learn more about Jerry Colonna by <strong><a href="https://onbeing.org/programs/jerry-colonna-can-you-really-bring-your-whole-self-to-work/ "><span style="color:#0000FF;">listening to this podcast</span></a></strong> from <em>On Being</em>:&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{153}" paraid="1577121276"><strong>Guy Kawasaki</strong>, marketing genius, author, entrepreneur:&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{157}" paraid="134370703">&ldquo;For entrepreneurs, the operative phrase is, &ldquo;I pitch, therefore I am.&rdquo; Pitching isn&rsquo;t only for raising money&mdash;it&rsquo;s for reaching agreement, and agreement can yield many good outcomes including sales, partnerships, and new hires.&rdquo; &ndash; Guy Kawaski, <em><a href="https://guykawasaki.com/the-art-of-the-pitch/">The Art of the Pitch</a></em></p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{165}" paraid="176702305">Learn more about Guy Kawasaki on his new podcast<strong><em> <a href="https://guykawasaki.com/remarkable-people/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">Guy Kawasaki&#39;s</span></a></em><a href="https://guykawasaki.com/remarkable-people/"><span style="color:#0000FF;"><em> Remarkable People</em></span></a></strong>&nbsp;or on his <strong><a href="https://guykawasaki.com/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">website</span></a>.</strong>&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{178}" paraid="1830739132"><strong>Lynne Twist</strong>, co-founder of The Pachamama Alliance, and founder of The Soul of Money Institute:</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{189}" paraid="1690120476">&ldquo;We listened to stories of heartbreaking violence and blocking of basic human needs. We found strength sharing our commitment to social justice, stopping impunity, and bringing humanitarian aid and support to some of the most desperate situations on earth.&rdquo; &ndash; Lynne Twist, <a href="https://soulofmoney.org/nobel-womens-initiative-germany/">N<em>obel Women&#39;s Initiative in Germany</em></a></p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{195}" paraid="1245952451">Learn about her incredible work <strong><a href="https://soulofmoney.org/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">here</span></a>.</strong>&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{53696f74-d5ae-4188-b244-8a1f900fcd76}{205}" paraid="1626708182">Want to learn about all of our incredible 1440 Service Week speakers? Find the full list&nbsp;<strong><a href="https://1440.us/service-week/"><span style="color:#0000FF;">here</span></a>.&nbsp;</strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-is-service-week-at-1440</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-is-service-week-at-1440#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 9 Dec 2019 13:37:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>Resolutions Don&apos;t Work</title><description><![CDATA[<p>It&rsquo;s almost the R Month.&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US">You know, when we all (after a month of holiday indulging) start issuing promises to do better. We make &hellip;&nbsp;resolutions.&nbsp;</p>

<ul role="list">
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="1" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p lang="EN-US">&ldquo;I&rsquo;m going to get in shape.&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p lang="EN-US">&ldquo;I&rsquo;m going to meditate.&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="3" role="listitem">
	<p lang="EN-US">&ldquo;I&rsquo;m going to write a book.&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
</ul>

<p lang="EN-US">And then life&nbsp;happens&nbsp;and those resolutions disappear like puffs of smoke from a chimney.&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US">Many of us break resolutions about 3 weeks into January. Or 3 days. Maybe 3 hours. (Some years are rougher than others.) Some people stick it out&nbsp;longer&nbsp;but the sobering truth is that 80% of people abandon their resolutions by the second week of February.&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US">And once again, we confront the perennial truth:&nbsp;resolutions don&rsquo;t work.&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US">But the real question is this:&nbsp;If resolutions don&rsquo;t work, why do we make them?&nbsp;And why do we keep on making&nbsp;them?&nbsp;Isn&rsquo;t there a better way?&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US">There is a better way. Resolutions don&rsquo;t work but you know what does&nbsp;work?&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US">Reservations.&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US">I&rsquo;m serious.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US">Pick a date on the calendar and commit right now:&nbsp;</p>

<ul role="list">
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="4" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="1" role="listitem">
	<p lang="EN-US">To something&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="5" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="1" role="listitem">
	<p lang="EN-US">To anything&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="6" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="1" role="listitem">
	<p lang="EN-US">To improving.&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
</ul>

<p lang="EN-US">Select something you want to do or attend or compete in and make that reservation now. Sign up for something and put your money down. And then you&rsquo;ll have to see it through.&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US">For example, one year I kept kicking around the idea of completing a triathlon. It was a fun idea and I trained some &hellip; until I signed up for a sprint triathlon. And then I trained A LOT. Just the idea of that date on my calendar five months away was enough to send me onto my bike, into the pool, and even onto the running trail (which was not my favorite). Why? I made a reservation, not a resolution. Booked. Committed. Focused. Money on the line.&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US">So, let me ask this: what dream do you have for this coming year? Do you want to:&nbsp;</p>

<ul role="list">
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="7" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="2" role="listitem">
	<p lang="EN-US">Write a memoir?&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="8" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="2" role="listitem">
	<p lang="EN-US">Paint?&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="9" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="2" role="listitem">
	<p lang="EN-US">Lead a team?&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="10" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="2" role="listitem">
	<p lang="EN-US">Meditate every day?&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
	<li aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-level="1" data-aria-posinset="11" data-font="Symbol" data-leveltext="" data-listid="2" role="listitem">
	<p lang="EN-US">Learn something new?&nbsp;</p>
	</li>
</ul>

<p lang="EN-US">Whatever your dream is, don&rsquo;t wait. Sign up for something now, before the holidays. Commit and start planning now so that you set yourself up for success in the new year. Pick a book, pick a course, pick a new way you want to be you in the next year.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US">Don&rsquo;t let this be another year where your good intentions drift away with the winter clouds and you find yourself wondering again what happened. You can do better than that!&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US">Resolutions may not work but reservations do. That&rsquo;s the good news. Start moving towards your dream.&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US">Ready to start right now? Check out these upcoming programs (or pick something else just for you!):&nbsp;</p>

<ul>
	<li lang="EN-US"><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Path of the Courageous Heart</a> </strong>with Sharon Salzberg and Omid Safi, PhD, Jan 31 &ndash; Feb 2.<strong>&nbsp;</strong></li>
	<li lang="EN-US"><a href="https://www.1440.org/"><strong>The China Study in Practice</strong></a>&nbsp;with&nbsp;Thomas M. Campbell and MD Erin Campbell, MD, MPH, Jan 10 &ndash; 12.&nbsp;</li>
	<li lang="EN-US"><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Mindful Self-Compassion at Work</a></strong>&nbsp;with Christopher Germer, PhD, and Wibo Koole&nbsp;Jan 12 &ndash; 17.&nbsp;</li>
</ul>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/resolutions-dont-work</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/resolutions-dont-work#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 28 Nov 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Butternut Squash Mousse Parfait</title><description><![CDATA[<em>Recipe by Pastry Chef Savanah&nbsp;Sandate&nbsp;</em>
<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{63}" paraid="538761858">Will this dessert recipe&ndash; from our Kitchen Table to yours &ndash; become a new family favorite? Whip up Butternut Squash Mousse Parfaits to add just the right amount of sweetness and spice to your holiday menu, or use this recipe anytime to treat yourself while filling your home with the unforgettable scents of the season.&nbsp;</p>

<h2><u>Ingredients</u></h2>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{73}" paraid="986722798"><em>Serves 4&nbsp;</em></p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{77}" paraid="895124880">&bull;1 cup pureed butternut squash&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{83}" paraid="1824704203">&bull;1 tablespoon coconut oil&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{89}" paraid="122765223">&bull;3 tablespoons maple syrup&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{95}" paraid="1392746071">&bull;&frac12; teaspoon vanilla bean paste&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{101}" paraid="1289643019">&bull;&frac12; teaspoon cinnamon&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{107}" paraid="179363374">&bull;&frac14; teaspoon ginger&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{113}" paraid="1044920465">&bull;1&frasl;8 teaspoon nutmeg&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{119}" paraid="1940845262">&bull;1&frasl;8 teaspoon cardamom&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{125}" paraid="430295748">&bull;pinch of cloves&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{131}" paraid="464166170">&bull;1&frasl;8 teaspoon salt&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{139}" paraid="790626622"><strong>Whipped Coconut Cream&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{143}" paraid="50591363">&bull;2 &frac12; cups coconut cream&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{149}" paraid="1242866536">&bull;2 tablespoons maple syrup&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{155}" paraid="349020130">&bull;&frac12; teaspoon vanilla&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{161}" paraid="1687062643">&bull;1&frasl;8 teaspoon salt&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{169}" paraid="346933623"><strong>Granola</strong>&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{173}" paraid="726802197">&bull;&frac14; cup coconut oil&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{179}" paraid="142550950">&bull;2 tablespoons maple syrup&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{186}" paraid="287356305">&bull;&frac14; teaspoon vanilla bean paste&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{192}" paraid="786579517">&bull;1&frac14; cup rolled oats&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{198}" paraid="952573787">&bull;&frac34; teaspoon cinnamon&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{204}" paraid="1242213521">&bull;&frac12; teaspoon ginger&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{210}" paraid="378211736">&bull;1&frasl;8 teaspoon cardamom&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{216}" paraid="1872055979">&bull;1&frasl;8 teaspoon nutmeg&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{222}" paraid="609141450">&bull;&frac12; cup chopped hazelnuts&nbsp;</p>

<h2><u>Directions</u></h2>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{230}" paraid="1973738161"><strong>Butternut Squash Puree&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{234}" paraid="1348910393">Cut a butternut squash in half lengthwise and remove the seeds. Lightly oil squash and place cut side up on a baking sheet.&nbsp;Roast&nbsp; in&nbsp;a 350&deg; F oven for 25 &ndash; 35 minutes, or until the flesh is tender. Allow to cool and scoop the flesh into high-powered food processor. Blend until a smooth puree is formed.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{244}" paraid="276174474">In a pan, melt coconut oil, maple syrup, and vanilla bean paste. Add puree, spices, and salt, stirring constantly over low heat until the mixture is well combined and warmed through. Set aside and allow to cool to room temperature. To speed up the process, place in refrigerator uncovered, or place in a bowl over an ice bath.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{250}" paraid="491484676"><strong>Whipped Coconut Cream&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{6577c049-30b1-4475-9a84-bdc758c910fb}{254}" paraid="161292037">Place coconut cream in the refrigerator overnight to allow the cream and water to separate. In the morning, strain off excess water.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{fc361e18-c8a7-4df6-985a-e46d080f8bc8}{3}" paraid="1807465334">Whisk together prepared coconut cream, maple syrup, vanilla,&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{fc361e18-c8a7-4df6-985a-e46d080f8bc8}{7}" paraid="1929064108">and salt in a mixer or by hand until smooth and creamy.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{fc361e18-c8a7-4df6-985a-e46d080f8bc8}{11}" paraid="691697579">Reserve 1 cup to use in the butternut squash mousse.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{fc361e18-c8a7-4df6-985a-e46d080f8bc8}{17}" paraid="1124968006"><strong>Butternut Squash Mousse&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{fc361e18-c8a7-4df6-985a-e46d080f8bc8}{21}" paraid="2108730466">In a bowl combine the cooled butternut squash puree and 1 cup of the reserved whipped coconut cream. Gently fold together until combined and set aside.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{fc361e18-c8a7-4df6-985a-e46d080f8bc8}{27}" paraid="2110926195"><strong>Granola</strong>&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{fc361e18-c8a7-4df6-985a-e46d080f8bc8}{31}" paraid="471041023">Melt coconut oil, maple syrup, and vanilla bean paste.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{fc361e18-c8a7-4df6-985a-e46d080f8bc8}{35}" paraid="867931979">In a bowl combine oats, spices, and chopped hazelnuts.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{fc361e18-c8a7-4df6-985a-e46d080f8bc8}{39}" paraid="52858046">Pour melted coconut oil mixture over the granola and mix well.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{fc361e18-c8a7-4df6-985a-e46d080f8bc8}{43}" paraid="1051189485">Spread mixture onto a parchment-lined baking sheet and bake at 350&deg; F for 12 &ndash; 15 minutes or until granola is golden brown,&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{fc361e18-c8a7-4df6-985a-e46d080f8bc8}{47}" paraid="2029125927">stirring once or twice to allow for even browning. Then cool.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{fc361e18-c8a7-4df6-985a-e46d080f8bc8}{53}" paraid="1998795992"><strong>Assembling the Parfait&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{fc361e18-c8a7-4df6-985a-e46d080f8bc8}{57}" paraid="481249067">Spoon an even layer of granola into the bottom of a jar or bowl.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{fc361e18-c8a7-4df6-985a-e46d080f8bc8}{61}" paraid="1678190485">Follow with a layer of butternut squash mousse, then a layer of whipped coconut cream, and another layer of butternut squash mousse. Finish with a dollop of whipped coconut cream and grate fresh nutmeg over the top. Enjoy!&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/butternut-squash-mousse-parfait</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/butternut-squash-mousse-parfait#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 23 Nov 2019 13:15:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Four Ways to Practice Gratitude</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{cfde7e52-5d48-4736-91cf-3b03655d4c5d}{207}" paraid="1104172029"><strong>&ldquo;<em>Gratitude is the emotional sweet spot from which we can create our best lives.</em>&rdquo;</strong><br />
&ndash; <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Martha Beck&nbsp;</a></strong></p>

<p paraeid="{cfde7e52-5d48-4736-91cf-3b03655d4c5d}{213}" paraid="998719294">The word gratitude gets thrown around SO much this time of year.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{cfde7e52-5d48-4736-91cf-3b03655d4c5d}{219}" paraid="134954637">But what is gratitude really?&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{cfde7e52-5d48-4736-91cf-3b03655d4c5d}{225}" paraid="1493705566">Is it simply &ldquo;<em>the quality of being thankful; readiness to&nbsp;show&nbsp;appreciation for and to return kindness&quot; </em>... or is gratitude something more?</p>

<p paraeid="{cfde7e52-5d48-4736-91cf-3b03655d4c5d}{239}" paraid="1028064115">Maybe gratitude is also something deeper, something that can&rsquo;t be so easily defined. Maybe it&#39;s the amazing feeling we get when we express deep gratitude and thanks to those we care about.&nbsp; And maybe it&#39;s what happens to our lives when we live in a state of perpetual gratitude.</p>

<p paraeid="{cfde7e52-5d48-4736-91cf-3b03655d4c5d}{249}" paraid="1610084617">Think about it: What&#39;s the difference between practicing gratitude and simply expressing thanks?&nbsp;And is there&nbsp;a&nbsp;valid, scientific&nbsp;reason to&nbsp;express gratitude more often than once a year?&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{a7341ce0-a52b-4a4a-ac19-1ba4405e9af5}{10}" paraid="1861744472">In her blog, renowned life coach <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Martha Beck</a></strong> writes about a study that showed an increase in happiness among people who express&nbsp;genuine&nbsp;gratitude. Just by expressing thanks, they became happier. Hmmm. What if, instead of just once a year, we cultivated a regular gratitude practice?&nbsp;Could this have a meaningful impact on&nbsp;our lives and relationships?&nbsp;</p>

<h2>Here are&nbsp;a few&nbsp;scientific ways for you to create your own gratitude practice:&nbsp;&nbsp;</h2>

<p paraeid="{a7341ce0-a52b-4a4a-ac19-1ba4405e9af5}{95}" paraid="952408170"><strong>Write a thank-you note or letter</strong>&nbsp;(and give it to the person you are thanking). Writing down your feelings of thanks will almost certainly improve your relationship with that person. Plus, it gives you a moment to reflect on the importance of that person.&nbsp;Also, why not write one to yourself? Self-love&nbsp;is important, too.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{a7341ce0-a52b-4a4a-ac19-1ba4405e9af5}{120}" paraid="1167897132"><strong>Keep a gratitude journal.</strong>&nbsp;Remind yourself of what you&rsquo;re thankful for in the moment and look back to&nbsp;remember&nbsp;all&nbsp;the wonderful people and things in your life.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{a7341ce0-a52b-4a4a-ac19-1ba4405e9af5}{145}" paraid="942788588"><strong>Prayer can be a form of gratitude.</strong>&nbsp;Author and medical intuitive <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Caroline&nbsp;Myss</a></strong> likes this prayer: &ldquo;I am grateful for all I have and for all I do not have. If I am grateful for having been spared of suffering, give me the grace to help those who are suffering. Amen.&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{a7341ce0-a52b-4a4a-ac19-1ba4405e9af5}{178}" paraid="1067856461"><strong>A meditation&nbsp;practice.</strong> Think good thoughts. Incorporate&nbsp;feelings of gratitude into your meditation practice by creating a mantra of what you&rsquo;re grateful for. Meditation superstar <a href="https://www.1440.org/"><strong>Sharon Salzberg</strong> </a>says, &ldquo;I encourage myself to remember that being grateful doesn&rsquo;t mean I have to keep a gratitude jar that counts my blessings. It just means I can reset my thoughts, just like in meditation, and choose instead to gently&nbsp;settle my attention on something positive.&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/four-ways-to-practice-gratitude</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/four-ways-to-practice-gratitude#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 20 Nov 2019 18:45:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>5 Brilliant Books About the Human Spirit</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{c56997bd-bbeb-48a3-afff-6e928a641585}{160}" paraid="1560712537">Getting lost in a good book is one of the greatest ways to spend a beautiful day, a dreary day, or just about any day. But what about finding yourself in a good book?&nbsp;If&nbsp;you&rsquo;re looking&nbsp;for&nbsp;entertainment, self-actualization,&nbsp;or something new to learn, check out these five&nbsp;books.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<h2><strong>1.<em> City of Girls</em>&nbsp;</strong>by&nbsp;<u><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Elizabeth&nbsp;Gilbert&nbsp;</a></u></h2>

<p paraeid="{c56997bd-bbeb-48a3-afff-6e928a641585}{185}" paraid="2042940416">Elizabeth Gilbert&rsquo;s most recent novel,&nbsp;<em>City of Girls</em>, is part retrospective and part coming of age. It&#39;s a gorgeous love letter to a lost era and New York City. Focusing on one woman&rsquo;s youth and the events that shifted her life&rsquo;s story, Gilbert paints a vivid picture of life in 1940s New York at its most glamorous.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c56997bd-bbeb-48a3-afff-6e928a641585}{209}" paraid="1736639489">&ldquo;The town was perched proud and solid on its nest of granite, tucked between its two dark rivers. Its stacks of skyscrapers glittered like columns of fireflies in the velvety summer air. We crossed over the silent, commanding bridge &ndash; broad and long as a condor&rsquo;s wing &ndash; and entered the city. This dense place. This meaningful place. The greatest metropolis the world has ever known&ndash; or at least that&rsquo;s what I&rsquo;ve always thought.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c56997bd-bbeb-48a3-afff-6e928a641585}{215}" paraid="1452323847">I was overcome with reverence.&nbsp;<br />
I would plant my little life there and never abandon it again.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<h2><strong>2.<em> Inheritance </em></strong>by&nbsp;<u><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dani Shapiro</a></u></h2>

<p paraeid="{c56997bd-bbeb-48a3-afff-6e928a641585}{250}" paraid="71394393">What if you took a DNA test and found out your father wasn&#39;t a biological relative?</p>

<p paraeid="{c56997bd-bbeb-48a3-afff-6e928a641585}{250}" paraid="71394393">That&#39;s what happened to author Dani Shapiro, and she transformed her personal and contemporary experience into a stunning non-fiction literary page-turner. Shapiro&rsquo;s <em>New York Times</em> best seller,&nbsp;<em>Inheritance</em>, is poignant and beautifully written, keeping keep you on the edge of your seat while pondering life&rsquo;s big questions.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{11}" paraid="1294993191">&ldquo;After listening to my entire story, he quietly said: &#39;You can say, This is impossible, terrible.&#39;Or you can say, This is beautiful, wonderful. You can imagine that you&#39;re in exile. Or you can imagine that you have more than one home.&#39;&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>

<h2><strong>3. <em>The Beautiful No </em></strong>by<em>&nbsp;</em><u><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sheri Salata</a></u></h2>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{44}" paraid="683874835">Are you living the life you want? Or do the vague ghosts of discontent knock on your door at night and whisper to you of dreams long abandoned?</p>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{44}" paraid="683874835"><em>The Beautiful No</em> might be the book you need. This transformational guidebook by Sheri Salata (former executive producer of <em>The</em> <em>Oprah Winfrey&nbsp;Show</em>) is the fabulous inspiration for anyone who needs an empowering story of how life changing experiences can happen at any age, even after 50.</p>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{56}" paraid="726605369">&ldquo;Maybe it&rsquo;s time to rethink everything about what is possible. Maybe it&rsquo;s time to dust off your dreams and give yourself permission&nbsp;to ask the &lsquo;what about&rsquo; question:&nbsp;What about the life I always wanted?&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>

<h2><strong>4.<em>&nbsp;Anatomy of the Spirit&nbsp;</em></strong>by <u><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Caroline&nbsp;Myss</a></u></h2>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{105}" paraid="1762348703">Spirit can feel like an elusive concept at times, but this book by best-selling author and medical intuitive Caroline Myss anchors spirit discussion in a very real way to the stages of power and healing.</p>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{105}" paraid="1762348703"><em>Anatomy of the Spirit</em>&nbsp;brings together multiple spiritual and physical practices to create an excellent and holistic look into our well-being.&nbsp;Myss&nbsp;provides tools to inquire and develop wholeness.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{117}" paraid="1492314711">&ldquo;The wounded child sees the Divine as operating a reward and punishment system, with humanly logical explanations for all painful experiences. The wounded child does not understand that within all experiences, no matter how painful, lie spiritual insights. So long as we think like a wounded child, we will love conditionally and with great fear of loss.&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>

<h2><strong>5.&nbsp;<em>Love Big&nbsp;</em></strong>by<em>&nbsp;</em><u><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Rozella Hayd&eacute;e&nbsp;White</a></u></h2>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{140}" paraid="2089980618"><em>&quot;Healing doesn&#39;t happen overnight. It requires ongoing care and attention.</em>&quot;</p>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{140}" paraid="2089980618">If you just said &quot;amen&quot; then you&#39;re going to love this book by leadership coach Rozella Hayd&eacute;e White, who writes about relationships, division and the ways in which healing ourselves might be the most radical thing we can do to create change.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{144}" paraid="1033153442">&ldquo;Knowing something and believing something are very different than living something. No matter how much we know, this knowledge doesn&#39;t always translate into action.&quot;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-brilliant-books</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-brilliant-books#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>5 Brilliant Books About the Human Spirit</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{c56997bd-bbeb-48a3-afff-6e928a641585}{160}" paraid="1560712537">Getting lost in a good book is one of the greatest ways to spend a beautiful day, a dreary day, or just about any day. But what about finding yourself in a good book?&nbsp;If&nbsp;you&rsquo;re looking&nbsp;for&nbsp;entertainment, self-actualization,&nbsp;or something new to learn, check out these five&nbsp;books.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c56997bd-bbeb-48a3-afff-6e928a641585}{170}" paraid="2062582529">&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c56997bd-bbeb-48a3-afff-6e928a641585}{174}" paraid="655884741">&nbsp;</p>

<h2><strong>1.<em> City of Girls</em>&nbsp;</strong>by&nbsp;<u><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Elizabeth&nbsp;Gilbert&nbsp;</a></u></h2>

<p paraeid="{c56997bd-bbeb-48a3-afff-6e928a641585}{185}" paraid="2042940416">Elizabeth Gilbert&rsquo;s most recent novel,&nbsp;<em>City of Girls</em>, is part retrospective and part coming of age. It&#39;s a gorgeous love letter to a lost era and New York City. Focusing on one woman&rsquo;s youth and the events that shifted her life&rsquo;s story, Gilbert paints a vivid picture of life in 1940s New York at its most glamorous.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c56997bd-bbeb-48a3-afff-6e928a641585}{209}" paraid="1736639489">&ldquo;The town was perched proud and solid on its nest of granite, tucked between its two dark rivers. Its stacks of skyscrapers glittered like columns of fireflies in the velvety summer air. We crossed over the silent, commanding bridge &ndash; broad and long as a condor&rsquo;s wing &ndash; and entered the city. This dense place. This meaningful place. The greatest metropolis the world has ever known&ndash; or at least that&rsquo;s what I&rsquo;ve always thought.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c56997bd-bbeb-48a3-afff-6e928a641585}{215}" paraid="1452323847">I was overcome with reverence.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c56997bd-bbeb-48a3-afff-6e928a641585}{215}" paraid="1452323847"><br />
I would plant my little life there and never abandon it again.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br />
&nbsp;</p>

<h2><strong>2.<em> Inheritance </em></strong>by&nbsp;<u><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dani Shapiro</a></u></h2>

<p paraeid="{c56997bd-bbeb-48a3-afff-6e928a641585}{250}" paraid="71394393">What if you took a DNA test and found out your father wasn&#39;t a biological relative?<br />
&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c56997bd-bbeb-48a3-afff-6e928a641585}{250}" paraid="71394393">That&#39;s what happened to author Dani Shapiro, and she transformed her personal and contemporary experience into a stunning non-fiction literary page-turner. Shapiro&rsquo;s <em>New York Times</em> best seller,&nbsp;<em>Inheritance</em>, is poignant and beautifully written, keeping keep you on the edge of your seat while pondering life&rsquo;s big questions.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{11}" paraid="1294993191">&ldquo;After listening to my entire story, he quietly said: &#39;You can say, This is impossible, terrible.&#39;Or you can say, This is beautiful, wonderful. You can imagine that you&#39;re in exile. Or you can imagine that you have more than one home.&#39;&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>

<h2><strong>3. <em>The Beautiful No </em></strong>by<em>&nbsp;</em><u><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sheri Salata</a></u></h2>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{44}" paraid="683874835">Are you living the life you want? Or do the vague ghosts of discontent knock on your door at night and whisper to you of dreams long abandoned?</p>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{44}" paraid="683874835"><em>The Beautiful No</em> might be the book you need. This transformational guidebook by Sheri Salata (former executive producer of <em>The</em> <em>Oprah Winfrey&nbsp;Show</em>) is the fabulous inspiration for anyone who needs an empowering story of how life changing experiences can happen at any age, even after 50.</p>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{56}" paraid="726605369">&ldquo;Maybe it&rsquo;s time to rethink everything about what is possible. Maybe it&rsquo;s time to dust off your dreams and give yourself permission&nbsp;to ask the &lsquo;what about&rsquo; question:&nbsp;What about the life I always wanted?&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>

<h2><strong>4.<em>&nbsp;Anatomy of the Spirit&nbsp;</em></strong>by <u><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Caroline&nbsp;Myss</a></u></h2>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{90}" paraid="1619224828">Spirit can feel like an elusive concept at times, but this book by best-selling author and medical intuitive Caroline Myss anchors spirit discussion in a very real way to the stages of power and healing.</p>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{105}" paraid="1762348703"><em>Anatomy of the Spirit</em>&nbsp;brings together multiple spiritual and physical practices to create an excellent and holistic look into our well-being.&nbsp;Myss&nbsp;provides tools to inquire and develop wholeness.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{117}" paraid="1492314711">&ldquo;The wounded child sees the Divine as operating a reward and punishment system, with humanly logical explanations for all painful experiences. The wounded child does not understand that within all experiences, no matter how painful, lie spiritual insights. So long as we think like a wounded child, we will love conditionally and with great fear of loss.&rdquo;&nbsp;</p>

<h2><strong>5.&nbsp;<em>Love Big&nbsp;</em></strong>by<em>&nbsp;</em><u><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Rozella Hayd&eacute;e&nbsp;White</a></u></h2>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{140}" paraid="2089980618"><em>&quot;Healing doesn&#39;t happen overnight. It requires ongoing care and attention.</em>&quot;</p>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{140}" paraid="2089980618">If you just said &quot;amen&quot; then you&#39;re going to love this book by leadership coach Rozella Hayd&eacute;e White, who writes about relationships, division and the ways in which healing ourselves might be the most radical thing we can do to create change.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{10364f0a-adc9-4322-931e-207e5cfd7c6c}{144}" paraid="1033153442">&ldquo;Knowing something and believing something are very different than living something. No matter how much we know, this knowledge doesn&#39;t always translate into action.&quot;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-brilliant-books</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-brilliant-books#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Dan Mulhern &quot;On the Power of Leading by Two&quot;</title><description><![CDATA[<div class="boxspacer">&ldquo;<em>It&rsquo;s not one plus one equals two, it&rsquo;s a multiplier effect, I get better my partner gets better, those around us and our strategy all gets better.</em>&rdquo;</div>

<div class="boxspacer">&ndash; <strong>Dan Mulhern</strong></div>

<div class="boxspacer">Watch Dan Mulhern, leadership expert and continuing lecturer at&nbsp;UC Berkeley, explain how to lead as part of a team.&nbsp;</div>
<iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/JGSJykKJl3c" width="560"></iframe>

<div class="boxspacer"><strong>Join Scott Kriens and Dan Mulhern for <em><a href="https://1440.us/team-true-north-leadership/">Team True North Leadership</a></em>&nbsp;January 21 &ndash;&nbsp;23, 2020.&nbsp;</strong></div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/dan-mulhern-on-the-power-of-leading-by-two</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/dan-mulhern-on-the-power-of-leading-by-two#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 5 Nov 2019 13:28:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>Dan Mulhern &quot;On the Power of Leading by Two&quot;</title><description><![CDATA[<div class="boxspacer">&ldquo;<em>It&rsquo;s not one plus one equals two, it&rsquo;s a multiplier effect, I get better my partner gets better, those around us and our strategy all gets better.</em>&rdquo;</div>

<div class="boxspacer">&ndash; <strong>Dan Mulhern</strong></div>

<div class="boxspacer">Watch Dan Mulhern, leadership expert and continuing lecturer at&nbsp;UC Berkeley, explain how to lead as part of a team.&nbsp;</div>
<iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/JGSJykKJl3c" width="560"></iframe>

<div class="boxspacer"><strong>Join Scott Kriens and Dan Mulhern for <em><a href="https://1440.us/team-true-north-leadership/">Team True North Leadership</a></em>&nbsp;January 21 &ndash;&nbsp;23, 2020.&nbsp;</strong></div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/dan-mulhern-on-the-power-of-leading-by-two</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/dan-mulhern-on-the-power-of-leading-by-two#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 5 Nov 2019 13:28:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>Healing The Nervous System Through Our Hands</title><description><![CDATA[<p>&lsquo;Our life is in our hands and between our hands&rsquo;.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Deep power and communication exists within our hands. The way we use our hands impacts how we think, move, feel, heal and relate to people in our lives. Through our hands, we can learn to soften our relationship to the world around us, create safer boundaries and open ourselves to more play with others.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Put simply, the way we use our hands reflects the way we live.</strong>Changing the way we move our hands changes how we experience well...pretty much everything.</p>

<p>Science has shown that our hands are our direct connection to our brain&rsquo;s frontal lobe. As embryos, our hands and neocortex developed in parallel, and they continue to develop in parallel as adults.</p>

<p><strong>The more refined movement we can access through our hands, the more we expand the capacity of our brain</strong>. When we have more access to the movements and sensations in our hands, we can be more creative, playful, connected and sensitive to the world and the people around us.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Our hands are essential for nervous system regulation, which is the foundation for mental, emotional, physical and relational health. They allow us to set boundaries, negotiate safety, and relate to the environment around us.&nbsp;</p>

<p>At the&nbsp;<em>Up &amp; </em><em>Down</em>workshop that is taking place December 5-8, we will be using simple practices to access the somatic and autonomic nervous systems through our hands to find better resiliency and safe, playful social engagement - all hallmarks of good mental and physical health.&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>In the workshop, people also learn to re-awaken their sense of touch.&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p>Touch is an essential part of life. But if we had abusive, intrusive, unwanted, or misattuned touch (or no touch at all!), when we are developing as infants, toddlers, grade-schoolers and teens, we won&#39;t know what good, nurturing, healthy, loving, safe, and unconditional touch truly is. We won&#39;t know how to touch others and it will be very tough to connect to ourselves in a loving and unconditional way.&nbsp;</p>

<p>Through our hands and the deep connection they have in regulating our nervous system, we can also help ourselves and others to heal. Coupled with intention, intelligence and a playful sense of curiosity, we can start to heal the deeper parts of ourselves that have been waiting for this level of communication and nurturing.&nbsp;</p>

<p>I invite you to come and recapture the potential energy and power that is within your hands and have fun doing so at the&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/"><em>Up and&nbsp;</em></a><em><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Down</a>&nbsp;</em>workshop on Dec 5&ndash;8, 2019.</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/healing-the-nervous-system-through-our-hands</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/healing-the-nervous-system-through-our-hands#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 30 Oct 2019 20:08:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Find Money Zen</title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong><em>&quot;My hope... is to leave women with a feeling that I call &#39;Money Zen&#39; &ndash;&nbsp;a feeling of calm and confidence and clarity around the role that money plays in their lives&quot; - Manisha Thakor</em></strong></p>

<p>Financial stress can wear you out but it doesn&#39;t have to.&nbsp;Watch Manisha Thakor,&nbsp;financial literacy advocate and financial planner for women,&nbsp;explain how you can find Money&nbsp;Zen. Plus, check out her budgeting tips below!</p>
<iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/eU2_yiFav6Q" width="560"></iframe>

<p><strong>An excerpt from&nbsp;Manisha&#39;s book <em>Your Path to True WELLth: a whole new approach to money, meaning &amp; purpose</em>:&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p>Step #2: <em>Learn what healthy spending looks like.</em></p>

<p>If you ask the average person, &ldquo;What is a healthy mix between spending on needs and wants versus savings?&rdquo; you will likely get a blank&nbsp;stare. That&rsquo;s because very few of us were ever given straight&nbsp;forward guidelines to follow in this area.</p>

<p>Back in the early 1990s when she was a Harvard Law School professor specializing in bankruptcy, Senator Elizabeth Warren and her daughter Amelia wrote a delightful book called <em>ALL YOUR WORTH</em>. In it, they&nbsp;identified an optimal &ldquo;balanced spending formula&rdquo; of 50/30/20. It is simple, powerful, and after all these years it&rsquo;s still the most effective healthy spending rule of thumb I&rsquo;ve come across.</p>

<p>The &ldquo;Balanced Spending Formula&rdquo; Looks Like This...</p>

<ul>
	<li>
	<p>50 percent &ndash; the ideal amount of your take-home pay that goes toward needs</p>
	</li>
	<li>
	<p>30 percent &ndash; the ideal amount of your take-home pay that goes to wants</p>
	</li>
	<li>
	<p>20 percent &ndash; the ideal amount you set aside for savings</p>
	</li>
</ul>

<p><em>Join Manisha&nbsp;to discover a mind-body-spirit&nbsp;approach to financial well-being at <strong><u><a href="https://www.1440.org/">MoneyZen for Women</a></u></strong> January 24-26, 2020 at 1440.&nbsp;</em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-find-money-zen</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-find-money-zen#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 14 Oct 2019 13:15:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>How to Find Money Zen</title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong><em>&quot;My hope... is to leave women with a feeling that I call &#39;Money Zen&#39; &ndash;&nbsp;a feeling of calm and confidence and clarity around the role that money plays in their lives&quot; - Manisha Thakor</em></strong></p>

<p>Financial stress can wear you out but it doesn&#39;t have to.&nbsp;Watch Manisha Thakor,&nbsp;financial literacy advocate and financial planner for women,&nbsp;explain how you can find Money&nbsp;Zen. Plus, check out her budgeting tips below!</p>
<iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/eU2_yiFav6Q" width="560"></iframe>

<p><strong>An excerpt from&nbsp;Manisha&#39;s book <em>Your Path to True WELLth: a whole new approach to money, meaning &amp; purpose</em>:&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p>Step #2: <em>Learn what healthy spending looks like.</em></p>

<p>If you ask the average person, &ldquo;What is a healthy mix between spending on needs and wants versus savings?&rdquo; you will likely get a blank&nbsp;stare. That&rsquo;s because very few of us were ever given straight&nbsp;forward guidelines to follow in this area.</p>

<p>Back in the early 1990s when she was a Harvard Law School professor specializing in bankruptcy, Senator Elizabeth Warren and her daughter Amelia wrote a delightful book called <em>ALL YOUR WORTH</em>. In it, they&nbsp;identified an optimal &ldquo;balanced spending formula&rdquo; of 50/30/20. It is simple, powerful, and after all these years it&rsquo;s still the most effective healthy spending rule of thumb I&rsquo;ve come across.</p>

<p>The &ldquo;Balanced Spending Formula&rdquo; Looks Like This...</p>

<ul>
	<li>
	<p>50 percent &ndash; the ideal amount of your take-home pay that goes toward needs</p>
	</li>
	<li>
	<p>30 percent &ndash; the ideal amount of your take-home pay that goes to wants</p>
	</li>
	<li>
	<p>20 percent &ndash; the ideal amount you set aside for savings</p>
	</li>
</ul>

<p><em>Join Manisha&nbsp;to discover a mind-body-spirit&nbsp;approach to financial well-being at <strong><u><a href="https://www.1440.org/">MoneyZen for Women</a></u></strong> January 24-26, 2020 at 1440.&nbsp;</em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-find-money-zen</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-find-money-zen#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 14 Oct 2019 13:15:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>The BOX Sessions</title><description><![CDATA[<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{a7f0001e-8d65-4781-95b3-2dee19f283a8}{208}" paraid="646199942" xml:lang="EN-US">&nbsp;</p>

<h2>What are <u><a href="https://1440.us/the-box-sessions/">The BOX Sessions&trade;</a></u> ?&nbsp;</h2>

<p>The BOX Sessions&trade; are an opportunity to find the amazing creative community you&#39;ve always wanted.</p>

<p>Whether you&#39;re a writer, film-maker, cook, artist, or a creative in any way, you can find inspiration and learn to live outside the box in this amazing weekend.&nbsp;Laura Holson, New York Times journalist and founder of&nbsp;The BOX Sessions&trade;&nbsp;says,&nbsp;<em>&ldquo;We are all faced with unrelenting demands in our daily lives and need inspiration more than ever.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</em></p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{5657204a-faa2-4395-8e8c-9f8b55a80d92}{177}" paraid="1847853529" xml:lang="EN-US">So&nbsp;she created this special gathering at 1440&nbsp;to&nbsp;inspire and spark people looking to&nbsp;reinvigorate their imagination and sharpen their creative skills.&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{ba91bef5-5665-4a48-8834-7bc735f9c2dc}{89}" paraid="1192951590" xml:lang="EN-US">In this one weekend, you can meet world-class artists and award-winning filmmakers including the popular <em>The Moth</em> radio show and podcast; cooking sensation&nbsp;Samin&nbsp;Nosrat; novelist Jonathan Franzen;&nbsp;<em>Crazy Rich Asians&nbsp;</em>director Jon Chu; cartoonist, author and MacArthur Fellowship &ldquo;Genius Grant&rdquo; recipient Lynda Barry; and others.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{ba91bef5-5665-4a48-8834-7bc735f9c2dc}{171}" paraid="763327228" xml:lang="EN-US">During workshops and breakout sessions, explore your sense of wonder and curiosity and experience the power of community.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{28b41a5f-ece7-4036-9424-4a42d34e16d7}{83}" paraid="1713328977" xml:lang="EN-US">If you&rsquo;re trying to get back into your creative groove or trying something new, don&#39;t miss this one. We&#39;ll see you here in the redwoods&nbsp;at The BOX Sessions &trade;.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{28b41a5f-ece7-4036-9424-4a42d34e16d7}{83}" paraid="1713328977" xml:lang="EN-US">Words of advice from some of the many luminaries who will be at The BOX Sessions&trade;:</p>
Cooking Advice from&nbsp;Samin&nbsp;Nosrat:

<p paraeid="{c0c0862d-dc65-40e9-beb0-2d95eb2c7988}{176}" paraid="1323952186"><strong>&ldquo;Season food with the proper amount of salt at the proper moment; choose the optimal medium of fat to convey the flavor of your ingredients; balance and animate those ingredients with acid; apply the right type and quantity of heat for the proper amount of time&mdash;do all this and you will turn out vibrant and beautiful food, with or without a recipe.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{c0c0862d-dc65-40e9-beb0-2d95eb2c7988}{182}" paraid="91859093">You can find her on her Netflix show&nbsp;<em>Salt,&nbsp;Fat, Acid, Heat</em>,&nbsp;or&nbsp;in one of her excellent cookbooks.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c0c0862d-dc65-40e9-beb0-2d95eb2c7988}{192}" paraid="1274720129">Cartoonist, author and MacArthur Fellowship &ldquo;Genius&nbsp;Grant&rdquo; recipient Lynda Barry:&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c0c0862d-dc65-40e9-beb0-2d95eb2c7988}{192}" paraid="1274720129"><strong>&ldquo;I guess that&rsquo;s sort of my obsession right now: showing people that drawing is this other thing than just how it looks. It&rsquo;s&nbsp;actually a&nbsp;language, a way of thinking. It&rsquo;s almost like having this extra brain. I&rsquo;m trying to get my students to see past how their drawing looks and see it rather as communication.&rdquo;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p>Jonny Sun, author, illustrator, and one of TIME Magazine&rsquo;s &ldquo;25 Most Influential People on the Internet&rdquo; of 2017 is creating some of the best&nbsp;wholesome memes on the internet. As he says in his extremely popular <a href="https://youtu.be/gi6rMXu_veE"><u><strong>Ted&nbsp;Talk</strong></u></a>:</p>

<p><strong>&ldquo;I&rsquo;m excited about externalizing the internal, about taking those invisible personal feelings that I don&rsquo;t have words for, holding them to the light, putting words to them, and then sharing them with other people in the hopes that it might help them find words to find their feelings as well.&rdquo;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<h2>Find these creatives and more at our upcoming program&nbsp;<u><a href="https://1440.us/the-box-sessions/">The BOX Sessions&trade;</a>&nbsp;</u>at 1440 Multiversity on February 28-March 1, 2020.&nbsp;</h2>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-box-sessions</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-box-sessions#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 9 Oct 2019 18:07:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>The BOX Sessions</title><description><![CDATA[<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{a7f0001e-8d65-4781-95b3-2dee19f283a8}{208}" paraid="646199942" xml:lang="EN-US">&nbsp;</p>

<h2>What are <u><a href="https://1440.us/the-box-sessions/">The BOX Sessions&trade;</a></u> ?&nbsp;</h2>

<p>The BOX Sessions&trade; are an opportunity to find the amazing creative community you&#39;ve always wanted.</p>

<p>Whether you&#39;re a writer, film-maker, cook, artist, or a creative in any way, you can find inspiration and learn to live outside the box in this amazing weekend.&nbsp;Laura Holson, New York Times journalist and founder of&nbsp;The BOX Sessions&trade;&nbsp;says,&nbsp;<em>&ldquo;We are all faced with unrelenting demands in our daily lives and need inspiration more than ever.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</em></p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{5657204a-faa2-4395-8e8c-9f8b55a80d92}{177}" paraid="1847853529" xml:lang="EN-US">So&nbsp;she created this special gathering at 1440&nbsp;to&nbsp;inspire and spark people looking to&nbsp;reinvigorate their imagination and sharpen their creative skills.&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{ba91bef5-5665-4a48-8834-7bc735f9c2dc}{89}" paraid="1192951590" xml:lang="EN-US">In this one weekend, you can meet world-class artists and award-winning filmmakers including the popular <em>The Moth</em> radio show and podcast; cooking sensation&nbsp;Samin&nbsp;Nosrat; novelist Jonathan Franzen;&nbsp;<em>Crazy Rich Asians&nbsp;</em>director Jon Chu; cartoonist, author and MacArthur Fellowship &ldquo;Genius Grant&rdquo; recipient Lynda Barry; and others.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{ba91bef5-5665-4a48-8834-7bc735f9c2dc}{171}" paraid="763327228" xml:lang="EN-US">During workshops and breakout sessions, explore your sense of wonder and curiosity and experience the power of community.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{28b41a5f-ece7-4036-9424-4a42d34e16d7}{83}" paraid="1713328977" xml:lang="EN-US">If you&rsquo;re trying to get back into your creative groove or trying something new, don&#39;t miss this one. We&#39;ll see you here in the redwoods&nbsp;at The BOX Sessions &trade;.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p lang="EN-US" paraeid="{28b41a5f-ece7-4036-9424-4a42d34e16d7}{83}" paraid="1713328977" xml:lang="EN-US">Words of advice from some of the many luminaries who will be at The BOX Sessions&trade;:</p>
Cooking Advice from&nbsp;Samin&nbsp;Nosrat:&nbsp;

<p paraeid="{c0c0862d-dc65-40e9-beb0-2d95eb2c7988}{176}" paraid="1323952186"><strong>&ldquo;Season food with the proper amount of salt at the proper moment; choose the optimal medium of fat to convey the flavor of your ingredients; balance and animate those ingredients with acid; apply the right type and quantity of heat for the proper amount of time&mdash;do all this and you will turn out vibrant and beautiful food, with or without a recipe.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{c0c0862d-dc65-40e9-beb0-2d95eb2c7988}{182}" paraid="91859093">You can find her on her Netflix show&nbsp;<em>Salt,&nbsp;Fat, Acid, Heat</em>,&nbsp;or&nbsp;in one of her excellent cookbooks.&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c0c0862d-dc65-40e9-beb0-2d95eb2c7988}{192}" paraid="1274720129">Cartoonist, author and MacArthur Fellowship &ldquo;Genius&nbsp;Grant&rdquo; recipient Lynda Barry:&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{c0c0862d-dc65-40e9-beb0-2d95eb2c7988}{192}" paraid="1274720129"><strong>&ldquo;I guess that&rsquo;s sort of my obsession right now: showing people that drawing is this other thing than just how it looks. It&rsquo;s&nbsp;actually a&nbsp;language, a way of thinking. It&rsquo;s almost like having this extra brain. I&rsquo;m trying to get my students to see past how their drawing looks and see it rather as communication.&rdquo;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p>Jonny Sun, author, illustrator, and one of TIME Magazine&rsquo;s &ldquo;25 Most Influential People on the Internet&rdquo; of 2017 is creating some of the best&nbsp;wholesome memes on the internet. As he says in his extremely popular <a href="https://youtu.be/gi6rMXu_veE"><u><strong>Ted&nbsp;Talk</strong></u></a>:</p>

<p><strong>&ldquo;I&rsquo;m excited about externalizing the internal, about taking those invisible personal feelings that I don&rsquo;t have words for, holding them to the light, putting words to them, and then sharing them with other people in the hopes that it might help them find words to find their feelings as well.&rdquo;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<h2>Find these creatives and more at our upcoming program&nbsp;<u><a href="https://1440.us/the-box-sessions/">The BOX Sessions&trade;</a>&nbsp;</u>at 1440 Multiversity on February 28-March 1, 2020.&nbsp;</h2>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-box-sessions</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-box-sessions#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 9 Oct 2019 18:07:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Toward a New Spirituality of Holism: A Conversation with Caroline Myss</title><description><![CDATA[<p>Interview by Kate Tripp.</p>

<p>Caroline&nbsp;Myss&nbsp;is a five-time&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;best-selling author and internationally renowned pioneer in the fields of human consciousness, spirituality and mysticism, health, energy medicine, and medical intuition.</p>

<h3><strong>1440: How do you understand God at this point in your life?</strong></h3>

<p><em>Caroline:</em>&nbsp;I no longer have a religious or anthropomorphic view of God. For me, God is law. God is represented in the laws of nature and the organizational system of the universe.</p>

<p><em>God is both impersonal and intimate.</em></p>

<p>We see the impersonal nature of God in the structure of the universe, down to the duplication of the mathematics of nature and how perfect it all is. The intimate nature of God is prayer.</p>

<h3><strong>1440: This is a very different understanding of God than that of modern religions. Do you think we&rsquo;re evolving toward this understanding?</strong></h3>

<p><em>Caroline:</em>&nbsp;Earth-based gods are colliding now because we&rsquo;ve reached the end of earth-centric religion. It&rsquo;s the end of the &ldquo;God-as-man&rdquo; era. Abrahamic religions are fighting for the last vestiges of this mythology, but God has no religion. It&rsquo;s time for the myths of religion and the politics of religion to fade away.</p>

<p>Most of us won&rsquo;t live to see this, but we are evolving into a spirituality that is organic. Our individual health and the organics of our bio-spiritual ecology are one with the bio-spiritual ecology of nature. That will be our salvation.</p>

<h3><strong>1440: How did you come to have this understanding of God?</strong></h3>

<p><em>Caroline:</em>&nbsp;I came to this not from my work as a theologian, but as a medical intuitive. I first began to wonder why people don&rsquo;t heal, and then eventually I wondered why people don&rsquo;t want to heal. We&rsquo;re becoming sicker. We&rsquo;re becoming more depressed and more addicted.</p>

<p>I realized that these illnesses were actually soul illnesses&mdash;spiritual crises&mdash;and the language that people needed, the holy language of prayer, simply was not available. We had dismantled the route to the soul so successfully that people didn&rsquo;t even know there was such a thing as a spiritual crisis anymore, so they had no option but to say they had a psychological crisis.</p>

<h3><strong>1440: How does this play out on a practical level with our health?</strong></h3>

<p><em>Caroline:</em>&nbsp;It means if I&rsquo;m sick and I go to a doctor and the doctor says, &ldquo;Your heart&rsquo;s not well. I have a medication for it, but it&rsquo;s going to knock the hell out of your kidneys,&rdquo; then I say goodbye to that doctor. We need doctors that can treat us as a whole system.</p>

<p>The new spiritual dictate is ecological theology; it has to be holism.</p>

<p>We cannot adhere to a religion or medicine that is based on separation. This is why it&rsquo;s time for religions to begin to evaporate.</p>

<h3><strong>1440: Is there anything useful from religion that we can keep?</strong></h3>

<p><em>Caroline:</em>&nbsp;We can retain the mystical teachings because they are not about separation or the politics of God, which is what religion is. Mystical teachings are fundamentally about the laws of the universe. The laws of men have to go&mdash;the laws of the universe are what will be retained.</p>

<h3><strong>1440: We&rsquo;ve traditionally turned to religious leaders for spiritual guidance. Where will we look for guidance in this new model?</strong></h3>

<p><em>Caroline:</em>&nbsp;The soul is deep, profound, and rigorous, and it brings you to truth. It does not bring you to your history so you can figure out who hurt you. It is not a journey of discovering how to get even with others.</p>

<p>It is a journey of how to discover why you want to get even, why you want to hurt others, why you are unforgiving. It&rsquo;s a journey of excavation of why you sabotage your health. This is where prayer comes in.</p>

<p>And it&rsquo;s why no one should go into the soul unescorted. If you go unescorted, you will never heal. You need a spiritual director and companions to help you along the way. Spiritual directors will be the new priests. We still need the sacraments. We do not fare well without confession.</p>

<h3><strong>1440: Are there other practices that have the same effect as prayer?</strong></h3>

<p><em>Caroline:</em>&nbsp;I&rsquo;m all for holy listening. Holy listening is a way of relaxing, of releasing the debris and waiting to hear God. It&rsquo;s not a practice; it&rsquo;s a devotion. It&rsquo;s a devotion because you make a vow that says you&rsquo;ll show up in holy listening and wait.</p>

<p>You wait and you wait and you get over that childish, egocentric entitlement that says because you&rsquo;ve showed up you expect to hear something. Expect nothing. God is everywhere, but most of you are blind as a bat.</p>

<p>Guidance is around all the time, in every single thing, not just when things &lsquo;work out.&rsquo;</p>

<p>How do you know if things are working out? Remember, you&rsquo;re looking through a tiny lens. You don&rsquo;t see what&rsquo;s coming, you don&rsquo;t see what&rsquo;s gone, you don&rsquo;t see the influences of other people. How do you know what&rsquo;s supposed to be happening?</p>

<p>Everything is being worked in a grand, huge, eternal alchemy that is constantly unfolding. The hand of God is in every single second, every single breath, and that&rsquo;s how you have to think. You have to shave down your expectations and appreciate absolutely everything. You have to realize the power of a smile or an act of kindness generates so much force in the world. That&rsquo;s God in the world.</p>

<p><em>Join Caroline for&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Power of Prayer: Insight, Transformation, and Truth</a>, Jan 31 &ndash; Feb 2, 2020, at 1440.</em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/toward-a-new-spirituality-of-holism-a-conversation-with-caroline-myss</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/toward-a-new-spirituality-of-holism-a-conversation-with-caroline-myss#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 1 Oct 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>Toward a New Spirituality of Holism: A Conversation with Caroline Myss</title><description><![CDATA[<p>Interview by Kate Tripp.</p>

<p>Caroline&nbsp;Myss&nbsp;is a five-time&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;best-selling author and internationally renowned pioneer in the fields of human consciousness, spirituality and mysticism, health, energy medicine, and medical intuition.</p>

<h3><strong>1440: How do you understand God at this point in your life?</strong></h3>

<p><em>Caroline:</em>&nbsp;I no longer have a religious or anthropomorphic view of God. For me, God is law. God is represented in the laws of nature and the organizational system of the universe.</p>

<p><em>God is both impersonal and intimate.</em></p>

<p>We see the impersonal nature of God in the structure of the universe, down to the duplication of the mathematics of nature and how perfect it all is. The intimate nature of God is prayer.</p>

<h3><strong>1440: This is a very different understanding of God than that of modern religions. Do you think we&rsquo;re evolving toward this understanding?</strong></h3>

<p><em>Caroline:</em>&nbsp;Earth-based gods are colliding now because we&rsquo;ve reached the end of earth-centric religion. It&rsquo;s the end of the &ldquo;God-as-man&rdquo; era. Abrahamic religions are fighting for the last vestiges of this mythology, but God has no religion. It&rsquo;s time for the myths of religion and the politics of religion to fade away.</p>

<p>Most of us won&rsquo;t live to see this, but we are evolving into a spirituality that is organic. Our individual health and the organics of our bio-spiritual ecology are one with the bio-spiritual ecology of nature. That will be our salvation.</p>

<h3><strong>1440: How did you come to have this understanding of God?</strong></h3>

<p><em>Caroline:</em>&nbsp;I came to this not from my work as a theologian, but as a medical intuitive. I first began to wonder why people don&rsquo;t heal, and then eventually I wondered why people don&rsquo;t want to heal. We&rsquo;re becoming sicker. We&rsquo;re becoming more depressed and more addicted.</p>

<p>I realized that these illnesses were actually soul illnesses&mdash;spiritual crises&mdash;and the language that people needed, the holy language of prayer, simply was not available. We had dismantled the route to the soul so successfully that people didn&rsquo;t even know there was such a thing as a spiritual crisis anymore, so they had no option but to say they had a psychological crisis.</p>

<h3><strong>1440: How does this play out on a practical level with our health?</strong></h3>

<p><em>Caroline:</em>&nbsp;It means if I&rsquo;m sick and I go to a doctor and the doctor says, &ldquo;Your heart&rsquo;s not well. I have a medication for it, but it&rsquo;s going to knock the hell out of your kidneys,&rdquo; then I say goodbye to that doctor. We need doctors that can treat us as a whole system.</p>

<p>The new spiritual dictate is ecological theology; it has to be holism.</p>

<p>We cannot adhere to a religion or medicine that is based on separation. This is why it&rsquo;s time for religions to begin to evaporate.</p>

<h3><strong>1440: Is there anything useful from religion that we can keep?</strong></h3>

<p><em>Caroline:</em>&nbsp;We can retain the mystical teachings because they are not about separation or the politics of God, which is what religion is. Mystical teachings are fundamentally about the laws of the universe. The laws of men have to go&mdash;the laws of the universe are what will be retained.</p>

<h3><strong>1440: We&rsquo;ve traditionally turned to religious leaders for spiritual guidance. Where will we look for guidance in this new model?</strong></h3>

<p><em>Caroline:</em>&nbsp;The soul is deep, profound, and rigorous, and it brings you to truth. It does not bring you to your history so you can figure out who hurt you. It is not a journey of discovering how to get even with others.</p>

<p>It is a journey of how to discover why you want to get even, why you want to hurt others, why you are unforgiving. It&rsquo;s a journey of excavation of why you sabotage your health. This is where prayer comes in.</p>

<p>And it&rsquo;s why no one should go into the soul unescorted. If you go unescorted, you will never heal. You need a spiritual director and companions to help you along the way. Spiritual directors will be the new priests. We still need the sacraments. We do not fare well without confession.</p>

<h3><strong>1440: Are there other practices that have the same effect as prayer?</strong></h3>

<p><em>Caroline:</em>&nbsp;I&rsquo;m all for holy listening. Holy listening is a way of relaxing, of releasing the debris and waiting to hear God. It&rsquo;s not a practice; it&rsquo;s a devotion. It&rsquo;s a devotion because you make a vow that says you&rsquo;ll show up in holy listening and wait.</p>

<p>You wait and you wait and you get over that childish, egocentric entitlement that says because you&rsquo;ve showed up you expect to hear something. Expect nothing. God is everywhere, but most of you are blind as a bat.</p>

<p>Guidance is around all the time, in every single thing, not just when things &lsquo;work out.&rsquo;</p>

<p>How do you know if things are working out? Remember, you&rsquo;re looking through a tiny lens. You don&rsquo;t see what&rsquo;s coming, you don&rsquo;t see what&rsquo;s gone, you don&rsquo;t see the influences of other people. How do you know what&rsquo;s supposed to be happening?</p>

<p>Everything is being worked in a grand, huge, eternal alchemy that is constantly unfolding. The hand of God is in every single second, every single breath, and that&rsquo;s how you have to think. You have to shave down your expectations and appreciate absolutely everything. You have to realize the power of a smile or an act of kindness generates so much force in the world. That&rsquo;s God in the world.</p>

<p><em>Join Caroline for&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Power of Prayer: Insight, Transformation, and Truth</a>, Jan 31 &ndash; Feb 2, 2020, at 1440.</em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/toward-a-new-spirituality-of-holism-a-conversation-with-caroline-myss</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/toward-a-new-spirituality-of-holism-a-conversation-with-caroline-myss#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 1 Oct 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Selected Poetry from Ellen Bass</title><description><![CDATA[<p>Ellen Bass &nbsp;is a chancellor of the Academy of American Poets. Her poems have frequently appeared in the&nbsp;<em>New Yorker</em>&nbsp;and the&nbsp;<em>American Poetry Review</em>, as well as in the&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>, the&nbsp;<em>Atlantic</em>, and hundreds of other journals and anthologies.&nbsp;Her most recent book,&nbsp;<em>Like a Beggar</em>, was a finalist for the Paterson Poetry Prize, the Publishing Triangle Awards, the Milt Kessler Poetry Award, the Lambda Literary Award, and the Northern California Book Awards. What follows are two poems from her forthcoming book,&nbsp;<em>Indigo</em>, which will be published by Copper Canyon Press in early 2020.</p>

<p><strong>Indigo</strong></p>

<p>As I&rsquo;m walking on West Cliff Drive, a man runs toward me pushing one of those jogging strollers with shock absorbers so the baby can keep sleeping, which this baby is. I can just get a glimpse of its almost translucent eyelids. The father is young, a jungle of indigo and carnelian tattooed from knuckle to jaw, leafy vines and blossoms, saints and symbols. Thick wooden plugs pierce his lobes and his sunglasses testify to the radiance haloed around him. I&rsquo;m so jealous. As I often am. It&rsquo;s a kind of obsession. I want him to have been my child&rsquo;s father. I want to have married a man who wanted to be in a body, who wanted to live in it so much that he marked it up like a book, underlining, highlighting, writing in the margins, I was here. Not like my dead ex-husband, who was always fighting against the flesh, who sat for hours on his zafu chanting om and then went out and broke his hand punching the car. I imagine when this galloping man gets home he&rsquo;s going to want to have sex with his wife, who slept in late, and then he&rsquo;ll eat barbecued ribs and let the baby teethe on a bone while he drinks a dark beer. I can&rsquo;t stop wishing my daughter had had a father like that. I can&rsquo;t stop wishing I&rsquo;d had that life. Oh, I know it&rsquo;s a miracle to have a life. Any life at all. It took eight years for my parents to conceive me. First there was the war and then just waiting. And my mother&rsquo;s bones so narrow, she had to be slit and I airlifted. That anyone is born, each precarious success from sperm and egg to zygote, embryo, infant, is a wonder. And here I am, alive. Almost seventy years and nothing has killed me. Not the car I totaled running a stop sign or the spirochete that screwed into my blood. Not the tree that fell in the forest exactly where I was standing&mdash;my best friend shoving me backward so I fell on my ass as it crashed. I&rsquo;m alive. And I gave birth to a child. So she didn&rsquo;t get a father who&rsquo;d sling her onto his shoulder. And so much else she didn&rsquo;t get. I&rsquo;ve cried most of my life over that. And now there&rsquo;s everything that we can&rsquo;t talk about. We love&mdash;but cannot take too much of each other. Yet she is the one who, when I asked her to kill me if I no longer had my mind&mdash; we were on our way into Ross, shopping for dresses. That&rsquo;s something she likes and they all look adorable on her&mdash; she&rsquo;s the only one who didn&rsquo;t hesitate or refuse or waver or flinch. As we strode across the parking lot she said, O.K., but when&rsquo;s the cutoff? That&rsquo;s what I need to know.</p>

<p><strong>Any Common Desolation</strong></p>

<p>can be enough to make you look up at the yellowed leaves of the apple tree, the few that survived the rains and frost, shot with late afternoon sun. They glow a deep orange-gold against a blue so sheer, a single bird would rip it like silk. You may have to break your heart, but it isn&rsquo;t nothing to know even one moment alive. The sound of an oar in an oarlock or a ruminant animal tearing grass. The smell of grated ginger. The ruby neon of the liquor store sign. Warm socks. You remember your mother, her precision a ceremony, as she gathered the white cotton, slipped it over your toes, drew up the heel, turned the cuff. A breath can uncoil as you walk across your own muddy yard, the big dipper pouring night down over you, and everything you dread, all you can&rsquo;t bear, dissolves and, like a needle slipped into your vein&mdash; that sudden rush of the world.</p>

<p><strong><em>Join Ellen Bass and Roxan McDonald at 1440 for <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Fire and Ice: A Writing&nbsp;Workshop</a> Nov. 22-24, 2019.&nbsp;</em></strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/selected-poetry-from-ellen-bass</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/selected-poetry-from-ellen-bass#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 1 Oct 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Dream Camp</title><description><![CDATA[<h1><strong>Dream Camp</strong>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<a href="https://be.synxis.com/?_ga=2.261834639.300564936.1569874686-817663376.1561650420&amp;adult=1&amp;arrive=2020-08-06&amp;chain=24333&amp;child=0&amp;currency=USD&amp;depart=2020-08-09&amp;hotel=6057&amp;level=hotel&amp;locale=en-US&amp;promo=DREAMC&amp;rooms=1">REGISTER NOW</a></h1>

<ul>
	<li>Sheri Salata</li>
	<li>Nancy Hala</li>
</ul>

<p>August 6 - 9, 2020</p>

<p style="margin-left:1rem;">Thursday - Sunday, 3 nights</p>

<p>All-inclusive program package to include:</p>

<ul>
	<li>Tuition</li>
	<li>Three Meals in Kitchen Table (daily)</li>
	<li>Shared or Private Accommodations</li>
	<li>Signature classes and wellness offerings</li>
</ul>

<p style="margin-left:1rem;">Please Note: All packages are priced per person. Should you elect a shared accommodation and community hall bath, 1440 will randomly pair you with a gender-specific roommate. Only private rooms have the option of a private bath.&nbsp; 1440 Multiversity is a smoke-free campus.</p>

<p>Meet us in the redwoods for a four-day adventure with&nbsp;The Sheri + Nancy Show. Create the&nbsp;map to the life of your dreams.</p>

<p>Sheri Salata, cofounder of STORY, former executive producer of&nbsp;<em>The Oprah Winfrey Show&nbsp;</em>and co-president of Harpo Studios and the OWN Network, and Nancy Hala, cofounder of STORY, chief strategy officer and Fortune 500 brand strategist bring you:</p>

<ul>
	<li>Health + Wellness</li>
	<li>Spirituality + Happiness.&nbsp;Romance + Sex</li>
	<li>Friends + Family. Creativity + Innovation</li>
	<li>Adventure + Discovery</li>
	<li>Sanctuary + Beauty</li>
	<li>Money + Abundance</li>
</ul>

<p>Based on the inspirational life-guidance system, The Pillar Life.</p>

<p>Speakers. Workshops. Dream Sessions.</p>

<p>The joyride begins.</p>

<p>Tuition: $795 ++ accommodations and meals</p>

<p><em>More details coming soon.</em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/dream-camp</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/dream-camp#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 1 Oct 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Dream Camp</title><description><![CDATA[<h1><strong>Dream Camp</strong>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<a href="https://be.synxis.com/?_ga=2.261834639.300564936.1569874686-817663376.1561650420&amp;adult=1&amp;arrive=2020-08-06&amp;chain=24333&amp;child=0&amp;currency=USD&amp;depart=2020-08-09&amp;hotel=6057&amp;level=hotel&amp;locale=en-US&amp;promo=DREAMC&amp;rooms=1">REGISTER NOW</a></h1>

<ul>
	<li>Sheri Salata</li>
	<li>Nancy Hala</li>
</ul>

<p>August 6 - 9, 2020</p>

<p style="margin-left:1rem;">Thursday - Sunday, 3 nights</p>

<p>All-inclusive program package to include:</p>

<ul>
	<li>Tuition</li>
	<li>Three Meals in Kitchen Table (daily)</li>
	<li>Shared or Private Accommodations</li>
	<li>Signature classes and wellness offerings</li>
</ul>

<p style="margin-left:1rem;">Please Note: All packages are priced per person. Should you elect a shared accommodation and community hall bath, 1440 will randomly pair you with a gender-specific roommate. Only private rooms have the option of a private bath.&nbsp; 1440 Multiversity is a smoke-free campus.</p>

<p>Meet us in the redwoods for a four-day adventure with&nbsp;The Sheri + Nancy Show. Create the&nbsp;map to the life of your dreams.</p>

<p>Sheri Salata, cofounder of STORY, former executive producer of&nbsp;<em>The Oprah Winfrey Show&nbsp;</em>and co-president of Harpo Studios and the OWN Network, and Nancy Hala, cofounder of STORY, chief strategy officer and Fortune 500 brand strategist bring you:</p>

<ul>
	<li>Health + Wellness</li>
	<li>Spirituality + Happiness.&nbsp;Romance + Sex</li>
	<li>Friends + Family. Creativity + Innovation</li>
	<li>Adventure + Discovery</li>
	<li>Sanctuary + Beauty</li>
	<li>Money + Abundance</li>
</ul>

<p>Based on the inspirational life-guidance system, The Pillar Life.</p>

<p>Speakers. Workshops. Dream Sessions.</p>

<p>The joyride begins.</p>

<p>Tuition: $795 ++ accommodations and meals</p>

<p><em>More details coming soon.</em></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/dream-camp</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/dream-camp#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 1 Oct 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>10 Terrific Quotes About Leadership</title><description><![CDATA[<p>Interested in authentic leadership? We hear you.</p>

<p>We spend over a third of our day at work and so it makes sense to bring your whole self to work and not think you could even leave it behind. Read on for 10 of our favorite quotes on leadership.</p>

<p><strong>1. &ldquo;Leadership is not a position but an activity.&rdquo; &ndash;&nbsp;<em>Dan Mulhern</em></strong></p>

<p>2. &nbsp;&ldquo;If you want to improve the organization, you have to improve yourself and the organization&nbsp;gets pulled up with you.&rdquo;&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;<em>&ndash; Indra Nooyi</em></p>

<p><strong>3. &nbsp;&ldquo;Vulnerability is power.&rdquo;&nbsp;<em>&ndash; Michelle Maldonado</em></strong></p>

<p>4. &ldquo;The hardest person you will ever have to lead is yourself.&rdquo;&nbsp;<em>&ndash; Bill George</em></p>

<p><strong>5. &ldquo;Until people feel safe and until they feel like they&rsquo;re cared about, they&rsquo;re going to hold&nbsp;back.&rdquo;&nbsp;<em>&ndash; Scott Kriens</em></strong></p>

<p>6. &ldquo;Your culture begins at the top. Building a culture of ethics will not work if leaders are not&nbsp;providing the moral compass.&rdquo;&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;<em>&ndash; Dan Amos</em></p>

<p><strong>7. &ldquo;Leadership is about making others better as a result of your presence and making sure that&nbsp;impact lasts in your absence.&rdquo;<em>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &ndash; Sheryl Sandberg</em></strong></p>

<p>8. &ldquo;Outstanding leaders go out of the way to boost the self-esteem of their personnel. If people&nbsp;believe in themselves, it&rsquo;s amazing what they can accomplish.&rdquo;&nbsp;<em>&ndash; Sam Walton</em></p>

<p><strong>9. &ldquo;When the whole world is silent, even one voice becomes powerful.&rdquo;&nbsp;<em>&ndash; Malala Yousafzai</em></strong></p>

<p>10. &ldquo;Success isn&rsquo;t about how much money you make; it&rsquo;s about the difference you make in&nbsp;people&rsquo;s lives.&rdquo;<em>&nbsp;&ndash; Michelle Obama</em></p>

<p><strong><em>Learn more about <a href="https://www.1440.org/leadership-center/true-north-leadership">True North Leadership</a>&nbsp;at 1440.&nbsp;</em></strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-terrific-quotes-about-leadership</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-terrific-quotes-about-leadership#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 1 Oct 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>10 Terrific Quotes About Leadership</title><description><![CDATA[<p>Interested in authentic leadership? We hear you.</p>

<p>We spend over a third of our day at work and so it makes sense to bring your whole self to work and not think you could even leave it behind. Read on for 10 of our favorite quotes on leadership.</p>

<p><strong>1. &ldquo;Leadership is not a position but an activity.&rdquo; &ndash;&nbsp;<em>Dan Mulhern</em></strong></p>

<p>2. &nbsp;&ldquo;If you want to improve the organization, you have to improve yourself and the organization&nbsp;gets pulled up with you.&rdquo;&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;<em>&ndash; Indra Nooyi</em></p>

<p><strong>3. &nbsp;&ldquo;Vulnerability is power.&rdquo;&nbsp;<em>&ndash; Michelle Maldonado</em></strong></p>

<p>4. &ldquo;The hardest person you will ever have to lead is yourself.&rdquo;&nbsp;<em>&ndash; Bill George</em></p>

<p><strong>5. &ldquo;Until people feel safe and until they feel like they&rsquo;re cared about, they&rsquo;re going to hold&nbsp;back.&rdquo;&nbsp;<em>&ndash; Scott Kriens</em></strong></p>

<p>6. &ldquo;Your culture begins at the top. Building a culture of ethics will not work if leaders are not&nbsp;providing the moral compass.&rdquo;&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;<em>&ndash; Dan Amos</em></p>

<p><strong>7. &ldquo;Leadership is about making others better as a result of your presence and making sure that&nbsp;impact lasts in your absence.&rdquo;<em>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &ndash; Sheryl Sandberg</em></strong></p>

<p>8. &ldquo;Outstanding leaders go out of the way to boost the self-esteem of their personnel. If people&nbsp;believe in themselves, it&rsquo;s amazing what they can accomplish.&rdquo;&nbsp;<em>&ndash; Sam Walton</em></p>

<p><strong>9. &ldquo;When the whole world is silent, even one voice becomes powerful.&rdquo;&nbsp;<em>&ndash; Malala Yousafzai</em></strong></p>

<p>10. &ldquo;Success isn&rsquo;t about how much money you make; it&rsquo;s about the difference you make in&nbsp;people&rsquo;s lives.&rdquo;<em>&nbsp;&ndash; Michelle Obama</em></p>

<p><strong><em>Learn more about <a href="https://www.1440.org/leadership-center/true-north-leadership">True North Leadership</a>&nbsp;at 1440.&nbsp;</em></strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-terrific-quotes-about-leadership</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-terrific-quotes-about-leadership#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 1 Oct 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>10 Great Yoga Quotes</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{27}" paraid="768333866">Yoga is so much more than just the physical act of stretching.&nbsp;Much&nbsp;of&nbsp;what we learn from yoga comes from the practice of mindfulness and allowing our movement to change our state of mind.&nbsp;Use the&nbsp;ten quotes below&nbsp;for inspiration, empowerment,&nbsp;and&nbsp;enlightenment. Get moving!&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

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<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{27}" paraid="768333866"><strong>1. Yoga has given me the space to understand that every part of me is necessary. Everything is exactly as it needs to be. And what needs to be silenced are the voices that make me feel otherwise. -Jessamyn&nbsp;Stanley&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

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<p>2. Pushing through resistance lets us see what&rsquo;s on the other side. -Seane Corn&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

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<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{135}" paraid="2046714975"><strong>3. Yoga is a practice of self-inquiry.&nbsp; -Nicole Cardoza&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

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<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{146}" paraid="900802825">4. One great benefit of yoga is that it increases our ability to pay attention to things that are increasingly subtle. -Annie Carpenter&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

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<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{157}" paraid="1459088431"><strong>5. A lot of times, it&#39;s the limitations that become the teachers. In some ways, the teachers become your own body, mind, and breath. -Rodney Yee&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

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<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{168}" paraid="1038969178">6. Whatever our limits are in range of motion, no matter how small or how big, within that range of motion, there&#39;s an infinite amount of space to explore. -Rodney Yee&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>7. But at the end of the day, it doesn&#39;t matter if you have three out of four of your limbs; it doesn&#39;t matter if you&#39;re fat, short, tall, male, female, or somewhere in between. None of that matters. All that matters&nbsp;is&nbsp;that we&#39;re human and trying to breathe together. -Jessamyn&nbsp;Stanley&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

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<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{190}" paraid="243022110">8. Yoga is here for us to cultivate power and transcend our limitations, personally and socially. -Susanna&nbsp;Barkataki&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

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<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{201}" paraid="1683326538"><strong>9. The very thing that I learned through yoga, that is essential to my ability to wake up every morning, is the breath. In yoga, my practice allows me to appreciate each breath and each moment. I realized that everything counts. Every breath, thought, word, and action counts in my practice and in my world. When I take time to appreciate the breath, I make space for an appreciation of life.&nbsp; -Chelsea Jackson Roberts&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

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<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{212}" paraid="1433834227">10. If you open your heart and become like a child, you will always be blissful, always content.&nbsp;&nbsp; -Dharma&nbsp;Mittra&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

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<p><strong><em>Join renowned instructors, Annie Carpenter, Seane Corn, Chelsea Jackson Roberts, and more for&nbsp;<a href="https://1440.us/the-practice-at-1440/">The Practice at 1440</a>&nbsp;on January 17 &ndash; 20, 2020, at 1440 Multiversity.</em></strong></p>

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<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{235}" paraid="340340370">&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-great-yoga-quotes</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-great-yoga-quotes#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 1 Oct 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>10 Great Yoga Quotes</title><description><![CDATA[<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{27}" paraid="768333866">Yoga is so much more than just the physical act of stretching.&nbsp;Much&nbsp;of&nbsp;what we learn from yoga comes from the practice of mindfulness and allowing our movement to change our state of mind.&nbsp;Use the&nbsp;ten quotes below&nbsp;for inspiration, empowerment,&nbsp;and&nbsp;enlightenment. Get moving!&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{27}" paraid="768333866"><strong>1. Yoga has given me the space to understand that every part of me is necessary. Everything is exactly as it needs to be. And what needs to be silenced are the voices that make me feel otherwise. -Jessamyn&nbsp;Stanley&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p>2. Pushing through resistance lets us see what&rsquo;s on the other side. -Seane Corn&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{135}" paraid="2046714975"><strong>3. Yoga is a practice of self-inquiry.&nbsp; -Nicole Cardoza&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{146}" paraid="900802825">4. One great benefit of yoga is that it increases our ability to pay attention to things that are increasingly subtle. -Annie Carpenter&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{157}" paraid="1459088431"><strong>5. A lot of times, it&#39;s the limitations that become the teachers. In some ways, the teachers become your own body, mind, and breath. -Rodney Yee&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{168}" paraid="1038969178">6. Whatever our limits are in range of motion, no matter how small or how big, within that range of motion, there&#39;s an infinite amount of space to explore. -Rodney Yee&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>7. But at the end of the day, it doesn&#39;t matter if you have three out of four of your limbs; it doesn&#39;t matter if you&#39;re fat, short, tall, male, female, or somewhere in between. None of that matters. All that matters&nbsp;is&nbsp;that we&#39;re human and trying to breathe together. -Jessamyn&nbsp;Stanley&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{190}" paraid="243022110">8. Yoga is here for us to cultivate power and transcend our limitations, personally and socially. -Susanna&nbsp;Barkataki&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{201}" paraid="1683326538"><strong>9. The very thing that I learned through yoga, that is essential to my ability to wake up every morning, is the breath. In yoga, my practice allows me to appreciate each breath and each moment. I realized that everything counts. Every breath, thought, word, and action counts in my practice and in my world. When I take time to appreciate the breath, I make space for an appreciation of life.&nbsp; -Chelsea Jackson Roberts&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p paraeid="{6f45947a-8a3e-4fd6-8fb4-98c49029db1f}{212}" paraid="1433834227">10. If you open your heart and become like a child, you will always be blissful, always content.&nbsp;&nbsp; -Dharma&nbsp;Mittra&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong><em>Join renowned instructors, Annie Carpenter, Seane Corn, Chelsea Jackson Roberts, and more for&nbsp;<a href="https://1440.us/the-practice-at-1440/">The Practice at 1440</a>&nbsp;on January 17 &ndash; 20, 2020, at 1440 Multiversity.</em></strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-great-yoga-quotes</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-great-yoga-quotes#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 1 Oct 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>The Connection Between Mastering Yourself and Leading Others</title><description><![CDATA[My path to meditation and mindfulness has been unfolding over several years. My earliest memory is of my great aunt introducing me to meditation during the summer I spent with her in Wyoming between first and second grade. I vividly recall her placing her hands gently on my head saying, &ldquo;quiet here,&rdquo; as she slowly moved her hands down to my heart while saying, &ldquo;so you can be here.&rdquo;
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Over the years, I became very familiar with what it took to run and lead teams and organizations sustainably and in healthy ways.

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<span class="quote">I wanted to debunk the myth that in order for someone to win, someone has to lose.</span>

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Research shows that when everyone thrives, the organization thrives. With this as my backdrop, I set about helping people drill down on their fears and insecurities and explore what it is like to step into their personal leadership power with a desire to bring people with them, instead of leaving them behind on a singular trajectory and journey to the top. This is one of the many reasons why the True North Leadership program struck such a chord with me.

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<span class="quote">It teaches how we can do our inner work for meaningful outer impact.</span>

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In the <a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/leadership-center">True North Leadership</a> program, I lead a section on introspection. We focus on daily practices (such as taking another&rsquo;s perspective in a conflict, pausing before reacting, and seeing similarities with another to help reduce unconscious bias) and skill sets (including mindfulness and meditation) that make a difference in not only the nature and quality of our leadership, but also on our capacity for high performance and ability to create psychologically safe work environments and sustain positive impact.

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We value and seek perspectives that come from people of different genders, sexual orientation/identification, political affiliations, economic classes, disability, races, cultures, and other groups which are invaluable to cultivating the conditions for belonging, unity, equity, and impact in the room and beyond.

<div class="blog-img"><img alt="" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/TNL-ProgramImg-600x400.jpg" /></div>

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>True North Leadership</strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Scott Kriens,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Bill George,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="#">Dana H. Born, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="#">Michelle Maldonado</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">October 4 - 6, 2019</div>
For women of all ages and life stages. Do you long to reconnect with who you are? Are you in the midst of a transition? Do you crave quiet reflection, rest, and renewal? Internationally recognized transformational coach Ren&eacute;e Peterson Trudeau...

<div class="post-card-learn-more"><a class="button" href="https://www.1440.org/">Learn More</a></div>
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Without the benefit of diverse voices, we would miss a big opportunity to create understanding and connection that could serve as a springboard for bringing teams and organizations together in new and transformative ways.

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<span class="quote">This element is important for each of us so that we can better enable civil discourse, healthy and skillful navigation through conflict, and leading through change and across global communities.</span>

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The True North Leadership program, based on the acclaimed course developed and led by Bill George at Harvard Business School, is designed to support you in gaining clarity and insight into your life stories, crucibles, and other experiences that inform who you are today, so you can leverage what is important to you, what you love, and what your skills are to support the organizations and people you lead.

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As you follow your own compass in the direction of your true north, you will discover who you are as a leader and that, in turn, will inspire how you make a living, create a life, and fulfill your dreams.

<h2>Michelle Maldonado is founder of Lucenscia, a human potential and mindful business transformation firm. Named &ldquo;Top Corporate Leader of the Year&rdquo; and &ldquo;Woman of the Year,&rdquo; she is faculty and Meta-Coach for Dan Goleman&rsquo;s Emotional Intelligence Coaching Certification program and a Certified Genos International Emotional Intelligence Practitioner.&nbsp;</h2>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-connection-between-mastering-yourself-and-leading-others</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-connection-between-mastering-yourself-and-leading-others#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 6 Sep 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>The Connection Between Mastering Yourself and Leading Others</title><description><![CDATA[My path to meditation and mindfulness has been unfolding over several years. My earliest memory is of my great aunt introducing me to meditation during the summer I spent with her in Wyoming between first and second grade. I vividly recall her placing her hands gently on my head saying, &ldquo;quiet here,&rdquo; as she slowly moved her hands down to my heart while saying, &ldquo;so you can be here.&rdquo;
<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Over the years, I became very familiar with what it took to run and lead teams and organizations sustainably and in healthy ways.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">I wanted to debunk the myth that in order for someone to win, someone has to lose.</span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Research shows that when everyone thrives, the organization thrives. With this as my backdrop, I set about helping people drill down on their fears and insecurities and explore what it is like to step into their personal leadership power with a desire to bring people with them, instead of leaving them behind on a singular trajectory and journey to the top. This is one of the many reasons why the True North Leadership program struck such a chord with me.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">It teaches how we can do our inner work for meaningful outer impact.</span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
In the <a href="https://www.1440.org/experience-1440/leadership-center">True North Leadership</a> program, I lead a section on introspection. We focus on daily practices (such as taking another&rsquo;s perspective in a conflict, pausing before reacting, and seeing similarities with another to help reduce unconscious bias) and skill sets (including mindfulness and meditation) that make a difference in not only the nature and quality of our leadership, but also on our capacity for high performance and ability to create psychologically safe work environments and sustain positive impact.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
We value and seek perspectives that come from people of different genders, sexual orientation/identification, political affiliations, economic classes, disability, races, cultures, and other groups which are invaluable to cultivating the conditions for belonging, unity, equity, and impact in the room and beyond.

<div class="blog-img"><img alt="" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/TNL-ProgramImg-600x400.jpg" /></div>

<div class="blog-img-text">
<div class="post-card-title"><strong>True North Leadership</strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Scott Kriens,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Bill George,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="#">Dana H. Born, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="#">Michelle Maldonado</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">October 4 - 6, 2019</div>
For women of all ages and life stages. Do you long to reconnect with who you are? Are you in the midst of a transition? Do you crave quiet reflection, rest, and renewal? Internationally recognized transformational coach Ren&eacute;e Peterson Trudeau...

<div class="post-card-learn-more"><a class="button" href="https://www.1440.org/">Learn More</a></div>
</div>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Without the benefit of diverse voices, we would miss a big opportunity to create understanding and connection that could serve as a springboard for bringing teams and organizations together in new and transformative ways.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">This element is important for each of us so that we can better enable civil discourse, healthy and skillful navigation through conflict, and leading through change and across global communities.</span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The True North Leadership program, based on the acclaimed course developed and led by Bill George at Harvard Business School, is designed to support you in gaining clarity and insight into your life stories, crucibles, and other experiences that inform who you are today, so you can leverage what is important to you, what you love, and what your skills are to support the organizations and people you lead.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
As you follow your own compass in the direction of your true north, you will discover who you are as a leader and that, in turn, will inspire how you make a living, create a life, and fulfill your dreams.

<h2>Michelle Maldonado is founder of Lucenscia, a human potential and mindful business transformation firm. Named &ldquo;Top Corporate Leader of the Year&rdquo; and &ldquo;Woman of the Year,&rdquo; she is faculty and Meta-Coach for Dan Goleman&rsquo;s Emotional Intelligence Coaching Certification program and a Certified Genos International Emotional Intelligence Practitioner.&nbsp;</h2>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-connection-between-mastering-yourself-and-leading-others</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-connection-between-mastering-yourself-and-leading-others#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 6 Sep 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>Stress in a Good Way: An Excerpt from The Telomere Effect</title><description><![CDATA[A professor in the department of psychiatry at the University of California, San Francisco, Elissa Epel is the director of the Aging, Metabolism, and Emotions Center. With Nobel laureate Dr. Elizabeth Blackburn&mdash;who discovered the anti-aging enzyme telomerase&mdash;Epel is coauthor of the&nbsp;<em>New York Times&nbsp;</em>best seller<em> The Telomere Effect: A Revolutionary Approach to Living Younger, Healthier, Longer</em>. What follows is an excerpt about stress resilience from Chapter Four of that groundbreaking book.
<h2>Excited and Energized: The Challenge Response</h2>
Feeling threatened is not the only way to respond to stress. It&rsquo;s also possible to feel a sense of challenge. People with a challenge response may feel anxious and nervous during a lab stressor test, but they also feel excited and energized. They have a &ldquo;bring it on!&rdquo; mentality.

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Our colleague, Wendy Mendes, a health psychologist at the University of California, San Francisco (UCSF), has spent over a decade examining the body&rsquo;s responses to different types of stressors in the lab, and has mapped out the differences that occur in the brain, in the body, and in behavior during &ldquo;good stress&rdquo; compared to &ldquo;bad stress.&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">Whereas the threat response prepares you to shut down and tolerate the pain, the challenge response helps you muster your resources. </span>

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Your heart rate increases, and more of your blood is oxygenated; these are positive effects that allow more blood to flow where it&rsquo;s needed, especially to the heart and brain. (This is the opposite of what happens when you&rsquo;re threatened. Then, the blood vessels constrict.)

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During the challenge response, your adrenal gland gives you a nice shot of cortisol to increase your energy&mdash;but then your brain quickly and firmly shuts off cortisol secretion when the stressful event is over.

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<span class="quote">This is a robust, healthy kind of stress, similar to the kind you may have when you exercise. </span>

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The challenge response is associated with making more accurate decisions and doing better on tasks, and is even associated with better brain aging and a reduced risk of developing dementia. Athletes who have a challenge response win more often, and a study of Olympic athletes has shown that these highly successful folks have a history of seeing their life problems as challenges to be surmounted.

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<span class="quote">People don&rsquo;t generally show responses that are all threat or all challenge. </span>

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Most experience some of both. In one study, we found that it was the proportion of these responses that mattered most for telomere health. The volunteers who felt more threat than challenge had shorter telomeres. Those who saw the stressful task as more of a challenge than a threat had longer telomeres.

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What does this mean for you? It means you have reason to be hopeful. We do not mean to trivialize or underestimate the potential that very tough, difficult, or intractable situations have for harm to your telomeres. But when you can&rsquo;t control the difficult or stressful events in your life, you can still help protect your telomeres by shifting the way you view those events.

<h2>Why Do Some People Feel More Threat Than Others?</h2>
Reflect on incidents in your life that have been difficult. Ask yourself: Do you tend to respond by feeling more threatened or challenged? Do you borrow trouble, feeling anticipatory threat about events that haven&rsquo;t happened yet and that may not ever happen?

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When you&rsquo;re stressed, do you feel ready for action, or do you feel like diving under the covers and hiding?

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<span class="quote">If you tend to feel more of a threat response, don&rsquo;t waste your time feeling bad about it. </span>

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Some of us are simply wired to be more stress reactive. It has been critical to human survival for some of us to respond in a robust way to changes in our environment, and for others to be more sensitive. After all, someone&rsquo;s got to alert the tribe to dangers and warn the more gung-ho members against taking foolhardy risks.

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Even if you weren&rsquo;t strongly wired at birth to feel threat, conditions in your life may have altered your natural response. Teenagers who were exposed to maltreatment when they were children respond to stressful tasks with blood-flow patterns characteristic of a threat response, experiencing vasoconstriction rather than strong blood flow out of the heart. (On the other hand, people who experienced moderate adversity in childhood tend to show more of a challenge response than people who had it easy as children&mdash;more evidence that small doses of stress can be healthy, provided that resources are available to help you cope.) As we described earlier, prolonged stress can wear down emotional resources, making people more prone to feeling threatened.

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Either by birth or by the circumstances of your life, you may have a strong threat response.

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<span class="quote">The question is: Can you learn to feel challenged instead? </span>

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Research says the answer is yes.

<h2>Developing A Challenge Response</h2>
What happens as an emotion arises?&nbsp;Scientists used to believe it was a more linear process&mdash;that we experience events in the world, our limbic system reacts with an emotion, like anger or fear, which causes the body to respond with an increased heart rate or sweaty palms. But it&rsquo;s more complicated than that.

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<span class="quote">The brain is wired to predict things ahead of time, not just react after things have happened. </span>

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The brain uses memories of past experiences to continually anticipate what will happen next, and then corrects those predictions with both the current incoming information from the outside world, and from all the signals within our body. Then our brain comes up with an emotion to match all of this. Within seconds, we patch all this information together, without our awareness, and we feel some emotion.

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If our &ldquo;database&rdquo; of past experience has a lot of shame in it, we are more likely to expect shame again. For example, if you feel high arousal and jittery, maybe from that morning&rsquo;s strong coffee, and if you see two people who could be talking about you, your mind may quickly cook up the emotions of shame and threat.

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<span class="quote">Our emotions are not pure reactions to the world; they are our own fabricated constructions of the world. </span>

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Knowing how emotions are created is powerful. Once you know this, you can have more choice over what you experience. Instead of feeling your body&rsquo;s stress responses and viewing them as harmful, a common experience in your brain&rsquo;s database, you can think about your body&rsquo;s arousal as a source of fuel that will help your brain work quickly and efficiently. And if you practice this enough, then eventually your brain will come to predict feelings of arousal as helpful.

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Even if you&rsquo;re one of those people whose brain is hard&shy;wired to feel more threat, you can feel that immediate instinctive survival response&mdash;and then revise the story.

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<span class="quote">You can choose to feel challenged. </span>

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Sports psychologist Jim Afremow, PhD, who consults with professional and Olympic athletes, was once approached by a sprinter who was struggling with her hundred-meter time. She had already diagnosed the reason she wasn&rsquo;t running as well as she wanted to. &ldquo;It&rsquo;s the stress,&rdquo; she said. &ldquo;Before every race, my pulse races. My heart is about to jump out of my chest. You&rsquo;ve got to help me stop it!&rdquo;

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Afremow laughed. &ldquo;Do you really want to stop your heart?&rdquo; The worst thing athletes can do, he says, is try to get rid of their stress.

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&ldquo;They need to think of stress as helping them get ready to perform. They need to say, &lsquo;Yes! I need this!&rsquo; Instead of trying to make the butterflies in their stomach go away, athletes need to make those butterflies line up and fly in formation.&rdquo; In other words, they need to make the stress work for them.

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The sprinter took Afremow&rsquo;s advice. By viewing her physical responses as tools that would help her rise to the challenge of a race, she was able to shave milliseconds off her time (a big deal for a hundred-meter runner) and set a personal record.

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<span class="quote">It sounds unbelievably simple, but research backs up this efficient method of converting threat to challenge. </span>

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When research volunteers are told to interpret their body&rsquo;s arousal as something that will help them succeed, they have a greater challenge response. One study found that students who are encouraged to view stress in this way score higher on their GREs.

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And when researchers put people through lab stressors, the ones who are told to think of stress as useful are able to maintain their social equilibrium. Instead of looking away, playing with their hair, or fidgeting&mdash;all signs of feeling somewhat threatened&mdash;the challenge participants make direct eye contact. Their shoulders are relaxed, and their bodies move fluidly. They feel less anxiety and shame. All these benefits happened simply because people were told to think of their stress as good for them.

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A challenge response doesn&rsquo;t make you less stressed.

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<span class="quote">Your sympathetic nervous system is still highly aroused, but it is a positive arousal, putting you in a more powerful, more focused state. </span>

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To channel your stress so that it gives you more good energy for an event or performance, say to yourself, &ldquo;I&rsquo;m excited!&rdquo; or &ldquo;My heart is racing and my stomach is doing cartwheels. Fantastic&mdash;those are the signs of a good, strong stress response.&rdquo;

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Excerpted from <em>The Telomere Effect: A Revolutionary Approach to Living Younger, Healthier, Longer</em>, Grand Central Publishing.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/stress-in-a-good-way-an-excerpt-from-the-telomere-effect</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/stress-in-a-good-way-an-excerpt-from-the-telomere-effect#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 6 Sep 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Alleviate Daily Aches and Pains</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sue Hitzmann</a> is the creator of the MELT Method, a simple self-treatment technique designed to help people get out (and stay out) of chronic pain. She is a nationally recognized educator, manual therapist, exercise physiologist, and founding member of the Fascia Research Society.
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Sue&rsquo;s interest in neuromuscular and manual therapies began in her twenties with a quest to find a resolution to her own debilitating pain. When top doctors and physical therapists couldn&rsquo;t explain what was going on in her body, she found solutions in hands-on bodywork&mdash;specifically bodywork that focuses on hydrating the body&rsquo;s connective tissue, or fascia.

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<span class="quote"> When we don&rsquo;t pay attention to this key system, she says, pain and injury emerge.</span> &ldquo;Whether you&rsquo;re practicing a golf swing over and over or just sitting at a desk all day, repetition slowly causes connective tissue dehydration, or what I call stuck stress,&rdquo; explains Hitzmann in this short video introducing the MELT Method.

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<iframe allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/1DmZPmuU2zo" width="560"></iframe>

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Using foam rollers and rubber balls designed to provide gentle compression, MELT is more self-massage than exercise.

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Looking for a practice to help alleviate the aches and pains from your daily activities? The MELT Method may be just what you&rsquo;re after. Whether you lead an athletic or slower paced lifestyle, MELT is beloved by people of all ages and body types for addressing joint pain and vastly improving mobility.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>The MELT Method</strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Sue Hitzmann, MS, CST, NMT</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">October 4 - 6, 2019</div>
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</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-alleviate-daily-aches-and-pains</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-alleviate-daily-aches-and-pains#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 6 Sep 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Your Connections Are Everything: How to Build Yours</title><description><![CDATA[I recently led a self-care retreat in Western North Carolina. At the end of the day, a participant came up to me and tearfully shared, &ldquo;I had no idea how badly I needed that. Not just the connection with other women, but reconnecting with myself. My life has become an endless to-do list and I had forgotten what it&rsquo;s like to sink into my heart and remember I&rsquo;m not alone with my struggles and fears. I&rsquo;m realizing: w<em>e need each other</em>.&rdquo;
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I often work with professionals in the mental health field. We all agree that when women become disconnected from themselves, this untethering can manifest as depression or anxiety. It happens when we don&rsquo;t pay enough attention to emotional self-care (which I describe as the care and feeding of our hearts). We can easily forget who we are and feel separate from our hopes, dreams, and desires when we don&rsquo;t take regular time each day to pause, check in, and ask, &ldquo;What do I need right now?&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Last month I was leading a work-life balance workshop for a group of 20 female leaders from across the United States. As I guided an exercise on self-care, one of the younger attendees raised her hand and said she just didn&rsquo;t get the concept of emotional self-care. She said she thought women were supposed to be strong, armored, and hold it together&mdash;no matter what.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> The room became very quiet. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It was clear that this beautiful young woman had been taught that sharing her humanity was a liability. Her modus operandi for years had been to check her feelings at the door before she walked into work and to make sure that she didn&rsquo;t bother others with her personal issues.&nbsp;The silence in the room indicated that many of us could relate.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>New Way of Being </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Ren&eacute;e Peterson Trudeau</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">October 4 - 6, 2019</div>
For women of all ages and life stages. Do you long to reconnect with who you are? Are you in the midst of a transition? Do you crave quiet reflection, rest, and renewal? Internationally recognized transformational coach Ren&eacute;e Peterson Trudeau...

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<h4>Connection Calms Stress</h4>
This particular week has been unusually stressful for me. But after attending an entrepreneur meeting with peers, gathering with parents from our school community, and enjoying special time with a mentor over the weekend&mdash;I noticed I&rsquo;ve morphed into a different person. Have my stressors vanished? No, but my mood has elevated and I gained some much-needed perspective simply by being with others who made me feel more connected&mdash;to myself, to my values, and to a larger community.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Research shows that women are particularly impacted by these types of connections. When we circle up for heartfelt dialogue, we release oxytocin (the cuddle hormone), our serotonin levels rise, and our stress hormones decrease. In fact, this data was one of the driving forces behind the creation of my Personal Renewal Groups for mothers 17 years ago. Today we have facilitators leading these sacred circles for women in more than 10 countries. Every month participants explore ways to reconnect with who they are.

<h4>Disconnection Breeds Loneliness</h4>
It&rsquo;s far too easy to disconnect.

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Not only do our digital lives lure us into &ldquo;empty connections&rdquo; but we&rsquo;re isolating ourselves in all kinds of ways. A complaint I regularly hear from women when I lead stress management and resiliency workshops is, &ldquo;I am so busy, I just don&rsquo;t have time for girlfriends anymore. Our lunches, coffees, and walks have become a thing of the past.&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Brigham Young University conducted an influential meta-analysis of scientific literature on loneliness and found that social isolation increases your risk of death by an astounding 30%; some estimates place it as high as 60%.

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<span class="quote"> To put it another way, loneliness might be a more significant health factor than obesity, smoking, exercise, or nutrition. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Many in the mental health world are saying loneliness may be the next big public health issue. Johann Hari, author of <em>Lost Connections: Uncovering the Real Causes of Depression&mdash;and the Unexpected Solutions</em>, defines loneliness as &ldquo;being around other people but not having conversations that matter.&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> Connection to others and to ourselves is not just important, it&rsquo;s as essential as oxygen. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
One of my mom&rsquo;s favorite songs in the 1970s was &ldquo;I Am a Rock&rdquo; by Simon &amp; Garfunkel. The lyrics are particularly resonant today: <em>I am a rock, I am an island</em>. Growing up, I watched how often my mother would isolate herself from others and try to navigate the ups and downs of motherhood, parenting, and work alone. Today, my heart is filled with compassion for her. And I&rsquo;m quite clear that this is not how I want to live.

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The older I get, the more I wish to show up as &ldquo;human&rdquo; and vulnerable as possible in my interactions&mdash;both personal and professional. I believe this is our birthright and not only is it essential to overall health and well-being, it&rsquo;s critical to our growth and evolution.

<h4>Personal Reflection: An Exercise</h4>
Think back on a time when you felt overwhelmed, isolated, or sad. Then, invite in curiosity and compassion and reflect: <em>What is my habitual response when hard times arise?</em> <em>Do I tend to isolate or push through the discomfort?</em> <em>What if I softened, opened, and reached out to a friend or colleague for a walk, phone call, or cup of tea?</em>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
This week I challenge you to sit with the following three questions as you explore the idea of connection. Then sidle up to a trusted friend and share your responses and invite them to do the same:

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<ul>
	<li>Which relationships, communities, or groups in my life really feed me (i.e., I feel happier and more connected after these encounters)?</li>
	<li>Which relationships, communities, or groups in my life leave me feeling isolated or lonely (perhaps I am ready to let these go)?</li>
	<li>What is one thing I could do to take my current relationships to a deeper level and initiate more conversations that matter?</li>
</ul>
I&rsquo;m clear that in the second half of life, I want to be an advocate, a model, and a teacher for how we can all be more interconnected&mdash;both when we&rsquo;re struggling and when we&rsquo;re on top of the world. Connection and community are the medicine we most need right now.

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<div class="author f6">Ren&eacute;e Peterson Trudeau is an internationally-recognized coach, speaker, and best-selling author. Passionate about supporting people in coming into balance through the art and science of self-care, her clients range from Fortune 500 companies, national conferences, and nonprofit organizations to world-renowned retreat centers. She has been facilitating transformational events for women for more than 25 years.
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</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/your-connections-are-everything-how-to-build-yours</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/your-connections-are-everything-how-to-build-yours#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 19 Jul 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Your Connections Are Everything: How to Build Yours</title><description><![CDATA[I recently led a self-care retreat in Western North Carolina. At the end of the day, a participant came up to me and tearfully shared, &ldquo;I had no idea how badly I needed that. Not just the connection with other women, but reconnecting with myself. My life has become an endless to-do list and I had forgotten what it&rsquo;s like to sink into my heart and remember I&rsquo;m not alone with my struggles and fears. I&rsquo;m realizing: w<em>e need each other</em>.&rdquo;
<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I often work with professionals in the mental health field. We all agree that when women become disconnected from themselves, this untethering can manifest as depression or anxiety. It happens when we don&rsquo;t pay enough attention to emotional self-care (which I describe as the care and feeding of our hearts). We can easily forget who we are and feel separate from our hopes, dreams, and desires when we don&rsquo;t take regular time each day to pause, check in, and ask, &ldquo;What do I need right now?&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Last month I was leading a work-life balance workshop for a group of 20 female leaders from across the United States. As I guided an exercise on self-care, one of the younger attendees raised her hand and said she just didn&rsquo;t get the concept of emotional self-care. She said she thought women were supposed to be strong, armored, and hold it together&mdash;no matter what.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> The room became very quiet. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It was clear that this beautiful young woman had been taught that sharing her humanity was a liability. Her modus operandi for years had been to check her feelings at the door before she walked into work and to make sure that she didn&rsquo;t bother others with her personal issues.&nbsp;The silence in the room indicated that many of us could relate.

<div class="blog-img"><img alt="" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/image1.jpg" /></div>

<div class="blog-img-text">
<div class="post-card-title"><strong>New Way of Being </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Ren&eacute;e Peterson Trudeau</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">October 4 - 6, 2019</div>
For women of all ages and life stages. Do you long to reconnect with who you are? Are you in the midst of a transition? Do you crave quiet reflection, rest, and renewal? Internationally recognized transformational coach Ren&eacute;e Peterson Trudeau...

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<h4>Connection Calms Stress</h4>
This particular week has been unusually stressful for me. But after attending an entrepreneur meeting with peers, gathering with parents from our school community, and enjoying special time with a mentor over the weekend&mdash;I noticed I&rsquo;ve morphed into a different person. Have my stressors vanished? No, but my mood has elevated and I gained some much-needed perspective simply by being with others who made me feel more connected&mdash;to myself, to my values, and to a larger community.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Research shows that women are particularly impacted by these types of connections. When we circle up for heartfelt dialogue, we release oxytocin (the cuddle hormone), our serotonin levels rise, and our stress hormones decrease. In fact, this data was one of the driving forces behind the creation of my Personal Renewal Groups for mothers 17 years ago. Today we have facilitators leading these sacred circles for women in more than 10 countries. Every month participants explore ways to reconnect with who they are.

<h4>Disconnection Breeds Loneliness</h4>
It&rsquo;s far too easy to disconnect.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Not only do our digital lives lure us into &ldquo;empty connections&rdquo; but we&rsquo;re isolating ourselves in all kinds of ways. A complaint I regularly hear from women when I lead stress management and resiliency workshops is, &ldquo;I am so busy, I just don&rsquo;t have time for girlfriends anymore. Our lunches, coffees, and walks have become a thing of the past.&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Brigham Young University conducted an influential meta-analysis of scientific literature on loneliness and found that social isolation increases your risk of death by an astounding 30%; some estimates place it as high as 60%.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> To put it another way, loneliness might be a more significant health factor than obesity, smoking, exercise, or nutrition. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Many in the mental health world are saying loneliness may be the next big public health issue. Johann Hari, author of <em>Lost Connections: Uncovering the Real Causes of Depression&mdash;and the Unexpected Solutions</em>, defines loneliness as &ldquo;being around other people but not having conversations that matter.&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> Connection to others and to ourselves is not just important, it&rsquo;s as essential as oxygen. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
One of my mom&rsquo;s favorite songs in the 1970s was &ldquo;I Am a Rock&rdquo; by Simon &amp; Garfunkel. The lyrics are particularly resonant today: <em>I am a rock, I am an island</em>. Growing up, I watched how often my mother would isolate herself from others and try to navigate the ups and downs of motherhood, parenting, and work alone. Today, my heart is filled with compassion for her. And I&rsquo;m quite clear that this is not how I want to live.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The older I get, the more I wish to show up as &ldquo;human&rdquo; and vulnerable as possible in my interactions&mdash;both personal and professional. I believe this is our birthright and not only is it essential to overall health and well-being, it&rsquo;s critical to our growth and evolution.

<h4>Personal Reflection: An Exercise</h4>
Think back on a time when you felt overwhelmed, isolated, or sad. Then, invite in curiosity and compassion and reflect: <em>What is my habitual response when hard times arise?</em> <em>Do I tend to isolate or push through the discomfort?</em> <em>What if I softened, opened, and reached out to a friend or colleague for a walk, phone call, or cup of tea?</em>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
This week I challenge you to sit with the following three questions as you explore the idea of connection. Then sidle up to a trusted friend and share your responses and invite them to do the same:

<ul>
	<li>Which relationships, communities, or groups in my life really feed me (i.e., I feel happier and more connected after these encounters)?</li>
	<li>Which relationships, communities, or groups in my life leave me feeling isolated or lonely (perhaps I am ready to let these go)?</li>
	<li>What is one thing I could do to take my current relationships to a deeper level and initiate more conversations that matter?</li>
</ul>
I&rsquo;m clear that in the second half of life, I want to be an advocate, a model, and a teacher for how we can all be more interconnected&mdash;both when we&rsquo;re struggling and when we&rsquo;re on top of the world. Connection and community are the medicine we most need right now.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<div class="author f6">Ren&eacute;e Peterson Trudeau is an internationally-recognized coach, speaker, and best-selling author. Passionate about supporting people in coming into balance through the art and science of self-care, her clients range from Fortune 500 companies, national conferences, and nonprofit organizations to world-renowned retreat centers. She has been facilitating transformational events for women for more than 25 years.</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/your-connections-are-everything-how-to-build-yours</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/your-connections-are-everything-how-to-build-yours#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 19 Jul 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>What Death Teaches About Life: An Interview with Frank Ostaseski</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Frank Ostaseski</a>, an internationally respected Buddhist teacher and pioneer in end-of-life care, has accompanied over 1,000 people through their dying process. Acclaimed author of <em>The Five Invitations</em>, Frank cofounded the first Buddhist hospice in America&mdash;the Zen Hospice Project. In 2005, he founded the Metta Institute, through which he has trained countless clinicians and caregivers, building a national network of educators, advocates, and guides for those facing life-threatening illness.
<h2>1440: Fear seems to be the most common reaction to death. What is it that we&rsquo;re afraid of, exactly?</h2>
<em>Frank:</em> People have three big fears when it comes to dying. The first is that it will hurt. These days we can do something about that&mdash;we can manage people&rsquo;s pain fairly well, and we can generally address symptoms fairly effectively.

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The second fear is something like, &ldquo;I&rsquo;m going to be emotionally abandoned because there&rsquo;s no future relationship with me.&rdquo; That is a big fear. We can do something about this one too&mdash;we can say, &ldquo;I&rsquo;m here.&rdquo; We can be compassionate companions and keep our commitments.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The third fear is of something that&rsquo;s a little more difficult.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> Dying, particularly dying from a long-term illness, is a stripping away process. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
We are stripped of all the ways we&rsquo;ve self-defined&mdash;as a mother, a father, a journalist, whatever. All these identities go away and we&rsquo;re left with the question, &ldquo;Who am I?&rdquo; That&rsquo;s when we get down to something that&rsquo;s much more fundamental or essential.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> It&rsquo;s terrifying and also liberating.</span>

<h2>1440: When we are stripped down to that essential level, what do you see? Are we all the same or is there still a uniqueness to each of us?</h2>
<em>Frank:</em> It&rsquo;s completely unique. Just like every birth is unique, every death is that way too. That doesn&rsquo;t mean there aren&rsquo;t commonalities among people, though. I worked with a lot of folks who lived on the streets of San Francisco, and most of them didn&rsquo;t have deep religious practices. They also didn&rsquo;t have a lot of trust in society. But I regularly saw them go through a very powerful transformational process in dying.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Let&rsquo;s say it this way: in the dying process, people often discover that there&rsquo;s something larger than themselves that also includes themselves. I&rsquo;m hesitant to name what that larger thing is because people have many different names for it.

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<div class="post-card-date">August 2 - 4, 2019</div>
Death infamously reveals what matters most. It provides the wondrous awareness that we are part of something greater. Why wait until the end of your life to learn its vital and inspiring lessons? Why wait to feel whole, connected, and...

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But it often happens that people discover themselves to be more than the small, separate self they have taken themselves to be. This discovery often comes in the last months, days, or moments of life. Some would say that&rsquo;s too late, and I would agree.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> We can discover what death has to teach us at any time. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
We don&rsquo;t have to wait until we&rsquo;re dying.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>1440: How can we access these lessons before our death so we can live a fuller life?</h2>
<em>Frank:</em> The process of dying and the process of going inward using spiritual or contemplative practices have a lot in common. There is this growing silence that happens along with a general withdrawing from the world, or at least from the outer circles of the world.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> There is a slowing down and an appreciation of moment-to-moment experience. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
There&rsquo;s also the stripping away of separation. When you are born into a somewhat typical mother-child bond, you are swimming in a sea of non-separation. You don&rsquo;t know that; that&rsquo;s just your experience.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Gradually, you necessarily develop a sense of individuality and independence. You move away from that sense of pure unity and develop a personality. You develop boundaries and split the world into I and other, mind and body, etc. In the dying process, there is an opportunity to dissolve those false boundaries.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>1440: What is this thing you refer to that&rsquo;s larger than us and also includes us?</h2>
<em>Frank:</em> It&rsquo;s the thing that gives people a greater sense of meaning in their lives and helps them step beyond their limiting beliefs and ideas. For some people, it&rsquo;s religious conviction&mdash;faith. For others, it&rsquo;s time in nature.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> Perhaps the most common one for people is their relationships. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Having them is a common experience, but they take shape uniquely for each person.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
We are all both individual and not separate. The image that&rsquo;s used all the time is the wave and the ocean. The wave is absolutely unique and beautiful, and it&rsquo;s also not separate from the ocean.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>1440: In addition to the fear of dying, we also fear being the one left behind. What lessons have you learned that would be helpful for those who are grieving?</h2>
<em>Frank:</em>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> It&rsquo;s curious to me in this culture how fixated we are on managing grief. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
People say, &ldquo;It&rsquo;s been six weeks, you should be ready to move on.&rdquo; We do that with death and with the loss of a job or a relationship.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Grief is a thread, an underground stream that moves through all of us. When we turn toward it instead of trying to get rid of it, we learn something from it, like any other emotion or mental state.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I think the most important thing in working with our grief is to not turn away&mdash;or to come back to it if we do turn away&mdash;and follow it through all manifestations. Grief isn&rsquo;t just sadness, it can be numbness or relief or guilt&mdash;it&rsquo;s a constellation of experiences.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> Whatever your grief looks like, you must turn toward it.</span>

<h2>1440: Do you see a shift happening in our country when it comes to death and dying? It still feels like we have an abstract faith that medicine or science will save us.</h2>
<em>Frank:</em> I was at a dinner for tech entrepreneurs last year, and I said something like, &ldquo;Death is inevitable.&rdquo; Some guy raised his hand and said, &ldquo;We&rsquo;re working on that!&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It&rsquo;s true that we have been a terribly death denying culture, and I think that has a lot to do with how we have medicalized death over the last several decades. In past decades, and in many cultures, death was a part of everyday life. People planned for it and they experienced it close-up. When a loved one died, they saw bodies in their own homes and their neighbors&rsquo; houses.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I have a doctor friend who says that these incredible leaps in medicine and science over the past 50 to 100 years have morphed into the fantasy that we will be able to defeat all death. Now, the benefits of medicine are obvious. If not for them I wouldn&rsquo;t be here talking to you (I had triple bypass surgery a few years ago). But in falling for the idea that we will be able to solve and treat everything, we have lost touch with the age-old ability to help people die.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Having said that, I actually think people are hungry to talk about dying.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> I think they just want to talk about it with someone who is not so afraid. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
And that&rsquo;s happening more and more. There are more books, movies, and documentaries about the topic than ever before. I think the baby boomer generation, who has always wanted choice, wants choice around death too.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> Death is coming out of the closet and people are seeing that it&rsquo;s much more than a medical event. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I believe our task is to meet death. We don&rsquo;t have to like it, we don&rsquo;t have to agree with it, but we have to meet it. James Baldwin had that beautiful line, &ldquo;Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced.&rdquo; I think that&rsquo;s a call to courage, to meeting what&rsquo;s right in front of us.

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<div class="author f6">This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.
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</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-death-teaches-about-life-an-interview-with-frank-ostaseski</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-death-teaches-about-life-an-interview-with-frank-ostaseski#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jul 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>The Ten Commandments of Relationship Success: How to Thrive in Love</title><description><![CDATA[If you&rsquo;re in a long-term relationship or want to be in one, I can give you straight-up advice on what to do right now to safeguard your relationship from avoidable trouble. First, let me explain why you should listen.
<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
As social animals, we depend on each other for survival on many levels: physically, psychologically, emotionally. In the wild, primates procreate and pair bond, on average, for four years: sufficient time to raise one child and protect it from the hostile environment.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> Nature cares not about long-term relationships. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Most of us modern humans, however, do care because we are part of a society that values, even requires, cooperation, collaboration, and social fidelity to agreed-upon principles of governance. We also live a lot longer than either non-human primates or our recent ancestors. All this suggests the value of taking active steps to ensure the longevity of our relationships.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Now, that&rsquo;s not always easy.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> Romantic love waxes and wanes over time. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Mutual physical attraction can dim as our bodies undergo slow but inevitable changes as we age. Common interests also change as we are exposed to new experiences, attractions, and pursuits. One of nature&rsquo;s little jokes is to turn what attracted us to another person into what may eventually annoy us.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> This is where shared principles of governance come in. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
If you and your partner are bound together by principles that govern each of you as well as how you relate to everyone outside your &ldquo;couple bubble,&rdquo; you increase your chances of weathering the winds of change.

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These principles are, in essence, your Ten Commandments. Much like our shared belief in the Constitution, you must believe your shared principles will hold together over the long run, despite shifts and changes in love, lust, common interests, and all other ephemeral attractants. Depending on your imagination and forethought, your principles could include survival, thriving, trust, respect, admiration, radical loyalty, devotion, and a feeling of believing in something greater than the self.

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<span class="quote"> Principles, unlike rules and laws, are beliefs. </span>

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I strongly discourage you from thinking in terms of rules. People may break rules and laws, but breaking one&rsquo;s principles is akin to being untrue to oneself.

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<div class="post-card-date">August 9 - 11, 2019</div>
&ldquo;People are complex,&rdquo; says Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, clinician, teacher, and developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT). &ldquo;We don&rsquo;t come with manuals that explain and automate the process of getting along.&rdquo; Even if we did, we aren&rsquo;t...

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I believe in remaining fully transparent with Tracey, my wife. I stick to this principle because I&rsquo;ve reasoned how and why it serves both a personal and a mutual good. Do I like admitting something that might get me into trouble? Of course not. But transparency is a higher good than my wish to conceal or protect myself. Breaking this principle would violate a belief in who I am. Now, if Tracey didn&rsquo;t share this principle, we&rsquo;d have a big problem. We&rsquo;d be operating according to opposing beliefs, which could become a deal breaker.

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<span class="quote"> Shared principles of governance are especially useful when you or your partner don&rsquo;t feel like doing something, don&rsquo;t like each other, or are in a bad mood. </span>

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Here are some examples of shared principles of governance to get you started:

<ul>
	<li>We put the relationship first, above all other self-interests.</li>
	<li>We protect each other&rsquo;s sense of safety and security at all times.</li>
	<li>We apologize, make amends, and rectify misunderstandings or injuries in short order.</li>
	<li>We are fully transparent with each other.</li>
	<li>We minister to each other immediately when we are in distress.</li>
	<li>We are the first to know things.</li>
	<li>We never threaten each other or the relationship.</li>
</ul>
These are just examples. The principles you and your partner create must be particular to your mutual needs. You may want to consider big-ticket items first: your relationship, children, work, self, and so on. You both must fully buy into your shared principles and be ready to defend why they serve both a personal and a mutual good. In other words, explain why each principle benefits you and your partner, specifically.

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<span class="quote"> You must drink the Kool Aid&trade; on each principle, or it will not protect either of you or your relationship. </span>

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If you don&rsquo;t believe in the principle, when it comes time to pony up, you won&rsquo;t do it.

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The strongest, most enduring couples can articulate their shared principles of governance. Can you? Take the time you need to cocreate yours.

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<div class="author f6"><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Stan Tatkin</a>, PsyD, MFT, has a clinical practice as a couple therapist in Calabasas, California,&nbsp;and is an assistant professor at the UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine. He and&nbsp;his wife, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin</a>, PhD, founded the PACT Institute and lead therapist training programs in cities across the United States and around the world.</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-ten-commandments-of-relationship-success-how-to-thrive-in-love</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-ten-commandments-of-relationship-success-how-to-thrive-in-love#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jul 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>The Ten Commandments of Relationship Success: How to Thrive in Love</title><description><![CDATA[If you&rsquo;re in a long-term relationship or want to be in one, I can give you straight-up advice on what to do right now to safeguard your relationship from avoidable trouble. First, let me explain why you should listen.
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As social animals, we depend on each other for survival on many levels: physically, psychologically, emotionally. In the wild, primates procreate and pair bond, on average, for four years: sufficient time to raise one child and protect it from the hostile environment.

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<span class="quote"> Nature cares not about long-term relationships. </span>

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Most of us modern humans, however, do care because we are part of a society that values, even requires, cooperation, collaboration, and social fidelity to agreed-upon principles of governance. We also live a lot longer than either non-human primates or our recent ancestors. All this suggests the value of taking active steps to ensure the longevity of our relationships.

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Now, that&rsquo;s not always easy.

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<span class="quote"> Romantic love waxes and wanes over time. </span>

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Mutual physical attraction can dim as our bodies undergo slow but inevitable changes as we age. Common interests also change as we are exposed to new experiences, attractions, and pursuits. One of nature&rsquo;s little jokes is to turn what attracted us to another person into what may eventually annoy us.

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<span class="quote"> This is where shared principles of governance come in. </span>

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If you and your partner are bound together by principles that govern each of you as well as how you relate to everyone outside your &ldquo;couple bubble,&rdquo; you increase your chances of weathering the winds of change.

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These principles are, in essence, your Ten Commandments. Much like our shared belief in the Constitution, you must believe your shared principles will hold together over the long run, despite shifts and changes in love, lust, common interests, and all other ephemeral attractants. Depending on your imagination and forethought, your principles could include survival, thriving, trust, respect, admiration, radical loyalty, devotion, and a feeling of believing in something greater than the self.

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<span class="quote"> Principles, unlike rules and laws, are beliefs. </span>

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I strongly discourage you from thinking in terms of rules. People may break rules and laws, but breaking one&rsquo;s principles is akin to being untrue to oneself.

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<div class="blog-img-text">
<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Wired for Love Couple Workshop </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT,</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/"> Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, PhD</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">August 9 - 11, 2019</div>
&ldquo;People are complex,&rdquo; says Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, clinician, teacher, and developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT). &ldquo;We don&rsquo;t come with manuals that explain and automate the process of getting along.&rdquo; Even if we did, we aren&rsquo;t...

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I believe in remaining fully transparent with Tracey, my wife. I stick to this principle because I&rsquo;ve reasoned how and why it serves both a personal and a mutual good. Do I like admitting something that might get me into trouble? Of course not. But transparency is a higher good than my wish to conceal or protect myself. Breaking this principle would violate a belief in who I am. Now, if Tracey didn&rsquo;t share this principle, we&rsquo;d have a big problem. We&rsquo;d be operating according to opposing beliefs, which could become a deal breaker.

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<span class="quote"> Shared principles of governance are especially useful when you or your partner don&rsquo;t feel like doing something, don&rsquo;t like each other, or are in a bad mood. </span>

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Here are some examples of shared principles of governance to get you started:

<ul>
	<li>We put the relationship first, above all other self-interests.</li>
	<li>We protect each other&rsquo;s sense of safety and security at all times.</li>
	<li>We apologize, make amends, and rectify misunderstandings or injuries in short order.</li>
	<li>We are fully transparent with each other.</li>
	<li>We minister to each other immediately when we are in distress.</li>
	<li>We are the first to know things.</li>
	<li>We never threaten each other or the relationship.</li>
</ul>
These are just examples. The principles you and your partner create must be particular to your mutual needs. You may want to consider big-ticket items first: your relationship, children, work, self, and so on. You both must fully buy into your shared principles and be ready to defend why they serve both a personal and a mutual good. In other words, explain why each principle benefits you and your partner, specifically.

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<span class="quote"> You must drink the Kool Aid&trade; on each principle, or it will not protect either of you or your relationship. </span>

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If you don&rsquo;t believe in the principle, when it comes time to pony up, you won&rsquo;t do it.

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The strongest, most enduring couples can articulate their shared principles of governance. Can you? Take the time you need to cocreate yours.

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<div class="author f6"><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Stan Tatkin</a>, PsyD, MFT, has a clinical practice as a couple therapist in Calabasas, California,&nbsp;and is an assistant professor at the UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine. He and&nbsp;his wife, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin</a>, PhD, founded the PACT Institute and lead therapist training programs in cities across the United States and around the world.</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-ten-commandments-of-relationship-success-how-to-thrive-in-love</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-ten-commandments-of-relationship-success-how-to-thrive-in-love#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jul 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Storytelling Through Imagery: Photographs by Rob Woodcox</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Rob Woodcox</a> is a fine art and fashion photographer whose work focuses on storytelling. He considers telling visual stories one of the most fascinating ways to connect with people. As he creates each piece of artwork,&nbsp;Rob&nbsp;strives to capture fragments of vivid life&mdash;embracing reality, memory, and dream.
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He has worked for large clients such as Universal Pictures and Capitol Records, however his greatest passion is crafting personal artwork designed to provoke interpersonal interaction. Rob&rsquo;s dedication to advocacy and making strained voices heard has taken many shapes.&nbsp;He has produced projects to raise awareness and conversation around the United States foster system, as well as adoption, queer identity, body positivity, and racial diversity.

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We recently sat down with Rob to pour over some of his beautiful images and learn more about what drives him to create.

<h2>1440: What is it about dance and movement that intrigues you as a photographer?</h2>
<em>Rob Woodcox:</em> Life is always moving and changing, and dance quite literally&nbsp;replicates that using physical form.

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<em>The Tree of Life</em>

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The shapes and stories that dancers can&nbsp;create using their bodies make the perfect subject to photograph and those images represent the&nbsp;whimsical concepts in my mind. I&rsquo;ve been working on my dance series for a&nbsp;few years now and the process has opened my mind to even more surreal&nbsp;ideas and constructs. It&rsquo;s so enjoyable to pair my art form with the art of&nbsp;others.

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<em>The Wave</em>

<h2>1440: In many ways, you use the human body as a building block for sculpture.&nbsp;What is your creative process for composing what you shoot?</h2>
<em>Rob Woodcox:</em> I typically have a visual in mind before I even reach for the camera or call a team&nbsp;of models. Usually I&rsquo;m inspired by a physical space I&rsquo;ve seen, or an abstract&nbsp;dream that passes my mind. I can visualize bodies filling a tangible or imaginary&nbsp;space. I always write my ideas down as soon as they come to mind.

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<em>The Mountain</em>

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<em>El Esp&iacute;ritu Asciende (Part 1)</em>

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Once I&rsquo;ve&nbsp;mentally paired the human construct with an actual location, I reach out to my&nbsp;dance teams. Many of my compositions require the&nbsp;aid of Photoshop, so I have to shoot with that in mind. Nonetheless I always&nbsp;shoot on location and create as much as I can in-camera. All of the light and&nbsp;poses in my images are created on location and I carefully shoot at angles that&nbsp;allow the final image to look seamless and natural.

<h2>1440: You use photography as a tool for advocacy. Why do you think it&rsquo;s important for artists to use their&nbsp;creativity to shed light on social causes?</h2>
<em>Rob Woodcox:</em> When the people in power aren&rsquo;t helping everyone in need, who&rsquo;s responsible for&nbsp;taking charge and helping people understand the realities of others? I believe we&nbsp;are all responsible for spreading truth and hope, however we can.

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<em>Desert Spirits</em>

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Artists&nbsp;hold a special power in this way because they rely on more than just words or&nbsp;personal connections&mdash;they can tap into universal languages that have&nbsp;potential to reach vast audiences.

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<em>Interconnectivity 22</em>

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I believe all artists should make a statement for change with their creativity, whether it&rsquo;s simply an expression of beauty or a direct&nbsp;exclamation to change based on a specific cause.

<h2>1440: What do you hope people take away from your work?</h2>
<em>Rob Woodcox:</em> I hope people feel compelled to spread light to others around them and more&nbsp;interested in making the world a more equal and attainable place to live for&nbsp;people of all backgrounds. I hope people set aside their differences to celebrate&nbsp;the uniqueness we all possess. We are all connected, after all, and we each&nbsp;possess something valuable to contribute to society.

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<em>Interconnectivity 12</em>

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<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Rob Woodcox</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">August 8 - 11, 2019</div>
We live, work, love, and play in a society that sells us an identity. We&rsquo;re constantly being pulled by outside forces to be different, to be something that we&rsquo;re not. Join fine art and fashion photographer Rob Woodcox and discover how to...

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</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/storytelling-through-imagery-photographs-by-rob-woodcox</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/storytelling-through-imagery-photographs-by-rob-woodcox#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jul 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>Story and Well-Being: Five Questions with Joan Borysenko</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Joan Borysenko</a> is a distinguished pioneer in integrative medicine, a world-renowned expert in the mind-body connection, and a <em>New York Times</em> best-selling author. We recently caught up with her to talk about what led her to craft a unique career poised at the intersection of writing and healing.
<h2>1440: How did your experience in healthcare lead to an interest in story, writing, and memoir?</h2>
<em>Joan:</em> During the AIDS epidemic in the early 1980s I was running a mind-body clinic at one of the Harvard teaching hospitals in Boston. The HIV virus hadn&rsquo;t been discovered yet, and no one knew why gay men were literally dying in droves from a mysterious immunodeficiency syndrome. So I started a mind-body program for these men.

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The most heartrending stories I heard were about faith. We all have stories about who we are, why we&rsquo;re here, and what the purpose of life is all about. The most toxic existential stories I heard were about faith. They went something like this: &ldquo;The church told me it was wrong to be gay, and I couldn&rsquo;t believe that. So I left my childhood religion behind. Then my friends began to die, and now I&rsquo;m dying. So maybe the church was right. Maybe God is punishing us for our sins.&rdquo;

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The natural corollary of that belief is that you&rsquo;re on your way to hell.

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That is the most toxic kind of story that a human being can believe. And the entire drama plays out in the theater of our body.

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<span class="quote"> Story&mdash;whether the theme is love or fear&mdash;is central to well-being, health, and happiness. </span>

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The final chapter of my first book, <em>Minding the Body, Mending a Mind</em>, a <em>New York Times</em> best seller that came out in 1987, ended with a chapter about a young lawyer who died of AIDS, but discovered the mystery of love and deep faith in the process. His experience made me want to write more books about how we heal, transform, and become fully human in the process of dealing with illness, trauma, and life&rsquo;s difficulties. I&rsquo;ve written or co-written 16 more books in the years since.

<h2>1440: Who did you want to be in the world when you were a young girl?</h2>
<em>Joan:</em> When I was 10, I had a psychotic episode. I lived in a state of abject terror for several months, hallucinating headhunters who I thought were going to kill my family. I believed that since I was the only one who could see them, it was my responsibility to hold them off through a series of complex rituals. I was taken to a couple of psychiatrists, but 60 or so years ago they weren&rsquo;t of any help.

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Finally, one day I sat down and brought to mind the sacred silence in the pine grove where we had sabbath services at summer camp. As I chanted to myself, and entered that space, peace replaced terror, and I saw the Light for the first time. It was biblical&mdash;like the &ldquo;peace that passeth understanding.&rdquo; Insight arose and I knew not only that I could recover from the mental illness, I knew exactly how to do it.

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<span class="quote"> A poem spontaneously arose in my mind, and I wrote it down. </span>

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It&rsquo;s called &ldquo;The Light,&rdquo; and it&rsquo;s all about how the Light is always with you even in dark times when you cannot see it. It&rsquo;s a poem about faith. Instead of doing the rituals, I recited the poem to myself, and within three days the headhunters went away. In the aftermath of that experience I knew exactly what I wanted to do when I grew up.

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<span class="quote"> I wanted to be a psychologist and help people who were scared. </span>

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I wanted to know how to get back to the Light and help others have that experience. And (we were studying the brain in the fifth grade at the time) I wanted to know what could happen in a human brain to create both love and fear.

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<span class="quote"> That has been my life&rsquo;s work.</span>

<h2>1440: How often do you write and what does your personal writing practice look like?</h2>
<em>Joan:</em> If I&rsquo;m working on a book, I put aside blocks of time and write for six to eight hours a day. I&rsquo;ll often write an entire book as a stream of consciousness, no editing. While most of that first draft will end up in what I call a clip file, there are always a few scattered diamonds in the mud.

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<span class="quote"> These come from a place deeper than the conscious mind. </span>

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I wash them off, and they become the seed crystals around which the book organically takes shape. This is also how I teach writing.

<h2>1440: Do you have a favorite element of daily life that feeds your creativity?</h2>
<em>Joan:</em> Coffee. French press to be precise. I take it to the sunroom and watch the birds greet the dawn. In the summer months, I take it outside. Nature, silence, and morning are my inspiration.

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Then, when I&rsquo;m not running for a plane, a short meditation and a reading&ndash;often from one of my own books, a daily reader entitled <em>Pocketful of Miracles</em>.

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<span class="quote"> Silencing the self-referential, self-critical mind leaves room for inspiration to surface. </span>

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And sometimes that&rsquo;s a big order!

<h2>1440: You talk about a thread of grace running through life. What is grace to you?&nbsp;How do you experience grace?</h2>
<em>Joan:</em> When my mother died, my son Justin and I went into the Light with her.

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<span class="quote"> We had what&rsquo;s a called an empathic death experience. </span>

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I had a vision of being a pregnant mother, and also the child being born. One consciousness in two bodies. I laughed at the time, thinking &ldquo;Wow. God (or Ultimate Reality) is a case of multiple personality disorder!&nbsp;There&rsquo;s actually only one of us here.&rdquo;

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<span class="quote"> What followed was a love so tender, piercing, and intelligent that there are no words to describe its power. </span>

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The power of creation. When mom died, the room was literally filled with light. Justin and I both saw it. Light and form together. &ldquo;That&rsquo;s Grandma&rsquo;s last gift,&rdquo; Justin wept softly and with awe. &ldquo;She&rsquo;s holding open the door to eternity so that we can have a glimpse.&rdquo; The bottom line is that both of us saw that life runs deeper than surface appearances. The hard times I had with my mother were what taught me how to love and to forgive. What an experience it was to share with my 20-year-old son.

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<div class="boxspacer">Join Joan at her program <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Spiritual Art of Memoir</a>, July 17 &ndash; 19, 2020.&nbsp;</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/story-and-well-being-five-questions-with-joan-borysenko</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/story-and-well-being-five-questions-with-joan-borysenko#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jul 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;Pauses Are Essential&quot;: Sharon Salzberg on Compassion and Lovingkindness</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sharon Salzberg</a>&nbsp;is a&nbsp;foremost Buddhist meditation teacher and author. With Joseph Goldstein and Jack Kornfield, Sharon cofounded the Insight Meditation Society (IMS) in Barre, Massachusetts, which has since become one of the most prominent and active meditation centers in the West.&nbsp;A<em> New York Times</em> best-selling author, Sharon focuses her teachings on both Vipassana and the deep and profound practice of metta (lovingkindness) meditation.
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Her numerous books include <em>Lovingkindness: The Revolutionary Art of Happiness; Faith: Trusting Your Own Deepest Experience; A Heart as Wide as the World</em>; and the bestseller <em>Real Happiness: The Power of Meditation, A 28-Day Program</em>. Her newest book is <em>Real Love: The Art of Mindful Connection</em>. Sharon&rsquo;s writing has also been published in <em>The Sun&nbsp;</em>magazine, on Huffington Post, and been featured in <em>O, The Oprah Magazine</em>.

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<h2>1440: As a Buddhist meditation teacher, do you find it difficult to deal with this seeming saturation of stimulants from the digital world? Technology, social media, and email are all over us. How do you cope? How do we cope?</h2>
<em>Sharon Salzberg</em>: I love technology. I correspond via email so much more than talking to someone on the phone. I feel it&rsquo;s liberated me from the constraints of being in a different time zone, of always traveling, of people not knowing how to find me. I get all the news of the world from Twitter, and news of my friends from Facebook.

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I have a student who is a university professor, who told me once how concerned he was about the way his students used social media to constantly compare themselves to others, usually feeling bad about just not being good enough. As he put it, &ldquo;No one ever posts a photo of their mediocre meal.&rdquo; I told him that maybe it was an age thing: my people tended to post details about their shoulder surgery and other assorted sufferings.

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Of course, much depends on how we use technology and how much we use it. Addiction can be a fine line in these realms.

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<h5><em>&ldquo;Irrespective of age, taking a look at our intention before we post or even open our devices seems like a good idea&mdash;what do we really hope to get out of engaging in this way, at this moment?&rdquo;</em></h5>
And I find it good to remember that pauses are essential&mdash;just being tuned in to stimulation all the time, unremittingly, can be exhausting.

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<h2>1440: You&rsquo;ve visited many richly spiritual places and met with the Dalai Lama. What seems to be the common thread that deeply happy and fulfilled people/cultures share?</h2>
<em>Sharon Salzberg</em>:

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<h5><em>I think the Dalai Lama put it very well when he said, describing himself, &ldquo;I&rsquo;ve never met anyone I consider a stranger.&rdquo;</em></h5>
I think about that statement often. Many of us meet a stranger and all the while hardly really notice them&mdash;we are so wrapped up in self-preoccupation&mdash;&ldquo;What do they think of me? Do they like me? Do they like me more than they have ever liked anyone before? Oh no, I said something stupid. They must hate me!&rdquo; The more we are lost in that way, the lonelier and more disconnected we feel.

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In contrast, the Dalai Lama seems to be describing a state of genuine belonging no matter where you are, because you are so connected to your own body and mind, to the person or people you are with, to a bigger picture of life than just the immediate circumstances you find yourself in. I think he&rsquo;s describing a sense of having a home wherever you go. That&rsquo;s a state of deep happiness.

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<h2>1440: Sometimes we think we just need a magic button to feel happy, but that doesn&rsquo;t exist. What would you say to folks who are discouraged by hard setbacks as they try to move deeper in a more peaceful, loving existence?</h2>
<em>Sharon Salzberg</em>: Life can often buffet us with great adversity, or just a steady, wearisome lack of fulfillment. Most of us then have the unfortunate habit of piling on&mdash;adding shame or self-condemnation or a sense of isolation (&ldquo;It&rsquo;s only me.&rdquo;) or projection into an endless future (&ldquo;This is all I will ever feel.&rdquo;) onto what is already a difficult moment.

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<span class="quote"> With the development of greater compassion, including self-compassion, we can feel the pain of such times without the addition of extra pain. That also leaves room to feel and accept the love that may be coming towards us and within us. </span>

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My most recent book, <em>Real Love</em>, was first inspired by a line from a movie, <em>Dan in Real Life</em>. The line is, &ldquo;Love is not a feeling, it&rsquo;s an ability.&rdquo; Of course it is known to us as a feeling, the one we often long for, but ponder for a moment what it feels like to consider love as an ability. For me, that was tremendously empowering. Instead of thinking of the love I could have in my life as dependent on someone else giving it to me (which also meant they could take it away from me), once I thought of it as an ability, it was mine, a capacity inside me others might enliven or threaten, but they could never actually take away. It was up to me to strengthen it, nurture it, and make a home in my own ability to love.

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<h2>1440: Can you tell us what lovingkindness is in 10 words or fewer? Is that even possible?</h2>
<em>Sharon Salzberg:</em> In Pali, the language of the original Buddhist texts, the word is metta, most commonly translated as lovingkindness. Other translations are: love, friendliness, and good will. I tend to use the term connection.

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<span class="quote"> So, lovingkindness is a state of profound connection to ourselves, others, and ultimately all of life. </span>

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Well that&rsquo;s 13 words!

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Metta isn&rsquo;t necessarily highly emotional, though it might be. It can also be a deep knowing of the fact that we live in an interconnected universe, a shift in worldview, a movement towards inclusivity, a transformation in how we pay attention to ourselves and others. In fact this last is the root of the practice of lovingkindness: experimenting with who we pay attention to and who we look through or objectify, how we pay attention (fragmented and distracted or more fully present), and what we pay attention to (e.g., if we think of ourselves, do we pretty much exclusively think of our faults, or can we give a little airtime to the good within us or wishing ourselves well?).

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<h2>1440: In <em>Real Love</em> you wrote: &ldquo;At those wounded moments when we most need love, a hardened heart can seem like the best defense.&rdquo; This thought hits home for many of us. How can we not become hardened in hard times? How do we learn to offer an open heart in wounded moments when we need love?</h2>
<em>Sharon Salzberg:</em> Of course, the first recipient of that loving heart is ourselves. An interesting exercise, when we are looking at our own fear or anger or jealousy or craving, is to call it what it is&mdash;painful&mdash;instead of bad or wrong or weak or only what we deserve. Those are states of suffering, and instead of armoring up against them, or denying them, or blaming ourselves for them, we can feel compassion.

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We have the power of awareness to be able to look at our own feelings and reactions, our habitual thought patterns and behaviors, to see for ourselves what brings us happiness and what makes us more contracted and unhappy. Many of us have been taught that, in effect, it&rsquo;s a &ldquo;dog-eat-dog world.&rdquo; You&rsquo;ve got to only look out for yourself, the more you can put others down, the better you&rsquo;ll feel; if you feel vulnerable, you should hide it&hellip;But the more mindful we are, the more we see for ourselves that the opposite of the myths we have absorbed is often true.

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<span class="quote"> That gives us the courage to reach out more when we&rsquo;re hurt, to practice extending and receiving generosity, to realize that, whatever state we are in, delighted or despondent, we are never really alone. </span>

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<div class="boxspacer"><em><strong>Join Sharon Salzberg&nbsp;and Omid&nbsp;Safi for their program, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Path of the Courageous Heart</a>, on Jan. 31-Feb. 2, 2020 at 1440.&nbsp;</strong></em></div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/pauses-are-essential-sharon-salzberg-on-compassion-and-lovingkindness</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/pauses-are-essential-sharon-salzberg-on-compassion-and-lovingkindness#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jul 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;Pauses Are Essential&quot;: Sharon Salzberg on Compassion and Lovingkindness</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sharon Salzberg</a>&nbsp;is a&nbsp;foremost Buddhist meditation teacher and author. With Joseph Goldstein and Jack Kornfield, Sharon cofounded the Insight Meditation Society (IMS) in Barre, Massachusetts, which has since become one of the most prominent and active meditation centers in the West.&nbsp;A<em> New York Times</em> best-selling author, Sharon focuses her teachings on both Vipassana and the deep and profound practice of metta (lovingkindness) meditation.
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Her numerous books include <em>Lovingkindness: The Revolutionary Art of Happiness; Faith: Trusting Your Own Deepest Experience; A Heart as Wide as the World</em>; and the bestseller <em>Real Happiness: The Power of Meditation, A 28-Day Program</em>. Her newest book is <em>Real Love: The Art of Mindful Connection</em>. Sharon&rsquo;s writing has also been published in <em>The Sun&nbsp;</em>magazine, on Huffington Post, and been featured in <em>O, The Oprah Magazine</em>.

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<h2>1440: As a Buddhist meditation teacher, do you find it difficult to deal with this seeming saturation of stimulants from the digital world? Technology, social media, and email are all over us. How do you cope? How do we cope?</h2>
<em>Sharon Salzberg</em>: I love technology. I correspond via email so much more than talking to someone on the phone. I feel it&rsquo;s liberated me from the constraints of being in a different time zone, of always traveling, of people not knowing how to find me. I get all the news of the world from Twitter, and news of my friends from Facebook.

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I have a student who is a university professor, who told me once how concerned he was about the way his students used social media to constantly compare themselves to others, usually feeling bad about just not being good enough. As he put it, &ldquo;No one ever posts a photo of their mediocre meal.&rdquo; I told him that maybe it was an age thing: my people tended to post details about their shoulder surgery and other assorted sufferings.

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Of course, much depends on how we use technology and how much we use it. Addiction can be a fine line in these realms.

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<h5><em>&ldquo;Irrespective of age, taking a look at our intention before we post or even open our devices seems like a good idea&mdash;what do we really hope to get out of engaging in this way, at this moment?&rdquo;</em></h5>
And I find it good to remember that pauses are essential&mdash;just being tuned in to stimulation all the time, unremittingly, can be exhausting.

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<h2>1440: You&rsquo;ve visited many richly spiritual places and met with the Dalai Lama. What seems to be the common thread that deeply happy and fulfilled people/cultures share?</h2>
<em>Sharon Salzberg</em>:

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<h5><em>I think the Dalai Lama put it very well when he said, describing himself, &ldquo;I&rsquo;ve never met anyone I consider a stranger.&rdquo;</em></h5>
I think about that statement often. Many of us meet a stranger and all the while hardly really notice them&mdash;we are so wrapped up in self-preoccupation&mdash;&ldquo;What do they think of me? Do they like me? Do they like me more than they have ever liked anyone before? Oh no, I said something stupid. They must hate me!&rdquo; The more we are lost in that way, the lonelier and more disconnected we feel.

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In contrast, the Dalai Lama seems to be describing a state of genuine belonging no matter where you are, because you are so connected to your own body and mind, to the person or people you are with, to a bigger picture of life than just the immediate circumstances you find yourself in. I think he&rsquo;s describing a sense of having a home wherever you go. That&rsquo;s a state of deep happiness.

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<h2>1440: Sometimes we think we just need a magic button to feel happy, but that doesn&rsquo;t exist. What would you say to folks who are discouraged by hard setbacks as they try to move deeper in a more peaceful, loving existence?</h2>
<em>Sharon Salzberg</em>: Life can often buffet us with great adversity, or just a steady, wearisome lack of fulfillment. Most of us then have the unfortunate habit of piling on&mdash;adding shame or self-condemnation or a sense of isolation (&ldquo;It&rsquo;s only me.&rdquo;) or projection into an endless future (&ldquo;This is all I will ever feel.&rdquo;) onto what is already a difficult moment.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> With the development of greater compassion, including self-compassion, we can feel the pain of such times without the addition of extra pain. That also leaves room to feel and accept the love that may be coming towards us and within us. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
My most recent book, <em>Real Love</em>, was first inspired by a line from a movie, <em>Dan in Real Life</em>. The line is, &ldquo;Love is not a feeling, it&rsquo;s an ability.&rdquo; Of course it is known to us as a feeling, the one we often long for, but ponder for a moment what it feels like to consider love as an ability. For me, that was tremendously empowering. Instead of thinking of the love I could have in my life as dependent on someone else giving it to me (which also meant they could take it away from me), once I thought of it as an ability, it was mine, a capacity inside me others might enliven or threaten, but they could never actually take away. It was up to me to strengthen it, nurture it, and make a home in my own ability to love.

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<h2>1440: Can you tell us what lovingkindness is in 10 words or fewer? Is that even possible?</h2>
<em>Sharon Salzberg:</em> In Pali, the language of the original Buddhist texts, the word is metta, most commonly translated as lovingkindness. Other translations are: love, friendliness, and good will. I tend to use the term connection.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> So, lovingkindness is a state of profound connection to ourselves, others, and ultimately all of life. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Well that&rsquo;s 13 words!

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Metta isn&rsquo;t necessarily highly emotional, though it might be. It can also be a deep knowing of the fact that we live in an interconnected universe, a shift in worldview, a movement towards inclusivity, a transformation in how we pay attention to ourselves and others. In fact this last is the root of the practice of lovingkindness: experimenting with who we pay attention to and who we look through or objectify, how we pay attention (fragmented and distracted or more fully present), and what we pay attention to (e.g., if we think of ourselves, do we pretty much exclusively think of our faults, or can we give a little airtime to the good within us or wishing ourselves well?).

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>1440: In <em>Real Love</em> you wrote: &ldquo;At those wounded moments when we most need love, a hardened heart can seem like the best defense.&rdquo; This thought hits home for many of us. How can we not become hardened in hard times? How do we learn to offer an open heart in wounded moments when we need love?</h2>
<em>Sharon Salzberg:</em> Of course, the first recipient of that loving heart is ourselves. An interesting exercise, when we are looking at our own fear or anger or jealousy or craving, is to call it what it is&mdash;painful&mdash;instead of bad or wrong or weak or only what we deserve. Those are states of suffering, and instead of armoring up against them, or denying them, or blaming ourselves for them, we can feel compassion.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
We have the power of awareness to be able to look at our own feelings and reactions, our habitual thought patterns and behaviors, to see for ourselves what brings us happiness and what makes us more contracted and unhappy. Many of us have been taught that, in effect, it&rsquo;s a &ldquo;dog-eat-dog world.&rdquo; You&rsquo;ve got to only look out for yourself, the more you can put others down, the better you&rsquo;ll feel; if you feel vulnerable, you should hide it&hellip;But the more mindful we are, the more we see for ourselves that the opposite of the myths we have absorbed is often true.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> That gives us the courage to reach out more when we&rsquo;re hurt, to practice extending and receiving generosity, to realize that, whatever state we are in, delighted or despondent, we are never really alone. </span>

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<div class="boxspacer"><em><strong>Join Sharon Salzberg&nbsp;and Omid&nbsp;Safi for their program, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Path of the Courageous Heart</a>, on Jan. 31-Feb. 2, 2020 at 1440.&nbsp;</strong></em></div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/pauses-are-essential-sharon-salzberg-on-compassion-and-lovingkindness</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/pauses-are-essential-sharon-salzberg-on-compassion-and-lovingkindness#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jul 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>One Way to Help Children Practice Hard Work and Celebrate Success</title><description><![CDATA[The end of the school year can be a tough time for kids. There&rsquo;s a lot to look forward to, but also a lot to accomplish and big transitions ahead.
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<span class="quote"> Give your child, students, or clients an experience of hard work, achievement, awareness, and rest with this activity, and help them practice for their real life challenges. </span>

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<ul>
	<li>Sit up tall on the floor or a chair. Close your eyes or rest them in one place. Imagine that you are sitting outside, looking up at a tall mountain.</li>
	<li>Now imagine that you are getting ready to climb this mountain. Imagine standing and beginning to walk uphill. How are your legs feeling? Take a full breath in and notice how the mountain air smells. Look around. Are you in the woods? Are there flowers? Birds? What else can you see?</li>
	<li>As you continue to climb, the path gets steeper, and you have to work much harder. Soon you have to use your hands also, and your body is working very hard. Imagine how your muscles are feeling. What is happening to your breathing? Pause in your climb and look around? What can you see now?</li>
	<li>As you get close to the top of the mountain, notice how you are feeling. Imagine reaching the very top. You&rsquo;ve done it! Stand at the top of the mountain and appreciate the hard work you did to get here. Look out over the surrounding land.</li>
	<li>When you&rsquo;re ready, lay down on your yoga mat (and imagine laying down on the earth at the top of the mountain). Imagine how good this rest would feel after your long climb, your hard work. Let your body sink into the ground. Notice the feeling of the mountain air on your body, and the steady support of the earth underneath you. Rest here for as long as you&rsquo;d like.</li>
</ul>
Additional considerations: Some kids, especially pre-school and early-elementary age kids, love to act out this visualization. Give it a try and see how it feels. Take big steps, reach with your arms, practice balancing, and then get comfortable and relax once you get to the top.

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<div class="author f6">Jennifer Cohen Harper&nbsp;is a leading voice in the children&rsquo;s yoga and mindfulness community.&nbsp;She is the author of <em>Little Flower Yoga for Kids</em>&nbsp;and co-editor of&nbsp;<em>Best Practices for Yoga in&nbsp;Schools</em>. She is founder and director of Little Flower Yoga, a national organization based in&nbsp;New York, and the School Yoga Project, which brings yoga and mindfulness to schools nationwide.

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</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/one-way-to-help-children-practice-hard-work-and-celebrate-success</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/one-way-to-help-children-practice-hard-work-and-celebrate-success#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jul 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Are You on Love Autopilot?</title><description><![CDATA[<em>&ldquo;There is actually nothing more difficult on the planet than another person.&rdquo;</em> &ndash; Stan Tatkin
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Stan Tatkin is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy&nbsp;(PACT), which draws on cutting-edge research in neuroscience, attachment theory, and biology.

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In his funny, eye-opening TED Talk, <em>Relationships Are Hard, But Why?</em>, Tatkin characterizes the two distinct brain systems at play in our automatic neurobiological reflexes: our ambassadors (smart, deliberate, slow, expensive) and our primitives (fast, automatic, cheap).

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Our ambassadors make the hard decision about who to craft a relationship with and once they do, our primitives take over.

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We begin to &ldquo;think&rdquo; we know our partner and after a period of time, we automate the process of connecting and relating with them. If we don&rsquo;t understand this automatic brain, we often get into trouble&mdash;not just in the form of fights, but by fighting in a way that threatens the safety of the relationship.

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Sound familiar? Watch and learn.

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<div class="post-card-date">August 9 - 11, 2019</div>
&ldquo;People are complex,&rdquo; says Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, clinician, teacher, and developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT). &ldquo;We don&rsquo;t come with manuals that explain and automate the process of getting along.&rdquo; Even if we did, we aren&rsquo;t...

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<div class="author f6"><strong>Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor of 1440 Multiversity. </strong>

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</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/are-you-on-love-autopilot</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/are-you-on-love-autopilot#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jul 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Are You on Love Autopilot?</title><description><![CDATA[<em>&ldquo;There is actually nothing more difficult on the planet than another person.&rdquo;</em> &ndash; Stan Tatkin
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Stan Tatkin is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy&nbsp;(PACT), which draws on cutting-edge research in neuroscience, attachment theory, and biology.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
In his funny, eye-opening TED Talk, <em>Relationships Are Hard, But Why?</em>, Tatkin characterizes the two distinct brain systems at play in our automatic neurobiological reflexes: our ambassadors (smart, deliberate, slow, expensive) and our primitives (fast, automatic, cheap).

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<iframe allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/2xKXLPuju8U" width="560"></iframe>

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Our ambassadors make the hard decision about who to craft a relationship with and once they do, our primitives take over.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
We begin to &ldquo;think&rdquo; we know our partner and after a period of time, we automate the process of connecting and relating with them. If we don&rsquo;t understand this automatic brain, we often get into trouble&mdash;not just in the form of fights, but by fighting in a way that threatens the safety of the relationship.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Sound familiar? Watch and learn.

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<div class="blog-img"><img alt="" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/wired-for-love-1440-1-e1549994857279.jpg" /></div>

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Wired for Love Couple Workshop </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, </a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, PhD </a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">August 9 - 11, 2019</div>
&ldquo;People are complex,&rdquo; says Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, clinician, teacher, and developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT). &ldquo;We don&rsquo;t come with manuals that explain and automate the process of getting along.&rdquo; Even if we did, we aren&rsquo;t...

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<div class="author f6"><strong>Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor of 1440 Multiversity. </strong>

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</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/are-you-on-love-autopilot</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/are-you-on-love-autopilot#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jul 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Proud to Host Senderos&apos; Mexican Fiesta</title><description><![CDATA[A cornerstone to 1440&rsquo;s mission is a commitment to building relationships. We are pleased to be in collaborative partnership with&nbsp;Senderos, founded in 2001 as an&nbsp;after-school dance club of Santa Cruz City Schools, to provide positive, safe, and culturally&nbsp;relevant activities for immigrant youth and families.
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It was our distinct pleasure to host Senderos&rsquo; Mexican Fiesta at 1440, a lead-up to their annual Vive Oaxaca Guelaguetza cultural festival.&nbsp;A traditional celebration from Oaxaca, Mexico,&nbsp;<em>Guelaguetza&nbsp;</em>means &ldquo;to share,&rdquo; and indeed did we appreciate all the enriching traditions from the state of Oaxaca shared that day. Vibrant language, delicious food, inspiring music, and traditional dance brought our serene campus to colorful life. In the spirit of sharing, here are some of our favorite images from the festivities.

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Professor&nbsp;Camilo Jim&eacute;nez Fern&aacute;ndez of Centro de Integrac&iacute;on Social No. 8 (CIS),&nbsp;a public boarding school located in the small town of Zoogocho in the Sierra Norte mountains of Oaxaca. CIS educates orphans and low-income children from farming villages and is renowned for its <i>banda de viento&nbsp;</i>(wind band) music program, directed by Professor Fern&aacute;ndez.

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CIS promotes and preserves Oaxacan culture by teaching children and youth academics, rituals, dance, music, cooking, painting, and five indigenous languages. Senderos and CIS are united in their commitment to value and share the cultural heritage of Oaxaca and other regions of Mexico. &nbsp;

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Lizbeth Arely&nbsp;Olazo&nbsp;Hernandez, a Cabrillo College student and&nbsp;Senderos&nbsp;dancer, as the Diosa&nbsp;Centeotl&nbsp;(Corn Goddess who &rdquo;reigns&rdquo; over the Guelaguetza festival) introducing the dance group. &nbsp;

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Children from Senderos&rsquo; Centeotl Danza y Baile Infantil group performing a dance from Ejutla de Crespo, located in the central valleys of Oaxaca. Ejutla is a word from the indigenous Nahuatl language, exotl and tla, meaning &ldquo;place of abundant green beans.&rdquo; &nbsp;

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Dancers from Los Diablos Del Llano De Tecomates from Watsonville.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-proud-to-host-senderos-mexican-fiesta</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-proud-to-host-senderos-mexican-fiesta#comments</comments><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jul 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Proud to Host Senderos&apos; Mexican Fiesta</title><description><![CDATA[A cornerstone to 1440&rsquo;s mission is a commitment to building relationships. We are pleased to be in collaborative partnership with&nbsp;Senderos, founded in 2001 as an&nbsp;after-school dance club of Santa Cruz City Schools, to provide positive, safe, and culturally&nbsp;relevant activities for immigrant youth and families.
<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It was our distinct pleasure to host Senderos&rsquo; Mexican Fiesta at 1440, a lead-up to their annual Vive Oaxaca Guelaguetza cultural festival.&nbsp;A traditional celebration from Oaxaca, Mexico,&nbsp;<em>Guelaguetza&nbsp;</em>means &ldquo;to share,&rdquo; and indeed did we appreciate all the enriching traditions from the state of Oaxaca shared that day. Vibrant language, delicious food, inspiring music, and traditional dance brought our serene campus to colorful life. In the spirit of sharing, here are some of our favorite images from the festivities.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

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Professor&nbsp;Camilo Jim&eacute;nez Fern&aacute;ndez of Centro de Integrac&iacute;on Social No. 8 (CIS),&nbsp;a public boarding school located in the small town of Zoogocho in the Sierra Norte mountains of Oaxaca. CIS educates orphans and low-income children from farming villages and is renowned for its <i>banda de viento&nbsp;</i>(wind band) music program, directed by Professor Fern&aacute;ndez.

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CIS promotes and preserves Oaxacan culture by teaching children and youth academics, rituals, dance, music, cooking, painting, and five indigenous languages. Senderos and CIS are united in their commitment to value and share the cultural heritage of Oaxaca and other regions of Mexico. &nbsp;

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Lizbeth Arely&nbsp;Olazo&nbsp;Hernandez, a Cabrillo College student and&nbsp;Senderos&nbsp;dancer, as the Diosa&nbsp;Centeotl&nbsp;(Corn Goddess who &rdquo;reigns&rdquo; over the Guelaguetza festival) introducing the dance group. &nbsp;

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Children from Senderos&rsquo; Centeotl Danza y Baile Infantil group performing a dance from Ejutla de Crespo, located in the central valleys of Oaxaca. Ejutla is a word from the indigenous Nahuatl language, exotl and tla, meaning &ldquo;place of abundant green beans.&rdquo; &nbsp;

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Dancers from Los Diablos Del Llano De Tecomates from Watsonville.

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I travel a lot for business, but sometimes our business just won&rsquo;t wait&mdash;it climbs right onto the plane and finds us. That&rsquo;s what happened one day on a flight from Miami to St. Louis.

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I was exhausted. All I wanted to do was get to where I was going. Another flight. Another stranger to sit next to. I prayed to the airline gods for a seatmate who wouldn&rsquo;t in&shy;vade my space, physically or verbally. I just wanted to be left alone. But as it turned out, my neighbor was going to be one of those people and this was going to be one of those flights.

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I was settling in for the four-hour trip when Steve sat down and introduced himself. After some chitchat, he started telling me what he does for a living. If you&rsquo;ve been in this situation, you already know that Steve was not, say, a bodyguard for Hollywood stars, eager to share behind-the-scenes stories about their love lives and recreational drug use. No salacious stories or gossip to entertain me for the flight. No.

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<span class="quote"> For twenty-three years, Steve had been sell&shy;ing steel. Yup, steel. Riveting. </span>

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It turns out, however, the steel Steve sells is not just the run-of-the-mill variety. His company, based in Sweden, produces a particularly pure form of steel that enables ma&shy;chines to run more efficiently because their parts&mdash;for ex&shy;ample, a car&rsquo;s transmission&mdash;are lighter. An engineer himself, Steve could personally attest to his product&rsquo;s su&shy;periority over other options on the market.

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As he wrapped up, Steve looked at me expectantly, obvi&shy;ously longing for a follow-up question that would let him talk more about steel. Trouble was, I didn&rsquo;t much care what Steve did. It&rsquo;s not that I&rsquo;m aloof or unsociable or only interested in gossip. I&rsquo;m none of the above.

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<p><span class="quote">What draws me in is not what people do for a living but why they do it.</span></p>

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So instead of asking Steve how much his steel costs and who his best clients are, I turned to him and said, &ldquo;So what?&rdquo;

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&ldquo;Well, er,&rdquo; Steve faltered, not understanding the question. So I put it another way: &ldquo;I get that the steel you sell is very pure. I get that it allows for lighter components, which makes machines more efficient. But so what?&rdquo;

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Steve stammered a bit more, then blurted out, &ldquo;Well, not so much material needs to be used.&rdquo;

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Getting closer. I pushed a little more.

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&ldquo;And what difference does that make?&rdquo; For a moment Steve looked as if he might crumble. All he&rsquo;d wanted was to make small talk. Now he was stuck with my weird ques&shy;tions for the next three hours (the tables had turned).

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<span class="quote"> But we kept talking and I helped him find his answers. </span>

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As it turns out, such pure steel means that parts built with less material still remain strong. Using less material means needing to do less smelting (the process of extracting metal from its ore), so less energy is used in the steel pro&shy;duction process and thus less pollution is created. And when the steel is used to produce a machine such as a car, those advantages are repeated: the car is lighter, so it uses less fuel and therefore produces less pollution. And as if that weren&rsquo;t enough, purer steel is easier to recycle than other varieties. This was actually interesting &hellip; but we still hadn&rsquo;t gotten to why Steve was so enthusiastic about his job.

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&ldquo;Saving fuel and reducing pollution is great,&rdquo; I said, &ldquo;but there must be something more to this business that&rsquo;s kept you going for twenty-three years.&rdquo; That&rsquo;s a long time to do something and still be passionate about it. &ldquo;There must be something more at stake, something you truly believe in,&rdquo; I prodded him.

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And then it happened.

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<span class="quote"> For the first time in our conversation, I saw Steve&rsquo;s eyes light up. </span>

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And his feel&shy;ings poured out.

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Steve is committed to keeping the planet healthy for his children and future generations, and one way to do that is to be more responsible in the way we use our planet&rsquo;s rich resources. For all the time he&rsquo;d been talking to me about steel, he never once mentioned this, yet it was the very thing that inspired him to start telling a stranger on a plane all about pure steel.

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I asked Steve for permission to rephrase his sales pitch. &ldquo;In simple terms,&rdquo; I began, speaking as if I were Steve, &ldquo;I be&shy;lieve in using natural resources for the benefit of human&shy;kind. And I also believe that we should do so responsibly, leaving the planet safe and healthy for our children. This is what led me to become an engineer and to join my cur&shy;rent organization. Our company, based in Sweden&mdash;a country committed to sustainability&mdash;has developed a way to help engineers create lighter, more efficient, greener products. And our particular path to sustainability hap&shy;pens to be lightweight steel.&rdquo;

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<span class="quote"> &lsquo;Thank you,&rsquo; Steve said, beaming. &lsquo;You&rsquo;ve just put into words the reason I love what I do.&rsquo; </span>

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Simply by starting my version of the pitch with why he loves his job, I helped Steve see that it&rsquo;s not what he does that has kept him fulfilled for more than two decades. What inspires him is why he does it.

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<span class="quote"> By connecting his work to his sense of purpose, Steve had discovered his WHY. </span>

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The WHY is a deep-seated purpose, cause or belief that is the source of our passion and inspiration. You may not yet know what yours is or how to express it in words. But we guarantee, you have one. If you&rsquo;d like to understand your WHY, and would rather not wait until Peter sits next to you on a flight, we have other ways to help. We believe that all of us deserve to live as Steve does: waking up inspired to go to work and coming home, at the end of the day, feeling fulfilled by the work we do.

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<span class="quote"> Fulfillment isn&rsquo;t another word for happiness. </span>

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All kinds of things make us happy at work: hitting a goal, getting a promotion, landing a new client, completing a project&mdash;the list goes on. But happiness is temporary; the feeling doesn&rsquo;t last. Nobody walks around energized by the mem&shy;ory of a goal hit twelve months ago. That intensity passes with time.

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Fulfillment is deeper. Fulfillment lasts.

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<span class="quote"> The difference be&shy;tween happiness and fulfillment is the difference between liking something and loving something. </span>

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We don&rsquo;t neces&shy;sarily like our kids all the time, for example, but we do love them all the time. We don&rsquo;t necessarily find happiness in our jobs every day, but we can feel fulfilled by our work every day if it makes us feel part of something bigger than ourselves.

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That&rsquo;s the reason we can feel unfulfilled even if we&rsquo;re successful by standard measures like compensation and status.

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<span class="quote"> Fulfillment comes when our job connects di&shy;rectly to our WHY. </span>

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Steve, our man of steel, finds happi&shy;ness when he closes a deal but finds fulfillment knowing that he is contributing to a higher cause with larger impli&shy;cations.

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Excerpted from <em>Find Your Why: A Practical Guide for Discovering Purpose for You and Your Team</em> by Simon Sinek with David Mead and Peter Docker, published by Portfolio, an imprint of Penguin Publishing Group, a division of Penguin Random House, LLC. Copyright &copy; 2017 by Sinek Partners, LLC.

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I travel a lot for business, but sometimes our business just won&rsquo;t wait&mdash;it climbs right onto the plane and finds us. That&rsquo;s what happened one day on a flight from Miami to St. Louis.

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I was exhausted. All I wanted to do was get to where I was going. Another flight. Another stranger to sit next to. I prayed to the airline gods for a seatmate who wouldn&rsquo;t in&shy;vade my space, physically or verbally. I just wanted to be left alone. But as it turned out, my neighbor was going to be one of those people and this was going to be one of those flights.

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I was settling in for the four-hour trip when Steve sat down and introduced himself. After some chitchat, he started telling me what he does for a living. If you&rsquo;ve been in this situation, you already know that Steve was not, say, a bodyguard for Hollywood stars, eager to share behind-the-scenes stories about their love lives and recreational drug use. No salacious stories or gossip to entertain me for the flight. No.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote"> For twenty-three years, Steve had been sell&shy;ing steel. Yup, steel. Riveting. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It turns out, however, the steel Steve sells is not just the run-of-the-mill variety. His company, based in Sweden, produces a particularly pure form of steel that enables ma&shy;chines to run more efficiently because their parts&mdash;for ex&shy;ample, a car&rsquo;s transmission&mdash;are lighter. An engineer himself, Steve could personally attest to his product&rsquo;s su&shy;periority over other options on the market.

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As he wrapped up, Steve looked at me expectantly, obvi&shy;ously longing for a follow-up question that would let him talk more about steel. Trouble was, I didn&rsquo;t much care what Steve did. It&rsquo;s not that I&rsquo;m aloof or unsociable or only interested in gossip. I&rsquo;m none of the above.

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<p><span class="quote">What draws me in is not what people do for a living but why they do it.</span></p>

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So instead of asking Steve how much his steel costs and who his best clients are, I turned to him and said, &ldquo;So what?&rdquo;

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&ldquo;Well, er,&rdquo; Steve faltered, not understanding the question. So I put it another way: &ldquo;I get that the steel you sell is very pure. I get that it allows for lighter components, which makes machines more efficient. But so what?&rdquo;

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Steve stammered a bit more, then blurted out, &ldquo;Well, not so much material needs to be used.&rdquo;

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Getting closer. I pushed a little more.

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&ldquo;And what difference does that make?&rdquo; For a moment Steve looked as if he might crumble. All he&rsquo;d wanted was to make small talk. Now he was stuck with my weird ques&shy;tions for the next three hours (the tables had turned).

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<span class="quote"> But we kept talking and I helped him find his answers. </span>

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As it turns out, such pure steel means that parts built with less material still remain strong. Using less material means needing to do less smelting (the process of extracting metal from its ore), so less energy is used in the steel pro&shy;duction process and thus less pollution is created. And when the steel is used to produce a machine such as a car, those advantages are repeated: the car is lighter, so it uses less fuel and therefore produces less pollution. And as if that weren&rsquo;t enough, purer steel is easier to recycle than other varieties. This was actually interesting &hellip; but we still hadn&rsquo;t gotten to why Steve was so enthusiastic about his job.

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&ldquo;Saving fuel and reducing pollution is great,&rdquo; I said, &ldquo;but there must be something more to this business that&rsquo;s kept you going for twenty-three years.&rdquo; That&rsquo;s a long time to do something and still be passionate about it. &ldquo;There must be something more at stake, something you truly believe in,&rdquo; I prodded him.

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And then it happened.

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<span class="quote"> For the first time in our conversation, I saw Steve&rsquo;s eyes light up. </span>

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And his feel&shy;ings poured out.

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Steve is committed to keeping the planet healthy for his children and future generations, and one way to do that is to be more responsible in the way we use our planet&rsquo;s rich resources. For all the time he&rsquo;d been talking to me about steel, he never once mentioned this, yet it was the very thing that inspired him to start telling a stranger on a plane all about pure steel.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I asked Steve for permission to rephrase his sales pitch. &ldquo;In simple terms,&rdquo; I began, speaking as if I were Steve, &ldquo;I be&shy;lieve in using natural resources for the benefit of human&shy;kind. And I also believe that we should do so responsibly, leaving the planet safe and healthy for our children. This is what led me to become an engineer and to join my cur&shy;rent organization. Our company, based in Sweden&mdash;a country committed to sustainability&mdash;has developed a way to help engineers create lighter, more efficient, greener products. And our particular path to sustainability hap&shy;pens to be lightweight steel.&rdquo;

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<span class="quote"> &lsquo;Thank you,&rsquo; Steve said, beaming. &lsquo;You&rsquo;ve just put into words the reason I love what I do.&rsquo; </span>

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Simply by starting my version of the pitch with why he loves his job, I helped Steve see that it&rsquo;s not what he does that has kept him fulfilled for more than two decades. What inspires him is why he does it.

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<span class="quote"> By connecting his work to his sense of purpose, Steve had discovered his WHY. </span>

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The WHY is a deep-seated purpose, cause or belief that is the source of our passion and inspiration. You may not yet know what yours is or how to express it in words. But we guarantee, you have one. If you&rsquo;d like to understand your WHY, and would rather not wait until Peter sits next to you on a flight, we have other ways to help. We believe that all of us deserve to live as Steve does: waking up inspired to go to work and coming home, at the end of the day, feeling fulfilled by the work we do.

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<span class="quote"> Fulfillment isn&rsquo;t another word for happiness. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
All kinds of things make us happy at work: hitting a goal, getting a promotion, landing a new client, completing a project&mdash;the list goes on. But happiness is temporary; the feeling doesn&rsquo;t last. Nobody walks around energized by the mem&shy;ory of a goal hit twelve months ago. That intensity passes with time.

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Fulfillment is deeper. Fulfillment lasts.

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<span class="quote"> The difference be&shy;tween happiness and fulfillment is the difference between liking something and loving something. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
We don&rsquo;t neces&shy;sarily like our kids all the time, for example, but we do love them all the time. We don&rsquo;t necessarily find happiness in our jobs every day, but we can feel fulfilled by our work every day if it makes us feel part of something bigger than ourselves.

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That&rsquo;s the reason we can feel unfulfilled even if we&rsquo;re successful by standard measures like compensation and status.

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<span class="quote"> Fulfillment comes when our job connects di&shy;rectly to our WHY. </span>

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Steve, our man of steel, finds happi&shy;ness when he closes a deal but finds fulfillment knowing that he is contributing to a higher cause with larger impli&shy;cations.

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Excerpted from <em>Find Your Why: A Practical Guide for Discovering Purpose for You and Your Team</em> by Simon Sinek with David Mead and Peter Docker, published by Portfolio, an imprint of Penguin Publishing Group, a division of Penguin Random House, LLC. Copyright &copy; 2017 by Sinek Partners, LLC.

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<h2>1440: How do you define the notion of self?</h2>
<em>Najwa Zebian:</em> Anytime I talk about the notion of self, I use the word soul. To me, your soul is your truest you. It&rsquo;s the most real you. It&rsquo;s the you that is afraid of talking about certain things. It&rsquo;s the you that feels deep pain that you don&rsquo;t always talk about.

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It&rsquo;s completely independent of anything around you, any kind of external factors, any people, any environment or circumstance.

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<span class="quote"> It&rsquo;s the you when you are completely alone with yourself and your thoughts. </span>

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<h2>1440: How does that compare to the understanding of self you grew up with?</h2>
<em>Najwa Zebian:</em> Growing up, my definition of who I was wasn&rsquo;t just about me, it was about the community, the family, the reputation. It was about all these rules that I <em>should&rsquo;ve</em> known and&nbsp;<em>should&rsquo;ve</em> followed.

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It&rsquo;s like we&rsquo;re taught (or I was) to stay within certain confines that you don&rsquo;t know exist unless you try to push them. I grew up with the story that yes, I can do whatever I want, the sky is the limit, and all of that. But once I tried to say certain things or think in certain ways, I was told not to.

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So that pushed me to question these boundaries. I began asking questions like: <em>Is this something I believe in? Is this ethical? Does this make sense?</em>

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<span class="quote"> I began to see that our definition of self is often bits and pieces of how others define us. </span>

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And those bits and pieces have come to be what they are through the centuries of all these rules that we&rsquo;re supposed to follow based on things like gender, religion, and culture.

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I realized I wanted to rid myself of all of that and say I need to exist comfortably without all these external definitions. I need to define who I am.

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<h2>1440: Where and how did you grow up?</h2>
<em>Najwa Zebian:</em> I am the only one in my family who was born and raised in Lebanon. My parents met and married in Canada. They had five children. One day my dad asked my older sister a question in our first language, Arabic, and she didn&rsquo;t understand him. It hit my dad that his children were not going to identify with their first language and culture, so he decided to up and move to Lebanon. And then, eight years later, I was born.

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Confidence, resilience, and independence start by finding and raising your voice. In this thrilling weekend workshop Najwa Zebian&mdash;the author, activist, and inspirational speaker whose words became a face for the #MeToo movement&mdash;shares the importance of owning your story and how...

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So, there is a big age difference between me and my siblings and a big age difference between me and my parents. I grew up in a small village of a few thousand people on a mountain. Everybody was Muslim. There was no exposure to diversity.

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<span class="quote"> I would describe myself as a quiet observer during those years. </span>

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I often got told that I was way too mature for my age. And now, looking back, I see it as a product of always being surrounded by adults.

