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All-inclusive program package to include:

  • Tuition
  • Three Meals in Kitchen Table (daily)
  • Shared or Private Accommodations
  • Signature classes and wellness offerings
Please Note: All packages are priced per person. Should you elect a shared accommodation and community hall bath, 1440 will randomly pair you with a gender-specific roommate. Only private rooms have the option of a private bath. 1440 Multiversity is a smoke-free campus.

Program Description

Just one look from your partner used to drive you wild with yearning, in those early days of intrigue, discovery, and effortless chemistry. But as relationships evolve over time, we can grow intimidated by, disconnected from, or mysterious to one another. Rekindle the fire in your relationship in a whole new way as you discover the power of your shared erotic energy, the art of real intimacy, and how to satisfy each other's every desire.

Best-selling author and sex educator Xanet Pailet and celebrated intimacy coach Kai Wu provide you with a step-by-step process to connect playfully and passionately with your own and your partner's erotic appetite. You will learn to:

  • Establish emotional safety and strengthen intimate connection
  • Communicate needs and desires in and out of the bedroom
  • Practice exercises on relationship dynamics, including presence, consent, boundaries, and attachment styles
  • Build pleasure circuits through types and escalation of touch
  • Explore the power of fantasy and visualization.

Maintaining intimacy is critical for the long-term health of any relationship. This unique, experiential, and supportive weekend combines meditation, sacred space, practical exercises, and a demonstration of sensual massage. Master the tools of romance you need to immediately transform your lovemaking and reclaim your love life.

Unlike most couple's retreats, which are focused on communication and relationship skills, in this one you will specifically gain physical techniques for a fully embodied sexuality. Whether you've been together for 10 years or 10 weeks, you will both return home with a renewed sense of intimacy and confidence, wanting and able to connect with each other's body, sexuality, and pleasure.

Presented by

  • Xanet PailetAbout Xanet Pailet |Sex and intimacy educator and author
    Xanet Pailet is a sex and intimacy educator on the faculty of the Ecstatic Living® Institute and the Somatica® Institute and the best-selling author of Living an Orgasmic Life.
  • Kai WuAbout Kai Wu |Intimacy and relationship coach, somatic sex educator
    Kai Wu is an intimacy and relationship educator, certified Somatica® sex therapy and relationship coach, and Sexological bodyworker who cofounded the Embodiment Arts Collective.

Why Attend

    Learn to successfully navigate your partner's needs, boundaries, and personality while also showing up as your authentic self for a long-lasting, satisfying relationship.

    Gain the tools and understanding you need to engage each other's sexual desires, communication styles, romantic fantasies, and individual passions.

    In a supportive and safe space, become more passionate, confident, and skilled lovers to rediscover the joy and pleasure of sex for deeper intimacy and a healthier partnership.

Things to Know/Schedule

None required.
Experience Level
None required. All couples welcome.
Special Interest To
Special Details
Wear comfortable clothing to move in.
Suggested Reading
Living an Orgasmic Life by Xanet Pailet
Cockfidence by Celeste Hirschman and Danielle Harel

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