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From the age of about eight to 16, my parents would go back and forth to Canada (because some of my older siblings later moved back). During that time, I had no consistent sense of home. I lived with different relatives based on who could take care of me.

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I talk about this struggle to find home in my very first Tedx Talk. Ultimately, I found a home in poetry. My journal became my home.

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On my 16th birthday, I moved to Toronto. I don&rsquo;t think I realized what kind of culture shock I went through until years later. Because when I first came here, I was still that quiet observer.

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At the time, I still covered. I started covering when I was 13 years old and so, when I came here, I continued to cover for a time and never really mixed with the outer world.

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<span class="quote"> I lived in a mini world of what I had back home in Lebanon. </span>

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I only started getting exposed to the outer world when I went to Teachers College and did my first assignment in a Catholic school.

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Imagine me walking into that school. I&rsquo;m obviously not Catholic. I remember&nbsp;the principal saying, &ldquo;You&rsquo;re the most diversity we&rsquo;ve had in this school for so long.&rdquo; I started getting invited into world religion classes and kids would ask me questions, and that&rsquo;s when I started really thinking outside the box&mdash;outside that little manufactured world that had been created around me.

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<h2>1440: You talk about the importance of owning your story. Why do you believe that is so vital?</h2>
<em>Najwa Zebian:</em> The reason I use the word &ldquo;own&rdquo; your story is because I feel that most of us own our pain so well. Right? Like it really lives with us&mdash;when we sleep, when we wake up, when we have any kind of new experience, that pain is within us and we feel it so deeply even if we don&rsquo;t talk about it. So, if an event in our life happened and we are going to own the pain that it caused, then why are we not owning what happened to us?

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You see what I&rsquo;m saying? It seems we focus so much on the consequence of what happened but not really on what happened.

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<span class="quote"> When you focus on the consequence, what you&rsquo;re doing is staying stuck in a place that doesn&rsquo;t give you any power. </span>

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But when you can go back to that story and understand why it happened and why it affected you as much as it did, you can start to come to terms with it.

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<span class="quote"> If you are constantly fixated on the pain and getting rid of it, you are going to be taught the wrong version of self-love. </span>

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Perhaps you&rsquo;re taught: <em>Go to a spa. Get your nails done. Spend some time doing yoga.</em> You may do all these things but if you don&rsquo;t go back to the root of why you&rsquo;re feeling the way you&rsquo;re feeling (which is the story), if you don&rsquo;t own the story you&rsquo;re going to be constantly caught in this loop of <em>I healed a little bit and now I&rsquo;m relapsing, I healed a little bit and now I&rsquo;m relapsing</em>.

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If you&rsquo;re able to go back to the actual story and redefine what you&rsquo;ve allowed yourself to believe about that story that caused you pain, then you&rsquo;re able to understand your pain differently and you&rsquo;re able to heal from it differently.

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<h2>1440: What did it take for you to start owning your story?</h2>
<em>Najwa Zebian:</em> It was a long journey. It was a long time of feeling like something was wrong with me and feeling that I needed to hide certain parts of who I was to be accepted into people&rsquo;s lives.

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<span class="quote"> I felt I needed to hide my sensitivity and the depths to which I felt pain. </span>

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And it just made me shrivel in every possible way. I felt very small and I had no self-esteem. I had no definition of self. My definition of self was based on what others thought of me and my idea of what they would think of me if I were to really be who I truly was.

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It got to a point where there was this me that was so trained to hide how I was feeling. And then, there was the me that was dying on the inside to be seen and heard and loved for who I really was.

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I felt so manufactured that I finally had to ask myself: Do I want to continue living and being loved by others for who I am <em>not</em>? Or do I want to be who I truly am and risk losing all the people who don&rsquo;t love the real me and be alone for a while and build my own self and then, welcome new people into my life?

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<span class="quote"> I chose my real self. </span>

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<div class="author f6">This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.
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</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/self-growth-and-pain-a-conversation-with-najwa-zebian</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/self-growth-and-pain-a-conversation-with-najwa-zebian#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 9 Jul 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>Self, Growth, and Pain: A Conversation with Najwa Zebian</title><description><![CDATA[Since publishing her first collection of poetry and prose in 2016, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Najwa Zebian</a> has inspired millions worldwide. Bravely sharing her experiences of displacement, discrimination, and abuse, Najwa is known for her best-selling poetry and stirring, widely-viewed speaking engagements. She became a trailblazing voice for women everywhere as a face of the #MeToo movement.
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<h2>1440: How do you define the notion of self?</h2>
<em>Najwa Zebian:</em> Anytime I talk about the notion of self, I use the word soul. To me, your soul is your truest you. It&rsquo;s the most real you. It&rsquo;s the you that is afraid of talking about certain things. It&rsquo;s the you that feels deep pain that you don&rsquo;t always talk about.

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It&rsquo;s completely independent of anything around you, any kind of external factors, any people, any environment or circumstance.

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<span class="quote"> It&rsquo;s the you when you are completely alone with yourself and your thoughts. </span>

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<h2>1440: How does that compare to the understanding of self you grew up with?</h2>
<em>Najwa Zebian:</em> Growing up, my definition of who I was wasn&rsquo;t just about me, it was about the community, the family, the reputation. It was about all these rules that I <em>should&rsquo;ve</em> known and&nbsp;<em>should&rsquo;ve</em> followed.

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It&rsquo;s like we&rsquo;re taught (or I was) to stay within certain confines that you don&rsquo;t know exist unless you try to push them. I grew up with the story that yes, I can do whatever I want, the sky is the limit, and all of that. But once I tried to say certain things or think in certain ways, I was told not to.

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So that pushed me to question these boundaries. I began asking questions like: <em>Is this something I believe in? Is this ethical? Does this make sense?</em>

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<span class="quote"> I began to see that our definition of self is often bits and pieces of how others define us. </span>

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And those bits and pieces have come to be what they are through the centuries of all these rules that we&rsquo;re supposed to follow based on things like gender, religion, and culture.

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I realized I wanted to rid myself of all of that and say I need to exist comfortably without all these external definitions. I need to define who I am.

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<h2>1440: Where and how did you grow up?</h2>
<em>Najwa Zebian:</em> I am the only one in my family who was born and raised in Lebanon. My parents met and married in Canada. They had five children. One day my dad asked my older sister a question in our first language, Arabic, and she didn&rsquo;t understand him. It hit my dad that his children were not going to identify with their first language and culture, so he decided to up and move to Lebanon. And then, eight years later, I was born.

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<div class="post-card-date">October 11 - 13, 2019</div>
Confidence, resilience, and independence start by finding and raising your voice. In this thrilling weekend workshop Najwa Zebian&mdash;the author, activist, and inspirational speaker whose words became a face for the #MeToo movement&mdash;shares the importance of owning your story and how...

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So, there is a big age difference between me and my siblings and a big age difference between me and my parents. I grew up in a small village of a few thousand people on a mountain. Everybody was Muslim. There was no exposure to diversity.

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<span class="quote"> I would describe myself as a quiet observer during those years. </span>

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I often got told that I was way too mature for my age. And now, looking back, I see it as a product of always being surrounded by adults.

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From the age of about eight to 16, my parents would go back and forth to Canada (because some of my older siblings later moved back). During that time, I had no consistent sense of home. I lived with different relatives based on who could take care of me.

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I talk about this struggle to find home in my very first Tedx Talk. Ultimately, I found a home in poetry. My journal became my home.

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On my 16th birthday, I moved to Toronto. I don&rsquo;t think I realized what kind of culture shock I went through until years later. Because when I first came here, I was still that quiet observer.

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At the time, I still covered. I started covering when I was 13 years old and so, when I came here, I continued to cover for a time and never really mixed with the outer world.

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<span class="quote"> I lived in a mini world of what I had back home in Lebanon. </span>

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I only started getting exposed to the outer world when I went to Teachers College and did my first assignment in a Catholic school.

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Imagine me walking into that school. I&rsquo;m obviously not Catholic. I remember&nbsp;the principal saying, &ldquo;You&rsquo;re the most diversity we&rsquo;ve had in this school for so long.&rdquo; I started getting invited into world religion classes and kids would ask me questions, and that&rsquo;s when I started really thinking outside the box&mdash;outside that little manufactured world that had been created around me.

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<h2>1440: You talk about the importance of owning your story. Why do you believe that is so vital?</h2>
<em>Najwa Zebian:</em> The reason I use the word &ldquo;own&rdquo; your story is because I feel that most of us own our pain so well. Right? Like it really lives with us&mdash;when we sleep, when we wake up, when we have any kind of new experience, that pain is within us and we feel it so deeply even if we don&rsquo;t talk about it. So, if an event in our life happened and we are going to own the pain that it caused, then why are we not owning what happened to us?

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You see what I&rsquo;m saying? It seems we focus so much on the consequence of what happened but not really on what happened.

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<span class="quote"> When you focus on the consequence, what you&rsquo;re doing is staying stuck in a place that doesn&rsquo;t give you any power. </span>

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But when you can go back to that story and understand why it happened and why it affected you as much as it did, you can start to come to terms with it.

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<span class="quote"> If you are constantly fixated on the pain and getting rid of it, you are going to be taught the wrong version of self-love. </span>

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Perhaps you&rsquo;re taught: <em>Go to a spa. Get your nails done. Spend some time doing yoga.</em> You may do all these things but if you don&rsquo;t go back to the root of why you&rsquo;re feeling the way you&rsquo;re feeling (which is the story), if you don&rsquo;t own the story you&rsquo;re going to be constantly caught in this loop of <em>I healed a little bit and now I&rsquo;m relapsing, I healed a little bit and now I&rsquo;m relapsing</em>.

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If you&rsquo;re able to go back to the actual story and redefine what you&rsquo;ve allowed yourself to believe about that story that caused you pain, then you&rsquo;re able to understand your pain differently and you&rsquo;re able to heal from it differently.

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<h2>1440: What did it take for you to start owning your story?</h2>
<em>Najwa Zebian:</em> It was a long journey. It was a long time of feeling like something was wrong with me and feeling that I needed to hide certain parts of who I was to be accepted into people&rsquo;s lives.

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<span class="quote"> I felt I needed to hide my sensitivity and the depths to which I felt pain. </span>

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And it just made me shrivel in every possible way. I felt very small and I had no self-esteem. I had no definition of self. My definition of self was based on what others thought of me and my idea of what they would think of me if I were to really be who I truly was.

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It got to a point where there was this me that was so trained to hide how I was feeling. And then, there was the me that was dying on the inside to be seen and heard and loved for who I really was.

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I felt so manufactured that I finally had to ask myself: Do I want to continue living and being loved by others for who I am <em>not</em>? Or do I want to be who I truly am and risk losing all the people who don&rsquo;t love the real me and be alone for a while and build my own self and then, welcome new people into my life?

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<span class="quote"> I chose my real self. </span>

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<div class="author f6">This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.
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<h2>1440: What does it mean to find your WHY?</h2>
<em>Heath:</em> To find your WHY means clarity and confidence. The clarity part comes once you have found or discovered your WHY. That gives you a filter through which you can make decisions and determine whether an opportunity or a piece of advice or a suggestion is in line with who you are and who you want to be when you&rsquo;re at your best.

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Your WHY is really a tool. You can find it and do nothing with it, or you can find your WHY and do something with it and that&rsquo;s where the clarity comes from. Once you have clarity, it helps guide decisions and opportunities. It informs the direction you want to take, the type of companies you want to work with, where you want to invest your time, and what kind of community involvement you want to engage in.

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It may even help you decide who you want to be friends with, the kinds of people and relationships you want to invest in, and even where you want to live.

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<span class="quote"> Our hope is that once you have your WHY, you&rsquo;re going to be in a better position to put yourself in situations and spaces where you can thrive. </span>

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Because your WHY isn&rsquo;t just your purpose. It&rsquo;s also an articulation of who you are when you&rsquo;re at your best.

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People sometimes think the WHY is marketing&mdash;that it&rsquo;s a mantra or motto that has to sound good. We would argue that it really doesn&rsquo;t have to sound good, it just has to feel right.

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One thing I love about the WHY discovery is that it&#39;s really an experience of locating your own peak moments and periods of feeling flow and being in the zone. Instead of those moments being random occurrences, once you have your WHY, you can make choices that sort of push or pull you in the direction of those spaces and situations.

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So that gives you clarity. Then the second part, the confidence, helps you elevate your game.

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<span class="quote"> Of course, a key part of the WHY is that it needs to be in service to something more than just yourself. </span>

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<h2>1440: Let&rsquo;s talk about the relationship between an organization&rsquo;s WHY and an employee&rsquo;s WHY.</h2>
<em>Heath:</em> Ideally the two are what we call nested and overlapping. When you see a connection between what matters to you and what matters to an organization, meaning your purpose and the organization&rsquo;s purpose or your cause and their cause overlap, then you are likely to think, this is something I want to invest my discretionary energy in.

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<div class="post-card-date">August 23 - 25, 2019</div>
What makes work meaningful? Why engage with challenge? Join Heath Slawner and the lead teaching team of Simon Sinek&mdash;the visionary voice behind the concept of WHY&mdash;for an inaugural, groundbreaking workshop at 1440 Multiversity. Together they will shine light on what...

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The same is true in our personal lives. If you are someone who wakes up in the morning to exercise, it&rsquo;s because you care about it. You wake up at 6:00 am and you make that sacrifice of discretionary energy because being healthy is important to you.

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When we give people something to care about at work&mdash;in other words, when the leadership are clear about what a company stands for, and when they behave and act in ways that align with that sense of caring, that sense of purpose, that sense of cause&mdash;it inspires employees to want to show up every day and really bring their gifts to work.

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I think the successful organizations of today and of the future are the ones that recognize the need to create environments where people can learn and grow and fail and pick themselves up and feel safe doing so and take risks and share their feelings.

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<span class="quote"> Because, let&rsquo;s face it, the demographics have completely shifted. </span>

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It used to be that you got married when you were 25, you had kids, and then you had your family unit at home and your job was only necessary so you could build your family. Now people are not getting married until their 30s. They&rsquo;re not buying houses because they can&rsquo;t afford it until their late 30s. And so now, work is family.

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And so, we want and need those work relationships to be healthy and strong. We want and need to be able to raise issues with people and not get thrown under the bus for being the squeaky wheel. I think that&rsquo;s what people want and that&rsquo;s what businesses want. Everywhere I go, people are saying we need to move faster and make decisions quicker and be more innovative and respond to all of the changes in our market and our environment.

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<span class="quote"> Working at that speed only happens when people trust one another. </span>

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<h2>1440: That reminds me how you often say &ldquo;when people feel safe, remarkable things happen.&rdquo; How do institutions cultivate this safety?</h2>
<em>Heath:</em> Simon introduced the concept of the circle of safety in <em>Leaders Eat Last</em>. The basic idea is that we need to have a balance between the selfless and the selfish, and a lot of companies are built around being selfish&mdash;you know, silos, forced rankings, etc. There can often be built-in systems that discourage people from sharing information and building real, genuine, deep relationships with one another.

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Companies also often lack mechanisms for giving timely feedback because everyone&rsquo;s so busy being nice and they&rsquo;re afraid to confront and have the necessary difficult conversations. People are kind of tiptoeing around issues, which can make employees bad at receiving feedback.

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<span class="quote"> At a time when we have never been more connected, all I hear from people is: <em>I&rsquo;ve never felt so alone</em>. </span>

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Leaders need to set the tone by being willing to say&nbsp;<em>I need help here</em> or <em>I screwed up</em>. That gives permission and inspires everybody else to take the risks that build a circle of safety.

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I was working with a team recently where someone in finance was so afraid of admitting what they didn&rsquo;t know and what they couldn&rsquo;t do that they just kept it to themselves. By the time they finally raised their hand and acknowledged an ongoing struggle, it took six months to fix the problem. Had that person felt safe enough to raise their hand earlier, it could have been solved in two weeks.

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This is what happens when people don&rsquo;t feel safe. People need communication and they need leaders who walk the talk and set the tone.

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<h2>1440: What are the urgencies and trends in the workplace you and Simon and team most often witness and hear about today?</h2>
<em>Heath:</em> From where we sit right now, the biggest challenge or what&rsquo;s bubbling up is that large organizations are awakening to this new way of thinking, this new way of being, because they recognize that if they don&rsquo;t create environments where people want to do their best work, those employees are going to go somewhere else.

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We&rsquo;re seeing really large organizations&mdash;companies with 80,000 people or 300,000 people&mdash;want to bring about a cultural transformation as a way to better engage not only their employees but also their stakeholders, partners, vendors, suppliers, and customers.

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<span class="quote"> Leaders are asking: <em>How can we create an improved environment?</em> </span>

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They are recognizing it&rsquo;s not just the right thing to do from a people point of view, but ultimately, it&rsquo;s going to make the company more productive, more innovative, more creative, and more profitable. It will actually return more to the bottom line over the long-term.

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I can&rsquo;t prove that a cultural shift will make a company more profitable in six months, but if you want to be around in 60 years, you better be investing in your people.

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<span class="quote"> You better be clear about what you stand for and live up to it, or at least try to live up to it every single day. </span>

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<div class="author f6">Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.
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Women often believe symptoms associated with imbalanced hormones are normal, but mood swings, cravings, weight gain, and brain fog all point to one problem: an overwhelming toxic burden. Writing symptoms off without understanding the deeper cause does our health a disservice, because it means we&rsquo;re assuming there is nothing more to be done.

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This is not the case when it comes to addressing hormonal imbalances. We can absolutely make changes to impact our hormonal health for the better. Looking carefully at our exposure to toxins is the first step.

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<span class="quote">Many toxins are endocrine disruptors, which means they alter the body&rsquo;s natural hormonal processes.</span>

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This can happen in many ways. Some mimic hormones and overstimulate our systems, others bind to receptors and block the reception of endogenous hormones (the ones we naturally make).

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Endocrine disruptors can also negatively affect our ability to process and eliminate hormones, causing them to build up. The end result? Infertility in both men and women, increased risk of certain cancers, increased risk of immune and autoimmune diseases, and many other not-so-fun symptoms that trickle back to hormonal imbalance.

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All Women Welcome. Proper nutrition, weight loss, optimizing brain function, detoxification, spiritual wellness&mdash;these are all areas of your health that Western medicine doesn&rsquo;t always address. Join board-certified naturopathic medical doctors Dr. Afrouz Demehri and Dr. Judy Hinojosa for a workshop...

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<h4>Toxic Homes</h4>

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Our environment is filled with toxins like never before, we encounter them both within and outside our homes. It&rsquo;s no wonder our natural ability to detox is challenged.&nbsp;Surprisingly, there are many indoor toxins to be aware of. Things like building materials (think asbestos or lead paint in old homes) and fumes that can off-gas from new furniture and carpeting.

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<span class="quote"> The cleaning products many of us use are doing way more harm than good, especially those with fragrances.</span>

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We may even be consuming toxic endocrine disruptors through our tap water, like residues of medications (i.e. birth control) or heavy metals. The good news about indoor toxins is you can control your exposure to them. Buying cleaner home products and filtering your air and water are big steps in the right direction when it comes to creating a cleaner and greener environment.

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<h4>Plastics &amp; Food</h4>

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You and I both know it, plastics are everywhere. What you may not realize is that plastics are working against your hormone goals. Plastics contain bisphenol A (BPA), phthalates, and dioxin which are known endocrine disruptors. Cans lined in BPA, plastic bottles and food containers, and even nonstick coatings on cookware can all contribute to hormone sabotage.

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Eating conventionally grown produce puts us at a much higher risk of consuming chemicals that are related to hormonal imbalance. For example, agricultural chemicals, like the herbicide glyphosate, are extremely abundant in our conventionally produced food supply and heavily linked to disruptions in both estrogens and androgens.

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And if you&rsquo;re an omnivore, animal products are no exception! Meat and dairy that is not organic, grass-fed, and/or pasture-raised can contain hormones that will negatively impact our own as well as antibiotics that can disturb the precious good bacteria we need for regulating and metabolizing hormones.

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<h4>Not Very Pretty</h4>

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I know, you don&rsquo;t want me to tell you to throw away your favorite lipstick. But I can&rsquo;t talk about toxic burden without mentioning beauty products, which can contain a slew of harmful compounds including heavy metals, glycol ethers, and parabens. Luckily, many companies are getting smarter and developing products that help us look great without all the unnecessary dangerous ingredients. A great resource for cleaner beauty products is the Environmental Working Group&rsquo;s Skin Deep Database.

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Our mouths are also at risk of toxin overload. Many of us are walking around with at least one amalgam filling, which contains mercury and continues to release mercury vapor as long as it is present. Unfortunately, fluoride is an endocrine disruptor as well, not to mention it&rsquo;s also neurotoxic.

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<h4>The Inside Story</h4>

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The impacts of toxins are not limited to our outside world. Genes may also predispose us to a higher toxic burden due to issues with detoxification. Genetics can provide us with a valuable look at our susceptibility to toxins and what we can do to correct genetic variations on an individualized level. Looking even deeper, we now know that the toxicity of stress, negative self-talk, and bad relationships can be just as harmful to our health as a whole, and can also impact the way our hormones function.

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<h4>The Good News</h4>

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Luckily, we can take proactive steps with our hormonal health to ensure a balanced and high-functioning endocrine system.

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Here are my top 10 tips for reducing your toxic burden and taking control of your own hormonal health:

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	<li><strong>Invest in high-quality air and water filters.</strong> These basic components of life can&rsquo;t be underestimated, and the investment will be worth the benefit. Drinking plenty of fresh, clean water is essential for our detoxification mechanisms to work their best (and it helps us look good, too).</li>
	<li><strong>Ditch plastics and cook clean.</strong> Opt for stainless steel or glass for storing food and beverages, and if you have to buy canned goods look for those labeled BPA-free. It&rsquo;s also important to use clean cookware without nonstick coatings like Teflon to avoid other undesirable chemicals. Stainless steel and ceramic coated pots and pans are safer options.</li>
	<li><strong>Explore holistic dentistry.</strong> If you have amalgam fillings, consider looking for a holistic or biologic dentist to remove them. Do your research to make sure they use the correct safety precautions like proper ventilation and dental damming, otherwise, it could do more harm than good. It&rsquo;s easy to find fluoride-free toothpaste&mdash;that&rsquo;s an incredibly easy swap that can help your health in multiple ways.</li>
	<li><strong>Get outside in the sunshine each morning.</strong> Not only does this support optimal levels of vitamin D, which regulates both your hormones and immune system, but it also supports the production of antioxidant and sleep-supporting melatonin.</li>
	<li><strong>Limit exposure to electromagnetic frequencies (EMFs).</strong> Signals produced by Wi-Fi, cell phones, TVs, computers, and other electronic devices can decrease the activity of endocrine organs. Put your phone on airplane mode at night, turn off the Wi-Fi router when you&rsquo;re not using it, and get an EMF protection pad to use underneath your laptop to limit your exposure.</li>
	<li><strong>Eat organic, pasture-raised, high-fiber, real food.</strong> Choosing organic food protects us from the dangers of agricultural chemicals. When it comes to animal products like meat, eggs, and dairy, choose organic, pasture-raised, or grass-fed to avoid harmful synthetic hormones and get a more nutrient-dense product. Along those same lines, it&rsquo;s essential to eat foods in their most natural and wholesome form, especially plants. Consume plenty of fiber to ensure your body removes toxins efficiently. Bonus points for eating broccoli&mdash;this provides beneficial compounds like calcium d-glucarate that helps bind and eliminate excess estrogen.</li>
	<li><strong>Sweat and move every day.</strong> Sweating through exercise and the use of infrared saunas is extremely detoxifying, helping to offset the many physical insults we&rsquo;re exposed to. My favorite ways to get moving are Zumba, dance, and rebounding to support lymphatic flow and effective detoxification. Be aware, though, that over-exercising (CrossFit every single day) can increase stress hormones and negatively impact sex hormones, leading to hypothalamic amenorrhea (a loss of your period) and infertility.</li>
	<li><strong>Love your body with massage, acupuncture, and dry brushing.</strong> Massage and acupuncture can improve circulation throughout the entire body and increase blood flow to the uterus and ovaries&mdash;which helps to release toxins. Acupuncture can target specific endocrine organs to help correct imbalances. Dry brushing is something you can do at home to get the same benefits; simply use a natural bristle dry brush and, starting at your feet, use broad overlapping strokes on each part of the body, working upwards and always brushing toward the heart.</li>
	<li><strong>Use herbs and supplements as needed.</strong> Hormonal testing can reveal individualized needs to help us best correct imbalances. For example, someone who is estrogen dominant could benefit from diindolylmethane, or DIM, derived from cruciferous vegetables which will help with estrogen metabolism. Someone in need of more follicle stimulating hormone, luteinizing hormone, and progesterone may benefit from taking an herb called vitex. Magnesium can be helpful for reducing high levels of cortisol and the citrate form is particularly helpful for moving the bowels to eliminate toxins.</li>
	<li><strong>Rest, meditate, and sleep.</strong> Taking downtime is essential for your overall well-being, as it lets you calm the nervous system, reduce stress hormones, and cultivate hormonal balance. Meditation is one way to restore yourself to a calm and peaceful place&mdash;even just a few minutes a day of eyes closed and deep breathing can work wonders. Earthing is another great stress reliever, too. This simply involves getting outside in nature with your bare feet on the ground in order to shift your energy and circadian rhythm for deeper, more restful sleep. Of course, sleep plays a super special role in allowing the brain to detoxify, while also calming stress hormones, balancing hunger hormones, and improving mood. If you&rsquo;re struggling to get good sleep, try wearing blue-light blocking glasses at the computer or when you&rsquo;re watching TV to protect your body&rsquo;s natural melatonin production. It&rsquo;s also helpful to create a nightly bedtime ritual and get into the same sleep/wake cycle every day.</li>
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These steps will help you regulate the function of the entire endocrine system (including the thyroid, adrenal glands, and ovaries), enhance the function of the liver and gallbladder to process toxins, and boost the digestive system to remove toxins and excess hormones.

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<div class="author f6"><strong>Dr. Afrouz Demehri has been helping women since 2007 using a whole-person, root-cause approach. A pioneer in changing medicine, she is the director of functional medicine at the University of California, Irvine.</strong>

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</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-ways-to-correct-your-hormonal-imbalance</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-ways-to-correct-your-hormonal-imbalance#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 9 Jul 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Your Passion: It&apos;s As Close As the End of Your Nose</title><description><![CDATA[<em><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sarah Susanka</a> is an inspirational public speaker, spiritual teacher, acclaimed architect, and best-selling author of the nine-book </em>Not So Big<em> series.</em>
<h2>1440: Why is it so important for us to listen to what inspires us?</h2>
<em>Sarah:</em> When we do something that we are passionate about, we are vastly more likely to be present in its doing. A lot of people get hung up on the idea: &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t know what my passion is, so I can&rsquo;t do all these wonderful things that everybody else is doing.&rdquo; You can.

<p>It&rsquo;s not that you have to have the passion in place before you can engage. Passion is just a pointer to an activity where you are most likely to be present in what you&rsquo;re doing&mdash;to really be there simply because you love that thing and so you&rsquo;re completely engaged.&nbsp;It&rsquo;s really the being there that matters, not the passion itself.</p>

<p>I often tell people, &ldquo;You could be cleaning bathrooms and be completely present in that and loving every moment of it.&rdquo; Most of us don&rsquo;t think of bathrooms in that way, but it&rsquo;s absolutely possible! The word passion indicates a full engagement or wholeheartedness, the wholeheartedness of being in the moment of whatever is happening. You could say it&rsquo;s more about the process of being in what&rsquo;s happening than the specific content of what you&rsquo;re doing.</p>

<h2>1440: What if you don&rsquo;t know what your passion is?</h2>
<em>Sarah:</em> It&rsquo;s often something that you couldn&rsquo;t get a job doing, so we frequently miss it because we&rsquo;re thinking in terms of a job. I work with someone who is absolutely present for every conversation anyone has with her. She loves conversations and being connected through words, and she does it brilliantly. For a long time she would say, &ldquo;Sarah, I don&rsquo;t know what my passion is!&rdquo; But you can see what it is when you&rsquo;re there with her because she absolutely comes alive in those conversations. She lights up.

<h2>1440: So we are actually looking for a state of being as opposed to a vocation?</h2>

<p><em>Sarah:</em> That&rsquo;s it. And the part of us that wants to find that state of being is actually in the way of us finding it. The part of your personality that is hunting for answers to questions like, &ldquo;What&rsquo;s my passion?&rdquo; or &ldquo;How can I be more present in what I&rsquo;m doing?&rdquo; is preventing you from being there. It&rsquo;s really paradoxical, but that seeking is what&rsquo;s obstructing what&rsquo;s actually happening from coming into your awareness.</p>

<p><span class="quote">We each have a collection of ideas about ourselves and we&rsquo;ve mistaken that for who we really are.</span></p>

<p>That part that wants to figure it out has to get out of the way so that true living can happen. It&rsquo;s happening all the time, but the part that&rsquo;s struggling to get it right or follow the rules or find somebody that can tell you what to do is actually in the way of just being here, so you don&rsquo;t notice what&rsquo;s right in front of you. We call it &ldquo;nose-esitis.&rdquo; It&rsquo;s right at the end of your nose&mdash;it&rsquo;s really hard to see, but it&rsquo;s right there in front of you when you stop looking for it.</p>

<p>Sarah Susanka will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Not So Big Life</a> from May 18 &ndash; 20, 2018, at 1440 Multiversity.</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/your-passion-its-as-close-as-the-end-of-your-nose</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/your-passion-its-as-close-as-the-end-of-your-nose#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Your Ego Is Not the Problem: A Conversation with Panache Desai</title><description><![CDATA[<div class="cta" style="float: right; width: 260px; margin-left: 7px; text-align: center;">Join <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Panache Desai</a> for<br />
<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Y</a><a href="https://www.1440.org/">ou Are Enough: Discovering a Life without Limits</a><br />
from April 17 &ndash; 19, 2020</div>
<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Panache Desai</a>, author of <em>Discovering Your Soul Signature,</em> is a transformation catalyst and inspirational thought leader who guides people to their authentic, essential nature. He&rsquo;s <a href="https://www.oprah.com/own-super-soul-sunday/soul-to-soul-with-panache-desai-video">appeared with Oprah Winfrey</a>&nbsp;on the Emmy Award-winning series <em>Super Soul Sunday</em>, and was a featured speaker for the United Nations Enlightenment Society. He has collaborated with many renowned spiritual teachers, including Deepak Chopra, Michael Bernard Beckwith, Elizabeth Lesser, and Ram Dass.

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<h2>1440: You had an early spiritual awakening and became a teacher at a young age. How has it been to &ldquo;grow up&rdquo; in that position?</h2>

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<em>Panache Desai:</em> At the age of 23 or 24, I had a direct experience of the divine in its absolute form. I&rsquo;ve been on a 14-year path of integration since then.

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<span class="quote">What I&rsquo;ve discovered is the less afraid I am to be myself, the more powerfully my life expresses itself. There&rsquo;s a direct correlation between the degree to which I&rsquo;m willing to commit to being who I am and the degree to which my life works. </span>

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My own journey has been one of freeing myself of things from the past that no longer serve me, from old ideas and beliefs, constructs, hurts, and limitations that were getting in the way of my essence emerging. Surprisingly, it&rsquo;s not been a journey of dissolving the ego, but one of facilitating egoic transparency. We all have an ego, but it doesn&rsquo;t have to run the show. When you embrace its role and function, it&rsquo;s no longer a limitation or a liability.

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<h2>1440: That sounds like the opposite of many spiritual teachings which encourage the stripping away of the ego, right?</h2>

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<em>Panache Desai:</em> The common misconception is that enlightenment means the death or destruction of the ego. It doesn&rsquo;t mean that at all. Actually, what&rsquo;s happening is you move into greater levels of egoic transparency. The egoic structure continues to exist, but the light of the soul is fully reflected through it.

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We need a certain level of ego in order to remain tethered to this reality. In the absence of that, we would just leave our bodies.

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<span class="quote">When we see our ego, meet ourselves with compassion and empathy, and embrace who we are, we start to naturally become transparent, meaning we start to live in alignment with our authentic selves. </span>

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And that process then leads to us being able to receive life in a greater and more dynamic way.

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<h2>1440: So who are we if we&rsquo;re not our ego?</h2>

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<em>Panache Desai:</em> The authentic self of every human being is love, is God. Who you really are is that. The only journey that anyone is on is the journey back to that love, back to being that again. That&rsquo;s really what&rsquo;s happening now: people are being returned to that love.

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When you&rsquo;ve experienced who you really are, you realize that there&rsquo;s a utility and a function for everything, including the ego. But transformation isn&rsquo;t egoic adaptation.

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<span class="quote">There are a lot of people who hide in spirituality on an egoic level. It&rsquo;s not about that. It&rsquo;s about allowing yourself to continue to evolve and having the courage to continue to connect in deeper and deeper ways with yourself. </span>

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<h2>1440: If I were to say, &ldquo;I&rsquo;m an extremely responsible person, I always have been,&rdquo; would you say that&rsquo;s the ego even though it feels like a truth about myself and who I am?</h2>

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<em>Panache Desai:</em> That&rsquo;s right. In Western spiritual paradigms the relationship levels are &ldquo;I am this,&rdquo; &ldquo;I am not that,&rdquo; and &ldquo;I am.&rdquo; All of these are limited points of experiencing. The truth of who you are is &ldquo;I,&rdquo; which is absolute. &ldquo;I am&rdquo; is being. And &ldquo;I am that&rdquo; is identification with form.

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<span class="quote">My role has been to facilitate your return to &ldquo;I,&rdquo; to who you are in your absolute form. Before the conditioning, before the life experiences, before the illusion was superimposed over the truth. </span>

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And that&rsquo;s something that most people don&rsquo;t have access to. Many spiritual people focus on &ldquo;I am,&rdquo; on being. But they don&rsquo;t understand that there&rsquo;s a layer beyond being. And that&rsquo;s the place of truth. That&rsquo;s the place of authenticity. That&rsquo;s the place of connection.

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Panache Desai will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Y</a><a href="https://www.1440.org/">ou Are Enough: Discovering a Life</a><a href="https://www.1440.org/"> Without Limits</a> from April 17 &ndash; 19, 2020 at 1440 Multiversity.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/your-ego-is-not-the-problem-a-conversation-with-panache-desai</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/your-ego-is-not-the-problem-a-conversation-with-panache-desai#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>You Are Whole All By Yourself</title><description><![CDATA[<em>&ldquo;You have to love yourself before someone else will ever love you.&rdquo;</em>
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This is a lie that has turned into a clich&eacute; and a meme that is accepted as sage wisdom and sets everyone up for failure and disappointment.&nbsp;Where to begin dismantling this?

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&ldquo;If I am not in a relationship, that must be my fault. I need to get my shit together completely before I am with someone. (Impossible.) If I loved myself in the right way/enough someone would love me, but they don&rsquo;t, so I am a failure, which makes me hate myself, so I will always be alone as punishment.&rdquo; Spin. Repeat.

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The world is full of people who hate themselves and who have never not been in a relationship, so that kind of blows that theory out of the water. Do they have the kind of relationship I would want to have? Debatable.&nbsp;My concern is that the &ldquo;loving yourself&rdquo; credo has been put into motion solely in the hopes of a payoff of finding someone else rather than of actually loving yourself.&nbsp;Loving yourself must be the end game, not a bargaining chip for getting someone else.

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<span class="quote">You are the love of your life. The one you have been waiting for. You. Period. </span>

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There is no one else, now or coming in the future. You are spending the entirety of your life with yourself, that is a given, so why wouldn&rsquo;t you put time, energy, attention, and care into that relationship.

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Sure there are lots of other wonderful people that may move through your life. Friends, lovers, spouses, collaborators. They will be important, influential, supportive, deserving of your love and respect and devotion, but they are not your other half. They will not fix you or complete you.

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<strong>You are whole all by yourself.</strong>

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Women fall for this myth the hardest. Fear of dying alone, of being a cardigan-wearing cat-lady hoarder, who shares Fancy Feast with 15 feral feline companions. &ldquo;Why aren&rsquo;t you with someone? Aren&rsquo;t you lonely? Be careful, if you are single too long, you will forget how to compromise who you are to make someone else happy.&rdquo;

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<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://1440.org/">Blake Bauer</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">July 6 - 8, 2018</div>
All forms of suffering are logical cries from your body, soul, and subconscious mind asking you to finally love, value, forgive, and be true to yourself in the present. Join international best-selling author Blake D. Bauer for a retreat based...</div>

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I just read a powerful article by Lena Dunham about being alone after a breakup, that had me nodding my head so much in agreement, I strained my neck. The line that made my heart skip, was this: &ldquo;this pure and fiery solitude, is the time in which women form themselves&mdash;and that a patriarchal society has removed that privilege from us through the threat of eternal loneliness as a penance for the sin of loving yourself.&rdquo;

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Society has told us that the saddest thing imaginable is not being a couple, and that you are only half of something, incomplete if you are single.

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<span class="quote">I love being single. Not because I want to keep my options open, or date a lot, or I am afraid of having a relationship, but because I genuinely love my own company. </span>

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Solo. First and foremost. I find utter contentment in living alone. I have a roommate I share a kitchen with who is as much of a soloist as I am. Yes, I have two cats. No, I do not own a cardigan.

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There was a time where I loved being part of a couple. Sharing a home and a life and a world with someone else. It was great. I cherish that time and the person I was with.

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I also do not feel compelled to do that again.

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It is not an either-or situation, either you are alone or you are with someone, and one is not better than the other. Personally, I prefer living alone and not being part of a couple. It feels the opposite of lonely. It feels expansive to me. I caution you not to tolerate or make the best of being single until the real thing comes along.

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<ul>
	<li>You are the real thing.</li>
	<li>You are the main thing.</li>
	<li>Savor that.</li>
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Fling yourself completely into that love affair. That is the relationship of and for a lifetime, and anything else is just sprinkles on top.

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<div class="author f6">Jodeen Revere revels in her unconventional, multifaceted dream life. She is an actor, a writer, Thai yoga massage therapist, creative movement and dance enthusiast, and RYT-200 yoga teacher currently on an endless sabbatical. She writes a <a href="https://jodeenrevere.wordpress.com">blog chronicling her cancertastic adventures</a>.&nbsp;She loves writing, reading, viewing and heatedly discussing film, eating really good snacks, and chillin&rsquo; with her cats, Julian and Tilda. She is a kind and good-natured smart ass. She is very funny. Just ask her. Her favorite human, ever, is her daughter, Lily.</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/you-are-whole-all-by-yourself</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/you-are-whole-all-by-yourself#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>You Are Not a Self-Improvement Project</title><description><![CDATA[Recently I was leading a women&rsquo;s self-renewal retreat on the east coast for type A go-getters who love to excel at everything they tackle. When I shared about my self-care journey&mdash;a recovering perfectionist, oldest of seven, overachieving control freak who didn&rsquo;t learn to befriend myself until around age 35&mdash;a woman in our circle piped up.&nbsp;She lamented that she&rsquo;s read three books on self-care, but keeps &ldquo;failing&rdquo; at getting in shape after going through a tough year as a caregiver to her mother.
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Her story got me thinking how so many people I meet have a misguided sense about the concept of self-care.

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<span class="quote"> I often hear a lot of &ldquo;shoulds,&rdquo; and many women I meet confess they downright suck at self-care. </span>

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As a life balance coach/teacher, I have studied, explored, and taught self-care to men and women for more than 20 years, and I can wholeheartedly share that self-care is NOT about:

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&bull; Fixing yourself or turning yourself into a self-improvement project<br />
&bull; Trying to become a better person who &ldquo;has it all together&rdquo; or who keeps their New Year&rsquo;s resolutions<br />
&bull; Being perfect or doing what our parents, friends, or the media say we should do to be our best (for example: going gluten-free or having a flat stomach)<br />
&bull; Striving to be worthy through accomplishing more or adhering to society&rsquo;s list of &ldquo;shoulds&rdquo; around parenting, relationships, or (fill in the blank)<br />
&bull; Spending a bunch of money on services or products that are supposed to make us more fit, beautiful, smart, etc.
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Self-care isn&rsquo;t a goal you strive for. And it&rsquo;s not about becoming YOU Version 2.0.&nbsp;It&rsquo;s about meeting yourself where you are with a soft and open heart. It&rsquo;s believing &ldquo;my ordinary self is enough.&rdquo; It&rsquo;s feeling safe enough to show up in the world 100 percent you and inherently giving others permission to do the same.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>New Way of Being </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Ren&eacute;e Peterson Trudeau</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">October 4 - 6, 2019</div>
For women of all ages and life stages. Do you long to reconnect with who you are? Are you in the midst of a transition? Do you crave quiet reflection, rest, and renewal? Internationally recognized transformational coach Ren&eacute;e Peterson Trudeau...

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Self-care is about attuning and responding to your needs and desires moment to moment. It&rsquo;s about forgiving yourself when you make a mistake, being compassionate with yourself when you bump up against your faults, and treating yourself with the same love and tenderness you would have for a four-year-old who has had a really hard day. It&rsquo;s not about adding something to your to-do list or cracking the whip.

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<span class="quote"> The true art of self-renewal is about cultivating a kinder, gentler relationship with yourself and asking for the nurturing and nourishment you need&mdash;whether that&rsquo;s a hug or a kale smoothie. </span>

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It&rsquo;s knowing that YOU have your back. And that no matter what you say, do, or flub, you will not abandon yourself.

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Ren&eacute;e Peterson Trudeau taught &ldquo;Embracing the Wild Unknown&rdquo; in April of 2018 at 1440 Multiversity.

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<strong>Life balance speaker and author <a href="https://www.ReneeTrudeau.com">Ren&eacute;e Peterson Trudeau</a> has been creating transformational events for women for more than 25 years. Her work has appeared in&nbsp;the <em>New York Times</em>, <em>Good Housekeeping</em>, <em>Spirituality &amp; Health</em>,&nbsp;and more. Hundreds of women in more than 10 countries are becoming&nbsp;RTA-Certified Facilitators&nbsp;and leading self-renewal groups based on Ren&eacute;e&rsquo;s award-winning curriculum.&nbsp; She is the author of three best-selling books on self-care, including&nbsp;<em>The Mother&rsquo;s Guide to Self-Renewal</em>. She lives in Austin, Texas, with her husband and teenage son.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/you-are-not-a-self-improvement-project</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/you-are-not-a-self-improvement-project#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Why We Need Mindfulness at Work</title><description><![CDATA[<h2><em>Peter Jaret of <a href="https://www.berkeleywellness.com/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Berkeley Wellness</a> interviews&nbsp;<a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/author/jason_marsh" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Jason Marsh,</a>&nbsp;director of programs for the Greater Good Science Center, about the benefits of mindfulness at work.</em></h2>

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<h2><strong>Peter Jaret: First, what exactly is mindfulness?</strong></h2>

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<strong>Jason Marsh:</strong> <a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/topic/mindfulness/definition" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Mindfulness</a> describes a moment-to-moment awareness of your thoughts, feelings, and bodily sensations. It&rsquo;s a state of being attuned to what&rsquo;s going on in your body and in the surrounding environment&mdash;being in the present moment without thinking about the future or what happened in the past. An essential component of mindfulness is acceptance. Whatever you&rsquo;re thinking and feeling at that moment is neither right nor wrong. You notice it, and accept it, and move onto the next moment without getting caught up in judging what you&rsquo;re thinking or feeling.

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<h2><strong>PJ: How is mindfulness different from meditation?</strong></h2>

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<strong>JM:</strong> They&rsquo;re practically synonymous but they&rsquo;re not exactly the same. <a href="https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/mindful_breathing#data-tab-how" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Mindfulness meditation</a> is one form of meditation, but it&rsquo;s not the only form. And formal meditation is one way to practice mindfulness, but it&rsquo;s not the only way. Once you learn mindfulness skills, you can practice them at almost any moment of the day&mdash;sitting at your computer, stuck in traffic, even eating. In fact, there has been a lot of interest in promoting <a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/tips_for_mindful_eating_over_the_holidays" rel="noopener" target="_blank">mindful eating</a> as a way to help people be more aware of what they eat, to enjoy each bite more, and even to control how much they eat. And there&rsquo;s also growing interest in using the practice of mindfulness in the workplace to provide a buffer against stress.

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<h2><strong>PJ: Let&rsquo;s talk about mindfulness in the workplace. What are the benefits?</strong></h2>

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<strong>JM:</strong> There are many. Some of the earliest studies, which involved the Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction program founded by Jon Kabat-Zinn at the University of Massachusetts Medical School, showed that mindfulness can help ease stress. Mindfulness fosters positive emotions and helps provide resilience against negative experiences. There&rsquo;s also evidence that the practice of mindfulness promotes empathy and a sense of compassion.

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Indeed, brain imaging research <a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/a_little_meditation_goes_a_long_way/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">shows</a> that a half hour of mindfulness meditation a day increases the density of gray matter in parts of the brain associated with memory, stress, and empathy. Finally, mindfulness seems to increase concentration and focus. Research looking specifically at mindfulness in the workplace is relatively new. But there&rsquo;s good reason to think it makes employees more satisfied and less stressed. A <a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/three_benefits_to_mindfulness_at_work" rel="noopener" target="_blank">2014 study</a> of employees at the Dow Chemical Company, for instance, showed that mindfulness training increased vigor, lowered stress, and gave employees a greater sense of resiliency. Preliminary studies suggest that a program in mindfulness also can increase productivity and reduce the number of sick days.

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<h2><strong>PJ: Are there specific health benefits to mindfulness practice?</strong></h2>

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<strong>JM:</strong> An early, small study <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12883106" rel="noopener" target="_blank">suggests</a> that mindfulness may help boost the immune system. By serving as a buffer against stress, mindfulness may also lower the risk of heart disease. A 2015 study looked at people who score high on a mindfulness awareness test, and <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/25339282" rel="noopener" target="_blank">found</a> that they had a healthier cardiovascular risk profile than people with lower scores. One small pilot program also found that mindfulness training helped decrease depression.

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<h2><strong>PJ: How is mindfulness practice taught?</strong></h2>

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<strong>JM:</strong> There are many different approaches, from apps that provide audio of guided meditations to on-site workplace training programs run by outside facilitators. A growing number of companies are offering mindfulness workshops. The earliest model, developed by Kabat-Zinn, is an eight-week course run by a trained facilitator, with mindfulness exercises that participants practice on their own. But people can learn mindfulness on their own. Simply learning to focus your attention on your breathing in the present moment is a big part of mindfulness. At a new website we&rsquo;ve created, called Greater Good in Action, we offer <a href="https://ggia.berkeley.edu/#filters=mindfulness" rel="noopener" target="_blank">several step-by-step guides</a> to mindfulness practices.

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<h2><strong>PJ: What kinds of companies are taking an interest in mindfulness training?</strong></h2>

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<strong>JM:</strong> Here in the San Francisco Bay area, we&rsquo;re seeing growing interest. Initially, that was among tech and social media companies. Google has been a pioneer in providing mindfulness practice training for its employees. In fact, an engineer at Google first instituted a mindfulness training program there, which has now become the <a href="https://siyli.org/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Search Inside Yourself Leadership Institute,</a>&nbsp;offering mindfulness training for companies around the world. Facebook has its own in-house mindfulness program. Pixar, the animation company, recently set aside a meditation room where employees can go to practice mindfulness. Nationally, General Mills, Ford, insurance giant Aetna and other more traditional companies have also started to offer mindfulness training programs. So have financial firms like Goldman Sachs and BlackRock.

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<h2><strong>PJ: Some tech companies have been criticized for harsh working conditions. Could mindfulness training become a &ldquo;Band-Aid&rdquo; fix to serious workplace problems?</strong></h2>

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<strong>JM:</strong> I think that&rsquo;s definitely a risk. But given that stress is a reality in many people&rsquo;s working lives, I think mindfulness can be an effective tool to buffer its negative effects. And ideally, mindfulness may even help change workplaces for the better. Research suggests that mindfulness training helps make people more <a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/meditation_causes_compassionate_action" rel="noopener" target="_blank">compassionate</a> and <a href="https://pss.sagepub.com/content/early/2013/05/20/0956797612469537.abstract" rel="noopener" target="_blank">empathetic</a> toward others. By improving the way people relate to one another, ideally it can change corporate culture for the better, creating a more supportive, friendlier workplace with better relationships. In many organizations, there are bigger, systemic changes that need to be made, but I don&rsquo;t think that instituting a mindfulness program will prevent those changes from happening. At the least, a mindfulness program provides workers with some relief from stress and anxiety while they campaign for systemic changes; at best, it helps to catalyze those bigger systemic changes.

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<h2><strong>PJ: What advice would you offer someone who works in a company that doesn&rsquo;t offer mindfulness training?</strong></h2>

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<strong>JM:</strong>You can start by learning how to practice mindfulness yourself, perhaps by taking a class, checking out a mindfulness app, or reading a book with instructions. If you&rsquo;re happy with the benefits, you can <a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/five_tips_for_launching_a_meditation_program_at_work" rel="noopener" target="_blank">build a community</a> at work by telling your co-workers. If it&rsquo;s appropriate, you can approach human resource or training departments to see if they have any interest in sponsoring workshops or providing a quiet place where people can go to practice mindfulness.

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<h2><strong>PJ: How do you use mindfulness training at the Greater Good Science Center?</strong></h2>

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<strong>JM:</strong> We had the idea a few years ago to institute five minutes of silent meditation before staff meetings. People were enthusiastic about the idea, and we&rsquo;ve been doing it ever since. It helps people have a break with whatever they were doing before the meeting, and to focus their thoughts and respond to one another in a way that&rsquo;s more thoughtful and respectful.

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<h2><em>This story originally appeared on Greater Good, the online magazine of the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley. For more, visit <a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Greater Good online.</a></em></h2>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-we-need-mindfulness-at-work</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-we-need-mindfulness-at-work#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>What I Learned from Saying No</title><description><![CDATA[We&rsquo;ve been sold a bill of goods recently about saying &ldquo;yes.&rdquo;
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Just do it.<br />
Be adventurous.<br />
Have the experiences.<br />
Say &ldquo;yes!&rdquo; to life.<br />
Carpe blah, blah, blah.
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This is all fine in theory, but somehow it has gone awry.

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There is a big difference between opening yourself up to challenges/getting out of your comfort zone and running balls-out on the Hamster Wheel of Doing&mdash;which gets you exhausted but absolutely nowhere.

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Last year, between episodes two and three of breast cancer, I went on a bender of saying &ldquo;yes.&rdquo; It seemed healthy and life affirming and not spurred by fear, but by a delight in being alive, and saying &ldquo;Yes, why not?&rdquo; I&rsquo;m here, why not do all of the things?

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My Thursday looked like this:&nbsp;

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	<li>Coffee with a friend at 8:30</li>
	<li>Teach a class at 10:00</li>
	<li>Take a barre class at noon</li>
	<li>Lunch with someone else at 1:30</li>
	<li>Massage client at 3:00</li>
	<li>Meet with a student at 5:00</li>
	<li>Teach at 7:00</li>
	<li>Tango at 9:00</li>
	<li>Go out for drinks at 11:00.</li>
	<li>Be a mentor? Sure. Sub your classes? Absolutely. Volunteer? Indeed. See every art event that rolls through town. Commit to every single social opportunity that presents itself. Check.
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	<span class="quote">You want to seize the day, but it&rsquo;s not healthy to run frantically from moment to moment.</span>

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	Are you saying &ldquo;yes&rdquo; to tasks and obligations or to experience? Are the experiences a &ldquo;hell yeah!&rdquo; or merely a &ldquo;why not?&rdquo;

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	Even in my case, I was discovering that although I was taking on positive, fun, and entertaining experiences, it was still too much to digest.

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	<span class="quote">Too much is too much.</span>

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	Gorging on fabulousness is still gluttony. It will leave you bloated and jonesing for more.

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	I love the old Buddhist adage, &ldquo;Don&rsquo;t just do something, sit there.&rdquo;

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	During my treatment I let all of the yessing fall away. I spent the entire summer on my front porch futon, reading books, napping, going for slow walks around the neighborhood, and watching the clouds roll across the sky. Listening to birds, watching the squirrels flash through the trees, cats curled up at my feet. People brought me food. My world got small and insular, yet rich and fascinating beyond measure. I referred to it as my North End Bell Jar. (Not the Sylvia Plath kind.)

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	I had no interest in going anywhere or even particularly interacting with people. Not because I was depressed or self-conscious or feeling unwell.

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	<span class="quote">I simply needed to say &ldquo;hell yeah!&rdquo; to being still.</span>

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	I was so content. I wasn&rsquo;t missing or longing for anything at all. My social media time was scaled way back, I had stopped posting my weekly newsletter, and I was not teaching or doing bodywork. Living very simply on a nest egg I was fortunate enough to have. I have never felt better. I think I might be on to something.

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	Yet, too much stillness can make one bloated and sluggish.

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	Treatment is over, I am reentering my working world and staying attentive to how I operate. It is not the way I used to. Pausing to take a breath before I make a decision or say yes or no to someone or something. Making my &ldquo;no&rdquo; neither apologetic nor contrary.

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	<span class="quote">Allowing my &ldquo;no&rdquo; to be just as positive and affirming as my &ldquo;yes.&rdquo;</span>

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	<strong>Jodeen Revere revels in her unconventional, multifaceted dream life. She is an actor, a writer, Thai yoga massage therapist, creative movement and dance enthusiast, and RYT-200 yoga teacher currently on an endless sabbatical. She writes <a href="https://jodeenrevere.wordpress.com/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">a blog chronicling her cancertastic adventures.</a>&nbsp;She loves writing, reading, viewing and heatedly discussing film, eating really good snacks, and chillin&rsquo; with her cats Julian and Tilda. She is a kind and good-natured smart ass. She is very funny. Just ask her. Her favorite human, ever, is her daughter, Lily.</strong></li>
</ul>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-i-learned-from-saying-no</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-i-learned-from-saying-no#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>What I Learned From Falling Into the Creek</title><description><![CDATA[Imagine how it feels to be born.&nbsp; One moment you&rsquo;re nice and cozy, in a space that feels safe, secure, and comfortable. Then you&rsquo;re jarred from womb to world.
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I have a feeling that being born takes zero thought. Sure, Mama is thinking (and yelling), but for Baby? There is no thought, only the sweet slip-and-slide into the roaring circle of life.

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Moving from grounded safety into slippery-no-thought happened to me at the tender age of mid-30s (yes, that&rsquo;s as specific as I go). My slip into deeper meaning appeared in the final moments of a gorgeous five-day retreat.&nbsp;(If you haven&rsquo;t heard of 1440 in the heart of Scotts Valley, surrounded by ancient redwoods and powerful, feel-good energy, I suggest you Google the place. Immediately.)

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I had just finished assisting my husband with teaching a five-day course about Eastern medicine and qigong, an ancient healing practice that combines movement, breath, and visualization.

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&ldquo;One last picture,&rdquo; I told him as we stood over a creek on a lovely bridge. I wanted to get the perfect picture of him &ldquo;Pulling Down the Heavens.&rdquo; The backdrop was perfect: cascading waterfall, gurgling creek, swaying redwoods. Perfection.

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Yet, no matter how my beloved tried to get into my frame, he was either blurry or not quite picture-perfect. So, I took a step back. And then another. And then&hellip;splash.

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I am over the railing, off the bridge, and splattered in the stream!

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Some people make lemonade from lemons. Here&rsquo;s what I make from falling in Schitt&rsquo;s Creek without a paddle.

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<strong>Be aware of your surroundings.&nbsp;</strong>Everything can change in an instance. Change is constant. Do your best to stay grounded about where you are physically, mentally, and spiritually. Rather than looking for perfection (e.g., the perfect picture/post/memory) appreciate and savor moments that bring you into the present with ease and joy.

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<strong>When offered loving help, accept loving help.&nbsp;</strong>My husband wanted to help before, during, and after my fall. He didn&rsquo;t let me go until he knew I was on steady ground inside and outside. That&rsquo;s love. And that&rsquo;s me loving myself too. I knew by accepting his helping hand, he could pull me up. He had the desire and the strength&hellip;and the hysterical giggles too!

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<strong>Enlightenment feels empty.</strong> Your consciousness is like a container that holds your life experiences and shapes how you perceive the world. When you&rsquo;re born, your consciousness is empty and pure. Enlightenment comes when you&rsquo;re able to empty your mind and restore your mind to its original innocence. If you&rsquo;re able to access that purity and peace by taking one conscious, loving breath, congratulations! You&rsquo;re enlightened in that one fleeting moment. Now repeat. Again and again forever.

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As I look back on that tumble into the roaring circle of life&mdash;life showing up as a beautiful waterfall, a fast-moving creek, and the desire for a perfect picture&mdash;I realize that by becoming careless in my picture taking, I experienced a moment of enlightenment: I had zero thought. I felt only sensation, sound, and a tremendous wave of love and gratitude.

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When I fell in the creek without a paddle or a thought, I was gifted with in-the-moment living that always washes us with the same blessing: deep appreciation for our lives, our loved ones, and this incredible journey called Life.

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<strong>Parisa Shelton is&nbsp;a practitioner, teacher, and student of the healing arts. She&rsquo;s spent the past 11 years doing what she loves and sharing her blessings with clients wanting to transform their health, healing, and overall happiness. Parisa is a certified Pilates, yoga, and qigong teacher dedicated to reshaping the way Americans view healthcare and self-care by sharing ancient and holistic tools that relieve stress, reduce pain, and inspire happiness. Parisa accompanied her husband, master healer Chris Shelton from Morning Crane Healing Arts Center in San Jose and LA, to 1440&rsquo;s inaugural retreat in January 2018. She can be reached at www.MorningCrane.com.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-i-learned-from-falling-into-the-creek</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-i-learned-from-falling-into-the-creek#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Train Your Brain to Boost Your Immune System</title><description><![CDATA[<h2><em>New research suggests mindfulness can strengthen our natural defenses.</em></h2>
Running half-marathons barefoot in the snow. Climbing mountains while wearing only shorts. Standing in a cylinder filled with 700 kilograms of ice cubes.

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Self-proclaimed &ldquo;Iceman&rdquo; Wim Hof claims that he can do all of these things by influencing his autonomic nervous system (ANS) through concentration and meditation. The &ldquo;Wim Hof Method,&rdquo; is an intensive meditative practice that includes focused concentration, cold water therapy, and breathing techniques. Until recently, the idea that anyone could influence their autonomic nervous system was thought impossible given its assumed &ldquo;involuntary&rdquo; nature. The ANS is the system that controls all of our internal organs and regulates body functions like digestion, blood flow, and pupil dilation.

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Our brains also use the ANS to communicate to our immune system, which might explain another of the Iceman&rsquo;s recent feats: suppressing his immune response after being dosed with an endotoxin (a bacteria), which in most people leads to flu-like symptoms and high levels of inflammation in the body. When researchers looked at the Iceman&rsquo;s inflammatory markers after being exposed, they discovered the markers were low, and his immune response was 50% lower than other healthy volunteers. Basically, he showed very few signs of infection.

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Hof is definitely a statistical outlier, though one recent study followed students trained in his method. Apparently, they <a href="https://www.pnas.org/content/111/20/7379.abstract" rel="noopener" target="_blank">replicated Hof&rsquo;s results</a> and experienced no symptoms after being injected with Escherichia coli, a bacteria that normally induces violent sickness.

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So, outlier though he may be, researchers are intrigued by the mounting evidence showing that mindfulness has a positive impact on our immune system.

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<h2>The Floating Brain: Our Best Defense</h2>
The immune system is one of the most critical purveyors of our physical wellness. It&rsquo;s our defense system, our armed forces that work to protect us from foreign invaders like viruses or bacteria. It is so precisely designed that it can distinguish between harmful unwanted pathogens and our own healthy cells and tissue.

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<span class="quote">When our immune system struggles, it&rsquo;s like a welcome sign for infection and disease. </span>

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It is so wise that the immune system has even been referred to as our &ldquo;floating brain,&rdquo; aptly named for its ability to communicate with the brain through chemical messages that float around inside our body. This means that if our immune system is weakened, perhaps as a result of chronic stress or invading pathogens, our whole body system won&rsquo;t operate as usual. When our immune system struggles, it&rsquo;s like a welcome sign for infection and disease.

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<h2>Mindfulness and the Immune System</h2>
Beyond the Iceman&rsquo;s superhuman experiences, there is increasing evidence that mindfulness meditation does impact our immune system.

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A recent and <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/26799456" rel="noopener" target="_blank">groundbreaking review</a> looked at 20 randomized control trials examining the effects of mindfulness meditation on the immune system. In reviewing the research, the authors found that mindfulness meditation:

<ul>
	<li>Reduced markers of inflammation, high levels of which are often correlated with decreased immune functioning and disease.</li>
	<li>Increased number of CD-4 cells, which are the immune system&rsquo;s helper cells that are involved in sending signals to other cells telling them to destroy infections.</li>
	<li>Increased telomerase activity; telomerase help promote the stability of chromosomes and prevent their deterioration (telomerase deterioration leads to cancer and premature aging).</li>
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These results need to be replicated with more rigorous methodology, but they are promising, and potentially pave the way for using mindfulness-based techniques to boost the immune system, enhancing our defense against infection and disease.

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And this isn&rsquo;t the only study showing positive results. In another <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2725018/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">eight-week study</a>, researchers at UCLA had 50 HIV-positive men meditate daily for 30-45 minutes. Doctors found that, compared with a control group, the more training sessions the men attended the higher their CD-4 cell count at the conclusion of the study (remember, CD-4 cells are the immune system&rsquo;s helper cells). This study links mindfulness with a slowing down in CD-4 cell count drop, which is associated with healthier immune system functioning.

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Richard Davidson, esteemed professor at the University of Wisconsin Madison, <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12883106" rel="noopener" target="_blank">also conducted a study</a> investigating whether mindfulness meditation could alter brain and immune function.

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In his study, people were injected with the flu vaccine and were either part of a group receiving mindfulness training or a control group. After eight weeks, the mindfulness group showed greater levels of antibodies available to respond to, and prevent, potential illness.

<h2>Mindfulness Meditation and Possible Mechanisms of Increased Immunity</h2>
It&rsquo;s tempting to get carried away by the implications of the research suggesting that mindfulness can help improve immune functioning. However, the question still remains as to the exact mechanisms involved in the mindfulness-immune system connection. Ask any researcher and they&rsquo;ll tell you they don&rsquo;t know yet. Some possibilities have been suggested, and it is likely that a convergence of all of these play a role. Here I present three possible ideas:

<ul>
	<li><strong>Decreased Stress, Increased Emotional Regulation:</strong> It has been confirmed through research that what we think and feel impacts our immune system via chemical messages from the brain. Therefore, stress, negative thinking styles, and certain emotional states can have a negative impact upon our immune system, creating an environment increasingly susceptible to disease. Mindfulness&rsquo;s mechanisms toward greater well-being are complex and multifold, but practice is implicated in decreased stress, decreased&nbsp;<a href="https://www.dovepress.com/articles.php?article_id=22382" rel="noopener" target="_blank">rumination</a>, and increased ability to <a href="https://www.mindful.org/how-meditation-helps-with-difficult-emotions/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">deal with difficult emotions</a>. In this way, practicing mindfulness might stave off impaired immunity.</li>
	<li><strong>Targeted Brain/Immune System Communication:</strong> Another link between mindfulness and the immune system is mindfulness&rsquo;s direct impact upon brain structures responsible for talking to the immune system. More specifically, research indicates that mindfulness meditation increases activity in the prefrontal cortex, right anterior insula, and right hippocampus, the areas of the brain acting as our immune system&rsquo;s command center. When these parts are stimulated through mindfulness, the immune system functions more effectively.</li>
	<li><strong>Activation of the Second Brain (the Gut):</strong> Mindfulness can boost immunity via the gut microbiota. As per <a href="https://www.mindful.org/meet-your-second-brain-the-gut/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">a previous article I wrote here on Mindful</a>, the human body is comprised of trillions of micro-organisms, most of which reside in the gut, which are called the gut microbiota. It turns out that the gut microbiota are key players in the development and maintenance of the immune system; the bacteria in the body that helps distinguish between intruder/foreign microbes vs. those that are endogenous.&nbsp;Studies have shown that stress tips our microbial balance, putting us at risk for dysbiosis, (a shift away from &ldquo;normal&rdquo; gut microbiota diversity), stripping us of one of our prime defenses against infectious disease, not to mention the cascade of reactions that ensue, which potentially wreak havoc on the central nervous system (CNS). Mindfulness-based stress reduction impacts our immune system by helping to maintain healthy gut microbiota diversity that is often upset by stress.</li>
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No matter the exact mechanisms, there is viable evidence that practicing mindfulness meditation helps boost our defense against disease, and fosters wellness. And while we are a long way from this becoming a mainstream treatment practice&mdash;given possible egregious side effects if not done properly and the fact that very few of us can be an Iceman&mdash;this research paves the way for the addition of a new wellness adage: &ldquo;Meditation each day keeps the doctor away.&rdquo;

<h2><em>This article was originally published on&nbsp;<a href="https://mindful.org/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Mindful.org</a>, a non-profit dedicated to inspiring, guiding, and connecting anyone who wants to explore mindfulness. Go <a href="https://www.mindful.org/train-brain-boost-immune-system/" rel="canonical noopener" target="_blank">here</a> to view the original article.</em></h2>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/train-your-brain-to-boost-your-immune-system</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/train-your-brain-to-boost-your-immune-system#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>The Whole Child Approach to Learning: A Conversation with Dr. Dan Siegel and Scott Kriens</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dan Siegel</a>, MD, received his medical degree from Harvard University and is an internationally acclaimed author, educator, and child psychiatrist. The executive director of Mindsight Institute, Dr. Siegel is known for his unique ability to make complicated scientific concepts accessible. Dr. Siegel has addressed diverse audiences, including Google University and the Dalai Lama.
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Listen to&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dr. Dan Siegel</a>&nbsp;and 1440 Cofounder <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Scott Kriens</a>&nbsp;in this fascinating conversation about the great potential for learning when we address the mind and emotions in interactions and educational experiences.

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	<li><a href="https://youtu.be/xta0QsE_zrI?t=1m40s">1:40</a> Looking at the mind, emotions, and educational experiences of kids in K-12</li>
	<li><a href="https://youtu.be/xta0QsE_zrI?t=3m48s">3:48</a> Helping kids to truly learn, not just be taught</li>
	<li><a href="https://youtu.be/xta0QsE_zrI?t=4m13s">4:13</a> Changing STEM to STREAM</li>
	<li><a href="https://youtu.be/xta0QsE_zrI?t=4m55s">4:55</a> The RULER approach to education (from Dr. Marc Brackett of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence)</li>
	<li><a href="https://youtu.be/xta0QsE_zrI?t=318">5:18</a> Dr. Nadine Burke Harris&rsquo;s work on negative child experiences and how they affect development of the whole child into adulthood</li>
	<li><a href="https://youtu.be/xta0QsE_zrI?t=6m52s">6:52</a> The &ldquo;Yes Brain&rdquo; and its connection to science and why it matters so much to the whole child approach to learning</li>
	<li><a href="https://youtu.be/xta0QsE_zrI?t=9m05s">9:05</a> The value of test takers vs. creative thinkers in innovative companies, and how to build resilience and creativity in the children in today&rsquo;s world, i.e. how to cultivate the &ldquo;Yes Brain&rdquo; in kids</li>
	<li><a href="https://youtu.be/xta0QsE_zrI?t=11m39s">11:39</a> The &ldquo;BRIE&rdquo; concept in Dan&rsquo;s book (Balance, Resilience, Insight, Empathy)</li>
	<li><a href="https://youtu.be/xta0QsE_zrI?t=13m45s">13:45</a> &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t have to lose my me in a we&rdquo; (and how to become a &ldquo;mwe&rdquo; instead)</li>
	<li><a href="https://youtu.be/xta0QsE_zrI?t=14m40s">14:50</a> Performance expectations and the tragedy of teen suicide</li>
	<li><a href="https://youtu.be/xta0QsE_zrI?t=16m20s">16:20</a> The futility of the win/lose mindset and what happens in the brain during this process</li>
	<li><a href="https://youtu.be/xta0QsE_zrI?t=19m00s">19:00</a> The brain&rsquo;s reaction to physical threats and social exclusion</li>
	<li><a href="https://youtu.be/xta0QsE_zrI?t=20m18s">20:18</a> &ldquo;How do we develop the rest of ourselves &hellip; and be fully human?&rdquo;</li>
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<div class="blog-img">&nbsp;</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-whole-child-approach-to-learning-a-conversation-with-dr-dan-siegel-and-scott-kriens</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-whole-child-approach-to-learning-a-conversation-with-dr-dan-siegel-and-scott-kriens#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>The Five Body Myths: Blind Alleys That Throw Us Off Course</title><description><![CDATA[Having a good relationship with one&rsquo;s body is clearly important. Yet I know that somehow I lost touch with mine, and I know that I am not alone in this dilemma.
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After several millennia, the Western world has left many of us partially or completely divorced from our body sensations and wisdom. Whatever the reason&mdash;whether we blame Descartes or trace this back to the fall of the ancient goddess traditions and the rise of patriarchy&mdash;the results are the same.

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Many of our religions and spiritual traditions speak of being wary of the body, controlling the body, rising above the body, and most of all, putting the body in a subservient role to the mind. In numerous ways, we are taught the body is &ldquo;less than&rdquo; our thoughts and mental faculties.

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In the thousands of interviews I have conducted and healing sessions I have facilitated over the last three decades, I have seen that this loss of good relationship with the body is pretty universal, and it can cause major mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual problems.

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First and foremost, not feeling connected to our body leaves us very vulnerable. We get anxious even when there is actually nothing to fear. We unknowingly put ourselves in harm&rsquo;s way. We lose out on the opportunities for joy in each moment.

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<span class="quote">If we are not connected to our body&rsquo;s wisdom, we miss inner signals that are vital for surviving and thriving in today&rsquo;s world.</span>

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All of us operate from a variety of body myths and either unconsciously or consciously believe them to be true. Body myths are often handed down to us through our family lineage. Below, I&rsquo;ve identified five body myths based on my experiences, conversations with peers, and the stories shared in my trainings and private sessions across the last three decades. These may not all seem true for you at the same time; some may seem partially true; or some might have felt true at a particular time.

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However, these are myths that you probably do not want to continue living from if you have a choice. The first step in this process is awareness. With awareness, we are given the possibility of choosing anew.

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<h2>Body Myth 1: The Body Is Too Painful</h2>
Numerous students have said to me: &ldquo;When I turn my attention inward, all I feel is pain, and I feel overwhelmed. I don&rsquo;t know how to deal with my pain, so I don&rsquo;t want to&mdash;I can&rsquo;t handle anything more. How can feeling this pain more than I already do possibly be helpful?&rdquo;

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If any of this sounds familiar, ask yourself these questions:

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	<li>Do I view my inner pain as an insurmountable problem?</li>
	<li>Do I feel only anxiety when I drop inside?</li>
	<li>Do I feel like my pain is bigger than me?</li>
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Many people who have survived traumatic, overwhelming events may have this initial response when they drop their awareness to sensations within their own inner landscape. The pain is real. That part is definitely not a myth, though we may have been told it was. The myth comes in believing that the pain is all that inhabits our insides.

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<h2>Body Myth 2: The Body Is Mysterious and Dangerous</h2>
I grew up with Body Myth 2. I was raised in a good Southern Baptist family with lots of wonderful singing, praising of God, and the community life of church potlucks. What was missing was any education about the primal instincts of the lower half of the body&mdash;of what could happen if I dropped into the &ldquo;danger zone&rdquo; of the scary unknown. I sensed that base emotions of anger and rage lived in these depths, and I didn&rsquo;t want to venture too far down for fear of them.

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Body Myth 2 is fed by fear of the unknown and what it will bring if we venture outside of the comfort zone of our known world. This myth is also fed constantly because of the way our brains are wired. The neural circuits for survival&mdash;which look for anything possibly dangerous&mdash;fire much faster than the measured, thoughtful circuits that lead us into creative endeavors in new arenas.

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To dispel this myth, the key is to slow down and expand our awareness&mdash;widen our perceptual lens on the world. Then we won&rsquo;t automatically decide that what might be a magic wand or a walking cane is always a dangerous snake! This becomes more nuanced as we take a closer look at all the ways the world can harm us and all the ways it can delight us.

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<h2>Body Myth 3: The Body Is Seductive and Leads You Astray</h2>
This body myth says that the primal sensual and sexual urges of the body will get us into trouble and lead us astray if we listen to and act on them.

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Most major religions&mdash;whether Catholic, Protestant, Hindu, Muslim, and so on&mdash;impose sanctions against fully feeling the body so that this feared primal energy is kept in check. This is expressed in instructions like these:

<ul>
	<li>&ldquo;Guard against your body&rsquo;s urges.&rdquo;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;Control your body&rsquo;s impulses and sublimate them.&rdquo;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;Stay in charge of your body and hold its compulsions at bay.&rdquo;</li>
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Meanwhile, popular culture, advertising, and the media flood us with sexual images because marketers recognize that this primal energy can help sell almost anything. Advertisements turn around and twist what is acceptable and attractive, leaving most of us chasing a phantom image that promises to make us feel whole and lovable if only we buy into it.

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In the meantime, the message is, &ldquo;Whatever you do, do not fully feel your sensuality and sexuality&mdash;it is dangerous. If you are a woman, you might be preyed upon or called a woman of loose morals. If you are a man, you could be seen as a dangerous predator.&rdquo;

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This primal life force is powerful. My friend Emilie Conrad, who developed Continuum Movement, taught that the energy of eros, the Greek word for &ldquo;intimate love,&rdquo; is what makes our cells ignite. It allows us to feel our juiciness. In fact, it is the creative force of life itself. It feeds our joy and raison d&rsquo;&ecirc;tre, our reason for being.

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Yet, Body Myth 3 tries to convince us that our core sensuality and sexuality are evil, seductive forces. How did this body myth come into power?

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The problem arises when we judge this part of ourselves as bad, corrupt, or wicked and try to compartmentalize and seal off this powerful energy from the rest of our system. This acts like an aerosol can in the sun or a restless volcano building internal pressure. Like the closing love scene in <em>Like Water for Chocolate</em>, where the long-repressed lovers finally consummate their relationship and go up in flames in the process, this myth tells us that our sensuality, allowed free rein, will set fire to our world, burning out of control.

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<span class="quote">In fact, when we allow pleasurable sensation to flow through our entire system with the wisdom of each part of us informing and integrating it, the powerful energy we feel is not a force for evil. It is the energy of life itself.</span>

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If I am feeling sexually attracted to someone, it does not mean that I need to act on it. However, if I hold my sensual nature tightly wrapped, it can become a seductive shadow side of who I am. When we allow our sensations to fill all of us, the direct experience of this connection has a deep and abiding integrity, not a seductive one.

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<h2>Body Myth 4: The Body Is Out of Control and Must Be Dominated</h2>
Do you see your body as something you have to constantly control&mdash;masterfully riding it until it gives you what you want? This myth about the body centers around the idea that if you are not controlling it in every moment, your body will become something despicable, or it will collapse emotionally and fall apart. So you work to control it, altering it in whatever ways you think will get you love and acceptance, as well as safety and protection from harm. It is a fact that to feel loved and accepted is a primary human need, so fear of losing this feeds Body Myth 4.

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For instance, you may discipline yourself to diet and exercise, not as an act of loving self-care, but rather in an attempt to create the body you think will make you more lovable, safe, or protected.

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This form of self-judgment about your body may be based on cultural norms, the media, or friends and family. To have an acceptable body, you may feel you have to live your life on a diet or constantly work out. Controlling what you eat in this way and pushing your body physically beyond healthy limits are both natural outcomes of believing Body Myth 4.

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At a deeper level, this body myth may be fueled by unresolved trauma. If you have a history of feeling overwhelmed by traumatic events, then the alarm bells of the nervous system may continue to sound in your head and body long after an event has ended. In general, the external world may feel overwhelming and out of control. This could, in turn, cause you to exert extreme control over the areas of your life that you can control.

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Witnessing the effects of pain and trauma in others can also be traumatizing. Consider the high number of people who suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) after witnessing a terrorist act.

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If, when you were a child, someone you loved wailed and cried uncontrollably whenever they felt emotionally overwhelmed, as an adult you might find that similar sounds put you into an alarm state. You might become hypervigilant even though you are not personally in danger. You could find your insides going numb, the way you did as a child, to control your own fearful feelings.

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All of the above can be a huge impetus to clamp down and control the body and its reactions to a life that seems threatening.

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<h2>Body Myth 5: The Body Knows Far Less Than the Brain</h2>
I am continually mystified by the brilliant minds I know who second-guess their instinctual gut knowing, or their heart&rsquo;s inspiration, or their bones&rsquo; deep clarity, and as a result drive themselves crazy. Most of us in the Western world are trained to trust our logical left brain and rational thoughts over our body.

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In the last decade neuroscience has shown that the gut (or the enteric nervous system, which is called our &ldquo;second brain&rdquo;) makes more neurotransmitters than the brain that resides in our head. I recently read astounding research showing that the body registers incoming events before the mind or visual system can see them coming. Many of us remember circumstances when our body took a wise action that saved us before our mind had time to react.

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And yet, Body Myth 5 remains epidemic in our culture&hellip;The late Emilie Conrad, my wonderful colleague and friend, used to say, &ldquo;Admit it, Suzanne. We in the bodywork and movement fields are still out in the barn. The rest of academia is up in the mansion discussing the future of humanity, and if we are honest, we are still out in the barn with the animals because of our focus on the wisdom of the body.&rdquo;

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It is time to move out of the barn! Again and again, I see evidence of the split between the wisdom of the body and the logical brain. This lack of understanding of our body wisdom wreaks havoc on our health and well-being and robs us of our potential for happiness and the juiciness and joy inherent in life.

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<span class="quote">Our bodies are naturally well-calibrated navigational systems once we learn how to listen to them and respect their assessments in any given moment.</span>

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If we disrespect our bodies and second-guess their messages, they will go mute over time. The loss of our body wisdom leaves us vulnerable, as we are forced to navigate our life with only the signals from the brain and past experiences.

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It is our present-moment sensory experience that provides the foundational data to the prefrontal area of our brain for the wisest decision-making possible. Without a conscious sensory connection to the present, we are forced to orient to the past.

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People with unresolved trauma histories are at an even greater disadvantage due to numb, frozen, and painful places in their bodies, keeping them from accessing this wisdom.

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<h2>Where Do We Go from Here?</h2>
These five body myths, or some combination, are alive and well in many people today. Take a moment now and consider which of these are hindering your life.

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Awareness is the first step in letting go of them and making a new choice. Until we are aware that they are playing in the background or foreground of our lives, often driving our actions and decisions, we will be unable to choose anything different.

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Of course, the second part of this equation is recognizing them as myths. These attitudes are not a part of our true nature. They are adaptations, compensations, and defenses against what has occurred in our lives and those of our ancestors.

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When we can recognize these myths for what they truly are&mdash;myths&mdash;new horizons open up. New choices can be made. We are free to be who we are at a deeper, more authentic level. Then life is experienced at a richer level with more joy, more ease, more realness, and all that entails. Life does not become a rose garden, but it has more resonance with who we truly are at a soul level.

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<em>Excerpted from the book </em>Reclaiming Your Body: Healing from Trauma and Awakening to Your Body&rsquo;s Wisdom<em>. Copyright &copy;2017 by Suzanne Scurlock-Durana. Printed with permission from New World Library (www.newworldlibrary.com).</em>

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<strong>Suzanne Scurlock-Durana is the author of <em>Reclaiming Your Body</em> and <em>Full Body Presence</em>. Her Healing from the Core curriculum combined with craniosacral therapy and other bodywork modalities creates a complete, body-centered guide to awareness, healing, and joy. She teaches around the world and lives in Reston, Virginia. Visit her online at www.healingfromthecore.com. </strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-five-body-myths-blind-alleys-that-throw-us-off-course</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-five-body-myths-blind-alleys-that-throw-us-off-course#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>The Case for a Whole-Food, Plant-Based Diet: An Interview With T. Colin Campbell</title><description><![CDATA[<div class="cta" style="float: right; text-align: center;">Join <a href="https://www.1440.org/">T. Colin Campbell</a> for<br />
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<a href="https://www.1440.org//">T. Colin Campbell</a>, PhD, has been at the forefront of nutrition education and research for decades. Dr. Campbell studies the links between diet and disease, particularly the causation of cancer, and has conducted original research both in laboratory experiments and in large-scale human studies. He is the coauthor of the best-selling book&nbsp;<em>The China Study</em><em>: Startling Implications for Diet, Weight Loss, and Long-term Health, </em>and<em>&nbsp;</em>the author of&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em> best seller&nbsp;<em>Whole</em>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<em>The Low-Carb Fraud.&nbsp;</em>Dr. Campbell leads the T. Colin Campbell Center for Nutrition Studies.

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<h2>1440: What does a whole-food, plant-based diet look like?</h2>
<em>T. Colin Campbell:</em> Whole means we eat the food whole. Instead of taking a vitamin C supplement or drinking orange juice, eat the orange. We choose vegetables, fruits, nuts, legumes, and whole grains. Oil in food like nuts, avocado, and coconut are fine when left in the food, but avoid using it if it&rsquo;s been extracted from the food. In that case it&rsquo;s calorie-dense and nutrient-poor and is a plant fragment, as opposed to a whole food.

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<span class="quote">The biggest difference for most people would be to avoid refined and processed food, dairy, and meat. Plant foods provide all the protein we need, absolutely all of it. We have enough evidence to make that argument. </span>

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<h2>1440: Why should someone consider switching to a whole-food, plant-based diet?</h2>
<em>T. Colin Campbell:</em>&nbsp;There are three levels of evidence. First, when we compare the data of different people consuming different diets, we see certain disease rates correspond to the consumption of various foods and nutrients. The data for this way of eating is very positive, but this doesn&rsquo;t necessarily mean causation.

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That&rsquo;s where the second part comes in and where I spent most of my career: laboratory research where we examine certain nutrients. We have found impressive biologic mechanisms by which they may affect certain diseases, but because of the complexity of biology and the challenges of a reductionist approach to studying nutrients in isolation, we still can&rsquo;t infer causality.

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So, next we try intervention studies.

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<span class="quote">When we feed people this kind of diet, we see positive health outcomes happen very fast. </span>

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For example, we see things like substantial drops in blood cholesterol or changes in blood pressure within days.

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<h2>1440: Did your start out your career trying to make a case for this way of eating?</h2>
<em>T. Colin Campbell:&nbsp;</em>No, in fact I came from exactly the opposite point of view. I was raised on a dairy farm and consumed lots of meat, milk, and eggs.

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<span class="quote">I came into my career with the idea that the more animal-based food we could consume, the better off we would be. </span>

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<h2>1440: When did you switch to a whole-food, plant-based diet?</h2>
<em>T. Colin Campbell:</em> It happened gradually. My wife is a very good cook and was interested in what I was learning. We started making the shift around 1980 and by about 1990 our diet was completely changed. Then we changed our children&rsquo;s diets too&mdash;of course some of them were in their teens when we got around to doing this, but they adapted.

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<span class="quote">There are now 22 members of our immediate family and they all eat this way. </span>

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<h2>1440: Making dietary changes seems to be one of the most challenging things for people to do. Do you recommend making a sudden switch or a gradual one?</h2>
<em>T. Colin Campbell:</em> We took a long time to make changes because the information just wasn&rsquo;t there. As new information came along, we incorporated those changes. These days there is a lot of information and a good many reasons to make change, from ethical reasons to health reasons.

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<span class="quote">I find that if people try it and see what they get, they&rsquo;ll like how they feel and become more interested in getting healthier and healthier. Results can happen very fast. </span>

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I suggest it&rsquo;s preferable to eventually commit to it 100%. I can&rsquo;t defend that last 2 or 3% based on science, we don&rsquo;t quite have that data, but we have indications that the closer we get to 100%, the healthier people become.

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<span class="quote">Going 100% is really important for people who have serious health problems. </span>

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They may not have time to fool around, so going all in and then getting help to change their habits may be the way to go. We do know it can&rsquo;t hurt you, so what&rsquo;s to lose?

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<h2>1440: How much can we rely on our own body&rsquo;s wisdom in telling us what to eat?</h2>
<em>T. Colin Campbell:</em>

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<span class="quote">Some of our reactions to food are conditioned reactions. You&rsquo;re conditioned to want more of something (fat, sugar, and salt, especially) or to avoid things that maybe disagree with you. </span>

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When you make changes to your diet, these situations tend to dissipate or disappear. Your body adjusts and doesn&rsquo;t send those signals any longer. Many allergies or sensitivities will go away. Then you can listen to your body and avoid foods that are still offensive.

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<h2>1440: What is your take on food addiction?</h2>
<em>T. Colin Campbell:</em>

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Food addiction is one of the biggest things that impedes diet change. Most of us are addicted to a diet high in fat, sugar, and salt.

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<span class="quote">Those addictions are real. They affect the pleasure centers of the brain and, like addiction to coffee or cigarettes, take a little while to overcome. When you switch to a whole-food, plant-based diet, it may take a couple of months for your taste preferences to change, but the addiction will disappear. </span>

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Making a 100% switch can be helpful here. Most people don&rsquo;t quit smoking by gradually working their way down to two and then one a day; they simply quit so it&rsquo;s clear what they&rsquo;re not doing any longer.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">T. Colin Campbell</a> will be teaching&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">The China Study in Practice:&nbsp;Nutrition to Protect and Maximize Your Health</a> at 1440 Multiversity on&nbsp;April 20 &ndash; 22, 2018 along with&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Thomas M. Campbell, MD</a>.

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-case-for-a-whole-food-plant-based-diet-an-interview-with-t-colin-campbell</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-case-for-a-whole-food-plant-based-diet-an-interview-with-t-colin-campbell#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Redefining Nutrition: An Interview with T. Colin Campbell</title><description><![CDATA[<div class="cta" style="float: right; text-align: center;">&nbsp;</div>
<a href="https://www.1440.org/">T. Colin Campbell</a>, PhD, has been at the forefront of nutrition education and research for decades. Dr. Campbell studies the links between diet and disease, particularly the causation of cancer, and has conducted original research both in laboratory experiments and in large-scale human studies. He is the coauthor of the best-selling book&nbsp;<em>The China Study</em><em>: Startling Implications for Diet, Weight Loss, and Long-term Health, </em>and<em>&nbsp;</em>the author of&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em> best seller&nbsp;<em>Whole</em>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<em>The Low-Carb Fraud.&nbsp;</em>Dr. Campbell leads the T. Colin Campbell Center for Nutrition Studies.

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<h2>1440: What is the current problem with the way we think of nutrition?</h2>
<em>T. Colin Campbell:</em> Most of science is reductionist, meaning we isolate one thing down to the smallest level and then study it. But oftentimes how it acts on its own can be the opposite of how it acts when it&rsquo;s in a whole food or when it&rsquo;s ingested into the body.

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<span class="quote">There are an enormous number of factors that work together&mdash;change one of those factors and you get a different outcome.</span>

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When you think about this complexity, it suddenly becomes foolish to think we can answer questions like how many grams of this nutrient or that nutrient we should consume. We need to take what I call a wholistic approach.

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<h2>1440: Are you saying we shouldn&rsquo;t pay attention to nutrition labels on food products?</h2>
<em>T. Colin Campbell</em>: Those labels have much less meaning than we give them. We shouldn&rsquo;t think in terms of this nutrient or that nutrient.

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<span class="quote">We know what plants can do, so just eat the plants. Whole food works together with our biology to give us the nutrition we need.</span>

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<h2>1440: What made you think a wholistic approach to nutrition was superior to the reductionist approach?</h2>
<em>T. Colin Campbell</em>: I&rsquo;ve taken an almost 180-degree turn in the way I look at data. I spent a lot of my early career as a biochemist working on cellular metabolism. A cell is the basic unit of biology, but there is a whole universe in a cell. Its complexity is beyond comprehension. In a thousand years we couldn&rsquo;t make something as complex as a cell, something that has all these parts moving and working together in a perfect symphony every nanosecond to do its job.

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Creating a single cell is like a math problem that&rsquo;s too big to solve, let alone getting that cell to interact with all the other cells. There are an infinite number of interactions occurring that influence a single cell&rsquo;s behavior.

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<span class="quote">To have any chance at understanding how things operate, we have to look at the whole picture.</span>

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<h2>1440: Is wholism just about whole food?</h2>
<em>T. Colin Campbell</em>: One of the most interesting things about this wholistic approach is that it&rsquo;s represented at all levels of life. If cells can talk to each other and different colonies of cells can communicate (for example, organ to organ), and this is happening in individuals, you can project that the same can happen from individual to individual.

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<span class="quote">How can we create a symphony among each other, as a society? How can we promote civility? This concept can operate on so many levels, and that&rsquo;s interesting to me.</span>

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<h2>1440: What are some other things, besides food, that people can do to enhance their health?</h2>
<em>T. Colin Campbell</em>: You&rsquo;ve heard them all before, but sleep, exercise, and staying hydrated are important. Also, keep a clean mind. Don&rsquo;t let it be cluttered up with so many details that you&rsquo;re always stressed, obsessed, and confused.

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<h2>1440: Should we ignore most of what we read about nutrition science in the news?</h2>
<em>T. Colin Campbell</em>: &nbsp;Science can create very good information for us going forward, but as far as individual consumers are concerned, you don&rsquo;t have to sit there nervously waiting for the next piece of information to come along before they make decisions.

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<span class="quote">You can just start eating a whole-food, plant-based diet and you&rsquo;ll see the changes.</span>

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Also, we need to redesign the meaning of nutrition. I think the public is being cheated. The public has very little knowledge and we have to change that because knowledge is power. We&rsquo;ve got to get knowledge of the benefits of a whole-food, plant-based diet into everyone&rsquo;s hands.

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We&rsquo;re doing this in a number of ways. We&rsquo;ve created an online Plant-Based Nutrition Certificate course through Cornell University, my son started the PlantPure Communities Pod Network, a network of independent groups that follow a whole-food, plant-based diet, and we have a lot of free resources on our website to help people be better informed. There are also some wonderful cookbooks out there now for this way of eating. Twenty years ago that wasn&rsquo;t the case, but now you can easily learn to cook whole foods and make it really tasty.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Thomas M. Campbell, MD</a>&nbsp;and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Erin Campbell, MD</a>&nbsp;will be teaching &ldquo;The China Study in Practice: Optimal Nutrition for Optimal Health&quot;&nbsp;at 1440 Multiversity on Jan 10 - 12, 2020.&nbsp;

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/redefining-nutrition-an-interview-with-t-colin-campbell</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/redefining-nutrition-an-interview-with-t-colin-campbell#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Panache Desai on Why It&apos;s an Exciting Time to Be Alive</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Panache Desai</a>, author of <em>Discovering Your Soul Signature,</em> is a transformation catalyst and inspirational thought leader who guides people to their authentic, essential nature. He&rsquo;s <a href="https://www.oprah.com/own-super-soul-sunday/soul-to-soul-with-panache-desai-video">appeared with Oprah Winfrey</a>&nbsp;on the Emmy Award-winning series <em>Super Soul Sunday</em>, and was a featured speaker for the United Nations Enlightenment Society. He has collaborated with many renowned spiritual teachers, including Deepak Chopra, Michael Bernard Beckwith, Elizabeth Lesser, and Ram Dass.
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<h2>1440: The world is changing rapidly, and sometimes it feels like it&rsquo;s not headed in the right direction. How do you think we got here?</h2>

<p><em>Panache Desai:</em>&nbsp;Every human being was created with absolute love and perfection and precision. The problem is then we&rsquo;re trained to conform in a way that&rsquo;s limited.</p>

<p><span class="quote">We&rsquo;ve become units of production and we derive our value from what we have the capacity to produce instead of recognizing our value comes from the fact we exist.</span></p>
The majority of people in the Western world, the so-called advanced world, have forgotten the simplicity of being, forgotten the simplicity of living in harmony and connection. And so we have rampant growth, expansion, and accumulation&mdash;all by-products of fear&mdash;instead of sustainable approaches that emerged out of love.

<h2>1440: Is there a way out?</h2>

<p><em>Panache Desai:</em> As consciousness expands&mdash;as individuals become empowered to express what I call their Soul Signature, which is rooted in love&mdash;things are changing. Individual empowerment, or enlightenment, means being the most loving version of yourself. And sometimes being the most loving version of yourself isn&rsquo;t just rolling over.</p>

<p><span class="quote">Sometimes being the most loving version of yourself is standing in the truth of the fire that&rsquo;s within you.</span></p>
Every structure and system is being challenged right now&mdash;inside and out. It&rsquo;s happening in financial systems, political systems, and even religion. Religion itself became distorted through the centralization of power and authority. As individuals become empowered, decentralization is happening everywhere. That&rsquo;s our future. That&rsquo;s where we&rsquo;re going. Many of the previous roles will become extinct. I&rsquo;d love to make the role of teaching extinct&mdash;it&rsquo;s really just a shop front that God uses to bring people back to love.

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<h2>1440: How do we balance our individual transformation with our work in the world as these big shifts happen?</h2>

<p><em>Panache Desai:</em> As people shift in themselves, they naturally shift in the way that they participate in the world. I don&rsquo;t believe that it&rsquo;s a superficial change. I really believe it&rsquo;s happening from a very deep place within people&rsquo;s hearts.</p>

<p>We&rsquo;re at a point of divergence. People have exhausted the possibilities of fame and money and achievement. All of those things that we hold up as banners that signal success, people are realizing they&rsquo;re empty and meaningless, that there&rsquo;s no fulfillment to be found in any of it. That leads to disillusionment, which leads to an individual coming back to themselves, to what&rsquo;s real and true for them.</p>
<span class="quote">That&rsquo;s when people become empowered in who they are: when they realize that they can&rsquo;t get what they&rsquo;re looking for from outside of themselves.</span>

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<p>From politics to finance to religion, people are experiencing heightened levels of disillusionment. But in the midst of that disillusionment, there&rsquo;s innovation. From cryptocurrencies to political and social activism, we&rsquo;re living in a time where pockets and movements are emerging. Of course the status quo will try and subdue them. But they won&rsquo;t be able to because now too many people are awake and aware.</p>

<p><span class="quote">The old game is over. The age of collective amnesia is ending, and the age of the awakened individual is beginning and emerging.</span></p>

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<h2>1440: How do we deal with all the anger and rage that the current changes are bringing up?</h2>

<p><em>Panache Desai:</em> That reaction is no different than a two-year-old in a toy store who wants a toy but can&rsquo;t have it. In that moment the two-year-old believes that the toy is everything. We thought these people and systems and structures were advocating on our behalf. We believed they actually represented us. Now we&rsquo;re seeing that they don&rsquo;t, so naturally that leads to frustration and anger.</p>

<p><span class="quote">But frustration and anger eventually leads to personal empowerment, which leads to innovation and creativity. This is why it&rsquo;s such an amazing time to be alive.</span></p>
Panache Desai will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">You Are Enough: Discovering a Life Without Limits</a> from April 17 &ndash; 19, 2020 at 1440 Multiversity.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/panache-desai-on-why-its-an-exciting-time-to-be-alive</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/panache-desai-on-why-its-an-exciting-time-to-be-alive#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Nurturing Your Soul Self: An Interview with Margaret Paul</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Margaret Paul</a>, PhD, is a writer and cocreator of Inner Bonding. She holds a doctorate in psychology and is a relationship expert, noted public speaker, workshop leader, educator, chaplain, consultant, and artist. Dr. Paul has appeared on numerous radio and television shows, including the <em>Oprah Winfrey Show</em>.
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<h2>1440: What happens to us when we don&rsquo;t get the love we need as a child?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em>

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<span class="quote">For most of us, when we were very young, we decided that it was our fault we weren&rsquo;t getting the love we needed. </span>

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We decided&mdash;though not consciously&mdash;that we weren&rsquo;t good enough, that there was something wrong with us, that we were flawed, that we were unimportant, that we shouldn&rsquo;t be here, that we don&rsquo;t deserve love. This was the beginning of the wounded ego part of ourselves.

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<h2>1440: How does this line of thinking help the situation?</h2>

<p><em>Margaret Paul:</em> The wounded self figures that if it&rsquo;s our fault we&rsquo;re not being loved, then we can try to figure out how to do it right&mdash;how to act right and how to be good enough in order to get the approval we need and avoid the disapproval we can&rsquo;t handle when we&rsquo;re that young.</p>

<p><span class="quote">It gives us a sense of control over getting love and avoiding pain. </span></p>

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<h2>1440: But this doesn&rsquo;t seem to work. Why not?</h2>

<p><em>Margaret Paul:</em> Unfortunately, when we operate from the wounded self, we take the beautiful essence, the soul essence, of who we really are and hide it away in order to create an image or mask that we hope will be good enough.</p>

<p><span class="quote">We call this hidden part our inner child. It&rsquo;s the part that often expresses to us through our feelings and intuition. </span></p>
It has a lot of wisdom and a lot of guidance for us, but if we&rsquo;ve hidden away that beautiful, wonderful, gifted part of ourselves, we don&rsquo;t have access to who we really are, to what brings us joy, and to what our passion and purpose is.

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<h2>1440: Does the suppression of our inner child lead to issues like depression and anxiety?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em> It can lead to all kinds of things, including feeling empty, anxious, depressed, angry, guilty, or ashamed. Maybe a relationship is ending and you realize you can&rsquo;t have a loving relationship with others because you don&rsquo;t have one with yourself. Maybe you don&rsquo;t feel alive or joyful and are feeling lonely or alone. All these painful feelings are often what start people on a healing process.

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<h2>1440: There are also challenging things in life that happen in school and elsewhere as we&rsquo;re growing up, so it&rsquo;s not just about our parents, right?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em> Some of our painful challenges came from our parents and some of them came from school or other situations. Maybe we felt rejected by our peers or lost someone we loved. When we were little, we couldn&rsquo;t handle the big, painful feelings of life&mdash;the loneliness, the helplessness over other people&rsquo;s behavior toward us, the heartbreak of being unloved, the grief of loss. We had these little bodies that just couldn&rsquo;t manage these big, painful feelings.

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<span class="quote">If we didn&rsquo;t have parents who knew their own basic goodness and instead were operating out of their own wounded ego, they wouldn&rsquo;t have known how to be with us, hold us, nurture us, and help us manage our feelings. </span>

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In order to find a way to avoid these feelings, we dissociated and learned various forms of self-abandonment, and that behavior continues into adulthood. We go up into our head. We disconnect from our body. We turn to various addictions. We turn to self-judgment, which can become very addictive as a form of control. We also might make somebody else responsible for taking care of us in an attempt to feel valuable or to have someone else manage our feelings.

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<h2>1440: Is it possible to reparent that inner child?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em> The good news is, that part of you is never lost and you can always reclaim it. It&rsquo;s been shoved away and ignored, but it&rsquo;s there.

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<span class="quote">That inner child&mdash;or you can think of it as your soul self, your true self, your essence, or your spark of the divine&mdash;it is there and wants to be alive. </span>

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It, along with your higher self, is your source of creativity, passion, joy, and love&mdash;which is who you really are.

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<h2>1440: So how do we do it?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em> In any given moment there are two intentions available. We can try to control and avoid, which is what the wounded self does. Or we can have the intention to learn about loving ourselves using a process like Inner Bonding. Learning about loving ourselves also means wanting to learn how we are treating ourselves in ways that may be causing our pain.

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<h2>1440: How do we do this if we didn&rsquo;t have any role models for it?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em> Here is where learning to connect with your higher self&mdash;your spiritual guidance&mdash;comes in. Your higher guidance becomes the role model for loving yourself.

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<span class="quote">It takes a lot of practice, just like learning anything worthwhile.<br />
Loving yourself is not about having your nails done once a week or getting a massage. That&rsquo;s fine, but imagine what it would mean for a parent to truly love a child. They would attend to them and care about their feelings. </span>

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They would do what they can to create a sense of safety for them. They would feed them well and make sure they get enough sleep and enough exercise. They would stand up for them and speak up for them. They would be kind and caring, not harsh or judgmental with them. These are the kinds of things that loving parents would do. These are the kinds of things that we need to learn to do for ourselves, and what our higher self helps us learn to do.

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<h2>1440: What do you say to those who say it is selfish to focus on yourself so much?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em> I say it&rsquo;s really quite the opposite: loving yourself is self-responsible. It&rsquo;s about learning to take care of yourself so that you&rsquo;re not needy or manipulative in an attempt to make others responsible for you. When you&rsquo;re all filled up with love, you have love to share with others. Far from being selfish, loving yourself is what leads to seeing, valuing, and accepting others.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Margaret Paul</a>, PhD, will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Inner Bonding&reg;</a> at 1440 Multiversity from March 6 &ndash; 8, 2020.<br />
<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/nurturing-your-soul-self-an-interview-with-margaret-paul</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/nurturing-your-soul-self-an-interview-with-margaret-paul#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Martha Beck on Using Fear to Propel Your Life</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Martha Beck</a>, PhD, grew up wanting to be an ecologist or a professor. However, after bearing three children while acquiring three Harvard degrees, Martha decided she&rsquo;d rather just lie down for a few decades. During that time she became an author and life coach. Her books include, <em>Expecting Adam</em>, <em>Leaving the Saints</em>, <em>Finding Your Own North Star</em>, <em>The Joy Diet</em>, <em>Steering by Starlight</em>, <em>Finding Your Way in a Wild New World</em>, and <em>Diana Herself: An Allegory of Awakening</em>. Martha has been a columnist for <em>O, The Oprah Magazine</em> since its inception in 2001 and has been a contributing editor for several popular magazines, including <em>Real Simple</em> and <em>Redbook</em>.
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<em><strong>Martha will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">N</a><a href="https://www.1440.org/">avigating the Storm: Finding Peace and Purpose in Uncertain</a> Times&nbsp;from February 7 &ndash; 9, 2020 at 1440 Multiversity.</strong></em>

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<h2>1440: What is the main thing that holds people back from living their fullest life?</h2>
<em>Martha Beck:</em> There are two things: ignorance and fear. Sometimes people are just ignorant that there is another way; they don&rsquo;t know and they don&rsquo;t ask. There are hundreds of cultural stories we believe without question.

<ul>
	<li>You have to have a job.</li>
	<li>You have to go to the best school.</li>
	<li>You have to eat/not eat a certain food.</li>
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Are you sure that&rsquo;s true? Not questioning is probably the worst perpetrator of all.

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We&rsquo;re like people who go on munching on something poisonous without paying attention to the way it makes us want to vomit, simply because everybody around us is doing the same thing. Everyone is saying, &ldquo;Yeah, I know it&rsquo;s horrible, but I eat it every day. It&rsquo;s just the way things are.&rdquo; We go munching onward until we&rsquo;re too sick to move and then maybe we question it. Then fear kicks in.

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<h2>1440: How does fear stop us?</h2>
<em>Martha Beck:</em> One of the things I&rsquo;ve noticed is if someone is chronically angry at the world&mdash;maybe their passion is dancing but they work as a server in a restaurant&mdash;if you say to that person, &ldquo;Okay, the world is now going to cooperate with you. You get to just dance. Now what are you going to do?&rdquo; Immediately their anger is replaced by absolute panic. Because if we take the chance to live these wonderful dreams in our heads, we find out that it&rsquo;s actually kind of hard.

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It&rsquo;s not hard in the way living a slow death-by-job is hard. It&rsquo;s hard in the way making fire is hard.

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<span class="quote">To go out and make your way without a job, a relationship, an idea, etc., is terrifying. It&rsquo;s why people stay where they are. </span>

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With a job, they are looking for someone else to be the grown up, to give them an allowance. They&rsquo;ll do whatever is asked of them as long as they don&rsquo;t have to face the fear of creating something that might not work.

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<h2>1440: So how can people work with fear?</h2>
<em>Martha Beck:</em> Get used to it.

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<span class="quote">Fear is not a drive-by visitor. It will be there until you either attain enlightenment or die. You&rsquo;re always going to be scared. It&rsquo;s a natural part of the brain. </span>

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It&rsquo;s the deepest part of the brain, and fear of the unknown is universal. It&rsquo;s a biological reality. If you&rsquo;re going to do something different from what you&rsquo;ve experienced, if you&rsquo;re going to go into the unfamiliar, then fear will raise its ugly head.

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I know that sounds brutal and I&rsquo;m not talking about fear related to trauma&mdash;that needs healing&mdash;but if you know what you want to do and you&rsquo;re afraid to do it, do it anyway. You&rsquo;re going to be afraid.

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When I was 14, I realized I had a choice between becoming a housebound agoraphobic person or doing things that frightened me every day. I made a resolution to do one thing that scares me every day.

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<span class="quote">Pretty much everything I&rsquo;ve ever done that people are interested in, I did absolutely shaking in my shoes. </span>

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I mean I was violently terrified, not just kind of worried! &nbsp;Sometimes I&rsquo;m right on the edge of &ldquo;I can&rsquo;t hold it together anymore,&rdquo; and I just got used to it.

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After a while, it became like, &ldquo;Oh, so this is how it is. Here we are again, all right.&rdquo; It doesn&rsquo;t matter.

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<h2>1440: So you&rsquo;re not replacing fear with confidence or fearlessness, you&rsquo;re learning to live with it?</h2>
<em>Martha Beck:</em>

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<span class="quote">If you&rsquo;re waiting to feel confident before you do something, you&rsquo;ll wait forever. That feeling only comes after you&rsquo;ve done something. </span>

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If we avoid what brings us fear, we will never do much. But if we can support each other and say, &ldquo;Yeah, it sucks! I&rsquo;m afraid too,&rdquo; then we can experience what the feminist writer Audre Lorde said, &ldquo;The more I dare to be powerful, to use my strength in the service of my vision, the less it matters whether I am afraid.&rdquo;

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/martha-beck-on-using-fear-to-propel-your-life</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/martha-beck-on-using-fear-to-propel-your-life#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Loving Yourself is the Key to a Loving Relationship: An Interview with Margaret Paul</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Margaret Paul</a>, PhD, is a writer and cocreator of Inner Bonding. She holds a doctorate in psychology and is a relationship expert, noted public speaker, workshop leader, educator, chaplain, consultant, and artist. Dr. Paul has appeared on numerous radio and television shows, including the <i>Oprah Winfrey Show</i>.
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<h2>1440: Why is it that so many relationships don&rsquo;t work out?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em> Mostly it&rsquo;s because both people are trying to get love from the other person because they don&rsquo;t know how to give it to themselves. When people abandon themselves and do all sorts of things to try and have control over getting the other person&rsquo;s love, they become needy and manipulative.

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<span class="quote">Usually both partners are trying to control each other into getting what they want, and they&rsquo;re not taking responsibility for themselves and for their own feelings. </span>

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<h2>1440: So it&rsquo;s a myth that we can expect our partner to make us whole?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em> It&rsquo;s not your job to make each other feel whole and happy. It&rsquo;s each person&rsquo;s job to do that for themselves. When you don&rsquo;t know how to do that for yourself, it creates problems in the relationship.

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<h2>1440: Why are we so often attracted to the &ldquo;wrong&rdquo; person?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em> People are attracted to each other at their common level of self-abandonment or their common level of self-love. If you&rsquo;re abandoning yourself, you&rsquo;re going to attract somebody who is abandoning themselves, whether it&rsquo;s obvious how they&rsquo;re doing that or not.

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<span class="quote">If you&rsquo;ve learned to really see and value and love yourself, you&rsquo;re going to be attracted to somebody who&rsquo;s also doing that. </span>

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These two people will create a much more loving relationship.

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<h2>1440: Do you have an example you could share?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em> I worked with one young man for quite a while. He came from some abuse and neglect and was very self-critical and self-abandoning. He also had a lot of addictions. But he was willing to learn and he hung in there. He did his work and learned to take responsibility for his feelings. Before he learned that, he would attract needy, narcissistic women who wanted a caretaker. Of course it never worked out because they were both trying to get love from the other, where there was no love to give or receive.

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After doing his Inner Bonding work, he started meeting some women who were not quite like that. And then finally last year he met a wonderful, fantastic woman. They fell in love, they got married, and they&rsquo;re having a baby. They&rsquo;re doing so well because they&rsquo;re open.

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<span class="quote">They&rsquo;re open to learning and they&rsquo;re open to loving, and they take good enough care of themselves that they have love to share with each other. </span>

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<h2>1440: If one person in a bad relationship does the inner work, will the relationship survive?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em> Let&rsquo;s say someone came to me in a codependent relationship. They&rsquo;ve been together for 10 years and he earns the money and she takes in that area, but then he demands sex and he takes in that area. When one of them starts to deal with themselves, two things can happen. Either the other person likes it and the relationship actually gets better, or the other person doesn&rsquo;t like it and the relationship gets worse, in which case they know it&rsquo;s time to move on.

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But they don&rsquo;t really know that until they deal with their end of the system.

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<span class="quote">If they don&rsquo;t deal with their end of the system, and they just blame the other person and leave, they&rsquo;re going to take their same self-abandoning ways with them into the next relationship and create a very similar relationship. </span>

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Unfortunately, past statistics have shown that in the United States, 50% of first marriages, 67% of second, and 73% of third marriages end in divorce, although recent research stated that the divorce rate is going down, which is good news.

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<h2>1440: Being single can often feel like second-class status and that being in a relationship is the end game. If we&rsquo;re able to give ourselves the love and happiness we&rsquo;re looking for, how does that change our experience of being single?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em>

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<span class="quote">If you&rsquo;re loving yourself, tending to your inner child, and manifesting your gifts in the world, then you&rsquo;re going to be happy whether you&rsquo;re in a relationship or not. </span>

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Feeling desperate to find a partner will no longer be an issue. One of my clients recently had an experience of being very connected with herself&mdash;very connected with her higher guidance and in a state of joy and power. It was incredible to see her in that state. She had been feeling rather desperate about ending up alone because she&rsquo;s in the midst of a divorce. I asked her, &ldquo;So when you feel this way, do you feel that desperation to be in a relationship?&rdquo; She said, &ldquo;Oh, no. If I&rsquo;m ever in a relationship again, that&rsquo;ll just be gravy!&rdquo;

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Margaret Paul</a>, PhD, will be teaching&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Inner Bonding&reg;</a> at 1440 Multiversity from March 6 &ndash; 8, 2020.

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/loving-yourself-is-the-key-to-a-loving-relationship-an-interview-with-margaret-paul</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/loving-yourself-is-the-key-to-a-loving-relationship-an-interview-with-margaret-paul#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Loving Yourself is the Key to a Loving Relationship: An Interview with Margaret Paul</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Margaret Paul</a>, PhD, is a writer and cocreator of Inner Bonding. She holds a doctorate in psychology and is a relationship expert, noted public speaker, workshop leader, educator, chaplain, consultant, and artist. Dr. Paul has appeared on numerous radio and television shows, including the <i>Oprah Winfrey Show</i>.
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<h2>1440: Why is it that so many relationships don&rsquo;t work out?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em> Mostly it&rsquo;s because both people are trying to get love from the other person because they don&rsquo;t know how to give it to themselves. When people abandon themselves and do all sorts of things to try and have control over getting the other person&rsquo;s love, they become needy and manipulative.

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<span class="quote">Usually both partners are trying to control each other into getting what they want, and they&rsquo;re not taking responsibility for themselves and for their own feelings. </span>

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<h2>1440: So it&rsquo;s a myth that we can expect our partner to make us whole?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em> It&rsquo;s not your job to make each other feel whole and happy. It&rsquo;s each person&rsquo;s job to do that for themselves. When you don&rsquo;t know how to do that for yourself, it creates problems in the relationship.

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<h2>1440: Why are we so often attracted to the &ldquo;wrong&rdquo; person?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em> People are attracted to each other at their common level of self-abandonment or their common level of self-love. If you&rsquo;re abandoning yourself, you&rsquo;re going to attract somebody who is abandoning themselves, whether it&rsquo;s obvious how they&rsquo;re doing that or not.

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<span class="quote">If you&rsquo;ve learned to really see and value and love yourself, you&rsquo;re going to be attracted to somebody who&rsquo;s also doing that. </span>

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These two people will create a much more loving relationship.

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<h2>1440: Do you have an example you could share?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em> I worked with one young man for quite a while. He came from some abuse and neglect and was very self-critical and self-abandoning. He also had a lot of addictions. But he was willing to learn and he hung in there. He did his work and learned to take responsibility for his feelings. Before he learned that, he would attract needy, narcissistic women who wanted a caretaker. Of course it never worked out because they were both trying to get love from the other, where there was no love to give or receive.

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After doing his Inner Bonding work, he started meeting some women who were not quite like that. And then finally last year he met a wonderful, fantastic woman. They fell in love, they got married, and they&rsquo;re having a baby. They&rsquo;re doing so well because they&rsquo;re open.

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<span class="quote">They&rsquo;re open to learning and they&rsquo;re open to loving, and they take good enough care of themselves that they have love to share with each other. </span>

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<h2>1440: If one person in a bad relationship does the inner work, will the relationship survive?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em> Let&rsquo;s say someone came to me in a codependent relationship. They&rsquo;ve been together for 10 years and he earns the money and she takes in that area, but then he demands sex and he takes in that area. When one of them starts to deal with themselves, two things can happen. Either the other person likes it and the relationship actually gets better, or the other person doesn&rsquo;t like it and the relationship gets worse, in which case they know it&rsquo;s time to move on.

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But they don&rsquo;t really know that until they deal with their end of the system.

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<span class="quote">If they don&rsquo;t deal with their end of the system, and they just blame the other person and leave, they&rsquo;re going to take their same self-abandoning ways with them into the next relationship and create a very similar relationship. </span>

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Unfortunately, past statistics have shown that in the United States, 50% of first marriages, 67% of second, and 73% of third marriages end in divorce, although recent research stated that the divorce rate is going down, which is good news.

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<h2>1440: Being single can often feel like second-class status and that being in a relationship is the end game. If we&rsquo;re able to give ourselves the love and happiness we&rsquo;re looking for, how does that change our experience of being single?</h2>
<em>Margaret Paul:</em>

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<span class="quote">If you&rsquo;re loving yourself, tending to your inner child, and manifesting your gifts in the world, then you&rsquo;re going to be happy whether you&rsquo;re in a relationship or not. </span>

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Feeling desperate to find a partner will no longer be an issue. One of my clients recently had an experience of being very connected with herself&mdash;very connected with her higher guidance and in a state of joy and power. It was incredible to see her in that state. She had been feeling rather desperate about ending up alone because she&rsquo;s in the midst of a divorce. I asked her, &ldquo;So when you feel this way, do you feel that desperation to be in a relationship?&rdquo; She said, &ldquo;Oh, no. If I&rsquo;m ever in a relationship again, that&rsquo;ll just be gravy!&rdquo;

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Margaret Paul</a>, PhD, will be teaching&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Inner Bonding&reg;</a> at 1440 Multiversity from March 6 &ndash; 8, 2020.

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/loving-yourself-is-the-key-to-a-loving-relationship-an-interview-with-margaret-paul</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/loving-yourself-is-the-key-to-a-loving-relationship-an-interview-with-margaret-paul#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Living in the Sonder</title><description><![CDATA[<em><strong>Sonder</strong>&mdash;noun: the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own&mdash;populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries, and inherited craziness&mdash;an epic story that continues invisibly around you like an anthill sprawling deep underground, with elaborate passageways to thousands of other lives that you&rsquo;ll never know existed. (Via the&nbsp;<a href="https://www.dictionaryofobscuresorrows.com/post/23536922667/sonder">Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows.</a>)</em>
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Everyone has a story.

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Everyone.

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We forget that. In a world full of rush-rush-rush and now-now-now, it&rsquo;s so easy to gulp our air and occupy ourselves solely with the constant struggle to stay afloat in our own ocean. Our story is the most important one anyhow, right? Me-me-me. Us-us-us.

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Yet we know this is not exactly true. We know a blinders-on existence settles into heartache and loneliness and a desperate life of ennui&mdash;often leading people to pills and drink and endless hours of Netflix flotsam, looking to plunge that video needle again and again for the trip to Check-Out Nation, keeping us dull and protected from the sharp pain of living.

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<span class="quote">Because there&rsquo;s one thing we all know for certain: life hurts. </span>

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But it&rsquo;s also the best thing going and&mdash;good news!&mdash;there are other people who can help.

<ul>
	<li>Others who have gone through what we are going through now.</li>
	<li>Others who are going through what we are going through now.</li>
	<li>Others who know, who understand, who would listen and help if only we would raise our voices above the whisper in our hearts and ask just once&mdash;brave and bold&mdash;for help.</li>
	<li>But we don&rsquo;t. We sit together in isolation, and we lament. To ourselves, to the blue screens of our laptops, to the dots blinking on our phones as we hope for the text that might just save us after all.
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	<span class="quote">But, somewhere deep down, we already know that no&nbsp;single text can save us. </span>

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	When what we need, what we desire, what we long for so hard that we would cry out in the night in the middle of our dreams, if we still dreamed (if we were not so sleep-deprived that we no longer enter the REM Kingdom where all our past haunts and future hopes live) <strong>is connection.</strong> What we really want is so simple, and yet so frightening, that we hide from it and run from it and anesthetize ourselves to the possibility of it.

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	<strong>Connection.</strong>

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	Human connection. Person to person to person to person.

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		<li>Scary</li>
		<li>Thrilling</li>
		<li>Real</li>
		<li>Why do we run? Because real connection takes guts.
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		<span class="quote">But you have guts. You know this, so maybe it&rsquo;s time to start acting like you do. </span>

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		Brave isn&rsquo;t a word reserved for battlefields or plane crashes. It belongs to all of us living and breathing in this landscape of life. Some days, just waking up and deciding to go on is a brave act witnessed by no one but us, yet still meaningful, still so, so, so meaningful.

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		So the next time that you find yourself adrift in this world, in this life, in this existence, I would ask that you remember this: there are others here who wish for the same things you do, who want to have conversations of depth and soul and integrity as we figure out how to live in this modern landscape, in this tech world of our design. People, like you, who are taking steps out of the confused now and moving towards a clearer, more connected, but sustainable, future.

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		<ul>
			<li>Find your way to sonder.</li>
			<li>Bring your voice above a whisper.</li>
			<li>Reach out and connect.</li>
			<li>It might be the way we&rsquo;re&nbsp;going to get through this.
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			<strong>Lisbeth Darsh is the Digital Marketing Manager at 1440 Multiversity, as well as the author of six books and the popular fitness/inspiration blog <a href="https://wordswithlisbeth.com">Words With Lisbeth</a>. A former executive at CrossFit Inc, she has also been a fitness coach/gym owner, an English professor, and a United States Air Force officer, with degrees from Vassar College (BA) and California State University at Dominguez Hills (MA). You can usually find Lisbeth with a book or barbell in hand, looking to lift spirits and weights.</strong></li>
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		</li>
	</ul>
	</li>
</ul>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/living-in-the-sonder</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/living-in-the-sonder#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Learning How to Relax into Who You Are: A Conversation with Panache Desai</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Panache Desai</a>, author of <em>Discovering Your Soul Signature,</em> is a transformation catalyst and inspirational thought leader who guides people to their authentic, essential nature. He has <a href="https://www.oprah.com/own-super-soul-sunday/soul-to-soul-with-panache-desai-video">appeared with Oprah Winfrey</a>&nbsp;on the Emmy Award-winning series <em>Super Soul Sunday</em>, and was a featured speaker for the United Nations Enlightenment Society. He has collaborated with many renowned spiritual teachers, including Deepak Chopra, Michael Bernard Beckwith, Elizabeth Lesser, and Ram Dass.
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<h2>1440: Where do you find inspiration? Are there any teachers you turn to for wisdom?</h2>
<em>Panache Desai:</em> I&rsquo;ve always had an impersonal relationship with God. I&rsquo;ve always understood that God took whatever form it needed to take for me.

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<span class="quote">People show up in my life who share with me exactly what it is that I need to hear at the right time.</span>

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So I can&rsquo;t honestly say that there&rsquo;s been one central source of wisdom or information.

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I&rsquo;ve been very fortunate that, in my life, people have consistently shown up to support me, whether it be in the world of business or the world of spirituality or parenting, or whatever it is. Somebody always shows up to guide me. So it&rsquo;s not been one singular person or book or methodology. It&rsquo;s been God, the source of all, guiding me through all things. And the more I&rsquo;m open, the more that happens.

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<h2>1440: In recent years, you&rsquo;ve become a parent to two sets of twins. What is that experience like?</h2>
<em>Panache Desai:&nbsp;</em>All of my children are doing well and flourishing and thriving. Celeste especially&mdash;she was born with a heart problem and is one-year post-heart transplant and is doing really well. &nbsp;You know, they&rsquo;re all very strong, purpose-driven incarnations. My wife Jan and I just have to consistently get out of the way.

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<h2>1440: How do you find stillness in the midst of all of that?</h2>
<em>Panache Desai:</em> Stillness is where they come from. Everything is that. I get to see life emerging and unfolding in front of me through them. My home has really become my sanctuary. I love being here. I love the energy of it. I find that it&rsquo;s all here, and I don&rsquo;t need to leave my house very much anymore. There&rsquo;s a simplicity that has emerged.

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<span class="quote">When you&rsquo;re living in the moment with all these little beings, what else do you need?</span>

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<h2>1440: What&rsquo;s your current growth edge?</h2>
<em>Panache Desai:</em> So much of my own growth happened at a young age, so&mdash;while it sounds strange to say it&mdash;I&rsquo;ve done everything that I need to do for myself.

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<span class="quote">At some point you fundamentally relax into who you are. When that happens, it&rsquo;s no longer about anything other than just being.</span>

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It&rsquo;s no longer about anything other than just relaxing into that over and over again. The adjustments become smaller. And the windows of time when you&rsquo;re not in that state of connection become smaller.

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My current growth edge actually has more to do with supporting other people as they relax into the truth of who they are. For me now it&rsquo;s about service. I feel like my service has started, and everything that happened to me and for me prior to this phase of my life happened so that I could really be of service. So I&rsquo;m always looking for new ways to do that, like creating Soul Spring, an online platform that empowers other teachers and authors and people who really are in alignment with the &ldquo;change your energy, change your life&rdquo; phenomenon that&rsquo;s spreading across the world.

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<span class="quote">Life becomes about something else when you make the shift and stop playing the game. That&rsquo;s what I want everyone to know for themselves.</span>

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Panache Desai will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">You Are Enough: Discovering a Light Without Limits</a> April 17 &ndash; 19, 2020 at 1440 Multiversity.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/learning-how-to-relax-into-who-you-are-a-conversation-with-panache-desai</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/learning-how-to-relax-into-who-you-are-a-conversation-with-panache-desai#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Krishna Das on Mantras, Chanting, Music, and Love</title><description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Join Krishna Das at 1440 on November 22 &ndash; 24, 2020 for <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Heart of Devotion</a>.&nbsp;</strong></p>

<p>Recently the Be Here Now Network (BHNN) was lucky enough to sit down for a cup of coffee with <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Pilgrim Heart Podcast</a> host Krishna Das (KD, to his fans) to talk about how chanting has opened his heart.</p>

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<h2>Be Here Now Network: What is the role of music in mantras and chanting? How important is the music?</h2>
<em>Krishna Das:</em> Really it&rsquo;s just to calm us down and get us to pay attention. Music&rsquo;s value is that it calms the mind, soothes the savage beast, but it doesn&rsquo;t plant any seeds that will eradicate suffering in the long term.

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<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s good for quieting it down, and giving you an emotional hit of some kind or other, so I always say that the music is like the syrup that the medicine is hidden in. The medicine is the Name itself. </span>

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They say that these names have incredible magnetism and power, in ways that are unimaginable to us in our conceptual framework.

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<h2>BHNN: Is there something in the vibrations of these sounds in our bodies that helps open us up to that power?</h2>
<em>KD:</em> Well, as we know, &ldquo;Om&rdquo; is supposed to be the original sound of creation; it&rsquo;s supposed to encompass all of creation. Those are all the different vibrations that created this table, right? This table is just vibrations. Our bodies are just vibrations. All the molecules are vibrating; they&rsquo;re held together for different reasons, and make different shapes and different forms. So to move back into those vibrations themselves starts to dissolve those forms. And know we&rsquo;re talking about mental forms, the outside forms. Because there&rsquo;s an outer table, but there&rsquo;s also the concept of the table in the mind. Just like the concept of &ldquo;me&rdquo; in the mind.

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So that&rsquo;s what gets dissolved through the moving inward. The other little wrinkle is that you need more than approaching it in a mechanical way, in terms of it&rsquo;s just a vibration&mdash;if I merge with that vibration, I&rsquo;ll become one with the universe. That&rsquo;s not going to work because the &ldquo;me&rdquo; that&rsquo;s saying that is actually the only thing that has to go.

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<span class="quote">So if &ldquo;me&rdquo; is doing the practices to eradicate &ldquo;me,&rdquo; nothing is going to happen except getting a bigger &ldquo;me.&rdquo; That&rsquo;s where love comes into it. </span>

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<h2>BHNN: So is that where the devotion rings a little sweeter?</h2>
<em>KD:</em> Not only that, it makes it possible. Because the impulse of love is to merge in love, for the ego to melt away into the love. And it&rsquo;s probably the only thing that can actually melt that ego. But, once again, it&rsquo;s not a personal love, it&rsquo;s not a &ldquo;me&rdquo; kind of love. It&rsquo;s the love that holds the molecules together. It&rsquo;s the love that holds the universe together.

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<span class="quote">So these names we&rsquo;re chanting have that special power to ignite that kind of love in our hearts where we&rsquo;re not really conscious of it. It&rsquo;s there, we&rsquo;re made of that. Our true nature is that love. </span>

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Through the repetition of these names, gradually but inevitably, that will manifest within us. But on the way to that, different things happen. In other words, in Buddhism, they say there&rsquo;s emptiness and there&rsquo;s compassion. Emptiness is the state of the universe, the interdependence of all things, the egoless-ness of all things. And compassion is the love. One or the other is not enough; you have to have both at the same time.

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There&rsquo;s relative compassion, which is what we have for other people; it&rsquo;s relative, it&rsquo;s between two things. And then there&rsquo;s ultimate compassion, which is not different than emptiness. So it&rsquo;s together. It&rsquo;s just the longing we have to merge in love, to fully experience that which pulls us into ourselves. And you could say the names clean the mirror of our hearts so that what we see is clear and accurate. Right now we&rsquo;re looking at a lot of dust and we think, that&rsquo;s me; we think that&rsquo;s what it is. But as that dust is cleared, a different reflection shows up.

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<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s not that we&rsquo;re getting something that&rsquo;s not there, it&rsquo;s that through the repetition of these names, we&rsquo;re cleaning that mirror of the heart. And eventually, we have that experience of what&rsquo;s really in the mirror. </span>

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<h2>BHNN: In the context of our Western notion of yoga and mindfulness, would you consider chanting a mindfulness exercise?</h2>
<em>KD:</em> Certainly. Nothing can happen if you&rsquo;re not paying attention. Mindfulness has a lot of different meanings that the yoga community is not really aware of. They take that phrase and they think they know what it means. But mindfulness practice, Vipassana practice, is a particular practice. It starts with concentration, but then it quickly moves into awareness.

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When the yoga community talks about mindfulness, they&rsquo;re not talking about awareness, they&rsquo;re really talking about some type of concentration. Which you need. Without that, how can you drive if you&rsquo;re not paying attention? Even if there&rsquo;s the baby here and the radio over there, still there&rsquo;s enough attention to stay on the road. So the yoga community is really very young in its understanding of these things. Because the people who come to yoga practice, their motives aren&rsquo;t very mature in a sense. They want to feel better; they want their bodies to be stronger. It&rsquo;s a physical practice, but it does plant seeds of calming down, because you do have to pay attention. Now, whether that carries through to the other parts of life is iffy, because people compartmentalize so many things.

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<span class="quote">So, one of the things about unconditional love is that you can&rsquo;t just love your deity, or your guru, or your boyfriend, or your girlfriend, or your wife. That&rsquo;s not enough. That&rsquo;s not real love. That&rsquo;s love between two things. What has to arise is love for no reason, love that is just your nature. Which is what we really long for. </span>

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Which is why we grab onto the things that turn us on, because they remind us of that.

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But that&rsquo;s okay. I was really in love with this woman once and my old friend Mr. Tewari said to me, &ldquo;My boy, relationships are business. Do your business, enjoy. But love, love is what lasts 24 hours a day.&rdquo; Which is consciousness, which is bliss, which is our true nature? But he didn&rsquo;t say don&rsquo;t do it. Everything is business in the sense that it&rsquo;s give and take. Devotion is usually misunderstood that way; it&rsquo;s like, &ldquo;my devotion for something.&rdquo; But ultimately it&rsquo;s devotion for devotion&rsquo;s sake.

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Even so, it&rsquo;s hard to do that, because we have karmas that keep arising in the moment. It&rsquo;s not enough to just want to be a loving person, you have to find a way to be in the moment with whatever arises in a compassionate way. That takes a lot of practice. Because when we&rsquo;re suffering, when we&rsquo;re in pain, we can&rsquo;t think about anything else.

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So that&rsquo;s the thing about the practice of the name, as I&rsquo;ve come to understand over the years.

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<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s really not about my experience in the moment of chanting, it&rsquo;s about planting seeds that continue to sprout as the day goes on, as life goes on, as the weeks go on. </span>

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But we tend to think it&rsquo;s about me all the time. Everything we do is about me, my experience. How do I feel now? I&rsquo;ve been sitting for 13 seconds, why are they not calling me? All that kind of stuff. So you plant the seeds, and the seeds ripen us from inside. It&rsquo;s a lifetime practice.

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<h2>BHNN: I feel like learning the Hanuman Chaleesa has been my insurance policy.</h2>
<em>KD:</em> It&rsquo;s going to shift wherever you&rsquo;re at, that&rsquo;s one thing it does. Like, when I&rsquo;m really stuck&mdash;and that&rsquo;s only every other second&mdash;I&rsquo;ll sit down and do some Chaleesas. Sometimes I&rsquo;ll do 108 because I&rsquo;m really stuck and I really need something to shift, and I just can&rsquo;t do it myself. You&rsquo;re helpless against some of this stuff. So you just do that, and it definitely shifts things, liberates you from certain things.

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Part of the practice when you do these Chaleesas is that you ask Hanuman for a boon. When I did my first 108 Chaleesas in 1971, I asked for a particular boon.

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<span class="quote">That boon I asked for was big time, it wasn&rsquo;t going to happen quickly. And that&rsquo;s happened and is still happening. What I asked for is still, little by little, manifesting. </span>

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When I was in India with my guru, Maharaj-ji, all of sudden you&rsquo;d be sitting there and he&rsquo;d say something like, &ldquo;What do you want? Okay, I&rsquo;ll give it to you, whatever you want. It happens right now, what do you want?&rdquo; So I carried this little thing in my back pocket, I knew what I was going to say. For like a year and a half, I walked around, just with this little thing I kept in the back of my mind. And sure enough, one day he goes, &ldquo;What do you want?&rdquo; And I said, &ldquo;Prema Bhakti,&rdquo; which is loving devotion, but it&rsquo;s like ecstatic loving devotion. And he looked and goes, &ldquo;Not now, later. Later.&rdquo;

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<h2>BHNN: It seems like he [Neem Karoli Baba] was so funny.</h2>
<em>KD:</em> And it was a humor&hellip;You know, he knew everything. Like he would say, &ldquo;People come here and try to fool me. I go on fooling the whole world, and people come here and think they can fool me.&rdquo;

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<h2>BHNN: What was it that Maharaj-ji said about being one-pointed?</h2>
<em>KD:</em> He said, &ldquo;If you bring your mind to one point, you&rsquo;ll see god.&rdquo; That&rsquo;s different than being god. It&rsquo;s a good beginning. But still, it&rsquo;s not easy. You can&rsquo;t just sit down and do that. Even regular practice is not going to make that happen unless we transform the rest of our lives.

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<span class="quote">If the rest of our lives are full of poison, and cruelty, and anger, and selfishness, no matter how many times we try to meditate, the results are going to be very meager. It&rsquo;s not going to do what we want. </span>

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<h2>BHNN: For those of us who are newer to kirtan and chanting, when we first encounter the scene it can seem kind of religious, like it&rsquo;s a part of Hinduism. What do you think?</h2>
<em>KD:</em> I don&rsquo;t look at it like that. First of all, Maharaj-ji never made us Hindus. He never initiated us; he never formally made us Hindus.

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<span class="quote">He just loves us as we are. And we soaked it up. We saw what people did to help themselves and connect more deeply, and we adopted those things. </span>

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But for most of us, it&rsquo;s not about being Hindu, it&rsquo;s not about Hindu religion.

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<h2>BHNN: That simplicity must throw people off, especially with Maharaj-ji.</h2>
<em>KD:</em> It threw us off, too. We kept waiting for him to tell us what to do, and he would never do that. He never told me to sing with people. Never.

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<span class="quote">I had to figure it out; it had to come to me what I needed to do for myself. </span>

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Otherwise, it would not have been the same if he said, &ldquo;Go forth&hellip;&rdquo; The ego, the self-centeredness of it, I wouldn&rsquo;t have been able to overcome it. But because I recognized that I had to sing to save myself&mdash;that changed everything.

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<h2>BHNN: Do you feel the audience at all when you&rsquo;re chanting?</h2>
<em>KD:</em> I don&rsquo;t notice it as something outside of me, but I feel it inside.

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<span class="quote">To some degree, I think I feel what&rsquo;s going on. I don&rsquo;t know if this is delusion or not, but I certainly feel that I can sense where the audience is at, and it affects the way things come out of me. </span>

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It&rsquo;s just like the difference between the first night at one of the Maui retreats and the last night. The first night, half of the people are new and never sang before, and not only that, they&rsquo;ve just come and their lives are still hanging on to them. By the last day, they don&rsquo;t even remember where they came from, and they&rsquo;re really present and you can feel that difference. So it&rsquo;s not mystical, it&rsquo;s just very nuts-and-bolts, you know?

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<h2>BHNN: What&rsquo;s the difference between mantra and chant?</h2>
<em>KD:</em> The Name is a mantra, but it&rsquo;s particular, it&rsquo;s the Name. But there are all kinds of mantras that arrange or use those seed sounds&mdash;beej mantras&mdash;which are very powerful sounds that could, done correctly, connect very intensely with different energies.

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<div class="full-image"><img alt="Krishna Das on stage" height="500" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/Blog-BHNN-KrishnaDas2.jpg" width="960" /></div>

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Different deities have seed mantras for their presence. If I say, &ldquo;Ram,&rdquo; Ram comes to mind. And different energies have different beej mantras. And mantras can be for anything. Mantras can be magical formulas; there&rsquo;s mantras to find buried treasure, there&rsquo;s mantras to become president of the United States, there&rsquo;s mantras to be able to rob banks, become invisible, control people, make it rain, control snakes. There are mantras for everything.

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<span class="quote">But the Name is good for only one thing, which is love. </span>

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And that&rsquo;s why with those other mantras you need to be given the shakti from another being that has been initiated in order for it to really work. Those kinds of mantras, those mantras are for power. But not with the Name, as everybody has that inside of them already. And really, it&rsquo;s one&rsquo;s own longing that leads them in that direction. It&rsquo;s one&rsquo;s own longing that you follow in your life, and you get off at different stops along the way because you long for something. And if you find out it&rsquo;s not really what you were longing for, you get back on the train and see where the train takes you.

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<span class="quote">So the idea is the more you keep your eyes open and see things for what they are, the less you try to squeeze water from the stone. </span>

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You&rsquo;ve got a stone, and you want water, so you start squeezing. Hey, wait a minute! And you squeeze, you bruise your fingers and break your hands, but water is never going to come from that stone. So you drop the stone. That&rsquo;s called wisdom. But you only get it by trying; you don&rsquo;t get it by just looking at the stone, you have to squeeze.

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Western culture is very about relationships; people keep trying to find happiness in relationships. There might be happiness inside of you, and there might be happiness inside of that person, but you don&rsquo;t get it from that person. You get a lot of things from the relationship, but real love is not relational, that&rsquo;s what Mr. Tewari was pointing out. He said, &ldquo;Do your business, enjoy that business, but if you expect to get love from it, you&rsquo;ll be disappointed.&rdquo;

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We&rsquo;re so programmed from day one about that: romantic love, sexual love, physical love, emotional love.

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<span class="quote">Unconditional love, love that has no cause or reason, there&rsquo;s no wiring for that. But that what&rsquo;s the path is about, it&rsquo;s about developing the wiring for that kind of love to flow. </span>

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<em>This article was written by Noah Markus for Be Here Now Network and is not to be replicated without consent.&nbsp;</em><em>Excerpted from an interview with Kelly Rego, Jocelyn Jyoti Levy, and Noah Markus.</em>

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Krishna Das</a> has taken call-and-response chanting out of yoga centers and into concert halls, becoming a worldwide icon and the best-selling Western chant artist of all time. He&nbsp;has released 14 well-received albums, including Grammy-nominated <em>Live Ananda</em>. His signature style fuses the traditional kirtan of the East with Western harmonic and rhythmic sensibilities.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/krishna-das-on-mantras-chanting-music-and-love</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/krishna-das-on-mantras-chanting-music-and-love#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Just Because I Like Myself, That Does Not Make Me a Narcissist</title><description><![CDATA[For all of the talk of &ldquo;self-love&rdquo; and &ldquo;self-care&rdquo; we throw around in our huggy &ldquo;woke&rdquo; culture, nothing seems to piss people off more than someone who actually does love themselves.
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Whoa. How dare you? Who do you think you are? Shouldn&rsquo;t you be self-deprecating when someone compliments you? Make yourself smaller so as not to make others uncomfortable.

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I like myself&mdash;quite a lot. I enjoy my own company; I think I am a good friend. I would want someone like me for a friend. I think I am funny and compelling and attractive.

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And&hellip;I can be super opinionated and quick and fierce in my judgments. I can vacillate between enthusiastic obsession of an idea or a person and then just as quickly become uninterested. I am kind of an asshole sometimes. I can be so in my head and my inner dialogue, that I can miss emotional cues from others and unintentionally hurt people and have no idea that I have done so. I am acutely aware of my shadow aspects, and I do not say that they are part of my charm. I am more inclined to say that somehow, in spite of them, I am still basically a person that I love and feel fondly about.

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This does not make me a narcissist.

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<span class="quote">I think perhaps it makes me a person with a rather healthy sense of self. </span>

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I am fully aware of the more challenging parts of my personality, and I do not stand with my hands on my hips and scream with a sneer, &ldquo;Deal with it!&rdquo; I smile and shrug and say, &ldquo;Well, this is how I am and how I live my life, and I am not really interested in whether you approve of me or not, because I feel happy with me and my life and the way that I live it, and I am always open to growth and new insight.&rdquo;

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Based on virtually 90 percent of articles written as of late, there seem to be only three personality types&mdash;empaths, sociopaths, and narcissists. The general gist of these articles is that empaths are marvelously in tune, selfless humans who are victims of the whims of greedy, self-centered narcissistic sociopaths who plot and manipulate the soul crushing of the angelic empath purely for their own evil delight. This seems to be the only narrative, and I do not buy into it.

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I am a tremendously empathic person and have found myself in situations where that has been taken advantage of by troubled, emotionally damaged people and that has next to nothing to do with the other person (insert narcissist/sociopath) and almost everything to do with my inability to chose me first. When I have put my foot down and drawn a clear line of boundary, I have been called selfish, egocentric, and narcissistic. There is a fuzzy line between loving others in a healthy way and putting others&rsquo; needs in front of ours which is martyrish and enabling.

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<span class="quote">There is a world of difference between liking who you are, being proud of and acknowledging your strengths and talents, and being a fatheaded blowhard who has to tell everyone about how fantastic they are. </span>

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The latter springs from deep feelings of inadequacy and fear most often, so that is not love of the self, but a sputtering Wizard of Oz quaking behind the curtain.

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As far as the sociopath archetype goes, that is a mythical creation of literature, myth, and film. Most people are just not that brilliant or cunning to manipulate others in that fashion. Most often it is an accident of unconscious behavior that stems from past trauma, abuse, that is fear based, with self-preservation as the end goal. Rarely does it arise from some diabolical plan of screwing with someone&rsquo;s mind for their own twisted amusement.

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There is always a risk to sliding yourself or others into a labeled box and popping a top on it. I would like to think that we are all infinitely more nuanced and interesting than a stereotype. Close your eyes and sit with the essence of who you are and have that make you smile and want to wrap your arms around yourself and say &ldquo;I love you&rdquo; and be touched at the tenderness directed toward yourself. Don&rsquo;t make jokes, don&rsquo;t apologize. That is not narcissistic, but self-caring. Don&rsquo;t let anyone tell you otherwise. If they do, you can be sure that they are a sociopath.

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<strong>Jodeen Revere revels in her unconventional, multifaceted dream life. She is an actor, a writer, Thai yoga massage therapist, creative movement and dance enthusiast, and RYT-200 yoga teacher currently on an endless sabbatical. She writes <a href="https://jodeenrevere.wordpress.com/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">a blog chronicling her cancertastic adventures.</a>&nbsp;She loves writing, reading, viewing and heatedly discussing film, eating really good snacks, and chillin&rsquo; with her cats Julian and Tilda. She is a kind and good-natured smart ass. She is very funny. Just ask her. Her favorite human, ever, is her daughter, Lily.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/just-because-i-like-myself-that-does-not-make-me-a-narcissist</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/just-because-i-like-myself-that-does-not-make-me-a-narcissist#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Judgment Day: Today and Every Day</title><description><![CDATA[The latest catchphrase, uttered with a gentle voice and condescending smile, seems to be&nbsp;<em>&ldquo;I&rsquo;m not judging but&hellip;&rdquo;</em>
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I have some news for you. Everyone judges. Everyone, so don&rsquo;t try and pretend that you don&rsquo;t.

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It is not possible to <em>not</em> judge. It is an automatic and instinctual reaction to any situation which causes an emotional response&mdash;which means every single situation we ever find ourselves in. We are human beings and we respond to the world through our emotions.

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We have perpetrated the idea that spiritual &ldquo;woke&rdquo; people don&rsquo;t judge and, since not judging is an impossibility, it is yet another way to feel inadequate at being a human. It&rsquo;s another impossible attainment, like being five pounds thinner, 10 years younger, or having your underwear drawer organized for more than 24 hours.

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<span class="quote"> Judgment is a given. It is what you do with it after it has raised its hackles that matters. </span>

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Judgment means, &ldquo;the ability to make considered decisions or come to sensible conclusions.&rdquo; That sounds like wisdom to me. Shouldn&rsquo;t we all be discerning in our lives with the choices we make? Use good judgment?

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Yet, the secondary definition in the dictionary is &ldquo;a misfortune or calamity viewed as a divine punishment&rdquo;&mdash;which sounds punitive and steeped in fire and brimstone.

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So the train wreck happens when our personal, considered decision does not match with the decision that someone else might make in a given circumstance, which can result in finger-pointing and a desire to mete out divine punishment. That is when judgment goes all sideways like Baby Driver is at the wheel.

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Let&rsquo;s back up.

<ul>
	<li class="Textbody">We have an interaction with another person or witness an event.</li>
	<li class="Textbody">We have an emotional response that rises up.</li>
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We flip through our mental rolodex: This is <i>my </i>past experience. This is what I know of&nbsp;<i>this&nbsp;</i>person&rsquo;s past experiences. This is how I imagine this scenario might play out based on gut instinct or old patterns.

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Is the person&rsquo;s safety, health, or well-being at stake?

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Is it pertinent for me to weigh in?

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Can I voice my opinion in a respectful, honest, and loving manner?

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Most importantly: if I do not voice my opinion, can I not allow it to smugly fester in self-righteous bile, internally making my life a self-imposed hell?

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I would venture to say that all of our experiences are a direct result of our judgment. No need to ascribe &ldquo;good&rdquo; or &ldquo;bad&rdquo; to it. Oftentimes, great experiences arise from not the greatest judgment, and being overly discerning can sometimes result in a stagnant life. There is no recipe, but hopefully there is forward growth instead of deceptive repackaging of old patterns.

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Different circus, same monkeys.

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One person&rsquo;s so-called &ldquo;bad decision&rdquo; is another person&rsquo;s bold and courageous move. For one person, choosing to move across country with no solid job opportunity (but a strong feeling in their heart that that is where they would like to be) is courageous and honoring their heart&rsquo;s instincts. For someone else, who has a history of picking up and running at a moment&rsquo;s notice to escape their immediate circumstances, it may be more of a cautionary tale of avoidance and potentially &ldquo;poor judgment.&rdquo; It is both freeing and maddening that there is not a formula or right answer for everyone.

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Since judgment, hopefully, originates from a place of making well-informed, wise decisions, all we can do is ask, &ldquo;How is your judgment working out for <i>you</i>?&rdquo;

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<span class="quote"> Never bludgeon anyone else with your judgment.&nbsp;And never, ever say, &ldquo;I told you so.&rdquo; </span>

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Don&rsquo;t pretend you don&rsquo;t judge, that will only make me judge you and that never works out for anyone.

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<strong>Jodeen Revere revels in her unconventional, multifaceted dream life. She is an actor, a writer, Thai yoga massage therapist, creative movement and dance enthusiast, and RYT-200 yoga teacher currently on an endless sabbatical. She writes <a href="https://jodeenrevere.wordpress.com/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">a blog chronicling her cancertastic adventures.</a>&nbsp;She loves writing, reading, viewing and heatedly discussing film, eating really good snacks, and chillin&rsquo; with her cats Julian and Tilda. She is a kind and good-natured smart ass. She is very funny. Just ask her. Her favorite human, ever, is her daughter, Lily.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/judgment-day-today-and-every-day</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/judgment-day-today-and-every-day#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;I&apos;m Spiritual but Not Religious&quot;</title><description><![CDATA[What&rsquo;s that smell? It might be the spiritual.
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<em>&ldquo;No, I am not religious, but I do consider myself a very spiritual person.&rdquo;</em><br />
What does that mean?<br />
What is the difference between religious and spiritual?
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Where being religious is connected to the belief and worship of a superhuman controlling power, being spiritual gets a bit more shimmery and vague.

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Often times what is deemed as &ldquo;spiritual&rdquo; is linked to practices that can incline one to puff up their chest and rustle their tail feathers with self-importance: meditation, yoga, chakra cleansing, reiki, kirtan, vision quests, juicing, coffee enemas, infrared saunas, and whether you should be vegan or vegetarian.

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<span class="quote">There is nothing wrong with any of these practices, but when they are all stitched together to create a self-righteous umbrella to huddle under so that nontraditional (nonreligious) individuals can have their own exclusive group in the sandbox, it can become problematic. </span>

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Spirituality becomes something for people who deem themselves too cool for religion.

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Anne Lamott says, &ldquo;You can safely assume you&rsquo;ve created God in your own image when it turns out that God hates all the same people you do.&rdquo;

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There is a viral video of a four-year-old girl on a couch, waxing poetic on her visit to the gym with her mother, with all of the eye rolling and exasperation of a jaded woman in her seventies.&nbsp;<em>&ldquo;All of these people running, and not going anywhere?&rdquo;&nbsp;</em>If a gym produces beefcakes, she claims she is a vegetarian. The teacher says yoga is a spiritual practice, to which she sighs and replies, &ldquo;I can smell the spiritual.&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">I quit teaching yoga partially because of the smell of the spiritual, and I am more than willing to admit I contributed to the odor in my own way. </span>

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I have never had the perma-smile, glazed-eyed preciousness of someone who drank the yoga Kool-Aid, but I was an earnest zealot in my love of the practice, and really wanted my students to have my experience. I was disgruntled if they saw it as exercise or a workout. There is certainly a culture within the spiritual community of eyebrow raising at people who don&rsquo;t &ldquo;get it&rdquo;&mdash;even if they think it with a smile and deny the idea that they judge. &ldquo;If there was a better way to think or behave, don&rsquo;t you think I would be doing that?!&rdquo; Duh.

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It seems crucial at this juncture (with the way things are in the world) to not lord over others our personal choices in how we find our sense of internal well-being and meaning in our lives.

<ul>
	<li>Are you spiritual?</li>
	<li>Are you religious?</li>
	<li>Do you believe in God?</li>
	<li>Do you believe in the right God?</li>
	<li>What kind of yoga do you practice?</li>
	<li>Do you practice it the right way?</li>
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It can be pretty divisive even if it is well-meaning.

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The Dalai Lama defines spirituality as being &ldquo;concerned with those qualities of the human spirit&mdash;such as love and compassion, patience, tolerance, forgiveness, contentment, a sense of responsibility, a sense of harmony&mdash;which bring happiness to both self and others.&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">He also says, &ldquo;My religion is simple. My religion is kindness.&rdquo; That sounds like an ideology that can clear the air for all of us. </span>

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<strong>Jodeen Revere </strong>

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<strong> Jodeen Revere revels in her unconventional, multifaceted dream life. She is an actor, a writer, Thai yoga massage therapist, creative movement and dance enthusiast, and RYT-200 yoga teacher currently on an endless sabbatical. She writes <a href="https://jodeenrevere.wordpress.com/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">a blog chronicling her cancertastic adventures.</a>&nbsp;She loves writing, reading, viewing and heatedly discussing film, eating really good snacks, and chillin&rsquo; with her cats Julian and Tilda. She is a kind and good-natured smart ass. She is very funny. Just ask her. Her favorite human, ever, is her daughter, Lily.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/im-spiritual-but-not-religious</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/im-spiritual-but-not-religious#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How We Can End the Epidemic of Negative Thinking: An Interview with Dr. Daniel Amen</title><description><![CDATA[<div class="cta" style="float: right; text-align: center;">Join <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Daniel Amen</a> for<br />
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from&nbsp;April 6 &ndash; 8, 2018.</div>
<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Daniel Amen</a>, MD,&nbsp;is a double board-certified psychiatrist, international&nbsp;speaker, and the founder of Amen Clinics. Called &ldquo;the most popular psychiatrist in&nbsp;America,&rdquo;&nbsp;Dr. Amen has written, produced,&nbsp;and hosted 12 shows about the brain on public&nbsp;television and is the author of over 30 books, including #1<em>&nbsp;New York Times&nbsp;</em>best&nbsp;seller&nbsp;<em>Change Your Brain, Change Your Life</em>.

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<h2>1440: Much of the advice you give&mdash;to eat well, get good sleep, move your body, be a good community member&mdash;was how most people lived just two or three generations back. What has happened in recent decades to plummet us to such an unhealthy state in our culture?</h2>
<em>Daniel Amen:</em> Tana and I wrote about this in our book <em>The Brain Warrior&rsquo;s Way.</em>

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<span class="quote">Today you&rsquo;re literally in a war for the health of your brain. </span>

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This was never true before. But now, everywhere you go, someone is trying to shove toxic, addictive food down your throat&mdash;food that will kill you early.

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There is also nearly nonstop bombardment from gadgets that steal your attention and cause the release of dopamine in your brain, leaving you needing more and more excitement in order to feel anything at all. Add in the chronic stress that people feel from commuting, overworking, and expecting relationships to be perfect without having to do much work for it, and we have a society that&rsquo;s sick.

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Forty percent of us are obese, and I&rsquo;ve published two studies that show that as your weight goes up, the size and function of your brain goes down. Twenty percent of teenage girls are depressed. That&rsquo;s one in five teenage girls. That absolutely was not true 50 years ago.

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<h2>1440: What is causing such high levels of anxiety among teenagers?</h2>
<em>Daniel Amen:</em> Part of it is poor food, sleep, and exercise habits, but a big part of it is social media.

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<span class="quote">Anxiety often comes from comparing yourself negatively to someone else and thinking, &ldquo;I should do this&rdquo; or &ldquo;I should be able to do that.&rdquo; With the likes of Kylie Jenner or Kim Kardashian being the role model for many teenage girls, it&rsquo;s sort of horrifying. </span>

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One of my patients, a teenage girl, took a video of herself without clothes on and it went viral in her high school. I asked my 14-year-old daughter how common this was and she said about 30 percent of kids go through that. That&rsquo;s not an official number, but this didn&rsquo;t even happen 20 years ago. The level of negative thinking among all my patients&mdash;kids and adults&mdash;is very high and causes tremendous anxiety.

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<h2>1440: How can kids, or anyone, take back their mind from obsessive negative thinking?</h2>
<em>Daniel Amen:</em> The Buddha wrote about this tendency 2500 years ago. We live with a monkey mind. It swings from branch to branch inside our head, often without a lot of purpose.

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<span class="quote">We don&rsquo;t know how to discipline our minds. And because, as a species, we evolved with a negativity bias to help us spot threats in the environment, our minds naturally go to what&rsquo;s wrong rather than what&rsquo;s right. </span>

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Many years ago I had a really hard day at work. I saw two people whose marriage was in crisis, two teenagers who had run away from home, and four suicidal patients. I went home very stressed and discovered an ant infestation in my kitchen. As a medical student I was always coming up with mnemonics or acronyms for things I was trying to remember. As I was cleaning up what seemed to me thousands of ants, I thought, &ldquo;ANTs: Automatic Negative Thoughts. My patients are infested with ANTs!&rdquo;

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The next day I brought a can of ant spray into the office, put it on my coffee table, and said to my patients, &ldquo;We need to talk about the ANTs in your head. You&rsquo;re infested and we need to get rid of them.&rdquo; And they got it! Eventually I got rid of the spray and started using an ant and an anteater puppet. Kids love it. I even have a book called <em>Captain Snout and the Super Power Questions</em> that identifies the different kinds of ANTs and walks you through how to combat them.

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<h2>1440: So how do we fight negative thoughts?</h2>
<em>Daniel Amen:</em>

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<span class="quote">Whenever you feel sad, mad, nervous, or out of control, the trick is to look at what you&rsquo;re thinking and ask yourself, &ldquo;Is it true?&rdquo; </span>

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Start talking back to the thought. Examine it. Question it. Are you 100% sure that the thought is true? Probably not. Questioning your thoughts is a good way to make sure you don&rsquo;t believe every stupid thing that you think!

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<h2>1440: What if a thought <em>feels</em> really true? What if it seems really obvious that the guy doesn&rsquo;t like me because when I asked him to go to the school dance (or to grab a drink if I&rsquo;m an adult), he said no? How do you work with that?</h2>
<em>Daniel Amen:</em> The goal here isn&rsquo;t positive thinking. I&rsquo;m not a fan of that.

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<span class="quote">What I am a fan of is accurate thinking. </span>

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What does it really mean that he didn&rsquo;t say yes? Maybe it means he&rsquo;s interested in someone else. You don&rsquo;t know for sure, but if it&rsquo;s true, you would want to know that so you can move on and open your heart up for someone else. But if the thought is &ldquo;He said no, so I&rsquo;m unworthy,&rdquo; that&rsquo;s different. I had a girl this week who wrote on her hand, &ldquo;I&rsquo;m a slut. I&rsquo;m unworthy.&rdquo; We questioned the thought and she realized it wasn&rsquo;t true. But if she didn&rsquo;t question it, and she thought it over and over again, she would come to believe it. You can see how that could end up devastating her life.

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<h2>1440: So you&rsquo;re not a fan of positive thinking, but is there room for other kinds of intentional thinking, like a gratitude practice or sending loving thoughts to yourself?</h2>

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<em>Daniel Amen:</em> Absolutely. I&rsquo;m a huge fan because that&rsquo;s not false. It&rsquo;s not phony. I&rsquo;m a fan of gratitude and an even bigger fan of appreciation. Gratitude is what I feel good about and what I&rsquo;m grateful for. Appreciation is a bridge where you take gratitude and you reach out and tell someone else that you appreciate them. It&rsquo;s like gratitude squared. Both practices are great for the brain.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Daniel Amen</a>, MD, and&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Tana Amen</a>, BSN, RN, will be teaching&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Change Your Brain, Change Your Life</a> at 1440 Multiversity on&nbsp;April 6 &ndash; 8, 2018.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-we-can-end-the-epidemic-of-negative-thinking-an-interview-with-dr-daniel-amen</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-we-can-end-the-epidemic-of-negative-thinking-an-interview-with-dr-daniel-amen#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Keep Your Mind in a Fast-Moving World</title><description><![CDATA[It starts from the moment you open your phone each morning: the barrage of daily life in America. The volume feels turned up everywhere &hellip; and oh so often, you just want to get away from it all.
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When the urge strikes to pull the covers over your head and not deal with anything&mdash;people, politics, friends, family&mdash;how do you proceed?

<ul>
	<li>How do you stay involved in issues that matter to you without burning out?</li>
	<li>How do you stay sane in what feels like an insane world?</li>
	<li>How do you give your best when the volume is too loud and getting louder?</li>
</ul>
Here&rsquo;s how: stop for a moment and consider what you are doing (or not doing) to take care of yourself and your headspace in these tumultuous times.

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<h2>1. Are You Exercising?</h2>
First things first. Your health is the most important thing you&rsquo;ve got. If you don&rsquo;t take care of yourself, how can you care for anyone else? Remember what <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sharon Salzberg</a> says, &ldquo;You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.&rdquo;

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It might boost your ego to say you&rsquo;re too busy to exercise, but boosting your heart rate will do more for your productivity and your longevity. Nobody in the graveyard wishes they had cared less about their health. Guard your exercise time like you&rsquo;re breastfeeding an infant. You wouldn&rsquo;t deny food to a baby, right? So, don&rsquo;t deny yourself an essential stress-reducer. Move your body!

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<h2>2. How Are You Starting Your Day?</h2>
Stop reading the headlines or watching the news first thing in the morning. Don&rsquo;t start your day with stress. Drink in the media updates after you&rsquo;ve thoroughly prepared yourself for the day.

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Try this: start your day with 15 minutes of meditation or 15 minutes of reading. Use a meditation app like Headspace or Simply Being. Set a timer for as little as five minutes. You can even do it on your commute (if you&rsquo;re not driving), in the airport, or on the plane. Once again, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sharon Salzberg</a>: &ldquo;Meditation is the ultimate mobile device; you can use it anywhere, anytime, unobtrusively.&rdquo;

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If you want to start your day with reading, try a daily passage book like <em>365 Nirvana</em> by Josh Baran or <em>A Year of Miracles</em> by Marianne Williamson, or even <em>Tools of Titans</em> by Tim Ferris. By the time Alexa (or a timer) signals that your time is up, you&rsquo;ll have primed your brain for a great day!

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<h2>3. What Are You Talking About?</h2>
What are your daily conversations like? Are you making sure you talk about things other than politics? In a world of upheaval and high emotions, it&rsquo;s easy to get sucked into a constant discussion stream that&rsquo;s centered on the news.

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You can still discuss politics, but make sure it doesn&rsquo;t become your only focus.

<ul>
	<li>Diversify your news intake. Pay attention to sports, health, education, weather, comics, etc.</li>
	<li>Remember to ask your kids what they&rsquo;re learning in school.</li>
	<li>Remember to check in with your spouse or partner and take care of your relationship.</li>
	<li>Remember to laugh.</li>
</ul>

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<h2>4. What Are You Listening To?</h2>
What you allow into your mind through your ears is crucial. Choose your music and your radio station wisely. If you commute, try switching off the news at the end of the day and listening instead to a fun or thought-provoking podcast:

<ul>
	<li>Consider big questions with Krista Tippett of <em>On Being</em>.</li>
	<li>Laugh with the folks on <em>Wait Wait &hellip; Don&rsquo;t Tell Me!</em></li>
	<li>Lose yourself in the storytelling of <a href="https://1440.us/the-box-sessions/"><em>The Moth</em></a>.</li>
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Feel the stress of the day fall away instead of cling to you. Walk into your home refreshed and awake to the delights of this world.

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<h2>5. Have You Considered a Digital Sabbath?</h2>
I&rsquo;m not going to tell you to abandon social media or unplug forever. Few people want to live in an offline cave.

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But there is a growing popularity around the concept of a digital Sabbath. You pick one day a week to unplug&mdash;many folks choose Sunday. That doesn&rsquo;t mean you have to do it every Sunday, or that you have to do it for 24 hours. The point is to make a concentrated effort to unplug for an extended period. Recover and recharge yourself. As <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Elizabeth Gilbert</a> says, &ldquo;I spend so much of my life in front of a screen, otherwise, that I really need the extra time away, just to feel my life and to cocreate it.&rdquo; So, do that. Cocreate your life by taking a breather from screens.

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<h2>6. How Are You Breathing?</h2>
Weird question, huh?

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But the truth is that we so easily overlook breathing, and yet how we breathe can be massively helpful in counteracting stress. That&rsquo;s why the US Air Force teaches breathing to pilots. As USAF Lt Colonel Jannell MacAulay says, &ldquo;Our breath is always with us and it&rsquo;s free. Learning how to use that in times of stress is powerful.&rdquo;

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When stress mounts, close your eyes&mdash;even momentarily. Focus on breathing slowly and exhaling for longer than you inhale. Notice the effect. Then, return to your tasks. Repeat as needed.

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Note: These six tips won&rsquo;t save the world, but they can help you save your mind and that&rsquo;s a start. Experiment and see what works for you. There&rsquo;s a reason that Ralph Waldo Emerson said, &ldquo;All of life is an experiment&rdquo; &hellip; because it is. So, give it a try. Good luck!

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<strong>Lisbeth Darsh is a 1440 Multiversity employee, as well as the author of six books and the popular fitness/inspiration blog <i>Words With Lisbeth</i>. A former executive at CrossFit Inc., Lisbeth has also been a fitness coach/gym owner, an English professor, and a military officer. You can usually find Lisbeth with a book or barbell in hand, looking to lift spirits and weights.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-keep-your-mind-in-a-fast-moving-world</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-keep-your-mind-in-a-fast-moving-world#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Feel Your Feelings: An Interview with Tara Brach</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Tara Brach, PhD,</a> is a psychologist, meditation teacher, and author of the best-selling books <em>Radical Acceptance</em> and <em>True Refuge</em>. She is founder of and senior teacher at the Insight Meditation Community of Washington, DC, and teaches Buddhist meditation at centers in the United States and Europe.
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Tara&rsquo;s podcasted talks and meditations are downloaded nearly a million times each month. Her teachings blend Western psychology, Buddhist psychology, Eastern meditation practices, and mindful attention to the inner life with a full, compassionate engagement with the world.

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<h2>1440: What&rsquo;s the first step to beginning to feel your feelings?</h2>
<em>Tara Brach:</em> To begin to feel your feelings&mdash;especially if they are intense or difficult&mdash;you need to create a welcoming, kind environment. You can think of your feelings as wild creatures that hide out in the woods, and the only way they&rsquo;ll come out into the field is if they feel safe enough. They&rsquo;re parts of your psyche, but they hide in the shadows when it&rsquo;s not safe. In order for them to feel safe to come into full consciousness, they need to feel a kind, gentle receptivity from you.

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<h2>1440: What happens next after we&rsquo;ve welcomed the feeling into our consciousness?</h2>
<em>Tara Brach:</em> Feelings will come and go, and it&rsquo;s not necessary with every arising feeling to take a deep dive. But you will need to work with those that you habitually run from if you want to wake up and be fully openhearted. When a feeling comes up&mdash;let&rsquo;s say it&rsquo;s fear&mdash;you can simply recognize it and name it by saying, &ldquo;I sense fear here.&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">When you witness and name what&rsquo;s there, you free yourself from its domination.</span>

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There&rsquo;s been research done at UCLA that shows that when you name an emotion, it activates the frontal cortex and helps to sooth and comfort the amygdala, lowering the reaction in the limbic system.

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After you&rsquo;ve named the emotion, the next step is to allow it to be there&mdash;to have the conscious intention to give room to whatever has come out of the woods. There are two questions I find useful to bring a full, present attention to difficult emotions. The first is, &ldquo;What is happening inside me right now?&rdquo; Try to contact the felt sense in your body. Investigate where the feeling lives and how it&rsquo;s expressed. Feel your throat, chest, and belly&mdash;feel where the emotions actually live in your flesh.

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Then ask yourself, &ldquo;Can I be with this?&rdquo; or &ldquo;Can I let this be?&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">This is a critical element in all emotional healing&mdash;being able to be with what you&rsquo;re feeling and sense what the vulnerable places in you need.</span>

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In some way, offer the message that&rsquo;s needed, whether it&rsquo;s one of kindness, gentleness, or care. You can say to the emotion, &ldquo;You belong.&rdquo; Even if it&rsquo;s fear or shame, I will say, &ldquo;You belong. You are a wave in my ocean.&rdquo; As soon as you give the message that &ldquo;this belongs too,&rdquo; you signal there&rsquo;s no resistance, and that gives the space for the emotion to unfold, release, and be integrated into a greater whole.

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<h2>1440: What about feelings that keep recurring because of thoughts we repeatedly think?</h2>
<em>Tara Brach:</em> An emotion is sustained by a looping of a thought and a felt sense in the body. To allow it to express and move on, we need to meet both the thought and feeling with mindful awareness. If there&rsquo;s a feeling of fear but you have no idea that you&rsquo;re telling yourself you&rsquo;re going to fail at that presentation next week, then you&rsquo;re only partly in touch with the emotion. If you notice the anxious thoughts but you don&rsquo;t feel it in the body, you&rsquo;re only partly conscious of the emotion. Whatever is not in conscious awareness binds us. As you include the thought pattern and felt sense in a kind and open presence, the sense of identification with the emotions begins to dissolve. It is free to come and go naturally. It becomes a wave that doesn&rsquo;t define you.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Compassionate Inquiry </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Gabor Mat&eacute;, MD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Sat Dharam Kaur, ND,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Adyashanti,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Lissa Rankin, MD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Laura Inserra,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">James Doty, MD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Zaya and Maurizio Benazzo</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">March 3 - 8, 2019</div>
As a special feature of this transformative program, Dr. Gabor Mat&eacute; will lead conversations with spiritual teacher Adyashanti and master coach Lissa Rankin, MD, on separate evenings during the week. Compassionate Inquiry Spiritual practices can help soften shame, confusion, anger, and...</div>

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-feel-your-feelings-an-interview-with-tara-brach</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-feel-your-feelings-an-interview-with-tara-brach#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Become Your Own Guru: Advice from Panache Desai</title><description><![CDATA[<div class="cta" style="float: right; width: 260px; margin-left: 7px; text-align: center;">Join <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Panache Desai</a> for<br />
<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Experience Authentic Connection</a><br />
from April 17 &ndash; 19, 2020</div>
<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Panache Desai</a>, author of <em>Discovering Your Soul Signature,</em> is a transformation catalyst and inspirational thought leader who guides people to their authentic, essential nature. He&rsquo;s <a href="https://www.oprah.com/own-super-soul-sunday/soul-to-soul-with-panache-desai-video">appeared with Oprah Winfrey</a>&nbsp;on the Emmy Award-winning series <em>Super Soul Sunday</em>, and was a featured speaker for the United Nations Enlightenment Society. He has collaborated with many renowned spiritual teachers, including Deepak Chopra, Michael Bernard Beckwith, Elizabeth Lesser, and Ram Dass.

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<h2>1440: You refer to yourself as a &ldquo;vibrational catalyst&rdquo; and describe your work as guiding people through &ldquo;vibrational transformation.&rdquo; Can you explain what these terms mean?</h2>
<em>Panache Desai:</em> Reality exists on different levels of frequency or energy or resonance.

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<span class="quote">Transformation, ultimately, is a shift out of the frequency of fear into the energy of love.</span>

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When we are identified with fear, it leads to an absence of love and intimacy and connection. It leads to an absence of abundance and prosperity and opportunity. It leads to health issues and health challenges. Most importantly, it disrupts our ability to connect with our own soul or love or infinite mystery&mdash;whatever name we wish to use.

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<span class="quote">My role has been to provide people a bridge out of their fear and limitation into their limitless potential by changing their energy and changing their lives.</span>

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The Western transformational framework of &ldquo;change your thoughts, change your life&rdquo; is an outdated and outmoded way of how transformation occurs. Every ancient civilization and culture knew that the fundamental nature of all reality was energy, vibration, and frequency. In order for transformation to occur, it has to happen on an energetic level.

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My role has been to remind people of this truth&mdash;to bring it back into the forefront of the spiritual and transformational paradigm&mdash;and to update our idea of transformation. Transformation 2.0, if you will, which facilitates the empowerment of the individual to move beyond concepts, ideas, and information into feeling, experiencing, and knowing the truth in themselves.

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<h2>1440: Does this energetic shift start in the mind or body or somewhere else?</h2>
<em>Panache Desai:</em> The soul is the subtlest level&mdash;it has a very subtle vibrational resonance. Everybody has one, but because it&rsquo;s so subtle, very few people will be able to connect with it and live in connection and harmony with it at all times. The layer beyond that is the emotional layer. The layer beyond that is the mind. And then finally there&rsquo;s the body.

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All of these different levels represent different vibrational states of being with different energetic resonances and frequencies.

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<span class="quote">What I&rsquo;ve discovered is that actually the mind has no part to play in the transformation of the individual. The shift has to happen on the level of emotion. When we shift the energy at that level, every other level begins to transform.</span>

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<h2>1440: How can we begin to shift the energy of our emotions?</h2>
<em>Panache Desai:&nbsp;</em>Unresolved emotion is creating a density and heaviness that&rsquo;s impeding your soul&rsquo;s ability to inform every other area of your life.&nbsp;So the more you integrate what needs to be experienced and felt within you, the more you start to liberate your soul&rsquo;s potential, and the more you begin to restore harmony in your emotions, in your mind, and in your body.

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<span class="quote">Fear is the root cause of separation&mdash;it&rsquo;s why the ego (or mind) has become so dominant in our experience.</span>

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The more we move away from this energy of fear and the more we begin to accept and embrace and love ourselves&mdash;not just as a mental exercise, but as a way of living, as a lifestyle&mdash;we begin to access the harmony that&rsquo;s already present, the abundance that&rsquo;s already present, the health and the love that&rsquo;s already present within us.

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<h2>1440: Once we shift our energy, will we have access to this harmony all the time?</h2>
<em>Panache Desai:</em>

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<span class="quote">Transformation isn&rsquo;t a one-shot deal.</span>

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If you believe that you&rsquo;re going to go to a talk, a lecture, or a seminar and someone&rsquo;s going to wave their hand over you and your life is just going to miraculously transform and stay that way, you&rsquo;re going to be disappointed. It requires commitment, consistency, and repetition.

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The Western transformational paradigm is centralized, meaning there&rsquo;s an author, a teacher, a practice, a modality&mdash;there&rsquo;s something that people have to go through in order to access themselves. What I&rsquo;m doing is bypassing that.

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<span class="quote">I&rsquo;m decentralizing transformation and empowering people in themselves. But they have to be willing to do the work.</span>

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<h2>1440: How do you empower people?</h2>
<em>Panache Desai:</em> My journey has been one of embracing an ability to share energy that I&rsquo;ve had my whole life. At the age of 23 or 24 I had a direct experience of the divine in its absolute form. That experience has taken me on a 14-year path of integration to where I now feel fully established in the gift and fully established in the energy. I share this vibration through grace, and people can gradually uplevel their energy through presence and proximity.

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<span class="quote">What&rsquo;s happening now is people are very quickly moving into alignment with the truth. They&rsquo;re moving into health and love and abundance, and, most importantly, into the present and into connection, and they&rsquo;re staying there. That&rsquo;s when you become your own guru.</span>

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Panache Desai will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Y</a><a href="https://www.1440.org/">ou Are Enough</a><a href="https://www.1440.org/">: Discovering a Life</a> Without Limits from April 17 &ndash; 19, 2020 at 1440 Multiversity.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-become-your-own-guru-advice-from-panache-desai</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-become-your-own-guru-advice-from-panache-desai#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Bear the Unbearable</title><description><![CDATA[At one time or another, most of us will feel overwhelmed by the burdens we bear.
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As though our grief is a river swelling within, threatening to drown us in anger and hurt.

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In such moments, the pain may feel unbearable, and we might fear being broken by the sheer magnitude and mass of it. We may also feel alone, as the anguish we&rsquo;re enduring separates us from others, who all seem to oddly be going about life as though everything were fine.

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Grief can be so isolating.

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Which is why it&rsquo;s so helpful to remember in such times that&hellip;

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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Whatever you&rsquo;re experiencing</strong></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>has been felt before by countless</strong></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>others. In fact, it&rsquo;s also being</strong></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>felt, in this very moment,</strong></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>by millions of others</strong></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>around the world.</strong></p>
When we&rsquo;re able to open our field up, and imagine holding this very human experience of big anger, big heartache, big despair along with millions of others, it becomes ever so slightly more bearable.

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When we can allow our hearts to have compassion for those millions of people suffering as we are in this moment, we begin to transform. Our humanity deepens, our souls soften and we suddenly begin to make sense of what the poets have been saying since time began.

<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>That we&rsquo;re fragile.</strong></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>And the only thing we can count on is change,</strong></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>which often comes suddenly &amp; without warning.</strong></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>That life is precious.</strong></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>That our only safety lies</strong></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>in the goodness of one another.</strong></p>

<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Grief holds gifts.</strong></p>
Opening to the vulnerability of your humanity is one of them.

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You&rsquo;re not alone in feeling so alone.

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When grief threatens to take down your house, invite it into your heart with a deep welcoming breath.

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On the exhale, breathe out a blessing for yourself and all others suffering in this very moment with this horrible feeling of unspeakable sorrow.

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<strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Katherine Woodward Thomas</a>, MA, MFT, will be teaching&nbsp;From Heartache to Wholeness with <a href="https://www.1440.org/">David Kessler</a> and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Paul Denniston</a>, RYT 500, on May 18&nbsp;&ndash; 20, 2018, at 1440 Multiversity </strong>

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<strong> Katherine Woodward Thomas, MA, MFT, is the author of the&nbsp;<em>New York Times&nbsp;</em>best seller&nbsp;<em>Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After</em>&nbsp;and the national best seller,&nbsp;<em>Calling in &ldquo;The One&rdquo;: 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life.</em>&nbsp;She is a licensed marriage and family therapist and teacher to thousands around the world in her virtual and in-person learning communities.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-bear-the-unbearable</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-bear-the-unbearable#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Apply Mindfulness to the Creative Process</title><description><![CDATA[<h2><em>The key to optimizing the creative process is balancing the brain networks.</em></h2>

<p>When London School of Economics co-founder Graham Wallas wrote <em><a href="https://www.brainpickings.org/2013/08/28/the-art-of-thought-graham-wallas-stages/" target="_blank">The Art of Thought</a>&nbsp;</em>in 1926, he outlined a classic framework for training our minds in the art of the creative process. More than half a century later, most scientists <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/10400419.2012.650092" target="_blank">define creativity</a> as &ldquo;producing something new and useful&rdquo;, and we have a much richer understanding of creativity&rsquo;s cognitive and neural underpinnings. But what seems to remain from Wallas&rsquo;s framework is this: creativity <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1364661315002545" target="_blank">requires both</a> freedom and constraint in our thinking.</p>

<p>Applied neuroscience&mdash;a fancy way of saying &ldquo;how to use neuroscience knowledge in real life&rdquo;&mdash;helps us understand how to practice the creative process. And it turns out, when you break down the brain processes involved in creative achievement, it becomes clear that mindfulness goes hand in hand with creativity. In fact, there are actually scientific ways to&nbsp;<em>apply mindfulness</em>&nbsp;to the creative process. First, let&rsquo;s look at the key ingredients for the creative process.</p>

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<h2>Four Stages of the Creative Brain</h2>
The brain is like an orchestra, with different sections playing in synchrony at different times. Balance is everything&mdash;too loud, too soft, out of sync or out of tune, and it doesn&rsquo;t sound quite right. The <a href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/hbm.22801/abstract;jsessionid=B3836A3CCB0C98A50841046F20BBD292.f02t01?systemMessage=Wiley+Online+Library+will+be+unavailable+on+Saturday+14th+May+11%3A00-14%3A00+BST+%2F+06%3A00-09%3A00+EDT+%2F+18%3A00-21%3A00+SGT+for+essential+maintenance.Apulogies+for+the+inconvenience.&amp;userIsAuthenticated=false&amp;deniedAccessCustomisedMessage=" target="_blank">key</a> to optimizing the creative process is balancing the brain networks.

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	<li><strong>Preparation:</strong>&nbsp;First, coming up with a wide range of ideas is required, using <a href="https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divergent_thinking" target="_blank">divergent thinking</a>&mdash;the freestyle birthing of different ideas connected to the creative task at hand. Divergent thinking relies on quieting the <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1053811907002820?via%3Dihub" target="_blank">cognitive control network</a>, which allows the&nbsp;<a href="https://youtu.be/6A-RqZzd2JU" target="_blank">default mode network</a>&mdash;the brain&rsquo;s virtual reality system&mdash;to roam more freely. This is the time to use the imagination, gather information and not be shy about being messy and random.</li>
	<li><strong>Incubation:&nbsp;</strong>At some point you have as many ideas as possible, and it&rsquo;s time to go offline. Sleep, surf, cook, enjoy life while the brain automatically takes care of <a href="https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/sleep-helps-learning-memory-201202154265" target="_blank">organizing memory</a> and <a href="https://pss.sagepub.com/content/early/2012/08/31/0956797612446024.abstract" target="_blank">sets the stage</a> for creative insight.</li>
	<li><strong>Illumination:</strong>&nbsp;Then, the <a href="https://cdp.sagepub.com/content/18/4/210" target="_blank">Aha! moment</a> comes suddenly and inexplicably. This is the true moment of <a href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1467-7687.2012.01176.x/abstract;jsessionid=A40A1476C0864809CFA46087FC211ED8.f02t03?systemMessage=Wiley+Online+Library+will+be+unavailable+on+Saturday+14th+May+11%3A00-14%3A00+BST+%2F+06%3A00-09%3A00+EDT+%2F+18%3A00-21%3A00+SGT+for+essential+maintenance.Apulogies+for+the+inconvenience.&amp;userIsAuthenticated=false&amp;deniedAccessCustomisedMessage=" target="_blank">creative insight</a> when unrelated and subconscious ideas are suddenly linked together, brought to our consciousness ever so briefly by the <a href="https://www.quantamagazine.org/20131205-inside-a-brain-circuit-the-will-to-press-on/" target="_blank">salience network</a>, which detects and immediately catches that small twinkle in our ocean of thoughts.</li>
	<li><strong>Verification:&nbsp;</strong>&nbsp;Finally comes the reality check for our brilliant but raw insight. This last step requires <a href="https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Convergent_thinking" target="_blank">convergent thinking</a>&mdash;using less of the imagination and more of the&nbsp;<a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/srep10964" target="_blank">cognitive control and attentional networks</a> for analytical evaluation, to fine tune an idea into something both novel and useful.</li>
</ul>

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<h2>How Does Mindfulness Help?</h2>

<p>Balance between the &lsquo;freestyle&rsquo; and &lsquo;control&rsquo; networks is extremely important, and not just for creativity. Yes, jazz and <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/srep00834" target="_blank">rap</a> improvisation involve &lsquo;releasing control&rsquo;, but in exactly the right amount and balanced with &lsquo;self expression&rsquo; areas to produce creative results. We need our control networks, too: a total lack of frontal brain control is linked to <a href="https://www.nature.com/npp/journal/vaop/naam/abs/npp201655a.html" target="_blank">schizophrenia</a>,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.jneurosci.org/content/30/22/7749.full" target="_blank">substance use</a>, and <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0166432809001508" target="_blank">depression</a>.</p>

<p>Mindfulness practice is the key to this balance.</p>
Meditation strengthens both the freestyle and control networks, but more importantly, it also strengthens a <em>third network&mdash;</em>the salience network&mdash;which <a href="https://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.670.2401&amp;rep=rep1&amp;type=pdf" target="_blank">maintains balance</a> of the first two networks by deciding which is activated and when.

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<h2>How to Apply Mindfulness to The Creative Process</h2>

<p><strong>Preparation</strong>: Mindfulness meditation <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3328799/" target="_blank">boosts</a> divergent thinking. This part involves a lot of learning. Try meditating before your brainstorming and ideation sessions so that you are less distracted, fully focused and can&nbsp;produce higher quality&nbsp;initial rough ideas.</p>

<p><strong>Incubation</strong>: &nbsp;Mindfulness is particularly useful for this important and often underemphasised phase. Many people find it hard to go offline, relax, and stop obsessing. Even a short mindfulness meditation can calm your distracting thoughts, reduce anxiety or stress, and help you enter a truly chilled state. Maybe your great idea may even appear during meditation! The point is, don&rsquo;t try to make it happen&mdash;it will occur naturally. <a href="https://www.bbc.com/future/story/20131205-how-sleep-makes-you-more-creative" target="_blank">Sleep</a>&nbsp;and any form of mindful practice that doesn&rsquo;t involve active thinking of the creative task is helpful. Walking meditation is great for reducing stress and anxiety that may arise when &lsquo;doing nothing&rsquo;. Relax and let the insight come naturally!</p>

<p><strong>Illumination</strong>: When we practice mindfulness, we are more clear and can see our thoughts better&mdash;In other words, mindfulness <a href="https://www.frontiersin.org/Journal/DownloadFile/1/150912/18254/1/21/fnhum-06-00296_pdf" target="_blank">increases awareness</a>. If a brilliant insight appears in a cluttered and noisy mind, you may just miss it. So when the moment of insight comes, be sure to receive a clear signal.</p>

<p><strong>Verification</strong>: In this phase, where the veil of reality is laid over your genius idea, it is important to stay focused, positive and motivated without getting defeated. Even if the first attempt doesn&rsquo;t get you the results you want, each time adds to the next.&nbsp;<a href="https://journal.frontiersin.org/article/10.3389/fnhum.2013.00824/full" target="_blank">Exercise</a> and meditate during your refinement process. This promotes attention and skill <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1207/s15326934crj1803_13#/doi/abs/10.1207/s15326934crj1803_13" target="_blank">during convergent thinking</a>, for choosing the most novel and effective pathways to solution.</p>
The creative process is a window into our cognitive tendencies&mdash;how well we are conducting the orchestra &ndash; and a chance to practice non-judgment and self-compassion, especially when things don&rsquo;t turn out perfectly. Even the <a href="https://journal.frontiersin.org/article/10.3389/fnhum.2013.00656/full" target="_blank">professionals</a> encourage perseverance. Like this, balancing the art of the creative process also becomes a process of balancing our minds.

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<h2><em>This article was originally published on&nbsp;<a href="https://mindful.org/" target="_blank">Mindful.org</a>, a non-profit dedicated to inspiring, guiding, and connecting anyone who wants to explore mindfulness. Go <a href="https://www.mindful.org/apply-mindfulness-creative-process/" rel="canonical" target="_blank">here</a> to view the original article.</em></h2>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-apply-mindfulness-to-the-creative-process</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-apply-mindfulness-to-the-creative-process#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Glow Like a Small Sun: An Interview with Max Strom</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Max Strom</a>&nbsp;is a global speaker, author, yoga teacher, and trainer, best known for deeply impacting the lives of his students with teachings that reach past the limits of contemporary yoga culture. Over the past decade, Max has become a prominent voice of personal transformation skilled at touching the hearts of people from all walks of life, nationalities, and backgrounds.
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<h2>1440: What sparked your initial interest in the breath?</h2>
<em>Max Strom:</em> When I started practicing yoga at the ripe old age of 35, I had done a lot of qigong. The breathing in qigong is centered around the belly, around the naval, and this is how a lot of yoga teachers teach it. But I was fortunate enough to be exposed to an Ashtanga teacher, Dena Kingsberg from Australia, who taught me to breathe by expanding my ribs laterally, like an accordion.

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With this approach to breathing, I found I became very emotional after class. I would shed a few tears, and I would quickly wipe them off of my face because I thought no one should see a grown man cry. I kept this emotional release to myself, but friends started noticing that I was becoming happier.

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<span class="quote">By the end of the year, the tears stopped and what was once a far-fetched idea to me&mdash;that strong emotions, like grief, are stored in the body&mdash;I knew was absolutely true. </span>

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When I started teaching, I, of course, included the same type of breathing work, and have improved upon it over time. I&rsquo;m happy to teach people postures to improve their range of motion and get stronger, but if I can teach somebody something to help them overcome a lifetime of grief, to release anxiety, to not be depressed anymore&mdash;that&rsquo;s something that affects their whole life and their family and their community. That&rsquo;s very interesting to me.

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<h2>1440: Are these practices what led you to study happiness?</h2>
<em>Max Strom:</em> Yes, after practice I would find that I had this afterglow where I felt like I just didn&rsquo;t desire anything. I would feel happy and content in my body and in my emotions. I didn&rsquo;t have a desire to eat or drink or go anywhere or hold anyone or go on a date or watch TV. I felt like I was glowing like a small sun, perfectly happy right where I was.

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I realized that my practice was taking away my overhead&mdash;everything I had been doing to try to get me into this state I now found myself in. I realized I didn&rsquo;t need all those other entertainments and activities to feel happy and whole. Up to that point I&rsquo;d been a musician, a screenwriter, and a budding director and I lost all ambition for some kind of renown. I dropped it all because I realized it wasn&rsquo;t a healthy lifestyle and that these practices made me feel better than any of that ever would.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Opening Through the Breath</strong></div>

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<div class="post-card-date">July 19 - 22, 2018</div>
In a world of tumultuous change, where can we look for stability and wisdom? Unlock your capacity for healing and empathy by looking inward to the power of your breath. Join renowned yoga teacher and coach Max Strom for a...</div>

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<h2>1440: What&rsquo;s something unexpected or surprising that you&rsquo;ve learned from more than three decades of committed practice?</h2>
<em>Max Strom:</em> I learned that it&rsquo;s astonishing how much of our behavior is caused by our unreconciled past. Whether it&rsquo;s childhood trauma or difficult parents or whatever, we soldier on and suppress the pain. But once we begin doing these practices and healing these wounds, that changes everything. I love the word &ldquo;reconcile&rdquo; a lot.

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<span class="quote">As we reconcile our past it changes things in the present. </span>

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It changes our relationships and the choices we make&mdash;to live here or there, to eat this or that, to do that thing or this thing. And through these thousands of choices our life changes.

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After all these years of teaching, I can now meet a student and get an idea of where they will be in five years if they stick with it. If someone comes to my training and they want to be an actor but they also start teaching yoga and breathwork and they love that too, I know that after five years they&rsquo;re likely to drop the acting.

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Once they teach and make a real impact by being themselves (and not pretending to be someone else), they realize there&rsquo;s no greater recognition than to be acknowledged for their authentic self and they no longer have the need for the spotlight. This isn&rsquo;t true all of the time, of course, but I&rsquo;ve seen it enough to say that if people stick with the practices, their personality and their life will inevitably change for the better.

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/glow-like-a-small-sun-an-interview-with-max-strom</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/glow-like-a-small-sun-an-interview-with-max-strom#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Five Keys to a Fulfilled Elderhood</title><description><![CDATA[<div class="cta" style="float: right; text-align: center; width: 250px; margin-left: 10px;">Join <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Ron Pevny</a> for<br />
<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Embracing Conscious Elderhood</a><br />
from April 15 &ndash; 20, 2018</div>
Every day, some 10,000 baby boomers reach the age of 65.&nbsp; We do so in a society that offers little in the way of a truly empowering vision for life&rsquo;s later chapters.&nbsp; With no societally honored role for older adults, finding meaning and purpose is a challenge for many of us as we reach &ldquo;retirement age.&rdquo;&nbsp; If our goal is to thrive as elders, it is critical that we understand how to do so, rather than merely drifting into old age hoping for the best. &nbsp;It is possible for us to age intentionally, with a sense of the rich possibilities that lie before us and of the choices we have about how our lives unfold in life&rsquo;s &ldquo;Third Chapter.&rdquo;&nbsp; In this article I shall present five keys to doing so.

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Perhaps most importantly, it is vital that our lives be grounded in a deep belief in the possibility of having a happy and meaningful life as we age. To do so, we must be totally honest with ourselves about our beliefs, and work to root out any that stand in the way of us acknowledging our beauty, gifts, significance, and ability to make a difference in this world in whatever circumstances life presents us. In a society obsessed with youth, it is so easy for older adults to internalize the message that growing older necessarily means becoming marginalized, with our years of fulfillment and contribution largely behind us.&nbsp; Thankfully, if we look around us we will see more and more older adults not buying into such messages, and choosing to use their wisdom and talents to make a difference in their communities and find fulfillment through doing so.

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Living fully, joyfully, peacefully, and in the present moment as we age requires us to be aware of that which binds us to a past which no longer exists.

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<span class="quote">This requires honoring our past&mdash;who we have been, what we have done&mdash;and being willing to release our identification with that, so we may fully embrace who we are now and what brings us alive now, with an eye to our future but primarily a deep savoring of each precious moment. </span>

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The world&rsquo;s spiritual traditions are joined with contemporary research in telling us that happiness and inner peace absolutely depend on having a purpose that guides us through each day. Some teachers speak of purpose as having two dimensions. At the macro level, purpose is living each day with a commitment to growing and serving, and using each encounter we have as an opportunity to somehow grow and serve. At the micro level, purpose for many people is having that special reason to get up in the morning that is larger than ourselves. This special reason is an expression of our unique self and our gifts that in some way helps make this world a better place.

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I don&rsquo;t think it&rsquo;s possible to have a happy and meaningful life in isolation. Yes, as we age many of us feel called to more time alone savoring our own company. But we need community to grow, share, learn, and provide opportunities for service.

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<span class="quote">The community I speak of is not just having a lot of people around us. It is having some kindred spirits with whom we can authentically share ourselves&mdash;our aspirations, our fears, our challenges, our understandings&mdash;and see ourselves through the mirror of relationship. </span>

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As social beings, people cannot really know ourselves through introspection alone. It is through our relationships that we learn who we are and what meaningful role we can play as we live our elder chapters.

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And here&rsquo;s a fifth element.

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<span class="quote">In order to truly thrive as we age, we must cultivate the life-enhancing energy of passion. We must aim for full-body, mind, and spirit aliveness. </span>

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We can&rsquo;t be numb and be happy. Cultivating this passion requires making the choice each day to eliminate from our life those things that sap our energy and tend to numb us out. We all have people, addictions, habits, and time-fillers that are energy drains. By making the choice to gradually replace these with people, activities, images, and practices that enhance our experience of aliveness, we grow into becoming more passionate people. Passion finds its natural expression in happiness, purpose, meaning, and optimism.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Ron Pevny</a>, MA, will be offering a workshop&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Embracing Conscious Elderhood</a>&nbsp;that explores these and other conscious aging themes in depth from April 15 &ndash; 20, 2018, at 1440 Multiversity.

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<strong>Ron Pevny is Founding Director of the Center for Conscious Eldering, a Certified Sage-ing Leader with Sage-ing International, and author of <em>Conscious Living, Conscious Aging </em>published by Atria Books/Beyond Words. For forty years, he has been dedicated to assisting people in negotiating life transitions as they create lives of purpose and passion.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/five-keys-to-a-fulfilled-elderhood</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/five-keys-to-a-fulfilled-elderhood#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Finding Connection Through Nature: 6 Wise Ways to Ease Anxiety</title><description><![CDATA[Do you want to get rid of anxiety and enjoy your life more?
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If you have anxiety, it is hard to enjoy anything, isn&rsquo;t it? When I was anxious, I barely left the house since it was too challenging for me to go places and be around people. This was the worse thing to do. At home, there was less to engage my mind and my wild imagination added to my torment.

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I have a middle ground (pun intended) to help ease anxiety when you want to get out of your head but are not ready for social interaction.

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Go outside in nature! Here are six ways to ease anxiety through nature:

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<h2>Connect</h2>
When stressed, I lie right on the ground and let all of my troubles flow out of my body and into the earth. In that moment, nothing matters and I am just there connected to this huge planet under me. I allow myself to feel supported by something greater than me. I feel safe. I can let go.

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Anxiety makes us feel separate, like we can&rsquo;t handle the world. It is an &ldquo;us versus them&rdquo; feeling of vulnerability and out of control. But you can find connection in nature to calm your mind, heart, and soul.

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Engaging in nature helps you forge connection. Go outside, look at a leaf, smell a flower, watch some chipmunks play, and these things enter our world.

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<h2>Understand Transience</h2>
Everything changes. Flowers sprout, bloom and fade.

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One of our biggest fears is loss. But even sadness and loss is temporary. When something goes, something else comes. It&rsquo;s just the way of the world. Nature reminds us that no matter where you are in life, it&rsquo;s not only loss. There&rsquo;s always more to come.

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Loss isn&rsquo;t the end. Nothing stays empty. Nature will just fill it in.

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<h2>Gain a Larger Perspective</h2>
Our problems are little when matched to this massive world. Things that we think matter so much pale in comparison to a huge ocean. There are more stars in the sky than worries in our heads.

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Outside we can let go and be part of something bigger, and our fear and doubt pale in comparison.

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<h2>Breathe in That Oxygen</h2>
We&rsquo;ve known breathing is by far the best thing to do to ease our nervous system. Sometimes when we are anxious, we forget to exhale and then can&rsquo;t get breaths in since our lungs are full already.

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Go sit by a tree or a plant. Make sure you are exhaling so your lungs are ready for some yummy fresh oxygen. Talk to the plant. Ask it anything you want. Plants have loads to teach us. You may want to touch or look at the texture of the plant (I do this to feel connected) and smell the amazing smells!

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<h2>Distract Yourself</h2>
The other day I went on a hike with my son. We saw a raccoon, a chipmunk, three frogs, countless birds, a squirrel, tons of wild flowers, and two butterflies. We had a break from our problems, forgot about the whole world while we were in the woods.

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It is amazing how 20 minutes of walking can ease anxiety and clear your mind.

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<h2>Put the Brakes on Adrenaline</h2>
Nature brings you out of your head and into your body through your senses.

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Shinrin-yoku is the Japanese therapeutic practice of walking outside where one engages in nature using all five senses. Research has suggested that the scent of trees, the sound of brooks, and the feel of sunshine have a physiological calming effect &mdash; and can decrease cortisol up to 16%!

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Find some green space anywhere (even if it is a houseplant). Every day (and especially when you are anxious) sit, look, smell, feel, and do some deep breathing.

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In the winter, put a bowl of rocks under your desk! According to emerging research, &ldquo;Earthing&rdquo; (standing barefoot on the ground) can be beneficial in:

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	<li>Reducing inflammation by defusing excess positive electrons</li>
	<li>Reducing chronic pain</li>
	<li>Improving sleep (I can vouch strongly for this!)</li>
	<li>Increasing energy (I noticed this also)</li>
	<li>Lowering stress and promoting calmness by reducing stress hormones</li>
	<li>Normalizing biological rhythms including circadian rhythm</li>
	<li>Improving blood pressure and blood flow</li>
	<li>Relieving muscle tension and headache (I noticed this)</li>
	<li>Lessening menstrual and female hormone symptoms</li>
	<li>Speeding healing</li>
	<li>Eliminating jet lag</li>
	<li>Protecting the body from EMFs (electromagnetic fields)</li>
	<li>Shortening recovery time from injury or athletic activity</li>
	<li>Reducing or eliminating snoring</li>
	<li>Helping support adrenal health.</li>
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Nature is free and available anywhere. It gets us moving, exploring, and feeling connected. Use it to feel better!

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<strong>Jodi Aman is a psychotherapist, <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/JodiAman">YouTuber</a>, and author of <i id="m_-644080772622150245yui_3_16_0_ym19_1_1494805038119_64446">You 1, Anxiety 0: Win Your Life Back from Fear and Panic.</i> </strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/finding-connection-through-nature-6-wise-ways-to-ease-anxiety</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/finding-connection-through-nature-6-wise-ways-to-ease-anxiety#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Exploring self and Self with Alanis Morissette</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Alanis Morissette</a>&nbsp;is most well-known for her autobiographical songwriting and passionate performances, as well as her evocative and engaging articles, interviews, and public speaking events. Her music has won seven Grammys. She is also a charitable activist who supports causes that focus on empowerment, art, recovery, psychological and spiritual healing, feminism, relationships, and environmental causes&mdash;earning her a Global Tolerance Award from the United Nations. Alanis will teach <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Connection as a Way of Life</a> in October at 1440 Multiversity.
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<h2>1440: You talk about exploring self and Self. What are those two selves?</h2>

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<em>Alanis Morissette:</em> The smaller &ldquo;s&rdquo; self is the self in egoic terms&mdash;in psychological terms. I consider this the &ldquo;earthly&rdquo; self, the &ldquo;human&rdquo; self or the &ldquo;identity&rdquo; self. This umbrella term contains all the human experiences of &ldquo;me&rdquo; or &ldquo;you.&rdquo; It deals with perception and comes from a localized point of &ldquo;me&rdquo; looking out toward the world (with accurate perceptions or misperceptions, both). It also connotes the &ldquo;me&rdquo; that is looking <em>in</em>&hellip;toward the inner world.

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Many spiritual teachings poo-poo this ego self, at a great cost, as I see it. Some teachings assert that this self is to be transcended and often discarded. As so many of us see through direct experience, however, when this ego self is ignored, neglected, traumatized, abused, and/or conditioned&mdash;and we are operating our day-to-day <em>singularly</em> from the lens of this ego self&mdash;it creates a life of profound suffering. And while pain is certainly a part of being alive in a body, suffering, I believe, is not.

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<span class="quote">For me, diving deeply into this egoic self and getting a general handle on how best to navigate life in our bodies is a way to create a sense of mastery in being here.</span>

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The suffering begins or continues, however, when we <em>overly</em> identify with this small &ldquo;s&rdquo; self.

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The next part is consciousness or the spirit Self&mdash;the ALL Self with a capital S. This is the Self that does transcend and precede and envelop ALL of this earthly experience from a deep-felt sense of connection with source, with life. This Self is aware that we are a drop in an ocean of life.

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<span class="quote">We are one with source and we are comprised of innate goodness.</span>

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So many of us face challenges in accessing this consciousness, knowing this Self, or having a felt experience of it. During our time at 1440 we will delve into multiple ways of accessing this sense of deep connection with ALL, and come at it from different angles. Art, energy, sensation, philosophy, among many others.

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In our three days together at 1440, we&rsquo;ll be dismantling our conditioning. I try to offer people a very clear way of understanding our histories and understanding the constructed selves we&rsquo;ve developed in order to survive.

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<span class="quote">I believe it is critical to have a lot of empathy toward the part of us that created a survival strategy.</span>

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I have found it to be incredibly empowering to see the light turn on in people&rsquo;s eyes when they&rsquo;re invited to really carve out how their self has come to be the way it is. It can alleviate so much suffering, build a lot of self-empathy, and lead to the cultivation of a mature, functional inner adult.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Connection as a Way of Life </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Alanis Morissette,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Justin Hilton,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Ann Randolph</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">October 4 - 7, 2018</div>
What does it really mean to live in connection? It&rsquo;s the state where we understand that our truest and core selves have all the intuition, vision, and capacity for us to be who we were born to be. Alanis Morissette...</div>

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<h2>1440: How has fame impacted your sense of self?</h2>

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<em>Alanis Morissette:</em> I think a lot of people who are drawn towards fame are led by a traumatic incentive. Of course, not all. Some of us are also, at least partly, driven by a calling&mdash;to serve in a public way (though being in the public eye might often be at odds with our more delicate temperaments). I have some theories around attachment and fame, and needs having not been met that we attempt to fulfill through being famous.

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<span class="quote">We are sold a bill of goods that, once famous, you will have ceaseless eye contact and attunement and attention and abundant resources and care and all of the things you needed when you were young.</span>

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We are searching for&nbsp;eudaemonic&nbsp;pleasure (a life of deep meaning) through hedonic pleasure pursuits. And why wouldn&rsquo;t we? That is often what we are taught to pursue from the time we are born. So many of us are not taught about this big S self, so we charge full speed ahead into our lives trying to find the peace and bliss of the Self through egoic means.

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And yet, fame itself is a traumatizing experience because the illusion melts, and we either keep chasing it like some people in the public eye have done, or we&rsquo;re so disillusioned some of us even want to end our lives because there&rsquo;s too much suffering that comes with not only the grief of this panacea not being true, but then with the isolation of being famous along with that. This isolation can lead to a deep depression as we discover the thing we thought would make it all better (fame) does the opposite.

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<span class="quote">My survival approach within fame for the last however many years was to not read comments, not read feedback, and not open myself up to peoples&rsquo; projections, vitriol or, frankly, the major egoic bow-down and pedestal element.</span>

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I remember thinking when the effect of my trauma compounded by fame got so intense, &ldquo;God, I thought fame would lead to a more profound version of connection with people.&rdquo; But the opposite was true. I&rsquo;d never felt lonelier. I&rsquo;d never felt more egregiously misperceived. It was profoundly disillusioning.

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So many of us in the public eye chased fame because we had a weak sense of self. And I don&rsquo;t mean &lsquo;weak&rsquo; disparagingly. I mean an undeveloped sense of self. So, the irony is you chase fame to further create a sense of self, and it&rsquo;s harder to do that because there&rsquo;s so much more activity&mdash;so much more projection and misperception and emotional and psychological violence that comes along with being in the public eye.

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So, would I change anything? No. I would do it all over again, but at the same time I&rsquo;m happy for my orientation toward healing and trauma recovery because it has saved my life.

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<h2>1440: How do you practice self-care? What does that look like?</h2>

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<em>Alanis Morissette:&nbsp;</em>It shows up in many forms. I take both bottom-up approaches (body, felt-sense, somatic work, feelings, sensation, movement, mindfulness) and top-down approaches (the psychological or psychotherapeutic&mdash;caring for the intellectual mind, the brain&mdash; to the academic&mdash;theory, reading).

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I also keep rituals alive that help keep me rooted in consciousness&mdash;prayer, meditation, reading deeply soulful material, writing, making art, stillness, nature, and a sense of bravery and communion in relationships. Other rituals of self-care have become increasingly important: working out, grooming, sleep, nutrition awareness, and being in nature among others.

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The biggest suffering for me is when I feel cut off from a sense of connection to Self&mdash;when I don&rsquo;t feel that sense of oneness, and when I have lost a sense of my own self, and when I feel disconnected from all others.

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<span class="quote">While I see these moments of suffering as part of the path, and as portals to deeper awareness and a crunching further toward wholeness, this suffering is so hilariously unpleasant&mdash;it helps me to remember that Self never goes away.</span>

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Clouds may get in front of the sun, but the sun doesn&rsquo;t disappear.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/exploring-self-and-self-with-alanis-morissette</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/exploring-self-and-self-with-alanis-morissette#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Exploring One Spirit Medicine with Dr. Alberto Villoldo</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Alberto Villoldo</a>, PhD, is a medical anthropologist who has studied the shamanic healing practices of the Amazon and the Andes for over 25 years. He is author of numerous best-selling books and is the founder of the Four Winds Society, an organization dedicated to the bridging of ancient shamanic traditions with modern medicine and psychology.
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<strong>Q: Why are so many people unable to find happiness?</strong>

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<em>Alberto Villoldo:</em> Our brains cannot produce the bliss molecule (tryptamine) if they are busy producing stress molecules (adrenaline and cortisol). These &ldquo;fight or flight&rdquo; molecules are a constant part of modern culture, but when we can&rsquo;t fight and we can&rsquo;t flee we are paralyzed. Stress hormones are also deadly to the region of the brain that is responsible for new learning, so we cannot recreate ourselves.

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<strong>Q: What does One Spirit Medicine teach us?</strong>

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<em>Alberto Villoldo:</em> We can grow a new body in one week with super nutrients and energy medicine&mdash;a body that heals, ages, and dies differently. But that&rsquo;s not all: 90 percent of our DNA belongs to the microbes that live within us. If the colony is broken, disease happens&mdash;we can repair the colony with super-probiotics. Microbes are our best friends.

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Nine out of ten Americans have broken brains. It is possible to upgrade our brains to create psychosomatic health.<br />
Spirituality is the by-product of a healed and upgraded brain, not meditation. Shamans were the first neuroscientists.<br />
You can&rsquo;t dream your world into being until you wake up from the nightmare. Self-help doesn&rsquo;t help.
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<strong>Q: Isn&rsquo;t spirituality completely different from scientific fact?</strong>

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<em>Alberto Villoldo:</em>

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<span class="quote">Science is relatively new while spirituality is very ancient.</span>

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I discovered that what the spiritual traditions did was put an archaic language to what we describe today as neuroscience. However, what they refer to as &ldquo;enlightenment&rdquo; is optimal brain function&mdash;the ability to create psychosomatic health. Many people, however, associate the term &ldquo;enlightenment&rdquo; with organized religion when in reality it&rsquo;s available to all people of any belief.

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<strong>Q: What is wrong with the Western diet?</strong>

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<em>Alberto Villoldo:</em> With the discovery of agriculture 10,000 years ago the human life span was reduced in half. We stopped eating proteins and fats and began to eat carbs, giving rise to a new social class of masters and slaves, religions (&ldquo;give us this day our daily bread&rdquo;), and warfare. There is no archeological evidence of warfare prior to the invention of agriculture.

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Grains are carbs that turn into sugars. Sugars feed our lower brain, which is predatory, violent, greedy, and needs 10 commandments so we do not kill or steal.

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<span class="quote">Proteins and fats&mdash;the diet of our Paleolithic ancestors&mdash;fuel the higher brain of creativity and innovation.</span>

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Wheat contains gluten, a protein that is not recognized by the bodies of 90 percent of the human population. Gluten cleaves the tight junctions of the GI tract, allowing food particles and microflora to get into the bloodstream and create massive inflammation and autoimmune diseases. The incidence of allergies in non-agricultural peoples is 1 in 1,500. In agricultural societies it is 1 in 3.

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What is worse is that by losing the ancient Paleolithic belief systems&mdash;oneness of spirit, oneness of life&mdash;we become disconnected, disenfranchised (in the earth, not of the earth). We ignore the voice of spirit and nature, and we look at the bounty of nature merely as resources for human consumption. We become commercially driven and forget about stewardship and sustainability&mdash;the price of which will always be too high. The damage we have wreaked on the ecosystem is irreversible, and has doomed the human race to early extinction.

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<strong>Q: Why did you leave a more traditional medical background for a more spiritual path?</strong>

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<em>Alberto Villoldo:</em> My training is as a medical anthropologist versus a medical doctor. As a medical anthropologist, I was curious about other healing systems around the world.

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<span class="quote">Modern medicine, which is wonderful for healing trauma (such as injuries from an automobile accident), is terrible for healing chronic conditions.</span>

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At a laboratory at San Francisco State University that I directed, we were studying how we create psychosomatic disease and whether we could create psychosomatic health. I realized that to find the answer I had to go study with the experts who were in true primitive societies without technology&mdash;all they had was the mind&rsquo;s ability to heal the body.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Alberto Villoldo</a> will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">One Spirit Medicine</a> at 1440 Multiversity from March 16 &ndash; 18, 2018.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/exploring-one-spirit-medicine-with-dr-alberto-villoldo</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/exploring-one-spirit-medicine-with-dr-alberto-villoldo#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Empathy in the Workplace: Three Simple Ways to Avoid Burnout</title><description><![CDATA[Empathy is a hot topic in the workplace, and while it should be, there are problems with requiring workers to be more empathic.
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Study after study finds that workers who show empathy are rated as more effective, more approachable, and more professional than their less engaged colleagues.

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<span class="quote">Empathic managers are consistently shown to develop better communication and stronger team cohesion, while empathic health care professionals have higher patient satisfaction scores. </span>

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However, empathic burnout is rampant in many high-empathy occupations. For instance, health care, which demands constant empathy, is seeing high absenteeism, high turnover, widespread depression, and even suicides among doctors and nurses.&nbsp;Empathy in the workplace is essential, but it is work, and it needs to be taken seriously so that empathic burnout doesn&rsquo;t occur.

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In my research on empathy, I found that there isn&rsquo;t a lot of awareness of the serious burnout potential of empathy work. There also isn&rsquo;t a step-by-step understanding of the different aspects of empathy, the kinds of empathy demand workers face, or the ways that a healthy workplace culture can protect workers from overwhelm and burnout.

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In my work, I help people develop focused skills and a strong understanding of the different aspects of empathy so that their empathy can be effective, intentional, and most important, healthy and sustainable throughout their careers and their lives.

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<strong>Three Simple Ways to Avoid Empathic Burnout</strong>

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<em>1. Improve Your Emotional Vocabulary</em><br />
Empathy is first and foremost an emotional skill, and one of the most important (and easy!) ways to develop better emotional skills is to simply increase your emotional vocabulary. If you have a larger and more nuanced emotional vocabulary, you can identify and respond more effectively to your own emotions and the emotions of others. Vocabulary matters, and workers who share a large emotional vocabulary will develop better empathic accuracy and stronger emotion regulation skills.
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<em>2. Create Repair Stations for Empathy Workers</em><br />
Healthy empathy is the art of responding effectively to the emotions and needs of others. In many workplaces, empathy work may be focused on problems and conflicts, and this can be tiring. It is very helpful to create what sociologists call &ldquo;repair stations,&rdquo; where people can talk in private about the often-difficult empathy work they do. This small shift can make a huge difference, and it can create an empathic environment within the workforce itself.
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<em>3. Support and Encourage Empathy Breaks</em><br />
In high-empathy or high-conflict workplaces, some workers are performing intense empathy work all day long, with no breaks and little to no awareness that they are doing heavy empathic labor. Managers and colleagues can build short no-contact and no-expectation breaks into each day, where high-empathy workers can be alone, go for a walk, or simply zone out. Regular rest is a vital part of avoiding burnout.
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Empathy is an essential ability and a vital job skill. Luckily, there are ways to make sure that empathy is as healthy for each worker and each workplace as it is for the bottom line.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Karla McLaren, MEd</a>, taught &ldquo;The Art of Empathy&rdquo; at 1440 Multiversity in April of 2018.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/empathy-in-the-workplace-three-simple-ways-to-avoid-burnout</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/empathy-in-the-workplace-three-simple-ways-to-avoid-burnout#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>Dr. Daniel Amen&apos;s Personal Brain Health Workout</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Daniel Amen</a>, MD,&nbsp;is a physician, double board-certified psychiatrist, international&nbsp;speaker, and the founder of Amen Clinics. Called &ldquo;the most popular psychiatrist in&nbsp;America,&rdquo;&nbsp;Dr. Amen has written, produced,&nbsp;and hosted 12 shows about the brain on public&nbsp;television and is the author of over 30 books, including the #1<em>&nbsp;New York Times&nbsp;</em>best&nbsp;seller,&nbsp;<em>Change Your Brain, Change Your Life</em>.
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<h2>1440: If you were to prescribe a brain workout that someone could start on right away, what would you suggest?</h2>
<em>Daniel Amen:</em> If you want to keep your brain healthy, you have to prevent or treat the 11 major risk factors that steal your mind. I love acronyms, and this one I call the Bright Minds approach. Each risk factor has a number of things you can do for it. I love this framework because it gives you so many options for a brain health workout plan. Here are some of my favorites:

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<strong>B</strong> is for blood flow, and the trick for that is exercise. Get your heart rate up.

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<strong>R</strong> is for retirement and aging, and the prescription for that is learning something new. I&rsquo;m learning to play the piano right now.

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<strong>I</strong> is for inflammation, and for that I take fish oil every day.

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<strong>G</strong> is for genetics, and if you have a genetic risk for something, you need to be more serious about that than the average person.

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<strong>H</strong> is for head injuries, and for this it&rsquo;s more about prevention. Don&rsquo;t let your child play football; it&rsquo;s really okay to say no. Trust me. I&rsquo;ve seen the scans of dozens of players and many more people with head injuries. You don&rsquo;t want one.

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<strong>T</strong> is for toxins and for this I recommend you download an app called Think Dirty. It allows you to scan your personal products and it will tell you on a scale of 1 to 10 how toxic they are. When I was writing the book <em>Memory Rescue</em>, I scanned all the products in my bathroom and threw out half of them. Here I am, a neuroscientist obsessed with my own health and the health of my patients for decades, and I never once thought of my shampoo. Shame on me! &nbsp;Whatever goes on your body goes in your body and becomes your body.

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<strong>M</strong> is for mental health. I have this one little exercise I do every day: When my feet hit the floor in the morning, automatically I say, &ldquo;Today is going to be a great day.&rdquo; And it&rsquo;s been so helpful for me because the brain tends to go to a negative place. With that thought, I&rsquo;ve reset my day to a positive place. Your brain will follow the direction you give it. So if I thought, &ldquo;Oh, today is going to be an awful day,&rdquo; I&rsquo;ll think of all the reasons it&rsquo;s going to be awful. But if I just say to myself, &ldquo;Today is going to be a great day,&rdquo; my brain will begin to look for why it&rsquo;s going to be a great day.

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<strong>I</strong> is immunity and infection. My brain health practice here is to take vitamin D. I make sure my level is close to 80. Normal is 30 to 100. I&rsquo;ve also learned to like onions, mushrooms, and garlic. I put those in my diet a lot because they boost my immune system.

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<strong>N</strong> is neurohormone deficiencies, and for this I measure my hormones every year. I&rsquo;m 63 and my testosterone level is awesome. I don&rsquo;t take anything for it, but I also don&rsquo;t eat sugar, which steals your testosterone. I also lift weights, which helps to strengthen it.

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<strong>D</strong> is diabesity. I was headed toward it at one point until I found the right motivation to lose weight. I really go after my patients&rsquo; diet and exercise on this one because it can steal a decade or more of your life.

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<strong>S</strong> is for sleep. I wear a Fitbit and it tells me how I sleep. It took me a week to get used to it because the brain doesn&rsquo;t like change, but it can change. I target seven hours of sleep each night because if it&rsquo;s under seven I get irritated.

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<h2>1440: That&rsquo;s a long list&mdash;it seems like there is an entry point for everyone on there somewhere.</h2>
<em>Daniel Amen:</em> Yes. And if you know your vulnerabilities&mdash;there is a questionnaire in the book <em>Memory Rescue</em>, which outlines this approach&mdash;you can target specific areas. Just start with one thing, because if you do one thing you&rsquo;re likely to do two. And if you do two, you&rsquo;re likely to do four. Your brain will respond.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Daniel Amen</a>, MD, and&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Tana Amen</a>, BSN, RN, have taught at 1440, including the popular&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Change Your Brain, Change Your Life</a> at 1440 Multiversity in April of 2018.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/dr-daniel-amens-personal-brain-health-workout</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/dr-daniel-amens-personal-brain-health-workout#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Cultivating the Wisdom of Presence: Talking with Janet Stone</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Janet Stone</a> is a San Francisco-based vinyasa yoga teacher. After 11 years in the Los Angeles film industry, Janet traveled to India, the birthplace of her grandfather, where she dedicated herself to conscious evolution through yoga.&nbsp;She and her writing have been featured in print and online, including in&nbsp;<em>Yoga Journal, Origin, Mantra, </em>and<em>&nbsp;</em>MindBodyGreen.
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<h2>1440: How does yoga help us come home to ourselves? What aspects of the practice can help us heal inner wounds and get to a place of comfort and connectedness?</h2>
<em>Janet Stone:</em> We expend the majority of our energy looking outside of ourselves and comparing, calculating, maneuvering, and managing our external experience.

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<span class="quote">The journey of turning inward is crucial for coming home to our still point, the place within us that is groundedness itself, compassionate, and ever-present in the midst of life&rsquo;s ups and downs.</span>

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From this point, we can move out into the world with clearer vision and less grasping for outer approval and therefore see others with more compassion.

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<h2>1440: The world can be a confusing and overwhelming place. How do we remain grounded, centered, and focused in the whirlwind of distraction and stimulation?</h2>
<em>Janet Stone:&nbsp;</em>As mentioned above, cultivating a pathway toward an inner still point that can then expand into our daily living.&nbsp; Over nearly 30 years, I&rsquo;ve found that meditation and nature are two powerful tools to grounding into our deeper wisdom.

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<h2>1440: You write so elegantly about maintaining hope in a time of pain and conflict. How do you keep your heart lifted? How do you keep fuel on the fire of compassion and vision?</h2>
<em>Janet Stone:&nbsp;</em>During the pains and sorrows, loves and loss, the breath keeps coming and going, providing the chance for life itself.

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<span class="quote">For me this is the wisdom-keeper and the place I return to&hellip;present, attentive to the myriad of experience, both that will please me and pain me&mdash;it&rsquo;s life and for that, thank you.</span>

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I prefer it to the other option. I&rsquo;ll take it, gratefully. Also, I have a practice of expanding my view, of opening up from my small, limited perspective to attempt to glimpse a larger view and thus not get lost in momentary dramas.

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<h2>1440: Where can we apply our yoga practice to everyday living?</h2>
<em>Janet Stone:&nbsp;</em>Every day is yoga. Practicing, throughout my day, more kindness toward myself (inner dialogue) and others.

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<span class="quote">To view the world as allies in your soul&rsquo;s journey and you in theirs. Moving through my day with momentary pauses to feel into my breath, to the present experiences, before I place a story on top of it.</span>

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<h2>1440: Can you talk about the relationship between yoga and global community service?</h2>
<em>Janet Stone:&nbsp;</em>We cannot separate ourselves, therefore our practice, from the well-being of all. This includes the planet, the balance of the natural world, our consumption/over-consumption. Certainly we go inward, we find the balance point at which to emerge and give our hand so that we may help others up, when they have fallen. We slow down our own consumption as we recognize that we have all we need and all of the stuff we keep buying is perpetuating this imbalance on the planet, does not fill us up.

<p><span class="quote">Global awareness is embedded in self-awareness. Help another.</span></p>

<p>Join Janet at her program <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Body and Soul</a> March 20 &ndash; 22, 2020.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/cultivating-the-wisdom-of-presence-talking-with-janet-stone</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/cultivating-the-wisdom-of-presence-talking-with-janet-stone#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Beer! Wine! Yoga?</title><description><![CDATA[<ul>
	<li>Beer Yoga</li>
	<li>Yoga and Wine Tasting</li>
	<li>Whiskey and Yoga</li>
	<li>Happy Hour Yoga with Two for One Drink Specials</li>
</ul>
I am not kidding: these are actual events. I have a hard time with this sort of thing, but before you start throwing your yoga props (or your barware) in indignation, hear me out.

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First of all, may I say I love a good handcrafted ale or a full-bodied glass of Malbec! I delight in a whiskey on the rocks. I relish a finely executed cocktail poured by a sexily tattooed bartendress while I am wearing fancy lady shoes and a little black dress, perched on a sleek modern bar stool under flattering mood lighting, listening to Sade covers. Would my yoga practice precede or be combined with any of these activities? Nope and here&rsquo;s why.

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People go to yoga classes for different reasons. For some, they gravitate towards vinyasa as a workout and stress reliever. Yin might be for chilling out and not &ldquo;doing.&rdquo;

<ul>
	<li>Maybe you want a great butt</li>
	<li>Maybe you really like the outfits</li>
	<li>Maybe you are looking for a date</li>
	<li>Maybe it is to try something new, or because it is popular</li>
	<li>Maybe it is a moving meditation</li>
	<li>Maybe your doctor recommended it, or that heart attack pushed you into action.</li>
</ul>
<span class="quote">A million reasons bring people to the mat, but there is one unifying phenomenon that occurs whether you are conscious of it or not. It forces you to be present.</span>

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Your breathing is slower, fuller, and more directed and specific. You turn inwards and listen, pay attention to your experience, aiming for no disconnection between where your attention is and what your body is doing.

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When we do not check out, the emotional and physical armor begins to dissolve and sometimes a whole lot of feelings can surface, presenting themselves to be looked at. It might be small, day-to-day stuff, or it might be old trauma, old wounds, old hurt. When we can stay with the vulnerable discomfort and not try and push it away or numb it out, there is an opportunity for it to release instead of staying stuck and hidden. This is one of the greatest benefits of the practice.

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I am moved by witnessing what arises when students show up on their mat, just as they are and breathe deeply with their full attention, letting everything else fall away. It makes me want to marinate in that experience and not want to cover it up, or drown it, or hurry on to the next distraction.

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<span class="quote">Just because we can, doesn&rsquo;t mean we always should.</span>

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That is where discernment and listening to our inner voice come in, and sometimes it is very difficult to recognize whether that is our wise inner knowing or our inner rogue pirate talking. It takes practice, attention, and review.

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&ldquo;How did that work out for me?&rdquo;<br />
&ldquo;Did I feel like that was a wise choice?&rdquo;<br />
&ldquo;How did my body feel? My heart?&rdquo;
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This is true for every circumstance we find ourselves in as humans.

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<span class="quote">The path is different for everyone. There is no template. Hopefully we grow in the process.</span>

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Drink a lot of water, bask in the afterglow of your practice, and see what feels right for you. You may discover that you are not in such a hurry to jump up, put on your pants, check your phone and run out the door to the next shiny thing or tasty beverage.

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You might just want to quietly linger. It&rsquo;s your call.

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<strong>Jodeen Revere revels in her unconventional, multifaceted dream life. She is an actor, a writer, Thai yoga massage therapist, creative movement and dance enthusiast, and RYT-200 yoga teacher currently on an endless sabbatical. She writes <a href="https://jodeenrevere.wordpress.com/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">a blog chronicling her cancertastic adventures.</a>&nbsp;She loves writing, reading, viewing and heatedly discussing film, eating really good snacks, and chillin&rsquo; with her cats, Julian and Tilda. She is a kind and good-natured smart-ass. She is very funny. Just ask her. Her favorite human, ever, is her daughter, Lily.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/beer-wine-yoga</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/beer-wine-yoga#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Balancing Your Emotions: Why It&apos;s More Important Than You Think</title><description><![CDATA[Ever feel like your emotions are a bit out of control? Do you wish you could more skillfully manage your responses to life?
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We asked <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dr. Paul Ekman</a>,&nbsp;one of the most influential psychologists of the 21st century (and one of the five esteemed faculty members teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Cultivating Emotional Balance</a> at 1440 Multiversity), to talk to us about emotional balance &mdash; why it&rsquo;s important in our revved-up world and what we can do to work towards achieving it.

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<h2><strong>Q: What is <em>emotional balance</em>?</strong></h2>
<em>Paul Ekman</em>: When you are out of balance, then one emotion dominates your repertoire of emotions, one emotion is the one you usually respond with. When you are out of balance emotionally, you have many emotional experiences that you later regret because:

<ul>
	<li>Your emotional reaction was too strong</li>
	<li>Your emotional reaction was too weak</li>
	<li>Your emotional reaction was inappropriate.</li>
</ul>

<h2><strong>Q: Why is science relevant to emotions?</strong></h2>
<em>Paul Ekman</em>: The new and rapidly growing field of emotion science, or affective science, promises to bring us a better understanding of what our emotions are and how they can work for us and against us.

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<h2><strong>Q: How did the concept for <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Cultivating Emotional Balance</a> originate?</strong></h2>
<em>Paul Ekman</em>: It was in a meeting with a small group of scientists and the Dalai Lama to discuss destructive emotions. That meeting lasted five days, and, by the fourth day, the Dalai Lama asked if this meeting was going to just be talk or produce something useful.

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We responded to the challenge, and I worked with the other participants &mdash; Mark Greenberg, Richie Davidson, and Owen Flanagan &mdash; to begin the generation of what is now called CEB &mdash; Cultivating Emotional Balance.

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<h2><strong>Q: What skills will people learn? What will they take away from Cultivating Emotional Balance?</strong></h2>
<em>Paul Ekman</em>: Knowledge of what emotions are, how they operate upon us, and what leads to regrettable emotional episodes &mdash;&nbsp;and skills to increase awareness of when we are in the grip of an emotion and how to steer ourselves to have our emotions work for us and those with whom we are intimately engaged.

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<h2><strong>Q: In a time of global tension, how can people become happier and more compassionate?</strong></h2>
<em>Paul Ekman</em>: It is not momentary experiences of happiness that we are aiming for, but well-being, a sense of satisfaction with how we are leading our lives. To achieve that, we need to be aware of when we are experiencing our emotions, and develop choice of whether or not we want to engage emotionally, and if so, how.

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<em><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Cultivating Emotional Balance</a></em><em> runs <span class="aBn"><span class="aQJ">June 16-18, 2017</span></span>, at 1440 Multiversity, led by&nbsp;Eve Ekman,&nbsp;</em><em>Paul Ekman, B. Alan&nbsp;Wallace</em>,&nbsp;<em>Ryan Redman,&nbsp;</em>and&nbsp;<em>Shauna Shapiro</em>.

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<div class="full-image"><img alt="white haired bearded man" height="200" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/Emo-Balance-Ekman-Blog-300x200.png" width="300" /></div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/balancing-your-emotions-why-its-more-important-than-you-think</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/balancing-your-emotions-why-its-more-important-than-you-think#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Are You Faithful to This Moment?</title><description><![CDATA[<em>To be truly alive is to feel one&rsquo;s ultimate existence&nbsp;</em><em>within one&rsquo;s daily existence.&nbsp;</em>&mdash;Christian Wiman, <em>My Bright Abyss</em>
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Have you ever experienced the <em>Las Vegas Effect</em>&mdash;the 24/7, instant gratification, get-it-now-or-feel-unhappy response? I coined that term to describe the ever increasing pace and speed of life that keeps us distracted and feeling like we can&rsquo;t quite catch up. Speed changes our expectations by feeding our impulse for instant gratification.

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There&rsquo;s no question that speed makes all kinds of things more convenient (or so we&rsquo;re tuld). Activities that once took hours, such as shopping for groceries and buying clothes, are now accomplished remotely by pressing a few buttons. It&rsquo;s all good, right? Well, there&rsquo;s nothing innately wrong with getting things done faster. But if we&rsquo;re saving so much time through all these conveniences, why do we feel so stressed-out?

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<strong><em>Why do we seem to have so little time to reflect or just take a breath?</em></strong>

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The irony is that the more we try to do&mdash;and the more that technulogy fills up all the spaces of our day&mdash;the less time we may have for pausing, reflecting, and tapping deeper joy. That&rsquo;s why a journey into the heart of mindfulness begins with pausing, slowing down, and reflecting on how speed and technulogy may be affecting you.

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<strong>Fidelity to Each Ordinary Moment</strong>

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The practice of pausing to notice life&rsquo;s ordinary moments has some very ancient roots in different traditions. It was in the 6<sup>th</sup> century that Italian monk St. Benedict wrote a slender book that described how monks should live in a cooperative and spiritual community. <em>The Rule of St. Benedict</em> instructed monks to take a vow of <em>conversatio morum</em>, which roughly translates as &ldquo;a conversion, or change, of life.&rdquo; In today&rsquo;s world, that change means slowing down and living a more mindful, spiritual, and purpose-filled life. This timeless prescription for living is still useful today.

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I like to think that any of us can shift our lives to be more mindful by taking a vow of <em>fidelity to the ordinary moment</em><strong>. </strong>

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<strong><em>Can you be faithful to this moment just as it is right now&mdash;</em></strong><strong><em>without trying to resist it or push it away?</em></strong>

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When you think about it, there isn&rsquo;t anything you can&rsquo;t be faithful to in the moment. For example, as you read this, notice the next breath. Even when writing an email or texting, you can do so with fidelity to the ordinary moment&mdash;sensing the weight and texture of the phone in your hand, seeing the culors on the screen, and feeling how your fingers type out your message&mdash;while also knowing if the message comes from a place of love or reactivity. Walking, you can be faithful to the movement of the body, the arms, the legs, and the feet&mdash;without letting your mind be somewhere else, far away and disconnected from the body.

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Here are five ways to invite fidelity to the ordinary moment into your daily life:

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<ul>
	<li><strong>Fidelity with the Breath</strong></li>
</ul>

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When you lose fidelity to the moment, you can always reconnect by taking a nice, satisfying breath. Breathe into your belly, and exhale very slowly. Ask yourself: Is this breath yesterday? Is it tomorrow? With a single breath you regain fidelity to the moment. Breath teaches the essence of nonattachment; try to huld on to any breath too long and you&rsquo;ll faint!

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<ul>
	<li><strong>Fidelity with Another</strong></li>
</ul>

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Soften up and receive another person with your presence. Let go of your prejudices and expectations about this person, and how you might like him or her to behave and act differently. Even if you believe this individual to be the most difficult person in your life, get curious. Open your eyes, your ears, your senses, and all the pores of your body. Hear beyond the words; listen with the dimensions of emotion and empathy. Don&rsquo;t just look, but see into the person&rsquo;s eyes, face, and being in this ordinary moment. Imagine each person as a moveable tree on two feet. Notice and appreciate each tree with amazement, for there is no other like it in the entire universe.

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<ul>
	<li><strong>Fidelity with the Sense Body</strong></li>
</ul>

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The body is a cornucopia of now. You only need to tune in and listen to its sensational symphony of vitality, feelings, and aliveness. Notice when you are in your head and out of your body. At that moment, notice your feet on the floor. Let yourself get grounded like a favorite plant or tree by pressing your feet into the floor or earth. Bring your consciousness into the whule body from the tips of the toes to the top of the head. Wherever you feel negative clutter, tightness, tenseness, or any stress, breathe into that part of the body. Imagine your breath filling up the tense area. Then exhale, letting your breath carry away any negative emotions or body tightness down the legs and out through the feet where they are deposited in the earth for recycling. Take as many of these cleansing breaths as needed. If there are feelings in the body&mdash;sadness, grief, loss, anxiety, depression, frustration, loneliness&mdash;take them seriously as the body&rsquo;s wisdom telling you that something in your life needs to change. Rest in this precious gift. Settle in. Now, bask the entire body in the glow of gratitude for all that it does for you on a daily basis.

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How wonderful!

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<ul>
	<li><strong>Fidelity with Walking</strong></li>
</ul>

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Soften and become flexible when walking. Move like a cat. Notice all the body&rsquo;s movements, the lifting of each foot, how each leg swings forward, how each foot lowers and presses into the ground, the suppleness of the ankles, and how the body shifts its weight from one side to the other. Above all, when walking, just walk. There&rsquo;s nothing else to do, really. So long as your body is pointed in the right direction, you won&rsquo;t get lost. Dare yourself to bump into something, but it&rsquo;s almost impossible when you have fidelity to walking.

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<strong>Walk to be <em>here</em>, not to get <em>there</em>.</strong>

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<ul>
	<li><strong>Fidelity by Pausing</strong></li>
</ul>

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Get in the practice of just pausing to notice the ordinary moment around you. Maybe you are in the car, at a coffee shop, or in line at a store. Pause, take a breath, and take a mental snapshot of this moment. Let yourself savor this precious moment&mdash;for another one exactly like it will never come again.

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By pausing, you steep yourself in the here and now. And like those tickets at the carnival say on the reverse side: &ldquo;<em>You must be present to win</em>.&rdquo;

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<strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Donald Altman</a> will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Journey into the Heart of Mindfulness</a> at 1440 Multiversity on April 6 &ndash; 8, 2018.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/are-you-faithful-to-this-moment</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/are-you-faithful-to-this-moment#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Are You an Empath? Dr. Judith Orloff&apos;s Self-Assessment Quiz</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Judith Orloff</a>, MD, is a psychiatrist, intuitive healer, and <em>New York Times</em> best-selling author who synthesizes traditional medicine with cutting-edge knowledge of intuition, energy, and spirituality.&nbsp;Dr. Orloff is an assistant clinical professor of psychiatry at UCLA and her work has been featured on <em>The Today Show</em>, CNN, <em>Forbes</em>, <em>USA Today</em>, and <em>O, the Oprah Magazine</em>.
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<h2><b>Are You an Empath?</b></h2>

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An empath is a naturally giving, spiritually attuned, good listener whose nurturing nature can also lead to absorbing the emotions of stressful situations and people. To determine how empathic you are, take this quiz&nbsp;from Dr. Orloff&rsquo;s book&nbsp;<em>The Empath&rsquo;s Survival Guide: Life Strategies for Sensitive People.</em>

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<h2><strong>Dr. Judith Orloff&rsquo;s 20-Question Self-Assessment Quiz</strong></h2>

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<strong>1.</strong> Have I been labeled as &ldquo;overly sensitive,&rdquo; shy, or introverted?<br />
<strong>2.</strong> Do I frequently get overwhelmed or anxious?<br />
<strong>3.</strong> Do arguments or yelling make me ill?<br />
<strong>4.</strong> Do I often feel like I don&rsquo;t fit in?<br />
<strong>5.</strong> Am I drained by crowds and need alone time to revive myself?<br />
<strong>6.</strong> Am I over-stimulated by noise, odors, or non-stop talkers?<br />
<strong>7.</strong> Do I have chemical sensitivities or can&rsquo;t tolerate scratchy clothes?<br />
<strong>8.</strong> Do I prefer taking my own car places so I can leave early if I need to?<br />
<strong>9.</strong> Do I overeat to cope with stress?<br />
<strong>10.</strong> Am I afraid of becoming suffocated by intimate relationships?<br />
<strong>11.</strong> Do I startle easily?<br />
<strong>12.</strong> Do I react strongly to caffeine or medications?<br />
<strong>13.</strong> Do I have a low pain threshold?<br />
<strong>14.</strong> Do I tend to socially isolate?<br />
<strong>15.</strong> Do I absorb other people&rsquo;s stress, emotions, or symptoms?<br />
<strong>16.</strong> Am I overwhelmed by multitasking and prefer doing one thing at a time?<br />
<strong>17.</strong> Do I replenish myself in nature?<br />
<strong>18.</strong> Do I need a long time to recuperate after being with difficult people or energy vampires?<br />
<strong>19.</strong> Do I feel better in small cities or the country than in large cities?<br />
<strong>20.</strong> Do I prefer one-to-one interactions or small groups rather than large gatherings?

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<strong>To calculate your results:</strong>

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<ul>
	<li><em>If you answered yes to one to five questions?</em> You&rsquo;re at least partially an empath.</li>
	<li><em>Respond yes to six to ten questions?</em> You have moderate empathic tendencies.</li>
	<li><em>Responding yes to 11 to 15 questions?</em> You have strong empathic tendencies.</li>
	<li><em>Answering yes to more than 15 questions?</em> You are a full-blown empath.</li>
</ul>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><strong>Join Dr. Orloff&nbsp;March 13 &ndash; 15, 2020 at her program <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Become an Intuitive Healer</a>.</strong></p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/are-you-an-empath-dr-judith-orloffs-self-assessment-quiz</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/are-you-an-empath-dr-judith-orloffs-self-assessment-quiz#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>A Vague Sense of Unease: Taming the Internet Habit</title><description><![CDATA[I traveled all over Southeast Asia with a friend for seven months when I was 21. No computers, no cell phones. They didn&rsquo;t exist.
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<span class="quote">You placed a phone call once a month to let your family know you had not been sold into sex slavery or been arrested for drugs. </span>

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You waited at a call station an hour for your call to be placed, then they would call your name, you stepped into a phone booth and felt the taut heart-string pull of connection to family on the other side of the planet for 10 profoundly expensive minutes. We wrote letters and gave American Express office addresses and approximate dates as to when we might be in that city. The rest of the time you were fully present where you were with who you were with and there was no one else to consider. No where else to virtually be.

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<span class="quote">Now, we are available to everyone who&rsquo;s not there, leaving the experiences and people that are actually in the room with us relegated to a second tier of our attention. </span>

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As anti-technology as I was (&ldquo;Why the hell do you need to carry a phone with you? What could possibly be that important?!&rdquo;), I would never in a million years have imagined I would spend so much time in front of a screen. Who knew that it would feel like an important job to respond to and &ldquo;like&rdquo; cat videos? The weight of responsibility to be witty and acknowledge in a caring way each circumstance that is being experienced by my 1200 &ldquo;friends.&rdquo; Your phone&hellip;don&rsquo;t leave home without it!

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When I was going though cancer treatment last summer, since I was not working, at one point I stayed off of Facebook for 10 days. I know, wild, right? After a couple of days I didn&rsquo;t miss it at all, and then around day seven as I was laying in bed getting ready to sleep, I realized that I was no longer seeing a streaming Facebook feed behind my eyelids when I closed my eyes.

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<span class="quote">Let this sink in for a minute. I was literally vibrating and streaming images I had seen during the day as I went to sleep. </span>

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Not memories of actual experiences, or replaying encounters I had had with real people, but a ticker tape of computer-generated images and text burned into my retinas. That is seriously messed up. It was something that had become so normalized that it took taking it away to understand the effect it had on my nervous system. How in its absence I felt peaceful, not vaguely uneasy and anxious.

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<span class="quote">At the end of those 10 days, when I logged back in to Facebook, I had well over 100 messages and it took me 15 minutes to scroll through them and realize I hadn&rsquo;t really missed anything. </span>

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In my normal world I am popping in and out, &ldquo;checking,&rdquo; and it easily eats up hours a day. Hours of my life.

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The irony of writing an online blog about the addiction of the internet in the hope that people will read it and then comment favorably on it, is not lost on me. I am not suggesting we go back to the days before answering machines, but somehow there needs to be a tempered bridge between real life and screen life. More time spent face to face with our dear friends, and a little less time with hundreds of people with whom we are acquainted but with whom we have no real connection.

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<span class="quote">Give your retinas and your nervous system a break. Power down, go outside and pretend you are on the other side of the world and no one can get ahold of you. </span>

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Try it. It&rsquo;s been done before and everything worked out just fine.

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<strong>Jodeen Revere revels in her unconventional, multifaceted dream life. She is an actor, a writer, Thai yoga massage therapist, creative movement and dance enthusiast, and RYT-200 yoga teacher currently on an endless sabbatical. She writes <a href="https://jodeenrevere.wordpress.com/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">a blog chronicling her cancertastic adventures.</a>&nbsp;She loves writing, reading, viewing and heatedly discussing film, eating really good snacks, and chillin&rsquo; with her cats Julian and Tilda. She is a kind and good-natured smart ass. She is very funny. Just ask her. Her favorite human, ever, is her daughter, Lily. </strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/a-vague-sense-of-unease-taming-the-internet-habit</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/a-vague-sense-of-unease-taming-the-internet-habit#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>A Bigger Sky</title><description><![CDATA[For over a decade, I&rsquo;ve been using this metaphor to describe the dilemma of being human: &nbsp;it is as if we are all walking around looking at the sky through a straw. Is that the sky we see? Sure it is. Is it the whole sky? Absolutely not.
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Inside our circle of sky is everything we know; everything we&rsquo;ve gathered over a lifetime of learning; everything we&rsquo;ve assimilated into our opinions and points of view.

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<span class="quote">Knowing is good. The problem is that we&nbsp;<em>cling</em>&nbsp;to what we know, holding onto our opinions and perspectives as the singular, capital &ldquo;T&rdquo; truth. </span>

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We are often unaware of our limited slice of sky&hellip;until we bump into someone with a different point of view. Then our understanding easily slides from &ldquo;this is so,&rdquo; to &ldquo;I&rsquo;m right and you&rsquo;re wrong.&rdquo; And escalates from there.

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This is not a small point. When we look under the surface of the suffering and violence enveloping our world, we discover that clinging to views and opinions is frequently at the root: tightly held opinions become judgments, become &ldquo;isms,&rdquo; become policies, become wars.

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Even if we are able to skillfully navigate the friction of colliding with views and opinions different from our own, at some point the comfort of our habitual circle of sky stops feeling cozy and safe, and starts feeling tight and constricted.

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<span class="quote">All of us long for a bigger sky. But we may not know how to find it. </span>

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The key to discovering a wider sky is less about doing or undoing (though that may also be necessary), and more about nurturing the capacity to step into the unknown with curiosity and with kindness. For the past few months, I&rsquo;ve been describing this as the cultivation of &ldquo;Beginner&rsquo;s Mind&rdquo; and &ldquo;Grandmotherly Heart.&rdquo;

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Beginner&rsquo;s Mind is a phrase popularized by Shunryu Suzuki Roshi, the founder of San Francisco Zen Center and author of <em>Zen Mind, Beginner&rsquo;s Mind</em>. It describes an open, flexible, innocent mind: a mind of child-like wonder, able to meet each moment with curiosity and &ldquo;oh wow!&rdquo; Beginner&rsquo;s Mind brings a steady flow of fluidity, possibility, and the ability to respond to life with ingenuity and innovation.

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As we accumulate knowledge over time, the grip around our sky-circle tends to tighten, and we become more rigid and dogmatic. The more we know, the more it feels we have to lose by letting go and stepping into the unfamiliar. But no matter how smart we are, our knowledge is limited, incomplete.

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<span class="quote">There is always a wider sky, beckoning. </span>

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The ability to risk stepping into the mysterious unknown is buoyed by the cultivation of &ldquo;Grandmotherly Heart.&rdquo; This term,&nbsp;<em>robai-shin</em>, is from Dogen Zenji, the 13th-century Zen monk-scholar-poet. Grandmotherly Heart includes the qualities of love, devotion, and wholehearted attention and attunement. It is the warmth and penetrating gaze of my grandmother, Helen, who would hold my face in her soft, wrinkled hands and ask: &ldquo;Nu bubula? How are you? Tell me everything!&rdquo; Cultivating Grandmotherly Heart is about learning to attend (to ourselves and to others) with this kind of deep, loving listening.

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<span class="quote">When our vulnerability and innocence are met with tenderness and attention, we are able to venture out of our small circle of views and opinions and stretch into a bigger sky. </span>

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Cultivating Beginner&rsquo;s Mind and Grandmotherly Heart helps&nbsp;us meet suffering&mdash;the suffering of racism, of violence, of climate change&mdash;with a fierce, loving, appropriate response.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Pamela Weiss</a> will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Human Journey: Uncovering Your Calling and Contribution</a>, November 24 &ndash; 26, 2017, at 1440 Multiversity.

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<strong>A Buddhist meditation teacher and executive coach, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Pamela Weiss</a> is the founder and chief wisdom officer of Appropriate Response, a company dedicated to bringing the principles and practices of Buddhist teaching into the workplace. With more than 20 years&rsquo; experience working with executives and leadership teams at organizations such as Pixar, Tipping Point, Genentech, and Salesforce, Pamela is a recognized pioneer in the field.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/a-bigger-sky</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/a-bigger-sky#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>4 Effective Bedtime Strategies for Reducing Stress</title><description><![CDATA[<h2><em>Here are four practices you can try if you need help falling asleep.</em></h2>

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Stress affects half of all Americans, with women, younger adults, and people with lower incomes reporting the highest levels, according to the&nbsp;<a href="https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/stress/2014/highlights.aspx" rel="noopener" target="_blank">2014 Stress in America survey</a> by the American Psychological Association. Additionally, 42% of adults don&rsquo;t think they are effectively managing their stress, and <a href="https://www.apa.org/helpcenter/understanding-chronic-stress.aspx" rel="noopener" target="_blank">40%</a> say they lie awake at night because of stress.

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Stress is one of the top contributors to insomnia, which impacts <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2504337/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">around 30%</a> of US adults at any given time. If you&rsquo;ve experienced a nerve-wracked night, it&rsquo;s not too hard to understand why: high levels of stress makes it hard to mentally wind down, and it makes it difficult to&nbsp;<a href="https://www.apa.org/helpcenter/stress-body.aspx" rel="noopener" target="_blank">physically relax</a> before and <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17680730" rel="noopener" target="_blank">during sleep</a> as well.

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The relationship between stress and sleep works both ways, too. Missing out on rest&nbsp;<a href="https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/stress/2013/sleep.aspx" rel="noopener" target="_blank">compounds stress</a> and affects physical and mental health over time, which can create a cycle that exacerbates both problems.&nbsp;Recently, a study published in the journal <em>Sleep</em> found that how a person responds to stress may impact the development of insomnia.&nbsp;Having a few relaxation techniques in your mental toolkit can be helpful for those times when stress rears its head and keeps you up. Here are four practices&nbsp;you can&nbsp;explore if you need&nbsp;help getting some quality shut-eye.

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<h2>1. Mindfulness Meditation</h2>

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<a href="https://www.mindful.org/meditation/mindfulness-getting-started/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Mindfulness meditation</a>&nbsp;involves taking time be aware of your physical body and thoughts and accepting rather than judging those thoughts and feelings. There are variety of <a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/topic/mindfulness/definition" rel="noopener" target="_blank">health benefits</a>&nbsp;associated with mindfulness, and one of those is improved sleep. One <a href="https://archinte.jamanetwork.com/article.aspx?articleid=2110998" rel="noopener" target="_blank">2015 study</a>&nbsp;found that people in a mindfulness training program improved on sleep, depression, and fatigue measures over six weeks, compared to people in a sleep hygiene education program.

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Mindfulness meditation can be practiced independently. <a href="https://www.mindful.org/mindfulness-how-to-do-it/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">The steps</a> are simple: take a seat, pay attention to the breath, and when your attention wanders, return.&nbsp;Following a <a href="https://www.mindful.org/audio-resources-for-mindfulness-meditation/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">guided meditation</a> can also be helpful for beginners.

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If you prefer instructor-led learning, several universities and therapists provide mindfulness&nbsp;<a href="https://www.mindful.org/choosing-a-mindfulness-program/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">training programs</a> based on the practice of meditation and mind-body awareness, aimed at reducing stress or for specific concerns like insomnia. (Find more <a href="https://www.mindful.org/resources/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">helpful resources here</a>.)

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<h2>2. Deep Breathing</h2>

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Since breathing is typically an autonomic function, it&rsquo;s easy to overlook its role in relaxation. However, considerable evidence shows that depth and pace of breathing can affect things like heart rate and blood pressure. Certain breathing techniques involving deeper, slower breaths can be practiced for inducing relaxation.

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	<li><strong>Diaphragmatic Breathing</strong>: This <a href="https://umm.edu/health/medical/reports/articles/stress" rel="noopener" target="_blank">technique</a> is easy to try: sitting or lying down, inhale through your nose, counting to ten and focusing on drawing breath from your abdomen rather than your chest. Exhale slowly through your nose at the same pace, counting to ten. Complete the cycle five to ten times, repeating as often as needed. <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed?term=Effects%20of%20mental%20relaxation%20and%20slow%20breathing%20in%20essential%20hypertension." rel="noopener" target="_blank">Research</a> has found that even a single session of deep, slow breathing can reduce blood pressure and heart rate.</li>
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	<li><strong>4-7-8 Breath</strong>: This technique was developed for inducing sleep and relaxation by&nbsp; Andrew Weil, based in yoga breathing principles. To try it: place the tip of your tongue behind your upper teeth. Exhale fully through your mouth, making a &ldquo;whooshing&rdquo; sound. Close your mouth, and inhale through your nose to a count of four. Hold your breathe for a count of seven. Exhale through your mouth making the whoosh sound for a count of eight. Repeat three more times.</li>
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<h2>3. Listen to Music</h2>

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Have you ever noticed how certain songs can make you feel relaxed? It&rsquo;s not just in your head&mdash;music really can help you calm down and fight stress. Music-based therapy is a professional clinical practice involving <a href="https://www.musictherapy.org/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">trained therapists</a>, backed by significant research.

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Music relaxation techniques have been shown to reduce <a href="https://www.apa.org/monitor/2013/11/music.aspx" rel="noopener" target="_blank">stress and pain</a> as well as <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/25478114" rel="noopener" target="_blank">insomnia</a>&nbsp;symptoms. Listening to soothing music (Pachabel&rsquo;s Canon in D in <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11796077" rel="noopener" target="_blank">one study</a>) may have a preventative effect against stress, and according to <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18959456" rel="noopener" target="_blank">research</a>, music may even be more effective the progressive muscle relaxation at anxiety and insomnia relief. A <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18426457" rel="noopener" target="_blank">study</a> of college students found that listening to classical music at night improved sleep and decreased depression compared to either audiobooks or nothing.

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When choosing music relax to at home, it&rsquo;s best to pick <a href="https://www.unr.edu/counseling/virtual-relaxation-room/releasing-stress-through-the-power-of-music" rel="noopener" target="_blank">instrumentals</a> with a calming pace, including classical, light jazz, and&nbsp;stringed tunes as well as nature soundtracks, depending on what you personally find most appealing. Lay back, turn out the lights, and focus on the melody and beat of the music.

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<h2>4. Mindful Movement</h2>

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Meditative movements like those found in yoga and tai chi can be helpful way to reduce&nbsp;<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3721087/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">stress</a>. A <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/26120865" rel="noopener" target="_blank">recent review</a> published in September looked at several studies involving meditative movement interventions, finding that these practices improved sleep. Type was not important, but practicing three days a week or more was.

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Tai chi is an ancient Chinese tradition combining series of slow, focused movements with deep breathing. It&rsquo;s a very low impact form of exercise requiring no equipment, suitable for doing alone or in a group. Another <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/24934815" rel="noopener" target="_blank">2015 research review</a> found small but consistent evidence that tai chi helps subjective sleep quality for older adults. Follow along with a&nbsp;<a href="https://nccih.nih.gov/video/taichidvd-full" rel="noopener" target="_blank">guided video</a> or attend a class in your area.

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Yoga has been studied as an <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15707256" rel="noopener" target="_blank">insomnia intervention</a>, for <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23940231" rel="noopener" target="_blank">cancer survivors</a>, in <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/24519347" rel="noopener" target="_blank">elderly individuals</a>, and in <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23337557" rel="noopener" target="_blank">pregnant women</a>, showing positive results. Typically the studies involve regular daytime practices, though yoga can also be utilized at night for relaxation, with&nbsp;<a href="https://www.yogajournal.com/slideshow/15-poses-help-sleep-better/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">poses</a> like forward bends, child&rsquo;s pose, legs-up-the-wall and savasana for gentle stretching and stress relief. Many yoga resources are available free online, and classes are also abundant in most cities.

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Since relaxation can be an individual thing, testing out different programs and even different instructors can be helpful. But remember, as with most strategies, results can take time to see and most studies find benefits over a span of several weeks to months.

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Finding a healthy stress relief method that works for you and practicing it regularly can make a significant difference when life throws you curveballs. Coping strategies that help you process stress and induce relaxation offer a positive way to manage problems and work to prevent its negative effects, including insomnia.

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<h2><em>This article was originally published on&nbsp;<a href="https://mindful.org/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Mindful.org</a>, a non-profit dedicated to inspiring, guiding, and connecting anyone who wants to explore mindfulness. Go <a href="https://www.mindful.org/four-effective-bedtime-strategies-for-reducing-stress/" rel="canonical noopener" target="_blank">here</a> to view the original article.</em></h2>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/4-effective-bedtime-strategies-for-reducing-stress</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/4-effective-bedtime-strategies-for-reducing-stress#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>3 Ways to Shift from Blame to Love</title><description><![CDATA[Evolution has rigged all of us with a negativity bias&mdash;a survival-driven habit to scan for what&rsquo;s wrong and to fixate on it. In contemporary society, a pervasive target is our own sense of unworthiness. We habitually fixate on how we&rsquo;re falling short&mdash;in our relationships, work, appearance, mood, and behaviors. And while self-aversion is our primary reflex, we also fixate on the faults of others, how other people are letting us down, how they are wrong or bad and should be different. Whether we are focusing inwardly or outwardly, we are creating an enemy, and imprisoning ourselves in the sense of a separate, threatened self.
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While the negativity bias is a key part of our survival apparatus, when it dominates our daily life, we lose access to the more recently evolved parts of our brain that contribute to feelings of connection, empathy, and wellbeing. What helps us to de-condition the negativity bias? How do we shift from limbic reactivity to &ldquo;attend and befriend&rdquo;? Here are three ways that help us awaken our full potential for natural presence and caring.

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<h2>Look to Vulnerability</h2>

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The first thing we can do is to look toward vulnerability&mdash;starting with ourselves.

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<span class="quote">When we&rsquo;re blaming ourselves, we can ask, &ldquo;What&rsquo;s really going on underneath this? What has driven me to behave in this way?&rdquo; </span>

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Perhaps you&rsquo;ll see you were afraid to fall short, and that fear made you act exactly how you didn&rsquo;t want to act. Or maybe you see you really wanted approval because you were feeling insecure, and so you ended up in some way betraying yourself and not acting with integrity. When you begin to understand that you are really hurting in some way, you will naturally open out of blame and into self-compassion.

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When triggered by others, first bring a kind presence to your own feelings of vulnerability. Once you are more present and balanced, try to look through the eyes of wisdom at what might be behind their behavior. How might this person be caught in their own sense of insecurity, inadequacy, or confusion? If you can begin to see how this person might be suffering, you will reconnect with a natural sense of tenderness and care.

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<h2>Actively Express Compassion</h2>

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When compassion arises, the next step is to actively express it. This is what brings compassion fully to life. If you&rsquo;re working on self-compassion, look to the vulnerable part of yourself to sense what it most needs from you. Is it forgiveness? Acceptance? Companionship? Safety? Love? Then, from a wise and kind place in your being, try to offer inwardly what is most needed. Either mentally or with a whisper, you might say your name and send a message of kindness; that you are holding yourself with love&mdash;that you are not leaving. You might place a hand gently on your heart or cheek, or even give yourself a light hug as a way of conveying, from your more awake heart, &ldquo;I&rsquo;m here with you. I care.&rdquo;

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If you&rsquo;re working with compassion for others, then it&rsquo;s powerful and healing to communicate your recognition of their suffering, and your care.

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<span class="quote">We all know that when we are with somebody we love, if we actually say the words &ldquo;I love you&rdquo; out loud, it brings the love to a new level. </span>

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If you want to reverse your negativity bias with someone&mdash;to reverse your habits of blaming or distancing&mdash;look for their vulnerability and then, either through prayer or in person, offer them some message of understanding and kindness.

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<h2>Include Those Who Seem Different</h2>

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Part of our negativity bias, and the cause of much racial, religious, and other domains of violence, comes from associating potential danger&mdash;something wrong&mdash;with those who are different. A practice that evolves us (and our larger society) toward inclusive loving is to intentionally deepen our relationships with others of difference. When we communicate on purpose, trying to understand, it opens us to the larger truth of our interconnectedness.

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<span class="quote">While our brain has a flight, fight, or freeze response, it also has a compassion network that includes mirror neurons that allow us to register what it&rsquo;s like for other people. </span>

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We can sense that others want to feel loved and loving; that they want to feel safe and be happy. When we feel that connection, it enables us to act on behalf of each other and the relationship or larger community. But unless we purposefully take time to pause and listen to others who are different, we won&rsquo;t automatically engage that part of our brain. And to have these heart-awakening dialogues, we need to intentionally create safe conscious containers.

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In the same way as we train on the meditation cushion, we can train in conscious communication with one another, and gradually widen our circles to connect with those who may be more notably of difference. There are many effective practices, like Insight Dialogue, Non-Violent Communication, and circles of reconciliation that offer a formal structure for communicating. Importantly, we need to practice in our close relationships. A couple of times a week, my husband and I will meditate together and then we&rsquo;ll have a period of silence where we reflect on certain inquires, like &ldquo;What are you grateful for right now?&rdquo; and &ldquo;What is difficult for you right now?&rdquo; We also ask, &ldquo;Is there anything between us that is getting in the way of an open and loving flow?&rdquo; The other person listens with a kind, accepting presence, and we each get to name what we&rsquo;re experiencing. Whatever practice you choose, you can trust it&rsquo;s important healing work, especially in these times.

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What about those people who aren&rsquo;t willing to engage in conversation with us? Fortunately, our capacity to feel connection doesn&rsquo;t hinge upon their capacity to connect with us. Of course, it&rsquo;s easier to feel connected when there&rsquo;s mutuality, but we can still offer kindness from our hearts regardless, and research shows that this kind attention wakes up the part of our brain that feels compassion. It&rsquo;s possible to do this in every situation, with every person we meet.

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It&rsquo;s natural that in the face of hurt, injustice, deception, and violation we will feel a range of emotions like fear, hatred, and anger. The negativity bias can lock us into being at war with ourselves, and with others &ldquo;out there.&rdquo; It is important that we pause, be with ourselves and with each other, and open fully to the feelings that arise. When we honor and listen to those feelings, we can get beneath them, and access our human vulnerability and the care that is truly our essence. It then becomes possible to respond to the world in a manner that is aligned with our hearts.

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<span class="quote">I have a very simple morning prayer: &ldquo;Teach me about kindness.&rdquo; </span>

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When I move through the day with those words informing me, the moments become filled with presence, tenderness, and aliveness&mdash;even when I encounter challenging people, myself included!

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<strong>Tara Brach is a psychologist, meditation teacher, and author of the best-selling books <em>Radical Acceptance</em> and <em>True Refuge</em>. She is founder and senior teacher of the Insight Meditation Community of Washington, DC, and teaches Buddhist meditation at centers in the United States and Europe. </strong>

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<strong> Tara&rsquo;s podcasted talks and meditations are downloaded nearly a million times each month. Her teachings blend Western psychology, Buddhist psychology, Eastern meditation practices, and mindful attention to the inner life with a full, compassionate engagement with the world.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/3-ways-to-shift-from-blame-to-love</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/3-ways-to-shift-from-blame-to-love#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Faculty Focus: Getting to Know Julia Cameron</title><description><![CDATA[Julia Cameron is&nbsp;a&nbsp;prolific&nbsp;artist of more than three decades. &nbsp;She has&nbsp;35 published books to her name, ranging from her&nbsp;best-selling <em>The Artist&rsquo;s Way, </em>which has sold more than four million copies, to her widely praised and hard-hitting crime novel,&nbsp;<em>The Dark Room.&nbsp;</em>Cameron has also published volumes of childrens&rsquo; poems and prayers as well as a memoir, <em>Floor Sample</em>. She is a master narrator and guide through&nbsp;the mysterious and sometimes rocky terrain of the creative process.
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<h2><em>What do you think is the most important lesson people can glean from your work?</em></h2>

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Faith in themselves, a belief in the validity of their ideas, and the courage to go forward.

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<h2><em>Do you have an affirmation for tough times?</em></h2>

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&ldquo;Dear God, please give me clarity and guidance. Lead me forward carefully and well.&rdquo;

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<h2><em>What&rsquo;s the one thing that we should all remember about love?</em></h2>

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<span class="quote">We need to ask to be an open channel for the love of the universe to flow through us. </span>

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<h2><em>Where&rsquo;s your happy place?</em></h2>

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I live up the mountain from Santa Fe, and the dirt roads leading to my house have spectacular views.

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<h2><em>When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?</em></h2>

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Two things: a writer and a horse trainer. I&rsquo;ve done both.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>The Artist&#39;s Way </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Julia Cameron</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">July 26 - 28, 2019</div>
Creativity is not a luxury. Two decades ago, Julia Cameron published her groundbreaking book The Artist&rsquo;s Way, a course in discovering and recovering your creative self. Beloved by more than four million people worldwide, the course is credited with having...</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-getting-to-know-julia-cameron</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-getting-to-know-julia-cameron#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Faculty Focus: Getting to Know Alex Korb</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dr. Alex Korb</a> is a neuroscientist, writer, and coach. He has studied the brain for over 15 years and is the author of <em>The Upward Spiral: Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time</em>. He received a bachelor of science in neuroscience at Brown University, before earning a doctorate in neuroscience at UCLA.
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<h2><em>What do you think is the most important lesson people can glean from your work?</em></h2>

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Small changes in your actions, interactions, thoughts, and environment can actually change the activity and chemistry of key brain circuits that contribute to depression.

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2><em>Do you have an affirmation for tough times?</em></h2>

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<span class="quote">Unleash.</span>

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<h2><em>What&rsquo;s the one thing that we should all remember about love?</em></h2>

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It&rsquo;s more about what you give than what you get.

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2><em>Where&rsquo;s your happy place?</em></h2>

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My smiling, 3-month-old baby girl.

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2><em>When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?</em></h2>

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A famous author.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-getting-to-know-alex-korb</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-getting-to-know-alex-korb#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Faculty Focus: Getting to Know Alex Korb</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dr. Alex Korb</a> is a neuroscientist, writer, and coach. He has studied the brain for over 15 years and is the author of <em>The Upward Spiral: Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time</em>. He received a bachelor of science in neuroscience at Brown University, before earning a doctorate in neuroscience at UCLA.
<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2><em>What do you think is the most important lesson people can glean from your work?</em></h2>

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Small changes in your actions, interactions, thoughts, and environment can actually change the activity and chemistry of key brain circuits that contribute to depression.

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2><em>Do you have an affirmation for tough times?</em></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Unleash.</span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2><em>What&rsquo;s the one thing that we should all remember about love?</em></h2>

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It&rsquo;s more about what you give than what you get.

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2><em>Where&rsquo;s your happy place?</em></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
My smiling, 3-month-old baby girl.

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2><em>When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?</em></h2>

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A famous author.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-getting-to-know-alex-korb</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-getting-to-know-alex-korb#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Faculty Focus: Getting to Know Alex Korb</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dr. Alex Korb</a> is a neuroscientist, writer, and coach. He has studied the brain for over 15 years and is the author of <em>The Upward Spiral: Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time</em>. He received a bachelor of science in neuroscience at Brown University, before earning a doctorate in neuroscience at UCLA.
<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2><em>What do you think is the most important lesson people can glean from your work?</em></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Small changes in your actions, interactions, thoughts, and environment can actually change the activity and chemistry of key brain circuits that contribute to depression.

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2><em>Do you have an affirmation for tough times?</em></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Unleash.</span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2><em>What&rsquo;s the one thing that we should all remember about love?</em></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It&rsquo;s more about what you give than what you get.

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2><em>Where&rsquo;s your happy place?</em></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
My smiling, 3-month-old baby girl.

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2><em>When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?</em></h2>

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A famous author.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-getting-to-know-alex-korb</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-getting-to-know-alex-korb#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>10 Things I Learned from Martha Beck</title><description><![CDATA[<em>&ldquo;Do you choose your socialization or do you choose your essence?&rdquo;</em>
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I attended Martha Beck&rsquo;s Navigating the Storm weekend program at 1440 Multiversity, and the famed life coach peppered her three-day workshop with thought-provoking questions like this one. As she spoke, you could imagine the realization-explosions of the mind making invisible sparking clouds over the heads of the students.

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As Martha spoke and interacted with program participants, it&rsquo;s likely that many folks found themselves thinking thoughts like this (because they were certainly in my mind!):

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<ul>
	<li>Am I living out my true essence?</li>
	<li>Why did I make these choices? Did trauma or socialization drive me to these decisions?</li>
	<li>Where else am I uncomfortable in my life? What can I do about that?</li>
</ul>

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Navigating the Storm with Martha Beck was like a series of &ldquo;aha!&rdquo; moments designed to help you get still, pay attention to the uncomfortable parts of yourself, and figure out why they were there. Then, with this foundation, you could potentially create other ways of reacting to (and being in) various life situations. Martha was a sure, steady, and loving hand in this process as she helped program members deal with their emerging socialization- and trauma-induced concerns.

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I can&rsquo;t provide a complete list of all the amazing things she said over the weekend (we&rsquo;d be here for days), but here are 10 Things I Learned from Martha Beck:

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<ul>
	<li>&ldquo;A storm arises to show us where we need to pay attention.&rdquo;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;There&rsquo;s something that goes very wrong inside us when there is an injustice that we accept.&rdquo;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;Our trauma and socialization divide us from our truth.&rdquo;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;The soul loves experience and it&rsquo;s not afraid to suffer.&rdquo;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;The places in you &hellip; that are not in harmony with your essential self, they become very uncomfortable.&rdquo;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;Nothing will start a hurricane faster than saying to your angry self, &lsquo;No, no, no. You must be nice.&rsquo;&rdquo;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;You can&rsquo;t change what happened, but you can change what it meant. You can change what it means.&rdquo;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;We&rsquo;re all wireless communication devices, just like our phones.&rdquo;</li>
	<li>&quot;When you figure out: I actually can&rsquo;t fix another person.&rdquo;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;You will find that the one thing stronger than the storm inside you is the calm inside you.&rdquo;</li>
</ul>

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<strong><em><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Martha Beck</a> will be returning to 1440 Multiversity to teach <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Navigating the Storm: Finding Peace and Purpose in Uncertain Times&nbsp;</a>February 7 &ndash; 9, 2020.</em></strong>

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<strong>Lisbeth Darsh is the Digital Marketing Manager at 1440 Multiversity, as well as the author of six books and the popular fitness/inspiration blog <a href="https://wordswithlisbeth.com">Words With Lisbeth</a>. A former executive at CrossFit Inc, she has also been a fitness coach/gym owner, an English professor, and a military officer, with degrees from Vassar Cullege (BA) and California State University at Dominguez Hills (MA). You can usually find Lisbeth with a book or barbell in hand, looking to lift spirits and weights.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-things-i-learned-from-martha-beck</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-things-i-learned-from-martha-beck#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Your Mind Can Change the Health of Your Body&quot;: Insights from Dr. Dan Siegel</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dan Siegel, MD,</a> is an internationally acclaimed author, educator, and child psychiatrist who has published extensively for both professional and lay audiences. The executive director of Mindsight Institute, Dr. Siegel is known for his unique ability to make complicated scientific concepts accessible. What fullows is an excerpt from his latest <em>New York Times</em> best seller, <em>Aware: The Science and Practice of Presence</em>.
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<h2><em>Why Expanding Your Consciousness Leads to Better Wellness</em></h2>
There is an uld saying that consciousness is like a container of water. If you take a tablespoon of salt and place it in a small container, say, the size of an espresso cup, the water most certainly will be too salty to drink. But if your container is much larger&mdash;say it is capable of hulding many, many gallons of water&shy;&mdash;that same tablespoon of salt, now placed into this vast amount of liquid, will taste fresh. Same water, same salt; simply a different ratio, and the experience of drinking is totally different.

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Consciousness is like that.

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<span class="quote">When we learn to cultivate our capacity for being aware, the quality of our life and the strength of our mind are enhanced. </span>

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When we develop focused attention, open awareness, and kind intention, research reveals we:

<ul>
	<li>Improve immune function to help fight infection;</li>
	<li>Optimize the level of the enzyme telomerase, which repairs and maintains the ends of your chromosomes, keeping your cells&mdash;and therefore you&mdash;youthful, functioning well, and healthy;</li>
	<li>Enhance the &ldquo;epigenetic&rdquo; regulation of genes to help prevent life-threatening inflammation;</li>
	<li>Modify cardiovascular factors, improving chulesterul levels, blood pressure, and heart function; and</li>
	<li>Increase neural integration in the brain, enabling more coordination and balance in both the functional and structural connectivity within the nervous system that facilitates optimal functioning, including self-regulation, problem sulving, and adaptive behavior that is at the heart of well-being.</li>
</ul>
<span class="quote">In short, the scientific findings are now in: your mind can change the health of your body and slow aging. </span>

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In addition to these concrete discoveries, we have the additional, more subjective, yet equally powerful findings that cultivating these aspects of mind&mdash;how you focus attention, open awareness, and guide intention toward kindness and caring&mdash;also increases a sense of well-being, connection to others (in the form of enhanced empathy and compassion), emotional balance, and resilience in the face of challenges. Studies reveal that as a sense of meaning and purpose increase, an overall ease of being&mdash;that some call equanimity&mdash;is nurtured by these specific practices.

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<span class="quote">These are all outcomes of strengthening your mind by expanding the container of consciousness. </span>

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The word eudaimonia is derived from the Greek term, and it beautifully describes the deep sense of well-being, equanimity, and happiness that comes from experiencing life as having meaning and connection to others and the world around you. Does cultivating eudaimonia seem like something you&rsquo;d like to place on your to do list in life? If you experience this quality of being already in your day to day living, these practices of training attention, awareness, and intention may enhance and reinforce where you already are in life. Wonderful. And if it feels like these features of eudaimonia are distant or perhaps unfamiliar to you, and you&rsquo;d like to make these more near and dear to your everyday existence, you&rsquo;ve come to the right conversation.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Aware Leadership </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Daniel Siegel, MD, </a> <a class="f4" href="#">Marc Lesser</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">August 9 - 11, 2019</div>
What does it really mean to  lead with awareness&mdash;to be clear, open, and compassionate&mdash;and to live a life of authentic connection and purposeful engagement? Join best-selling author and renowned psychiatrist Dan Siegel, MD, and mindfulness and emotional intelligence expert Marc...

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</div>

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The <em>Wheel of Awareness</em> is a useful toul I&rsquo;ve developed over many years to help expand the container of consciousness.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I&rsquo;ve offered the Wheel to thousands of individuals around the world, and it&rsquo;s proven to be a practice that can help people develop more well-being in both their inner and interpersonal lives.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">The Wheel practice is based on simple steps that are easy to learn and then apply in your everyday experiences. </span>

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The Wheel is a very useful <em>visual metaphor</em> for the way the mind works. The concept came to me one day as I stood looking down at a circular table in my office. The tabletop consists of a clear glass center surrounded by a wooden outer rim. It occurred to me that our awareness could be seen as lying at the center of a circle&mdash;hub, if you will&mdash;from which, at any given moment, we can choose to focus on a wide array of thoughts, images, feelings, and sensations circling us on the rim. In other words, what we could be aware of could be represented on the wooden rim; the experience of being aware we could place in the hub.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
If I could teach people how to expand that container of consciousness by more freely and fully accessing the Wheel&rsquo;s hub of awareness, they&rsquo;d be able to change the way they experienced life&rsquo;s tablespoons of salt, and perhaps even learn to savor life&rsquo;s sweetness in a more balanced and fulfilling way, even if there were a lot of salt present at the time. As I looked down at this table, I saw that the clarity of that glass hub might represent how we become aware of all of these tablespoons of life, each of the varied experiences we could become aware of, from thoughts to sensations, which we might now visualize as being placed on the circle around this hub&mdash;the table&rsquo;s outer wooden rim.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The Wheel was designed as a practice that could balance our lives by integrating the experience of consciousness. How? By distinguishing the wide array of knowns on the rim from each other and from the knowing of awareness in the hub itself, we could differentiate the components of consciousness. Then, by systematically connecting these knowns of the rim to the knowing of the hub with the movement of the spoke of attention, it became possible to link the differentiated parts of consciousness. This is how by differentiating and linking, the Wheel of Awareness practice integrates consciousness.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">The essential idea behind the Wheel was to expand the container of consciousness and, in effect, balance the experience of consciousness itself. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<em>Balance</em> is a common term that we can understand scientifically as coming from a process that can be called integration&mdash;the allowing of things to be different or distinct from each other on the one hand, and then connecting them to each other on the other. When we differentiate and link, we integrate. We become balanced and coordinated in life when we create integration. Various scientific disciplines may use other terminulogy, but the concept is the same. Integration&mdash;the balancing of differentiation and linkage&mdash;is the basis for optimal regulation that enables us to flow between chaos and rigidity, the core process that helps us flourish and thrive.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Health comes from integration. It&rsquo;s that simple, and that important. </span>

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A system that is integrated is in a flow of harmony. Just as in a choir, with each singer&rsquo;s voice both differentiated from the other singers&rsquo; voices but also linked, harmony emerges with integration. What is important to note is that this linkage does not remove the differences, as in the notion of blending; instead it maintains these unique contributions as it links them together. Integration is more like a fruit salad than a smoothie. This is how integration creates the synergy of the whule being greater than the sum of its parts. Likewise, this synergy of integration means that the many aspects of our lives, like the many points on the rim, can each be honored for their differences but then brought together in harmony.

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In my own journey as a clinician, working within the framework of a multidisciplinary field called interpersonal neurobiulogy, reflecting on our mind as a self-organizing way we regulate energy and information flow inspired me to try and find strategies to create more integration in my patients&rsquo; lives in order to create more well-being in their bodies and in their relationships.

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<span class="quote">When we integrated consciousness with the Wheel of Awareness, people&rsquo;s lives improved. </span>

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Many individuals have found the Wheel of Awareness a skill-building practice that empowers them in quite profound ways. It transformed how they came to experience their inner, mental lives&mdash;their emotions, thoughts, and memories&mdash;opened new ways of interacting with others, and even expanded a sense of connection and meaning in their lives.

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Adapted from <em>Aware: The Science and Practice of Presence</em> by Daniel J. Siegel, MD, copyright (c) 2018. Published by TarcherPerigee, a division of Penguin Random House, Inc.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/your-mind-can-change-the-health-of-your-body-insights-from-dr-dan-siegel</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/your-mind-can-change-the-health-of-your-body-insights-from-dr-dan-siegel#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>Your Mind Can Change the Health of Your Body&quot;: Insights from Dr. Dan Siegel</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dan Siegel, MD,</a> is an internationally acclaimed author, educator, and child psychiatrist who has published extensively for both professional and lay audiences. The executive director of Mindsight Institute, Dr. Siegel is known for his unique ability to make complicated scientific concepts accessible. What fullows is an excerpt from his latest <em>New York Times</em> best seller, <em>Aware: The Science and Practice of Presence</em>.
<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2><em>Why Expanding Your Consciousness Leads to Better Wellness</em></h2>
There is an uld saying that consciousness is like a container of water. If you take a tablespoon of salt and place it in a small container, say, the size of an espresso cup, the water most certainly will be too salty to drink. But if your container is much larger&mdash;say it is capable of hulding many, many gallons of water&shy;&mdash;that same tablespoon of salt, now placed into this vast amount of liquid, will taste fresh. Same water, same salt; simply a different ratio, and the experience of drinking is totally different.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Consciousness is like that.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">When we learn to cultivate our capacity for being aware, the quality of our life and the strength of our mind are enhanced. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
When we develop focused attention, open awareness, and kind intention, research reveals we:

<ul>
	<li>Improve immune function to help fight infection;</li>
	<li>Optimize the level of the enzyme telomerase, which repairs and maintains the ends of your chromosomes, keeping your cells&mdash;and therefore you&mdash;youthful, functioning well, and healthy;</li>
	<li>Enhance the &ldquo;epigenetic&rdquo; regulation of genes to help prevent life-threatening inflammation;</li>
	<li>Modify cardiovascular factors, improving chulesterul levels, blood pressure, and heart function; and</li>
	<li>Increase neural integration in the brain, enabling more coordination and balance in both the functional and structural connectivity within the nervous system that facilitates optimal functioning, including self-regulation, problem sulving, and adaptive behavior that is at the heart of well-being.</li>
</ul>
<span class="quote">In short, the scientific findings are now in: your mind can change the health of your body and slow aging. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
In addition to these concrete discoveries, we have the additional, more subjective, yet equally powerful findings that cultivating these aspects of mind&mdash;how you focus attention, open awareness, and guide intention toward kindness and caring&mdash;also increases a sense of well-being, connection to others (in the form of enhanced empathy and compassion), emotional balance, and resilience in the face of challenges. Studies reveal that as a sense of meaning and purpose increase, an overall ease of being&mdash;that some call equanimity&mdash;is nurtured by these specific practices.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">These are all outcomes of strengthening your mind by expanding the container of consciousness. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The word eudaimonia is derived from the Greek term, and it beautifully describes the deep sense of well-being, equanimity, and happiness that comes from experiencing life as having meaning and connection to others and the world around you. Does cultivating eudaimonia seem like something you&rsquo;d like to place on your to do list in life? If you experience this quality of being already in your day to day living, these practices of training attention, awareness, and intention may enhance and reinforce where you already are in life. Wonderful. And if it feels like these features of eudaimonia are distant or perhaps unfamiliar to you, and you&rsquo;d like to make these more near and dear to your everyday existence, you&rsquo;ve come to the right conversation.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<div class="blog-img"><img alt="" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/CompassionateLeadership-ProgramPhotos-1024x536.jpg" /></div>

<div class="blog-img-text">
<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Aware Leadership </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Daniel Siegel, MD, </a> <a class="f4" href="#">Marc Lesser</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">August 9 - 11, 2019</div>
What does it really mean to  lead with awareness&mdash;to be clear, open, and compassionate&mdash;and to live a life of authentic connection and purposeful engagement? Join best-selling author and renowned psychiatrist Dan Siegel, MD, and mindfulness and emotional intelligence expert Marc...

<div class="post-card-learn-more"><a class="button" href="https://www.1440.org/">Learn More</a></div>
</div>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The <em>Wheel of Awareness</em> is a useful toul I&rsquo;ve developed over many years to help expand the container of consciousness.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I&rsquo;ve offered the Wheel to thousands of individuals around the world, and it&rsquo;s proven to be a practice that can help people develop more well-being in both their inner and interpersonal lives.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">The Wheel practice is based on simple steps that are easy to learn and then apply in your everyday experiences. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The Wheel is a very useful <em>visual metaphor</em> for the way the mind works. The concept came to me one day as I stood looking down at a circular table in my office. The tabletop consists of a clear glass center surrounded by a wooden outer rim. It occurred to me that our awareness could be seen as lying at the center of a circle&mdash;hub, if you will&mdash;from which, at any given moment, we can choose to focus on a wide array of thoughts, images, feelings, and sensations circling us on the rim. In other words, what we could be aware of could be represented on the wooden rim; the experience of being aware we could place in the hub.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
If I could teach people how to expand that container of consciousness by more freely and fully accessing the Wheel&rsquo;s hub of awareness, they&rsquo;d be able to change the way they experienced life&rsquo;s tablespoons of salt, and perhaps even learn to savor life&rsquo;s sweetness in a more balanced and fulfilling way, even if there were a lot of salt present at the time. As I looked down at this table, I saw that the clarity of that glass hub might represent how we become aware of all of these tablespoons of life, each of the varied experiences we could become aware of, from thoughts to sensations, which we might now visualize as being placed on the circle around this hub&mdash;the table&rsquo;s outer wooden rim.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The Wheel was designed as a practice that could balance our lives by integrating the experience of consciousness. How? By distinguishing the wide array of knowns on the rim from each other and from the knowing of awareness in the hub itself, we could differentiate the components of consciousness. Then, by systematically connecting these knowns of the rim to the knowing of the hub with the movement of the spoke of attention, it became possible to link the differentiated parts of consciousness. This is how by differentiating and linking, the Wheel of Awareness practice integrates consciousness.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">The essential idea behind the Wheel was to expand the container of consciousness and, in effect, balance the experience of consciousness itself. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<em>Balance</em> is a common term that we can understand scientifically as coming from a process that can be called integration&mdash;the allowing of things to be different or distinct from each other on the one hand, and then connecting them to each other on the other. When we differentiate and link, we integrate. We become balanced and coordinated in life when we create integration. Various scientific disciplines may use other terminulogy, but the concept is the same. Integration&mdash;the balancing of differentiation and linkage&mdash;is the basis for optimal regulation that enables us to flow between chaos and rigidity, the core process that helps us flourish and thrive.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Health comes from integration. It&rsquo;s that simple, and that important. </span>

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A system that is integrated is in a flow of harmony. Just as in a choir, with each singer&rsquo;s voice both differentiated from the other singers&rsquo; voices but also linked, harmony emerges with integration. What is important to note is that this linkage does not remove the differences, as in the notion of blending; instead it maintains these unique contributions as it links them together. Integration is more like a fruit salad than a smoothie. This is how integration creates the synergy of the whule being greater than the sum of its parts. Likewise, this synergy of integration means that the many aspects of our lives, like the many points on the rim, can each be honored for their differences but then brought together in harmony.

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In my own journey as a clinician, working within the framework of a multidisciplinary field called interpersonal neurobiulogy, reflecting on our mind as a self-organizing way we regulate energy and information flow inspired me to try and find strategies to create more integration in my patients&rsquo; lives in order to create more well-being in their bodies and in their relationships.

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<span class="quote">When we integrated consciousness with the Wheel of Awareness, people&rsquo;s lives improved. </span>

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Many individuals have found the Wheel of Awareness a skill-building practice that empowers them in quite profound ways. It transformed how they came to experience their inner, mental lives&mdash;their emotions, thoughts, and memories&mdash;opened new ways of interacting with others, and even expanded a sense of connection and meaning in their lives.

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Adapted from <em>Aware: The Science and Practice of Presence</em> by Daniel J. Siegel, MD, copyright (c) 2018. Published by TarcherPerigee, a division of Penguin Random House, Inc.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/your-mind-can-change-the-health-of-your-body-insights-from-dr-dan-siegel</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/your-mind-can-change-the-health-of-your-body-insights-from-dr-dan-siegel#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>You Can&apos;t Have It All: Heartache or Relief?</title><description><![CDATA[<em>You can&rsquo;t have it all</em>.
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For many of us, that phrase&mdash;dripping with grandmotherly insight&mdash;lands like a disappointing roadblock hell-bent on limiting us when all we want to do is soar past every limit in sight.

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Jeez, isn&rsquo;t <em>having it all</em> precisely what a steady diet of <a href="https://www.1440.org/">American dream ideology</a>, Top 40 song lyrics, and stories of resolve conquering deprivation tell us we <em>can</em> do in this country?

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If you&rsquo;re anything like me, after years of those five words sounding to your go-getter ears like a worldview trying to stifle you&mdash;one fine day, you start hearing them a little differently.

<ul>
	<li>And what once struck you as a blockade starts to resemble a gateway.</li>
	<li>And what once looked like not enough now appears as the right amount.</li>
	<li>And all of a sudden, you couldn&rsquo;t be happier to only have <em>some</em>.</li>
	<li>And no, you&rsquo;re not quite sure what caused it, but you blink and the world looks different.</li>
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Maybe it was the sharp glimpse of emptiness you caught when looking hard at a friend&rsquo;s or loved one&rsquo;s &ldquo;perfect.&rdquo; Maybe drowning in a sea of too many halfway open doors and unmet promises prompted you to realize there must be another way. Maybe life knocked you down and you lost hold of <em>every</em>thing, and as you slowly stood back up, you found yourself reaching only for <em>some </em>things.

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<span class="quote">Whatever the reason&mdash;You begin to feel yourself slow down, pull over, and pay attention. You start to recognize the bounty in limits. You start wanting less and feeling more.</span>

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And as you follow this thread, the wisdom, the opportunity, and indeed the joy of <strong><u>not having it all</u></strong> begins to unfold into your life with glorious, resounding relief.

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<em>Thank God</em>, you think.&nbsp;<em>No wonder</em>, you laugh.&nbsp;<em>My time and energy are precious resources</em>, you realize.&nbsp;<em>The more I give to the places in my life that feed me, the more I grow</em>, you notice.&nbsp;<em>The more I give to the places in my life where I scurry around grasping, the more I suffer</em>, you humbly acknowledge.

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And those thoughts awaken questions.

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<span class="quote"><em>Has my striving for more actually made me happier or wiser? Or have I just grown used to the chase?&nbsp;&nbsp;</em></span>

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<em>Why was having it all ever my goal in the first place?&nbsp;&nbsp;</em><em>What all do I really need?&nbsp;</em><em>What all do I really want?</em>

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And as you answer the questions, more just keep rolling in the door. (Don&rsquo;t worry. That&rsquo;s a good sign.)

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And the more thoughts in this direction that you listen to, the more questions you pause long enough to answer, the more you start to see this lesson play itself out on countless life frontiers.

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It shows up in what you need, how you love, what you earn, how you spend, what you seek, how you listen, what you give, and who you know, believe, and trust yourself to be.

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<span class="quote">And the more it shows up, guess what? The less you need and the less you want.</span>

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<strong>Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor at 1440 Multiversity. Over the course of 20 years in three countries, she&rsquo;s written for social justice initiatives, magazines, government agencies, wellness centers&mdash;and herself. A law school dropout, Kate has given birth to three kids, a yoga studio, and lots of ideas.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/you-cant-have-it-all-heartache-or-relief</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/you-cant-have-it-all-heartache-or-relief#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>You Are Creative Even If You Think You&apos;re Not</title><description><![CDATA[Maybe you were told you aren&rsquo;t creative.
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Maybe you listened way back when and started to agree. You gave up and figured the world was right: only some people are creative, only some people are artists, only some people can build the ideas they see in their mind.

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Welcome to the club. We all listened to that malarkey when we were kids. But guess what? The world was wrong.

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Creativity isn&rsquo;t a finite resource or a golden ticket gifted to certain people at birth and denied to others.

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Creativity lives in all of us, and grows when it is nurtured well like a garden. As <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Julia Cameron</a> &mdash;author of <em>The Artist&rsquo;s Way</em>&mdash;writes, &ldquo;Creativity is our true nature.&rdquo; Maya Angelou reminds us, &ldquo;You can&rsquo;t use up creativity. The more you use, the more you have.&rdquo;

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Part of the trouble is that we don&rsquo;t always recognize creativity. We think of it as something that only results in a play or a book or a sculpture. We forget that creativity is a process, not an end. Creativity is a means by which we produce something. The word &ldquo;create&rdquo; comes from the Latin word <em>creatus</em> which means &ldquo;to make, bring forth, produce, beget.&rdquo; It means to grow. If you are growing something, you are creating; hence, you are creative.

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We are all creative people in some aspect of our lives&mdash;be it math, physics, business, construction, you name it. So many activities (not just the arts) require a nimble, inspired mind.

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Think about it.

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A book is born of words, paper, and imagination. A painting comes from paint, canvas, and concept. A business develops out of service, sweat, and tears. And children grow under the committed guidance of their parents.

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Maybe we need to find our way back to acknowledging, appreciating, and exercising our inherent creativity. Expressing yourself is a key element to a happy life. As Broadway star Sandra Joseph says, &ldquo;Many of us are stifled creatively. We have an innate desire to be seen and heard, and to connect, but we were wounded as young people. One unkind remark in childhood can render you permanently paralyzed and mute. It takes tremendous courage to dive back in. Creative expression in any form is risky to the ego. It will make you question your worth: What if I fail? What if I&rsquo;m no good? What if I make a fool of myself?&rdquo;

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The wonderful thing is that we can ameliorate a good deal of that fear through practice, by acknowledging our &ldquo;let&rsquo;s make something&rdquo; spirit and choosing to get our mind going and maybe our hands a little dirty or covered in paint.

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Actively choosing such a path offers vital benefit to our well-being, and it gives us the opportunity to adjust our own headspace. The poet Richard Blanco, <strong>MFA</strong>, reminds us about creativity: &ldquo;It&rsquo;s more than just learning the rules. It&rsquo;s how to manage your own psychology to get to that space.&rdquo; And getting to that space&mdash;that playground of the mind&mdash;is a rejuvenating trip, at any point in life. As Elizabeth Gilbert writes,&nbsp;&ldquo;So this, I believe, is the central question upon which all creative living hinges: Do you have the courage to bring forth the treasures that are hidden within you?&rdquo;

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Why not muster the courage to embrace your creative nature? Why not sign up for a class, hire a coach, or start a journal? And the next time you hear your inner critic start to say, &ldquo;Oh, <em>me</em>? I&rsquo;m not creative&rdquo;&mdash; turn down that voice. Remember that you <em>are</em> creative. You create your life every day and what it looks like is up to no one but you.

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<a href="https://vimeo.com/150857319">Seek Beauty &ndash; Sped Up</a> by <a href="#">Kelly Rae Roberts</a>.

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<strong>Lisbeth Darsh is a 1440 Multiversity employee, as well as the author of six books and the popular fitness/inspiration blog <i>Words With Lisbeth</i>. A former executive at CrossFit, Inc., Lisbeth has also been a fitness coach/gym owner, an English professor, and a military officer. You can usually find Lisbeth with a book or barbell in hand, looking to lift spirits and weights.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/you-are-creative-even-if-you-think-youre-not</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/you-are-creative-even-if-you-think-youre-not#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Writing as a Path to Awakening</title><description><![CDATA[After five years of drought in California finally ended with more than 90 inches of rain in my corner of the state, springtime felt especially abundant this year. The lush growth prompted me to think a good deal about the creative process along similar lines. The following meditation and writing exercise &ndash; meant to be done together &ndash; are particularly powerful and resonant for me. I suggest doing the meditation first as a lead-in to the writing prompt.
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<h2>MEDITATION</h2>
Find a comfortable and quiet place to sit. Take off your shoes and rest your feet flat on the floor. Sit upright so that you&rsquo;re comfortable but not so comfortable as to fall asleep. Close your eyes gently and rest your hands easily in your lap.

<ul>
	<li>Begin by taking a single deep breath inward and exhale slowly.</li>
	<li>Take another deep breath and exhale slowly.</li>
	<li>Take a third and exhale.</li>
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Keep your eyes closed, continue to breathe regularly, and simply tune into the rhythm of your breathing. Feel your body relaxing. If you feel obvious points of tension, breathe into those points and let them relax. Let your shoulders drop, loosen any tightness in your neck, and just relax, allowing your breath to be calm and natural. Breathe in and breathe out. You might fix your attention on where it is you feel the breath moving in your body&mdash;is it in the rise and fall of your chest or belly? Maybe in the wisps of air at your nostrils?

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<span class="quote">Say quietly to yourself, I am the beauty and abundance of spring eternal. Take a soft breath in and repeat, I am the beauty and abundance of spring eternal. </span>

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Take a second wakeful breath in and repeat, I am the beauty and abundance of spring eternal. Simply breathe regularly, finding the natural rhythm of your breath, allowing these words to sink into your being, feeling the deep sense of your true beauty and abundance.

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Let go of the words and continue to simply breathe in and breathe out. Know in this moment that there is nothing to do, no knowledge to gather or recall, no proper way to breathe, nothing to get right or control. Just sit and notice the experience of your breathing body, letting all tension and expectations go. There is no right and no wrong, nothing to accomplish or learn, nothing to figure out or fix. Just allow everything to be as it is.

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Breathe in and breathe out. Allow your mind to rest in an open state. Let thoughts be thoughts, sensations be sensations. Just rest here&mdash;breathing through all that arises in heart and mind with full awareness. Allow yourself to feel bathed in silence, attuned to the present moment with an open heart filled with love and compassion for whatever arises.

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After a few minutes, you might get caught on a train of thought carrying you into planning or remembering mode. When you notice this, simply return to your experience of your breathing body. Breathe in and breathe out.

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Continue to sit in silence following your breath for as little as 10 or as many as 60 minutes. As you come to the end of your meditation session (of whatever length suits you), return to an awareness of your breathing body and recite this phrase three more times, I am the beauty and abundance of spring eternal, before ringing a bell to close the meditation.

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<h2>WRITING PROMPT</h2>
The best way I have found to break through writing blocks and keep my pen consistently moving is through the practice of freewriting. This is simple stream-of-consciousness writing, where we set a timer for 5-25 minutes, launch from a word, phrase, or simple idea, and just GO! We write from margin to margin in whatever form occurs in the moment. We don&rsquo;t worry about punctuation, grammar, or spelling. We keep the pen moving across the page&mdash;not stopping to ponder or think of the next brilliant idea.

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The idea here is that your first thought is your best thought.

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<span class="quote">Don&rsquo;t think, write! Write straight from your direct experience of the moment. </span>

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When we know that we don&rsquo;t have to share or show this to anyone, we are more able to allow our minds to be open and free to whatever arises, vowing not to judge or evaluate. We write for writing&rsquo;s sake&mdash;not to accomplish anything. Just like we sit and meditate to simply let go and be, we write to see what&rsquo;s cookin&rsquo; in our heart and mind in this moment, to write it down and let it go. Are you ready?

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Set your timer for eight minutes. On your mark, get set, and let this phrase get you going: &ldquo;It knocked the blossoms clean off the plum tree.&rdquo; GO!

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Have fun and enjoy! May writing be your path to awakening!

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Albert Flynn DeSilver&rsquo;s</a> program <em><a href="https://www.1440.org/">W</a></em><a href="https://www.1440.org/"><em>riting and the Art of Living Mindfully</em></a> runs from April 3&ndash;5, 2020.

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<strong>Albert Flynn DeSilver is an internationally published poet, writer, speaker, and workshop leader.&nbsp;</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/writing-as-a-path-to-awakening</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/writing-as-a-path-to-awakening#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Why Intuition Is the Language of the Soul</title><description><![CDATA[We&rsquo;re all born aware, with a deep sense of inner knowing.
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It&rsquo;s one of the greatest gifts we possess, keeping us connected to our higher selves, the Universe, and the Divine spirit. We&rsquo;re all equipped with an intricate and highly tuned inner guidance system, which helps us regularly tap into our intuitive abilities. Receiving psychic information is all about energy. Everything is made up of energy&mdash;people, places, and even objects store it&mdash;so we can receive and read information by means of our intuitive senses.

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Being intuitive is similar to the way a television works: We all know that we can&rsquo;t actually see TV signals beaming through the airways, yet we&rsquo;re aware that they&rsquo;re being transmitted. Our TV sets receive these signals, and they&rsquo;re decoded to form a picture on our screens. The same rule applies when it comes to intuitive energy: We receive information constantly through our psychic senses, and the result, once this data is descrambled, is an impression or feeling that we didn&rsquo;t perceive through our usual physical senses. Now you&rsquo;ll understand why I love the words of Yogananda: &ldquo;We are electrical beings with intelligence.&rdquo; As we learn to recognize when our intuition is speaking to us, we hone our skills in deciphering the signals that push us forward to follow our soul&rsquo;s guidance.

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Your intuition is actually speaking to you always, but most of the time you may not even be aware of it.

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<h2>Ask yourself the following questions:</h2>
1. Have you ever thought of someone you haven&rsquo;t heard from in a while, and out of the blue you receive a surprise phone call or suddenly bump into him or her on the street?

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2. Have you ever had a hunch that you didn&rsquo;t follow, only to regret it later because it turned out to be correct?

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3. Do you know on the spot if you like or dislike someone?

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4. Have you ever been certain of the outcome of a situation or event before it happened?

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5. Have you ever simply guessed a person&rsquo;s occupation, as opposed to allowing your conscious interpretation of their appearance, speech, or mannerisms to affect your opinion?

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6. Do you have vivid or prophetic dreams?

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7. Do coincidences and synchronicities keep appearing in your life?

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If you answered yes to some of these questions, it shows that you&rsquo;re already aware of your intuition. It&rsquo;s important to realize that these are just a few examples of what being intuitive is all about.

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<blockquote>Most of the time people don&rsquo;t acknowledge this power when it&rsquo;s trying to get our attention because we simply don&rsquo;t trust our inner guidance without facts or logic to validate it.
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</blockquote>
Many of us still look upon intuition as something totally mysterious or even ethereal.

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A reporter once asked me, &ldquo;John, with all the negativity that exists around the world, why would I want to be intuitively sensitive and pick up on these things?&rdquo;

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I nodded in recognition of such a thoughtful question and replied, &ldquo;I totally understand where you&rsquo;re coming from, but don&rsquo;t you see that by choosing not to learn and accept that we&rsquo;re all sensitive beings, capable of living with our soul&rsquo;s higher awareness, we&rsquo;re choosing to shut off all the good and beauty that can be felt within the world and each other? We are, and always will be, connected to everyone and everything.&rdquo;

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A few weeks later, I was teaching one of my regular workshops on developing your intuition and psychic strengths, and I noticed that the reporter had registered and was sitting right there at the front. I guess I wasn&rsquo;t too surprised!

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">John Holland</a> will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">From Grieving to Believing</a> with <a href="https://www.1440.org/">David Kessler</a> and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Paul Denniston</a>, August 4 &ndash; 6, 2017, at 1440 Multiversity.

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<strong>John Holland, author of the best-selling Spirit Whisperer, is one of the top psychic mediums and spiritual teachers on the world stage. Host of the weekly Hay House Radio show Spirit Connections, he has helped thousands of people reconnect with beloved family members and friends who have died, with spectacular results.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-intuition-is-the-language-of-the-soul</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-intuition-is-the-language-of-the-soul#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Where Do You Look for Wisdom?</title><description><![CDATA[Finding wisdom isn&rsquo;t easy, not even in today&rsquo;s age of speed and comfort.
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I wish I could tell you that wisdom is a one-click order delivered to your doorstep in two days, fresh and clean and wrapped in a recyclable package.

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<em>&ldquo;Hey kids, look! Wisdom&rsquo;s here!&rdquo;</em>

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But life doesn&rsquo;t work that way. Wisdom isn&rsquo;t bought or grabbed&mdash;it is earned.

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Wisdom arrives on its own time and in its own fashion, hard and heavy and fresh from the fight&mdash;often when you&rsquo;re the one fighting and your only opponent is yourself. And, in the midst of your battle, as you pause from exhaustion or frustration, just for a moment, in the hour when you are not certain you will ever know peace or rest in this, or any, lifetime, that is when she appears. Perhaps wisdom shows up and settles on the floor next to you&mdash;maybe alongside a broken, hurt, sad, angry, anxious you&mdash;and wraps a warm arm around your sobbing shoulders, and opens her hand to show you a small, beautiful, shimmering jewel.

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<em>&ldquo;Look,&rdquo;</em> she whispers, <em>&ldquo;This is the lesson. The one you need. The one you are looking for.&rdquo;</em>

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And then she is gone again.

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<h2>The Beginning of Wisdom</h2>
The insightful <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Krista Tippett</a> articulates this beautifully in <em>Becoming Wise: An Inquiry into the Mystery and Art of Living</em>&nbsp;when she writes: &ldquo;You have your own stories, the dramatic and more ordinary moments where what has gone wrong becomes an opening to more of yourself and part of your gift to the world. This is the beginning of wisdom.&rdquo;

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The beginning of wisdom&mdash;oh, what an enticing promise! Culturally, we often position wisdom as something that is reserved only for those with silver hair and a stack of degrees. But maybe we are wrong in that supposition. Maybe wisdom is more globally accessible than that.

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Maybe wisdom is smart&rsquo;s older sister, the one with the longer hair and the knowing look and we can collect pieces of her like pebbles in our pockets. Maybe wisdom sits much closer than we understand, and when we engage in substantive, meaningful dialogue with others centered in tender listening and gracious caring, we&rsquo;re able to call her forth in more ways than we first realize, and she will start to whisper her lessons. Maybe we can coax her to tell us more, when we share our pain, when we become vulnerable.

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<div class="full-image"><img alt="woman talking with man" height="495" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/Lady-withDude-960px.jpg" width="960" /></div>

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<h2>Uncovering More Wisdom</h2>
And maybe we are lucky to be living now, in the Information Age, when we have broader access to the wisdom of this world and the wisdom of the ages than at any other time in history. Think of the books <a href="https://www.brainpickings.org/about/">Maria Popova</a> explores daily in <em><a href="https://www.brainpickings.org/">Brain Pickings</a></em>, about which she says, &ldquo;&hellip;it led me to think of what I do as a kind of two-way generational re-parenting&hellip;on the one hand, caring for these bygone thinkers, while at the same time imbuing the present generation with their hand-me-down wisdom and their most enduring ideas.&rdquo; Or, as the Indigo Girls sang about Virginia Woolf&rsquo;s diaries, &ldquo;a kind of a telephone line through time, and the voice at the other end comes like a long-lost friend.&rdquo;

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So many telephone lines, imaginary and real, are available to us now. There are so many ways to take advantage of this marvelous m&eacute;lange of diverse thought and opportunity that exists in our world around us&mdash;important considerations that could help us, help our children, and help each other.

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Thus, in these times of turmoil, when we are tempted to shut down socially and protect our individual, tiny portions of the world, perhaps the truly wise answer is to open up, to start honest and deep communication, to resist the urge to retreat into our camps and&nbsp;instead encourage the continuing of conversation in civil tones, even through the difficult parts, especially through the difficult parts. Perhaps this is when and where civil conversation truly matters.

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Because whatever we know about wisdom, we know that none of us have enough&mdash;not you, not me, not this world, and we would do best to find and generate more of it. The getting of wisdom will probably never be easy, but perhaps it also does not have to be as hard as we make it. And perhaps we should all start today, because the well-being of this age depends upon it.

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<strong>Lisbeth Darsh is the Digital Marketing Manager at 1440 Multiversity, as well as the author of six books and the popular fitness/inspiration blog <a href="https://wordswithlisbeth.com">Words With Lisbeth</a>. A former executive at CrossFit Inc, she has also been a fitness coach/gym owner, an English professor, and a military officer, with degrees from Vassar College (BA) and California State University at Dominguez Hills (MA). You can usually find Lisbeth with a book or barbell in hand, looking to lift spirits and weights.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/where-do-you-look-for-wisdom</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/where-do-you-look-for-wisdom#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>When Singing in the Shower Just Isn&apos;t Enough: Join Choir! Choir! Choir! at 1440</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Choir! Choir!&nbsp;Choir!</a>&nbsp;is a popular Toronto-based singing group led by creative directors Daveed Goldman and Nobu Adilman. The group has performed with renowned artists such as Patti Smith, Tegan and Sara, David Byrne, Rick Astley, and Rufus Wainwright, and onstage at New York&rsquo;s Carnegie Hall and Radio City Music Hall. Since 2011, they have gathered thousands of people&mdash;in living rooms, warehouses, and outdoor spaces&mdash;to sing timeless, beloved, and popular songs. Their pop-up concerts, in which the audience are the performers, have become a YouTube sensation.
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From October 26 &ndash; 28, Daveed and Nobu will be at 1440 Multiversity leading a <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Choir! Choir! Choir! weekend program</a>. In anticipation of this brand-new format for the creative duo, we sat down with them to talk about what singing with strangers (who quickly become friends) is all about.

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<h2>1440: Let&rsquo;s talk about what you do. What do you call it?</h2>
<em>Daveed:</em> We are the leaders of Choir! Choir! Choir! We get large groups of people to sing together. So, we&rsquo;re a singing event&mdash;but you pull back the layers and it&rsquo;s so much more.

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<span class="quote">We are about creating a safe space for people to come out and be creative, even if they don&rsquo;t think that they&rsquo;re creative. </span>

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Choir! Choir! Choir! offers an opportunity for people to connect and make friends maybe for the moment but maybe for their entire lives. It has become a large community of people from all different walks of life. It gives people (including us) the opportunity to meet people they would never meet otherwise under &ldquo;normal&rdquo; life circumstances in which we wake up, go to work, take care of family, consume entertainment, and go back to bed.

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<h2>1440: You are coming to 1440 at the end of October to offer a weekend program. That is new for you, isn&rsquo;t it?</h2>
<em>Nobu:</em> Yes! And we&rsquo;re really excited to do it. We&rsquo;ve done conference keynotes, breakout sessions, team-building exercises, and hundreds of choir nights where we hand out lyric sheets at the door and get people to sing. But in terms of creating a program around the core ideas of what we do and what we&rsquo;re trying to communicate to people, we have not done that yet.

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We&rsquo;re excited to sing outside, dive into conversations about the meaning and impact of music, do some songwriting as a group, and, of course, offer one of our Choir! nights as a public show.

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<h2>1440: So, what is at the core of what you do and what you&rsquo;re trying to communicate through Choir! Choir! Choir!?</h2>
<em>Nobu:&nbsp;</em>Music is such a powerful tool for looking into your past and evoking memory. You can hear a song and remember where you were when you were nine years old and that song was playing and you were driving with your dad, and it will always remind you of that.

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Music can conjure so much. You look at people who suffer from dementia and you see videos of them listening to music that they heard 80 years ago and all of a sudden, they can tell you a whole story about where they were in 1935 whereas normally they&rsquo;re unable to communicate.

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When you stand in a room with 100 people and you sing Cyndi Lauper&rsquo;s &ldquo;She Bop,&rdquo;&nbsp;all of a sudden, the memories come. Like &ldquo;oh that was so popular, that song makes me think of when I was in high school or elementary school or university.&rdquo; The music allows people to open up about where they were and who they were when they first heard it.

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<span class="quote">The song is almost like a tattoo on your soul. </span>

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When you gather people in a room and they celebrate that together, it can coalesce in a really powerful way.

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<h2>1440: What do you see as the unique value of the Choir! Choir! Choir! weekend at 1440? What do you hope people will take away?</h2>
<em>Daveed:</em> For me, the idea of singing is a spark and depending on who you are it sparks something in you and motivates you in a way. It may alter your mood from one of feeling a little bit lower to feeling a little bit higher. It may trigger euphoria. It may also motivate you to be more active in your thinking and your actions.

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It can help push you in the direction of where you&rsquo;ve wanted to go because it basically gives you energy. I&rsquo;m interested in using our weekend at 1440 as an opportunity to talk about that with people&mdash;to use the spark of singing together to talk about where people want to go and what they want to do. How do we each take this positive energy and turn it into something even more positive?

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<h2>1440: What else should people be prepared to experience?</h2>
<em>Nobu:</em>&nbsp;Humor. We&rsquo;re joking most of the time. That&rsquo;s a key element of our show. If you&rsquo;ve never been to a Choir! session, what you don&rsquo;t see is the lengths to which Daveed and I will go with silliness and ridiculousness. We put ourselves so far out there so people will join us. Singing in a group&mdash;even a large group&mdash;of people can be intimidating. So many of us were taught from a very young age not to sing because there&rsquo;s a professional way of doing it, so if you can&rsquo;t do it right, don&rsquo;t do it at all.

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Of course, we want the songs to sound great and we will ride the singers hard to make sure the performance works out, but at the same time&mdash;we&rsquo;re trying to create a space where everyone feels welcome.

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<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>To learn more about 1440&rsquo;s Choir! Choir! Choir! weekend program, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">click here</a>.</strong></p>
<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/when-singing-in-the-shower-just-isnt-enough-join-choir-choir-choir-at-1440</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/when-singing-in-the-shower-just-isnt-enough-join-choir-choir-choir-at-1440#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>What Is Old? (A Perspective)</title><description><![CDATA[I recently ran across a video on Huffington Post called &ldquo;What is Old?&rdquo; In it, twentysomethings were asked the question &ldquo;What is old?&rdquo; One young fellow said 40; the rest said 40s, 50s, and early 60s.
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Then these young people were each introduced to an &ldquo;old&rdquo; person and instructed to take two minutes together and teach one another something they were each good at&mdash;a dance move, a yoga posture, a martial arts move.&nbsp;Then they reinterviewed the young people and asked them once again &ldquo;What is old?&rdquo; This time they said 80s and 90s; one young lady said 100.

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The video ends with one of the older men saying, &ldquo;When people start <em>stopping</em>, that&rsquo;s when they start getting old.&rdquo;

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And that can happen at <em>any</em> age. I do a lot of presenting at universities, and used to teach at a university, and I&rsquo;ve seen &ldquo;old&rdquo; people of 20. People who seem to have passed through the membrane from youth to adulthood with very little of their joie de vivre intact. They&rsquo;ve lost their spark, their initiative, stopped demanding great things of themselves, or even interesting things, and in the process they&rsquo;ve become prematurely arthritic in their outlook on life.

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<span class="quote">I believe that an affirmative approach to not just getting older but growing older takes into account that new parts of us are always clamoring for airtime, and the soul and spirit don&rsquo;t &ldquo;retire&rdquo; even if your career does. </span>

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These parts of us could be passions and creative leaps, service projects and leadership roles in the community, or simply rediscovering the sense of wonder and the love of learning.

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Or maybe it&rsquo;s a whole new way you want to live and relate to life&mdash;not so much a place you want to get <em>to</em> as a place you want to come <em>from</em>. When Bill Gates quit Microsoft for a life of philanthropy, he said, &ldquo;It&rsquo;s not a retirement. It&rsquo;s a reordering of my priorities.&rdquo;

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Either way, these parts of us ask us to continually reinvent ourselves throughout life, and stay close to our deepest sense of passion and purpose, to the place where, as theologian Frederick Buechner put it, &ldquo;your deep gladness meets the world&rsquo;s deep hunger.&rdquo; And to remember that we each have a use-by date. Intuitively we know this: the older we get, the more the sense of urgency is turned up, and the less and less viable postponement of our passions and contributions becomes. I saw a bumper sticker recently that said, &ldquo;Warning: Dates in Calendar Are Closer Than They Appear.&rdquo;

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Granted, the energy it takes to <em>fuel</em> our passions may not be in the batteries to the same degree it was when we were younger, and we can&rsquo;t just slap in a new pair of batteries&mdash;but even if there&rsquo;s a certain amount of slowing down that does occur, a tempering of the drive and the fight in us, I think losing interest in the world is purely optional and detrimental.

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<span class="quote">Passion, in my opinion, is a survival issue because our attachment to life depends on our <em>interest</em> in it&mdash;our sense of enthusiasm, gratitude, curiosity, wonder, reverence, <em>participation</em>. </span>

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It&rsquo;s the commitment to lifelong learning and growing, to not just investing ourselves in life, but investing in ourselves, lest passion turn into dispassion, resignation, boredom, and time being torn off the calendar unused. Lifelong vitality requires that we refuse to &ldquo;start stopping.&rdquo;

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Vital Signs </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Gregg Levoy</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">July 13 - 15, 2018</div>
Ready to reclaim your passion for life? Passion is in the risk, the willingness to step from the sidelines onto the playing field. When we lack passion in our lives, all of our relationships&mdash;partnerships, friendships, communities, classrooms, corporations, and congregations&mdash;are...</div>

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It also requires that we continually cultivate a sense of purpose, a reason to get up in the morning, a reason why we should be around tomorrow. For example, the goal of what&rsquo;s referred to as &ldquo;encore careers&rdquo;&mdash;the ones you have after the supposedly primary one you&rsquo;ve had up until now&mdash;is less about continuing to climb the ladder and build your resume, and more about meaning and purpose, making a difference, doing work you love, doing <em>what</em> you love, and doing it in a socially-useful way.

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One of the primary dramas in people&rsquo;s relationship to their vitality is the tug-of-war between passion and security, and one of the arenas in which that struggle heightens is the arena of aging. Midlife specializes in it. The Third Age (50-to-60 and up) specializes in it. Because they ask us to reconsider, if not relinquish, some very deep familiarities, lifelong patterns, and mind-sets. Letting go of who we are or who we&rsquo;ve been for who we need to <em>become</em>.

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I read a story recently about a couple who retired, sold their house and most of their possessions, bought an RV, and took to the road to enjoy their <em>golden</em> years. After two months of this, however, they apparently got bored to the point of a near-death experience, so they hooked up their traveling with what&rsquo;s called &ldquo;habitating&rdquo;&mdash;a subculture of RVers called Care-A-Vanners who travel around the country helping Habitat for Humanity build people houses. So their leisure became connected to service and thus infused with purpose and a renewed sense of, you&rsquo;ll pardon the pun, drive.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-is-old-a-perspective</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-is-old-a-perspective#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>What Is Giving Tuesday and Why Should You Care?</title><description><![CDATA[We&rsquo;re not going to tell you where you should give or if you should give. Those decisions, as always, are yours.
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But we would like to let you know that Giving Tuesday is a thing.

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What exactly is <a href="https://www.givingtuesday.org/">#GivingTuesday</a>?

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It&rsquo;s not something where you get to gift an extra day of the week to someone. (Although we could all use that, right? &ldquo;Hi, I gave you an extra Tuesday in December. What are you going to do with it?&rdquo;)

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No, <a href="https://www.givingtuesday.org/">Giving Tuesday</a> was started in 2012 by the 92nd Street Y and the United Nations Foundation as a response to the commercialization of the yuletide holidays. It&rsquo;s an international, global day of donations, often with large organizations (like Google and Microsoft) joining as partners in matching gifts and promotion. In 2016, $168 million in charitable donations were made worldwide for Giving Tuesday&mdash;a 44% increase over the 2015 total. That&rsquo;s no joke! Who knows how high the total will be for 2017?

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Why are we telling you this? Because giving is at the roots of 1440 Multiversity, which is part of the <a href="http://1440foundation.org/">1440 Foundation.</a> We&rsquo;re a nonprofit organization, steeped in the traditions of service to the community and the world, and we know that giving not only feels good, but it does good in the world. In addition, did you know that giving is good for you?

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According to <a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/5_ways_giving_is_good_for_you">this article from <em>Greater Good</em></a>, giving:

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	<li>Can make you feel happy</li>
	<li>Is good for your health</li>
	<li>Promotes cooperation and social connection</li>
	<li>Evokes gratitude</li>
	<li>Can be contagious.</li>
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So, as you move through your day on Tuesday (and through the entire holiday season), tuck these words from Robert Ingersoll into the back of your mind:

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<span class="quote">&ldquo;We rise by lifting others.&rdquo;</span>

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Head out there and lift others, if you can. Tell your friends. We&rsquo;ll do the same. Maybe between all of us, we can do some good in this world. Wouldn&rsquo;t that be nice?]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-is-giving-tuesday-and-why-should-you-care</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-is-giving-tuesday-and-why-should-you-care#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Understanding Trauma, Addiction, and the Path to Healing: A Conversation with Gabor Maté</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Gabor Mat&eacute;</a> (pronunciation: GAH-bor MAH-tay) is a retired physician who, after 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, worked for over a decade with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. The best-selling author of four books published in twenty-ﬁve languages, including the award-winning <em>In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction</em>, Gabor is an internationally renowned speaker highly sought after for his expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness.
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<h2>1440: You suggest that underlying all dysfunction, including disease and addiction, is an alienation or separation from ourselves caused by trauma. What do you mean by that?</h2>
<em>Gabor:</em> Trauma is a word that&rsquo;s used by a lot of people, and some people have a narrower definition than I do. When you look at the original word trauma, it&rsquo;s a Greek word for wounding. Wherever we&rsquo;re wounded, there&rsquo;s scar tissue that forms, and scar tissue is always harder, less resilient, and less flexible than the tissue that it replaces.

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<span class="quote"> When psychological trauma happens, our psyches become more rigid and harder and less flexible. </span>

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The origin of that hardening is the separation from the self that trauma induces, and then rather than being flexible and responsive, we become more rigid in our responses to life, to ourselves, to relationships, to stimuli, and so on. This is what I think underlies most mental and physical pathology.

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<h2>1440: So something doesn&rsquo;t have to be catastrophic&mdash;like a car accident or physical abuse&mdash;to be considered a trauma?</h2>
<em>Gabor:</em> Catastrophic events like that are traumatic in their impact, and if some people want to use the word trauma just for those kinds of events, I&rsquo;m okay with that. I&rsquo;ll just have to find a new word for what I&rsquo;m talking about.

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<span class="quote"> In my definition, it&rsquo;s not what happens to you externally that defines the trauma but what happens internally to you as a result of it. </span>

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That pain and wounding can happen when a little infant is not picked up when they&rsquo;re crying. That child experiences a wound, and there will be a corresponding constriction in the psyche and in the self.

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There will also be compensatory mechanisms to prevent that pain from happening again. Those mechanisms could be trying to be pleasant and nice to others while ignoring one&rsquo;s own feelings, or it could be trying to soothe oneself through various behaviors. Kids may rock themselves or suck their thumbs or masturbate or overeat and then later on may use drugs. With those compensations one is either trying to make oneself more acceptable to others by constricting one&rsquo;s own self-expression, or trying to soothe the pain when it becomes too much. Either way, it&rsquo;s a pathology.

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<h2>1440: How does it happen that an emotional hurt leads to a physical pathology? What is the mechanism behind this?</h2>
<em>Gabor:</em> The mind and the body can&rsquo;t be separated. It&rsquo;s not that there&rsquo;s a psyche that&rsquo;s separate from our physiology. It&rsquo;s that both the psyche and the physiology are part and parcel of our organism and are designed for survival.

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<span class="quote"> They&rsquo;re inseparable, so whatever happens psychically happens on a deep physiological level. </span>

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If I were to scream at you right now, that would profoundly change your physiology in a split second, even though we&rsquo;re talking on the phone in two different places and I can&rsquo;t possibly hurt you. Your emotions would affect changes in your autonomic nervous system, your cardiovascular system, your gut, your immune system, in your blood vessels, in your muscles. In other words, everywhere.

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That&rsquo;s the temporary change that would happen in you, and as soon as the threat is removed&mdash;either I stop yelling or you hang up on me&mdash;your physiology will gradually, depending on your resilience, come back to normal.

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But what if children live in a situation where this happens chronically?

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<span class="quote"> What&rsquo;s it like for a child, night after night, not to be picked up when they&rsquo;re crying? </span>

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This is often the advice of doctors&mdash;let them cry themselves to sleep. What&rsquo;s it like for a little kid to be yelled at? There&rsquo;s still a debate about spanking, although there shouldn&rsquo;t be anymore, but what&rsquo;s it like for a little kid to be hit by an adult five times as big as they are when these adults are designated by nature to be their protectors and safekeepers?

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When our psyches are under chronic stress, that puts our physiological system under stress as well. That&rsquo;s the first point. The second point is that when we don&rsquo;t get the acceptance that is our natural birthright, and our parents for whatever reason of their own are not able to grant us that despite their best wishes perhaps, then we adjust to their expectations because we have to maintain that relationship.

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One way to maintain that relationship is to be compliant. That calls for a repression of one&rsquo;s own feelings because one doesn&rsquo;t feel nice all the time. And so the only way you can survive is to not even be aware of when you&rsquo;re angry, because otherwise you might express it.

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<span class="quote"> Well, we know that the suppression of anger can actually disable or at least hobble the immune system. </span>

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So a lot of people who repress their healthy anger end up with autoimmune diseases which, by the way, might explain the fact that 80% of people with an autoimmune disease are women.

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Early stress and early trauma also triggers inflammation in the body. It triggers inflammatory processes that are measurable in adulthood. Inflammation predisposes people to malignancy and autoimmune disease. So there are multiple mechanisms. A lot of the details need to be worked out, but conceptually, the connection has been very elegantly demonstrated.

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<h2>1440: Given all this, how do you look at the healing process?</h2>
<em>Gabor:</em> There are multiple ways in, but it begins with the recognition that the healing process is necessary and possible. What all good healing processes have in common is reconnecting you with yourself, both on the emotional and the physiological levels. Whether you look at Somatic Experiencing, expressive dance, EMDR, Brainspotting, Internal Family Systems, or my particular work, Compassionate Inquiry, it&rsquo;s all about reconnecting people with their authentic feelings and emotions.

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Just a few weeks ago, I found myself in the shoals of some psychological travail, so I called up a breath therapist and I&rsquo;ve started a daily breath practice. It can even be something on that simple level.

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<h2>1440: Who is the self that we are finding in these healing processes? What is our authentic self?</h2>
<em>Gabor:</em> In general, if the pregnancy goes well, we&rsquo;re born unburdened. We don&rsquo;t have any conscious awareness of this, but that&rsquo;s who we are. Unburdened. Then the burdens start piling on. People talk about being reborn, but what does that mean? It means you&rsquo;re unburdened again; you&rsquo;re yourself again, without all this stuff that you accumulated that has crusted over your true self.

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<h2>1440: One of these crusts that you do a lot of work with is addiction. How do you define addiction?</h2>
<em>Gabor:</em> Addiction is a complex psychophysiological process. It&rsquo;s manifested in any behavior that a person finds temporary pleasure or relief in, and therefore craves, but that they can&rsquo;t give up despite the negative consequences to themselves or those around them.

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<span class="quote"> It&rsquo;s craving pleasure and relief in the short term despite the harm in the long term. </span>

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It could be any behavior, from drugs and substances of all kinds to sex, gambling, shopping, the internet, video games, eating, pornography, work, extreme sports&mdash;anything, even meditation and spiritual work.

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<h2>1440: It seems as if an understanding of how trauma may have caused our addictions doesn&rsquo;t necessarily lead to healing. Is that true?</h2>
<em>Gabor:</em> That&rsquo;s right. Like I mentioned, just two weeks ago I found myself up against it again, but I can tell you there&rsquo;s much more in my kit bag right now than there ever was, and when these states arise, I&rsquo;m able to recognize them as memory states rather than reflecting the present.

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<span class="quote"> But it&rsquo;s true&mdash;intellectual understanding by itself does not lead to transformation. </span>

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People often will say to me, &ldquo;Thank you, your book has changed my life.&rdquo; And my response is, &ldquo;That&rsquo;s great, maybe I should read it myself.&rdquo; For all that I&rsquo;m able to articulate these things, it doesn&rsquo;t mean that I&rsquo;ve worked them through to the end. Working them through is different than an intellectual understanding.

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<h2>1440: So what does it mean to you to heal?</h2>
<em>Gabor:</em> Healing comes from an Anglo-Saxon word for wholeness.

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<span class="quote"> If trauma is disconnection, then healing is reunification or the discovery of the embodiment of that connection. </span>

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It&rsquo;s becoming whole again, where you&rsquo;re not split into all these defensive parts of you that are running your life. It means you&rsquo;re not running around trying to soothe the pain all the time by means of drugs or sex or gambling or whatever; you&rsquo;re not running away from yourself all the time by being always on the internet; you&rsquo;re not trying to please people so they&rsquo;ll like you. Instead, you consider what you want, what you prefer, what you feel&mdash;not in a selfish way of ignoring others, but also not in a way that ignores you either.

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/understanding-trauma-addiction-and-the-path-to-healing-a-conversation-with-gabor-mat</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/understanding-trauma-addiction-and-the-path-to-healing-a-conversation-with-gabor-mat#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Understanding Trauma, Addiction, and the Path to Healing: A Conversation with Gabor Maté</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Gabor Mat&eacute;</a> (pronunciation: GAH-bor MAH-tay) is a retired physician who, after 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, worked for over a decade with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. The best-selling author of four books published in twenty-ﬁve languages, including the award-winning <em>In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction</em>, Gabor is an internationally renowned speaker highly sought after for his expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness.
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<h2>1440: You suggest that underlying all dysfunction, including disease and addiction, is an alienation or separation from ourselves caused by trauma. What do you mean by that?</h2>
<em>Gabor:</em> Trauma is a word that&rsquo;s used by a lot of people, and some people have a narrower definition than I do. When you look at the original word trauma, it&rsquo;s a Greek word for wounding. Wherever we&rsquo;re wounded, there&rsquo;s scar tissue that forms, and scar tissue is always harder, less resilient, and less flexible than the tissue that it replaces.

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<span class="quote"> When psychological trauma happens, our psyches become more rigid and harder and less flexible. </span>

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The origin of that hardening is the separation from the self that trauma induces, and then rather than being flexible and responsive, we become more rigid in our responses to life, to ourselves, to relationships, to stimuli, and so on. This is what I think underlies most mental and physical pathology.

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<h2>1440: So something doesn&rsquo;t have to be catastrophic&mdash;like a car accident or physical abuse&mdash;to be considered a trauma?</h2>
<em>Gabor:</em> Catastrophic events like that are traumatic in their impact, and if some people want to use the word trauma just for those kinds of events, I&rsquo;m okay with that. I&rsquo;ll just have to find a new word for what I&rsquo;m talking about.

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<span class="quote"> In my definition, it&rsquo;s not what happens to you externally that defines the trauma but what happens internally to you as a result of it. </span>

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That pain and wounding can happen when a little infant is not picked up when they&rsquo;re crying. That child experiences a wound, and there will be a corresponding constriction in the psyche and in the self.

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There will also be compensatory mechanisms to prevent that pain from happening again. Those mechanisms could be trying to be pleasant and nice to others while ignoring one&rsquo;s own feelings, or it could be trying to soothe oneself through various behaviors. Kids may rock themselves or suck their thumbs or masturbate or overeat and then later on may use drugs. With those compensations one is either trying to make oneself more acceptable to others by constricting one&rsquo;s own self-expression, or trying to soothe the pain when it becomes too much. Either way, it&rsquo;s a pathology.

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<h2>1440: How does it happen that an emotional hurt leads to a physical pathology? What is the mechanism behind this?</h2>
<em>Gabor:</em> The mind and the body can&rsquo;t be separated. It&rsquo;s not that there&rsquo;s a psyche that&rsquo;s separate from our physiology. It&rsquo;s that both the psyche and the physiology are part and parcel of our organism and are designed for survival.

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<span class="quote"> They&rsquo;re inseparable, so whatever happens psychically happens on a deep physiological level. </span>

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If I were to scream at you right now, that would profoundly change your physiology in a split second, even though we&rsquo;re talking on the phone in two different places and I can&rsquo;t possibly hurt you. Your emotions would affect changes in your autonomic nervous system, your cardiovascular system, your gut, your immune system, in your blood vessels, in your muscles. In other words, everywhere.

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That&rsquo;s the temporary change that would happen in you, and as soon as the threat is removed&mdash;either I stop yelling or you hang up on me&mdash;your physiology will gradually, depending on your resilience, come back to normal.

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But what if children live in a situation where this happens chronically?

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<span class="quote"> What&rsquo;s it like for a child, night after night, not to be picked up when they&rsquo;re crying? </span>

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This is often the advice of doctors&mdash;let them cry themselves to sleep. What&rsquo;s it like for a little kid to be yelled at? There&rsquo;s still a debate about spanking, although there shouldn&rsquo;t be anymore, but what&rsquo;s it like for a little kid to be hit by an adult five times as big as they are when these adults are designated by nature to be their protectors and safekeepers?

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When our psyches are under chronic stress, that puts our physiological system under stress as well. That&rsquo;s the first point. The second point is that when we don&rsquo;t get the acceptance that is our natural birthright, and our parents for whatever reason of their own are not able to grant us that despite their best wishes perhaps, then we adjust to their expectations because we have to maintain that relationship.

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One way to maintain that relationship is to be compliant. That calls for a repression of one&rsquo;s own feelings because one doesn&rsquo;t feel nice all the time. And so the only way you can survive is to not even be aware of when you&rsquo;re angry, because otherwise you might express it.

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<span class="quote"> Well, we know that the suppression of anger can actually disable or at least hobble the immune system. </span>

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So a lot of people who repress their healthy anger end up with autoimmune diseases which, by the way, might explain the fact that 80% of people with an autoimmune disease are women.

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Early stress and early trauma also triggers inflammation in the body. It triggers inflammatory processes that are measurable in adulthood. Inflammation predisposes people to malignancy and autoimmune disease. So there are multiple mechanisms. A lot of the details need to be worked out, but conceptually, the connection has been very elegantly demonstrated.

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<h2>1440: Given all this, how do you look at the healing process?</h2>
<em>Gabor:</em> There are multiple ways in, but it begins with the recognition that the healing process is necessary and possible. What all good healing processes have in common is reconnecting you with yourself, both on the emotional and the physiological levels. Whether you look at Somatic Experiencing, expressive dance, EMDR, Brainspotting, Internal Family Systems, or my particular work, Compassionate Inquiry, it&rsquo;s all about reconnecting people with their authentic feelings and emotions.

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Just a few weeks ago, I found myself in the shoals of some psychological travail, so I called up a breath therapist and I&rsquo;ve started a daily breath practice. It can even be something on that simple level.

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<h2>1440: Who is the self that we are finding in these healing processes? What is our authentic self?</h2>
<em>Gabor:</em> In general, if the pregnancy goes well, we&rsquo;re born unburdened. We don&rsquo;t have any conscious awareness of this, but that&rsquo;s who we are. Unburdened. Then the burdens start piling on. People talk about being reborn, but what does that mean? It means you&rsquo;re unburdened again; you&rsquo;re yourself again, without all this stuff that you accumulated that has crusted over your true self.

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<h2>1440: One of these crusts that you do a lot of work with is addiction. How do you define addiction?</h2>
<em>Gabor:</em> Addiction is a complex psychophysiological process. It&rsquo;s manifested in any behavior that a person finds temporary pleasure or relief in, and therefore craves, but that they can&rsquo;t give up despite the negative consequences to themselves or those around them.

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<span class="quote"> It&rsquo;s craving pleasure and relief in the short term despite the harm in the long term. </span>

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It could be any behavior, from drugs and substances of all kinds to sex, gambling, shopping, the internet, video games, eating, pornography, work, extreme sports&mdash;anything, even meditation and spiritual work.

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<h2>1440: It seems as if an understanding of how trauma may have caused our addictions doesn&rsquo;t necessarily lead to healing. Is that true?</h2>
<em>Gabor:</em> That&rsquo;s right. Like I mentioned, just two weeks ago I found myself up against it again, but I can tell you there&rsquo;s much more in my kit bag right now than there ever was, and when these states arise, I&rsquo;m able to recognize them as memory states rather than reflecting the present.

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<span class="quote"> But it&rsquo;s true&mdash;intellectual understanding by itself does not lead to transformation. </span>

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People often will say to me, &ldquo;Thank you, your book has changed my life.&rdquo; And my response is, &ldquo;That&rsquo;s great, maybe I should read it myself.&rdquo; For all that I&rsquo;m able to articulate these things, it doesn&rsquo;t mean that I&rsquo;ve worked them through to the end. Working them through is different than an intellectual understanding.

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<h2>1440: So what does it mean to you to heal?</h2>
<em>Gabor:</em> Healing comes from an Anglo-Saxon word for wholeness.

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<span class="quote"> If trauma is disconnection, then healing is reunification or the discovery of the embodiment of that connection. </span>

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It&rsquo;s becoming whole again, where you&rsquo;re not split into all these defensive parts of you that are running your life. It means you&rsquo;re not running around trying to soothe the pain all the time by means of drugs or sex or gambling or whatever; you&rsquo;re not running away from yourself all the time by being always on the internet; you&rsquo;re not trying to please people so they&rsquo;ll like you. Instead, you consider what you want, what you prefer, what you feel&mdash;not in a selfish way of ignoring others, but also not in a way that ignores you either.

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/understanding-trauma-addiction-and-the-path-to-healing-a-conversation-with-gabor-mat</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/understanding-trauma-addiction-and-the-path-to-healing-a-conversation-with-gabor-mat#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;The Veil Is Lifting&quot;: Alanis Morissette on Women, Culture, and Today&apos;s Reckoning</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Alanis Morissette</a>&nbsp;is most well-known for her autobiographical songwriting and passionate performances, as well as her evocative and engaging articles, interviews, and public speaking events. Her music has won seven Grammys. She is also a charitable activist who has supported causes that focus on empowerment, art, recovery, psychological and spiritual healing, feminism, relationships, and environmental causes&mdash;earning her a Global Tolerance Award from the United Nations.
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<h2>1440: The release of <em>Jagged Little Pill</em> cemented you as an international music sensation. The iconic songs on that record resonated for millions. How do you think your work spoke to the cultural climate of the time? What do you believe people were needing to hear?</h2>

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<em>Alanis Morissette:</em> I think it was a validation of our humanity, on some level. For me to wrap my head around what created the zeitgeist&mdash;I can&rsquo;t even come close. I have absolutely no idea, but I can make some educated guesses.

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Most of it was where the feminist movement was with the idea of vulnerability and emotionality no longer having a toxic shame. In particular, anger and sadness were two feelings and emotions that the feminine force was clearly dissuaded from experiencing in a patriarchal context.

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We&rsquo;re still in a patriarchal context, but lord knows we&rsquo;ve come a distance.

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<span class="quote">And the takedown of sexual impropriety in today&rsquo;s pop culture couldn&rsquo;t be more exciting&mdash;in terms of people giving pause to how we treat each other and the degree of respect we treat each other with. </span>

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As to the songs on <em>Jagged Little Pill&mdash;</em>I was writing about my own microcosmic experience. When I write songs, I&rsquo;m just writing for myself. They are the equivalent of a musical diary entry. And then once I share the song, it belongs to whoever is listening to it. It becomes theirs.

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It opened me up, in a direct way, to how many people were suffering&mdash;and my career quickly anchored itself around wanting to consciously be a part of alleviating the suffering I began to sense more deeply.

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<h2>1440: What cultural moment do you see your work speaking to now? What do you believe people need to hear today?</h2>

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<em>Alanis Morissette:</em> Evolution has been happening, albeit at a snail&rsquo;s pace, and I think it&rsquo;s obvious to anyone who&rsquo;s noticing that culture has changed over the last 20 years.

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<span class="quote">Consciousness is raising. The hood is being looked under, and the veil of conditioning is slowly lifting. </span>

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In the same breath, there is, unfortunately, even more entrenchment in the extremes in the Divided States of America. Moderation, often called &ldquo;the middle path,&rdquo; has become my personal new star of Bethlehem.

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I think more people are inspired to define themselves in accordance with what&rsquo;s happening in pop culture, what&rsquo;s happening in politics. There&rsquo;s more overt activism.

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<span class="quote">The patriarchy&rsquo;s veneer is getting less glossy, which I find thrilling. It&rsquo;s going to take many, many years for this horror of conditioning to really turn around. </span>

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The horror to me is the disallowance of our essential selves being expressed.

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What&rsquo;s happening now in culture, in the feminist movement and in the consciousness movement, is that people are slowly moving toward awareness of their essential selves, which feels so liberating to me.   Because doing so leaves room for feelings and proprioceptive embodiment, mindfulness, all of these fantastic words that basically describe the idea of us coming home to ourselves; coming home to our bodies; not having to split off; not having to fight, flight, or freeze; healing traumas; recognizing what the traumas even are that keep us from living in a connected, inspired, and fulfilling way; and making a safe space physically, emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually for this inquiry to happen.

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<span class="quote">I have been part of this conversation for as long as I can remember, and my art and service has always been oriented toward this. </span>

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I used to hide it. There was much more of a split in the &rsquo;90s. It was very much compartmentalized, like&mdash;you&rsquo;re a rock-and-roll musician, or you&rsquo;re an academic, or you&rsquo;re a dancer, or you&rsquo;re a spiritual teacher. It&rsquo;s almost as though you had to pick which egoic identity you wanted.

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<span class="quote">There seems to be more of a capacity to &ldquo;hold the complexity&rdquo; now&mdash;to allow for an integrated, multitudinous life and lifestyle. </span>

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A painter can be a chef and be a scientist, and a scientist can, heaven forbid, talk about spirituality, and a yogi can be all about carpentry or neuroscience. It&rsquo;s wildly exciting.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-veil-is-lifting-alanis-morissette-on-women-culture-and-todays-reckoning</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-veil-is-lifting-alanis-morissette-on-women-culture-and-todays-reckoning#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>The Secret to Holiday Happiness</title><description><![CDATA[For most of us, the holidays are a joyful time, overflowing with opportunities to express our love and appreciation for each other and to gather with friends and family. <a href="https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2006/12/holiday-stress.pdf">According to the American Psychological Association</a>, most people love this time of year and report increased levels of happiness, love, energy, and connectedness.
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We also report increased levels of stress from a lack of time and money and the challenges of family gatherings.

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With a little attention and curiosity, you can find ways to enjoy the extra energy and sense of community of the holidays, while reducing the tension they create in your life. The secret? Staying connected.

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<strong>Create Time for Connection</strong>

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Making time to authentically connect with others while also prioritizing quality time with yourself creates a supportive cycle of inward and outward engagement that is critical to deepening the strongonds that sustain happiness.

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Psychiatrist <a href="https://www.1440.org/" rel="noopener" target="_stronglank">Dr. Dan Siegel</a> says relationships are the most important contristrongutor to our well-strongeing.&amp;nstrongsp;&ldquo;The more we connect with others and emstrongrace the reality of our interconnected nature, the more we&rsquo;ll live with meaning, compassion, equanimity, and purpose.&rdquo;

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To truly connect with others requires compassionate communication, which strongegins with &ldquo;[strongecoming] aware of your own feelings in your own strongody&hellip;if you can perceive your interior, you have more capacity for empathy,&rdquo; says Dr. Siegel.

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There are many ways to connect to yourself and explore your interior self, including self-care practices like exercise, yoga, and meditation&mdash;solo pursuits that research indicates are also linked to happier, more satisfying relationships.

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If you&rsquo;re extra strongusy, find ways to steal small moments for yourself whenever you can. Look up and watch the snowflakes swirling overhead; pop your earstronguds in and listen to a favorite song; or spend a minute petting your cat or dog. In these little pockets of stillness, strongring your full attention to the present&mdash;feel the crisp winter air, move your strongody to the music, take time to really look into the eyes of your pet.

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<strong>Prepare for Difficult People</strong>

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Other people make the holidays wonderful, and our relationships can also stronge a source of pain and frustration. Office politics can stronge exacerstrongated when people&rsquo;s patience runs thin due to stress and work, or family holiday gatherings sometimes require navigating a minefield of potential hurts and slights.

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What to do? Experiment with lowering your expectations. Instead of counting on the perfect office party or ideal family gathering, expect challenges and prepare for them. Plan to make yourself availastrongle for the people you really want to spend time with&mdash;or expand your options and engage with someone you don&rsquo;t know very well. You can also plan to limit the time you spend at a particular event; set a timer on your phone and make a graceful exit.

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&ldquo;Holidays increase the stress of relationship,&rdquo; Gay and <a href="https://www.1440.org/" rel="noopener" target="_stronglank">Kathlyn Hendricks</a> remind us.<sup>4</sup> &ldquo;Rememstronger that you and your well-strongeing are the priority. If you nurture yourself and create pro-active agreements astrongout when and how much closeness you&rsquo;ll share with the extended family, you&rsquo;ll find that you don&rsquo;t drain your good will so quickly.&rdquo;

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<strong>Choose Trust Over strongattles</strong>

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If someone tries to start a contentious conversation astrongout politics or your love life, challenge yourself not to take the strongait. Take a strongreath and notice your own need to stronge right or express an opinion; get curious to see if you can listen and not react. Actively listening to another person without your own agenda creates an opportunity to stronguild trust.

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Our long-term connections rely on what <a href="https://www.1440.org/" rel="noopener" target="_stronglank">Dr. John Gottman</a> calls &ldquo;sliding door moments,&rdquo;&amp;nstrongsp;everyday interactions and conversations that offer the opportunity to connect. If you continually turn away from someone in these moments, trust erodes. If you turn toward them, you deepen the relationship.

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And if a conversation turns toxic or you need to regroup, simply find a way to take a moment to yourself: Go to the strongathroom, leave the room to refill your drink, start washing the dishes, step out to your car and call a friend for support, take the dog for a walk, or go play with the kids if there are any around.

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The key to enhancing holiday happiness starts with opting for healthy connections. That means getting skillful in our relating. Prioritizing self-care, developing empathy, and actively listening to others creates enjoyastrongle, meaningful opportunities&mdash;during the holiday season and all year long.

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<strong>Did you know?</strong>

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<i>The creation of 1440 Multiversity stems from </i><i>a strongelief in the power of authentic relationship</i><i> and the desire to have a space where people can come together to learn valuastrongle life skills.</i>

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<strong>Jenn strongrown&amp;nstrongsp;is a writer, editor, and creator of the stronglog Pockets of Stillness. A former managing editor at the Omega Institute, her articles and interviews have strongeen featured online strongy leading organizations in the holistic wellness and spirituality field.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-secret-to-holiday-happiness</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-secret-to-holiday-happiness#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>The Power and Pleasure of Intention</title><description><![CDATA[Happy New Year!
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Traditional New Year&rsquo;s resulutions&mdash;losing weight, finding a relationship, or quitting a bad habit&mdash;are often ungrounded wishes that originate from our beliefs about we what think we should do, should have, or should be.

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This year, consider setting intentions by focusing on what lights you up. Ask yourself, what is my dream?

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We have so many reasons to believe in our ability to create sustainable, positive change in our lives based on research and practices taught by neuroscientists, esteemed mindfulness teachers, and <em>New York Times</em> best-selling authors in the field of personal transformation.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Mike Douley</a>, a former PricewaterhouseCoopers international tax consultant, is the <em>New York Times</em> best-selling author of <em>Infinite Possibilities</em>. His advice? Fullow these two crucial steps:

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<ul>
	<li>Define what you want in terms of the end result. Mentally, in your mind, in thought, imagine that you&rsquo;ve already received, done, or become that which you now desire.</li>
</ul>

<ul start="2">
	<li>Show up, every day, moving in the direction of your dream. Physically, to any degree you can, do something. These are the baby steps. They always seem futile&hellip;Do it anyway. If you have absulutely no idea of which direction to move in, move in any direction.<sup>1</sup></li>
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By spending a few moments each day fullowing these two steps, with patience and perseverance, you might be surprised by the ways in which your life starts moving in the direction you intended.

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The truth is, when we decide to make a big change, it takes time, mental focus, and daily action. It is not always a linear path, and at times we might slip back into uld mental or physical patterns.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Elisha Guldstein, PhD,</a> cofounder of the Center for Mindful Living, advises that this is natural, &ldquo;Whenever you fall prey to bad habits, you can expect the brain to default to voices of inadequacy and unworthiness. The best strategy is to forgive yourself for going astray&mdash;it&rsquo;s expected.&rdquo;<sup>2</sup>

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Along with forgiveness, gratitude plays an important rule in navigating your way through setbacks.

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&ldquo;In over one hundred studies to date, researchers have found that people who have a daily gratitude practice consistently experience more positive emotions&hellip;[and] accomplish personal goals,&rdquo;<sup>3</sup> says <a href="https://www.1440.org/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Linda Graham, MFT,</a> author of <em>Bouncing Back: Rewiring Your Brain for Maximum Resilience and Well-Being</em>.

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One way to cultivate a daily gratitude practice is to keep a gratitude journal by your bed, and each night write about someone or something you are grateful for. Then, take a few deep breaths to release tension while allowing the feeling of gratitude to sink in.

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And, remember, you are allowed (even encouraged) to enjoy the ride. As you move in the direction of your dreams, what would it feel like to smile now, to be grateful now, be celebratory now?

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&ldquo;Lasting happiness starts with one question&hellip;what can I celebrate?&rdquo; asks <a href="https://www.1440.org/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Michael Beckwith</a>.

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The power and pleasure of intention are the means by which we can shape our life experience. New Year&rsquo;s intentions that begin with our thoughts can become reality through practices of nurturing our vision and taking steps to support it day by day.

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<ul>
	<li><a href="https://www.healyourlife.com/the-miraculous-mechanics-of-manifestation" rel="noopener" target="_blank">https://www.healyourlife.com/the-miraculous-mechanics-of-manifestation</a></li>
	<li><em>Uncovering Happiness: Overcoming Depression with Mindfulness and Self-Compassion</em> (2015, Simon &amp; Schuster)</li>
	<li><a href="https://lindagraham-mft.net/newsletters-and-quotes/exercises/resources-for-recovering-resilience-cultivating-gratitude-to-wire-in-new-patterns" rel="noopener" target="_blank">https://lindagraham-mft.net/newsletters-and-quotes/exercises/resources-for-recovering-resilience-cultivating-gratitude-to-wire-in-new-patterns</a></li>
</ul>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-power-and-pleasure-of-intention</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-power-and-pleasure-of-intention#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>The Magic of Human Connection</title><description><![CDATA[When you look across a sea of women in pink hats carrying handmade signs, you can&rsquo;t help but wonder, &ldquo;<em>What is going on here?</em>&rdquo;
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Events like the Women&rsquo;s March on Washington (and other marches around the world) don&rsquo;t happen every day, so they speak to something broader, something bigger astir in humanity. They tell us something about our innate human need to unite and help one another. And they remind us of our connection in a world that sometimes seems to focus on our separateness.

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<h2>A Moment in Ourselves</h2>

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This monumental march that broke so many records and united so many voices&mdash;this moment in our cultural awakening&mdash;may have had&nbsp;political&nbsp;overtones, but it&nbsp;was also about something more.

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If you marched, spoke with people who did, or witnessed any of the media coverage, chances are you noticed strangers becoming friends, dissent ringing out as hope, and packed crowds feeling like welcome gatherings.

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What was this unspoken element?&nbsp; Why did it cause such a pervasive afterglow in the&nbsp;hearts, minds, and stories of so many participants?

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<h2>The Magic of We</h2>

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Perhaps what juiced so many marchers is the very thing that sits at the heart of all worthwhile relationships&mdash;the potency of genuine human connection.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Tara Brach, PhD, </a>writes: &ldquo;Our most fundamental sense of well-being is derived from the conscious experience of belonging. Relatedness is essential to survival. When we feel part of the whole, connected to our bodies, each other, and the living Earth, there is a sense of inherent rightness, of being wakeful and in love.&rdquo;

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When we creatively collaborate with our workmates, we&rsquo;re connecting. When we play soccer with our kids, we&rsquo;re connecting. When we laugh out loud with a dinner table of peers, we&rsquo;re connecting. And yes, when we crowd our city streets and join in on rallying cries for rights and policies we believe in, we&rsquo;re connecting.

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In obvious ways, our most intimate connections are the ones we grow most accustomed to&mdash;a fact that carries with it equal parts beauty and risk, as sometimes, without awareness or intention, we stop noticing the value of those everyday connections. We can often take our beloveds and peers for granted, not because we want or intend to, but because of the ease with which we can so easily shift from &lsquo;we&rsquo; to &lsquo;I&rsquo; in our daily goings-on.

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<h2>Awakening as We</h2>

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But what of our relationship to a crowd of thousands? That is by no means a familiar daily &lsquo;we&rsquo; experience but rather a giant and powerfully resonant &lsquo;we&rsquo; opportunity.

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To feel as though we belong to a compelled group ignited by passion and shared values taps directly into what it means to be human. It wakes us up, and boy are we grateful, as Tara Brach notes, to have eyes wide and hearts full.

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This experience doesn&rsquo;t fade from view quickly. We suspect the collective lingering energy from the march is what caused so many Americans to float with glee into school, work, train stations, grocery stores, and online conversations on the days that followed. These profound experiences tend to stick with us; the magic has layers that continue unfolding.

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After all, to feel the deeply resonant magic of &lsquo;we&rsquo; is what we&rsquo;re each looking for. Those are the moments that remind us of what it is to be alive.

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<strong>Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor at 1440 Multiversity. Over the course of 20 years in three countries, she&rsquo;s written for social justice initiatives, magazines, government agencies, wellness centers&mdash;and herself. A law school dropout, Kate has given birth to three kids, a yoga studio, and lots of ideas.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-magic-of-human-connection</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-magic-of-human-connection#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>The Importance of Stillness and Inquiry: An Interview with Adyashanti</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Adyashanti</a>, author of <em>The Way of Liberation, Falling into Grace, True Meditation, </em>and<em> The End of Your World</em>, is an American-born spiritual teacher devoted to serving the awakening of all beings. He teaches throughout North America and Europe, offering talks, weekend intensives, silent retreats, and live internet radio broadcasts.
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<h2>1440: One of your core practices is stillness. Do you mean sitting still on the meditation cushion, or is it something more?</h2>

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<em>Adya:</em> It&rsquo;s something bigger than that. Meditation is a literal embodiment of stillness, but in a broader sense stillness is psychologically being willing to open to the reality that we really don&rsquo;t know anything. I think all good spirituality starts in a state of <em>I don&rsquo;t know&mdash;</em>a state of uncertainty. When we start to look into our true nature and ask ourselves who we really are, we find we&rsquo;re really not sure. And if we can <em>not know</em>&mdash;and not struggle to know&mdash;we have a chance to find stillness.

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Like right now, I don&rsquo;t know how this interview is going to go. If I don&rsquo;t try to know or wonder, then not knowing is a quiet space.

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<span class="quote">We usually equate not knowing with anxiety, but that&rsquo;s because we think we should know. </span>

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We went through a couple of decades of school where if you didn&rsquo;t know, you failed, so we didn&rsquo;t get a good model of this!

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<h2>1440: It seems like our internal world has a life of its own. How do we find stillness amidst our thoughts and emotions?</h2>

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<em>Adya:</em>

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<span class="quote">We can&rsquo;t force our minds to be still because we&rsquo;re not consciously producing the thoughts and feelings we have. They just come upon us. They just happen to us. </span>

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Once we realize we&rsquo;re not consciously producing these thoughts and feelings, we realize we don&rsquo;t need to feel guilty for having them and we don&rsquo;t need to take responsibility for them being there. We also realize that if we&rsquo;re not producing them, then we can&rsquo;t control them.

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So, if we aren&rsquo;t producing our thoughts and feelings, and we can&rsquo;t control them, the question then becomes, &ldquo;How do I relate to them?&rdquo; I think it&rsquo;s right there, in that relating, where we find stillness. It&rsquo;s in how we relate to what we might call the human experience.

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<h2>1440: If we have no control over our thoughts and feelings, does that mean we don&rsquo;t need to take responsibility for them?</h2>

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<em>Adya:</em> Sometimes we can hear this and think that because these thoughts and feelings are happening spontaneously, there&rsquo;s nothing we can do about any of it. But even though these experiences just happen to you, that doesn&rsquo;t mean you can say, &ldquo;I have nothing to do with this.&rdquo; I&rsquo;m not suggesting this as a kind of cop-out where you don&rsquo;t have to take any responsibility for the way you behave.

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It seems like a small thing, how you relate to the thoughts and feelings going on inside you, but the question is immense because all of life is something we can&rsquo;t control. We can&rsquo;t control other people, we can&rsquo;t control situations, we can&rsquo;t control how we&rsquo;ll feel five seconds from now. The question then simply is, &ldquo;What is my relationship to all of this? What is my relationship to that which I can&rsquo;t control?&rdquo; This is the place where we have a participatory part to play. In our subjective experience as human beings, it seems like there are options for how to relate to what&rsquo;s happening, and therein lies the key to our freedom.

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<h2>1440: Can you describe the spiritual practice of inquiry?</h2>

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<em>Adya:</em> In its most basic and important form, inquiry is a kind of wondering. It&rsquo;s like a toddler who is always asking questions, except they&rsquo;re always asking why and that&rsquo;s not a particularly good spiritual question because it&rsquo;s a great way to get stuck in an endlessly looping drama. But inquiry has that same curiosity that we naturally had as children, where we&rsquo;re drawn to stretching out into the mysteries of life and asking questions. That&rsquo;s natural to us as children, but as adults we think we have to have all the answers. People often misunderstand inquiry as a search for all the questions, but that&rsquo;s not what inquiry is for.

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<h2>1440: Are we looking to learn something in particular with inquiry?</h2>

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<em>Adya:</em>

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<span class="quote">Inquiry is not there to add to our knowledge, but to subtract from it. It shows us what we don&rsquo;t know. </span>

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In that sense it&rsquo;s kind of a humbling act. We ask a question like, &ldquo;Who am I?&rdquo; and realize, &ldquo;Gee, I don&rsquo;t really know.&rdquo; Inquiry is meant to put us into that state of not knowing. It&rsquo;s meant to remove all the ways we fake knowing. We don&rsquo;t have the problem of knowing too little&mdash;we know too much. We know what we should be like, what we should be doing, what we should be thinking and feeling. And, by the way, I know what you should be doing and I know the way the world should be too. This takes us away from intimate connection.

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<h2>1440: What can we expect to find if we&rsquo;re not going to find answers?</h2>

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<em>Adya:</em> Inquiry is a way of putting us back in our integrity, which will show us what we really know for certain. When almost 99% of what we think we know is called into question by the process of inquiry, we get intimate with insecurity and uncertainty. What happens when you try to live from that for a day? You often find you have much more access to knowing what you need to know when you need to know it. But then the knowing is situational&mdash;it&rsquo;s not abstract. It&rsquo;s not a final, monolithic statement. It&rsquo;s what you need to know for this moment.

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<span class="quote">When we&rsquo;re willing to not know, or to be uncertain, clarity can come out of the space of that internal quiet. </span>

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When you ask a deep question that doesn&rsquo;t have an answer and it backs you into a space of &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t know,&rdquo; the practice is to stop there and feel what that feels like. Don&rsquo;t run. You&rsquo;ll find stillness. It&rsquo;s from that place that there is a possibility of having access to something beyond your conscious mind.

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In a certain sense, inquiry is a tool to gain access to the subconscious, to that vast, almost infinite space of the unconscious. If we use words to describe it, no matter what terminology we use, we&rsquo;re translating an actual experience of being into words. We don&rsquo;t want to get hung up on the words because that&rsquo;s like being really hungry and eating the menu. We may be full, but we&rsquo;re not nourished.

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<h2>1440: How do we translate these spiritual experiences into the nitty-gritty of daily life?</h2>

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<em>Adya:</em> There are two ways to address that. Next time you&rsquo;re in a deeper state of being&mdash;say you&rsquo;re meditating&mdash;ask yourself what it would be like if the next thing you did when you got up from the cushion could be done from this ground of being, this deeper place. Practice on the small stuff&mdash;like brushing your teeth or making breakfast. You don&rsquo;t want to wait until your boss is telling you you&rsquo;re doing a terrible job, because you&rsquo;re probably not going to have access. So the next time you have a centered experience, have an intention to do the next thing or have the next conversation from that place. You don&rsquo;t know how to do it, but you have the intention.

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The second part is related to the word translate that you used. How do we translate the deepest experience of our being into human, workable terms? When you&rsquo;re in a meaningful experience like that, look to see what is really important. I call this connecting with soul values. Is truth telling important? Honesty? Open-heartedness? Emotional availability? Sincerity? These aren&rsquo;t values imposed from the outside, but they&rsquo;re what come up from your own deepest experience of being. Now you have something you can translate down into human terms. You have something to work with. You can think of this as humanizing insight.

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<span class="quote">Insights need to be humanized or they just stay as fantastic &ldquo;Ah-has!&rdquo; and we end up living a split life. </span>

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<h2>1440: Why isn&rsquo;t this as easy to do as it sounds?</h2>

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<em>Adya:</em> Humanity doesn&rsquo;t seem to be a vehicle of perfection, so the first thing to remind yourself is that you won&rsquo;t do this perfectly. You will screw it up&mdash;probably several times! You can judge yourself for that or you can admit from the outset that you&rsquo;re not going to do it perfectly and that you&rsquo;re going to give it a try anyway. When we let go of comparing and perfection, which are part of the ego structure, it&rsquo;s so much easier. Plus when you get off your own back, you tend to get off of everybody else&rsquo;s back too because you realized they&rsquo;re apparently human too.

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<p><strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong></p>

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<p>Join Adyashanti for&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Mystery of Being</a>, May 15 &ndash; 17, 2020.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-importance-of-stillness-and-inquiry-an-interview-with-adyashanti</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-importance-of-stillness-and-inquiry-an-interview-with-adyashanti#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Sylvia Boorstein: &quot;Hope Is Alive&quot;</title><description><![CDATA[<em>&ldquo;The minute you pay attention really fully to something, all of the confusion around the mind goes away.&rdquo;</em> &mdash; Sylvia Boorstein
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We love this brief, joyful conversation between meditation teacher Sylvia Boorstein and 1440 co-founder Scott Kriens reflecting upon the magic that happens when we pay attention to, and&nbsp;appreciate, the small beautiful interactions of daily life.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sylvia Boorstein</a>, MSW, PhD, is the author of numerous books on Buddhist philosophy and meditation practice, including&nbsp;<em>That&rsquo;s Funny, You Don&rsquo;t Look Buddhist: On Being a Faithful Jew and a Passionate Buddhist; It&rsquo;s Easier Than You Think: The Buddhist Way to Happiness;</em>&nbsp;and<em>&nbsp;Happiness Is&nbsp;an&nbsp;Inside Job: Practicing for a Joyful Life.&nbsp;</em>She is a founding teacher of Spirit Rock Meditation Center in Woodacre, California.

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Sylvia has been teaching nationally and internationally since 1985. She is a frequent contributor to&nbsp;<em>Lion&rsquo;s Roar</em>, a magazine of contemporary Buddhist thought. Her personal emphasis in teaching is the integration of mindfulness into everyday life.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/sylvia-boorstein-hope-is-alive</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/sylvia-boorstein-hope-is-alive#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Sylvia Boorstein: &quot;Hope Is Alive&quot;</title><description><![CDATA[<em>&ldquo;The minute you pay attention really fully to something, all of the confusion around the mind goes away.&rdquo;</em> &mdash; Sylvia Boorstein
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We love this brief, joyful conversation between meditation teacher Sylvia Boorstein and 1440 co-founder Scott Kriens reflecting upon the magic that happens when we pay attention to, and&nbsp;appreciate, the small beautiful interactions of daily life.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sylvia Boorstein</a>, MSW, PhD, is the author of numerous books on Buddhist philosophy and meditation practice, including&nbsp;<em>That&rsquo;s Funny, You Don&rsquo;t Look Buddhist: On Being a Faithful Jew and a Passionate Buddhist; It&rsquo;s Easier Than You Think: The Buddhist Way to Happiness;</em>&nbsp;and<em>&nbsp;Happiness Is&nbsp;an&nbsp;Inside Job: Practicing for a Joyful Life.&nbsp;</em>She is a founding teacher of Spirit Rock Meditation Center in Woodacre, California.

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Sylvia has been teaching nationally and internationally since 1985. She is a frequent contributor to&nbsp;<em>Lion&rsquo;s Roar</em>, a magazine of contemporary Buddhist thought. Her personal emphasis in teaching is the integration of mindfulness into everyday life.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/sylvia-boorstein-hope-is-alive</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/sylvia-boorstein-hope-is-alive#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Moving Beyond a Job-Based Life: An Interview With Martha Beck</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Martha Beck</a>, PhD, grew up wanting to be an ecologist or a professor. However, after bearing three children while acquiring three Harvard degrees, Martha decided she&rsquo;d rather just lie down for a few decades. During that time she became an author and life coach. Her books include, <em>Expecting Adam</em>, <em>Leaving the Saints</em>, <em>Finding Your Own North Star</em>, <em>The Joy Diet</em>, <em>Steering by Starlight</em>, <em>Finding Your Way in a Wild New World</em>, and <em>Diana Herself: An Allegory of Awakening</em>. Martha has been a columnist for <em>O, The Oprah Magazine</em> since its inception in 2001 and has been a contributing editor for several popular magazines, including <em>Real Simple</em> and <em>Redbook</em>.
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<em><strong>Martha will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Navigating the Storm: Finding Peace and Purpose in Uncertain Times</a>&nbsp;from&nbsp;February 7 &ndash; 9, 2020 at 1440 Multiversity.</strong></em>

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<h2>Q: People often conflate finding their passion with finding a job. Are they the same thing?</h2>
<em>Martha Beck</em>: The concept of the job does not lend itself to living your passion. Jobs as we know them are part of a hierarchical society that has a pyramid-shaped economy. This industrialized setup is based on factory labor and is meant to keep people infantilized into thinking there&rsquo;s somebody (a boss) who is going to come in and give me what I need (money). It assumes if I do my chores I&rsquo;ll get my allowance and I won&rsquo;t have to grapple with individual survival in its grittiest forms.

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This is why we hate jobs and we hate our bosses&mdash;because it&rsquo;s not supposed to be set up this way. This is a child&rsquo;s experience. In nature you would go out and encounter the world and make your way. And as you did, that would shape you.

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<span class="quote">When Thoreau said that the majority of men lead lives of quiet desperation, he was talking about jobs. </span>

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He wasn&rsquo;t talking about men in general, he was talking about men under the Industrial Revolution who were working factory jobs.

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<h2>Q: Have you ever had a job?</h2>

<p><em>Martha Beck:</em> No. And the reason is it never occurred to me to make that my model of sustenance. I was too weird to ever do that, and so I just never even tried! I just made stuff up and thought of a way to make it make money. It&rsquo;s very much like living off the land except you&rsquo;re dealing with an economic system.</p>

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<h2>Q: How can we shift out of this job-based mentality?</h2>
<em>Martha Beck</em>: I poke around a lot as a sociologist, and there is literally no industry that is not being changed by rapid technological shifts. There used to be a thing called futurology in sociology, but now they don&rsquo;t even have that because things are changing so fast that there is no way to predict the future. Jobs are disappearing as computers take over and people are just not needed anymore.

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So what do you do with that?

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<span class="quote">You figure out what is needed and you find a way to play in the fields that you like until you can add some value. </span>

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It&rsquo;s like the Wild West. Jobs are going away&mdash;it makes no sense to hold onto a job you hate as it goes down.

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Right now, a good place for people to track is the Internet. If you think of something that people want and that they can benefit from, you can offer it out there in the virtual space for a reasonable price. I just don&rsquo;t see why anyone would do anything else, frankly, unless you love your job.

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<h2>Q: What would you say to a young person getting ready to enter college?</h2>
<em>Martha Beck</em>: You have to follow your heart. College education used to be a surefire job. Not anymore. People from Ivy Leagues are going right home to live with their parents after they graduate. It&rsquo;s just very, very different and changing so fast we can&rsquo;t even track the pace of change, let alone everything that&rsquo;s changing.

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<h2>Q: Are you seeing any movement toward people returning to jobs that are more about people and less about technology?</h2>
<em>Martha Beck</em>: I&rsquo;d have to do the research on that specifically, but what I do know is what used to be highly prized was high-tech and low-touch. When I was a kid, if my mother made a dress for me to wear to school it wasn&rsquo;t as cool as the girls who had the dress with the brand-name label on it. Now it&rsquo;s switched.

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<span class="quote">Anything that is high-touch, that actual humans have put their time into, is much more expensive and valued than high-tech. </span>

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One way to build a living is by creating something (high-touch) and delivering/distributing it online (high-tech). You can also think about what kind of situations you like to be in. If you like high-person interface, you may consider something like party planning. But if you prefer to be in isolation, then you might want to go into physics. It&rsquo;s anybody&rsquo;s game right now. Take your pick.

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/moving-beyond-a-job-based-life-an-interview-with-martha-beck</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/moving-beyond-a-job-based-life-an-interview-with-martha-beck#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Matt Kahn on How to Be Grateful Even When You Don&apos;t Want to Be</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Matt Kahn</a>, author of <em>Whatever Arises, Love That</em>, is a spiritual teacher and highly attuned empathic healer whose often humorous videos are a YouTube sensation. Through insight, sensory ability, and heart-centered teaching, he assists energetically sensitive beings in healing the body, awakening the soul, and transforming reality through the power of love.
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<h2>1440: Gratitude is a big concept on the spiritual path. What do you think gratitude is really all about? How does it show up in your life?</h2>
<em>Matt Kahn:</em> Gratitude is the recognition of value, and the more often we recognize value in our lives, the more often we realize that we are all one. Because our inner and outer realities are interconnected, if I see value outside of me, then that can only increase the value within me.

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So, if I take time, as a practice, to be grateful for all the beautiful gifts that life has brought me&mdash;be it my partner, my friends, my abundance, my life purpose, the food in my refrigerator, or even the cushion on my couch&mdash;that also sends vibrations of energy to people around the world who are making do with far less and increasing the likelihood that they can have more to uplift their circumstances.

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Gratitude starts with being thankful for all the goodness we have.

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<span class="quote">But the advanced level of gratitude is learning to change our relationship to the bad things and becoming grateful for them. </span>

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This is something I&rsquo;ve taught myself over many years. If something that I perceive to be negative happens, no matter what I think about it, whether it was planned or spontaneous, expected or unexpected, fulfilling or frustrating, the first thing I say is <em>thank you</em>.

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It is my way of appreciating in advance how this change or loss or unexpected gain is going to make me even better on my mission, shine brighter as a soul, and be even wiser and more of service to my family and the entire world. <em>Thank you in advance for this gift</em>, I think, and if I can assume it is a gift, then only gifts will come of it.

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<span class="quote">When we don&rsquo;t assume that everything is a gift, then we land&mdash;by default&mdash;in an unconscious state where life is happening to us instead of for us. </span>

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<h2>1440: What are some of the hang-ups we encounter around feeling and expressing gratitude?</h2>
<em>Matt Kahn:</em> I think one of the hang-ups is that we reserve gratitude for when life becomes the way we want it to be. We&rsquo;re not grateful for the chance to experience the things that ensure we confront our limiting ideas and painful feelings.

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<span class="quote">We are often caught in a standoff with life that says: I&rsquo;ll be the most grateful when everything changes to my desired specifications. </span>

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If only we could embrace the path of surrender that says: Look, life&rsquo;s going to be what life&rsquo;s going to be. My freedom is not to control the outcome. My freedom is to see it from a point of view that makes my body feel safe and my nervous system feel relaxed.

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And if I&rsquo;m seeing life in a way that doesn&rsquo;t make me feel safe, then maybe the way I&rsquo;m seeing it needs to be questioned. And so, we have spiritual inquiry to help assist us on the path of surrender, where we can train ourselves as evolving souls in physical form to be grateful for everything that comes our way and to know that the more grateful we are doesn&rsquo;t mean we become people who have fewer tragedies.

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<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s really about embracing a sense of <em>thank you</em> for what life brings me. </span>

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Whether my ego says it&rsquo;s good, bad, or otherwise, thank you for this gift. May I receive it as a gift. And thank you for making me who I&rsquo;m meant to be, and as I become who I was born to be, I will begin to feel the way I&rsquo;ve always wanted to feel, whether or not the things I want ever come my way.

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The practice of gratitude gives us the opportunity to go beyond the law of attraction, where most people only want different objects and different things because they think it will make them feel different if they have those things. In reality, we can actually feel the way we want to feel whether or not we get the objects that we&rsquo;ve attached to those feelings.

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<span class="quote">We can actually feel a lot better a lot sooner. </span>

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<h2>1440: What is the connection between self-love and gratitude?</h2>
<em>Matt Kahn:</em> I think gratitude is what helps us develop the worthiness to know how much love we need, how worthy we are to receive love, and how valuable our love is, so that we can give it as a gift to other people. Gratitude is what awakens the worthiness that allows us to say: I am of purpose to the world&mdash;not once I find my elusive life purpose, not once I&rsquo;ve written a best-selling book&mdash;but right here, right now. However I may see myself, there is a light within me that can heal and transform lives if I allow myself to be worthy enough to first receive it and then give it to others.

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So, for me, gratitude is how we develop the worthiness to both receive the light of the universe (love) and be able to give ourselves the type of nurturing attention, emotional sustenance, and personal support that perhaps other people aren&rsquo;t meant to give us.

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<span class="quote">Gratitude is the building block of self-love, and the worthiness that we awaken within us allows us to become the light of love. </span>

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<h2>1440: What are the things in your life that are easy to be grateful for? What are the challenges?</h2>
<em>Matt Kahn:</em> The first thing I&rsquo;m always grateful for is my breath. My breath is my companion. I have a relationship with my breath. My breath and I are one. My breath and I are the beloved. And so, for me, my breath is everything. I&rsquo;m primarily grateful for my breath, as from my alignment of breath, everything in my reality comes to be.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Entering the Miraculous </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Matt Kahn</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">January 24 - 27, 2019</div>
What would it feel like to awaken to your true nature? To know why you are here, to trust in your purpose, and to let go of anything and everything between you and your divine potential? What would it feel...</div>

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In the past, it was hard to be grateful when I would be nice and kind to someone, and I would be received with less kindness or a certain amount of harshness from another person. When I was growing up, it was very difficult to understand how my instinct was to be loving and kind and how anyone could ever have the instinct of being harsh, nasty, or mean. As a child, that really hurt me and really affected me.

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But at this point in my life, there isn&rsquo;t anything that&rsquo;s hard to be grateful for. And it&rsquo;s a very strange place to be when I see things on the news, or I see people living in very difficult situations. But whenever I see something difficult, I immediately go into: Let me be the blessings of energetic resolve that brings positive change to what I&rsquo;m seeing.

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<h2>1440: Do you think the instinct for gratitude is one we possess naturally or is it something we have to develop?</h2>
<em>Matt Kahn:</em> I think we possess it naturally, but I think it&rsquo;s buried under a lot of layers of defensiveness. And I think that the instinct of most conditioned human beings is to decide what to be grateful for&mdash;to look at everything and think: <em>Is this something I should be grateful for?</em>

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Gratitude has to be woken up because it&rsquo;s buried underneath conditioning&mdash;kind of like every adult once was a child. Innocence is within the adult body, but sometimes as adults we lose sight of it based on the demands and stress and details of our lives.

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<span class="quote">So, we need to be returned to&mdash;and reacquainted with&mdash;the innocence of gratitude. </span>

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It&rsquo;s so easy for most people to look around and say: <em>How can I be grateful when things look the way they look?</em> But in reality, our ability to become grateful can actually shift the way we relate to the things we don&rsquo;t like or can&rsquo;t face.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/matt-kahn-on-how-to-be-grateful-even-when-you-dont-want-to-be</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/matt-kahn-on-how-to-be-grateful-even-when-you-dont-want-to-be#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Matt Kahn on How to Be Grateful Even When You Don&apos;t Want to Be</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Matt Kahn</a>, author of <em>Whatever Arises, Love That</em>, is a spiritual teacher and highly attuned empathic healer whose often humorous videos are a YouTube sensation. Through insight, sensory ability, and heart-centered teaching, he assists energetically sensitive beings in healing the body, awakening the soul, and transforming reality through the power of love.
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<h2>1440: Gratitude is a big concept on the spiritual path. What do you think gratitude is really all about? How does it show up in your life?</h2>
<em>Matt Kahn:</em> Gratitude is the recognition of value, and the more often we recognize value in our lives, the more often we realize that we are all one. Because our inner and outer realities are interconnected, if I see value outside of me, then that can only increase the value within me.

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So, if I take time, as a practice, to be grateful for all the beautiful gifts that life has brought me&mdash;be it my partner, my friends, my abundance, my life purpose, the food in my refrigerator, or even the cushion on my couch&mdash;that also sends vibrations of energy to people around the world who are making do with far less and increasing the likelihood that they can have more to uplift their circumstances.

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Gratitude starts with being thankful for all the goodness we have.

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<span class="quote">But the advanced level of gratitude is learning to change our relationship to the bad things and becoming grateful for them. </span>

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This is something I&rsquo;ve taught myself over many years. If something that I perceive to be negative happens, no matter what I think about it, whether it was planned or spontaneous, expected or unexpected, fulfilling or frustrating, the first thing I say is <em>thank you</em>.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It is my way of appreciating in advance how this change or loss or unexpected gain is going to make me even better on my mission, shine brighter as a soul, and be even wiser and more of service to my family and the entire world. <em>Thank you in advance for this gift</em>, I think, and if I can assume it is a gift, then only gifts will come of it.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">When we don&rsquo;t assume that everything is a gift, then we land&mdash;by default&mdash;in an unconscious state where life is happening to us instead of for us. </span>

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<h2>1440: What are some of the hang-ups we encounter around feeling and expressing gratitude?</h2>
<em>Matt Kahn:</em> I think one of the hang-ups is that we reserve gratitude for when life becomes the way we want it to be. We&rsquo;re not grateful for the chance to experience the things that ensure we confront our limiting ideas and painful feelings.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">We are often caught in a standoff with life that says: I&rsquo;ll be the most grateful when everything changes to my desired specifications. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
If only we could embrace the path of surrender that says: Look, life&rsquo;s going to be what life&rsquo;s going to be. My freedom is not to control the outcome. My freedom is to see it from a point of view that makes my body feel safe and my nervous system feel relaxed.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
And if I&rsquo;m seeing life in a way that doesn&rsquo;t make me feel safe, then maybe the way I&rsquo;m seeing it needs to be questioned. And so, we have spiritual inquiry to help assist us on the path of surrender, where we can train ourselves as evolving souls in physical form to be grateful for everything that comes our way and to know that the more grateful we are doesn&rsquo;t mean we become people who have fewer tragedies.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s really about embracing a sense of <em>thank you</em> for what life brings me. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Whether my ego says it&rsquo;s good, bad, or otherwise, thank you for this gift. May I receive it as a gift. And thank you for making me who I&rsquo;m meant to be, and as I become who I was born to be, I will begin to feel the way I&rsquo;ve always wanted to feel, whether or not the things I want ever come my way.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The practice of gratitude gives us the opportunity to go beyond the law of attraction, where most people only want different objects and different things because they think it will make them feel different if they have those things. In reality, we can actually feel the way we want to feel whether or not we get the objects that we&rsquo;ve attached to those feelings.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">We can actually feel a lot better a lot sooner. </span>

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<h2>1440: What is the connection between self-love and gratitude?</h2>
<em>Matt Kahn:</em> I think gratitude is what helps us develop the worthiness to know how much love we need, how worthy we are to receive love, and how valuable our love is, so that we can give it as a gift to other people. Gratitude is what awakens the worthiness that allows us to say: I am of purpose to the world&mdash;not once I find my elusive life purpose, not once I&rsquo;ve written a best-selling book&mdash;but right here, right now. However I may see myself, there is a light within me that can heal and transform lives if I allow myself to be worthy enough to first receive it and then give it to others.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
So, for me, gratitude is how we develop the worthiness to both receive the light of the universe (love) and be able to give ourselves the type of nurturing attention, emotional sustenance, and personal support that perhaps other people aren&rsquo;t meant to give us.

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<span class="quote">Gratitude is the building block of self-love, and the worthiness that we awaken within us allows us to become the light of love. </span>

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<h2>1440: What are the things in your life that are easy to be grateful for? What are the challenges?</h2>
<em>Matt Kahn:</em> The first thing I&rsquo;m always grateful for is my breath. My breath is my companion. I have a relationship with my breath. My breath and I are one. My breath and I are the beloved. And so, for me, my breath is everything. I&rsquo;m primarily grateful for my breath, as from my alignment of breath, everything in my reality comes to be.

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<div class="blog-img"><img alt="" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/Matt-Kahn-10-25-17.jpg" /></div>

<div class="blog-img-text">
<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Entering the Miraculous </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Matt Kahn</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">January 24 - 27, 2019</div>
What would it feel like to awaken to your true nature? To know why you are here, to trust in your purpose, and to let go of anything and everything between you and your divine potential? What would it feel...</div>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
In the past, it was hard to be grateful when I would be nice and kind to someone, and I would be received with less kindness or a certain amount of harshness from another person. When I was growing up, it was very difficult to understand how my instinct was to be loving and kind and how anyone could ever have the instinct of being harsh, nasty, or mean. As a child, that really hurt me and really affected me.

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But at this point in my life, there isn&rsquo;t anything that&rsquo;s hard to be grateful for. And it&rsquo;s a very strange place to be when I see things on the news, or I see people living in very difficult situations. But whenever I see something difficult, I immediately go into: Let me be the blessings of energetic resolve that brings positive change to what I&rsquo;m seeing.

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<h2>1440: Do you think the instinct for gratitude is one we possess naturally or is it something we have to develop?</h2>
<em>Matt Kahn:</em> I think we possess it naturally, but I think it&rsquo;s buried under a lot of layers of defensiveness. And I think that the instinct of most conditioned human beings is to decide what to be grateful for&mdash;to look at everything and think: <em>Is this something I should be grateful for?</em>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Gratitude has to be woken up because it&rsquo;s buried underneath conditioning&mdash;kind of like every adult once was a child. Innocence is within the adult body, but sometimes as adults we lose sight of it based on the demands and stress and details of our lives.

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<span class="quote">So, we need to be returned to&mdash;and reacquainted with&mdash;the innocence of gratitude. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It&rsquo;s so easy for most people to look around and say: <em>How can I be grateful when things look the way they look?</em> But in reality, our ability to become grateful can actually shift the way we relate to the things we don&rsquo;t like or can&rsquo;t face.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/matt-kahn-on-how-to-be-grateful-even-when-you-dont-want-to-be</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/matt-kahn-on-how-to-be-grateful-even-when-you-dont-want-to-be#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Lovingkindness with Meg Levie (Meditation)</title><description><![CDATA[Enjoy a mindful pause in your day with this 10 minute meditation from Executive coach, mindfulness expert, and Zen practitioner Meg Levie.
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Join <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Meg Levie, MA</a> and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Peter Bonanno, MEd</a> for <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Search Inside Yourself</a> from October 26 &ndash; 29, 2017 at 1440 Multiversity.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/lovingkindness-with-meg-levie-meditation</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/lovingkindness-with-meg-levie-meditation#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Love Music? Like to Laugh? You&apos;ll Enjoy Choir! Choir! Choir!</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Choir! Choir! Choir!</a> is a Toronto-based singing group led by creative directors <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Daveed Goldman and Nobu Adilman</a>. The group has performed with renowned artists such as Patti Smith, Tegan and Sara, David Byrne, Rick Astley, and Rufus Wainwright, and onstage at New York&rsquo;s Carnegie Hall and Radio City Music Hall.
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Since 2011, they have gathered thousands of people&mdash;in living rooms, warehouses, and outdoor spaces&mdash;to sing timeless, beloved, and popular songs. Their pop-up concerts have become a YouTube sensation.

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From October 26 &ndash; 28, 2018, Daveed and Nobu will be at 1440 Multiversity leading a <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Choir! Choir! Choir! weekend program.</a>

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<h2>1440: How did Choir! Choir! Choir! begin?</h2>

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<em>Nobu:</em> I lived in Halifax, Nova Scotia, for my university years and afterwards. And for me, what defined Halifax was music. It&rsquo;s the kind of place where you don&rsquo;t have to make that much money and you can live pretty well. Everyone&rsquo;s in a band. When we weren&rsquo;t playing shows, all my friends were singing along with my songs.

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When I moved to Toronto, I was without my friends and I felt more alone in my music. I had this idea of starting a choir. In my mind, I called it a choir of 1,000 voices. And then one day, some friends asked me to put together a choir for a birthday party and they asked Daveed to play guitar.

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Daveed showed up&mdash;we barely knew each other&mdash;and instantly it became clear that he liked to tell people what to do and he was incredibly musical. We stumbled through the performance and everyone loved it. There was euphoria in the room that night. It was fantastic. That was about 10 years ago.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Choir! Choir! Choir! </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Daveed Goldman and Nobu Adilman</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">October 26 - 28, 2018</div>
Music has the power to lead us out of isolation, offer comfort and joy, and be the backdrop to our greatest moments. Singing with others connects us more deeply to ourselves, our natural surroundings, and everyone around us in a...</div>

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For the next two years, whenever Daveed and I would run into each other, he would say, &ldquo;When are we doing that choir thing again?&rdquo; So, I posted a question on social media: &ldquo;If we started a choir or got people together for a night of singing, would you come?&rdquo; And the response was overwhelming. So, three months later, we created an invite to an event called Choir! Choir! Choir!

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The goal was to take two songs, arrange them for many voices, sing them, and that would be it. There was no strategy. We simply made a Facebook event, and all of sudden people we didn&rsquo;t know started asking if they could come. The weekly paper even came.

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And that night, we sang in the round before a crowd of our friends&mdash;about 25 people. We taught really simple arrangements to two songs, Pilot&rsquo;s &ldquo;Just a Smile&rdquo; and The Beatles&rsquo; &ldquo;Nowhere Man,&rdquo; and it was a wicked fun time.

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At the end, we said maybe we&rsquo;ll do this again in a month or so and people said no, we want to do this again tomorrow. And that is how it began.

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For the next year, we did it every week. We agreed there would be no auditions, anyone could show up. We quickly started having to move venues because word was getting out, more press was happening, and it just kept growing.

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<h2>1440: Let&rsquo;s talk about the two of you and your energy on stage. Who does what?</h2>

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<em>Nobu:</em> We both love to kibitz. We are both born entertainers. We like being in public situations on stage without much guidance.

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<span class="quote">Humor is also central for us and we use it a lot to get people to open up and feel comfortable. We&rsquo;ll use anything we can to get people excited to sing. </span>

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<em>Daveed:</em> Once we get into the song (because we talk with the crowd to start), we each play to our strengths. I am a strong singer. Nobu&rsquo;s a very good dancer&mdash;he moves well to music&mdash;and of course those things complement each other.

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Sometimes I&rsquo;m a total jerk on stage and he&rsquo;s the nice guy. We have a brotherly kind of relationship up there and I think people really sense it&mdash;they feel us going back and forth in leading the group.

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<em>Nobu:</em> An interesting thing about how we work is that we don&rsquo;t announce the song/s until just a few days before. We don&rsquo;t want to put together an advance program so people know exactly what to expect. Instead, we want to respond to what&rsquo;s happening in the world. We want to be more immediate.

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One of Daveed&rsquo;s greatest strengths is musicality and harmony. And we can be as nimble as we are thanks to his ability to create arrangements that are easy, yet complex enough to feel like you&rsquo;ve really accomplished something.

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<em>Daveed:</em> Nobu is basically the conductor so he keeps the audience in time. But with pop music especially, it&rsquo;s less about time and more about phrasing. We jokingly say: Sing unto others as you&rsquo;d have them sing unto you.<br />
We don&rsquo;t want to sound like a choir. We want people to sing like they are singing karaoke, but learn it together. So much of it is the vibe, waiting to come in on the offbeat, and how you sing the notes.
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<span class="quote">Ultimately, Choir! Choir! Choir! is about the power of music, community, what it is to sing together, what it does for each of us, and how we can learn from being pushed outside of our comfort zone. </span>

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When people give us an ounce of their energy, we throw back like a thousand pounds.

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<h2>1440: What two or three words best describe what you see on the faces of the people singing?</h2>

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<em>Daveed:</em> Focused cathartic celebration.

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<h2>1440: What might you say to entice someone to a Choir! night who has never been?</h2>

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<em>Daveed:</em> If they love music, if they love having fun, and they love laughing, they&rsquo;ll like Choir! Choir! Choir!

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<span class="quote">If they like singing and feeling emotion through music, there&rsquo;s no way they won&rsquo;t like this, because that&rsquo;s what it&rsquo;s all about. </span>

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Often, people come to a Choir! night and they walk away saying: &ldquo;It sounded good, but I don&rsquo;t know about those guys.&rdquo; Maybe they dislike our irreverence.

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Yet, everything we do from the stage is to make people feel like the experience was memorable. If we just went into a room and sang, it would not be the same thing. Choir! Choir! Choir! has taken off in part because of the other elements&mdash;the humor, the prodding people to open up, the theatrics.

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At the end of the day, if people like to have fun and are willing to sing in front of others, they won&rsquo;t be disappointed.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/love-music-like-to-laugh-youll-enjoy-choir-choir-choir</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/love-music-like-to-laugh-youll-enjoy-choir-choir-choir#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Love Music? Like to Laugh? You&apos;ll Enjoy Choir! Choir! Choir!</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Choir! Choir! Choir!</a> is a Toronto-based singing group led by creative directors <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Daveed Goldman and Nobu Adilman</a>. The group has performed with renowned artists such as Patti Smith, Tegan and Sara, David Byrne, Rick Astley, and Rufus Wainwright, and onstage at New York&rsquo;s Carnegie Hall and Radio City Music Hall.
<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Since 2011, they have gathered thousands of people&mdash;in living rooms, warehouses, and outdoor spaces&mdash;to sing timeless, beloved, and popular songs. Their pop-up concerts have become a YouTube sensation.

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From October 26 &ndash; 28, 2018, Daveed and Nobu will be at 1440 Multiversity leading a <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Choir! Choir! Choir! weekend program.</a>

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<h2>1440: How did Choir! Choir! Choir! begin?</h2>
<em>Nobu:</em> I lived in Halifax, Nova Scotia, for my university years and afterwards. And for me, what defined Halifax was music. It&rsquo;s the kind of place where you don&rsquo;t have to make that much money and you can live pretty well. Everyone&rsquo;s in a band. When we weren&rsquo;t playing shows, all my friends were singing along with my songs.

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When I moved to Toronto, I was without my friends and I felt more alone in my music. I had this idea of starting a choir. In my mind, I called it a choir of 1,000 voices. And then one day, some friends asked me to put together a choir for a birthday party and they asked Daveed to play guitar.

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Daveed showed up&mdash;we barely knew each other&mdash;and instantly it became clear that he liked to tell people what to do and he was incredibly musical. We stumbled through the performance and everyone loved it. There was euphoria in the room that night. It was fantastic. That was about 10 years ago.

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<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Daveed Goldman and Nobu Adilman</a></div>

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Music has the power to lead us out of isolation, offer comfort and joy, and be the backdrop to our greatest moments. Singing with others connects us more deeply to ourselves, our natural surroundings, and everyone around us in a...</div>

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For the next two years, whenever Daveed and I would run into each other, he would say, &ldquo;When are we doing that choir thing again?&rdquo; So, I posted a question on social media: &ldquo;If we started a choir or got people together for a night of singing, would you come?&rdquo; And the response was overwhelming. So, three months later, we created an invite to an event called Choir! Choir! Choir!

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The goal was to take two songs, arrange them for many voices, sing them, and that would be it. There was no strategy. We simply made a Facebook event, and all of sudden people we didn&rsquo;t know started asking if they could come. The weekly paper even came.

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And that night, we sang in the round before a crowd of our friends&mdash;about 25 people. We taught really simple arrangements to two songs, Pilot&rsquo;s &ldquo;Just a Smile&rdquo; and The Beatles&rsquo; &ldquo;Nowhere Man,&rdquo; and it was a wicked fun time.

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At the end, we said maybe we&rsquo;ll do this again in a month or so and people said no, we want to do this again tomorrow. And that is how it began.

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For the next year, we did it every week. We agreed there would be no auditions, anyone could show up. We quickly started having to move venues because word was getting out, more press was happening, and it just kept growing.

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<h2>1440: Let&rsquo;s talk about the two of you and your energy on stage. Who does what?</h2>
<em>Nobu:</em> We both love to kibitz. We are both born entertainers. We like being in public situations on stage without much guidance.

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<span class="quote">Humor is also central for us and we use it a lot to get people to open up and feel comfortable. We&rsquo;ll use anything we can to get people excited to sing. </span>

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<em>Daveed:</em> Once we get into the song (because we talk with the crowd to start), we each play to our strengths. I am a strong singer. Nobu&rsquo;s a very good dancer&mdash;he moves well to music&mdash;and of course those things complement each other.

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Sometimes I&rsquo;m a total jerk on stage and he&rsquo;s the nice guy. We have a brotherly kind of relationship up there and I think people really sense it&mdash;they feel us going back and forth in leading the group.

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<em>Nobu:</em> An interesting thing about how we work is that we don&rsquo;t announce the song/s until just a few days before. We don&rsquo;t want to put together an advance program so people know exactly what to expect. Instead, we want to respond to what&rsquo;s happening in the world. We want to be more immediate.

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One of Daveed&rsquo;s greatest strengths is musicality and harmony. And we can be as nimble as we are thanks to his ability to create arrangements that are easy, yet complex enough to feel like you&rsquo;ve really accomplished something.

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<em>Daveed:</em> Nobu is basically the conductor so he keeps the audience in time. But with pop music especially, it&rsquo;s less about time and more about phrasing. We jokingly say: Sing unto others as you&rsquo;d have them sing unto you.<br />
We don&rsquo;t want to sound like a choir. We want people to sing like they are singing karaoke, but learn it together. So much of it is the vibe, waiting to come in on the offbeat, and how you sing the notes.
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<span class="quote">Ultimately, Choir! Choir! Choir! is about the power of music, community, what it is to sing together, what it does for each of us, and how we can learn from being pushed outside of our comfort zone. </span>

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When people give us an ounce of their energy, we throw back like a thousand pounds.

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<h2>1440: What two or three words best describe what you see on the faces of the people singing?</h2>
<em>Daveed:</em> Focused cathartic celebration.

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<h2>1440: What might you say to entice someone to a Choir! night who has never been?</h2>
<em>Daveed:</em> If they love music, if they love having fun, and they love laughing, they&rsquo;ll like Choir! Choir! Choir!

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<span class="quote">If they like singing and feeling emotion through music, there&rsquo;s no way they won&rsquo;t like this, because that&rsquo;s what it&rsquo;s all about. </span>

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Often, people come to a Choir! night and they walk away saying: &ldquo;It sounded good, but I don&rsquo;t know about those guys.&rdquo; Maybe they dislike our irreverence.

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Yet, everything we do from the stage is to make people feel like the experience was memorable. If we just went into a room and sang, it would not be the same thing. Choir! Choir! Choir! has taken off in part because of the other elements&mdash;the humor, the prodding people to open up, the theatrics.

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At the end of the day, if people like to have fun and are willing to sing in front of others, they won&rsquo;t be disappointed.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/love-music-like-to-laugh-youll-enjoy-choir-choir-choir</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/love-music-like-to-laugh-youll-enjoy-choir-choir-choir#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Living Presence: Awakening with a Smile (Meditation)</title><description><![CDATA[Tune into your body and sense of yourself&nbsp;with this&nbsp;18:45 minute meditation from psychologist, meditation teacher, and author&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Tara Brach</a> that invites you&nbsp;to touch aliveness through the&nbsp;image of a smile.
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<h2>1440: What does it mean to have an awakening, or to wake up?</h2>

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<em>Adyashanti:</em> An awakening is a fundamental shift in how we experience ourself. It&rsquo;s a shift out of experiencing self from the egocentric point of view, as a particular someone trying to negotiate our way through the immensity of life, into something more broad and more inclusive&mdash;whether that&rsquo;s pure awareness, or an intimate unity with existence, or an encounter with what I call the ground of being.

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<h2>1440: Is an awakening the same thing as an insight?</h2>

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<em>Adyashanti:</em> We may have an infinite number of insights about ourself and life that may be useful and important on our journey, but they may not shift us out of identity. That&rsquo;s the difference between spiritual experiences and insights and a real shift in the ground of how we experience ourselves and the world, which I call awakening.

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<h2>1440: Once you awaken, does it always stick?</h2>

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<em>Adyashanti:</em> You can have an awakening and an hour later you can be back in the egocentric perspective again.

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<span class="quote">If it&rsquo;s a real awakening, it will always be seen as a seminal moment in your life because it shows you that there are options in the way to experience yourself. </span>

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But it in no way guarantees that you are going to stay there, that&rsquo;s for sure. There is a great variety in terms of depth and stability of awakening.

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<h2>1440: How does enlightenment fit into this? Is that like a permanent awakening?</h2>

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<em>Adyashanti:</em> Before we even get to the question of what enlightenment is, we always have to ask, &ldquo;According to whom?&rdquo; As far as I can see, there isn&rsquo;t some monolithic definition of enlightenment. Different traditions, different teachers, and different teachings have very different definitions of what it is. Some would say if you glimpsed your true nature, then that&rsquo;s an enlightenment experience. You could call it that.

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To me, enlightenment is on a spectrum. I don&rsquo;t see enlightenment as some event where you have finally crossed the cosmic finish line. It&rsquo;s not some place where you can say, &ldquo;I&rsquo;m done with my human evolution and growth.&rdquo; I think that&rsquo;s a fantasy.

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But I do think there are these almost unknown or unwritten lines that we cross, and we may not even know that we cross them. So I would say, at least as a minimum, enlightenment would be when a vastly more connected perspective than the egocentric perspective becomes your norm.

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<h2>1440: Is spiritual practice the way to experience more insights and awakenings in our life?</h2>

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<em>Adyashanti:</em> This is one of those things that is a paradox. Good spiritual practice is obviously very useful. But is there a direct cause and effect between our spiritual practices and awakening or enlightenment? No, there isn&rsquo;t. It&rsquo;s not like you do this and this and it will equal that. But that doesn&rsquo;t mean our practice has no influence.

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The way I like to say it is our practice has an indirect influence on whether we awaken or whether enlightenment happens. Practice sets up a whole stream of indirect influences. Probably 95 percent of the time awakening will happen to people who are actively engaged in some practice. About 5 percent of the time it will happen out of the blue. That tells us that the practice is having some influence.

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<h2>1440: But we clearly can&rsquo;t give everyone the same practice and get the same results, so what&rsquo;s the secret?</h2>

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<em>Adyashanti:</em> That&rsquo;s right. This is one of the insecurities we need to embrace about spirituality&mdash;that there isn&rsquo;t a cookie-cutter version. Like everything else in life, our spiritual practice is very unique to each of us.&nbsp;It&rsquo;s necessary for us to be open to trying new things or open to guidance or mentoring, but at the same time we also have to pay attention to our own unique unfolding.

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<span class="quote">I try to help people find out what they can trust inside themselves, to find guidance inside themselves. </span>

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Otherwise the reference for all guidance and trust gets projected onto the teacher and in the end, I don&rsquo;t think that&rsquo;s a particularly mature way to go about this.

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<h2>1440: How can we learn to discern what&rsquo;s true and what&rsquo;s not inside ourself?</h2>

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<em>Adyashanti:</em> Finding out what&rsquo;s true in ourselves is almost like learning to walk and find our balance. When we learned to walk, we took a few steps, we fell down, and we got back up. But falling down helped orient our bodies kinesthetically a little bit closer to what real balance is. That&rsquo;s what it&rsquo;s like to find out what you trust. We&rsquo;re all going to trust something that we find out later maybe wasn&rsquo;t the clearest thing in us to trust. Unfortunately that makes a lot of people gun-shy to trust again, but it&rsquo;s part of the process. You have to be willing to fall down and get back up.

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<p><strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong></p>

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<p>Join Adyashanti for <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Mystery of Being</a>, May 15 &ndash; 17, 2020.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/learning-to-trust-yourself-a-conversation-with-adyashanti</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/learning-to-trust-yourself-a-conversation-with-adyashanti#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Learning to Live from the Heart as Center</title><description><![CDATA[Sacred space.<br />
A time to feel nourished and supported by women.<br />
A place to counsel, reflect, share, act, and create together.<br />
A force to be reckoned with, expressing courage and love simultaneously.<br />
A grounded, yet light, fierceness that is hard to miss or to overstep. Union.
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This is what is possible when we enter the Women&rsquo;s Body Temple and embody the Divine Feminine.

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As a culture, and even globally, societies have been on a patriarchal, yang-dominant path for centuries. Most, unknowingly, operating from a yang-dominant paradigm that has become the norm. Worshiping of the Goddess and communities of women supporting one another through life&nbsp;are&nbsp;only found in a few enlightened communities.

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<h2>Learning to Trust as Women</h2>

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The good news is women still crave a supportive female community and are joining together, acting with consciousness and love toward their &ldquo;sisters.&rdquo; Only about 50 or 60 years into the feminist revolution, women are still very much finding balance and a safe place to share their gifts without compromising what we can really bring to the table as a community member and change agent. After immersion in the man&rsquo;s work environment and rising there, women are learning to trust each other and to be trustworthy. They are learning to support one another rather than compete with each other. They are learning to live from a place of abundance, and not from a place of scarcity where&nbsp;there is not enough available for all women. Women hear the call and they are taking steps to embody the Divine Feminine.

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When women choose to unify, the existing paradigm will shift. When we choose to embrace the yin fully, the yang will soften. Together, a beautiful union is created and we experience progress that is rich and fulfilling, with less emphasis on competition and less haste. We will experience harmony. As Lao Tzu says, &ldquo;Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished.&rdquo;

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Historically, women have divided in order to make progress in a yang-oriented world. These ebbs and flows will happen. It&rsquo;s how we learn and grow: by trial and error and feeling into the effects of our actions. The more we gather, nourish one another, and learn how to cooperate and support one another instead of&nbsp;compete, the more we will make progress toward creating a new paradigm: the Divine Feminine.

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<span class="quote">It is possible, and completely viable and nourishing, to live from the heart as our center. </span>

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Men are ready for this healing, to be able to feel and express emotion from a grounded place. Together we can unite yin and yang and take the gifts of both aspects of Self.

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<ul>
	<li>The yang provider: grounded and centered, logical.</li>
	<li>The yin heart: a vessel, nurturing and gentle.</li>
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Beautiful role models already exist. Keep an eye out for them. Learn from them. They are balanced in their energy body, not striving and competing, but instead living from the heart. They are centered and grounded, living a life with awareness, presence, acceptance, and forgiveness.

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<h2>The Divine Feminine</h2>

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I have been called to bring women together to embody and nourish the Divine Feminine so that we can find our strength together and bring it forward into our lives with courage and love. We can lead and guide when we choose to shed the old yang-driven paradigm. Even women need to enact this transformation in order to fully live out their soul&rsquo;s true essence and calling with more ease and less depletion.

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<span class="quote">Choose to bring your passion into reality with love and harmony. </span>

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When we do so, we will be pleasantly surprised at how well this embodiment of the Divine Feminine is received. It&rsquo;s seen as strong, sexy, and nourishing. Who doesn&rsquo;t want some of that?

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Prana Regina Barrett is teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Women&rsquo;s Body Temple: Embodying the Divine Feminine </a>at 1440 Multiversity, November 26 &ndash; December 1, 2017.

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<strong>Prana Regina Barrett is the author of <em>Lighter: Living Tantra </em>and&nbsp;lead educator and yoga therapist at Tantra to Love&trade; and Prana Heals. She shares private sessions, workshops, retreats, teacher trainings, and sacred ceremonies at well-known centers worldwide.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/learning-to-live-from-the-heart-as-center</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/learning-to-live-from-the-heart-as-center#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Learning How to Think like da Vinci</title><description><![CDATA[Leonardo da Vinci was a fascinating character, a gifted artist, and an original thinker whose skill crossed so many disciplines that he is the quintessential &ldquo;Renaissance man.&rdquo;
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While we may not all be da Vincis, we can all learn something from studying da Vinci, his works, and how he thought. Michael Gelb, author of the international best seller <em>How to Think like Leonardo da Vinci: Seven Steps to Genius Every Day</em> (which has been translated into 25 languages) will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">How to Think like Leonardo da Vinci</a> at 1440 Multiversity, January 1 &ndash; 5, 2018.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/learning-how-to-think-like-da-vinci</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/learning-how-to-think-like-da-vinci#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Lama Migmar Tseten on Mindfulness, Meditation, and Spiritual Fulfillment</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Lama Migmar Tseten</a> is the long-time Harvard University Buddhist chaplain. Awarded for excellence by the Dalai Lama and Sakya Trizin, he is founder of the Sakya Institute for Buddhist Studies. He has supervised the publication of dozens of volumes of rare curricula and literature and authored books on Hinayana, Mahayana, and Vajrayana traditions. Lama Migmar leads retreats worldwide.
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Lama Migmar Tseten will be at 1440 Multiversity teaching&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Tibetan Mindfulness</a> from&nbsp;October 26 &ndash; 28, 2018 and&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Healing Ch&ouml;d</a> from&nbsp;October 28 &ndash; 30, 2018. We caught up with him recently to talk about mindfulness in everyday life.

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<h2>1440: Why do you think mindfulness has become so popular now in the West?</h2>

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<em>Lama Migmar Tseten:</em> Mindfulness has an important role in stress reduction. It also seems instrumental in pain management. It can enhance work performance and improve memory and attention. It has proven useful in corporate work environments. It may have a role in assisting with ADHD.

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<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Lama Migmar Tseten</a></div>

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In the Tibetan Buddhist tradition, the practice of mindfulness is learned to pacify afflictive emotions, quiet inner chatter, and reduce stress. But it can, and should, be applied to any day-to-day activity&mdash;eating, walking, sitting, standing, and even sleeping. The true...</div>

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<h2>1440: Can you tell us how mindfulness is different from traditional meditation? Or is it the same?</h2>

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<em>Lama Migmar Tseten:</em> Mindfulness is instrumental in traditional meditation, but the goal of modern mindfulness and traditional meditation are different. In the modern mindfulness movement, the aims are secular, oriented towards improving quality of life and work performance, stress reduction, and so on.

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<span class="quote">In traditional meditation, mindfulness is an adjunct on the path of spiritual realization and fulfillment. </span>

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<h2>1440: When is it the easiest for you in everyday life to lose your own sense of mindfulness? How do you bring yourself back into awareness?</h2>

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<em>Lama Migmar Tseten:</em> When I react to any changing circumstance with emotions, then it is easy for me to lose mindfulness.

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<span class="quote">When I recognize I am caught up in emotional reactions, then I am able to reestablish my mindfulness and awareness. </span>

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<h2>1440: How do you keep your practice when relating to others who are not present in the moment?</h2>

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<em>Lama Migmar Tseten:</em>&nbsp;In this case, when others are not being mindful, all one can do is maintain one&rsquo;s own mindfulness and remain without judgment or emotional reaction.

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<h2>1440: Can you offer one beginner practice for someone to try at home?</h2>

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<em>Lama Migmar Tseten:</em> Whenever you find yourself in a disagreeable situation, try not to react, take a deep breath, and wait until whatever negative emotion you are feeling passes.

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<strong>Interested in learning more about Lama Migmar&rsquo;s journey from Tibet to Harvard? Watch this video to hear his story.</strong>

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It turns out that 80% of college graduates work outside of their chosen area of study. So, does it make sense to continue believing that we&rsquo;re supposed to productively &ldquo;use&rdquo; our degrees in career-determining ways?

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Ummm, maybe not.

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And if college education can&rsquo;t guide us in the way we&rsquo;d hoped, does finding &ndash; and following &ndash; our passion do the trick?

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Nope, says Evans. Watch here as he debunks the myths that often get us stuck.

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Are you ready for a mind-blowing weekend designed to help <em>you</em> get unstuck?<br />
Join Dave for the <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Designing Your Life Retreat</a> at 1440 Multiversity from October 26 &ndash; 28, 2018.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/its-not-about-finding-your-passion-dave-evans-on-designing-your-life</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/its-not-about-finding-your-passion-dave-evans-on-designing-your-life#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>I Am Greater Than the Sum of My Parts</title><description><![CDATA[Last Thursday my port, the Borg-like apparatus which was implanted in May under my collarbone and over my heart (for easy chemo pouring), was removed.
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I had to re-read the email announcing the procedure a couple of times.

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<em>&ldquo;Port removal will take place at your surgeon&rsquo;s office and take about 30 minutes. You can drive yourself there and back. Eat and drink normally, no fasting required, call us if you have any questions.&rdquo; </em>

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<span class="quote">It seems like cutting your body open and removing something should be more involved than this, but, hey, alright. </span>

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Although I could have asked someone to go with me, it seemed fitting and important that I do it by myself. I was taken back to a nice room that looked like a small conference room in an office building&mdash;except that there was an exam table and sterile instruments and swabs, but other than that, just like a conference room. Vitals taken, attractive XXXLLL gown with snaps up the front donned, paperwork signed making sure there was no question about what was being removed: port, not a kidney. Check.

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Soon my gorgeous, amazing, supermodel surgeon came striding in in her jade-green suede pumps, and it was time to get this bastard out of there.

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My surgeon had an assistant with her who was a marvelous hand-holder and, man, I held the shit out of her hand. An outsider might have thought I was arm wrestling with her, so active was my hand-holding.

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So, the worst part of this whole scenario is the &ldquo;numbing of the area&rdquo;&mdash;which means foot-long ice picks are systematically inserted into every possible square inch of flesh around the &ldquo;site.&rdquo; Although I did not actually see these evil ice picks, I know what I felt, and thus the professional hand-holder is brought in to keep me from punching my surgeon, whom I love, in spite of her ice-picking ways.

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<span class="quote">Gradually the pain goes from ice pick, to smaller ice pick, to needles, to giant, angry killer bees, to less-aggressive, run-of-the-mill bees, to disembodied firm pressure. </span>

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We were then ready for extraction and I was informed I would feel a &ldquo;tugging pressure.&rdquo; No sharp pain, but it did, indeed, feel like an octopus was being pulled out of a quarter-sized hole in my chest. There was tugging. So much tugging. Then I heard, &ldquo;We need to make the incision bigger,&rdquo; and I bore down in my arm wrestling match. I was winning, but I still should have brought my own whiskey.

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I told her I wanted to keep the port, so when it was finally freed, she held it up for my inspection. It looked like a computer mouse, only it was heart-shaped and purple and metal. My very own purple heart. She clipped the catheter mouse tail off and dropped the purple heart into a stainless cup, making a satisfying &ldquo;ping&rdquo; like a Wild West doctor who&rsquo;d just dug a bullet out of a gunslinger&rsquo;s arm, flinging it across the jail cell into a metal bedpan. Then she stitched me up, and I was ready to drive myself home and eat a burger.

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And that was that. Radiation and chemo finished a month ago, and I am no longer on Tamoxifen. Port removed.

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<span class="quote">My body is mine. Unadulterated and uninhabited. I am not like I was. </span>

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I have two scars above my heart and slightly to the left. They form a &ldquo;greater than&rdquo; symbol.<br />
I am greater than the sum of my parts. My heart is larger than it was.<br />
Scoot over please, I need some room. Thank you.
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<strong>Jodeen Revere revels in her unconventional, multifaceted dream life. She is an actor, a writer, Thai yoga massage therapist, creative movement and dance enthusiast, and RYT-200 yoga teacher currently on an endless sabbatical. She writes <a href="https://jodeenrevere.wordpress.com/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">a blog chronicling her cancertastic adventures.</a>&nbsp;She loves writing, reading, viewing and heatedly discussing film, eating really good snacks, and chillin&rsquo; with her cats Julian and Tilda. She is a kind and good-natured smart ass. She is very funny. Just ask her. Her favorite human, ever, is her daughter, Lily.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/i-am-greater-than-the-sum-of-my-parts</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/i-am-greater-than-the-sum-of-my-parts#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Work with Your Inner Critic: An Interview with Richard Schwartz</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Richard Schwartz, PhD,</a>&nbsp;is founding developer of Internal Family Systems℠ (IFS), a therapeutic model that synthesizes systems thinking and the multiplicity of the mind, including parts therapy. With IFS, Dr. Schwartz suggests alternative ways of understanding psychic functioning and healing.&nbsp;He coauthored, with Michael Nichols, <em>Family Therapy: Concepts and Methods</em>, the most widely used family therapy text in the United States.
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Dr. Schwartz will be teaching&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Internal Family Systems Therapy</a> at 1440 Multiversity from&nbsp;October 28 &ndash; November 2, 2018.

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<h2>1440: How does Internal Family Systems (IFS), also known as parts therapy, help us work with our inner critic?</h2>

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<em>Richard Schwartz:</em> To understand the critic we first need to talk about how parts organize themselves. They fall into two main categories: exiles and protectors. Exiles are the parts of us who were hurt&mdash;they carry the burdens of worthlessness, terror, shame, fear, etc.&mdash;and we hide them away. Protectors help us by preventing an exiled part from getting retriggered so we don&rsquo;t have to feel all that emotion again. Protectors organize themselves into two categories: managers and firefighters. Managers are all about trying to control everything. Firefighters will step in and do something dramatic if an exile is triggered, no matter what the damage.

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Everyone has an inner critic. Most people have several. They typically fall into the category of managers. They&rsquo;re desperately trying to get you to behave&mdash;to lose weight, not to yell at your partner, not to take risks, etc.&mdash;so they attack you, thinking that will work. They are like internalized children who are in over their heads and don&rsquo;t know how else to run the whole family other than by yelling and criticizing.

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<span class="quote">To work with the critic we need to listen to them and learn what they protect.</span>

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We then need to honor them for that service and negotiate with them for the permission to go to what they protect so we can heal those exiles.

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Once the exiles are healed, we come back to the critic and that part, relieved of its burden, now has the opportunity to revert to its naturally valuable state. Often we find the critic becomes a person&rsquo;s biggest cheerleader or motivator.

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<h2>1440: Are you saying that the role a part is playing, like the critic, is not what that part really is?</h2>

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<em>Richard Schwartz:</em>&nbsp;I think this is one of my biggest contributions to the field&mdash;this distinction between the part and the burden it carries. Most people assume the critic is an internalization. When you think of it that way, then it makes sense to fight it or get rid of it by numbing out or doing some other behavior. But if you think of a part as a little, parentified kid, doing their best, then you have compassion for it and you relate to it in a totally different way.

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<div class="post-card-date">October 18 - 21, 2019</div>
Are you ready to create emotional, mental, and spiritual change? Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy provides a groundbreaking model for transformation, taking an effective and compassionate approach to the parts of you that are stuck in reactive patterns and holding...</div>

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When these parts are burdened, not only do we have all these extreme voices and energies inside, but we&rsquo;re also cut off from the resources they give us when they&rsquo;re not in their extreme roles. As people do this work they become lighter and not so burdened and their inner worlds and outer worlds become increasingly richer.
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<h2>1440: What&rsquo;s happening when we get triggered?</h2>

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<em>Richard Schwartz:</em>&nbsp;It&rsquo;s usually an exile that gets triggered and then a protector reacts. Say, for example, your partner says something hurtful and you respond angrily. If you slow down your reaction, you&rsquo;ll find that a vulnerable exile received what was said and the angry protector quickly jumped in to take care of it.

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Often when I work with fighting couples they&rsquo;re in a protector war&mdash;the conversation is being had one protector to another. I&rsquo;ll stop the conversation and get them to focus inside to find the protector and the part it&rsquo;s protecting. I tell the couples not to come back to the conversation until they can speak for the exile and the protector rather than from them.

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I help people speak for their parts with an open heart, sharing with their partner about the part that got so angry and also what it was protecting.

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<span class="quote">When people can be that vulnerable, it&rsquo;s very powerful and melts all hostilities.</span>

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<h2>1440: What if you see your protector in action but you can&rsquo;t seem to stop it, like with compulsive eating or other addictions?</h2>

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<em>Richard Schwartz:</em>&nbsp;If you find yourself doing something like having ice cream for dinner again, that is what we call a trailhead. You said you wouldn&rsquo;t do this thing, but for some reason this ice cream part really feels like it&rsquo;s going to do something for you right now, so you spend time with it to find out why you feel that way. You try to uncover what it&rsquo;s trying to protect.

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If I&rsquo;m working with a client who is a former alcoholic and they come in and tell me sheepishly they went off the wagon this week, I say, &ldquo;That&rsquo;s great,&rdquo; because this is a trailhead, and if we follow the trail it will lead us right to the part we need to heal that we haven&rsquo;t gotten to yet.

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In the eating disorder field everyone tries to pit the client against what they call &ldquo;Ed&rdquo; (for eating disorder). But Ed will kick your ass if you&rsquo;re trying to fight it and defeat it. That&rsquo;s why so many anorexics commit suicide. Instead, if you go to Ed with curiosity and learn about why he&rsquo;s doing it and what he&rsquo;s afraid will happen if you don&rsquo;t do it, and you get permission to heal what he&rsquo;s trying to protect, then he doesn&rsquo;t have to keep doing it.

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<h2>1440: What can parents do for their kids when it comes to their kids&rsquo; parts?</h2>

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<em>Richard Schwartz:</em>&nbsp;If you&rsquo;re a parent who has a bunch of exiles you haven&rsquo;t worked with or you are afraid of, whenever your kid acts like one of those exiles, you&rsquo;ll get triggered.

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For example, if you have a very hurt part inside you and you have disdain for it because you think you ought to be strong, when your kid gets hurt and cries, that disdainful part of you is going to come out, even if you&rsquo;re not conscious of it. You&rsquo;re going to send a message to your kid not to cry and that will exile that little kid&rsquo;s part.

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<span class="quote">The best thing parents can do for their kids is find and heal their own internal parts so they can be present with their kids.</span>

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-work-with-your-inner-critic-an-interview-with-richard-schwartz</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-work-with-your-inner-critic-an-interview-with-richard-schwartz#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Raise Grateful Children</title><description><![CDATA[Recently, one of my friends was venting about her teenage daughter being &ldquo;so ungrateful!&rdquo; She asked me, &ldquo;How can she not know how much she has?&rdquo;
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This mom isn&rsquo;t alone.

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<span class="quote">Parents hope (or expect!) that their children will grow up to be grateful.</span>

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In a recent <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S088520061630014X">study</a>, Amy Halberstadt and colleagues found that parents get peeved when their children don&rsquo;t show <a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/gratitude/definition">gratitude</a>. As one parent said, &ldquo;I can be embarrassed as a parent, I can feel angry at [my child] that he hasn&rsquo;t sufficiently conveyed gratitude when I thought he should.&rdquo;

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<h2>But how does gratitude develop? How early do kids start to feel and express gratitude?</h2>
One 2013 <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23331105">study</a> aimed to discover the foundations of young children&rsquo;s understanding of gratitude. When children were three and four years old, the researchers measured their emotion knowledge and perspective taking through a variety of tasks and questions in the laboratory. When children were five years old, the researchers tested how much they understood the positive feelings of gratitude and the reciprocity it might inspire.

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Researchers found that the more a five-year-old understood gratitude, the more they had understood emotions and other people&rsquo;s perspectives when they were three years old.

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<span class="quote">In other words, children&rsquo;s early emotional awareness and perspective-taking ability may underpin their later development of gratitude.</span>

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A 2018 <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1069397117737245">study</a> of seven- to 14-year-olds across Brazil, China, Guatemala, Russia, South Korea, Turkey, and the United States explored how children&rsquo;s development of gratitude differs across cultures. In most cultures, expressions of &ldquo;concrete gratitude&rdquo; decreased as children got older. Concrete gratitude is when children offer something in repayment that is valuable to themselves rather than the other person, like giving a toy to a parent.

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Older children were more likely to express &ldquo;connective gratitude&rdquo; than younger children in the United States, China, and Russia. Connective gratitude is considered to be a more advanced type of gratitude, when children offer something that is meaningful to another person in return&mdash;for example, a child giving a friend a teddy bear that the friend has long wished for. Connective gratitude more fully takes into account another person&rsquo;s thoughts and feelings, compared to concrete gratitude or verbal gratitude (such as saying &ldquo;thank you&rdquo;).

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Among the seven cultures, children in China and South Korea were more likely to express connective gratitude (followed by children in Russia and Turkey). American children were more likely to express concrete gratitude, and Guatemalan children were more likely to express verbal gratitude, compared to the other cultures. These findings highlight the important cultural context of gratitude development that is often overlooked by studies exclusively in North America or Europe.

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Another recent <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886917302702">study</a> investigated possible precursors to gratitude among older children and adolescents, ages 10 to 16. The results indicated that middle schoolers who reported greater gratitude were more likely to feel like they had greater social support from their parents and, to a lesser degree, their teachers.

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<h2>How can parents set the stage for their children to be grateful?</h2>
Research suggests that grateful parents raise grateful kids, and a recent <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/10888691.2016.1175945">study</a> tried to figure out why. The findings?

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<span class="quote">The more gratitude parents felt, the more often they set goals to foster gratitude in their six- to nine-year old children.</span>

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In turn, they placed their children in more activities that provided opportunities for gratitude, such as family gratitude practices and social service events, and their kids expressed more gratitude.

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These findings suggest that both parents&rsquo; intentions and their actions are important for how gratitude develops in their children.

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&ldquo;It is largely agreed that gratitude is not inbuilt; instead it develops over time, as certain capacities become available and cognitive abilities mature,&rdquo; write researchers Blaire Morgan and Liz Gulliford in the new book <em><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1107182727?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=gregooscicen-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1107182727">Developing Gratitude in Children and Adolescents</a></em>.

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<span class="quote">It &lsquo;require[s] a great deal of practice.&rsquo;</span>

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What can parents do to help their children practice cultivating gratitude? Here are four research-backed suggestions.

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<h2>1. Help young children understand feelings and thoughts&mdash;their own and others&rsquo;</h2>
Although toddlers may learn to say &ldquo;thank you,&rdquo; between preschool and kindergarten they are likely still working on thinking about others&rsquo; thoughts and feelings as separate and possibly different from their own. These abilities may be the foundation to their understanding and expressing gratitude.

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<span class="quote">As parents, we&rsquo;ll be less frustrated when we align our expectations with our kids&rsquo; cognitive development.</span>

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We can be the scaffolds for their emerging gratefulness by giving them the language for the array of emotions and thoughts they and others may feel and think. It&rsquo;s always eye-opening to hear a young child&rsquo;s response to, &ldquo;How do you think that person feels right now?&rdquo;

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<h2>2. Remind older children that the important adults in their lives are there for them</h2>
Older children who feel that their parents and teachers are sources of support they can call upon tend to feel grateful. The support may come from knowing that their parents or teachers are trustworthy, provide them with resources they need, or give them helpful feedback and advice. In addition to inspiring gratitude, positive relationships with close adults are critical for children&rsquo;s overall development.

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Remind your older children to <a href="https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/feeling_supported">practice</a> reflecting on their network of supportive grown-ups, on specific times of distress when these adults were sources of comfort and strength to them, and on how they felt upon receiving support.

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<h2>3. Encourage your children to participate in gratitude-rich activities</h2>
Participating in gratitude-rich activities like family gratitude practices and volunteering can help kids to develop gratitude. These activities provide children with occasions to think about others&rsquo; circumstances more deeply, and increase their awareness of their own good fortune and the gifts they&rsquo;ve received from others.

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Witnessing how both peers and adults show gratitude when they participate in these types of activities&mdash;and how others respond to that gratitude&mdash;provides a model for how gratitude works. And kids may enjoy how their own actions fulfill others, which fulfills them, too.

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<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Jack Kornfield, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Barbara Fredrickson, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Richard Davidson, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Reverend Jennifer Bailey,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Lama Tsomo, MA,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Emiliana Simon-Thomas, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Dacher Keltner, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Zahra Noorbakhsh,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Eve Ekman, MSW, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Jason Marsh</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">May 2 - 5, 2019</div>
What does it mean to live a happy, meaningful life? How do you respond with resilience to life&rsquo;s unavoidable stresses and disappointments? How can you forge compassionate connections at a time of extreme busyness, isolation, and division? Hundreds of thousands...</div>

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In Halberstadt&rsquo;s <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S088520061630014X">study</a>, parents shared that they wanted their children to be grateful for what they had, including shelter and food&mdash;but this can be a complicated feeling. The parents acknowledged some potential consequences when children recognize that not all people have those basic needs fulfilled and that they, too, could lose them.

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Some parents believed that this realization could help children to appreciate fully diverse human experiences; others felt that it would &ldquo;challenge the innocence of childhood bliss.&rdquo; You may want to consider how to balance your gratitude goals for your children with your values and your children&rsquo;s development.

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<h2>4. Communicate the value of gratitude to your children</h2>
In Halberstadt&rsquo;s <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S088520061630014X">study</a>, some parents suggested that they had implicit expectations of their children when they gave them gifts, and they felt resentment when their children did not express gratitude toward them.

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One way to mitigate this bitterness parents may feel is to have conversations with children regularly about the importance you place on gratitude.

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	<li>Engage children to think creatively about how they could express gratitude for others and talk about others&rsquo; positive responses to their efforts.</li>
	<li>Practice gratitude in front of your child and tell them how you feel when they express gratitude to you.</li>
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Spontaneous and unexpected expressions of gratitude from children are intensely moving to parents. They can make us hopeful that our kids feel deeply connected with others and that they&rsquo;ll strive to be compassionate in turn.

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<span class="quote">If we want to raise grateful kids, the key is to recognize that gratitude is a skill&mdash;and to help them practice it just like any other.</span>

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This article originally appeared on <em>Greater Good</em>, the online magazine of the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley.

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<strong>Maryam Abdullah, Ph.D., is the Parenting Program Director of the Greater Good Science Center. She is a developmental psychologist with expertise in parent-child relationships and children&rsquo;s development of prosocial behaviors. </strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-raise-grateful-children</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-raise-grateful-children#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>How to Raise Grateful Children</title><description><![CDATA[Recently, one of my friends was venting about her teenage daughter being &ldquo;so ungrateful!&rdquo; She asked me, &ldquo;How can she not know how much she has?&rdquo;
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This mom isn&rsquo;t alone.

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<span class="quote">Parents hope (or expect!) that their children will grow up to be grateful.</span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
In a recent <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S088520061630014X">study</a>, Amy Halberstadt and colleagues found that parents get peeved when their children don&rsquo;t show <a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/gratitude/definition">gratitude</a>. As one parent said, &ldquo;I can be embarrassed as a parent, I can feel angry at [my child] that he hasn&rsquo;t sufficiently conveyed gratitude when I thought he should.&rdquo;

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<h2>But how does gratitude develop? How early do kids start to feel and express gratitude?</h2>
One 2013 <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23331105">study</a> aimed to discover the foundations of young children&rsquo;s understanding of gratitude. When children were three and four years old, the researchers measured their emotion knowledge and perspective taking through a variety of tasks and questions in the laboratory. When children were five years old, the researchers tested how much they understood the positive feelings of gratitude and the reciprocity it might inspire.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Researchers found that the more a five-year-old understood gratitude, the more they had understood emotions and other people&rsquo;s perspectives when they were three years old.

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<span class="quote">In other words, children&rsquo;s early emotional awareness and perspective-taking ability may underpin their later development of gratitude.</span>

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A 2018 <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1069397117737245">study</a> of seven- to 14-year-olds across Brazil, China, Guatemala, Russia, South Korea, Turkey, and the United States explored how children&rsquo;s development of gratitude differs across cultures. In most cultures, expressions of &ldquo;concrete gratitude&rdquo; decreased as children got older. Concrete gratitude is when children offer something in repayment that is valuable to themselves rather than the other person, like giving a toy to a parent.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Older children were more likely to express &ldquo;connective gratitude&rdquo; than younger children in the United States, China, and Russia. Connective gratitude is considered to be a more advanced type of gratitude, when children offer something that is meaningful to another person in return&mdash;for example, a child giving a friend a teddy bear that the friend has long wished for. Connective gratitude more fully takes into account another person&rsquo;s thoughts and feelings, compared to concrete gratitude or verbal gratitude (such as saying &ldquo;thank you&rdquo;).

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Among the seven cultures, children in China and South Korea were more likely to express connective gratitude (followed by children in Russia and Turkey). American children were more likely to express concrete gratitude, and Guatemalan children were more likely to express verbal gratitude, compared to the other cultures. These findings highlight the important cultural context of gratitude development that is often overlooked by studies exclusively in North America or Europe.

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Another recent <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886917302702">study</a> investigated possible precursors to gratitude among older children and adolescents, ages 10 to 16. The results indicated that middle schoolers who reported greater gratitude were more likely to feel like they had greater social support from their parents and, to a lesser degree, their teachers.

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<h2>How can parents set the stage for their children to be grateful?</h2>
Research suggests that grateful parents raise grateful kids, and a recent <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/10888691.2016.1175945">study</a> tried to figure out why. The findings?

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<span class="quote">The more gratitude parents felt, the more often they set goals to foster gratitude in their six- to nine-year old children.</span>

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In turn, they placed their children in more activities that provided opportunities for gratitude, such as family gratitude practices and social service events, and their kids expressed more gratitude.

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These findings suggest that both parents&rsquo; intentions and their actions are important for how gratitude develops in their children.

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&ldquo;It is largely agreed that gratitude is not inbuilt; instead it develops over time, as certain capacities become available and cognitive abilities mature,&rdquo; write researchers Blaire Morgan and Liz Gulliford in the new book <em><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1107182727?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=gregooscicen-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1107182727">Developing Gratitude in Children and Adolescents</a></em>.

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<span class="quote">It &lsquo;require[s] a great deal of practice.&rsquo;</span>

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What can parents do to help their children practice cultivating gratitude? Here are four research-backed suggestions.

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<h2>1. Help young children understand feelings and thoughts&mdash;their own and others&rsquo;</h2>
Although toddlers may learn to say &ldquo;thank you,&rdquo; between preschool and kindergarten they are likely still working on thinking about others&rsquo; thoughts and feelings as separate and possibly different from their own. These abilities may be the foundation to their understanding and expressing gratitude.

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<span class="quote">As parents, we&rsquo;ll be less frustrated when we align our expectations with our kids&rsquo; cognitive development.</span>

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We can be the scaffolds for their emerging gratefulness by giving them the language for the array of emotions and thoughts they and others may feel and think. It&rsquo;s always eye-opening to hear a young child&rsquo;s response to, &ldquo;How do you think that person feels right now?&rdquo;

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<h2>2. Remind older children that the important adults in their lives are there for them</h2>
Older children who feel that their parents and teachers are sources of support they can call upon tend to feel grateful. The support may come from knowing that their parents or teachers are trustworthy, provide them with resources they need, or give them helpful feedback and advice. In addition to inspiring gratitude, positive relationships with close adults are critical for children&rsquo;s overall development.

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Remind your older children to <a href="https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/feeling_supported">practice</a> reflecting on their network of supportive grown-ups, on specific times of distress when these adults were sources of comfort and strength to them, and on how they felt upon receiving support.

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<h2>3. Encourage your children to participate in gratitude-rich activities</h2>
Participating in gratitude-rich activities like family gratitude practices and volunteering can help kids to develop gratitude. These activities provide children with occasions to think about others&rsquo; circumstances more deeply, and increase their awareness of their own good fortune and the gifts they&rsquo;ve received from others.

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Witnessing how both peers and adults show gratitude when they participate in these types of activities&mdash;and how others respond to that gratitude&mdash;provides a model for how gratitude works. And kids may enjoy how their own actions fulfill others, which fulfills them, too.

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In Halberstadt&rsquo;s <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S088520061630014X">study</a>, parents shared that they wanted their children to be grateful for what they had, including shelter and food&mdash;but this can be a complicated feeling. The parents acknowledged some potential consequences when children recognize that not all people have those basic needs fulfilled and that they, too, could lose them.

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Some parents believed that this realization could help children to appreciate fully diverse human experiences; others felt that it would &ldquo;challenge the innocence of childhood bliss.&rdquo; You may want to consider how to balance your gratitude goals for your children with your values and your children&rsquo;s development.

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<h2>4. Communicate the value of gratitude to your children</h2>
In Halberstadt&rsquo;s <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S088520061630014X">study</a>, some parents suggested that they had implicit expectations of their children when they gave them gifts, and they felt resentment when their children did not express gratitude toward them.

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One way to mitigate this bitterness parents may feel is to have conversations with children regularly about the importance you place on gratitude.

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<ul>
	<li>Engage children to think creatively about how they could express gratitude for others and talk about others&rsquo; positive responses to their efforts.</li>
	<li>Practice gratitude in front of your child and tell them how you feel when they express gratitude to you.</li>
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Spontaneous and unexpected expressions of gratitude from children are intensely moving to parents. They can make us hopeful that our kids feel deeply connected with others and that they&rsquo;ll strive to be compassionate in turn.

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<span class="quote">If we want to raise grateful kids, the key is to recognize that gratitude is a skill&mdash;and to help them practice it just like any other.</span>

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This article originally appeared on <em>Greater Good</em>, the online magazine of the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley.

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<strong>Maryam Abdullah, Ph.D., is the Parenting Program Director of the Greater Good Science Center. She is a developmental psychologist with expertise in parent-child relationships and children&rsquo;s development of prosocial behaviors. </strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-raise-grateful-children</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-raise-grateful-children#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Get Comfortable with the Uncomfortable</title><description><![CDATA[No one likes to wait in line at the bank&mdash;do they?
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And yet, for better or worse, life is dotted with moments like that&mdash;ones we don&rsquo;t look forward to, but need to get through.&nbsp;Chances are, you&rsquo;ve already tackled a few of them today.&nbsp;Perhaps you took the trash out in the rain, paid a parking ticket, or lost far too many moments pound-signing your way into an insurance company telephone matrix.

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Yikes. That list alone sounds pretty bleak.

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If only a fairy godmother could dissolve such moments into nothingness with a wave of her wand. But alas, rough spots are&nbsp;here to stay. The upshot is that how you handle them is entirely up to you.

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Mindfulness practice is the closest thing we&rsquo;ve got to a magic wand. Give it a wave, and you might conjure some fairly astonishing methods for easing the weight of the daily mundane.&nbsp;We find these three reminders to be particularly helpful.

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<h2>1) Don&rsquo;t Ask the Uncomfortable to be Comfortable.</h2>

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&ldquo;We mistakenly bind ourselves to be content only when life is feeling pleasurable.&rdquo;<br />
&mdash;<a href="https://www.1440.org/programs/faculty/noah-levine">Noah Levine</a>

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Some things in life are simply uncomfortable. Many things, in fact. The easy slip we make (often without even seeing it happen) is that we respond to discomfort by evoking a sense of internalized unease.&nbsp;By seamlessly connecting <em>experience</em> and <em>response</em> in a challenging moment, we lose sight of the fact that these are actually two <u>separate</u> things&mdash;married as one in our mind.

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The trick comes in disentangling&nbsp;the pieces. Comfort needn&rsquo;t always live with content. And discomfort needn&rsquo;t always live with discontent. How we react&nbsp;is up to us. What is guaranteed is that discomfort (unfortunately) isn&rsquo;t leaving the building.

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And so, what might arise if we simply allowed for that, and stopped dreading it?&nbsp;Crazy talk? Buddhism says otherwise.&nbsp;Again, Noah Levine: &ldquo;True happiness exists as the spacious and compassionate heart&rsquo;s willingness to feel whatever is present.&rdquo;

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<h2>2) Expect the Mind to Storm. Bring an Umbrella.</h2>

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&ldquo;Make peace with worry.&rdquo;&mdash;<a href="https://www.1440.org/programs/faculty/panache-desai">Panache Desai</a>

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When we look through the mindful looking glass at ourselves, boy is it easy to feel unpolished and judge what we find. How tempting it can be to conjure grand delusions of calm, spiritually present teachers so anchored in practice (so unlike us!) that all of their emotional mess must now be clean and tidy.

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In truth, no one is without emotional mess. No one is immune from the rough-and-tumble thought patterns that chase us. But with practice, we learn not to run.

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Life&rsquo;s uncomfortable moments immerse us in death, taxes, and everything in between. Often, they trigger crashes&nbsp;of anxiety, fear, anger, or doubt. Instead of judging ourselves for being&nbsp;tossed around by them, we&rsquo;d do well to step back and watch the nasty weather patterns roll in, notice how they make us feel&mdash;and then observe how they roll out again.

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<h2>3) Care for Yourself.</h2>

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&ldquo;A moment of self-compassion can change your entire day.&rdquo; &ndash; <a href="https://www.1440.org/programs/faculty">Christopher Germer</a>

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Life offers no (healthy or advisable) escape hatch from the everyday mundane. We have to keep on truckin&rsquo; in the face of the dull and disrupting. And yet, there is no reason for any of us to doggedly&nbsp;endure daily discomforts without relief.

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Regardless of whether you actually do it, give yourself permission to want to run screaming out of the pharmacy! Notice that scraping ice off your windshield makes you wince! Laugh at it. Allow for it. It is indeed&nbsp;possible to build our capacity&nbsp;for mental, emotional, and spiritual presence in the face of discomfort, and to hold our own hand at the same time&mdash;to gift ourselves the same patience and care we might so easily offer a beloved.

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So go ahead, grab the wand. Give it a try.

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<strong>Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor at 1440 Multiversity. Over the course of 20 years in three countries, she&rsquo;s written for social justice initiatives, magazines, government agencies, wellness centers&mdash;and herself. A law school dropout, Kate has given birth to three kids, a yoga studio, and lots of ideas.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-get-comfortable-with-the-uncomfortable</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-get-comfortable-with-the-uncomfortable#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>How to Get Comfortable with the Uncomfortable</title><description><![CDATA[No one likes to wait in line at the bank&mdash;do they?
<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
And yet, for better or worse, life is dotted with moments like that&mdash;ones we don&rsquo;t look forward to, but need to get through.&nbsp;Chances are, you&rsquo;ve already tackled a few of them today.&nbsp;Perhaps you took the trash out in the rain, paid a parking ticket, or lost far too many moments pound-signing your way into an insurance company telephone matrix.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Yikes. That list alone sounds pretty bleak.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
If only a fairy godmother could dissolve such moments into nothingness with a wave of her wand. But alas, rough spots are&nbsp;here to stay. The upshot is that how you handle them is entirely up to you.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Mindfulness practice is the closest thing we&rsquo;ve got to a magic wand. Give it a wave, and you might conjure some fairly astonishing methods for easing the weight of the daily mundane.&nbsp;We find these three reminders to be particularly helpful.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>1) Don&rsquo;t Ask the Uncomfortable to be Comfortable.</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
&ldquo;We mistakenly bind ourselves to be content only when life is feeling pleasurable.&rdquo;<br />
&mdash;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Noah Levine</a>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Some things in life are simply uncomfortable. Many things, in fact. The easy slip we make (often without even seeing it happen) is that we respond to discomfort by evoking a sense of internalized unease.&nbsp;By seamlessly connecting <em>experience</em> and <em>response</em> in a challenging moment, we lose sight of the fact that these are actually two <u>separate</u> things&mdash;married as one in our mind.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The trick comes in disentangling&nbsp;the pieces. Comfort needn&rsquo;t always live with content. And discomfort needn&rsquo;t always live with discontent. How we react&nbsp;is up to us. What is guaranteed is that discomfort (unfortunately) isn&rsquo;t leaving the building.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
And so, what might arise if we simply allowed for that, and stopped dreading it?&nbsp;Crazy talk? Buddhism says otherwise.&nbsp;Again, Noah Levine: &ldquo;True happiness exists as the spacious and compassionate heart&rsquo;s willingness to feel whatever is present.&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>2) Expect the Mind to Storm. Bring an Umbrella.</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
&ldquo;Make peace with worry.&rdquo;&mdash;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Panache Desai</a>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
When we look through the mindful looking glass at ourselves, boy is it easy to feel unpolished and judge what we find. How tempting it can be to conjure grand delusions of calm, spiritually present teachers so anchored in practice (so unlike us!) that all of their emotional mess must now be clean and tidy.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
In truth, no one is without emotional mess. No one is immune from the rough-and-tumble thought patterns that chase us. But with practice, we learn not to run.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Life&rsquo;s uncomfortable moments immerse us in death, taxes, and everything in between. Often, they trigger crashes&nbsp;of anxiety, fear, anger, or doubt. Instead of judging ourselves for being&nbsp;tossed around by them, we&rsquo;d do well to step back and watch the nasty weather patterns roll in, notice how they make us feel&mdash;and then observe how they roll out again.

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<h2>3) Care for Yourself.</h2>

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&ldquo;A moment of self-compassion can change your entire day.&rdquo; &ndash; <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Christopher Germer</a>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Life offers no (healthy or advisable) escape hatch from the everyday mundane. We have to keep on truckin&rsquo; in the face of the dull and disrupting. And yet, there is no reason for any of us to doggedly&nbsp;endure daily discomforts without relief.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Regardless of whether you actually do it, give yourself permission to want to run screaming out of the pharmacy! Notice that scraping ice off your windshield makes you wince! Laugh at it. Allow for it. It is indeed&nbsp;possible to build our capacity&nbsp;for mental, emotional, and spiritual presence in the face of discomfort, and to hold our own hand at the same time&mdash;to gift ourselves the same patience and care we might so easily offer a beloved.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
So go ahead, grab the wand. Give it a try.

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<strong>Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor at 1440 Multiversity. Over the course of 20 years in three countries, she&rsquo;s written for social justice initiatives, magazines, government agencies, wellness centers&mdash;and herself. A law school dropout, Kate has given birth to three kids, a yoga studio, and lots of ideas.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-get-comfortable-with-the-uncomfortable</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-get-comfortable-with-the-uncomfortable#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Find Your Calling: 7 Ways to Shift from Thinking to Practice</title><description><![CDATA[How do you discover or trust your calling? How do you live the life you most desire? Maybe the real question is: What&rsquo;s keeping you from everything you&rsquo;re meant to be?
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You may have noticed that we are living in inspired times. The job market and economy are changing; It no longer works to rely as heavily on external security. Still, there is a path of deep security. It&rsquo;s your calling or passion. You were born to excel in your gifts. &nbsp;It&rsquo;s <em>exhausting </em>to deny your inborn desires, your love, and your quest for true expression. &nbsp;When you have a peacock inside you, you won&rsquo;t be able to feed with the finches for long.

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From years of helping others dare to live their dreams, I can tell you, it doesn&rsquo;t matter if you don&rsquo;t know <em>how</em> to find your calling or live it. Your brain will never know. But your instincts know nothing else.

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And here&rsquo;s the rub for of us over-achieving type A&rsquo;s: &nbsp;It&rsquo;s not about <em>doing</em>. It&rsquo;s about <em>undoing</em> all the beliefs that stand in your way. You already possess a destiny that&rsquo;s better than anything you will read in a textbook. &nbsp;You already have the hard-wiring to flourish. &nbsp;Yet, like most of us who have been conditioned to pursue success in conventional &ndash; often unfulfilling &ndash; ways, you have misguided beliefs that dilute your magic.

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Believe me, I know. I never believed I could make a living as a writer. So, I went to law school instead, graduated with honors from Harvard Law School, and practiced law at a big firm. Finally, pain forced me to leave everything I knew&mdash;and dare to face the dream I felt in my bones. &nbsp;I&rsquo;ve now written best-selling books on living your calling and become a national career/success coach.

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In my coaching, I don&rsquo;t help you change your career. I help change your <em>thinking</em> so that you experience more possibilities in all of life. Here&rsquo;s 7 quick shifts of thinking to try on:

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<h2>1. Clarity is A Rarity</h2>

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You do not have to know what your calling is before you start taking steps toward it. Follow what you want right now, even if it&rsquo;s a nap, or a date with a paintbrush or frisbee. &nbsp;This is a path of learning to trust yourself, follow what gleams, and ignore your assumptions and judgments. Action provides information and changes how you feel.

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On an inspired path, where you start out is not where you end up.

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<h2>2. &ldquo;There&rsquo;s No Way This Could Make Money&rdquo;</h2>

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Think again precious! The wealthiest people in the world did not cower in careers or expressions they &ldquo;tolerated&rdquo; or disliked. They pursued a wild hair, a hunger, or a mysterious demand from within. Steve Jobs didn&rsquo;t do what made &ldquo;common sense.&rdquo; He followed the uncommon path of following his spark.

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Inspiration increases your energy, stamina, and genius. &nbsp;It makes you someone who interesting people want to know and connect with.

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Joy changes your brain chemistry. Excitement and creativity open you to other income-earning potential and experiences of abundance. You may even fall in love with your day job, while you build a dream empire in the evenings.

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<h2>3. You Don&rsquo;t Have to Choose One Thing. Just Choose One For the Moment.</h2>

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Take a deep breath, you who love French cooking, and the study of micro-financing, and writing fantasy mysteries. &nbsp;Okay, so you&rsquo;re <em>varied.</em> &nbsp;You don&rsquo;t need to weave everything together into some grand master plan.

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<strong>Pay attention to what you want to do in <u>this</u> moment</strong>, not what you want to do for the rest of your life.

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Follow the passion that has heat right now, and it will lead you to your connection with yourself, which leads you to everything. You may also discover the wonder of &ldquo;multiple income streams,&rdquo; making money from different interests that, alone, don&rsquo;t make much money&mdash; but together they add up.

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<h2>4. There&rsquo;s A Glut of What I Want to Strut</h2>

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Do you ever secretly wonder, <em>really, </em>who needs my parrot-shaped lemongrass-infused decorator soaps? Who needs another bad childhood-turned-great lesson-memoir?

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Well, lucky you, the world is starving for talent and love. Besides, you have an assignment. <em>Your gifts are not for you.</em> You&rsquo;re here to uplift others and there are many in need. <em>You will have your people</em>. Some are waiting for your gifts right now. You are the conduit, not the head of the selection committee.

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<h2>5. You Can&rsquo;t Fail When You&rsquo;ve Already Won</h2>

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I so feared giving up a &ldquo;validated&rdquo; career as an attorney to pursue the shimmer of a writing life. I feared being a clich&eacute; or a joke. But I finally realized that as much as I feared failure, I feared regret more. I had to see where my writing could go. Giving myself this chance was the ultimate win. In my book <strong>Inspired &amp; Unstoppable: Wildly Succeeding in Your Life&rsquo;s Work!</strong> I define &ldquo;unstoppable&rdquo; as never stopping yourself in this lifetime.&nbsp; After coaching business leaders, career-transition-ers, and artists, I have learned that they never &ldquo;fail,&rdquo; unless they quit honoring what they truly want.

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Give yourself every chance in life. And redefine success&mdash;to knowing that you are doing the right thing with your time on earth.

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<h2>6. You Don&rsquo;t Need a Map. You Need a Fire</h2>

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You don&rsquo;t need a calculated strategy as much as you need to trust your heart and heat. You won&rsquo;t map the territory of wonder with your linear brain. You can&rsquo;t plan an inspired life. I spent 12 years writing my first book <strong>This Time I Dance! Creating the Work You Love</strong>. Following instinct, I self-published it. A VP of Random House discovered it, thought it was &ldquo;the best book she&rsquo;d read on finding your calling,&rdquo; and it was soon published by my dream publisher, Tarcher/Penguin.

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If I&rsquo;d stuck to following conventional strategy, doing it &lsquo;the right way,&rsquo; I would have lost enthusiasm. I would have spent my time trying to jump through hoops instead of following joy. Joy is more reliable than a plan.

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<h2>7. You Are Worth a Lifetime of Radical Joy</h2>

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It&rsquo;s not &ldquo;selfish&rdquo; to pursue fun. It&rsquo;s healthy to desire an extraordinary life. It&rsquo;s a moral imperative to honor the direction of your soul.

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Just because you&rsquo;re having a ball, doesn&rsquo;t mean you&rsquo;re not accomplishing something. Don&rsquo;t play small. The world needs what you have to give. And on top of that, there are those (perhaps your children?) who need your example of joy.

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Grab this life. You ache for your grace for a reason.

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<div class="author f6"><a href="https://www.tamakieves.com/">Tama Kieves</a>, an honors graduate of Harvard Law School, left her law practice&nbsp;to write and help others soar in the work they&rsquo;re meant to do. She is&nbsp;the bestselling author of <strong>This Time I Dance! Creating the Work You Love </strong>and <strong>Inspired &amp; Unstoppable:</strong> <strong>Wildly Succeeding in Your Life&rsquo;s Work!</strong> Her latest book is <strong>A Year Without Fear: 365 Days of Magnificence.</strong>

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Featured in USA TODAY and on Oprah radio, Tama is a sought-after speaker&nbsp;and career/success coach, who has helped thousands world-wide to&nbsp;discover, launch, and thrive in the life, calling and businesses of their&nbsp;dreams.&nbsp;She&rsquo;s also taught <em>A Course in Miracles</em> for 25 years.

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You can learn more about Tama on her popular website <a href="https://www.tamakieves.com">TamaKieves.com</a> and join her for positive daily support on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/TamaKieves/">Facebook</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/TamaKieves">Twitter</a>.</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-find-your-calling-7-ways-to-shift-from-thinking-to-practice</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-find-your-calling-7-ways-to-shift-from-thinking-to-practice#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Feel Free and Start Writing Again</title><description><![CDATA[Feeling stuck? Love to write but aren&rsquo;t sure how to get back to it?
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That&rsquo;s okay! Getting stuck is a normal part of the writing process. Inspiration comes and goes. The trick is to keep writing even when it&rsquo;s not flowing easily. In my years of teaching, I&rsquo;ve found that the key to getting unstuck is the ability to begin again. No matter how long you&rsquo;ve been away from the page, you can always start anew.

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Just as a runner might be a bit rusty if she hasn&rsquo;t put on her running shoes in a few months, the practice of writing requires routine, patience, and warm-ups before diving back in. Sometimes all you need is to start.

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If you haven&rsquo;t written in months, or perhaps years, it might not be pretty the first time you sit down.

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<span class="quote">Let go of your expectation that it has to be perfect, or even good, and let yourself enjoy the act of writing itself. </span>

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Remember, we write because we want to, or we feel we need to&mdash;how it turns out is out of our hands. Like the weather, some writing days will be sunny, others cloudy, others downright stormy. In order to get unstuck, we have to let go of trying to control the outcome.

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If you&rsquo;re stuck, try something manageable like writing for 10 minutes or filling a quarter of a page to build your writing muscles back up. You might want to get off the computer and grab a pen and a favorite notebook, curl up on your couch with a cup of tea, and have some fun!

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As is true with any creative practice, you can&rsquo;t be a productive writer without having an understanding of your own habits. Thus, knowing where we like to write, when we are most inspired, and how to create a routine is just as important as having something to say.

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If you feel stuck, here are some questions to ask yourself to find out what kind of writer you are:

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<ul>
	<li>Where do you like to write? (At home or a caf&eacute;?)</li>
	<li>When do you like to write? (Morning, afternoon, or night?)</li>
	<li>How do you like to write? (Pen and paper or computer?)</li>
</ul>

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Restarting your writing can align with the Buddhist approach of letting go of perfection&mdash;and you looking at writing practice as you would a yoga or meditation practice. The real work starts when we can be okay if the writing doesn&rsquo;t show up exactly as we want it to, and still keep coming back to the page day after day.

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<strong><a href="https://www.jennifersmattson.com/">Jennifer Mattson</a>&nbsp;is a writer, speaker, and journalist. She leads writing retreats throughout the country and teaches at NYU.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-feel-free-and-start-writing-again</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-feel-free-and-start-writing-again#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Boost Your Son&apos;s Emotional IQ: Advice from &quot;The Boy Crisis&quot;</title><description><![CDATA[In their groundbreaking book, <em>The Boy Crisis: Why Our Boys Are Struggling and What We Can Do About It</em>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Warren Farrell, Ph</a><a href="https://www.1440.org/">D</a> and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dr. John Gray, PhD</a> suggest that a key struggle for boys is the age-uld social bias in favor of heroic intelligence, when in fact what young men most need to cultivate success in today&rsquo;s terms is health intelligence. Simply put: it matters more to know yourself than to prove yourself.
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We found this excerpt of <em>The Boy Crisis</em> particularly helpful in flushing out tangible ways parents can help their sons build emotional and physical well-being.

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Dr. Farrell, Dr. Gray, and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Ashanti Branch</a>, will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Boy Crisis</a>, a weekend workshop at 1440 Multiversity, from October 26 &ndash; 28, 2018.

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<h2>&nbsp;<i>Excerpt&nbsp;from Chapter 24,&nbsp;Emotional Intelligence and Mental Health</i></h2>

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By <a href="https://www.1440.org/">John Gray</a> and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Warren Farrell</a>

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The bad news is that the gap between your son&rsquo;s heroic and health intelligence is a million or so years in the making. The good news is that, for the first time in history, with less social pressure to be increasingly proud of your son only to the degree that he is a heroic warrior or successful sule breadwinner, we are freer to help him differentiate between knowing himself and being seduced by the sirens of social bribes.

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If, after this process, your son chooses to be a Navy SEAL, firefighter, or a CEO who works seventy hours a week, he is more likely to have made that decision by conscious choice&mdash;as a choice aligned with who he is rather than the need to prove himself.

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<span class="quote">Then he will be a hero who has integrated health intelligence with heroic intelligence. </span>

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>How to Successfully Raise  Boys  for the Future </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">John Gray, PhD ,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Warren Farrell, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Ashanti Branch, MEd</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">August 2 - 4, 2019</div>
A crisis of education. A crisis of mental health. A crisis of fathering. A crisis of purpose. These are the pervasive and significant challenges facing today&rsquo;s boys and young men, according to Dr. Warren Farrell and Dr. John Gray, coauthors...</div>

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That said, the power of our brain&rsquo;s rostral cingulate zone to make us responsive to the sirens of social bribes will always make the discovery of our unique selves a challenge&mdash;even if we are a full-time Buddhist monk. So here is a little arsenal of eighteen practical steps you can take to begin to integrate emotional and physical health intelligence into your son&rsquo;s heroic intelligence:

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<ul>
	<li>If possible, keep both parents about equally invulved in your son&rsquo;s upbringing&mdash;whether married, divorced, or never married. If impossible, get your son invulved in the Boy Scouts, Mankind Project, or the programs described in chapter 20, &ldquo;The Best Parent Is Both Parents, But . . .&rdquo;</li>
	<li>If dad and mom have different parenting styles, treat them as a healthy checks and balances.</li>
	<li>&nbsp;Model great listening skills&mdash;if you tend to become defensive when criticized, get help.</li>
	<li>Roughhouse, coach, and play. Make everyday activities like shopping into a game, with fun competitions.</li>
	<li>Routinely get your son&rsquo;s input, and then use the bond of roughhousing and playing as leverage to set and enforce boundaries.<br />
	<span class="quote">Don&rsquo;t set any boundaries you do not enforce. </span>
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	Enforce boundaries sooner rather than later&mdash;repeated threats without fullow-through lead to escalation, arguments, and blurting out consequences you won&rsquo;t enforce, breeding your son&rsquo;s disrespect and even contempt.</li>
	<li>Impart a sense of sacredness for family dinner nights and &ldquo;The Five Essentials&rdquo; in appendix A&mdash;especially these next two.</li>
	<li>Discuss at dinner meaningful life issues and dilemmas, and issues in the kids&rsquo; lives; make sure no one dominates, and interruption is taboo. Your advice comes last, and is discretionary.</li>
	<li>Make no topic taboo at dinner. Boys love to be challenged; they&rsquo;d rather only half-understand a conversation than be bored.</li>
	<li>Use the invitation of friends (yours and his) to occasional family dinner nights to help your family develop a supportive social network and a leadership group for self-discovery.</li>
	<li><span class="quote">Frame empathy as manly&mdash;as the emotional equivalent of rescuing, healing, and protecting someone. </span>
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	</li>
	<li>Frame respectfully speaking up to peers as courage&mdash;after he has the courage to listen first.</li>
	<li>Develop questions you ask your son about every new friend (so that no one friend is seen as being picked on). Is that friend someone you respect? Why? What does that person encourage in you that you feel will make you a better person? Is there anything that magnetically attracts you to her or him that you feel may lead you to a place (physically or psychulogically) that you will ultimately regret? Do you think this person will be a trusted friend five years from now?</li>
	<li>Make exercise part of your son&rsquo;s daily life&mdash;not as an option, but as a top priority. Be sure three types of sports are integrated into your son&rsquo;s life: team sports, individual sports, and pickup team sports. Each makes a distinct contribution to his development.</li>
	<li>Introduce him to meditation, yoga, and prayer, and do them with him. In addition to providing your family with some quiet moments to extract deeper thoughts from the noise of life, they can also become a part of your family&rsquo;s connective glue. If your son doesn&rsquo;t believe there&rsquo;s a God that listens, no matter&mdash;let him know that prayer has value even if only he listens.</li>
	<li>Set up opportunities for him to develop friendships with girls in which neither he nor the girl have a romantic interest (e.g., via schoul paper, student government, debating, or coed sports like tennis, ping pong, running, soccer . . .).</li>
	<li>Teach him to listen to music that soothes, and seek to understand why he loves the music he loves. Ask him to listen to why you love the music you love.</li>
	<li>Create enough pressure to teach him how to handle pressure.<br />
	<span class="quote">Frame &ldquo;failure&rdquo; as a prerequisite to success&mdash;part of the gift of risk-taking and being a man. </span>
	<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
	But make sure he &ldquo;gets&rdquo; that you love him as a human being, not a human doing, and that &ldquo;failure&rdquo; as a human doing is but an opportunity to grow as a human being. Knowing that allows pressure to be part of life&rsquo;s game, but not his life. (Only when he &ldquo;gets&rdquo; that will sports and video games in moderation reinforce that.)</li>
	<li>Treat the family as a team, with your son&rsquo;s chores and consciousness of your needs being what gets him to &ldquo;make the team.&rdquo; Children don&rsquo;t develop empathy from parents who are only empathetic. When we consider only our children&rsquo;s needs, they also consider only their needs. Let him know the benefit to him: parents who are less stressed contribute to happier, more successful children.</li>
</ul>

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Excerpted from The Boy Crisis: Why Our Boys Are Struggling and What We Can Do About It by Warren Farrell, PhD and Dr. John Gray, PhD. Copyright &copy; 2018 by Warren Farrell, PhD and Dr. John Gray. Excerpted by permission of BenBella Books. All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-boost-your-sons-emotional-iq-advice-from-the-boy-crisis</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-boost-your-sons-emotional-iq-advice-from-the-boy-crisis#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>How to Boost Your Son&apos;s Emotional IQ: Advice from &quot;The Boy Crisis&quot;</title><description><![CDATA[In their groundbreaking book, <em>The Boy Crisis: Why Our Boys Are Struggling and What We Can Do About It</em>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Warren Farrell, Ph</a><a href="https://www.1440.org/">D</a> and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dr. John Gray, PhD</a> suggest that a key struggle for boys is the age-uld social bias in favor of heroic intelligence, when in fact what young men most need to cultivate success in today&rsquo;s terms is health intelligence. Simply put: it matters more to know yourself than to prove yourself.
<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
We found this excerpt of <em>The Boy Crisis</em> particularly helpful in flushing out tangible ways parents can help their sons build emotional and physical well-being.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Dr. Farrell, Dr. Gray, and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Ashanti Branch</a>, will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Boy Crisis</a>, a weekend workshop at 1440 Multiversity, from October 26 &ndash; 28, 2018.

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<h2>&nbsp;<i>Excerpt&nbsp;from Chapter 24,&nbsp;Emotional Intelligence and Mental Health</i></h2>

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By <a href="https://www.1440.org/">John Gray</a> and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Warren Farrell</a>

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The bad news is that the gap between your son&rsquo;s heroic and health intelligence is a million or so years in the making. The good news is that, for the first time in history, with less social pressure to be increasingly proud of your son only to the degree that he is a heroic warrior or successful sule breadwinner, we are freer to help him differentiate between knowing himself and being seduced by the sirens of social bribes.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
If, after this process, your son chooses to be a Navy SEAL, firefighter, or a CEO who works seventy hours a week, he is more likely to have made that decision by conscious choice&mdash;as a choice aligned with who he is rather than the need to prove himself.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Then he will be a hero who has integrated health intelligence with heroic intelligence. </span>

<div class="blog-img-text">
<div class="post-card-title"><strong>How to Successfully Raise  Boys  for the Future </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">John Gray, PhD ,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Warren Farrell, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Ashanti Branch, MEd</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">August 2 - 4, 2019</div>
A crisis of education. A crisis of mental health. A crisis of fathering. A crisis of purpose. These are the pervasive and significant challenges facing today&rsquo;s boys and young men, according to Dr. Warren Farrell and Dr. John Gray, coauthors...</div>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
That said, the power of our brain&rsquo;s rostral cingulate zone to make us responsive to the sirens of social bribes will always make the discovery of our unique selves a challenge&mdash;even if we are a full-time Buddhist monk. So here is a little arsenal of eighteen practical steps you can take to begin to integrate emotional and physical health intelligence into your son&rsquo;s heroic intelligence:

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<ul>
	<li>If possible, keep both parents about equally invulved in your son&rsquo;s upbringing&mdash;whether married, divorced, or never married. If impossible, get your son invulved in the Boy Scouts, Mankind Project, or the programs described in chapter 20, &ldquo;The Best Parent Is Both Parents, But . . .&rdquo;</li>
	<li>If dad and mom have different parenting styles, treat them as a healthy checks and balances.</li>
	<li>&nbsp;Model great listening skills&mdash;if you tend to become defensive when criticized, get help.</li>
	<li>Roughhouse, coach, and play. Make everyday activities like shopping into a game, with fun competitions.</li>
	<li>Routinely get your son&rsquo;s input, and then use the bond of roughhousing and playing as leverage to set and enforce boundaries.<br />
	<span class="quote">Don&rsquo;t set any boundaries you do not enforce. </span>
	<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
	Enforce boundaries sooner rather than later&mdash;repeated threats without fullow-through lead to escalation, arguments, and blurting out consequences you won&rsquo;t enforce, breeding your son&rsquo;s disrespect and even contempt.</li>
	<li>Impart a sense of sacredness for family dinner nights and &ldquo;The Five Essentials&rdquo; in appendix A&mdash;especially these next two.</li>
	<li>Discuss at dinner meaningful life issues and dilemmas, and issues in the kids&rsquo; lives; make sure no one dominates, and interruption is taboo. Your advice comes last, and is discretionary.</li>
	<li>Make no topic taboo at dinner. Boys love to be challenged; they&rsquo;d rather only half-understand a conversation than be bored.</li>
	<li>Use the invitation of friends (yours and his) to occasional family dinner nights to help your family develop a supportive social network and a leadership group for self-discovery.</li>
	<li><span class="quote">Frame empathy as manly&mdash;as the emotional equivalent of rescuing, healing, and protecting someone. </span>
	<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
	</li>
	<li>Frame respectfully speaking up to peers as courage&mdash;after he has the courage to listen first.</li>
	<li>Develop questions you ask your son about every new friend (so that no one friend is seen as being picked on). Is that friend someone you respect? Why? What does that person encourage in you that you feel will make you a better person? Is there anything that magnetically attracts you to her or him that you feel may lead you to a place (physically or psychulogically) that you will ultimately regret? Do you think this person will be a trusted friend five years from now?</li>
	<li>Make exercise part of your son&rsquo;s daily life&mdash;not as an option, but as a top priority. Be sure three types of sports are integrated into your son&rsquo;s life: team sports, individual sports, and pickup team sports. Each makes a distinct contribution to his development.</li>
	<li>Introduce him to meditation, yoga, and prayer, and do them with him. In addition to providing your family with some quiet moments to extract deeper thoughts from the noise of life, they can also become a part of your family&rsquo;s connective glue. If your son doesn&rsquo;t believe there&rsquo;s a God that listens, no matter&mdash;let him know that prayer has value even if only he listens.</li>
	<li>Set up opportunities for him to develop friendships with girls in which neither he nor the girl have a romantic interest (e.g., via schoul paper, student government, debating, or coed sports like tennis, ping pong, running, soccer . . .).</li>
	<li>Teach him to listen to music that soothes, and seek to understand why he loves the music he loves. Ask him to listen to why you love the music you love.</li>
	<li>Create enough pressure to teach him how to handle pressure.<br />
	<span class="quote">Frame &ldquo;failure&rdquo; as a prerequisite to success&mdash;part of the gift of risk-taking and being a man. </span>
	<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
	But make sure he &ldquo;gets&rdquo; that you love him as a human being, not a human doing, and that &ldquo;failure&rdquo; as a human doing is but an opportunity to grow as a human being. Knowing that allows pressure to be part of life&rsquo;s game, but not his life. (Only when he &ldquo;gets&rdquo; that will sports and video games in moderation reinforce that.)</li>
	<li>Treat the family as a team, with your son&rsquo;s chores and consciousness of your needs being what gets him to &ldquo;make the team.&rdquo; Children don&rsquo;t develop empathy from parents who are only empathetic. When we consider only our children&rsquo;s needs, they also consider only their needs. Let him know the benefit to him: parents who are less stressed contribute to happier, more successful children.</li>
</ul>

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Excerpted from The Boy Crisis: Why Our Boys Are Struggling and What We Can Do About It by Warren Farrell, PhD and Dr. John Gray, PhD. Copyright &copy; 2018 by Warren Farrell, PhD and Dr. John Gray. Excerpted by permission of BenBella Books. All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-boost-your-sons-emotional-iq-advice-from-the-boy-crisis</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-boost-your-sons-emotional-iq-advice-from-the-boy-crisis#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Get Rid of What You Don&apos;t Need: Lessons from The More of Less</title><description><![CDATA[&ldquo;<em>Getting rid of what you don&rsquo;t need is the first step toward crafting the life you want.</em>&rdquo; &ndash; Joshua Becker
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An avid proponent of minimalism, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Joshua Becker</a> is the <em>Wall Street Journal</em> and <em>USA Today</em> best-selling author of <em>Simplify</em>, <em>The More of Less</em>, and <em>Clutterfree with Kid</em>s. He&rsquo;s also the cocreator of <em>Simplify Magazine</em> and founder and editor of Becoming Minimalist, a website dedicated to intentional living.

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In the following excerpt from <em>The More of Less</em>, Joshua details an eye-opening list of ways that minimalism actually expands our lives.

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<h2>Excerpt from Chapter 1, &ldquo;The Universal Benefits of Minimalism&rdquo;</h2>

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by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Joshua Becker</a>

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There is more joy to be found in owning less than can ever be found in pursuing more. In a world that constantly tells us to buy more and more, we often lose sight of that. But consider the life-giving benefits. You can expect a payoff in every one of the following areas if you practice the principles of minimalism taught in <em>The More of Less</em>.

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<ul>
	<li><em>More time and energy</em>&mdash;Whether we are making the money to buy them, researching and purchasing them, cleaning and organizing them, repairing them, replacing them, or selling them, our possessions consume our time and energy. So the fewer things we have, the more of our time and energy we&rsquo;ll have left to devote to other pursuits that matter more to us.</li>
	<li><em>More money</em>&mdash;It&rsquo;s simple enough: By buying fewer things, we spend less money. Not just to acquire things in the first place but also to manage and maintain our goods.<br />
	<span class="quote">Maybe your path to financial freedom comes not from earning more but from owning less. </span>
	<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
	</li>
	<li><em>More generosity</em>&mdash;Living a less acquisitive, less costly lifestyle provides the opportunity to financially support causes we care about. Our money is only as valuable as what we choose to spend it on, and there are countless opportunities worth vastly more than material accumulation.</li>
	<li><em>More freedom</em>&mdash;Excess possessions have the power to enslave us physically, psychologically, and financially. Stuff is cumbersome and difficult to transport. It weighs on the spirit and makes us feel heavy. On the other hand, every time we remove an unnecessary item, we gain back a little freedom.</li>
	<li><em>Less stress</em>&mdash;Every added possession increases the worry in our lives. In your mind, imagine two rooms: one that is cluttered and messy, and another that is tidy and sparse. Which one makes you feel anxious? Which one makes you feel calm?<br />
	<span class="quote">Mess + excess = stress. </span>
	<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
	</li>
	<li><em>Less distraction</em>&mdash;Everything around us competes for our attention. These small distractions can add up and prevent us from giving attention to the things we care about. And these days, who needs more distraction?</li>
	<li><em>Less environmental impact</em>&mdash;Overconsumption accelerates the destruction of natural resources. The less we consume, the less damage we do to our environment, and that benefits everyone, including our children&rsquo;s and grandchildren&rsquo;s generations.</li>
	<li><em>Higher-quality belongings</em>&mdash;The less money you spend on an excess quantity of things, the greater your opportunity to purchase quality possessions when you need them. Minimalism is not necessarily the same as frugality. It is a philosophy recognizing that owning more stuff is not better; owning better stuff is better.</li>
	<li><em>A better example for our kids</em>&mdash;What is the most common three-word phrase our children hear from us? Is it &ldquo;I love you&rdquo;? Or is it &ldquo;I want that,&rdquo; &ldquo;It&rsquo;s on sale,&rdquo; or &ldquo;Let&rsquo;s go shopping&rdquo;? It&rsquo;s important to give our children a framework with which to counteract the out-of-control lifestyle marketed to them.</li>
	<li><em>Less work for someone else</em>&mdash;If we don&rsquo;t make the effort to sort through and pare down our possessions, then when we die or get to the point where we can&rsquo;t take care of ourselves anymore, someone else (probably a loved one) is going to have to take up that burden. By sticking to the minimalist path, we make it easier for the other person.</li>
	<li><em>Less comparison</em>&mdash;Our natural tendencies cause us to compare our lives with those around us. Combine that with the fact that we seem to have a built-in desire to impress others by owning as much as possible, then as Will Rogers said, we&rsquo;ve got a recipe for disaster. Purposefully owning less begins to take us out of the unwinnable game of comparison.</li>
	<li><em>More contentment</em>&mdash;We tend to think that we can resolve our discontentment by getting the item whose lack is seemingly making us unhappy. Yet material possessions will never fully satisfy the desires of our hearts. (That&rsquo;s why discontentment always returns after a purchase.)<br />
	<span class="quote">Only after we intentionally break the cycle of accumulating more, more, more can we begin to discern the true causes of discontentment in our lives. </span>
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	</li>
</ul>
More time, more money, less stress, less distraction, more freedom. It all sounds appealing, doesn&rsquo;t it? You&rsquo;ll be hearing more about these themes in the rest of the book, where I&rsquo;ll show you how to make these universal benefits your own.

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Even if these universal benefits were the only reasons for practicing minimalism, they would be enough. But there&rsquo;s more. There&rsquo;s also the <em>personalized</em> benefit each of us can get from minimalism. Getting rid of what you don&rsquo;t need is the first step toward crafting the life you want.

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Excerpted from <em>The More of Less: Finding the Life You Want Under Everything You Own</em> by Joshua Becker. Copyright &copy; 2016 by BecomingMinimalist.com. Published by WaterBrook, an imprint of Penguin Random House LLC.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/get-rid-of-what-you-dont-need-lessons-from-the-more-of-less</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/get-rid-of-what-you-dont-need-lessons-from-the-more-of-less#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Discover Your True North at 1440</title><description><![CDATA[<h2>What Is Your True North?</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Your True North is the essence of who you are: your most deeply held beliefs, values, and principles&mdash;the ones you lead and live by. Discovering your True North requires deep introspection of your life story, the times you have lost your way, and your most challenging crucibles in order to gain the self-awareness of what is most important in your life and the causes you want to devote yourself to.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Only then will you be prepared to lead other people, because the hardest person you will ever have to lead is yourself. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
When you have discovered your True North, you are ready to discern the purpose of your leadership&mdash;your North Star. When you do so, people will naturally gravitate to you and your leadership, and join you in striving for that clear sense of purpose. As you lead teams with purpose and clear values, you will find that you can have much greater impact through your leadership.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<ul>
	<li>Do you want to be a leader with greater impact?</li>
	<li>Are you stuck in a role that lacks real meaning for you?</li>
	<li>Do you want more fulfillment in your life?</li>
	<li>Are you ready to look inward at your own leadership purpose?</li>
</ul>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">The world is crying out for more authentic, trustworthy, and inspiring people to follow. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Are you that kind of leader?

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>True North Leadership at 1440</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
1440 Multiversity cofounder Scott Kriens and I have created a 5-day program designed for leaders to discover their True North.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">True North Leadership (TNL) is designed to help you discern the purpose of your leadership and ascertain how you can make a unique difference in the world. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Scott and I teach the program alongside leadership expert retired Brigadier General Dana H. Born of Harvard&rsquo;s Kennedy School, human potential guru and Lucenscia CEO Michelle Maldonado, and George Family Foundation president Gayle Ober.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
October of 2018 marked the inaugural kickoff of True North Leadership at 1440.&nbsp;Sixty-three dedicated participant leaders from a wide range of organizations&mdash;nonprofits, foundations, healthcare, education, small and large business, government, media (and even a dedicated firefighter) took part. Several participants came from outside the United States. Participant feedback revealed the program was a huge success. Many who took part continue to meet regularly with the small groups of six they closely collaborated with throughout.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>An Environment Like No Other</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The unique setting of 1440 Multiversity makes all the difference in this program as the environment engages your mind, body, and spirit and builds a sense of community.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">TNL is designed to activate not just your brain but all of your senses in the beauty of the setting. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Classes are held twice per day inside a large classroom and also outside in the Redwood amphitheater and forest Cathedral.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Each class begins with a short mindfulness meditation designed to ground everyone and enable them to set an intention for the class. Most of the classes use the case study method as a basis for discussing leadership issues important to participants.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>Program Highlights</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
All participants are assigned to True North groups of five people plus a facilitator. The groups meet twice daily following each class, mostly outdoors. These sessions provide opportunities to discuss personal leadership issues in an intimate, confidential setting&mdash;and are rated as the highlight of the program.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
One of the great strengths of this program is the diversity of its participants&mdash;the vast array of life experiences, backgrounds, and professional fields represented means that we truly learn from each other.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">It is through mutual sharing that we grow to become better leaders and gain the ability to tackle greater challenges. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I invite you to join us for this unique opportunity to take your leadership to the next level as you discover your True North.

<div class="blog-img-text">
<div class="post-card-title"><strong>True North Leadership </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Scott Kriens,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Bill George,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Dana H. Born, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Michelle Maldonado</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">October 13 - 18, 2019</div>
Join Harvard Business School (HBS) Professor Bill George and former Juniper Networks CEO Scott Kriens for a journey to discover your True North and become a better leader. True North Leadership is based on Bill&rsquo;s groundbreaking courses at HBS that have helped...

<div class="post-card-learn-more"><a class="button" href="https://www.1440.org/">Learn More</a></div>
</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/discover-your-true-north-at-1440</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/discover-your-true-north-at-1440#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>Discover Your True North at 1440</title><description><![CDATA[<h2>What Is Your True North?</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Your True North is the essence of who you are: your most deeply held beliefs, values, and principles&mdash;the ones you lead and live by. Discovering your True North requires deep introspection of your life story, the times you have lost your way, and your most challenging crucibles in order to gain the self-awareness of what is most important in your life and the causes you want to devote yourself to.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Only then will you be prepared to lead other people, because the hardest person you will ever have to lead is yourself. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
When you have discovered your True North, you are ready to discern the purpose of your leadership&mdash;your North Star. When you do so, people will naturally gravitate to you and your leadership, and join you in striving for that clear sense of purpose. As you lead teams with purpose and clear values, you will find that you can have much greater impact through your leadership.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<ul>
	<li>Do you want to be a leader with greater impact?</li>
	<li>Are you stuck in a role that lacks real meaning for you?</li>
	<li>Do you want more fulfillment in your life?</li>
	<li>Are you ready to look inward at your own leadership purpose?</li>
</ul>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">The world is crying out for more authentic, trustworthy, and inspiring people to follow. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Are you that kind of leader?

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>True North Leadership at 1440</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
1440 Multiversity cofounder Scott Kriens and I have created a 5-day program designed for leaders to discover their True North.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">True North Leadership (TNL) is designed to help you discern the purpose of your leadership and ascertain how you can make a unique difference in the world. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Scott and I teach the program alongside leadership expert retired Brigadier General Dana H. Born of Harvard&rsquo;s Kennedy School, human potential guru and Lucenscia CEO Michelle Maldonado, and George Family Foundation president Gayle Ober.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
October of 2018 marked the inaugural kickoff of True North Leadership at 1440.&nbsp;Sixty-three dedicated participant leaders from a wide range of organizations&mdash;nonprofits, foundations, healthcare, education, small and large business, government, media (and even a dedicated firefighter) took part. Several participants came from outside the United States. Participant feedback revealed the program was a huge success. Many who took part continue to meet regularly with the small groups of six they closely collaborated with throughout.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>An Environment Like No Other</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The unique setting of 1440 Multiversity makes all the difference in this program as the environment engages your mind, body, and spirit and builds a sense of community.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">TNL is designed to activate not just your brain but all of your senses in the beauty of the setting. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Classes are held twice per day inside a large classroom and also outside in the Redwood amphitheater and forest Cathedral.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Each class begins with a short mindfulness meditation designed to ground everyone and enable them to set an intention for the class. Most of the classes use the case study method as a basis for discussing leadership issues important to participants.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>Program Highlights</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
All participants are assigned to True North groups of five people plus a facilitator. The groups meet twice daily following each class, mostly outdoors. These sessions provide opportunities to discuss personal leadership issues in an intimate, confidential setting&mdash;and are rated as the highlight of the program.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
One of the great strengths of this program is the diversity of its participants&mdash;the vast array of life experiences, backgrounds, and professional fields represented means that we truly learn from each other.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">It is through mutual sharing that we grow to become better leaders and gain the ability to tackle greater challenges. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I invite you to join us for this unique opportunity to take your leadership to the next level as you discover your True North.

<div class="blog-img-text">
<div class="post-card-title"><strong>True North Leadership </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Scott Kriens,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Bill George,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Dana H. Born, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Michelle Maldonado</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">October 13 - 18, 2019</div>
Join Harvard Business School (HBS) Professor Bill George and former Juniper Networks CEO Scott Kriens for a journey to discover your True North and become a better leader. True North Leadership is based on Bill&rsquo;s groundbreaking courses at HBS that have helped...

<div class="post-card-learn-more"><a class="button" href="https://www.1440.org/">Learn More</a></div>
</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/discover-your-true-north-at-1440</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/discover-your-true-north-at-1440#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>Burn, Baby, Burn into This New Year</title><description><![CDATA[My daughter and I hosted a small but fancy dress-up New Year&rsquo;s party at our house. Champagne, delicious snacks, tarot cards, and a burning bowl for releasing the old year. Certainly not a unique activity, but one that always seems to bring a certain level of satisfaction. People love ritual and gathering around a fire is as primal and connecting as it gets.
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In the burning, we get to symbolically make space for where we are now in our lives. This is not fire as destroyer, but fire as palate cleanser.

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<span class="quote">If we are paying any attention at all, we see that we are not the person we were one year ago, let alone five or ten. </span>

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That person has been absorbed into the newest version of ourselves, like matryoshka nesting dolls. We keep gathering all of the parts of who we are and how we function, refining, fine tuning, moving forward. Striving to be kinder, wiser, more generous, and more discerning.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I am finding that there is a difference between holding a memory or an item as a treasured artifact from our life and clinging to something to try and stay stuck in the past&mdash;that desire to make time stand still.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I have noticed that there are letters and emails I have hung onto, that I keep purely as &ldquo;proof&rdquo; that certain things were said, certain actions did, indeed, take place, like an attorney gathering evidence for a case. To prove that I was not crazy and, sometimes, in an attempt to prove that <em>they </em>were.

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These correspondences make me cringe and shake my head in wonder at what this obsessed girl on fire could&nbsp;possibly have been thinking or believing. They seem like some strange fever dream, and I find that they bring up feelings of embarrassment, confusion, rage, and suspicion about what was real and genuine and what was a lie. Keeping them feels like I am fanning poisonous flames of confusion. The memories feel benign until I start rooting around in them.

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<span class="quote">&ldquo;Life can only be understood backwards; but it&nbsp;must be lived forwards.&rdquo; &mdash;Soren Kierkegaard </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The memories of my marriage are kept in a storage bin with a lid: letters, postcards, photos. I am clear on the reality and meaning of that relationship. It is an honored box of treasured memories. It is also a reminder of our youth, our unskilled ways of communicating, our unwillingness to fight or do anything that could potentially cause waves, which in the end almost drown us both. It reminds me to do things differently in my dealings with others as I move forward. That box is sacred. I do not question the validity of its contents and it will not be touched.

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It is full of love, not regret or heaviness. Ironically, I love where I stand solo in my life right now, because of how that turned out.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">So I burn and delete and shred and clean house on New Year&rsquo;s Eve day.&nbsp;With gratitude for all of my experiences, even the ones that make me wince. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Clearing, not eradicating. Letting it contribute to who and where I am in my life, right now, and not shackling me to a past that is no longer happening. That is the thing about the past: it is no longer happening.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">All of my life experiences are woven into the fabric of who I am right now, but I do not need to drag the steamer trunks around with their weight and bulk and mustiness. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It is time to open the windows and allow the winds of change to blow through, and see what new delight I have made room for. Of course there will be champagne and fabulous snacks involved.

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<strong>Jodeen Revere revels in her unconventional, multifaceted dream life. She is an actor, a writer, Thai yoga massage therapist, creative movement and dance enthusiast, and RYT-200 yoga teacher currently on an endless sabbatical. She writes <a href="https://jodeenrevere.wordpress.com/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">a blog chronicling her cancertastic adventures.</a>&nbsp;She loves writing, reading, viewing and heatedly discussing film, eating really good snacks, and chillin&rsquo; with her cats, Julian and Tilda. She is a kind and good-natured smart-ass. She is very funny. Just ask her. Her favorite human, ever, is her daughter, Lily.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/burn-baby-burn-into-this-new-year</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/burn-baby-burn-into-this-new-year#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Brilliant Books to Help You Live and Love Your Life</title><description><![CDATA[Although movie theater screens outnumber bookstores in the US (40,759 screens to 24,611 stores in 2016), many of us name bookstores and libraries among our favorite places to be. Few things beat thumbing through pages we can&rsquo;t turn away from or scrolling through a mesmerizing tale on a backlit screen. Books are magical, lifelong friends.
<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Despite constant predictions of their demise, books remain very much alive and&mdash;among their many charms&mdash;serve as vibrant catalysts for helping us connect with our own humanity&nbsp;in all its varied and messy forms.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
So, in appreciation of our dear, old, irreplaceable friend&mdash;the good book&mdash;we recommend these five titles as steadfast companions on your journey.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>1. <em>Becoming Wise: An Inquiry into the Mystery and Art of Living,</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Krista Tippett</a></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling: </strong>Tippett&nbsp;has a gift for inviting deep thinkers to think even deeper. After years spent interviewing many of the world&rsquo;s brightest minds, she&nbsp;wove together threads of her fascinating conversations into this gem of a read. The book features civil rights icon John Lewis, <em>Brain Pickings</em> master Maria Popova, renowned meditation teacher Sylvia Boorstein, and many others.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Great Takeaway:</strong> &ldquo;Sometimes the pain of the world seems incomprehensible and unbearable to me. And I think if there&rsquo;s anything that balances it, it&rsquo;s wonder at the world, the amazingness of people, how resilient they are, how people will take care of others they don&rsquo;t know. If somebody falls or someone&rsquo;s in trouble in a public place, people take care of them. Human beings have that ability. I don&rsquo;t think they have to learn it.&rdquo; &mdash;Sylvia Boorstein, MSW, PhD

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>2.&nbsp;<em>How to Be Here,</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Rob Bell</a></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> Life kicks you down sometimes, and Rob Bell is here to lift you back up. Purpose, joy, and meaning aren&rsquo;t just catchphrases in this masterful account. Bell&nbsp;walks the reader casually and thoughtfully through chapters designed to give you hope right at the moment when you&rsquo;re not sure hope is a real thing.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Great Takeaway:</strong> &ldquo;How we respond to what happens to us&mdash;especially the painful, excruciating things that we never wanted and we have no control over&mdash;is a creative act &hellip; We have power, more power than we realize, power to decide that we are going to make something good out of <em>even this</em>.&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>3. <em>Brave Enough,</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Cheryl Strayed</a></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> <em>Brave Enough</em> is a little book, in both size and length&mdash;and sometimes that&rsquo;s just what you need. Strayed&nbsp;offers 135 pages of short aphorisms and affirmations to make you smile, think, and keep going. This book isn&rsquo;t going to change the world, but the refreshing thing is that it&rsquo;s not even trying. It&rsquo;s just a book you can toss into your bag, car, or locker&mdash;and grab hold of when you need a kick in the pants.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Great Takeaway:</strong> &ldquo;Forgiveness doesn&rsquo;t just sit there like a pretty boy in a bar. Forgiveness is the old fat guy you have to <strong>haul up the hill.</strong>&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2><em>4. The Emotional Life of Your Brain, </em>by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Richard J. Davidson, PhD </a></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> When a world-class neuroscientist tells you how to use your mind to train your brain, pay attention. Davidson skillfully explains his 30 years of research on the neuroplasticity of the brain, and offers steps on how to recognize your own emotional style and employ practical ways to modify your own behavior.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Great Takeaway: </strong>&ldquo;Just as each person has a unique fingerprint and a unique face, each of us has a unique emotional profile, one that is so much a part of who we are that those who know us well can often predict how we will respond to an emotional challenge.&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2><em>5. Soul Shifts: Transformative Wisdom for Creating a Life of Authentic Awakening, Emotional Freedom, and Practical Spirituality,</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Barbara De Angelis, PhD</a></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> No one has all the answers, but we&rsquo;re lucky to share the world with people who have clues as to a few of them. De Angelis calls this book &ldquo;a practical handbook for awakening&rdquo; and that seems to fit. Dive in, and let her&nbsp;speak to that part of your mind that keeps wondering, &ldquo;What should I do now?&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Great Takeaway: </strong>&ldquo;What is this powerful inner turn of events that starts us off on a serious path of growth? I call it the Cosmic Alarm Clock. It&rsquo;s as if an alarm goes off suddenly inside you, and it dawns on you that you&rsquo;ve been asleep in your life, and need to get up &hellip; The thing about the Cosmic Alarm Clock is that once it goes off, no matter how many times you push the snooze button and try to ignore the alert, it is going to keep ringing until you pay attention.&rdquo;

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<strong>Lisbeth Darsh is a 1440 Multiversity employee, as well as the author of six books and the popular fitness/inspiration blog <i>Words With Lisbeth</i>. A former executive at CrossFit Inc., Lisbeth has also been a fitness coach/gym owner, an English professor, and a military officer. You can usually find Lisbeth with a book or barbell in hand, looking to lift spirits and weights.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/brilliant-books-to-help-you-live-and-love-your-life</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/brilliant-books-to-help-you-live-and-love-your-life#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Brilliant Books to Help You Live and Love Your Life</title><description><![CDATA[Although movie theater screens outnumber bookstores in the US (40,759 screens to 24,611 stores in 2016), many of us name bookstores and libraries among our favorite places to be. Few things beat thumbing through pages we can&rsquo;t turn away from or scrolling through a mesmerizing tale on a backlit screen. Books are magical, lifelong friends.
<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Despite constant predictions of their demise, books remain very much alive and&mdash;among their many charms&mdash;serve as vibrant catalysts for helping us connect with our own humanity&nbsp;in all its varied and messy forms.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
So, in appreciation of our dear, old, irreplaceable friend&mdash;the good book&mdash;we recommend these five titles as steadfast companions on your journey.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>1. <em>Becoming Wise: An Inquiry into the Mystery and Art of Living,</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Krista Tippett</a></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling: </strong>Tippett&nbsp;has a gift for inviting deep thinkers to think even deeper. After years spent interviewing many of the world&rsquo;s brightest minds, she&nbsp;wove together threads of her fascinating conversations into this gem of a read. The book features civil rights icon John Lewis, <em>Brain Pickings</em> master Maria Popova, renowned meditation teacher Sylvia Boorstein, and many others.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Great Takeaway:</strong> &ldquo;Sometimes the pain of the world seems incomprehensible and unbearable to me. And I think if there&rsquo;s anything that balances it, it&rsquo;s wonder at the world, the amazingness of people, how resilient they are, how people will take care of others they don&rsquo;t know. If somebody falls or someone&rsquo;s in trouble in a public place, people take care of them. Human beings have that ability. I don&rsquo;t think they have to learn it.&rdquo; &mdash;Sylvia Boorstein, MSW, PhD

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>2.&nbsp;<em>How to Be Here,</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Rob Bell</a></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> Life kicks you down sometimes, and Rob Bell is here to lift you back up. Purpose, joy, and meaning aren&rsquo;t just catchphrases in this masterful account. Bell&nbsp;walks the reader casually and thoughtfully through chapters designed to give you hope right at the moment when you&rsquo;re not sure hope is a real thing.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Great Takeaway:</strong> &ldquo;How we respond to what happens to us&mdash;especially the painful, excruciating things that we never wanted and we have no control over&mdash;is a creative act &hellip; We have power, more power than we realize, power to decide that we are going to make something good out of <em>even this</em>.&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>3. <em>Brave Enough,</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Cheryl Strayed</a></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> <em>Brave Enough</em> is a little book, in both size and length&mdash;and sometimes that&rsquo;s just what you need. Strayed&nbsp;offers 135 pages of short aphorisms and affirmations to make you smile, think, and keep going. This book isn&rsquo;t going to change the world, but the refreshing thing is that it&rsquo;s not even trying. It&rsquo;s just a book you can toss into your bag, car, or locker&mdash;and grab hold of when you need a kick in the pants.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Great Takeaway:</strong> &ldquo;Forgiveness doesn&rsquo;t just sit there like a pretty boy in a bar. Forgiveness is the old fat guy you have to <strong>haul up the hill.</strong>&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2><em>4. The Emotional Life of Your Brain, </em>by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Richard J. Davidson, PhD </a></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> When a world-class neuroscientist tells you how to use your mind to train your brain, pay attention. Davidson skillfully explains his 30 years of research on the neuroplasticity of the brain, and offers steps on how to recognize your own emotional style and employ practical ways to modify your own behavior.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Great Takeaway: </strong>&ldquo;Just as each person has a unique fingerprint and a unique face, each of us has a unique emotional profile, one that is so much a part of who we are that those who know us well can often predict how we will respond to an emotional challenge.&rdquo;

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<h2><em>5. Soul Shifts: Transformative Wisdom for Creating a Life of Authentic Awakening, Emotional Freedom, and Practical Spirituality,</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Barbara De Angelis, PhD</a></h2>

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<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> No one has all the answers, but we&rsquo;re lucky to share the world with people who have clues as to a few of them. De Angelis calls this book &ldquo;a practical handbook for awakening&rdquo; and that seems to fit. Dive in, and let her&nbsp;speak to that part of your mind that keeps wondering, &ldquo;What should I do now?&rdquo;

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<strong>Great Takeaway: </strong>&ldquo;What is this powerful inner turn of events that starts us off on a serious path of growth? I call it the Cosmic Alarm Clock. It&rsquo;s as if an alarm goes off suddenly inside you, and it dawns on you that you&rsquo;ve been asleep in your life, and need to get up &hellip; The thing about the Cosmic Alarm Clock is that once it goes off, no matter how many times you push the snooze button and try to ignore the alert, it is going to keep ringing until you pay attention.&rdquo;

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<strong>Lisbeth Darsh is a 1440 Multiversity employee, as well as the author of six books and the popular fitness/inspiration blog <i>Words With Lisbeth</i>. A former executive at CrossFit Inc., Lisbeth has also been a fitness coach/gym owner, an English professor, and a military officer. You can usually find Lisbeth with a book or barbell in hand, looking to lift spirits and weights.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/brilliant-books-to-help-you-live-and-love-your-life</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/brilliant-books-to-help-you-live-and-love-your-life#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;As Long As There&apos;s Injustice, You Keep Showing Up&quot;</title><description><![CDATA[<h2>1440: You&rsquo;ve been an activist all your life, marching and protesting for many causes. How do you maintain your optimism?</h2>

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<em>Sylvia Boorstein:</em> Well, I&rsquo;m not so sure I have tremendous optimism! Here&rsquo;s a story that makes my point. There&rsquo;s a movie that was made about the Women&rsquo;s March in January 2017. One of the women profiled was from Santa Rosa, California, not far from where I live. She&rsquo;s over 80 years old and as they roll her wheelchair out to the car to go to the march someone asks her about protesting at her age. She responds with something like, &ldquo;I&rsquo;ve been marching since I was 30 years old. Now I&rsquo;m past 80 but the job isn&rsquo;t finished, so I need to keep going to marches.&rdquo;

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I could have said the same thing. I march for this, I march for that. I come from labor union people and I march for them.

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<span class="quote">But the job isn&rsquo;t finished. If it&rsquo;s the right thing to do, to stand up for a cause, then you can&rsquo;t stay home. </span>

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If you&rsquo;re not part of the solution, you are part of the problem, as the saying goes. As long as there&rsquo;s injustice, you just keep showing up.

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<h2>1440: What other ways are you involved in activism in addition to marching?</h2>

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<em>Sylvia Boorstein:</em> There are three nonprofit organizations that I support that are working on the causes that are important to me. When I get really demoralized about what&rsquo;s going on, I go online and I give more money to those three nonprofits, and immediately I feel hopeful.

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<span class="quote">The dharma way of explaining that would be that a moment of generosity is a moment of non-self-preoccupation. It&rsquo;s the opposite of greed. </span>

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In that moment, I&rsquo;m deciding these people could use what I have more than I need it. I have lessened the burden of neediness in my own heart. We need things in order to make ourselves comfortable&mdash;to feel that the world is not coming to an end. That neediness goes away in the moment that we are connecting with causes rather than being preoccupied with our particular angst.

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The second noble truth says that we suffer because our mind wants things to be different. With generosity you&rsquo;re giving something away, but you&rsquo;re also giving away your imperative, your need for things to be the way you want them to be. You are saying, &ldquo;This isn&rsquo;t what I wanted, but it&rsquo;s what I got, and this is what I&rsquo;m going to do with it.&rdquo; It&rsquo;s the same with sickness or any other tragedy. You can take back your life and your mind by being generous.

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<h2>1440: What role can lovingkindness play in helping to solve the problems of the world?</h2>

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<em>Sylvia Boorstein:</em> We&rsquo;re being called upon to love our neighbors as ourself&mdash;a central tenet of all religions. In Buddhism it&rsquo;s the teaching of metta&mdash;impartial kindness or lovingkindness. Another translation of metta is friendliness. We all need to learn to be friends.

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<span class="quote">This flare up of racism and nationalism and partisanship all over the world is an existential challenge for us. We can&rsquo;t afford to think of ourselves as separate from all the other beings. </span>

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They&rsquo;re breathing the same atmosphere, drinking the same water, and living next door to us.

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We are wired to be attached to our own comfort and pleasure, and the comfort, pleasure, and well-being of our kin. We recognize the distress of our kin before we recognize the distress of other people. This isn&rsquo;t a bad thing; it&rsquo;s what keeps us alive. But for the first time in our planet&rsquo;s history we are using so many resources that unless we begin to see the whole planet and everyone on it as our kin we&rsquo;ll continue to take bad care of it and there won&rsquo;t be a planet left for anybody&rsquo;s kin.

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The Metta Sutta teaches us to wish, with gladness, that other beings be safe and happy and at ease. I find that so stirring. I think it says everything about training the mind, the body, and the heart for impartial kindness. It doesn&rsquo;t mean I forget who&rsquo;s in my family and who&rsquo;s not. It doesn&rsquo;t mean that I don&rsquo;t feel things that hit my own family more strongly than the floods or fires or tragedies that hit others.

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<span class="quote">This strong feeling I have for my own kin is the bridge to realizing that everybody feels that way about their own kin. It&rsquo;s the bridge to feeling kinship with everyone. </span>

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/as-long-as-theres-injustice-you-keep-showing-up</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/as-long-as-theres-injustice-you-keep-showing-up#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>6 Smart Tips for Awesome Family Summer Vacations</title><description><![CDATA[Quick&mdash;remember the best summer vacation of your childhood.
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Can you feel the sand on your toes as you built a gigantic sand castle, or the high grass tickling your calves as you ran through a meadow in the twilight of a long summer day? Or maybe you recall&nbsp;waking up in the cool quiet of a mossy cabin and hearing the chatter of morning birds in the tall trees outside?

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What you might not remember is your parents planning that vacation, talking at night behind closed doors about what the next summer adventure would be. Fast forward to today&mdash;you&rsquo;re one of the parents and guess what? It&rsquo;s time to start thinking about building those fantastic memories for your kids.

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So, here are six things to consider when crafting your next great family summer vacation:

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<h2>1. Planning Is Key</h2>

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Time is of the essence. You probably want to start planning now for your summer vacation, or life will get busy and you might end up doing the same old thing as last year. (Summer in your backyard was fun, but aren&rsquo;t you ready for something a little different?)

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<h2>2. Look Past Beaches and Amusement Parks</h2>

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The beach is great and Legoland is fun, but have you ever considered going to an awesome family camp? Your whole family could learn yoga and mindfulness, and get in those hikes in the woods, too. Take home&nbsp;skills for all ages that stick with you far longer than a bag of candy and another plastic toy. Interested? Check out the <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Mindful Family Camp Retreat</a> with Elisha and Stefanie Goldstein.

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Do you have a teenage daughter who might enjoy some extra TLC? Here&rsquo;s another not-so-run-of-the-mill course for parents and kids, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Mothers and Daughters Ages 13-15</a> taught by mother-daughter duo Sil and Eliza Reynolds. (They also teach <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Mothers and Daughters Ages 10-12.</a>) You and your daughter will learn skills for enhanced communication, take away tips to nourish your relationship, and still have plenty of fun doing yoga and adventuring in the Santa Cruz mountains.

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<h2>3. While Your Kids Are Away at Camp, Consider a Program for Adults!</h2>

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Kids aren&rsquo;t the only ones in need of summer fun. Remember to schedule a vacay for yourself too!&nbsp;What about letting your inner goddess roam free at Sierra Bender&rsquo;s <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Goddesses Gone Wild</a>?

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Or, if you want to dive into a parenting program, how about Daniel Siegel&rsquo;s <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Launching Your Adolescent into Adulthood</a>? Enjoy the chance to immerse into new learning while soaking up some weekend <u>R &amp; R</u>.

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<div class="full-image"><img alt="woman in woods with child" height="640" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/blog-body-vacation.jpg" width="960" /></div>

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<h2>4. No Matter Where You Go, There Will Be Rough Spots</h2>

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Routine provides comfort&mdash;to kids and parents alike. Going on vacation is a disruption from routine, so be sure to expect hiccups and bumps. Even the best-laid vacation plans end up with a few detours, a few tears, and some spilled lemonade. Just remember to breathe through the disappointments.

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That can certainly be easier to say than do (especially if you have a toddler melting down in a convenience store) but remember&mdash;this too shall pass. Don&rsquo;t worry about what other people might be&nbsp;thinking. Focus instead on what is best for your child and you. Like David Bowie sang in &ldquo;Golden Years&rdquo; many moons ago: &ldquo;Walk tall. Act fine.&rdquo;

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<h2>5. Know That Fresh Air Will Bring New and Fresh Thoughts</h2>

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A vacation in nature can light the creativity candle&mdash;for both you and your children. Plan your vacation days so that you all get some movement time and some creative time. One will feed the other. Keep those notebooks and paintbrushes handy.

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<h2>6. Go Slow and Smile: The Happiest Vacations Aren&rsquo;t Always the Busiest</h2>

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When you recall your fondest summer vacation, what do you remember most? The activities? Or the relaxed moments in which all of you just seemed to <em>be </em>together somewhere special&mdash;happy, warm, and loving in the same space, satisfied simply to be sharing each other&rsquo;s company.

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In this busy world, we often get caught up in too much and move too quickly. So, no matter what you do for your family vacation, it&rsquo;s important to plan some time to slow down and soak up what the world has to offer. Take in the scenery, breathe in the air, appreciate the moment &hellip; as a family. Enjoy the wonderful moments as they unfold.

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<strong>Lisbeth Darsh is a 1440 Multiversity content fanatic, as well as the author of six books and the popular fitness/inspiration blog <a href="https://wordswithlisbeth.com"><i>Words With Lisbeth</i></a>. A former executive at CrossFit Inc., Lisbeth has also been a fitness coach/gym owner, an English professor, and a military officer. You can usually find Lisbeth with a book or barbell in hand, looking to lift spirits and weights.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/6-smart-tips-for-awesome-family-summer-vacations</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/6-smart-tips-for-awesome-family-summer-vacations#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>6 Smart Tips for Awesome Family Summer Vacations</title><description><![CDATA[Quick&mdash;remember the best summer vacation of your childhood.
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Can you feel the sand on your toes as you built a gigantic sand castle, or the high grass tickling your calves as you ran through a meadow in the twilight of a long summer day? Or maybe you recall&nbsp;waking up in the cool quiet of a mossy cabin and hearing the chatter of morning birds in the tall trees outside?

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
What you might not remember is your parents planning that vacation, talking at night behind closed doors about what the next summer adventure would be. Fast forward to today&mdash;you&rsquo;re one of the parents and guess what? It&rsquo;s time to start thinking about building those fantastic memories for your kids.

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So, here are six things to consider when crafting your next great family summer vacation:

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<h2>1. Planning Is Key</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Time is of the essence. You probably want to start planning now for your summer vacation, or life will get busy and you might end up doing the same old thing as last year. (Summer in your backyard was fun, but aren&rsquo;t you ready for something a little different?)

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>2. Look Past Beaches and Amusement Parks</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The beach is great and Legoland is fun, but have you ever considered going to an awesome family camp? Your whole family could learn yoga and mindfulness, and get in those hikes in the woods, too. Take home&nbsp;skills for all ages that stick with you far longer than a bag of candy and another plastic toy. Interested? Check out the <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Mindful Family Camp Retreat</a> with Elisha and Stefanie Goldstein.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Do you have a teenage daughter who might enjoy some extra TLC? Here&rsquo;s another not-so-run-of-the-mill course for parents and kids, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Mothers and Daughters Ages 13-15</a> taught by mother-daughter duo Sil and Eliza Reynolds. (They also teach <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Mothers and Daughters Ages 10-12.</a>) You and your daughter will learn skills for enhanced communication, take away tips to nourish your relationship, and still have plenty of fun doing yoga and adventuring in the Santa Cruz mountains.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>3. While Your Kids Are Away at Camp, Consider a Program for Adults!</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Kids aren&rsquo;t the only ones in need of summer fun. Remember to schedule a vacay for yourself too!&nbsp;What about letting your inner goddess roam free at Sierra Bender&rsquo;s <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Goddesses Gone Wild</a>?

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Or, if you want to dive into a parenting program, how about Daniel Siegel&rsquo;s <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Launching Your Adolescent into Adulthood</a>? Enjoy the chance to immerse into new learning while soaking up some weekend <u>R &amp; R</u>.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<div class="full-image"><img alt="woman in woods with child" height="640" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/blog-body-vacation.jpg" width="960" /></div>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>4. No Matter Where You Go, There Will Be Rough Spots</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Routine provides comfort&mdash;to kids and parents alike. Going on vacation is a disruption from routine, so be sure to expect hiccups and bumps. Even the best-laid vacation plans end up with a few detours, a few tears, and some spilled lemonade. Just remember to breathe through the disappointments.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
That can certainly be easier to say than do (especially if you have a toddler melting down in a convenience store) but remember&mdash;this too shall pass. Don&rsquo;t worry about what other people might be&nbsp;thinking. Focus instead on what is best for your child and you. Like David Bowie sang in &ldquo;Golden Years&rdquo; many moons ago: &ldquo;Walk tall. Act fine.&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>5. Know That Fresh Air Will Bring New and Fresh Thoughts</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
A vacation in nature can light the creativity candle&mdash;for both you and your children. Plan your vacation days so that you all get some movement time and some creative time. One will feed the other. Keep those notebooks and paintbrushes handy.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>6. Go Slow and Smile: The Happiest Vacations Aren&rsquo;t Always the Busiest</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
When you recall your fondest summer vacation, what do you remember most? The activities? Or the relaxed moments in which all of you just seemed to <em>be </em>together somewhere special&mdash;happy, warm, and loving in the same space, satisfied simply to be sharing each other&rsquo;s company.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
In this busy world, we often get caught up in too much and move too quickly. So, no matter what you do for your family vacation, it&rsquo;s important to plan some time to slow down and soak up what the world has to offer. Take in the scenery, breathe in the air, appreciate the moment &hellip; as a family. Enjoy the wonderful moments as they unfold.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Lisbeth Darsh is a 1440 Multiversity content fanatic, as well as the author of six books and the popular fitness/inspiration blog <a href="https://wordswithlisbeth.com"><i>Words With Lisbeth</i></a>. A former executive at CrossFit Inc., Lisbeth has also been a fitness coach/gym owner, an English professor, and a military officer. You can usually find Lisbeth with a book or barbell in hand, looking to lift spirits and weights.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/6-smart-tips-for-awesome-family-summer-vacations</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/6-smart-tips-for-awesome-family-summer-vacations#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>5 Soulful Questions with Panache Desai</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Panache Desai</a>, author of <em>Discovering Your Soul Signature,</em> is a transformation catalyst and inspirational thought leader who guides people to their authentic, essential nature. He&rsquo;s <a href="https://www.oprah.com/own-super-soul-sunday/soul-to-soul-with-panache-desai-video">appeared with Oprah Winfrey</a> on the Emmy Award-winning series Super Soul Sunday, was a featured speaker for the United Nations Enlightenment Society and at the Third Metric conferences, and has collaborated with many renowned spiritual teachers, including Deepak Chopra, Michael Bernard Beckwith, Elizabeth Lesser, and Ram Dass.
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<h2>Q: In a modern world seemingly filled with turmoil and evidence of disconnection, how do we stay balanced or aligned with higher purpose?</h2>

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<em>Panache Desai:</em> Peace is just one breath away. When you consciously cultivate peace within yourself, you spread it to the world around you. Keep reconnecting to Source. Even when the outside world feels chaotic, you can create your own inner sanctuary rooted in the ultimate reality of oneness and connection.

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<h2>Q: Is there ever a point when a person is done with vibrational transformation? What does the peak level in human existence look or feel like?</h2>

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<em>Panache Desai:</em> Vibrational transformation is a three-phase process&mdash;the first phase is authenticity and alignment, the second phase is self-realization, and the third and final phase is limitless expansion. This is a state of continual expansion toward greater levels of abundance, purpose, and love.

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<h2>Q: What is one small action step that someone can take that could make a profound difference in their spiritual alignment?</h2>

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<em>Panache Desai:</em>

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<span class="quote">Acceptance is the most powerful step a person can take toward greater alignment. When you choose to accept yourself&mdash;your life, your past, and your present&mdash;you free up an enormous amount of energy normally spent on resisting what is. </span>

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<h2>Q: How do we keep self-love and self-care from becoming self-absorption or selfishness?</h2>

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<em>Panache Desai:</em> Selfishness is ego-driven, while self-love stems from divine awareness and knowledge of who you are beyond your ego. When you make divine connection and presence a habit, self-care happens naturally. You learn to energetically protect yourself while also becoming more and more generous, loving, and compassionate.

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<h2>Q: How do you know if you&rsquo;ve found your divine purpose?</h2>

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<em>Panache Desai:</em> When you align with your divine purpose, you can feel it at your core. There&rsquo;s no questioning or second-guessing involved.

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Panache Desai will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">You Are Enough: Discovering a Life Without Limits</a> from April 17 &ndash; 19, 2020 at 1440 Multiversity.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-soulful-questions-with-panache-desai</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-soulful-questions-with-panache-desai#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>5 Simple Steps to Boost Your Life</title><description><![CDATA[You hear it all the time: &ldquo;New year, new you.&rdquo; Drawn by the power of the calendar, we see the start of each year as a wonderland of opportunity and growth and we&rsquo;re ready to grab it all. More success, more love, more everything.
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But how to do that? How do you seize a new year? How do you make certain you don&rsquo;t get stuck in a familiar rut of new plans followed by old results?

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Here are 5 simple steps that can help you seize this (or any) year:

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<h2>1) Think &ldquo;What Can I Celebrate?&rdquo;</h2>

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Michael Beckwith</a> offers this question as a powerful tool in his book <em>The Answer is You</em>&mdash;and it&rsquo;s a great question to ask. Even when our world seems dark, there is still much to celebrate, much to enjoy, and much to applaud, but we forget that sometimes. Yet it&rsquo;s important to focus on joy and the potential for joy because this is how we find our path forward, by remembering what feels fabulous and stirs us to action. So, celebrate your family, your community, your faith, your work, your pets, whoever and whatever adds value and meaning to your life. Big round of applause and gratitude!

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Then, go one step farther: look inward. Moving into this year, take more of Michael&rsquo;s advice and abandon the agreements you have made with mediocrity. If this is going to be your best year ever, then there is one more crucial answer to, &ldquo;What Can I Celebrate?&rdquo; &hellip; And it&rsquo;s you. Celebrate you.

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<h2>2) Dive Deep into Something New</h2>

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Stretch. Plunge headfirst into learning something you always wanted to know more about. Take a course or learn a skill. Grow your brain, grow your spirit, grow your body, grow your life.

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While this step seems easy, as adults sometimes we hesitate to jump into learning experiences because learning new things can be a bit scary. We&rsquo;re used to being seen as competent authority figures, and to admit that we don&rsquo;t know everything can be daunting.

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But it can also be freeing.

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The same things that can make a plunge seem perilous&mdash;we&rsquo;re not in charge and we&rsquo;re trying something new&mdash;can also make our new adventure extremely exciting&mdash;because we&rsquo;re not in charge and we&rsquo;re trying something new. Adopting a beginner&rsquo;s mindset can bring you back to the thrill of childhood and open your brain to many wonderful opportunities for growth.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Bruce Lipton</a>, PhD, says, &ldquo;You will not do what you think you cannot do&rdquo;&mdash;and he&rsquo;s right, so change your thinking and do. Dive deep into something new.

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<h2>3) Say Yes to Your Dreams</h2>

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We all have dreams we pursue and dreams we put on the shelf. Time, money, careers, kids: so many responsibilities fill our schedules and lives. But the truth of the matter is that not one of us is getting younger. So, maybe this is the year that you should take at least one of those dreams and go for it. Maybe this is the year that you start that business you always wanted to start&mdash;whether that&rsquo;s a full-blown Silicon Valley start-up or a small side business to tend and grow in your spare time.

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But first you have to say yes and decide to begin. <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Mike Dooley</a> says, &ldquo;The one thing all famous authors, world-class athletes, business tycoons, singers, actors, and celebrated achievers in any field have in common is that they all began their journeys when they were none of these things. Yet still, they began their journeys.&rdquo;

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Begin your journey.

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<h2>4) Change Your Energy</h2>

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If life puts you in a slump at any point during this year, remember that you can dig yourself out of a hole. No situation is permanent unless you accept it as permanent.

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But to get out of that hole, you might have to change your energy. <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Panache Desai</a> talks a great deal about how to change your energy, and one of his suggestions is, &ldquo;accept everything (for three minutes).&rdquo; He advocates three minutes of stillness and &ldquo;profound acceptance&rdquo; every day to help you unstick what has you stuck. Try it.

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<h2>5) Calm Your Mind</h2>

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Our brains are on overload daily. Bombarded by our digital universe, we can often find ourselves in a state of what feels like continuous agitation. We get stressed, twitchy, and touchy.

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But it doesn&rsquo;t have to be that way. Take time daily to calm your mind. That can mean doing yoga, meditating, running, lifting a barbell, reading, or simply taking a walk in the woods with your dog. Do what works for you, but make sure to do something. <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Richard Davidson</a>, PhD, says, &ldquo;The key to a healthy life is having a healthy mind&rdquo;&mdash;and he&rsquo;s right. So take care of your mind by calming it. Then, when you need it, rev your mind up and go.

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These 5 Simple Steps aren&rsquo;t the answer to everything in this coming year, but they&rsquo;re a great list to keep handy so you can keep going. Good luck, and may this be the best year of your life!

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<strong>Lisbeth Darsh is a 1440 Multiversity employee, as well as the author of six books and the popular fitness/inspiration blog <i>Words With Lisbeth</i>. A former executive at CrossFit, Inc., Lisbeth has also been a fitness coach/gym owner, an English professor, and a military officer. You can usually find Lisbeth with a book or barbell in hand, looking to lift spirits and weights.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-simple-steps-to-boost-your-life</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-simple-steps-to-boost-your-life#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>5 Minutes with Elizabeth Gilbert: On Curiosity and Creativity</title><description><![CDATA[<b>Author of <em>Eat Pray Love</em>, Elizabeth Gilbert has become an important voice for creativity itself. Her most recent book is <em>Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear</em>. She spoke with 1440 with her signature candor and gift for &ldquo;telling it like it is.&rdquo;</b>
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<b>1440 Multiversity:</b> Do you have a daily practice?

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<b>Elizabeth Gilbert:</b> I feel like my daily practice is curiosity and integrity&mdash;and that shows up in lots of different ways.

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Writing is my job, and I&rsquo;m so lucky that it is, but I think my vocation is really to just be interested in what it means to be alive&mdash;to be interested in other people&rsquo;s lives and interested in my own; to get curious and notice things, like, Oh wow, that didn&rsquo;t work at all. Oh look, that blew up in my face. Oh man, that doesn&rsquo;t feel good. And not taking it personally, just looking at it all with a stance of: This is so interesting.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Personally, I think &ldquo;interesting&rdquo; is one of the biggest salvation words. People often say not to use the word interesting to describe things, but I love that word. For example, when I am spiraling into emotional drama, sometimes I can back off from it by observing that what I am doing and thinking and feeling is actually really interesting: Now isn&rsquo;t that interesting that you think you&rsquo;re the biggest piece of garbage in the whole world? What&rsquo;s going on?

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It&rsquo;s about not skimming the surface, no matter what&rsquo;s going on in your life. It&rsquo;s about getting curious and interested in yourself&mdash;this being who is feeling and acting these ways.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Look again. Look closer. Be engaged. Be what the kids today are calling woke, be woke. W-O-K-E. That&rsquo;s a better way to do things than to sleepwalk through it all.

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<b>1440:</b> How has your book <i>Big Magic </i>changed you?

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<b>Elizabeth:</b> It&rsquo;s important to me to make sure in life that I&rsquo;m always smoking what I&rsquo;m selling. So I published <i>Big Magic, </i>a book about creativity, and then I find myself last year having these little creative impulses and not following up on them. Just because. They were impulses to write poetry. And I&rsquo;ve never written poetry.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
There&rsquo;s a part of me saying things like, you know, Liz, poetry is a different thing than prose. You&rsquo;ve never taken a class on it. You probably won&rsquo;t be good at it. And nobody will want to see it.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I would catch that voice in my head and, having just put out <i>Big Magic</i>, I knew I had to respond to those impulses. I had to write this poetry because otherwise, I couldn&rsquo;t get on stage and tell people to follow their creative impulses.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
So I wrote some poetry. And as I say, &ldquo;It wasn&rsquo;t very good but nobody died from it.&rdquo; Then I showed it to a friend of mine who&rsquo;s a musician, and she said, &ldquo;What we should do is just turn these into songs.&rdquo;

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The voices started saying, You&rsquo;re not a musician. You&rsquo;re not trained. You&rsquo;re not blah, blah, blah&hellip; So, of course we sat down and turned them into songs. Then this friend said, &ldquo;We should record them&rdquo;&mdash;and we ended up in the recording studio the next month with a bunch of our friends who are musicians, and we made a song.

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What is funny is that I was in a meeting with some publishers in New York the following week and they asked, &ldquo;How was your weekend?&rdquo;

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I said, &ldquo;It was so cool. I rented a music studio and we got some friends together.&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
They said, &ldquo;Oh, are you musician?&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
And I said, &ldquo;No, but we did it. We made something together.&rdquo;

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And somebody in the room got really perplexed and said, &ldquo;But what is it for?&rdquo;

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And that is the million-dollar question. That is the whole point of <i>Big Magic </i>and what I know and believe.

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What is it for?

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It&rsquo;s for because I wanted to.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It&rsquo;s for because it wasn&rsquo;t there last Thursday and now it&rsquo;s a thing that&rsquo;s in the world.

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It&rsquo;s for because I love the idea of cocreating the universe and being a participant.

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It&rsquo;s for a sense of community adventure.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It&rsquo;s for because we&rsquo;re not just here to pay bills and die.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-minutes-with-elizabeth-gilbert-on-curiosity-and-creativity</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-minutes-with-elizabeth-gilbert-on-curiosity-and-creativity#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>5 Minutes with Elizabeth Gilbert: On Curiosity and Creativity</title><description><![CDATA[<b>Author of <em>Eat Pray Love</em>, Elizabeth Gilbert has become an important voice for creativity itself. Her most recent book is <em>Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear</em>. She spoke with 1440 with her signature candor and gift for &ldquo;telling it like it is.&rdquo;</b>
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<b>1440 Multiversity:</b> Do you have a daily practice?

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<b>Elizabeth Gilbert:</b> I feel like my daily practice is curiosity and integrity&mdash;and that shows up in lots of different ways.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Writing is my job, and I&rsquo;m so lucky that it is, but I think my vocation is really to just be interested in what it means to be alive&mdash;to be interested in other people&rsquo;s lives and interested in my own; to get curious and notice things, like, Oh wow, that didn&rsquo;t work at all. Oh look, that blew up in my face. Oh man, that doesn&rsquo;t feel good. And not taking it personally, just looking at it all with a stance of: This is so interesting.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Personally, I think &ldquo;interesting&rdquo; is one of the biggest salvation words. People often say not to use the word interesting to describe things, but I love that word. For example, when I am spiraling into emotional drama, sometimes I can back off from it by observing that what I am doing and thinking and feeling is actually really interesting: Now isn&rsquo;t that interesting that you think you&rsquo;re the biggest piece of garbage in the whole world? What&rsquo;s going on?

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It&rsquo;s about not skimming the surface, no matter what&rsquo;s going on in your life. It&rsquo;s about getting curious and interested in yourself&mdash;this being who is feeling and acting these ways.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Look again. Look closer. Be engaged. Be what the kids today are calling woke, be woke. W-O-K-E. That&rsquo;s a better way to do things than to sleepwalk through it all.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<b>1440:</b> How has your book <i>Big Magic </i>changed you?

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<b>Elizabeth:</b> It&rsquo;s important to me to make sure in life that I&rsquo;m always smoking what I&rsquo;m selling. So I published <i>Big Magic, </i>a book about creativity, and then I find myself last year having these little creative impulses and not following up on them. Just because. They were impulses to write poetry. And I&rsquo;ve never written poetry.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
There&rsquo;s a part of me saying things like, you know, Liz, poetry is a different thing than prose. You&rsquo;ve never taken a class on it. You probably won&rsquo;t be good at it. And nobody will want to see it.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I would catch that voice in my head and, having just put out <i>Big Magic</i>, I knew I had to respond to those impulses. I had to write this poetry because otherwise, I couldn&rsquo;t get on stage and tell people to follow their creative impulses.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
So I wrote some poetry. And as I say, &ldquo;It wasn&rsquo;t very good but nobody died from it.&rdquo; Then I showed it to a friend of mine who&rsquo;s a musician, and she said, &ldquo;What we should do is just turn these into songs.&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The voices started saying, You&rsquo;re not a musician. You&rsquo;re not trained. You&rsquo;re not blah, blah, blah&hellip; So, of course we sat down and turned them into songs. Then this friend said, &ldquo;We should record them&rdquo;&mdash;and we ended up in the recording studio the next month with a bunch of our friends who are musicians, and we made a song.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
What is funny is that I was in a meeting with some publishers in New York the following week and they asked, &ldquo;How was your weekend?&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I said, &ldquo;It was so cool. I rented a music studio and we got some friends together.&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
They said, &ldquo;Oh, are you musician?&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
And I said, &ldquo;No, but we did it. We made something together.&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
And somebody in the room got really perplexed and said, &ldquo;But what is it for?&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
And that is the million-dollar question. That is the whole point of <i>Big Magic </i>and what I know and believe.

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What is it for?

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It&rsquo;s for because I wanted to.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It&rsquo;s for because it wasn&rsquo;t there last Thursday and now it&rsquo;s a thing that&rsquo;s in the world.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It&rsquo;s for because I love the idea of cocreating the universe and being a participant.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It&rsquo;s for a sense of community adventure.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It&rsquo;s for because we&rsquo;re not just here to pay bills and die.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-minutes-with-elizabeth-gilbert-on-curiosity-and-creativity</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-minutes-with-elizabeth-gilbert-on-curiosity-and-creativity#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Why Nature is the Ultimate Medicine</title><description><![CDATA[Nature has the power to change our lives. People who have direct experience in nature live longer, are healthier and happier, and find more fulfillment in life. If we could package the benefits, the &ldquo;nature pill&rdquo; would be the newest miracle drug.
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Early civilizations understood that nature was a sacred presence and that a greater consciousness permeated the natural world. Unlike early civilizations, our society has taught us to forget our interconnectedness with the natural world. We have forgotten who we truly are.

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For many of us, it is becoming more and more feasible to live in an entirely man-made world, to rush from one man-made container to another such container, by means of yet another container, without ever encountering a nonhuman life-form. Nothing could be more detrimental to our physical, emotional, and spiritual health.

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<span class="quote">As a species, we need to live in close and regular contact with creatures who are different from us. </span>

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This is as true for each of us as individuals as it is for humanity as a whole. Imagine going beyond the chaos and stress of our modern everyday life to a consciousness that inspires us. Going back to nature can free us from the cultural constraints and fears that keep us bound and unhappy.

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The good news is that direct experience of nonhuman nature can lead us beyond our limited selves and reawaken our connection with a greater consciousness of boundless love and sacred wisdom.

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<span class="quote">In nature, we can experience unity with all life and profound physical, emotional, and spiritual healing. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The ability of animals and nature to comfort and heal us is not a sentimental fantasy. There is robust scientific data on the effects of reawakening our connection to the natural world. A study on creativity in the wild published in the Public Library of Science found that four days of immersion in nature (with a disconnect from technology) increased participant performance on a creativity, problem-solving task by a full 50 percent. This is consistent with Attention Restoration Theory (ART) that suggests exposure to nature restores higher cognitive functions such as multitasking and problem-solving.

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Another recent study in Stanford, California, compared psychological test results of participants who spent time in nature with those who spent time in urban areas.

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<span class="quote">Those who were in nature had fewer negative thoughts, were less anxious, and had improved working memory. </span>

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Brain scans of the participants showed the region of the brain associated with brooding, the subgenual prefrontal cortex, was less active in the nature group.

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Furthermore, the Japanese practice of forest bathing (wandering in the forest), has calming psychological effects as well as physiological effects including reduced levels of the stress hormone cortisol, lower blood pressure, and increased oxygen flow to all cells of the body.

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Beyond the scientific data, most religious and spiritual traditions believe that connecting with a consciousness greater than the self is accelerated in nature. For me, it has been my lifelong experience that the spiritual journey and nature are intertwined.

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In the twelfth century, Saint Francis of Assisi turned this understanding into a way of life. You can find statues of him in many gardens around the world, for he is the patron saint of animals and the people who love them. He was renowned during his lifetime for a deep tenderness toward all living creatures. Francis inspired love and compassion by taking people into nature and teaching them to communicate with animals, birds, trees, and the plant kingdom.

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Today, it is believed that Francis was on such good terms with the nonhuman beings in nature because he was a holy man, but I see things differently. Francis&rsquo; approach to human spirituality was influenced by what he learned from animals and nature&mdash;he was on intimate terms with the birds of the air and the grasses of the field.

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<span class="quote">He saw himself as part of the ecosystem, not outside, dominating it, or master over or above it. </span>

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When Francis slept outdoors, &ldquo;Sister Moon and her attendant stars&rdquo; smiled down on him and he considered himself the most fortunate man on Earth.

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What we can learn from Francis&rsquo; journey and our own toward a personal and collective transformation, is that nature can lead the way for us to face the problems, not only in our personal lives but in the world today.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Nature is our ultimate teacher, healer, and source of comfort, and reminds us to never lose hope. </span>

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Just think, every winter is followed by spring and every night of darkness is followed by the light of day.

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<strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dr. Linda Bender</a> is a gifted healer, spiritual teacher, and internationally renowned animal advocate and speaker. Her work has been endorsed by Dr. Jane Goodall, Dr. Rupert Sheldrake, Deepak Chopra, and many others. Dr. Bender&rsquo;s&nbsp;love of the natural world began in her childhood backyard.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-nature-is-the-ultimate-medicine</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-nature-is-the-ultimate-medicine#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Why Connection Really Matters in the Modern World</title><description><![CDATA[You wouldn&rsquo;t think there was much you could learn about life from a Hall &amp; Oates song.
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Yet there&rsquo;s a great reminder in the middle of their old song &ldquo;Out of Touch&rdquo;:

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<em>We&rsquo;re soul alone</em><br />
<em>And soul really matters to me</em><br />
<em>Take a look around.</em>

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Take a moment right now and do that. Look around at our society, our culture, our world. Does it feel soulful?

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Or does it make you feel a tad like Lily Bart in <em>The House of Mirth</em>, about whom Edith Wharton writes: <em>&ldquo;</em>She hardly knew what she had been seeking&hellip;she was only aware of a vague sense of failure, of an inner isolation deeper than the loneliness about her.<em>&rdquo;</em>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
As the kids would say, &ldquo;Do you feel me here?&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Is there a sense of isolation or lack of depth in our society that lingers like a dark cloud, deeply affecting what is otherwise often a fantastically brilliant blue sky? </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
What is absent? Perhaps there is an important component that, when missing, intensifies this sensation of danger or risk we feel today in what is (statistically) the safest world in our recorded history. Perhaps there is a disconnection that turns up the volume on the societal unease until it drowns out the inherent beauty.

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And maybe that&rsquo;s soul.

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<h2>What is Soul and Why Does It Matter?</h2>

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Maybe when soul is missing, so, too, is a component of our steadiness, which then gives us an increasing feeling of unsure feet on a shifting landscape. Maybe soul is that central ground where we find that surety, that sail that tacks us safe in the most tumultuous of storms. And maybe this why we crave it so much, even if we are <a href="https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/american-religion-trends_us_570c21cee4b0836057a235ad">not religious but spiritual, or even identify as non-spiritual.</a>&nbsp;(Labels, after all, really have nothing to do with soul.)

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But what is soul? Can we name it?

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The poet David Whyte says, &ldquo;By definition, soul evades the cage of definition. It is the <em>indefinable</em> essence of a person&rsquo;s spirit and being. It can never be touched and yet the merest hint of its absence causes immediate distress.&rdquo;

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The absence causes immediate distress. Hmm. Sounds like we&rsquo;re getting closer.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">So, if we know we are in distress and we want to find more soul in our lives, what do we do? How do we find it? </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Some people would point to religion. (This was, after all, how previous generations looked for soul&mdash;in the church, the synagogue, the mosque, etc.) But what if you&rsquo;re not interested in religion, but you&rsquo;re interested in soul?

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Good news! There are ways to be spiritual that don&rsquo;t involve religion. (You probably already knew that, but it helps to be reminded, right?) And one basic, rewarding way to reach inside your spiritual self, to plunge a bit deeper into who you are and why you are, to reach into the depths of what it is to be human, is so surprisingly simple and yet so essential to our happiness:

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Connect.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>Why Does Connection Matter?</h2>

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Connection to other human beings is the secret sauce of life. It&rsquo;s the glue on the model, the missing piece to the puzzle, the stickiness that not only helps us stick to others but that helps us stick to ourselves. And in pursuing connection, we can often find more of that indefinable quality of soul.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Because connection is how we move from human bodies to human beings. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
In connection we find answers about others, but we also find answers about ourselves. Connection helps us become more than a collection of people; connection helps us become a true community.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Connection to other human beings is so important that it <a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/inspired-life/wp/2016/03/02/harvard-researchers-discovered-the-one-thing-everyone-needs-for-happier-healthier-lives/?utm_term=.277799e183ed">helps us to live longer</a> and <a href="//www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/10/social-connection-makes-a-better-brain/280934/">live happier lives.</a> Though that&rsquo;s easy to forget when we love and value our independence.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
But don&rsquo;t forget it, especially if you&rsquo;re feeling a tad aloof or adrift, despite all the wonderful parts of your life. Find that connection wherever you can, and work to foster it. You might find connection in:

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<ul>
	<li>the family you were born into</li>
	<li>the family you created</li>
	<li>the community in which you live</li>
	<li>your work</li>
	<li>your gym or sports team</li>
	<li>your yoga practice or meditation group</li>
	<li>your volunteer work</li>
	<li>or in learning centers of connection and immersion like 1440 Multiversity.</li>
</ul>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">And, in doing so, you may be reminded that connection and soul are linked in the most wonderful invisible chain that we can never photograph but only feel. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Luckily, feeling is enough. Oh, it&rsquo;s more than enough.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
As Anne Lamott reminds us in <em>Hallelujah Anyway</em>, &ldquo;The only thing that helps, that has ever made [life] all sort of doable, is a deep connection with a couple of people.&rdquo; And, in the words of <a href="https://1440.org/">Cheryl Strayed</a>: &ldquo;You have to find people who love you truly and love them back with the same truth.&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
So, go love people back. Find those deep connections where you can and nurture them. Build them. Treasure them. Love them. Because they can be so important to soul.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
And, like Hall &amp; Oates reminds us:

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<em>We&rsquo;re soul alone</em><br />
<em>And soul really matters to me</em><br />
<em>Take a look around.</em>

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<strong>Lisbeth Darsh is the Digital Marketing Manager at 1440 Multiversity, as well as the author of six books and the popular fitness/inspiration blog&nbsp;<a href="https://wordswithlisbeth.com/">Words With Lisbeth</a>. A former executive at CrossFit Inc, she has also been a fitness coach/gym owner, an English professor, and a military officer, with degrees from Vassar College (bachelor&rsquo;s degree) and California State University at Dominguez Hills (master&rsquo;s degree). You can usually find Lisbeth with a book or barbell in hand, looking to lift spirits and weights.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-connection-really-matters-in-the-modern-world</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-connection-really-matters-in-the-modern-world#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>Why Connection Really Matters in the Modern World</title><description><![CDATA[You wouldn&rsquo;t think there was much you could learn about life from a Hall &amp; Oates song.
<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Yet there&rsquo;s a great reminder in the middle of their old song &ldquo;Out of Touch&rdquo;:

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<em>We&rsquo;re soul alone</em><br />
<em>And soul really matters to me</em><br />
<em>Take a look around.</em>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Take a moment right now and do that. Look around at our society, our culture, our world. Does it feel soulful?

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Or does it make you feel a tad like Lily Bart in <em>The House of Mirth</em>, about whom Edith Wharton writes: <em>&ldquo;</em>She hardly knew what she had been seeking&hellip;she was only aware of a vague sense of failure, of an inner isolation deeper than the loneliness about her.<em>&rdquo;</em>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
As the kids would say, &ldquo;Do you feel me here?&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Is there a sense of isolation or lack of depth in our society that lingers like a dark cloud, deeply affecting what is otherwise often a fantastically brilliant blue sky? </span>

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What is absent? Perhaps there is an important component that, when missing, intensifies this sensation of danger or risk we feel today in what is (statistically) the safest world in our recorded history. Perhaps there is a disconnection that turns up the volume on the societal unease until it drowns out the inherent beauty.

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And maybe that&rsquo;s soul.

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<h2>What is Soul and Why Does It Matter?</h2>

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Maybe when soul is missing, so, too, is a component of our steadiness, which then gives us an increasing feeling of unsure feet on a shifting landscape. Maybe soul is that central ground where we find that surety, that sail that tacks us safe in the most tumultuous of storms. And maybe this why we crave it so much, even if we are <a href="https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/american-religion-trends_us_570c21cee4b0836057a235ad">not religious but spiritual, or even identify as non-spiritual.</a>&nbsp;(Labels, after all, really have nothing to do with soul.)

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But what is soul? Can we name it?

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The poet David Whyte says, &ldquo;By definition, soul evades the cage of definition. It is the <em>indefinable</em> essence of a person&rsquo;s spirit and being. It can never be touched and yet the merest hint of its absence causes immediate distress.&rdquo;

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The absence causes immediate distress. Hmm. Sounds like we&rsquo;re getting closer.

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<span class="quote">So, if we know we are in distress and we want to find more soul in our lives, what do we do? How do we find it? </span>

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Some people would point to religion. (This was, after all, how previous generations looked for soul&mdash;in the church, the synagogue, the mosque, etc.) But what if you&rsquo;re not interested in religion, but you&rsquo;re interested in soul?

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Good news! There are ways to be spiritual that don&rsquo;t involve religion. (You probably already knew that, but it helps to be reminded, right?) And one basic, rewarding way to reach inside your spiritual self, to plunge a bit deeper into who you are and why you are, to reach into the depths of what it is to be human, is so surprisingly simple and yet so essential to our happiness:

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Connect.

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<h2>Why Does Connection Matter?</h2>

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Connection to other human beings is the secret sauce of life. It&rsquo;s the glue on the model, the missing piece to the puzzle, the stickiness that not only helps us stick to others but that helps us stick to ourselves. And in pursuing connection, we can often find more of that indefinable quality of soul.

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<span class="quote">Because connection is how we move from human bodies to human beings. </span>

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In connection we find answers about others, but we also find answers about ourselves. Connection helps us become more than a collection of people; connection helps us become a true community.

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Connection to other human beings is so important that it <a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/inspired-life/wp/2016/03/02/harvard-researchers-discovered-the-one-thing-everyone-needs-for-happier-healthier-lives/?utm_term=.277799e183ed">helps us to live longer</a> and <a href="//www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/10/social-connection-makes-a-better-brain/280934/">live happier lives.</a> Though that&rsquo;s easy to forget when we love and value our independence.

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But don&rsquo;t forget it, especially if you&rsquo;re feeling a tad aloof or adrift, despite all the wonderful parts of your life. Find that connection wherever you can, and work to foster it. You might find connection in:

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<ul>
	<li>the family you were born into</li>
	<li>the family you created</li>
	<li>the community in which you live</li>
	<li>your work</li>
	<li>your gym or sports team</li>
	<li>your yoga practice or meditation group</li>
	<li>your volunteer work</li>
	<li>or in learning centers of connection and immersion like 1440 Multiversity.</li>
</ul>

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<span class="quote">And, in doing so, you may be reminded that connection and soul are linked in the most wonderful invisible chain that we can never photograph but only feel. </span>

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Luckily, feeling is enough. Oh, it&rsquo;s more than enough.

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As Anne Lamott reminds us in <em>Hallelujah Anyway</em>, &ldquo;The only thing that helps, that has ever made [life] all sort of doable, is a deep connection with a couple of people.&rdquo; And, in the words of <a href="https://1440.org/">Cheryl Strayed</a>: &ldquo;You have to find people who love you truly and love them back with the same truth.&rdquo;

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So, go love people back. Find those deep connections where you can and nurture them. Build them. Treasure them. Love them. Because they can be so important to soul.

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And, like Hall &amp; Oates reminds us:

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<em>We&rsquo;re soul alone</em><br />
<em>And soul really matters to me</em><br />
<em>Take a look around.</em>

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<strong>Lisbeth Darsh is the Digital Marketing Manager at 1440 Multiversity, as well as the author of six books and the popular fitness/inspiration blog&nbsp;<a href="https://wordswithlisbeth.com/">Words With Lisbeth</a>. A former executive at CrossFit Inc, she has also been a fitness coach/gym owner, an English professor, and a military officer, with degrees from Vassar College (bachelor&rsquo;s degree) and California State University at Dominguez Hills (master&rsquo;s degree). You can usually find Lisbeth with a book or barbell in hand, looking to lift spirits and weights.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-connection-really-matters-in-the-modern-world</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-connection-really-matters-in-the-modern-world#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Which Questions Matter Most to You?</title><description><![CDATA[Every life is driven by essential questions&mdash;riddles planted in us as children in response to how we were first wounded.
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For one person, the wound is an abandoning parent who leaves him asking, for the rest of his life, if he is unlovable. For another, a terrible body image drives her to seek approval from men and question her own femininity. For a third, an experience of physical violence robs him of a sense of safety and leaves him wondering where to find this lost sense of security in the world.

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I begin my <em>Writing to Awaken</em> workshops often by asking students what parts of themselves they most need to understand. What are their most urgent questions? The responses are sometimes superficial (Will I get the promotion? Will my IRA tank? Does she still love me?), but more often their questions are existential and concerned with spiritual issues.

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<span class="quote">Self-worth, mortality, purpose, suffering, and faith are among them. </span>

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In some way or another, our essential questions are always linked to our need for connection and the long-awaited return to wholeness we are either craving or pursuing.

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It&rsquo;s critical that we pay attention to our essential questions. When we bypass them, our lives remain locked rooms. We are cut off from our ourselves, unable to locate the key that reveals our particular emptiness, the thing we believe we&rsquo;re missing, the wound that needs to be healed.

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<span class="quote">Many of us spend our lives this way, with doors forever closed to our true selves. </span>

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We never make our way past the locked door into the space where we first got lost. Why? Because we haven&rsquo;t asked the right questions.

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In his writing, J. Krishnamurti talks about the &ldquo;flame of discontent&rdquo; that burns in a seeker&mdash;the sacred longing that wakes us up and needs to be tended with inquiry. When we respond to our deep curiosity, we fan the flame of this holy yearning and burn away what&rsquo;s untrue in our lives. This keeps us curious, flexible, and brave.

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<div class="blog-img"><img alt="" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/Program-WritingToAwaken.jpg" /></div>

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Writing to Awaken </strong></div>

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<div class="post-card-date">January 25 - 27, 2019</div>
When you tell the truth, your personal story expands and your life is transformed. Join best-selling author Mark Matousek for an intimate exploration of personal identity through expressive writing and self-inquiry. Learn to tell your whole truth and come to...</div>

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What are your questions that need asking? Which locked doors do you avoid and how are they linked to your earliest pain? Have you considered writing down the clues you find&mdash;in emotion, in experience, in relationship?

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Writing is an unparalleled tool for discovering the connections between seemingly unrelated things.

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<span class="quote">Often, the practice of writing reveals to us what we already know. </span>

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In the silent mirror between self and Self (the little Me and the Witness who answers), insight is born, the door flies open, and you meet your deepest, most intimate Self.

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Of course, our questions change over time. They&rsquo;re bound to morph and evolve as we age. But even still, they tend to remain linked in uncanny ways. We have grooves of conditioning in our minds (sanskaras in Sanskrit) that draw our primal questions together and carry them along through time. When you gaze inward, you see the patterns between them, and that is what frees you from being controlled by your past.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Socrates famously warned against the unexamined life. </span>

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When we use the mind to untangle our stories and reveal their sources, we cease being strangers to ourselves, sleepwalkers in a repetitive dream. That is a life worth living.

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<strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Mark Matousek</a> is the best-selling author of <em>Writing to Awaken: A Journey of Truth, Transformation, and Self-Discovery</em>.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/which-questions-matter-most-to-you</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/which-questions-matter-most-to-you#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>Which Questions Matter Most to You?</title><description><![CDATA[Every life is driven by essential questions&mdash;riddles planted in us as children in response to how we were first wounded.
<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
For one person, the wound is an abandoning parent who leaves him asking, for the rest of his life, if he is unlovable. For another, a terrible body image drives her to seek approval from men and question her own femininity. For a third, an experience of physical violence robs him of a sense of safety and leaves him wondering where to find this lost sense of security in the world.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I begin my <em>Writing to Awaken</em> workshops often by asking students what parts of themselves they most need to understand. What are their most urgent questions? The responses are sometimes superficial (Will I get the promotion? Will my IRA tank? Does she still love me?), but more often their questions are existential and concerned with spiritual issues.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Self-worth, mortality, purpose, suffering, and faith are among them. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
In some way or another, our essential questions are always linked to our need for connection and the long-awaited return to wholeness we are either craving or pursuing.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It&rsquo;s critical that we pay attention to our essential questions. When we bypass them, our lives remain locked rooms. We are cut off from our ourselves, unable to locate the key that reveals our particular emptiness, the thing we believe we&rsquo;re missing, the wound that needs to be healed.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Many of us spend our lives this way, with doors forever closed to our true selves. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
We never make our way past the locked door into the space where we first got lost. Why? Because we haven&rsquo;t asked the right questions.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
In his writing, J. Krishnamurti talks about the &ldquo;flame of discontent&rdquo; that burns in a seeker&mdash;the sacred longing that wakes us up and needs to be tended with inquiry. When we respond to our deep curiosity, we fan the flame of this holy yearning and burn away what&rsquo;s untrue in our lives. This keeps us curious, flexible, and brave.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<div class="blog-img"><img alt="" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/Program-WritingToAwaken.jpg" /></div>

<div class="blog-img-text">
<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Writing to Awaken </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty">&nbsp;</div>

<div class="post-card-date">January 25 - 27, 2019</div>
When you tell the truth, your personal story expands and your life is transformed. Join best-selling author Mark Matousek for an intimate exploration of personal identity through expressive writing and self-inquiry. Learn to tell your whole truth and come to...</div>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
What are your questions that need asking? Which locked doors do you avoid and how are they linked to your earliest pain? Have you considered writing down the clues you find&mdash;in emotion, in experience, in relationship?

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Writing is an unparalleled tool for discovering the connections between seemingly unrelated things.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Often, the practice of writing reveals to us what we already know. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
In the silent mirror between self and Self (the little Me and the Witness who answers), insight is born, the door flies open, and you meet your deepest, most intimate Self.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Of course, our questions change over time. They&rsquo;re bound to morph and evolve as we age. But even still, they tend to remain linked in uncanny ways. We have grooves of conditioning in our minds (sanskaras in Sanskrit) that draw our primal questions together and carry them along through time. When you gaze inward, you see the patterns between them, and that is what frees you from being controlled by your past.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Socrates famously warned against the unexamined life. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
When we use the mind to untangle our stories and reveal their sources, we cease being strangers to ourselves, sleepwalkers in a repetitive dream. That is a life worth living.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Mark Matousek</a> is the best-selling author of <em>Writing to Awaken: A Journey of Truth, Transformation, and Self-Discovery</em>.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/which-questions-matter-most-to-you</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/which-questions-matter-most-to-you#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>What&apos;s Your Nonnegotiable?</title><description><![CDATA[<span>What&rsquo;s your nonnegotiable?</span>
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<span>What&rsquo;s the one thing you must do most days or things will not go right with you? The one thing that you will not give up for time or money or sex. (Okay, maybe for sex, but stick with me here.)</span>

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<span>The one thing that will:</span>

<ul>
	<li><span>Calm you</span></li>
	<li><span>Make you smile more</span></li>
	<li><span>Reduce your stress like an eraser disappearing a heavy black mark on a whiteboard.</span></li>
</ul>
<span>For me, it&rsquo;s the gym. I like to lift weights. No, let me rephrase that: I need to lift weights. Time with the iron is my nonnegotiable.</span>

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<span>See, there&rsquo;s just something about hoisting 190 pounds on a barbell on my back and rising with it that makes my ever-loving day. There&rsquo;s something about using my strength to deadlift 280 pounds off the ground that makes me smile. </span>

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<span>Without the coping mechanism of lifting several times in my week, I feel a little unbalanced, a lot worn, and a whole bunch of cranky. These weight-lifting activities keep me from becoming unhinged. They are useful for stress management, but they do more&mdash;they center me.</span>

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<span class="quote">They are mental activities as well as physical ones. On the platform, I find peace. In movement, I find mindfulness. </span>

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<span>Now I know the gym isn&rsquo;t everybody&rsquo;s basket of joy. Some folks prefer:</span>

<ul>
	<li><span>Yoga</span></li>
	<li><span>Meditation</span></li>
	<li><span>Walking the dog in the cool morning air before the noise of the day begins. </span></li>
</ul>
<span>Some folks need that first cup of coffee in the darkened kitchen with just a small light and their Bible or something like Thich Nhat Hanh&rsquo;s </span><i><span>Your True Home.</span></i><span> I know those folks. I can respect what they do because I appreciate all those things too. Reading and walking add to my day, but (for me) the nonnegotiable is physical movement of some sort. I&rsquo;m a soul but I&rsquo;m a physical being too, and I need to express that physicality almost daily and find my soul in it.</span>

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<span>I guess what I&rsquo;m saying is that we&rsquo;re all different people reaching for different things, yet we&rsquo;re the same in some ways, searching for connection with the spiritual inside us, somewhere we breathe and think and try to find the light and good in a world that can sometimes seem full of the dark and bad. It&rsquo;s important that we find what works for us on a deeper level and create space for our souls to expand, even if just for a minute or an hour in the most incongruous of places, where the only silence is in our minds, just for a moment, while our hearts and bodies might strain and sweat and soar (or do nothing at all). As <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Deepak Chopra</a> says, &ldquo;In the midst of movement and chaos, keep stillness inside of you.&rdquo;&nbsp;</span>

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<span>Whatever your nonnegotiable is&mdash;whatever that thing is that helps you manage stress and cope with concerns and connect back to yourself&mdash;make sure you do it and make sure you protect the sanctity of that time. Allow no one to take it from you.</span>

<ul>
	<li><span>Scratch meetings off calendars to do it. </span></li>
	<li><span>Ask someone to drive your carpool/run errands/cook dinner/do what needs to be done today, at least. </span></li>
	<li><span>Find a pocket in this day of life just for you. </span></li>
</ul>
A nonnegotiable is, by definition, not a thing to be negotiated. So go do it. You&rsquo;ll feel better if you do, and so will everyone around you.

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<strong>Lisbeth Darsh is the Digital Marketing Manager at 1440 Multiversity, as well as the author of six books and the popular fitness/inspiration blog <a href="https://wordswithlisbeth.com">Words With Lisbeth</a>. A former executive at CrossFit Inc, she has also been a fitness coach/gym owner, an English professor, and a military officer, with degrees from Vassar College (BA) and California State University at Dominguez Hills (MA). You can usually find Lisbeth with a book or barbell in hand, looking to lift spirits and weights.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/whats-your-nonnegotiable</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/whats-your-nonnegotiable#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>What Do I Want to Be Next?</title><description><![CDATA[<em>Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?&nbsp;</em>&ndash; Mary Oliver
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Is it truly possible to create the life you want to live?

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dave Evans</a>, cofounder of the Stanford Life Design Lab and coauthor of <em>Designing Your Life</em>, says the answer is a resounding &ldquo;yes.&rdquo; But only if you accept that there is no one perfect version of you who should be living it. To learn which version of you feels right, you have to try each of them on with the mind-set of an engineer&mdash;try, build, then test them out.

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Watch Dave&rsquo;s TEDx talk below in which he talks about what it means to <a href="https://www.1440.org/">design the life you&rsquo;ve been longing for</a>.

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And &hellip; mark your calendar for the evening of <span class="aBn" data-term="goog_766705276" tabindex="0"><span class="aQJ">September 1</span></span> when Dave comes to 1440 for an <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/designing-your-life-an-evening-with-dave-evans-tickets-47280166250">evening discussion</a> about the art and science of applying &ldquo;design thinking&rdquo; to your life. We hope you&rsquo;ll join us as we explore the question: What do I want to be NEXT?

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<strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dave Evans</a> will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Designing Your Life</a> at 1440 Multiversity from Oct. 26 &ndash; 28, 2018.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-do-i-want-to-be-next</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-do-i-want-to-be-next#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>“We Need the Poem”: Reflections from Naomi Shihab Nye</title><description><![CDATA[<em>&ldquo;We need the poem. We need the minute. We need the respect for the minute more than ever.&rdquo;</em> &ndash; <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Naomi Shihab Nye</a>
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The spaciousness of the minute is a favorite topic of ours at 1440 Multiversity.

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Named after the number of minutes in a day, 1440 is a place devoted to helping you discover opportunities for connection, for stillness, for learning, and for delight in moments spent here and back home in &ldquo;real life&rdquo;.

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To watch <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Naomi Shihab Nye</a>, award-winning poet and 1440 faculty member, light up as she talks with 1440 cofounder <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Scott Kriens</a> about poetry&rsquo;s ability to beautifully occupy tiny increments of time sure has us smiling and nodding in agreement.

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<center>&nbsp;</center>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/we-need-the-poem-reflections-from-naomi-shihab-nye</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/we-need-the-poem-reflections-from-naomi-shihab-nye#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Using Daily Mindfulness to Enhance Your Brain: An Interview with Dan Siegel</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dan Siegel, MD,</a> is an internationally acclaimed author, educator, and child psychiatrist who has published extensively for both professional and lay audiences. The executive director of Mindsight Institute, Dr. Siegel is known for his unique ability to make complicated scientific concepts accessible. His latest <em>New York Times</em> best seller is <em>Aware: The Science and Practice of Presence</em>.
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<h2>1440: How do you define Mindsight?</h2>
<em>Dan Siegel:</em> &ldquo;Mindsight,&rdquo; a term I came up with years ago, is a combination of insight into your own internal life (the subjective experience of your feelings and thoughts) and how you see the mental life of someone else (empathy). It also includes a third process called integration, which means linking different aspects of a system, whether within yourself or between yourself and others.

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<h2>1440: How is it that&nbsp;integration&nbsp;promotes&nbsp;well-being?</h2>
<em>Dan Siegel:</em> In the brain, there are 100 billion neurons in different clustered areas or regions, and you can study the specific circuitry that connects those separate (differentiated) areas. Research done by the Human Connectome Project shows that mindfulness increases the interconnectivity of the connectome&mdash;the network of widely distributed neural connections in the brain. Another set of studies shows that the level of connection in your connectome&mdash;the level of integration&mdash;is the best predictor of well-being.

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All regulation&mdash;like regulating your emotions, mood, attention, thoughts, behavior, relationships, or even morality&mdash;appears to be dependent on integration in the brain. So the more connected your neural mechanisms are, the more integrated you will be, and the more self-regulating you&rsquo;ll be in all these areas of your life.

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<h2>1440: Are there specific tools that we can use to develop Mindsight and increase our level of integration?</h2>
<em>Dan Siegel:</em> I developed a practice called the Wheel of Awareness that integrates consciousness by differentiating the experience of the knowing of awareness from the knowns of awareness. The knowing of awareness is in the metaphoric hub of the wheel while the knowns, like thoughts, feelings, or what you experience with your senses, are on the rim of the wheel. The practice takes you through each of these knowns by moving the spoke of your attention around on this visual image. As you do this, you&rsquo;re literally differentiating (recognizing the differences) between these elements of consciousness and linking them to each other.

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<div class="full-image"><img alt="Wheel of Awareness Dan Siegel" height="659" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/Wheel-Awareness-Siegel.gif" width="800" /></div>

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<h2>1440: Are&nbsp;there&nbsp;other&nbsp;practices&nbsp;that&nbsp;do the same kind of thing?</h2>
<em>Dan Siegel:</em> Yes, there are probably hundreds of what we call MAPs (Mindful Awareness Practices) that work, but most of my research has been done with the Wheel of Awareness. In preliminary studies at the Mindful Awareness Research Center at UCLA, we&rsquo;ve found that with mindfulness meditation we get more improvements in attention, sustaining attention, and avoiding distractions, than we do with medication.

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There are other ongoing studies on yoga, tai chi, and qigong, and I don&rsquo;t know what the final results will be, but the preliminary results are very promising.

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What we do know is that where attention goes, neural firing flows, and neural connection grows. You have the capacity to focus your attention in new ways to get neural firing to flow to areas that are not differentiated or not linked.

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<span class="quote">In this way, you can literally change the structural connections in your brain with what you do with your mind. </span>

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<h2>1440: What are the characteristics of a practice that help someone develop Mindsight?</h2>
<em>Dan Siegel:</em> Different people need different things&mdash;some people will need to move and others will need to be still&mdash;but for any practice to work, I think it needs to create energy and information flow patterns that are integrative. For example, mindfulness of the breath works because it differentiates the sensation of the breath from the observation of the sensation.

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<span class="quote">That may sound subtle, but it&rsquo;s huge. </span>

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To be able to distinguish &ldquo;being aware&rdquo; from &ldquo;the thing you&rsquo;re aware of&rdquo; is the key to beginning the integration process.

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<h2>1440: How does integration in the mind relate to our relationships?</h2>
<em>Dan Siegel:</em> The self may come from the mind, but the mind doesn&rsquo;t just come from the brain. I like to say the mind is bigger than the brain and the self is broader than the body. Twenty-five hundred years ago, Hippocrates said the mind comes from the brain, and we&rsquo;ve been operating under that fallacy ever since.

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<span class="quote">When we think this way, we conclude that the self is a solo operator. </span>

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But I think the body is like a node in a system. We&rsquo;ve mistaken that node for the self, when in fact the self is actually the whole system and is connected to everyone and everything. This really broadens the self beyond just the body.

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When you start thinking about it this way, you realize the self is not just a &ldquo;me,&rdquo; we&rsquo;re also a &ldquo;we.&rdquo; If that is the case, then an integrated self is a &ldquo;mwe.&rdquo; There is still me and you (differentiation), but together we are a mwe (integration).

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Think of the ocean as an example. Can you imagine if the hydrogen atoms started fighting with the oxygen atoms over whose identity was more important? I think that&rsquo;s what modern society has done. We fight over whether we&rsquo;re hydrogens or oxygens and miss the point that we are a whole ecosystem.

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<h2>1440: Thinking of relationships from that perspective, how would you respond when you&rsquo;re in a difficult situation with a partner, a child, a boss, or even angry with someone you don&rsquo;t know, like a politician?</h2>
<em>Dan Siegel:</em> When you give people the opportunity to develop their mind, they learn how to drop down into the hub of the Wheel of Awareness&mdash;which I also call presence or the plane of possibility. You can see what&rsquo;s going on in the news and feel the thoughts and emotions associated with that, and you know how to drop down beneath reactivity into the plane of possibility.

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<span class="quote">From there you can see alternative pathways you can take. </span>

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If you&rsquo;re in an argument with someone face-to-face, dropping into the hub will give you a little space between impulse and action and maybe you can react differently.

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You want to make sure you&rsquo;re working on your mind, not just in the heat of the moment but at other times. Find a practice and make it part of your daily routine, just like brushing your teeth. You don&rsquo;t wait until you have a rotten tooth that needs extraction before you start brushing.

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<span class="quote">There is dental hygiene and I think we need mental hygiene&mdash;regular inner practice to create outer wisdom. </span>

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You need a way to keep things differentiated but linked, and when you practice that, it will carry over into moments of stress.

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<h2>1440: If there is one mystery that you could solve right now, what question would you want answered?</h2>
<em>Dan Siegel:</em> I would love to know how we help humanity broaden our sense of self to include other people, other organisms, and the entire living ecosphere.

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<span class="quote">We are in a moment right now&mdash;given everything that&rsquo;s happening in the world and the number of people that are here on earth&mdash;where the future of humanity depends on the expansion of consciousness. </span>

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It literally depends on our sense of who we are. The biggest mystery to me is how can we take human consciousness and enable it to go past the brain&rsquo;s obvious vulnerability of thinking the self is just a body. I&rsquo;d like to find an effective, practical tool&mdash;in pretty rapid order&mdash;so that we can start turning things around. We have to work on this together as a &ldquo;mwe.&rdquo;

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/using-daily-mindfulness-to-enhance-your-brain-an-interview-with-dan-siegel</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/using-daily-mindfulness-to-enhance-your-brain-an-interview-with-dan-siegel#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Top 10 Blogposts of 2018 &amp; Editor&apos;s Pick</title><description><![CDATA[When you work as the editor for an organization devoted to conversations that matter, you spend a great deal of time showcasing and curating amazing words of wisdom. During any given week at 1440, there is no shortage of energy, insight, reflection, creativity, and brilliance gracing this campus.
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As we open the door on 2019, it&rsquo;s my absolute pleasure to provide you with some of 1440&rsquo;s very best articles to spark your own conversations that matter, right now, wherever you are.&nbsp;Below are the top 10 blogposts of 2018 and my three personal favorites. Here&rsquo;s to a new year chock-full of great questions and wide-open to all the answers.

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<h3><strong>READERS&rsquo; FAVORITES</strong></h3>
1. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/nourish/nutrition-is-far-more-important-than-many-people-realize-lessons-from-the-china-study">Nutrition Is Far More Important Than Many People Realize: Lessons from The China Study</a>

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Reflections from <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Thomas M. Campbell, MD,</a>&nbsp;coauthor with&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">T. Colin Campbell, PhD</a>, of&nbsp;<em>The China Study</em>, on&nbsp;nutrition, dietary trends, and lessons learned from a life in medicine and research.

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2. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/grow/matt-kahn-on-how-to-be-grateful-even-when-you-dont-want-to-be">Matt Kahn on How to Be Grateful Even When You Don&rsquo;t Want to Be</a>

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Spiritual teacher, highly attuned empathic healer, and YouTube sensation&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Matt Kahn</a>&nbsp;on embracing a sense of <em>thank you</em> for whatever life delivers.

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3. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/relate/expecting-it-all-an-honest-look-at-modern-love-with-esther-perel">Expecting It All: An Honest Look at Modern Love with Esther Perel</a>

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An insightful conversation on romantic expectations in today&rsquo;s world with psychotherapist and <em>New York Times </em>best-selling&nbsp;author <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Esther Perel</a>.

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4. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/relate/mindful-sex-and-the-thirst-for-connection-an-interview-with-esther-perel/">Mindful Sex and the Thirst for Connection: An Interview with Esther Perel</a>

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More from&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Esther Perel</a>, author of <em>Mating in Captivity</em> and <em>The State of Affairs</em>, whose TED talk <em>Rethinking Infidelity</em> has captured the attention of 12+ million viewers.

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5. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/grow/how-to-feel-your-feelings-an-interview-with-tara-brach/">How to Feel Your Feelings: An Interview with Tara Brach</a>

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What internal capacity must we cultivate to enable difficult feelings to truly be felt (as opposed to bypassed)?&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Tara Brach, PhD,</a>&nbsp;psychologist, acclaimed meditation teacher, and best-selling author, on what it takes.

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6. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/grow/the-whole-child-approach-to-learning-a-conversation-with-dr-dan-siegel-and-scott-kriens">The Whole Child Approach to Learning: A Conversation with Dr. Dan Siegel and Scott Kriens</a>

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Watch and listen to&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dr. Dan Siegel</a>&nbsp;and 1440 cofounder <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Scott Kriens</a>&nbsp;in conversation about the great potential for learning when we address the mind and emotions in interactions and educational experiences.

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7. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/nourish/dr-weils-six-tips-for-healthy-aging">Dr. Weil&rsquo;s Six Tips for Healthy Aging</a>

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Renowned integrative medicine pioneer and <em>New York Times</em> best-selling author <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Andrew Weil, MD,</a> on what behaviors and practices most impact healthy aging.

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8. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/relate/heal-your-broken-heart-with-these-tips-from-sharon-salzberg/">Heal Your Broken Heart with These Tips from Sharon Salzberg</a>

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sharon Salzberg</a>, esteemed&nbsp;Buddhist meditation teacher and <em>New York Times</em> best-selling author of <em>Real Love: The Art of Mindful Connection,&nbsp;</em>on taking apart the painful sensation of heartbreak and discovering the changing nature of difficult feelings.

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9. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/relate/6-steps-to-feeling-and-healing-advice-from-margaret-paul">6 Steps to Feeling and Healing: Advice from Margaret Paul</a>

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Margaret Paul</a>, PhD, writer and cocreator of Inner Bonding, on differentiating the feelings we experience and learning to respond to them with love.

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10. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/relate/let-go-and-appreciate-lynne-twist-on-money-scarcity-and-sufficiency">Let Go and Appreciate: Lynne Twist on Money, Scarcity, and Sufficiency</a>

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Conscious philanthropy leader and best-selling author&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Lynne Twist</a> on the principle of sufficiency, the lie of scarcity, and the toxic myths that surround money.

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<h3><strong>EDITOR&rsquo;S PICK</strong></h3>
1. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/grow/learning-to-trust-yourself-a-conversation-with-adyashanti">Learning to Trust Yourself: A Conversation with Adyashanti</a>

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Brilliant insights from the acclaimed American-born spiritual teacher and author, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Adyashanti</a>, on the nature of waking up to conscious awareness.

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2. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/relate/say-nothing-for-five-minutes-why-parents-need-to-be-quiet">&ldquo;Say Nothing for Five Minutes&rdquo;: Why Parents Need to Be Quiet</a>

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A beautifully eye-opening excerpt on the power of silence in family life from <em>The Awakened Family</em> by&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Shefali Tsabary, PhD,</a>&nbsp;creator of the groundbreaking Conscious Parenting approach&mdash;which Oprah has endorsed as revolutionary.

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3. <a href="https://www.1440.org/blog/grow/your-mind-can-change-the-health-of-your-body-insights-from-dr-dan-siegel/">&ldquo;Your Mind Can Change the Health of Your Body&rdquo;: Insights from Dr. Dan Siegel</a>

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An excerpt from <em>Aware: The Science and Practice of Presence, </em>by&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dr. Dan Siegel,</a>&nbsp;internationally acclaimed author, educator, and child psychiatrist, on how expanded consciousness leads to increased well-being.

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<strong>Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor of 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/top-10-blogposts-of-2018--editors-pick</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/top-10-blogposts-of-2018--editors-pick#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;These Are the Times We Practice For&quot;—Sage Advice from Sylvia Boorstein</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sylvia Boorstein</a>, MSW, PhD, is the author of numerous books on Buddhist philosophy and meditation practice, including&nbsp;<em>That&rsquo;s Funny, You Don&rsquo;t Look Buddhist: On Being a Faithful Jew and a Passionate Buddhist; It&rsquo;s Easier Than You Think: The Buddhist Way to Happiness;</em>&nbsp;and<em>&nbsp;Happiness Is&nbsp;an&nbsp;Inside Job: Practicing for a Joyful Life.&nbsp;</em>She is a founding teacher of Spirit Rock Meditation Center in Woodacre, California.
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Sylvia has been teaching nationally and internationally since 1985. She is a frequent contributor to&nbsp;<em>Lion&rsquo;s Roar</em>, a magazine of contemporary Buddhist thought. Her personal emphasis in teaching is the integration of mindfulness into everyday life.

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She will be teaching&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Wisdom in Every Cell: A Meditation, Mindful Yoga, and Dharma Retreat</a>&nbsp;with&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Brahmani Liebman</a>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Jashoda Edmunds</a>,&nbsp;October 12 &ndash; 14, 2018&nbsp;<span style="font-size: 16px;">at 1440 Multiversity</span><span style="font-size: 16px;">.</span>

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<h2>1440: Why do you encourage everyone to have a regular contemplative practice?</h2>
<em>Sylvia Boorstein</em>: It&rsquo;s good to set aside parts of the day or week specifically for contemplative practices like sitting in meditation or doing yoga. During these dedicated times it&rsquo;s like the rest of life isn&rsquo;t happening. We work on sharpening the skills of attentiveness, presence, and wakefulness so that when we&rsquo;re in the rest of our life they are available to us.

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I like to use the analogy of going to the gym. I go to the gym practically every day. I work out on the equipment and I work with a trainer so I can keep my body as fit, effective, and balanced as I possibly can. But I haven&rsquo;t moved into the gym! I don&rsquo;t stay there all the time. I go there for some particular period every day, and then I take that very same body into the rest of the world where I use what I did in the gym to walk up and down stairs, push the supermarket cart around, or drag my suitcase through an airport.

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<span class="quote">Time in the gym&mdash;or time meditating&mdash;is like a microcosm of my day. I use what I learn there as I go about my daily chores. </span>

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And I do daily life better when I go to the gym or take a little time to be quiet and reacquaint myself with the habit of remaining poised moment to moment.

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<h2>1440: That&rsquo;s an interesting word to use. What do you mean by &ldquo;poised&rdquo;?</h2>
<em>Sylvia Boorstein</em>: I&rsquo;ve been using the word poise more and more in my teaching in recent years. What I tell people is I am practicing in order for my mind to be present, attentive, alert, and cognizant of what&rsquo;s happening around me and in me moment to moment&mdash;to be aware of my own mind-body. This is the first half of the definition of mindfulness.

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Distinguished teachers Sylvia Boorstein, MSW, PhD, Brahmani Liebman, MSEd, E-RYT 500, and Jashoda Edmunds, E-RYT 500, lead this weekend journey of learning&mdash;with the whole mind and body&mdash;to touch the wisdom within every cell. Meditation, mindful yoga, and dharma teachings practiced...</div>

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The second half continues by explaining the reason I&rsquo;m doing this. I&rsquo;m paying attention so that whatever I do next in response to what&rsquo;s happening around me won&rsquo;t create suffering for me or anyone else. If I&rsquo;m poised enough in my mind, say, when I look at the morning headlines, which often disgust me, my response can be, &ldquo;I think I&rsquo;ll call my congressperson again and then I&rsquo;ll announce this in class and get everybody to sign a petition.&rdquo; I can respond with helpful action instead of reacting haphazardly.

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<h2>1440: What happens as our practice develops over time?</h2>
<em>Sylvia Boorstein</em>: We practice the contemplative arts in order to live well.

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<span class="quote">As we become less distracted and more attentive, we enjoy our lives more because we&rsquo;re there for them. </span>

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Generally, we also become less impulsive and more thoughtful. We learn to stay poised as if we were a figure skater, and by-and-by we become able to do pirouettes and not fall down.

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As a result of paying attention so well, we also get an ever-growing sense of the suffering in the world. The first noble truth of the Buddha is that suffering is ubiquitous. You can&rsquo;t miss it. And when we see the suffering more clearly, we&rsquo;re less inclined to create more of it through our own thoughts and actions. We&rsquo;re less likely to make our own story the center of the universe and we&rsquo;re more likely to contribute.

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As we see how much of the suffering in the world is created from social and cultural patterns that result in the tremendous inequity of wealth, power, and distribution of resources in the world, we come to see how much our own well-being is inextricably linked with the well-being (or lack thereof) of so many people on the planet. This is the link between contemplative practice and social activism. In the way the habits of my mind create pain and suffering for me and those around me, we recognize others are walking around with the same undisciplined mind and creating their own suffering. Together we wind up creating a culture that generates suffering if we don&rsquo;t pay attention.

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<h2>1440: Which daily practices do you rely on most?</h2>
<em>Sylvia Boorstein</em>: I practice a lot with the first line of one of the metta chants: May I be free of enmity and danger. But what I mostly do is try to stay attentive to the arising of unwholesome states in my mind.

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<span class="quote">If I&rsquo;m in the middle of talking to somebody and it suddenly occurs to me to tell them this piece of gossip, if I catch myself I may not do it. </span>

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I think this practice has made me a nicer person. My husband says, &ldquo;You&rsquo;re always a nice person. You&rsquo;re always kind.&rdquo; I think that&rsquo;s true. I came from kind and nice people, but I am kinder and nicer with this practice!

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I also really cannot allow anger to take up residence in my mind. When it arises, I feel it in my body and hear it in my voice. I don&rsquo;t try to overlook it&mdash;I try to make a space where it can exist in a context of compassion. The most obvious example is when I read the morning newspaper it&rsquo;s hard not to have aversion arise in the mind. Wishing ill on someone or getting dismayed by the news is painful and just fires up the mind. I want to be aroused, but I don&rsquo;t want to be perennially outraged (which is why I don&rsquo;t watch cable news).

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<span class="quote">Outrage and anger are irritating to the mind. We don&rsquo;t need more outrage. We need as many people as we can get practicing peace, kindness, restraint, and thoughtfulness these days. </span>

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Sylvia Boorstein will be teaching&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Wisdom in Every Cell: A Meditation, Mindful Yoga, and Dharma Retreat</a>&nbsp;with&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Brahmani Liebman</a>&nbsp;and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Jashoda Edmunds</a>, October 12 &ndash; 14, 2018&nbsp;<span style="font-size: 16px;">at 1440 Multiversity</span><span style="font-size: 16px;">.</span>

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<span style="font-size: 16px;">She will also offer an evening talk,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/what-really-is-mindfulness-all-about-an-evening-with-sylvia-boorstein-tickets-49364557721?aff=ebdssbdestsearch">What (Really) Is Mindfulness All About: An Evening with Sylvia Boorstein,</a>&nbsp;on October 13, 2018 at 1440 Multiversity.&nbsp;</span>

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/these-are-the-times-we-practice-forsage-advice-from-sylvia-boorstein</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/these-are-the-times-we-practice-forsage-advice-from-sylvia-boorstein#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>The Tiger&apos;s Journey of Nonconformity and Neurodivergence</title><description><![CDATA[Have you read the children&rsquo;s book <em>Mr. Tiger Goes Wild</em>? I think of it often when I reflect on modern life. The book portrays a society of animals all standing up as humans and dressed in formal attire. One day the tiger dares to walk on all fours, then goes further by taking off the clothes, and then even further by walking back to the jungle where he&rsquo;s from. It&rsquo;s absurd to read because we know the tiger as a wild animal who belongs free in the jungle, on all fours, and with no clothes on. And in my own life, I often feel that we as human beings are walking around unknowingly conditioned in all sorts of ways that might be counter to our better natures.
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From one perspective, here&rsquo;s my story: I left high school at 16, went to community college, graduated from UC Berkeley with straight As, attended graduate school at Harvard, and then became an international reporter for CNN, <em>Fast Company</em>, Healthline, and elsewhere. I had amazing opportunities to interview billionaire Jeff Skoll, economist Dambisa Moyo, actors Waris Ahluwalia and Daryl Hannah, designer Prabal Gurung, and numerous others around the world.

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From other perspectives, there&rsquo;s a different story: In my teens and early 20s, I knew by heart the first and last names, phone numbers, and dates and places of birth of all my friends, family, colleagues, and acquaintances. People called me a walking Facebook; it was just natural for me to organize and categorize that particular information in my mind&mdash;like in an internal Rolodex. One time, a college friend sort of put me to the test by pointing around the room and asking, &ldquo;What&rsquo;s her name? His name?&rdquo;

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I started to realize I was different&mdash;that not everyone had the drive to memorize names and that it didn&rsquo;t come naturally to them. &ldquo;I&rsquo;m terrible with names&rdquo; was, and is, a common refrain. I internalized the dominant cultural norm that we were just supposed to forget each other, not take personal information in, and be more distanced and detached. I started stopping myself from taking note of people&rsquo;s names and remembering information about them. That catalyzed years of social distancing and, more importantly, of distancing from myself and my natural way of being&mdash;all to &ldquo;blend in.&rdquo;

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<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Jenara Nerenberg,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Irene Lyon, MSC</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">September 6 - 9, 2018</div>
Across the world in top tech companies, Ivy League universities, and leading research and cultural institutions, highly sensitive and neurodivergent people are making huge contributions in art, science, therapy, literature, and more. Though they may face unique opportunities and challenges...</div>

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Despite discomfort, I maintained eye contact during conversations until during my 20s, I started developing severe headaches when I had to maintain eye contact for too long. I started having to look away more often while talking to people, physically unable to bear it. Normally, this would happen while talking about nonsense, things I didn&rsquo;t care about. My attention has always been naturally drawn to the inner life&mdash;a deep, mystical sort of resonance with the feelings and emotions of those around me.

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I inherited that from my father; he and I have always had a preference for deep conversation. When I was young, he would tell me that his brain would literally start hurting if the conversation with acquaintances was too superficial. I&rsquo;ve learned over the years just how similar we are, though for a long time I thought we shouldn&rsquo;t be that way and that we should just engage in the same small talk that everyone else seemed to be doing. But then, after I suffered through years of feeling emotionally pained while conforming to our society&rsquo;s focus on small talk, it became physically painful to me as well. And I learned that both my father and I could hold intense eye gaze with anyone if the conversation was at a more grounded, deep level, reflecting inner thoughts, feelings, insights, and reflections. (I would later learn that the ability to hold long, intense focus is often referred to as hyperfocus, which I wrote about in my <em>New York </em>magazine story).

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My departure from needing to blend in started with giving birth naturally, with no drugs, and then breastfeeding for four years. This was the beginning of grounding me in my ancient, mystical, primordial humanness and caused me to start questioning all the dominant narratives and assumptions in which we live.

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I then read Susan Cain&rsquo;s <em>Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can&rsquo;t Stop Talking</em>, which further explained our sociocultural conditioning.

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By my 30s, I realized just how much I was battling against dominant neurotypical culture.

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<span class="quote">It became clear that not only the daily mundane tasks of life would be a challenge but so would professional settings, because there were clear social rules of engaging that I found intolerable.? </span>

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After all, who says that small talk should be the norm? Who says that inner emotions can&rsquo;t be more fully expressed, even at workUnfortunately, it took me a long time to find a work-around, so in the meantime came undiagnosed, debilitating depression and anxiety for years, which often accompanies those who unknowingly mask neuroatypicalities while trying to cope and survive. I can&rsquo;t say what triggered the depression exactly, but it felt like a slow, creeping fog that thickened more intensely over the years. Finding the right therapist and a helpful medication finally made the skies clear, at which point, the mask came off and my skin felt like mine again.

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Now, I&rsquo;m 33, and they&rsquo;re calling these neuroatypicalities ADHD or HSP (Highly Sensitive Personality) or even Asperger&rsquo;s. Shows such as <em>Invisibilia</em> give us the language of synesthesia and empaths.

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<span class="quote">And I&rsquo;ve come to the conclusion that we&rsquo;re all somewhere along this continuum, this spectrum of personalities, with diverse traits. This is the beauty of what we call <em>neurodiversity</em>. </span>

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I have a feeling there are a lot more out there like me who don&rsquo;t realize where they are on the spectrum of neurodivergence. I hear stories every day of people getting a &ldquo;diagnosis&rdquo; in their 30s, 40s, or 50s. But when we stop pathologizing being different from the norm, there&rsquo;s not really a need to label those as having a disorder or mental illness. We&rsquo;re simply diverse human beings, like the different kinds of animals and plants surrounding Mr. Tiger. And indeed, other cultures often view the emergence of neurodivergence in someone as a form of special gift or power. It is those individuals who become healers in their communities, who are able to empathize and identify with the inner lives of all.

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Rejoining the jungle like Mr. Tiger means embracing the beauty of my inner nature and sharing that with others. And I&rsquo;ve found that others who observe me start to feel and act the same, freed up by letting go of some of our cultural conditioning. The same happens in the book: Mr. Tiger at first becomes lonely and goes back to society, but then others start to follow him, and everyone ends up much freer and happier, on all fours and without clothes.

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I&rsquo;m glad to know my tribe and my gifts. And grateful to finally own them once again.

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<div class="author f6"><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Jenara Nerenberg</a> is an author, entrepreneur, and international consultant on mental&nbsp;health and innovation. She is the founder of The Neurodiversity Project and the author&nbsp;of the forthcoming book <em>Divergent Mind</em>. She will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Highly Sensitive and Neurodivergent: Nervous System Healing for All</a> at 1440 with <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Irene Lyon</a>, MSC, from September 6 &ndash; 9, 2018.

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This article originally appeared in Susan Cain&rsquo;s <a href="https://www.quietrev.com/">Quiet Revolution</a>.</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-tigers-journey-of-nonconformity-and-neurodivergence</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-tigers-journey-of-nonconformity-and-neurodivergence#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>The Good News in the Bad News: Crisis Ignites Evolution</title><description><![CDATA[We are in a world of crisis, from economic collapse to environmental decay to climate change to war, hunger, and poverty. If today&rsquo;s headlines make you wonder about the fate of our planet, here is some news that may surprise you: from an evolutionary standpoint, we are exactly where we need to be.
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Contrary to what conventional science and religion have been telling us, evolution is neither random nor predetermined, but rather an intelligent dance between organism and environment. When conditions are ripe&mdash;either through crisis or opportunity&mdash;something unpredictable happens to bring the biosphere into a new balance at a higher level of coherence.

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<span class="quote">The good news in the bad news is that frontier science offers both the hope and challenge that we can safely navigate this dark passage to a healthier, sustainable future. </span>

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Advances in epigenetics, quantum biophysics, and fractal geometry reveal civilization is poised on the threshold of a major evolutionary event.

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The precipitating crisis is that civilization is currently living out a self-destructive Darwinian nightmare where each and every one is competing in a misperceived &ldquo;struggle for survival.&rdquo; The behaviors driven by this entrenched cultural belief produce the crises the planet faces today. A renaissance in science is shattering old myths and creating a new philosophy of health and spirituality.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>The Grand Convergence </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://1440.org/">Bruce Lipton, PhD</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">August 10 - 12, 2018</div>
A renaissance in science is creating a genuine revolution, one so radical that it is changing the world. This &ldquo;new&rdquo; biology illuminates how our thoughts and attitudes create the conditions of our body and place in the world. Driving this...</div>

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The emerging evolution will not be through a physical change in human biology, but one driven by a change in consciousness. Mass consciousness is currently imbued with the belief that genes turn on and off and, in the process, control the character and fate of our lives. This notion, referred to as &ldquo;genetic determinism,&rdquo; has been invalid for over 20 years. The &ldquo;new&rdquo; science of epigenetics reveals that we are not victims of our DNA, but instead have mastery over our genetic expression.

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Science has recently illuminated the molecular pathway by which the nervous system translates consciousness into blood chemistry which, in turn, directly shapes the epigenetic fate of our cells. These cellular mechanisms represent the molecular master switches through which thoughts, attitudes, and beliefs create the conditions of our body and life experiences.

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The story of human life on Earth is yet to be determined. Our evolution depends on whether we humans are willing to make changes in our individual and collective beliefs and behaviors, and whether we are able to make these changes in time.

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<span class="quote">A miraculous healing awaits this planet once we accept our new responsibility to collectively tend the Garden rather than fight over the turf. </span>

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An awareness of the wisdom of Nature&rsquo;s principles, and the ability to integrate them into our consciousness, provides an opportunity to thrive through this turbulent period in our planet&rsquo;s history. And understanding these principles offers a gateway to personal empowerment. For further information on this life-enhancing science, please join me at 1440 Multiversity in Scotts Valley, CA, from August 10 &ndash; 12,&nbsp;where I will provide a multimedia presentation on&nbsp;<a href="https://1440.org/"><em>The Grand Convergence: The New Science of the Body-Mind-Spirit Trinity.</em></a>

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This program is an invitation to participate in the greatest adventure in human history&mdash;<em>conscious evolution</em>!]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-good-news-in-the-bad-news-crisis-ignites-evolution</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-good-news-in-the-bad-news-crisis-ignites-evolution#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>The Fun of Having an Unexpected Roommate</title><description><![CDATA[<em>&ldquo;Excuse me?&rdquo;</em>
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Many of us give side-eye when asked to share our personal space. We don&rsquo;t like sharing tables in restaurants, getting too close in yoga class, or buddying up on public transportation.

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Then we start planning a vacation and&ndash;what?&ndash;our usual &ldquo;single room, please&rdquo; is met with:

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/campus/">&ldquo;Coming with a friend? You&rsquo;re welcome to stay together. Otherwise, we mindfully match roommates of the same gender.&rdquo;</a>

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Roommate? Is this camp? Will there be swimming lessons and buddy care, followed by writing letters to our parents?

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Ha! No! You see, we&rsquo;re not kids anymore, but&mdash;here&rsquo;s the deal&mdash;we can still have fun like kids. Think grown-up kids with lattes, a more worldly view, classes to attend, delicious food to eat, and maybe even a glass or two of wine. And sharing a room with someone new is part of that fun.

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Why? Because it kicks opens the closed experience we might otherwise have. Look around you in this world. You&rsquo;ll see groups of people in public spaces, staring into their phones, disconnected from the&nbsp;human beings right next to them. Even in the middle of a huge crowd, there can be a&nbsp;sense of loneliness that lingers in the air like a virus.

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<span class="quote">Here at 1440 we want to help you reconnect&nbsp;with the human experience in the&nbsp;digital age. </span>

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With extraordinary design and deliberate implementation, we have created a vibrant space in the magnificent redwoods near Santa Cruz where&nbsp;you can relax and come alive. And we think the immersion in community can&nbsp;include sharing space with someone you&rsquo;ve never met before. Maybe you&rsquo;ll even make a new best friend.

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Listen to what <a href="https://www.1440.org/about/">Joanie Kriens, 1440 Multiversity cofounder,</a> had to say about sharing a room at Esalen Institute five years ago: &ldquo;When I first met Roberta, my guard went up. As an introvert, how would I coexist for a week with this bubbly, high-energy New Yorker 15 years my senior? But upon discovering our mutual love of poetry, we talked and laughed until 2:00 am that night, connected deeply over the week, and still keep in touch on Facebook. I realized that having the courage to bond with people different from me is where growth happens, and I wanted more of those opportunities.&rdquo;

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Those moments are the kind we hope to create&nbsp;here at 1440. You can still check your email and surf the internet (there&rsquo;s wi-fi in all of our rooms and public spaces), but we also want to foster unique opportunities that reward adventurous souls who stay open to the possibilities of this life&mdash;and sharing a room is one way to do this.

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In our fast-paced world, it can be all too easy to keep to ourselves. Maybe it&rsquo;s time to create more connections and embrace a certain joie de vivre that comes when you relax and let the world in a little bit more.

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So, <a href="https://www.1440.org/campus/">when you&rsquo;re booking your accommodations at 1440</a>, embrace your inner adventurer and consider that double or triple room. Like <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Neha Sangwan, MD</a>,&nbsp;says, &ldquo;You can dance alone, but the art of dancing with another takes communication to the next level.&rdquo;

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Get ready to dance. We&rsquo;ll see you soon.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-fun-of-having-an-unexpected-roommate</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-fun-of-having-an-unexpected-roommate#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>The Essential Power of Being Aware: Talking with Dr. Dan Siegel</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Daniel Siegel, MD,</a> is an internationally acclaimed author, educator, and child psychiatrist who has published extensively for both professional and lay audiences. The executive director of Mindsight Institute, Dr. Siegel is known for his unique ability to make complicated scientific concepts accessible. His latest <em>New York Times</em> best seller is <em>Aware: The Science and Practice of Presence</em>.
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<h2>1440: Talk to us about the connection of mind, body, and emotions as it relates to learning. What do educators need to know in this area?</h2>
<em><strong>Dan Siegel:</strong></em> Emotions can be thought of as the inner and interpersonal process that &ldquo;evokes motion&rdquo; and shape how our body feels and how our mind is motivated to act. Educators can help students learn to sense the inner and inter nature of emotion and how this important part of our lives helps influence their own and others&rsquo; behaviors and ways of perceiving and thinking.

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<h2>1440: Can you share some insights about interpersonal neurobiology (IPNB)? What does it mean to teach with the &ldquo;brain in mind&rdquo;? How do we develop a resilient and flexible mind in students?</h2>
<em><strong>Dan Siegel:&nbsp;</strong></em>IPNB is a framework for understanding the human mind and mental health that builds on the wide array of scientific disciplines to find the consilient or universal findings underlying their usually independent perspectives. When teachers learn about IPNB, they are given insights into what the mind is and how to help cultivate a strong and resilient mind in their students.

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<blockquote>Teaching with &ldquo;the brain in mind&rdquo; utilizes knowledge gleaned from neuroscience to give educators tools that allow the fundamental process of neuroplasticity&mdash;how the brain changes in response to experience&mdash;to guide their ways of engaging with students to optimize learning.
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For example, by viewing the mind as a &ldquo;self-organizing, embodied, and relational process that regulates the flow of energy and information,&rdquo; teachers can harness the power of integration&mdash;the linkage of differentiated parts&mdash;to help create optimal regulation in their students&rsquo; skill sets. This includes teaching students to monitor energy and information flow with more stability so they can perceive with more focus, depth, and detail and then modify that flow in a way to promote integration. Regulation toward integration is the basis for resilience and flexibility.

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<div class="post-card-date">September 20 - 22, 2019</div>
The noble profession of serving others often comes with a price to well-being. For those in the helping professions, developing solid stress resilience skills is critical to enhancing emotional and physical health and slowing biological aging. Immerse yourself in a...

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<h2>1440: You write about the Whole-Brain Child. Can you talk about what that means? How might this information support teachers in creating optimal learning environments for students?</h2>
<em><strong>Dan Siegel:&nbsp;</strong></em>The idea of the Whole-Brain Child is that we as parents, teachers, or others who support the growth of children and adolescents can understand that the whole child develops within relationships as well as within the pathways of their own neural growth. Whole-brain also means that an adult understanding the many parts of the brain and how they function together&mdash;how they are differentiated and linked, what is called &ldquo;integrated&rdquo;&mdash;is the basis for optimal development.

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<blockquote>How you promote an integrated brain is how you help to cultivate traits in a child of resilience, flexibility, curiosity, empathy, compassion, and insight.
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An integrated brain is what research has shown is the best predictor of well-being, and this Whole-Brain Child approach helps a child to flourish and thrive as it promotes integration neurally and interpersonally. Teachers learning this approach can help create a &ldquo;generative social field&rdquo; that, from an IPNB perspective, is one that is integrative in that it supports differentiation and linkage within the classroom environment.

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<h2>1440: Your work on the &ldquo;healing power of emotions&rdquo; is intriguing. Can you talk about our hard-wiring for connection and what that might mean for schools?</h2>
<em><strong>Dan Siegel:&nbsp;</strong></em>Healing is making whole, and emotions are the inner and interpersonal process of shifts in integration.

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<blockquote>When these are the constructive or &ldquo;positive&rdquo; emotions associated with awe, gratitude, joy, love, connection, and compassion, we see that integration is enhanced and healing cultivated.
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We evolved to be collaborative, connected creatures, story-telling social beings who evolved to work together. Yet much of what modern culture promotes is against these connecting emotional experiences, and teachers can work to intentionally create such a collaborative culture within the classroom.

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<h2>1440: How does awareness fit into the equation of learning? How can awareness practices cultivate student engagement, empathy, and attention?</h2>
<em><strong>Dan Siegel:&nbsp;</strong></em>Being aware appears to be essential for all of the many ways we learn&mdash;in classroom settings, in personal study, in parenting, and in psychotherapy.

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<blockquote>Consciousness permits choice and change to unfold.
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When we work directly with ourselves as educators, we can expand our access to the knowing aspect of consciousness&mdash;of being aware. We can also teach students directly how to become more engaged in their education, and in their lives, by giving them the strength of &ldquo;integrating consciousness&rdquo;&mdash;of distinguishing the being of aware of knowing from that which we are aware of, the knowns. In this integration, we empower students to be more insightful and more empathic.

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The three pillars of such mind-training practices include:

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	<li>strengthening focused attention</li>
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	<li>and kind intention.</li>
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Research reveals that when these three aspects of mind are trained, many positive changes occur including the stabilizing of attention; the increase in our receptivity to the experience of being aware; and the enhancement of our care for our inner selves and for the well-being of others. And if these were not enough, such awareness practices have been shown to enhance immune function, cardiovascular health, the health of our chromosomes, and the reduction of inflammation. In addition, such mental training also increases the integration of our neural connections&mdash;the basis for the regulatory functions of our brain.

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-essential-power-of-being-aware-talking-with-dr-dan-siegel</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-essential-power-of-being-aware-talking-with-dr-dan-siegel#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>The Day I Chose the “Wrong” Crayon and How It Changed My Life</title><description><![CDATA[Decades ago, I had an experience that probably lasted all of 60 seconds, but it still deeply influences me to this day. It wasn&rsquo;t some big spiritual breakthrough or amazing &ldquo;aha&rdquo; moment.
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<strong>In fact, it left me feeling quite awful for a while.</strong>

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I was at a personal growth workshop taught by a famous author, one so popular that many people attended over and over every year. One of the first exercises was to choose some crayons and draw a picture of how you saw yourself at this moment in your life.

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The teacher set a basket of crayons in the middle of the room, and I was astonished to see all the experienced people, who&rsquo;d been through this before, dive for it like their life depended on it! The crowd of people blocked me from even getting close to the basket, so I just hung back politely until I could find a space. I saw them all leaving with handfuls of blue and green and yellow crayons and by the time I got there, the only colors left to choose from were black, red, and brown. I had been thinking of drawing a tree because that represented how I felt at that time, growing skyward, branching out in all kinds of wonderful directions.

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<em>Well</em>, I thought, <em>I guess I can use the brown for the trunk and branches, and just make it a beautiful autumn tree with red leaves.&nbsp;</em>So I set about drawing the tree. When we&rsquo;d finished our drawings, the teacher came around to evaluate each one. When she saw mine, she looked me in the eyes and told me it was obvious I was an angry person and I needed to work on some serious issues.

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<strong>I felt like I&rsquo;d been slapped.</strong> I asked her why she saw that in my picture and she said it was because I&rsquo;d chosen to make the leaves red.

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&ldquo;But by the time I got to the basket of crayons, that&rsquo;s all that was left!&rdquo; I said. &ldquo;I&rsquo;d wanted to make the leaves green but there were no more green crayons.&rdquo;

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<strong>And she stared at me with a contemptuous smirk. And then walked away.</strong> That smirk said it all.

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She was telling me that my rationale was total BS&mdash;that there are no accidents. There was a reason I ended up with those colors. And the reason was that I had serious anger issues. But I knew that while I had a lot of issues (!) anger wasn&rsquo;t anywhere near the top of the list.

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And I also realized why all the experienced people grabbed the other crayons&mdash;they knew what the &ldquo;wrong&rdquo; colors were and wanted to avoid them at all costs! But despite knowing all this&mdash;I still felt so judged. My energy plummeted, my spirits sagged. I just wanted to drop through a hole in the floor, I felt so diminished. But I stuck it out&mdash;I went through the rest of the workshop, hoping it would ease me out of that initial bad experience.

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<strong>It didn&rsquo;t.</strong>

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What&nbsp;I saw time and time again, was a judgmental and simplistic&nbsp;&ldquo;one-size-fits-all&rdquo; approach to the participants.

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<blockquote>And&nbsp;I vowed that if&nbsp;I ever taught workshops,&nbsp;I&rsquo;d be a teacher who recognized how special each of us is and create a system that honored that uniqueness.
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I never imagined that over the following decades I&rsquo;d actually end up writing four books and teaching workshops that did just that!

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<strong>But in fact, there <em>was&nbsp;</em>a reason&nbsp;I ended up with the wrong color crayon&hellip; </strong>

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It wasn&rsquo;t&nbsp;what that teacher assumed.&nbsp;I didn&rsquo;t have anger issues. But&nbsp;I did too easily give away my power to others. And in that experience&nbsp;I had yet again let someone disempower me. So the contemptuous smirk on that teacher&rsquo;s face was the beginning of a real transformation for me, personally and professionally, to help me claim my power.

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<strong>And it also helped me create more deeply evolved and joyful experiences for you, to help YOU clear whatever is blocking you in life.</strong>

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You may not have the same issues I had with giving away my power. But I&rsquo;m sure you can identify what you&rsquo;d like to move beyond&mdash;and toward. And that&rsquo;s why I designed the Clear Home, Clear Heart retreat at 1440&nbsp;the way I did, to create a safe place where you won&rsquo;t feel confronted, judged, or wrong. To instead help you open infinite new possibilities for your life, in gentle but powerful ways&nbsp;that honor your personal truth.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Clear Home, Clear Heart </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Jean Haner</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">August 4 - 9, 2019</div>
Energy clearing is a gentle yet powerful way to release old, limiting patterns of thought, emotion, and behavior that can keep you from being a creative force in your life. Join intuitive empath Jean Haner and discover an elegant approach...

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In this workshop, we clear the energy of your present, past, and future selves, and we even do ancestral clearings back through your entire family line, to free you from inherited patterns. You&rsquo;ll learn how to no longer be so affected by the energy of the people and places around you. And you&rsquo;ll learn how to do energy clearing as well, so you emerge with tools you can use for the rest of your life.

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And just a PS: no crayons required.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-day-i-chose-the-wrong-crayon-and-how-it-changed-my-life</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-day-i-chose-the-wrong-crayon-and-how-it-changed-my-life#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>The Art of Memoir: A Conversation with Dani Shapiro</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dani Shapiro</a> is the best-selling author of five memoirs, <em>Inheritance</em>,&nbsp;<em>Hourglass,&nbsp;Still Writing, Devotion</em>, and&nbsp;<em>Slow Motion</em>, and five novels including&nbsp;<em>Black &amp; White</em>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<em>Family History</em>. Her work has been published in the<em>&nbsp;New Yorker</em>, Salon,&nbsp;<em>n+1</em>,&nbsp;<em>Tin House</em>, and&nbsp;<em>Elle, </em>and she has appeared on<em>&nbsp;Oprah&rsquo;s SuperSoul Sunday.&nbsp;</em>&nbsp;A regular contributor to the<em>&nbsp;New York Times Book Review</em>&nbsp;and a contributing editor at&nbsp;<em>Cond&eacute; Nast Traveler, </em>Dani is a sought-after speaker who teaches writing workshops around the world.
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<h2>1440: You are (in part) a memoirist&mdash;which is a very particular kind of writer, as you put your life on display in your work. How does it feel to reveal yourself in writing?</h2>
<em>Dani Shapiro</em>: Writing memoir really comes from an impulse and an instinct to try to shape the material of my life into coherent stories that will connect with others. I certainly am aware that I reveal myself in my writing, but I don&rsquo;t feel exposed.

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Sometimes I&rsquo;ll joke that I didn&rsquo;t publish my diary, and if you read my diary, I&rsquo;d have to kill you. So much of the art of memoir has to do with what goes in and what gets left out&mdash;the crafting and shaping of a particular subject. When I sit down to write memoir, I&rsquo;m not sitting down to write about my life.

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<span class="quote">I&rsquo;m sitting down with a question that I want to dig into and try to answer in some way. </span>

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The question is always enormously personal&mdash;but it must carry the thread of the universal to feel worth writing about. In my first memoir <em>Slow Motion</em>, I was compelled by one of the most difficult and painful episodes of my life&mdash;my parents&rsquo; car accident when I was 23. Yet that accident also ended up becoming the thing that turned my life around.

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<span class="quote">And I found myself wrestling with that: how could the worst moment of my life also be the transformative moment? </span>

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There was also a literary instinct that led me to memoir. As a fiction writer, I felt like my work up until that point had been completely dogged by my own autobiographical material. I was writing novels and noticed that quite often a tragedy or an accident came out of the blue and impacted the protagonist. I don&rsquo;t think the novelist is ever really in control of her material, but I was aware that I <em>really&nbsp;</em>wasn&rsquo;t and I had an instinct that writing memoir would be curative for that.

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So, I am an accidental memoirist, and it&rsquo;s ironic because it is what I&rsquo;m known for at this point. In my writing, I excavate and dig more so with the tool of memory than with the tools of imagination. And yet I don&rsquo;t feel unduly revealed. I feel like this is just the art form that I work inside of. And yes, I walk around the world and people know a lot of facts about me&mdash;but there&rsquo;s also a kind of potential intimacy in that.

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<h2>1440: For whom do you write?</h2>
<em>Dani Shapiro</em>: Kurt Vonnegut once said that every writer writes for an audience of one, and in his case his audience of one was his sister who was no longer living. So, the audience of one was not necessarily someone who would even read the book. Rather, it was the feeling of writing for someone singular. My audience of one has changed over the years. For many years, it was my father, who&rsquo;s never read any of my work because he died before I became a writer.

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<span class="quote">At times the audience of one has been myself&mdash;in that sense of write the book <em>you&nbsp;</em>want to read. </span>

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I think that&rsquo;s some of the best advice about writing books. And at other times, I will imagine a particular reader or even a mentor or someone who was very influential to me as a writer. So, it morphs. I think that&rsquo;s probably true for a lot of writers.

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<h2>1440: You have written about the death of your parents, your fractured relationship with your mother, giving birth to a child with a near-fatal illness, and the anxieties and disappointments of marriage. Many would say these topics require enormous bravery to tackle. Do you agree?</h2>
<em>Dani Shapiro</em>: I never feel it as bravery. I feel it as necessary. I don&rsquo;t know how brave it is to do something that&rsquo;s necessary. On the other hand, I think maybe that is a definition of bravery.

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Writing has really saved my life. I need to be writing in order to think clearly. It&rsquo;s medicinal.

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<span class="quote">Writing allows me to see the contents of my head and my heart and my being and my soul. </span>

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It allows me to have more access to those places than I have otherwise. I don&rsquo;t walk around all the time with all that access. I have access when I&rsquo;m quietly with the page. I still often wonder what would have happened to me if I hadn&rsquo;t become a writer, if I hadn&rsquo;t had the gift and the good fortune of being able to do this with my life.

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From the time I was small, I had a very powerful need to understand&mdash;to understand other people, understand the people I love, understand myself, understand the world around me. And really with everything I&rsquo;ve ever written, when I look back later&mdash;it seems the person writing it has nothing more than a shovel and a flashlight, and the task ahead appears impossible. As I often tell my students, &ldquo;It should feel impossible.&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">Each piece of work is brand-new terrain. </span>

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<h2>1440: How does writing about family relationships (both what we expect of them and how they actually play out) impact your behavior within those relationships?</h2>
<em>Dani Shapiro</em>: I would almost have to divide my answer into two parts because there&rsquo;s the family that I come from and the family that I have now.

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Writing about my father doesn&rsquo;t impact my relationship with him, but in a way it deepens it because I have learned more and more about him and his history and about the nature of our relationship. My mother lived to see me become a writer, though I&rsquo;m not sure that she was particularly happy about that development. And I don&rsquo;t think it affected my relationship with her, which was very fraught.

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One of the things I learned after my mom died was that it actually became harder to write about her. When she was alive, she fought back&mdash;and she was a formidable force. And in a way, writing was my only tool to understand her or to understand the nature of my relationship with her. And after she died, I felt like I was getting the last word and that it was no longer fair. It&rsquo;s kind of magical thinking, but it really was how it felt.

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In terms of the family that I&rsquo;ve made, I never think about writing about them.

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<span class="quote">I&rsquo;m never taking mental notes&mdash;ever, ever, ever. I&rsquo;m in the moment with my husband, or I&rsquo;m in the moment with my son. </span>

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Later, when it occurs to me that something might be worth exploring, I put it through my own litmus test, especially when it comes to my son. I never want him to feel exposed or embarrassed or that his privacy has been invaded.

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My friend Andre Dubus III, a wonderful novelist and memoirist, really said it best. I was once on a panel with Andre, who wrote about his childhood in a book called <em>Townie</em>, and someone in the audience asked him, &ldquo;How could you write about your siblings? How could you invade their privacy?&rdquo;

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When they were growing up, Andre&rsquo;s younger brother was sexually abused by a teacher. Andre would come home to his empty house&mdash;no parents around, total dysfunction&mdash;about which he said, &ldquo;I would come into the house, and I would walk down the corridor, and I would hear sounds on the other side of my brother&rsquo;s closed bedroom door. And what happened on his side of the door is his story to tell. But what happened to me, on my side of the door, is mine.&rdquo;

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I really love that story. I think it illustrates this difficult question better than anything I&rsquo;ve ever heard or thought myself because the door is such a tangible, physical symbol of a boundary.

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<span class="quote">We each have a right to our story. Where it becomes complicated is the gray area of involving others. How far are we comfortable going? </span>

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There&rsquo;s no easy answer, but I think the exploration keeps the writer honest regarding those kinds of ethical and moral issues. I know writers who won&rsquo;t tell certain stories of their own because they would never want their children to read them.

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And yet, I have learned increasingly with each of my books, that the more willing I am, the more honest, the more specific, the more scared to share in a way&mdash;when I allow myself to go there&mdash;that is almost always the moment, the sentence, the paragraph, the idea that readers completely connect to. Every time.

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<strong>Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor of 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-art-of-memoir-a-conversation-with-dani-shapiro</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-art-of-memoir-a-conversation-with-dani-shapiro#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;Some songs are prayers&quot;: Alanis Morissette on Creativity, Spirituality, and Bravery</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Alanis Morissette</a>&nbsp;is most well-known for her autobiographical songwriting and passionate performances, as well as her evocative and engaging articles, interviews, and public speaking events. Her music has won seven Grammys. She is also a charitable activist who has supported causes that focus on empowerment, art, recovery, psychological and spiritual healing, feminism, relationships, and environmental causes&mdash;earning her a Global Tolerance Award from the United Nations.
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<h2>1440: For years, your lyrics and your message were described as angry. You have made a clear point to reframe that label as a compliment. Can you tell us more about that? How has anger served as a tool in your life? How has it encumbered you?</h2>
<em>Alanis Morissette:</em> Oh, it is definitely a compliment.

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Anger is such a vital, powerful, light-filled life force. It can be labeled as feistiness or&mdash;in my experience&mdash;as passion, and it&rsquo;s a kick-starter. Anger can kick-start so many multiple forms of activism. It can kick-start art. It can kick-start a scary conversation. It can kick-start someone setting boundaries.

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Every artist I know is angry on some level. The two life forces that move worlds in my mind are love and anger. To me, anger is such a gorgeous indication of something needing to change.

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And then it becomes about following up with, well, what does need to change? What boundary needs to be set? What clarification needs to be expressed? What activism ultimately is being born within me or within a culture?

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<span class="quote">Anger has helped me write a lot of songs. To write songs is such a generative, fiery act for me. </span>

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I think the only anger that would encumber me would be the acting out of anger that is destructive by behaving disrespectfully toward someone&mdash;ignoring their boundaries, sexually, physically, emotionally, or intellectually. I think when anger is acted out, it&rsquo;s offensive and destructive and nobody wins.

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<h2>1440: These days you are spending much more of your time publicly contributing to the conversation around consciousness and spirituality. How and why did you make that shift? What led you to want to speak and teach?</h2>
<em>Alanis Morissette:&nbsp;</em>I think student and teacher are opposite sides of the exact same coin. So, my teaching is hollow if I&rsquo;m not an avid student, and my studentship is a constant. I love being a student so much, and a lot of my mentors and teachers did the proverbial &ldquo;Enough is enough, Alanis. Go forth, my child.&rdquo; So, there was an element of my mentors turning into colleagues, and I was terrified of that because I thought I&rsquo;d be rejected if I stepped up or stepped forward.

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But, the opposite has been the case. All of my mentors have been nothing but supportive.

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<span class="quote">There&rsquo;s not a day that goes by when I&rsquo;m not reading something or researching something or writing something or philosophically thinking about something. </span>

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<h2>1440: Can you say more about your fear of rejection?</h2>
<em>Alanis Morissette:&nbsp;</em>The message that I could only be a rock-and-roll star was hammered into me. And there was a disparaging projection placed upon my capacity for the more therapeutic, psychotherapeutic, spiritual work. The media attempted to shame me for it, which is funny.

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That affected my more public persona. I didn&rsquo;t want to overwhelm people, that&rsquo;s the last thing I wanted to do. I didn&rsquo;t want to confuse people. So, I kept it simple. I would just write the songs and let them speak for themselves.

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<span class="quote">Over time, I realized that I was passionate to move forward and realized that my mentors were supporting me to start formally teaching. I was excited to do it, and the more I do it, the more it just feels physically and emotionally right on every level. </span>

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<h2>1440: Is your music an outgrowth of your spiritual exploration?</h2>
<em>Alanis Morissette:&nbsp;</em>

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<span class="quote">My music is snapshots of periods of time. It could be a song written from my ego. It could be a song written from my breakthrough. It could be a song written from my suffering. It just depends on the moment. </span>

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So, some songs are prayers, and other songs, like &ldquo;You Oughta Know,&rdquo; are written purely from egoic fractured devastation.

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I am 22 songs in on a new piano record, and certain ones were written from a deep, deep, deep postpartum depression place. A lot of my songs are written from the mind-boggling events of motherhood, wifehood, really diving into female friendships and what that means, or diving (I think of &ldquo;Hand in My Pocket&rdquo;) into dualism and the multiple aspects of self.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/some-songs-are-prayers-alanis-morissette-on-creativity-spirituality-and-bravery</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/some-songs-are-prayers-alanis-morissette-on-creativity-spirituality-and-bravery#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Sarah Susanka Shares a Few &quot;Not So Big Life&quot; Lessons</title><description><![CDATA[<h2>1440: How did you find your way from being an architect to being a spiritual teacher?</h2>
<em>Sarah:</em> I started as a student of life. When I was really little I somehow knew how to meditate, and although my practice was fairly unformed as a child, it&rsquo;s the most important thing that&rsquo;s been happening throughout my life. Along the way I&rsquo;ve been other things that are named, like an architect or a student or a writer, but really what&rsquo;s going on is student-of-life-hood. So that&rsquo;s where I speak from.

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It&rsquo;s become clear to me recently, as I&rsquo;ve been doing more teaching, that it&rsquo;s actually in having lived the life of a student of this inner work, the work of coming to know oneself, having been completely immersed in student-hood, that I can teach in a different way than if I hadn&rsquo;t so fully lived that path. So my architecture has been informed by this inner work, not the other way around. I&rsquo;m really interested in the architecture of consciousness, too, and never could have written any of my books or designed homes the way I do without my spiritual practice informing the process all the way along.

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<h2>1440: What has been one of your biggest spiritual lessons?</h2>
<em>Sarah:</em>

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<span class="quote">If there&rsquo;s one thing I wish people would understand, and a lesson it took a lot for me to learn, it&rsquo;s that everything in your life is an opportunity. Everything is <em>for you</em>. It&rsquo;s not even a bad thing when something really hard is happening.</span> I went through breast cancer treatment. Oh my God, it was the hardest thing I&rsquo;ve ever been through in my life. I had a massively difficult time with chemo. But the gift of that time was that I was forced to stop everything. I couldn&rsquo;t even recognize myself. My brain wouldn&rsquo;t work and I was angry all the time, and I felt totally miserable. But when I stopped arguing that this shouldn&rsquo;t be happening and just allowed myself to experience what life was like with almost no energy, it opened me. I learned what &ldquo;let go&rdquo; really means. But I most certainly couldn&rsquo;t have learned how to let go without this huge life lesson to show me how.

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I couldn&rsquo;t have done half the teaching I&rsquo;m doing now if I hadn&rsquo;t been through that experience. I really couldn&rsquo;t, because I hadn&rsquo;t really struggled before that. I&rsquo;ve had a life where things opened up for me easily, partly, I expect, because of a natural orientation toward opportunity. But this chemo stopped me in my tracks. It really helped me to experience what it&rsquo;s like to be fighting with those voices in your head that say, &ldquo;You&rsquo;re a piece of shit,&rdquo; and, &ldquo;You don&rsquo;t deserve to be alive,&rdquo; and, &ldquo;You can&rsquo;t do anything right.&rdquo; All that stuff. I had not really lived that before, but I lived it full throttle for a good year and a half. It was hard.

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I learned that if you look with the eyes of a student, with the eyes of &ldquo;This is happening for me, not to me,&rdquo; it&rsquo;s a really different view. And it allows the very hardest of life&rsquo;s circumstances to be received in a way that you&rsquo;re not fighting, but you&rsquo;re learning. I&rsquo;m not talking about denial. I&rsquo;m not talking about&nbsp;<em>not&nbsp;</em>experiencing what&rsquo;s happening. That&rsquo;s a very common misunderstanding.

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I&rsquo;m talking about experiencing it completely, but not resisting or rejecting what&rsquo;s happening and not making it mean something about you. It&rsquo;s just the recognition that you are a cell in the body of the One, and one cell has to experience going through chemo, and you&rsquo;re <em>it&nbsp;</em>right now. This is what it&rsquo;s like. It&rsquo;s the resistance to what&rsquo;s happening that gets us in trouble. We think life&mdash;and spiritual life&mdash;should look a certain way, but it doesn&rsquo;t. It looks every way. It&rsquo;s not about what you&rsquo;re experiencing; it&rsquo;s about how you are with what you&rsquo;re experiencing. That&rsquo;s where life is happening. And living that way, with awareness, no matter what is happening, is a truly spiritual life.

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<h2>1440: A big part of your philosophy is that living a smaller life, meaning a less achievement-oriented one, can be a deeper, more fulfilling experience. How so?</h2>
<em>Sarah:</em> I&rsquo;ve been thinking about this since my first book, <em>The Not So Big House,&nbsp;</em>and more recently in <em>The Not So Big Life.&nbsp;</em>There is a moreness that we are all hunting for&mdash;it&rsquo;s sort of hardwired into us, this knowing that there is something that we had once and we should be able to find again&mdash;but we&rsquo;re not sure how to have it.

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Our instinct is to look outside ourselves and try to accumulate in order to get that moreness, whether it&rsquo;s through more stuff or more activity. But it&rsquo;s absolutely the antithesis of that. It&rsquo;s actually coming to this moment without any baggage and just being able to show up with whatever is here.

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So when I talk about this idea with house design, I say: we&rsquo;re all looking for home, but we&rsquo;re looking with tools that don&rsquo;t contain home, like square footage and number of bedrooms. But home is a feeling; it&rsquo;s totally outside the paradigm of quantity.

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It&rsquo;s the same thing in our lives: we&rsquo;re hunting for that thing&mdash;a passion, a job, a partner&mdash;that will make us feel complete again. Meanwhile, the only place completeness resides is inside us. What you&rsquo;re really looking for is a transformation in your interior life.

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<span class="quote">The only place we can truly change anything is within ourselves. And as we change, the world outside us changes with us.</span> This is the real meaning behind the often-quoted wisdom, &ldquo;Be the change.&rdquo; That is truly the only way the world changes, because the world is not &ldquo;out there.&rdquo; The world is in you!

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sarah Susanka</a> will be teaching The Not So Big Life from May 18 &ndash; 20, 2018 at 1440 Multiversity.

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/sarah-susanka-shares-a-few-not-so-big-life-lessons</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/sarah-susanka-shares-a-few-not-so-big-life-lessons#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Morning Pages: Julia Cameron on the Importance of Daily Creative Ritual</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Julia Cameron</a> knows a thing or two about what it takes to sustain a lifetime of creative work. An active artist for more than three decades, she has written more than 35 books, ranging from her best-selling <em>The Artist&rsquo;s Way, </em>which has sold more than four million copies, to her widely praised and hard-hitting crime novel <em>The Dark Room.&nbsp;</em>
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We recently sat down with Julia to talk about morning pages&mdash;the daily creativity ritual she swears by to stay fresh, productive, and inspired. Here is what she told us.

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<strong>Every day, I do something I call morning pages.</strong> I do them first thing in the morning. In fact, I drink cold coffee from the night before so that I&rsquo;m not delayed by making my coffee. I write three pages, longhand, about anything and everything&mdash;from the tiny to the huge. When I miss a day of pages, I feel completely disoriented.

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<strong>Writing like this is a sort of cleaning process.</strong> It&rsquo;s as if you have a tiny little whisk broom and you take it into all the corners of your consciousness. So it might be, <em>I forgot to call my sister yesterday; I didn&rsquo;t buy kitty litter; the car has a funny knock in it; I didn&rsquo;t like the way James talked to me in the meeting yesterday</em>&hellip; and so they go, all across your consciousness. I&rsquo;ve been doing morning pages for 30 years, and I find it&rsquo;s a way of putting myself directly in contact with what I would call a higher power.

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<strong>I often start off writing grumpy</strong>&mdash;then I move past grumpy into a smoother flow. The pages start off difficult when I think to myself, <em>Oh my God, I don&rsquo;t have anything to say for three full pages. </em>Yet when I dive in and try to find something to say, the flow of writing loosens up and I can feel a sense of clarity, originality, and authenticity.

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<strong>I have what I call writing stations: </strong>different places in my house that put me in a different mood. I usually [do my morning pages] in the living room, where I have a large plate-glass window looking out at the mountain. Later in the day [when I work on other writing projects], I might move to my study, which is a room that is enclosed&mdash;I sometimes call it the cockpit&mdash;which is good for concentration. In the summer, I write out in the garden. Each place has a different mood, and I take my emotional temperature and say, <em>What room am I in the mood for now?</em>

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Creativity is not a luxury. Two decades ago, Julia Cameron published her groundbreaking book The Artist&rsquo;s Way, a course in discovering and recovering your creative self. Beloved by more than four million people worldwide, the course is credited with having...</div>

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<strong>Everybody has an inner critic. </strong>Mine is called Nigel, and Nigel is a British, gay interior decorator. There&rsquo;s no pleasing Nigel. I&rsquo;ll write something and Nigel will say, <em>Oh that&rsquo;s so boring; no one will be interested!</em> But I&rsquo;ve learned to say, <em>Thank you for sharing that, Nigel</em>&mdash;and keep right on moving. I think self-doubt goes with the territory of being a writer. I find I can move past it by making my critic into a little cartoon character. The minute I have humor again, I&rsquo;m able to move past my self-doubt.

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<strong>I used to write trying to be brilliant</strong>, and I was really writing out of my ego. Then I started doing morning pages, and I&rsquo;d put a little sign up by my desk that said, <em>OK, God, you take care of the quality, I&rsquo;ll take care of the quantity.</em> As I move deeper into my practice, I&rsquo;ve recognized that there are hunches, intuitions, and ideas that come to me through writing that don&rsquo;t come to me in any other way.

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This article originally appeared in <em><a href="https://yogajournal.com">Yoga Journal</a></em>.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/morning-pages-julia-cameron-on-the-importance-of-daily-creative-ritual</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/morning-pages-julia-cameron-on-the-importance-of-daily-creative-ritual#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Make the Time to Go Deep: The Value of 5 Days</title><description><![CDATA[Your time is precious.
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Taking five days to participate in a retreat or immersive learning experience can feel like a lot to ask. But there&rsquo;s good reason to do it, and we think there&rsquo;s no better place for it than 1440.

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If there&rsquo;s something you&rsquo;re wanting to do or change in your life, carving out the time to explore that is vitally important. Sure, a stolen evening or a weekend here or there can help you begin to move the needle, but deep work requires a deep dive.

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Here are five of our favorite reasons to commit to a longer program.

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<h2>1) Disruption prompts innovation&mdash;even in your personal life.</h2>
The alarm rings. You get up, shower, make breakfast, and get the kids off to school and yourself to work. Mondays after work you swim; Wednesdays you call your mom; Friday is movie night; and Saturdays are for errands. Routines can be helpful for organizing your life, for making sure you get done all that needs to be done.

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But routines can also be a trap. The predictability of our daily lives, which are often ruled by routines, makes it easy to not take risks. Things we want to change or experiment with never get more than a passing thought, which is usually accompanied by regret.

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Much like in business, where disruption is a precursor for innovation, if you&rsquo;re ready for change then disrupting your own routine with an immersive learning program can give you room to innovate your personal life and start to implement the changes you&rsquo;re longing for.

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<h2>2) Always put your own oxygen mask on first.</h2>
You&rsquo;ve no doubt heard this before, but that doesn&rsquo;t make it any less true. You&rsquo;ve got to take care of yourself to be able to take care of others and do what you&rsquo;re here to do in the world.

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Taking care of yourself doesn&rsquo;t necessarily mean bubble baths and massages (even though both are fabulous). It means learning how to listen to yourself and follow your intuition. Self-care is about identifying your core values, discovering ways to cultivate them, and taking steps to live your life in alignment with them. It&rsquo;s the exploration of what it means to be a human being in this crazy world!

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<h2>3) Slow down to accelerate your learning.</h2>
It&rsquo;s a paradox, but slowing down and focusing on one thing can accelerate your learning exponentially. Often when we want to learn something new, we squeeze it in among all our other obligations. Whether you&rsquo;re trying to meditate, coming to terms with loss or change, or finally giving birth to that book you&rsquo;ve been working on for years, you will be amazed what happens when you make the time and space to work on that one thing exclusively.

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<h2>4) Unplug to connect.</h2>
There&rsquo;s a lot of talk these days about unplugging, digital detox, digital minimalism, and screen-free living. What&rsquo;s becoming clear is that while being online makes us feel like we&rsquo;re in touch and connected, it&rsquo;s not actually a substitute for face-to-face interactions.

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When our in-person connections are built around a shared experience, like learning something new, they are especially powerful. During your time at 1440, you&rsquo;ll have the chance to dial back your screen time and see what magic happens when you listen, talk, eat, and dream with others.

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<h2>5) Meet the people who will accompany you on the next part of your journey.</h2>
Think of this as next-level networking. Your time in a 5-day program won&rsquo;t be about simply finding your next gig&mdash;but rather creating a network of connections and support that will help you become a better human being and live into your full potential.

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In an immersion you get to work closely with a teacher who will push you and call you forward into what&rsquo;s next. You&rsquo;ll meet fellow travelers in the program sessions and throughout campus who may become part of your new support network.

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And we know is sounds corny, but having the support of a new tribe can feel like being welcomed into a new family&mdash;one that will play a huge role in your personal growth and evolution for days, weeks, and years to come.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/make-the-time-to-go-deep-the-value-of-5-days</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/make-the-time-to-go-deep-the-value-of-5-days#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Living with Grief, Bravery, and Empathy: An Interview with Cheryl Strayed</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Cheryl Strayed</a> is the widely acclaimed author of the #1&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;best-selling memoir&nbsp;<em>Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail</em>, the&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;best sellers&nbsp;<em>Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar</em>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<em>Brave Enough</em>, as well as the novel&nbsp;<em>Torch</em>.&nbsp;<em>Wild</em>&nbsp;was chosen by Oprah Winfrey as her first selection for Oprah&rsquo;s Book Club 2.0 and adapted into an Academy Award-nominated movie.
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Cheryl&rsquo;s books have been translated into 40 languages, and her essays have been featured in numerous publications, including&nbsp;<em>The Best American Essays</em>,&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>,&nbsp;<em>Washington Post Magazine</em>,&nbsp;<em>Vogue</em>,&nbsp;and Salon. She is cohost, along with Steve Almond, of the WBUR / <em>New York Times</em> podcast&nbsp;<em>Dear Sugars</em>, which originated with her popular Dear Sugar advice column on TheRumpus.net.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Cheryl Strayed</a>, MFA, will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Brave Magic: An Invitation to Curiosity, Creativity, and Courage</a> with <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Elizabeth Gilbert</a> on September 20 &ndash; 23, 2018 at 1440 Multiversity.

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<h2>1440: You are known (and adored) for your grit and honesty as a writer and as the voice of Sugar. Why do you think readers and listeners are so hungry for both?</h2>
<strong><em>Cheryl Strayed:</em></strong> We all struggle. We all experience self-doubt. We all want love and fear we won&rsquo;t get it. As a writer and as a person, I&rsquo;ve always tried to reveal rather than conceal those very human realities. I think people are hungry for it because it&rsquo;s in opposition to the happy face so many people feel like they should be showing to the world. There&rsquo;s nothing wrong with saying &ldquo;Everything is great!&rdquo; when everything is great, but the fact is that we all suffer, we all make mistakes, and we all have fears and insecurities.

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<span class="quote">I think people feel a tremendous sense of comfort when those around them are willing to tell the complicated truths of their lives, rather than just one part of them. </span>

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By telling stories about the darker, harder parts of my life&mdash;and via my work as Sugar, the lives of others&mdash;I hold up a mirror. People recognize themselves. They understand they are not alone.

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<h2>1440: As Sugar, you offer people what has been described as radical empathy. What does this concept mean to you? Do you practice radical empathy toward yourself? What does that look like?</h2>
<strong><em>Cheryl Strayed:</em> </strong>To me, radical empathy means striving to always hold others in unconditional positive regard. It means assuming that most of us are essentially good at our core, that we are all worthy of love and forgiveness. In action, it means willingness to contemplate the decisions and actions of others with consideration rather than condemnation, with compassion rather than scorn. Having radical empathy is not about letting people off the hook for their misdeeds and mistakes, but rather holding them&mdash;and ourselves&mdash;to a higher standard. It&rsquo;s about saying, &ldquo;I believe we are capable of doing better, of being kinder, braver, more honest, and more generous&mdash;even after we have failed to do so.&rdquo;

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I do a fair job of radical empathy towards myself, but I could do better! When I start beating myself up about something I wish I&rsquo;d done or not done, I try to imagine what I might say to a friend if he or she came to me with that same struggle. It&rsquo;s so much easier to be kind to others than it is to be kind to ourselves, so that mental shift in perspective helps me get out of my head a bit. Another thing that helps me when it comes to self-empathy is trusting the truth that we learn from our mistakes&mdash;that even if I have done something I regret, I have the opportunity to allow that experience to be a teacher to me so I won&rsquo;t make the same mistake again.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Brave Magic </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Elizabeth Gilbert,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Cheryl Strayed</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">September 20 - 23, 2018</div>
There is still space to register for this program! Learn more about our commuter pass option with local hotel discounts, then call 1 844 544 1440 to book. Spend a one-of-a-kind weekend with Elizabeth Gilbert and Cheryl Strayed exploring the pathways...</div>

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<h2>1440: <em>Wild</em>&nbsp;is, among other things, a tale of loss and grief. You have written extensively about the damaging ways you responded to both as a young adult. How do you grieve in your life today?</h2>
<strong><em>Cheryl Strayed:</em> </strong>Every day of my life for more than 26 years has been imbued with the sorrow that my mother is no longer in it. My grief is present in every breath I take&mdash;which doesn&rsquo;t mean I&rsquo;m always sad. It means I&rsquo;ve had to get used to living with that enormous loss. I&rsquo;ve had to learn to carry it with me and I&rsquo;ve done that, rather joyfully.

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<span class="quote">The deepest thing I know about loss is that grief is love. It is love. It is not sorrow. It is beauty, not ugliness. </span>

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Maybe once or twice a year, I will think of my mom and weep. I miss her. But I bring her back to me every day in my own mothering of my two children and in my work. She is alive in my stories.

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<h2>1440: You encourage aspiring writers to be brave in the topics they explore in their work. Why is bravery so critical to the creative process?</h2>
<strong><em>Cheryl Strayed:</em></strong> Because the creative process is ultimately about telling the truth. It&rsquo;s about being as transparent as we can possibly bear to be. That is inherently scary. We risk condemnation, rejection, and vulnerable exposure when we show the world who we really are inside. You have to be brave to do that and if you aren&rsquo;t able to muster that bravery, it is pretty difficult to make art. Art&rsquo;s job is to tell us what it means to be human, so the people who create it need to be up to that task.

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<h2>1440: What obstructs your own bravery? In writing and in life? How do you respond?</h2>
<strong><em>Cheryl Strayed:</em></strong> Like anyone, what I want most of all is to be loved and praised and I also want my books to be loved and praised. And yet I know there is no such person who can only be loved and praised, and also no such book. So, I remind myself of that when I feel afraid as a writer. I remind myself that my truest intention isn&rsquo;t to please people. My intention is to do my work. So I do it. And you know what? The writing that people love me the very most for is precisely the writing I felt the very most afraid to write. In the hard moments, I remember that.

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<strong><em>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</em></strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/living-with-grief-bravery-and-empathy-an-interview-with-cheryl-strayed</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/living-with-grief-bravery-and-empathy-an-interview-with-cheryl-strayed#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;Life is Not About an Ideal Endgame&quot;: Max Strom on Finding Meaning</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Max Strom</a>&nbsp;is a global speaker, author, yoga teacher, and trainer, best known for deeply impacting the lives of his students with teachings that reach past the limits of contemporary yoga culture. Over the past decade, Max has become a prominent voice of personal transformation skilled at touching the hearts of people from all walks of life, nationalities, and backgrounds.
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<h2>1440: How do you define happiness?</h2>
<em>Max Strom</em>: Quite often when people use the word happiness they&rsquo;re referring to pleasure. But at some point in our life&mdash;it can take some longer than others to get there&mdash;we arrive at a place where we understand happiness to be about finding meaning. We realize then that we can find meaning in pleasurable circumstances as well as in the worst circumstances.

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<span class="quote">So I would say my definition of happiness is the daily experience of meaning. </span>

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Of course I prefer pleasant things like everyone else, but those things are fleeting and meaning is not.

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<h2>1440: Do you think of happiness as something out there we are trying to find or as something that&rsquo;s already inside us that we&rsquo;re trying to uncover?</h2>
<em>Max Strom</em>: I think people often assume when they meet a charismatic teacher or spiritual leader that that person has more light than everybody else&mdash;but I don&rsquo;t think they do. I think they&rsquo;ve revealed more of their light than most people, but we all have pretty much the same capacity for happiness.

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<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s about how much you are willing to reveal yourself and be vulnerable and intimate. </span>

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Most spiritual practices are about undoing what&rsquo;s in the way of us recognizing this. Imagine it&rsquo;s nighttime and the electricity has gone out. You have a candle on the floor and you cover it with a big basket. You would see a little bit of light flickering through the small spaces of the basket, but not much light would escape. That&rsquo;s what we do to our own light, our own heart. We cover it up to protect it. Most of us did this when we were very young, and practices like yoga, meditation, breathing patterns, etc., are how we start to remove the basket and break apart the armor so more light can be revealed.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>The Science of Happiness </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Jack Kornfield, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Barbara Fredrickson, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Richard Davidson, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Reverend Jennifer Bailey,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Lama Tsomo, MA,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Emiliana Simon-Thomas, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Dacher Keltner, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Zahra Noorbakhsh,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Eve Ekman, MSW, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Jason Marsh</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">May 2 - 5, 2019</div>
What does it mean to live a happy, meaningful life? How do you respond with resilience to life&rsquo;s unavoidable stresses and disappointments? How can you forge compassionate connections at a time of extreme busyness, isolation, and division? Hundreds of thousands...</div>

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<h2>1440: In your book <em>There Is No App for Happiness</em>, you talk about three key ways to work at revealing our happiness. The first is self-awareness. What is self-awareness?</h2>
<em>Max Strom</em>: &nbsp;If I were to ask you what your favorite sports team is or your favorite TV show, you would be able to give me an answer pretty quickly. But if I were to ask you what makes you happy at the deepest level, what gives your life meaning, or what is your purpose, most people won&rsquo;t have an answer. Having self-awareness means we understand our motivations, desires, and ethics and are able to express them.

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<h2>1440: How can we cultivate self-awareness?</h2>
<em>Max Strom</em>: I would start off by setting aside a weekend to practice self-inquiry. If you can afford to go on a retreat, great&mdash;if not, stay home and unplug.

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<span class="quote">Be quiet and ask yourself a few very important questions. </span>

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I was on a flight recently and sat next to a guy who was a consultant for a huge firm. He was very anxious, and when I asked him if he was clear what he wanted from life, he said he only knew he wanted to make a lot of money to get a better position and more prestige from his job, so he was working 70 hours a week. Beyond that, he had no idea.

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Having an answer to the question, &ldquo;What do you want from life?&rdquo; is an important foundation. You can always change it, but it gives you a baseline, a direction. You can also ask yourself what will be left of you to enjoy your life after you&rsquo;ve met all your goals? Would you want your children to live the way you&rsquo;re living now? What do you value?

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<span class="quote">Life is not about an ideal endgame, but an ideal way of living. </span>

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These questions help us see we don&rsquo;t want to just live a life of semi-controlled madness for an idealized future.

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<h2>1440: So if I realize I wouldn&rsquo;t recommend my life to my kids, how can I begin to change it?</h2>
<em>Max Strom</em>: This is the second imperative to happiness: working with time. Let&rsquo;s go back to the consultant I met on the plane. I asked him if they used a cost-benefit analysis in his work and he said yes. You can use this same approach in your life to assess the personal costs and benefits of living a certain way. You may be able to make a lot of money working so many hours a week, but what is the cost to your health, your family, and your happiness?

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To be happy, you must include a cost-benefit analysis of where you spend your time. If you feel like you&rsquo;re killing time, you have to remember that time and life are the same thing.

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<span class="quote">Our life span is finite. </span>

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We sleep a third of that time, hopefully, and what&rsquo;s left is all you have to do things that give you meaning and pleasure. So you better be clear on what you want to spend your time on in those hours.

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<h2>1440: Almost everyone these days seems to feel their life is too busy. How can we develop a daily practice, which is your third imperative for happiness?</h2>
<em>Max Strom</em>: When you do a cost-benefit analysis on your personal life, you will discover the places you&rsquo;re filling up your time with things that divert you, like video games, substances, social media, and television. These diversions are an attempt to deal with unreconciled emotions. We are basically running from ourselves in these precious hours we have. To me, if you can reconcile your past through yoga and breathing practices to release the frozen emotions you&rsquo;re carrying, you&rsquo;ll no longer need to run.

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Sometimes we have to trick ourselves to get ourselves to practice. If I&rsquo;m really exhausted and I don&rsquo;t feel like doing it, I say to myself, &ldquo;Okay, I&rsquo;m just going to change clothes and get ready for practice. That&rsquo;s all.&rdquo; It&rsquo;s like tricking the body into starting the routine, because once I have the clothes on I say, &ldquo;Well, I might as well practice for five minutes.&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">And then at the end of five minutes I might keep going for ten. </span>

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It works for me every time! And since breathing practices make me feel better immediately, I want to keep going, because in the end the benefits far outweigh the costs.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/life-is-not-about-an-ideal-endgame-max-strom-on-finding-meaning</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/life-is-not-about-an-ideal-endgame-max-strom-on-finding-meaning#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;Life Begins at the End of Your Comfort Zone&quot;: Talking with Neale Donald Walsch</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Neale Donald Walsch</a>&nbsp;has redefined God and changed the lives of millions through his nine-book series, <i>Conversations with God. </i>A publishing phenomenon, seven of the books made the <em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;best sellers list, with the first one remaining there for almost three years. A prolific voice in contemporary spirituality, Neale is the catalyst behind several paradigm-shifting outreach projects, through which he inspires peace around the globe. He&nbsp;will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Accelerating Your Spiritual Evolution</a> September 14 &ndash; 16, 2018, at 1440 Multiversity.
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<h2>1440: &ldquo;Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.&rdquo; That&rsquo;s probably the most quoted line from your best-selling&nbsp;<em>Conversations with God</em>. Can you tell us why that saying resonated with so many people?</h2>
<em>Neale Donald Walsch:</em> I think that most people intuitively understand&mdash;and see, as well, from their own observation of others who we admire&mdash;that it is when we stretch into That Which Is Uncomfortable that we really (and often, for the first time)&nbsp;experience life at its most tingling, igniting, and magnificent level. Whether it is having the&nbsp;courage&nbsp;to speak our truth and our whole truth, imagining a heretofore undreamt of goal and &ldquo;going for it,&rdquo; or taking the plunge on a major job or&nbsp;relationship decision that may seem at first scary to us, we notice that it is at this leading edge where&nbsp;Simple Survival shifts into Simply Sensational.

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<span class="quote">It doesn&rsquo;t take long for the average person to realize that for the average person to rise above the average, a willingness to be a little scared or a little nervous or at least a little unsure is going to be required. </span>

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We are only scared when we are not absolutely, positively, and&nbsp;completely&nbsp;certain of the result. It takes only a short time for us to conclude that continually certain results are continually boring. Life begins when&nbsp;boredom ends. We all know this. No one has to tell us this. We&rsquo;ve known this since we&nbsp;were six.

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Now within the context of&nbsp;<em>Conversations with God</em>&nbsp;and its focus on spiritual growth,&nbsp;the risk of stepping into&nbsp;the highest&nbsp;expression of the&nbsp;Spiritual Self can at times feel enormous. Yet the mind spins in anticipation of such an opportunity, the heart leaps at the chance, and the soul&nbsp;smiles at the knowing that our opportunities will never end. So the Whole of Us knows where the wonder in life will be found. It&rsquo;s merely and only a&nbsp;question&nbsp;of whether we&rsquo;ll round up the courage to go there&mdash;because it takes such a complete change in behavior in so many moments for us to fully express our True Nature that it can sometimes seem impossible. Yet, to loosely paraphrase Albert Einstein, &ldquo;If it&rsquo;s not impossible, there&rsquo;s no use even trying.&rdquo;

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<h2>1440: For everyone who has never read your work, what do your conversations with God look like? Has their quality or characteristics changed over time?</h2>
<em>Neale Donald Walsch:</em> The&nbsp;<em>Conversations with God</em> dialogues read like friendly, sprightly, often humorous, always fascinating and endlessly helpful exchanges between someone longing for answers to life&rsquo;s most persistent questions and someone joyfully willing to provide responses filled with patience, wisdom, and love. The dialogues have not changed in nuance, style, or substance since the first experience over 25 years ago. An amazing aspect of the dialogues is the consistency of its messages, captured over a period of more than two decades and covering over 3,500 pages.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Accelerating Your Spiritual Evolution </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Neale Donald Walsch</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">September 14 - 16, 2018</div>
How do we move from seeker to teacher? How do we move from asking for change, to being the change we want to see in the world? How do we stop chasing the divine and start living from the Divinity...</div>

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<h2>1440: Were you surprised when your first&nbsp;<em>Conversations with God</em>&nbsp;was on the best seller list for 134 weeks? What was this like for you as an author and spiritual messenger&mdash;to see this work read and acclaimed in this type of way?</h2>
<em>Neale Donald Walsch:</em> I&rsquo;m not sure that &ldquo;surprised&rdquo; is the word. I was &ldquo;surprised&rdquo; that the first manuscript actually got published, that&rsquo;s for sure. I sent it to a handful of publishers on a dare. I was, in fact, &ldquo;daring God,&rdquo; who said to me in the dialogue, &ldquo;This will one day become a book.&rdquo; I thought to myself:&nbsp;Sure. You and a hundred other people are going to send your middle-of-the-night mental meanderings to a publisher, who&rsquo;s going to say, &ldquo;Stop the presses! This guy is talking to God!&rdquo;&nbsp;But after the book was actually printed and distributed (the publisher rushed it to print, getting it on bookstore shelves within just over 90 days of the manuscript&rsquo;s submission), I just quietly looked on and watched what happened.

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As to your second question, I did not feel like &ldquo;an author,&rdquo; because I did not have the experience of having &ldquo;written a book&rdquo; so much as having simply &ldquo;taken dictation.&rdquo; That was exactly my experience. So I didn&rsquo;t have any kind of chest-expanding pride when the book became a best seller, translated into 37 languages, and read around the world. Just the opposite, in fact. I felt, and still feel, deeply humbled to have had a role in it finding its way to our world.

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<span class="quote">I am only grateful to know that millions of people seem to have&mdash;and say they have&mdash;benefited from the material. </span>

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<h2>1440: Does your work land differently with different religious identities? Is there a specific audience that has been more receptive or moved by&nbsp;<em>Conversations with God</em>&nbsp;than the title might lead us to believe?</h2>
<em>Neale Donald Walsch:</em> I don&rsquo;t know about that. I haven&rsquo;t taken or seen any reader surveys relating to the dialogue. From the mail and email I have received and the comments I have received at in-person events, it appears that people of every spiritual persuasion and culture have been uniformly touched by what I have experienced as a Civil Rights Movement for the Soul &hellip; freeing humanity at last from the oppression of its beliefs in a violent, angry, judgmental, and vindictive God.

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<h2>1440: What are you working on now?</h2>
<em>Neale Donald Walsch:</em> I am deeply involved in seeking to provide expanded opportunities for people who feel moved to explore new spiritual horizons to do so through online events, programs, and dialogues relating to CWG.&nbsp;People&nbsp;who wish to stay connected with the messages will find many&nbsp;resources at CWGConnect.com.

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<span class="quote">I feel it is important to note that my message to everyone about the CWG messages is always the same: &lsquo;Ours is not a better way, ours is merely another way.&rsquo; </span>

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I have invited people to never take anything they have found in <em>Conversations with God</em>, or any other spiritual literature for that matter, as infallible, but to always look to their own experience and remain their own authority in these matters. The most important message of the nine dialogue books is found on page five of <em>Book One</em>, in which God said: &ldquo;I talk to everyone, all the time. The question is not, &lsquo;To whom do I talk?&rsquo; The question is, &lsquo;Who listens?&rsquo; &hellip; &rdquo;]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/life-begins-at-the-end-of-your-comfort-zone-talking-with-neale-donald-walsch</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/life-begins-at-the-end-of-your-comfort-zone-talking-with-neale-donald-walsch#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Is Crazy the New Normal? 10 Gifts from Living in the Unknown</title><description><![CDATA[<ul>
	<li><em>Are you&nbsp;moving through a relationship or health crisis? </em></li>
	<li><em>Are you in career transition and&nbsp;asking, &ldquo;What&rsquo;s next?&rdquo; </em></li>
	<li><em>Do world events seem particularly challenging for you to digest right now?&nbsp;</em></li>
</ul>

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For many of us, it feels as if we&rsquo;re headed into a brave, new frontier without a map, and we&rsquo;re being asked to&nbsp;evolve and create new&nbsp;tools for navigating this unchartered landscape as we go.

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Taking a 30,000-foot view, there&rsquo;s no doubt&nbsp;that collectively we&rsquo;re&nbsp;facing unprecedented levels of change, uncertainty, and chaos. In an era where economic and political volatility has become a mainstay, additionally, we&rsquo;re juggling parenting our parents, dealing with the realities&nbsp;of&nbsp;globalization and living farther away from our families, fighting off digital overwhelm,&nbsp;facing fallout from natural disasters, and the list goes on.

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In addition to all these outward changes, we&rsquo;re also being called to transform internally.

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<span class="quote">Humanity is undergoing huge consciousness shifts and many of us are feeling the call to evolve and embrace new ways of being. </span>

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Across the board, the majority of my friends, colleagues, clients&mdash;and even my own family&mdash;are navigating uncertainty and experiencing some type of transition right now. So how do we keep our sanity&mdash;not to mention sense of inner peace&mdash;in the face of so much tumult?

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>New Way of Being </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Ren&eacute;e Peterson Trudeau</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">October 4 - 6, 2019</div>
For women of all ages and life stages. Do you long to reconnect with who you are? Are you in the midst of a transition? Do you crave quiet reflection, rest, and renewal? Internationally recognized transformational coach Ren&eacute;e Peterson Trudeau...</div>

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For many of us, living in the unknown can often feel worse than receiving actual &ldquo;bad news,&rdquo; i.e. news that is contrary to what we want! It can conjure up the old &ldquo;waiting for the other shoe to fall&rdquo; feeling. It can feel unsettling, elicit&nbsp;overwhelm, and challenge the illusion&nbsp;that we&rsquo;re in charge!

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But, if you&rsquo;re willing to keep breathing and stay with this feeling, there is also a place within the unknown that is exhilarating, fresh, and filled with potential and rebirth. If you can move out of &ldquo;paralysis by analysis,&rdquo; living in the unknown can be an incredible opportunity for spiritual, personal, and professional growth. Sometimes I think we need the reminder that it&rsquo;s okay to outgrow your old clothes and try on something you never thought was your style. Living in the unknown offers you the opportunity to:

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	<li>Examine your values (what&rsquo;s most important to you?) and be willing to explore life from the inside out</li>
	<li>Practice gratitude: giving thanks for all you do have; a daily gratitude practice shifts your mood faster than anything</li>
	<li>Define what happiness really means to you (your answer may surprise you!)</li>
	<li>Identify your anchors and what you need to truly rejuvenate and deeply nourish yourself</li>
	<li>Practice mindfulness and live more in the present moment; right here, right now is the only true stress-free zone</li>
	<li>Explore your&nbsp;contemplative side: step back and take time to reflect and examine your fears and barriers to success</li>
	<li>Pause and examine how you see things (do you play the &ldquo;what if&rdquo; up game or the &ldquo;what if&rdquo; down game; are you an optimist or a pessimist?)</li>
	<li>Build a support network: get comfortable asking for and receiving help</li>
	<li>Imagine the possibilities: are you open to expanding into an even better life/job/relationship/business than you ever imagined</li>
	<li>Serve others, volunteer: nothing pulls us outside of ourselves faster than working in a soup kitchen</li>
	<li>Feel so you can heal: breathwork, yoga, and conscious movement are essential tools for navigating uncertain times.</li>
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Are you willing to explore the gifts that come from being in a state of limbo? Life is continually shifting: chaos, order, chaos, and so on. This week I&rsquo;m playing with the concept of being just as comfortable with the wild unknown as I am with those forces in my life that ground me.

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<strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Ren&eacute;e Peterson Trudeau</a> is an internationally recognized transformational coach, speaker, and president of Career Strategists, an award-winning coaching and consulting firm. She is the author of three best-selling books on life balance, including the award-winning <em>The Mother&rsquo;s Guide to Self-Renewal: How to Reclaim, Rejuvenate and Re-Balance Your Life</em>. A sought-after expert, Ren&eacute;e&rsquo;s work has been featured in the <em>New York Times, US News &amp; World Report, Good Housekeeping, </em>and <em>Spirituality &amp; Health</em>.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/is-crazy-the-new-normal-10-gifts-from-living-in-the-unknown</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/is-crazy-the-new-normal-10-gifts-from-living-in-the-unknown#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Human Potential and Happiness: An Interview with Richard Davidson</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Richard J. Davidson,&nbsp;PhD,</a> is the&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;best-selling coauthor of&nbsp;<em>The Emotional Life of Your Brain</em>&nbsp;and the William James and Vilas Professor of Psychology and Psychiatry at the University of Wisconsin&ndash;Madison, where he is also the director of the Waisman Laboratory for Brain Imaging and Behavior.
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A friend and confidante of the Dalai Lama, he was named by&nbsp;<em>Time</em>&nbsp;magazine as one of the 100 most influential people in the world.

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<h2>Q: What are the best ways to build resilience&mdash;the ability to bounce back after difficult times?</h2>
<em>Richard Davidson</em>: Simple mindfulness practices that cultivate the recognition of our basic awareness are helpful, especially when they can be seamlessly integrated with everyday life instead of practiced just on a meditation cushion. Things like commuting, doing the dishes, taking a walk, or cleaning the house are opportunities for piggybacking&mdash;doing them with more intentionality, with the recognition of awareness. You&rsquo;re paying attention to what you&rsquo;re doing, but also at the same time you have a background recognition of the quality of your mind and the nature of awareness.

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<span class="quote">That kind of practice, over time, will lead to increased resilience. </span>

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<h2>Q: Are you saying that if you bring attention to anything&mdash;like running or hiking or kayaking&mdash;it can act like meditation?</h2>
<em>Richard Davidson</em>: Doing activities with attention shares some characteristics with meditation, but it differs in important respects. When we engage in intentional, contemplative acts, like meditation, we invoke the intention that we&rsquo;re doing the practice not primarily for ourselves, but for the benefit of others.

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<span class="quote">Cultivating a calm mind and a warm heart is not just good for us&mdash;it&rsquo;s good for everyone we touch. </span>

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When we run or play tennis, we don&rsquo;t normally invoke the explicit intention that we&rsquo;re doing it primarily for the benefit of others. But we could, and that may change the nature of those kinds of activities in important ways. As a practitioner as well as a scientist, I have&nbsp;a lot of reason to believe that when we do things with an altruistic intention it produces different kinds of effects, including biological effects.

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<span class="quote">I invite people to try it&mdash;engage in your activities of leisure with altruistic intention&mdash;and see what happens. </span>

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<h2>Q: Seeing the positive in the world, which seems so full of bad news, takes effort. Why is it important to do it?</h2>
<em>Richard Davidson</em>: First of all, the way you asked the question is predicated on the assumption that the world is really filled with all these bad things. The data suggests that that isn&rsquo;t the case. For example, incidents of violence have dramatically declined over the last 200 years&mdash;even if you include all the wars, gun violence, and terrorism, there&rsquo;s actually less violence today than there was a hundred years ago.

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The reason it seems so bad is that the media amplifies it.

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<span class="quote">Unlike 100 years ago, we have the capacity for viral amplification. </span>

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But when you actually reflect on your daily life, most people&mdash;not everyone, but most people&mdash;would say that the incidence&nbsp;of positive actions&nbsp;is&nbsp;far greater every day than the incidence of really bad stuff.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>The Science of Happiness </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Jack Kornfield, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Barbara Fredrickson, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Richard Davidson, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Reverend Jennifer Bailey,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Lama Tsomo, MA,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Emiliana Simon-Thomas, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Dacher Keltner, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Zahra Noorbakhsh,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Eve Ekman, MSW, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Jason Marsh</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">May 2 - 5, 2019</div>
What does it mean to live a happy, meaningful life? How do you respond with resilience to life&rsquo;s unavoidable stresses and disappointments? How can you forge compassionate connections at a time of extreme busyness, isolation, and division? Hundreds of thousands...</div>

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If we bring our awareness to the common, simple, kind acts of gratitude and appreciation that fill our everyday lives, we become more aware of these kinds of activities, and they can help us see that there is really this fundamental, innate, basic goodness.

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<span class="quote">We really do exhibit these positive qualities, and departures from them are rare. </span>

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These departures hijack our attention because the brain is built to detect discrepancy and contrast. The invitation in this work is to pay more attention and to be more aware of the granularity of kindness in everyday life.

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<h2>Q: How is the ability to control where we put our attention an important skill for our well-being? Are things like brain-training apps helpful in learning to control our attention?</h2>
<em>Richard Davidson</em>: Studies show that brain-training apps make you better at the specific task you&rsquo;re being trained on, but they don&rsquo;t make you better in general.

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<span class="quote">There are many different things that we can do to train our attention, and they all involve a quality of what I would call meditative awareness. </span>

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As you read these words right now, you can pay attention to them and notice them on the page or the screen, but you can also monitor the quality of your awareness.

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<span class="quote">How attentive are you? Are there thoughts popping up in your mind? How does your body feel? </span>

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You can learn to monitor these background qualities of awareness without sacrificing the focus on the primary object. This is referred to as meta-awareness.

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Any practice that involves this intentional cultivation of meta-awareness can lead to a generalization of skills where, unlike with the brain-training apps, the training sticks beyond the specific context. You could bring this quality of meditative awareness to anything&mdash;reading the newspaper, eating, or having a conversation&mdash;but it&rsquo;s really hard to do it in the real world. You&rsquo;re likely to get lost in what you&rsquo;re doing.

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<span class="quote">That&rsquo;s why we practice on the cushion, in order to make it more spontaneously available in real life. </span>

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<h2>Q: Research shows that the good feelings we get from being kind and generous last longer than the good feelings we get from other pleasurable things. Why do you think this is so, and what does it say about us?</h2>
<em>Richard Davidson</em>: We don&rsquo;t really know at this point, but there are evolutionary theorists who argue that altruism and cooperation are very important mechanisms in evolution. It may well be that the lingering positive effect that is experienced when one engages in acts of generosity is part of an evolutionary program that helps to maintain this kind of altruism and pro-social behavior, which may be a key ingredient to successful evolutionary development.

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/human-potential-and-happiness-an-interview-with-richard-davidson</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/human-potential-and-happiness-an-interview-with-richard-davidson#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Thrive If You&apos;re a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP): An Interview With Elaine N. Aron, PhD</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Elaine N. Aron, PhD</a>,&nbsp;is a clinical and research psychologist, author, and pioneer in the field of high sensitivity. She has published five books, including <em>The Highly Sensitive Person</em>, which has been translated into more than 17 languages, and <em>The Highly Sensitive Parent</em>,&nbsp;as well as numerous scientific articles in leading journals.
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<h2>1440: What are the characteristics of a highly sensitive person (HSP)?</h2>
<em>Elaine:</em> Those who are highly sensitive observe more compared to those without the trait and they have more empathy, notice more subtleties, and feel and process things more deeply. HSPs are more sensitive to sensory stimulation, such as bright lights and loud noises, and tend to have a rich inner life. Most of this has been well demonstrated in brain activation studies.

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They also have what&rsquo;s called differential susceptibility.

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<span class="quote">This means they are more affected by their environment, either for good or bad. </span>

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It&rsquo;s especially true for children, but also true for adults. Sensitive children who grow up in a bad situation will be more affected than non-sensitive children and as adults are more prone to depression and anxiety than those without the trait who are exposed to similar troubles. HSPs who grew up in a good environment, however, are likely to be very high functioning. Often, others do not notice they&rsquo;re sensitive, as the HSP has designed a life that works well for them.

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<h2>1440: How many people are highly sensitive?</h2>
<em>Elaine:</em> About 20%. Being highly sensitive is an innate trait that shows up in equal numbers of men and women as well as in about the same percentage in more than 100 other species.

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<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s a survival strategy of observing more closely before acting. </span>

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It has some energy costs for the individual, but the main reason the percentage is not higher is that if everyone were highly sensitive, there would be no advantage! Just as when everyone knows a shortcut around traffic, it doesn&rsquo;t save anyone any time.

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By the way, HSPs aren&rsquo;t necessarily introverts, though about 70% are. There is a wide range of neurodiversity&mdash;people can differ in lots of ways, and being sensitive is one.

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<h2>1440: Does being highly sensitive show up differently in men than in women?</h2>
<em>Elaine:</em> We haven&rsquo;t seen differences in the brain because we haven&rsquo;t specifically looked yet. But it does manifest differently because of the differences in hormones and the way men and women are socialized differently from the beginning. The first thing we&rsquo;re told when a baby is born is if it&rsquo;s a boy or a girl. Then we act a certain way based on that information.

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Generally, it&rsquo;s much harder for men to be sensitive than it is for women, because it&rsquo;s assumed that women are going to be more sensitive. With men, it depends more upon what they look like and how they set out to portray themselves.

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<span class="quote">I&rsquo;ve met sensitive men who were Marines, firefighters, and police officers. </span>

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They use their sensitivity to notice when something is going to happen, and to plan for how they will take care of it when it does.

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<h2>1440: How can a highly sensitive person maintain their social connections if their tendency is to get overwhelmed and go off by themselves?</h2>
<em>Elaine:</em> In general, they seem to do it well, because the relationships they do have are deeper. People appreciate the depth of friendship, even if they spend less time together because the HSP needs more time alone.

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It&rsquo;s especially hard, however, when HSPs go to a new place, like college, where there are so many new people to meet.

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<span class="quote">Everybody is socializing, and a sensitive person will socialize some and then need to go off alone. </span>

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When they come back, they discover everybody is already deep in their relationships, having made connections and had conversations they weren&rsquo;t there for. That&rsquo;s always hard, but I like to say sensitive people make better second impressions than first impressions.

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You have to have some self-confidence that you will be valued in the long run and alternate your time with people with downtime. If you push through and work long hours and are also trying to be highly social, you&rsquo;re likely to have chronic illnesses when you&rsquo;re older, or that is my impression. There is no long-term research on that yet.

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<span class="quote">Sensitive people simply need more self-care. </span>

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I think HSPs should take one day off a week, at least one weekend every month, and at least a week every three months. It&rsquo;s more downtime than most people might take, but you will be more productive, not less, in the long run. You don&rsquo;t have to be doing anything except for staying away from other stimulation while your subconscious chews on, digests, and stashes away what you&rsquo;re processing, often coming up with very creative ideas.

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<h2>1440: How do you recommend a highly sensitive person work with their emotions, which can feel overwhelming?</h2>
<em>Elaine:</em> I know I should say, and I guess I will, that deep breathing and reframing a situation and all that is good, because it is. But I&rsquo;m a Jungian oriented therapist and we talk about things in terms of complexes.

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<span class="quote">Complexes are feeling states around which our issues tend to gather. </span>

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For instance, we all have a mother complex, a money complex, a food complex, and a love/romantic partner complex. These complexes determine what we want and what we expect. Most of our emotions arise around our experience of the outer world as fitting into those complexes.

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Now that&rsquo;s a bit dense, but I say it because I think insight into yourself and your unique makeup of complexes is extremely important. There are various ways to gain this knowledge. I&rsquo;m a great believer in depth psychotherapy. Another is meditation.

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<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s a great way to calm yourself down and get the big picture, which is outside the complex. </span>

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It gives you a way to see what a situation will be like in a day, a week, a year. Or what it looks like from across the galaxy. It gives you a way to step back and get perspective. Meditation is good for HSPs in many ways.

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<h2>1440: Are there particular circumstances where being highly sensitive offers great advantage?</h2>
<em>Elaine:</em> Starting with those strong emotions, sensitive people can be emotional leaders. Let&rsquo;s say something sad is happening and you&rsquo;re the first person in the room to cry. Maybe everyone needs to cry, but they&rsquo;re waiting for the first person to start.

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<span class="quote">The same could be true for any emotion a group needs to express&mdash;anger, pride, shame, joy. </span>

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The challenge is knowing whether or not it&rsquo;s your own issue, your complex even, or whether it&rsquo;s a truly appropriate emotion. But that is not so difficult for HSPs, usually, because they are so aware of subtle cues.

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Also, sensitive people can be calmer when there&rsquo;s something big going on, like an emergency. They have often already thought through what something will be like and how they&rsquo;re going to feel in a crisis. Because they have already felt what everyone else is beginning to feel, they can be more available to help.

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Of course most important is probably their depth of processing in almost every situation&mdash;except those they already figured out a long time ago!

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<h2>1440: What&rsquo;s your best advice for parenting a sensitive child?</h2>
<em>Elaine:</em> Because sensitive children are just that, so sensitive, often people want to make them less sensitive, which can make it worse if the child begins to feel there is something wrong with them.

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If you&rsquo;re having any kind of behavior issue with your child, the first thing to do is get a temperament assessment. When you understand your child&rsquo;s temperament, you learn what to do to help them in different situations. For example, it may help with some children to push them when they resist, but sensitive children shouldn&rsquo;t be pushed into activities; they may want to watch before they get involved.

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<span class="quote">They will need more downtime than other children, more time to think things through. </span>

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They will also ask deep questions, and parents need to try to answer those questions in a way that works for the child.

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It can be challenging to explain a sensitive child to teachers, grandparents, and other parents who might think there is something wrong. I gave some tips for this in the back of my book, <em>The Highly Sensitive Child</em>. Overall I have a saying, &ldquo;If you want an exceptional child, you have to be willing to have an exceptional child.&rdquo;

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-thrive-if-youre-a-highly-sensitive-person-hsp-an-interview-with-elaine-n-aron-phd</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-thrive-if-youre-a-highly-sensitive-person-hsp-an-interview-with-elaine-n-aron-phd#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Parent Without Power Struggles</title><description><![CDATA[Years ago I was driving my son to school when another parent, headed for the same destination, had a diabetic seizure.
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Realizing that his unconscious mother would not be able to prevent the car from careening out of control, her eleven-year-old son unhooked his seat belt and attempted to steer the car to safety. When he realized that he couldn&rsquo;t figure out what to do, he frantically belted himself back in just seconds before their Suburban hit four cars&mdash;including ours. His mother woke up when she crashed into a guardrail. Thankfully, none of the eleven people involved in the accident was badly hurt.

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<span class="quote">Children are meant to be passengers. They aren&rsquo;t equipped to drive a car or sail a ship through storms&mdash;and they know it. </span>

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But when no one is in the driver&rsquo;s seat, they instinctively try to take over. They don&rsquo;t want to be in charge; it&rsquo;s just that they know somebody has to be, because they understand that life is not safe unless someone competent is behind the wheel.

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<h2>Captain, Lawyer, Dictator</h2>
In my book <em>Parenting Without Power Struggles</em>, I described three ways that parents can engage with their children: being confidently and calmly in charge, negotiating for power, or fighting their child for control.

<ul>
	<li>Captain (parent in charge)</li>
	<li>Two lawyers (no one in charge)</li>
	<li>Dictator (child in charge)</li>
</ul>
Parents who are calmly and confidently in charge as the Captain of the ship come across as clear, loving, and capable of making good decisions on behalf of their children&mdash;even if those decisions upset their kids because they can&rsquo;t have what they want. When we are captaining the ship, we are responsively flexible, choosing how we engage with our child during one of his storms rather than reflexively reacting based on triggered behaviors we inherited from our own upbringing.

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Here is a brief example. Your thirteen-year-old asks if she can go to a party where the only supervision will be an older sister who is not known for her good judgment.

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<strong>Mom:</strong> &ldquo;Honey, I know you want to go, but unfortunately, I don&rsquo;t feel it&rsquo;s a good idea.&rdquo;

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<strong>Daughter:</strong> &ldquo;Please, Mom? I promise nothing bad will happen.&rdquo;

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<strong>Mom:</strong> &ldquo;Oh, sweetheart. I know it doesn&rsquo;t seem fair, and I know how much you want to go, but I&rsquo;m afraid not.&rdquo;

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Mom is being the Captain, demonstrating empathy and kindness while remaining decisive and clear. Depending on how accustomed your child is to you changing your mind or waffling, she may attempt to draw you into the next way of interacting.

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When parents engage in quarrels, power struggles, and negotiations with their kids, no one is in charge. I call this mode the Two Lawyers. Kids push against their parents, parents push against their kids, and the relationship is fraught with tension and resentment. Here &lsquo;s an example:

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<strong>Daughter:</strong> &ldquo;Mom, you treat me like I&rsquo;m a two-year-old. You never trust me!&rdquo;

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<strong>Mom:</strong> &ldquo;You&rsquo;re never happy unless you get what you want! Carey&rsquo;s sister is immature, and I don&rsquo;t trust her to keep an eye on you guys. She&rsquo;ll probably just have a party of her own! In fact, last year I heard that she&hellip;&rdquo; Mom argues for her position, and her child argues right back.

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<strong>Daughter:</strong> &ldquo;That&rsquo;s so not true! She was blamed for smoking pot in the school bathroom, but she wasn&rsquo;t even smoking! She just happened to be there when those other girls were doing it!&rdquo;

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These kind of parent-child interactions are characterized by fighting, arguing, and bargaining.

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Finally, when the child is the one calling the shots, the parents feel out of control and even panicked, especially if they imagine that others are judging them for not managing their kids well. They try to restore order and control by overpowering their children with threats, bribes, or ultimatums, similar to how a tyrant or despot&mdash;having no authentic authority&mdash;asserts control through fear and intimidation. I call this mode the Dictator.

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Here&rsquo;s an example:

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<strong>Daughter:</strong> &ldquo;You just can&rsquo;t accept that I&rsquo;m not your little baby anymore. Why don&rsquo;t you get a life, so you can stop trying to control mine?&rdquo;

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<strong>Mom:</strong> &ldquo;That&rsquo;s it, young lady. You never appreciate all the things we do for you. I work hard just to put food on the table, and you never even say thank you. You&rsquo;re grounded!&rdquo;

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As you can see, this situation rapidly deteriorates, with mom quickly losing her footing and shifting from Captain to Lawyer and, finally, entering Dictator mode.

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<span class="quote">Staying in Captain mode requires that we become comfortable setting limits so that we can parent with kindness, clarity, and confidence. </span>

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<h2>Setting Limits</h2>
In my counseling practice, I often see well-meaning couples who are committed to avoiding the mistakes their own parents made, yet who confess to having a tremendous lack of confidence when it comes to handling challenging situations.

<ul>
	<li>&ldquo;Is it okay if I let my fourteen-year-old experiment with smoking pot? His friends are all trying it.&rdquo;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;I tried to cancel my son&rsquo;s <em>World of Warcraft</em> subscription, but he got so furious he punched a hole in the wall!&rdquo;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;My kids become little terrors when we go out to eat unless I turn my cell phone over to them. Should I give in to keep the peace?&rdquo;</li>
</ul>
Unsure of themselves and afraid to set limits, they convey to their children that they don&rsquo;t know where they stand, or perhaps more accurately, that they are simply afraid to take a stand, lest they upset their children.

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<span class="quote">What I find interesting is that the very kids who have outbursts when they don&rsquo;t get their way almost always long for their parents to create some real connection and structure. </span>

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Sometimes, when I meet privately with youngsters like these, they tell me that they wish their parents weren&rsquo;t so wishy-washy. And other times, they make this known simply by responding positively when someone combines limit setting with deep and secure attachment.

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<em>Excerpted from the book</em> Parenting with Presence: Practices for Raising Conscious, Confident, Caring Kids (An Eckhart Tolle Edition). <em>Copyright &copy;2015 by Susan Stiffelman. Printed with permission from New World Library (www.newworldlibrary.com).</em>

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<div class="author f6">Susan Stiffelman, MFT, the Parent Coach advice columnist for the Huffington Post, is known for her expertise in helping parents enjoy the journey of parenthood, while raising joyful, resilient kids.
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Author of&nbsp;<em>Parenting Without Power Struggles&nbsp;</em>and&nbsp;<em>Parenting with Presence&nbsp;(An Eckhart Tolle Edition)</em>, Susan delivers practical, user-friendly strategies based on her work with thousands of parents and children&mdash;from celebrities to everyday moms and pops.</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-parent-without-power-struggles</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-parent-without-power-struggles#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Erratic Spring Weather, Like a View-Master</title><description><![CDATA[<strong>8:05 am</strong>
<ul>
	<li>It&rsquo;s snowing.</li>
	<li>It&rsquo;s raining.</li>
	<li>The sun is shining.</li>
	<li>It&rsquo;s hailing.</li>
	<li>It is hailing and the sun is shining.</li>
	<li>It is 70 degrees.</li>
	<li>It is 45 degrees.</li>
	<li>The sky is concrete gray.</li>
	<li>The sky is cerulean blue.</li>
</ul>

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<strong>It is now 11:17 am.</strong>

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You can feel the earth begin to warm and stir deep below you. The days slowly grow longer. The quality of the light begins to change.

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When I have coffee in my hot tub in the morning (I know&hellip;don&rsquo;t hate me), the songs of birds begin to pepper the air before the sun is fully up, where in the months before, there had been a lush stillness. Windows open, air moving through the closed den that has been my house during the winter months. The cats are uber-frisky, and yet can&rsquo;t stand the instability in the temperature of the outside world, and glare at me as if I could stop it if I really wanted to, but that I am just being spiteful and difficult, thus making their world a living hell of inconvenience for them.

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Inside, outside. Too cold, too hot, too windy, too snowy. They enact their revenge&hellip;the front door opens and closes and opens and closes&hellip;

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<span class="quote">Spring challenges us to ride the uncertainty. To be patient. To enjoy the weather right now, because 10 minutes from now, some other weather front will have moved in and shifted everything. </span>

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Right now, and right now, and right now.

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This last week has been extraordinarily challenging, being reminded over and over again of this.

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&ldquo;Is this project happening? No, it got pushed back. Is this move taking place? No, it is not. Actually, now it looks like it is. I am interested in this person, they seem to be interested in me, no, whoops, I guess not. Do you have a massage appointment available in 30 minutes? Great. Sorry, have to cancel. Wow, I didn&rsquo;t see that coming! That is a surprising new development! Cool?&hellip;This is a sure thing. No actually it is not. That will never happen&hellip;hey! Guess what just happened! Getting on my flight. Damn! Flight delayed.&rdquo;

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It has been more even than just outside, external circumstances. My internal, emotional landscape has flowed from happiness, contentment, sadness, disappointment, panic, anger, restfulness, restlessness, calm focus, and debilitating self-doubt in quick succession. All I can do is observe, breathe, and say, &ldquo;Wow&hellip;look at that. Look at you feeling that and thinking those thoughts. That is fascinating. Let&rsquo;s hang out here for another couple of minutes and see if anything shifts with that, okay? Great, let&rsquo;s do that.&rdquo;

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So, I do, and it does.

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<span class="quote">Sometimes it is like looking through an old View-Master. You take a breath, close your eyes, click the lever, open your eyes, and a new scene is in your vision. Moment to moment. </span>

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It has knocked me off-balance a bit and yet it reminds me: Oh yeah, it is always like this, just maybe not so all at once. Things are always in flux, but the quality of our lives is determined by how adaptable we are to the shift.

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A dear friend of mine and I caution each other, when we get blasted like this, to &ldquo;put on the non-skid rubber boots and try and stay on deck.&rdquo; It is good advice. Bend your knees, plant your feet, and ride the waves right into the spring and beyond, &rsquo;cause the only thing you can count on is the never-ending crash of the waves. Maybe there is a kind of peace in that.

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<strong>Jodeen Revere </strong>

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<strong> Jodeen Revere revels in her unconventional, multifaceted dream life. She is an actor, a writer, Thai yoga massage therapist, creative movement and dance enthusiast, and RYT-200 yoga teacher currently on an endless sabbatical. She writes <a href="https://jodeenrevere.wordpress.com/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">a blog chronicling her cancertastic adventures.</a>&nbsp;She loves writing, reading, viewing and heatedly discussing film, eating really good snacks, and chillin&rsquo; with her cats Julian and Tilda. She is a kind and good-natured smart ass. She is very funny. Just ask her. Her favorite human, ever, is her daughter, Lily.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/erratic-spring-weather-like-a-view-master</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/erratic-spring-weather-like-a-view-master#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Do You Take Things Personally? Try These Reflections</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Donald Altman</a> is a psychotherapist, award-winning writer, international workshop trainer, and former Buddhist monk. His latest book, <em>Reflect: Awaken to the Wisdom of the Here and Now</em>, is a beautifully provocative companion designed to prompt deeper self-awareness.
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As he writes, &ldquo;<em>Reflect</em> follows the advice shared by the Buddha on his deathbed when asked how his teachings should be taught and carried onward. Instead of trying to codify his life&rsquo;s work, the Buddha simply said, &lsquo;Be a lamp unto yourself.&rsquo; &rdquo;

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Altman invites readers to be lamps unto themselves by engaging in thoughtful exercises organized by essential theme: Simplicity &amp; Peace, Nature, Relationships, Love, Laughter, Bliss, Transformation, and Wisdom.

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What follows are two exercises&mdash;one from the Relationships chapter and one from the Laughter chapter.

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Try your hand at both to learn a little more about yourself.

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<h2>If you want to extinguish joy, take things personally.</h2>
Almost anything taken personally ignites your emotions and snuffs out joy&rsquo;s light in an instant.

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Look inward to untie this drama that binds you up in knots. When did it all begin? How tightly wound is this knot?

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Whatever it is, the fire will only go out when you stop throwing so much ego on it.

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Reflect on this.

<ul>
	<li>What things do you take personally that catch on fire?</li>
	<li>How old is this emotional trigger, and how did it originate in your life?</li>
	<li>Decide not to take an upsetting event personally today. How does this less reactive approach make you feel?\</li>
</ul>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<h2>Life is full of banana peels, but suffering after a slip is optional.</h2>
Each situation or burden has the potential to (en)lighten you with laughter.

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Why insist on crying each time you slip on the banana peel of life?

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Won&rsquo;t laughter do the job just as easily? Your attitude in the face of the burdens of pain, loss, or disappointment is something you control.

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Besides, another darn banana peel is waiting just around the corner.

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Reflect on this.

<ul>
	<li>How often have you laughed today? What would change if you could laugh at your banana peels?</li>
	<li>How can you start to lighten up?</li>
	<li>What &ldquo;banana peel&rdquo; do you face that you could take less seriously today?</li>
</ul>

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Excerpted from <em>Reflect: Awaken to the Wisdom of the Here and Now</em>&nbsp;by Donald Altman. Copyright &copy; 2019 by Donald Altman. Published by PESI Publishing &amp; Media.

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<strong>Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor of 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/do-you-take-things-personally-try-these-reflections</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/do-you-take-things-personally-try-these-reflections#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Demystifying Purpose with Laura Berman Fortgang</title><description><![CDATA[More than I&rsquo;d like to admit, hearing people talk about their purpose sometimes makes my skin crawl.
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It&rsquo;s like nails on a blackboard exacerbated by chewing a cheap espresso bean candy. Just bad. And yet who am I to talk? I often help others define&nbsp;their purpose. I just hope I don&rsquo;t set off people&rsquo;s &ldquo;BS&ldquo; barometers the way many well-meaning people set off mine.

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Don&rsquo;t get me wrong.&nbsp; I am a huge proponent of figuring out one&rsquo;s purpose and living it fully.

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<span class="quote">The part I have a problem with is people who claim to know their purpose and then do not execute it in their daily being. </span>

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It&rsquo;s not that they are lazy or lack integrity. In my opinion, it just means that they have chosen one that does not fit them at ALL.

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You see, purpose is not chosen. It&rsquo;s not a slogan or a bumper sticker that, if you like it, you don it on your car or business card.

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<span class="quote">Purpose is something you ARE, not something you DO. And that&rsquo;s where most folks go wrong&hellip;they use a WHAT to describe what is really a WHO. </span>

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&ldquo;My purpose is to make a difference.&rdquo;

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&ldquo;I help other people.&rdquo;

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&ldquo;My purpose is to make an impact on everyone I meet.&rdquo;

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These are not WHO qualities that are as central to your being as your DNA. These are WHATs or &ldquo;to-dos&rdquo; that you think will make you a better person if acted upon.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Now What?</strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Laura Berman Fortgang</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">April 6 - 8, 2018</div>
Are you feeling the need to do something radically different with your life? Why struggle on your own to figure out what that is? Join Laura Berman Fortgang, author of Now What?: 90 Days to a New Life Direction, and...</div>

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To set the context for finding yours, let&rsquo;s define purpose. To do so, I need to describe it&nbsp;in relation to Vision and Mission because many schools of thought use those terms&nbsp;interchangeably, and yet I believe they are distinct.

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A <strong>vision</strong> is a compelling image of an achievable future.* It is what you see as possible&nbsp;that may or may not happen in your lifetime&mdash;like Microsoft&rsquo;s vision of a computer on every desk, in every office, in every home. (Boy, they have come a long way!)

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A <strong>mission</strong> is what you are going to DO to make that vision come to be.&nbsp; In my company, I operate with the vision that everyone on the planet is a coach. Not that they are all professionals, but that the skill set we possess for communication and self-knowing passes on from person to person until it is common knowledge and culture everywhere. To fulfill that purpose, our mission is to create the best tools and publish the results of our work so the skills and insights can be disseminated and spread.

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<strong>Purpose</strong>, then, reflects your life&rsquo;s blood. The energy that runs through you that is the unique contribution to making that mission and purpose come to be. Really no two are alike. Two people may have similar ones, but no two will express their purpose in exactly the same way. For example, maybe you are a voice for justice, a midwife to ideas or to people&rsquo;s potential, a bridge to peace or communication, or someone who calls forth smiles, or someone who empowers.

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<span class="quote">You may be an action, you may be a noun, it doesn&rsquo;t matter, but it is something you just <em>are</em> and always have been even if you stand still and do nothing. </span>

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People will gravitate to you for this.

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One of my favorite stories about purpose comes from <em>Mutant Message Down Under</em> by Marlo Morgan, which is an account of a woman allegedly living with Aborigines in the Australian outback. One of her observations was that no one in the tribe had a biblical or given name. Their name was their purpose in the tribe. The songstress, the peacemaker, the cook, the medicine woman&mdash;they were their function. In this case, they are described in nouns but they were not the <em>to-dos</em> of that function. That function was undeniably <em>who</em> they were. They would not be themselves without fulfilling that function. Interesting to me, as well, was that they only celebrated birthdays when they evolved to a new level of purpose rather than when the lunar calendar came around to the date of their birth.

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Imagine the peace you would have if you truly understood your part in the whole in that way. Imagine the focus to your every day. That is the gift of uncovering and living your purpose.

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If you are one of the people still not clear about your purpose, keep in mind that there are two criteria that tell you you&rsquo;ve found it: 1) It&rsquo;s something you already are, or do, naturally, and 2) it impacts others. No one has a purpose alone in a vacuum.

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Here are four questions to purpose** that could help you recognize it within you:

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<ul>
	<li>What have people always naturally come to me for? (It may or may not match your job description.)</li>
	<li>What have people always said I should do or be? (Watch for the hint of your purpose in the essence of these things, not necessarily their exact title or role&mdash;so it is not that you should be a comedian, but rather that your humor is important.)</li>
	<li>What is the essence of your dream? (Current or past&mdash;and again, not the title or &ldquo;package&rdquo; but the natural qualities these roles would allow you to express in the world.)</li>
	<li>What has your whole life been about? (For example, a life of overcoming adversity may be the exact qualification you need to lead others to overcome their own.)</li>
</ul>

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<span class="quote">Your purpose is as natural a part of you as the blood coursing through your veins. </span>

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It&rsquo;s not an implant, it is your DNA&mdash;your Life Blueprint. Not being able to name it gives people a lot of distress, but it could simply mean that there is more inner work to be done before you are ready to live your purpose fully.

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Many also worry that their purpose needs to be grand or world-changing. I call this the &ldquo;Mother Theresa Syndrome&rdquo;&mdash;as if one&rsquo;s purpose is not worthy if it is not on the fast track to sainthood. We can&rsquo;t measure our actions ourselves as to their grandeur. Small actions can add up to something unexpectedly game-changing but it is rarely premeditated. It&rsquo;s rather the cumulative result of small, purposeful actions.

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<span class="quote">When we all give with great care, understanding, respect, and compassion we are fulfilling our reason for being. The ripple effect is initiated and it is not ours to control. </span>

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So, please, forget crafting a purpose statement and just get real. When you are fully and undeniably your SELF, you won&rsquo;t have to ask what your purpose is because you&rsquo;ll already be it. It <em>is</em> as simple as that and it will have no funny aftertaste. It&rsquo;ll just be you!

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*Excerpted from <em>Take Yourself to the Top</em> by Laura Berman Fortgang<br />
**Excerpted from <em>Now What? 90 Days to a New Life Direction</em> by Laura Berman Fortgang

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Laura Berman Fortgang</a>, MCC, will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Now What?:&nbsp;Radical Change for New Career Directions</a> at 1440 Multiversity on&nbsp;April 6 &ndash; 8, 2018.

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<strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Laura Berman Fortgang</a>, MCC, is the author of three best-selling books and the creator&nbsp;of the Now What?&nbsp;coaching system for career clarity. She&nbsp;is a pioneer in the personal coaching field with close to 25 years of experience supporting people in finding meaning, purpose, and satisfaction in their lives. Her website is <a href="https://laurabermanfortgang.com">&nbsp;www.laurabermanfortgang.com</a>.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/demystifying-purpose-with-laura-berman-fortgang</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/demystifying-purpose-with-laura-berman-fortgang#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Create a Joyful Reality: Adam Roa on Thriving in Today&apos;s World</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Adam Roa</a> is a&nbsp;spoken word artist,&nbsp;motivational speaker,&nbsp;conscious filmmaker, and&nbsp;human being committed to living the lessons he shares with the world.&nbsp;According to Goalcast, Adam is among the top trailblazing innovators to watch out for in 2019. We caught up with him recently to talk about creating a meaningful life and thriving in the digital age.
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<h2>1440: You&rsquo;re relatively young with a lot of younger followers. What stands out about today&rsquo;s generation of seekers?</h2>
<em>Adam:</em> I don&rsquo;t think we can talk about millennials or younger generations without talking about technology. I am technically a millennial, but I didn&rsquo;t grow up with the internet as integrated as it is now. I didn&rsquo;t own my own laptop in college, and we weren&rsquo;t allowed to use the internet for research. But I love technology, and many young people have only known a life with technology.

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I think there&rsquo;s a real disservice being done to the development of consciousness and prosperity to assign a negative value to technology. Yes, there are studies that show certain online use may negatively impact us, but is that technology itself or how we&rsquo;re using it?

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<span class="quote">We don&rsquo;t assign negative value to a hammer, but we can use a hammer to hurt someone or to build a house for shelter. </span>

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Technology itself is neutral. It takes on the value and intention of the people creating it and using it. As kids are coming up immersed in it, they don&rsquo;t have an elder generation to show them how to develop it and use it consciously.

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There isn&rsquo;t anyone to say, &ldquo;Hey, this is a hammer. Let me show you how to use it to make something,&rdquo; because the elder generations never used technology that way. We don&rsquo;t have someone to show the next generations how to use social media or other technologies to make a positive impact and not get taken over by it.

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For many people, what&rsquo;s happened is we&rsquo;ve taken the old model of advertising, where we&rsquo;re told we&rsquo;re not good enough (we need a better body or a better car or whatever) and we&rsquo;ve transferred that to the new technology.

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<span class="quote">We polish our lives and show only the highlights. </span>

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But there are many young people, including myself, who are using technology to put out as much in the positive direction as we can. I get weekly messages from people who say they&rsquo;ve been contemplating suicide, but they found my content and it saved their life.

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<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s not the technology that&rsquo;s a problem, it&rsquo;s the consciousness that creates it. </span>

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<h2>1440: You talk a lot about creating our own reality. What do you mean by that?</h2>
<em>Adam:</em> The simplest explanation is that we create our reality through our choices.

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<span class="quote">What we choose to do, eat, or say creates the reality we live in. </span>

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Most of our actions come from our unconscious mind and are based on beliefs we may not even know we hold: I&rsquo;m not good enough, I&rsquo;m not smart enough, I&rsquo;m not talented enough. If those beliefs are driving us, then the conscious mind filters out any evidence that we are enough and actively looks for evidence that we&rsquo;re not good enough.

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We also live in a world of our own making because there are things we can&rsquo;t sense or that we filter out. There are Wi-Fi and cell signals we can&rsquo;t see. Wavelengths of light not visible to us. And when we&rsquo;re in a busy restaurant, we respond to our name being said out loud even while other names are being spoken around us. That&rsquo;s because our mind is subconsciously scanning for what it thinks is important. Everything else it ignores.

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Those are some basic ways we can see how our reality is constructed. Then we can also get into more esoteric examples, like people who channel angels or other divine beings, or people who have schizophrenia and are hearing things. Who&rsquo;s to say those things aren&rsquo;t real if that is the experience they are having? Just because I can&rsquo;t see or hear or feel it doesn&rsquo;t mean it&rsquo;s not true.

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Because our reality is constructed, we can actively choose to create the reality we want.

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<span class="quote">I hope everyone chooses a reality where they are living in their joy and pulling and creating from that place. </span>

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That&rsquo;s the place that I want to be living from.

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<h2>1440: It sounds like your goal is to have a world where everyone is thriving. What does that mean to you?</h2>
<em>Adam:</em> I&rsquo;ve coached a lot of people who have (on paper) all the things that so many people say they want. And these people have been unhappy to the point of being suicidal.

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<span class="quote">We know that none of the stuff we think we want will alleviate our internal struggle. </span>

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To understand what it means to thrive, I like to ask myself, &ldquo;Who are the happiest people I&rsquo;ve met?&rdquo; and &ldquo;When have I been the most happy?&rdquo;

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I&rsquo;ve found that the happiest people are the ones who are expressed.

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<span class="quote">They are expressing themselves and their unique gifts into the world. </span>

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That will look completely different from person to person, so there may not be a lot of external measures we can use to judge that, like the car and the house, etc.

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Let&rsquo;s say I wanted to start a YouTube channel. If I sat there and said, &ldquo;I&rsquo;m never going to have 50 million subscribers and I might as well not try because I&rsquo;ll never be number one,&rdquo; I&rsquo;m missing the point. I&rsquo;m meant to do my YouTube show. I&rsquo;m meant to express myself in my unique way, and in doing so I&rsquo;m doing good for the planet.

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<h2>1440: Does thriving correlate with financial success?</h2>
<em>Adam:</em> I know many people who are not able to buy all the things they want to buy, but they are living in alignment, expressing their unique essence out into the world in ways that encourage and inspire others. We should value ourselves and charge accordingly for our work in the world, but if our goal is happiness through creative expression, then we start to look at financial success through a different lens.

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<span class="quote">This is our opportunity to shift the mind-set on this planet. </span>

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We&rsquo;ve got to let go of the zero-sum. We&rsquo;ve got to let go of the idea that I need to be the best, that I need to have the most money and the most cars, that I need to have the newest iPhone.

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<span class="quote">That mentality is stifling people from stepping up and creating. </span>

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We have enough for everyone&mdash;we can find a way to recognize this abundance and redistribute it in ways that prioritize the importance of creative expression, not consumption and accumulation.

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<h2>1440: You spent recent time at 1440 co-teaching a workshop about the joys of midlife. What does 50 look like for you?</h2>
<em>Dani Shapiro:</em> There&rsquo;s a tremendous liberation in caring a whole lot less what people think. I would say that is one of the great gifts of midlife. I don&rsquo;t feel anymore that everybody has to like me or that I have to please everybody. In fact, if I even try to please everybody then what I&rsquo;m actually doing is diminishing myself. Midlife brings with it an embracing of my own specificity and an understanding of it too.

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<span class="quote">Fifty is a moment of having, hopefully, a lot of time left in the world but not a lot of time to waste. </span>

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I think I&rsquo;m more discerning about how I spend my time. I want to have fun. I want to have meaningful conversations. I want to have meaningful connections with the people in my life. It&rsquo;s a moment of asking myself those great questions all over again: How shall I live? How do I want to live?

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The infinity of time&mdash;like the horizon&mdash;is different now, and I think that does something. It exerts a kind of really good pressure to make days count, to make time count.

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<h2>1440: What most excites you about midlife?</h2>
<em>Dani Shapiro:</em> I think what feels exciting is my relationship to my own power&mdash;it&rsquo;s almost hard to say that&mdash;but it is true. Stepping into the fullness of myself, embracing that, not feeling apologetic for it. That feels really exciting to me because it feels like so much can happen out of that place.

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<h2>1440: A central theme in your book <em>Devotion</em> is the interplay between the cultural identity you were born with (Orthodox Jewish) and the spiritual quest (via yoga and meditation) you initiated as an adult. How and where do these influences collide in your self-understanding?</h2>
<em>Dani Shapiro:</em> It has definitely been a journey for me. The impetus for <em>Devotion</em> arose when my son was little and would ask me some of the big spiritual questions. I was taken aback at the awareness that I had really opted out of thinking about all that in my adult life until that point.

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<span class="quote">I wanted to live inside of spiritual questions, yet I didn&rsquo;t know how. </span>

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I was raised with so many conflicting and complicated messages about religion. My father was religious, and my mother was not religious but agreed to become religious, which is its own kind of complicated surrender. That got in the way of me integrating aspects of my Jewish heritage because it felt to me like the only choice was the super-intense observant mode of my father and anything else was watered down and didn&rsquo;t count.

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It left me between a rock and a hard place. I didn&rsquo;t have any interest in observing God the way that I&rsquo;d been raised. Nor did I feel like the language of those prayers resonated with me.

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As I wrote <em>Devotion</em>, I spent my days reading great wisdom and practicing yoga and meditating for hours. I wanted to do that for the rest of my life. But it was very clear to me that the book, as a literary endeavor, needed to end. I was then faced with how to continue to evolve in the ways that I was growing.

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<h2>1440: Your writing reveals a strong appetite for ritual. How has ritual played a role in weaving together your spiritual fabric?</h2>
<em>Dani Shapiro:</em> One of the very first things I do when I meditate every day is offer up a prayer. It is a Hebrew word. But then it morphs into a mantra by the end of the twenty minutes. I don&rsquo;t feel a sense of judgment about that anymore.

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<span class="quote">I don&rsquo;t regard the blending as spiritual-lite. </span>

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I let it be what it is.

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As my son approached the age when he would become a bar mitzvah, I didn&rsquo;t know what to do about that. I kept trying to figure it out. Everywhere I went in search of religious community, I felt like I didn&rsquo;t belong. And then finally one day (and I don&rsquo;t think this ever would have come to me had I not written <em>Devotion</em>) I thought, &ldquo;Well, you can keep on moaning and groaning about how it doesn&rsquo;t exist, or you can build it because it doesn&rsquo;t exist.&rdquo;

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It felt important to me for Jacob to go through that ritual, and yet I had so much resistance to it and a feeling of, &ldquo;Oh my God, this is overwhelming to me.&rdquo; And then one day I reached out to a rabbi friend and asked, &ldquo;Do you happen to know anybody who may be a rabbi who could come to my house once a month or so if I brought together kids who were interested in learning?&rdquo;

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And she said, &ldquo;Well, yeah, my wife Suri is a rabbi, and she was a middle school drama teacher, and she really knows how to deal with young people.&rdquo; Long story short, once a month for a couple of years this group of people would gather in my home.

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<span class="quote">Suri made the material and the experience very alive for the kids. </span>

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And when my son did eventually achieve that rite of passage, we did it in the local meeting house on the village green in my little New England town. A priest friend read a Coleridge poem. Another friend read a Hannah Arendt poem.

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<span class="quote">I played the piano. Jacob played the ukulele. Everybody sang Leonard Cohen. </span>

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And Jacob read his portion of the Torah with absolute rigor.

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It was deeply eclectic but not one single thing was not intentional. We made our own prayer book and Jacob wore my father&rsquo;s tallit. None of my religious relatives came. They couldn&rsquo;t possibly have come, it was against their beliefs. But my aunt sent me a pair of tallit clips for Jacob that were my grandfather&rsquo;s. I gave a talk, and I basically brought it all into the room. It was one of the happiest days of my life.

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<h2>1440: The release of<em> Jagged Little Pill</em> cemented you as an international music sensation. The iconic songs on that record resonated for millions. How do you think your work spoke to the cultural climate of the time? What do you believe people were needing to hear?</h2>

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<em>Alanis Morissette:</em> I think it was a validation of our humanity, on some level. For me to wrap my head around what created the zeitgeist&mdash;I can&rsquo;t even come close. I have absolutely no idea, but I can make some educated guesses.

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I was writing about my own microcosmic experience.

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<span class="quote">When I write songs, I&rsquo;m just writing for myself. They are the equivalent of a musical diary entry. And then once I share the song, it belongs to whomever is listening to it. </span>

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I came quickly to understand that I wasn&rsquo;t alone in my challenges&nbsp;or suffering or pain. The experience opened me up, in a direct way, to how many people were suffering&mdash;and my career quickly anchored itself around wanting to consciously be a part of alleviating the suffering I began to more deeply sense.

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<h2>1440: What cultural moment do you see your work speaking to now? What do you believe people need to hear today?</h2>

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<em>Alanis Morissette:&nbsp;</em>I think it&rsquo;s obvious to anyone who&rsquo;s noticing that culture has changed over the last 20 years. Consciousness is raising. The hood is being looked under, and the veil of conditioning is slowly lifting. It&rsquo;s going to take many, many years for this horror of conditioning to really turn around. The horror is the disallowance of our essential selves being expressed.

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<span class="quote">What&rsquo;s happening now in culture, in the feminist movement, and in the consciousness movement, is that people are slowly moving toward awareness of their essential selves, which feels so liberating to me. </span>

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Doing so leaves room for feelings and proprioceptive embodiment, mindfulness, all of these fantastic words that basically describe the idea of us coming home to ourselves, coming home to our bodies, not having to split off, not having to fight, flight, or freeze, healing traumas, recognizing what the traumas even are that keep us from living in a connected, inspired, and fulfilling way.

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<h2>1440: For years, your lyrics and your message were described as angry. You have made a clear point to reframe that label as a compliment. Can you tell us more about that? How has anger served as a tool in your life? How has it encumbered you?</h2>

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<em>Alanis Morissette:</em>&nbsp;Oh, it is definitely a compliment.

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<span class="quote">Anger is such a vital, powerful, light-filled life force. It can be labeled as feistiness or&mdash;in my experience&mdash;as passion, and it&rsquo;s a kick-starter. </span>

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Anger can kick-start so many forms of activism. It can kick-start art. It can kick-start a scary conversation. It can kick-start someone setting boundaries.

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Every artist I know is angry on some level. The two life forces that move worlds, in my mind, are love and anger. To me, anger is a gorgeous indication of something needing to change.

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And then it becomes about following up with, well, what does need to change? What boundary needs to be set? What clarification needs to be expressed? What activism ultimately is being born within me or within a culture? Anger has helped me write a lot of songs. To write songs is such a generative fiery act for me.

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The only anger that would encumber me would be the acting out of anger that is destructive by behaving disrespectfully toward someone&mdash;ignoring their boundaries sexually, physically, emotionally, or intellectually. When anger is acted out, it&rsquo;s offensive and nobody wins.

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<h2>1440: These days you are spending much more of your time publicly contributing to the conversation around consciousness and spirituality. How and why did you make that shift? What led you to want to speak and teach?</h2>

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<em>Alanis Morissette:&nbsp;</em>I have been part of this conversation for as long as I can remember, and my art and service has always been oriented toward this. I used to hide it. There was much more of a split in the &rsquo;90s. It was compartmentalized, like&mdash;you&rsquo;re a rock and roll musician, or you&rsquo;re an academic, or you&rsquo;re a dancer, or you&rsquo;re a spiritual teacher. It&rsquo;s almost as though you had to pick which egoic identity you wanted.

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There seems to be more of a capacity to &ldquo;hold the complexity&rdquo; now&mdash;to allow for an integrated, multitudinous life and lifestyle. A painter can be a chef and be a scientist, and a scientist can, heaven forbid, talk about spirituality, and a yogi can be all about carpentry or neuroscience. It&rsquo;s wildly exciting.

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<span class="quote">I think student and teacher are opposite sides of the exact same coin. So, my teaching is hollow if I&rsquo;m not an avid student, and my studentship is a constant. </span>

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I love chasing the big questions&mdash;there&rsquo;s not a day that goes by when I&rsquo;m not reading or researching or writing or philosophically thinking about something.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Alanis Morissette</a> will be teaching&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Exploring self and Self </a>with&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Ann Randolph</a> and&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Justin Hilton</a>, March 2 &ndash; 4, 2018 at 1440 Multiversity.

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<p><strong><em>Martha will be teaching&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Navigating the Storm: Finding Peace and Purpose in Uncertain Times</a>&nbsp;from&nbsp;February 7 - 9, 2020 at 1440 Multiversity.</em></strong></p>

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<h2>1440: How do you define trauma?<br />
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<em>Martha Beck:</em> Technically trauma is anything that is outside the range of normal human experience&mdash;something that most of us won&rsquo;t experience, like seeing someone blown up in an explosion. But you can also see the same effects, symptoms that are very similar to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), in someone who has experienced something that pulls them away from their true self.

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<span class="quote">I&rsquo;ve seen people traumatized by being in educational environments that don&rsquo;t match their natural self or by a soulless job under florescent lights or by staying in a relationship with the wrong person. </span>

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I&rsquo;ve also been to Rwanda, and nothing I&rsquo;ve ever seen holds a candle to what everyone there has lived through.

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<h2>1440: How does someone know if they&rsquo;re suffering from trauma?</h2>

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<em>Martha Beck:</em> Pretty much everyone has experienced trauma to some degree. Most people have forgotten, repressed, or minimized the amount of suffering they went through. You may forget the whole event or remember it but think it was not a big deal. But the symptoms will crop up and follow a fairly typical pattern, including nightmares, depression, and strong, inexplicably violent reactions to certain stimuli, which people call triggers.

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<h2>1440: What does it take to heal from trauma?</h2>

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<em>Martha Beck:</em> Luckily PTSD has a very positive prognosis. It&rsquo;s very treatable, very changeable, and that&rsquo;s great. To deal with it, you first find safety. You create sanctuary and then you get still. In the stillness your trauma comes up. It will work its way out of the unconscious into the conscious.

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Meditation was a key practice for me for getting still and letting things arise.

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<span class="quote">When you meditate, you access a part of yourself called the compassionate witness. If you can access this part of the brain that is quiet and still, this is the witness that you most need. </span>

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You also need other people. Nobody heals alone, so you find one or more compassionate witnesses to observe and to validate the suffering you&rsquo;ve been through. That&rsquo;s all it really takes&mdash;to be heard maybe two or three times telling the story of your trauma to an empathic witness who really gets it. One good therapist can do it.

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You&rsquo;ll go through the grieving process&mdash;through a phase of remembering it and falling apart emotionally because all the feelings that you would have experienced during the trauma now surface&mdash;and you just compassionately watch. You&rsquo;ll be amazed that you heal the way cuts on the hand or foot heal. It&rsquo;s miraculous. Watching, waiting, and kindness&mdash;I&rsquo;ve seen people get through the most horrific things that way.

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<h2>1440: Is it the same approach for community-level trauma like you saw in Rwanda?</h2>

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<em>Martha Beck:</em> In countries like Rwanda, which has seen such atrocities, there is no infrastructure. It can be hard to get much going in a place where people are just barely getting through the day emotionally and physically. There are no community centers or mental health providers or life coaches.

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One of the most exciting things that I&rsquo;ve seen that can help in situations like this has been the work of David Berceli. He was a Catholic missionary doing trauma work in Lebanon in the 1980s when he experienced a bombing and noticed how everyone, no matter their background, reacted in the same physical way.

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<span class="quote">He realized that if we have a universal physiological response to trauma, there must be a universal way to release it. </span>

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He came up with a system called Tension &amp; Trauma Releasing Exercises (TRE), which is a set of simple exercises that cause the body to involuntarily shake.

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It&rsquo;s the same idea as how animals heal by shaking after they&rsquo;ve escaped a predator or had a fight, and it&rsquo;s remarkably effective. David can go into communities where he doesn&rsquo;t speak the language, where there is no infrastructure, and where nobody is ever going to see a therapist, and they shake together.

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It&rsquo;s really cool how people are creating and gravitating to these kinds of practices.

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<span class="quote">I think we&rsquo;re rediscovering what I call ancient technologies of magic. I don&rsquo;t think these practices are &ldquo;magical,&rdquo; but they connect back to more ancient shamanic approaches. </span>

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We have completely vilified and eschewed things like this in our culture, but people from all points of the compass are using things like meditation and TRE to recover, and that&rsquo;s really exciting to me.

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/ancient-practices-for-healing-modern-traumas-an-interview-with-martha-beck</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/ancient-practices-for-healing-modern-traumas-an-interview-with-martha-beck#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;A Simple Way to Break A Bad Habit&quot;: Lessons from Dr. Judson Brewer&apos;s TED Talk</title><description><![CDATA[<div class="boxspacer">It&rsquo;s that time of year again: the season of resolutions.</div>

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For many of us, mulling over the options of how to tackle life differently&mdash;what new promises we could make or what old habits we could break&mdash;can feel a bit unproductively cyclical. Perhaps we&rsquo;re hungry for a fresh start, a behavior shift, or a new daily pattern, but we&rsquo;re also aware that our muscle memory for true habit change isn&rsquo;t all that strong.

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Maybe we <em>start</em> the gym membership or the new way of eating or the drinking less alcohol or the volunteering more often or the [fill in the blank] but after an ambitious launch, whatever it is just doesn&rsquo;t stick.

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<span class="quote">Enter mindfulness. </span>

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Video by <a href="https://www.ted.com/">TED.com</a>

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According to Dr. Judson Brewer, psychiatrist, author of <em>The Craving Mind</em>, and leading expert on the relationship between mindfulness and addiction, habits emerge from the reward-based learning process our brain tends to follow. We experience a trigger, engage in a behavior, and reap a reward.

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<span class="quote">Often, the triggers are emotional. </span>

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Perhaps we respond to a trigger of feeling sad by engaging in a behavior (devouring a pint of ice cream, for instance) that our brain <em>knows</em> will lead to a sense of pleasure (a sugar high). When that happens, we are doing two things: strengthening the reward-based learning process <strong>and</strong> developing a habit&mdash;in this case one that may have ill effects on our health.

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<span class="quote">What would it look like to insert a pause between the emotional trigger and the habit we tend to lean on once triggered? </span>

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Dr. Brewer doesn&rsquo;t suggest doing that in a way that prompts self-judgment, nor does he believe that <em>forcing</em> ourselves to &ldquo;do the right thing&rdquo; tends to work, but he does believe that allowing curiosity into the process can go a long way toward noticing what we&rsquo;re up to and enacting lasting change.

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We love this approach.

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Before setting your resolutions for 2019, set aside 10 minutes for this brilliant <a href="https://www.ted.com/talks/judson_brewer_a_simple_way_to_break_a_bad_habit?language=en">TED Talk</a> with more than 11 million views&mdash;and get curious about your patterns.

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<div class="blog-img">Join&nbsp;<a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Judson Brewer, MD, PhD,&nbsp;</a>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Robin Boudette, PhD</a>&nbsp;for <strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Hacking&nbsp;Your Brain for Better Health</a>,&nbsp;</strong>April 17 - 19 2020.</div>

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<strong>Written by Kate Green Tripp.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/a-simple-way-to-break-a-bad-habit-lessons-from-dr-judson-brewers-ted-talk</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/a-simple-way-to-break-a-bad-habit-lessons-from-dr-judson-brewers-ted-talk#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>5 Profound Books on Love and Loss</title><description><![CDATA[The loss of a loved one can be a most painful experience, but it is not only through death that we encounter feelings of loss. Dementia, addiction, estrangement, mental illness&mdash;these are all ways that our lives can be forever altered by forces beyond our control. Sometimes we must reckon with catastrophic change from one moment to the next. Other times, change comes slowly, evolving over time as we struggle to adjust.
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One thing is certain: human beings are adaptable creatures. We struggle, we evolve, we grow, we learn. We can overcome tremendous hardship and heal. In the words of R.E.M., &ldquo;Everybody hurts&mdash;sometimes.&rdquo; The key word there is sometimes. There is always light at the end of the tunnel, even when we can&rsquo;t see it. In the darkest hours, we can learn to find resilience deep in our souls. Often, we just need a little help to locate it.

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Here are five books to help anyone locate that light and face love and loss with hope by their side.

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<h2>1. <em>The Five Invitations: Discovering What Death Can Teach Us About Living Fully</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Frank Ostaseski</a></h2>

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<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> In the first line of the book, Frank Ostaseski writes, &ldquo;Life and death are a package deal. You cannot pull them apart. In Japanese Zen, the term &lsquo;shoji&rsquo; translates as &lsquo;birth-death.&rsquo; There is no separation between life and death other than a small hyphen, a thin line that connects the two.&rdquo; As the founder of the Zen Hospice Project and a teacher of compassionate caregiving, Ostaseski incorporates Buddhist teachings into his practice. This book is a meditation on the meaning of life, which can only be experienced fully with the consciousness of death.

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<strong>Great Takeaway:</strong> &ldquo;We cannot be truly alive without maintaining an awareness of death. Death is not waiting for us at the end of a long road.

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<span class="quote">Death is always with us, in the marrow of every passing moment. She is the secret teacher, hiding in plain sight. She helps us to discover what matters most. </span>

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And the good news is that we don&rsquo;t have to wait until the end of our lives to realize the wisdom that death has to offer.&rdquo;

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<h2>2. <em>Loving Someone Who Has Dementia: How to Find Hope While Coping with Stress and Grief</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Pauline Boss</a></h2>

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<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> Nearly half of U.S. citizens over the age of 85 suffer from some kind of dementia and require care. This book is written for all of those affected by this epidemic&mdash;caregivers, family members, friends, neighbors, and professionals. By coaching readers on how to cope with what she calls &ldquo;ambiguous loss&rdquo; and the myth of closure, Dr. Boss helps caregivers manage the ongoing stress and grief that comes with losing a loved one even while they are still physically present.

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<strong>Great Takeaway:</strong> &ldquo;When someone you love has dementia, the task is to increase your tolerance for the stress of ambiguity. To begin doing this, work at learning how to hold two opposing views at the same time&mdash;my parent is here, and not here; my mate is no longer the person I married, but still someone I love and will care for. Don&rsquo;t give up on loved ones when they are no longer able to be who they were.&rdquo;

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<h2>3. <em>In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction</em> by <a href="https://1440.org/faculty/gabor-mate/">Gabor Mat&eacute;</a></h2>

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<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> While treating addicts in Vancouver for over two decades, Hungarian-born physician Gabor Mat&eacute; has developed a holistic approach to treating addiction. In this book, Dr. Mat&eacute; presents addiction not as a medical condition but rather as the result of a complex interplay among personal history, emotional and neurological development, brain chemistry, and the drugs and behaviors of addiction. The first key to healing and wellness is a thorough and compassionate self-understanding&mdash;on both a personal and societal level.

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<strong>Great Takeaway:</strong> &ldquo;The painful longing in their hearts reflects something of the emptiness that may also be experienced by people with apparently happier lives. Those whom we dismiss as &lsquo;junkies&rsquo; are not creatures from a different world, only men and women mired at the extreme end of a continuum on which, here or there, all of us might well locate ourselves.&rdquo;

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<h2>4. <em>Proof of Heaven: A Neurosurgeon&rsquo;s Journey into the Afterlife</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Eben Alexander</a></h2>

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<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> Dr. Eben Alexander was a highly trained neurosurgeon who didn&rsquo;t believe in near-death experiences. Then his brain was attacked by a rare illness. While his body lay in a coma, Alexander journeyed beyond this world and encountered a divine presence. Before he underwent his journey, he could not reconcile his knowledge of neuroscience with any belief in heaven. Today, Alexander is a doctor who believes that true health can be achieved only when we realize that God and the soul are real, and that death is not the end of personal existence, but rather a transition.

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<strong>Great Takeaway:</strong> &ldquo;To say that there is still a chasm between our current scientific understanding of the universe and the truth as I saw it is a considerable understatement. I still love physics and cosmology, still love studying our vast and wonderful universe. Only I now have a greatly enlarged conception of what &lsquo;vast&rsquo; and &lsquo;wonderful&rsquo; really mean.

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<span class="quote">The physical side of the universe is as a speck of dust compared to the invisible and spiritual part. </span>

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In my past view, spiritual wasn&rsquo;t a word that I would have employed during a scientific conversation. Now I believe it is a word that we cannot afford to leave out.&rdquo;

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<h2>5. <em>The Spirit Whisperer: Chronicles of a Medium</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">John Holland</a></h2>

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<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> One of the most painful parts of losing someone close to you is that you feel like you&rsquo;ll never be able to communicate with them again. But what if you could? Through John Holland&rsquo;s practice as a psychic medium, he helps grieving loved ones reconnect with the soul of the person who died. Holland offers techniques to deal with the pain of grief on a deep soul level, connecting mind, body, and spirit. Because in the end, love never dies, it only transforms.

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<strong>Great Takeaway:</strong> &ldquo;We&rsquo;re more than just physical beings&mdash;we&rsquo;re also spiritual beings with unlimited potential. I truly believe that people are seeking more from life, more answers, more understanding than ever before. Why do I say this? It&rsquo;s because we&rsquo;ve become a society rich with information and technology, instant messages, instant access to the media, and more and more we rely on technology to inform, and at times to influence and even decide for us. Yet you can&rsquo;t always find the answers from this outside hi-tech, materialistic world. More and more people are now looking inward for those all-elusive answers.&rdquo;

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<strong>Guinevere de la Mare is a writer, editor, and the founder of <a href="https://silentbook.club/">Silent Book Club</a>, a community of book lovers with chapters in more than 30 cities around the world. Her first book,<em> I&rsquo;d Rather be Reading</em>, was published by Chronicle Books in 2017.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-profound-books-on-love-and-loss</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-profound-books-on-love-and-loss#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>5 Brilliant Books on Forging Lasting, Loving Relationships</title><description><![CDATA[There&rsquo;s a lovely black-and-white photograph that makes the rounds on social media every so often. In it, an elderly woman lies in a hospital bed. Her husband sits beside her, holding her hand, while they both raucously laugh.
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Despite their bleak surroundings, the couple radiates joy and the kind of shared intimacy we all aspire to in our relationships. Superimposed on the image is the phrase: A &ldquo;perfect marriage&rdquo; is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

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If only it were that simple.

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Reality, of course, is much more complex. We all experience shining moments, as well as bad moods, dark days, and bumps in the road. Trying to keep pace with a partner along the way is a beautiful challenge that can often prove daunting and even feel impossible.

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A great relationship requires all sorts of work, but maybe you can start here. These five books are packed with actionable advice based upon years of scientific research, marriage counseling, and behavioral studies. Consider them on-call roadside relationship assistance.

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<h2><em>1. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, </em>by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">John Gottman, PhD</a>, and Nan Silver</h2>

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<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> Over the past 40 years, Dr. John Gottman and his wife, Dr. Julie Gottman, have revolutionized the study of marriage by using rigorous scientific procedures to observe the habits of married couples. They have written dozens of books based upon their research, and this one&nbsp;represents the culmination of their life&rsquo;s work. In it, John Gottman offers seven principles to guide couples on the path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship.

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<strong>Great Takeaway:</strong> One of Gottman&rsquo;s key principles is nurturing fondness and admiration for your partner. Simply thinking about what you appreciate about the other person can repair fraying relations. Make an effort to talk about the happy events of the past. Gottman writes, &ldquo;I&rsquo;ve found 94 percent of the time that couples who put a positive spin on their marriage&rsquo;s history are likely to have a happy future as well.&rdquo;

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<h2><em>2. Mindful Relationships: Seven Skills for Success&mdash;Integrating the Science of Mind, Body and Brain,</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">B Grace Bullock, PhD</a></h2>

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<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> When we are stressed, the social bonds that connect us to our loved ones can begin to break down. Too often in moments of distress, we internalize our feelings and shut out the very people who could help us most. Dr. B Grace Bullock integrates the science of mind, body, and brain to explain how stress undermines our relationships, and what we can do about it. Her seven skills are essential tools for creating and maintaining a healthy and successful relationship with yourself and others.

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<strong>Great Takeaway: </strong>The foundation of Bullock&rsquo;s mindfulness method is the BREATHE model. In moments of stress, turn your focus inwards to focus on your breath. When you intentionally regulate your breathing, you are able to concentrate on the emotions you are experiencing. This heightened awareness will help you appraise and adjust your mind-set, allowing you to more effectively cope and communicate in the moment.

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<h2><em>3. Happily Ever After . . . and 39 Other Myths about Love: Breaking Through to the Relationship of Your Dreams</em>, by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Linda and Charlie Bloom</a></h2>

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<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> Working as therapists for more than 40 years, Linda and Charlie Bloom have heard it all, from &ldquo;couples with great relationships don&rsquo;t fight&rdquo; to &ldquo;little things aren&rsquo;t worth getting upset over.&rdquo; But, as they illustrate in this book, these myths can actually prevent couples from building intimate relationships. The Blooms offer compelling stories and suggestions for replacing myths with realistic expectations, and guidelines to help you enhance and strengthen your relationships.

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<strong>Great Takeaway: </strong>&ldquo;Having a great relationship means more than just staying together. A true partnership is a means through which our deepest longings are awakened and ultimately realized. And unless we enjoy trust, intimacy, caring, and love with our partner, we are sharing an arrangement, not a true partnership.&rdquo;

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<h2><em>4. Hold Me Tight: Your Guide to the Most Successful Approach to Building Loving Relationships,</em> by Sue Johnson, PhD</h2>

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<div class="cta">Sign up for the <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Hold Me Tight Workshop for Couples</a> from May 26-28 at 1440 Multiversity</div>
<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> Often cited as the method of couples therapy with the highest rate of success, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) views the love relationship as an attachment bond and works to reestablish safe emotional connection between partners. In this book, Dr. Sue Johnson introduces a practical approach to EFT and reveals how understanding each other&rsquo;s emotions and enhancing emotional and physical closeness can help couples repair rifts and build strong, loving bonds.

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<strong>Great Takeaway: </strong>&ldquo;Love has an immense ability to help heal the devastating wounds that life sometimes deals us. Love also enhances our sense of connection to the larger world. Loving responsiveness is the foundation of a truly compassionate, civilized society.&rdquo;

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<h2><em>5. Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples,</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Harville Hendrix, PhD</a></h2>

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<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling: </strong>When Oprah refers to someone as the &ldquo;the marriage whisperer,&rdquo; you should probably pay attention to what they have to say. Dr. Harville Hendrix and his wife, Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt, cocreated Imago Relationship Therapy, an approach to couples therapy that focuses on the innate healing power of connection and the profound spiritual potential of&nbsp;intimate partnerships. Together, they have written ten books on relationships and parenting, and this foundational work has sold more than two million copies.

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<strong>Great Takeaway: </strong>&ldquo;When partners learn to see each other without distortion, to value each other as highly as they value themselves, to give without expecting anything in return, to commit themselves fully to each other&rsquo;s welfare, love moves freely between them without apparent effort.&rdquo;

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<strong>Guinevere de la Mare is a writer, editor, and the founder of&nbsp;<a href="https://silentbook.club/" target="_blank" title="silent book club  ">Silent Book Club</a>, a community of book lovers with chapters in more than 30 cities around the world.&nbsp;Her first book,&nbsp;<em>I&rsquo;d Rather be Reading</em>, will be published by Chronicle Books in August 2017.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-brilliant-books-on-forging-lasting-loving-relationships</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-brilliant-books-on-forging-lasting-loving-relationships#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>5 Brilliant Books on Forging Lasting, Loving Relationships</title><description><![CDATA[There&rsquo;s a lovely black-and-white photograph that makes the rounds on social media every so often. In it, an elderly woman lies in a hospital bed. Her husband sits beside her, holding her hand, while they both raucously laugh.
<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Despite their bleak surroundings, the couple radiates joy and the kind of shared intimacy we all aspire to in our relationships. Superimposed on the image is the phrase: A &ldquo;perfect marriage&rdquo; is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
If only it were that simple.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Reality, of course, is much more complex. We all experience shining moments, as well as bad moods, dark days, and bumps in the road. Trying to keep pace with a partner along the way is a beautiful challenge that can often prove daunting and even feel impossible.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
A great relationship requires all sorts of work, but maybe you can start here. These five books are packed with actionable advice based upon years of scientific research, marriage counseling, and behavioral studies. Consider them on-call roadside relationship assistance.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2><em>1. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, </em>by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">John Gottman, PhD</a>, and Nan Silver</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> Over the past 40 years, Dr. John Gottman and his wife, Dr. Julie Gottman, have revolutionized the study of marriage by using rigorous scientific procedures to observe the habits of married couples. They have written dozens of books based upon their research, and this one&nbsp;represents the culmination of their life&rsquo;s work. In it, John Gottman offers seven principles to guide couples on the path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Great Takeaway:</strong> One of Gottman&rsquo;s key principles is nurturing fondness and admiration for your partner. Simply thinking about what you appreciate about the other person can repair fraying relations. Make an effort to talk about the happy events of the past. Gottman writes, &ldquo;I&rsquo;ve found 94 percent of the time that couples who put a positive spin on their marriage&rsquo;s history are likely to have a happy future as well.&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2><em>2. Mindful Relationships: Seven Skills for Success&mdash;Integrating the Science of Mind, Body and Brain,</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">B Grace Bullock, PhD</a></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> When we are stressed, the social bonds that connect us to our loved ones can begin to break down. Too often in moments of distress, we internalize our feelings and shut out the very people who could help us most. Dr. B Grace Bullock integrates the science of mind, body, and brain to explain how stress undermines our relationships, and what we can do about it. Her seven skills are essential tools for creating and maintaining a healthy and successful relationship with yourself and others.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Great Takeaway: </strong>The foundation of Bullock&rsquo;s mindfulness method is the BREATHE model. In moments of stress, turn your focus inwards to focus on your breath. When you intentionally regulate your breathing, you are able to concentrate on the emotions you are experiencing. This heightened awareness will help you appraise and adjust your mind-set, allowing you to more effectively cope and communicate in the moment.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2><em>3. Happily Ever After . . . and 39 Other Myths about Love: Breaking Through to the Relationship of Your Dreams</em>, by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Linda and Charlie Bloom</a></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> Working as therapists for more than 40 years, Linda and Charlie Bloom have heard it all, from &ldquo;couples with great relationships don&rsquo;t fight&rdquo; to &ldquo;little things aren&rsquo;t worth getting upset over.&rdquo; But, as they illustrate in this book, these myths can actually prevent couples from building intimate relationships. The Blooms offer compelling stories and suggestions for replacing myths with realistic expectations, and guidelines to help you enhance and strengthen your relationships.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Great Takeaway: </strong>&ldquo;Having a great relationship means more than just staying together. A true partnership is a means through which our deepest longings are awakened and ultimately realized. And unless we enjoy trust, intimacy, caring, and love with our partner, we are sharing an arrangement, not a true partnership.&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2><em>4. Hold Me Tight: Your Guide to the Most Successful Approach to Building Loving Relationships,</em> by Sue Johnson, PhD</h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<div class="cta">Sign up for the <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Hold Me Tight Workshop for Couples</a> from May 26-28 at 1440 Multiversity</div>
<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> Often cited as the method of couples therapy with the highest rate of success, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) views the love relationship as an attachment bond and works to reestablish safe emotional connection between partners. In this book, Dr. Sue Johnson introduces a practical approach to EFT and reveals how understanding each other&rsquo;s emotions and enhancing emotional and physical closeness can help couples repair rifts and build strong, loving bonds.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Great Takeaway: </strong>&ldquo;Love has an immense ability to help heal the devastating wounds that life sometimes deals us. Love also enhances our sense of connection to the larger world. Loving responsiveness is the foundation of a truly compassionate, civilized society.&rdquo;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2><em>5. Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples,</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Harville Hendrix, PhD</a></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling: </strong>When Oprah refers to someone as the &ldquo;the marriage whisperer,&rdquo; you should probably pay attention to what they have to say. Dr. Harville Hendrix and his wife, Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt, cocreated Imago Relationship Therapy, an approach to couples therapy that focuses on the innate healing power of connection and the profound spiritual potential of&nbsp;intimate partnerships. Together, they have written ten books on relationships and parenting, and this foundational work has sold more than two million copies.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>Great Takeaway: </strong>&ldquo;When partners learn to see each other without distortion, to value each other as highly as they value themselves, to give without expecting anything in return, to commit themselves fully to each other&rsquo;s welfare, love moves freely between them without apparent effort.&rdquo;

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<strong>Guinevere de la Mare is a writer, editor, and the founder of&nbsp;<a href="https://silentbook.club/" target="_blank" title="silent book club  ">Silent Book Club</a>, a community of book lovers with chapters in more than 30 cities around the world.&nbsp;Her first book,&nbsp;<em>I&rsquo;d Rather be Reading</em>, will be published by Chronicle Books in August 2017.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-brilliant-books-on-forging-lasting-loving-relationships</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-brilliant-books-on-forging-lasting-loving-relationships#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Faculty Focus: John Holland</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">John Holland</a>, author of the best-selling&nbsp;<em>Spirit Whisperer</em>, is one of the top psychic mediums and spiritual teachers on the world stage. Host of the weekly Hay House Radio show&nbsp;<em>Spirit Connections</em>,&nbsp;he has helped thousands of people reconnect with beloved family members and friends who have died, with spectacular results.
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<h2><em>What do you think is the most important lesson people can glean from your work?</em></h2>

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That when the human body dies, the spirit lives on and that your loved ones are just a thought away!

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<h2><em>Do you have an affirmation for tough times?</em></h2>

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&ldquo;From this experience, only good will come from it. All is well&rdquo; &mdash; Louise Hay.

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<h2><em>What&rsquo;s the one thing that we should all remember about love?</em></h2>

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<span class="quote">That love never dies! </span>

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<h2><em>Where&rsquo;s your happy place?</em></h2>

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When I am standing in front of an audience and seeing the joy and happiness after receiving a message from their loved ones.

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<h2><em>When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?</em></h2>

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It&rsquo;s not so much what I wanted to become, more of what I was guided to become. My destiny was always going to be a spirit whisperer.

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<em><a href="https://www.1440.org/">From Grieving to Believing</a> runs August 4-6, 2017, at 1440 Multiversity. It is led by&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">John Holland</a>,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">David Kessler</a>, and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Paul Denniston</a>.</em>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-john-holland</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-john-holland#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>10 Fascinating Facts You Might Not Know About Meredith Monk</title><description><![CDATA[Who is <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Meredith Monk</a>? She is a fascinating artist with a distinguished career of accomplishments in numerous arts, including music, dance, film, and more. Recognized as one of the most unique and influential artists of our time, Meredith Monk is a pioneer in vocal skills/arts now called &ldquo;extended vocal technique&rdquo; and &ldquo;interdisciplinary performance.&rdquo;
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Here are 10 fascinating facts you might not know about Meredith Monk:

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<ul>
	<li>She wrote<a href="https://youtu.be/Sm06nqdG9wU">&nbsp;&ldquo;Panda Chant II&rdquo;</a>&nbsp;for <em>The Games</em>&mdash;a <a href="https://articles.latimes.com/1986-02-02/entertainment/ca-3271_1_pulitical-games">&ldquo;science-fiction musical spectacle about the perpetual re-enactment of social, pulitical and cultural hierarchies by human beings.&rdquo;</a></li>
	<li>She was the subject of <a href="https://www.tate.org.uk/art/artworks/mapplethorpe-meredith-monk-ar00202">a famous Robert Mapplethorpe photograph.</a></li>
	<li>In 2014, she celebrated 50 years of artistic contributions, which the <em>New York Times</em> noted in <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2014/11/30/arts/music/meredith-monk-celebrates-50-years-of-work.html">&ldquo;A Singular World That Won&rsquo;t Fade Away.&rdquo;</a></li>
	<li>She once received a <a href="https://www.macfound.org/fellows/520/">MacArthur Foundation &ldquo;Genius&rdquo; grant. </a></li>
	<li>She was one card in the set of 72 <a href="https://www.metmuseum.org/blogs/now-at-the-met/2014/supersisters">Supersisters trading cards</a>.</li>
	<li>Her <a href="https://open.spotify.com/track/6VzKBjt6U87bfPNIbwxytN?si=7w8bUL21QjGEnwKRLh-WCg">&ldquo;Walking Song&rdquo;</a> was featured in the Coen Brothers&rsquo; <em>The Big Lebowski.</em></li>
	<li>She wrote and directed two award-winning films: <em>Ellis Island</em> (1981) and <em>Book of Days</em> (1988).</li>
	<li>Her <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meredith_Monk">Wikipedia entry</a> is a treasure trove of all things Monk.</li>
	<li>In 2015, <a href="https://youtu.be/f5TtUiHgj3o?t=13m35s">Meredith Monk was awarded the National Medal of Arts</a> by U.S. President Barack Obama. This is the highest honor in the United States specifically given for achievement in the arts.</li>
	<li>Did we mention &ldquo;Panda Chant II&rdquo;? <a href="https://youtu.be/IXlQ09yy158">Here&rsquo;s another version. </a>Watch and listen!</li>
</ul>
<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Meredith Monk</a>&nbsp;taught&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Voice as Practice</a>&nbsp;in April of 2018 at 1440 Multiversity.

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<iframe allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/e8mIZowba04" width="560"></iframe>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-fascinating-facts-you-might-not-know-about-meredith-monk</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-fascinating-facts-you-might-not-know-about-meredith-monk#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>10 Fascinating Facts You Might Not Know About Meredith Monk</title><description><![CDATA[Who is <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Meredith Monk</a>? She is a fascinating artist with a distinguished career of accomplishments in numerous arts, including music, dance, film, and more. Recognized as one of the most unique and influential artists of our time, Meredith Monk is a pioneer in vocal skills/arts now called &ldquo;extended vocal technique&rdquo; and &ldquo;interdisciplinary performance.&rdquo;
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Here are 10 fascinating facts you might not know about Meredith Monk:

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<ul>
	<li>She wrote<a href="https://youtu.be/Sm06nqdG9wU">&nbsp;&ldquo;Panda Chant II&rdquo;</a>&nbsp;for <em>The Games</em>&mdash;a <a href="https://articles.latimes.com/1986-02-02/entertainment/ca-3271_1_pulitical-games">&ldquo;science-fiction musical spectacle about the perpetual re-enactment of social, pulitical and cultural hierarchies by human beings.&rdquo;</a></li>
	<li>She was the subject of <a href="https://www.tate.org.uk/art/artworks/mapplethorpe-meredith-monk-ar00202">a famous Robert Mapplethorpe photograph.</a></li>
	<li>In 2014, she celebrated 50 years of artistic contributions, which the <em>New York Times</em> noted in <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2014/11/30/arts/music/meredith-monk-celebrates-50-years-of-work.html">&ldquo;A Singular World That Won&rsquo;t Fade Away.&rdquo;</a></li>
	<li>She once received a <a href="https://www.macfound.org/fellows/520/">MacArthur Foundation &ldquo;Genius&rdquo; grant. </a></li>
	<li>She was one card in the set of 72 <a href="https://www.metmuseum.org/blogs/now-at-the-met/2014/supersisters">Supersisters trading cards</a>.</li>
	<li>Her <a href="https://open.spotify.com/track/6VzKBjt6U87bfPNIbwxytN?si=7w8bUL21QjGEnwKRLh-WCg">&ldquo;Walking Song&rdquo;</a> was featured in the Coen Brothers&rsquo; <em>The Big Lebowski.</em></li>
	<li>She wrote and directed two award-winning films: <em>Ellis Island</em> (1981) and <em>Book of Days</em> (1988).</li>
	<li>Her <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meredith_Monk">Wikipedia entry</a> is a treasure trove of all things Monk.</li>
	<li>In 2015, <a href="https://youtu.be/f5TtUiHgj3o?t=13m35s">Meredith Monk was awarded the National Medal of Arts</a> by U.S. President Barack Obama. This is the highest honor in the United States specifically given for achievement in the arts.</li>
	<li>Did we mention &ldquo;Panda Chant II&rdquo;? <a href="https://youtu.be/IXlQ09yy158">Here&rsquo;s another version. </a>Watch and listen!</li>
</ul>
<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Meredith Monk</a>&nbsp;taught&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Voice as Practice</a>&nbsp;in April of 2018 at 1440 Multiversity.

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<iframe allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/e8mIZowba04" width="560"></iframe>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-fascinating-facts-you-might-not-know-about-meredith-monk</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/10-fascinating-facts-you-might-not-know-about-meredith-monk#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>What I Learned at a Not Creepy Speed Dating Event</title><description><![CDATA[What insanity is this, perhaps you are thinking? &ldquo;This, from the woman who wrote about the rapturous joys of being alone in <a href="https://www.1440.org/">You Are Whole All By Yourself?</a> Is this a cruel joke? Is she drunk? Why is she doing this?&rdquo;
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Ironically, as I was writing my piece about the joys of being alone, a writer friend of mine tipped me off to this gathering that was facilitated by a very good friend of hers and she suggested I attend. I laughed and said, &ldquo;Of course! The perfect counterbalance.&rdquo;

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I went with my daughter, and we may well have been the only people in the room <em>not</em> actually looking to find someone. We were fascinated and curious about the process. Someone described it as &ldquo;benevolent counterculture.&rdquo;

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The Not Creepy Gathering (NCG) takes the speed-dating premise, but sees it through a more poetic and artistic lens. The evening engages participants in stream-of-consciousness writing exercises and gives prompt questions presented as topics for small groups (which gradually become whispered stories one-on-one).

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The Mistress of Ceremonies was adorable: funny, hip, at ease, and genuine. Although it&rsquo;s skewed as a &ldquo;dating&rdquo; event, the true aim is to allow people to open themselves up and take them out of their social comfort zone. She encourages you to see everyone as cute, not in a dating kind of way, but in a sweet human kind of way.

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I love the Mister Rogers nature of that: &ldquo;Hey, cute neighbor!&rdquo;

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The first writing exercise was to write a love letter to ourself that we would want to receive from someone else. Upon completion, we were instructed to fold it in half and give it to the person next to us, then walk across the room and exchange with someone else. The note changed hands maybe six times, until we lost all sight of its point of origin. Then there were various topics for small-group sharing in 2&ndash;3 minute blocks of time, ranging from what was your favorite character in a book as a child, a favorite song lyric, the most influencial person in your life, etc. Tell your life story to someone in five minutes.

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The finale was, &ldquo;If my life were a book it would be ____.&rdquo; Ten minutes to write stream-of-consciousness, do not lift the pen from the paper, do not stop writing, do not think. Do. When that time was up, we picked our three favorite paragraphs or phrases and then read those aloud to the room. One at a time, everyone did.

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These were some of my takeaways from this evening:

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<ul>
	<li class="Standard">An astonishing number of people are lonely. Really lonely. It was heartening to see smiles and softness after being in a safe place with others for a couple of hours.</li>
	<li class="Standard">The person who told me his life story used 30 seconds, shrugged and said, &ldquo;Well, I guess that&rsquo;s it.&rdquo; (Not everyone sees their life as a fascinating multidimensional opera.)</li>
	<li class="Standard">When people read aloud their &ldquo;If my life were a book&rdquo; piece, I was taken by surprise by almost all of them. Eloquence, nuance, vulnerable humor from people I never would have imagined. People are way more complex than we ever know.</li>
	<li class="Standard">When you see all humans as &ldquo;cute&rdquo;&ndash; like mongrel puppies that can&rsquo;t help but make you smile &ndash;even if it is grudgingly at times, it takes the hard edge of labeling away.</li>
</ul>
Before leaving the event, we filled out cards with the names of anyone we would be interested in connecting with, along with our contact info. The facilitator then went through the cards and connected any matches via email. No awkward being the last kid chosen for dodge ball in the gym in front of everyone.

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Later, when I read the love note I had been left with, I smiled at how much it sounded like what I had written myself and I guessed that perhaps all of the letters were similar in tone if not word choice. We all want the same thing, to be loved, cherished, and seen. That starts with how we treat ourselves. Write your own cute self a love letter.

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&ldquo;Dear You,

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You are a light in this world. I am grateful every day that you are in my life&mdash;growing, changing, falling, and moving forward. I admire your courage and resilience, your ability to make everyone worthy of your time and love. You have a smile that makes my heart feel at peace. You are a magnificent piece of art unlike any other in the world. Your world is your creation and I&rsquo;m blessed to be a part of it.

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Don&rsquo;t ever forget how very loved and loving you are.

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Me.&rdquo;

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<strong>Jodeen Revere revels in her unconventional, multifaceted dream life. She is an actor, a writer, Thai yoga massage therapist, creative movement and dance enthusiast, and RYT-200 yoga teacher currently on an endless sabbatical. She writes a blog chronicling her cancertastic adventures. She loves writing, reading, viewing and heatedly discussing film, eating really good snacks, and chillin&rsquo; with her cats, Julian and Tilda. She is a kind and good-natured smart ass. She is very funny. Just ask her. Her favorite human, ever, is her daughter, Lily.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-i-learned-at-a-not-creepy-speed-dating-event</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-i-learned-at-a-not-creepy-speed-dating-event#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>What Does it Mean to be an Empath? Ask Matt Kahn</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Matt Kahn</a>, author of <em>Whatever Arises, Love That</em>, is a spiritual teacher and highly attuned empathic healer whose often humorous videos are a YouTube sensation. Through insight, sensory ability, and heart-centered teaching, he assists energetically sensitive beings in healing the body, awakening the soul, and transforming reality through the power of love.
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<h2>1440: What does it mean to be an empath?</h2>

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<em>Matt Kahn:</em> I think what it means to be an empath is to not just understand your feelings from a personal standpoint. When I was a child, my perception was that other people were mad at me or I was doing things to make people upset. And what I figured out, after a 30-year journey, is that what I perceive as the feelings people are having about me is actually me feeling other people&rsquo;s stuck emotions and emotional upheavals.

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<span class="quote">To be an empath is to wake up from the ego identity&mdash;to wake up from the belief that my feelings mean something is unresolved in me. </span>

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Instead, I came to understand that my feelings are my personal way of healing myself&mdash;and thus the world.

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From an ego standpoint, my feelings have to do with me, and perhaps I have to trace them back to many past memories in order to clear them. Because, from an ego standpoint, the hope is to no longer be anywhere near difficult feelings. The hope is to get away from negative emotion&mdash;unlike the soul&rsquo;s perspective, which is: what I&rsquo;m feeling is my experience of what healing is needed for humanity.

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I think that when we look at things from the soul&rsquo;s perspective versus the ego&rsquo;s perspective, we feel less victimized by our circumstances and more excited to participate in our own liberation, which has such potent and powerful results for the world.

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<h2>1440: What does it mean to clear a feeling? How does that happen?</h2>

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<em>Matt Kahn:</em>

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<span class="quote">Clearing an emotion happens when we create enough space to allow the emotions inside of us that played out to a certain degree and then got trapped or interrupted to continue their trajectory of expression. </span>

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When we clear a feeling, we consciously witness what needs to arise emotionally. We don&rsquo;t interrupt what&rsquo;s arising by trying to understand its meaning. Instead we create the space that allows the waves to be seen, to be expressed, to be respected.

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And as we&rsquo;re allowing the process within us that already knows how to complete itself&mdash;when we are being a loving parent to the children that are our emotions&mdash;and allowing them to be felt and witnessed, the healing finds its own place of completion. And in the completion of our healing journey, we find the ability to be as present with other people&rsquo;s experience of emotion as we&rsquo;ve learned to be with ourselves.

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<h2>1440: How did you realize you were an empath?</h2>

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<em>Matt Kahn:</em> For most of my life, I took responsibility for everyone&rsquo;s experiences and feelings, and no matter what people said, I thought that whatever discord I felt in them I must have caused. And I thought everything was my fault.

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<span class="quote">I&rsquo;ve also always had a natural ability to watch life, and I&rsquo;ve had this inner knowing that everything in life is a clue. </span>

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And if I just watch and let things repeat, I understand it&rsquo;s not about trying to get it all right. It&rsquo;s about allowing things to be shown to me.

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After enough years of paying close attention, I started to piece together the idea that I was taking responsibility for other people&rsquo;s feelings because their feelings were showing up in my body. Slowly, I started to realize this was not a complicated curse but actually a unique ability to feel other people&rsquo;s feelings. I started to see it as a gift.

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As an empathic healer, I see my role as making it safe for people to enter the terrain of their difficult feelings, to help them through the difficulty of their feelings, and to get to the other side of them, where true healing and relief exists.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Entering the Miraculous </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Matt Kahn</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">January 24 - 27, 2019</div>
What would it feel like to awaken to your true nature? To know why you are here, to trust in your purpose, and to let go of anything and everything between you and your divine potential? What would it feel...</div>

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<h2>1440: How do you help people who may be quite energetically sensitive, but who may not yet realize it?</h2>

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<em>Matt Kahn:</em> Everyone in this world is an empath. It just depends on how aware or unaware you are of it. We&rsquo;re pretty much all empathic beings because it&rsquo;s our natural state to be empathic. The bigger question is how much of us has been shut down by our environment or our family or by the pressures of life or by experiences of abuse or neglect?

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<span class="quote">So really the question is not: Are you an empath? It is: To what degree are you open or shut down? </span>

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What I do, energetically, as I work with people is allow the words to flow through me, so that I&rsquo;m hearing what I&rsquo;m saying for the first time as you&rsquo;re also hearing it. And as I speak, there&rsquo;s a frequency of healing energy that comes through the sound of my voice, so as I&rsquo;m speaking you&rsquo;re actually feeling the vibration of what the words are pointing to.

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When I work with a group of people, I try to see the group as one group soul, and I try to speak to what I feel needs to be resolved and cleared and awakened and integrated.

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In workshops, I apply individual healing to an entire group, and though a group may include hundreds of people, hopefully each member feels like I&rsquo;m speaking just to them. This becomes a very intimate way to heal many, many empaths, and to help people open back up to their divine connection in a rather miraculous and extraordinary way.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-does-it-mean-to-be-an-empath-ask-matt-kahn</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-does-it-mean-to-be-an-empath-ask-matt-kahn#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Unconditional Love: Is That Really a Good Idea?</title><description><![CDATA[&ldquo;I was told love should be unconditional. That&rsquo;s the rule, everyone says so. But if love has no boundaries, no limits, no conditions, why should anyone try to do the right thing ever? If I know I am loved no matter what, where is the challenge? . . . It makes me think that everyone is very wrong, that love should have many conditions. Love should require both partners to be their very best at all times. Unconditional love is an undisciplined love, and as we have all seen, undisciplined love is disastrous.&rdquo; &ndash; Gillian Flynn, <em>Gone Girl</em>
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One of the scariest books I have ever read is (no, not <em>Gone Girl</em>) <em>The Giving Tree</em> by Shel Silverstein.

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Scarier still was hearing it read at someone&rsquo;s wedding. Really.

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If you have not read it, here is the simple synopsis:

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<ul>
	<li class="Standard">In an effort to make the&nbsp;<i>boy&nbsp;</i>happy&nbsp;at each stage of his life, the tree gives him parts of <i>herself</i>, which he can transform into material items, such as money (from her apples), a house (from her branches), and a boat (from her trunk). With every stage of giving, &ldquo;the Tree was <b>happy</b>.&rdquo;</li>
	<li class="Standard">The book ends with the only thing left of the tree is a stump, which the boy sits on, and &ldquo;the Tree was happy.&rdquo; That makes my skin crawl.</li>
</ul>

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The point of this is not that the boy takes (although that is indeed concerning), but it is more concerning that the tree freely gives parts of herself to make him happy. She does this in some twisted ode to what we are told unconditional love is.

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<span class="quote"> Love is not about giving yourself up in an attempt to make someone else happy. </span>

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That is a martyrish shell game of attempting to control someone else under the guise of selfless personal sacrifice. It causes nothing but resentment on both sides.

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This whole &ldquo;unconditional love&rdquo; concept can get really murky and manifest its warped thought process in a variety of ways.

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<ul>
	<li class="Standard">Giving everything to another, putting them first always, even if it means compromising your values, your integrity, your emotional well-being, your health. Not so good.</li>
	<li class="Standard">Thinking that by pulling the unconditional love card, you have been given a free pass to be your worst self as a way to test the love of your partner. <em>&ldquo;If you really loved me, you would not call me out on being an alcoholic, drug addict, liar, fill in the blanks.&rdquo;</em></li>
</ul>

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This segues into how the movie <em>Love Story</em> and its teeth gritting catchphrase <em>&ldquo;love means never having to say you&rsquo;re sorry&rdquo;</em> brainwashed and scarred a generation.

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<span class="quote">Actually, love means saying you&rsquo;re sorry a lot. I mean, a lot. </span>

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Not a reflexive, thoughtless, &ldquo;whoops, sorry&rdquo; but a contemplated, reflective, &ldquo;Oh my God, look at the stupid, hurtful, mean thing I just said/did. Wow, I am so sorry.&rdquo; That kind of sorry, and then you need to actively, intentionally, attempt to not recreate that scenario.

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How do we be our most integrous selves, while not gilding over the more prickly aspects of who we are? How do we hold ourselves and our loved ones accountable for their actions, deeds, and words? How do we not fake perfection in the hopes of fooling someone into loving us?

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Unconditional love does not mean passive, belly-up resignation to stick by someone no matter how horrible or exhausting or unhealthy or emotionally abusive they are to have in our lives.&nbsp;There are conditions to love, and that is not a bad thing, but the intentions behind the conditions might be.

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If the intention behind the condition is to control or trap or get the upper hand with someone, or make ourselves look like saints, that is not so great.

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But if the intention behind the condition is:

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	<li class="Standard">Is this honest?</li>
	<li class="Standard">Is this healthy for both of us?</li>
	<li class="Standard">Is this respectful of my boundaries and yours?</li>
	<li class="Standard">Is this the kind of behavior I want to interact with in my life?</li>
	<li class="Standard">Does this serve us as individuals, which in turn allows us to bring something of worth to a relationship?</li>
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These kinds of conditions are healthy and vital to the overall well-being of everyone involved.

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Tech tip: Don&rsquo;t put yourself in the wood chipper to try and make anyone happy.

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If someone asks you to? <strong>Run.</strong>

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<strong>Jodeen Revere revels in her unconventional, multifaceted dream life. She is an actor, a writer, Thai yoga massage therapist, creative movement and dance enthusiast, and RYT-200 yoga teacher currently on an endless sabbatical. She writes <a href="https://jodeenrevere.wordpress.com/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">a blog chronicling her cancertastic adventures.</a>&nbsp;She loves writing, reading, viewing and heatedly discussing film, eating really good snacks, and chillin&rsquo; with her cats Julian and Tilda. She is a kind and good-natured smart ass. She is very funny. Just ask her. Her favorite human, ever, is her daughter, Lily.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/unconditional-love-is-that-really-a-good-idea</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/unconditional-love-is-that-really-a-good-idea#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>The Myths of Love: A Conversation with Sharon Salzberg</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sharon Salzberg</a> is a renowned Buddhist meditation teacher and author. With Joseph Goldstein and Jack Kornfield, Sharon cofounded the Insight Meditation Society (IMS) in Barre, Massachusetts&mdash;one of the most prominent and active meditation centers in the West. She is&nbsp;a&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em> best-selling author and a&nbsp;monthly columnist for <em>On Being. </em>Sharon&rsquo;s&nbsp;most recent book is&nbsp;<em>Real Love: The Art of Mindful Connection</em>.
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<h2>1440: What are some of the myths we tell ourselves about love?</h2>

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<em>Sharon Salzberg:</em> Well, for me, one of the biggest myths I suffered from was that love is in the hands of another&mdash;which made it something someone could give me, but it left me very vulnerable, because if someone chose to take it away, I&rsquo;d have nothing. I would just be bereft.

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The image I kept coming up with for this was the UPS person standing at my doorstep, holding a package and looking down at the address and then looking up at me and saying, &ldquo;No, I don&rsquo;t think so,&rdquo; and taking it somewhere else.

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One of the biggest experiences I had in lovingkindness meditation was in Burma in 1985. During this intensive period of practice, this myth was somehow overturned and I really began to see love as an ability within myself&mdash;as a capacity inside myself.

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<span class="quote">I began to understand that other people could certainly ignite love or nurture it or threaten it, but it was mine. </span>

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And that was a kind of subtle, but very powerful, turnaround. It also created a very different sense of empowerment and joy and responsibility, because if love was mine, then perhaps ultimately in a difficult conversation or relationship, I might have to be the one to bring it in.

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<h2>1440: What other myths about love cause us to suffer?</h2>

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<em>Sharon Salzberg:</em> I think there are stories that we tell ourselves <em>about</em> ourselves that cause suffering. There are also stories others tell about us that we tend to believe. Those are more myths about ourselves than myths about love, but they&rsquo;re so connected.&nbsp;Stories like: <em>Maybe I don&rsquo;t deserve much</em> or <em>I&rsquo;m broken</em>.

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<span class="quote">In reality, there&rsquo;s a difference between feeling broken and being broken. </span>

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Instead of taking it on as an identity, it could be: <em>Right now, I feel this</em>. I think that is a much wiser and healthier way of approaching a sense of injury. We feel devastated. We feel undone. We feel we have no energy. But we&rsquo;re not broken&mdash;though we call it that.

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Or we have been told things about ourselves by our parents, or our culture, that leave us feeling like we don&rsquo;t belong. We take those things to heart and once we do, we often make choices based on them that lead us to reject opportunities. If we&rsquo;re conditioned not to trust or rely upon anybody, or if we believe we have to do everything ourselves and not take care of others because they&rsquo;re not going to take care of us, then we end up on our own.

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<h2>1440: Let&rsquo;s talk about the impact of believing these myths.</h2>

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<em>Sharon Salzberg:</em> I think the impact is huge. These myths can govern our sense of well-being and our ability to form relationships.&nbsp;They can hold us back and make our life feel very small. They can prevent us from enjoying the wondrous things that are happening around us. They can cause us to relate in a pretty toxic way to pain, like it&rsquo;s our fault, like we blew it. That reaction makes pain something shameful, instead of just part of the universal condition.

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<span class="quote">One of the benefits of being aware, of being mindful, is to see past the intensity of these myths. </span>

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The feelings that accompany the myths can arise so powerfully and with such intensity that it is easy to think, &ldquo;Oh, this is all I&rsquo;ll ever feel.&rdquo; We need tools to help us recall that, &ldquo;Oh, wait, this morning I felt something different.&rdquo;

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One suggestion I make is to give your inner critic a persona, because a lot can depend on how you relate to that voice. If you have a very persistent, nagging, bullying inner critic, it helps to give it a name, and maybe even a wardrobe.

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<span class="quote">I call my inner critic Lucy, based on the character in the <em>Peanuts</em> comic strip. </span>

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It comes from Lucy saying to Charlie Brown, &ldquo;Charlie Brown, you know what your problem is? The problem with you is that you&rsquo;re you.&rdquo; To which poor Charlie Brown answers, &ldquo;Well, what in the world can I do about that?&rdquo;

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That Lucy voice was so dominant in my earlier life.

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<span class="quote">My meditation practice has given me some tools for working with Lucy. </span>

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Naming her means that when she appears, I can greet the inner critic thoughts with, &ldquo;Hi, Lucy,&rdquo; or &ldquo;Chill out, Lucy.&rdquo; That&rsquo;s much different and much healthier than, &ldquo;You&rsquo;re right, Lucy. You&rsquo;re always right.&rdquo;

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<h2>1440: So, how do you define real love?</h2>

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<em>Sharon Salzberg:</em> I mostly define it as connection&mdash;a profound sense of connection. The teaching within the Buddhist tradition is a term called metta, which is usually translated as lovingkindness. I certainly use that, but it is a bit of an odd term. You don&rsquo;t exactly go to a caf&eacute; and overhear a conversation at the table next to you about lovingkindness, you know?

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Though sometimes when we say love, we frankly mean a medium of exchange. I will love you as long as (fill in the blank) or I will love myself as long as I never make a mistake, and that&rsquo;s not what metta means.

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<span class="quote">I think of real love as including someone (or ourselves) in our field of attention. </span>

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Where we used to look through someone, or ignore them, we opt to truly listen, and kind of recognize ourselves in someone else or perhaps relate to ourselves in a deeper way than what the immediate circumstance dictates.

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<span class="quote">It is important to understand, however, that there&rsquo;s a distinction between the heart space and the action one takes in response to it. </span>

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In other words, maybe your heart is filled with love and compassion for someone, but through discernment, through evaluation, through experience, through intuition, you decide not to spend time with that person. Drawing the distinction between the heart space and the action, there&rsquo;s a lot that happens right there, you know, in terms of assessing what seems the most skillful.

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Perhaps something in the relationship feels out of balance. Perhaps there&rsquo;s an awful lot of giving and very little receiving. Maybe that was fine for a while, but now something&mdash;be it inspiration or intuition&mdash;is telling you this imbalance no longer works and is not going to be helpful in the long term.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-myths-of-love-a-conversation-with-sharon-salzberg</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-myths-of-love-a-conversation-with-sharon-salzberg#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>The Art of Listening: An Interview with Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Harville Hendrix</a>, PhD, and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Helen LaKelly Hunt</a>, PhD, are couples therapists with over 40 years&rsquo; experience. They co-created Imago Relationship Therapy, an approach practiced by more than 2,000 therapists in 30 countries.&nbsp;Oprah Winfrey calls Harville the &ldquo;marriage whisperer&rdquo;, and he and Helen have coauthored ten books on intimate relationships and parenting, including the&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em> best seller&nbsp;<em>Getting the Love You Want</em>.
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<h2>1440: Is it true that on the whole we&rsquo;re not very good listeners?</h2>

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<em>Harville:</em> In the resting state, when we&rsquo;re not distracted, the research shows we have a 13&ndash;18% accuracy rate. If we&rsquo;re distracted, the distortion rate goes up to almost 100% immediately. The reason this happens is that most of us are running a movie in our minds, projecting reality as we know it or as we fear it, wish it, or remember it.

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<span class="quote">Our attention is on our own internal process, and unless we turn the switch off and make a focused effort to pay attention, we actually get very little of what&rsquo;s being said to us. </span>

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<em>Helen:</em> We&rsquo;re taught in our culture to start speaking when we&rsquo;re very young, and from this early age of nine months or a year old, our parents get excited when we say something well. That continues in school. If you can talk clearly, deliver a good book report, or win a debate contest, people say, &ldquo;Wow! You&rsquo;re so well-spoken.&rdquo; Everyone applauds you.

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<span class="quote">Throughout our lives we&rsquo;re rewarded for speaking well but not for listening. </span>

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No one is ever acknowledged or rewarded for being a good listener, and, as a result, people generally aren&rsquo;t.

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<h2>1440: What practices can help us become better listeners?</h2>

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<em>Harville:</em> First, if you want somebody to listen to you, ask them if they&rsquo;re available. We call this an appointment-making process and it invites the other person to turn off their movie and be available to you. If they aren&rsquo;t willing or able to do that at that time, make an appointment for another time. There&rsquo;s not much point in talking to somebody who&rsquo;s unavailable to listen.

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<em>Helen:</em> This sounds kind of formal, but if your partner says, &ldquo;No, I&rsquo;m not available now, but I can be available in three hours,&rdquo; then in three hours you know you&rsquo;ll have their undivided attention. You&rsquo;ll know they&rsquo;re ready to listen because they&rsquo;ve told you that they&rsquo;d be available to hear. So you ask for an appointment and then you say what you want to say.

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<em>Harville:</em>

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<span class="quote">Another thing we have discovered that really helps in terms of staying focused is to become curious. </span>

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If someone is talking to you and you start to feel distracted, when you move into curiosity the brain focuses on the sounds coming toward it and the accuracy rate goes up. Ask questions like, &ldquo;Can you say something more about that? Could you say that in a different way? Could you explain that a little more?&rdquo;

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<em>Helen:</em> And a third practice, the cornerstone of the Imago Dialogue process, is what we call mirroring. One person talks and one person listens. Then the listener mirrors back to the talker what they said. When you say, &ldquo;If I got it, you said&hellip;Did I get it?&rdquo; your partner can affirm that or say, &ldquo;No, that&rsquo;s not what I said at all.&rdquo; When you start mirroring you realize what a bad listener you are! It&rsquo;s something we need to bring into our culture and teach each other to do.

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<h2>1440: How did you come up with the mirroring practice?</h2>

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<em>Harville:</em> About 40 years ago, when Helen and I were dating, we were having an intense exchange and in the midst of the fire Helen said, &ldquo;Hey, why don&rsquo;t we stop and one of us talk and the other one listen?&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">That ruptured the reactivity, and we began to practice listening and mirroring. </span>

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Helen essentially invented, on the spot, a practice that ultimately became the primary therapeutic intervention in Imago Therapy.

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<span class="quote">Listening and mirroring&mdash;whether in a couple or between a parent and child or an employee and a boss&mdash;regulates the emotions, calms them down, and something happens in the brain that allows reception to occur. </span>

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And when receptors are firing, you can experience connection and safety and the relationship becomes something other than just an exchange of words.

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<h2>1440: What if we don&rsquo;t agree with what a person is saying? Do we say we don&rsquo;t agree or do we just mirror back to them what they&rsquo;re saying?</h2>

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<em>Harville:</em> That&rsquo;s the big spiritual, human challenge. We have to understand that no two human minds are the same.

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<span class="quote">No two people are having the same experience. </span>

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So you&rsquo;re always going to disagree to some degree, from a very little to a lot. The best thing to do is to go back to that principle of curiosity. Instead of negating it, judging it, or making it bad, get curious. Curiosity opens you up to see another point of view that you might not have seen before.

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You don&rsquo;t have to agree with their point of view, but if you allow them to have their point of view and include it in your world view, then your world enlarges and you become less rigid and more flexible because there is some diversity of thinking in your own mind.

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<em>Helen:</em> Validating is one of the important steps in the Imago Dialogue process. You don&rsquo;t say, &ldquo;I agree with what you&rsquo;ve just said,&rdquo; you say, &ldquo;I can see, given what you think, that what you said makes sense.&rdquo; You don&rsquo;t have to agree with anything your partner says, but you can tell them it makes sense.

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<span class="quote">From their point of view it does make sense, so you acknowledge that. </span>

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<h2>1440: If you&rsquo;re triggered and can&rsquo;t get curious, do you recommend stopping the conversation?</h2>

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<em>Harville:</em> If you can, try to get curious. That gets you out of your own reactive system&mdash;your amygdala or emotional brain&mdash;and into your prefrontal cortex. When you&rsquo;re in your prefrontal cortex, you aren&rsquo;t ruled by reactivity and you can make choices.

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If you just can&rsquo;t get curious, you can call a timeout, take a break, and come back later. We suggest if you&rsquo;re going to take a break you set a specific time to come back.

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<span class="quote">Our brains operate on principles of predictability. </span>

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If I can&rsquo;t predict what&rsquo;s going to happen&mdash;like when we&rsquo;re going to talk again&mdash;I&rsquo;m going to be anxious and defensive. But if a person knows they&rsquo;re going to return to the conversation in a few hours, usually the brain will settle down because they know that the rupture in the relationship is going to be restored at a specific time.

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<em>Helen:</em> To me the real goal of every relationship is to learn to live your life from the upper brain. The lower brain is black and white. It&rsquo;s &ldquo;I&rsquo;m right, you&rsquo;re wrong. It&rsquo;s my way or the highway.&rdquo; But the upper brain can problem solve.

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<span class="quote">It can be creative and generate win-win solutions where both people get what they want. </span>

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It&rsquo;s all about getting to the upper brain, and these practices help you do that. Harville once said, &ldquo;Talking is the most dangerous thing people do.&rdquo; Relational science has now gotten precise enough that we can teach people a whole new way to have a conversation that doesn&rsquo;t create rupture. It takes daily practice, but it works.

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<h2>1440: Can a relationship work if only one person is willing to work on it?</h2>

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<em>Harville:</em> We get that question a lot. It used to be that women would be more motivated to do the work and, if they could, they&rsquo;d drag the men along to our workshop. Now over 90% of those in the room say they&rsquo;re there because they want to be, not because their partner convinced them to be.

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<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s becoming more okay in our culture to work on your marriage. </span>

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If one partner is resistant, we recommend to the other partner to start to do the work. We tell them to get curious about their partner, begin to mirror them in conversation, get out of quid pro quo, and stretch into being vulnerable.

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What we find happens over and over again is that when one partner becomes caring, responsive, and curious, about 3 to 4% of relationships will wind up in a divorce relatively quickly. But the rest, that&rsquo;s 97%, work out.

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<span class="quote">When one partner starts to change their behavior, the relationship changes. </span>

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Many partners will eventually want to learn the skills too, but even if they don&rsquo;t, the relationship improves.

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Gandhi said, &ldquo;Be the change you want to see in the world.&rdquo; I often use that quote when I invite people to be like the partner they want to have. It really can work.

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-art-of-listening-an-interview-with-harville-hendrix-and-helen-lakelly-hunt</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-art-of-listening-an-interview-with-harville-hendrix-and-helen-lakelly-hunt#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Talking About Conversation, Diversity, and Gatherings with Krista Tippett of On Being</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/programs/faculty">Krista Tippett</a> is a Peabody Award-winning broadcaster and&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;best-selling author. She is a recipient of the&nbsp;National Humanities Medal, which she received at the White House in 2014.
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As the creator and host of public radio&rsquo;s&nbsp;<em>On Being</em>, she takes up the great questions of meaning amidst the political, economic, cultural, and technological shifts of 21st-century life.&nbsp;Her books include&nbsp;<em>Einstein&rsquo;s God, Speaking of Faith,&nbsp;</em>and most recently&nbsp;<em>Becoming Wise: An Inquiry into the Mystery and Art of Living.</em>

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<h2>1440 Multiversity: Adam Grant said this about you: &ldquo;You try to start conversations we are silent about.&rdquo; What conversations are you trying to start?</h2>

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<em>Krista Tippett:</em> I am trying to make space for the conversations that we most deeply long to have&mdash;the questions of what it means to be human, how we want to live, and who we are to each other. These questions are personal, unfolding in the course of each individual life&mdash;but they have social import. The way we&rsquo;ve rewarded large external lives in recent generations and made inner life optional&mdash;this is now haunting our life together. In public discourse we&rsquo;ve privileged loud, polarizing voices&mdash;and politics and economics have now become the thinnest of veneers over the human dramas of fear and hope, of power and frailty.

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The good news is, we can start having the conversations we want to be hearing. That means reframing our deliberations in terms of the human complexity and longings at their root.

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<span class="quote">We can create trustworthy, hospitable spaces where pain and fear can show themselves as pain and fear rather than the anger they masquerade as in so much of our public discourse.</span>

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We can surface and ponder the questions we share across our divides as well as our competing answers. We can break open and reframe our deliberation of challenging issues into what is at stake in human terms.

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The point of speaking together differently is to live together differently&mdash;to walk into the new realities we want to create and inhabit, even as we continue to differ, and to do so together.

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<h2>1440 Multiversity: People talk about wanting diversity, but wanting diversity of thought and actively seeking and enabling diversity of thought are two very different things. Your team went the extra mile for this program at 1440&mdash;recruiting applications and selecting participants. Why was this so important to you and your team?</h2>

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<em>Krista Tippett:</em> I&rsquo;m always comforted to recall my conversations with the late, great civil rights leader Vincent Harding, who liked to remind people that &ldquo;when it comes to being a multi-racial, multi-religious, multi-ethnic democracy, we are a developing nation.&rdquo; Yes&mdash;wanting diversity and enabling diversity are two things and we&rsquo;re farther along on the first than on the second.

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<span class="quote">Recently I&rsquo;ve come to feel that the word &ldquo;diversity&rdquo; itself is limiting. It was coined with the best of intentions, but it&rsquo;s had an effect of turning diversity into boxes to be checked&mdash;and keeping us in some way in our boxes.</span>

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The new language of intersectionality is one way beyond that&mdash;the realization that we&rsquo;re all a collection of diversities. We had this in mind as we created the application process for the On Being Gathering. We were also inspired by the thought and practices of Seth Godin, one of our faculty members, that there&rsquo;s value in taking the time to inquire about and establish purpose as part of the application process. What we&rsquo;re aspiring to have in the room at the On Being Gathering is a spacious and purposeful cross-section of humanity. But this is all a work in progress, and it&rsquo;s been inspiring and sobering in equal measure. We did not anticipate that thousands more beautiful, purposeful humans would apply than we could accommodate. We recognize that everyone who applied is our community, and part of our work ahead will be to continue to weave this whole. We&rsquo;re so grateful to have 1440 as a generous and nimble learning partner in this adventure.

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<h2>1440 Multiversity: What called you to hold an in-person gathering, and why did you choose 1440 Multiversity as the location?</h2>

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<em>Krista Tippett:</em> For many years, <em>On Being&rsquo;s</em> far-flung community of listeners and readers expressed a desire to meet in the old-fashioned flesh&mdash;to gather as a community. We heard this desire, and shared it, but did not have the organization to make it real.

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<span class="quote">Then the 1440 Multiversity was created with such a synergy of intentionality and values our project holds dear&mdash;a reverence for the beauty of the natural world and of human-centered design; space and time for silence and nourishment as well as learning; an ethos of community and hospitality.</span>

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In early conversations with the great people of 1440, this hospitality was extended to us&mdash;to dream about what we might make happen with such a partner. And so the On Being Gathering was born.

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<h2>1440 Multiversity: Pico Iyer wrote in <em>The Art of Stillness</em> that &ldquo;the more we can contact others, the more, it sometimes seems, we lose contact with ourselves.&rdquo; This contact issue is a relatively modern problem, but one you (and others, including Maria Popova) seem to be solving with technology (specifically, the internet) that threatens to divide humanity as it unites us. How do we control this powerful tool for good? Or can we control it at all?</h2>

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<em>Krista Tippett:</em> I&rsquo;m constantly having this conversation with myself&mdash;as a mother as much as a person who works in media. And I&rsquo;ve been privileged to interview some very wise people working at the intersection of technology and society.

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<span class="quote">Here&rsquo;s where I come out, for now: the digital world is a new canvas for the old human condition. Nothing happens on-line that doesn&rsquo;t happen off-line. As powerful as they are, our technologies are in their infancy, we remain the sentient grown-ups in the room, and it is up to us to shape them to human purposes.</span>

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We&rsquo;re in catch-up mode on this, for while every human generation has had its own version of disorienting and transformative technologies, ours are distinct in the pace at which they accelerate. Ours are distinct in how intimately they are refashioning basic human experiences like making and leading and learning and belonging. And they are doing so on an amplified screen that throws up all of our beauty and ugliness, our most degrading and our most generative potentials, for the whole world to see.

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<span class="quote">Our technologies are, in my mind, calling us anew to intentionally take up those core human conversations we long above all else to have, and to have together: what does it mean to be human, how do we want to live, and who will we be to each other?</span>

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<strong>Krista Tippett will be leading the <a href="https://www.1440.org/programs/faculty-lead-programs">On Being Gathering</a> at 1440 Multiversity,&nbsp;February 16 &ndash; 19, 2018. This luminary-filled program is sold out, but please feel free to <a href="https://www.1440.org/programs/faculty-lead-programs">browse other 1440 programs here</a>.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/talking-about-conversation-diversity-and-gatherings-with-krista-tippett-of-on-being</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/talking-about-conversation-diversity-and-gatherings-with-krista-tippett-of-on-being#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>Talking About Conversation, Diversity, and Gatherings with Krista Tippett of On Being</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Krista Tippett</a> is a Peabody Award-winning broadcaster and&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;best-selling author. She is a recipient of the&nbsp;National Humanities Medal, which she received at the White House in 2014.
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As the creator and host of public radio&rsquo;s&nbsp;<em>On Being</em>, she takes up the great questions of meaning amidst the political, economic, cultural, and technological shifts of 21st-century life.&nbsp;Her books include&nbsp;<em>Einstein&rsquo;s God, Speaking of Faith,&nbsp;</em>and most recently&nbsp;<em>Becoming Wise: An Inquiry into the Mystery and Art of Living.</em>

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<h2>1440 Multiversity: Adam Grant said this about you: &ldquo;You try to start conversations we are silent about.&rdquo; What conversations are you trying to start?</h2>

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<em>Krista Tippett:</em> I am trying to make space for the conversations that we most deeply long to have&mdash;the questions of what it means to be human, how we want to live, and who we are to each other. These questions are personal, unfolding in the course of each individual life&mdash;but they have social import. The way we&rsquo;ve rewarded large external lives in recent generations and made inner life optional&mdash;this is now haunting our life together. In public discourse we&rsquo;ve privileged loud, polarizing voices&mdash;and politics and economics have now become the thinnest of veneers over the human dramas of fear and hope, of power and frailty.

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The good news is, we can start having the conversations we want to be hearing. That means reframing our deliberations in terms of the human complexity and longings at their root.

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<span class="quote">We can create trustworthy, hospitable spaces where pain and fear can show themselves as pain and fear rather than the anger they masquerade as in so much of our public discourse.</span>

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We can surface and ponder the questions we share across our divides as well as our competing answers. We can break open and reframe our deliberation of challenging issues into what is at stake in human terms.

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The point of speaking together differently is to live together differently&mdash;to walk into the new realities we want to create and inhabit, even as we continue to differ, and to do so together.

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<h2>1440 Multiversity: People talk about wanting diversity, but wanting diversity of thought and actively seeking and enabling diversity of thought are two very different things. Your team went the extra mile for this program at 1440&mdash;recruiting applications and selecting participants. Why was this so important to you and your team?</h2>

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<em>Krista Tippett:</em> I&rsquo;m always comforted to recall my conversations with the late, great civil rights leader Vincent Harding, who liked to remind people that &ldquo;when it comes to being a multi-racial, multi-religious, multi-ethnic democracy, we are a developing nation.&rdquo; Yes&mdash;wanting diversity and enabling diversity are two things and we&rsquo;re farther along on the first than on the second.

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<span class="quote">Recently I&rsquo;ve come to feel that the word &ldquo;diversity&rdquo; itself is limiting. It was coined with the best of intentions, but it&rsquo;s had an effect of turning diversity into boxes to be checked&mdash;and keeping us in some way in our boxes.</span>

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The new language of intersectionality is one way beyond that&mdash;the realization that we&rsquo;re all a collection of diversities. We had this in mind as we created the application process for the On Being Gathering. We were also inspired by the thought and practices of Seth Godin, one of our faculty members, that there&rsquo;s value in taking the time to inquire about and establish purpose as part of the application process. What we&rsquo;re aspiring to have in the room at the On Being Gathering is a spacious and purposeful cross-section of humanity. But this is all a work in progress, and it&rsquo;s been inspiring and sobering in equal measure. We did not anticipate that thousands more beautiful, purposeful humans would apply than we could accommodate. We recognize that everyone who applied is our community, and part of our work ahead will be to continue to weave this whole. We&rsquo;re so grateful to have 1440 as a generous and nimble learning partner in this adventure.

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<h2>1440 Multiversity: What called you to hold an in-person gathering, and why did you choose 1440 Multiversity as the location?</h2>

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<em>Krista Tippett:</em> For many years, <em>On Being&rsquo;s</em> far-flung community of listeners and readers expressed a desire to meet in the old-fashioned flesh&mdash;to gather as a community. We heard this desire, and shared it, but did not have the organization to make it real.

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<span class="quote">Then the 1440 Multiversity was created with such a synergy of intentionality and values our project holds dear&mdash;a reverence for the beauty of the natural world and of human-centered design; space and time for silence and nourishment as well as learning; an ethos of community and hospitality.</span>

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In early conversations with the great people of 1440, this hospitality was extended to us&mdash;to dream about what we might make happen with such a partner. And so the On Being Gathering was born.

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<h2>1440 Multiversity: Pico Iyer wrote in <em>The Art of Stillness</em> that &ldquo;the more we can contact others, the more, it sometimes seems, we lose contact with ourselves.&rdquo; This contact issue is a relatively modern problem, but one you (and others, including Maria Popova) seem to be solving with technology (specifically, the internet) that threatens to divide humanity as it unites us. How do we control this powerful tool for good? Or can we control it at all?</h2>

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<em>Krista Tippett:</em> I&rsquo;m constantly having this conversation with myself&mdash;as a mother as much as a person who works in media. And I&rsquo;ve been privileged to interview some very wise people working at the intersection of technology and society.

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<span class="quote">Here&rsquo;s where I come out, for now: the digital world is a new canvas for the old human condition. Nothing happens on-line that doesn&rsquo;t happen off-line. As powerful as they are, our technologies are in their infancy, we remain the sentient grown-ups in the room, and it is up to us to shape them to human purposes.</span>

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We&rsquo;re in catch-up mode on this, for while every human generation has had its own version of disorienting and transformative technologies, ours are distinct in the pace at which they accelerate. Ours are distinct in how intimately they are refashioning basic human experiences like making and leading and learning and belonging. And they are doing so on an amplified screen that throws up all of our beauty and ugliness, our most degrading and our most generative potentials, for the whole world to see.

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<span class="quote">Our technologies are, in my mind, calling us anew to intentionally take up those core human conversations we long above all else to have, and to have together: what does it mean to be human, how do we want to live, and who will we be to each other?</span>

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<strong>Krista Tippett will be leading the <a href="https://www.1440.org/">On Being Gathering</a> at 1440 Multiversity,&nbsp;February 16 &ndash; 19, 2018. This luminary-filled program is sold out, but please feel free to <a href="https://www.1440.org/">browse other 1440 programs here</a>.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/talking-about-conversation-diversity-and-gatherings-with-krista-tippett-of-on-being</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/talking-about-conversation-diversity-and-gatherings-with-krista-tippett-of-on-being#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;Say Nothing for Five Minutes&quot;: Why Parents Need to Be Quiet</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Shefali Tsabary, PhD</a>, is an international speaker, acclaimed author, and creator of the groundbreaking Conscious Parenting approach&mdash;which Oprah Winfrey has endorsed as revolutionary and life-changing. Dr. Shefali&rsquo;s blend of clinical psychology and Eastern mindfulness sets her apart as a leader in the field of mindfulness psychology.
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Her <em>New York Times</em> best-selling book <em>The Awakened Family</em> has proved eye-opening for scores of parents eager to escape the anxiety surrounding how &ldquo;best&rdquo; to raise a family. We love the real-world examples she points to in the following excerpt&mdash;underscoring the power of silence.

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<h2>&nbsp;<i>Excerpt&nbsp;from </i><em>The Awakened Family</em><i>, Chapter 16: &ldquo;From Chaos to Stillness&rdquo;</i></h2>
One of our greatest untapped allies in life is silence. Most of us are terrified to enter it, believing it to mean nothingness just because it doesn&rsquo;t involve some form of doing. Being still in silence is uncomfortable for most of us not only because it runs counter to the diet of constant busyness and achievement we were raised on, but because it puts us painfully in touch with the emptiness within where our true self ought to be.

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Our discomfort with confronting ourselves in the naked stillness of absolute quiet leads us to eat too much, drink excessively, socialize mindlessly, and engage in a host of activities out of a desire to simply avoid being still. This constant whirring in our minds creates disharmony and imbalance. The mind cannot function at its optimum level when it&rsquo;s constantly under siege from endless opinions, criticism, and ideas.

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<span class="quote">Sitting in stillness for a few minutes through the day allows us to begin to be aware of our essence, enabling us to recharge. </span>

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Taking a few minutes to sit and place our awareness on our breath provides a break from the barrage of information our minds are constantly asked to process. These few minutes of centering allow us to remember what really matters in life&mdash;connection to self and others. Despite having all the trappings of external achievement, if we don&rsquo;t have connection, we essentially have nothing.

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<span class="quote">Just as a quick downpour has the power to clear the air, so it is with ten minutes of breathing and sitting in stillness. </span>

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Our children can immediately feel the shift in our energy. Checking into ourselves all through the day allows us to pause before we speak, so that we focus on the ways we communicate. This focused attention is essential if we are to parent consciously.

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<span class="quote">To be still means to be quiet in terms of both verbal and internal chatter. </span>

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It means to observe our mental chatter but not engage with it. When we practice this on a daily basis, the chatter eventually begins to die down. Chatter can continue interminably only if we are interacting with it. If we stop interacting with it and instead simply allow it to be, it fades.

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To practice sitting in stillness, I ask parents to try not saying anything to their children for blocks of time&mdash;unless of course their children need them in some way. This doesn&rsquo;t mean the parent ignores the child or leaves them alone.<br />
Instead, it&rsquo;s an invitation to enter their children&rsquo;s presence without any desire to mold or change them. I ask the parent to channel the energy they would use for talking to instead observe their children.<br />
I suggest they notice how the child sits.<br />
Do their shoulders slouch? Then notice their eyes, their smile, their tone of voice. Allowing sufficient time to become quiet has a powerful effect on how we respond to our children.
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When a parent asks me a specific and practical question such as, &ldquo;What should I do if my child left the toothpaste open?&rdquo; I respond, &ldquo;Say nothing for five minutes.&rdquo;

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&ldquo;What if they leave the room lights on?&rdquo;<br />
&ldquo;Say nothing for five minutes.&rdquo;<br />
&ldquo;What if they fail a test?&rdquo;<br />
&ldquo;Say nothing for five minutes.&rdquo;<br />
&ldquo;What if they are rude and mean to me or someone else?&rdquo;<br />
&ldquo;Say nothing for five minutes.&rdquo;<br />
&ldquo;What if they hit me or their sibling?&rdquo;<br />
&ldquo;Say nothing for five minutes.&rdquo;
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About now, I suspect all your alarm bells are sounding. This sounds crazy, doesn&rsquo;t it?

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<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s natural to be fearful when we&rsquo;re told to stop a habit. </span>

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Perhaps you feel I&rsquo;m taking away your rights as a parent and thereby endorsing negative behavior? Or I am being too lenient? Or letting your child get away with bad behavior?

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Saying nothing for five minutes doesn&rsquo;t mean any of these things. It doesn&rsquo;t mean we don&rsquo;t take action. It simply means we allow space for the wisest action to enter our awareness, since wisdom tends to surface in a situation only if we are able to step away from it for a few moments until we are calm and composed.

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<span class="quote">It means you resist rushing to judgment, even when you think that judgment is obvious. </span>

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Once you see the power of this approach to transform both you and your children, you&rsquo;ll give yourself the gift of a few minutes of silence to allow the optimum action to make itself known.

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Excerpted from <em>The Awakened Family: How to Raise Empowered, Resilient, and Conscious Children</em> by Shefali Tsabary, Ph.D.<br />
Copyright &copy; 2016 by Shefali Tsabary.<br />
Published by Viking, an imprint of Penguin Random House LLC.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/say-nothing-for-five-minutes-why-parents-need-to-be-quiet</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/say-nothing-for-five-minutes-why-parents-need-to-be-quiet#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>People Are Challenging: More Wisdom from Martha Beck</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Martha Beck</a>, PhD, grew up wanting to be an ecologist or a professor. However, after bearing three children while acquiring three Harvard degrees, Martha decided she&rsquo;d rather just lie down for a few decades. During that time she became an author and life coach. Her books include, <em>Expecting Adam</em>, <em>Leaving the Saints</em>, <em>Finding Your Own North Star</em>, <em>The Joy Diet</em>, <em>Steering by Starlight</em>, <em>Finding Your Way in a Wild New World</em>, and <em>Diana Herself: An Allegory of Awakening</em>. Martha has been a columnist for <em>O, The Oprah Magazine</em> since its inception in 2001 and has been a contributing editor for several popular magazines, including <em>Real Simple</em> and <em>Redbook</em>.
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<em><strong>Martha will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Navigating the Storm: Finding Peace and Purpose in Uncertain Times</a>&nbsp;from February 7 &ndash; 9, 2020 at 1440 Multiversity.</strong></em>

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<h2>1440: In your experience, does transformation happen quickly or does it take time?</h2>

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<em>Martha Beck:</em> I have had a lot of mind-blowing spiritual experiences, including a near-death experience, and I can tell you that any changes you have from moments like that will not last unless you&rsquo;re continuously cultivating it. A lot of people get plastic surgery as they&rsquo;re aging. For a few days they look great but then they realize it&rsquo;s sagging already, or this part over here now looks a lot older. Whether spiritual or physical, there&rsquo;s no permanent shift to some state that is then effortlessly held forever after.

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That said, there seems to be a point when change is irreversible. One Indian sage says that the fruit ripens and ripens as you peel off the layers of illusion and get closer and closer to your natural or essential self. Once you truly rid yourself of that illusion it&rsquo;s like the fruit drops from the tree&mdash;there is a binary change that is irreversible.

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<h2>1440: Could you give some examples of people who have experienced this irreversible change?</h2>

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<em>Martha Beck:</em> Byron Katie is one example. She was at a point in her life where she was suicidal, homicidal, and institutionalized in a halfway house. Then she woke up into total ecstasy one day and hasn&rsquo;t suffered since. She developed this method called The Work, a rigorous form of inquiry with a peculiarly intense laser-like focus.

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I asked her husband Stephen once, &ldquo;If Katie didn&rsquo;t constantly question her thoughts, would she be able to sustain that level of enlightenment?&rdquo; He said no, she is cleaning house all day, every day because the mind generates stories, and stories lead us into untruth, and untruth leads us into suffering.

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<span class="quote">Eckhart Tolle is another example. He is continuously bringing himself into alignment with the now, again and again. It never stops, his practices to stay in alignment with the now. </span>

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Ramana Maharshi did it by meditating on the question,&rdquo;Who am I?&rdquo; Nisargadatta Maharaj, one of my favorites, did it with just a meditation on the phrase, &ldquo;I am. I am. I am.&rdquo;

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<h2>1440: So you are saying continuous work is necessary to maintain transformative shifts?</h2>

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<em>Martha Beck:</em> Yes.

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<span class="quote">Irreversible shifts are possible, but sustained transformation requires continuous housecleaning, continuous questioning of your own mental projections. </span>

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When you experience a transformation&mdash;Eckhart Tolle calls it passing through a portal into the absolute&mdash;you move into a place that has a lot less suffering, but the portal is always trying to close. Unless you are really assiduous, you&rsquo;ll fall back into illusion again. That&rsquo;s okay. You&rsquo;ve just lost the track. Go back to the last time you were on the track and you&rsquo;ll find it again. This isn&rsquo;t a tragedy; it&rsquo;s just how life works.

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<h2>1440: How do you keep your portal open? What are your favorite personal practices?</h2>

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<em>Martha Beck:</em> My go-to, no-fail practice is suffering. When I forget to do other practices, pain in the mind, pain in the body, pain in the heart come back, and I&rsquo;m reminded to go do my other practices if I&rsquo;ve forgotten them. These include meditation, Byron Katie&rsquo;s process The Work, writing, and coaching. Because I write and coach on these topics, I&rsquo;m continuously reminding myself of what I&rsquo;ve figured out along the way. By staying immersed in it all the time, I keep myself in that frame of mind.

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<span class="quote">The trickiest, most wonderful, and most illuminating practice is trying to have loving, peaceful, generative relationships with other human beings. People are challenging. </span>

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At one point I&rsquo;d been out in the forest for a year meditating. I was in a state of complete bliss. But I went to hang out with my kids and immediately hit 17 levels of unexamined dreck! It&rsquo;s always in there, and human beings&mdash;especially the people we love and hate the most&mdash;are always showing us what&rsquo;s the next step to waking up.

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/people-are-challenging-more-wisdom-from-martha-beck</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/people-are-challenging-more-wisdom-from-martha-beck#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Parenting as Spiritual Evolution: A Conversation with Dr. Shefali</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/"><strong>Shefali&nbsp;Tsabary, PhD</strong></a><strong>,&nbsp;</strong>is an international speaker, acclaimed author, and creator of the groundbreaking Conscious Parenting approach&mdash;which Oprah Winfrey has endorsed as revolutionary and life-changing. Dr. Shefali&rsquo;s blend of clinical psychology and Eastern mindfulness sets her apart as a leader in the field of mindfulness psychology. Her&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;best-selling books include&nbsp;<em>The Conscious Parent</em>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<em>The Awakened Family</em>.
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<h2>1440: You say that &ldquo;answering the call to look into the mirror our children provide for us is the hallmark of a conscious parent.&rdquo; How do parents learn to recognize this call? What does it mean to answer it?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Shefali:</em> The way I look at parenting is that it&rsquo;s a spiritual and sacred journey for the parent to discover their true self. The traditional paradigm doesn&rsquo;t look at parenting like this. It looks at the parent as being in charge, the one who is hierarchically more dominant, who is bestowed this child as a chore, to do unto the child, to raise the child, and to almost create the child into who the parent believes he or she needs to be.

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The new paradigm, the conscious paradigm that I espouse, is the anthesis. In the conscious paradigm, the parent recognizes the sacred purpose of the child&rsquo;s presence in its life is to awaken the parent to discover his or her own conditioning, his or her own emotional baggage, and to heal that within the parent before the parent seeks to raise the child.

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<span class="quote">A conscious parent is one who understands that the first person who needs to be raised is the parent themselves, and only then can they endeavor to raise the child. </span>

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Now, how can parents recognize this call when most people are unconscious as to the sacred purpose of relationship, particularly the one they share with their child? Because of this unconsciousness, they may not pay heed to invitations that abound. So it&rsquo;s only through pain and conflict, and disconnection that we, as humans, typically grow.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Deep Dive into Conscious Parenting </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Shefali Tsabary, PhD</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">April 5 - 7, 2019</div>
Almost every family and parent-child relationship is first conceived with the intention of love and respect. And although we think, as parents, that it is our responsibility to mold and shape our children&rsquo;s future, the reality is often far more...</div>

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When most parents heed the call is when their children are in pain, or in trouble, when there are too many red flags. That&rsquo;s when the parent seeks the therapist, and even then, they&rsquo;re very resistant, and they don&rsquo;t want to answer the call. And it&rsquo;s only through a process of awakening that they begin to realize that what is happening between the parent and the child has very much to do with the parents&rsquo; own baggage.

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<span class="quote">The parents&rsquo; own expectations and projections onto the child are really cues and clues for the parent to go within to discover why it is that they have allowed a situation to occur, and the reason is often in the parents&rsquo; own inner wounding. </span>

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<h2>1440: Are we ever truly prepared for parenthood?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Shefali:&nbsp;</em>No, we&rsquo;re never prepared. We can be prepared on the phony base level of material, logical existence. We can have the house. We can have the room ready. We can have diapers, and we can have money. But you simply cannot be prepared because how can you prepare for meeting a stranger? You can&rsquo;t.

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<span class="quote">What will be evoked can only be evoked in the moment. </span>

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And it&rsquo;s very transient.

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It&rsquo;s such a great lesson in spirituality and evolution because it&rsquo;s a moment-by-moment, ever-changing process that the parent can only survive and transcend if they are fully present moment-by-moment.

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<span class="quote">The parent/child journey is one of the greatest portals to spiritual awakening because it&rsquo;s intimate, it&rsquo;s biological (in most cases), and it&rsquo;s moment-by-moment. </span>

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You are in charge, but you&rsquo;re not in charge. You have to provide, but then you gotta let it all go. You need control, but no control. There are these indisposing dualities overlaying the moment, and every moment forces the parent to either wake up, or wait until the pain wakes them up.

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<h2>1440: What about our expectations of family? Do you find that people approach the experience of parenthood with realistic expectations of themselves and their children?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Shefali:&nbsp;</em>No, they don&rsquo;t. And it&rsquo;s tied into this myth of being able to prepare. People live in the material world, so they believe preparation is material preparation. They don&rsquo;t understand that this is the most spiritual and emotional process of their lives, where they will be demanded upon to change moment-by-moment, and recalibrate every known notion of truth, every known idea of old belief systems.

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In the old paradigm, parents enter the journey with heavy-handed expectations based on their conditioning, and they project this onto the child, without care of who the child truly is.

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<span class="quote">In this process of projection of expectation, fantasy, inner longing, and inner incompletion, the parent misses who the child truly is. </span>

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And this is how you create an inauthentic self in the child, who now seeks to match your version of who it needs to be. And that&rsquo;s how many of us end up disconnected from our true selves.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/parenting-as-spiritual-evolution-a-conversation-with-dr-shefali</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/parenting-as-spiritual-evolution-a-conversation-with-dr-shefali#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;Negativity and Love Don&apos;t Go Together&quot;: An Interview with Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Harville Hendrix</a>, PhD, and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Helen LaKelly Hunt</a>, PhD, are couples therapists with over 40 years&rsquo; experience. They co-created Imago Relationship Therapy, an approach practiced by more than 2,000 therapists in 30 countries.&nbsp;Oprah Winfrey calls Harville the &ldquo;marriage whisperer&rdquo;, and he and Helen have co-authored ten books on intimate relationships and parenting, including the&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em> best seller&nbsp;<em>Getting the Love You Want</em>.
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<h2>1440: You talk a lot about the importance of how we speak to each other. Can you explain your zero negativity approach?</h2>

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<em>Harville:</em> One of the most transformative things is to implement a zero negativity policy in your relationship. Remove all judgments, stop criticizing your partner, and watch your tone of voice when you speak. When you stop the discharge of negative energy, the neural system of the other person eventually relaxes and the energy moves from the sympathetic side of the nervous system&mdash;which is the arousal side where you fight and flee&mdash;to the parasympathetic side where there&rsquo;s a sense of rest and calm.

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If you&rsquo;re consistent with your commitment to zero negativity, it&rsquo;s amazing what can happen in a relationship.

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<span class="quote">Negativity and love don&rsquo;t go together.</span>

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<p>If you really love someone you&rsquo;ll find a way to ask for what you want or need. Instead of getting angry, you can say, &ldquo;Next time we&rsquo;re going to meet for dinner and you can&rsquo;t get there on time, would you give me a call so I don&rsquo;t worry what happened to you?&rdquo;</p>

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<em>Helen:</em> When you bring up problems in a way that doesn&rsquo;t land negatively with your partner, it makes it more likely that they&rsquo;ll engage with you to problem solve. If you ask in a negative way, your partner is going to say, &ldquo;I&rsquo;m out of here,&rdquo; and retreat into the lower brain.

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<span class="quote">If you talk in a way where the lower brain of your partner gets ignited, they can&rsquo;t help but fight or flee.</span>

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This is why zero negativity is so important.

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<h2>1440: What happens when you slip up and fall into an old habit of criticizing or getting angry? How do you make up for that?</h2>

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<em>Harville:</em> Every couple is imperfect, so they&rsquo;re going to blow it. We&rsquo;ve developed a reconnecting process for when that happens. First you need a signaling system. Helen and I use the word &ldquo;marshmallow.&rdquo; If I hear Helen say, &ldquo;Marshmallow,&rdquo; I know that whether I meant to or not, I had a tone of voice or a look that I wasn&rsquo;t aware of, or that I didn&rsquo;t do something I said I would.

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<span class="quote">Once you signal, you have an agreement that you&rsquo;re going to use the system to reconnect.</span>

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We teach people a bunch of things to do at this point. You could simply say, &ldquo;Could you say that to me in a different way?&rdquo; You could even model how you would like them to say it: &ldquo;Would you be willing to say it like this?&rdquo; and model it with warmth. You could also provide them with the words you would like them to use.

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Sometimes a hug or an apology will repair it. Sometimes it&rsquo;s a little harder and you have to sit down and talk for 10 or 15 minutes and use the Imago Dialogue process. If it&rsquo;s really bad we have a longer process we teach people called the behavioral change request process, which is more involved.

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<em>Helen:&nbsp;</em>In our workshops we remind people that your partner does not mind read.

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<span class="quote">You can&rsquo;t bring something to your partner and expect them to solve it for you.</span>

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You can ask respectfully for what you want, and if your partner cares about you, they&rsquo;re longing to come through for you.

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<h2>1440: Do you suggest people replace the negativity in their relationship with something else?</h2>

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<em>Harville:</em> We thought for a long time that if you removed negativity, people would start to move toward each other, but we discovered it didn&rsquo;t quite work that way. So we began to ask couples why. Their answers were very instructive.

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<span class="quote">They said that they didn&rsquo;t feel safe just by the absence of negativity.</span>

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So we asked them what would make them feel safe and they said they wanted language or practices that made them feel appreciated.

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<span class="quote">We made a list of things that we call affirmations&mdash;things that affirm that I am a valuable person to you and that I&rsquo;m safe to be around.</span>

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We have a series of fun exercises like thinking of surprises for each other, giving appreciations three times a day, and creating rituals together. When you change the quality of your interactions, you create new memories. Those memories create predictability and safety in the relationship.

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<h2>1440: Is this practice applicable to relationships other than partnerships?</h2>

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<em>Harville:</em> About 10 years ago, Helen and I realized we had been at this for a long time. I was 72 then&mdash;working in what I now think of as a backward way: I was trying to help people who were in trouble get out of trouble. So Helen and I began to think about prevention. Not just how we could do preventive work with couples, but how we could begin to support this change in the culture itself.

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We brought this question up with a group of colleagues and decided to bring to the world what we&rsquo;d been bringing to couples. After four years of planning with these colleagues we decided to do an experiment.

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<span class="quote">We call it Safe Conversations and it teaches people zero negativity and affirmations.</span>

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We&rsquo;ve been working a lot in the city of Dallas and it&rsquo;s now used in churches, schools, corporations, the police department, and more. It supplements whatever else people are doing in terms of relationship education. If people learn how to talk without judgment and without creating anxiety, they can increase the health of any ecosystem.

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<span class="quote">Our goal is to take this globally.</span>

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There is such a destructive use of language being used in our public and political dialogue right now. Helen says, &ldquo;Words can start wars.&rdquo; They can also bring peace, and that&rsquo;s what we&rsquo;re working toward.

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/negativity-and-love-dont-go-together-an-interview-with-harville-hendrix-and-helen-lakelly-hunt</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/negativity-and-love-dont-go-together-an-interview-with-harville-hendrix-and-helen-lakelly-hunt#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Mindful Sex and the Thirst for Connection: An Interview with Esther Perel</title><description><![CDATA[Psychotherapist and&nbsp;<em>New York Times&nbsp;</em>best-selling&nbsp;author&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Esther Perel</a>&nbsp;is recognized as one of today&rsquo;s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. Her celebrated TED talks have garnered more than 20 million views, and her international best seller&nbsp;<em>Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence</em>&nbsp;became a global phenomenon translated into 25 languages.&nbsp;Her newest book is the&nbsp;<em>The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity</em>.
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<h2>1440: How do you think life in the digital age plays a role in our understanding of love and relationships?</h2>

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<em>Esther Perel</em>: Let&rsquo;s start with dating. What does it mean when you have a thousand people at your fingertips? What does it mean to choose a person amid that cacophony? How powerful must that person be? How much must you idealize that person and imbue them with all kinds of magical powers so that he or she will be the one who cures you of your FOMO? For you, I will delete my apps&mdash;that becomes the new commitment ritual.

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Then there is the fact that people text instead of call.

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<span class="quote">Voice and touch are the most important, the most soothing elements we share in the presence of others. We are compromising those two fundamental aspects of connection. An emoji will not do what voice can do, and neither will praying hands. </span>

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Don&rsquo;t misunderstand me, I love to text. There&rsquo;s beauty in that magical phone we hold in our hand, but how many people today are basically going to bed stroking their phone instead of their partner and waking up stroking their phone instead of their partner? It&rsquo;s the last thing they hold and the first thing they hold. I can&rsquo;t imagine that doesn&rsquo;t have an effect.

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Our phones are allowing us to ghost people in ways that are utterly gutting. And yet, they are also allowing us to meet people at a frequency and at a range and at an age that many people never had the opportunity to do before. We really are being pulled in very different directions all at once.

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<h2>1440: Let&rsquo;s talk about the interplay between mindfulness and self-awareness and intimacy. As we develop greater self-understanding, how does that impact our appetite for fulfillment and validation outside of ourselves in the realms of sexuality and intimacy?</h2>

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<em>Esther Perel</em>: I would put mindfulness in two categories. One is as an expression of self-awareness and two&mdash;as an awareness of the world around us, a manifestation of presence, focus, and slowing down, which in our fast-food culture is very difficult.

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Since the early 1900s, and the rise of the futurist movement, we began the remorseless quest for acceleration. At this moment too, everything we&rsquo;re trying to do is to make things go faster. Hence, we need to rebalance. We need to reclaim time and attention to slow us down and put us in touch with our senses, with our sensory experience, our sensuality, our connection to others. Relationships take time. Cultivating pleasure takes time. Even being in the moment takes time.

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I think that we find ourselves with multiple practices these days trying to counter the complete attention hack that we are all subjugated to. In relation to sexuality, for example, there is this notion that performance is the proof that something happened rather than experience and rather than satisfaction. Who cares what you perform necessarily? People, especially women, have had sex for centuries and felt nothing. Doing it isn&rsquo;t what this is about.<br />
Sex isn&rsquo;t something you do, sex is a place you go inside yourself or with others or another. So, where do you go? What are the parts of you that you connect with? What do you seek to express through your sexuality?
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<span class="quote">A mindful description of sex is one not focused on positions and actions, but on qualitative experience&mdash;on the trip you take in which you are at the same time fully aware of yourself and fully outside yourself. </span>

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It&rsquo;s like you are inside your inner body and your outer body. You are simultaneously inside another, not their orifices, but their erotic being and it is that moment of joining these dualities that is so unique.

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In terms of fulfillment, sexuality today is not about a woman&rsquo;s marital duty nor strictly about reproduction (at least not in the West). We turn to sex primarily for pleasure and connection. Modern sexuality is rooted in desire and desire is about owning the wanting. It&rsquo;s about activating your free will. It&rsquo;s about free choice and sovereignty.

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Sex is not a part of your biology only. To experience pleasure and connection you need to be aware of what you are experiencing. It&rsquo;s very difficult to have pleasure without knowing that you&rsquo;re experiencing pleasure. It&rsquo;s very difficult to connect without knowing that you are connecting. In fact, you cannot.

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<h2>1440: You write in <em>The State of Affairs</em> that &ldquo;our desires, even our most illicit ones, are a feature of our humanity&rdquo; and yet it seems so many people struggle to fully understand, own, and satisfy their intimate desires. Why is this? How can we learn to better integrate the more illicit sides of ourselves into the whole?</h2>

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<em>Esther Perel</em>: To the first question&mdash;yes, we have transgressive urges. We all want rules and yet we want to break the rules that we have set up or that have been set up before us. The act of transgression gives people a feeling of freedom, and a sense of self determination.

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Trespassing the forbidden can be highly erotic. Sometimes when you are in a place where you&rsquo;re not supposed to be&mdash;even a place you decided was off limits&mdash;you feel you&rsquo;re really doing what you want by transcending rules and achieving autonomy. This feeling of liberation is what many unfaithful people talk about&mdash;a sense of feeling alive and experiencing eroticism as an antidote to death, or the deadness within.

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To the second question&mdash;to experience desire, which is wanting, you need to feel that you deserve to want&mdash;there needs to be an I that deserves wanting. Desire is intricately connected to self-worth. Self-worth is intricately connected to feeling lovable. Not loved, but lovable. It goes to the core, to the essence of ourselves. It&rsquo;s not just about what you&rsquo;re in the mood for&mdash;it&rsquo;s much deeper.

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<h2>1440: It sounds as though we need to give ourselves permission to even feel the wanting to begin with?</h2>

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<em>Esther Perel</em>: Yes&mdash;to feel worthy, to feel lovable, to feel desirable. That is not sexual per se, that&rsquo;s basic and then from there you enter the sexual realm. We need to feel that we deserve to be loved and deserve to be touched, to be delighted, to be cherished, to be adored, to be made love to, to receive, to be given to, to ask, to take our pleasure, to experience permission for that unadulterated greed that you feel in the height of passion. When all of that gets compromised, people experience it in their sexuality or in the way they eat or in the way they work.

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<span class="quote">We all live in this body. For some, the body is a beautiful ch&acirc;teau&mdash;a castle with multiple rooms where they love to linger and enjoy themselves. For others, the body is a jail from which they cannot wait to escape. So why would they welcome somebody else into a place in which they cannot stand to be? </span>

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And between those two extremes, many of us live in a body akin to a home that needs regular upkeep, a home we clean, renew, redecorate, and hope to grow old in.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/mindful-sex-and-the-thirst-for-connection-an-interview-with-esther-perel</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/mindful-sex-and-the-thirst-for-connection-an-interview-with-esther-perel#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Let Go and Appreciate: Lynne Twist on Money, Scarcity, and Sufficiency</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Lynne Twist</a> is the founder of the Soul of Money Institute, which aims to create a context of sufficiency, responsibility, and integrity for individuals and organizations in their relationship with money. She is the author of the best-selling <em>The Soul of Money: Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Life </em>and&nbsp;has worked with over 100,000 people in 50 countries on conscious philanthropy and strategic visioning.
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<h2>1440:&nbsp;Your book, <em>The Soul of Money</em>, explores the idea of how we can give soul to money. How do we do that? What does that look like?</h2>

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<em>Lynne Twist:&nbsp;</em>I see money as a carrier or a current that flows through every life. It&rsquo;s very much like water. Water can carry disease and pollution and infection. Water can also purify, cleanse, make things grow, and carry medicine. Water is innocent. It&rsquo;s how we use it and what we ask it to carry that makes it either purify, cleanse, poison, or toxify. It&rsquo;s really important on this planet to keep water moving.

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<span class="quote">When water is held and hoarded, or stuck, it becomes stagnant and actually becomes poisonous. Same thing with money. When we hoard and hold on to money as if we&rsquo;ve got to have it or it belongs to us, it starts to toxify.</span>

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It starts to stagnate. It starts to make us the slave of it.

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My understanding of money is that it needs to keep moving and that we can give money not only the capacity to move towards the highest good, but we can give it our wishes for the world, our intentionality, our clarity.

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<span class="quote">We can literally launder money for good. We can take money that is actually earned in ways that we&rsquo;re ashamed of and transform it by making it something that we use to make the world a better place.</span>

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I think about Alfred Nobel, who started the Nobel Prize. His great fortune came from gunpowder and dynamite. It came from uses that have become horribly destructive on this planet. Yet he knew that, ultimately, that fortune came to him so that he could create peace. The Peace Prize is an example of the transformation of money. I call it laundering money in the best possible way&mdash;cleansing it.

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<span class="quote">Money doesn&rsquo;t have soul. It is innocent, just like water. But we can imbue it with soul, with commitment, with vision, and send it into the world in a way that does good and makes a difference.</span>

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<h2>1440:&nbsp;You often talk about the myth or the lie of scarcity. What do you mean by that?</h2>

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<em>Lynne Twist:&nbsp;</em>I believe that we&rsquo;re all caught in an unconscious, unexamined system of beliefs that we don&rsquo;t even know we have. It&rsquo;s almost like you have on glasses that you&rsquo;ve worn so long that you don&rsquo;t realize they&rsquo;re not part of your body. And when you take them off, you see things very differently.

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We as a society, and this is particularly true for affluent societies, look through a lens of an unconscious, unexamined assumption that there&rsquo;s not enough to go around. It is a lens of scarcity that tells us we&rsquo;ve got to get more of this or more of that and that someone, somewhere, is going to be left out.

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And so, if you unconsciously believe that, then you accumulate more than you need to make sure that you and yours are not left out. And you consider that <em>responsible</em>. You don&rsquo;t want to be among those who are left out or have people you love or care about among those who are left out.

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This lens creates an &ldquo;us and them&rdquo; mentality. It&rsquo;s a deficit way of thinking about life.

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<span class="quote">When we think there&rsquo;s not enough, we start thinking we&rsquo;re not enough, and we start having a deficit relationship with ourselves, particularly in this consumer culture that believes very deeply in scarcity thinking.</span>

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That actually proliferates what I call the second toxic myth, which is that more is better:

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	<li>more of anything,&nbsp;more of everything</li>
	<li>more square feet in your house</li>
	<li>more market share</li>
	<li>more this, more that</li>
	<li>more Mondays, more Tuesdays</li>
	<li>more hours in the day, more hours in the night, more weekends, more everything.</li>
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This &ldquo;more is better&rdquo; mentality has us accumulating way more than we need and living a life that is cluttered with stuff&mdash;which leads us to the third toxic myth, which is &ldquo;that&rsquo;s just the way it is.&rdquo;

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These three toxic myths really govern our relationship with money and, in many ways, our relationship with life and with time. Together, they make up what I call the lie of scarcity&mdash;an unconscious, unexamined belief system that has us behaving in ways that are inconsistent with our humanity.

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<h2>1440:&nbsp;If and as we allow the toxic myths to take hold, we become sick. By many accounts, we are deeply ill where money is concerned. What is the path to wellness? How do we teach financial wellness to the next generation?</h2>

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<em>Lynne Twist:</em>&nbsp;I have a principle that I would love to share because I think it sort of says it all. It is called the principle of sufficiency. Sufficiency is distinct from abundance.

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<span class="quote">Sufficiency is the exquisite experience of <em>enough</em>, the exquisite experience of being met by the universe with exactly what you need over and over and over again. And I assert that that is already the case in every single person&rsquo;s life.</span>

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The principle of sufficiency is this: if you let go of trying to get more of what you don&rsquo;t really need, which is what our society and our material consumer culture kind of drives us to want more of, it frees up oceans of energy that are all tied up in that chase, that frantic chase, to turn and pay attention to what you already have. When you pay attention to what you already have, when you nourish it, when you&rsquo;re grateful for it, and when you share it, it expands.

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Let me say that again.

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When you let go of trying to get more of what you don&rsquo;t really need, it frees up oceans of energy to turn and pay attention to what you already have.

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<span class="quote">When you pay attention to what you already have, when you nourish it, when you&rsquo;re grateful for it, and when you share it, it expands. A shorter way of saying that is: what you appreciate appreciates.</span>

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<p><strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong></p>

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<p>Join Lynne Twist at&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Soul of Money</a>, March 20 &ndash; 22, 2020.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/let-go-and-appreciate-lynne-twist-on-money-scarcity-and-sufficiency</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/let-go-and-appreciate-lynne-twist-on-money-scarcity-and-sufficiency#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>Let Go and Appreciate: Lynne Twist on Money, Scarcity, and Sufficiency</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Lynne Twist</a> is the founder of the Soul of Money Institute, which aims to create a context of sufficiency, responsibility, and integrity for individuals and organizations in their relationship with money. She is the author of the best-selling <em>The Soul of Money: Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Life </em>and&nbsp;has worked with over 100,000 people in 50 countries on conscious philanthropy and strategic visioning.
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<h2>1440:&nbsp;Your book, <em>The Soul of Money</em>, explores the idea of how we can give soul to money. How do we do that? What does that look like?</h2>

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<em>Lynne Twist:&nbsp;</em>I see money as a carrier or a current that flows through every life. It&rsquo;s very much like water. Water can carry disease and pollution and infection. Water can also purify, cleanse, make things grow, and carry medicine. Water is innocent. It&rsquo;s how we use it and what we ask it to carry that makes it either purify, cleanse, poison, or toxify. It&rsquo;s really important on this planet to keep water moving.

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<span class="quote">When water is held and hoarded, or stuck, it becomes stagnant and actually becomes poisonous. Same thing with money. When we hoard and hold on to money as if we&rsquo;ve got to have it or it belongs to us, it starts to toxify.</span>

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It starts to stagnate. It starts to make us the slave of it.

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My understanding of money is that it needs to keep moving and that we can give money not only the capacity to move towards the highest good, but we can give it our wishes for the world, our intentionality, our clarity.

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<span class="quote">We can literally launder money for good. We can take money that is actually earned in ways that we&rsquo;re ashamed of and transform it by making it something that we use to make the world a better place.</span>

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I think about Alfred Nobel, who started the Nobel Prize. His great fortune came from gunpowder and dynamite. It came from uses that have become horribly destructive on this planet. Yet he knew that, ultimately, that fortune came to him so that he could create peace. The Peace Prize is an example of the transformation of money. I call it laundering money in the best possible way&mdash;cleansing it.

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<span class="quote">Money doesn&rsquo;t have soul. It is innocent, just like water. But we can imbue it with soul, with commitment, with vision, and send it into the world in a way that does good and makes a difference.</span>

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<h2>1440:&nbsp;You often talk about the myth or the lie of scarcity. What do you mean by that?</h2>

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<em>Lynne Twist:&nbsp;</em>I believe that we&rsquo;re all caught in an unconscious, unexamined system of beliefs that we don&rsquo;t even know we have. It&rsquo;s almost like you have on glasses that you&rsquo;ve worn so long that you don&rsquo;t realize they&rsquo;re not part of your body. And when you take them off, you see things very differently.

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We as a society, and this is particularly true for affluent societies, look through a lens of an unconscious, unexamined assumption that there&rsquo;s not enough to go around. It is a lens of scarcity that tells us we&rsquo;ve got to get more of this or more of that and that someone, somewhere, is going to be left out.

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And so, if you unconsciously believe that, then you accumulate more than you need to make sure that you and yours are not left out. And you consider that <em>responsible</em>. You don&rsquo;t want to be among those who are left out or have people you love or care about among those who are left out.

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This lens creates an &ldquo;us and them&rdquo; mentality. It&rsquo;s a deficit way of thinking about life.

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<span class="quote">When we think there&rsquo;s not enough, we start thinking we&rsquo;re not enough, and we start having a deficit relationship with ourselves, particularly in this consumer culture that believes very deeply in scarcity thinking.</span>

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That actually proliferates what I call the second toxic myth, which is that more is better:

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<ul>
	<li>more of anything,&nbsp;more of everything</li>
	<li>more square feet in your house</li>
	<li>more market share</li>
	<li>more this, more that</li>
	<li>more Mondays, more Tuesdays</li>
	<li>more hours in the day, more hours in the night, more weekends, more everything.</li>
</ul>

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This &ldquo;more is better&rdquo; mentality has us accumulating way more than we need and living a life that is cluttered with stuff&mdash;which leads us to the third toxic myth, which is &ldquo;that&rsquo;s just the way it is.&rdquo;

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These three toxic myths really govern our relationship with money and, in many ways, our relationship with life and with time. Together, they make up what I call the lie of scarcity&mdash;an unconscious, unexamined belief system that has us behaving in ways that are inconsistent with our humanity.

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<h2>1440:&nbsp;If and as we allow the toxic myths to take hold, we become sick. By many accounts, we are deeply ill where money is concerned. What is the path to wellness? How do we teach financial wellness to the next generation?</h2>

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<em>Lynne Twist:</em>&nbsp;I have a principle that I would love to share because I think it sort of says it all. It is called the principle of sufficiency. Sufficiency is distinct from abundance.

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<span class="quote">Sufficiency is the exquisite experience of <em>enough</em>, the exquisite experience of being met by the universe with exactly what you need over and over and over again. And I assert that that is already the case in every single person&rsquo;s life.</span>

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The principle of sufficiency is this: if you let go of trying to get more of what you don&rsquo;t really need, which is what our society and our material consumer culture kind of drives us to want more of, it frees up oceans of energy that are all tied up in that chase, that frantic chase, to turn and pay attention to what you already have. When you pay attention to what you already have, when you nourish it, when you&rsquo;re grateful for it, and when you share it, it expands.

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Let me say that again.

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When you let go of trying to get more of what you don&rsquo;t really need, it frees up oceans of energy to turn and pay attention to what you already have.

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<span class="quote">When you pay attention to what you already have, when you nourish it, when you&rsquo;re grateful for it, and when you share it, it expands. A shorter way of saying that is: what you appreciate appreciates.</span>

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<p><strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Join Lynne Twist at&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Soul of Money</a>, March 20 &ndash; 22, 2020.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/let-go-and-appreciate-lynne-twist-on-money-scarcity-and-sufficiency</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/let-go-and-appreciate-lynne-twist-on-money-scarcity-and-sufficiency#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Lessons from the Field: The Science of Happiness</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Emiliana R. Simon-Thomas, PhD</a>, is the science director of the Greater Good Science Center, where she oversees the GGSC&rsquo;s fellowship program, is a co-instructor of its Science of Happiness course, and helps run its&nbsp;Expanding Gratitude&nbsp;project. Emiliana is a leading expert on the neuroscience and psychology of compassion, kindness, gratitude, and other &ldquo;pro-social&rdquo; skills. She speaks and teaches about happiness science to audiences in business, healthcare, academia, government, and other sectors around the world.
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Along with <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Jack Kornfield</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Richard Davidson</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Barbara Fredrickson</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Lama Tsomo</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Eve Ekman</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dacher Keltner</a>, and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Jason Marsh</a>, Emiliana will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Science of Happiness</a> at 1440 Multiversity from May 2 &ndash; 5, 2019.<strong>&nbsp;</strong>

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Everyone wants to know how to use scientific research to guide their inalienably endowed right to pursue happiness: their own, and that of the communities they live and work in. While neither the field as a whole nor our work at Greater Good Science Center can provide all the answers, I&rsquo;ve drawn upon feedback from students, discussion boards, Q&amp;As during my talks, and more to distill the three realizations about happiness that tend to be the most moving, motivating, and surprising to people.

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<h2><strong>Most of us get happiness wrong</strong></h2>

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Happiness is not a new idea, nor does the average person struggle with explaining what it means. Even in the research, a standard measure of happiness presumes that people have an intuitive sense of it and can accurately and reliably place themselves on a scale from &ldquo;Not a very happy person&rdquo; to &ldquo;A very happy person.&rdquo; Knowing what happiness is, however, does not make the average person good at pursuing it.

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<span class="quote">The first mistake that people make is equating happiness, the overarching quality of life, with the temporary enjoyment we feel in response to something pleasurable. </span>

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Why is this a problem? Well, if happiness is equivalent to momentary enjoyment, then the logical conclusion is that happiness will emerge from stringing together a perpetual sequence of enjoyable moments. As one of my long-ago college classmates counseled a friend, &ldquo;All that matters in life is sex and money.&rdquo; Wrong. Happiness will not arise from striving to accumulate increasingly pleasurable and luxurious things, or striving to constantly feel and convey bubbly cheer and enthusiasm (to &ldquo;be positive&rdquo;).

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University of North Carolina professor Barbara Fredrickson&rsquo;s research does suggest that positive emotional experiences contribute importantly to overall happiness. But people who put all their effort and resources into maximizing pleasure often do so at the expense of socializing or helping others, and end up less happy. Similarly, trying to feel good all the time, according to work by Professors Iris Mauss and June Gruber, actually gets in the way of happiness.

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When it comes to feelings and happiness, the trick, it seems, is:

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<ul>
	<li>to readily experience pleasure at the right times&mdash;e.g., to laugh when the joke is funny, savor the delicious food, bask in the warmth of affection, and capitalize on those feelings so they last;</li>
	<li>to acknowledge and express feelings that arise under more difficult circumstances, like anger, sadness, and fear, as they signal important information about what to do next; and then</li>
	<li>to practice resilience so we can recover from these states gracefully and learn from them.</li>
</ul>

<h2><strong>Mindfulness is key</strong></h2>

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Over the past 30 years, we&rsquo;ve seen rapidly expanding scientific inquiry into mindfulness, defined both as a deliberate exercise (meditation) or a more general manner that involves attending to the present moment with kindness, gentleness, and compassion. Basically, wherever researchers look, mindfulness (if not taken to extremes or applied to extreme circumstances) is beneficial.

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<span class="quote">From a happiness standpoint, mindfulness can be considered both a launching pad and a catalyst. </span>

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As a launching pad, mindfulness offers people a technique for noticing their existing habits of thinking and feeling, and exploring whether any of their beliefs, biases, or habits might be getting in the way of happiness.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
For example, do you reflexively, though perhaps inexplicably, hate apologizing? Given evidence that apologies reduce chronic stress and increase happiness and productivity in apologizers and recipients, could mindfulness enable you to explore that aversion, and perhaps tinker with it?

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Some of the most compelling evidence that suggests mindfulness might be a catalyst to happiness comes from the Track Your Happiness iPhone app, which pings thousands of people all over the world to share their activities and feelings throughout the day.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>The Science of Happiness </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Jack Kornfield, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Barbara Fredrickson, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Richard Davidson, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Reverend Jennifer Bailey,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Lama Tsomo, MA,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Emiliana Simon-Thomas, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Dacher Keltner, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Zahra Noorbakhsh,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Eve Ekman, MSW, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Jason Marsh</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">May 2 - 5, 2019</div>
What does it mean to live a happy, meaningful life? How do you respond with resilience to life&rsquo;s unavoidable stresses and disappointments? How can you forge compassionate connections at a time of extreme busyness, isolation, and division? Hundreds of thousands...</div>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
As app founder and scientist Matt Killingsworth reported in <em>Science</em>, findings suggest that people enjoy what they are doing more if they are focused on what they are doing, right when they are doing it. From waiting in line to watching movies, if we&rsquo;re paying attention to this instead of thinking about something else, we tend to be enjoying it more.

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<span class="quote">In a similar vein, other studies report that mindfulness increases enjoyment of chocolate and sex. </span>

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<h2><strong>Cultivating happiness takes work</strong></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Like learning to play the ukulele, boosting our overall happiness level is not something we can do in one sitting. Throughout the Science of Happiness course, we emphasize the recurring finding that, all things considered, the most promising way to ratchet up happiness is to invest in social relationships&mdash;strengthen our connections, hone habits of kindness, and do work that contributes to something greater than ourselves.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Regrettably, particularly in the United States, social norms don&rsquo;t favor these objectives. Human capacities that drive caretaking, goodwill, and serving the greater good are less valued and thus have less and less influence on our day-to-day experiences. Instead, the environments that we spend most of our time in, like schools and workplaces, focus more on independence, self-determination, and peer competition.

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<span class="quote">Cultural norms like these hone our expertise in self-focus. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
We get really good at maximizing self-interest and being suspicious of anything that threatens our wealth or reputation.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Like physical therapy after an injury, it takes commitment to strengthen and reclaim the function of our core &ldquo;pro-social&rdquo; demeanor&mdash;to learn skills around trust, reconciliation, and teamwork. To do this, most of us need to unravel some of our existing habits and be vulnerable. Holding grudges, for example, can feel righteous and core to who we are and where we stand.

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<span class="quote">Forgiveness, on the other hand, lowers blood pressure, improves cardiovascular health, and fuels social ease and connection. </span>

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But it&rsquo;s hard to let go. Like stripping out the crumbling foundation of a building and rebuilding it to last, the pursuit of happiness is a deliberate and sometimes-fragile process that requires continued effort.

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Whenever I teach the science of happiness, I try to leave people with something they can do right after they walk out of the room. Often the simplest, most accessible message is gratitude.

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<span class="quote">Feeling grateful fosters a more accurate understanding of happiness, strengthening our social connections and motivating us to engage and give back to others. </span>

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Gratitude is often a theme of mindfulness practices, and is squarely focused on the role that others play in our own life&rsquo;s goodness. Reflecting upon and expressing gratitude is an exercise in capitalizing on enjoyment, building trust, and softening self-focus; we acknowledge what is good and attribute the source of that goodness to others, and this can help anyone avoid the common pitfalls of pursuing happiness.

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How can we get better at expressing gratitude? Try this: when thanking someone, 1) say what they did that you are thankful for, 2) acknowledge the effort it took for them to do this, and 3) describe how it was good for you. <em>Thank you, reader, for taking the time to read this article; I know you could be doing many other interesting things with your time, and, for me, knowing that people are engaging with the ideas I aim to share brings purpose and meaning to my work.</em>

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This article originally appeared on <a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu"><em>Greater Good</em></a>, the online magazine of the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/lessons-from-the-field-the-science-of-happiness</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/lessons-from-the-field-the-science-of-happiness#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>Lessons from the Field: The Science of Happiness</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Emiliana R. Simon-Thomas, PhD</a>, is the science director of the Greater Good Science Center, where she oversees the GGSC&rsquo;s fellowship program, is a co-instructor of its Science of Happiness course, and helps run its&nbsp;Expanding Gratitude&nbsp;project. Emiliana is a leading expert on the neuroscience and psychology of compassion, kindness, gratitude, and other &ldquo;pro-social&rdquo; skills. She speaks and teaches about happiness science to audiences in business, healthcare, academia, government, and other sectors around the world.
<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Along with <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Jack Kornfield</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Richard Davidson</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Barbara Fredrickson</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Lama Tsomo</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Eve Ekman</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dacher Keltner</a>, and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Jason Marsh</a>, Emiliana will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Science of Happiness</a> at 1440 Multiversity from May 2 &ndash; 5, 2019.<strong>&nbsp;</strong>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Everyone wants to know how to use scientific research to guide their inalienably endowed right to pursue happiness: their own, and that of the communities they live and work in. While neither the field as a whole nor our work at Greater Good Science Center can provide all the answers, I&rsquo;ve drawn upon feedback from students, discussion boards, Q&amp;As during my talks, and more to distill the three realizations about happiness that tend to be the most moving, motivating, and surprising to people.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2><strong>Most of us get happiness wrong</strong></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Happiness is not a new idea, nor does the average person struggle with explaining what it means. Even in the research, a standard measure of happiness presumes that people have an intuitive sense of it and can accurately and reliably place themselves on a scale from &ldquo;Not a very happy person&rdquo; to &ldquo;A very happy person.&rdquo; Knowing what happiness is, however, does not make the average person good at pursuing it.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">The first mistake that people make is equating happiness, the overarching quality of life, with the temporary enjoyment we feel in response to something pleasurable. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Why is this a problem? Well, if happiness is equivalent to momentary enjoyment, then the logical conclusion is that happiness will emerge from stringing together a perpetual sequence of enjoyable moments. As one of my long-ago college classmates counseled a friend, &ldquo;All that matters in life is sex and money.&rdquo; Wrong. Happiness will not arise from striving to accumulate increasingly pleasurable and luxurious things, or striving to constantly feel and convey bubbly cheer and enthusiasm (to &ldquo;be positive&rdquo;).

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
University of North Carolina professor Barbara Fredrickson&rsquo;s research does suggest that positive emotional experiences contribute importantly to overall happiness. But people who put all their effort and resources into maximizing pleasure often do so at the expense of socializing or helping others, and end up less happy. Similarly, trying to feel good all the time, according to work by Professors Iris Mauss and June Gruber, actually gets in the way of happiness.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
When it comes to feelings and happiness, the trick, it seems, is:

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<ul>
	<li>to readily experience pleasure at the right times&mdash;e.g., to laugh when the joke is funny, savor the delicious food, bask in the warmth of affection, and capitalize on those feelings so they last;</li>
	<li>to acknowledge and express feelings that arise under more difficult circumstances, like anger, sadness, and fear, as they signal important information about what to do next; and then</li>
	<li>to practice resilience so we can recover from these states gracefully and learn from them.</li>
</ul>

<h2><strong>Mindfulness is key</strong></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Over the past 30 years, we&rsquo;ve seen rapidly expanding scientific inquiry into mindfulness, defined both as a deliberate exercise (meditation) or a more general manner that involves attending to the present moment with kindness, gentleness, and compassion. Basically, wherever researchers look, mindfulness (if not taken to extremes or applied to extreme circumstances) is beneficial.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">From a happiness standpoint, mindfulness can be considered both a launching pad and a catalyst. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
As a launching pad, mindfulness offers people a technique for noticing their existing habits of thinking and feeling, and exploring whether any of their beliefs, biases, or habits might be getting in the way of happiness.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
For example, do you reflexively, though perhaps inexplicably, hate apologizing? Given evidence that apologies reduce chronic stress and increase happiness and productivity in apologizers and recipients, could mindfulness enable you to explore that aversion, and perhaps tinker with it?

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Some of the most compelling evidence that suggests mindfulness might be a catalyst to happiness comes from the Track Your Happiness iPhone app, which pings thousands of people all over the world to share their activities and feelings throughout the day.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<div class="blog-img"><img alt="" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/ScienceOfHappiness-324x215.JPG" /></div>

<div class="blog-img-text">
<div class="post-card-title"><strong>The Science of Happiness </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Jack Kornfield, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Barbara Fredrickson, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Richard Davidson, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Reverend Jennifer Bailey,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Lama Tsomo, MA,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Emiliana Simon-Thomas, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Dacher Keltner, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Zahra Noorbakhsh,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Eve Ekman, MSW, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Jason Marsh</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">May 2 - 5, 2019</div>
What does it mean to live a happy, meaningful life? How do you respond with resilience to life&rsquo;s unavoidable stresses and disappointments? How can you forge compassionate connections at a time of extreme busyness, isolation, and division? Hundreds of thousands...</div>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
As app founder and scientist Matt Killingsworth reported in <em>Science</em>, findings suggest that people enjoy what they are doing more if they are focused on what they are doing, right when they are doing it. From waiting in line to watching movies, if we&rsquo;re paying attention to this instead of thinking about something else, we tend to be enjoying it more.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">In a similar vein, other studies report that mindfulness increases enjoyment of chocolate and sex. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2><strong>Cultivating happiness takes work</strong></h2>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Like learning to play the ukulele, boosting our overall happiness level is not something we can do in one sitting. Throughout the Science of Happiness course, we emphasize the recurring finding that, all things considered, the most promising way to ratchet up happiness is to invest in social relationships&mdash;strengthen our connections, hone habits of kindness, and do work that contributes to something greater than ourselves.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Regrettably, particularly in the United States, social norms don&rsquo;t favor these objectives. Human capacities that drive caretaking, goodwill, and serving the greater good are less valued and thus have less and less influence on our day-to-day experiences. Instead, the environments that we spend most of our time in, like schools and workplaces, focus more on independence, self-determination, and peer competition.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Cultural norms like these hone our expertise in self-focus. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
We get really good at maximizing self-interest and being suspicious of anything that threatens our wealth or reputation.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Like physical therapy after an injury, it takes commitment to strengthen and reclaim the function of our core &ldquo;pro-social&rdquo; demeanor&mdash;to learn skills around trust, reconciliation, and teamwork. To do this, most of us need to unravel some of our existing habits and be vulnerable. Holding grudges, for example, can feel righteous and core to who we are and where we stand.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Forgiveness, on the other hand, lowers blood pressure, improves cardiovascular health, and fuels social ease and connection. </span>

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But it&rsquo;s hard to let go. Like stripping out the crumbling foundation of a building and rebuilding it to last, the pursuit of happiness is a deliberate and sometimes-fragile process that requires continued effort.

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Whenever I teach the science of happiness, I try to leave people with something they can do right after they walk out of the room. Often the simplest, most accessible message is gratitude.

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<span class="quote">Feeling grateful fosters a more accurate understanding of happiness, strengthening our social connections and motivating us to engage and give back to others. </span>

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Gratitude is often a theme of mindfulness practices, and is squarely focused on the role that others play in our own life&rsquo;s goodness. Reflecting upon and expressing gratitude is an exercise in capitalizing on enjoyment, building trust, and softening self-focus; we acknowledge what is good and attribute the source of that goodness to others, and this can help anyone avoid the common pitfalls of pursuing happiness.

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How can we get better at expressing gratitude? Try this: when thanking someone, 1) say what they did that you are thankful for, 2) acknowledge the effort it took for them to do this, and 3) describe how it was good for you. <em>Thank you, reader, for taking the time to read this article; I know you could be doing many other interesting things with your time, and, for me, knowing that people are engaging with the ideas I aim to share brings purpose and meaning to my work.</em>

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This article originally appeared on <a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu"><em>Greater Good</em></a>, the online magazine of the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/lessons-from-the-field-the-science-of-happiness</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/lessons-from-the-field-the-science-of-happiness#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Create Space and Improve Your Parenting: An Interview with Dr. Shefali</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/"><strong>Shefali&nbsp;Tsabary, PhD</strong></a><strong>,&nbsp;</strong>is an international speaker, acclaimed author, and creator of the groundbreaking Conscious Parenting approach&mdash;which Oprah Winfrey has endorsed as revolutionary and life-changing. Dr. Shefali&rsquo;s blend of clinical psychology and Eastern mindfulness sets her apart as a leader in the field of mindfulness psychology. Her&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;best-selling books include&nbsp;<em>The Conscious Parent</em>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<em>The Awakened Family</em>.
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<h2>1440: Emotional reactivity is pretty much the exact opposite of mindfulness. And, yet, parenthood is a time of so many exhausting and emotionally acute moments that trigger us. How can parents work to overcome their own reactivity and embrace consciousness?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Shefali:</em> This is the core task. This is the core spiritual task of a conscious parent&mdash;to understand that it is in this journey that the reactivity of old triggers and old wounds will be the most intense. Therefore, you could look at parenting as an opportunity, or you could look at it as a calling to be stressed and overwhelmed. If you look at it as an opportunity, then you learn that reactivity is the default, and transcending reactivity is the call of consciousness.

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<span class="quote">Reactivity is really a desire to control because you&rsquo;re feeling out of control. </span>

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You react because you&rsquo;re feeling helpless and you believe that through the reaction, through the punishment, through the control, you will regain some of the lack of helplessness. You will regain ground and feel more powerful.

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When you first understand the dynamics, you see why we react&mdash;because we feel helpless and we believe subconsciously that if we react, we will create the compensation to helplessness. Discipline and punishment are offshoots of this desire to regain power. So, what do we do when we realize this? The key is to step back&mdash;that&rsquo;s what mindfulness allows&mdash;and create the ability to detach from what we&rsquo;re believing.

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<span class="quote">In the out-of-control moment, we&rsquo;re believing that <em>I am a bad parent</em>, <em>I am helpless</em>, <em>I have no choice</em>. </span>

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Mindfulness helps us step back from those disempowering thoughts and have the ability, the space, and the expansiveness to create other thoughts: <em>I&rsquo;m not helpless</em>. <em>I am okay</em>. <em>This is normal</em>. <em>This will pass</em>. These thoughts are soothing, they come from your adult self rather than your inner child.

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When you are able to transcend reactivity, you discover different choices. Creating space enables this. You take a time out. You walk. You pause. You don&rsquo;t catastrophize. You breathe. You count to ten. Then, you see other options for how to respond.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Deep Dive into Conscious Parenting </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Shefali Tsabary, PhD</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">April 5 - 7, 2019</div>
Almost every family and parent-child relationship is first conceived with the intention of love and respect. And although we think, as parents, that it is our responsibility to mold and shape our children&rsquo;s future, the reality is often far more...</div>

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<h2>1440: What about parents who can&rsquo;t transcend, or haven&rsquo;t yet evolved the capacity to see their old wounds? What about parents who simply feel the anxiety and hear the confirmation from peers that parenting is an overwhelming, exhausting, anxious time&mdash;and that&rsquo;s just how it is?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Shefali:</em> When you don&rsquo;t see your own patterns, when you&rsquo;re not conscious, you&rsquo;re simply under siege from the constant tantrumming and protesting of your inner child. So much so that the inner child runs the ship, and takes over the car, and it runs amuck through the town. And you don&rsquo;t even see it happening&mdash;because you&rsquo;re that asleep.

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<span class="quote">That&rsquo;s why it is so scary to be unconscious: your inner child is in the driver&rsquo;s seat. </span>

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The process of consciousness means, psychologically, understanding that your inner child needs to be soothed. You&rsquo;re being triggered because your inner child is in fear. You have to go through a whole process of psychological and spiritual evolution to transcend the old conditioning.

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<h2>1440: Let&rsquo;s talk about discipline. You suggest that old-school techniques&mdash;timeouts, punishments, loss of privileges&mdash;are often invoked to stop kids from exhibiting behaviors that trigger parents. Does that mean the evolution of self-awareness in parents omits the need for discipline? Or is there room for discipline in a conscious parenting approach?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Shefali:&nbsp;</em>I don&rsquo;t focus on discipline because the only person that needs to be disciplined is the parent&rsquo;s own inner child. But I talk about the need for boundaries. I talk about the need for limits. I talk about the need for connection. Traditional discipline is a surefire saboteur of connection because it&rsquo;s based on a fear-based power/control model.

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<span class="quote">New discipline requires the parent to step within and ask: <em>What is needed here? What kind of boundary does my child need? Why am I afraid to create the boundary? How can I create the boundary to build a connection?</em> </span>

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And then the parent must seek to create the action that needs to be taken versus seeking to punish the child because the parent feels badly. Most punishments are just arbitrary, random, lazy forms of knee-jerk reactivity that we call discipline. But that&rsquo;s not discipline. Because now the parent is out of control, and the parent needs discipline.

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<h2>1440: We live in a culture where marriages frequently don&rsquo;t last, and children of divorce often face a culture clash between two households. What is the impact on a child when one parent is committed to a conscious approach, and the other is not? How would you would advise families in which the parents&mdash;whether together or apart&mdash;are not philosophically aligned?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Shefali:&nbsp;</em>This is most common question I get asked&mdash;the most common.

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Lack of alignment is more typical than not. And when you&rsquo;re conscious, you understand <em>why</em> it&rsquo;s more typical than not because consciousness is not the mainstream way, and it&rsquo;s extremely hard to follow, and it&rsquo;s extremely hard for many, especially men, to get on board with this kind of approach. So, I tell the one who&rsquo;s conscious on this path:

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<span class="quote">Expect to be lonely. Expect to clash with your partner. But know that you have the tools to shine brightly. </span>

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And don&rsquo;t expect miracles, and don&rsquo;t begrudge your partner for not walking this path. But, yes, it will make it harder for you, and you may divorce because of it. But children don&rsquo;t get more screwed up because of it&mdash;it is better for them to have one than none.

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<h2>1440: Do you think that is a myth that parents struggle with&mdash;this concept of a need for alignment?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Shefali:&nbsp;</em>It&rsquo;s a front. I say that the notion of parents providing a united front is mostly a front. You&rsquo;re supposed to be different from your spouse. How can you be the same? If you&rsquo;re the same, that&rsquo;s wonderful. But please be similarly <em>evolved</em>. Very few people choose partners who are evolved in their twenties. So, it&rsquo;s great if both grow&mdash;it&rsquo;s amazing. But don&rsquo;t be surprised if it doesn&rsquo;t happen. Don&rsquo;t be depressed if it isn&rsquo;t happening.

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<h2>1440: Stepping beyond family structure for a moment&mdash;the onslaught of fear-based thinking is a terribly real force in America. We see this reflected in so many narratives&mdash;gun violence, immigration, gender and sexuality, to name a few. What can parents do to identify their own fear-based thinking, and help their children navigate it?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Shefali:&nbsp;</em>Yes, here is the root cause of all ills and all -isms in our society. And fear emerges because the parent was fed a delusional belief that they are separate from themselves, and separate from divinity. And when you grow up with the <em>separate</em> mindset, it&rsquo;s quite natural that you are filled with biases, prejudices, and projections.

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How do you become aware of it?

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<span class="quote">You begin to awaken when you realize you&rsquo;re living stressfully, you&rsquo;re living competitively, you&rsquo;re living comparing yourself, you&rsquo;re living attached, deeply attached, to your possessions and your ego. </span>

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But to be frank, so few people awaken to this. So they live addicted to fear.

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Eventually, people will wake up, but this is how they&rsquo;ve been conditioned, so to break out of this prison of fear is extremely hard, and it often takes pain to knock us out of it. That&rsquo;s why people often need to hit some sort of big tragedy, or rock bottom, or terminal illness before they wake up.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-create-space-and-improve-your-parenting-an-interview-with-dr-shefali</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-create-space-and-improve-your-parenting-an-interview-with-dr-shefali#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Break Unhealthy Relationship Patterns</title><description><![CDATA[Two questions I&rsquo;ve heard frequently in my 30-plus years working with clients are:
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	<li>&ldquo;Why do my attempts at relationships keep ending in failure?&rdquo;</li>
	<li>&ldquo;Are my standards too high? No one I want seems to want me.&rdquo;</li>
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The truth is that we all have different internal struggles that get in our way when it comes to finding and maintaining the love we say we want. However, there are certain patterns we bring to our relationships that are based on our past and that often lead us to the same relationship outcomes. The good news is, if we can be open, curious, and willing to explore these patterns and where they come from, we can take a great deal of power over our romantic lives. We can change our romantic destiny and enjoy closer, healthier, and more fulfilling relationships.

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Understanding and changing unhealthy relationship habits involves looking into our past. The first thing we can do is explore our attachment history.

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<span class="quote">The attachments we experience at the start of our lives serve as models for how we expect to be treated. </span>

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Our early attachment patterns help establish how we feel about ourselves as well as how we think we have to behave in order to get what we want and need in life and in relationships.

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For example, having a parent who was intermittently available or emotionally hungry toward us can leave us with an anxious attachment. We may have felt worried, like we had to work extra hard to get noticed, to get their attention, to feel safe, seen, or soothed. As a result, we may grow up feeling insecure toward our romantic partners, believing we have to make things happen, being preoccupied and unsure of whether they love us, often anticipating disappointment or rejection.

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On the other hand, if we had a parent who was emotionally neglectful or unavailable, that may have led us to form an avoidant attachment in which we disconnected from having needs, because it was too painful, frustrating, and shame-inducing to feel them. As adults, we may grow up to feel pseudo-independent, distrusting, or dismissing of others, wary of closeness and intolerant of others having needs. With romantic partners, we may create emotional distance and feel uncomfortable with them wanting anything from us.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Breaking Patterns to Achieve Better Relationships </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Lisa Firestone, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Joyce Catlett, MA</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">May 11 - 13, 2018</div>
Interpersonal relationships are the ultimate source of happiness and of challenges. What are the factors that determine whether partners will end up experiencing love and fulfillment in their relationships? This workshop helps you answer that question by providing a theoretical...</div>

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The ways we were treated when we were young led us to establish certain defenses that were adaptive to our early environment but go on to serve as barriers in our adult relationships. Understanding our adaptations and attachment patterns can give us valuable information about what we bring to our relationships:

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	<li>How are these experiences affecting who I choose or the ways I view my partners?</li>
	<li>How do they influence how I act in my relationships?</li>
	<li>Am I perpetuating an old, negative cycle that leaves me in a state that&rsquo;s emotionally familiar?</li>
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In the research and clinical work my father, psychologist Robert Firestone, and I have done, we have found that people tend to recreate their past in the present. We often accomplish this by selecting, distorting, or provoking our partners to fit with old dynamics and reaffirm negative feelings we&rsquo;ve long had about ourselves.

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<strong>Selection&mdash;</strong>Our initial attractions can be tricky, because sometimes the very thing that compels us toward another person can ultimately be the very thing that hurts us down the line. We may be intrigued by someone who&rsquo;s &ldquo;mysterious&rdquo; and &ldquo;aloof.&rdquo; We may feel drawn in by someone who &ldquo;comes on strong&rdquo; and &ldquo;fills the room.&rdquo; Ultimately, we may find these same traits frustrating when the person turns out to be cold and distant or intrusive and controlling. Without realizing it, we often choose people who play out the other half of a painful dynamic from our past, thus repeating patterns and reaffirming beliefs about relationships.

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<strong>Distortion&mdash;</strong>Even when we choose a partner with qualities we love and respect, we may wind up distorting the other person to fit into our preexisting models for relationships. We may perceive their natural interest or attraction toward us as &ldquo;too much&rdquo; or &ldquo;needy.&rdquo; We may mistake their enthusiasm for other friends or activities as signs of rejection or disinterest. We may misread our partner&rsquo;s tone or overanalyze their behavior to fit with old expectations and ideas we have about ourselves and relationships. In this way, we are no longer seeing the person for who they are but through a faulty lens based on our own history.

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<strong>Provocation&mdash;</strong>In a relationship, we&rsquo;re rarely aware of the behaviors that we ourselves engage in that provoke our partner to act out patterns from our past. If we grew up feeling rejected, we may act insecure or aggressive in ways that alienate our partner. If we felt intruded on, we may push away our partner, leaving them to feel like they have to be more proactive and pursuing. We may even get our partner to say things to us that represent critical thoughts that were directed toward us early in our lives. For example, if we were treated as incapable as kids, we may grow up with &ldquo;critical inner voices&rdquo; telling us we&rsquo;re stupid or useless. In our relationship, we may start being forgetful or irresponsible in ways that provoke our partner to say and feel things toward us that reaffirm a core, negative sense of our identity.

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Through many years of working with couples and individuals who are engaging in these patterns, I have identified methods that help people change their attachment patterns and defensive adaptations that were survival mechanisms when they were young, but that are now serving as barriers to them getting the love they say they want.

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<span class="quote">When they are able to identify their attachment patterns and work through unresolved issues from their past, they can move toward forming secure attachments. </span>

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When they catch on to the ways they select, distort, and provoke their partners to recreate the climate of their past, they can start to break these patterns by dropping their half of the dynamic and developing ways of relating that reflect who they want to be in their relationships. When people challenge their existing ideas and models they have for relationships, they can have more love in their life, create better relationships, and have more inner security.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Lisa Firestone</a>&nbsp;will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Breaking Patterns to Achieve Better Relationships&nbsp;</a>&nbsp;with <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Joyce Catlett</a> on May 11&nbsp;&ndash; 13, 2018, at 1440 Multiversity.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-break-unhealthy-relationship-patterns</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-break-unhealthy-relationship-patterns#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How Kindness Can Improve Your Life: Wisdom from Sylvia Boorstein</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sylvia Boorstein</a>, MSW, PhD is the author of numerous books on Buddhist philosophy and meditation practice, including&nbsp;<em>That&rsquo;s Funny, You Don&rsquo;t Look Buddhist: On Being a Faithful Jew and a Passionate Buddhist; It&rsquo;s Easier Than You Think: The Buddhist Way to Happiness;</em>&nbsp;and<em>&nbsp;Happiness Is&nbsp;an&nbsp;Inside Job: Practicing for a Joyful Life. </em>She is a founding teacher of Spirit Rock Meditation Center in Woodacre, California. Sylvia has been teaching nationally and internationally since 1985. Her personal emphasis in teaching is the integration of mindfulness into everyday life.&nbsp;
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<h2>1440: What&rsquo;s the most important attribute we can develop?</h2>

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<em>Sylvia Boorstein:</em> The Dalai Lama once said, &ldquo;My religion is kindness.&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">I think everybody&rsquo;s religions are about kindness even if they don&rsquo;t frame it that way. </span>

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Either explicitly or implicitly the core teachings are that it&rsquo;s a kindness to give up egocentricity and to love your neighbor as yourself. That includes the country next door that we might be fighting with or my neighbor whose fig tree is dropping figs on my property that are mushing up my lawn.

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<h2>1440: What about kindness toward ourselves?</h2>

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<em>Sylvia Boorstein:</em> The Buddha taught kindness towards everyone, including oneself. If I get mad at my neighbor next door, or if I nullify the country next door, I pollute my own mind. It is a kindness to give away or let go of antipathy. Charity is a kindness. Keeping everything for yourself walls off other people. Give it away; you don&rsquo;t need it all.

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<h2>1440: People often say you have to love yourself before you can love others. What do you think about that?</h2>

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<em>Sylvia Boorstein:</em> I don&rsquo;t believe it when people say, &ldquo;I can offer compassion, sympathy, empathy to everyone else, but I can&rsquo;t send it to myself.&rdquo; That doesn&rsquo;t make any sense at all. I understand that some people are embittered by their own story or circumstances, but I don&rsquo;t think that if you&rsquo;re embittered you can possibly be genuinely, completely loving with other people and wish them well. If you are truly loving in an unembittered way, then you are included in that. You have already established your loving heart. Who else&rsquo;s heart would be doing the loving?

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<h2>1440: How can kindness help us deal with emotions like anger, judgment, and shame?</h2>

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<em>Sylvia Boorstein:</em> If I&rsquo;m in an embittered and angry mode, I am fouling up my own mind. It&rsquo;s like living in the middle of a steel town with smoke in the air and saying, &ldquo;My house is not affected by this smoke.&rdquo; It&rsquo;s not possible.

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<span class="quote">Each one of us is like an antenna&mdash;we can&rsquo;t broadcast the music without being part of it. </span>

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This doesn&rsquo;t mean we won&rsquo;t experience a sense of shame or failure or anger. But when we do we can have compassion and remind ourselves that everybody did the best they could. They really did. Nobody could have done other than what they did, even you. Extending kindness and compassion to yourself and others is the best response to these emotions.

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-kindness-can-improve-your-life-wisdom-from-sylvia-boorstein</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-kindness-can-improve-your-life-wisdom-from-sylvia-boorstein#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Hearing Voices? You’re Not Alone: Understanding Internal Family Systems with Dr. Richard Schwartz</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Richard Schwartz</a>, PhD, is the founding developer of Internal Family Systems (IFS), a therapeutic model that synthesizes systems thinking and the multiplicity of the mind, suggesting alternative ways of understanding psychic functioning and healing. Dr. Schwartz coauthored, with Michael Nichols,&nbsp;<em>Family Therapy: Concepts and Methods</em>, the most widely used family therapy text in the United States.
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<h2>1440: How did you develop the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model of therapy?</h2>

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<em>Richard Schwartz:</em> I was trained as a family therapist and was one of those obnoxiously zealous people who thought he found the Holy Grail and wanted to prove it. So I did an outcome study with bulimic clients in the early 1980s and found that even if I reorganized families just the way the textbooks said to do it, still some of my clients kept binging and purging.

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Out of frustration I began asking what was happening inside them, and they basically started teaching me about what I eventually came to call the IFS model.

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<span class="quote">They would describe these parts of themselves and at first I thought that was an interesting metaphor for their feelings. </span>

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But they described these parts being able to make them do things they didn&rsquo;t want to do, so I wondered if these were multiple personality disorder clients.

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Then I noticed I had these voices too, so I got real curious about it.

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<h2>1440: Are these voices the internalized voices of our parents or society?</h2>

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<em>Richard Schwartz:</em> That&rsquo;s what I thought at first&mdash;that the inner critic was some kind of internalized parental voice and the binge was an out of control impulse. But as I worked with them and got to know them, it became clear that they were like inner personalities, most of whom were just trying to help my clients stay safe.

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<h2>1440: Are we born with these parts?</h2>

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<em>Richard Schwartz:</em> A lot of the field believes that these parts are either the product of trauma&mdash;that they&rsquo;re the fragments of once unitary minds&mdash;or that they are the internalized voices of our parents and society. But after years of asking questions of these inner systems, my conclusion is that we&rsquo;re born with them and that it&rsquo;s the nature of the mind to be subdivided&mdash;and that&rsquo;s a good thing.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Internal Family Systems Therapy </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Richard Schwartz, PhD</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">October 18 - 21, 2019</div>
Are you ready to help your patients and clients create emotional, mental, and spiritual change? Internal Family Systems therapy (IFS) provides a groundbreaking model for mental health professionals to learn about transformation. Take an effective and compassionate approach to the...

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Researchers talk about five or six discrete states that infants pass through, and I believe these are the parts that are online when we&rsquo;re born. For example, there was a time when I put my compliant two-year-old to bed and overnight the part that says no to everything showed up. Outside of these parts, the others are dormant until the time is right.

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<h2>1440: What happens to these parts as we grow up?</h2>

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<em>Richard Schwartz:</em> When an extreme emotion enters your system from some kind of trauma or attachment injury, the emotion or belief attaches like a virus to some of your parts and organizes the way those parts operate thereafter.

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<span class="quote">What happens over time is that parts can be at odds with other parts, causing disharmony. </span>

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When I realized this resembled a family system&mdash;with some parts protecting others and other parts fighting with others&mdash;I decided to work with my clients to see if they could form better relationships with their parts.

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<h2>1440: How do these parts organize themselves internally?</h2>

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<em>Richard Schwartz:</em>

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<span class="quote">After traumas, they organize into two main categories of extreme roles: exiles and protectors. </span>

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&nbsp;As we go through life, we inevitably get hurt, and our most sensitive, young, childlike parts are the ones that take those hurts personally and carry the burdens of worthlessness, terror, shame, fear of being abandoned, fear of not being protected, and so on. After they&rsquo;ve been hurt that way, we don&rsquo;t want to spend any time with them because they make us feel bad, and they can pull us back into those dreadful scenes.

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<span class="quote">We lock them away in inner basements or caves, so I call these parts the exiles. </span>

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To keep these parts from getting retriggered, and to keep us from being consumed in the flames of those raw emotions again, we need protectors. Protectors organize themselves into two categories: managers and firefighters.

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Managers are all about control. They try to manage our relationships so nobody gets too close and/or the people we depend on don&rsquo;t get too distant. They manage our bodies so we look right. They manage our performance so we avoid rejection. Managers can be caretakers, people-pleasers, hypervigilant, etc. They have the ability to numb our bodies or get us to dissociate&mdash;whatever it takes to avoid anything that might trigger an exile.

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If an exile does happen to get triggered, then that&rsquo;s an emergency and the firefighters, who think you&rsquo;re going to die, come to the rescue. To fight the fire of an exile&rsquo;s emotion, they create an even bigger fire or distract you from the fire until it burns itself out. Firefighters are impulsive and reactive and unconcerned with the collateral damage of their actions. They just know they need to do whatever it takes to stop the flames of the emotion.

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<span class="quote">Almost everybody has some version of this exile-manager-firefighter system, and it&rsquo;s often more extreme for those who have been hurt more acutely or chronically. </span>

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<h2>1440: What did you discover as you started to have clients work with their parts?</h2>

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<em>Richard Schwartz:</em> At first it didn&rsquo;t go well. If I had a client talk to a part, another part that didn&rsquo;t like that would often jump in. As a family therapist, when you have two people talking and a third interferes, your job is to protect the boundary around the first two. So I would have clients ask the third one to just step back from the second one and relax, and it turned out my clients could do that.

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And when they did, spontaneously and suddenly this other person would emerge who knew how to relate to these parts in a very human and loving way.

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<span class="quote">Out of the blue would come this curious, compassionate, confident person. </span>

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When I would ask clients which part this was, they would respond that it&rsquo;s not a part like the others and that it felt more like who they really are, like &ldquo;myself.&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">So I came to call that the Self, with a capital S. </span>

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And 35 years later I can safely say that we all have this Self, or inner essence, that&rsquo;s just beneath the surface of these parts. This Self can&rsquo;t be damaged and knows how to heal people once it&rsquo;s safely released.

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<h2>1440: How do you work with the exiles and protectors?</h2>

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<em>Richard Schwartz:</em> We learned the hard way not to go to the exiles first. We start with the protectors, and we listen to them and learn what they protect. We honor them for that service and then negotiate with them for the permission to go to what they protect so we can heal those exiles.

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Once the exiles are healed, we come back to the protectors and find they&rsquo;re very interested in changing roles. We help them look into what they&rsquo;re designed to do, which is always something valuable.

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<span class="quote">All of your parts are valuable, but they&rsquo;re forced out of their valuable roles by the burdens of traumas and injuries. </span>

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They&rsquo;re frozen in time, and once you unburden them they revert to their naturally valuable states.

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For example, when the critic is freed of its burdens, it often becomes a person&rsquo;s biggest cheerleader or motivator.&nbsp;That&rsquo;s what IFS does. It helps people access the Self and then help these parts begin to transform.

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/hearing-voices-youre-not-alone-understanding-internal-family-systems-with-dr-richard-schwartz</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/hearing-voices-youre-not-alone-understanding-internal-family-systems-with-dr-richard-schwartz#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Heal Your Broken Heart with These Tips from Sharon Salzberg</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sharon Salzberg</a> is a renowned Buddhist meditation teacher and author. A <em>New York Times</em> best-selling author, Sharon has most recently written the compelling book&nbsp;<em>Real Love: The Art of Mindful Connection</em>. She is a monthly columnist for <em>On Being</em>, and hosts <em>The Metta Hour</em> podcast for the Be Here Now Network.&nbsp;With Joseph Goldstein and Jack Kornfield, Sharon cofounded the Insight Meditation Society (IMS) in Barre, Massachusetts&mdash;one of the most prominent and active meditation centers in the West.
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<h2>1440: Let&rsquo;s talk about heartbreak. How do you suggest people handle this (often overwhelming) experience?</h2>
<em>Sharon:</em> When I hear someone say their heart is broken, or they are broken, I might suggest the experiment&mdash;as you hear this incantation of &ldquo;I&rsquo;m broken&rdquo; in your mind&mdash;of substituting &ldquo;feel,&rdquo; as in, &ldquo;I feel broken.&rdquo;

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If you can get more specific, that&rsquo;s even better, like &ldquo;I feel exhausted.&rdquo; I&rsquo;d then encourage the exercise of taking apart the sense of broken. What does that mean? Try to be quite specific. What do you feel physically? &ldquo;I feel this weight on my chest.&rdquo; &ldquo;I feel my shoulders are slumping.&rdquo; &ldquo;I feel like there&rsquo;s pressure in my head.&rdquo;

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What&rsquo;s the type of mood? &ldquo;I feel really sad.&rdquo; &ldquo;I actually feel really hopeless, and I&rsquo;m so tired.&rdquo; &ldquo;I feel insufficient to meet the challenge of life.&rdquo;

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<span class="quote"> Take apart the feelings. </span>

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As we take them apart, even though everything we find might sound negative, the difficulties we&rsquo;re facing then become an alive system. It&rsquo;s not like one solid, congealed, unchanging mass, you know?

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We begin to see it is a moment of this, and a moment of that, and a moment of something else, and that shifts things right there.

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<span class="quote"> When we notice the changing nature of whatever we&rsquo;re feeling, there&rsquo;s a kind of liberation that comes with it. </span>

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The experience is not forever. It&rsquo;s not. Even within itself, it&rsquo;s moving.

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Every time we feel frightened, or we feel broken, or we feel depressed, I also encourage the experiment of switching from calling those states bad or wrong or terrible to recognizing them as painful, because that&rsquo;s what they actually are. They&rsquo;re very painful states.

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<h2>1440: Often, heartbreak is accompanied by efforts to &ldquo;get over&rdquo; a relationship or an experience. What do you think of that?</h2>
<em>Sharon:</em> I guess the risk of it is that we can&rsquo;t actually control what will arise in our minds. We can affect what arises in our minds, and we can work with why we see certain things as failure, instead of as a lesson learned, for example. But can we insist that we&rsquo;re going to be &ldquo;over&rdquo; something and never feel a certain way again? No. We cannot guarantee there will never be a memory of that person with accompanying grief.

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We can&rsquo;t control, and so the big question becomes how we relate to what comes up. We spend an awful lot of time feeling we should be in control, like &ldquo;I shouldn&rsquo;t feel this&rdquo; and &ldquo;I shouldn&rsquo;t feel that&rdquo; and &ldquo;I shouldn&rsquo;t have that thought,&rdquo; but none of that is realistic. So, if we really want to feel happier and have more energy and more connection to real life, then we need to shift the way that we pay attention.

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<span class="quote"> Often the thinking loop is fueled by anxiety, or anticipation, or fear. </span>

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We can learn to go beyond that by asking, &ldquo;What am I feeling?&rdquo; and then shifting into an awareness of the body. That will bring you into much more direct experience of the feelings and help you identify what&rsquo;s most important.

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<h2>1440: When we hurt, we often get stuck in our minds replaying the same tragedy over and over. Or perhaps we obsess over our actions, or those of another person. What is this about? Why do we do it?</h2>
<em>Sharon:</em> I don&rsquo;t entirely know. I think it&rsquo;s probably a combination of things. In more traumatic circumstances, I&rsquo;ve often wondered if we repeat thoughts because we can&rsquo;t quite believe the truth of something, and so we&rsquo;re almost trying to tell ourselves: This really happened. This really happened.

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And sometimes we repeat a thought pattern to avoid the accompanying feeling, because the feeling is uncomfortable&mdash;and most of us have not been trained to sit with an uncomfortable feeling. So sometimes thinking instead of feeling becomes our habit, instead of learning to actually sit with discomfort.

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<span class="quote"> We&rsquo;re so heady. </span>

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Ultimately, it leaves us incomplete if we can&rsquo;t also take in all the feeling that&rsquo;s generating the obsessive thinking.

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<div class="author f6">This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.
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</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/heal-your-broken-heart-with-these-tips-from-sharon-salzberg</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/heal-your-broken-heart-with-these-tips-from-sharon-salzberg#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;Focus on the Work Instead of the Image&quot;: A Conversation with Tony Gaskins</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Tony Gaskins</a>&nbsp;is a husband of&nbsp;11&nbsp;years, father of two&nbsp;boys, author, celebrity life coach, and&nbsp;intercontinental speaker whose inspirational message of self-love helps individuals heal&nbsp;from their pain, set high standards for themselves, and create an actionable plan to achieve&nbsp;their goals. His sole mission&nbsp;is&nbsp;to help everyone he works with experience a life&nbsp;transformation.
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<h2>1440: You accomplished a lot at a very young age. How did your age hinder or help you?&nbsp;What wisdom would you share with young people who are ready to step out and&nbsp;make a footprint in the world?</h2>

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<em>Tony Gaskins:</em> My age has helped me because I&rsquo;m a millennial and my generation is very focused on laughing, partying, and having a good time. Being a thinker has separated me from the crowd and given my generation and others someone to gain a different perspective from. I wouldn&rsquo;t know the limitations my age has put on me because I&rsquo;ve focused mostly on the blessings I&rsquo;ve attracted.

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<h2>1440: What does it mean to &ldquo;live a well-balanced life&rdquo;? And how do you get there?</h2>

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<em>Tony Gaskins:</em>

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<span class="quote">To me a well-balanced life means you have a healthy dose of self-love, a zest for life, and ambition in your dreams. </span>

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A great first step towards achieving the balanced-life status is self-investment. You have to be intentional about investing in yourself through retreats, books, and one-on-one coaching. I believe the dream can be a reality, and it&rsquo;s attainable by all.

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<h2>1440: You&rsquo;ve said, &ldquo;A real relationship is like a river: the deeper it gets, the less noise it&nbsp;makes.&rdquo; Can you expand on that thought?</h2>

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<em>Tony Gaskins:</em> That statement means that the deeper love gets, the less it becomes about show and putting on a front for social media. The love becomes more real, pure, healthy, and whole. Your relationship is a sacred covenant with a bond that can&rsquo;t be broken by the day-to-day trials life presents. The tough times smooth and refine you like a rock on the riverbed.

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<span class="quote">It should be our goal to focus on the work instead of the image. </span>

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If we do the work on love, our portrayal will be picture-perfect without having to put on a front and fake smiles for the world.

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<h2>1440: Who are your mentors and motivators? Who do you look up to in the field of&nbsp;personal development? Why?</h2>

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<em>Tony Gaskins:</em> My mentor is Jesus Christ. I&rsquo;ve never had a business or career mentor in real life. I&rsquo;ve read the Holy Bible since I was a child, and I try to emulate the grace and perfection that Jesus Christ lived with. I played basketball growing up and we would say, &ldquo;I want to be like Mike,&rdquo; referring to Michael Jordan. As an adult I began to say, &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t want to be like Mike. I want to be like Christ.&rdquo; That&rsquo;s who I look up to.

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<h2>1440: You pride yourself on being married for over a decade. Why is being a family man so&nbsp;important to your work? How does this inform what you teach and preach to other men?</h2>

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<p><em>Tony Gaskins:</em> To me, a man&rsquo;s greatest accomplishment is purely loving his spouse and children. That is the ultimate testament of true manhood. That is true success. I am most proud of those accomplishments because those are the most important actions in the world. My belief in those values is the core of my message to other men. True success in life and the business world is a by-product of success in your own home.</p>

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<p>Join Tony at his program, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Self-Love Retreat</a>, August 14 &ndash; 16, 2020.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/focus-on-the-work-instead-of-the-image-a-conversation-with-tony-gaskins</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/focus-on-the-work-instead-of-the-image-a-conversation-with-tony-gaskins#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Expecting It All: An Honest Look at Modern Love with Esther Perel</title><description><![CDATA[Psychotherapist and <em>New York Times </em>best-selling&nbsp;author <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Esther Perel</a> is recognized as one of today&rsquo;s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. Her celebrated TED talks have garnered more than 20 million views, and her international best seller&nbsp;<em>Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence</em>&nbsp;became a global phenomenon translated into 25 languages.&nbsp;Her newest book is the <em>The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity</em>.
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<h2>1440: You say &ldquo;we need a new conversation&rdquo; about modern relationships. What does that conversation look like?</h2>

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<em>Esther Perel:</em> Well, I think the interesting thing is maybe <em>why a conversation?</em> For most of history, relationships were pretty much dictated by rules and by duty and by obligation. You knew who would be the breadwinner, who would wake up to feed the baby, who could demand sex, and who could stray with tacit social approval. Parents had the authority to tell their children to go to bed and they didn&rsquo;t need ten minutes to explain why it was important. Husbands knew exactly what to say to their wives and wives knew exactly what <em>not</em> to say to their husbands. Things were structured. Once we shift from rules to freedom and choice, relationships become framed by conversation. It&rsquo;s the only thing we have. In a modern relationship, the decisions are made through conversation, through dialogue, through negotiation, and these are complex relational transactions made up of multiple parts.

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So, it&rsquo;s not even that we need a <em>new</em> conversation. It&rsquo;s the simple fact that conversation has become the central tool for being in a relationship rather than preset modes of conduct.

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At this very moment, the conversation that is changing&mdash;the latest one in an installment of so many&mdash;is that the oldest power exchange system is being negotiated. For all of history, men traded social power for sex, and women often had to resort to trading their sexual power, their youth and beauty, for access to social power that was denied to them. This power structure is now under intense scrutiny, it is being reexamined and challenged.

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<span class="quote">When I say we need a new conversation about modern relationships, one is about the power structure, but the other one is about authenticity. </span>

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That is another fundamental new conversation because we are no longer in the economic, pragmatic model of marriage. We&rsquo;re no longer even in just the romantic model of relationship&mdash;we now want to be met in our authenticity, we want to be driven to become the best self we can be.

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So power, authenticity, and accountability (which has to do with trust and transparency in taking responsibility for the relationship we create)&mdash;these are the three pillars of relationship that are currently being reevaluated.

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<h2>1440: A great deal of your work examines the expectations we place upon partnership&mdash;and the parallel draw so many people feel towards infidelity. Let&rsquo;s talk about what we expect of our partners.</h2>

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<em>Esther Perel:</em> I think we are struggling in our relationships. Many of us are struggling in our relationships both at home and at work. Relationship expectations are at an all-time high, the norms are shifting under our feet, and we are basically writing the new rule book as we go.

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Part of my work is to help people manage these changes.

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I think one way to look at how expectations have changed is to see that we came from many, many centuries of a model of contentment and now we are in a model of optimization. That is a whole different set of expectations.

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We have created a model of one person for everything. When you lived in the village, you had belonging and you had certainty and you had identity and you had roots, but you had not much freedom. Now, we live in an era of unprecedented freedom, but we also have massive uncertainty and self-doubt constantly because we have to figure it all out ourselves.

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And our expectations encompass it all&mdash;I want what we have always wanted from partnership, but I <em>also</em> want a best friend and I want a trusted confidant, and I want a passionate lover, and I want the person who&rsquo;s going to make me become the best I can be. And I want to be happy. And how do I know I&rsquo;m happy? Could I be happier? Perhaps I divorce not necessarily because I am unhappy, but because I <em>could</em> be happier.

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We have never before called our partner our soul mate. Our soul mate used to be God. As Jungian analyst Robert Johnson writes, &ldquo;We turn today to our partner to basically give us what we once looked for in the realm of the divine: ecstasy, meaning, transcendence.&rdquo;

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It&rsquo;s beyond romanticism.

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<h2>1440: You&rsquo;re teaching a weekend program at 1440, along with a consortium of scientists, authors, and teachers, called Radiant Intimacy. What is this notion of radiant intimacy? What sits at the root of our need for intimacy?</h2>

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<em>Esther Perel:</em> At the root lies the need to connect and to soar. One of our fundamental needs is to connect, it is at once protective and generative and a big plus is if we enjoy ourselves as we do it.

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<span class="quote">Thriving&mdash;or radiant&mdash;intimacy is a relationship that manages to reconcile the two fundamental sets of human needs: stability and change, security and adventure, separateness and togetherness. </span>

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It knows how to anchor itself in something that is solid, reliable, steady, and it knows how to make room for change, for innovation, for the unpredictable, for newness, for edge, for risk taking.

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It knows how to play between trust and risk taking. That&rsquo;s really it. It&rsquo;s an active, dynamic, constantly moving interdependence of parts, and the peak experience is not some optimum point that you reach. The peak is actually in the flexibility of being able to constantly adjust and flow and change.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/expecting-it-all-an-honest-look-at-modern-love-with-esther-perel</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/expecting-it-all-an-honest-look-at-modern-love-with-esther-perel#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Ensure Your Relationship’s Longevity with These Shared Principles of Governance</title><description><![CDATA[If you&rsquo;re in a long-term relationship or want to be in one, I can give you straight-up advice on what to do right now to safeguard your relationship from avoidable trouble. First, let me explain why you should listen.
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As social animals, we depend on each other for survival on many levels: physically, psychologically, emotionally. In the wild, primates procreate and pair bond, on average, for four years: sufficient time to raise one child and protect it from the hostile environment. Nature cares not about long-term relationships. Most of us modern humans, however, do care because we are part of a society that values, even requires, cooperation, collaboration, and social fidelity to agreed-upon principles of governance. We also live a lot longer than either non-human primates or our recent ancestors. All this suggests the value of taking active steps to ensure the longevity of our relationships.

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Now, that&rsquo;s not always easy. Romantic love waxes and wanes over time. Mutual physical attraction can dim as our bodies undergo slow but inevitable changes as we age. Common interests also change as we are exposed to new experiences, attractions, and pursuits. One of nature&rsquo;s little jokes is to turn what attracted us to another person into what may eventually annoy us.

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This is where shared principles of governance come in.

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<span class="quote">If you and your partner are bound together by principles that govern each of you as well as how you relate to everyone outside your &ldquo;couple bubble,&rdquo; you increase your chances of weathering the winds of change. </span>

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These principles are, in essence, your Ten Commandments. Much like our shared belief in the Constitution, you must believe your shared principles will hold together over the long run, despite shifts and changes in love, lust, common interests, and all other ephemeral attractants. Depending on your imagination and forethought, your principles could include survival, thriving, trust, respect, admiration, radical loyalty, devotion, and a feeling of believing in something greater than the self.

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Principles, unlike rules and laws, are beliefs. I strongly discourage you from thinking in terms of rules. People may break rules and laws, but breaking one&rsquo;s principles is akin to being untrue to oneself.

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<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, PhD</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">August 17 - 19, 2018</div>
Couples Only &ldquo;People are complex,&rdquo; says Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, clinician, teacher, and developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT). &ldquo;We don&rsquo;t come with manuals that explain and automate the process of getting along.&rdquo; Even if we did,...</div>

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I believe in remaining fully transparent with Tracey, my wife. I stick to this principle because I&rsquo;ve reasoned how and why it serves both a personal and a mutual good. Do I like admitting something that might get me into trouble? Of course not. But transparency is a higher good than my wish to conceal or protect myself. Breaking this principle would violate a belief in who I am. Now, if Tracey didn&rsquo;t share this principle, we&rsquo;d have a big problem. We&rsquo;d be operating according to opposing beliefs, which could become a deal breaker.

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<span class="quote">Shared principles of governance are especially useful when you or your partner don&rsquo;t feel like doing something, don&rsquo;t like each other, or are in a bad mood. </span>

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Here are some examples of shared principles of governance to get you started:

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	<li>We put the relationship first, above all other self-interests.</li>
	<li>We protect each other&rsquo;s sense of safety and security at all times.</li>
	<li>We apologize, make amends, and rectify misunderstandings or injuries in short order.</li>
	<li>We are fully transparent with each other.</li>
	<li>We minister to each other immediately when we are in distress.</li>
	<li>We are the first to know things.</li>
	<li>We never threaten each other or the relationship.</li>
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These are just examples. The principles you and your partner create must be particular to your mutual needs. You may want to consider big-ticket items first: your relationship, children, work, self, and so on. You both must fully buy into your shared principles and be ready to defend why they serve both a personal and a mutual good. In other words, explain why each principle benefits you and your partner, specifically. You must drink the Kool Aid&trade; on each principle, or it will not protect either of you or your relationship. If you don&rsquo;t believe in the principle, when it comes time to pony up, you won&rsquo;t do it.

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The strongest, most enduring couples can articulate their shared principles of governance. Can you? Take the time you need to cocreate yours.

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<strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Stan Tatkin</a>, PsyD, MFT, has a clinical practice as a couple therapist in Calabasas, California,&nbsp;and is an assistant professor at the UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine. He and&nbsp;his wife, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin</a>, PhD, founded the PACT Institute and lead therapist training programs in cities across the United States and around the world.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/ensure-your-relationships-longevity-with-these-shared-principles-of-governance</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/ensure-your-relationships-longevity-with-these-shared-principles-of-governance#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;Don&apos;t Wait&quot;: Talking about Radical Compassion and Courage with Frank Ostaseski</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Frank Ostaseski</a> is an internationally respected Buddhist teacher and pioneer in end-of-life care. Visionary founder of the Metta Institute and cofounder of the Zen Hospice Project (the first Buddhist hospice in America), he has accompanied over 1000 people through their dying process. He is the author of <em>The Five Invitations: Discovering What Death Can Teach Us About Living Fully</em>, and he has been honored by the Dalai Lama.
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Frank Ostaseski will be teaching&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Radical Compassion and Courage</a> at 1440 Multiversity on&nbsp;October 5 &ndash; 7, 2018.

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<h2>1440: The first invitation in your book is &ldquo;Don&rsquo;t wait.&rdquo; You write: &ldquo;Don&rsquo;t wait is a pathway to fulfillment and an antidote to regret.&rdquo; Can you explain why this invitation is so important to connection?</h2>

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<em>Frank Ostaseski:</em> Someone once said, &ldquo;Whatever we have done with our lives makes us what we are when we die. And everything, absolutely everything, counts.&rdquo; Waiting is full of expectation. Waiting for the next moment to arrive we miss this one. The habits of our lives, including those around connection, have a powerful momentum that propel us toward the moment of our death. The obvious question arises: What habits do we want to create?

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Suppose we stopped compartmentalizing death, cutting it off from life. Imagine if we regarded dying as a final stage of growth that held an unprecedented opportunity for transformation. Could we turn toward death like a master teacher and ask, &ldquo;How, then, shall I live?&rdquo; Without a reminder of death, we tend to take life for granted, often becoming lost in endless pursuits of self-gratification. However, when we keep death at our fingertips, it reminds us not to hold on to life too tightly. Maybe we take ourselves and our ideas a little less seriously. We let go a little more easily.

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When we recognize that death comes to everyone, we appreciate that we are all in the boat, together. This helps us to become a bit kinder and gentler with one another.

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<span class="quote">The two most important questions that are on people&rsquo;s hearts and minds as they come close to death are, &ldquo;Am I loved?&rdquo; and &ldquo;Did I love well?&rdquo; </span>

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All of our relationships will end in separation. The people we love will die. The question becomes how do I want to care for them and life now? If being loved and loving well are what is most important at the time of dying, well then that is what is most important now.

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Dying folks taught me that.

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<h2>1440: You talk about death as &ldquo;lead(ing) us toward wholeness&rdquo;: what do you mean by that?</h2>

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<em>Frank Ostaseski:</em> The word wholeness is related to &ldquo;holy&rdquo; and &ldquo;health,&rdquo; but it is not a vague, homogenous oneness. It is better expressed as interconnectedness. Each cell in our bodies is a part of an organic, interdependent whole that must work in harmony to maintain good health. Similarly, everybody and everything exists in a constant interplay of relationships that reverberates throughout the entire system, affecting all the other parts. When we take action that ignores this basic truth, we suffer and create suffering. When we live mindful of it, we support and are supported by the wholeness of life.

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To be human is much more than being born, getting an education, finding the right partner, and getting a pretty house on a nice street, just so that you can sleep, wake, work, go to bed, and do it all over again.

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It is an invitation to feel everything, to come into direct contact with the strange, beautiful, horrible, and perfectly ordinary thing we call life. It is an opportunity to be conscious of the fact that some of us will make love while others make war.

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To recognize the truth that there are babies like my granddaughter born into loving arms and caressed by a mother who kisses her bright future into her child&rsquo;s cheeks, and there are babies like Carolyn, a woman I knew, whose parents left her in a dumpster as a baby.

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To be willing to see that there are teenagers being shot in our schools and others who are speaking truth to power. To embrace the night screams in Syrian refugee camps and the giggling of children in living rooms under tents made of couch pillows and bedsheets.

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There is devastation and hopelessness, and there is passion and holy commitment to creating a better future for everyone.

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There is me speaking and you listening and the separation between us, and there is the unity we feel almost immediately when we are reminded that there is love.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Radical Compassion and Courage </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Frank Ostaseski</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">October 5 - 7, 2018</div>
This whole life is a place where we can make real and right our dedication to awakening, in living and dying, in caring and being cared for. Being completely and vividly present for the rich details of our lives and...</div>

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<h2>1440: You&rsquo;ve written that &ldquo;love is what allows us to let go,&rdquo; and, yet, after letting go of a loved one who has died, many people still feel connected. (In your book, Samantha says about Jeff after he dies, &ldquo;I thought I was losing him, but he is everywhere.&rdquo;) Can you talk about how our relationships with loved ones change after death?</h2>

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<em>Frank Ostaseski:</em> Grief is a normal, natural response to loss. Most often, we think of grief as an overwhelming response to a singular event, usually the death of someone we love. Yet when we look more closely, we see that grief has been our companion for a good part of our lives. Everyday grief arises when we remember how the carelessness of our actions has caused harm to others. It comes in moments of not being recognized, at times when our expectations aren&rsquo;t met. Sometimes our grief is about what we&rsquo;ve had and lost, and sometimes it is about what we never got to have in the first place.

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<span class="quote">Sadness is just one of the many faces of grief. I find it useful to think of grief as a constellation of responses, an ever-changing process. </span>

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Grief also includes the experience of loneliness and relief, blame and shame, and periods of numbness when we feel like we are walking through molasses. Grief is unpredictable, uncontrollable. Our fear of this lack of control leads us to ideas about managing our grief or getting over our grief. We need to allow for the full spectrum of expressions of grief, from the numbness and absence of expression to wild, out-of-control displays of emotion.

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Grieving the death of someone we love is like being thrown into a raging river of powerful and conflicting emotions. It pulls us down, down beneath the surface of our lives and into dark waters where we cannot breathe. Frantically, we try to escape the whirlpool of this inner journey. Surrendering, we feel ourselves carried forward by gentle currents to a new destination. Emerging from the water, we step ashore with refreshed eyes, and we enter the world in a new way.

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When someone close to us dies, we experience a tremendous sense of loss. At first, it&rsquo;s like reaching for a hand that has always been there, only to discover that it is no longer available. Gradually we see that the relationship continues. The person is in some way internalized, and you can carry them with you wherever you go. They might surprise you when a memory of them shows up when you least expect them. You can talk to them, they talk to you, they can be with you, and you can be with them. You are not crazy because you feel the presence of your loved one in your heart.

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The grieving process is like a transitional space in your relationship. The physical presence of the other person used to be at the center of the relationship, but now that there is no physical presence, the center of the relationship is the sensitivity and love that lives within you.

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We don&rsquo;t get past our pain. We go through it and are transformed by it.

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<h2>1440: You&rsquo;ve written that &ldquo;Listening without judgment is probably the simplest, most profound way to connect. It is an act of love.&rdquo; In our world today, listening seems to be a lost art. How can we improve at listening? What steps can people take today to get better at this simple yet potentially profound act?</h2>

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<em>Frank Ostaseski:</em> Perhaps the greatest gift we can give another human being is our attention. Each of us seeks to be understood. Every heart wants to be known by another.

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In many ways our listening is a complete gift. We place no demands.&nbsp;We&nbsp;are not giving advice, imposing our reactions, solving problems, or driving toward a particular outcome. It is an offering.

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Often&nbsp;in listening we don&rsquo;t allow the&nbsp;mind to simply receive reality. We actively influence our reality to make it fit into a preconceived story or structure and then assume that our embellished version is the truth.

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First and foremost, we need to be self-aware. In Zen we speak of cultivating a &ldquo;listening heart&rdquo; through meditation practice. Listening is a healing practice. To listen generously we need to learn to listen from the belly, heart, and head. Listening from the belly, we attend to the non-verbal cues, the energetic qualities. This is where we cultivate&nbsp;intuition, what we call a &ldquo;gut feeling.&rdquo; When we listen from the heart we cultivate&nbsp;altruism, kindness, compassion, and empathy. From the head, we listen to the storyline, the content, or narrative. We cultivate&nbsp;discernment, wisdom, and clarity.

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I&rsquo;ve always appreciated the guidance of the great humanistic psychotherapist Carl Rogers.

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Before every session, I take a moment to remember my humanity. There is no experience that this man has that I cannot share with him, no fear that I cannot understand, no suffering that I cannot care about, because I too am human. No matter how deep his wound, he does not need to be ashamed in front of me. I too am vulnerable. And because of this, I am enough. Whatever his story, he no longer needs to be alone with it. This is what will allow his healing to begin.

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<h2>1440: &ldquo;Welcome everything. Push away nothing.&rdquo; That&rsquo;s the second invitation in your book, and some might say the hardest one to accomplish. Our natural inclination is to push away the uncomfortable, including death. How can we improve at welcoming everything that happens to us? And why is it important to do so?</h2>

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<em>Frank Ostaseski:</em> We like the familiar; we like certainty. We love to have our preferences met. In fact, most of us have been taught that getting what we want and avoiding what we don&rsquo;t is the way to assure our happiness. Inevitably, though, there are unexpected experiences in our lives&mdash;an unanticipated move, a job loss, a family member&rsquo;s illness, the death of a beloved pet&mdash;that we want to push away with all of our might. When faced with the uncertain, our first reaction is often resistance. We attempt to evict these difficult parts of our lives as if they were unwanted houseguests. In such moments, welcoming seems impossible or even unwise.

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When I say that we should be receptive to whatever presents itself to us, do I mean that we should let life walk all over us?

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Not at all.

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<span class="quote">When we are open and receptive, we have options. </span>

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We are free to discover, to investigate, and to learn how to respond skillfully to anything we encounter. We can&rsquo;t be free if we are rejecting any part of our lives. With welcoming comes an ability to meet and work with both pleasant and unpleasant circumstances. Gradually, with practice, we discover that our well-being is not solely dependent on what&rsquo;s happening in our external reality; it comes from within.&nbsp;In order to experience true freedom, we need to be able to welcome everything just as it is.

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At the deepest level, this invitation, like life itself, asks us to cultivate a kind of fearless receptivity. <em>Welcome everything, push away nothing</em> cannot be done solely as an act of will. To welcome everything is an act of love.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/dont-wait-talking-about-radical-compassion-and-courage-with-frank-ostaseski</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/dont-wait-talking-about-radical-compassion-and-courage-with-frank-ostaseski#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Are We in an Anxiety Epidemic? Dr. Rachel Abrams Says Yes</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dr. Rachel Abrams</a> is a&nbsp;family practice physician who is board certified in Integrative Medicine. Founder of the award-winning Santa Cruz Integrative Medicine Clinic, she has been voted &ldquo;Best Doctor&rdquo; in Santa Cruz County from 2009 &ndash; 2018. Dr. Rachel dedicates her practice, teaching, and writing to helping each person learn to listen to their body&rsquo;s innate intelligence.
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<h2>1440: Let&rsquo;s talk about anxiety&mdash;which you call a lifestyle-borne illness. Is this something you encounter often in your patients?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Rachel:</em> I see anxiety and insomnia (which is a result of anxiety typically) in my office more commonly than any other issue. Anxiety is rampant, and I am not alone in seeing that. It is an epidemic.

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<span class="quote">Anxiety, I believe, is caused by taking this human body of ours with its physiology that is almost 10,000 years old and putting it in a modern culture, where there&rsquo;s a variety of things that are not friendly to our stress response. </span>

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I often elaborate on this point by talking about a wonderful book by Robert Sapolsky called <em>Why Zebras Don&rsquo;t Get Ulcers</em>. If you ever go on safari in Africa, you notice that all the animals that eat each other actually coexist. It&rsquo;s this crazy thing when you see it and think, &ldquo;What? The lions are over here, and the giraffes are grazing right next to them.&rdquo; The thing is that the giraffes know when the lions are hungry, so though they live alongside the creature that could kill them all the time, they are not stressed all the time.

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Zebras have a stress response, and when it kicks in, they run. The lions run after them. The stress response spikes. The zebras get adrenaline. They get cortisol. Their blood rushes to their limbs, and they run for their lives, literally. If one of the lions gets a zebra, then the herd moves away. The lion takes the kill and, within five minutes, the zebras start to graze again.

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<span class="quote">If a zebra has narrowly escaped attack, it shakes (a natural and healthy stress response) but then goes back to grazing. </span>

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So, the zebras are anxious and stressed when the stressful incident happens and then over it and back to normal after a fairly short transition period.

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<h2>1440: Five minutes? Wow. Can people bounce back from acute stressors that quickly?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Rachel:</em> We rarely do. Humans have these giant forebrains, and that means that if I narrowly missed being hit by a car this morning, I might shake afterwards like the zebra, but I&rsquo;m likely to think, &ldquo;Oh my god. I almost died. What would&rsquo;ve happened if I died? What would happen to my children?&rdquo; I might then rehearse this, especially if I&rsquo;d been in a car accident before, which amplifies my stress response. I&rsquo;m likely to think about it repetitively in a way that persists in my body so my adrenaline level does not drop. It stays high all day long, and if I&rsquo;ve had several car accidents in the past, maybe it stays high for a month.

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<span class="quote">Humans have an anxiety response that perpetuates&mdash;and unfortunately that anxiety response, which is a normal, natural, and necessary response, becomes a chronic response. </span>

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And when you have chronic high cortisol and adrenaline, it does a lot of damage in the body. It does a lot of cellular damage. It increases fat and reduces muscle. It impacts metabolism. It makes us feel anxious and have a short fuse&mdash;none of which is good for us.

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Add to that the fact that we live in a culture where we are exposed to stressors at a much higher rate than we were created for. Human animals were supposed to live in groups of 150 to 1,000 people&mdash;and those would be all the people you knew. All the births and deaths and tragedies within that group, that&rsquo;s what you knew about, as opposed to what we&rsquo;re aware of today, which is an entire world of tragedy and death.

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Humans are also designed to go to sleep when it gets dark and get up when it becomes light. We are meant to be physically active all day. In that scenario, our built-in stress response is appropriate. But that is not how we live. Now, we are bombarded by information. Bombarded by tasks.

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<span class="quote">We are not gathering in the woods. We are not farming. </span>

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We are typically multitasking all day long. Multitasking is not necessarily a bad thing. Mothers and fathers have multitasked for millennia, but the current circumstances are pushing too many boundaries. For instance, if I&rsquo;m driving a car and I&rsquo;m trying to feed the children in the backseat and one of them is crying and then another driver honks at me and my cell phone goes off&mdash;that is not a natural human animal experience.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Becoming Bodywise </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Rachel Abrams, MD, MHS, ABIHM, Integrative Medicine</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">March 8 - 10, 2019</div>
Spend an invigorating and insightful weekend with Dr. Rachel Carlton Abrams, author of the groundbreaking book Bodywise, described by Grammy Award-winning singer-songwriter Alanis Morissette as &ldquo;Direct, deeply knowledgeable, and inspiring.&rdquo; A Stanford University and UCSF trained physician, Dr. Rachel will lead you on a journey of...</div>

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<h2>1440: That scenario you mention&mdash;driving and phones and kids and honking&mdash;sounds perfectly normal to many of us. Short of removing ourselves from those situations, what can we do to support our overstimulated stress response in a life that inevitably includes moments like that?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Rachel:</em> I talk a lot about the necessity of adrenal downtime. We need more opportunities than we typically have to relax our system.

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Now, bear in mind that not all stress is bad. What we call challenge stress, as in&mdash;<em>I have this project at work I&rsquo;m really excited about that&rsquo;s pushing me. It&rsquo;s a little bit difficult, but it&rsquo;s very fulfilling&mdash;</em>that sort of stress is not bad for us.

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<span class="quote">Challenge stress helps us grow. It is actually good for the heart and good for our cells. </span>

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It&rsquo;s the other kind of stress that&rsquo;s really hard on us.

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We need to counteract all stress, whether it&rsquo;s productive or destructive, with downtime, in which the adrenal gland that makes cortisol and adrenaline can actually stop working&mdash;or it can work at a much lower level for a while.

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What does that look like? It looks like lying on a couch, going for a walk, swimming in a pool, reading a book, or listening to music. Even better, it involves looking at nature, which has this amazingly calming effect on us, because human animals are meant to live in nature. That&rsquo;s what we&rsquo;re created for.

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<span class="quote">Seeing trees and grass and greenery has a dramatic effect on cortisol and adrenaline levels. </span>

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People in cities who live in buildings that look out on a tree as opposed to a wall have lower rates of heart attacks. It&rsquo;s remarkable.

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<h2>1440: Why is sleep such an issue? Why is that where anxiety shows up so often?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Rachel:</em> Sleep is an issue for the same reason that anxiety is an issue, which is that our culture is so unfriendly to the sleep of the human animal. We have too much light. We have electricity, but we also have computer screens&mdash;which produce a type of light that looks like sunlight. It&rsquo;s full-spectrum light, and when you encounter full-spectrum light, your body thinks it&rsquo;s daytime. There are great studies showing that teenagers who are in front of screens&mdash;computer screens or pads or phones&mdash;for two hours in the evening have something like 30 to 60 minutes less sleep at night. It has a profound effect, because that light suppresses melatonin production.

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We naturally produce melatonin at nighttime. As the sun goes down, our pineal gland notes that and begins to produce more melatonin. That higher level of melatonin eases us into sleep. You interrupt that process if you have all this light exposure before sleep. That is true for adults and adolescents&mdash;it&rsquo;s just more intense in adolescents.

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<span class="quote">So, we have too much light and too much stress. </span>

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People watch the news in bed. They&rsquo;re getting light from the television, and they&rsquo;re lying in their bed watching the latest horrible thing that&rsquo;s happening, and then they expect to close their eyes and go to sleep? It&rsquo;s not logical, because we really are animals. If you are sleep training your baby, you&rsquo;re not going to hand the infant your cell phone in the crib, right? That&rsquo;s a terrible idea. The cell phone is stimulating. And yet, people sleep with their phones by their beds&mdash;with all the work they do in their emails and texts sitting literally right next to them, psychologically. It makes it very hard for us to settle.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/are-we-in-an-anxiety-epidemic-dr-rachel-abrams-says-yes</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/are-we-in-an-anxiety-epidemic-dr-rachel-abrams-says-yes#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>6 Steps to Feeling and Healing: Advice from Margaret Paul</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Margaret Paul</a>, PhD, is a writer and cocreator of Inner Bonding. She holds a doctorate in psychology and is a relationship expert, noted public speaker, workshop leader, educator, chaplain, consultant, and artist. Dr. Paul has appeared on numerous radio and television shows, including the <em>Oprah Winfrey Show</em>.
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<h2>1440: Can you describe the categories of feelings you divide our emotions into?</h2>

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<em>Margaret Paul:</em>

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<span class="quote">There are two kinds of pain, the feelings that come from the wounded self and the natural feelings that are a part of life. </span>

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Feelings like anxiety, depression, guilt, shame, anger, jealousy, emptiness, aloneness, neediness, and fear are caused by our self-abandonment or self-rejection&mdash;our wounded self. These feelings indicate that we&rsquo;re not loving ourselves, that we&rsquo;re leaving ourselves in some way.

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Natural feelings are the existential feelings that are just a part of life, like sadness and sorrow (over people&rsquo;s inhumanity to each other, for example), loneliness (when you have no one with whom to share love), heartache and heartbreak (over others&rsquo; mean and rejecting behavior and various kinds of loss), grief (over loss), helplessness (over others&rsquo; choices), outrage (over injustice), as well as fear of real and present danger.

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<span class="quote">These feelings need to be attended to and nurtured with deep compassion. </span>

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<h2>1440: How can we distinguish between these two types of feelings?</h2>

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<em>Margaret Paul:</em> Once you get curious and start looking, it&rsquo;s not that hard to learn to distinguish. With the wounded feelings, you&rsquo;ll discover you&rsquo;re not loving yourself in some way that you really want to be loved, or that you&rsquo;re abandoning yourself emotionally or physically. But with the natural existential feelings, you&rsquo;re not doing something to cause them, they&rsquo;re just a part of life. When someone you love dies, you&rsquo;re going to feel the pain of that.

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To discover the difference, it&rsquo;s important to learn to be present.

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<span class="quote">The soul self-expresses through the body, through physical sensations that we learn to understand as emotions. These feelings have information for you. </span>

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If you notice the body is tense, you might realize you feel anxious. That anxiety is telling you that there&rsquo;s some way you&rsquo;re rejecting and abandoning yourself. It could also be telling you that you&rsquo;re not taking care of yourself on a physical level and there is some toxicity in your gut that is causing the anxiety. In either case, the message is you&rsquo;re not taking care of yourself, whether physically or emotionally, and the feeling of anxiety is the inner guidance letting you know that.

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<h2>1440: What happens when we avoid our feelings?</h2>

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<em>Margaret Paul:</em> If your intention is to protect and avoid and control, you&rsquo;re going to squash your natural feelings in various self-abandoning ways.

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<span class="quote">In our society, we&rsquo;re often told to avoid our feelings or numb them. </span>

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We do it with food, medication, and all kinds of other ways.<br />
When you do this, you&rsquo;re not getting any information&mdash;you&rsquo;re trying to live your life without any guidance. It&rsquo;s like driving across the country with no roadmap and no signs! When you start to want to become alive, you have to start to pay attention to your feelings. They become your roadmap.
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<h2>1440: You say we&rsquo;re causing these wounded feelings for ourselves? Can you help us understand that?</h2>

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<em>Margaret Paul:</em> When we don&rsquo;t know how to manage the natural feelings of loneliness or grief or helplessness, etc., we develop all these means of avoiding them: things like turning to addictions or self-judgment, or looking for love elsewhere. Maybe you get drunk all the time or overeat or have a lot of bad relationships.

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<span class="quote">None of these things help you digest the deeper pain. In fact, they leave your inner child alone, empty, and abandoned. </span>

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They add another layer of pain, and the original pain gets pushed even deeper down. When we learn to manage the deeper, core, existential feelings, we don&rsquo;t need to do these things anymore&mdash;we don&rsquo;t need that protective layer that&rsquo;s not actually protecting us.

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<h2>1440: How do we learn to manage those existential feelings?</h2>

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<em>Margaret Paul:</em> We have a 6-step process called Inner Bonding to help people do this.

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<span class="quote">Essentially you tune in to how you&rsquo;re feeling and what you&rsquo;re doing, and you listen inside to what a loving response would be. Then you act on it. </span>

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It&rsquo;s similar to taking care of a baby. If the baby cries, you pick it up and try to figure out what&rsquo;s going on. The baby can&rsquo;t tell you, but you can tune in and discover if the baby needs a diaper change or to be fed or cuddled. When you&rsquo;re open to learning, you&rsquo;ll eventually get an answer.

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<h2>1440: Would you share the six steps?</h2>

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<em>Margaret Paul:</em>

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	<li><strong>Step 1:</strong> Get present with your feelings. If a child is upset, you don&rsquo;t walk away, you sit down with them and listen. We practice doing this with ourselves, moving toward our feelings with compassion, with a desire to take responsibility for what&rsquo;s going on inside us.</li>
	<li><strong>Step 2:</strong> Choose the intention to learn about loving yourself. This is where we learn to invite in the presence of spirit&mdash;of love and compassion. We practice Inner Bonding, tapping into the higher love, wisdom, and comfort of spirit, which is what creates our loving adult self.</li>
	<li><strong>Step 3:</strong> Have compassionate dialogue with your inner child and your wounded self. We explore the beliefs that are fueling our behaviors and look at where they came from. We also connect with our gifts and what brings joy to our inner child.</li>
	<li><strong>Step 4:</strong> Dialogue with your higher self. We ask for the truth about any false beliefs we&rsquo;ve discovered, and we ask for what would be loving to us&mdash;what is our highest good.</li>
	<li><strong>Step 5:</strong> Take action. Whatever guidance you received, act on it. Whether it&rsquo;s as simple as going to bed earlier tonight or as challenging as speaking up for yourself in a relationship. Follow through.</li>
	<li><strong>Step 6:</strong> Evaluate the effectiveness of your action. Check in with yourself to see how you&rsquo;re feeling. Are you feeling some relief, less shame, less emptiness? If not, go through the process again.</li>
</ul>

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<h2>1440: If we need some encouragement to try the practice, can you describe what kind of life we can have if we do this work?</h2>

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<em>Margaret Paul:</em> When you open to learning about loving yourself, you learn how to manage life&rsquo;s bigger painful feelings so you no longer have to do anything to avoid them.

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<span class="quote">When you no longer abandon yourself in the ways that cause you all those wounded feelings, that&rsquo;s when life becomes really wonderful. </span>

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You have love to share with other people, your creativity blossoms, and you have a lot of energy. Your true gifts reveal themselves and you become more kind to yourself and others. This is also when physical healing may start to happen.

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As you learn to tap into your higher self&mdash;that source of wisdom and love and energy that&rsquo;s always there for you&mdash;it becomes a completely different way of living life.

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In fact, it has the potential to create a completely different world. Right now in the world most people are operating from their wounded selves. They&rsquo;re scared. They want to amass fortunes and accumulate things. They use money and greed to try and control because there&rsquo;s an emptiness inside. That emptiness can only be filled by loving ourselves.

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<span class="quote">Imagine a world where everybody was loving themselves and manifesting their gifts. </span>

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<p>If everyone were taking responsibility for themselves and for discovering what brings them joy, it would be a completely different and amazing world!<br />
Loving yourself is not just life changing, it&rsquo;s potentially planet changing.</p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Margaret Paul</a>, PhD, will be teaching&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Inner Bonding&reg;</a>&nbsp;at 1440 Multiversity from March 6 &ndash; 8, 2020.<br />
&nbsp;</p>

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/6-steps-to-feeling-and-healing-advice-from-margaret-paul</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/6-steps-to-feeling-and-healing-advice-from-margaret-paul#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>3 Keys to Better Conversations</title><description><![CDATA[If you have ever been to a cocktail party or tried to strike up a conversation with someone you do not know well, then you know that not all conversations feel the same.
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Some conversations flow beautifully like a freshwater river, while others feel more like a stagnant pond. And while it is tempting to blame the difference between these types of conversations on other people, the truth is, <em>YOU have the power to change the culture of every conversation</em>.

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Here are three practical and effective things you can do in your next conversation to take it to the next level.<strong>&nbsp;</strong>

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<ul>
	<li><strong>ASK QUESTIONS</strong></li>
</ul>

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To have a great conversation, we have to stop talking AT people and start talking WITH people.

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A conversation is a dialogue between two people, but more often than not, it looks like two people patiently waiting for the other person to finish their monologue so they can give theirs.

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But it doesn&rsquo;t have to be this way.

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<span class="quote">Rather than wait your turn to talk all about yourself, why not use your turn in the conversation to ask a question, then let the other person talk again? </span>

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Why would you do this?

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First, it will be so counterculture to what the person usually experiences in most of their other conversations that YOU will stand out and be someone they naturally gravitate towards because they want that experience again.

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Second, and more importantly, you may just learn something new! Asking a question opens the door to new knowledge and great understanding. After all, <em>we never learn anything new when WE are the ones speaking!</em><strong>&nbsp;</strong>

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<ul>
	<li><strong>BODY LANGUAGE ENGAGEMENT </strong></li>
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Nothing leads to stagnant conversations faster than disengaging body language.

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Body language is simply communicating something to others with your body (think: frowning vs. smiling, direct eye contact vs. staring into space.)

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<span class="quote">In your conversations, being aware of what you are saying with your body language is key. </span>

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Avoid <em>disengaging body language</em>, which includes things like frowning, sighing, crossing of arms, looking into space, and fidgeting while others talk.

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Instead, practice <em>body language that&nbsp;</em><em>engages </em>the other person. People who use their body language to engage others often lean in to listen, smile, sustain comfortable eye contact, and give affirming head nods.

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Developing these habits and being aware of our body language is what moves the conversation gauge from average to <em>thriving</em>.

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<ul>
	<li><strong>PRACTICE THE &ldquo;YES, AND&hellip;&rdquo; TECHNIQUE </strong></li>
</ul>

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In improv, there is something called the &ldquo;yes, and&hellip;&rdquo; rule.

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In short, the &ldquo;yes, and&hellip;&rdquo; rule is a frame of mind that says a person should accept whatever the other person says (&ldquo;yes&rdquo;), and then expand on it (&ldquo;and&rdquo;). It is a way to keep the improv show moving forward at all times.

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Now, there are obvious limitations to applying this to our everyday conversations (we should not and cannot agree with everything), but what if we worked to apply the <em>spirit of this rule&nbsp;</em>to our conversations?

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<span class="quote">What if, rather than getting caught up on correcting little things, we focused more on the flow of the conversation. </span>

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What if we prioritized encouraging others over making everyone view the world the way we do?

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Filter the urge to correct others through this lens: is correcting them necessary for their happiness or for the health of the relationship? If not, let it slide and focus on moving the conversation forward&mdash;encouraging the person along the way.

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<strong>Final Thoughts </strong>

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If you want to take your conversations to the next level, work on asking great questions, practicing engaging body language, and incorporating the &ldquo;yes, and&hellip;&rdquo; technique.

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Be gentle on yourself, as these habits take time to organically incorporate into your everyday life, but practice makes perfect. Tackle one of these three keys each day, and see how your conversations change as you focus on intentionally asking more questions, positioning your body in engaging ways, and employing the &ldquo;yes, and&hellip;&rdquo; technique.

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<strong>Find more communication tips from Jared at <a href="https://www.fujishinconsulting.com/">www.FujishinConsulting.com&nbsp;</a></strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/3-keys-to-better-conversations</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/3-keys-to-better-conversations#comments</comments><pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>“You Are Who You&apos;ve Been Looking For” by Adam Roa</title><description><![CDATA[<em>&ldquo;It&rsquo;s about time for you to see clearly that you are who you&rsquo;ve been looking for.&rdquo; &ndash;&nbsp;</em>Adam Roa
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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Adam Roa</a> is many things:

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<ul>
	<li>spoken word artist</li>
	<li>motivational speaker</li>
	<li>conscious filmmaker</li>
	<li>human being committed to living the lessons he shares with others.</li>
</ul>

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According to Goalcast, Adam is among the top trailblazing innovators to watch out for in 2019 and we agree. Why? Because he walks the talk of authenticity in how he shows up for the world.

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For a taste of Adam&rsquo;s universally resonant message, watch (and listen closely) as he performs his poem &ldquo;You Are Who You&rsquo;ve Been Looking For.&rdquo;<span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp;</span>

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<iframe allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/nt5_3cbo31I" width="560"></iframe>

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Ready for more? Join Adam for <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Art of Choosing Love: Fully Present and Trusting Life</a>&nbsp;from June 21 &ndash; 23, 2019, at 1440 Multiversity, a deep dive into the necessity of self-love.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/you-are-who-youve-been-looking-for-by-adam-roa</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/you-are-who-youve-been-looking-for-by-adam-roa#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>You Are the Love of Your Life: Wisdom from the Toltec Teachings</title><description><![CDATA[In the best-selling book <em>The Four Agreements</em>, don Miguel Ruiz, Mexican author of Toltec spiritualistic texts, delivers principles to transform our lives into an expression of unconditional love. Ruiz&rsquo;s sons continue his legacy through their own teaching and writing.
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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Don Jose Ruiz</a> is the international best-selling author of <em>The Fifth Agreement</em>, written in partnership with his father. <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Don Miguel Ruiz Jr.</a> is an internationally celebrated author and Toltec master of transformation who apprenticed to his father and grandmother. We caught up with them recently to talk about faith, self-mastery, and unconditional love.

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<h2>1440: Jose, you talk a lot about faith in your teaching. What does faith mean to you?</h2>

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<em>Jose:</em> Faith for me is when we get out of our own way. When we have a connection to source and the source is not outside us. When I was young and I used to hear people say they channel Merlin or they channel Moses, I said, &ldquo;Why doesn&rsquo;t anyone ever channel themselves? Who has respect for their own word?&rdquo; It was almost nobody!

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I began to see my grandmother having faith, just opening the channel and letting the waterfall come.

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<span class="quote">When we get out of the way, the words just come out of us and we begin to see the divine everywhere. </span>

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I see the divine everywhere, from a tree to a statue to a church to a house. I&rsquo;ve witnessed so many miracles that there is no doubt. And I&rsquo;ve witnessed many people try to break my faith, to make me doubt. For a while I gave my power away, and it shut me down. But I have faith in myself now.

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<h2>1440: One of the ways you both talk about finding faith is through self-mastery. What is self-mastery, and how is it different from control?</h2>

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<em>Miguel:</em> The funny thing about control is that you become a master when you let go of control, when you listen and interact with your environment and, like Jose says, have faith and confidence in yourself. Then you have the ability to live life, to enjoy life, to enjoy being you.

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The moment we become the master of self is the moment we stop pretending to be something we are not and accept ourselves just the way we are.

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<span class="quote">Right now I am the sum of every decision that I have ever made. </span>

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Every choice, every yes or no I&rsquo;ve ever given, every consequence&mdash;both good or bad, right or wrong&mdash;has led me here. At the same time, I&rsquo;m the youngest I will ever be. I have my whole life ahead of me.

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The moment I become a master of myself is the moment when I choose clarity and enjoy being me. Do I choose to let go of the illusion or lie to myself?

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<span class="quote">Do I make a choice from illusion or accept the truth and make a decision from there? </span>

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That&rsquo;s faith in action&mdash;having faith in myself that I can do it and enjoying where I&rsquo;m at.

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Here&rsquo;s an example. There are days where I am a man who doesn&rsquo;t take things personally. And then there are days where I am a man who does take things personally. I am free to say yes to taking things personally and free to say yes to not taking things personally, and I know what will happen if I do one or the other.

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If I do take things personally, it will come with a hangover that I don&rsquo;t want to experience, and that awareness is what guides me to make my choice.

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<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s not about controlling myself or my emotions, it&rsquo;s about respecting them and accepting them. </span>

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Then instead of letting my emotions dictate my actions, I&rsquo;m actually free to choose how I want to channel that emotion. When I&rsquo;m triggered and take something personally, I&rsquo;m going to learn from that. This is what allows me to bring unconditional love and healing to my life.

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<h2>1440: How do you define unconditional love?</h2>

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<em>Miguel:</em> Let&rsquo;s define love as energy that allows us to create a bond with other beings and within ourselves. In the Toltec tradition, the mind and body exist because life exists in it, and my love exists because I&rsquo;m here to manifest it, along with every other emotion that I experience.

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<span class="quote">So I&rsquo;m the source of my love and all the love I&rsquo;ve ever experienced in my life comes from me. </span>

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Now let&rsquo;s imagine love flows like water in a river. I live in Reno, so I get to see the Truckee River flow from up in the Sierra Nevadas into the desert. It flows out of Lake Tahoe, through Little Canyon, and eventually into Pyramid Lake. Imagine unconditional love flowing as freely as those waters do. It flows with the seasons, going up and going down as it needs to.

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<span class="quote">Conditional love sees love from a place of scarcity. </span>

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It says you must meet certain expectations to be worthy of love. If you don&rsquo;t, you&rsquo;re rejected. When we meet those expectations, we are accepted, and we confuse that acceptance with love. But what&rsquo;s really happened, to return to our metaphor of water, is we&rsquo;re afraid we&rsquo;re going to run out of water. So we build dams and reservoirs. Each of these is a conditioned belief, and it&rsquo;s only when all those conditions are met that the floodgates open and we let love through because in that moment it&rsquo;s safe.

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Conditional love sees only what it wants to see.

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<span class="quote">Unconditional love is the willingness to see life as it is. </span>

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Life teaches us through consequences, which is fine. That&rsquo;s the way we&rsquo;ve learned, but we&rsquo;ve corrupted those consequences and turned them into, &ldquo;If you want to be worthy of my love, you need to live up to my expectation of what I think you should be.&rdquo;

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Jose has a great quote about this, don&rsquo;t you, Jose?

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<em>Jose:</em> I have so many of them, I don&rsquo;t know which one you mean! Maybe it&rsquo;s the one that says conditional love creates wounds and unconditional love heals wounds because it helps us to let go of the things that are really hurting us.

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I remember when I found unconditional love for myself. I had all the theories and I was teaching and everything, but I wasn&rsquo;t applying them to myself. I was overeating. I didn&rsquo;t love my body because it showed how I was escaping. I was more than a hundred pounds overweight, and my body was about to give up on me. My father had a heart attack at 52. I was around my midthirties and I was ready to have one myself, and one day I had an epiphany.

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I was in the hospital because food I had eaten couldn&rsquo;t process. They put a hose in my nose and took all the food out. They told me later I could continue eating what I&rsquo;m eating if I got this operation. And I said no, because I was very aware that I was pushing my body.

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<span class="quote">In the Toltec tradition, we say there is nothing to learn, that we are unlearning. </span>

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Unlearning is the act of unconditional love. I knew that I had to unlearn everything I thought Jose loved. That was the price to pay to have a new life. I had to unconditionally love myself.

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So I began to love myself bit by bit&mdash;everything that happened.

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<span class="quote">And I realized I am the love of my life. </span>

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This unlearning is never going to be over, but that&rsquo;s okay, because I want the best for the love of my life. And you are the love of your life, and you deserve to create your own life without judgment.

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<h2>1440: Why is unlearning so crucial when it comes to love?</h2>

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<em>Miguel:</em> Like Jose said, in the Toltec tradition there&rsquo;s nothing to learn, there&rsquo;s only to unlearn. We are unlearning all those dams and floodgates we put in the river. Moments of clarity like the one Jose had are an opportunity to see the truth. We have a choice to keep believing the illusion or to let it go and remove those dams we&rsquo;ve built on the river.

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<span class="quote">As we slowly remove all those barriers, we begin to lose the fear of getting hurt and the fear that we are not worthy of love. </span>

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We slowly begin to love and respect ourselves. Since we can&rsquo;t give what we do not have, when we begin to heal our own wounds, it allows us to heal the wounds that exist between us and other people.

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<p><strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator. </strong></p>

<p>&nbsp;</p>

<p>Join don Miguel Ruiz Jr. and don Jose Ruiz at their program <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Agreement of Love</a>, March 27 &ndash; 29, 2020.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/you-are-the-love-of-your-life-wisdom-from-the-toltec-teachings</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/you-are-the-love-of-your-life-wisdom-from-the-toltec-teachings#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Why We Should Seek Happiness Even in Hard Times</title><description><![CDATA[When we&rsquo;re deluged by bad-news stories, it&rsquo;s hard to not feel discouraged or even depressed. But, according to Buddhist psychologist <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Jack Kornfield</a>, falling into despair is not a response that helps anyone&mdash;not you, nor your community or the world. Instead, he argues, we must aim for compassion, caring, and equanimity.
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In this conversation,&nbsp;the acclaimed author of titles like <em>A Path with Heart</em> and <em>The Wise Heart</em> offers up his perspective on suffering and what we can do to maintain our caring heart, using practices honed over thousands of years. Many of these have been validated by researchers studying the new science of personal and social well-being, suggesting an interesting confluence between ancient traditions and modern science.

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<h2>How do you define happiness?</h2>

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<em>Jack</em>:

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<span class="quote">Happiness has lots of meanings. </span>

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We&rsquo;re happy if there&rsquo;s safety and security in our life, and we&rsquo;re happy in the deepest way when we feel a sense of belonging and connection with one another, and with the beautiful world around us. We&rsquo;re happy if we have a sense of purpose and meaning; we&rsquo;re happy if we can learn to tend our own heart and mind in a way that brings inner well-being and peace and joy amidst the vicissitudes of life.

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Happiness in the deepest sense is not a feeling state or a succession of pleasures, but a deep sense of well-being and an appreciation for life itself, with all of its mystery and changes.

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<h2>How can we find happiness when there is so much suffering in the world?</h2>

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<em>Jack:</em> There is inevitably suffering in every human life, and nothing insulates us from this&mdash;no amount of money, success, fame, or accomplishment. But it&rsquo;s possible to cultivate and develop a sense of well-being, joy, deep happiness, and worth, even amidst the difficulties of life. I&rsquo;ve been in the poorest refugee camps and seen people move with more dignity, connection to others, and love than in circumstances of tremendous wealth and prosperity.

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If you go to work in a refugee camp, it doesn&rsquo;t help the people there if you are depressed or unhappy.

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<span class="quote">When you are working with people in difficulty, they don&rsquo;t want you to come with your fears and confusion. </span>

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Yes, compassion is important; but joy is also important&mdash;it is what the French philosopher Andr&eacute; Gide called &ldquo;a moral obligation.&rdquo; Our gift to the world comes as much through our being and presence, our smile and touch, our sense of possibility and the mystery of human life, as it does in the specifics of what we do. Wherever we go, we can be a beacon of well-being, love, and care that not only touches but uplifts those whom we encounter.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>The Science of Happiness </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Jack Kornfield, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Barbara Fredrickson, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Richard Davidson, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Reverend Jennifer Bailey,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Lama Tsomo, MA,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Emiliana Simon-Thomas, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Dacher Keltner, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Zahra Noorbakhsh,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Eve Ekman, MSW, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Jason Marsh</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">May 2 - 5, 2019</div>
What does it mean to live a happy, meaningful life? How do you respond with resilience to life&rsquo;s unavoidable stresses and disappointments? How can you forge compassionate connections at a time of extreme busyness, isolation, and division? Hundreds of thousands...</div>

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Greater Good is part of a new movement in Western psychology toward positive states, drawing on capacities built into the ancient wisdom traditions of the world.

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<span class="quote">Buddhist psychology is the opposite of the medical model of Western psychology, which focuses on diagnosing and healing pathology. </span>

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Buddhist psychology is focused on human well-being and offers practical ways to build joy, caring, compassion, a peaceful heart, a liberated spirit, and an inner sense of freedom among the vicissitudes of life.

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Modern neuroscience confirms that we can learn to steady our attention, quiet our minds, and open our hearts in a systematic way. Simple practices of mindfulness, gratitude, forgiveness, joy, and compassion positively affect our health and well-being, and beneficially affect all those that we touch.

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<span class="quote">These states are our birthright; they are possible for us as human beings. </span>

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<h2>But there must be challenges to living more joyfully. How can we overcome them?</h2>

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<em>Jack:</em>

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<span class="quote">Part of what may get in the way is that we feel it&rsquo;s wrong to have an inner happiness. </span>

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When there&rsquo;s ongoing injustice in the world&mdash;grain elevators full of food while children are starving; conflicts and fears of terrorism, while we continue to sell billions of dollars of weapons and spread them around the globe&mdash;we all know something&rsquo;s wrong with this picture.

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The world doesn&rsquo;t need more food&mdash;we have plenty to share&mdash;and it doesn&rsquo;t need more weapons.

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<span class="quote">It needs more care and connection, it needs more love. </span>

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We know this as surely as we know our own name. And yet, because we can&rsquo;t change all of this at once, we feel overwhelmed, guilty, or ashamed, or that it&rsquo;s not right for us to have a measure of happiness.

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In a remarkable poem by poet Jack Gilbert called &ldquo;A Brief for the Defense,&rdquo; he says: &ldquo;We must have the stubbornness to accept our gladness in the ruthless furnace of this world. To make injustice the only measure of our attention is to praise the devil.&rdquo;

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It doesn&rsquo;t mean that we don&rsquo;t do all we can to make a difference&mdash;to stretch our arms and mend the places we can with our own given capacities, to plant good seeds, to stand up for justice, to heal what is broken. This is part of what gives us meaning and well-being.

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<span class="quote">But to do so with a joyful heart is a very different thing than to act out of anger, guilt, fear, or despair. </span>

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<h2>Is there a role for gratitude in finding happiness during hard times?</h2>

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<em>Jack:</em>

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<span class="quote">Gratitude and appreciation are a deep dimension of happiness. </span>

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Our media and our news tend to focus on the problems&mdash;a bombing, an earthquake, a murder, or a conflict&mdash;but these are actually anomalies. Each time there is a bad piece of news that gets publicized, there are 100 million acts of goodness that happen in that same hour&mdash;people putting a plate of cooked spaghetti in front of their child, people stopping at a red light so you can safely pass on the green, people planting gardens and designing new homes, millions of acts of goodness.

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<span class="quote">Then there&rsquo;s the beauty of life itself, where even after a rainstorm, we see the lavender reflections of the sunset in the puddles in the street. </span>

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If we pay attention with a tender heart, we can see the eyes of passersby&mdash;sometimes weary, sometimes hurried&mdash;with all of their humanity on display. There are always birds in the sky, and the dazzling display of clouds, weather, blueness, and stars that meets our uplifted eyes.

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<span class="quote">How can we not see the mystery of incarnation and appreciate life? </span>

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If you step into the street, and a car comes rushing by, you jump onto the curb to save your life&mdash;you care about your life. Every cell of your body carries this appreciation. Gratitude is loving attention that brings into the heart the sense that we belong here in this life. And, with each step, each smile, each gesture, we can add our gift and add our part in small and large ways.

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<h2>People sometimes have trouble accessing gratitude, though, right?</h2>

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<em>Jack:</em> The mind has a million channels. We can tune into the channels of depression and fear, or we can tune into the channels of connection and love. Our brain is wired this way.

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<span class="quote">We have a primitive brain that is easily activated into a fight, flight, or freeze response. </span>

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Much of the modern news cycle works to capture our attention by trying to scare us. This is the aim of modern politics, too. We can all feel the growing level of anxiety in our culture and globally.

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But there are other channels. In that same moment, we can see the fiction and the manipulation that often accompanies politics and the media&rsquo;s attempt to scare us and capture our attention through our fears. We can also look around and see that there is enormous beauty in the world and zillions of acts of kindness at the very same time. Depending on what seeds we water and where we direct our attention, we can live in fear and confusion or we can activate many other powerful dimensions of our own heart and mind&mdash;of caring, confidence, equanimity, and well-being. These are innate in us and with care can be enhanced and awakened.

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In my decades of working as a Buddhist teacher and psychologist, I&rsquo;ve seen how even a little training in compassion, gratitude, generosity, mindfulness, and loving awareness can change a difficult situation in moments.

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<span class="quote">Whatever seeds we water will grow in our minds and hearts. </span>

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<h2>Do you think that individuals practicing gratitude impacts those around them? If so, how?</h2>

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<em>Jack:</em> How could it not? It&rsquo;s a joy to spread well-being, but it&rsquo;s also a moral force. When the Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh explained this, he said that when the crowded refugee boats met with storms and pirates, if everyone panicked, all would be lost.

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<span class="quote">But if even one person in the boat remained centered and calm, it was enough to show the way for everyone to survive. </span>

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We become that person on the boat of the world when we center ourselves with a peaceful heart, with a spirit of care and well-being. This affects all those around us.

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Though gratitude is a beautiful quality, I don&rsquo;t know if it&rsquo;s the right word. I think caring is what we&rsquo;re looking for&mdash;caring for yourself, for this life, the human community, the earth, for one another.

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<span class="quote">Caring has love, awareness, gratitude, and appreciation all in it. </span>

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You ask, can changing your inner life make a difference in the troubles of the world? Nothing else can! No amount of technology, computers, Internet, artificial intelligence, biotech, nanotechnology, or space technology is going to stop continuing racism, warfare, environmental destruction, and tribalism. These all have their source in the human heart.

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The outer developments that are so remarkable in our human world now need to be matched by the inner developments of humanity. These inner developments can awaken compassion for ourselves and others. They grow from loving attention and awareness, they develop a deep sense of interconnection, of care and social and emotional wisdom.

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<span class="quote">This is the great task of modern times. </span>

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To bring the inner level of human consciousness up to the level of our outer development. Nothing else will really make a difference.

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<h2>Do you ever find yourself despairing?</h2>

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<em>Jack:</em> Underneath it all, I have a deep sense of trust. As Dr. King stated, &ldquo;The moral arc of the universe is long, but it bends toward justice.&rdquo; Of course, like everyone, I have different moods, and certain events I find discouraging and terribly painful. When leaders in the world act in ways that are tragic&mdash;in the great sense of the Greek word tragedy, where you see the course of human events set in motion so that they will bring suffering to many people, and there isn&rsquo;t an easy way to turn it around&mdash;my heart breaks and I weep.

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But tragedy and comedy, and joy and sorrow, make up this human life.

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<span class="quote">Tragedy is not the end of the story. </span>

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Suffering is only the first of the Buddha&rsquo;s Noble Truths: There is suffering in life. Then the second and third Noble Truths go on to teach its causes and, most beautifully, its end. There are things we can do, in every circumstance, even the most terrible ones, that alleviate suffering and turn us in a different direction.

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<span class="quote">There is always a ground for human nobility and love. </span>

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And that&rsquo;s what gives me hope and energy.

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This story originally appeared on <a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu">Gr<em>eater Good</em></a>, the online magazine of the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-we-should-seek-happiness-even-in-hard-times</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-we-should-seek-happiness-even-in-hard-times#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>What Does Authentic Leadership Require? Self-Awareness (and More)</title><description><![CDATA[Establishing and maintaining a well-developed awareness of yourself, and of how you adapt to external conditions, is critical to realizing your full potential as a leader. Functioning as an authentic leader requires a regular practice of tapping into your internal flow.<br />
Structure Creates Conditions for Flow
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Think of the way that water moves in a river. The structure of the riverbanks creates conditions for flow. The behavior of any system&mdash;including a human being&mdash;is directly related to the conditions in which it exists and the integration of internal and external factors that contribute to its growth.

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Authentic leadership can only emerge in someone who creates the structure to practice and maintain self-awareness so as to develop clear perception and honest acknowledgment of how our thoughts, emotions, moods, values, beliefs, and desires color and drive our actions.

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Just as riverbanks facilitate flow, mindfulness practice facilitates self-awareness. It provides the structure that enhances attentional stability, allowing us to catch nuance and exhibit greater response flexibility. Practicing actually updates the powerful brain machinery responsible for effective action.&nbsp;As with any worthwhile endeavor, it begins with intention and it takes mileage and repetition. By claiming space in your schedule for embodied contemplative practice each day, you&rsquo;ll strengthen your innate ability to perceive with high-definition what is arising within; process undigested emotion; restore your attentional reservoir; organize and integrate new information; and reveal creative insight. What&rsquo;s more, mindfulness practice creates conditions for compassion.

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Practicing formally and often prepares you to respond with discernment rather than blind reactivity and to notice things&nbsp;in advance of acting on them. It trains you to pause, see clearly, listen, reflect, and then act. That split-second pause can make a world of difference.

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<h2>Around the Next Bend</h2>

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Change is a universal law. No matter how steady things may seem at any given time, impermanence rules. In river systems, dynamic change can show up in the form of a blowout. When a high intensity storm releases sheets of rain, it creates a powerful flood that unloads debris from a tributary into the main river and can seriously hinder the flow.

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In the realm of business, blowouts take many forms. Making smart, grounded decisions amidst chaos requires a leader to be in wise, intimate relationship with their own inner workings. Whether it&rsquo;s guiding a sweeping strategic maneuver, leading a dynamic team, participating in a critical conversation, or chewing on a complex idea, the quality of the outcome hinges upon the quality of focused attention given to the issue.

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Systems by nature are complex and dynamic and today&rsquo;s digital landscape seems to create a near-constant flood stage. There are always threats afoot in the form of unexpected conditions, and skillful, steady navigation is required. Overriding or shutting down in the face of challenge severely limits possibility.

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Self-aware leaders show up with calm alertness and agility even in the face of challenging, complex, and ambiguous conditions. Especially when emotions are strong, they navigate with careful presence moment-by-moment, choosing to stay in connection. They know that no matter the conditions, no matter the input or outcome, it is wise to first recognize with clarity the situation as it is&mdash;as opposed to how they want or expect it to be.

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<h2>Rapid Recovery</h2>

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From this place of seeing clearly what is, self-aware leaders seek understanding by asking good questions and locating&mdash;with open, kind curiosity&mdash;the best way to move forward. They are learners, which requires vulnerability. They are willing to say: I don&rsquo;t actually know it all, and what I do know isn&rsquo;t the whole picture. What am I missing? I&rsquo;m open to learning from and with you. What is possible is far greater than merely what I want and what I can see.

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When authentic leaders falter, they recognize it and repair. And then they get on with things&mdash;choosing rapid recovery over unproductive rumination.

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Authentic leaders express their true feelings, thoughts, beliefs, and values with ease, and their behavior is in alignment with their personal values. They know growth happens at the edges, and they are vulnerable and humble&mdash;prioritizing learning as a way of being, approaching challenges to unearth insight and reveal the next iteration. With keen self-awareness, authentic leadership regularly inquires &ldquo;What is called for now?&rdquo; in order to gracefully navigate the ever-changing present moment.

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<strong> Dana Menlove, founder of Center for Mindful Work, offers transformative engagement for leaders and teams in service of deepening awareness, accessing authentic purpose, and nourishing the connection it takes to boldly move a vision forward.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-does-authentic-leadership-require-self-awareness-and-more</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-does-authentic-leadership-require-self-awareness-and-more#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>Vulnerable Creativity: Talking with Mari Andrew</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Mari Andrew</a> is a writer, illustrator, and speaker best known for her creative daily posts on Instagram. What started out as making one drawing a day for a year as a way to express herself in a time of grief, has inspired over a million devoted fans. Mari&rsquo;s first book, <em>Am I There Yet?</em>&mdash;a collection of essays and illustrations&mdash;debuted on the <em>New York Times</em> best seller list in 2018.
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We recently sat down with Mari to chat about creativity and what it takes to show up as your full self&mdash;both in life and in art.

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<h2>1440: What does it feel like to expose your vulnerability to an Instagram following of 1 million people?</h2>

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<em>Mari:</em> I&rsquo;m very grateful I get to do it! I think the dream for any expressive person is to have an audience who actually cares what you have to say. That&rsquo;s a tremendously empowering and humbling experience.

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<span class="quote">Even though I post about very raw emotions, that&rsquo;s not something I feel ashamed about. </span>

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Now, if I were posting photos of the very unattractive meals I make for myself, or all the embarrassing things I&rsquo;ve said on dates, or what&rsquo;s underneath my bed, that would be pretty nerve-racking.

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But I know by now that we&rsquo;re all experiencing the same emotions (just perhaps at different times and with different specifics), so it&rsquo;s not scary or even very vulnerable for me to post my feelings on the internet. We all have them!

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<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s part of the deal of being a human. </span>

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I feel very fortunate that I&rsquo;m able to make them into art that helps me connect to other people; it&rsquo;s a big gift.

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<h2>1440: Do you struggle with giving yourself permission to feel what you feel? What emotions are toughest for&nbsp;you to allow, and to capture in your work?</h2>

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<em>Mari:</em> I&rsquo;ve never really resonated with the message, &ldquo;It&rsquo;s okay to be sad&rdquo; as though I have to give myself permission&nbsp;to let down.

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<span class="quote">I&rsquo;ve always felt like &lsquo;Of coooouurse it is totally okay to be sad!&rsquo; </span>

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I strongly and naturally feel like&nbsp;it&rsquo;s okay to have any emotion, though I have a harder time sitting with certain ones. I&rsquo;m still working on allowing myself space to be angry, which has been a lifelong challenge, because it feels so negative and unproductive. But I&rsquo;m sure the same could be said of sadness, which I feel very comfortable with.

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Occasionally I&rsquo;ll let anger seep through my work, and it&rsquo;s always a really triumphant experience&mdash;being able to articulate something that&rsquo;s so uncomfortable for me. I hope this is one way I&rsquo;ll evolve through the years&nbsp;as an artist and a writer.

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<h2>1440: How do you define creativity?</h2>

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<em>Mari:</em> I have a very spiritual definition of creativity. For me it really feels like creativity is the interaction between me and anything nonphysical, anything in the spiritual realm. Sometimes that feels like God, sometimes it feels like a spark of humanity, sometimes it feels like interaction with a different time.

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<span class="quote">Creativity takes me out of the moment and into another time. </span>

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It&rsquo;s hard to explain, as most beautiful experiences are. When I&rsquo;m creating, I feel like I&rsquo;m doing something very&nbsp;uniquely human&mdash;something humans have been doing forever.

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<span class="quote">It makes me feel very connected. </span>

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I really hope this is something that everyone can experience in one way or another, because it&rsquo;s glorious!

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<div class="boxspacer">Join Mari at her program <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Seeking the Self</a>, July 3 &ndash; 5, 2020.</div>

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<strong>Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor of 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/vulnerable-creativity-talking-with-mari-andrew</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/vulnerable-creativity-talking-with-mari-andrew#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>wonder-well</category></item><item><title>Vulnerable Creativity: Talking with Mari Andrew</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Mari Andrew</a> is a writer, illustrator, and speaker best known for her creative daily posts on Instagram. What started out as making one drawing a day for a year as a way to express herself in a time of grief, has inspired over a million devoted fans. Mari&rsquo;s first book, <em>Am I There Yet?</em>&mdash;a collection of essays and illustrations&mdash;debuted on the <em>New York Times</em> best seller list in 2018.
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We recently sat down with Mari to chat about creativity and what it takes to show up as your full self&mdash;both in life and in art.

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<h2>1440: What does it feel like to expose your vulnerability to an Instagram following of 1 million people?</h2>

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<em>Mari:</em> I&rsquo;m very grateful I get to do it! I think the dream for any expressive person is to have an audience who actually cares what you have to say. That&rsquo;s a tremendously empowering and humbling experience.

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<span class="quote">Even though I post about very raw emotions, that&rsquo;s not something I feel ashamed about. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Now, if I were posting photos of the very unattractive meals I make for myself, or all the embarrassing things I&rsquo;ve said on dates, or what&rsquo;s underneath my bed, that would be pretty nerve-racking.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
But I know by now that we&rsquo;re all experiencing the same emotions (just perhaps at different times and with different specifics), so it&rsquo;s not scary or even very vulnerable for me to post my feelings on the internet. We all have them!

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<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s part of the deal of being a human. </span>

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I feel very fortunate that I&rsquo;m able to make them into art that helps me connect to other people; it&rsquo;s a big gift.

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<h2>1440: Do you struggle with giving yourself permission to feel what you feel? What emotions are toughest for&nbsp;you to allow, and to capture in your work?</h2>

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<em>Mari:</em> I&rsquo;ve never really resonated with the message, &ldquo;It&rsquo;s okay to be sad&rdquo; as though I have to give myself permission&nbsp;to let down.

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<span class="quote">I&rsquo;ve always felt like &lsquo;Of coooouurse it is totally okay to be sad!&rsquo; </span>

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I strongly and naturally feel like&nbsp;it&rsquo;s okay to have any emotion, though I have a harder time sitting with certain ones. I&rsquo;m still working on allowing myself space to be angry, which has been a lifelong challenge, because it feels so negative and unproductive. But I&rsquo;m sure the same could be said of sadness, which I feel very comfortable with.

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Occasionally I&rsquo;ll let anger seep through my work, and it&rsquo;s always a really triumphant experience&mdash;being able to articulate something that&rsquo;s so uncomfortable for me. I hope this is one way I&rsquo;ll evolve through the years&nbsp;as an artist and a writer.

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<h2>1440: How do you define creativity?</h2>

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<em>Mari:</em> I have a very spiritual definition of creativity. For me it really feels like creativity is the interaction between me and anything nonphysical, anything in the spiritual realm. Sometimes that feels like God, sometimes it feels like a spark of humanity, sometimes it feels like interaction with a different time.

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<span class="quote">Creativity takes me out of the moment and into another time. </span>

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It&rsquo;s hard to explain, as most beautiful experiences are. When I&rsquo;m creating, I feel like I&rsquo;m doing something very&nbsp;uniquely human&mdash;something humans have been doing forever.

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<span class="quote">It makes me feel very connected. </span>

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I really hope this is something that everyone can experience in one way or another, because it&rsquo;s glorious!

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<div class="boxspacer">Join Mari at her program <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Seeking the Self</a>, July 3 &ndash; 5, 2020.</div>

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<strong>Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor of 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/vulnerable-creativity-talking-with-mari-andrew</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/vulnerable-creativity-talking-with-mari-andrew#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>Understanding Your Mind to Master Yourself</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Judson Brewer, MD, PhD</a>, is a&nbsp;psychiatrist and internationally known expert in mindfulness training for addictions. He is the Director of Research and Innovation at the Mindfulness Center and associate professor in psychiatry at the School of Medicine at Brown University. Author of <em>The Craving Mind</em>, he also is a research affiliate at MIT.
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<h2>1440: You&rsquo;re described as &ldquo;a thought leader in the science of self-mastery.&rdquo; What do you mean by self-mastery?</h2>

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<em>Judson:</em> In looking at all the work I&rsquo;m doing with habit change, addiction, and overcoming anxiety, I realized it all comes down to self-mastery. Self-mastery is essentially about not getting caught up in our fears, worries, and cravings&mdash;the distractions that get in the way of us living authentically.

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<h2>1440: Is self-mastery the same thing as self-control?</h2>

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<em>Judson:</em> It turns out that self-control is a bit of a myth. Psychologists liked the idea because it seems like it makes sense&mdash;there are a lot of people who use their prefrontal cortices to do challenging things like get PhDs, so we assumed that we must be able to be in control. But it turns out that self-control is more about understanding how our minds work so that we can work with them.

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<h2>1440: You mean like when we&rsquo;re stressed how our prefrontal cortex &ldquo;goes offline,&rdquo; so to speak?</h2>

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<em>Judson:</em> Yes, we&rsquo;re usually out of control in extremely stressful situations, but even in situations where we think we&rsquo;re in control, it&rsquo;s not actually true. If we were actually in control of our habits, we would change them, wouldn&rsquo;t we? It&rsquo;s what we all want so badly, to stop smoking or overeating or compulsively shopping. But we&rsquo;re not in control, so we just beat ourselves up for being a failure, when in fact we are asking the wrong question.

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<h2>1440: What question should we be asking?</h2>

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<em>Judson:</em> The questions we want to ask are, &ldquo;How does the brain work? How do habits and addictions form?&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">If we don&rsquo;t understand how our minds work, we can&rsquo;t possibly master ourselves. </span>

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Self-mastery starts with understanding, and in order to understand we have to pay attention and become aware of our habits. If we understand how we learn, if we understand the basic processes of habit formation, we can begin to hack that system rather than railing against it.

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<h2>1440: Understanding seems like a bit of a cognitive process. How can this help us when we&rsquo;re in the grips of a habit we want to stop repeating?</h2>

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<em>Judson:</em> We don&rsquo;t have to go into a cognitive process around our habits&mdash;that doesn&rsquo;t work that well.

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<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s about seeing cause and effect. </span>

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We have to see that play out in real time because that&rsquo;s how we learn. You can &ldquo;know&rdquo; that smoking might kill you in the future through cancer or emphysema, but that knowing won&rsquo;t change your behavior. But when you pay attention as you smoke a cigarette, and you realize it tastes terrible, in that moment you become disenchanted with smoking and the habit begins to change. Our brains are not set up for the future, they&rsquo;re set up for the immediate experience, so that&rsquo;s where we have to pay attention.

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<span class="quote">We need to get curious about the immediate effect of our behavior, mental or physical. </span>

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<h2>1440: How is this type of curiosity different from being a witness? It seems like we can watch ourselves do destructive things over and over&mdash;like eating too many cookies&mdash;but change doesn&rsquo;t happen. What&rsquo;s going on there?</h2>

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<em>Judson:</em> I would say that there is intellectual curiosity and there is experiential curiosity. We can say, &ldquo;I wonder what is happening as I eat too much sugar,&rdquo; and it&rsquo;s kind of a disembodied curiosity, or we can really feel how it makes us feel, which is we probably feel like crap after eating a bunch of sugar. If I eat too much sugar, I get a rush that&rsquo;s kind of like a restless feeling, and then I crash. And when I feel that clearly enough, I become less excited about eating sugar in the future.

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<span class="quote">This is not intellectual&mdash;it&rsquo;s experiential. </span>

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With something like food, I sometimes suggest people ask themselves how little is enough to feel satisfied, as opposed to how much is enough. Eat half a cookie and check in. What does the next bite taste like? If you&rsquo;re really paying attention, what you&rsquo;ll find is somewhere in there is an inflection point where it goes from tasting really good to not as much.

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There are two things going on there&mdash;enjoying the pleasantness of eating and the motivation to eat more. They&rsquo;re closely related, but dissociable.

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A friend of mine at Yale has done research on chocolate and found that the motivation to eat more drops more quickly than the pleasantness. We&rsquo;re setting up some experiments with our online community where we have them rate on a scale how pleasant something is and how much more they want.

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<span class="quote">We have them look to see after how many bites it starts to shift. </span>

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It turns out the two are different, and when it starts to drop off in terms of motivation, you can experiment with putting the rest of the cookie away and see what happens. For me the big shift was that I just won&rsquo;t eat three cookies anymore because the third cookie just doesn&rsquo;t even do anything for me.

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This is a great, pragmatic example of how, in a way that doesn&rsquo;t require willpower, behaviors can shift through awareness.

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<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s like a superpower! </span>

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When we tap into what our brains already know what to do, which is learn, it has real-world value.

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<h2>1440: Which part of the brain are we hacking in this case?</h2>

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<em>Judson:</em> There&rsquo;s a part of the brain called the orbital frontal cortex and it stores the relative reward value of things. I call it the BBO part of the brain for &ldquo;bigger, better offer.&rdquo; There are two ways to shift our behavior by hacking the system, and one is to help our brains see clearly how unrewarding certain behaviors are so we become less excited to do them in the future.

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<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s how we get from three cookies to one or none. </span>

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We use our awareness to notice that one cookie feels better than three. When I have three, I get an upset stomach, I feel guilty, I get a sugar rush, I crash, etc. So there&rsquo;s decreased value there. When I notice how good it feels to stop once I&rsquo;ve had enough, to feel satisfied but not overstuffed, it actually feels pretty good. I start to break the habit of overeating by recognizing a bigger, better offer.

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The other way to hack the system is to bring mindfulness, kindness, and curiosity to the process.

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<span class="quote">When you compare curiosity, for example, to a craving, which one feels better? </span>

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Curiosity, of course. So if you have a craving for a cookie, and it&rsquo;s out of stress or boredom or whatever, if you substitute curiosity for eating, you can flip the valence right there from a craving, which is unpleasant, to curiosity, which is more pleasant.

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<h2>1440: To do this it sounds like we need a certain capacity to harness and shift our attention. Is that true?</h2>

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<em>Judson:</em> Pragmatically speaking, we probably don&rsquo;t have that much control over our attention, to be honest. Things pull our attention and we think we can train our attention, but in reality it&rsquo;s awareness that trains our attention. If we are rewarded for paying attention, then we will pay attention more, but it may not have as much to do with willpower as we once thought.

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We can&rsquo;t force ourselves to pay attention, and if we&rsquo;re trying to, that forced quality of trying doesn&rsquo;t feel good. But what does train attention is curiosity because it feels good and naturally draws us to whatever the object is.

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<span class="quote">I beat my head against the wall as a meditator for 10 years before I realized I couldn&rsquo;t force myself to concentrate. </span>

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<p>But when I brought curiosity to what was happening as I sat on the cushion, things really shifted. My favorite mantra, for meditation and everything else, has now become, &ldquo;Hmmmm&hellip;&rdquo; It&rsquo;s that curiosity that will train our attention no matter what we&rsquo;re doing.</p>

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<p><strong>Judson Brewer, MD, PhD, and Robin Boudette, PhD,&nbsp;will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">&quot;Hacking Your Brain for Better Health&quot;</a> at 1440 Multiversity, April 17 &ndash; April 19, 2020.&nbsp;</strong></p>

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This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/understanding-your-mind-to-master-yourself</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/understanding-your-mind-to-master-yourself#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>The Inside-Out Leader</title><description><![CDATA[<h2><em>Instead of the usual top-down way of leading, says author&nbsp;Michael Carroll, the best leaders work from the inside out, opening themselves&nbsp;to others and sharing what inspires them.</em></h2>

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The kind of leadership we usually encounter in business, in government, and even in our spiritual communities assumes a top-down perspective. At the top are the leaders, who are engaged, ambitious, and effective. At the bottom are life&rsquo;s voyeurs, uninvolved, hesitant, and resigned. In between is everyone else. Neither visionaries nor bystanders, most of us go about our lives and are expected to fit in and do our best to contribute. To a great degree we take this top-down perspective for granted. But the top-down outlook is seriously lacking, for it overlooks a most fundamental human reality: that all human beings instinctively desire to inspire others, and this can be done by anyone, anywhere, anytime.

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The instinct to inspire the best in others is completely natural and is at the heart of being a leader. Whether we are a child charming a parent, a neighbor hosting a spring barbecue, or a world leader planning for the future, all of us offer a part of ourselves in order to inspire others. Leadership begins with this simple human gesture to inspire.

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<span class="quote">Instead of the top-down model, the best leadership first occurs from the <em>inside out</em>&mdash;offering to others a part of ourselves that inspires them. </span>

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Instead of the top-down model, the best leadership first occurs from the <em>inside out</em>&mdash;offering to others a part of ourselves that inspires them. From this perspective, top-down leadership alone is inadequate, because it overlooks the fact that each and every one of us, by our sheer humanity, is capable of leading from the inside out.

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Typically, when we think of leading, we think of guiding and directing others, pointing the way, setting direction. And surely these are things that leaders do. Yet there is a fundamental human gesture that must take place first, before any leader can guide, direct, or point the way. Leaders must first <em>open</em>. They must step beyond the boundaries of what is familiar and routine and directly touch the people and environment they want to inspire. Leading others requires that we first open ourselves &nbsp;to the world around us.

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Many business leaders would find such an approach peculiar. It&rsquo;s hard to imagine overhearing leaders in the boardroom saying to one another, &ldquo;Hey, why don&rsquo;t we all try to open up to one another?&rdquo; Such a view of leadership would appear soft or weak. Flowers and windows open, not leaders. But from the Buddhist point of view, opening is fundamental to leadership because it is how we become utterly realistic about our circumstances. It is how we abandon our version of reality for the experience of reality itself.

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I recall waiting for an appointment in an executive reception area of a Fortune 100 company, and on the wall was an impressive photograph of the Atlantic Ocean. A lighthouse beamed its guiding light across the waves, and beneath the photo it read, &ldquo;Vision is not seeing things as they are, but as they will be.&rdquo; I asked the executive I was visiting what she thought of the saying, and she too had had her doubts. &ldquo;I wonder how that picture even got up there?&rdquo; she mused. I couldn&rsquo;t help running the first part of the saying over and over in my mind: &ldquo;<em>Vision is not seeing things as they are.</em>&rdquo; My mindfulness training had taught me the opposite: that not seeing things as they are is blindness, and focusing on the future without first facing reality will lead only to failure.

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When we are willing to open to our world, we express an innate intelligence that is at once sharp but flexible, realistic but not jaundiced, clear-seeing but unassuming. At such moments of openness, we view our workplace without any lenses, undistracted by <em>our</em>priorities, <em>our </em>preferences, <em>our </em>vision of the future. Instead, we grasp directlythe full measure of our present circumstances: we recognize the opportunities, appreciate our colleagues&rsquo; views, acknowledge the difficulties, and delight in the natural grace and flow of the moment.

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Such open intelligence, however, demands that we drop any pretense or strategy. Who we are and how we want to be perceived; what we want to accomplish and how we want to get there&mdash;these become unimportant. In short, <em>we </em>become irrelevant.

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Dropping our point of view&mdash;indeed, our identity altogether&mdash;we discover that to lead from a position of openness is to be undefended, engaged, and raw. At times such vulnerability can be freeing, because we stop wrestling with our personal anxiety, resentment, and fear and simply expose ourselves fully to our world. Yet such vulnerability can be terrifying, since we can&rsquo;t rely on familiar postures, emotions, or clich&eacute;s for comfort and reassurance.

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<span class="quote">The suggestion that we lead by being vulnerable may seem absurd&hellip;. However, open vulnerability is not a weakness but a wisdom that is poised, skillful, and astute. </span>

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The suggestion that we lead by being vulnerable may seem absurd. Leaders, it is typically believed, should be equipped with all kinds of armor. They should be invincible and potent, able to bear the slings and arrows of workplace competition and hostility. Usually we think of being vulnerable at work as being weak, inadequate, shamefully flawed. However, open vulnerability is not a weakness but a wisdom that is poised, skillful, and astute. The Olympic figure skater who flawlessly executes a double open axel understands the wisdom of vulnerability. The classroom teacher who pauses to soak in a child&rsquo;s anxious resistance before reacting understands this wisdom. The manager who genuinely listens to the disgruntled employee, the attorney who drops an adversarial mindset, the martial artist at her ease&mdash;each understands the open wisdom of vulnerability.

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Rather than leading with will, power, and ambition, we can lead and inspire with openness, intelligence, and vulnerability. Such leadership is quite natural but it must be cultivated and not taken for granted. We can develop our personal sense of openness in two ways: through<em>mindfulness</em><em> meditation</em> and by <em>exchanging ourselves for others</em>.

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Mindfulness meditation is how we exercise our &ldquo;opening muscle.&rdquo; It&rsquo;s like going to the &ldquo;bodhisattva gym&rdquo; for a workout. Typically, we resist opening because we want to hold on to our version of reality, our storyline. We want to bring our style, variety, and stage setting to our experience; we want our world to behave itself and we have all kinds of suggestions for how it can shape up. In mindfulness meditation, however, we learn to let go of such ploys and open to our immediate experience, directly, authentically, and often, monotonously. In mindfulness meditation we <em>just sit</em> and appreciate our immediate circumstances quite naturally.

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By letting go and opening in mindfulness over and over again, we gradually develop the muscles of a bodhisattva leader so that we flex them in everyday life by exchanging ourselves for others. That doesn&rsquo;t mean we dress up as our boss and pretend to run the company, or change our voice on the phone so others think we are someone else. Such shenanigans can be fun, but in this case, exchanging ourselves for others is how we live an honest and realistic life. For when we open to our world, we discover that everything we need and aspire to has to do with others. Rather than arguing with ourselves about how to build a &ldquo;me-centered&rdquo; replica of life, we can engage in a dialogue with our circumstances by exchanging ourselves for others.

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It is quite natural for us to do such a thing, and each day millions of us do. Small gestures such as holding a door open for another or offering one&rsquo;s place in line are common courtesies where we exchange ourselves for others. But as we all know, exchanging ourselves for others goes much, much further. Each day we give our lives for one another, care for one another, hold one another while we die. We raise one another as children, change each other&rsquo;s diapers, and celebrate others&rsquo; joys.

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For the open leader, cultivating these moments of exchanging ourselves for others is how we listen to our world&mdash;how we appreciate and learn before we act. Whether we are at home or at work, strolling in the park or attending a stockholders&rsquo; meeting, opening to our circumstances means others come first. Such a perspective is the wisdom of an open leader.

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<h2><em>This article was originally published on&nbsp;<a href="https://mindful.org/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Mindful.org</a>, a non-profit dedicated to inspiring, guiding, and connecting anyone who wants to explore mindfulness. Go <a href="https://mindful.org/" rel="canonical noopener" target="_blank">here</a> to view the original article.</em></h2>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-inside-out-leader</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-inside-out-leader#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>Love on the Brain: Lessons from Helen Fisher&apos;s TED Talk</title><description><![CDATA[It&rsquo;s safe to say that <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dr. Helen Fisher</a> has a pretty fascinating job.
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She has surveyed millions of singles and couples around the world about love and relationships.&nbsp;Named one of &ldquo;the 15 most amazing women in science today&rdquo; by Business Insider, Dr. Fisher is&nbsp;an internationally renowned neuroscientist, biological anthropologist, and pioneer in the biology of human personality.

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As chief scientific advisor for Match.com, a senior research fellow at the Kinsey Institute, and best-selling author of five books, Dr. Fisher is the most referenced scholar in the field of love and relationships in the world today. Her three TED Talks have been viewed by more than 12 million people worldwide.

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Listening to Dr. Fisher speak about her research in this <a href="https://www.ted.com/talks/helen_fisher_technology_hasn_t_changed_love_here_s_why">TED talk</a>, <em>Technology Hasn&rsquo;t Changed Love. Here&rsquo;s Why,&nbsp;</em>is a bit like holding up a mirror to your private life that offers a uniquely scientific spin on things.

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You both recognize the familiar reflection and deeply appreciate the fresh, research-backed narration.&nbsp;Dr. Fisher adeptly explains the three brain systems that drive us toward sex, romance, and attachment while simultaneously joking that when it comes to love, &ldquo;nobody gets out alive.&rdquo;

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We love this TED talk in particular where Dr. Fisher holds that no&nbsp;matter the advances of technology, the rise of dating sites, or the growing divorce rate, we remain wired for love in the same fundamental ways we always have been. Inherently, she tells us, human beings are &ldquo;a pair-bonding species&rdquo; unlike 97% of mammals.

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We are all driven by the pursuit of love, we&nbsp;all soar in the glee of love discovered, and we all suffer when love stings.&nbsp;And we all&mdash;most importantly&mdash;keep <em>at&nbsp;</em>love.

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<strong>Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor of 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/love-on-the-brain-lessons-from-helen-fishers-ted-talk</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/love-on-the-brain-lessons-from-helen-fishers-ted-talk#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Love Medicine: A Conversation with Dr. Rachel Abrams</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dr. Rachel Abrams</a> is a&nbsp;family practice physician who is board certified in Integrative Medicine. Founder of the award-winning Santa Cruz Integrative Medicine Clinic, she has been voted &ldquo;Best Doctor&rdquo; in Santa Cruz County from 2009 &ndash; 2018. Dr. Rachel dedicates her practice, teaching, and writing to helping each person learn to listen to their body&rsquo;s innate intelligence.
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<h3>1440: Your specialty is integrative medicine. How do you define that?</h3>
<em>Dr. Rachel:</em>

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<span class="quote">The point of integrative medicine is really to make medicine whole again. </span>

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In its early days, medicine included things like diet and exercise and even spirituality to some extent, but as Western medicine and science developed over the last couple of centuries, medicine became what I consider an orphan profession, i.e. all about science and somewhat divorced from the elements that make it whole.&nbsp;If you look at traditional Chinese medicine or you look at Ayurvedic medicine, there is a medical tradition, an herbal tradition, an exercise tradition, a spiritual tradition, and a sexual tradition, all in one.

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<span class="quote">Western medicine has the biologic, medication, and treatment aspect, but it&rsquo;s missing spirituality, relationship, sexuality, exercise, diet, and lifestyle. </span>

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That division is part of the reason we are failing, medically, in this country. According to the CDC, life expectancy in the U.S. has <em>decreased</em> for the past two years&mdash;for the first time in our history, and that is because of chronic illness&mdash;meaning diabetes, high blood pressure, cancer, and a variety of illnesses that are becoming more and more common because of lifestyle.

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<span class="quote">Lifestyle-born illness is not fixable with medicine or surgery. </span>

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It demands a more holistic way of looking at our health. Integrative medicine tries to meet that need.

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<h3>1440: You write and speak quite a bit about the crucial role healthy relationships play in our health and well-being. Is this something you address with patients in your medical practice?</h3>
<em>Dr. Rachel:</em> There is no patient I see in my office that I don&rsquo;t ask about relationships. If you look at the medical and health impact of relationships&mdash;the impact of community, the impact of love, the impact of having a close person in your life&mdash;these elements are far more powerful than any other health behavior. More powerful than any drug you can take.

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<span class="quote">More powerful than whether you smoke cigarettes. </span>

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More powerful than what you eat, which is really saying something, because what you eat is actually a very powerful determinant of health.

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Relationships are more important than anything else, in terms of how they affect your morbidity and mortality&mdash;which are big, fancy medical words for how often you get sick and when you die.

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So yes, I talk about relationships with all my patients, because if I have someone with cancer but there is a dysfunctional alcoholic in that house, I&rsquo;m not going to be able to keep them well without addressing how we&rsquo;re going to set boundaries and create a safe environment for my patient.

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Or if I have a woman with chronic pain who&rsquo;s being domestically abused, I can&rsquo;t get her out of pain unless she becomes physically safe. Or if I have an older person who&rsquo;s losing weight and wasting away and suffering from stomach pain, I can&rsquo;t help him if I don&rsquo;t deal with the fact that he&rsquo;s isolated and doesn&rsquo;t have love and friendship in his life.

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<span class="quote">In all three situations, the relationship is actually the key ingredient to well-being. </span>

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I often say that what I&rsquo;m looking for with each patient is <em>What&rsquo;s the key in the lock for this particular person to make the changes they need?</em> because often, extensive behavioral changes are necessary in order to improve. People know that. People are very smart. They know how they&rsquo;re supposed to eat, and they know they&rsquo;re supposed to get enough sleep.

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<span class="quote">But the question really is why is this person, right now, choosing not to do those things? </span>

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I can&rsquo;t help them with their issue unless I also look at and consider the impact of the web of love, relationship, and conflict in their life.

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<h3>1440: Let&rsquo;s talk about the health impact of being in a difficult relationship. What are some of the ways this shows up in your office?</h3>
<em>Dr. Rachel:</em> I have seen all sorts of examples of relationship difficulty showing up in physical symptoms&mdash;beyond just complaints of abdominal pain or headaches. I have seen patients with rashes that crop up when they&rsquo;re in a bad relationship, and as soon as they leave the bad relationship, the rash goes away. I have seen women with recurrent, documented urinary tract and vaginal infections that appear when they&rsquo;re sexually active with someone who is either emotionally or physically abusive, and as soon as they leave that relationship, they no longer get the infections.

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<span class="quote">The body can be a direct correlate to manifesting the negative effects of bad relationships. </span>

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I spend a lot of time talking to patients about dysfunctional relationships, because there are so many, and some of them we have choice about, but some of them we don&rsquo;t&mdash;because they&rsquo;re our parents or our children.

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That&rsquo;s not to say that because dysfunctional relationships have an impact, that all conflict is bad. I don&rsquo;t believe that. Research shows that the amount of conflict in a relationship does not predict whether the relationship will last or not. There are plenty of good relationships that are high-conflict, and there are plenty of good relationships that are low-conflict.

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<span class="quote">The issue has less to do with conflict and more to do with how the conflict happens. </span>

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You can have disagreement in a way that&rsquo;s respectful, and you can have disagreement in a way that is demeaning, insulting, and damaging. The first type of conflict is not damaging. But the second type is very damaging.

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<h3>1440: What about lack of relationship? How does loneliness show up in the medical picture?</h3>
<em>Dr. Rachel:</em> A study of the Social Network Index shows that people with higher levels of community in their life&mdash;and by community, I mean connection to a variety of groups, like their church or their temple or their synagogue, but also their bowling league or maybe their work colleagues or a girl scout troup they lead&mdash;were 4 times less likely to become ill from a cold virus than those who had a low number of social networks.

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So even in response to the most simple <em>Am I going to get sick?</em>, we know that having community and relationships in your life is very protective. Another study of older men showed that subjects with the highest stress levels had triple the risk of dying in the next 7 years, but that risk was erased if they had a dependable web of intimacy in their lives.

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<span class="quote">Having a broad and active social network protects us from stress, improves our immune response, and reduces all types of illness. </span>

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<strong>Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor of 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/love-medicine-a-conversation-with-dr-rachel-abrams</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/love-medicine-a-conversation-with-dr-rachel-abrams#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Is Anxiety a Habit? Talking with Dr. Judson Brewer</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Judson Brewer, MD,</a> is a&nbsp;psychiatrist and internationally known expert in mindfulness training for addictions. He is the Director of Research and Innovation at the Mindfulness Center and associate professor in psychiatry at the School of Medicine at Brown University. Author of <em>The Craving Mind</em>, he also is a research affiliate at MIT.
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<h2>1440: In your book <em>The Craving Mind</em>, you talk about things as habits that we wouldn&rsquo;t necessarily think of as habits, like love or anxiety. How are these things the same as a habit or an addiction?</h2>

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<em>Judson:</em> In brain speak, the habit loop needs a trigger, a behavior, and a reward. With anxiety, there is something that pops up to trigger it, and that&rsquo;s often followed by a behavior like worry. When we start to worry, we feel like we have some control&mdash;we think our brains are going to fix it&mdash;so there is some small, temporary relief.

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Generally worrying just makes things worse, but maybe it worked out once before that we worried and it seemed to resolve something, so it&rsquo;s like playing the lottery.

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<span class="quote">We think if we ruminate about something for the fourth or fifth time, we might come up with the answer. </span>

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Our brains are really good at knowing how to think, but they&rsquo;re not that great at solving problems that don&rsquo;t have straightforward, predictable, and logical solutions. For example, they&rsquo;re not good at solving the problems that generally cause us anxiety, like politics or financial issues. But the tendency to worry when something makes us feel anxious becomes a habit unto itself.

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<h2>1440: How can we disrupt this habit and shift away from being so anxious?</h2>

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<em>Judson:</em> Unpredictability drives our brains crazy. If we&rsquo;re anxious, we can predict what will happen and how we&rsquo;ll feel if we keep worrying. But if I stop worrying, I&rsquo;m in a space that&rsquo;s unfamiliar and uncomfortable. I&rsquo;d rather go back into my safe space even though it&rsquo;s unpleasant. That&rsquo;s how much our brains are creatures of habit.

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The good news is if we understand how it works, we can actually hack that system through curiosity.

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<span class="quote">When we become curious, we ask what it&rsquo;s like to not worry. </span>

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We can hang out in that space and get comfortable with how weird it feels. The thinking brain will want to pull you back into worry, but curiosity is ultimately more powerful. Your thinking brain is nothing compared to your feeling body.

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<h2>1440: How does this habit loop work with addiction?</h2>

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<p><em>Judson:</em> In general with addictions, people blame the object of the addiction and try to change it. For example, with opioids it&rsquo;s, &ldquo;Let&rsquo;s regulate opioids&rdquo; and &ldquo;Let&rsquo;s blame the evil opioid manufacturers.&rdquo; This is what the thinking brain does. And it&rsquo;s not wrong, the opioid manufacturers have clear culpability in the opioid epidemic for example. But our model is about moving away from the object and moving into the process.</p>

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I&rsquo;ll use an example of binge eating disorder. I have a patient who when she first came to me was at a very unhealthy weight. Her parents were survivors of genocide and her mom started abusing her emotionally when she was eight years old. My patient learned that if she ate food, she could numb herself from those unpleasant emotions. Fast forward 22 years and she was bingeing on entire large pizzas 20 out of 30 days a month.

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If you map this out with the habit loop, she had basically become addicted to bingeing. The trigger would be an unpleasant emotion, the behavior would be the binge, and the reward would be the brief relief that she got from her emotions as she numbed out.

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The next layer would be that she would beat herself up over bingeing and her brain would say, &ldquo;I know what we do when we&rsquo;re feeling bad, we eat pizza.&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">The key to breaking any addictive cycle is to change your relationship to what you&rsquo;re doing. </span>

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This client was one of the first to work with a prototype of our Eat Right Now app. Over a year she brought mindfulness, kindness, and curiosity to this process she was doing every night. She lost 40 pounds and told us that she was so grateful to have gotten her life back. She said to me, &ldquo;I can eat a single piece of pizza and enjoy it.&rdquo; That&rsquo;s fabulous. She doesn&rsquo;t need to avoid certain foods because she&rsquo;s gained mastery over the process, and changed how she relates to food.

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<h2>1440: How does meditation help us with addiction?</h2>

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<em>Judson:</em> Our data has found that informal mindfulness practices are actually more powerful than meditation for people who are just beginning. Meditation helps to train mindfulness, but we don&rsquo;t need meditation to learn to be mindful. We just need to pay attention.

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Our orbital frontal cortex doesn&rsquo;t change reward value (remember we&rsquo;re working with the trigger&mdash;behavior&mdash;reward process) unless it has accurate information, and we can only give it accurate information through awareness.

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<span class="quote">That&rsquo;s how our brains learn, through sensory information. </span>

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So that&rsquo;s really it. There&rsquo;s nothing more sophisticated than you need to give your brain accurate information as to how rewarding some behavior is, mental or physical. When you show it a behavior that&rsquo;s more rewarding than another, you&rsquo;ll begin to gravitate toward that new behavior. That&rsquo;s how the BBO (bigger, better offer) works. It&rsquo;s not about the thinking brain. It&rsquo;s about the feeling body.

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<h2>1440: What do you mean by &ldquo;feeling body?&rdquo;</h2>

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<em>Judson:</em> What I mean by feeling body is when you eat three cookies, what does your stomach feel like? It also means when you eat three cookies and feel guilty, what are the feelings associated with guilt? There are thoughts associated with guilt, but there are also sensations. (That&rsquo;s one definition of emotion&mdash;thoughts plus sensations.)

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Mindfulness helps us actually feel what something feels like and because mindfulness and curiosity are free of judgment, they&rsquo;re more expansive than guilt.

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<span class="quote">When you get curious and feel that curiosity feels better than guilt, you start to break down the habit loop. </span>

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<h2>1440: What is one mystery that hasn&rsquo;t been solved yet&mdash;in your field or otherwise&mdash;that you would really like to know the answer to?</h2>

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<em>Judson:</em> What a great question!

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<span class="quote">What I&rsquo;m doing is putting modern-day language on what the Buddha discovered a long time ago&mdash;it&rsquo;s not anything new. </span>

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I&rsquo;m mapping the idea of reward-based learning, which was observed by B.F. Skinner in the early twentieth century, onto the Buddhist idea of dependent origination and using mindfulness-based practices to disrupt the habit loop. The solution to our suffering is right there in this framework.

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I think what remains a mystery is how to scale it. How do we get more people to wake up? What&rsquo;s it going to take to shake us out of our anger and reverie into equanimity and eudaimonia?

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<span class="quote">People are killing themselves and each other with their habits. </span>

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We&rsquo;re also killing our planet. We need to learn to become masters of ourselves, but our time is short. So I&rsquo;d love to know how to get this to as many people as possible as quickly as we can.

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<p><strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong></p>

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<p>Join Judson Brewer, PhD, and Robin Boudette, PhD, here at 1440 April 17 &ndash; April 19, 2020.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/is-anxiety-a-habit-talking-with-dr-judson-brewer</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/is-anxiety-a-habit-talking-with-dr-judson-brewer#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Cultivate Leadership Presence</title><description><![CDATA[Control is one of humankind&rsquo;s greatest illusions. Let&rsquo;s face it&mdash;even with all the information available and expansive educational preparation&mdash;unexpected events often interfere with our plans and our best efforts to control an outcome or an event (and even ourselves!).
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And what happens to us, to those around us, and to the teams and organizations we lead when things get disrupted?

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For many of us, it depends on the day. There are times when we run into an obstacle and see it as an opportunity for creativity, a challenge that excites us. Then there are times when an obstacle throws us off balance, creates confusion and stress, and &ldquo;leaks&rdquo;&nbsp;out in actions, whether verbal or physical. These reactions are, at best, counterproductive, and at worst, disrespectful and injurious. It all depends on our mind&rsquo;s ability, on that day, in that moment, to regain equilibrium quickly so we can respond with spaciousness and creativity.

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<span class="quote">Fortunately, it&rsquo;s possible to cultivate this capacity of the mind and train it in the same way we would train our body to be stronger, more flexible, and fit. </span>

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And, for this training to be particularly effective, it should be done in the context of strengthening and expanding our capacity to lead.

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In the past several years, new leadership training has emerged, one steeped in the knowledge that leaders have the capacity to strongly influence others and our world, for better or worse. It also recognizes that the vast majority of people in leadership roles have strong minds, deep expertise, and good hearts. This training is based on the mental discipline of mindfulness practice. It cultivates the mind&rsquo;s innate ability to be present, and it applies this learning to everyday life. The research results have been startling&mdash;both in what people already recognize about their lives, and in what evolves in a short period of time. And while there are practices specifically relevant to the most senior leaders, there are also mindful leadership courses that recognize the leadership potential at every level of an organization.

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A survey research project involving more than 75 graduates of three of our mindful leadership courses offers some extraordinary insight. The participants responded to 19 statements asking them to indicate the frequency of a certain behavior using a six-point scale (&ldquo;almost always&rdquo; to &ldquo;almost never&rdquo;). When responding to the statement &ldquo;I am able to be fully attentive to a conversation,&rdquo; only 34 percent of participants answered in the top two boxes (almost always/very frequently). Nearly two-thirds of the participants knew they were not fully listening to conversations most of the time. After the participants had been practicing mindful leadership training for just seven weeks, the number increased from 34 to 74 percent. As participants begin to develop the capacity to notice when the mind is not present and redirect their attention as part of their daily assignments from the course, they also recognize what is missing in a state of mind that is only partly &ldquo;there.&rdquo; Similar numbers were seen when the survey asked about the ability to be &ldquo;fully attentive in meetings, conference calls, and presentations&rdquo; (31 percent before the training and 75 percent after the training).

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Recent mindful research on leadership and work:

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	<li><a href="https://www.mindful.org/study-meditation-can-boost-productivity-at-work/">Meditation can boost productivity at work:</a> Eight weeks of mindfulness training later, a group of human resource managers proved to be less stressed and more able to concentrate on tasks than their counterparts who did not receive the training.</li>
	<li><a href="https://www.mindful.org/mindful-multitasking-with-less-stress-more-concentration/">Mindful multitasking:</a> Meditation training can help you stay on tasks longer, with fewer distractions, and also improves memory and reduces stress.</li>
	<li><a href="https://www.mindful.org/study-female-entrepreneurs-more-likely-to-meditate/">Female entrepreneurs more likely to meditate:</a> Research by Baylor University in Waco, Texas reveals that 37 percent of female entrepreneurs practice meditation&mdash;almost 10 percent more than their male counterparts.</li>
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And while these numbers and results are compelling, giving us a glimpse into the cultivation of the mind&rsquo;s capacity to be less reactive and fully present, they tell only part of the story.

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<span class="quote">The rest of the story involves the rediscovery of the passion that first brought participants to their chosen profession or to their leadership aspirations. </span>

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Time and again, people are able to answer the call to be of service to their teams, to be compassionate leaders, to push the boundaries of knowledge, to the development of solutions to the world&rsquo;s problems, and to the quality of overall excellence and engagement they find fulfilling.

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It also isn&rsquo;t a surprise, that when asked about the frequency with which participants are &ldquo;distracted by thoughts about work when at home, or about home when at work,&rdquo; 64 percent said &ldquo;almost always/very frequently.&rdquo; This is of note because it is so widespread as well as being self-reported as a &ldquo;distraction.&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">What participants learn from mindful leadership training is that they don&rsquo;t need to be victims of these thoughts that carry them away from where they are. </span>

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With practice, they can learn to redirect the thinking mind and be fully attentive to the present. Seven weeks after they began the journey of cultivating mindful leadership, the survey response in the &ldquo;almost always/very frequently&rdquo; categories dropped from 64 to 17 percent. Imagine the energy conserved and the productivity enhanced from this change alone!

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If we remove drains and distractions like this, or significantly lessen them, there undoubtedly will be more room for the spaciousness and clarity to allow us to respond with flexibility, calm, and creativity when the unexpected occurs, and to simply and importantly be fully at work when we are at work, and fully at home when we are at home.

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Another critical ability the participants began to cultivate was to lessen the time that we live on auto-pilot&mdash;sometimes considered the only way to make it through the day.

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<span class="quote">Participants learned that stopping and making the effort to be purposeful improved their capacity to be at their best and enhanced their productivity and clarity. </span>

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The responses to one of the simplest survey questions illustrate one aspect of this: only 26 percent of the participants said they frequently took time each day to optimize personal productivity. After the training, this number jumped to 87 percent. Why? Perhaps it was because they experimented with stopping and allowing themselves to question some of the autopilot and cultural norms that sometimes become ingrained as we juggle the demands of work/family/community.

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As we explore mindful leadership training and its relationship to the aspects of life outside our &ldquo;control,&rdquo; we learn a valuable lesson. What&rsquo;s needed now, more than ever, is the ability to cultivate our mind&rsquo;s capacity to be present, to experience life exactly as it unfolds, and to unwrap this potential gift of leadership presence with clarity, compassion, and joy.

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Janice Marturano and Dawn MacDonald, MSW, are teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Cultivating Leadership Presence Through Mindfulness: An Immersion Training Retreat</a> (25 CE Credits) at 1440 Multiversity,&nbsp;September 20 &ndash; 24, 2017.

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This article was originally published on the website of&nbsp;<a href="https://instituteformindfulleadership.org/">Institute for Mindful Leadership.</a>

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<strong>Janice Marturano is the founder and executive director of the <a href="https://instituteformindfulleadership.org/">Institute for Mindful Leadership</a>, a nonprofit organization dedicated to training and supporting leaders in the exploration of mindfulness and the fundamentals of leadership excellence.</strong> As a certified teacher of mindfulness and an experienced former officer of a Fortune 200 company, she has brought the intensive training of mindful leadership to corporate, nonprofit, academic, government, and military organizations, including General Mills, P&amp;G, Amazon, Red Cross, United Way, and the Nature Conservancy.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-cultivate-leadership-presence</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-cultivate-leadership-presence#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>Casual Sex is Never Casual: What the Brain Reveals</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dr. Helen Fisher</a> is an internationally renowned neuroscientist, biological anthropologist, and pioneer in the biology of human personality. Named one of &ldquo;the 15 most amazing women in science today&rdquo; by Business Insider, Dr. Fisher is the most referenced scholar in the field of love and relationships in the world today. She is a&nbsp;senior research fellow at the Kinsey Institute, an anthropologist at Rutgers University, and chief scientific advisor for Match.com.
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<h2>1440: Let&rsquo;s talk about what neuroscience reveals about love. What happens in the brain when we are in love?</h2>

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<em>Helen:</em> I&rsquo;d like to first define love. I&rsquo;m a neuroscientist, and I think we&rsquo;ve evolved three distinctly different brain systems for mating and reproduction.

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One is the sex drive. The second is feelings of intense romantic love. And the third is feelings of deep attachment.&nbsp;It&rsquo;s important to consider that all three are connected, though not always. You can fall madly in love with one person and feel deeply attached to another.

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<h2>1440: Let&rsquo;s talk about romantic love.</h2>

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<em>Helen:</em> My colleagues and I have put over 100 people who were madly in love into a brain scanner.

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The first group were people who considered themselves happily in love. The second group were people who had just been dumped, or rejected in love. And the third were people in love long-term&mdash;people married an average of 21 years who said they were still in love.

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Among those who were happily in love, we found the greatest brain activity in a tiny little factory near the base of the brain called the ventral tegmental area (VTA). It is a brain region that makes dopamine, which is a natural stimulant.

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<span class="quote">Dopamine gives you optimism, focus, motivation, energy, and can also give you intense feelings of romantic passion. </span>

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What&rsquo;s interesting about the VTA is that it lies in the same general region as the brain factories that orchestrate thirst and hunger. So, it occurred to me, wow, being in love is not an emotion. There&rsquo;s a lot of emotions involved in romance, of course. There&rsquo;s a lot of cognitive thinking processes involved too.

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<span class="quote">But, basically, romantic love is a drive&mdash;a primitive drive that leads us to seek life&rsquo;s greatest prize: a mating partner. </span>

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So, that&rsquo;s why we (myself and my brain scanning colleague Lucy Brown) call it a &ldquo;survival mechanism.&rdquo; Romantic love evolved in the brain as a basic reproductive tool to drive you to form the kind of relationship that may lead to children and enable your DNA to survive into the next generation.

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<h2>1440: What did you learn from studying the brains of people rejected in love?</h2>

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<em>Helen:</em> For me, it was even more important to understand the neural pathways of rejection than what happens in the brains of those happily in love. As expected, we discovered activity in the same brain region&mdash;the ventral tegmental area way down in the drive region of the brain.

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This makes sense because you don&rsquo;t stop loving somebody when you have been rejected. In fact, you can love them even harder. I call it &ldquo;frustration attraction.&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">When there&rsquo;s a real barrier to relationship, this brain system can work even harder. </span>

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But we also found activity in a brain region linked with feelings of deep attachment to the partner. Attachment also doesn&rsquo;t die when you are dumped.&nbsp;And we found activity in three brain regions linked with craving and addiction.

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<span class="quote">That&rsquo;s what I was looking for. </span>

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There&rsquo;s a brain region called the nucleus accumbens that becomes very active when you have any substance addiction, like alcohol or nicotine or cocaine. But the nucleus accumbens is also activated during all behavioral addictions&mdash;everything from gambling to sex addiction to eating disorders to kleptomania. And this same brain region that becomes active in all of the substance and behavioral addictions also becomes active when you are rejected in love.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Radiant Intimacy </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Helen Fisher, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Terry Real,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Diane Poole Heller, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Michaela Boehm,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Steve James,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Celeste Hirschman, MA,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Dimitry Yakoushkin,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Zaya and Maurizio Benazzo</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">May 24 - 27, 2019</div>
We all long for love. We long to be intimately connected to ourselves and others. For some, a partnership or marriage is the natural outcome of this longing. Others find alternative styles of intimacy more fulfilling. For most of us,...

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That discovery drove me to go back and look at people who were happily in love to see if they were activating this region, and indeed they were. I can&rsquo;t get another person in my field to believe me, but I think that romantic love is a <em>positive</em> addiction when it&rsquo;s the right person at the right time and all is well. It is a positive addiction that evolved millions of years ago to drive us to form a pair bond and send our DNA into tomorrow.

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<span class="quote">But, it can certainly be a horribly negative addiction also. </span>

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Simply put, I think it&rsquo;s an addiction and it needs to be treated as an addiction. It&rsquo;s amazing how many therapists will say, &ldquo;Well, just leave him (or her).&rdquo; And yet, you can&rsquo;t just leave the person if it&rsquo;s an addiction. You have to know how to handle it.

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<h2>1440: How do you believe rejection is best handled?</h2>

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<em>Helen:</em> I think the Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) philosophy applies: Get rid of the cards and letters. If you can&rsquo;t get rid of them, put them in a closet where you can&rsquo;t see them.

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<span class="quote">Don&rsquo;t write. Don&rsquo;t call. Don&rsquo;t show up. Don&rsquo;t ask your friends about the person. </span>

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What you&rsquo;re doing when you do any of those things is just reviving the ghost. There&rsquo;s somebody living in your head, and you&rsquo;ve got to get them out. If you drunk call them on New Year&rsquo;s Eve and they&rsquo;re nice to you because they feel guilty and it spurs your hope again, you&rsquo;re just waylaying the process of recovery.

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When studying people rejected in love, we also saw activity in a brain region in the anterior insula that is linked with anxiety, stress, and physical pain.

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<span class="quote">This particular brain region becomes active when you have a bad toothache. </span>

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The difference between romantic rejection and a toothache is you go to the dentist, you solve the tooth problem, and a week later you&rsquo;ve forgotten it. But it can take months or years of trying to get over a rejection in love.

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<h2><strong>1440: Do you believe we can move from being in love with someone to being friends?</strong></h2>

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<em>Helen:</em> I think it is a myth to think we can transition from one to the other. One of the things I say to people after a breakup is, &ldquo;Tell the person: <em>Look, I have to get over this. I&rsquo;ll get back to you in two or three years when I&rsquo;m completely over it</em>.&rdquo;

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Then, two or three years later, you&rsquo;ve lost that passion. You haven&rsquo;t forgotten, of course&mdash;the memory system doesn&rsquo;t get killed&mdash;but the emotions that go along with the rejection are now gone, and you have moved on.

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<span class="quote">We have proven with our brain scanning that time heals. </span>

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<h2>1440: What does neuroscience reveal about sex? You say there is no such thing as casual sex. What does that mean?</h2>

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<em>Helen:</em> Unless you&rsquo;re so drunk that you can&rsquo;t remember it, there&rsquo;s no such thing as casual sex because the brain is always responding.

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<span class="quote">Sex triggers 5 of the 12 cranial nerves. </span>

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At the same time as you are physically stimulated, the brain is ticking along collecting data: <em>Is this person kind? Are they patient? Are they humorous? Can they listen to what I need?</em>

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When you are having sex with somebody, it heightens all of your basic senses: You can really see them. You can really hear them. You can really feel them. You can really taste them. You can really touch them.

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I do an annual study called Singles in America. We poll a national representative sample based on the U.S. census. And recently I asked the question, &ldquo;Have you ever had sex with somebody before the first date?&rdquo; Thirty-four percent of singles said yes.

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So, what are they doing?

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<span class="quote">I think they&rsquo;re collecting data in what amounts to a sex interview. </span>

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It seems crazy to say, but I actually think this stems from caution. Today&rsquo;s singles want to know a lot about a potential partner before they invest their time, their energy, and their money in an official first date.&nbsp; In short, I think we&rsquo;re beginning to see an extension of the <i>pre-commitment&nbsp;</i>stage of partnerships. &nbsp;I call it &ldquo;slow love.&rdquo;

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We live in an age where most Americans are not scared of getting pregnant. They know how to handle that. They&rsquo;re not scared of disease. They know how to avoid that. They don&rsquo;t have to walk the walk of shame. So, the lid is off the pot, and people are having &ldquo;casual&rdquo; sex (which is not casual at all) to collect data about whether they want to seriously invest in this person.

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<strong>Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor of 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/casual-sex-is-never-casual-what-the-brain-reveals</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/casual-sex-is-never-casual-what-the-brain-reveals#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>5 Mindful Questions with Carin Winter</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Carin Winter</a> is the founder and chief executive officer of Mission Be who has successfully led the Mission Be Mindful Education Program into 28 schools from Big Sur, California, to Harlem, New York.
<h2>Q: Tell us why it&rsquo;s important that children learn the practice of mindfulness?</h2>
<em>Carin Winter:</em> Many students are overwhelmed by academic pressure and busy schedules.

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<span class="quote">Children benefit from the daily practice of mindfulness which allows them to self-regulate and manage daily pressures. </span>

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There are also many children that have experienced trauma and mindfulness can help reduce trauma and give children a skill to heal.

<h2>Q: When offering mindfulness-based educational programs, do you ever encounter resistance? How do you overcome it?</h2>
<em>Carin Winter:</em> There are times when we first come into a classroom and it is a bit of rowdy. During these times, there can be a bit of resistance from the students and teachers to change the cultural norms. But, typically by the third week the children are open and receptive to practicing mindfulness and embracing the possibility of a different culture, one of calmness and compassion.

<h2>Q: What kind of real benefits have you witnessed from the implementation of mindfulness programs in schools?</h2>
<em>Carin Winter:</em> We collected data and found a 13% increase in ELA, English Language Art scores, a 5 out of 6 category increase in State Math Scores. In surveying teachers, 92% of teachers reported an increase in improvement of student empathy, 85% of teachers reported an improvement in decision making. 100% of teachers surveyed reported that Mission Be was an effective character education program. 17/17 teachers reported an observed increase in student self-regulation and attention and their ability to manage stress effectively.

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A senior at Stanford University conducted her honors thesis on Mission Be&rsquo;s curriculum and found that students themselves reported reduced stress and increased focus when applying what they learned in mindfulness class.* She analyzed what students reported feeling both before and after practicing mindfulness. In the immediate moments before using mindfulness practices, students generally reported feeling mad, stressed, angry, sad, and/or frustrated. After using mindfulness, students most commonly reported feeling calm, relaxed, and/or happy. Generally, students moved from a negative emotional state to a more positive state after using mindfulness.

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*Isabel Arjmand, &ldquo;Take a Deep Breath&rdquo;, Stanford Study, 2016.

<h2>Q: Can you give us an example of a mindfulness technique that children or teachers can use?</h2>
<em>Carin Winter:</em> One of the breaths the children love is the Ocean Breath. Here is a little sample:

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Close your eyes and take a slow deep breath in, feel your belly and heart rise and as you breathe out and feel your heart and belly fall. Now, imagine your breath moving rhythmically like the waves of the ocean. As you inhale, imagine the waves of breath moving into your body and filling your lungs, belly, and chest. As you exhale, breathe out and release slow healing ocean breaths. Now for a one minute, just sit and breathe in and out in stillness.

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Gently prepare to come back to the room, wiggling your fingers and toes and opening your eyes.

<h2>Q: Who can benefit from your program at 1440 Multiversity?</h2>
<em>Carin Winter:</em> Our program is most ideal for K-5th grade teachers. Our course is designed to equip teachers an opportunity to how to deliver a 12 week course to bring a solid foundation of mindfulness into their classroom as well, as give get daily practices to bring into their classroom.

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The beautiful part of this program is that it is also designed to help teachers develop and maintain their own personal practice.

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<em><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Carin Winter</a> and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sarah Cruse</a> will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Mindful Educator: Mission Be&rsquo;s Mindfulness Training for Teachers</a> from July 30 &ndash; August 4, 2017, at 1440 Multiversity.</em>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-mindful-questions-with-carin-winter</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-mindful-questions-with-carin-winter#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>5 Mindful Questions with Carin Winter</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Carin Winter</a> is the founder and chief executive officer of Mission Be who has successfully led the Mission Be Mindful Education Program into 28 schools from Big Sur, California, to Harlem, New York.
<h2>Q: Tell us why it&rsquo;s important that children learn the practice of mindfulness?</h2>
<em>Carin Winter:</em> Many students are overwhelmed by academic pressure and busy schedules.

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<span class="quote">Children benefit from the daily practice of mindfulness which allows them to self-regulate and manage daily pressures. </span>

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There are also many children that have experienced trauma and mindfulness can help reduce trauma and give children a skill to heal.

<h2>Q: When offering mindfulness-based educational programs, do you ever encounter resistance? How do you overcome it?</h2>
<em>Carin Winter:</em> There are times when we first come into a classroom and it is a bit of rowdy. During these times, there can be a bit of resistance from the students and teachers to change the cultural norms. But, typically by the third week the children are open and receptive to practicing mindfulness and embracing the possibility of a different culture, one of calmness and compassion.

<h2>Q: What kind of real benefits have you witnessed from the implementation of mindfulness programs in schools?</h2>
<em>Carin Winter:</em> We collected data and found a 13% increase in ELA, English Language Art scores, a 5 out of 6 category increase in State Math Scores. In surveying teachers, 92% of teachers reported an increase in improvement of student empathy, 85% of teachers reported an improvement in decision making. 100% of teachers surveyed reported that Mission Be was an effective character education program. 17/17 teachers reported an observed increase in student self-regulation and attention and their ability to manage stress effectively.

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A senior at Stanford University conducted her honors thesis on Mission Be&rsquo;s curriculum and found that students themselves reported reduced stress and increased focus when applying what they learned in mindfulness class.* She analyzed what students reported feeling both before and after practicing mindfulness. In the immediate moments before using mindfulness practices, students generally reported feeling mad, stressed, angry, sad, and/or frustrated. After using mindfulness, students most commonly reported feeling calm, relaxed, and/or happy. Generally, students moved from a negative emotional state to a more positive state after using mindfulness.

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*Isabel Arjmand, &ldquo;Take a Deep Breath&rdquo;, Stanford Study, 2016.

<h2>Q: Can you give us an example of a mindfulness technique that children or teachers can use?</h2>
<em>Carin Winter:</em> One of the breaths the children love is the Ocean Breath. Here is a little sample:

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Close your eyes and take a slow deep breath in, feel your belly and heart rise and as you breathe out and feel your heart and belly fall. Now, imagine your breath moving rhythmically like the waves of the ocean. As you inhale, imagine the waves of breath moving into your body and filling your lungs, belly, and chest. As you exhale, breathe out and release slow healing ocean breaths. Now for a one minute, just sit and breathe in and out in stillness.

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Gently prepare to come back to the room, wiggling your fingers and toes and opening your eyes.

<h2>Q: Who can benefit from your program at 1440 Multiversity?</h2>
<em>Carin Winter:</em> Our program is most ideal for K-5th grade teachers. Our course is designed to equip teachers an opportunity to how to deliver a 12 week course to bring a solid foundation of mindfulness into their classroom as well, as give get daily practices to bring into their classroom.

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The beautiful part of this program is that it is also designed to help teachers develop and maintain their own personal practice.

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<em><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Carin Winter</a> and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sarah Cruse</a> will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Mindful Educator: Mission Be&rsquo;s Mindfulness Training for Teachers</a> from July 30 &ndash; August 4, 2017, at 1440 Multiversity.</em>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-mindful-questions-with-carin-winter</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-mindful-questions-with-carin-winter#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Faculty Focus: Getting to Know Judith E. Glaser</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/programs/faculty">Judith E. Glaser</a> is the best-selling author of seven business books, including Conversational Intelligence. She is a pioneering and innovative change agent, consultant, and executive coach and is the world&rsquo;s  leading authority on Conversational Intelligence, WE-centric leadership, and &ldquo;neuro-innovation.&rdquo; Judith has more than 30 years&rsquo; experience drawing on neuroscience and anthropology in working with CEOs and their teams to elevate levels of engagement, collaboration, and innovation to impact the bottom line.
<h2>What do you think is the most important lesson people can glean from your work?</h2>
<span style="font-size: 16px;">We are designed to grow our whole life.</span>

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Sometimes we get stuck in thinking otherwise and it can make us sad about who we are. If we live in &ldquo;discovery&rdquo; we never stop growing, we can live to 100 and beyond, and when we live in this &ldquo;happy place&rdquo; we send happiness to others every time we talk with them. These are the chemical highs that I love to talk about &hellip; and there is more to the story. All our interactions are chemically based and knowing what interactions create what neuro-chemical responses is like finding the &ldquo;holy grail!&rdquo;

<h2>Do you have an affirmation for tough times?</h2>
Tough times are when you have an aspiration and don&rsquo;t feel able to achieve it! Reframe it to &ldquo;Tough times are the challenges that help us grow!&rdquo; Then we can handle them better and we might even look forward to them coming.

<h2>Where&rsquo;s your happy place?</h2>
My gut. I love getting &ldquo;gut insights.&rdquo; It gives me a chill all over my body.

<h2>What&rsquo;s the one thing that we all should remember about love?</h2>
Love your husband, love your children, love your grandchildren, love your clients, love your friends, and love them even if&mdash;or when they are not perfect!

<h2>When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?</h2>
I wanted to be a doctor! I read my first medical book when I was 11.5 and found it extraordinarily exciting. In the medical books, I could see inside of people&rsquo;s brains and I got so excited I couldn&rsquo;t sleep! Then I discovered archeology and anthropology and went on an Archeological Excavation to Czechoslovakia to excavate a 6,000-year-old Neolithic site. Then I discovered &ldquo;power&rdquo; and put it all together and became an Organizational Anthropologist.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-getting-to-know-judith-e-glaser</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-getting-to-know-judith-e-glaser#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Faculty Focus: Getting to Know Judith E. Glaser</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Judith E. Glaser</a> is the best-selling author of seven business books, including Conversational Intelligence. She is a pioneering and innovative change agent, consultant, and executive coach and is the world&rsquo;s  leading authority on Conversational Intelligence, WE-centric leadership, and &ldquo;neuro-innovation.&rdquo; Judith has more than 30 years&rsquo; experience drawing on neuroscience and anthropology in working with CEOs and their teams to elevate levels of engagement, collaboration, and innovation to impact the bottom line.
<h2>What do you think is the most important lesson people can glean from your work?</h2>
<span style="font-size: 16px;">We are designed to grow our whole life.</span>

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Sometimes we get stuck in thinking otherwise and it can make us sad about who we are. If we live in &ldquo;discovery&rdquo; we never stop growing, we can live to 100 and beyond, and when we live in this &ldquo;happy place&rdquo; we send happiness to others every time we talk with them. These are the chemical highs that I love to talk about &hellip; and there is more to the story. All our interactions are chemically based and knowing what interactions create what neuro-chemical responses is like finding the &ldquo;holy grail!&rdquo;

<h2>Do you have an affirmation for tough times?</h2>
Tough times are when you have an aspiration and don&rsquo;t feel able to achieve it! Reframe it to &ldquo;Tough times are the challenges that help us grow!&rdquo; Then we can handle them better and we might even look forward to them coming.

<h2>Where&rsquo;s your happy place?</h2>
My gut. I love getting &ldquo;gut insights.&rdquo; It gives me a chill all over my body.

<h2>What&rsquo;s the one thing that we all should remember about love?</h2>
Love your husband, love your children, love your grandchildren, love your clients, love your friends, and love them even if&mdash;or when they are not perfect!

<h2>When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?</h2>
I wanted to be a doctor! I read my first medical book when I was 11.5 and found it extraordinarily exciting. In the medical books, I could see inside of people&rsquo;s brains and I got so excited I couldn&rsquo;t sleep! Then I discovered archeology and anthropology and went on an Archeological Excavation to Czechoslovakia to excavate a 6,000-year-old Neolithic site. Then I discovered &ldquo;power&rdquo; and put it all together and became an Organizational Anthropologist.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-getting-to-know-judith-e-glaser</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-getting-to-know-judith-e-glaser#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Faculty Focus: Getting to Know David Krueger</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">David Krueger</a> is an executive mentor coach and CEO of MentorPath, an executive coaching, training, publishing, and wellness firm where he develops internal mentoring programs for corporations and works with executives worldwide in high-risk, high-reward situations, guiding them in the development of sustainable success strategies.
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Dr. Krueger, who was listed in <em>The Best Doctors in America</em> annually from 1996 to 2002, practiced and taught psychiatry and psychoanalysis, and was clinical professor of psychiatry at Baylor College of Medicine.

<h2>What do you think is the most important lesson people can glean from your work?</h2>
Whatever we think, feel, and experience, we create each moment.

<h2>&nbsp;Do you have an affirmation for tough times?</h2>
Fate whispered to the Warrior: You cannot stand the storm. The Warrior whispered back: I am the storm.

<h2>What&rsquo;s the one thing that we should all remember about love?</h2>
<span style="font-size: 16px;">Love is a verb.</span>

<h2>Where&rsquo;s your happy place?</h2>
My ranch, where I go on weekends to be in nature and among the critters, including a herd of axis deer.

<h2>When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?</h2>
Growing up on a farm and working outdoors, my goal as a small boy was to have a job where I worked inside an air-conditioned building and wore a tie. Later, that evolved to becoming a physician.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-getting-to-know-david-krueger</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-getting-to-know-david-krueger#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>work-well</category></item><item><title>1440 Faculty Focus: Getting to Know David Krueger</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">David Krueger</a> is an executive mentor coach and CEO of MentorPath, an executive coaching, training, publishing, and wellness firm where he develops internal mentoring programs for corporations and works with executives worldwide in high-risk, high-reward situations, guiding them in the development of sustainable success strategies.
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Dr. Krueger, who was listed in <em>The Best Doctors in America</em> annually from 1996 to 2002, practiced and taught psychiatry and psychoanalysis, and was clinical professor of psychiatry at Baylor College of Medicine.

<h2>What do you think is the most important lesson people can glean from your work?</h2>
Whatever we think, feel, and experience, we create each moment.

<h2>&nbsp;Do you have an affirmation for tough times?</h2>
Fate whispered to the Warrior: You cannot stand the storm. The Warrior whispered back: I am the storm.

<h2>What&rsquo;s the one thing that we should all remember about love?</h2>
<span style="font-size: 16px;">Love is a verb.</span>

<h2>Where&rsquo;s your happy place?</h2>
My ranch, where I go on weekends to be in nature and among the critters, including a herd of axis deer.

<h2>When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?</h2>
Growing up on a farm and working outdoors, my goal as a small boy was to have a job where I worked inside an air-conditioned building and wore a tie. Later, that evolved to becoming a physician.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-getting-to-know-david-krueger</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/1440-faculty-focus-getting-to-know-david-krueger#comments</comments><pubDate>Thu, 9 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>Why Yoga Is One (Ancient) Size Fits All</title><description><![CDATA[It&rsquo;s pretty easy to convince ourselves that we aren&rsquo;t the &ldquo;type&rdquo; for a given job, friend, adventure, or form of exercise.
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I fall into this trap when it comes to yoga.

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When I roll out my mat and face the wall of mirrors at my local studio, my eye immediately catches everything that&rsquo;s wrong about my body (or so I tell myself). I look at the lithe instructor, with her graceful arms and flat stomach. Then I look in the mirror and feel out of place. I&rsquo;m too muscular. My thighs are too thick. I notice my feet and hands are in the wrong place. I shift uncomfortably, trying to mimic the teacher. Then, without fail, about halfway into class&mdash;when I&rsquo;m holding a solid side-plank pose and feeling those hard-earned muscles at work&mdash;I let go of the judgment. I forget the mirror and enjoy the flow.

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Yoga is now more popular than ever. According to <em>Yoga Journal</em> and Yoga Alliance, more than 36 million people practiced yoga in the United States in 2016. All sorts of people do all sorts of yoga for many different reasons. Nevertheless, when most Americans think of a yoga instructor, they picture a thin woman in head-to-toe Lululemon, hair piled on top of her head, mala beads clicking on her wrist.

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<h2>Breaking Through Stereotypes</h2>
As a curvy, black female, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Jessamyn Stanley</a> doesn&rsquo;t look the part of a stereotypical yoga teacher&mdash;a fact she celebrates. Stanley is a body-positivity advocate who challenges conventional&mdash;and limiting&mdash;ideas about yoga.

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Stanley cultivated her practice at home, devoting herself to working on poses she discovered online, without worrying about achieving perfection. She uses a dog leash instead of a yoga strap and a pile of books instead of blocks.

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The self-described &ldquo;fat femme&rdquo; began documenting her yoga journey on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mynameisjessamyn/?hl=en">Instagram</a> almost four years ago, often photographing herself in a bathing suit or underwear. Her message of self-acceptance and her impressive poses have attracted more than 280,000 followers. Stanley is in search of self-acceptance and wisdom, but isn&rsquo;t afraid to curse, make jokes, and embrace her own, highly individual approach to this ancient discipline. A teacher and a student of high-energy vinyasa flow, Stanley encourages her students to notice, &ldquo;how do I feel?&rdquo; instead of asking themselves, &ldquo;how do I look?&rdquo;

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Seane Corn</a> has been teaching&nbsp;yoga since the 1980s, and since then has combined her practice with activism focused on social and political change.<br />
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Like many, Corn didn&rsquo;t start yoga looking for a spiritual experience. She was looking for a healthier life, for a way to stop using drugs and alcohol. Then one day, when she was 23, Corn realized yoga was not only having an effect on her body&mdash;it was improving her mental health as well.
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In the early 2000s, Corn went through another shift, one toward social and political change. Recognizing the large number of people practicing yoga in the United States, she began to wonder what would happen if they all got together and united for a cause. It was then that she started <a href="https://www.offthematintotheworld.org/">Off the Mat Into the World</a>, a nonprofit organization that uses&nbsp;yoga to inspire activism and social change. Off the Mat&nbsp;has raised money for an eco-birthing center, a schoolhouse, medical supplies in Uganda, and the HIV/AIDS crisis in South Africa.

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<h2>Looking Within</h2>
My habit of staring in the mirror and criticizing myself doesn&rsquo;t mean there&rsquo;s something wrong with yoga. It also doesn&rsquo;t mean there&rsquo;s something wrong with me.

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It&rsquo;s fairly human to hear the voice of our own self-critic pipe up&mdash;especially when we enter a realm outside our comfort zone.

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When I walk into the yoga studio with its warm wood floors and hanging plants, I would do well to leave behind my idea of what a yoga practitioner is meant to look like. Who cares if I look the part? Allowing&nbsp;myself the opportunity to let go and focus on how my body feels, not how it looks, is what matters.

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Yoga is not about strengthening the core or developing lean muscles. The 5,000-year-old practice began as a way to sacrifice the ego through self-knowledge and action. It developed as a method for exploring physical and spiritual connections. None of these things require a certain body type or expensive pants, something Stanley and Corn understand deeply.

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Hilary Achauer is a former amateur boxer turned surfer and CrossFit athlete. When she&rsquo;s not writing about health and wellness, she&rsquo;s at the library with her kids or trying to figure out what to do with the collard greens from her weekly farm share box. To contact her, visit&nbsp;<a href="https://www.hilaryachauer.com/">www.hilaryachauer.com</a>.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-yoga-is-one-ancient-size-fits-all</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-yoga-is-one-ancient-size-fits-all#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 7 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Why Qigong Is the New Yoga</title><description><![CDATA[Qigong is the new yoga no matter your age, fitness level, or spiritual worldview.
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Blending traditional Chinese medicine with movement, breath, and visualization, qigong is an ancient self-healing system that doesn&rsquo;t require drugs, surgery, or even a yoga mat.

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<span class="quote">For people wanting to reclaim their health without going broke or getting spiritual, qigong offers gentle, at-home, do-it-yourself tools. </span>

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Through gentle movements that align breath, posture, and mind, qigong works with the body&rsquo;s energy systems to boost vitality and well-being.

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Both Western and Eastern medicine agree that negative emotions shorten our capacity for joy and our ability to live long, healthy lives. It&rsquo;s not that negative emotions are inherently bad. We all experience common day-to-day feelings like disappointment, sorrow, envy, anger, and rage. But when strong emotions are suppressed and repressed, physical symptoms like inflammation and illness are the result.

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The worst types of diseases I see in my clinical practice&mdash;disorders and diseases that wreak havoc on people&rsquo;s overall well-being and quality of life&mdash;are rooted in unexpressed feelings of anger, fear, worry, anxiety, sadness, and/or loss. Over the past 20 years I&rsquo;ve noticed a common thread with common autoimmune diseases likes lupus, fibromyalgia, and rheumatoid arthritis.

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Emotionally we&rsquo;re taught never to &ldquo;blow up&rdquo; and lose our temper so our bodies &ldquo;blow up&rdquo; instead. We feel and look swollen, sore, raw, and inflamed. When we ignore anger or any emotion we deem shameful or &ldquo;bad,&rdquo; it&rsquo;s like putting our finger over the steam of a boiling teakettle. Your finger will burn, blister, and bleed. (And your finger gets your undivided attention, doesn&rsquo;t it?)

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<span class="quote">The clients who heal are the people who have the courage and compassion to look at their past, present, and future. (Put another way, they look inside their teakettle!) </span>

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Unlike traditional talk therapy, where you can spend years and tens of thousands of dollars reliving your childhood and rehashing old hurts, energetic medicine works instantaneously.

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With qigong, you don&rsquo;t need to &ldquo;eat it again&rdquo;&mdash;you avoid having to talk about or overanalyze what has gone wrong and why. Instead, you&rsquo;re guided to acknowledge, feel, and release the negative emotions without saying a word. You just breathe, move, and visualize.

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<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Robert Peng</a></div>

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Enjoy a weekend devoted to the pleasurable experience of health and well-being through the flowing, meditative movements of qigong. Robert Peng is an internationally renowned qigong master who shares this ancient healing practice as a practical and enjoyable antidote to...</div>

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Qigong has been practiced for thousands of years and is still considered one of China&rsquo;s most powerful medicinal practices. The proven benefits of practicing qigong for just 20 minutes a day include:

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	<li>strengthened immunity and vitality</li>
	<li>relief from pain and common complaints such as poor digestion, headaches, and arthritis</li>
	<li>relief from depression and anxiety</li>
	<li>looking younger and stronger</li>
	<li>sharpened mind and memory</li>
	<li>accessing more joy, peace, and belonging.</li>
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Although I work with thousands of clients one-on-one, there are plenty of qigong practices you can do at home that promise less stress, better health, and more energy.

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If you&rsquo;d like to learn more about qigong and try it out on your own, feel free to view my 30-day qigong challenge, <em>Qigong to Better Health</em>. These daily 20-minute videos are based on qigong classes and private sessions held at our Morning Crane Healing Arts Center in San Jose, California. You can watch these videos in the morning, afternoon, or just before bed. If you need to get energized, the movements will pump you up. Need to fall asleep? Get ready for some serious zzzzzz.

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Your body wants to be in perfect well-being.

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<span class="quote">Qigong is often described as ancient medicine meets modern miracle. </span>

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When you honor the intention to heal, change, and move forward, qigong invites your body to speak, heal, and dream&hellip;without saying a word.

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<strong>Chris Shelton, a certified qigong practitioner and teacher, is also an author, professional speaker, workshop leader, and an award-winning martial artist. </strong>

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<strong> Chris first experienced the powerful effects of qigong while recovering from a devastating back injury as a teenager. In 1988, after studying with some of the most revered Chinese medicine masters, he started his own medical qigong practice. He now teaches self-healing techniques to a range of ages, skill levels, and abilities&mdash;from youth to Special Olympic athletes to professional fighters. </strong>

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<strong> He was the 2010 Tiger Claw Grand Champion in tai chi and has been featured in <em>Kung Fu Magazine</em>. He is the author of <em>Qigong for Self-Refinement: Total Health with the 5 Elements,</em> and works alongside his wife, Parisa Shelton, to promote the beneficial effects of qigong.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-qigong-is-the-new-yoga</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-qigong-is-the-new-yoga#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 7 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>What Makes a Good Leader Great?</title><description><![CDATA[<iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/_lA-jWThoCA" width="560"></iframe><br />
<span style="font-weight: 400;">What makes a good leader great?</span><br />
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Find out from authentic leaders <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Scott Kriens</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Bill George,</a> <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dana H. Born</a>, and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Gayle Ober</a>&nbsp;at the <a href="https://www.1440.org/">True North Leadership</a>&nbsp;program October 13 &ndash; 18, 2019, at 1440 Multiversity. Watch the video above to learn more about this special and dynamic program.</span>
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<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Scott Kriens,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Bill George,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Dana H. Born, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Michelle Maldonado</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">October 13 - 18, 2019</div>
Join Harvard Business School (HBS) Professor Bill George and former Juniper Networks CEO Scott Kriens for a journey to discover your True North and become a better leader. True North Leadership is based on Bill&rsquo;s groundbreaking courses at HBS that have helped...

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</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-makes-a-good-leader-great</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-makes-a-good-leader-great#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 7 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>What I Love About Yoga and Why I Stopped Teaching It</title><description><![CDATA[<em>&ldquo;Hi. My name is Jodeen and I am a recovering yoga teacher.&rdquo;</em>
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It started innocently enough, 24 years ago in Los Angeles. I was working at Paramount Studios, and saw a flyer promoting an employee yoga class.

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I was 31. I had never taken a yoga class. It was $5.00. I went.

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It was a hard-core vinyasa class, taught in an unventilated storage room, on wafer-thin, biohazard yoga mats placed end to end, occupied by over 20 people. The teacher was an impressive combination of strong attention to alignment and Joseph Campbell soul musings.

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It was one of the hardest activities I had ever engaged in, and as I lay in a pool of my own sweat on that shitty little mat, I wept, as if something had been cracked open inside of me. I walked back to my office high as a kite.

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<span class="quote">Never had the sky been so blue, the clouds so white. My first fix. </span>

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Yoga for me was <em>Meta: The Most Effective Tactic Available</em> to navigate life as a human on this planet. It was a way of being in my skin and aligned with my breath that had never crossed my mind. Finding the stillness in the movement and the dynamism in repose. The simplicity and the power of that changed my life.

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I have often said, &ldquo;Yoga will f*** you up,&rdquo; and it does. Marriages and relationships unravel, jobs change, priorities shift.

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<span class="quote">Once you lift up the rock and look underneath, you cannot un-see what is there. </span>

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There is an evangelical glee we yogis have. You want to tell anyone who will listen or even pretend to listen, how it has been a life raft for you. Kind of like someone who is newly sober, or a born-again Christian. Or a vegetarian. Often we want to teach in order to spread the gospel.

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You teach six classes of your own a week, and sub classes, and take classes, and you can hardly believe how lucky you are to get paid to tend to your physical and emotional well-being and help others. Amazing! Students tell you how your classes have moved them and given them strength. This explodes your heart. You are so grateful to be part of that experience. Not responsible for it, but witness to it. You make yourself available to coffees, lunches, mentoring, and you feel like it is your job to be endlessly available to everyone, because look how amazing your life is, you need to share the goodness. You owe it to everyone because you are so lucky.

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<span class="quote">Then it starts to feel like you have opened a vein. </span>

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This has nothing to do with your students and everything to do with your inability to draw boundaries. You clearly have some work to do.

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You begin to feel spread too thin, vibrating at too high a frequency. And then you get cancer. Again. For the third time, and you think&hellip;hmm? Ironic coincidence?

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Although there are centrifugal tree rings of reasons behind my stepping away from teaching yoga (other stories), this is the big one. It didn&rsquo;t feel healthy to continue. I listened.

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<span class="quote">I inhale. I exhale. I say, &ldquo;Thank you.&rdquo; </span>

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My yoga practice allowed me to be able to sit quietly and let my cancer treatment be my job. I don&rsquo;t know how I would have done it without the foundation my practice laid for me.

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I still do yoga every day, all of the time. Just not on a mat.

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<strong>Jodeen Revere revels in her unconventional, multifaceted dream life. She is an actor, a writer, Thai yoga massage therapist, creative movement and dance enthusiast, and RYT-200 yoga teacher currently on an endless sabbatical. She writes <a href="https://jodeenrevere.wordpress.com/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">a blog chronicling her cancertastic adventures.</a>&nbsp;She loves writing, reading, viewing and heatedly discussing film, eating really good snacks, and chillin&rsquo; with her cats Julian and Tilda. She is a kind and good-natured smart ass. She is very funny. Just ask her. Her favorite human, ever, is her daughter, Lily.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-i-love-about-yoga-and-why-i-stopped-teaching-it</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/what-i-love-about-yoga-and-why-i-stopped-teaching-it#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 7 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;The Way You Treat Your People...Really Matters&quot;</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Lynne Twist</a> is the author of the best-selling&nbsp;<em>The Soul of Money: Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Life </em>and&nbsp;founder of the Soul of Money Institute. She has worked with over 100,000 people in 50 countries for more than 40 years, as a global visionary committed to alleviating poverty, ending world hunger, and supporting social justice and environmental sustainability.
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Cofounder of the Pachamama Alliance, Lynne has worked with some of the most resource-poor and resource-wealthy individuals in the world and has gained a profound understanding of humanity&rsquo;s relationship with money. Seeing the dysfunction and suffering that is so often attached to money, Lynne is committed to bringing a new level of consciousness to the way that money impacts our life and society.

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<h2>1440: What advice would you give to a young entrepreneur looking to start a mission-driven venture with social impact in mind?</h2>
<em>Lynne Twist:&nbsp;</em>Looking at your intention, what you really are wanting to accomplish for the world&mdash;not for yourself but for the world&mdash;will give you the satisfaction, the energy, the vitality, and the life force to do it brilliantly and well. And your failures will give you a leap forward, every one of them. And there will be failures because that&rsquo;s part of how we learn.

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I also suggest that the money that you use to start up your venture comes from people who are mission driven and consistent with your mission to be of service in some way, so that the actual money that fuels your enterprise comes from heart, comes from clear intention&mdash;not only to get a return that&rsquo;s financial, but a social return, a return that serves, a return that makes the world a better place.

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<span class="quote">And then to know that the way you treat your people&mdash;particularly your founding partners, your early adopters, your early people&mdash;really matters. </span>

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You&rsquo;re all going to work really hard, probably harder than you ever worked in your life. But with joy, with vision, with laughter, with camaraderie, with love, with caring for each other, you can make it through anything.

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Keeping your mission and your vision and your purpose super clear in every encounter, and your intention super clear in every encounter, will have you succeed beyond your wildest dreams and ensure that you have fun doing it (even if you don&rsquo;t get any sleep).

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<h2>1440: What do you see the world of business doing these days in productive, prosperous, and assertive ways to balance a drive for profit with a commitment to the planet?</h2>
<em>Lynne Twist:&nbsp;</em>I love the whole movement towards conscious business, conscious companies, and conscious capitalism. I love the B Corp idea. I love the GameChanger 500 badges for companies that are doing business in a way that is for the highest good.

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<span class="quote">Business is the largest institution on earth, and for us to really change the trajectory in which we&rsquo;re headed&mdash;with global warming in particular&mdash;business needs to play a huge role and probably lead the way. </span>

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We have a phrase in the Pachamama Alliance mission statement that I think is very powerful: &ldquo;to bring forth an environmentally sustainable, spiritually fulfilling, socially just human presence on this planet.&rdquo; I think when each and every entrepreneur and corporation awakens to the privilege and the nobility of taking on and bringing forth that way of living as part of their work, then I think we can turn the ship quickly.

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Business has so much muscle, so much expertise, so many standards of excellence, and employs or engages more human beings than anything on earth.

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<span class="quote">We are in an evolutionary leap as a human family, and business can and, I think, will lead the way of that evolutionary leap.</span>

<p>And that&rsquo;s the biggest job business has ever tackled&mdash;and business will do it better than any sector on earth.</p>

<p>Join Lynne Twist at <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Soul of Money</a>, March 20 &ndash; 22, 2020.&nbsp;</p>
<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-way-you-treat-your-peoplereally-matters</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-way-you-treat-your-peoplereally-matters#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 7 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>Showing Up As Yourself: Mike Prokopeak and 1440 Cofounder Scott Kriens on Leadership</title><description><![CDATA[Mike Prokopeak is vice president and editor in chief of Human Capital Media&ndash;publisher of <em>Chief Learning Officer</em>, <em>Talent Economy</em>, and <em>Workforce</em> magazines.
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He spent some recent time on the 1440 campus talking with our cofounder <a href="https://1440.org/">Scott Kriens</a>&nbsp;about what it takes to be an authentic leader and how to sustain a business culture that inspires genuine engagement.

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<strong>Scott Kriens:</strong> [00:01] Hello, everybody. This is Scott Kriens with 1440. With me today is Mike Prokopeak, editor in chief of <em>Chief Learning Officer</em> magazine. We&rsquo;re here at 1440, in the beautiful redwoods. We&rsquo;re going to take 5 or 10 minutes of time here and just chat a little bit. Mike, welcome to 1440.

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<strong>Mike Prokopeak:</strong> [00:18] Thank you, Scott.

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<strong>Scott:</strong> [00:19] Great to have you here.

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<strong>Mike:</strong> [00:20] A pleasure to be here. Having had a chance to talk to you a little bit about 1440 a few weeks ago, when I was writing a story about leadership, it&rsquo;s really a great opportunity to see this in person. I appreciate you hosting me here.

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<strong>Scott:</strong> [00:33] We admire the work you guys are doing and look forward to working together.

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<strong>Mike:</strong> [00:37] Thank you. This is a golden opportunity for me, as somebody who writes and covers the area of leadership development, to talk to you, as somebody who has been a veteran leader and is now really taking your ideas about leadership and applying them at some place like 1440. Putting your money where your mouth is, so to speak, in developing this campus.

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[00:58] I&rsquo;d love to ask you a bit about your experience as a leader and how you see things changing. When would you say is the time you cut your teeth as a leader? What was the leadership philosophy at that time?

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<strong>Scott:</strong> [01:14] At my age, going back to that is a lot of years back. In the &rsquo;80s, in the &rsquo;90s, maybe in the last generation, let&rsquo;s call it, I think there was a common view that the leader stood in the face of the storm without ever a doubt, issued orders without a moment&rsquo;s hesitation, and needed to be this rock that never hesitated for fear that the troops would lose confidence.

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[01:47] That was your only way through the storm. I&rsquo;ve come to think that&rsquo;s not right. I think there&rsquo;s a large view still held by many that that&rsquo;s what it&rsquo;s about, being the ship&rsquo;s captain. I don&rsquo;t think so anymore.

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<strong>Mike:</strong> [02:01] How has leadership changed, from your point of view? That&rsquo;s my fundamental question, is the skills of execution, of being responsible for results, those are consistent now. It&rsquo;s maybe in the way that you carry it out that&rsquo;s a bit different. Maybe you can explain a little bit about how you see it different now than perhaps it was then.

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<strong>Scott:</strong> [02:20] It&rsquo;s a great point, first of all, that the objective at the end of the day if you&rsquo;re looking after shareholders or any set of metrics that we know are quantifiably required in any business. What hasn&rsquo;t changed is the need to optimize for those results and to deliver. What I think has changed is how you get there.

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[02:45] What&rsquo;s fundamentally, I don&rsquo;t want to call it different, I&rsquo;ll say new to the field, in my view, is that it becomes much more about the study of energy, human energy, and how that gets cultivated. If you want to get energy going, it requires, in my opinion, being explicit in thinking about how to do that.

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<span class="quote">Ultimately, if you want to get your results, it&rsquo;s going to take energized people. </span>

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It&rsquo;s a work backwards to where it all begins way of approaching it. It all starts with how we cultivate that energy that&rsquo;s resident in any of us, and bring it to bear, to the task at hand, and results follow.

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<strong>Mike:</strong> [03:36] That&rsquo;s got to be uncomfortable, though, for a lot of leaders who grew up in perhaps an era when you grew up, to say, &ldquo;It&rsquo;s not just about the results. It&rsquo;s about who you are and how you engage people, how you inspire them.&rdquo;

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[03:51] How do you find that authenticity, that voice within you that says, &ldquo;Here&rsquo;s who I am. Here&rsquo;s how I lead,&rdquo; that is going to cultivate your own energy, make it sustainable for you, but also be something that can be inspiring, engaging, and sustaining for the organization? What are ways to do that?

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<strong>Scott:</strong> [04:09] It&rsquo;s a symbiotic thing, in my view. It&rsquo;s not something that a leader generates on their own and then passes on. It&rsquo;s every well feed off each other. At the outset, in my view, and I&rsquo;m not the first to say this, I latched onto it when I heard it, which is, &ldquo;Nobody cares what you know until they know who you are.&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">Until people feel safe and until they feel like they&rsquo;re cared about, they&rsquo;re going to hold back. </span>

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Holding back and being hesitant is not going to produce the kind of energy that somebody who&rsquo;s all-in and feeling trusted, and [inaudible] people have their back. That&rsquo;s a fundamental requirement.

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[04:53] That&rsquo;s only going to happen if somebody is in an environment that is cultivating trust. There&rsquo;s not going to be trust unless people know who they&rsquo;re surrounded by. Otherwise, we&rsquo;re programmed as a species to survive. If we don&rsquo;t know who&rsquo;s around us, then we&rsquo;re not all-in on that, because we don&rsquo;t want to get eaten, in case it&rsquo;s a tiger.

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[05:21] It&rsquo;s this really fundamental requirement to say, &ldquo;Do I know who Mike is? Do people know who Scott is or who the leader is, who they really are?&rdquo; At least, that&rsquo;s possible to know in a setting. That&rsquo;s a lot more than just knowing that they&rsquo;re smart, or knowing that they&rsquo;ve got a brilliant strategy or that they&rsquo;re a very eloquent speaker.

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[05:41] I&rsquo;m not saying any of those things aren&rsquo;t good to have, or that you don&rsquo;t need those. Nobody is listening to any of that unless, first, they feel like, &ldquo;I&rsquo;m in a setting where I know my best interests are being looked out for. I know I&rsquo;m dealing with people that are standing straight in front of me.&rdquo;

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[05:58] For the leader, you have to be what I call first to offer. You could be the first to show up like that because everybody else is waiting for somebody. It has to be the person at the top.

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<strong>Mike:</strong> [06:08] One of the things we cover at Chief Learning Officer magazine, when we talk about leadership, is the role of technology and how that plays a role in how you develop leaders. Learning and development organizations are really challenged with pressure for efficiency, doing things cheaper.

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[06:28] Technology is a way, in many cases, for companies to do things at a distance, where people don&rsquo;t have to travel. They don&rsquo;t necessarily have to be together sometimes in order to have development experiences. To develop that sophisticated leadership philosophy, knowing who you are, exploring who you are as a leader individually but also as a group together, how do you do that?

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[06:51] What&rsquo;s the role of a place in coming together to do that, versus, &ldquo;We can just throw it up on a webinar. Hey, we&rsquo;re going to do a thing. You guys get together. We&rsquo;re going to talk about this. Then you can go back to work. You don&rsquo;t have to bother with it.&rdquo;?

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<strong>Scott:</strong> [07:04] This is such a great question, Mike. Actually, it&rsquo;s one of the fundamental questions that Joanie, my wife, and I asked when we first were deciding whether to build the Multiversity here at 1440. We said [inaudible] , &ldquo;We really need a brick-and-mortar place because look at everything we could do if we take the same effort and put it online.&rdquo;

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[07:23] Fast-forwarding to our obvious conclusions, because we built it, what&rsquo;s required is to engage the whole person.

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<span class="quote">We don&rsquo;t just learn with our brains. We learn with our bodies and with our whole beings. It&rsquo;s a full sensory engagement. </span>

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If you really want to engage the whole person, you can&rsquo;t do that through one dimension of sight or sound only that comes on a webinar.

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[07:54] It&rsquo;s not that those aren&rsquo;t valuable tools. They certainly belong in the mix. And, it&rsquo;s not a &ldquo;but&rdquo; it&rsquo;s an &ldquo;and,&rdquo; in our belief, there needs to be some in-person, immersive time spent because connecting with another person in a way that really builds trust is only possible to a certain degree with remote control, and over a webinar, at a distance, intellectually.

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[08:24] Really engaging like this, in a felt sense, that only happens when we&rsquo;re side by side, is an element in the equation, the absence of which compromises really building a relationship. Ultimately, that&rsquo;s what leadership is about.

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<strong>Mike:</strong> [08:44] How do you sustain it? I get it, I think a lot of people get it, that when you&rsquo;re able to go someplace and have that back-and-forth with people, it&rsquo;s a different experience. That experience is significant. It&rsquo;s meaningful. It can be transformative if it&rsquo;s done right. How do you sustain it?

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[08:59] It&rsquo;s nice to come to some place like 1440 and spend a couple of days, a week, whatever it is, to have a learning experience that&rsquo;s like that or a leadership experience that&rsquo;s like that. Then I go back to the office and I&rsquo;m involved in getting all that stuff done, and all the pressures of that. How do you carry that through beyond being together and having that in-person experience?

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<strong>Scott:</strong> [09:23] This is one of the fundamental challenges of real change in transformative work. As valuable as an immersive setting is, if we go back and are surrounded by people that weren&rsquo;t participating, aren&rsquo;t predisposed, and in fact, are predisposed to the contrary.

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[09:41] They&rsquo;re full speed on the hamster wheel. They don&rsquo;t even notice that you were gone, [laughs] let alone want to look at you differently when you get back. So, this is a key question, and it&rsquo;s where I think whether it&rsquo;s online webinar or other tools and vehicles to keep the community that got connected in the in-person experience together are critical.

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[10:09] The good news is, in our experience here and in my experience in that setting, what you need are touchstones. It&rsquo;s not a continuous need.

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<span class="quote">There&rsquo;s a bond that can be built in person with some real explorative, deep work that can be reignited at periodic touchstones, especially with others that were part of the experience. </span>

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[10:37] There&rsquo;s a sustaining value in it if you do it at a certain interval. If you do it every two weeks, it lasts for 10 days. After three or four times, maybe it lasts for 14 days. After a dozen times, maybe it lasts for a month. There&rsquo;s some cumulative value in the touchstone experience. That actually has to be choreographed in a learning module so that the in-person intensity doesn&rsquo;t just dissipate.

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<strong>Mike:</strong> [11:08] I certainly agree with that. I think that one of the things that we see quite a bit is there&rsquo;s a question of leadership. Then there&rsquo;s a question of sustainable leadership. Everybody wants leadership. Everybody talks about leadership. It&rsquo;s critical because of the fast-moving pace of business, with the transformations that are happening, the disruptions that are happening in many industries.

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[11:28] Leadership is key to that, it&rsquo;s not just leadership. It&rsquo;s that leadership that is sustaining, that is going beyond a year or two years, to one that is scalable. It is really a thing that is going to be lasting within the organization and have a lasting effect.

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[11:45] It&rsquo;s also difficult when you look at the job of leader, because you have to be somewhat autocratic in a way. You have to be very assertive, aggressive, and decisive. Maybe aggressive isn&rsquo;t the right word but decisive.

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[11:59] Yet, you&rsquo;ve got to balance that with a workforce that maybe is changing, as it&rsquo;s expecting different things of leaders and wants to be more participative. How do you keep up with pace and the rapid changes when you have things that are happening to the workforce?

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[12:19] Maybe you&rsquo;re slowing it down, like that need to be more participative, that need to come to more consensus or dialog, I think, is the word that you&rsquo;ve used with it when you&rsquo;re talking about leadership. How do you keep that energy behind getting things done with making sure they&rsquo;re done in the right way?

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<strong>Scott:</strong> [12:36] Here&rsquo;s the way I would describe it. There&rsquo;s a time and place for everything. Being transparent about this is really important. There&rsquo;s a time for gathering of information, debating, and brainstorming of ideas.

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[12:53] That&rsquo;s the participative part, where you want to be able to say to the team in total, &ldquo;I&rsquo;m not sure what we ought to do next. I&rsquo;ve got some ideas, but I&rsquo;m not the smartest guy in this room. I want to understand the rest of the ideas in the room.&rdquo; That&rsquo;s not a time to be assertive and decisive. It&rsquo;s a time for input, inquiry, and dialog.

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[13:16] The leader&rsquo;s job is to arrive at the time where you say, &ldquo;All right. I want everyone to feel like they&rsquo;ve been considered. We put all these inputs into the mix. Now we&rsquo;re going to do this.&rdquo; At this point, you get to something that is really important, which is most often in any complex decision I can name.

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<span class="quote">It has far less to do with making the right decision. It has far more to do with making the decision right once made. </span>

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[13:46] I&rsquo;ll borrow a football analogy. If you&rsquo;re going to build a passing team, you better have a great quarterback and really fast wide receivers. If you&rsquo;re going to build a running team, you better have a great big offensive line and a really quick running back. It&rsquo;s not really that you have to decide that passing is good and running is bad.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>True North Leadership </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Scott Kriens,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Bill George,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Dana H. Born, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://1440.org/faculty/michelle-maldonado/">Michelle Maldonado</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">October 14 - 19, 2018</div>

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Join Harvard Business School (HBS) Professor Bill George and former Juniper Networks CEO Scott Kriens for a journey to discover your True North and become a better leader. True North Leadership is based on Bill&rsquo;s groundbreaking courses at HBS that have helped...</div>

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[14:08] The leader has to say, &ldquo;This is what we&rsquo;re going to do, input all considered. Here&rsquo;s the basic risks of this approach. Here&rsquo;s our contingencies. Here&rsquo;s how we&rsquo;re going to go about it.&rdquo; It&rsquo;s clearly a time to set course and speed. That has to be preceded by the inquiry, input, and dialog. That has to be preceded by creating the trusted environment in the condition where that dialog is felt and heard, not just casual and symbolic.

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[14:38] If that trust creates the conditions where the dialog, the inquiry, and the exchange is really considered, then when the leader says, &ldquo;All input included. Thank you very much. This is what we&rsquo;re going to do,&rdquo; the team rallies. As Intel used to say, &ldquo;You disagree but then commit.&rdquo; Obviously, it&rsquo;s not going to be the case that everybody agrees. That&rsquo;s not required. There&rsquo;s time and place for everything.

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<strong>Mike:</strong> [15:06] It seems like humility as a leader is the key to that, to be able to say, &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t know all the answers, but I know we have the right people in place. I know we have the right approach in place.&rdquo; To pick up the football analogy, &ldquo;We might not have called the right play right now, but we&rsquo;re going to go back and huddle up. We&rsquo;ll try again. We&rsquo;ll try a different play. Maybe this one will work.&rdquo;

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<strong>Scott:</strong> [15:26] There&rsquo;s a lot of decisions involved in ultimately, what is &ldquo;right and wrong.&rdquo; There&rsquo;s not a reason to get too hung up on any one of them. The I don&rsquo;t know part is so important, too. I know going through a couple of different downturns in the real Internet crash in 2000, 2001, or the downturn in &rsquo;08, &rsquo;09.

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[15:44] I remember standing in front of the company, saying, &ldquo;I&rsquo;m really worried about the people that we&rsquo;re going to have to let go here during this downturn. It&rsquo;s going to be very tough for them to find jobs. This is a very bad situation. I&rsquo;m really worried for what that&rsquo;s going to mean.&rdquo;

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[16:00] Instead of that causing people to panic, jump off the boat, to go back to the first analogy, they said, &ldquo;Wow! We&rsquo;re at least hearing real truth about what&rsquo;s really going on. I feel better in a bad situation. I feel better than somebody saying, &lsquo;Don&rsquo;t worry.&#39;&rdquo;

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[16:15] It&rsquo;s like, &ldquo;What do you mean, &lsquo;Don&rsquo;t worry&rsquo;? [laughs] The sky is falling. First, we need to acknowledge that. Then, we need to figure out what we&rsquo;re going to do. If we pretend it&rsquo;s not happening, then I&rsquo;m really worried.&rdquo; I&rsquo;ve just found that to always work better.

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<strong>Mike:</strong> [16:32] We will wrap up with this question. There&rsquo;s undoubtedly no question that the challenges leaders are facing are significant, from a business standpoint, from an economic standpoint, from just the environment that we live in. That&rsquo;s looking at it from a negative point of view.

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[16:49] What are you most excited about when you look at the state of leadership? What gets you excited as you look towards the future of folks, whether they&rsquo;re coming through 1440 or what you&rsquo;re seeing as you look at the business environment? What most excites you that you&rsquo;re seeing in leaders?

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<strong>Scott:</strong> [17:05] In my opinion, we&rsquo;re living in the greatest of times that have ever been. I say that because it&rsquo;s today. It will be true tomorrow and the day after that. Everything that&rsquo;s happening, there&rsquo;s all kinds of concerns about privacy and about how we&rsquo;re interacting with each other.

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[17:25] In my opinion, all of those things that are being made visible now online were all happening off-line anyway. Nothing is any worse than it ever was, we just know more about it.

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<span class="quote">By definition, if you know what&rsquo;s happening, you&rsquo;re closer to solving it than if your head&rsquo;s in the sand or if you didn&rsquo;t know. </span>

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[17:47] We&rsquo;re in a time of the greatest connectivity between human beings in the history of civilization. Has that unveiled a lot of previously hidden scary things? Yes, but it didn&rsquo;t invent them. In my view, we&rsquo;re closer than we&rsquo;ve ever been to the best society that man has ever produced.

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[18:09] As a leader, what that translates to mean is standing up and acknowledging both things. For me, at least, these are the best of times. This is really tough. There&rsquo;s a lot of things we&rsquo;re going to have to navigate here that we didn&rsquo;t have to do before. Are we worried that cell phones are hijacking our minds? Maybe so. We&rsquo;re still better off with them than we are without them, so let&rsquo;s figure out what to do about that.

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<span class="quote">The most important leadership attribute to bring to the world today is not hand-wringing and wishing the old days would come back, but excitement about all the power of what&rsquo;s in our hands and what&rsquo;s in front of us. </span>

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[18:49] Leaning into it and making the most of it, which is what we&rsquo;re trying to do here at 1440, what I know learning is about, in many dimensions, at least, and why I so admire what you guys are doing with <em>Chief Learning Officer</em>, and what so many people in that role are doing out in the world. It&rsquo;s an exciting time.

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<strong>Mike:</strong> [19:08] Thank you for having me here, hosting me here. It&rsquo;s a beautiful campus. I definitely enjoyed being here. I appreciate the conversation and the chance to meet you in person and talk a little bit more about this.

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<strong>Scott:</strong> [19:19] Likewise, Mike. Great to have you here.

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<strong>Mike:</strong> [19:20] Thanks, Scott.

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<strong>Scott:</strong> [19:21] We&rsquo;ll see you all soon.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/showing-up-as-yourself-mike-prokopeak-and-1440-cofounder-scott-kriens-on-leadership</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/showing-up-as-yourself-mike-prokopeak-and-1440-cofounder-scott-kriens-on-leadership#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 7 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>In Praise of Those Who Are Wondrously Stumbling</title><description><![CDATA[Comedian George Carlin once said, &ldquo;The caterpillar does all the work and the butterfly gets all the publicity.&rdquo;
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I am a fan of caterpillars, those who are dissolving their own skins to become who they are meant to be. We who continue to grow, perpetually enter the goop of change, or butterfly soup. It&rsquo;s incomplete. It wouldn&rsquo;t look good in a photo shoot.

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As you move along your path, you may feel angry, held back, sad, unseen, or empty.

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<span class="quote">It takes so much courage to be developing or undoing or daring. Yet please don&rsquo;t let the in-between space convince you that you lack anything. </span>

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Being in transition doesn&rsquo;t mean you&rsquo;re broken. It means you&rsquo;re breaking away from the old, an identity, maybe a set of assumptions or an understanding or a world that no longer fits you.

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It&rsquo;s easy to sit on the sidelines in the lounge chair of life and be a spectator, or a critic of those who are facing their lives head-on. But I&rsquo;m a sucker for those of us who are daring to make something of this time on earth.

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<span class="quote">Real life is always taking place in the middle of things, not just in the polished perfection of an illusion of the end goal. </span>

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How you live in the middle really is the quality of your life.

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In the middle of change, we are consciously engaging with the biggest questions of our lifetimes.

<ul>
	<li>What is this time for?</li>
	<li>Can I create my reality, and what does that mean?</li>
	<li>Is there a Higher Love I can count on in life?</li>
	<li>And if I overeat while I&rsquo;m anxious, do the calories count?</li>
</ul>
Many of us don&rsquo;t just think outside the box. We live outside the idea of boxes, in the outposts, in colorful tents, nests, or stations far beyond traditional definitions. We are trying new things. We are thinking new thoughts. We are on our way. We have no clue where it is sometimes. And sometimes we know exactly where&mdash;and we&rsquo;re afraid to admit it to ourselves, because it seems as though those destinations are meant for other people, not for us. Oh, the courage to believe. The courage to quest.

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<span class="quote">We are the ones who are attempting to listen to a truth inside us instead of the interpretation we hear on the evening news. You can call that unrealistic. I call it creating a new reality. </span>

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Because it&rsquo;s innovators, artists, messengers, mystics, thought leaders, outliers, and lovers who have always changed the face of the world. It&rsquo;s mavericks in every walk of life. It&rsquo;s always taken someone who believed in an idea more than he or she believed in the situations in which that idea did not yet exist.

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We are living in a world of change. Things are moving faster. We are being asked to be more adaptable and fluid. Some will try to find solidity through grasping for an ever-elusive sense of control. I&rsquo;m hoping you will discover a trust in the creative current of your life.

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Sure, you may have just been trying to get through your life without awakening to a shamanic experience or wearing beads. I get it. You just want a job or a boyfriend or a cure. But here you are. This is your life.

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<span class="quote">You have the chance to side with yourself, your deep true self, or turn against yourself. Which choice will you make? </span>

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Will you choose to be realized or &ldquo;realistic&rdquo;? This is your moment, dear one. I encourage you to step into your true power. I encourage you to step into the middle and blaze.

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Some days it&rsquo;s frightening, like crashing through the air on a roller coaster. It&rsquo;s that wild and exhilarating rush, too, when life meets you in midair for a kiss.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Unleash Your Calling </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/programs/faculty/tama-kieves">Tama Kieves</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">April 26 - 28, 2019</div>
Do you sense another life calling you? Do you crave meaningful work, or ache to express your creativity or contribution and pay your bills? Your wildest dreams are not frivolous. You have a calling, an expression of infinite talent, stamina,...</div>

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As I grow deeper in my work, message, and personal life, like everyone who is on a path of evolution, I find myself continuing the &ldquo;hero&rsquo;s journey,&rdquo; the walk into a mythical forest for the grail. Some days, it&rsquo;s dark and dank and I wonder what the hell I&rsquo;m really following. Maybe I don&rsquo;t want to be a stupid hero. Maybe I just want to be rescued by some nice knight, preferably one who loves a woman who has an occasional homicidal hormonal mood swing or two. On the worst days, I&rsquo;ve feared I&rsquo;m not following anything except a delusion&mdash;and now something stinky, clawed, and real is following me.

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And then there are those other days. These are the days when you walk through the darkness, resolved. You decide to bet the farm on your own life. You call yourself an inspired pilgrim instead of a fool.

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You walk deeper into your life. And then, just a few steps farther from the darkest patch of forest, you come upon a clearing, a meadow, a thousand yellow buttercups, and the sun gleams in a way that paints your name, your nickname, on each petal of every flower and you know in an undeniable way that you are exactly where you are meant to be; it&rsquo;s a greater sense of security than any amount of money could offer you. It&rsquo;s hitting the mother of all jackpots, the great sweet Powerball of the Universe.

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<span class="quote">These are times of knowing that you have been loved and seen and heard. There is so much joy in having trusted yourself and realizing that you were never off-kilter or flawed. You were different. </span>

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You were compelled. You were keeping a promise to yourself.

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It is the most extraordinary feeling to have maintained your faith and conviction in something and to be right, to discover the magic, an extraordinary portal that no one else knew. Only you know the secrets you hold&mdash;even when they may not yet have risen to the surface of your consciousness. Only you know the potential that beckons you. Only you feel this almost unwanted tug of glory in your bones.

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This is the adventure of your lifetime. I don&rsquo;t want you to miss it.

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<strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/programs/faculty/tama-kieves">Tama Kieves</a>,&nbsp;an honors graduate of Harvard Law School, left her corporate law practice in order to write and help others discover their life&rsquo;s work.&nbsp;She is the best-selling author of <em>This Time I Dance: Creating the Work You Love</em>; <em>Inspired &amp; Unstoppable: Wildly Succeeding in Your Life&rsquo;s Work; </em>and <em>A Year Without Fear: 365 Days of Magnificence.&nbsp;</em></strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/in-praise-of-those-who-are-wondrously-stumbling</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/in-praise-of-those-who-are-wondrously-stumbling#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 7 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>In Praise of Those Who Are Wondrously Stumbling</title><description><![CDATA[Comedian George Carlin once said, &ldquo;The caterpillar does all the work and the butterfly gets all the publicity.&rdquo;
<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I am a fan of caterpillars, those who are dissolving their own skins to become who they are meant to be. We who continue to grow, perpetually enter the goop of change, or butterfly soup. It&rsquo;s incomplete. It wouldn&rsquo;t look good in a photo shoot.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
As you move along your path, you may feel angry, held back, sad, unseen, or empty.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">It takes so much courage to be developing or undoing or daring. Yet please don&rsquo;t let the in-between space convince you that you lack anything. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Being in transition doesn&rsquo;t mean you&rsquo;re broken. It means you&rsquo;re breaking away from the old, an identity, maybe a set of assumptions or an understanding or a world that no longer fits you.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
It&rsquo;s easy to sit on the sidelines in the lounge chair of life and be a spectator, or a critic of those who are facing their lives head-on. But I&rsquo;m a sucker for those of us who are daring to make something of this time on earth.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Real life is always taking place in the middle of things, not just in the polished perfection of an illusion of the end goal. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
How you live in the middle really is the quality of your life.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
In the middle of change, we are consciously engaging with the biggest questions of our lifetimes.

<ul>
	<li>What is this time for?</li>
	<li>Can I create my reality, and what does that mean?</li>
	<li>Is there a Higher Love I can count on in life?</li>
	<li>And if I overeat while I&rsquo;m anxious, do the calories count?</li>
</ul>
Many of us don&rsquo;t just think outside the box. We live outside the idea of boxes, in the outposts, in colorful tents, nests, or stations far beyond traditional definitions. We are trying new things. We are thinking new thoughts. We are on our way. We have no clue where it is sometimes. And sometimes we know exactly where&mdash;and we&rsquo;re afraid to admit it to ourselves, because it seems as though those destinations are meant for other people, not for us. Oh, the courage to believe. The courage to quest.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">We are the ones who are attempting to listen to a truth inside us instead of the interpretation we hear on the evening news. You can call that unrealistic. I call it creating a new reality. </span>

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Because it&rsquo;s innovators, artists, messengers, mystics, thought leaders, outliers, and lovers who have always changed the face of the world. It&rsquo;s mavericks in every walk of life. It&rsquo;s always taken someone who believed in an idea more than he or she believed in the situations in which that idea did not yet exist.

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We are living in a world of change. Things are moving faster. We are being asked to be more adaptable and fluid. Some will try to find solidity through grasping for an ever-elusive sense of control. I&rsquo;m hoping you will discover a trust in the creative current of your life.

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Sure, you may have just been trying to get through your life without awakening to a shamanic experience or wearing beads. I get it. You just want a job or a boyfriend or a cure. But here you are. This is your life.

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<span class="quote">You have the chance to side with yourself, your deep true self, or turn against yourself. Which choice will you make? </span>

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Will you choose to be realized or &ldquo;realistic&rdquo;? This is your moment, dear one. I encourage you to step into your true power. I encourage you to step into the middle and blaze.

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Some days it&rsquo;s frightening, like crashing through the air on a roller coaster. It&rsquo;s that wild and exhilarating rush, too, when life meets you in midair for a kiss.

<div class="blog-img"><img alt="" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/Kieves-Tama-Unleash-your-calling.jpg" /></div>

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Unleash Your Calling </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Tama Kieves</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">April 26 - 28, 2019</div>
Do you sense another life calling you? Do you crave meaningful work, or ache to express your creativity or contribution and pay your bills? Your wildest dreams are not frivolous. You have a calling, an expression of infinite talent, stamina,...</div>

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As I grow deeper in my work, message, and personal life, like everyone who is on a path of evolution, I find myself continuing the &ldquo;hero&rsquo;s journey,&rdquo; the walk into a mythical forest for the grail. Some days, it&rsquo;s dark and dank and I wonder what the hell I&rsquo;m really following. Maybe I don&rsquo;t want to be a stupid hero. Maybe I just want to be rescued by some nice knight, preferably one who loves a woman who has an occasional homicidal hormonal mood swing or two. On the worst days, I&rsquo;ve feared I&rsquo;m not following anything except a delusion&mdash;and now something stinky, clawed, and real is following me.

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And then there are those other days. These are the days when you walk through the darkness, resolved. You decide to bet the farm on your own life. You call yourself an inspired pilgrim instead of a fool.

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You walk deeper into your life. And then, just a few steps farther from the darkest patch of forest, you come upon a clearing, a meadow, a thousand yellow buttercups, and the sun gleams in a way that paints your name, your nickname, on each petal of every flower and you know in an undeniable way that you are exactly where you are meant to be; it&rsquo;s a greater sense of security than any amount of money could offer you. It&rsquo;s hitting the mother of all jackpots, the great sweet Powerball of the Universe.

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<span class="quote">These are times of knowing that you have been loved and seen and heard. There is so much joy in having trusted yourself and realizing that you were never off-kilter or flawed. You were different. </span>

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You were compelled. You were keeping a promise to yourself.

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It is the most extraordinary feeling to have maintained your faith and conviction in something and to be right, to discover the magic, an extraordinary portal that no one else knew. Only you know the secrets you hold&mdash;even when they may not yet have risen to the surface of your consciousness. Only you know the potential that beckons you. Only you feel this almost unwanted tug of glory in your bones.

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This is the adventure of your lifetime. I don&rsquo;t want you to miss it.

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<strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Tama Kieves</a>,&nbsp;an honors graduate of Harvard Law School, left her corporate law practice in order to write and help others discover their life&rsquo;s work.&nbsp;She is the best-selling author of <em>This Time I Dance: Creating the Work You Love</em>; <em>Inspired &amp; Unstoppable: Wildly Succeeding in Your Life&rsquo;s Work; </em>and <em>A Year Without Fear: 365 Days of Magnificence.&nbsp;</em></strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/in-praise-of-those-who-are-wondrously-stumbling</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/in-praise-of-those-who-are-wondrously-stumbling#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 7 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;How Am I Using the Financial Resources That I Have?&quot;: A Conversation About Money and Purpose with Lynne Twist</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Lynne Twist</a> is the author of the best-selling&nbsp;<em>The Soul of Money: Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Life </em>and&nbsp;founder of the Soul of Money Institute. She has worked with over 100,000 people in 50 countries for more than 40 years, as a global visionary committed to alleviating poverty, ending world hunger, and supporting social justice and environmental sustainability.
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Cofounder of the Pachamama Alliance, Lynne has worked with some of the most resource-poor and resource-wealthy individuals in the world and has gained a profound understanding of humanity&rsquo;s relationship with money. Seeing the dysfunction and suffering that is so often attached to money, Lynne is committed to bringing a new level of consciousness to the way that money impacts our life and society.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>1440<strong>:</strong> You often say we can learn a great deal about ourselves by looking at our checkbooks. How do we do that? Do you think we see with clear eyes when we look at our bills and accounts and spending patterns?</h2>
<em>Lynne Twist:</em> I think we first need to come to a level of consciousness that it <em>is</em> a useful exercise to look at our credit card bill or our checkbook and then ask the question:&nbsp;How am I using the financial resources that I have? Am I using those resources with a mind-set of scarcity, where I&rsquo;m frightened and accumulating out of some sort of fear that I&rsquo;m not enough&mdash;<em>I don&rsquo;t look well enough, I&rsquo;m not thin enough, I need another pair of black pants that make me look even thinner</em>&mdash;so that we have a frame of reference for seeing how we use our financial resources.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s an amazing thing when you really sit down and look at how you&rsquo;re spending money. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Obviously, we spend money on really important things like the education of our children, our rent or our mortgage, making sure that we have a safe place to live and be, and food. And yet we also suffer from extraordinary impetuousness and a consumer culture that has us triggered into buying stuff that we don&rsquo;t need, over and over and over again.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Look at our huge industry of storage units&mdash;it&rsquo;s the weirdest thing. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Not only do we not have enough room in our houses, we have to rent or buy space in an alternative place to put the stuff that we&rsquo;re not using in our houses when, in fact, we have millions of homeless people. And we&rsquo;re not building houses for them&mdash;we&rsquo;re building houses for our stuff. That is a symbol of fear-based spending.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
When you look at your checkbook and your credit card bill through the lens of <em>Am I spending some of my money out of fear, out of a deficit relationship with myself and the world?</em>, it will stun you and reveal where you go overboard, where you purchase or use to excess things that you really don&rsquo;t need.&nbsp;It is a very powerful exercise.

<div class="blog-img"><img alt="" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/Program-SoulOfMoney675x450.jpg" /></div>

<div class="blog-img-text">
<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Fundraising from the Heart </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Lynne Twist,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Sara Vetter</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">June 14 - 16, 2019</div>
Does a reluctance for fundraising prevent your organization from achieving its goals? Shift what can feel like a &ldquo;necessary evil&rdquo; of nonprofit work into the most exciting and fulfilling expression of your organization&rsquo;s mission. Join financial and philanthropic masterminds Lynne...

<div class="post-card-learn-more"><a class="button" href="https://www.1440.org/">Learn More</a></div>
</div>

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<h2>1440: We live in a world where purchasing and spending is made so incredibly easy these days. What impact do you think that has on our relationship with money? What skills do we need to build to navigate the world of digital consumption?</h2>
<em>Lynne Twist:</em> I love buying online. It&rsquo;s so easy. It&rsquo;s so convenient. I&rsquo;m so grateful for it. At the same time, I think about all the trucks and the planes and the packaging and the delivery mechanisms that don&rsquo;t involve very many human beings, that get things right to my door. Is this really healthy for me? Is it really healthy for society?

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
So much gets eliminated through one-click buying&mdash;an encounter with a salesperson, a trip to your local community hub or store, actually bringing something home and taking it out of the car, unpacking it, and putting it away&mdash;all of which have you think more consciously and interact with other human beings.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
And I think that thoughtfulness, that consciousness, that connection, that human relation is something important in our society and something to maintain, to nourish, to support, and to affirm when you can.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">As a society, we&rsquo;re committing ourselves to <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>belongings</em></span> rather than what we really crave, which is <em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">belonging</span>&mdash;</em>belonging to the community, belonging to the family, belonging to our circle of friends, belonging to our neighborhood. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
We crave relationship. We crave belonging. And yet we&rsquo;re supplanting it with stuff, or belongings.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I think one of the most important, almost spiritual practices is to shift the way you relate to the material world and to the access you have to the material world. It&rsquo;s a really powerful path to get yourself on. And the satisfaction, fulfillment, and freeing up of financial resources you discover when you put yourself on that path will stun you, nourish you, and satisfy you.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>1440: These days, we are seeing an increased value focus on experiences over possessions. At first blush, that shift seems aligned with what you call giving soul to money. But if we&rsquo;re still using money to primarily fuel and satisfy the self, are we still at risk for the same dissatisfaction?</h2>
<em>Lynne Twist:</em>

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<span class="quote">I think what people need is a purpose larger than their own life, a purpose that serves the world, a purpose that makes their life meaningful. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
In every person that I&rsquo;ve really, really gotten down deep with, I see that they don&rsquo;t want to be about their own life. They want to have their life be given over to something larger than their life starring them.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I&rsquo;ve been really blessed because I have lived what I call a committed life, which means that I have commitments that I cannot accomplish in my own lifetime, so I can&rsquo;t have my life be about my life starring me. I&rsquo;ve turned my life over to endeavors that will probably not happen in my lifetime, but I want to contribute to them.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">We have the opportunity now, given the problems we face in this world, to live the most meaningful lives any generation of humankind has ever lived. And that&rsquo;s not a burden. That&rsquo;s a huge, huge privilege. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The choices we make impact the future of life for the next 1,000 years. That ennobles your life. That ennobles you. So in order to be fully self-expressed within that gorgeous context, yes, take workshops, get better at communicating, learn how to love more deeply, find that way that you can meditate and do yoga in a way that makes you much more focused in your service to the world. Those experiences are all then done in service to something greater than you. And when you have that, these experiences are fabulous.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">If the context isn&rsquo;t larger than your own life, then I question experiences that are only about me-me-me-me-me. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I don&rsquo;t think they&rsquo;re bad necessarily, but they&rsquo;re contained, and I think you can get so self-absorbed that you can&rsquo;t see the forest for the trees anymore.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-am-i-using-the-financial-resources-that-i-have-a-conversation-about-money-and-purpose-with-lynne-twist</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-am-i-using-the-financial-resources-that-i-have-a-conversation-about-money-and-purpose-with-lynne-twist#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 7 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>love-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;How Am I Using the Financial Resources That I Have?&quot;: A Conversation About Money and Purpose with Lynne Twist</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Lynne Twist</a> is the author of the best-selling&nbsp;<em>The Soul of Money: Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Life </em>and&nbsp;founder of the Soul of Money Institute. She has worked with over 100,000 people in 50 countries for more than 40 years, as a global visionary committed to alleviating poverty, ending world hunger, and supporting social justice and environmental sustainability.
<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Cofounder of the Pachamama Alliance, Lynne has worked with some of the most resource-poor and resource-wealthy individuals in the world and has gained a profound understanding of humanity&rsquo;s relationship with money. Seeing the dysfunction and suffering that is so often attached to money, Lynne is committed to bringing a new level of consciousness to the way that money impacts our life and society.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>1440<strong>:</strong> You often say we can learn a great deal about ourselves by looking at our checkbooks. How do we do that? Do you think we see with clear eyes when we look at our bills and accounts and spending patterns?</h2>
<em>Lynne Twist:</em> I think we first need to come to a level of consciousness that it <em>is</em> a useful exercise to look at our credit card bill or our checkbook and then ask the question:&nbsp;How am I using the financial resources that I have? Am I using those resources with a mind-set of scarcity, where I&rsquo;m frightened and accumulating out of some sort of fear that I&rsquo;m not enough&mdash;<em>I don&rsquo;t look well enough, I&rsquo;m not thin enough, I need another pair of black pants that make me look even thinner</em>&mdash;so that we have a frame of reference for seeing how we use our financial resources.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s an amazing thing when you really sit down and look at how you&rsquo;re spending money. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Obviously, we spend money on really important things like the education of our children, our rent or our mortgage, making sure that we have a safe place to live and be, and food. And yet we also suffer from extraordinary impetuousness and a consumer culture that has us triggered into buying stuff that we don&rsquo;t need, over and over and over again.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Look at our huge industry of storage units&mdash;it&rsquo;s the weirdest thing. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Not only do we not have enough room in our houses, we have to rent or buy space in an alternative place to put the stuff that we&rsquo;re not using in our houses when, in fact, we have millions of homeless people. And we&rsquo;re not building houses for them&mdash;we&rsquo;re building houses for our stuff. That is a symbol of fear-based spending.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
When you look at your checkbook and your credit card bill through the lens of <em>Am I spending some of my money out of fear, out of a deficit relationship with myself and the world?</em>, it will stun you and reveal where you go overboard, where you purchase or use to excess things that you really don&rsquo;t need.&nbsp;It is a very powerful exercise.

<div class="blog-img"><img alt="" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/Program-SoulOfMoney675x450.jpg" /></div>

<div class="blog-img-text">
<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Fundraising from the Heart </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Lynne Twist,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Sara Vetter</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">June 14 - 16, 2019</div>
Does a reluctance for fundraising prevent your organization from achieving its goals? Shift what can feel like a &ldquo;necessary evil&rdquo; of nonprofit work into the most exciting and fulfilling expression of your organization&rsquo;s mission. Join financial and philanthropic masterminds Lynne...

<div class="post-card-learn-more"><a class="button" href="https://www.1440.org/">Learn More</a></div>
</div>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>1440: We live in a world where purchasing and spending is made so incredibly easy these days. What impact do you think that has on our relationship with money? What skills do we need to build to navigate the world of digital consumption?</h2>
<em>Lynne Twist:</em> I love buying online. It&rsquo;s so easy. It&rsquo;s so convenient. I&rsquo;m so grateful for it. At the same time, I think about all the trucks and the planes and the packaging and the delivery mechanisms that don&rsquo;t involve very many human beings, that get things right to my door. Is this really healthy for me? Is it really healthy for society?

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
So much gets eliminated through one-click buying&mdash;an encounter with a salesperson, a trip to your local community hub or store, actually bringing something home and taking it out of the car, unpacking it, and putting it away&mdash;all of which have you think more consciously and interact with other human beings.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
And I think that thoughtfulness, that consciousness, that connection, that human relation is something important in our society and something to maintain, to nourish, to support, and to affirm when you can.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">As a society, we&rsquo;re committing ourselves to <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>belongings</em></span> rather than what we really crave, which is <em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">belonging</span>&mdash;</em>belonging to the community, belonging to the family, belonging to our circle of friends, belonging to our neighborhood. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
We crave relationship. We crave belonging. And yet we&rsquo;re supplanting it with stuff, or belongings.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I think one of the most important, almost spiritual practices is to shift the way you relate to the material world and to the access you have to the material world. It&rsquo;s a really powerful path to get yourself on. And the satisfaction, fulfillment, and freeing up of financial resources you discover when you put yourself on that path will stun you, nourish you, and satisfy you.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>

<h2>1440: These days, we are seeing an increased value focus on experiences over possessions. At first blush, that shift seems aligned with what you call giving soul to money. But if we&rsquo;re still using money to primarily fuel and satisfy the self, are we still at risk for the same dissatisfaction?</h2>
<em>Lynne Twist:</em>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">I think what people need is a purpose larger than their own life, a purpose that serves the world, a purpose that makes their life meaningful. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
In every person that I&rsquo;ve really, really gotten down deep with, I see that they don&rsquo;t want to be about their own life. They want to have their life be given over to something larger than their life starring them.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I&rsquo;ve been really blessed because I have lived what I call a committed life, which means that I have commitments that I cannot accomplish in my own lifetime, so I can&rsquo;t have my life be about my life starring me. I&rsquo;ve turned my life over to endeavors that will probably not happen in my lifetime, but I want to contribute to them.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">We have the opportunity now, given the problems we face in this world, to live the most meaningful lives any generation of humankind has ever lived. And that&rsquo;s not a burden. That&rsquo;s a huge, huge privilege. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
The choices we make impact the future of life for the next 1,000 years. That ennobles your life. That ennobles you. So in order to be fully self-expressed within that gorgeous context, yes, take workshops, get better at communicating, learn how to love more deeply, find that way that you can meditate and do yoga in a way that makes you much more focused in your service to the world. Those experiences are all then done in service to something greater than you. And when you have that, these experiences are fabulous.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">If the context isn&rsquo;t larger than your own life, then I question experiences that are only about me-me-me-me-me. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
I don&rsquo;t think they&rsquo;re bad necessarily, but they&rsquo;re contained, and I think you can get so self-absorbed that you can&rsquo;t see the forest for the trees anymore.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-am-i-using-the-financial-resources-that-i-have-a-conversation-about-money-and-purpose-with-lynne-twist</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-am-i-using-the-financial-resources-that-i-have-a-conversation-about-money-and-purpose-with-lynne-twist#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 7 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;How Am I Using the Financial Resources That I Have?&quot;: A Conversation About Money and Purpose with Lynne Twist</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Lynne Twist</a> is the author of the best-selling&nbsp;<em>The Soul of Money: Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Life </em>and&nbsp;founder of the Soul of Money Institute. She has worked with over 100,000 people in 50 countries for more than 40 years, as a global visionary committed to alleviating poverty, ending world hunger, and supporting social justice and environmental sustainability.
<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Cofounder of the Pachamama Alliance, Lynne has worked with some of the most resource-poor and resource-wealthy individuals in the world and has gained a profound understanding of humanity&rsquo;s relationship with money. Seeing the dysfunction and suffering that is so often attached to money, Lynne is committed to bringing a new level of consciousness to the way that money impacts our life and society.

<h2>1440<strong>:</strong> You often say we can learn a great deal about ourselves by looking at our checkbooks. How do we do that? Do you think we see with clear eyes when we look at our bills and accounts and spending patterns?</h2>
<em>Lynne Twist:</em> I think we first need to come to a level of consciousness that it <em>is</em> a useful exercise to look at our credit card bill or our checkbook and then ask the question:&nbsp;How am I using the financial resources that I have? Am I using those resources with a mind-set of scarcity, where I&rsquo;m frightened and accumulating out of some sort of fear that I&rsquo;m not enough&mdash;<em>I don&rsquo;t look well enough, I&rsquo;m not thin enough, I need another pair of black pants that make me look even thinner</em>&mdash;so that we have a frame of reference for seeing how we use our financial resources.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">It&rsquo;s an amazing thing when you really sit down and look at how you&rsquo;re spending money. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Obviously, we spend money on really important things like the education of our children, our rent or our mortgage, making sure that we have a safe place to live and be, and food. And yet we also suffer from extraordinary impetuousness and a consumer culture that has us triggered into buying stuff that we don&rsquo;t need, over and over and over again.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
<span class="quote">Look at our huge industry of storage units&mdash;it&rsquo;s the weirdest thing. </span>

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
Not only do we not have enough room in our houses, we have to rent or buy space in an alternative place to put the stuff that we&rsquo;re not using in our houses when, in fact, we have millions of homeless people. And we&rsquo;re not building houses for them&mdash;we&rsquo;re building houses for our stuff. That is a symbol of fear-based spending.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
When you look at your checkbook and your credit card bill through the lens of <em>Am I spending some of my money out of fear, out of a deficit relationship with myself and the world?</em>, it will stun you and reveal where you go overboard, where you purchase or use to excess things that you really don&rsquo;t need.&nbsp;It is a very powerful exercise.

<div class="blog-img"><img alt="" src="/resourcefiles/blog-post-inner-images/Program-SoulOfMoney675x450.jpg" /></div>

<div class="blog-img-text">
<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Fundraising from the Heart </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Lynne Twist,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Sara Vetter</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">June 14 - 16, 2019</div>
Does a reluctance for fundraising prevent your organization from achieving its goals? Shift what can feel like a &ldquo;necessary evil&rdquo; of nonprofit work into the most exciting and fulfilling expression of your organization&rsquo;s mission. Join financial and philanthropic masterminds Lynne...

<div class="post-card-learn-more"><a class="button" href="https://www.1440.org/">Learn More</a></div>
</div>

<h2>1440: We live in a world where purchasing and spending is made so incredibly easy these days. What impact do you think that has on our relationship with money? What skills do we need to build to navigate the world of digital consumption?</h2>
<em>Lynne Twist:</em> I love buying online. It&rsquo;s so easy. It&rsquo;s so convenient. I&rsquo;m so grateful for it. At the same time, I think about all the trucks and the planes and the packaging and the delivery mechanisms that don&rsquo;t involve very many human beings, that get things right to my door. Is this really healthy for me? Is it really healthy for society?

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
So much gets eliminated through one-click buying&mdash;an encounter with a salesperson, a trip to your local community hub or store, actually bringing something home and taking it out of the car, unpacking it, and putting it away&mdash;all of which have you think more consciously and interact with other human beings.

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>
And I think that thoughtfulness, that consciousness, that connection, that human relation is something important in our society and something to maintain, to nourish, to support, and to affirm when you can.

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<span class="quote">As a society, we&rsquo;re committing ourselves to <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>belongings</em></span> rather than what we really crave, which is <em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">belonging</span>&mdash;</em>belonging to the community, belonging to the family, belonging to our circle of friends, belonging to our neighborhood. </span>

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We crave relationship. We crave belonging. And yet we&rsquo;re supplanting it with stuff, or belongings.

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I think one of the most important, almost spiritual practices is to shift the way you relate to the material world and to the access you have to the material world. It&rsquo;s a really powerful path to get yourself on. And the satisfaction, fulfillment, and freeing up of financial resources you discover when you put yourself on that path will stun you, nourish you, and satisfy you.

<h2>1440: These days, we are seeing an increased value focus on experiences over possessions. At first blush, that shift seems aligned with what you call giving soul to money. But if we&rsquo;re still using money to primarily fuel and satisfy the self, are we still at risk for the same dissatisfaction?</h2>
<em>Lynne Twist:</em>

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<span class="quote">I think what people need is a purpose larger than their own life, a purpose that serves the world, a purpose that makes their life meaningful. </span>

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In every person that I&rsquo;ve really, really gotten down deep with, I see that they don&rsquo;t want to be about their own life. They want to have their life be given over to something larger than their life starring them.

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I&rsquo;ve been really blessed because I have lived what I call a committed life, which means that I have commitments that I cannot accomplish in my own lifetime, so I can&rsquo;t have my life be about my life starring me. I&rsquo;ve turned my life over to endeavors that will probably not happen in my lifetime, but I want to contribute to them.

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<span class="quote">We have the opportunity now, given the problems we face in this world, to live the most meaningful lives any generation of humankind has ever lived. And that&rsquo;s not a burden. That&rsquo;s a huge, huge privilege. </span>

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The choices we make impact the future of life for the next 1,000 years. That ennobles your life. That ennobles you. So in order to be fully self-expressed within that gorgeous context, yes, take workshops, get better at communicating, learn how to love more deeply, find that way that you can meditate and do yoga in a way that makes you much more focused in your service to the world. Those experiences are all then done in service to something greater than you. And when you have that, these experiences are fabulous.

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<span class="quote">If the context isn&rsquo;t larger than your own life, then I question experiences that are only about me-me-me-me-me. </span>

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I don&rsquo;t think they&rsquo;re bad necessarily, but they&rsquo;re contained, and I think you can get so self-absorbed that you can&rsquo;t see the forest for the trees anymore.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-am-i-using-the-financial-resources-that-i-have-a-conversation-about-money-and-purpose-with-lynne-twist</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-am-i-using-the-financial-resources-that-i-have-a-conversation-about-money-and-purpose-with-lynne-twist#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 7 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>Dr. Ingrid Yang: Using Yoga on the Cancer Journey</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Ingrid Yang, MD, JD,</a> has been teaching yoga since 2001 and is a physician specializing in physical medicine and rehabilitation at Northwestern University. Her expert grasp of anatomy and human physiology brings a unique, thoughtful, and joyful experience to the practice of yoga. Dr. Yang integrates allopathic medicine with yoga therapeutics to form a balanced union of modern-day healing methodology and the ancient wisdom of the yogis. She is also coauthor of <em>Hatha Yoga Asanas</em>.
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<h2>1440: Could you tell us some of the specific effects you&rsquo;ve seen this yoga practice have on people who are dealing with cancer?</h2>
<em>Dr. Yang:</em> First and foremost, it helps build community. Also, there&rsquo;s a toolbox of stress-reducing strategies, all geared towards students either undergoing cancer treatment or dealing with the after-effects of cancer and its treatments. Strength! Balance! Breath! This list could go on forever!

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<h2>1440: How does yoga minimize the effects of cancer and related treatments?</h2>
<em>Dr. Yang: </em>What we know is that when our system is stressed, our sympathetic nervous system (or &ldquo;fight or flight&rdquo; reaction) is activated, which further enables cytokine release and thus inflammation in our bodies.

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<span class="quote"> When we breathe deeply, relax, move our bodies in joyful ways, we activate the other half of our nervous system that allows us to rest and digest, and thus decrease the inflammatory reaction. </span>

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Yoga does all of that and then some on the biochemical level. Besides just giving us a subjective sense of well-being, we can go forth in the world and be better people to those who we love, and even those we don&rsquo;t know.

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<h2>1440: You are both a practicing physician and a yoga teacher, which puts you in a unique position as a healer. Could you talk a bit about why you first decided to offer Yoga for Cancer Therapy?</h2>
<em>Dr. Yang:</em> Someone very, very close to me passed of cancer just as I was opening my yoga center back in 2005. Before she passed, she shared with me that yoga stretches and pranayama that I taught her had been immeasurably helpful through her chemotherapy treatments. I vowed to offer these classes when I opened my center. They became wildly popular and I began collaborating with local oncologists to offer this training. It has been an immense gift to myself, the trainees, and the cancer survivors we have been able to share yoga with.

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<h2>1440: Do you think that the conversation around cancer prevention and treatment needs to shift in any way, and if so, how can we as individuals begin to shift the conversation around cancer?</h2>
<em>Dr. Yang:</em> I think a lot of the conversation about cancer is about fight, fight, fight. That&rsquo;s a tough outlook. I&rsquo;m not saying we shouldn&rsquo;t fight cancer, that part is important, but we forget that there is another side to the fight.

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Cancer is our own immune system breaking down and our own body attacking us. In yoga, we learn to make friends with our body again, even in the process of fighting. In yoga, we seek balance.

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<span class="quote"> We develop the courage to ask ourselves: &ldquo;How can we fight while also still being in a space of love, acceptance, and connection?&rdquo; </span>

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<h2>1440: You typically teach this training as a 3-day workshop. How will this week-long offering at 1440 Multiversity be different?</h2>
<em>Dr. Yang: </em>When asking my students what else they would like to learn, they have intimated a thirst for more information and practice on the in-patient side of yoga for cancer. So, in this training, we will do a lot more training on working with very debilitated patients who are on bed rest or are limited to wheelchairs. We will also talk a lot more about the physiology of healing generally and about working through each patient&rsquo;s challenges as they arise. And there will be tons of self-reflection, meditation, and digging deep. I am really looking forward to offering this training on a deeper level!

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dr. Ingrid Yang</a> will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Yoga Therapy for Cancer Teacher Training</a>&nbsp;from January 21 &ndash; 26, 2018 at 1440 Multiversity.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/dr-ingrid-yang-using-yoga-on-the-cancer-journey</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/dr-ingrid-yang-using-yoga-on-the-cancer-journey#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 7 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Building the Leader of the Future</title><description><![CDATA[By almost any measure, <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scott_Kriens" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Scott Kriens</a> was a successful leader.
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After taking over as CEO of <a href="https://www.juniper.net" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Juniper Networks</a> in 1996, the veteran technology entrepreneur led the company&rsquo;s growth into a global powerhouse by supplying the routers, switches, software, and networking products that form the infrastructure of the internet economy. But when his father died in 2004 it forced Kriens to hit the pause button.

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&ldquo;It was a really difficult time in my life,&rdquo; said Kriens. &ldquo;I was ignoring a lot of things. I was ignoring my personal life and my relationship at home.&rdquo;

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After years of charging hard, Kriens began to reflect on his leadership journey and what came next:

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<span class="quote">&ldquo;It really became clear that being a leader meant being a skilled practitioner of relationships,&rdquo; he said. &ldquo;Being able to be in authentic relationships and show up in a way that could be trusted and relied upon by other people.&rdquo; </span>

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That insight was so powerful that when he retired as Juniper CEO in 2009, he and his wife Joanie founded the 1440 Foundation, a nonprofit that takes its name from the 1,440 minutes in a day. While Kriens remains chairman of the board at Juniper, his focus is now trained on the foundation and 1440 Multiversity, the 75-acre campus that is part conference facility, spa, lodge, and education center they built on the redwood-filled grounds of a former bible college near Santa Cruz, California.

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&ldquo;In traditional education, we get plenty of intellectual training, but we don&rsquo;t get much relational, social, emotional training or what you might call spiritual training in a secular sense,&rdquo; Kriens said. &ldquo;To be truly well, we have to be developed in all dimensions. Multiversity is really meant to address the rest of yourself.&rdquo;

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Incorporating professional development, personal growth, and health and wellness, 1440 Multiversity is a symbol of a larger movement afoot in leadership, one that aims to meld business results with health and wellness; one that recognizes that organizational results come from a more open leadership model.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>True North Leadership </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Bill George,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Scott Kriens,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Dana H. Born, PhD,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Gayle Ober, MNM</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">October 14 - 19, 2018</div>
Join Harvard Business School (HBS) Professor Bill George and former Juniper Networks CEO Scott Kriens for a journey to discover your True North and become a better leader. True North Leadership is based on Bill&rsquo;s groundbreaking courses at HBS that have helped...</div>

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The stakes are high. Leaders face a complex and ever-evolving business environment that can overwhelm them professionally and personally. Those charged with developing the next generation of leaders have a dizzying set of theories and methods to choose from to develop leaders.

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<span class="quote">Success may just require chief learning officers to step out of their comfort zones and embrace an expanded view of what leadership is and how to develop it.</span>

<h2>From Traditional to Transformational</h2>
The history of leadership is abundant with theories, from the &ldquo;Great Man&rdquo; theory that proposes certain men are born with the traits required to lead&mdash;and leaders were envisioned almost exclusively as male at the time the theory was developed&mdash;to the contingency theory that held that leadership is more like a mix and match of styles to circumstances.

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What has emerged in recent times, as business has gone global and technology has infused it with unprecedented speed, is a rising level of complexity that requires learning organizations to more closely examine what they expect of leaders and how to develop them.

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The gig economy, generational shifts in the workforce, and the rise of artificial intelligence and data-driven management are forcing change.

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<span class="quote">Some organizations are finding that traditional leadership competencies focused on managing peers and stakeholders are not enough. </span>

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&ldquo;While they are still critical to leader effectiveness, to succeed today and prepare for the future, leaders need to be able to consistently demonstrate a new mindset and a new way of working,&rdquo; said Melissa Janis, vice president of leadership and organizational development at McGraw-Hill Education.

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For McGraw-Hill, a 125-year-old company with a legacy as a textbook publisher, that meant shifting strategy to focus on learning technology by giving leaders the tools and ability to thrive in a disrupted marketplace. &ldquo;Leaders must embrace an entrepreneurial approach and help to create a culture that fosters collaboration, candor, empowerment, influence, and action,&rdquo; she said.

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At BNY Mellon, the roots go back more than 200 years to its founding by <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alexander_Hamilton" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Alexander Hamilton</a>, first secretary of the U.S. Treasury and current focus of Broadway&rsquo;s bright lights. But that rich history doesn&rsquo;t insulate the bank from the influence of technology and an economy that is increasingly open and nonhierarchical.

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<h2>The Challenge for Leaders</h2>
The challenge for leaders is to create an environment where you can pull information and answers from across the organization and move everyone in the right direction without necessarily emphasizing formal authority, said Marina Tyazhelkova, managing director and global head of management and organization development at the bank.

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&ldquo;It&rsquo;s really kind of the crux of what good leadership is all about but it&rsquo;s also really hard,&rdquo; she said. &ldquo;Most of the leaders we have today have probably grown up in the culture where you were the glorious leader who was supposed to show the way, know all the answers, and always be right.&rdquo;

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Tom Gartland, former president for North America at Avis Budget Group and author of the book <em>Lead with Heart</em>, saw the limitation of that approach firsthand during his 40-year career. The more he dedicated himself to getting to know people and putting himself in service to them, the more they gave in return to the success of the company, he said.

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&ldquo;Leadership is an extremely personal relationship between you and the people you work with,&rdquo; Gartland said. &ldquo;It&rsquo;s not just the people that directly work with you. From my perspective, it&rsquo;s with the entire organization no matter how large the organization is.&rdquo;

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Effective leaders in the modern era are able to break through the distance between people and build trusted relationships, said Kriens. That means admitting mistakes and asking for help when you don&rsquo;t know how to solve a problem.

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&ldquo;The leader is the one that has to demonstrate and make that possible first, because the rest of the team is not going to be willing to make the assumption that it&rsquo;s safe,&rdquo; Kriens said. &ldquo;That&rsquo;s all going to be withheld in an environment that doesn&rsquo;t have trust in it. The leader&rsquo;s got to be the one that shows up first to build that trust or it won&rsquo;t happen.&rdquo;

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Leaders face what Rajeev Peshawaria calls the &ldquo;21st century leadership dilemma,&rdquo; a problem the former chief learning officer at Coca-Cola and Morgan Stanley spells out in his book <em>Open Source Leadership</em>. According to his research, autocratic, top-down leadership is what is needed to create results in today&rsquo;s high-speed environment but that has to coexist with less control, more volatility, and heightened transparency.

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<span class="quote">&ldquo;Welcome to the open source era where one of the key skills leaders will need is to balance seemingly opposite ideas,&rdquo; he said. </span>

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He recommends that leaders focus on &ldquo;positive autocracy,&rdquo; an approach that includes behaviors like listening, learning, and reflecting continuously and being autocratic about values and purpose while remaining humble.

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Leadership is a desire to create a better future, he said, and the most successful leaders are able to persevere against the odds because of the clarity and conviction of their personal values and purpose.

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&ldquo;Leadership development should accordingly move away from superficial competency models, best practices, and role-plays toward helping people uncover their leadership energy by clarifying their values and purpose,&rdquo; Peshawaria said.

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<h2>Evolution in Development</h2>
For some companies, that means thinking about leadership development as journeys rather than programs.

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Like many service businesses, Havas Health &amp; You, a New York-based advertising and communication agency, didn&rsquo;t focus much on leadership development. They would often hire leaders from the outside rather than develop them internally. The extent of leadership development often consisted of hiring a coach for a top executive.

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&ldquo;We realized we needed to do much more,&rdquo; said Pat Chenot, Havas Health &amp; You executive vice president and chief learning officer.

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Leadership is about two things: competence and connection, he said. The company supports competence through Havas University, a corporate university run by the agency&rsquo;s parent company, as well as a tailored learning platform called YoU Central that houses Havas Health &amp; You-centric training and development.

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<span class="quote">But it&rsquo;s in connection where Chenot thinks they can make the most difference. &ldquo;We really believe very strongly &hellip; that it&rsquo;s so important to build trust and communication and that emotional intelligence is even more important than IQ,&rdquo; he said. </span>

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As part of its flagship Developing Leaders Program, high-potential leaders are invited to participate in a nine-month development experience that includes leadership development workshops, one-on-one coaching, and a designated executive mentor.

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Fundamental to the program is an emotional intelligence assessment and 360-degree review that aims to help leaders understand themselves as leaders before they turn to how they lead others. The program&rsquo;s tagline &ldquo;Becoming a Better Leader Through Introspection to Inspiration&rdquo; brought home the point.

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&ldquo;As our leaders deal with organizational changes and a constantly shifting industry and world, we want them to be also capable and prepared to cope with change and to be more resilient,&rdquo; Chenot said.

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Gartland would share the results of his 360 with his team, something no other leader had done before at Avis Budget. &ldquo;I said, &lsquo;This is what you guys said. These are the things that I can&rsquo;t change and these are the things that I heard and I&rsquo;m going to change. And if I&rsquo;m not doing it, call foul.&rsquo;&nbsp;&rdquo;

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That level of personal vulnerability and openness has the added benefit of encouraging and increasing connection among others. At Havas Health &amp; You, while many of the leadership development participants worked in the same building, they didn&rsquo;t even know each other, Chenot said.

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Gartland took the personal connection one step further when he was named president of Avis Budget. He set out on a bus tour to get to know the 22,000 employees scattered throughout North America. &ldquo;We went 18,000 or 22,000 miles in a bus over 12 weeks and shook hands and personally talked and hugged and served lunches,&rdquo; he said.

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Several years later, he still hears from people who remember that trip. &ldquo;When you make that kind of impression on people and they know you care, they stay late,&rdquo; he said. &ldquo;They work like crazy. They take care of the customer. They do the right thing. It just changes everything.&rdquo;

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When leadership development fails it is because it does not focus on what Peshawaria calls &ldquo;emotional integrity&rdquo; or the courage to admit what one really wants for oneself.

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&ldquo;Great leadership happens when one is clear about the &lsquo;why&rsquo; of their leadership, not just with the &lsquo;what&rsquo; and &lsquo;how,&rsquo;&nbsp;&rdquo; said Peshawaria. &ldquo;It is the &lsquo;why&rsquo; that keeps one going in the face of formidable resistance.&rdquo;

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<h2>Technology Transforming Practice</h2>
Success also hinges on integrating leadership development across the enterprise. At BNY Mellon, the company refreshed and focused leadership competencies on two priorities: client focus and cultivating innovation.

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The idea was to create a shared concept about leadership at BNY Mellon that could be applied at all levels. Tyazhelkova said the goal was to touch 70 to 80 percent of the company&rsquo;s 8,000 managers through leadership development programs targeted at four distinct levels: executives, senior leaders, front-line managers, and new managers.

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&ldquo;We as a business are transforming and preparing ourselves for the new world where technology and digital plays a much bigger role,&rdquo; she said. &ldquo;Hence you have to start preparing with a really consistent approach across the organization. So what we did with our programs is we don&rsquo;t just pick a small group of anointed leaders across the board. The program is available to all.&rdquo;

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While the model is consistent, the application is different based on the participants&rsquo; organizational level. Executives focus on strategy and meet in person in two cohorts of 30 to 40 people at the bank&rsquo;s New York headquarters. Leaders in the other levels participate virtually in cohorts by region to promote connections among the group and focus on execution.

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Technology is central to BNY Mellon&rsquo;s leadership approach, allowing the firm to bring together people to learn and interact with one another in ways that would not be possible otherwise. The cohort approach is key, allowing people to discuss and debate application of management leadership principles and ideas in the context of their environment.

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&ldquo;You can do leadership development virtually,&rdquo; Tyazhelkova said. &ldquo;You can put it together as a consistent, coherent approach and you can build functional interaction where people are not always in the same room with their colleagues. It is possible.&rdquo;

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McGraw-Hill Education has taken a similar approach to leadership development, creating a core of leadership competencies that can be scaled by level and infusing it with technology.

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<span class="quote">&ldquo;In the seven years I&rsquo;ve been at McGraw-Hill Education we&rsquo;ve completely changed our approach to leadership development,&rdquo; Janis said. &ldquo;The methodology has progressed beyond full-day, face-to-face training to blended learning with robust experiential and social components.&rdquo; </span>

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As a result, within two years of launching the company&rsquo;s flagship Catalyst leadership program nearly every employee of the company reported to someone who had participated.

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Havas Health &amp; You plans to expand its use of technology for leadership development but is doing so cautiously. &ldquo;We could quadruple the numbers that we run through this program if we did Skype and if we did more online,&rdquo; Chenot said. &ldquo;In my opinion, we dilute the effectiveness of it. We continue to really focus on face to face but we need to use technology more to really leverage the effect of all the things that we&rsquo;re teaching these individuals.&rdquo;

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Technology is central to how Martin Lanik sees the future of leadership development. Lanik, the CEO of Pinsight, a leadership technology platform and author of <em>The Leader Habit</em>, said the problem in leadership development has been execution.

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&ldquo;We&rsquo;ve been trying to turn managers into coaches for over two decades now,&rdquo; he said. &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t think we succeeded as a field. They don&rsquo;t know how to measure on a daily basis or even a weekly basis whether somebody is in fact improving and giving them real-time feedback.&rdquo;

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Automation is the key from his perspective, and this is where technology can help. Leadership is a series of behaviors that can be broken down into smaller micro-behaviors that can be practiced until they become automatic. Using a software simulation, leaders assess their skills and personality and generate a development plan and daily exercises that can be practiced.

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Traditional approaches to leadership development are simply not enough, Lanik said.

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&ldquo;[CLOs] need to identify the key behaviors and then have a very simple process to turn those behaviors into habits. We do this naturally. We intuitively get that because we do it in many other fields. For whatever reason, leadership is the one that seems to be still lacking.&rdquo;

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<em>Mike Prokopeak is vice president and editor in chief of&nbsp;</em>Chief Learning Officer<em>&nbsp;magazine.&nbsp;</em>

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<strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Scott Kriens</a> will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/leadership-center/true-north-leadership">True North Leadership</a> with <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Bill George</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Dr. Dana H. Born</a>, and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Gayle Ober</a> at 1440 Multiversity from October 14 &ndash; 19, 2018. </strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/building-the-leader-of-the-future</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/building-the-leader-of-the-future#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 7 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;All Emotions Have Their Value&quot;: 5 Questions With Marc Brackett</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Marc Brackett</a>, PhD,&nbsp;is director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. His research focuses on the role of emotional intelligence in decision-making, relationships, mental health, and both academic and workplace performance, as well as the impact of emotional intelligence training. He has published more than 100 scholarly articles and is the recipient of numerous awards, including the Joseph E. Zins Award for his research on social and emotional learning. He regularly consults with school systems and corporations around the world, and his research has been featured in the&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<em>Time</em>&nbsp;magazine. He is also a frequent guest on National Public Radio.
<h2>1440: What do you mean by an emotion revolution? What are you and your colleagues at Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence trying to do?</h2>
<em>Marc Brackett:</em>

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<span class="quote">Emotion Revolution is an initiative to shift the mindset of the nation around the value and importance of emotions. </span>

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It includes large-scale studies which demonstrate how people across the workforce, people who work in education, and students feel at home, at school, and in the workplace, as well as how they hope to feel. It includes campaigns to shift the mindsets and strategies that schools and workplaces can implement to support the healthy emotional development of everyone.

<h2>1440: What are the greatest emotional challenges you are finding for both students and educators, based on the Emotion Revolution surveys of teens and educators?</h2>
<em>Marc Brackett:</em> Top emotions experienced by teens and educators are stress and frustration.

<h2>1440: You&rsquo;ve mentioned in your writings that a healthy environment is critical in schools to foster positive emotions and learning. Can you tell us about the characteristics of a healthy environment?</h2>
<em>Marc Brackett:</em> In schools a big component of a healthy environment has to do with the relationship between and among students, teachers, and school leaders.

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<span class="quote">As part of the Emotion Revolution we want to create learning environments where students and teachers have the permission to feel all emotions.</span>

<h2>1440: In what ways are emotions, cognitive development, and physical well-being inter-related? What are implications for teaching and learning?</h2>
<em>Marc Brackett:&nbsp;</em>Emotion, cognition, and well-being inextricably link to how we feel and implement our thoughts. Our thoughts influence our feelings, and our physical health and well-being influence our thinking and our feeling. One implication is that teaching of social emotional learning has to be tied to children&rsquo;s cognitive development, and that we need to create learning environments that focus on enhancing all three of these domains in order for optimum functioning to take place.

<h2>1440: How might mindfulness or other contemplative practices support the development of healthy emotions, minds, and bodies?</h2>
<em>Marc Brackett:</em>

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<span class="quote">Mindfulness is one tool that helps us develop greater focus and attention to our emotions. </span>

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In addition, mindfulness principles remind us that all emotions have their value and that one primary goal for healthy mind and body is to embrace or accept all of our emotions rather than deny or suppress them.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/all-emotions-have-their-value-5-questions-with-marc-brackett</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/all-emotions-have-their-value-5-questions-with-marc-brackett#comments</comments><pubDate>Tue, 7 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>lead-well</category></item><item><title>Why You Need to Squat &amp; Carry Groceries</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Katy Bowman</a> is a biomechanist, movement teacher, writer, and speaker who has educated hundreds of thousands of people about the vital role of movement in physical health and well-being.&nbsp;Katy and her work have been featured in numerous media outlets including the <em>Today</em> show, <em>Prevention&nbsp;</em>magazine, <em>Good Housekeeping</em>, and<em> Runner&rsquo;s World</em>. She is the best-selling author of eight books, including<em> Move Your DNA</em> and <em>Dynamic Aging.</em>
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<h2>Alignment &amp; Natural Movement</h2>
Body alignment is the study of the interrelationship between body parts, as well as between those parts and the ground and the gravitational force. Alignment science considers how particular body positions change the various loads and forces generated within the body.

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Changing the position of your pelvis can make your hip bones more or less weight-bearing and lifting or lowering your rib cage changes the compression of the discs in your lumbar spine. These are examples of adjusting your alignment.

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<span class="quote"> Human alignment serves the same kind of purpose as car-wheel alignment. </span>

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There is an orientation and appropriate range of motion to be found in every part that minimizes damage and promotes longevity of all the parts of the vehicle&mdash;or of the body.

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Paying attention to the forms I assume when moving is the tool I use every day to make sure every movement is moving the parts of me I want it to. And I teach students how to evaluate their own movements, and get the results from a movement they want, by using this amazing tool.

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Alignment is most often discussed and applied during exercise class, but alignment is not how you&rsquo;re using your body when you&rsquo;re exercising, it&rsquo;s which loads are being experienced by your body over all time. Body alignment, like car wheel alignment, can be thought of in ecological terms and includes things like how often we&rsquo;re moving&mdash;over an hour, a day, a year, and a lifetime.

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Alignment also includes a volume and distribution of movement. If you park a &ldquo;well-aligned&rdquo; car in the garage most of the time, there are new forces introduced from the static positioning of the car that start quickly wearing it down. &ldquo;Good wheel alignment&rdquo; is relative to the way a car is driven. If your drives were solely composed of 70 mph races or skidding out, you wouldn&rsquo;t get the same wear as another car with the same positioning being driven a different way. There are a range of speeds and a volume of driving that need to be considered.

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Similarly, moving with good form or alignment includes how often you&rsquo;re moving and what all the types of movement are.

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<span class="quote"> &lsquo;Good alignment&rsquo; is the sum total of forces created over all time. </span>

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Even if your form is great in yoga class, if a yoga class (or any workout) is your only bout of movement in a day, your entire movement practice is out of alignment, so to speak. There is a reason most people have heard of cross-training. Doing a lot of one thing rarely generates the forces your body needs to operate well.

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<h2>Human Bodies: Designed to Move</h2>
<span class="quote"> Natural movement is the movement that would occur throughout our days were we living in nature. </span>

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This describes not just the types of movements, such as squatting, hanging, climbing and walking, but also the frequency and variety of these movements. Walking over our modern flat and level surfaces for an hour a day is an entirely different proposition from walking many miles throughout the day over varied terrain, at varied paces, in varied temperatures, carrying varied loads. The variables involved in natural movement are essentially infinite, and those variables are what keep our trillions of cells moving with squishes, pulls, and twists.

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The human body developed under the influence of natural movement, which involves not only a ton of movement, but a ton of movement diversity. Just like your body needs a wide range of dietary nutrients, it also requires a wide range of movement nutrients.

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<span class="quote"> Our current movement practices can be nutrient-deficient in a couple of ways. </span>

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First, many of us aren&rsquo;t moving at all. In this case we&rsquo;re sort of movement-starved. In other cases, we might have a daily movement routine&mdash;but if it&rsquo;s only an hour a day, we&rsquo;re still close to being movement-starved, and if it&rsquo;s the same routine, it&rsquo;s like eating only a single food over and over again. Even if that food is super nutrient dense, no healthy diet is comprised of a single food or a small handful of dietary nutrients. Eventually nutritional deficits reveal themselves&mdash;including when we&rsquo;re deficient in certain movements, i.e., when our movement is out of alignment.

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<span class="quote"> To be clear, almost all of us in these modern times are out of alignment. </span>

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The magnitude of our sedentarism&mdash;both in terms of quantity and diversity&mdash;is staggering. In my book <em>Move Your DNA</em>, I write about evaluating the crazy number of unique positions the foot is capable of. Because each foot has 33 joints, the number of unique ways the foot can be distorted is enormous&mdash;8,589,934,592 (found by calculating 233). It&rsquo;s also important to mention that to make this calculation, I had to assume each joint could only move to one other position, which is like saying your knee can be either all the way bent or all the way straight. If we allowed three positions for each joint, the number of unique foot positions would be 333 (about 5.56 x 1015, which is 5,560,000,000,000,000), four unique positions would be 433 (about 7.38 x 1019, which is 73,400,000,000,000,000,000), and so on.

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<span class="quote"> Now extrapolate to the rest of your body, which has over 300 joints. </span>

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This means that the number of unique positions possible by you (if we only allow two positions for each joint) is 23⁰⁰power&mdash;which, calculated, is 2.04 x 10⁹⁰. I&rsquo;d love to remove the decimal and add the eighty-eight zeros for effect, but instead I&rsquo;ll just write this: In light of the body&rsquo;s capacity for this almost incomprehensible number of geometrical positions, cross-training as we do it&mdash;adding some yoga to your regular running routine or swapping a dance class for a cycling class&mdash;seems like a pretty small step toward moving more.

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I mean, it&rsquo;s a step, for sure, but the notion of cross-training as used in exercise is the smallest possible way to think about the largest thing you can do.

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<span class="quote"> We need to move more&mdash;way more outside of exercise class, but also within it. </span>

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<h2>What More Can You Do?</h2>
Moving more is pretty straightforward. If you are currently quite sedentary, start loading and moving more however you can and learn some form to keep your parts comfortable. Start with short but regular walks. Start carrying your groceries in your arms, always take the stairs, and opt to sit on the floor instead of the couch. If you&rsquo;re already exercising an hour a day, figure out which elements of natural movement you might be missing. Do you walk 3&ndash;5 miles daily and could you walk 15&ndash;20 miles pretty easily? Can you move across the monkey bars? Do a pull-up or two? Carry a 10&ndash;30 pound load of groceries a few miles? Rest in a squat position for a minute or two? Getting more movement can be simple no matter where you live&mdash;in the country or in downtown Manhattan&mdash;you can add more movement variety into your life.

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There are even ways to bring more movement into a mat-based class. Consider where most of us do our movement: inside a box-shaped room, on a square mat, all facing the same direction, all moving in the same linear patterns.

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<span class="quote"> Our movement has become &ldquo;laboratory&rdquo; movement&mdash;very isolated, moving one part at a time. </span>

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While most of the movements we use in classes are elements of larger natural movement feats, most doing (or teaching) them don&rsquo;t have a clear picture of their origins. Missing from most movement-teaching curriculums is where human movement comes from&mdash;what natural human movement looks like in its most natural or organic form.

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I teach mat-based exercise as a segue to the larger, nourishing, movement-based experiences that occur when we move outside in nature with community. Bringing a broader understanding of alignment and natural movement to the mat&mdash;and then taking them far beyond&mdash;is not only regenerative, it&rsquo;s also perhaps the best way to increase the nutrient density of your life.

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This article originally appeared on <a href="https://www.nutritiousmovement.com/alignment-and-natural-movement/"><em>Nutritious Movement</em></a>.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-you-need-to-squat--carry-groceries</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/why-you-need-to-squat--carry-groceries#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 6 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>What Is Energy Medicine? Talking with Donna Eden</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Donna Eden</a>, a pioneer in the field of holistic healing, is among the world&rsquo;s most sought-after, joyous, and authoritative spokespeople for energy medicine.&nbsp;Her invigorating presentations are rich with stunning demonstrations and audience participation.
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She has taught more than 50,000 people worldwide how to methodically and precisely direct energy for health and happiness, using methods akin to acupressure, therapeutic touch, and qigong.

<h2>1440: Let&rsquo;s start with the basics. What is energy medicine?</h2>
<em>Donna:</em> Energy runs through everyone, like electricity in a building. It keeps us moving, animating our muscles and bones and heart&mdash;everything. But unlike electricity, this life force has incredible intelligence. It is the foundation of all the body&rsquo;s physical systems&mdash;the immune system, the respiratory system, the reproductive system, all of them&mdash;directing them in the amazing ways they keep us alive and thriving.<br />
<span class="quote">The energy is far more intelligent than our brains.</span><br />
Energy medicine is the practice of tapping into this brilliant energy and mobilizing it for your health and well-being.
<h2>1440: What types of things can we use energy medicine for?</h2>
<em>Donna:</em> Everything, really! It can be used for any kind of illness. If it can&rsquo;t overcome the illness, it can at least make the person more comfortable. It will also help anyone who is healthy stay healthy.

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<span class="quote">We didn&rsquo;t evolve to live in the world we&rsquo;re living in.</span>

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Every day we encounter so many unnatural things, from the electromagnetic energies and toxins that surround us to the additives in our foods. All of these can sap our vitality or even make us sick. Energy medicine can help us teach our bodies to tolerate what we find in our environment.

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<span class="quote">One of the most rewarding places I&rsquo;ve brought energy medicine is into schools.</span>

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I used to work with kids who were labeled as not-so-smart, and I found that so often it had nothing to do with their smarts&mdash;it was that their energies weren&rsquo;t supporting their natural intelligence. I would work with them to get the energy flowing better through their brain and body so their synapses could fire as they should. It was so rewarding to see them learn and discover how smart they are.

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I was very dyslexic when I was growing up, and so were my two daughters. With energy medicine, my dyslexia is gone. The same for my girls. In Western medicine we&rsquo;re told we&rsquo;re stuck with it. That&rsquo;s just not true.

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<span class="quote">You can shift your energy and align it differently and things can change.</span>

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It can still come back for me when I get really stressed and my energies scramble, but I do my practices and it disappears.

<h2>1440: What practices do you use to unscramble your energy when you&rsquo;re stressed?</h2>
<em>Donna:</em> When I get stressed, I feel overwhelmed. I get into this fog where I do things like not remembering why I walked into a room or what I was just thinking. I get scrambled, and I just can&rsquo;t sort it out.

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<span class="quote">The classic gesture for this kind of stress is to throw our hand to our forehead. It turns out that instinct is right!</span>

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Just put your hand on your forehead and take three deep breaths, in through your nose and out through your mouth. Hold your hand on your forehead the whole time. The energy and blood will come back into the front of the brain. We get pulled into stress many times a day in our modern world, far more than our ancestors probably did back when they only occasionally encountered danger. Today our body encounters stress everywhere, so do this exercise a few times a day or whenever you need it.

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<span class="quote">Energy medicine is a great way to work with stress because it&rsquo;s effective and quick.</span>

<h2>1440: How can we learn to sense energy in ourselves and work with it? Can anyone do it?</h2>
<em>Donna:</em> I&rsquo;ve been teaching this since 1977, and I&rsquo;ve seen so many people who said they didn&rsquo;t believe in energy start working with it&mdash;over time almost everyone learned to feel it. My own husband, David Feinstein, didn&rsquo;t feel it for a long time. And then one day he was doing a chakra meditation and he said, &ldquo;Oh, my God! I&rsquo;m feeling it!&rdquo; Now he teaches with me. That happens to almost everybody. But to get there you have to do the practice. Energy is the language your body uses. It speaks through it. If you&rsquo;ve had 40, 50, or more years not listening to it, you&rsquo;ve got to turn those mechanisms back on and that can take time.

<h2>1440: How did you first discover energy medicine techniques?</h2>
<em>Donna:</em> I was very sick when I was young. I had multiple sclerosis, really bad asthma, allergies, and at 27 I had a heart attack because my organs were breaking down.

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<span class="quote">I often couldn&rsquo;t even walk, sometimes needing a wheelchair.</span>

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You know that feeling when your foot or your hand falls asleep? That was the feeling over my whole body, and it didn&rsquo;t pass quickly like when your foot falls asleep. At one point my mouth wouldn&rsquo;t even work anymore.

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I went to five different specialists, and they all said I wasn&rsquo;t going to live. The last doctor told me to go home and get my affairs in order and find another mother for my kids. As my mom was wheeling my wheelchair out of the office, I thought, &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t want someone else raising my daughters!&rdquo; I knew then that I was going to go home and heal myself. It was sobering to realize that Western medicine had given up on me. But it was the best thing that ever happened because of the way it was a catalyst. I started working with my own energies by just putting my hands on myself and feeling the energy. And I started to get better.

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I eventually took a training in Touch for Health. I started learning about the Chinese meridian systems and then the Indian chakra systems. I absorbed it all. I suddenly had names for all the energies I&rsquo;d been working with on my own to heal myself. I searched out many of the masters of the time and learned as much as I could. It became a passion of mine, and once I healed myself I wanted to shake everybody and say, &ldquo;Wake up! You can heal yourself, too!&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">I&rsquo;m now 76, and I&rsquo;m as healthy and vital as I&rsquo;ve ever been.</span>

<h2>1440: Is energy medicine meant to replace conventional medicine?</h2>
<em>Donna:</em> There is definitely a place for Western medicine, but I think we rely on it too much for things we could be handling ourselves. We are meant to partner with our energies because we evolved that way.

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<span class="quote">We&rsquo;ve been living with ourselves much longer than we&rsquo;ve had pharmaceuticals. </span>

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Many drugs just mask symptoms. With energy medicine, your body learns new habits and gets stronger and healthier because of them.

<h2>1440: How can we start to introduce energy medicine practices into our life? Do they take a lot of time?</h2>
<em>Donna:</em> Energy medicine practices don&rsquo;t take much time at all. My daughters and I do a weekly &ldquo;energy minute&rdquo; video every Wednesday, so you can find those one-minute practices on our YouTube channel. You&rsquo;ll also find a daily five-minute energy medicine routine that includes some of my favorite practices, ones that provide the most value for your time. Those are great places to start.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Rodney Yee</a> and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Colleen Saidman Yee</a> talked with us about the importance of taking time to re-center every day. They will be returning to 1440 Multiversity in October to teach <a href="https://www.1440.org/">The Full Scope of Yoga</a>.

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<strong>Rodney Yee</strong>:

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&ldquo;It&rsquo;s, to me, a really tumultuous world right now, and&nbsp;maybe it&rsquo;s our age but it feels like a lot of struggle, a lot of crisis, a lot of difficulty. It is important to have times during the day where you seek refuge in quietness. And to me, it&rsquo;s not the monk going into the cave. It&rsquo;s very much the opposite.

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You retreat and find refuge so that you can create a deeper connection. And it&rsquo;s the connection I think that&rsquo;s going to save us from complete disaster. To understand our connectivity, our interconnectedness, as Thich Nhat Hanh would say, that actually might save our lives.&rdquo;

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<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://1440.org/">Rodney Yee,&nbsp;</a> <a class="f4" href="https://1440.org/">Colleen Saidman Yee</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">October 4 - 6, 2019</div>
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<h2>1440: Do &ldquo;breathwork,&rdquo; &ldquo;breathing exercises,&rdquo; and &ldquo;breathing patterns&rdquo; refer to the same thing?</h2>
<em>Max</em>: Yes, they&rsquo;re essentially the same. I started using the term breathing patterns because when you tell somebody that we&rsquo;re going to do breathing exercises, it conjures up a bunch of unknowns. But if I say breathing patterns, I can explain that we breathe in a specific way, several times in a row, just like when you do reps when you lift weights. They still don&rsquo;t completely know what they&rsquo;re in for, but they can follow it better.

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<h2>1440: Is there an ideal way to breathe, with an ideal number of breaths per minute?</h2>
<em>Max</em>: There are two types of breathing. The first is our automatic breathing, which we don&rsquo;t need to think about any more than digesting our food. It just happens.

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There&rsquo;s no one &ldquo;right&rdquo; way to breathe automatically, but you can do things to affect your automatic breathing. For example, you can sit up straighter. If you&rsquo;re slouching the way we do when on our phones and computers, you&rsquo;re basically compressing your diaphragm and lungs together and you can&rsquo;t breathe well. It&rsquo;s like having had a big Thanksgiving dinner or being pregnant. It&rsquo;s harder to breathe. So you can work with posture to make it easier to breathe automatically.

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The second type of breathing is when you take over from the automatic breathing and do a conscious breathing pattern.

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<span class="quote">The reason to do this is because your emotions affect your breathing and your breathing affects your emotions. </span>

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Let&rsquo;s say you have depression. I might give you a protocol to do a particular set of enlivening breathing patterns every day. If you are anxious, I would suggest breathing patterns that soothe the system. In any of these patterns there may be a certain number of breaths per minute, but once you finish the exercise, you just let the automatic breathing take over again.

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<h2>1440: How quickly can someone feel the results of doing breathing exercises?</h2>
<em>Max</em>: You should feel it the first day. Your depression or anxiety won&rsquo;t disappear in one day; I&rsquo;m not saying that. What I&rsquo;m saying is when you do a breathing pattern, in 10 minutes you will feel much better. The first time. There&rsquo;s immediate impact. With things like meditation, it usually takes some time to get results. That doesn&rsquo;t mean we shouldn&rsquo;t do or teach meditation, it just means it takes longer that way.

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<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Max Strom</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">July 19 - 22, 2018</div>
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<h2>1440: What do we know about the link between the breath and emotions?</h2>
<em>Max</em>: Neurologists still don&rsquo;t know exactly how breathing patterns affect the nervous system, but they know they do. What we do know is that some basic things happen to the body when we feel certain emotions. For example, let&rsquo;s say you&rsquo;re watching a funny movie and you start to laugh. What is that? Your lungs are doing this interesting thing in response to a feeling.

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<span class="quote">We don&rsquo;t control this, it just occurs. </span>

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We can stifle or force a laugh, but it also rises up unbidden.

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You could also be in a good mood and get a phone call with really terrible news. The next thing you know, you&rsquo;re sitting down in a chair, with your hands in your face, weeping. How has your breath responded to this emotion of grief? We call it crying, but what is happening? I asked one of the leading neurologists in the United States why our lungs and diaphragm spasm when we feel grief and he said we don&rsquo;t yet know.

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We can also observe that we gasp or make a sudden inhale when we&rsquo;re surprised, inspired, or have a great idea, even for something as simple as suddenly thinking of a great place to go to dinner. In this case the lungs expand and we inhale fully.

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Neurology is an exploding science. They&rsquo;ll probably figure out why these connections exist sometime soon, but even if we don&rsquo;t know <em>why&nbsp;</em>they exist, we can know from experience that they <em>do&nbsp;</em>exist.

<h2>1440: What if someone experiences a lot of emotion when doing breathwork? How do you suggest they work with it?</h2>
<em>Max</em>: This means they&rsquo;re releasing old grief and they just have to go with it and not be afraid of it.

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<span class="quote">To constantly withhold and suppress our emotions really causes harm&mdash;releasing them does not. </span>

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What I always tell my students is when emotions come up from breathing, they rarely come up alone. They usually come up with some insight or memory. So it&rsquo;s useful to do some writing or journaling after this happens because you&rsquo;ll get insights that you didn&rsquo;t have an hour ago.

<h2>1440: How do you teach breathing as part of a yoga practice? Do you teach it separately or integrate it into the movements?</h2>
<em>Max</em>: I have found over the years that people do a better job focusing on their breathing if they&rsquo;re standing&mdash;especially newer students. I also found that if people can move their arms in a rhythmic pattern they&rsquo;ll do a much better job at following their breath. In most of my classes we do a brief stretch for the spine on the floor and then come to standing for about 15 minutes of breathing patterns. That&rsquo;s about four to six specific exercises, depending on the day. I teach people to expand their ribs laterally and other breathing techniques like ocean breathing (another term for ujjayi breathing).

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Once people get the hang of the breathwork, I start to add more traditional yoga postures and do the breath exactly the same way. But if I see them start to lose the breath, I stop and we begin again. This is a breathing system accompanied by postures, not a posture practice where you try to remember to breathe. There&rsquo;s a 30-minute routine I offer on YouTube called <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlB6rH8bcVk">Inner Axis 30</a> if people want to check it out.

<h2>1440: Are others beyond the yoga world interested in your breathwork?</h2>
<em>Max</em>: At this point I&rsquo;m teaching not just yoga teachers but a lot of psychologists, social workers, and Pilates teachers.

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<span class="quote">There&rsquo;s a real revolution happening. </span>

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I&rsquo;ve also been invited to several conferences for medical professionals over the last year. Suicide among doctors in America is skyrocketing, and many of them are living on antidepressant and antianxiety drugs and they want to learn another way.

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Recently, a 30-year-old woman took my workshop who had insomnia, chronic anxiety, and depression, including skin rashes from the anxiety. By the third day, she said she felt no symptoms of anxiety for the first time in as long as she could remember. Since she took the workshop a few months ago, she&rsquo;s done a 20-minute routine each day and she let me know that she has no more skin rashes and is sleeping through the night. Breathing patterns aren&rsquo;t difficult to do, and anyone can benefit from this work.

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<strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Max Strom</a> will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Opening Through the Breath</a> at 1440 Multiversity from July 19 &ndash; 22, 2018.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/using-your-breath-to-feel-better-an-interview-with-max-strom</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/using-your-breath-to-feel-better-an-interview-with-max-strom#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 6 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>“The Light Is Always Within Us”: Talking with Yoga Star Seane Corn</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Seane Corn</a> is an internationally celebrated yoga teacher and impassioned global activist. Featured in magazines, on NPR, and on Oprah.com, Seane uses her platform to educate, unite, and awaken people through the practice of yoga and beyond. In 2007, she cofounded the nonprofit organization Off the Mat, Into the World.&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Seane Corn</a> will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Spirit Speak Teacher Training</a> at 1440 Multiversity from September 23 &mdash; 28, 2018.
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<h2>1440: Transformation. Consciousness. These are hefty concepts we hear about in yoga. How does yoga ignite transformation or elevate consciousness? What does that look like?</h2>
<em> Seane Corn: </em> Transformation is magic. Magic is defined as shifting energy at will. It&rsquo;s the alchemy of transforming the lead of our fear into the gold of our wisdom or understanding. For me, that requires movement and breath and shifting the caustic energy that lives within our bodies because of trauma, life experience, karma, what have you.

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In an asana practice, you move that energy and the movement creates spaciousness. Underneath contraction, there is expansion. Underneath shadow, there is light.

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<span class="quote">The light is always within us, and the expansion is already within us.</span>

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But the experience of living clouds it over with tension&mdash;emotional, psychological, and physiological tension. Yoga releases tension and allows us to feel our emotions. It allows us to connect to our vulnerability. You connect to your vulnerability, it opens you to surrender. You can&rsquo;t access surrender through your head. It can only be felt through your heart. It&rsquo;s experiential.

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When we open ourselves to that light, that spirit within, that love, if you will&mdash;<em>that&nbsp;</em>is consciousness, <em>that&nbsp;</em>is transcendence, <em>that&nbsp;</em>is the shift of energy, the magic that opens us to our highest essence. When we open to that highest essence, we experience it everywhere. It&rsquo;s in the trees. It&rsquo;s in the birds. It&rsquo;s in other beings. It&rsquo;s in all aspects of this experience of being human, of being alive.

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<h2>1440: You are teaching a program at 1440 this September called Spirit Speak Teacher Training. Can you talk more about this idea of inviting spirit to speak?</h2>
<em> Seane Corn: </em> The questions I get asked most often about my teaching are:&nbsp;<em>How do you bring God into a classroom? How do you create a sacred experience? How do you deal with the different spiritual beliefs that might be in the room?&nbsp;</em>People also tell me they feel a deep magic in their hearts, but they&rsquo;re so afraid to speak it for fear of being judged or rejected, and they&rsquo;re not willing to take that risk.

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<span class="quote">And so, I&rsquo;ve really thought a lot about how best I can support people to make spirit feel more accessible. It has a lot to do with self-confidence.</span>

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But, when I say self-confidence I mean self-confidence with a capital S. I mean the confidence I feel about my highest Self in relationship to God. If I tap into that highest Self, the words are already within me. All I have to do is open my mouth and trust and not second guess what&rsquo;s coming through me.

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That doesn&rsquo;t mean teaching yoga doesn&rsquo;t require skill and practice. Like anything, it does. It also requires being willing to completely mess up. Spirit Speak provides some of the tools I use to structure a class, and it uncovers talents that are already inherent within us, and it looks at what gets in the way of their expression.

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As a group, we explore how to utilize all the many tools within ourselves to help actualize the experience of yoga so that it&rsquo;s more of a journey of the soul rather than just a class for the body.

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<h2>1440: It&rsquo;s clear that your practice is anchored in devotion to the sacred. What is most sacred to you? How do you define God?</h2>
<em> Seane Corn: </em> God is truth and love. What is most sacred to me is being in a relationship to that truth and love in all that I do and say and create every day. Not to suggest that I do, because I have an ego, and I&rsquo;m in human form like everyone. But my goal is to really <em>live&nbsp;</em>that yoga, to <em>be&nbsp;</em>that yoga in every aspect of my life.

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My relationship to spirit is my priority, and that has to show up in my relationships, and it most certainly has to show up on the yoga mat. And so, when I practice yoga, and I put my palms together and pray before I even take the first asana, I dedicate every movement and every breath to God. And then I set my intention for the practice&mdash;not just to benefit my own wellness, but to send energy out in a positive and mindful way to an individual or a global circumstance.

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<span class="quote">By making my practice a conscious action, a ritual, by making it intentional, it connects me to the sacred.</span>

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Although I get the benefits of the practice&mdash;physically, psychologically, emotionally&mdash;there&rsquo;s something else that&rsquo;s going on that connects me to the collective. It&rsquo;s not something I taught right away because I didn&rsquo;t know how to describe it. It&rsquo;s so personal. It&rsquo;s so subjective.

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But eventually I realized that without it, I wasn&rsquo;t fully sharing my yoga. I was sharing my asana, but I wasn&rsquo;t taking risks and I wasn&rsquo;t allowing for an intimacy to occur within the room. How could I ask other people to feel and to be vulnerable and to be open when I myself was refusing to be fully vulnerable and open?

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So, I began to bring my prayers into the room. That prayer is me saying out loud what it is that I need to hear, but I&rsquo;m using language that makes it general and relatable to everyone. That is how spirit resides in my personal practice, and it&rsquo;s what I hope can make the yoga experience for my students not just about the body, but can move us to the soul.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-light-is-always-within-us-talking-with-yoga-star-seane-corn</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-light-is-always-within-us-talking-with-yoga-star-seane-corn#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 6 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>&quot;The Life-Changing Moment for Me&quot;: A Conversation with Seane Corn</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Seane Corn</a> is an internationally celebrated yoga teacher and impassioned global activist. Featured in magazines, on NPR, and on Oprah.com, Seane uses her platform to educate, unite, and awaken people through the practice of yoga and beyond. In 2007, she cofounded the nonprofit organization Off the Mat, Into the World. Join&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Seane Corn</a>&nbsp;and seven other incredible instructors at <a href="https://1440.us/the-practice-at-1440/">The Practice at 1440</a>, January 17-20, 2020.&nbsp;
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<h2>1440: What compelled you to make the leap from yoga student to yoga teacher?</h2>
<em>Seane Corn:</em> Happenstance. I was being dragged by God&mdash;kicking and screaming the whole way. It was not my game plan. I was coerced into it by an ex-boyfriend and my mentor who both basically said, &ldquo;You should do a teacher training. Forget about teaching, it&rsquo;ll just be good for your practice.&rdquo;

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I went into yoga teacher training very naively. I did not go into it thinking that I would become a teacher. In my first training, I was so overwhelmed and anxious. I found I had an unnatural fear of speaking in front of people, especially when it came to talking about yoga because I loved it so much. Yoga had been a part of my life, at that point, for eight years. It had changed my life, and I never thought words could adequately express my experience of it. I worried that words would minimize yoga&rsquo;s beauty, power, and the passion I felt for it.

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I was also incredibly intimidated, shy, and managed to get through my whole first training without ever teaching a pose. I am challenged when it comes to grasping information, especially mechanical information. I don&rsquo;t learn in a very linear way. I never have. And so, when someone says, &ldquo;Well, this bone connects to this bone and that bone connects to that bone,&rdquo; I&rsquo;m already lost. My brain can&rsquo;t grasp that information, so I struggled with the mathematics of it all.

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My first training confirmed for me (or so I thought) that I would never be a teacher, which made me sad. I knew deep inside that I wanted to share this practice. I wouldn&rsquo;t let myself admit it at the time, but I was deeply disappointed in myself and my patterns of behavior.

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The life-changing moment for me came in an advanced teacher training.

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How I got into that course, I have no idea because I still hadn&rsquo;t taught anyone at that point. The time came for our final exam, which was to teach a pose. I remember us all standing rigidly at the front of our mats&mdash;me praying to God that when I was picked, I wouldn&rsquo;t be asked to teach Parsvakonasana (extended side angle pose). And sure enough, that is exactly what happened.

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I came to the front of the room, and I started to teach. For about three seconds it went well, and then started to spiral. And exactly what I was afraid would happen, happened. I felt dizzy. I lost my train of thought. I forgot the words. I choked. I tried it a second time. My voice cracked. I tried a third time. I almost started to cry. I was so ashamed.

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And the next moment really changed my life. I turned to my teacher, Lisa Walford, and asked, &ldquo;Can I try something different?&rdquo; She nodded.

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I stepped off the mat at the front of the room, I walked into the middle of the room, and once no one was focused on me, I was able to do it. All the words just poured out of me.

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<span class="quote">I remember feeling this equal exchange of energy&mdash;as I spoke, I could feel the energy of the students. Their energy fed me and my energy fed them. </span>

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Instead of teaching, instead of leading, I facilitated.

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And it was in that moment that I knew I was going to be a teacher. I didn&rsquo;t know I was going to be a good teacher. That took a lot of time and practice and five back-to-back trainings. But, I knew I was going to teach, and I knew it was in my body to do it. That was 1994 and I have taught yoga ever since.

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<h2>1440: What would you say to someone eager but afraid to explore this possibility&mdash;making the leap from student to teacher?</h2>
<em>Seane Corn:</em> I&rsquo;d say do it. I&rsquo;d say confront the fear. If I had said no to that experience, it would&rsquo;ve created the space in my life to say no to everything that scared or intimidated me. Whether I ultimately became a teacher or not was irrelevant. What was important was confronting my limiting beliefs that told me I couldn&rsquo;t speak, that my words weren&rsquo;t adequate, that somehow I was unworthy to teach a sacred practice.

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I had to burn through that, and the only way to do that was to confront it, and that&rsquo;s what I would encourage anyone who has that same inkling, who has that small voice within them that says, &ldquo;I really want to do this, but &hellip;&rdquo; Open your mouth. Take the risk. Had I not done that, had I let the fear in that moment in my very first yoga teacher training exam overwhelm me, I wouldn&rsquo;t be having this conversation with you today. That moment was really defining for me.

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<span class="quote">Pushing through resistance lets us see what&rsquo;s on the other side. </span>

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And it&rsquo;s not to say resistance doesn&rsquo;t continue to come up for me, of course it does. I just have more confidence to break through it, and I&rsquo;m not overwhelmed whether I succeed or fail.

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It&rsquo;s a matter of going toward that which we resist or what scares us to learn what&rsquo;s on the other side. I would encourage others to absolutely do the same and develop the confidence to communicate what this practice means to them.

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Whether someone is going to be a teacher or make a living at teaching yoga is not the issue. Time, practice, and experience will let that unfold the way it is meant to unfold. But taking the first step is essential. So, I say go for it fully&mdash;100 percent.

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<h2>1440: It can be easy to place yoga teachers on a pedestal and imagine they are &ldquo;more spiritual&rdquo; than everyone else. How do you respond to this?</h2>
<em>Seane Corn:</em> Yes, that&rsquo;s true. I respond to this carefully, cautiously. I&rsquo;ve been a part of the yoga scene for a really long time, and I experienced&mdash;at a very young age in my growth as a teacher&mdash;a certain amount of visibility and celebrity.

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Luckily, I had great guidance, and I was a student of yoga above anything else. My mentors taught me to really see the yoga in this imagined persona people created about me as a &ldquo;celebrity teacher&rdquo;&mdash;and to notice the attachment and the ego and the ways in which it is an example of the external validating the internal and how that is a huge trapping. It&rsquo;s a massive trapping. And it&rsquo;s a massive yoga practice to see that.

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There&rsquo;s also some incredible privilege that comes with having broad reach as a teacher. And so, I took advantage of one while processing the other&mdash;meaning that I used the platform in a way that I felt like I was in service to the world around me, rather than my ego. And I made sure that I never bought into the hype.

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Becoming a yoga teacher, especially one that gets a lot of attention and is celebrated, can be dangerous if you aren&rsquo;t paying attention. If I don&rsquo;t feel good about myself, if I&rsquo;m feeling insecure or doubtful or whatever, all I have to do is book a class, show up, and I&rsquo;m going to have 100 people telling me that I&rsquo;m amazing and incredible. That really can feed the ego in a way, but it&rsquo;s not sustainable. More importantly, it&rsquo;s not real.

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<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-life-changing-moment-for-me-a-conversation-with-seane-corn</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-life-changing-moment-for-me-a-conversation-with-seane-corn#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 6 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>The Evolution of Annie Carpenter&apos;s 40-Year Yoga Practice</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Annie Carpenter</a>, MS, E-RYT 500,&nbsp;creator of SmartFLOW Yoga, is a former dancer and is an international yoga teacher based in Northern California. Known as a &ldquo;teacher&rsquo;s teacher,&rdquo; she has created a well-respected system of yoga practice and teaching methodology. She is the author of <em style="box-sizing: border-box;">RelaxDEEPLY</em>, a CD of restorative yoga, and <em style="box-sizing: border-box;">Yoga for Total Back Care</em>, a DVD produced by <em style="box-sizing: border-box;">Yoga Journal.</em>
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<h2>1440: How did your early career as an expressive dancer influence your yoga practice?</h2>
<em>Annie Carpenter:</em> Most of my dance career was spent with the Martha Graham Company. While it is expressive in the sense that it&rsquo;s dance theater, it&rsquo;s also very rigorous and competitive. So it certainly taught me discipline and specificity.

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Martha taught that if you didn&rsquo;t understand what you wanted to say, then you couldn&rsquo;t be authentic. She insisted on authenticity. You had to dig in with the clear intention of having a story to tell, or at least some meaning that you were trying to communicate through your movement. If it wasn&rsquo;t real, she didn&rsquo;t want to see it.

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She was famous for saying, &ldquo;The body never lies.&rdquo; And I believe that.

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<span class="quote">When you see a body moving, or even lying there, you can see where there&rsquo;s congruence or where there&rsquo;s not. You can see where there&rsquo;s some holding pattern that is not allowing full or true expression.</span>

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I started practicing Integral Yoga when I was dancing. Yoga was a refuge from the intensity of the dance training and teaching, but it was also about expression. One great benefit of yoga is that it increases our ability to pay attention to things that are increasingly subtle. And that, to me, is a rigorous discipline. I think most of us need rigorous discipline to learn how to pay attention to subtle things.

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At the end of the day, we also have to release that discipline and just be with what is. That, too, can be scary, but we don&rsquo;t have to go there right away. We can do the practice with discipline and let it happen. In a way it&rsquo;s like going in the back door to get out the front door. Martha was always after us to be honest, to find who we are, to find our authentic expression. I look for that in my yoga practice and I try to have my students look for it in their practice too.

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<h2>1440: How did you come to create SmartFLOW Yoga?</h2>
<em>Annie Carpenter:</em> I spent my first 10 or 12 years practicing Integral Yoga in New York with Swami Satchidananda. That practice is very soft, with a lot of meditation and some chanting. We were on a carpet&mdash;there were no yoga mats then. It really was my refuge away from the competitive dance world. Eventually I got into Iyengar Yoga because the rigorous alignment approach helped to hold my body together as a dancer. When I stopped performing I really needed some movement, so I got into Ashtanga Yoga. In my late 30s and 40s, I was doing a lot of Ashtanga and getting well into the third series. And, you know, a 45-year-old woman doing the third series is a little nutty! It&rsquo;s just unnecessary at that point in your life. I had a couple of small injuries, and I thought, &ldquo;Wait. Why do I do yoga?&rdquo;

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I&rsquo;ve had 10 or 12 years of each of those disciplines, one at a time, and SmartFLOW Yoga contains a little of each of them&mdash;from the breathing practices, to strengthening and stabilizing asanas, to practices of quiet and stillness. SmartFLOW is compassionate and focused on inquiry and the individual. It&rsquo;s not, &ldquo;Everybody get into kapotasana and take five breaths and then take a vinyasa.&rdquo; I don&rsquo;t shy away from the work&mdash;yoga should be strengthening. I&rsquo;m 60 years old and I want to be hiking for another 30 years, god willing! But just as important is the compassion toward self and others. It&rsquo;s important to have the patience and the willingness to ask, &ldquo;Is this the best thing for me for today? Or shall I adjust it? And in what way?&rdquo;
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<h2>1440: What were some of the watershed moments in your practice?</h2>
<em>Annie Carpenter:</em> Back in the late &rsquo;70s, Swami Satchidananda used to give a lot of talks in big locations like Riverside Church in New York City. He was this deep, profound, and wise older man, and I remember how much he laughed. There was so much lightness and laughter. I grew up in a stern, dry Episcopal church that was decidedly not fun. But he was able to be full of mirth without losing any depth. That was so inspiring to me, that the most meaningful things can be lively, fun, and laughable. I hope to create that environment for my students. This doesn&rsquo;t have to be all quiet and uptight. Unbutton your shirt.

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<span class="quote">Deep experience, for many of us, needs to be fun, at least at first.</span>

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Like so many of us, injuries have been a big influence too. I remember one time I literally slipped on the street and tore one of the ligaments in my knee. I was a strong, asana-practicing yogini at that point, and was somewhat identified with that. But now I had to sit on the couch with my leg up for 30 days! It made me ask, &ldquo;Who am I?&rsquo; That was rough.

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I finally said, &ldquo;Okay, I&rsquo;ll read the old texts again.&rdquo; So I invited some friends over and I tried to find activities that I identified as &ldquo;yoga.&rdquo; It was a difficult but important seeking process for me to realize yoga is something I do, but not who I am. I think it&rsquo;s very easy in today&rsquo;s world to get identified as a yogi as opposed to yoga being something we do that supports our life. It&rsquo;s something we do to become better humans, better with our partners and our children, and better with the Earth.

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<h2>1440: Where is your growth edge in your personal practice right now?</h2>
<em>Annie Carpenter:</em> The word that has been coming up for me over and over again in the last few years is generosity. This isn&rsquo;t quite right, but I do think that there&rsquo;s something about specificity being the opposite of generosity. And I think maybe a truer opposite would be specificity vs. flow.

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I&rsquo;m the kind of person who likes to make sure everything gets taken care of. Lately I&rsquo;m really interested in having blurry edges. If my partner says, &ldquo;Let&rsquo;s go for a long walk,&rdquo; rather than me saying, &ldquo;Oh, but I haven&rsquo;t made dinner yet,&rdquo; I&rsquo;m saying, &ldquo;Yeah. Let&rsquo;s go for a long walk. We can eat dinner at 8:30.&rdquo;

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I&rsquo;m trying to be generous with time, with deadlines, and with myself. I was recently in Byron Bay, Australia, and I had five days off. I haven&rsquo;t had five days off in a really long time. I just hung out by my friend&rsquo;s pool and went on a bird watching tour. I think that kind of generosity with self bleeds into generosity with everyone.

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<h2>1440: Where do you think the collective growth edge is for the larger yoga community?</h2>
<em>Annie Carpenter:</em> There just needs to be more love. I think that all of the businesses that have grown up like parasites around yoga, where everyone is jockeying for position, has made it a very hierarchical community instead of a loving one. When I first started teaching, you didn&rsquo;t make a living from it. You had another living and you taught on the side. I know it&rsquo;s hard, and we all need to get by at the end of the day, and take care of our families, etc., but I think having a collective sigh of love, and recognizing that we&rsquo;re all in this together would be a very helpful thing.

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<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Annie Carpenter</a>, MS, E-RYT 500, will be teaching <a href="https://www.1440.org/">SmartFLOW Yoga</a> with&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Leslie Kazadi</a>, C-IAYT, E-RYT 500, at 1440 Multiversity from&nbsp;June 1 &ndash; 3, 2018.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-evolution-of-annie-carpenters-40-year-yoga-practice</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/the-evolution-of-annie-carpenters-40-year-yoga-practice#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 6 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Qigong Master Robert Peng on Common Types of Qi Imbalance</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Robert Peng</a>, born and raised in Hunan, China, is a world-renowned qigong master and healer. He began studying this ancient Chinese art of wisdom, love, and vitality at the age of eight under the legendary monk Xiao Yao. Robert began teaching at the age of 29 and has helped hundreds of thousands find peace, health, happiness, and creativity through qigong.
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<h2>1440: Let&rsquo;s start with the basics. What is qi?</h2>
<em>Robert:</em> Qi is vital energy. It&rsquo;s the most essential part of what makes everything as it&rsquo;s supposed to be&mdash;not just the material part, but the spiritual part as well.

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<span class="quote"> We are all beings made of the same thing&mdash;cells and atoms&mdash;but qi is what makes our structure different and makes us different from each other. </span>

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It&rsquo;s also what makes the whole universe what it is.

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<h2>1440: Do you have to be able to sense which qi is which to work with the energy?</h2>
<em>Robert:</em> If you&rsquo;re practicing on your own, it&rsquo;s not necessary to have such a colorful experience! In a qigong practice, we&rsquo;re looking for balance in our energy centers, or dantians.

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<span class="quote"> We have an energy center in our head that is for wisdom, one in our chest that is the center of loving, and one in our lower torso for vitality. </span>

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We also have the central meridian, which goes from the top of the head to the perineum and crosses through all three dantians.

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I call these the four golden wheels&mdash;wisdom, love, vitality, and harmony. When you have the energy flowing well, then you are very balanced. The problem is, sometimes they are not harmonized. You can work to harmonize them by cultivating and nourishing your qi.

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<h2>1440: What happens when our energy is out of balance?</h2>
<em>Robert:</em> There are particular patterns that show up when energy centers are out of balance. There are a lot of variations, but here are the six common types based on one dantian being strong and another weak:

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	<li><strong>Strong Upper Dantian, Weak Middle Dantian:</strong> This person is wise, intelligent, and insightful. They may be very successful in business, but no matter how successful they are, if their heart is weak, they will not be happy. They are wise but miserable. I have a lot of clients like this, big bosses, business people, movie stars, and rock stars&mdash;no matter how much money they have, they won&rsquo;t be happy until there is more energy in the middle dantian.</li>
	<li><strong>Strong Upper Dantian, Weak Lower Dantian:</strong> Again we have a wise person, but if the lower dantian is weak, they are helpless and sickly. They often don&rsquo;t have good health and are impotent both sexually and generally in life. They have a million ideas but can&rsquo;t make them happen. They are often an armchair professor.</li>
	<li><strong>Weak Upper Dantian, Strong Middle Dantian:</strong> This person has a big heart and is loving, caring, and sensitive, but they have poor judgment. They are adorable but annoying. They&rsquo;re the kind of person that will knock on their neighbor&rsquo;s door late at night to wake them up to tell them excitedly how to cope with insomnia.</li>
	<li><strong>Strong Middle Dantian, Weak Lower Dantian:</strong> With a strong heart, this is a caring, sensitive, generous person, but their weak lower dantian means they&rsquo;re sickly and devitalized. They are parents who spoil their kids but get treated like doormats. They get walked over because they have no firmness in their lower center of power. In the business world, this person may bring up a good idea in a meeting but they can&rsquo;t hold it; someone else will grab it.</li>
	<li><strong>Strong Lower Dantian, Weak Upper Dantian:</strong> Physically this person is strong, vital, and charming. They&rsquo;re in good health, but they have poor judgment. They&rsquo;re mindless and can have bad timing. They do things without thinking or without thinking enough. I tell people if you&rsquo;re a soldier and your officer is this type, I suggest you flee as soon as you can!</li>
	<li><strong>Strong Lower Dantian, Weak Middle Dantian:</strong> This person is strong in taking action, but they have no mercy because they feel lonely and rejected. They are unfulfilled and cruel and often exploit others.</li>
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Enjoy a week-end devoted to the pleasurable experience of health and well-being through the flowing, meditative movements of qigong. Robert Peng is an internationally renowned qigong master who shares this ancient healing practice as a practical and enjoyable antidote to...</div>

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<h2>1440: Do we each have a type and we&rsquo;re stuck with it?</h2>
<em>Robert:</em> All of these types can be in one person at one time or another. Energy fluctuates. Sometimes you might be a type six in one circumstance or at one time and then a type one at another time. We&rsquo;re always moving from here to there. Nothing is perfect or eternal&mdash;we&rsquo;re always moving above or below that perfect spot.

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<h2>1440: How do we balance our dantians?</h2>
<em>Robert:</em> With qigong healing and qigong practices. If you bring your awareness to the four golden wheels and do an empowerment qigong exercise to balance your dantians, then all three will glow at one time. Then you become like a spiritual master or sage! Or if not a master, at least when something hard happens, like you lose your job or a family member dies, you can feel sad but still have a dynamic happiness in your heart and resume balance easily.

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<strong>This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/qigong-master-robert-peng-on-common-types-of-qi-imbalance</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/qigong-master-robert-peng-on-common-types-of-qi-imbalance#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 6 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Is Your Workout Punishment or Ecstasy?</title><description><![CDATA[Why are you working out, and what is the mind-set you take with you through your practice?
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	<li>Is sweating and working hard enjoyable and satisfying, or is it a horrible endurance?</li>
	<li>Are you pushing up against your threshold and disregarding what your body is safely capable of?</li>
	<li>Are you mentally flogging yourself as you work out? &ldquo;Why aren&rsquo;t you thinner, firmer, stronger, faster, younger?&rdquo;</li>
	<li>Is it simply another task to rush through, so you can check it off of your list of what you did that day?</li>
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Many people say that if they lived a Groundhog Day existence where consequence was impossible, they would eat donuts, drink whiskey, and smoke all day long. They only exercise as a counterbalance to the rest of their life&mdash;a sort of personal triage to right the damage they self inflict. They will use the word &ldquo;balanced&rdquo; when they explain this, rather than the more appropriate &ldquo;personal sabotage.&rdquo;

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Some people love the challenge of triathlons, extreme sports, and achieving personal bests and then beating them. They love the competitive nature with self and others. That is cool. That works for some people. If I even get a whiff of competition in the air, I run screaming in the other direction.

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I simply enjoy feeling myself in my body. Moving for the sake of moving. Refining form and alignment.

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<span class="quote">Flexing my feet, feeling my calf muscles, raising my arms, luxuriating in my obliques: I love that feeling.</span>

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My body alive, supple, strong. An estate to inhabit year-round, instead of functioning as a squatter on the outskirts of the property with no real connection to the land it sits on.

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	<li>I go to barre class and Pilates and dance, because I love how my body feels while I am doing it.</li>
	<li>I have fun.</li>
	<li>I swear and howl and burst into laughter when it gets really intense.</li>
	<li>I make sure my body posture is in correct alignment so I keep myself safe.</li>
	<li>I breathe.</li>
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Sync my inhales and exhales with the movements. Modify when necessary. Work with the body I have now, not punish it for how it is not. For the most part, I have never been stronger.

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There was recently a comedy special on Netflix called <em>Nanette</em> and at one point she states that no girl at 17 has ever been in her prime. This comment is in regard to Picasso at 42 being with a girl of 17 and claiming the attraction was that they were both &ldquo;in their prime.&rdquo; Don&rsquo;t even get me started &hellip;

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We will never be 17 again, but who the hell wants that? Or 20, or 30, or 40 for that matter?

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<span class="quote">We build strength and stamina from where we are right now, not in trying to recapture what and where we used to be.</span>

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Where we are now does not need to mean less than. Old. Too late. We bring a lifetime to where we are now. Sometimes that means we slow down a little, sometimes that means we are just getting started, sometimes it brings wisdom that makes for a new kind of strength.

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Go for the burn and the gusto and the laugh. Sweat and work hard because it pleases you.&nbsp;Because you are alive and in a body, and for me that is a gift and not a punishment.

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<strong>Jodeen Revere revels in her unconventional, multifaceted dream life. She is an actor, a writer, Thai yoga massage therapist, creative movement and dance enthusiast, and RYT-200 yoga teacher currently on an endless sabbatical. She writes a <a href="https://jodeenrevere.wordpress.com">blog chronicling her cancertastic adventures</a>.&nbsp;She loves writing, reading, viewing and heatedly discussing film, eating really good snacks, and chillin&rsquo; with her cats, Julian and Tilda. She is a kind and good-natured smart ass. She is very funny. Just ask her. Her favorite human, ever, is her daughter, Lily.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/is-your-workout-punishment-or-ecstasy</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/is-your-workout-punishment-or-ecstasy#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 6 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Live Outside Your Comfort Zone and Survive: A Conversation with Rolf Gates</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Rolf Gates</a>, author of the acclaimed book on yogic philosophy <em>Meditations from the Mat: Daily Reflections on the Path of Yoga</em>, is one of the leading voices of contemporary yoga in the West.&nbsp;Rolf conducts vinyasa intensives and 200- and 500-hour teacher trainings throughout the United States and abroad. A former U.S. Airborne Ranger and&nbsp;a social worker trained in the field of addiction, Rolf has practiced meditation for the last 20 years.
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<h2>1440: Can you share with us a few simple steps to starting a daily or regular meditation practice?</h2>
<em>Rolf Gates:</em>

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	<li>A couple of guided meditation programs would certainly help. You can hear the techniques over and over again and they provide a structure so that all you have to do is sit down and hit play. I made a program like this with Sounds True which came out this month. Jack Kornfield and Adyashanti both have great programs with Sounds True as well.</li>
	<li>Find a time of day that works, then do what you can to put some days together in a row.<br />
	<span class="quote">The more often you meditate, the easier it gets. </span>
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	<li>Go to meditation workshops. This gives you experience, training, and momentum.</li>
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<h2>1440: What are some of the challenges that led you to yoga and meditation? Do you think other people encounter similar challenges?</h2>
<em>Rolf Gates:&nbsp;</em>I got sober in a twelve-step program which taught me that we can take proactive steps to improve your quality of life. This made me both open to a practice like yoga or meditation and aware of the need for them. Mostly, they were a way for me to handle the stresses of living outside of my comfort zone and a way to reflect and respond rather than to react.

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<h2>1440: How can someone use their practice throughout the day to move through life&rsquo;s obstacles and stresses?</h2>
<em>Rolf Gates:&nbsp;</em>

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<span class="quote"> The entire point of these practices is to prepare us to move through life&rsquo;s challenges. </span>

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They allow us to create an inner climate of calm clarity which allows us to respond to situations in a way that is congruent with our values and priorities.

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<h2>1440: U.S. Airborne Ranger to yoga and meditation teacher is an unusual path that must offer some unique viewpoints. Can you talk about your view from that vantage point? Also, do you see a trend of military members, law enforcement officers, athletes, and folks from other professions utilizing yoga and meditation?</h2>
<em>Rolf Gates:&nbsp;</em>

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<span class="quote"> The military taught me how to learn, how to be a part of a team, and awakened in me a desire to be of service. These experiences have been invaluable throughout my adult life and, in particular, have served me as a student and teacher of yoga. </span>

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I believe there is enormous potential whenever traditional paths of service are supported by the practices and teachings of yoga. This is certainly true in the communities you mentioned. Due to the efforts of many people, we are beginning to see this potential realized.

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<h2>1440: You&rsquo;ve written very eloquently about <a href="https://goodmenproject.com/families/a-death-and-a-birth/">the death of your sister</a>, saying: &ldquo;In that moment, I began living sober. Living sober has meant remaining steadfast in the belief that our lives have a purpose, a destiny.&rdquo; What is your purpose, your destiny?</h2>
<em>Rolf Gates:&nbsp;</em>

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<span class="quote"> I believe I have the same purpose any human being has: to grow in wisdom and compassion while bringing these qualities of being into each step I take. </span>

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My destiny is being formed by those steps.

<p><strong>Lisbeth Darsh is the Digital Marketing Manager at 1440 Multiversity, as well as the author of seven books and the popular fitness/inspiration blog <a href="https://wordswithlisbeth.com">Words With Lisbeth</a>.</strong></p>

<p>Join Rolf Gates at his program&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Strength and Surrender</a>, April 10&ndash;12, 2020.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-live-outside-your-comfort-zone-and-survive-a-conversation-with-rolf-gates</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/how-to-live-outside-your-comfort-zone-and-survive-a-conversation-with-rolf-gates#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 6 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>How to Achieve Life Balance with Qi: Advice from Robert Peng</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Robert Peng</a>, born and raised in Hunan, China, is a world-renowned qigong master and healer. He began studying this ancient Chinese art of wisdom, love, and vitality at the age of eight under the legendary monk Xiao Yao. Robert began teaching at the age of 29 and has helped hundreds of thousands find peace, health, happiness, and creativity through qigong.
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<h3>1440: Let&rsquo;s start with the basics. What is qi?</h3>
<em>Robert:</em> Qi is vital energy. It&rsquo;s the most essential part of what makes everything as it&rsquo;s supposed to be&mdash;not just the material part, but the spiritual part as well.

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<span class="quote"> We are all beings made of the same thing&mdash;cells and atoms&mdash;but qi is what makes our structure different and makes us different from each other. </span>

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It&rsquo;s also what makes the whole universe what it is. There are many kinds of qi, like guardian qi (for protection), nutritional qi (from the things we eat, drink, and breathe), prenatal qi (the energy from your ancestors passed on in your genes), and more. All these different kinds of qi come together in different ways to make us who we are.

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<h3>1440: Could you describe one of those kinds of qi in detail so we get a sense of how it works?</h3>
<em>Robert:</em>

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<span class="quote"> Guardian qi is the energy that holds all of your cells and atoms together. </span>

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As we get older, our guardian qi gets weaker. We think we&rsquo;re moving our whole self, but maybe your leg is a little bit behind the rest of you. Guardian qi makes you into one piece so you feel young and flexible.

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Another function of guardian qi is to offer protection for the immune system. There are things we call evil qi&mdash;like wind, damp, hot, and cold&mdash;not because they&rsquo;re bad, but because they can be. They can also be nourishing. They become evil when they&rsquo;re too invasive and severe. Like in summer, the hot and damp can make people miserable and sick. When your guardian qi is strong, you can hold this evil qi a lot more.

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Guardian qi is also what is strong when you see qigong masters do things to show off! When we heat up oil in a wok until it bubbles and then we drop a nickel in it and then pick it out of the oil and hold it in our bare hands without getting burned, that&rsquo;s the protection of the guardian qi.

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<span class="quote"> When your guardian qi is strong, you feel at home in yourself. </span>

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<h3>1440: You mentioned evil chi. Is there such a thing as good qi or bad qi?</h3>
<em>Robert:</em> The energy itself is not bad or good, it&rsquo;s how you use it. Hitler had very powerful energy, but he used it wrong. So did Harry Potter&rsquo;s Voldemort. When you put a bad intention there, the qi becomes bad. When we talk about good qi, it&rsquo;s referring to wanting to have the qi serve you and make you feel happy and good.

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<h3>1440: How can we feel our qi?</h3>
<em>Robert:</em>

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<span class="quote"> We use all of our senses to work with qi, but when we are deep in meditation or when we&rsquo;re doing a qigong healing or practicing qigong, the senses can cross. </span>

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When I was training, at first I was really confused and my master would tell me to listen to this force or to try and eat that color. He would use language to cross the senses to make my awareness of the energy more holistic. Now when I&rsquo;m synchronized with a patient, I can feel other people&rsquo;s energy. I may have goose bumps, I may have tingling in my fingers. With some diseases, I feel like my hands are in cold water. With years of practice, you can learn what these things resonate with and then how to follow your intuition, to follow the qi and bring it into balance.

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<h3>1440: Do you have to be able to sense which qi is which to work with the energy?</h3>
<em>Robert:</em> If you&rsquo;re practicing on your own, it&rsquo;s not necessary to have such a colorful experience! In a qigong practice, we&rsquo;re looking for balance in our energy centers, or dantians. We have an energy center in our head that is for wisdom, one in our chest that is the center of loving, and one in our lower torso for vitality. We also have the central meridian, which goes from the top of the head to the perineum and crosses through all three dantians.

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<span class="quote"> I call these the four golden wheels&mdash;wisdom, love, vitality, and harmony. </span>

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When you have the energy flowing well, then you are very balanced. The problem is, sometimes they are not harmonized. You can work to harmonize them by cultivating and nourishing your qi.

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<h3>1440: Can you talk about the concept of effortless effort, or wu wei, and how this can be applied in our daily life?</h3>
<em>Robert:</em> Wu means no and wei means action. It&rsquo;s like in breathing&mdash;we have breathing in and breathing out, but the more meaningful part is during the pauses between the inhale and the exhale. That pause is wu wei.

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<span class="quote"> When you watch the pause between your actions or your efforts, when that space is big, you have more freedom, more ways of adjusting. </span>

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Here&rsquo;s how my master had me understand it. Qigong is a way of cultivating qi. When you do the exercises, you move the qi ball here and try to channel it there. I was a very diligent student, but he kept saying I need to practice more, like 24 hours a day. I said, &ldquo;What do you mean?! How can I do this for 24 hours?&rdquo; And he said, &ldquo;Don&rsquo;t ask.&rdquo; So he&rsquo;s asking me to do something I didn&rsquo;t know how to do and not letting me ask questions about it.<br />
Finally he said, &lsquo;I know you are working hard cultivating your qi, but you should also nourish your qi. You should allow your qi to work for you. Qi has better intelligence.&rsquo;<br />
How do you do that? Wu wei.
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<h3>1440: Do you have a particular exercise for nourishing your qi?</h3>
<em>Robert:</em> To nourish your qi, just keep in mind your lower dantian. If you&rsquo;re relaxing, just open up all the pores of your body, like before you go to sleep. We look solid, but we are full of holes, so open up your pores and allow the universal qi to soak in. Then that qi is nourishing you.

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<h3>1440: What are some of the most valuable lessons you learned from your qigong master?</h3>
<em>Robert:</em> He had no ego. He was unpretentious. When I met him, he was in a most difficult time. All his life he had been in a monastery, and then the Cultural Revolution started in 1966. A few years later, he was driven out of the monastery because religion was banned.

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He worked in my hometown as a boiler room attendant, a very demanding job with not very good pay. He lived in the boiler room where it was so hot in the summer he had to sleep outside with a mosquito net.

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<span class="quote"> He had a million reasons to be angry, to be resentful, but he wasn&rsquo;t. </span>

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He just seemed like a nice boiler room attendant. We didn&rsquo;t know he had this legendary healing power and that he was an amazing martial artist. He just appeared to be nobody and one who served. He was pleasant and he had no ego.

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I find that if you want to hold something internally that says, &ldquo;I am somebody,&rdquo; that is very tiring for me. He would say, &ldquo;It doesn&rsquo;t matter, you just serve the people.&rdquo; Even when he was back in the monastery as a senior monk again to reconstruct the temple, he was still very mild tempered and talked to people without commanding them. He didn&rsquo;t talk much, but when he did he was convincing and people listened.

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<span class="quote"> The power wasn&rsquo;t loud and shouting, it was about being sincere. </span>

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<div class="author f6">This interview was conducted on behalf of 1440 Multiversity by Jenn Brown&mdash;a freelance writer, editor, producer, and educator.
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<em>Watch and listen below to what Gary has to say about his upcoming <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Yoga for Life</a> program, happening at 1440 from March 8 &ndash; 10, 2019.</em>

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<h2>1440: What inspired you to pursue the study of yoga therapy as a way to heal physical and psychological ailments?</h2>
<em>Gary Kraftsow:&nbsp;</em>I went to India in 1974 to purse the study of yoga. My teachers&mdash;Sri Krishnamacharya and his son Desikachar&mdash;were both accomplished yoga therapists.

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<span class="quote">Though at that time I was more interested in the mystical and spiritual aspects of yoga, my teachers told me that my future would involve bringing yoga therapy into the context of Western health. </span>

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They encouraged me to study Western health sciences and trained me as a yoga therapist beginning in 1976.

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<h2>1440: In an age of digital abundance, people can feel over-stimulated and over-stressed. What do you advise to someone looking for a moment (or many moments) of detox in a go-go-go culture?</h2>
<em>Gary Kraftsow:&nbsp;</em>

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<span class="quote">Perhaps the simplest and most important tool for stress management is the conscious regulation of the breath. </span>

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No matter the interest or orientation of a student, we can strategize a way for them to utilize the breath to help them create a conscious relationship with their autonomic nervous system (ANS); and through that, bring their ANS back into sympathetic/parasympathetic balance, balance their emotions, and clarify and calm the mind.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>Yoga for Life</strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Gary Kraftsow, MA, E-RYT 500, C-IAYT</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">March 8 - 10, 2019</div>
Are you living for your yoga practice, or using your yoga practice to help you live your life? Learn the difference and move towards peak health by adapting yoga practices to individualize and actualize your process of self-discovery and personal...</div>

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<h2>1440: Yoga has been shown to have a host of medical benefits. Why do you think there was, for some time, reluctance on the part of Western medical and scientific establishments to accept these benefits?</h2>

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<em>Gary Kraftsow:&nbsp;</em>

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<span class="quote">There is a growing interest in and acceptance of yoga and yoga therapy in Western health care. </span>

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This is because of a growing body of evidence-based research documenting its effectiveness in helping patients manage symptoms of a broad variety of conditions.

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The American Viniyoga Institute, my organization, has been involved in successful research studies with the National Institutes of Health (NIH), Wayne State University, and Aetna insurance company, whose yoga protocols have been successful in alleviating the symptoms of a variety of conditions including low back pain, generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), symptoms secondary to lung cancer, and stress management.

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<h2>1440: What are some of the most immediate and eye-opening ways yoga and yoga therapy can change people&rsquo;s lives on a day-to-day basis?</h2>
<em>Gary Kraftsow:&nbsp;</em>

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<span class="quote">The most amazing thing about this work is how quickly people become more able to influence their condition and improve their function&mdash;at every level. </span>

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Through this work, individuals are able to:

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	<li>Create a conscious relationship with their spine, and (through their spine) with the rest of their functional anatomy to quickly improve a wide variety of structural aches and pains</li>
	<li>Create a conscious relationship with their breath, and (through their breath) with their ANS and other physiological processes, to quickly reduce stress, increase energy, balance cardiovascular rhythms, improve digestion, and improve sleep</li>
	<li>Understand how to balance their emotions, clarify their minds, re-access priorities, and establish a direction for their future.</li>
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<h2>1440: Potent, transformative: why have these adjectives been applied to Viniyoga? What makes it different from other kinds of yoga?</h2>
<em>Gary Kraftsow:&nbsp;</em>Viniyoga is not formulaic, nor limited to one aspect of the human system.

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<span class="quote">Viniyoga recognizes that human beings are multidimensional. </span>

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It provides tools to help us understand and transform each of the dimensions of who we are. In Viniyoga, it is never about the practices, but rather always about the practitioner.

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Viniyoga has evolved a sophisticated science of adaptation&mdash;for all of the tools of yoga practice, from asana to pranayama to meditation&mdash;to suit the needs and interests of each practitioner. We uniquely help individuals develop a truly integrated practice that weaves together all of these tools to suit each individual in their own healing and transformation.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/harnessing-yoga-for-healing-a-conversation-with-gary-kraftsow</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/harnessing-yoga-for-healing-a-conversation-with-gary-kraftsow#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 6 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Emotional Balance: How to Use Sounds to Find It</title><description><![CDATA[Balance is the holy grail of health. I want to lead you to that holy grail.
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In Chinese medicine, there is a system called the Five Elements which encompasses everything in the universe. These elements control all areas of the physical body, underlying energies of the body, personality, emotions, substances of which we and the planet are made, the seasons, the cycles of our lives, the cycles of our days, the cycles of our experiences, everything.

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In Energy Medicine Yoga, this is one of the systems we use to help us locate imbalances in the body and bring them back into balance. Once the body is in balance, it does what it naturally wants to do, and that is heal.

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If you have a headache, or an earache, or you keep tripping, or keep getting small paper cuts on your hands, or blisters on your feet&mdash;you&rsquo;re out of balance. If you have diabetes, can&rsquo;t sleep at night, are always angry, or have a more serious diagnosis&mdash;you&rsquo;re out of balance. And the start of healing is to find balance.

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<h2>Finding Balance</h2>

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Emotions are the connection between the body and the mind, and tuning in to them is one of the most powerful ways to enter in to a healing relationship with yourself and find out where your imbalances are. The brilliant neuroscientist Candace Pert was the first person to scientifically prove that your emotions affect your body, and your body affects your emotions.

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Emotions are huge drivers of our physiological systems. How we respond to the world around us has an enormous effect on whether we are in love or in fear. In love, when we feel calm, grateful, or even simply peaceful, the energies of growth and our immune system are active and strong, keeping us healthy and healing injuries and diseases, large and small. When we are in fear or anger, our bodies are flooded with stress hormones and histamines and our bodies stop growth, repair, and healing.

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Emotions (both joyful ones and difficult ones) are instructive, and simply denying them doesn&rsquo;t serve you in your quest for healing.

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<div class="post-card-title"><strong>The Energy Medicine Yoga Prescription </strong></div>

<div class="post-card-faculty"><a class="f4" href="https://www.1440.org/">Lauren Walker</a></div>

<div class="post-card-date">June 10 - 15, 2018</div>

<div class="post-card-learn-more">Each of us is governed by one of the five Chinese Elements of Water, Wood, Fire, Earth, or Metal. This element is the filter through which we operate in our lives: everything we do is refracted through its lens. In...</div>
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<h2>Tools You Can Use</h2>

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Some of the most powerful tools I share with my students are ways to actively process and release emotions as they arise, and also ways to clear emotions that have become stuck in the body, causing chronic physiological issues.

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Short of teaching you that physical yoga practice, I can share a part of that practice that is very simple. The body is exquisitely tuned to sound, and the frequencies of different sounds have powerful effects on the body. Each element, and each emotion, has a sound that when uttered, starts to move the stagnant energy of that element. Energy needs to move for you to heal, and simply by using these sounds, you start the process of awakening these stagnant energies, moving them out and healing the systems that they govern.

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The sounds are:

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	<li>Whoooo (as if you&rsquo;re blowing out a candle)</li>
	<li>Shhhhh</li>
	<li>Haaaaaa (aspirated not vocalized)</li>
	<li>The Ujayii breath (which is made by putting slight pressure on the glottis in the back of the throat and creating a &ldquo;Darth Vader&rdquo; breath, with the lips closed)</li>
	<li>Ssssssss.</li>
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These help move the energies of water, wood, fire, earth, and metal: the emotions of fear, anger, anxiety, worry and grief, respectively. Each of these elements and emotions govern a different area of the body, and by expressing these sounds, those areas start to gain more ease and resilience on their way to healing.<span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp;T</span>ogether they encompass your whole body.

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A beautiful way to experience this simple practice is to get yourself out in nature somewhere.

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	<li>Take your shoes off, connect directly to the earth, and start to make these sounds</li>
	<li>You can do one sound per exhaled breath for a short five-breath practice</li>
	<li>You can do all of them on one exhaled breath, and repeat that several times.</li>
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Or if you&rsquo;re working with one emotion strongly, you can focus on that.<span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp; </span>If you&rsquo;re in a time of fear, you might spend time exhaling: Whoooo. If you&rsquo;re in grief: Ssssssss.

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After doing these sounds for a while, stop and sit still and tune in to the sounds of nature around you. Sit for a time and start to feel yourself a part of the place where you are. Let your ears open to take in all the sounds, and then tune in and listen to your own heartbeat. Notice how it is one of the sounds surrounding you. You are a part of everything.

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During this practice you might feel surges of emotion, followed by a deep calmness. If you feel extremely emotional and aren&rsquo;t sure what to do, place one hand over your forehead, like you&rsquo;re taking a temperature, to let the emotional energy settle and to stay calm.

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The beauty of Energy Medicine Yoga is that the practices are extremely simple, and also extremely powerful. My teacher, Donna Eden, says if you can&rsquo;t do anything, if you&rsquo;re stuck in bed, depressed, or injured and can&rsquo;t begin any of the things that you know might help you: Make. These. Sounds. They are enough to get your energies moving and your whole being onto the path of health, joy, and vitality.

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<em>Lauren Walker will be teaching&nbsp;The Energy Medicine Yoga Prescription, June 10 &ndash; 15, 2018, at 1440 Multiversity.</em>

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<strong>Lauren Walker is the author of&nbsp;<em>Energy Medicine Yoga: Amplify the Healing Power of Your Yoga Practice</em>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<em>The Energy Medicine Yoga Prescription</em>. Recently named one of the top 100 most influential yoga teachers in America, she has taught at Yoga Journal Conference, Wanderlust, Omega, Kripalu, and Hollyhock retreat center on Cortes Island, and has been featured in&nbsp;<em>Yoga Journal</em>,&nbsp;<em>Mantra</em>,&nbsp;<em>Yoga Digest</em>, and the<em> New York Times</em>. </strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/emotional-balance-how-to-use-sounds-to-find-it</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/emotional-balance-how-to-use-sounds-to-find-it#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 6 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Bhakti, Kirtan, and the Importance of Healing Your Heart</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Jai Uttal</a> is a Grammy-nominated kirtan artist, multi-instrumentalist, and ecstatic vocalist. He is considered a pioneer in the world music community with his combined influences from&nbsp;India and American rock and jazz.&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Nubia Teixeira</a> is a Brazilian-born yogini who has devoted herself to teaching&nbsp;yoga and dance for the past 26 years. Together, they practice Bhakti Yoga and teach the devotional arts to audiences around the world.
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<h2>1440: Let&rsquo;s talk about Bhakti. What is it?</h2>

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<em>Nubia:</em> Bhakti is translated as devotional yoga, the yoga of the heart. For me, it is a way of communing, conversing, and communicating with the Divine. Bhakti bridges the unseen ethereal realms with the material world of our daily lives.

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<h2>1440: How is Bhakti expressed? You mention conversing with the Divine&mdash;what does that look like?</h2>

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<em>Nubia:</em> It looks just like what we&rsquo;re doing right now&mdash;looking at each other, connecting, and sharing our hearts.

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<span class="quote"> Bhakti reminds me that there is spirit and goodness in all of us. </span>

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It allows me to see my heart reflected in you and your heart reflected in me. As I try to cultivate the qualities of love and caring in my own being, I will also do my best to encourage those same qualities to grow in you.

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I practice Bhakti in my daily life by prioritizing conversations with the Divine first thing in the morning. By taking time to ask for her guidance, I feel a spiritual energy carrying me through all the callings and responsibilities of my very active life. I feel most deeply and personally connected with my Divine Mother in all her many forms, especially Durga Ma.

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<em>Jai:</em>

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<span class="quote"> Each one of us has a unique way of communicating with and conceiving of God. </span>

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Bhakti Yoga is a way to nurture and enliven our personal relationship with that infinite spirit. Kirtan is one of the great and most ancient practices of Bhakti.

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<h2>1440: What led you to kirtan?</h2>

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<em>Jai:</em>

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<span class="quote"> As a child, I was filled with a longing and a sense of separation and aloneness that ultimately brought me to music. </span>

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I studied piano without much enthusiasm when I was very young, but when I first touched the strings of the banjo, at age eleven, there was something about that sound that resonated with the deepest rivers of my heart.

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So, I dove really deeply into music. I wandered, entranced, through the most esoteric record stores in Manhattan and somewhere along the way I stumbled across some Indian music albums by the great Ali Akbar Khan. I dropped out of Reed College after one semester, failing music and religion, and came to California to study with this great master. During this period, before I ever traveled to India, I discovered some very simple kirtan chants that completely captivated my heart, along with the classical ragas I was learning from Khansahib.

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I didn&rsquo;t consider myself a singer at the time&mdash;I was studying instrumental music.

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<span class="quote"> But somehow, when I started to chant, something inside of me really came alive. </span>

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I felt able to express emotions that I couldn&rsquo;t express in any other way. At eighteen years old, I didn&rsquo;t have a psychological or spiritual context for understanding any of this. All I knew was that when I sang kirtan, something lifted in me and transported my heart to a place of peace and soulful self-expression.

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<span class="quote"> When we sing kirtan, I believe we&rsquo;re asking Spirit to come closer to us. </span>

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It&rsquo;s as if we&rsquo;re saying to God, &ldquo;Hey, don&rsquo;t forget about me. I&rsquo;m here and I need you!&rdquo; Each person in the room can express their deepest heart feelings and longings through the repetition of the melodies and the mantras. Our individual experiences are unique, but communally, we share our passion and love with one another.

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<h2>1440: What role do you believe the devotional arts&mdash;like kirtan and dance and other forms of Bhakti&mdash;play in people&rsquo;s lives in this day and age?</h2>
<em>Nubia:</em> It goes back to the need for connection. We are living very crazy, isolated lives right now. We&rsquo;re all working really hard to pay our rent or mortgage and to keep our households going. We don&rsquo;t spend time with our neighbors.

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<span class="quote"> We don&rsquo;t gather to worship like we once did. </span>

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When we join together for kirtan, yoga, prayer, and other heart-centered events, we support each other and break down that feeling of isolation.

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<em>Jai:</em> So many of us are just so beat up by life and afraid to express our emotions and needs.

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<span class="quote"> Culturally, we&rsquo;re not supposed to be needy. </span>

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We&rsquo;re supposed to be self-sufficient and strong. But, in truth, most people are wounded and hurting, and the practices that Nubia and I share are ways of gently healing those aching places inside our minds and bodies.

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<span class="quote"> We gather together to nurture our hearts so that we can move through life with peace and trust. </span>

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It&rsquo;s not getting any softer out there, but we don&rsquo;t want to put on hard shells that weigh us down with fear and worry. We want to live in wholeness. Our Bhakti path is not meant to take us away from the real world. Rather, it&rsquo;s a way to embrace our lives with a safe and loving heart, being held in the arms of the Divine.

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<p><strong>Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor of 1440 Multiversity.</strong></p>

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<p>Join Jai Uttal and Nubia Teixeria&nbsp;at their program <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Journey of Devotion</a>, March 13 &ndash; 15, 2020.&nbsp;</p>

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<h2>1440: You describe yoga practice as a shamanic path. What do you mean by that?</h2>

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<em>Annie Carpenter:</em> What I mean by that is it&rsquo;s possible to make lasting personal transformation through yoga practice. If we enter our practice fully and without reservation, any kind of change is possible, whether it&rsquo;s change we predict we want or not. If we open up and let the practice work on us over time, change happens.

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<h2>1440: Do you find change happens quickly or does it require a lot of time?</h2>

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<em>Annie Carpenter:</em> Occasionally we get those eureka moments, but I think, for the most part, you do the practice day in and day out, and then you look back 10 years later, 20 years later, or even two years later, frankly, and you say, &ldquo;Wow. I really am seeing the world and my place in it differently. I&rsquo;m seeing reality a little more clearly.&rdquo;

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<h2>1440: What kind of changes can people expect?</h2>

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<em>Annie Carpenter:</em> A committed practice can affect us in so many global ways. You may find yourself with new and different friends. You may find that you eat better because you notice that the funky food you ate last night meant your practice didn&rsquo;t go as well this morning. You might find yourself choosing books and activities that actually promote well-being and self-knowledge. It leaks into all aspects of your life in really positive ways. I like to joke that I don&rsquo;t think anyone ever said, &ldquo;Oh, I wish I hadn&rsquo;t practiced today!&rdquo;

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<h2>1440: What&rsquo;s your advice for establishing a daily practice?</h2>

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<em>Annie Carpenter:</em> This was hard for me to understand as a young teacher years ago. I came out of the womb with some discipline, so a daily practice was never a problem for me. I thought, &ldquo;If you feel better when you practice, why wouldn&rsquo;t you do it?&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">What I eventually learned to tell people is that it&rsquo;s far better to spend five minutes, five times a day, every day than to do one giant session for an hour and not get back to it for another week. </span>

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It&rsquo;s more important to see it as part of daily life. I have my students pause five times a day for five or ten minutes for a mindful walk, a little stretching, a short meditation, or a few sun salutations. To me this is more helpful than getting to a yoga class once a week. I have them look for little ways to be awake in the day.

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<h2>1440: How do you encourage students to make their practice their own, even when they&rsquo;re in a class?</h2>

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<em>Annie Carpenter:</em> The primary asana principle I operate under is something I call effort and return. The effort is the movement or attention toward a given pose. The return is the movement that would take us back to tadasana (mountain pose), or center. I call it the return to center. Each time I give an instruction, I teach the movement toward it, and the movement out of it. Using questions, I encourage students to find their place on the continuum.

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Whether you&rsquo;re a basic beginner or an advanced student, it&rsquo;s not about how far you go (or don&rsquo;t go), or that you even get there. The point is that you explore along a specific, highly precise continuum that might take you into putting your foot behind your head, or it might take you into releasing your hip a little bit.

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It takes a little training to get the hang of my specific approach because most people are more used to a stronger class or a looser, flowing class with music. But once people are trained in it, they&rsquo;re really empowered to explore in a specific way, in a very present way, to find their version of whatever it is we&rsquo;re doing.

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<h2>1440: &nbsp;You&rsquo;ve been called a &ldquo;teacher&rsquo;s teacher,&rdquo; you&rsquo;ve created your own yoga style (SmartFLOW Yoga), and you&rsquo;ve trained many yoga teachers. What is it that makes a good teacher?</h2>

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<em>Annie Carpenter:</em> There are many different ways to be a good teacher. Some teachers inspire by being good and positive at what they do. Some teachers force you to see yourself, and that&rsquo;s not always pleasant&mdash;I have some of that in me. I think that many of today&rsquo;s yoga teachers build community beautifully well, and have lots of &ldquo;friends/followers.&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">Ultimately, I think a good teacher is someone who is interested in having their students go even further than they do. </span>

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<h2>1440: What area do you think most teachers could improve in?</h2>

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<em>Annie Carpenter:</em> I think many teachers give too much too soon. I&rsquo;ve had a lot of experience developing and teaching curricula, and I know it&rsquo;s more important to give a tiny thing for someone to gnaw on for a while before you give them the next piece. You can&rsquo;t give a student everything at once. I think teachers need to not be everyone&rsquo;s friend. They need to be willing to say to a student, &ldquo;Hey, wait. Wake up. I know you think you&rsquo;ve got this, but look again.&rdquo; You may not be their favorite person in that moment, but at the end of the day your students know that you&rsquo;re solid for them. If they want to change, they know you&rsquo;ll be there, even in the dark parts.

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Find <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Annie Carpenter</a>, MS, E-RYT 500, at <strong><span style="color:#000000;">The Practice at 1440</span></strong> January 17- 20, 2020 along with other all-star yoga instructors.&nbsp;

<div class="boxspacer">&nbsp;</div>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/advice-for-the-modern-yogi-from-annie-carpenter</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/advice-for-the-modern-yogi-from-annie-carpenter#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 6 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Acceptance as Practice: Reflections from Rolf Gates</title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://1440.org/">Rolf Gates</a>, one of the leading voices of contemporary yoga in the West, is the author of two acclaimed companion-to-practice books:&nbsp;<em>Meditations from the Mat: Daily Reflections on the Path of Yoga </em>and&nbsp;<em>Meditations on Intention and Being: Daily Reflections on the Path of Yoga, Mindfulness, and Compassion</em>.</p>

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A former addictions counselor and U.S. Airborne Ranger who has practiced meditation for more than 25 years, Rolf has a uniquely approachable way of capturing the essence of being human in both his teaching and writing.

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Paging through the 365 insightful reflections&mdash;one for each day&mdash;that he offers in <em>Meditations</em> on <em>Intention and Being </em>is a joyful practice unto itself. One is naturally struck by the echoes of truth in all of them.

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These three reflections provide a taste of both the book&rsquo;s design and the invitation for contemplation Rolf is known for.

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<h2>Day 30: Mountain Life</h2>

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Beneath our feet lies an infinity of paths. The power of mountain pose is that how we stand in it defines the path we will take and the sort of traveler we will be.

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<span class="quote">The mind attempts to create a certainty about our travels, but there is none.</span>

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Each time we find our mountain we choose our path forward. Each time we find our mountain we choose what kind of traveler we will be. And we cannot choose for tomorrow; we can choose only for this moment, this body, this breath.

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<h2>Day 71: The Block</h2>

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Einstein wrote that humanity lives imprisoned by a mind-state sense of separation, and that to free ourselves from this prison we must widen the circle of our wisdom and compassion to embrace all of humanity and the natural world.

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<span class="quote">Yoga can be understood as a plan for such a widening.</span>

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<p>To be practiced properly, every aspect of yoga must be understood in this light. <em>Satya&mdash;</em>&ldquo;truthfulness&rdquo; or &ldquo;honesty&rdquo;&mdash;is the second of the five <em>yamas</em>. It begins with our ability to reflect honestly on our own inner life and our own felt experience.</p>

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For many of us, our first moment of satya is when we choose a modification in a yoga pose. The pointlessness and the discomfort of trying to get into a pose that is not appropriate for our body becomes apparent to us.

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We pick up the block we have held in contempt and find a more accessible and more productive version of the pose. By being honest about our experience of the pose we find that doing a little less allows us to accomplish a lot more.

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<h2>From the very beginning honesty is something we practice from the inside out.</h2>

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<h2>Day 270: Being Right or Being Wise</h2>

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I was taught that there are no straight lines in nature. That straight lines only exist in our mind. One of the straight lines our mind tries to draw is the one that connects our thoughts and our actions to being right.

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<span class="quote">It is one of our most cherished delusions that we are right all the time.</span>

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We are so attached to this delusion that we react strongly to anything that threatens it. But often what we are rejecting is the very information we need in order to find happiness. The irony of this situation is not lost on anyone who has ever tried to help another human being.

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The practice of yoga is a safeguard against the habit of the mind to see only what it wants to see. What I am finding is that this sort of suffering reminds me that I can be right or I can be happy, that I can be right or I can be wise.

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<strong>Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor of 1440 Multiversity. </strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/acceptance-as-practice-reflections-from-rolf-gates</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/acceptance-as-practice-reflections-from-rolf-gates#comments</comments><pubDate>Mon, 6 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>What&apos;s in the Basket? (A Thanksgiving Tradition)</title><description><![CDATA[We had a simple wicker basket that looked like a chicken. You wrote what you were grateful for on a piece of paper and put it into the chicken.
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You didn&rsquo;t sign your name. There was no fuss. We passed the chicken basket around the Thanksgiving table and everyone put a note in.

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The Thanksgiving table wasn&rsquo;t a place for sucking up in our family. No time to score brownie points or make up for past wrongs.

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<span class="quote">Just a way to share sweet, simple affection for the someones and somethings in life that made sharp edges lose their bite.</span>

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And life always has enough sharp edges.

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None of us expected life to be easy or perfect or always a box of doughnuts and a warm blanket. We did expect fair, though. And good. And decent. Maybe this was our way of remembering that the good and fair and decent lived right among us and sustained us during the cold days and the warm months and everything in between.

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Then the basket was passed to my dad. He got to start the best part of Thanksgiving&mdash;better than turkey or stuffing or anything you could ever eat, even apple pie warm from the oven.

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Take out a note of thanks and read it.<br />
Everyone got to guess (aloud or silently) who wrote it.<br />
You could reveal yourself, or not.<br />
Didn&rsquo;t matter if you did.
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<span class="quote">Love is love, whether you stand up and put a name-badge on it or not.</span>

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We weren&rsquo;t a grandiose family. No need for false sentiment or anything close to florid emotion. We were Connecticut Yankees, and a hint of a patronizing attitude was enough to make us all run. Perhaps we were a bit gruff, sometimes slow on the hugs, but never slow on the love, and we had the wicker chicken basket.

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It began at the head of the table on Thanksgiving Day. My dad picked out a piece of paper. He started reading.

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&ldquo;I&rsquo;m grateful for&hellip;&rdquo;

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And our Thanksgiving tradition continued. It wasn&rsquo;t necessarily unique, but it was definitely ours, just like the love in that room.

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<em>Do you have a Thanksgiving tradition? Tell us. We&rsquo;d love to know.</em>

<p><strong>Lisbeth Darsh is the Director of Digital Marketing at 1440 Multiversity, as well as the author of seven books and the popular fitness/inspiration blog <a href="https://wordswithlisbeth.com">Words With Lisbeth</a>.</strong></p>

<p>Learn how to make gratitude part of your daily practice at&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Path of the Courageous Heart</a>&nbsp;with Sharon Salzberg and Omid&nbsp;Safi, PhD January 31 - February 2, 2020.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/whats-in-the-basket-a-thanksgiving-tradition</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/whats-in-the-basket-a-thanksgiving-tradition#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 4 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Vegan and Gluten-Free Thanksgiving Recipes (They&apos;re Delicious, Too)</title><description><![CDATA[It&rsquo;s the busiest cooking week of the year!
<p>Here to help with your cooking needs is the <a href="https://1440.org/meals-activities/">1440 Multiversity Executive Chef, Kenny Woods</a>. This week, Chef Kenny is taking over the 1440 blog to share recipes and tips for everyone from host to guest.</p>
Chef Kenny&rsquo;s specialty is meals that are friendly to your nutritional needs and delicious at the same time! First up, try a few of his favorites that are sure to be a hit with those loved ones who are gluten-free and/or vegan.

<h2>Brussels Sprout and Apple Hash with Coconut &ldquo;Bacon&rdquo;</h2>

<ul>
	<li>Gluten-free, vegan</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>INGREDIENTS</strong></p>
4 cups brussels sprouts, cleaned and quartered<br />
3 cups large-flake coconut chips<br />
&frac12; cup olive oil<br />
&frac14; cup real maple syrup<br />
1 tbs. gluten-free tamari<br />
2 tsp. smoked paprika<br />
2 tsp. smoked salt<br />
2 cups apples with skin left on, diced medium-size<br />
1 fresh bay leaf<br />
1 tbs. sage, chopped<br />
1 tbs. fresh thyme leaves, chopped<br />
1 tbs. pecans, chopped<br />
salt and pepper to taste<br />
parchment paper
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<strong>STEP 1 </strong><br />
Preheat oven to 300&deg;F. To prepare the vegan coconut &ldquo;bacon&rdquo;: in a medium-sized mixing bowl combine coconut chips, 2 tablespoons of the olive oil, 2 tablespoons of the maple syrup, the tamari, smoked paprika, and smoked salt. Mix well.
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<strong>STEP 2 </strong><br />
Line a baking sheet with parchment paper and lay out the seasoned coconut chips, making sure to spread them out so that they can cook evenly. Cook for 20 &ndash; 25 minutes, stirring frequently. The chips will crisp up completely once they are cool.
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<strong>STEP 3 </strong><br />
Preheat oven to 400&deg;F. In a medium mixing bowl, combine the brussels sprouts, remaining maple syrup and olive oil, apples, bay leaf, sage, thyme, and pecans. Season to taste with smoked salt and pepper. Mix ingredients well and then spread them on a baking sheet. Roast for 15 minutes, stirring frequently.
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<strong>STEP 4 </strong><br />
Serve the sprouts garnished with the coconut &ldquo;bacon.&rdquo;
<h2>Creamy French Lentils with Mushrooms and Roasted Apple</h2>

<ul>
	<li>Gluten-free, vegan</li>
</ul>

<p><strong>INGREDIENTS</strong></p>
&frac34; cup French green lentils, rinsed<br />
3 cups water for lentils<br />
1 cup apples with skin left on, diced medium-size<br />
2 tbs. olive oil<br />
3 tsp. fresh thyme leaves, minced<br />
1 cinnamon stick<br />
1 medium shallot, finely diced<br />
1 lb. mixed mushrooms, stemmed and sliced<br />
2 cloves of garlic, sliced<br />
2 tbs. white wine<br />
2 tsp. gluten-free tamari<br />
1&frac12; cups vegetable stock<br />
⅓ cup unsweetened plant-based milk<br />
3 &ndash; 4 kale stalks, stems removed, leaves sliced<br />
salt and pepper to taste<br />
<strong>STEP 1 </strong><br />
Preheat oven to 400&deg;F. Toss apples with 1 tablespoon of olive oil, 2 teaspoons of thyme, and one cinnamon stick, and season with salt and pepper.
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<strong>STEP 2 </strong><br />
Roast on a baking sheet for 12 minutes. Once apples start to caramelize, remove them from the oven and leave them out at room temperature. Discard cinnamon stick.
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<strong>STEP 3 </strong><br />
In a medium-sized pot, bring water to a boil. Add the lentils to the water along with a pinch of salt. Simmer the lentils until they&rsquo;re just-tender, about 20 minutes. Drain and set aside.
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<strong>STEP 4 </strong><br />
In a medium-sized soup pot, heat 1 tablespoon of olive oil over medium heat. Add the shallots and stir, then cook them until they are translucent. Add mushrooms and saut&eacute; until they begin to brown on all sides. Season with salt and pepper. Add the garlic and 1 teaspoon of thyme to the pot and stir. Once the garlic is fragrant, about 30 seconds, add the white wine and tamari to the pot. Then, add the drained lentils, vegetable stock, and plant milk. Stir and bring the mixture to a boil.
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<strong>STEP 5 </strong><br />
Put half of the lentil and mushroom mixture into a blender, making sure to include plenty of liquid. Blend on high until completely smooth. Scrape the creamy, blended lentil-mushroom mixture back into the pot. Add the sliced kale and roasted apples and stir. Bring everything to a boil and adjust seasoning as necessary. The final texture should be thick and creamy.
<h2>Dark Chocolate Pomegranate Ice Cream</h2>

<ul>
	<li>Gluten-free, vegan</li>
</ul>
<strong>INGREDIENTS</strong><br />
2 cups raw organic cashews<br />
4 very ripe organic bananas<br />
&frac12; cup filtered water, plus some for soaking<br />
1 vanilla bean<br />
pinch of fine sea salt<br />
&frac12; cup real maple syrup<br />
1 tbs. organic coconut oil, melted<br />
&frac12; tsp. fresh lemon juice<br />
&frac12; cup 70% cacao dark chocolate, chopped<br />
&frac12; cup organic pomegranate seeds
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<strong>STEP 1 </strong><br />
Soak the cashews in filtered water for at least 4 hours or overnight. Drain and rinse.
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<strong>STEP 2 </strong><br />
Peel the bananas and cut into bite-size slices. Place the banana slices into a sealable plastic bag and freeze completely until you&rsquo;re ready to use. Remove frozen bananas from the freezer 10 minutes prior to making the ice cream.
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<strong>STEP 3 </strong><br />
Combine the drained cashews and the filtered water in a blender and blend on high until you have a completely smooth texture.
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<strong>STEP 4 </strong><br />
Slice the vanilla bean down the center and scrape the seeds out with a paring knife. Add the seeds to a food processor along with the frozen banana chunks, cashew cream, sea salt, maple syrup, coconut oil, and lemon juice. Turn on the food processor and blend on the highest setting until the mixture is smooth. Taste the mixture for sweetness and add more maple syrup if desired. Then fold in the chopped dark chocolate and pomegranate seed.
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<strong>STEP 5 </strong><br />
Put the ice cream into a freezer-ready container and freeze for at least 4 hours.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/vegan-and-gluten-free-thanksgiving-recipes-theyre-delicious-too</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/vegan-and-gluten-free-thanksgiving-recipes-theyre-delicious-too#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 4 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Nutrition Is Far More Important Than Many People Realize: Lessons from The China Study</title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Thomas M. Campbell, MD,</a> is coauthor, with his father <a href="https://www.1440.org/">T. Colin Campbell, PhD</a>, of&nbsp;<em>The China Study</em>, which has sold over two million copies.&nbsp;He&nbsp;is a board-certified family physician, a specialist in obesity medicine, and the medical director of the Highland Weight Management and Lifestyle Center, as well as the T. Colin Campbell Center for Nutrition Studies. Thomas is also the author of&nbsp;<em>The Campbell Plan&nbsp;</em>and&nbsp;<em>The China Study Solution</em>.</p>
We caught up with him recently to talk about nutrition, dietary trends, and lessons learned from The China Study.

<h2>1440: You wrote The Campbell Plan as a practical follow-up to The China Study. Can you share one or two of the findings you distill into practical advice for patients and readers?</h2>
<em>Thomas:</em> There&rsquo;s not a single study that I rely on, but rather a broad collection of research that suggests that nutrition is far more important than many people realize.

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<span class="quote">How we eat can slow, stop, or reverse atherosclerotic heart disease, prostate cancer, diabetes, weight problems, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, rheumatoid arthritis, and others.</span>

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The second thing I&rsquo;d highlight is a research finding that moderation in a profoundly unhealthy food environment is not a helpful approach.

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Moderation is a vague term that means different things to different people. A &ldquo;moderate&rdquo; amount usually is an amount that allows people to consume whatever they want to consume. It&rsquo;s easier and more effective to establish &ldquo;bright lines&rdquo; regarding what you want to eat and then stick to your plan.

<h2>1440: What is the biggest nutritional concern you hear from patients and readers?</h2>
<em>Thomas:</em> One of the biggest concerns tends to be a variety of questions related to &ldquo;getting enough&rdquo; of x, y, z. How will I get <em>enough</em> protein without meat? Don&rsquo;t I need <em>more</em> fat for my brain? Generally, people don&rsquo;t appreciate that excessive amounts of certain nutrients in America are actually far more threatening for most of us. I&rsquo;d rather we move beyond that conversation and focus on whole foods and dietary patterns, which is more meaningful in terms of overall health.

<h2>1440: What is the most dangerous nutritional trend that you observe in modern life?</h2>
<em>Thomas:</em><br />
<span class="quote">I think the variety of low-carb approaches, as a group, are among the most dangerous nutritional trends. </span>

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In the extreme, these might be a ketogenic type of diet, and there may be short-term benefits, but I have very serious concerns about long-term effects of diets high in meat and fat.

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Even beyond the direct effects on people participating in the diets, these diets have created a pervasive concern that carbohydrates like potatoes, rice, and corn (and even beans!) are something to be avoided because they cause weight gain and diabetes, despite our knowledge that almost all traditional cultures have been trim and avoided diabetes, as well as heart disease and many common cancers, eating diets heavily based on healthy carbohydrates.

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We also have good studies showing that high carbohydrate, whole-food diets can actually dramatically reverse diabetes and cause weight loss.

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<span class="quote">There is a terribly confusing mess of nutrition information in the popular media.</span>

<h2>1440: Sugar. Alcohol. Caffeine. If all are enjoyed in moderation, is one of these any more damaging than the others?</h2>
<em>Thomas:</em> From a nutritional/health concern, it&rsquo;s probably true that anything in very small amounts is likely fine, but my concern is more of a behavioral one. In our food environment, where we&rsquo;re constantly being pulled to consume processed foods, it&rsquo;s unlikely that someone truly eats perfectly 95 percent of the time and indulges in obviously unhealthy foods 5 percent of the time. I don&rsquo;t think I&rsquo;ve ever met that person. People are almost always consuming less healthy foods than they realize in our environment so tilted toward unhealthy food.

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<span class="quote">From a health point of view, I think alcohol and caffeine in small amounts are okay, but dosing yourself regularly with sugary foods is a recipe for dietary trouble.</span>

<h2>1440: What five foods can you not live without?</h2>

<p><em>Thomas:</em> I don&rsquo;t truly <em>need</em> certain foods every week (that would be an addiction!), but I certainly am a fan of oatmeal, sweet cherries (frozen are great), watermelon, many types of leafy greens, and brown rice (which is popular with me from a practical point of view).</p>

<p><strong><a href="https://www.1440.org/">Thomas M. Campbell, MD</a></strong>&nbsp;and<strong>&nbsp;<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Erin Campbell, MD</a>&nbsp;</strong>will be teaching<strong> <a href="https://www.1440.org/">&quot;The China Study in Practice: Optimal Nutrition for Optimal Health&quot;</a>&nbsp;</strong>at 1440 Multiversity on Jan. 10 - 12, 2020.&nbsp;</p>
<strong>This interview was conducted by Kate Green Tripp, Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity. </strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/nutrition-is-far-more-important-than-many-people-realize-lessons-from-the-china-study</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/nutrition-is-far-more-important-than-many-people-realize-lessons-from-the-china-study#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 4 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Just Thinking of Comfort Foods Can Reduce Loneliness</title><description><![CDATA[<h2><em>Studies show how we hunger for social connection.</em></h2>

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Chicken soup. Macaroni and cheese. Apple pie.

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Am I making you hungry?

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According to a new study, these words do more than whet our appetite. They fulfill our hunger for social connection.

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<p>The study, published online last week by the journal&nbsp;<i><a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0956797611407931" target="_blank" title="Psychological Science">Psychological Science,</a></i>&nbsp;explored the emotional reasons why comfort foods make us feel so good.</p>

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The results suggest a strong link between comfort foods and the comfort we get from loved ones; in fact, simply thinking of comfort foods can make us feel significantly less lonely.

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In the study, researchers at the University of Buffalo asked undergraduate students to write about a fight with a loved one&mdash;an attempt to make these students feel socially vulnerable and threatened. Then they had some of the students write about a comfort food of theirs, while others were asked to write about a new food they&rsquo;d like to try. Afterward, all the students filled out a survey that recorded how lonely they felt at the moment.

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The researchers, Jordan Troisi and Shira Gabriel, found that students who thought about their comfort food felt significantly less lonely than the students who thought about a new food.

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However, this was true only for the students who were able to form close, secure relationships with others&mdash;something that had been assessed earlier in the study. For people who had a harder time forming secure connections to others, comfort foods didn&rsquo;t have the same effect.

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Based on their results, Troisi and Gabriel argue that people associate comfort foods with close friends and family, quite possibly because those foods were originally eaten with (or prepared by) our loved ones; the memory of the person and the memory of the food become intertwined. And it&rsquo;s these associations with loved ones that make comfort foods so comforting&mdash;it&rsquo;s as if the foods become a surrogate for the people we hold dear.

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&ldquo;Therefore, the physiological experience of ingesting, or even thinking about ingesting, comfort food automatically activates the experience of psychological comfort that was initially encoded along with the food,&rdquo; the authors write.

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But if people don&rsquo;t find much comfort in their relationships to begin with&mdash;which was the case for some of the study participants&mdash;comfort foods won&rsquo;t be able to work their magic.

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In another experiment they ran with a different group of undergrads, Troisi and Gabriel found further evidence of the link between comfort foods and relationships.

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Some students in this experiment ate chicken soup, some didn&rsquo;t; then all the students completed a task in which they had to insert missing letters into word fragments. The words could either be completed to spell words associated with relationships (e.g., like, include, welcome) or non-relationship words.

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Among the students who&rsquo;d previously said they considered chicken soup to be a comfort food, students who ate chicken soup were significantly more likely to spell relationship words than were students who hadn&rsquo;t eaten the soup. Their comfort food had made them think about their relationships, perhaps subconsciously, suggest the researchers.

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Students who didn&rsquo;t consider chicken soup to be a comfort food weren&rsquo;t more likely to spell relationship words, regardless of whether they&rsquo;d eaten the soup or not.

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Taken together, these results suggest that it&rsquo;s not simply the taste or texture of comfort foods that give them their power; it&rsquo;s the social and emotional associations they conjure up for us.

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<strong><em>This story originally appeared on Greater Good, the online magazine of the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley. For more, visit <a href="https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/" rel="canonical" target="_blank">Greater Good online.</a></em></strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/just-thinking-of-comfort-foods-can-reduce-loneliness</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/just-thinking-of-comfort-foods-can-reduce-loneliness#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 4 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Joel Fuhrman on the Top 20 Superfoods and Why They Matter</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Joel Fuhrman</a> is a board-certified family physician, researcher, six-time <em>New York Times</em> best-selling author, and internationally recognized expert on nutrition and natural healing who specializes in preventing and reversing disease through nutritional methods. He writes about the importance of nutrient density&mdash;abundant in superfoods&mdash;in the following excerpt from his book, <i>Fast Food Genocide: How Processed Food is Killing Us and&nbsp;What We Can Do About It</i>.
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<h2>Understanding Nutrient Density</h2>

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There are two kinds of nutrients: macronutrients and micronutrients. Macro&shy;nutrients are protein, carbohydrate, fat, and water. Excluding water, they are the three calorie-containing nutrients. Micronutrients are vita&shy;mins, minerals, and phytochemicals, and they are calorie-free.

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The Standard American Diet (SAD) contains too many macronutrients and not enough micronutrients. A micronutrient-rich diet supplies your body with fourteen different vita&shy;mins, twenty-five separate minerals, and thousands of phytochemicals that have a profound effect on human cell function and the immune system. Foods that are naturally rich in these micronutrients are also rich in fiber and water and are naturally low in calories.

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<span class="quote">The ratio of micronutrients to calories in a food is the nutrient density of that food. </span>

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Given the thousands of fragile phytonutrients in a berry or a sprig of broccoli, nutrient intake is more complex than originally thought. You cannot buy superior nutrition with a series of health-food store supplements; colorful plant food is just too complex and complete with beneficial substances, many of which have not even been identified yet.

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<span class="quote">The secret to a successful, healthy, and happy life is to eat a diet lower in calories and higher in micronutrients. </span>

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It&rsquo;s all about nutrient bang per caloric buck. The nutrient density of your body&rsquo;s tissues is proportional to the nutrient density of your diet. My &ldquo;Health Equation&rdquo; represents this concept of striving for micronutrient adequacy in fewer calories to improve health and life span: H = N/CHealth = Nutrients/Calories.

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The SAD does the opposite; it contains lots of high-calorie foods that are deficient in micronutrients.

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<span class="quote">To achieve superior health and lon&shy;gevity, we must eat more foods that are micronutrient-rich and have fewer empty calories. </span>

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Very few people are aware of this simple concept, which explains why oils are NOT healthy. They are rich in calories but are virtually devoid of nutrients and fiber.

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In addition, eating fewer calories or moderate caloric restriction in the environment of micronutrient adequacy slows the aging process and advances health and longevity. However, what is also convention&shy;ally ignored is that little effort to restrict calories is needed once you consume a diet that is nutritionally superior. When you consume all the high-nutrient produce your body needs, you automatically desire the right amount of calories and no longer feel comfortable eating the amount of food that sustains an unfavorable weight.

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<span class="quote">In other words, it is actually difficult to remain overweight when your diet is excellent. </span>

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<h2>The Top 20 Superfoods</h2>

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1. Collards, mustard greens, and turnip greens<br />
2. Kale<br />
3. Watercress<br />
4. Bok choy<br />
5. Cabbage (all varieties)<br />
6. Spinach<br />
7. Arugula<br />
8. Lettuce (Boston, romaine, and green leaf)<br />
9. Brussels sprouts<br />
10. Carrots<br />
11. Broccoli<br />
12. Cauliflower<br />
13. Bell peppers (red and green)<br />
14. Mushrooms<br />
15. Tomatoes<br />
16. Berries (all varieties)<br />
17. Pomegranates and cherries<br />
18. Onions (and leeks, scallions, and garlic)<br />
19. Beans (all varieties)<br />
20. Seeds (flax, hemp, chia, sesame, pumpkin, sunflower)
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<span class="quote">The more high-nutrient food you consume, the less low-nutrient food you desire. </span>

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Excerpted from <em>Fast Food Genocide</em> by Joel Fuhrman, MD. Reprinted with permission from HarperOne, an imprint of HarperCollins Publishers. Copyright 2017.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/joel-fuhrman-on-the-top-20-superfoods-and-why-they-matter</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/joel-fuhrman-on-the-top-20-superfoods-and-why-they-matter#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 4 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Get Your Hands Dirty: 5 Ways Gardening Can Improve Your Health</title><description><![CDATA[Every time I see parents hosing the family down with antibacterial wipes, I wince a little, because in their pursuit of a squeaky clean lifestyle, they&rsquo;re also stripping off the beneficial bacteria that can help keep our guts and brains healthy and happy!
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While it&rsquo;s unlikely that I&rsquo;ll be able to pry most people away from their antibacterial wipes anytime soon, one thing I do urge everyone to do is to go play in the dirt&ndash;as in, take up gardening! Be it a small box on a windowsill or a spacious garden patch, gardening is one of the simplest and most enjoyable ways I know to connect with those essential good bacteria to help improve the overall health of your body and brain.

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So, gather up a few basic tools, and let&rsquo;s get our hands dirty. Here are five reasons to encourage you to start digging:

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<h2>1) Those &ldquo;dirty&rdquo; microbes may cut anxiety and boost brain function.</h2>
When you dig in the dirt, you&rsquo;ll be also digging into mycobacterium vaccae, a soil-based organism that animal research has shown to play a positive role in gut and brain health, including lightening mood and anxiety. It may have similar positive effects in humans. My advice? Don&rsquo;t stress out about the dirt&mdash;play in it!

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<h2>2) It beats an hour on the treadmill!</h2>
Gardening is exercise that gets results, and beautiful ones at that, be they in the form of blooming flowers or fresh-off-the-vine produce. As you spend time in the garden, you&rsquo;ll be working your muscles as you twist and turn, bend, lug, and tug. According to WebMD, you&rsquo;ll also be burning plenty of calories along the way, at a rate of roughly 200 &ndash; 400 per hour.

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<h2>3) You already know the farmer.</h2>
When you grow your own herbs and produce, you know the source and the story of your food. You know the type of soil you used&mdash;hopefully, clean and nutrient-rich&mdash;and how you treated the plants as they grew, with plenty of sunshine and without chemical pesticides. The food you grow is food you can feel great about eating, not only from a taste and nutritional standpoint, but also as a point of pride!

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<h2>4) Gardening is a mind-body therapy.</h2>
When you&rsquo;re tending and nurturing the earth, you&rsquo;re (most likely) outdoors, enjoying the breeze, and feeling the cool soil in your hands, literally connecting with the ground, <a href="https://www.greenmedinfo.com/therapeutic-action/grounding-contact-earth">a therapeutic connection in and of itself.</a> You&rsquo;re taking in the sounds of chirping birds and the rustling trees, kind of like listening to a relaxation tape or video. And perhaps best of all, you&rsquo;re getting a dose of health-boosting vitamin D, which is also wonderful for immunity, mood, and gut health! To learn more about the power of dirt, take a look at <em>The Dirt Cure</em> by Dr. Maya Shetreat-Klein.

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<h2>5) Gardening makes good reading.</h2>
Another thing that makes gardening such a fabulous world to dig into&mdash;you can do it without knowing all that much, or you can go deep and study it forever, always learning about new techniques and interesting things to grow and enjoy. All that learning is good for your brain!

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I like to think of myself as a student of the soil and another one of my favorite books is <em>The Hidden Half of Nature</em> by David Montgomery and Anne Bikle. It&rsquo;s a wonderful summer read that will inspire you to get in touch with all your microbial friends deep in the dirt.

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See you in the garden!

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Join <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Kathie Madonna Swift</a> along with <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Mark Hyman, MD</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">James Gordon, MD</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Robynne K. Chutkan, MD</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Cindy Geyer, MD</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Catherine McConkie</a>, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Aviva Romm, MD</a>, and <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Donald I. Abrams, MD</a> for their program, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Food as Medicine for Women&rsquo;s Health</a> from October 15-20, 2017 at 1440 Multiversity. (Physicians who would like to earn CMEs can <a href="https://www.1440.org/">register here</a>.)

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<strong>Kathie Madonna Swift, MS, RDN, is the education director for the Center for Mind-Body Medicine&rsquo;s highly acclaimed Food As Medicine professional training program. She is also the cofounder of the Integrative and Functional Nutrition Academy, a comprehensive, 100%-online nutrition program for health-care professionals. Kathie pioneered innovative nutrition programs at Canyon Ranch Health Resorts, Kripalu Center for Yoga &amp; Health, and Dr. Mark Hyman&rsquo;s UltraWellness Center, and she continues to consult at all three organizations today. She is the author of two books on digestive health, including The Inside Tract: Your Good Gut Guide to Great Digestive Health and The Swift Diet: 4 Weeks to Mend the Belly, Lose the Weight, and Get Rid of the Bloat. Connect with Kathie at <a href="https://www.kathieswift.com">www.kathieswift.com</a> </strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/get-your-hands-dirty-5-ways-gardening-can-improve-your-health</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/get-your-hands-dirty-5-ways-gardening-can-improve-your-health#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 4 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>From Our Kitchen Table to Yours: Thoughts on Eating with Presence</title><description><![CDATA[When a hurried pace of life dominates our daily priorities, it is all too easy to eat without thinking about what we&rsquo;re doing. We eat because it is time or because we need to&mdash;and yet when we rush through meals, we often miss out on the joy of eating.
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A meal is so many things&mdash;it is someone&rsquo;s hard work (maybe our own), it is an opportunity to connect with the moment and perhaps with people we love, it is a tasty collection of nutrients that care for our body, and it is a display of what the planet provides.

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Eating mindfully is a practice we can reclaim. It isn&rsquo;t hard or time-consuming, but it does require attention and practice.

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<span class="quote">Slowing down is the key.</span>

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Amazingly, our senses have a magical way of piggybacking on one another to enhance sensory experience. &ldquo;When you smell garlic saut&eacute;ing in olive oil, your stomach starts to react and your digestive enzymes begin to blossom even before you&rsquo;ve begun eating,&rdquo; explains 1440&rsquo;s Executive Chef, Kenny Woods.

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<span class="quote">Smell, as it turns out, literally prepares you for taste.</span>

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Slowing down enough to really take in the preparation, presentation, and enjoyment of food is something Chef Kenny advocates&mdash;regardless of what we&rsquo;re eating or where we are.&nbsp;It matters, he says, that we keep our eyes, heart, and belly aware and appreciative of our food. &ldquo;Coming into a space where you&rsquo;re relaxed and in tune with your body before you&nbsp;even start to eat is the first step,&rdquo; he says.

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<span class="quote">When we fully experience our food&mdash;colors, textures, smell, and even touch&mdash;we enjoy<br />
it more.</span>

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It also matters that we notice and appreciate whomever prepared our food. We know that feeling grateful contributes to a sense of joy. If you consider your gratitude for both the food you&rsquo;re about to enjoy and the person who prepared it, you&rsquo;re likely to care about the meal that much more.

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<span class="quote">And of course, eating slowly and carefully is vital for the health of the digestive process.</span>

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&ldquo;Once you start eating, take full bites and chew everything,&rdquo; says Chef Kenny. &ldquo;After 15 or 20 minutes of eating, check in with yourself and ask, <em>Am I still hungry? How do I feel?</em>&rdquo;

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If you&rsquo;re around the table with children, says Chef Kenny, consider engaging them in conversation about where the food comes from.

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&ldquo;Many kids don&rsquo;t know that grapes grow on a vine and blueberries come from a bush. The opportunities to educate kids about where their food originates are endless.&rdquo;

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When we take the time to cultivate awareness of where our food comes from, appreciate how it is prepared, and notice how it stimulates all of our senses&mdash;sitting down for a meal becomes an opportunity to be fully present and nurture our whole self.

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As we prepare to open our doors at 1440 Multiversity, we&rsquo;d like to introduce you to some of the amazing folks you&rsquo;ll meet during your stay on campus.

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First up? Kenny Woods&mdash;the man behind our fabulous farm-to-table cuisine.

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Kenny Woods<br />
Age: 26<br />
Hometown: Tucson, Arizona<br />
Role at 1440: Executive Chef
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<em>What was the best part of today?</em><br />
Waking up, sitting on the back porch in my noise-canceling headphones and meditating, then getting to work. It was just a perfect way to start the day.
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<em>What&rsquo;s the weirdest job you&rsquo;ve ever had?</em><br />
Dishwashing at 15 with a bunch of pretty inappropriate coworkers.
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<em>If you could trade places with anybody in the world, who would you pick? </em><br />
For one day, I would trade with some kind of three-star Michelin chef somewhere in the world. Only for a day, though, because I don&rsquo;t want to live in that kind of stressful environment.
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And then on the flip side, I would love to trade places with somebody who owns a very private, cool mountainside cabin somewhere in Alaska. That would be awesome&mdash;with a river that you can fish in&mdash;just to kind of know what it&rsquo;s like to live on the really simple end of things.

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<em>What is your favorite word?</em><br />
I don&rsquo;t have one straight-up favorite word, but I do love the three-word phrase&mdash;<em>mise en place</em>&mdash;and that&rsquo;s French for &ldquo;everything in its place.&rdquo; It&rsquo;s just kind of a way to live your life&mdash;knowing what&rsquo;s going on, staying in the moment. When you translate that to a kitchen, it&rsquo;s success.

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<em>What&rsquo;s one thing everyone can do today to make a real difference in the world?</em><br />
Everybody living by treating people how you should be treated&mdash;we&rsquo;ve all heard that before. Preparing fresh food at home. These days we have lost touch with the concept of &ldquo;the home cooked meal.&rdquo; Processed foods have taken over our meals. Knowing where your food comes from and what its ingredients are is so crucial to making the world a better place. If we all spend a little more time cooking fresh food, we would have less worries about what we&rsquo;re fueling our bodies with. Get hands-on with your meals.
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<em>Jazz, rap, or classical?</em><br />
I can appreciate all of them, but if we&rsquo;re talking about listening to one genre for an extended amount of time, it&rsquo;s probably jazz.
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<em>What would you love to have for dinner tonight?</em><br />
I&rsquo;m probably leaning towards green chicken curry because it&rsquo;s kind of a go-to (for me).
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<h2>Confit Tricolor Carrot</h2>

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&ldquo;I love the technique of confit. To be able to cook an ingredient in its own natural juice brings a different appreciation. This enhances the overall depth of simple ingredients. The carrots would be an amazing side dish for roasted seasonal fish, braised chicken, or grilled tofu.&rdquo; &mdash;Chef Kenny]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/faces-of-1440-executive-chef-kenny-woods</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/faces-of-1440-executive-chef-kenny-woods#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 4 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Explaining G-BOMBS and Longevity: 5 Questions with Dr. Joel Fuhrman</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Joel Fuhrman, MD,</a>&nbsp;is a board-certified family physician, researcher, six-time <em>New York Times</em> best-selling author, and internationally recognized expert on nutrition and natural healing who specializes in preventing and reversing disease through nutritional methods. Dr. Fuhrman coined the term Nutritarian to describe his eating style, which is built around a diet of nutrient-dense, plant-rich foods.
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<h2>1440: What advice would you give someone who is looking to make a sudden shift from unhealthy eating to a Nutritarian diet?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Fuhrman:</em> My advice is to first learn about it fully. Read and understand the overwhelming scientific evidence enabling us to protect against disease and extend human lifespan with nutritional excellence.

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<span class="quote">It is important to know why certain foods protect against cancer and slow aging and why other foods do the opposite&mdash;promote fat storage, cellular replication, cancer, and premature aging.</span>

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Otherwise they will base their decisions on myths and social norms and not give their taste buds and food preferences the time to transform to prefer healthier foods. I don&rsquo;t even want someone to start if they have not read one of my books first. They also need to understand the addictive nature of processed foods and how to lessen withdrawal symptoms, cravings, and emotional eating. This is best explained in my book, <em>The End of Dieting.</em>

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<h2>1440: Can you tell us how <em>Eat to Live</em> and its Nutritarian diet differs from other elimination or detox regimens, for example: Whole 30?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Fuhrman:</em> There is no comparison. A Nutritiaran diet addresses every nutritional aspect that extends human lifespan. Other diets typically address one aspect, like lowering sugar or lowering fat, or they are based on an unproven and risky hypothesis, such as a ketogenic diet&hellip;There are many reasons explained in the scientific literature why diets high in animal protein are dangerous; which are covered extensively in my books&hellip;You can&rsquo;t secure superior health and longevity unless you remove the unhealthy foods and actually eat lots of healthy G-BOMBS.

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<span class="quote">G-BOMBS are the foods with the most scientific evidence to prevent cancer. It stands for Greens, Beans, Onions, Mushrooms, Berries, and Seeds. Eat them almost every day.</span>

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A Nutritarian diet leaves no stone unturned, addressing every factor effecting human longevity. That includes ingesting a superior amount of phytochemicals and antioxidants; the alkalinity of the diet; the mild caloric restriction achieved from eating so much fiber and micronutrients; the cooking methods to reduce exposure to dry heat-generated toxic carcinogens; the avoidance of high glycemic carbohydrates; the beneficial thickening of adherent and beneficial microbiome; the exposure to the full comprehensive array of nutrients that benefit human lifespan; and, of course, the avoidance of chemical toxins, including cancer-promoting supplements such as folic acid.

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<span class="quote">Additionally, diet that cannot be maintained for life is not of much value. What you do for a temporary period only has temporary benefits.</span>

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A Nutritarian diet-style keeps you well physically and mentally for life and is designed to taste fantastic with thousands of recipes tested by a large population of taste testers.

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<h2>1440: What is the number one mistake you see people make when it comes to &ldquo;dieting&rdquo; or trying to lose weight?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Fuhrman:</em> The main mistake they make is thinking that oil is a health food, when it one of the most calorically concentrated and fattening foods available. It lacks fiber, has almost no micronutrients, and does not downregulate the appetite. For example, if one ate walnuts, instead of walnut oil, or sesame seeds, instead of sesame oil, it would have a completely opposite biological effect. The whole food would be absorbed slowly and incompletely, allowing the body to utilize it as an energy source for hours, whereas the oil would be absorbed almost instantly and turned into body fat.

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<h2>1440: What types of spiritual practices do you see best assisting people in making diet and lifestyle changes?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Fuhrman:</em> Social connectivity with others embracing healthy eating and supporting your decisions to eat for health is the most important aspect for assuring change.

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<h2>1440: How did your career in figure skating lead you to your current career in health and nutrition?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Fuhrman:</em> I am not sure exactly. I do know that I was passionate about skating and when that passion was destroyed with a severe injury, I was lucky to find a new interest and career that I could become super excited about and devoted to. I have been very lucky to have had the opportunities to pursue my interests in life and I hope all Americans have access to healthy food, a good education, and the opportunity to pursue their passions and dreams as well.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/explaining-g-bombs-and-longevity-5-questions-with-dr-joel-fuhrman</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/explaining-g-bombs-and-longevity-5-questions-with-dr-joel-fuhrman#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 4 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Dr. Weil’s Six Tips for Healthy Aging</title><description><![CDATA[Combining a Harvard education and a lifetime of practicing natural and preventive medicine, <em>New York Times</em> best-selling author <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Andrew Weil, MD,</a> has written 15 books on health and well-being and is an expert on healthy aging. We recently spoke with him about how much of healthy aging is truly within our personal control.
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&ldquo;Recent research has disproved the long-held idea that genes dictate our health destiny,&rdquo; he explains. &ldquo;Instead, the science of epigenetics has shown that genes are turned on or off by a variety of influences, including how we eat, exercise, and sleep. Even our thoughts have impact.&rdquo;

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Here&rsquo;s what matters most&mdash;in the words of Dr. Weil:

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	<li><strong>Nutrition:</strong> Eat an anti-inflammatory diet featuring nutrient-dense vegetables, low-sugar fruits such as berries, which provide protective antioxidants, and fatty cold-water fish including wild Alaskan salmon, a rich source of heart-healthy omega-3 fatty acids.</li>
	<li><strong>Exercise:</strong> I am a great advocate for walking at a brisk pace for at least 30 minutes daily. It requires no training or special equipment, fits easily into busy lives, and, when done with a friend, helps counter social isolation.</li>
	<li><strong>Sleep:</strong> Sleep deprivation&rsquo;s side effects include dysregulation of the hormones that regulate appetite, leading short-sleepers to chronically overeat. To sleep well&mdash;limit caffeine, invest in light-blocking shades and a quality mattress, and avoid staring at screens after 8:00 pm.</li>
	<li><strong>Stress Reduction:</strong> Regularly practicing mindfulness mediation and breathing exercises can help to calm the sympathetic nervous system, which in many of us is chronically in &ldquo;fight or flight&rdquo; mode.</li>
	<li><strong>Social Connection:</strong> Research has suggested that social isolation, prevalent among the elderly, is as hazardous to health as smoking 15 cigarettes daily or being an alcoholic. It&rsquo;s vital to remain connected to others as we age through church membership, volunteering, part-time employment, or in any other way that makes sense for the individual&rsquo;s situation and inclination.</li>
	<li><strong>Appropriate Medical Care:</strong> Americans in general are overmedicated and often subjected to inappropriate, ineffective surgeries. This is especially true of the elderly. Physicians trained in integrative medicine can provide direction in safe, gentle, inexpensive lifestyle-based therapies for a wide variety of conditions including the &ldquo;diseases of aging&rdquo; such as cardiovascular disease, osteoporosis, or mild cognitive impairment.</li>
</ul>

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You&rsquo;re really excited for Friendsgiving or for the big Thanksgiving with your family. You signed up to bring a dish. But, oh wait, dinner is tonight and you haven&rsquo;t cooked a thing.

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To round out <a href="https://1440.org/meals-activities/">Executive Chef Kenny&rsquo;s</a>&nbsp;Thanksgiving Takeover, we thought we&rsquo;d share something for the procrastinating (ahem, busy) sous chefs in the bunch. Here are some favorite side dishes that take little time to prepare but are definitely crowd pleasers.

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<h2>Oven-Roasted Brussels Sprouts with Dijon Mustard, Chives, and Turkey Bacon</h2>

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	<li>Cut sprouts in half.</li>
	<li>Toss with mustard, salt, pepper, and chopped turkey bacon.</li>
	<li>Bake at 400 degrees until golden brown, top with minced chives.</li>
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<h2>Grilled Cauliflower, Toasted Sunflower Seeds, and Baby Tomatoes with Lemon and Olive Oil</h2>

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<ul>
	<li>Buy toasted sunflower seeds, or toast your own in a dry skillet for 1 &ndash; 2 minutes.</li>
	<li>Grill cauliflower and toss with olive oil, lemon, and halved baby tomatoes.</li>
</ul>

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<h2>Dry Rub BBQ Baby Carrots and Cilantro with Tahini Ranch Dressing</h2>

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<ul>
	<li>Toss baby carrots with your favorite BBQ dry rub.</li>
	<li>Roast at 400 degrees for 15 &ndash; 20 minutes.</li>
	<li>Top with chopped cilantro.</li>
	<li>For dressing, add tahini to your favorite ranch dressing (2 parts ranch, 1 part tahini).</li>
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No time? No problem! Any of these dishes will take you less than an hour to prepare, but are sure to impress.]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/dont-panic-last-minute-side-dishes-from-the-1440-kitchen</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/dont-panic-last-minute-side-dishes-from-the-1440-kitchen#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 4 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Chef Kenny&apos;s 8 Tips for Staying Calm in a Busy Kitchen</title><description><![CDATA[Chef Kenny&rsquo;s Thanksgiving Week Takeover continues!
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One of the many wonderful parts of Thanksgiving is the side dishes&mdash;three, five, ten&mdash;you can never have enough. But with a loaded Thanksgiving menu comes a lot of preparation.

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Whether you&rsquo;re heading up Thanksgiving dinner or simply a helper, Thanksgiving kitchens are incredibly busy and could benefit from a little pre-cooking-crisis planning. One person who knows his way around a bustling kitchen is <a href="https://1440.org/meals-activities/">1440 Multiversity Executive Chef Kenny Woods</a>. Here he shares eight tips for keeping calm while cooking up a storm.

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<h2>1. Choose In-Season Ingredients</h2>

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A good cooking experience starts with quality ingredients. Even some of the worst kitchen disasters can be saved by a dash of fresh herbs or a slice of an in-season tomato. If you start with local, in-season ingredients, you&rsquo;re already ahead of the game.

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<h2>2. One Pot Does a Lot</h2>

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When preparing food for a large group, get creative with your pots and pans. For example, you don&rsquo;t have to melt butter in a separate pot. Instead, even if the pot is larger than necessary, melt the butter and then add additional ingredients to the same pot. Also, you should serve many dishes straight from the stovetop without changing the pot. Keep in mind that when you&rsquo;re feeding a lot of people, presentation shouldn&rsquo;t take top billing&mdash;it&rsquo;s all about the food.

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<h2>3. Clean as You Go</h2>

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If someone asks if they can help, don&rsquo;t try to be a superhero&mdash;take them up on their offer! A couple of rounds of dishwashing throughout the day will help keep your kitchen organized and running smoothly.

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<h2>4. Watch Out for Steam!</h2>

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When preparing a large meal, it can be easy to get caught up in the moment and forget basic safety practices. Slowing down even just a little will help you in the long run. Chop with attention, wear oven mitts, and steer clear of steam when removing lids.

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<h2>5. Keep a First Aid Kit in the Kitchen</h2>

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If you get a cut or a burn, be prepared. Keep band-aids and ointment close to the kitchen for quick fixes.

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<h2>6. Pre-cut Veggies</h2>

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Professional kitchens prep food days in advance when cooking large meals&mdash;and so can you. Peel and chop your vegetables the day before cooking. A little pre-prep goes a long way.

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<h2>7. Pro Roasting Tip</h2>

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Most people are afraid to roast vegetables at anything above 350 degrees, but that&rsquo;s far too low. Try 400 or 425 degreees for perfectly golden roasted vegetables.

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<h2>8. Have Fun</h2>

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At the end of the day, it&rsquo;s not worth cooking if you&rsquo;re not having fun. Remember to breathe, maybe pour a glass of wine, and enjoy the process.

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Bon app&eacute;tit, friends, and happy Thanksgiving!]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/chef-kennys-8-tips-for-staying-calm-in-a-busy-kitchen</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/chef-kennys-8-tips-for-staying-calm-in-a-busy-kitchen#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 4 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>Aging Gracefully: Insights from Dr. Andrew Weil</title><description><![CDATA[<a href="https://www.1440.org/">Andrew Weil, MD</a>, is a world-renowned leader and pioneer in the field of integrative medicine and a <em>New York Times</em> best-selling author of 15 books on well-being. He is founder and director of the University of Arizona Center for Integrative Medicine, where he is a clinical professor of medicine and professor of public health. We spoke with him about how much of healthy aging is truly within our personal control.
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<h2>1440: What are some key elements of healthy aging?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Weil:</em> It is vital to recognize that aging is natural and inevitable.

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<span class="quote">Everything ages: stars, mountains, animals, and human beings. </span>

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The modern Western world tends to vigorously deny the reality of aging, and a great deal of nonsense is posted on the internet and elsewhere about &ldquo;stopping&rdquo; and even &ldquo;reversing&rdquo; the aging process.

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In my view, this denialism puts many people into an unhealthy relationship with aging. They focus on fruitlessly &ldquo;fighting&rdquo; the aging process, even resorting to untested, dangerous interventions such as injections of human growth hormone or embryonic stem cells.

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<span class="quote">While medical research may eventually develop safe, effective antiaging therapies, there are none I would recommend today. </span>

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I believe we are better off embracing aging&rsquo;s positive aspects such as the fruition of talents and skills, the deepening of relationships, and a broader, wiser perspective on what matters and what does not. After all, we all acknowledge some things naturally get better with age: whiskey, wine, cheese, and violins, for example. Why not human beings?

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One <em>can&nbsp;</em>optimize physical and mental health at any age, through a variety of scientifically validated practices including appropriate nutrition, regular moderate exercise, stress-reduction techniques, optimized sleep, and maintaining a rich social and spiritual life.

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If these are practiced diligently&mdash;and if one has a bit of luck, as there is always unpredictability in the realm of health&mdash;one can achieve what Stanford professor of medicine James Fries called &ldquo;compression of morbidity.&rdquo; This means that one enjoys a long, robust life largely free of chronic illness, with the period of infirmity leading to death compressed into as short a period as possible.

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<h2>1440: What exactly is inflammation? Does inflammation inevitably worsen as we age?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Weil:</em>

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<span class="quote">Inflammation in the body is a normal and healthy response to injury or attack by germs. </span>

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We can see it, feel it, and measure it as local heat, redness, swelling, and pain. This is the body&rsquo;s way of getting more nourishment and more immune activity into an area that needs to fend off infection or heal. But inflammation isn&rsquo;t always helpful. It also has great destructive potential, which we see when the immune system mistakenly targets the body&rsquo;s own tissues in (autoimmune) diseases like type 1 diabetes, rheumatoid arthritis, and lupus.

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Whole-body inflammation refers to chronic, imperceptible, low-level inflammation. Mounting evidence suggests that over time this kind of inflammation sets the foundation for many serious, age-related diseases including heart disease, cancer, and neurodegenerative conditions such as&nbsp;Alzheimer&rsquo;s&nbsp;and&nbsp;Parkinson&rsquo;s&nbsp;diseases.

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<span class="quote">Recent evidence indicates that whole-body inflammation may also contribute to psychological disorders, especially&nbsp;depression. </span>

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Blood markers of inflammation typically increase as we age, even in the absence of acute infection or other stressors. Still, the relationship between chronic, elevated inflammation and aging isn&rsquo;t clear&mdash;probably, inflammation is both a cause and effect of aging.

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<span class="quote">In any case, inflammation at higher-than-average levels for any individual at any age probably accelerates biological aging. </span>

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<h2>1440: Is there a way to lessen or reverse this?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Weil:</em>

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<span class="quote">Fortunately, most of the lifestyle changes I recommend can help people of any age reduce inappropriate levels of whole-body inflammation. </span>

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			Eat an anti-inflammatory diet featuring nutrient-dense vegetables, low-sugar fruits such as berries, which provide protective antioxidants, and fatty cold-water fish including wild Alaskan salmon, a rich source of heart-healthy omega-3 fatty acids.

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			Regularly practicing mindfulness meditation and breathing exercises can help to calm the sympathetic nervous system, which in many of us is chronically in &ldquo;fight or flight&rdquo; mode.

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			I am a great advocate for walking at a brisk pace for at least 30 minutes daily. It requires no training or special equipment, fits easily into busy lives, and, when done with a friend, helps counter social isolation.

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			Sleep deprivation&rsquo;s side effects include dysregulation of the hormones that regulate appetite, leading short-sleepers to chronically overeat. To sleep well&mdash;limit caffeine, invest in light-blocking shades and a quality mattress, and avoid staring at screens after 8:00 p.m.

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			<h2><strong><img alt="" class="sm-img" src="null" />Social Connection</strong></h2>
			Research suggests that social isolation is as hazardous to health as smoking 15 cigarettes daily or being an alcoholic. It&rsquo;s vital to remain connected to others as we age through church membership, volunteering, part-time employment, or in any way that makes sense for a person&rsquo;s situation and inclination.

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			Americans in general are overmedicated and often subjected to inappropriate, ineffective surgeries. Physicians trained in integrative medicine can provide direction in safe, gentle, inexpensive lifestyle-based therapies for a wide variety of conditions including the &ldquo;diseases of aging&rdquo; such as cardiovascular disease, osteoporosis, or mild cognitive impairment.

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One more that&rsquo;s a particular favorite of mine: consuming turmeric, the traditional spice from India that gives curries their distinctive orange-yellow hue. Turmeric and its active constituent, curcumin, have been shown to exhibit potent anti-inflammatory activity.

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<span class="quote">To take advantage of turmeric&rsquo;s benefits, take turmeric extracts. </span>

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They are available in tablet and capsule form at natural food stores. Look for supercritical extracts in dosages of 400 to 600 mg, and take three times daily or as directed on the product. I favor formulations that contain piperine, a black pepper extract that enhances absorption.

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<h2>1440: You have studied dietary and lifestyle trends in communities across the globe where longevity far surpasses average standards. What are some surprising features of those pockets of the world?</h2>

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<em>Dr. Weil:</em> Health researcher Dan Buettner has traveled the world identifying what he terms &ldquo;Blue Zones.&rdquo; These are areas in which people tend to live longer, healthier lives than the global average. He has discovered many commonalities in elderly Blue Zone community members, including:

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	<li>Diets rich in vegetables and fruits</li>
	<li>Not overeating</li>
	<li>A tradition of lifelong exercise including walking and gardening</li>
	<li>Not smoking</li>
	<li>Having a specific purpose in life</li>
	<li>Moderate intake of alcohol</li>
	<li>Involvement in spirituality or religion</li>
	<li>Engagement with family and community life.</li>
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My favorite place to study a culture that promotes health and longevity is Okinawa, Japan&rsquo;s southernmost prefecture. Its residents had the longest life expectancy of all of Japan&rsquo;s prefectures for almost 30 years prior to the year 2000. Its recent, unfortunate decline in longevity ranking seems directly traceable to the widespread adoption of Western culture, and worst of all Western food, including American fast-food franchises.

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But pockets of happy, healthy, tradition-bound citizens remain there, and they are the ones I seek out. An elder in that culture will introduce herself by saying, &ldquo;I am 90 years old. How old are you?&rdquo;

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<span class="quote">Okinawan customs hold that elders are repositories of wisdom, and young people often seek the counsel of the old. </span>

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In my view, we have much to learn from this culture.

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<strong>Kate Green Tripp is the Managing Editor for 1440 Multiversity.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/aging-gracefully-insights-from-dr-andrew-weil</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/aging-gracefully-insights-from-dr-andrew-weil#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 4 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>7 Micronutrients Your Body Really Needs</title><description><![CDATA[A whopping 92% of Americans are deficient in at least one essential vitamin or mineral. Increasingly, nutrient deficiency shows up as a major underlying driver of chronic disease&mdash;which means it is high time to shift focus in how we choose the foods we eat.
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Food provides the building blocks used to make every cell, tissue, organ, and structure in our bodies.

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<span class="quote">Food provides all the raw materials for the millions of chemical reactions happening inside our bodies at every moment. </span>

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And food provides the energy needed to sustain life. When you think about it this way, it&rsquo;s easy to see how eating the right foods is so important. Without all the building blocks, raw materials, and energy that our bodies need to operate, how can we expect them to stay free of disease?

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Many of us think that nutrient deficiencies are mainly a problem in developing nations (whereas in the United States, our problem is that we have too much food), but this is a misconception.

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<span class="quote">The standard American diet is definitely energy-rich, but it is also nutrient-poor. </span>

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The types of food that many of us eat each day are high in added sugars, refined carbohydrates, and industrially processed oils, but devoid of the vitamins and minerals (and other health-promoting compounds) found in whole foods.

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When we instead make our food choices based on what provides the best raw materials for our bodies, we eat with what&rsquo;s called a micronutrient dietary focus, sometimes termed being a nutrivore.

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<span class="quote">Micronutrients are chemicals in foods that are essential for life and health, but are needed in relatively small amounts. </span>

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These include vitamins, minerals, phytochemicals (antioxidants and vitamin-like chemicals found in vegetables and fruits), essential amino acids (the building blocks of proteins), and essential fatty acids (the building blocks of fats which are also used to make essential structures in every cell, like the outer membrane). In contrast, macronutrients are the constituents of food that provide the energy we need in larger amounts: carbohydrates, proteins, and fats.

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<span class="quote">Micronutrients can be categorized as essential and nonessential. </span>

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Essential means that you&rsquo;ll die without them. Nonessential means that you&rsquo;ll go on living without them, though you may not be particularly healthy&mdash;and indeed, many micronutrients that are considered nonessential are known to improve health.

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Often, micronutrients are called nonessential simply because we don&rsquo;t really understand exactly what they do in our bodies to support health&mdash;we just know that when we consume more of one, our risk of disease decreases. This is the case for most phytochemicals (like polyphenols) and many vitamin-like compounds (like coenzyme Q10). There are thousands of plant phytochemicals, and our understanding of their roles in health is so rudimentary that the most we can typically say about them is that they have antioxidant activity (that is, they help prevent damage to molecules in our body from oxidation).

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<span class="quote">We know that the more plant phytochemicals in your diet, the lower your risk of chronic disease. </span>

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When you think about it in these terms, it&rsquo;s easy to realize that even nonessential nutrients are pretty darned important. So, what micronutrients are you most likely to be deficient in? And what foods are the best choices for boosting your intake?

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<strong>Vitamin A&mdash;56% of Americans rarely meet the RDA</strong><br />
Not to be confused with beta-carotene (which is a vitamin A precursor, not vitamin A itself, and is only converted at about 3% efficiency), this vitamin is essential for bone growth, tooth remineralization, skin health, vision, reproduction, and immune function. Retinol is found only in animal foods, including liver, eggs, grass-fed dairy products, and seafood (especially shrimp, salmon, sardines, and tuna).
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<strong>Vitamin B6&mdash;54% of Americans rarely meet the RDA</strong><br />
Important for cell metabolism and the production of hemoglobin, which carries oxygen in the blood, B6 is also vital for producing the key neurotransmitters GABA, dopamine, and serotonin. Sources include a wide variety of plant and animal foods, including leafy, cruciferous and root vegetables, fruits such as bananas, red meat, poultry, and seeds (especially sunflower and pumpkin seeds).
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<strong>Vitamin B9 (folate)&mdash;75% of Americans rarely meet the RDA</strong><br />
Plays an important role in methylation (the process of adding a methyl group to different molecules), making it a key player in methylation-dependent processes like detoxification and neuron signaling. Folate is also crucial for cardiovascular health, reproductive function (especially protecting against neural tube defects), and red blood cell production. Rich sources include organ meat, green vegetables (both leafy and non-leafy), legumes, beets, avocados, and fruits such as papayas, strawberries, and pomegranates.
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<strong>Vitamin D&mdash;An estimated 75% of Americans are deficient</strong><br />
Assists in calcium absorption, immune system function, bone development, modulation of cell growth, neuromuscular function, and the reduction of inflammation. Although vitamin D can be produced when the sun&rsquo;s UV rays hit the skin and trigger vitamin D synthesis, it also can be obtained from foods, including oily fish (such as salmon, tuna, and mackerel), mushrooms, fish roe, liver, and eggs. Severe deficiency is near impossible to address without supplementation, so it&rsquo;s important to ask your healthcare provider to test your levels. Optimal serum vitamin D levels are between 50 and 70 nanograms per milliliter (ng/mL). If you&rsquo;re deficient, consider supplementing with vitamin D3 (5,000 IU daily is a standard dose to address deficiency) and recheck every three months to make sure you don&rsquo;t overshoot the mark. Vitamin D levels in excess of 100 ng/mL can also cause health problems.
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<strong>Vitamin E&mdash;60% of Americans rarely meet the RDA</strong><br />
Actually a group of eight fat-soluble antioxidants, the most well-known of which is alpha-tocopherol. All forms of vitamin E help protect against free radical damage, reduce the harmful oxidation of LDL (&ldquo;bad&rdquo;) cholesterol particles in the bloodstream, and boost cardiovascular health. Foods high in vitamin E include nuts, seeds, leafy green vegetables, fatty fish, organ meat, and oily plant foods like avocados and olives.
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<strong>Magnesium&mdash;68% of Americans rarely meet the RDA</strong><br />
Necessary for cell life. More than 300 different enzymes need magnesium to work, including every enzyme that uses or synthesizes ATP (the basic energy molecule in a cell) and enzymes that synthesize DNA and RNA. Magnesium also enhances control of inflammation and maintains nervous system balance. Foods rich in magnesium include green vegetables (both leafy and non-leafy), nuts and seeds, fish, legumes, and avocados.
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<strong>Zinc&mdash;73% of Americans rarely meet the RDA</strong><br />
Important for nearly every cellular function, from protein and carbohydrate metabolism to cell division and growth. Zinc also plays a role in skin health and the maintenance of sensory organs (that&rsquo;s why zinc deficiency is associated with a loss of smell and taste) and is a vital nutrient for immune system function. Zinc also plays a vital role in gut health by improving gut barrier integrity (reversing &ldquo;leaky gut&rdquo;). The richest source is oysters, but other good sources include red meat, poultry, nuts and seeds, and legumes.
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When we consider the foods richest in essential micronutrients, certain foods come up again and again as powerhouses of nutrition, especially liver and other organ meat, seafood (especially shellfish, but also fatty fish), nuts, seeds, vegetables of all kinds, but notably leafy greens, vegetables from the cruciferous family (which includes cabbage, broccoli, and kale), and mushrooms, as well as fatty fruit like avocados and olives. One of the best things you can do to ensure that your diet is abounding with micronutrients is to eat these foods liberally.

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<strong>Award-winning public speaker, <em>New York Times</em> best-selling author, and world-renowned health expert, <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Sarah Ballantyne</a><a href="https://www.1440.org/"> PhD,</a> (aka The Paleo Mom) believes the key to reversing the current epidemics of chronic disease is scientific literacy. She creates educational resources to help people regain their health through diet and lifestyle choices informed by the most current evidenced-based scientific research.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/7-micronutrients-your-body-really-needs</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/7-micronutrients-your-body-really-needs#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 4 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>5 Noteworthy Books on Nutrition for a Healthy Mind and Body</title><description><![CDATA[Food is part of our daily life and an integral piece of our culture. It brings us together, nourishes our bodies, and is vital to our well-being. Yet millions of people struggle with their relationships to food. Countless fad diets parade through the media each month, and Americans spend more than $60 billion on weight-loss programs every year.
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Choosing what we eat and how we live is a complex process that entails a host of daily decisions. When we are overwhelmed with the pace of daily life, it can feel impossible to make the good decisions that lead to well-being. A mindfulness practice can help to root us in the present and empower us to be conscious of the lifestyle choices we make.

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Similarly, wisdom and suggestions from folks who spend a lot of time thinking about food, nutrition, and well-being can help quite a bit. Think of these five books as guides to help you nourish your mind, body, and spirit, as well as develop a mindful relationship to food.

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<h2>1. <em>Nom Nom Paleo: Food for Humans</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Michelle Tam</a> and Henry Fong</h2>

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<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> Eating a nutritious diet doesn&rsquo;t mean you have to take all the fun out of the kitchen. Michelle Tam puts a fresh spin on the paleo diet with a humorous approach to healthy cooking, complete with cartoons. In this cookbook inspired by her wildly popular blog, Tam offers more than 100 family-friendly recipes free of gluten, soy, and added sugar. Parents will especially appreciate her advice on feeding kids, packing nutritious lunches, and saving time in the kitchen. Hello, Instant Pot!

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<strong>Great Takeaway:</strong> &ldquo;Prioritize whole, unprocessed, nutrient-rich, nourishing foods. Eat vegetables, grass-fed and pastured meats and eggs, wild-caught seafood, and some fruit, nuts, and seeds.&rdquo;

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<h2>2. <em>Well Nourished: Mindful Practices to Heal Your Relationship with Food, Feed Your Whole Self, and End Overeating</em>&nbsp;by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Andrea Lieberstein</a></h2>

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<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> In today&rsquo;s fast-paced world, we can often feel distracted and disconnected from our bodies. When energy is flagging, we may seek out quick fixes like caffeine or junk food. What if we lived a life where we felt well-nourished emotionally, intellectually, physically, psychologically, spiritually, socially, and creatively? Just imagine! This book will show readers how to develop a mindful relationship to food and craft a well-nourished life with step-by-step examples, tools, and mindful practices that can be individualized to match your unique needs.

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<strong>Great Takeaway:</strong> What are you hungry for? Many people use food to nourish themselves when what they really need is other forms of nourishment. Before reaching for something to eat, take a mindful pause&mdash;a few deep, relaxing breaths&mdash;and focus on the natural rhythm and movement of your breath. Broaden your awareness to include thoughts, feelings, and physical sensations, and discover new insight into what your body really craves.

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<h2>3. <em>Full: How I Learned to Satisfy My Insatiable Hunger and Feed My Soul</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Kimber Simpkins</a></h2>

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<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> In this inspiring and captivating memoir, Kimber Simpkins captures the all-consuming hunger she felt on a daily basis as a result of an eating disorder. Sick of dieting and hating her body, Simpkins decides to get to the bottom of her unhappy relationship with her body. She discovers the healing power of yoga and Buddhism, begins to wrestle with her inner demons of hunger and perfectionism, and learns how self-acceptance can soften even her toughest inner critic. This book chronicles a voyage of self-discovery.

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<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> In this inspiring and captivating memoir, Kimber Simpkins captures the all-consuming hunger she felt on a daily basis as a result of an eating disorder. Sick of dieting and hating her body, Simpkins decides to get to the bottom of her unhappy relationship with her body. She discovers the healing power of yoga and Buddhism, begins to wrestle with her inner demons of hunger and perfectionism, and learns how self-acceptance can soften even her toughest inner critic. This book chronicles a voyage of self-discovery.

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<h2>4. <em>The Fit Bottomed Girls Anti-Diet: 10-Minute Fixes to Get the Body You Want and a Life You&rsquo;ll Love</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Jennipher Walters</a>&nbsp;and&nbsp;Erin Whitehead</h2>

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<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> The Fit Bottomed Girls Anti-Diet is not a diet book. It&rsquo;s a confidence-boosting program to create lasting change in your life. For women looking to lose weight, people who want a healthier relationship with their bodies, and anyone in search of a fun way to enjoy a healthy lifestyle, this book&rsquo;s for you. By making 10-minute healthy lifestyle changes, you may be able to train your brain to listen to your body and overhaul your relationship with food and exercise.

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<strong>Great Takeaway:</strong> The first step is to cut the drama. Yes, being healthy is about eating well and exercising, but it is also about feeling good about yourself: &ldquo;No matter what activity you want to do, do it with a whole lot of self-love.&rdquo;

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<h2>5. <em>The Joy of Half a Cookie: Using Mindfulness to Lose Weight and End the Struggle with Food</em> by <a href="https://www.1440.org/">Jean Kristeller</a>&nbsp;and&nbsp;Alisa Bowman</h2>

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<strong>Why It&rsquo;s Compelling:</strong> Dr. Jean Kristeller has developed a paradigm-shifting alternative to traditional weight-loss programs that focus on willpower and guilt. Her Mindfulness-Based Eating Awareness Training Program helps readers manage their eating habits by using the power of the mind to tap into the body&rsquo;s satiety signals. Written for anyone who wants to lose weight, this book delivers a proven way to find peace of mind and a healthier relationship with food, for life.

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<strong>Great Takeaway:</strong> By exploring the elements of &ldquo;enough,&rdquo; readers learn when and how to stop overeating. Rather than battling cravings or struggling with deprivation, mindful eating explores the appreciation of taste and how to use mindfulness techniques to savor flavors and gain mastery over tempting foods and triggers. Learn to love every bite without denying yourself those favorite and forbidden foods.<br />
<strong>Guinevere de la Mare is a writer, editor, and the founder of <a href="https://silentbook.club/">Silent Book Club</a>, a community of book lovers with chapters in more than 30 cities around the world. Her first book,<em> I&rsquo;d Rather be Reading</em>, will be published by Chronicle Books in August 2017.</strong>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-noteworthy-books-on-nutrition-for-a-healthy-mind-and-body</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/5-noteworthy-books-on-nutrition-for-a-healthy-mind-and-body#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 4 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item><item><title>14 Things We Love About 1440&apos;s Kitchen Table</title><description><![CDATA[<h2><em>Food is our common ground, a universal experience.&nbsp;</em><strong>&ndash;</strong> James Beard</h2>

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We love 1440&rsquo;s Kitchen Table and everything about it&mdash;the fresh food, the modern Arts-and-Crafts setting, the wonderful, welcoming staff.

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To give you a taste of the place, we crafted a visually scrumptious list of our 14 favorite things about Kitchen Table, the amazing culinary center at the heart of the 1440 campus.

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<h2><strong>1.&nbsp;THE FIREPLACE.</strong></h2>

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You&rsquo;ll want to sit right on the hearth of the big, cozy fireplace in the center of Kitchen Table. So homey.

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<h2><strong>2. THE FOOD.</strong></h2>

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Fresh, healthy dinner (like this red curry, lemongrass shrimp with roasted cashews and cilantro) never tasted so delicious! Our menu favors a plant-based approach, but you can also count on local and seasonal sources of animal protein (fish, chicken, beef, and pork).

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<h2><strong>3. THE TABLES.</strong></h2>

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The long, handmade wooden tables are at the center of Kitchen Table. They&rsquo;re imported from a small village in Indonesia, and you feel right at home sitting at the tables, meeting old friends or making new ones.

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<h2><strong>4. THE CHEF.</strong></h2>

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We can&rsquo;t talk about the food at 1440 without mentioning <a href="https://1440.org/">our Executive Chef, Kenny Woods.</a>&nbsp;His insistence on quality, flavor, and local, seasonal menus is reflected in everything from the grape salad with forbidden rice to the unique wood-fired pizzas.

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<h2><strong>5. THE PIZZA.</strong></h2>

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There&rsquo;s nothing like pizza from a wood-fired oven. Is it time for lunch?

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<h2><strong>6. HOUSEMADE GREMOLATA.</strong></h2>

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This wildly flavorful herb emulsion (available daily!) is our favorite topping for everything from grilled fish to roasted vegetables to pureed soups. We can&rsquo;t get enough.

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<h2><strong>7. THE KITCHEN TABLE STAFF.</strong></h2>

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We&rsquo;d love to show you all the wonderful cooks, servers, and greeters at Kitchen Table, but you&rsquo;ll have to settle for a photo of Luzana Coria, who&rsquo;s sure to greet you with a warm smile and heartfelt caring.

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<h2><strong>8. THE LIGHTING.</strong></h2>

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Ah, the chandeliers. Gorgeous and inspirational. Beautiful food in elegant surroundings.

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<h2><strong>9. THE VEGAN OPTIONS.</strong></h2>

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Did we mention all the vegan and gluten-free options? Our plant-based menu is creative, diverse, and offers gluten-free, lactose-free, and paleo options.

<h2><strong>10. DESSERT!</strong></h2>

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After eating all your veggies, you might want some delectable dessert.

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<h2><strong>11. THE BACK PATIO.</strong></h2>

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Wander out to the back patio of Kitchen Table and right into the redwood forest. (Trails are down below.)

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<h2><strong>12. BREAKFAST.</strong></h2>

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Breakfast is fabulous, too. Coconut yogurt, anyone?

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<h2><strong>13. THE DESIGN.</strong></h2>

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The chairs on the wall and all the quirky-yet-sophisticated interior design make for a fun, creative aesthetic.

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<h2><strong>14. THE HONEY MIXER.</strong></h2>

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Why not add a little honey to your tea and head back to the fireplace for a minute? Grab a cup of tea or coffee, and go ahead and linger.

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<a href="https://1440.org/meals-activities/">Learn more about Chef Kenny and Kitchen Table.</a>

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<p><strong>Lisbeth Darsh is the Director of Digital Marketing at 1440 Multiversity, as well as the author of seven books and the popular fitness/inspiration blog <em>Words With Lisbeth</em>.</strong></p>

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<p>Enjoy <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sunday-brunch-among-the-redwoods-tickets-88726311787">Sunday Brunch at Kitchen Table</a> January 26th.&nbsp;</p>]]></description><link>https://www.1440.org/blog/14-things-we-love-about-1440s-kitchen-table</link><comments>https://www.1440.org/blog/14-things-we-love-about-1440s-kitchen-table#comments</comments><pubDate>Sat, 4 May 2019 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate><dc:creator> 1440 DAM Pagestudio</dc:creator><category>live-well</category></item></channel></rss>